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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Right now, it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. If
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(00:24):
that what you said? This could be your own chance
at fame? Let that we could be reading your letter
on the air, just like we're gonna read this one
right now. Buckle up and hold on tight. We gotta
pull you here. It is the straw Mary Letter. Subject
my man's daughter saw it all. Dear Stephen, Shirley might
(00:46):
Beyonce and I have been together for a while, but
we don't live in the same city, so we do
everything we can to spice keep the spice in our relationship.
We spend flirt, We send flirty texas and splicit pictures,
and when we're together it is on and popping. The
texas and pictures we send are so raunchy, risque and
(01:08):
vulgar that a porn star would blush. We can't help it. Well,
now we have a big problem. My man has a
fifteen year old daughter and I have always had a
great relationship with her until recently when she went through
her daughter's phone, her father's phone and saw it all.
(01:28):
Then then she does not want anything to do with
me or her dad. She has not visited him since
this incident. I have reached out to her, but she
will not speak to me. I am so hurt because
she thought of me as her stepmom and I called
her my daughter. My man is crushed and he doesn't
know what to do. By the way, she has been
(01:49):
punished several times for going through other people's things, but
this time is different. I do now know how. I
do not know how to fix this or if it
can be fixed. I think my man could be doing
more to help. He's got to step up, or his
relationship with his daughter may not ever be the same.
I need some real advice on how to handle this
(02:10):
and keep my family together. Please help, Wow, dear, please help. Yeah,
this is a mess right here. This is a big problem.
This young lady has been punished already for going through
people's things, and you know that's the problem. When you
go through people's things, A lot of times you find
(02:32):
what you don't want to find, and you see what
you don't want to see or what you'd never think
in a million years you would see. This is her dad.
She's traumatized. This is her soon to be step mom
that you know she highly looks up to, and at
a fifteen year old, she as a fifteen year old,
she cannot process this. It's hard for her to process.
(02:52):
So this is a major problem for everybody all around.
And quite frankly, you know, I don't know what to
tell you to do. Um. You know, you want to
keep your family together. Maybe you can start with some
sort of family therapy. You know, you got to try
and talk to this this young girl and see if
you can get through to her on a different level.
(03:14):
I mean, but it's going to be hard because she's
seen you like this. So you know, you got to
talk about the respect level. Now, you got to talk
about the fact that she sees you is probably somebody
nasty and just someone that she doesn't want to deal with.
You know, she's so disappointed and upset with her dad.
(03:34):
But I think in this instance you and her dad
are going to have to sit her down and talk
to her especially her dad. But give it a little time,
Let some time go by, and then maybe maybe you
can all come to the table and have a conversation.
You know, tell her it was an accident. You didn't
mean to for her to see all of this, and
(03:56):
you know, I don't know. This is a tough one
for me, Steve, not for you. Yeah, there ain't nothing
you can do. That is nothing you can do. Let's
just start with the fact you can't turn it down
just a little bit, because what I'm about to say
(04:18):
I need everybody's undivided. Okay, here's the whole letters in
this right here were seen flirty texas and explicit pictures
and when we're together, it's on in Papa. Here is
the killer. The text and pictures we send are so runchy,
(04:43):
ris skate and vulgar that a pawn star would blush.
I hadn't done it. What she's saying is what Stormy
Daniels did. We're President Trump nothing. Wow, y'all been doing photos,
(05:05):
photo shoots and set ups from Blacktail magazine. Black Tail, Yeah,
that's how raunchy yo. Black Tail was a black porno
magazine with no makeup artist, with no no touch up
(05:26):
some photo. We're taking this picture, we're printing it. We
ain't got money for touch up, stretch marks, bullet wounds,
bruising cuts, very coast veins, all love it? Bite mind?
Now what my question to you is when you say
(05:50):
raunch you risk skate and volgar that a porn star
war blush. Let me ask you a couple of questions.
You obviously have sent a at you where your right
foot was on the floor? Well, where was your left foot?
Didn't not put that in the letters? I'm just asking
because how raunchy is we talking? Baby? She said it?
(06:11):
If your left foot let me explain something to you,
was higher than your pelvit in that picture right there?
Who that runch Now now that we've COVID, now that's
risk skate. That's risk skate. Now that you got your
foot up, hide in your pelvit, what would make it
(06:32):
runch you? What did you do? Well, now you start
that had movement in it. Raunchy is movement? So you
didn't send a video? Okay, we'll have her too. Yeah.
Steve's response coming up at twenty three after the hours
subject my man's daughter saw it. All you're listening, all right?
(06:57):
Come on, Steve Let's recap Today's Strawberry Letters sub My
man's daughter saw it all. This fifteen year old girl
then broke into her daddy's phone, and since they live
a party in relationship, they send each other explicit pictures.
The text and pictures were seeing a soul, raunch it, risk, skate,
and vulgar, that a pawn star with blush. We can't
(07:19):
help him. Well, the problem is a girl and found
the pictures, and since she then saw it, she don't
want anything to do with me or her daddy. We
didn't punish this girl before for going through other people's things,
but this time is different. I don't know how to
fix it or can be fixed. This can't be fixed.
But now let reiterate. You sent a picture that was raunchy, risk, skate,
(07:42):
and volgar. My breakdown is how the picture was The
three things risk skate picture is your foot is on
the floor, Your right foot is flat on the floor,
your left foot is somewhere up higher than you pelvit.
That makes for a risque picture. What made the picture runch? You?
(08:05):
Runch you? Was you put that special effect on it
for you? Was a humping real fast. You was boomeranging
your picture. Yeah, now you got that in there. Then
what made it vulgar was something was in your hand.
Oh the only other thing you could have been doing.
You nick it and you barefoot, you on your toes
(08:26):
on your right foot, but your left foot is flat
up against that wall. I'm talking about, flat up against
that wall. So that's the breakdown between risque, runchy and volte. Yeah.
Now you didn't done all this hill wow, and you
turning round talking back over your shoulder at the camera,
and you didn't mention his name. So the little girl
(08:48):
thank us. Hell now all she see and you guys, yeah,
and you got renny what you know to look back
back down? She could damn there see it yours paba.
And when you got your leg up that high, you
damn nig got you look right over your shoulder and
(09:08):
right behind your shoulder, flat as daddy. That's why she
don't want to talk to nobody. Now. Now the girl
don't want to talk to y'all because her damn daddy.
It's just this NASTI sh Yeah, I'm gonna tell you
one thing, because my daddy did some pornographic around me
one time. I would not pornographic to me, just around me,
(09:32):
which would have been today, would have been pornographic. My
daddy was woke up neked one night and went in
the refrigerator and I was coming downstairs to use the bathroom,
and he was standing in the refrigerator drinking out of
ice water bottle neck and I saw we didn't have
money for therapy. So I'm just gonna be honest with you.
(09:53):
I still ain't over. I'm still he Yeah, trauma. He
wasn't as bright as today's turn around me, but contact
and then when he saw me, he continued to drink
(10:16):
and put his damn hand on this hip. You know, man,
it was very different from me back then. So I
didn't have to worry about it. And so I was traumatized.
This girl is traumatized. She not talking to you or
her daddy. Y'all got to get in therapy, yeah, definitely,
(10:38):
but she probably ain't gonna want to go. I mean,
I mean, well, even if she goes by, I said,
what she gonna do, what y'all gonna do, y'all gonna
take the pictures to discuss each one, But you know
she's gone to her mom. Well maybe not. She might
not trouble for looking. Yeah, because she didn't got in trouble.
Ain't gonna need a whipping her punishing her for this.
(10:59):
Because if y'all had been sending all that nasty man
and what code your fiance guy, where fifteen year old
can get in it? I know, well, you know, why
is it? Fifteen year old with his phone? That's what? Yeah,
thank you, Yeah, I have my own phone. But I
mean she has a problem obviously with being nosy and
go through other people's nosy then got you in there.
(11:21):
Yeah yeah, now your share off shot. Yeah, she's looking
for something. But in due time this will heal. It
will it will heal in time because she gonna go
off to college. Her own activities will begin. And what
y'all doing with pale and compassing and what the kids
out here doing right now? I'm telling y'all right now,
you think they'll get married? Who the lady who wrote
(11:43):
the letter in her fiance? Yeah? They Yeah, man, you
cost that little girl probably screen shot them pictures and
send them to her phone. Yeah, that little girl right there. Yeah,
it's probably gonna have to go on and get married
and all that. So I don't know, we really can't help.
I don't know what to tell you. I don't know
how how nasty. Hey, so risk a runchy and vulgar.
(12:08):
There's levels, there's level So let me guess what another
picture you was on you was nicking on a bike
like her stationary bike. Yeah, she was nicking on because
she was exercising and yeah on the tour of the
France bike and you got extra jigu with it. You
(12:29):
can took the seed off. You sent that patical little
girl in all types of I feel sorry for the
little girl. Yeah, she tried to get her mind rapping
on hot nasty you and her damn daddy is and Steve,
no one wants to see their parents, nobody, No one
wants like that. Ever, you really don't want to see
(12:49):
your money, You don't want to stand and you definitely
don't want to hear him. But that's a whole other
shop email or instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter.
At Steve Harvey f M. You're listening to the Extreme
Harday Morning Show.
Right now, it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. If
you need some advice on relationships, on dating, on work,
on sex, on parenting, and more, please submit You're a
Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit
to Strawberry Letter. Was there anything you wanted to add
to that? If you don't send a letter, as you
will never be famous, we will be a loser. Is
(00:24):
that what you said? This could be your own chance
at fame? Let that we could be reading your letter
on the air, just like we're gonna read this one
right now. Buckle up and hold on tight. We gotta
pull you here. It is the straw Mary Letter. Subject
my man's daughter saw it all. Dear Stephen, Shirley might
(00:46):
Beyonce and I have been together for a while, but
we don't live in the same city, so we do
everything we can to spice keep the spice in our relationship.
We spend flirt, We send flirty texas and splicit pictures,
and when we're together it is on and popping. The
texas and pictures we send are so raunchy, risque and
(01:08):
vulgar that a porn star would blush. We can't help it. Well,
now we have a big problem. My man has a
fifteen year old daughter and I have always had a
great relationship with her until recently when she went through
her daughter's phone, her father's phone and saw it all.
(01:28):
Then then she does not want anything to do with
me or her dad. She has not visited him since
this incident. I have reached out to her, but she
will not speak to me. I am so hurt because
she thought of me as her stepmom and I called
her my daughter. My man is crushed and he doesn't
know what to do. By the way, she has been
(01:49):
punished several times for going through other people's things, but
this time is different. I do now know how. I
do not know how to fix this or if it
can be fixed. I think my man could be doing
more to help. He's got to step up, or his
relationship with his daughter may not ever be the same.
I need some real advice on how to handle this
(02:10):
and keep my family together. Please help, Wow, dear, please help. Yeah,
this is a mess right here. This is a big problem.
This young lady has been punished already for going through
people's things, and you know that's the problem. When you
go through people's things, A lot of times you find
(02:32):
what you don't want to find, and you see what
you don't want to see or what you'd never think
in a million years you would see. This is her dad.
She's traumatized. This is her soon to be step mom
that you know she highly looks up to, and at
a fifteen year old, she as a fifteen year old,
she cannot process this. It's hard for her to process.
(02:52):
So this is a major problem for everybody all around.
And quite frankly, you know, I don't know what to
tell you to do. Um. You know, you want to
keep your family together. Maybe you can start with some
sort of family therapy. You know, you got to try
and talk to this this young girl and see if
you can get through to her on a different level.
(03:14):
I mean, but it's going to be hard because she's
seen you like this. So you know, you got to
talk about the respect level. Now, you got to talk
about the fact that she sees you is probably somebody
nasty and just someone that she doesn't want to deal with.
You know, she's so disappointed and upset with her dad.
(03:34):
But I think in this instance you and her dad
are going to have to sit her down and talk
to her especially her dad. But give it a little time,
Let some time go by, and then maybe maybe you
can all come to the table and have a conversation.
You know, tell her it was an accident. You didn't
mean to for her to see all of this, and
(03:56):
you know, I don't know. This is a tough one
for me, Steve, not for you. Yeah, there ain't nothing
you can do. That is nothing you can do. Let's
just start with the fact you can't turn it down
just a little bit, because what I'm about to say
(04:18):
I need everybody's undivided. Okay, here's the whole letters in
this right here were seen flirty texas and explicit pictures
and when we're together, it's on in Papa. Here is
the killer. The text and pictures we send are so runchy,
(04:43):
ris skate and vulgar that a pawn star would blush.
I hadn't done it. What she's saying is what Stormy
Daniels did. We're President Trump nothing. Wow, y'all been doing photos,
(05:05):
photo shoots and set ups from Blacktail magazine. Black Tail, Yeah,
that's how raunchy yo. Black Tail was a black porno
magazine with no makeup artist, with no no touch up
(05:26):
some photo. We're taking this picture, we're printing it. We
ain't got money for touch up, stretch marks, bullet wounds,
bruising cuts, very coast veins, all love it? Bite mind?
Now what my question to you is when you say
(05:50):
raunch you risk skate and volgar that a porn star
war blush. Let me ask you a couple of questions.
You obviously have sent a at you where your right
foot was on the floor? Well, where was your left foot?
Didn't not put that in the letters? I'm just asking
because how raunchy is we talking? Baby? She said it?
(06:11):
If your left foot let me explain something to you,
was higher than your pelvit in that picture right there?
Who that runch Now now that we've COVID, now that's
risk skate. That's risk skate. Now that you got your
foot up, hide in your pelvit, what would make it
(06:32):
runch you? What did you do? Well, now you start
that had movement in it. Raunchy is movement? So you
didn't send a video? Okay, we'll have her too. Yeah.
Steve's response coming up at twenty three after the hours
subject my man's daughter saw it. All you're listening, all right?
(06:57):
Come on, Steve Let's recap Today's Strawberry Letters sub My
man's daughter saw it all. This fifteen year old girl
then broke into her daddy's phone, and since they live
a party in relationship, they send each other explicit pictures.
The text and pictures were seeing a soul, raunch it, risk, skate,
and vulgar, that a pawn star with blush. We can't
(07:19):
help him. Well, the problem is a girl and found
the pictures, and since she then saw it, she don't
want anything to do with me or her daddy. We
didn't punish this girl before for going through other people's things,
but this time is different. I don't know how to
fix it or can be fixed. This can't be fixed.
But now let reiterate. You sent a picture that was raunchy, risk, skate,
(07:42):
and volgar. My breakdown is how the picture was The
three things risk skate picture is your foot is on
the floor, Your right foot is flat on the floor,
your left foot is somewhere up higher than you pelvit.
That makes for a risque picture. What made the picture runch? You?
(08:05):
Runch you? Was you put that special effect on it
for you? Was a humping real fast. You was boomeranging
your picture. Yeah, now you got that in there. Then
what made it vulgar was something was in your hand.
Oh the only other thing you could have been doing.
You nick it and you barefoot, you on your toes
(08:26):
on your right foot, but your left foot is flat
up against that wall. I'm talking about, flat up against
that wall. So that's the breakdown between risque, runchy and volte. Yeah.
Now you didn't done all this hill wow, and you
turning round talking back over your shoulder at the camera,
and you didn't mention his name. So the little girl
(08:48):
thank us. Hell now all she see and you guys, yeah,
and you got renny what you know to look back
back down? She could damn there see it yours paba.
And when you got your leg up that high, you
damn nig got you look right over your shoulder and
(09:08):
right behind your shoulder, flat as daddy. That's why she
don't want to talk to nobody. Now. Now the girl
don't want to talk to y'all because her damn daddy.
It's just this NASTI sh Yeah, I'm gonna tell you
one thing, because my daddy did some pornographic around me
one time. I would not pornographic to me, just around me,
(09:32):
which would have been today, would have been pornographic. My
daddy was woke up neked one night and went in
the refrigerator and I was coming downstairs to use the bathroom,
and he was standing in the refrigerator drinking out of
ice water bottle neck and I saw we didn't have
money for therapy. So I'm just gonna be honest with you.
(09:53):
I still ain't over. I'm still he Yeah, trauma. He
wasn't as bright as today's turn around me, but contact
and then when he saw me, he continued to drink
(10:16):
and put his damn hand on this hip. You know, man,
it was very different from me back then. So I
didn't have to worry about it. And so I was traumatized.
This girl is traumatized. She not talking to you or
her daddy. Y'all got to get in therapy, yeah, definitely,
(10:38):
but she probably ain't gonna want to go. I mean,
I mean, well, even if she goes by, I said,
what she gonna do, what y'all gonna do, y'all gonna
take the pictures to discuss each one, But you know
she's gone to her mom. Well maybe not. She might
not trouble for looking. Yeah, because she didn't got in trouble.
Ain't gonna need a whipping her punishing her for this.
(10:59):
Because if y'all had been sending all that nasty man
and what code your fiance guy, where fifteen year old
can get in it? I know, well, you know, why
is it? Fifteen year old with his phone? That's what? Yeah,
thank you, Yeah, I have my own phone. But I
mean she has a problem obviously with being nosy and
go through other people's nosy then got you in there.
(11:21):
Yeah yeah, now your share off shot. Yeah, she's looking
for something. But in due time this will heal. It
will it will heal in time because she gonna go
off to college. Her own activities will begin. And what
y'all doing with pale and compassing and what the kids
out here doing right now? I'm telling y'all right now,
you think they'll get married? Who the lady who wrote
(11:43):
the letter in her fiance? Yeah? They Yeah, man, you
cost that little girl probably screen shot them pictures and
send them to her phone. Yeah, that little girl right there. Yeah,
it's probably gonna have to go on and get married
and all that. So I don't know, we really can't help.
I don't know what to tell you. I don't know
how how nasty. Hey, so risk a runchy and vulgar.
(12:08):
There's levels, there's level So let me guess what another
picture you was on you was nicking on a bike
like her stationary bike. Yeah, she was nicking on because
she was exercising and yeah on the tour of the
France bike and you got extra jigu with it. You
(12:29):
can took the seed off. You sent that patical little
girl in all types of I feel sorry for the
little girl. Yeah, she tried to get her mind rapping
on hot nasty you and her damn daddy is and Steve,
no one wants to see their parents, nobody, No one
wants like that. Ever, you really don't want to see
(12:49):
your money, You don't want to stand and you definitely
don't want to hear him. But that's a whole other
shop email or instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter.
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