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August 21, 2024 5 mins

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In today's episode, Azura reveals her form of contraception and Stace & Charlie have some questions. 

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
The Flavor Podcast Network. You're listening to Staci, Zarah and
Charlie's Off the Record, your record.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
Welcome to Off the Record with Stacah and Charlie, where
we took about things they didn't go on the radio,
or in this case, we're on the radio. But we
need to run it back because it happened actually a
couple of times on today's show where you know, you
guys were talking about, oh, you know, normalized having your
kids looked after so you can have time alone, and
then there was a hearing about the enrollment thing and

(00:34):
trying to get your kids into students schools, and then
there's so much chat about just how much admind kids are.
I don't know, man, it's really it is a little
bit putting me off.

Speaker 1 (00:44):
See, I never thought about that, like, you know, all
the admin and or the headaches and all that that
it brings when I was planning on having kids. Actually
I didn't even plan on having kids. It just happened.

Speaker 2 (00:56):
Funny that, Charlie, I'm not surprised.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
We need to have a talk about how it happens.
But no, so you're blissfully unaware of it. And of course,
I mean you can have an opinion on how other
people are rolling with it, but you don't know until
it's your child. And I used to work with this
guy and his random statement was that kids are like farts.

Speaker 4 (01:11):
You don't like. You only like your own, not other people's.
I've heard that.

Speaker 2 (01:16):
Though, way like people find other kids annoying, but then
their own kids they can tolerate, which just makes sense.

Speaker 3 (01:21):
But that thing around you're going, oh, this sounds like
a lot of admin and you definitely do have to shift.
Like I had a friend and I kind of stopped.
I just eased off the friendship a bit because she
was quite a selfish person.

Speaker 4 (01:32):
She was quite self.

Speaker 3 (01:33):
Absorbed, and I realized that when I would look after
her a lot, and then when it came to me
needing a bit of support, I realized she was so
not there for me. She'd just say I don't know
what to say, so anyway, and then she just wasn't.

Speaker 4 (01:47):
Then I thought, Okay, you don't want that person.

Speaker 3 (01:50):
But that person now has four children and she is
so different. Wow, she's an incredible mother. She does everything
she's like, she blows me away with how much she does,
and she's clearly put all the energy into them, and
she's not that selfish person anymore. So it definitely does
change people.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
Wow kids.

Speaker 2 (02:11):
Yeah, I think for me it was just like hearing
about obviously as someone that I really love. I really
love my downtime. I really love I love.

Speaker 4 (02:20):
Yeah, your downtime is out the gate.

Speaker 2 (02:22):
I love laying down, Okay, I love being horizontal. It's
kind of my thing. I will genuinely work in my
beard like you. I actually do most of my work
in my beard because I like the feeling. And so,
you know, hearing like, oh, yeah, we got some uninterrupted
phone time me and my wife.

Speaker 4 (02:39):
This is what you said.

Speaker 2 (02:39):
Tellie, we've got an uninterrupted phone time because our kid's
got babysit. And I'm like, oh my god, yeah, but
just kill me to pay as well, like babysitting. Now
they think about it, my uncle paid me to baby kids,
and I'm.

Speaker 4 (02:52):
Like, oh my god, you've got to pay for time.

Speaker 3 (02:54):
But when you are with your kids and these conversations
you have with them, you will remember your whole life.
Like all your little toddler has to do is hold
your face and tell you that they love you, and
tell you something completely random or or.

Speaker 4 (03:07):
Just their first words. All of those things. They are gold. Honestly,
all of your life, I've been lying down on my bed. Yeah,
way better.

Speaker 1 (03:15):
But I say this, you know, I mean when I
talk about the kids, weren't talk about the things. Bro,
they do your head and.

Speaker 4 (03:21):
Yeah, this is what I mean. I know, and people
ticks in the same sort of thing. I'm like, what's
the good?

Speaker 1 (03:26):
There's so much good in having children? And I say
this like, you know my son, no, he's four years old,
but bro, like every time I don't know what it is,
but your kids, they could sort of feel that something's
not right. So okay, this is off off the record saying.
And I had a bit of an argument like this
is a few months ago, and he knew. I went

(03:46):
into the lounge and I was trying to watch TV.
He comes and he starts paying my back and he's like.

Speaker 4 (03:50):
Oh that you right?

Speaker 2 (03:51):
That are you right?

Speaker 1 (03:52):
And it's those moments they're like, oh, bro, that just
changes the way I felt like, you know at that
time about saying it. Then I go into the room
apologize and it's just like there's a massive shift when
your kids are involved in anything, you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (04:08):
And that's so perceptive.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (04:10):
Yeah, And I remember we talked about the way to
have the fuddy, like what do you want your house
to feel like? In your home to feel like and
when it's centered around kids, and yes it's busy and
but but like I'm getting to the end of that
and already anticipating and feeling sad for the times that
are the last time is already.

Speaker 4 (04:28):
Yeah, it's funny, so sad, so sad.

Speaker 3 (04:33):
I can't every day I'm carrying around like this anticipation
of grief.

Speaker 4 (04:37):
Stop. I can't think.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
Look, she's gonna start cheering up. So I was watching
this you could be like, you could be like he
still got my little cousin living there.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
And I know I was watching this real the other
day and it was about a mom like, you know,
she used to complain about picking up, you know, after
the kids in all this, but now the kids are gone,
that's what she misses.

Speaker 2 (05:01):
You know.

Speaker 4 (05:02):
That does make me say that I don't even have kids.

Speaker 2 (05:06):
She's tearing up, beautiful broad.

Speaker 4 (05:09):
It's the beast and it's fall on. It's a privilege.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
Thanks for listening to Stace Azura and Charlie's off the record.

Speaker 3 (05:15):
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