November 16, 2021 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a female in my mid-twenties, and I started a new job a few months ago. While I love it, I'm planning to put in my notice because I found a better paying job. My work environment is very challenging for me because the entire time I am at work, I’m fantasizing about my boss. When I’m at home, I’m always thinking about him and when I get dressed for work daily, I dress to get his attention.................................................
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And
if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,
and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM
dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. Because you never know,
we could be reading your letter live on the air,
just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now,
(00:22):
to be yours. You never know. Let me put my
sexy on, buckle up, and hold on tight. Here. It
is the one and only the Strawberry Letter. That's another thing,
another meeting, another meeting. Yes, all right, here we go.
Thank you, nephew. I want my boss so bad? Is
(00:45):
the subject? Just Stephen Shirley. I am a female in
my mid twenties and I started a new job a
few months ago. While I love it, I'm planning to
put in my notice because I found a better saying job.
My work environment is very challenging for me because the
entire time I'm at work, I'm fantasizing about my boss.
(01:08):
When I'm at home, I'm always thinking about him. When
I get dressed for work daily, I dress to get
his attention. My boss is almost as old as my father,
but I am so attracted to him that the age
doesn't bother me. He's very sweet and loves his job
and all of his employees. I feel like we have
a meaningful We have meaningful We have had meaningful conversations
(01:31):
alone and occasionally flirt with each other. While I'm with him,
my mind sometimes drifts off, and I can't help but
imagine us in various sexual positions all over the office.
You missed the line back up where you say while
I'm with him, you say wis win? Oh okay that
(01:55):
when I'm with him, my mind sometimes drifts off, and
I can't help imagine us in various sexual positions all
over the office, at my house, outside, any and everywhere.
He's made it clear that our company's policy prohibits coworkers
being in relationships or hooking up. I'm pretty sure he
told me that so I would know he wants me,
(02:18):
but he can't have me because he might get fired.
I can't wait to see his reaction when I tell
him that I plan to leave and get another job.
The way he responds will tell me if I should
pursue him once I'm working somewhere else. I hope that
he feels the same way about me, because I would
have left a really good job over nothing. I'm thinking
(02:38):
I should test the waters before I resign. But how
do I do that? Do I come out and tell
him that I'm head over heels for him? Or do
I play it cool and brush up against him and
see what he does. He has told me that a
man will let a woman know if he wants her
through his actions. But if I'm the only one that
wants to have sex, how should I proceed here? All right?
(03:02):
The first thing I'm gonna say to you is you
need to come all the way down. Okay, Are you
paying attention to what's really going on here? This man,
your boss, who you say is several years older than you,
has given you no indication whatsoever that he's interested in you.
And I'm sure as a man he's noticed you, but
(03:23):
he hasn't acted on that. In fact, he's done just
the opposite. He's told you, in his cool old school way,
that when a man wants a woman, he will let
her know by his actions. He hasn't done that. He
also said it's against couplany policy, and you know this
as well, to date each other, to hook up. He's
not trying to lose his job. He's not trying to
(03:44):
do that. You said he loves his employees and he
loves his job. You, on the other hand, are going
to quit your whole job because of your fantasies about him.
You say you like working there. If you quit, you
think you'll then have a chance to day him. I
just know where in this letter did you say he
had the least bit of interest in you that way.
(04:05):
I just think you got to look at the facts here,
and the facts don't say that. The facts say that
he's completely not interested, and you got to deal with that.
Maybe you need to go on to this other job,
because I don't see any good coming out of this
if you stay here. Steve, Wow, little girl, Oh bye, ma, lady,
(04:36):
you all by yourself. I can't believe that you've gone
this far with all of You've played this thing all
the way out and everything is based on your fantasies.
(04:57):
You've completed a whole scenario. How long have you been
up in your head? Oh bye, my shit? How long
have you been going up in that head of yours alone,
just dancing round naked? You've been all over the office
(05:19):
with this you you just you everywhere, and I wish
you haven't. You didn't say how long you've been at
the job when you're mid twenties. Oh, I see, you
started a new job a few months ago, so let's
say ninety days and twenty days, and you love it,
but you're gonna put your notice in because you found
(05:39):
a better paying job. Okay, cool, go do that. But
now here comes the rest of it. It's been very
challenging for you because the entire time you at work,
you're fantasizing about your boss. We're gonna get into this
letter on the second half about what's going on. But
when I'm at home, I'm always thinking about him. When
I get dressed for work, I has to get his attention.
(06:01):
My boss is almost as old as my daddy, but
I'm so attract to him. Age don't bother you. He
sweet loves his job, all his employees. You feel like
you have meaningful conversations alone and occasionally flirt with each other.
When I'm with him, my mind sometimes drifts off, and
I can't help but imagine us various sexual positions all
(06:22):
over the office, at my house, outside, in and everywhere.
He's made it clear that our company policy previous co
workers in relationships from hooking up. But guess what you
came away with that. I'm pretty sure he told me that,
so I know he wants me right, it's company policy. Yes,
hang on, Steve, hang on. We'll have part two of
(06:44):
your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the
hour of the subject I want my boss so bad.
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's
recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject it is I want my
boss so bad? Little girl, Little girl, Let me just
(07:08):
get this out the way. This entire letter has been
played out and written in your head. You've been up
in your little brain just dancing around in your mid twenties,
and you've created all of these scenarios. Now. I don't
doubt that you're attracted to this man. I know you
(07:28):
fantasizing about this man. I don't know if this man
has had a thought about you one way or the other.
I have nothing in this letter that says he shares
the same thoughts as you. You said this that let
me know where your head is at. In this whole letter,
you said after you fantasize about having these very sexual
(07:50):
positions all over the office, at your house, and outside
of anywhere and everywhere. He's made it clear that our
company policy prohibits co workers from being in relationships or
hooking up. Then you said, I'm pretty sure he told
me that, so that I know he wants me, little girl,
(08:12):
These company policies were not written so you know, so
you would know that your boss wants you. These company
policies were created to prevent in work relationships that were hamper,
hinder and cause the company not to be as productive
or profitable. This is why these were created, nan, she said,
(08:39):
But he can't have me because he might get five.
So let me tell you something about this man right him. Well,
first of all, let me finish the letter. I can't
wait to see his reaction when I tell him I
plan to leave and get another job. The way he
responds would tell me if I should pursue him once
I'm working somewhere else. I hope he feels the same
(08:59):
way about me, because you don't know that, because I
would have left a really good job for nothing. So really,
the reason you're leaving this job so you could pursue
this man It ain't the really that you found a
better paying job, it's that you want to get free.
So you could pursue this man because you said because
if I would have left it, really, if he doesn't
(09:21):
feel the same way about me, I would have left
a really good job over nothing. I'm thinking I should
test the waters before I resign. But how do I
do that? We're not gonna tell you that. Do I
come out and tell him my head over heels for him?
Or do I play it cool and brush up against
him and see what he does at work? You fitling,
go over there and just rub your ass up against
(09:42):
this man. Wait, you fit little girl? Or your breasts?
Are you gonna run your breast across his chest? Which
one you're gonna do? And then? And it would let
me a woman. He told me that a man will
(10:04):
let a woman know he wants her through his actions.
What if I'm the only one who wants to have sex?
Because he was trying to help you understand something. A
man will let you know by his actions. But he
shown you no actions. He tried. He could be giving
you a little lesson, little girl. How should I proceed him? All? Right,
(10:25):
here go to facts. All this is built on your fantasies.
Number two, you're in your head all by yourself. Number three,
you want to have an affair. Number four, This man
ain't about to risk his livelihood. And here's one you
haven't thought about it. This man is in a relationship.
(10:47):
I promise you he is. You didn't mention that. You
didn't mention if he was married. You didn't mention if
he was dating anyone. You didn't mention if he has children, grandchildren,
You didn't mention any of that. You've totally nord what
you're trying to do here without any consideration for cause
and effect. What's wrong with you? Take this fantasy you
(11:11):
got somewhere and go happy with somebody that you can
live your fantasy out with what you all up in
this old player's business fault. This man has someone, this dude,
they walk around with all this swag and all this
power and money. They ain't got no girl, But you
don't care about that. Now, let's get to the title
(11:33):
of this letter. I want my boss so bad, girl.
You know how many times I've been here. I mean,
I just can't imagine. No, I don't get into it now.
All this is laughing, you know, how many times I've
been here. If you can see the looks of these
women's faces on this zoom screen right now, let me
explain something to you. Girl. Ain't no telling what's going
(11:54):
on in their little heads over here. We all know
none of this right here. You know, I feel for
them every day. They could come in here and gotta
see all this. I know what this is. Your boss
is going through Monica over here, call over here, share
over here, and they can't even do nothing. They got
husbands and good dudes too. Got some good husband I
(12:17):
like both for all. I like Nesto and taught they
good dude. But you know they ain't always been married
to these me And I'm pretty sure somewhere when they
found out the big dog wasn't available, they had to
go on the move on what they like now one
of them could still be hanging on for dear life
(12:40):
because Mississippi ain't made a move right now. I don't
know what she waiting on. I'm pretty show this letter
ain't about me, but the show feel like because I
got a way of turning all these letters around on me.
Because yesterday when we said I want my boss so bad,
laving their asshof on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve harveyfm
(13:03):
dot com, on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the
Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Checking up coming up at
forty six minutes after the hour, we'll of Sports Talk
with Junior. Right after this, you're listening to The Dame
Harvey Morning Show
All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And
if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,
and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM
dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. Because you never know,
we could be reading your letter live on the air,
just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now,
(00:22):
to be yours. You never know. Let me put my
sexy on, buckle up, and hold on tight. Here. It
is the one and only the Strawberry Letter. That's another thing,
another meeting, another meeting. Yes, all right, here we go.
Thank you, nephew. I want my boss so bad? Is
(00:45):
the subject? Just Stephen Shirley. I am a female in
my mid twenties and I started a new job a
few months ago. While I love it, I'm planning to
put in my notice because I found a better saying job.
My work environment is very challenging for me because the
entire time I'm at work, I'm fantasizing about my boss.
(01:08):
When I'm at home, I'm always thinking about him. When
I get dressed for work daily, I dress to get
his attention. My boss is almost as old as my father,
but I am so attracted to him that the age
doesn't bother me. He's very sweet and loves his job
and all of his employees. I feel like we have
a meaningful We have meaningful We have had meaningful conversations
(01:31):
alone and occasionally flirt with each other. While I'm with him,
my mind sometimes drifts off, and I can't help but
imagine us in various sexual positions all over the office.
You missed the line back up where you say while
I'm with him, you say wis win? Oh okay that
(01:55):
when I'm with him, my mind sometimes drifts off, and
I can't help imagine us in various sexual positions all
over the office, at my house, outside, any and everywhere.
He's made it clear that our company's policy prohibits coworkers
being in relationships or hooking up. I'm pretty sure he
told me that so I would know he wants me,
(02:18):
but he can't have me because he might get fired.
I can't wait to see his reaction when I tell
him that I plan to leave and get another job.
The way he responds will tell me if I should
pursue him once I'm working somewhere else. I hope that
he feels the same way about me, because I would
have left a really good job over nothing. I'm thinking
(02:38):
I should test the waters before I resign. But how
do I do that? Do I come out and tell
him that I'm head over heels for him? Or do
I play it cool and brush up against him and
see what he does. He has told me that a
man will let a woman know if he wants her
through his actions. But if I'm the only one that
wants to have sex, how should I proceed here? All right?
(03:02):
The first thing I'm gonna say to you is you
need to come all the way down. Okay, Are you
paying attention to what's really going on here? This man,
your boss, who you say is several years older than you,
has given you no indication whatsoever that he's interested in you.
And I'm sure as a man he's noticed you, but
(03:23):
he hasn't acted on that. In fact, he's done just
the opposite. He's told you, in his cool old school way,
that when a man wants a woman, he will let
her know by his actions. He hasn't done that. He
also said it's against couplany policy, and you know this
as well, to date each other, to hook up. He's
not trying to lose his job. He's not trying to
(03:44):
do that. You said he loves his employees and he
loves his job. You, on the other hand, are going
to quit your whole job because of your fantasies about him.
You say you like working there. If you quit, you
think you'll then have a chance to day him. I
just know where in this letter did you say he
had the least bit of interest in you that way.
(04:05):
I just think you got to look at the facts here,
and the facts don't say that. The facts say that
he's completely not interested, and you got to deal with that.
Maybe you need to go on to this other job,
because I don't see any good coming out of this
if you stay here. Steve, Wow, little girl, Oh bye, ma, lady,
(04:36):
you all by yourself. I can't believe that you've gone
this far with all of You've played this thing all
the way out and everything is based on your fantasies.
(04:57):
You've completed a whole scenario. How long have you been
up in your head? Oh bye, my shit? How long
have you been going up in that head of yours alone,
just dancing round naked? You've been all over the office
(05:19):
with this you you just you everywhere, and I wish
you haven't. You didn't say how long you've been at
the job when you're mid twenties. Oh, I see, you
started a new job a few months ago, so let's
say ninety days and twenty days, and you love it,
but you're gonna put your notice in because you found
(05:39):
a better paying job. Okay, cool, go do that. But
now here comes the rest of it. It's been very
challenging for you because the entire time you at work,
you're fantasizing about your boss. We're gonna get into this
letter on the second half about what's going on. But
when I'm at home, I'm always thinking about him. When
I get dressed for work, I has to get his attention.
(06:01):
My boss is almost as old as my daddy, but
I'm so attract to him. Age don't bother you. He
sweet loves his job, all his employees. You feel like
you have meaningful conversations alone and occasionally flirt with each other.
When I'm with him, my mind sometimes drifts off, and
I can't help but imagine us various sexual positions all
(06:22):
over the office, at my house, outside, in and everywhere.
He's made it clear that our company policy previous co
workers in relationships from hooking up. But guess what you
came away with that. I'm pretty sure he told me that,
so I know he wants me right, it's company policy. Yes,
hang on, Steve, hang on. We'll have part two of
(06:44):
your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the
hour of the subject I want my boss so bad.
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's
recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject it is I want my
boss so bad? Little girl, Little girl, Let me just
(07:08):
get this out the way. This entire letter has been
played out and written in your head. You've been up
in your little brain just dancing around in your mid twenties,
and you've created all of these scenarios. Now. I don't
doubt that you're attracted to this man. I know you
(07:28):
fantasizing about this man. I don't know if this man
has had a thought about you one way or the other.
I have nothing in this letter that says he shares
the same thoughts as you. You said this that let
me know where your head is at. In this whole letter,
you said after you fantasize about having these very sexual
(07:50):
positions all over the office, at your house, and outside
of anywhere and everywhere. He's made it clear that our
company policy prohibits co workers from being in relationships or
hooking up. Then you said, I'm pretty sure he told
me that, so that I know he wants me, little girl,
(08:12):
These company policies were not written so you know, so
you would know that your boss wants you. These company
policies were created to prevent in work relationships that were hamper,
hinder and cause the company not to be as productive
or profitable. This is why these were created, nan, she said,
(08:39):
But he can't have me because he might get five.
So let me tell you something about this man right him. Well,
first of all, let me finish the letter. I can't
wait to see his reaction when I tell him I
plan to leave and get another job. The way he
responds would tell me if I should pursue him once
I'm working somewhere else. I hope he feels the same
(08:59):
way about me, because you don't know that, because I
would have left a really good job for nothing. So really,
the reason you're leaving this job so you could pursue
this man It ain't the really that you found a
better paying job, it's that you want to get free.
So you could pursue this man because you said because
if I would have left it, really, if he doesn't
(09:21):
feel the same way about me, I would have left
a really good job over nothing. I'm thinking I should
test the waters before I resign. But how do I
do that? We're not gonna tell you that. Do I
come out and tell him my head over heels for him?
Or do I play it cool and brush up against
him and see what he does at work? You fitling,
go over there and just rub your ass up against
(09:42):
this man. Wait, you fit little girl? Or your breasts?
Are you gonna run your breast across his chest? Which
one you're gonna do? And then? And it would let
me a woman. He told me that a man will
(10:04):
let a woman know he wants her through his actions.
What if I'm the only one who wants to have sex?
Because he was trying to help you understand something. A
man will let you know by his actions. But he
shown you no actions. He tried. He could be giving
you a little lesson, little girl. How should I proceed him? All? Right,
(10:25):
here go to facts. All this is built on your fantasies.
Number two, you're in your head all by yourself. Number three,
you want to have an affair. Number four, This man
ain't about to risk his livelihood. And here's one you
haven't thought about it. This man is in a relationship.
(10:47):
I promise you he is. You didn't mention that. You
didn't mention if he was married. You didn't mention if
he was dating anyone. You didn't mention if he has children, grandchildren,
You didn't mention any of that. You've totally nord what
you're trying to do here without any consideration for cause
and effect. What's wrong with you? Take this fantasy you
(11:11):
got somewhere and go happy with somebody that you can
live your fantasy out with what you all up in
this old player's business fault. This man has someone, this dude,
they walk around with all this swag and all this
power and money. They ain't got no girl, But you
don't care about that. Now, let's get to the title
(11:33):
of this letter. I want my boss so bad, girl.
You know how many times I've been here. I mean,
I just can't imagine. No, I don't get into it now.
All this is laughing, you know, how many times I've
been here. If you can see the looks of these
women's faces on this zoom screen right now, let me
explain something to you. Girl. Ain't no telling what's going
(11:54):
on in their little heads over here. We all know
none of this right here. You know, I feel for
them every day. They could come in here and gotta
see all this. I know what this is. Your boss
is going through Monica over here, call over here, share
over here, and they can't even do nothing. They got
husbands and good dudes too. Got some good husband I
(12:17):
like both for all. I like Nesto and taught they
good dude. But you know they ain't always been married
to these me And I'm pretty sure somewhere when they
found out the big dog wasn't available, they had to
go on the move on what they like now one
of them could still be hanging on for dear life
(12:40):
because Mississippi ain't made a move right now. I don't
know what she waiting on. I'm pretty show this letter
ain't about me, but the show feel like because I
got a way of turning all these letters around on me.
Because yesterday when we said I want my boss so bad,
laving their asshof on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve harveyfm
(13:03):
dot com, on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the
Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Checking up coming up at
forty six minutes after the hour, we'll of Sports Talk
with Junior. Right after this, you're listening to The Dame
Harvey Morning Show
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