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July 11, 2018 • 15 mins

We "try" to have a level headed conversation with Greg T about a tweet he sent out.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What would you talk about on your on your podcast?
Fine Elviss Morning Show really started a storm again, and
he doesn't see it. He thinks it's totally fine and
we're crazy Morning show here, scary over here. That's Danielle

(00:24):
and then Garrett Gregg, t Brody and producer Sam. Yes,
I want to know after I read this to you,
what did you if you? I have questions. Okay, I
don't know if you really said so. The Elvis Duran Show.
The Elvis Duran Show tweeted out do you think humans
are meant to be in monogamous relationships? And Greg t
answered I do not. I'm married and holding it down,

(00:48):
but we all should be with other people as frequent
as possible. How else will we ever continue to grow
and test our minds? Then he writes, reading the trick
is to not allow our partner to know. Otherwise people
can be hurt heart. No one wants a broken heart.
So my first question to you is has your wife

(01:09):
Trish seen that tweet? I don't know, and I really
don't care if she saw the tweet or not. It
doesn't do anything, Yes it does. And then right this
this is a very cutchy subject when it comes to
matters the heart and cheating, because there are people in

(01:31):
the world that you know, don't ever want to be
in that kind of relationship with somebody cheats, because we
all know what happens when someone cheats, You get hurt, right,
it hurts. And how many how many people in this
room have been cheated on? Right? Have? I don't think
I was ever cheated on? Okay, lucky you, but it
definitely hurts. No one likes that. No one likes that
at all, right, devastating, right, Okay, but let's just take

(01:55):
take our feelings out of it, all right, And all
I wanted to say tweet, I wanted you all to
just honestly reflect now, like I don't criticize anybody that's
criticizing me, but you can't criticize me. You have to
just take it for what it's really worth and the value.
You can't you can't just go. But you can't start

(02:16):
pointing fingers and going no, no, no, check and you
kidding around. I'm not kidding around, and I'm not going
to back off from what I'm saying is I'm a person,
I'm a human being, Okay, and I have a feeling
in my heart. That's why I wanted to get married.
I fell in love. It's great. I still love Trish
and my my love is still there. That is not changing.

(02:39):
But what does change is that I don't need to
be in love to actually have the act of sex
with somebody. I don't need that. I don't feel that
I can have sex with anybody or anything and enjoy
what that actual physical ability feels like. That's what I'm asking.
You're preferred to be in a polyamorous relationship where you

(03:02):
know what he is saying is, I'm not preferring that
kind of like can translate you want to be able
to go have sex with thumb girl, some woman. I
don't be anybody, right whatever, man, you want to go
have sex. It's meaningless. It's just for the enjoyment of sex.
And you feel like as long as you don't upset
your wife. That's telling her it's a big deal. I

(03:23):
have to live with that guilt, and if I feel
that guilt in the flip side, it should that's fine.
I heard. It's really can two things. One, you shouldn't
have guilt because it's totally natural according you and to
you wouldn't care if Trish was out doing whatever she's doing. Okay,
that is a terrible example, and that's a bad question.
Why because I would care it would hurt me if

(03:43):
I knew. I don't want If she just does that
and she can live with herself and still pull it
off that like everything's wonderful, then then what do I
So you don't mind getting into bed with her having sex,
but you but you do know she's not right. If
I find out, I am hurt. As long as you
don't find out, you're good. I need to help draw

(04:04):
a line here because you're meshing two different topics and
that could be a little confusing. There's a difference between
do you believe in monogamy or do you believe in
multiple partners and cheating? So you could be in a
committed relationship with someone and both of you agree and
that's fine. So you're meshing the two worlds together right now.
What you're doing, I'm just drawing a line because I

(04:24):
don't want to besip and cheating. He wants to wants
to be in an open relationship, I know, which is
fine if that's what you're in. The don't That's why
you're not supposed to communicate it. That's the thing I
don't need. I don't want to communicate that. I don't
want to be in an open relationship like that. I
like the relationship with men because I like my wife,

(04:45):
my family, my house. I love that, it's great dinner
at five thirty six o'clock. Everything's wonderful. We all gonna work.
But of that, all I'm saying is if gone, if
I find someone, and and they and everybody I believe
they got that we should all be. If your wife
whenever they want, what if your wife felt that way?

(05:06):
What if your wife felt the same way, then I
don't I wouldn't want to be with her. If she
feels like you want to be in an open relationship,
I don't want to know that you want you want
to go sleep with Mary right, let's just say your
name if she wants to go sleep with Steve right
and not tell you you're fine with that. No, I'm
not fine with that because when you're when I find
out understanding, No, I understand you, just you don't want

(05:28):
to know. So your belief system is that peoplen't want
to be most multiple people, you don't want to know
that it's happening. No, one wants to get hurt. No
one wants to let me ask you a question. So
you're saying, as long as Trish doesn't find out about it,
it's fine for you to go have sex with something.
You can do the shame if as long as you
don't find out, I can live with that guilt. If
I can live with that knowing that I did that.

(05:49):
And if she finds out, she's gonna be hurt. What's
going to happen to that Even if she doesn't know
you're lying to her, right and she's in a relationship,
that's a lie, and that if she ever found out,
she would feel that. So then why why would you
even right that that's okay? Okay, I'm not saying that
that's okay. I would hurt to be I would I

(06:10):
would not want to be the person to break her
heart and be like that. That would be devastating. But
you want to go sleep. I don't want to go
to jail, but I'm going to rob that. I exactly
understand what I'm saying is that, But you're right. If
I see anybody and I feel like I want to
get it on, and they want to get it on,
the act of getting it on is so incredible. Okay,
what you're saying is you're married, you don't that's act

(06:34):
of getting on commitment. Shouldn't you made a commitment unless
you and Trish sit down and I have a discussion where, yes,
you want to suck someone else, that's fine. You want
to do someone else, that's fine. Unless you have that conversation,
it shouldn't even be on the table you If you
want to rob a bank, right that means the excitement
of robbing a bank is more important to you than

(06:57):
the fear of going to jail. Right then, in that situation,
the excitement of having sex with is more valuable to
you than the fear of hurting and destroying your wife
right here, exactly, yes, here. The reason why you can't
have this conversation is because there are people that are
extremely passionate about this, like Danielle just just showed where

(07:21):
you know immediately it's like your cheaters, your cheaters talking
about cheater unless you've already done. But you can't. That's
what I'm saying is that if we can absolutely positively
have a conversation, no, no, no, you get everybody gets
so amped up on this top, But what do you.

(07:42):
You're again as a friend. You're looking for that guy
and or woman to tell you, Greg T you know
what you're right, and then you're happy with no. No, no,
You're talking to a bunch of friends. You asked a
question and we're giving you the answer. I don't believe
that this conversation can ever happen. We're actually where people
are actually sitting round whizing. I'm so confused to because

(08:04):
I feel like you're there's being a line drawn between
being emotionally exclusive and physically exclusive. So it sounds like
you're saying that physically exclusive doesn't make sense, but you want,
you need to be emotionally exclusive, so you're that's right,
But that's not how people work for the most part,
they work together, correct. But I think that that is
ridiculous because I think that working together in communicate that

(08:26):
I want to I want to be with other people
is crazy. I think I think the issue here is
because there's people with all kinds of relationship. You're just
feel like going out and someone and nobody knows. There's
people with kinds of relations open relationships, swinging relationship, that's right, whatever,
whatever the problem is, the differences, they know what they're
in correct. You can't be in a swinging, commit or

(08:48):
open relationship. It would bother me for her to because
somebody else. Do you think Trish would care less if
you had sex with someone it meant nothing, or if
you had sex something and you kind of like them.
Not either way, Oh probably if I like them, But
either way, she's gonna be very hurt. Right. So the
fact that you're yelling and screaming how it doesn't mean
anything to you. It is irrelevant to the woman you
committed to. No, why can't we just be married? And

(09:13):
why do the whole I don't know why? Why do
I have to communicate with that? How do you what
does that mean? How do you feel? Aside from like,
how do you feel? But but just listen to this.
You just wrote that on Twitter in front of millions
of our listeners. Okay, that's one embarrassing to your wife.

(09:34):
Oh come on, and to the fact that she has
no probably is no idea that you feel that way.
And so if she was to see that, but you
tweeted any time, do you really think that she's not
going to find out and not question your relationship. I'm

(09:55):
gonna say I'm gonna say, Trish, what do you think
the odds are that I'm going to go out and
I'm gonn to meet somebody's like you go to unrealistic,
that's unrealistic. But you want you want something, you want respectful,
you want something that is really cherishes the supposed Let's

(10:16):
call Trish right now, read the tweet to her and
ask her how she feels. Again, why would I do
that and risk her? It doesn't matter. She doesn't see,
it doesn't matter. She follows our Twitter. She's gonnareat So
if you don't get a ship right that, let's call

(10:37):
He says. I'm saying you're now you're taking it to
a whole new level of bringing up and like and
like including her him a little bit dead inside right now,
cannot include her on him. You know this podcast by
the time, whoever's listening to this podcast, you know it's listenable.
Now people can listen, listen, listen to if I go
on if I go on the radio show or a

(10:58):
podcast or on Twitter. And I say, even though my
wife doesn't follow me on social media, she wants nothing
to do with my career. She's not into the radio thing.
If I go on the air and I say, yeah,
my wife slipped in the kitchen. By the time I
get home, she's like, oh, so I slipped in the kitchen.
Everybody will tell her that I mentioned her or name,

(11:19):
or I said she sneezed. She knows, right, So your
wife knows. So think about what you think about if
your wife tweeted. If your wife tweeted, God, I wish
I could bang some dude, but I'm married. Okay, you'd
be like, I'd be upset about that. I actually don't
think you're being either. It's not being completely truthful with us,

(11:40):
with yourself, I am being are so worried about her
finding out because you keep saying no, no, no, Why
would you do that? You wouldn't have tweeted that in
the first place. I'm I'm not lying to anybody. You're
not fully connected with how you feel. You would not
have put out the universe. I really didn't want your
wife to ever find I don't believe that everybody can
act really have these understandings that I'm explaining. There's a

(12:03):
difference between from me. There is a difference between doing
with someone and caring is doing. I don't mean someone
doesn't want something to be I don't think that hurts
someone on Twitter. Let's pretend that everybody in this room
and everyone listening to the podcast. Let's pretend Danielle changes
her mind and stay, let's pause, everybody listening to this
podcast suddenly agrees with you. Okay, none of that matters,

(12:25):
because your wife doesn't want you banging anybody else. But
I wouldn't want to get caught and I wouldn't want
her to know that any Hold on, a second, hold on,
here's the thing. We we are not living up to
our end of the bar. Because Greg t came on
and said, and I stated, can we have a level
head of commodations? Say because I'm curious to see the popcorn.

(12:50):
Hold on, I'm Kermit the Frog with his fucking lifting
tea right now going into the bush. I'm Michael Jackson
and Thriller video eating my popcorn. I'm watching you go.
This topic gets everybody's so angry, fucking stupid. It is
not that you put on Twitter in front of millions
of people that you're fine cheating on your wife, but

(13:11):
that you don't want her to know. Right that kick
if I'm Trish right, I'm reading this and I'm going
Holy sh it. I need to check his phone. You
know what she's reading, find out if he's cheating. Has
he cheated? I have a million questions and I'm not
trusting your asset. You know what reading she's reading and
going so stupid he writes these stupid Okay, so then

(13:35):
you take advantage of it, and then you go and
sleep with whoever you want. It happens. You have to
make sense of your guys. This makes sense and of
you guys, because I'm thinking about this as we we're
sitting here, right, He's right, I haven't said it yet. Uh,
you are thinking about he thinks that it's less it's
less meaningful that he just went out and had sex.

(13:56):
It didn't mean anything, right, But I'm thinking about with
if my significant they're cheated on me. Right, if she
met a guy and they hit it off, that a
million things in common, and they had like a six
month eight month relationship, they worked together, whatever, and over
time it's happened because they got so close and learned
so much about each other and fell in love. I
would be upset, But wouldn't I be more upset if

(14:17):
she just met some guy meant nothing and she banged
them and she might be worse. It might actually be
worse for me that she didn't even love the guy
and was willing to hurt me just for an orgasm.
I think it's worse cheating sensitive. Any type of cheating hurts,

(14:38):
you know, obviously, But if you have that much disrespect
for our relationship that you're just going out and having
sex with someone you just met in a bar and
couldn't give two ships about, that's why you have two
kids at home. I don't think it's minute morning show.
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