October 14, 2022 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 38 year old single woman and I’ve been dating a man that is 36 years old. We have ups and downs because I feel like he is in love with his grandmother. She is not really his grandmother but she definitely could be. They used to mess around before we started dating and she was more or less a sugar mama. She has got to be 70 but she’s a personal trainer and her body is in tip top shape..........................................
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It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, And if
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(00:22):
be yours. We want to help you. Yeah, all right,
buckle up and hold on type. We got it for
you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Subject he wants that
old thing back do Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty eight
year old single woman and I've been dating a man
that is thirty six years old. We have ups and
downs because I feel like he is in love with
(00:43):
his grandmother. She is not really his grandmother, but she
definitely could be. They used to mess around before we
started dating, and she was more or less a sugar mama.
She has got to be seventy, but she's a personal
trainer and her body is in tip top shape. He
thinks he could be friends with someone that he used
to sleep with. He works out with her, and I
(01:06):
have a problem with that. He was acting all ashamed
when I met her, and he couldn't even introduce me
as his girlfriend. I let that slide. But what I
won't let slide is how much time he spends with her.
He said, they're just friends, but if I spend time
with one of my exes, he would have a fit.
When she sends him good morning, having nice day, Texas
(01:27):
I see them, he says that has not He has
nothing to hide, and I have the password to his
phone so I can see he's not leading her on.
But the minute that I let my guard down and
started trusting him, she slipped in and got him. He
came to my house and told me that he has
something to tell me. He says. She asked him to
meet her at the gym after work because she has
(01:49):
something for him. He said. They sat in her car
because the temperature had dropped as soon as he got in,
and she went straight for his zipper and he couldn't stop.
What happened m She hooked him up orally, and he
said he felt terrible and stopped her. I'm pretty sure
he didn't stop her. He confessed everything, but I'm done
(02:10):
with it. He keeps apologizing, but I think he wants
that old thing back. Is it crazy to check the woman?
Will this ever stop? Please advise so that whole respect
your elders thing is just out the window with you. Huh.
I guess you don't respect her? And is she really
seventy or are you hating on this fine kugar? And
(02:30):
he's thirty six. That's a huge that's a big age
difference right there. All I can say is that she
must really have it going on because he cannot get
enough for her. A tip top in shape body will
always be a powerful ephrodisiac. It just will. I mean,
banging bodies will never go out of style. He is
(02:51):
weak when it comes to her, and with her age
and life experience, she knows just what to do. She
knows what he likes. And I am with you. I'm
with you. When they were together in that car, I
don't believe he stopped her before she finished the job. Yes,
he apologized to you, but so I mean, so what,
I'm gonna agree with you again. He is still into
(03:14):
her and he can't shake her. It's something pretty deep
going on with them. You said he never introduced you
as his girlfriend to her. He was acting all nervous
and stuff. Well, that was disrespectful to you. He didn't
claim you. Does anyone know about you in his circle?
I'm just saying, what more do you need? Dot. I
(03:34):
don't think he's ready to give her up. I really don't.
And honestly, I think you're wasting your time with this
guy because old girl has got him caught up. She
really does. It's time for you to let that go
and move on, because it seems to me in the
letter he wants the older woman. Tommy, he is not
giving this woman up. You can't do what Sabny do.
(04:00):
You just can't. You just not built like that. You
can't do what's seventy do? And this is a fine
seventy that can do at all. You can't do what's
seventy do? And you got a nerve to say, should
I check up? You're gonna get your ass whoop if
you run over the messing with this seventy. You can't
do what's seventy do. You can't. You can't make greens
(04:21):
like she do, like like like miss Catherine, you can't.
You can't do that. You can't make yams like miss
Catherine do. You can't do what's seventy do? You understand,
run up in that park a lot if you want to.
She's sitting over there in that Monte Carlo. Run over
there and fool with miss Catherine if you want to.
You can't do what's sevingy do? When when when miss
(04:41):
Catherine take her teeth out and go to work? Hello? Hello? What? What? What? What?
Surely that's what she did. She took her teeth out
in that month, to Carlo and she went to work. Okay, okay,
you can't do what's seving to do. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, y'all.
Y'all gonna be saving this soon. You'll see you see
we got the pursoon. We got got your point though,
(05:06):
too soon, we hope. Listen, this man is attached to
this lady. He loves her, he likes her. She's sending
him good good mornings and good nights, good night text messages.
He got a thing for and he is not letting
her go. So if you don't see that, I'm sorry,
you need you. Actually you see it. You just don't
want to see it, but you see it, and he
(05:27):
likes sir. Matter of fact, I hate to see it.
He loved some Miss Katherine, Yes he does, and he
ain't about to turn Miss Catherine lou because Miss Katherine
make it do what it do, ain't she in the gym, squatting, curling, lifting,
She fine at Sidney. You don't get this every day.
You do not get this every day. And I see it,
(05:49):
yam screen potatoes. She making it all. Ye oh, miss Katherine.
Name what's wrong too? He's really strong on her. It's
still working out in the gym with Miss Katherine right
there with her, day in, day out. So what I'm
tending to tell you you're not going to be able
to do what she does. And you can compete if
(06:10):
you want to, you can try. But she's seventy. Baby,
she got game. She knows what she's doing, and she
got a little man wrapped around the finger, nice little
corn bready making little sandwiches and stuff for him, little
little goodie bags and everything. Yes, baby, baby, yeah, what
the baby won't? I got some oxtails in there? You
(06:31):
hung you want some oxtails? He will always go straight
for the oxtail. I know she don't cook. Let me
get you something, all right, hang on coming up with
twenty three minutes after the hour, we're gonna have part
two of Today's Strawberry letter. The subject is he wants
that old thing back. We'll hear from Junior coming up
(06:52):
right after this you're listening show. All right, it is
time now to recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is
he wants that old thing back. A thirty eight year
old single woman wrote in she's been dating a man
that's thirty six years old. She says they have their
ups and downs, and mainly it's because the man she's dating,
(07:12):
the thirty six year old man she's dating, is in
love with his grandmother. Of course, it's not really his grandmother,
but she definitely could be, according to this woman in
the letter. She said, because they used to mess around
before they started dating. And this woman has got to
be at least seventy years old. She's thinking, but she's
a personal trainer. She looks good, her body is in
(07:34):
tip top shape. Yeah, and her man is still friends
with this older woman. He works out with her. He
didn't introduce her. He was acting all ashamed. He didn't
introduce his current girlfriend to the seventy year old ex
girlfriend when they met. He spends a lot of time
(07:55):
with her and she sends him good morning Texas every day,
and uh, you know, she's just sick of it. She
wants to step to the woman and check her. Um,
they had an incident in the huh would you say? Yeah, Yes,
there was an incident where, um, they were in her
(08:15):
car and uh, you know, something sexual went down in
the car. So she's just mad. And she thinks that
he really does want her, want his old thing back,
because it seems that he can't get enough of her junior.
What's you guys? She wants to know will this ever stop?
Will this ever stop? Not only does he want that
old thing back? I think every man listens to this.
Netta won't that old thing. I'm seventy years of experience
(08:40):
versus eight years an experience. She been away too long,
she's too good time right, I won't miss Catherine? That
her name? Yes? Oh up, seventy years old. It in
tip top shape. Here you are, thirty eight years old,
badly holy together looking for that? Did not say that?
(09:03):
I did? Yeah? She samy tiptop shake you thirty eight
holding it together. Blame him for wanting that thing back.
Let me tell you what time to talk about? We
we just got to keep down that pathtime. She she
cooking every day and every two days, every day is
(09:24):
something this refrigerator. You want that old thing back then?
Cleaning the house every sadly with music. She got that
experience something now and you just get up here and
wiping off a table. Who don't want this old thing back? Right?
Folding all the clothes y at one time, at one time, Yes,
(09:45):
and here you is basketful. A week later, a week later,
down two draws calimation, He got a whole draw full
of draw How you gonna people with all these home limities?
You want the old thieves? Bad timing? How is this through?
(10:06):
The young girl gonna compete with all these home remedies.
You can't put these onions at the bottom of your
feet and put these socks on, go to bed. See
how you feeling the morning. That's what I'm talking about.
That's what I'm drawing out of cold out her feet,
just cold coming out his whole body. I threw his
feet through an onion. Well, how you gonna compete with
all this, all this fixed vapor? Rub on your chest
(10:28):
and laid out to you feel better tomorrow? And you
ain't doing none of this. You won't be talking to menytimes?
I don't know what's wrong, Min Catherine. No, I want
that old thing back. She's seventy and tiptop shape and
no stuff stuff. You know what, Miss Catherine? Do that
he loved more the thing bru the back of his hand. Yeah,
(10:51):
sitting there, the back his hat just getting rubbed. You
ain't even looked over there. You feel too much. She's
seventy years experience versus thirty eight. What you're gonna do?
How are you gonna compete against that? I'm gonna tell
you right now. I've been won't die and Carrol shested,
(11:13):
but let it again, it again, Clara hut, Yeah, yeah,
how are you gonna be that experience right there? Uh oh,
I'm telling you right now, Beary White, I had a
crush on I can. Can I tell you something? Julian Huh,
(11:36):
I tell you. I hate to say it. Go ahead though,
boy that damn Jude, Judy, boy boy, Judy, that experienced
love that experience. You know what? You know what make
him feel good? Miss Catherine? When they have a holiday.
She cooked their thing, getting that and she hosting, and
(11:57):
she my woman. I want this whole thing back to
I Anna lie. She in tiptop shape here you in
thirty eight, badly keeping this together. She made teacakes though,
you can you How you gonna beat somebody that can
make up a con Sandy? How? What? What can Sandy remember?
(12:22):
The cookiesous delicious? Yes, yes, how you can make those?
Miss miss misther, Miss Katherine made prayles and everything. How
(12:42):
you gonna compete at thirty eight with this? Just let
him go and she find it in you. She's so fine.
She let you see the text minute, He let you
see him. He don't care what you say. Good morning,
have a great day. She sent it again, girl, And
every morning, I'm gonna let you see this. All right,
(13:04):
I think we got it. Thank you, guys care he
wants that whole thing back. It's time to leave your
comments now on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram, at Steve
Harvey FM and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.
They're coming up next to its junior in Sports Talk.
Right after this, you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning
Show
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, And if
you need advice on work, sex, parenting, and more, please
submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and
we could be reading your letter live on the air,
just like we're gonna read this one right here, and
you never know, it could be yours. So write us
your letter might turn up on the air. It could
(00:22):
be yours. We want to help you. Yeah, all right,
buckle up and hold on type. We got it for
you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Subject he wants that
old thing back do Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty eight
year old single woman and I've been dating a man
that is thirty six years old. We have ups and
downs because I feel like he is in love with
(00:43):
his grandmother. She is not really his grandmother, but she
definitely could be. They used to mess around before we
started dating, and she was more or less a sugar mama.
She has got to be seventy, but she's a personal
trainer and her body is in tip top shape. He
thinks he could be friends with someone that he used
to sleep with. He works out with her, and I
(01:06):
have a problem with that. He was acting all ashamed
when I met her, and he couldn't even introduce me
as his girlfriend. I let that slide. But what I
won't let slide is how much time he spends with her.
He said, they're just friends, but if I spend time
with one of my exes, he would have a fit.
When she sends him good morning, having nice day, Texas
(01:27):
I see them, he says that has not He has
nothing to hide, and I have the password to his
phone so I can see he's not leading her on.
But the minute that I let my guard down and
started trusting him, she slipped in and got him. He
came to my house and told me that he has
something to tell me. He says. She asked him to
meet her at the gym after work because she has
(01:49):
something for him. He said. They sat in her car
because the temperature had dropped as soon as he got in,
and she went straight for his zipper and he couldn't stop.
What happened m She hooked him up orally, and he
said he felt terrible and stopped her. I'm pretty sure
he didn't stop her. He confessed everything, but I'm done
(02:10):
with it. He keeps apologizing, but I think he wants
that old thing back. Is it crazy to check the woman?
Will this ever stop? Please advise so that whole respect
your elders thing is just out the window with you. Huh.
I guess you don't respect her? And is she really
seventy or are you hating on this fine kugar? And
(02:30):
he's thirty six. That's a huge that's a big age
difference right there. All I can say is that she
must really have it going on because he cannot get
enough for her. A tip top in shape body will
always be a powerful ephrodisiac. It just will. I mean,
banging bodies will never go out of style. He is
(02:51):
weak when it comes to her, and with her age
and life experience, she knows just what to do. She
knows what he likes. And I am with you. I'm
with you. When they were together in that car, I
don't believe he stopped her before she finished the job. Yes,
he apologized to you, but so I mean, so what,
I'm gonna agree with you again. He is still into
(03:14):
her and he can't shake her. It's something pretty deep
going on with them. You said he never introduced you
as his girlfriend to her. He was acting all nervous
and stuff. Well, that was disrespectful to you. He didn't
claim you. Does anyone know about you in his circle?
I'm just saying, what more do you need? Dot. I
(03:34):
don't think he's ready to give her up. I really don't.
And honestly, I think you're wasting your time with this
guy because old girl has got him caught up. She
really does. It's time for you to let that go
and move on, because it seems to me in the
letter he wants the older woman. Tommy, he is not
giving this woman up. You can't do what Sabny do.
(04:00):
You just can't. You just not built like that. You
can't do what's seventy do? And this is a fine
seventy that can do at all. You can't do what's
seventy do? And you got a nerve to say, should
I check up? You're gonna get your ass whoop if
you run over the messing with this seventy. You can't
do what's seventy do. You can't. You can't make greens
(04:21):
like she do, like like like miss Catherine, you can't.
You can't do that. You can't make yams like miss
Catherine do. You can't do what's seventy do? You understand,
run up in that park a lot if you want to.
She's sitting over there in that Monte Carlo. Run over
there and fool with miss Catherine if you want to.
You can't do what's sevingy do? When when when miss
(04:41):
Catherine take her teeth out and go to work? Hello? Hello? What? What? What? What?
Surely that's what she did. She took her teeth out
in that month, to Carlo and she went to work. Okay, okay,
you can't do what's seving to do. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, y'all.
Y'all gonna be saving this soon. You'll see you see
we got the pursoon. We got got your point though,
(05:06):
too soon, we hope. Listen, this man is attached to
this lady. He loves her, he likes her. She's sending
him good good mornings and good nights, good night text messages.
He got a thing for and he is not letting
her go. So if you don't see that, I'm sorry,
you need you. Actually you see it. You just don't
want to see it, but you see it, and he
(05:27):
likes sir. Matter of fact, I hate to see it.
He loved some Miss Katherine, Yes he does, and he
ain't about to turn Miss Catherine lou because Miss Katherine
make it do what it do, ain't she in the gym, squatting, curling, lifting,
She fine at Sidney. You don't get this every day.
You do not get this every day. And I see it,
(05:49):
yam screen potatoes. She making it all. Ye oh, miss Katherine.
Name what's wrong too? He's really strong on her. It's
still working out in the gym with Miss Katherine right
there with her, day in, day out. So what I'm
tending to tell you you're not going to be able
to do what she does. And you can compete if
(06:10):
you want to, you can try. But she's seventy. Baby,
she got game. She knows what she's doing, and she
got a little man wrapped around the finger, nice little
corn bready making little sandwiches and stuff for him, little
little goodie bags and everything. Yes, baby, baby, yeah, what
the baby won't? I got some oxtails in there? You
(06:31):
hung you want some oxtails? He will always go straight
for the oxtail. I know she don't cook. Let me
get you something, all right, hang on coming up with
twenty three minutes after the hour, we're gonna have part
two of Today's Strawberry letter. The subject is he wants
that old thing back. We'll hear from Junior coming up
(06:52):
right after this you're listening show. All right, it is
time now to recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is
he wants that old thing back. A thirty eight year
old single woman wrote in she's been dating a man
that's thirty six years old. She says they have their
ups and downs, and mainly it's because the man she's dating,
(07:12):
the thirty six year old man she's dating, is in
love with his grandmother. Of course, it's not really his grandmother,
but she definitely could be, according to this woman in
the letter. She said, because they used to mess around
before they started dating. And this woman has got to
be at least seventy years old. She's thinking, but she's
a personal trainer. She looks good, her body is in
(07:34):
tip top shape. Yeah, and her man is still friends
with this older woman. He works out with her. He
didn't introduce her. He was acting all ashamed. He didn't
introduce his current girlfriend to the seventy year old ex
girlfriend when they met. He spends a lot of time
(07:55):
with her and she sends him good morning Texas every day,
and uh, you know, she's just sick of it. She
wants to step to the woman and check her. Um,
they had an incident in the huh would you say? Yeah, Yes,
there was an incident where, um, they were in her
(08:15):
car and uh, you know, something sexual went down in
the car. So she's just mad. And she thinks that
he really does want her, want his old thing back,
because it seems that he can't get enough of her junior.
What's you guys? She wants to know will this ever stop?
Will this ever stop? Not only does he want that
old thing back? I think every man listens to this.
Netta won't that old thing. I'm seventy years of experience
(08:40):
versus eight years an experience. She been away too long,
she's too good time right, I won't miss Catherine? That
her name? Yes? Oh up, seventy years old. It in
tip top shape. Here you are, thirty eight years old,
badly holy together looking for that? Did not say that?
(09:03):
I did? Yeah? She samy tiptop shake you thirty eight
holding it together. Blame him for wanting that thing back.
Let me tell you what time to talk about? We
we just got to keep down that pathtime. She she
cooking every day and every two days, every day is
(09:24):
something this refrigerator. You want that old thing back then?
Cleaning the house every sadly with music. She got that
experience something now and you just get up here and
wiping off a table. Who don't want this old thing back? Right?
Folding all the clothes y at one time, at one time, Yes,
(09:45):
and here you is basketful. A week later, a week later,
down two draws calimation, He got a whole draw full
of draw How you gonna people with all these home limities?
You want the old thieves? Bad timing? How is this through?
(10:06):
The young girl gonna compete with all these home remedies.
You can't put these onions at the bottom of your
feet and put these socks on, go to bed. See
how you feeling the morning. That's what I'm talking about.
That's what I'm drawing out of cold out her feet,
just cold coming out his whole body. I threw his
feet through an onion. Well, how you gonna compete with
all this, all this fixed vapor? Rub on your chest
(10:28):
and laid out to you feel better tomorrow? And you
ain't doing none of this. You won't be talking to menytimes?
I don't know what's wrong, Min Catherine. No, I want
that old thing back. She's seventy and tiptop shape and
no stuff stuff. You know what, Miss Catherine? Do that
he loved more the thing bru the back of his hand. Yeah,
(10:51):
sitting there, the back his hat just getting rubbed. You
ain't even looked over there. You feel too much. She's
seventy years experience versus thirty eight. What you're gonna do?
How are you gonna compete against that? I'm gonna tell
you right now. I've been won't die and Carrol shested,
(11:13):
but let it again, it again, Clara hut, Yeah, yeah,
how are you gonna be that experience right there? Uh oh,
I'm telling you right now, Beary White, I had a
crush on I can. Can I tell you something? Julian Huh,
(11:36):
I tell you. I hate to say it. Go ahead though,
boy that damn Jude, Judy, boy boy, Judy, that experienced
love that experience. You know what? You know what make
him feel good? Miss Catherine? When they have a holiday.
She cooked their thing, getting that and she hosting, and
(11:57):
she my woman. I want this whole thing back to
I Anna lie. She in tiptop shape here you in
thirty eight, badly keeping this together. She made teacakes though,
you can you How you gonna beat somebody that can
make up a con Sandy? How? What? What can Sandy remember?
(12:22):
The cookiesous delicious? Yes, yes, how you can make those?
Miss miss misther, Miss Katherine made prayles and everything. How
(12:42):
you gonna compete at thirty eight with this? Just let
him go and she find it in you. She's so fine.
She let you see the text minute, He let you
see him. He don't care what you say. Good morning,
have a great day. She sent it again, girl, And
every morning, I'm gonna let you see this. All right,
(13:04):
I think we got it. Thank you, guys care he
wants that whole thing back. It's time to leave your
comments now on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram, at Steve
Harvey FM and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.
They're coming up next to its junior in Sports Talk.
Right after this, you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning
Show
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