September 1, 2024 • 6 mins
Welcome to Flava Breakfast’s Off the Record – an exclusive short, sweet and a little bit juicy chat you won’t hear anywhere else. In today’s episode Charlie meets his primary school bully and shares some details that were not safe for radio...
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
This is the Flavor Podcast Network. You're listening to Staycissura
and Charlie's Off the Record your record.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Welcome to Off the Record, where we ship things that
we didn't show on the radio.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yes. So I ran into my primary school bully. Okay,
and bear in mind, this guy is two years older
than me, and I was honestly scared of this guy.
That's the honest true because when you were younger or
now now, when I was younger, because you know everything
at that age, like maybe eight nine, everyone who's older
(00:38):
than you just seems like they're giants, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Yeah, and you can't get the context of time to
go one day, it won't always be like that. That
was your every day was a hellish and scary because
of him.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I think the the one that
really got me was when my dad bought McDonald's school
and he took it bro I it was just like
d Bone when he goes around riding his bike, this
is Friday and he gets everyone's changed.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
He was that bully.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
That's how he looked, right. And I promised myself, my
eight year old self, that if I was to ever
see him, and I grew up. I was gonna smash him, bro,
Like not.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Honestly, was it like something that motivated you to be
fit and to be strong? Is that part of it?
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
And no I was alreaally quite sporty, but I mean.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
You know it's just smaller.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Yeah, I didn't really have courage, but like you know,
I mean there was there was like a little voice
in me at that time when I was getting bullied,
just saying, stand out for yourself, Charlie. But you know,
I mean I just couldn't, you know, I just couldn't
find I mean, I couldn't find that. But then then again,
like I would tell my older brother, you know what
I mean, it was just that whole bro, just go
(01:51):
back to school and fight him. It was that mentality
like that's the only way you could face this. Even
though my brother would have annihilated this guy, but it
was my fight, know at the end of the yeah,
yeah yeah. So then I said to myself, but if
I was ever going to see this guy, bro, I
was going to smash him, like no doubt. And then
I ran into him on Saturday morning at the gym
Steady Fitness at all places where maybe if I have
(02:15):
to see him outside somewhere else. Maybe the field would
have been different, but because we were in a public
setting and people were around.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
Like, it wasn't a nightclub, if it wasn't.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
A nightclub car park. Broy one hundred percent.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
I love how it's so specific to a nightclub car
park because we know what happened. You know, when you
when you ran into him, you didn't bring up the bullying,
didn't say anything about that.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
You did not smash him. You just had a normal conversation.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
And you know, I was on the steermaster and that's
my little place I looked in my life, and the
school bully is walking on the steermaster, you know, just
right beside me. I didn't recognize him at first, it
wasn't at all. We both switched off our steer master machine.
And then he goes, did you go to Mayfield Primary School?
(03:02):
And I was like, yeah, yeah, you know, like in
between me explaining to him that I did go Medfield
Primary School, bro, the face just registed, this is the guy.
What am I going to do right here? Honestly, that
was a question that came like, you know, to my mind,
what am I going to do? Am I going to
(03:22):
just beck him because they could have been the easiest option.
But when I did look at him, bro, you know
this guy was in a position where he needed the help.
You know what I mean, if you physically I'm talking physically.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
This is the part you didn't say in the radio, right, Yeah,
like I say, you would have been the belief you
hit him as that were.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Honestly, if anyone like was to see like anything go
down without any context, I would have looked like the idiot,
you know.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
What, A tough guy like. You're a trainer, you know,
big dude, exactly because the tables a change, the tables
have turned.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
He's obviously working in mental health now, but then again
he's he's diabetic and he really needs to get the
fitness in all this, and like so he's the one
that needs to help now, but he's you know, I mean,
I couldn't. I couldn't do that, bro, Like, it's not
in me to do this. If ever, and I'm not
a violent persson. You guys know this, But if it
was to go down, I'm not going to back down.
That's the honest truth.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
But isn't it right that you had it in your
head that you would mention when you saw him, but
in reality it would have to be basically a rerun
of him bullying you. For you to get to that, I.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Would have needed him to say something along the lines
like reason as you give your hiding here school, then
you know what?
Speaker 2 (04:39):
You know what? But all I have to say, And look,
I don't I don't know if this is kind of mean,
but I'm just going to say it come as a
come as a birch, you know, to everybody. If he's
bullying kids around school, sometimes it does happen, you know.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
I mean, yeah, bro, and it's I mean, when the
when the guy's pops up every now and then, it's
just like that the kid, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
But it's true.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Some people love friend your here because you said that
that was the case. And then you realize that was
built up in your mind. This is the energy that
I'm giving them they don't even know about. So now
you're free. You don't able to.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Do that now, and you're like, okay, cool.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
And like I said, I rang my my best mate
from primary school. Remember so and so so, and we
had a little moment. Yeah, I remember when you took
a McDonald's Like yeah, bruh ran until I met the
you know, and it was that. It was that and
going back to what you're saying now that's off my
chest and off my mind. It's just like I feel
for him. I want to help him now, you know
what I mean, like and all honestly hand on hot
(05:42):
like it's I wanted to say something like, bro, I
can help you, but I needed some time to get
over this. You know. It's not something that I'm going
to immediately get.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
At them again. Be interesting to see if you heard this.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
I know, and you're to be ready for that next well,
if he does hear this, then it'll be like we'll
have this conversation now.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Please still wants.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
To no, no, no, Holy what shall be s?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Thanks for listening to Stace, Azura and Charlie's Off the Record.
Catch them live every weekday from six am on Flavor
This is the Flavor Podcast Network. You're listening to Staycissura
and Charlie's Off the Record your record.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Welcome to Off the Record, where we ship things that
we didn't show on the radio.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yes. So I ran into my primary school bully. Okay,
and bear in mind, this guy is two years older
than me, and I was honestly scared of this guy.
That's the honest true because when you were younger or
now now, when I was younger, because you know everything
at that age, like maybe eight nine, everyone who's older
(00:38):
than you just seems like they're giants, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Yeah, and you can't get the context of time to
go one day, it won't always be like that. That
was your every day was a hellish and scary because
of him.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I think the the one that
really got me was when my dad bought McDonald's school
and he took it bro I it was just like
d Bone when he goes around riding his bike, this
is Friday and he gets everyone's changed.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
He was that bully.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
That's how he looked, right. And I promised myself, my
eight year old self, that if I was to ever
see him, and I grew up. I was gonna smash him, bro,
Like not.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Honestly, was it like something that motivated you to be
fit and to be strong? Is that part of it?
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
And no I was alreaally quite sporty, but I mean.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
You know it's just smaller.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Yeah, I didn't really have courage, but like you know,
I mean there was there was like a little voice
in me at that time when I was getting bullied,
just saying, stand out for yourself, Charlie. But you know,
I mean I just couldn't, you know, I just couldn't
find I mean, I couldn't find that. But then then again,
like I would tell my older brother, you know what
I mean, it was just that whole bro, just go
(01:51):
back to school and fight him. It was that mentality
like that's the only way you could face this. Even
though my brother would have annihilated this guy, but it
was my fight, know at the end of the yeah,
yeah yeah. So then I said to myself, but if
I was ever going to see this guy, bro, I
was going to smash him, like no doubt. And then
I ran into him on Saturday morning at the gym
Steady Fitness at all places where maybe if I have
(02:15):
to see him outside somewhere else. Maybe the field would
have been different, but because we were in a public
setting and people were around.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
Like, it wasn't a nightclub, if it wasn't.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
A nightclub car park. Broy one hundred percent.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
I love how it's so specific to a nightclub car
park because we know what happened. You know, when you
when you ran into him, you didn't bring up the bullying,
didn't say anything about that.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
You did not smash him. You just had a normal conversation.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
And you know, I was on the steermaster and that's
my little place I looked in my life, and the
school bully is walking on the steermaster, you know, just
right beside me. I didn't recognize him at first, it
wasn't at all. We both switched off our steer master machine.
And then he goes, did you go to Mayfield Primary School?
(03:02):
And I was like, yeah, yeah, you know, like in
between me explaining to him that I did go Medfield
Primary School, bro, the face just registed, this is the guy.
What am I going to do right here? Honestly, that
was a question that came like, you know, to my mind,
what am I going to do? Am I going to
(03:22):
just beck him because they could have been the easiest option.
But when I did look at him, bro, you know
this guy was in a position where he needed the help.
You know what I mean, if you physically I'm talking physically.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
This is the part you didn't say in the radio, right, Yeah,
like I say, you would have been the belief you
hit him as that were.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Honestly, if anyone like was to see like anything go
down without any context, I would have looked like the idiot,
you know.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
What, A tough guy like. You're a trainer, you know,
big dude, exactly because the tables a change, the tables
have turned.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
He's obviously working in mental health now, but then again
he's he's diabetic and he really needs to get the
fitness in all this, and like so he's the one
that needs to help now, but he's you know, I mean,
I couldn't. I couldn't do that, bro, Like, it's not
in me to do this. If ever, and I'm not
a violent persson. You guys know this, But if it
was to go down, I'm not going to back down.
That's the honest truth.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
But isn't it right that you had it in your
head that you would mention when you saw him, but
in reality it would have to be basically a rerun
of him bullying you. For you to get to that, I.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Would have needed him to say something along the lines
like reason as you give your hiding here school, then
you know what?
Speaker 2 (04:39):
You know what? But all I have to say, And look,
I don't I don't know if this is kind of mean,
but I'm just going to say it come as a
come as a birch, you know, to everybody. If he's
bullying kids around school, sometimes it does happen, you know.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
I mean, yeah, bro, and it's I mean, when the
when the guy's pops up every now and then, it's
just like that the kid, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
But it's true.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Some people love friend your here because you said that
that was the case. And then you realize that was
built up in your mind. This is the energy that
I'm giving them they don't even know about. So now
you're free. You don't able to.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Do that now, and you're like, okay, cool.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
And like I said, I rang my my best mate
from primary school. Remember so and so so, and we
had a little moment. Yeah, I remember when you took
a McDonald's Like yeah, bruh ran until I met the
you know, and it was that. It was that and
going back to what you're saying now that's off my
chest and off my mind. It's just like I feel
for him. I want to help him now, you know
what I mean, like and all honestly hand on hot
(05:42):
like it's I wanted to say something like, bro, I
can help you, but I needed some time to get
over this. You know. It's not something that I'm going
to immediately get.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
At them again. Be interesting to see if you heard this.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
I know, and you're to be ready for that next well,
if he does hear this, then it'll be like we'll
have this conversation now.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Please still wants.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
To no, no, no, Holy what shall be s?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Thanks for listening to Stace, Azura and Charlie's Off the Record.
Catch them live every weekday from six am on Flavor
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