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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning show.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Can we just talk about something interesting that I saw
this in the news and Gandhi and I were talking
about it. I cannot say enough men do not understand
what women go through in life. And I know that's
a very broad statement. I have a very dear friend
who's going through some reproductive issues whatever, and I see
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the hell she's going through and the hell her body
is going through, and I'm like, God, guys don't understand.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Most of them don't.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
There's a guy in California who is suing the hospital,
a hospital for over sixty six hundred million dollars because
they encouraged him to watch his wife's sea section.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Yeah, do you want to explain this story?
Speaker 4 (00:51):
Yes, he filed this lawsuit because he said, like you said,
they encouraged him to watch it, and after he said
it made him crack. He developed a psychotic illness and
he's never going to be the same again because it
was so traumatizing having to see something like that when
he didn't want to right.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Yes, And did he also include in there, I'll probably
never want to have sex with my wife again because I.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Saw he's an idiot he is, and he's suing for
six and forty three million dollars.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
May force him there no encouraged. Okay, so this is stupid.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
It is stupid, But look at what she went through,
and he's the one suing. She went through a sea section,
and they make it as painless as possible.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
I know, but it's sure. I'm they're not going to
cut you open without.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Drugs exactly, but you think about the trauma of going
through it with or without drugs.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Look at what she went through, and he's the way.
I watch him open her up and take my new
more baby out.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
My friend had a sea section and she said they
are There are literally times where your organs are sitting
next to you. Yeah, Like they just take everything out,
take out a baby, and put it back, and it's
a much harder recovery process than having a vaginal bird.
I can't imagine any of it. But I also can't
imagine my partner being like, this was so much harder on.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Me and it was on you.
Speaker 5 (02:05):
Kill you.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Can you imagine if they have your parts out on
a table, it's like the game offer as oh where
does this go?
Speaker 3 (02:11):
I don't remember that it's where it came.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
From, and that's just that's just childbirth.
Speaker 5 (02:16):
Right.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
Then you take it to periods, which I don't think
people can ever understand. Sometimes I don't understand what other
women are going through. And then birth control, which I
don't care what anybody says. Birth control is so difficult
to deal with for a lot of people. He can
spike your blood pressure, give you blood clots, make you
have mood swings, like I know when I was taking
birth control.
Speaker 6 (02:36):
I'm not.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
I don't think I am a very moody person. I'm
pretty much stable as far as my moods go. But
when I was taking birth control, I could feel the
Friday before I was going to get my period, I
was just emotional about everything. Right, I would get angry,
I would get sad, all of these things. And you're
doing all of this, yes, just for your body, of course,
but also you would like your partner in all of
this to have some empathy and understand what's going on.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
And then once it's all over, Oh you're not having
children anymore, let's put you through menopause.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Yeah, let's roll you through there.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
And bloating and this and that in crankiness and you know,
feeling like crap all the time, and I'm like, dude,
why can't they just be a button that you push.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
I'm done, there's nothing. And my mom and God rest
her soul. She went through awful UTI issues and I
mean so Gandhi kind of scratched on scratch the surface
a little bit. If you have a partner in life
that is totally empathetic for what you're going through and
understands the science behind what you're going through, and they
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can help maneuver, help you maneuver around it and sometimes
be smart enough to maneuver around it themselves and like
not say the wrong things.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
You got a great partner, absolutely.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
And you know that comes with anything, not only female issues,
but someone who's empathetic to what you're going through and
they actually, you know, walk that mile in your shoes. Absolutely,
you got a winner there. And if they aren't empathetic, yeah,
here's Elva. Elva had a sea section. Hi, Elva, Hi,
how are you?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
I'm doing well? Sea sections?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
How much fun are they pullase?
Speaker 5 (04:11):
They are?
Speaker 6 (04:12):
Definitely. First of all, I just want to say I
absolutely love you guys. Listen to you every morning. Teacher.
I drive to work about an hour and a half
every day and love you guys. You keep me see.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 6 (04:23):
On that note, yeah, definitely sea sections. Wow. Uh.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Six weeks after having my sea section with my firstborn son,
my appendix what it kicked the bucket. I guess they say,
once they take out all your organs, they put them back.
Sometimes it aggravates it and I had to get my
appendice removed six weeks actually happened my little guy, and
it was definitely no joke.
Speaker 6 (04:48):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Now do you have a partner that was totally supportive
of you in understanding what you were going through?
Speaker 6 (04:54):
Oh? Yeah, absolutely, he was great.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
I didn't want to go to the hospital and he
was like, Elvi, I think you have a kind of scientist.
Speaker 6 (05:01):
I'm like, no way. I was like I'm fine.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Then I started using and he's like, I really think
you need to go to the hospital. He called my mother,
she came from my son and he dragged me and
the next day we had a block party with about
eighty people for my mother in law's sixtieth no fiftieth person.
Speaker 6 (05:19):
I don't remember what she was, but yep, oh my god.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
So but back to the point that your husband is
totally totally empathetic with what you're going through, and in
any relationship, no matter what does circumstances, they need to
be locked into what you're going through. I look, it's
it's not easy always. Sometimes you got to stop your
life and look at theirs and go okay, look I
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get what they're going through and be a part of
the solution and not the problem. So you heard the
story that godd he was talking about. This husband in
California is suing the hospital for over six hundred million
dollars because they allowed him to watch a C section crime.
Speaker 6 (06:01):
River get over it to see because he really wanted to.
He wanted to experience the whole thing. He's like, if
this is what you're going through, I want to see it.
And they wouldn't allow you. They sheet up. If he
didn't sit down, they were throwing him at him, like
sit down.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Most of the time sea sections, I don't think they
allow you to look. I think they want you up
on top with your woman's head and not.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Down to the bottom.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
They want your they want they want her head coming
out a window on the building and you have to
be outside with her head. That's all you get, A
little head outside you know what I'm saying exactly, Ela. Well,
how are you doing now though, How are you feeling?
How's your health?
Speaker 5 (06:40):
Oh that's that perfectly fine, Thank goodness. I ended up
having another kid about three years later. That one was
in scheduled sea section.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
I knew what to expect and it was fine, Thank goodness.
No other organs had to come out that time.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
People don't understand, you know.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
They unpack organs just like opening up the hood of
a car and pulling here's a carburetor.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
It expens on the kurr.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Here you go, here's the radiator. Put it back when
you found it.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Thank you all right, el, but thank you have a
great drive, and thanks for listening to us every day.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Appreciate it. Good morning, honest