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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
All Right, so we're all invited to a friend's wedding
who we love. We just adore this friend, right, Yeah.
Some of us were invited with our significant others and
some of us weren't. So we're trying to figure this out. So, okay,
I'll name names. Scary, Yeah, Scary received an invitation, but
(00:27):
it does not include his girlfriend, correct, right, my girlfriend
of fourteen years exactly. And so when you're planning a wedding,
I mean, you know, maybe she just doesn't know you
have a girlfriend. I don't know. The thing is, when
you're planning a wedding, you know, you do try to
find out do they need the plus one? Is there
(00:47):
someone in their life like they've dated, for instance, for
fourteen years, this should be invited. So I don't know.
So Scary is like in a quandary.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah, because it's weird for me to go without my girlfriend.
But then again, my girlfriend doesn't know these people, so
it make But that doesn't make it, okay, it puts
me in a bad spot, if it does. Anyone who's
planning a wedding needs to assume you plus one. You
cannot control everyone in the room. Don't And if the
person doesn't want to bring a plus one, let it
(01:15):
be up to that person.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
But the expensive a wedding is No, you don't.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
No, he never will.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
He never will.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
I never will know. But no, you know what, I
get that, But it's a tricky thing. It's a political thing, right.
I mean, you don't want to You don't want to
upset anyone, you know. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
He's I think he's a little more upset. Correct me
if I'm wrong. You've been with your significant other, Robin,
who I love for fourteen years, and I've been with
mine for just a few years, and he got an invite.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Correct.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Oh, yeah, that's all right.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
So I think he was upset about that.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
But listen, I have to be honest, though. To be honest, Gandhi,
you talk about your boyfriend a lot more than Scary
talks about his girlfriend.
Speaker 5 (01:55):
I do, And I think I communicate with this person
a lot more, too, right, But.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
It doesn't make it right.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
See, this is why I feel like the bride and
groom should have think about these things when they're sending
out the invites. That look, and maybe they didn't be
putting the guests in a bad spot.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Maybe they did take it through. Yeah, GONDI what I mean.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
I think if if people have super control over anything
in their lives, it could be their wedding. They don't
have to do something just for the guests. But also,
I have a friend who didn't invite people's significant others
purposely because she said, I don't know these people and
I don't want them in my wedding pictures.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
So that's her progress.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Yeah, I mean, yeah, right right.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
I know.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
There were a few people, well there's a there's a
few people that were invited to my wedding that actually
kind of ran their date past me and we said, no,
please don't bring them to our wedding.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Yeah, oh really exactly. So there were certain people that
you didn't want in the room for your wedding exactly
because it's our wedding. It was the other way around. Actually,
we totally not to bring you. Yeah, I'm kidding, I'm kidding.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
I had my wedding.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
I had some people ask to be invited. They're like,
I'm invited, right, And I was just saying that I
invited them out a guilt, and then one or two
of them didn't even show up.
Speaker 6 (03:10):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Yeah, I had a few of those two Danielle people saying,
aren't you gonna invite me in your wedding? Everyone else
is again, and it turned into that you know, crap show,
and like, oh god, I'm sorry. You only have so
much room, you know, you really do, and even with
the people you do have coming, with all that room
that you have, you still have to like figure out
where they sit. I mean, there's more to it than
just you're coming, you're.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Not, I mean, And a venue has a cap on
how many people can be there, so that could be
part of the reason too.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
The wedding is about me and who I'm marrying, period,
It's about the marriage. There are a few people that
were not invited about wedding that have not spoken to
me since. Oh right, And one person I've wanted to
invite I forgot to and uh just got married invited
everyone except for me. So there is that one. Weddings
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turned into that. I know, I don't know, so scary.
Do you want us to try to finagle an invite
for your girlfriend? I don't think that'd be a fun
thing to do for us. Maybe just drop a hand
with you.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
She would like that.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Yeah, it puts the bride in a bad spot. It
puts Yeah, I feel bad for her too, damn it.
Oh my god, this is all right?
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Moving on. You know we online nineteen Tara from Trenton.
Let's talk about her wedding. She's planning her wedding and
you don't want strangers at your wedding, right Tara?
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Oh, we do not.
Speaker 7 (04:33):
We definitely don't. That's why any anybody we invited, we
invited their significant other that we know and that they've
been serious with for a long time. But besides that,
I don't want strangers at my wedding. I'm not paying
over one hundred bucks for a plate of food for
someone I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Okay, So let me put it this way. What if
there's someone that you know really well from work, you've
never met their significant other, but you know that they've
been significant other's fore years or even married, would you
still not invite that person?
Speaker 4 (05:05):
No?
Speaker 7 (05:05):
I don't think I would know if they're not Me
and my wife, well or my future wife agreed that
if if they're not in our lives, then they shouldn't
be a part of ours.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
That's terrible. I don't think that's scary. Who are you
to tell someone what's terrible. That's their decision.
Speaker 7 (05:23):
It's about the guests, it's about the it's about the couple.
It's not about the.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Plus one because you don't move. No, they don't know
your girlfriend, they don't want her.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
That when you decide to plan a wedding, I want
to see how Oh forget it exactly.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Planning a wedding is a tricky thing, right, I mean
there's a lot of moving parts. It's like working a
puzzle sometimes. And I bet there's people that you really
would want to be there, you just can't invite them.
And so that's going to cause another crapstorm that right,
we can't.
Speaker 7 (05:54):
Even we can't even afford to invite uh, some of
our family members. So it's it's difficult because it costs
a lot. So we're not going to pay again, We're
not going to pay for you know, one of our friends,
you know, girlfriends or boyfriends just because they want them there.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Yeah, all right, Well look, bottom line, terror you guys
have a great wedding and a great marriage and all
the best of you. Okay, thanks for listening every day.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 7 (06:20):
I love you. Guys, And I love Danielle's laugh. I
always want to tell you that it makes my morning.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
You should invite her laugh to your wedding.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Yes, I'll come to you.
Speaker 7 (06:28):
No, not you just to laugh laugh.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
You can only afford that.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Is all right? Well, thank you so much. You have
a great day, Tara. So there you go. I mean scary.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
You know there's some people they obviously if they knew
you well enough, they would invite your girlfriend. So they're
just your sort of friends. Think of me that you
think that I'm not working? How little do you think?
How little do you think of the bride and planning
a wedding that you think that she has to invite
someone she doesn't know or he doesn't know.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
And maybe they don't know, but she don't really talk
about it on the air, and maybe so maybe they
think you're single. You don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Jenny is online nineteen. She's a bride running into the
same problem inviting guests, guests and significant others. It's a
rough job, isn't it, Jenny, Yes, it is. Yeah, we've
all I've done it, Danielle's done it. It's it's it's
challenging because there's go ahead Danielle.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Sorry, do you run into the problem where you go, Okay,
if I invite this person, then I have to invite
that person.
Speaker 6 (07:31):
And yeah, and I'm yeah, it's kind of getting out
of hand. Like I mean, we're trying to cap it
at one hundred people. I mean it's very expensive. Me
and my fiance we live on Cape Cod and you know,
the keep is a destination wedding, especially in the summer.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
It's very expensive. We're trying to keep it at one
hundred people.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
I'm between a rock and a hard place because his
mom is helping us out by paying for the wedding,
and she wants to invite her friends and this and that,
and then.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
My fiance's like, I don't even know who these people are.
Speaker 6 (08:02):
And I'm like, I'm trying to be respectful, like I
appreciate she's helping.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
Us out, but I'm not planning a playdate for you guys.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (08:13):
Like, and I know it is her money, but like
I told her, I was like, you know, if I
have room, I will, and just.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
You know, to some tough decisions. It's not easy.
Speaker 5 (08:26):
Yeah, And also parents friends might give you more expensive
gifts than your friends. I don't know. Your friend's status,
my parents stuff than my friends would.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
And then like another well, another thing that's happening is
we're having a ceremony out of church, and I've already
requested that there's no children there because I don't want
a screaming.
Speaker 4 (08:47):
Baby to you know, scream at the wrong time. It's
just like it's to me because it's in a church.
Speaker 6 (08:53):
For us, it's like a religious sacraments.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Another thing, are you having kids at the party afterwards?
Or no, you don't want kids at all?
Speaker 6 (09:02):
I did cave and say yes, the kids can come
to the reception. That's fine, Like they're you know, if
they're gonna miss one hour versus a five hour party,
I'd rather have to miss the one hour.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
There you go, and the kids, you know, they don't
eat much, they don't they don't drink a lot of booze,
and so they're cheap, you know. So so Jenny, uh,
you know, it's your wedding, it's your day, and a
lot of people and people people get butt hurt because
the wedding's not going the way they wanted to go.
You know what I'm saying, Well, that's not their problem.
That's why I just need weddings. We had a beautiful wedding,
but I tell you it was rough to put together.
(09:34):
There were people we had to eliminate from the list,
and I'm still kind of I'm still like paying the
price in a way with these people. I'm like, what
are you gonna do.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
There's a couple of people from hours too that I
wish I could have invited, but I didn't. And they've
never said anything. But you know when you kind of
just feel that every time you see them, like in
the back of their mind, it's like you didn't invite me,
you know.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
I feel that. Yeah, OK, the next couple of times
I get married, I'm not doing it the same way.
It's gonna a little diff Yeah, a little different. Well, Jenny,
how long away are you from your actual wedding date.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
We're about eight months away. Our wedding is May twenty
fifth of twenty four.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Nice. Well, we're we're not going to expect an invitation,
so I know it's packed, but we like you anyway,
and I hope you have a great date. Thank you
for listening, Jenny.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
Thank you so much. I love you guys.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Oh, thank you so much. Tell everyone on the cape
we said yo, Hi Cape people. Hi Bill, I'm all right, right,
do we lose her? Where's you go?
Speaker 4 (10:32):
Oh? Hello?
Speaker 2 (10:33):
There you are what we're saying? I'm sorry?
Speaker 4 (10:35):
Oh no, just thank you. I like this literally made
my entire day.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Oh in hours too, Jenny, all right, thank you for
listening to us. There you go. You know what, it's
your wedding. You got some some tough choices to make. Yeah,
so this is the Gandhi like sitting there. I'm not
getting married.
Speaker 5 (10:51):
It's so easy. I don't have to worry about it.
If I ever get married, which I won't, it'll be
secret and nobody will ever know.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
Here you go,