July 5, 2024 • 23 mins
Our favourite moments from the show this week - The foods that a 100-year-old swears by, why women hat clutter more than men and whether this bride has overreacted to something her groom did
0:00 What is a Medium Friend
3:05 Has This Bride Overreacted
11:10 How to Live to 100
16:50 Why Women Hate Clutter
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Tony Jason Sam's Best show Moments podcast, The
very Best of Coasts Feel Good Breakfast this week.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Variety is the spice of life.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
And if you're lucky enough to have a few friends,
you'll know that they're all very different and they all
give you different things. And it's not a cool thing
to rank your friendships, but the reality is you are
closest to some people than you are others.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Right, that's my friends are.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
That's true.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
You've got really close friends, you got associates, you got acquaintances.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
It's thin to say it, but there's a hierarchy.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Well, well, you just have different levels of friendship, right,
And that doesn't mean that one of your acquaintances or
your non besties can't be a really important person in
your life. Absolutely, And sometimes those friends actually surprise you
and can be there for you when you really need them.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
And I love that.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
So you've got to keep open to that. But have
you ever heard the term of a medium friend? But
a psychic friend, not a friend that happens to be
of average height, size, but.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
A medium friend is this? So the medium friend makes
you laugh.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
They bring you news, they offer insights or expertise, but
unlike your closest friends, the medium friends test the limits
of your patients, right, so that there is a certain
type of friend that you actually want them in your life.
You love what they bring, sure, but they also annoy
the hell out of you at times. Okay, And look,
sometimes that can be your closest friends too, let's be honest.
(01:26):
And it can certainly be your acquaintances, and it can
actually also bring It can also be people that aren't
your friends. They just annoy you, but they cannot also
be useful. And so what I've read this article in
the New York Times and I thought it was really good,
and because the vexing problem of how to deal with
the medium friends. You know, the friends that you actually
you like them. You really like them because you know
they're a good person and they can be really fun
(01:48):
and you have a good time with them, but they
also irk you.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Something chronic.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
It's that friends you have to apologize for in advance, like, oh,
she's a really nice one.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
You get to know you ye, that friend.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Ay, And sometimes that person could be someone that you've
been friends with and you've got such a shared history
that you just you don't even notice they have any
flaws anymore because it's them and you love them for
who they are.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
But other people might go, did she just say that?
And you're like, Oh, I don't worry, it's just what
she says all the time you and you're okay with it.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
So the answer is you have to acknowledge that that
person this is, according to the article, acknowledge that they
are a medium friend. So acknowledge that sometimes when you
hang out with them, they're going to annoy the hell
out of you. And apparently acknowledging that and labeling them
in your own space and your own head as a
medium friend helps you deal with the situations where they're
inevitably going to annoy you.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
So they'll annoy you, but that's okay.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
That's okay if you're expecting it, is what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
But you obviously still like them and love them enough
that you want to stay friends with them, so just
let that side of it roll over you.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
So maybe that's the exercise you all need to go through.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Do you have a medium friend that you still won
in your life because they're so awesome in many ways,
you know they're going to irk you, but don't let
it ruin your friendship right right, names down in a secure,
lockable notebook and.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Never tell, never tell anyone.
Speaker 5 (03:05):
So this is this woman and she wanted to get married,
and so her boyfriend finally proposed to her.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
She goes, yeah, my dreams about to come true. Let's
do this.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
And so what's happened is the winning Winterhead. But the
very next day she has ended her marriage. She wants
to get it an nulled.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
So for it.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Can you just tell me how long do we know?
How long they've been together?
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Yeah, they've been.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Together for a few years. Yeah, so actually he proposed
back in twenty twenty. There's been a long engagement and
so that's what she says. I never really cared too
much about it. We will talk on about half the
responsibility for organizing the winning. So so far he's taking
on half the responsibility for the winning. A lot of
grooms don't do that.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
So far.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
I like the guy, right, so pretty Reasonableut the compromise
when he really wanted something, he compromised and I compromised.
It was so so far, the partnership's working. They've been
together a while. But a take that's cool, Okay. The
next day of the relationship was over because the one
thing she did not want, she did not want. You
know how everyone does it down again, a little cute
to you to cut the cake, and like they're pushing
(03:57):
each other's face, like, oh, you know, you go to
white the cake.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
And he pushes it face.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Yeah. Usually that's just like a little bit just above
the last half of the photo.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Smithe devising on the nose, and that about it, right,
So she'd I don't want that.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
Please just don't put any cake on my face. I
don't wantny cake on my face.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
I think it usually started with the groom or the
bride actually feeding a piece of cake to them right hand.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Yeah, the first bite, that's it.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
So anyway, not only did he not listen to her,
what he's gone and done is he grabbed it by
the back of the head and smashed her face into
the cake in front of everyone. And everyone was like, oh,
we don't even laugh or clapp or do what.
Speaker 6 (04:31):
You know.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
She stood up, wiped the thing off, and he was
obviously not just the spur of the moment, because what
he did is he organized cupcakes as the backup cake,
so he ruined the first cake with her face and
then brought.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Out the cupcakes. Everybody, here, you go, here.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
You go.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
I have so many emotions about this.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
First of all, don't ruin my makeup on my big
wedding day, she said. Secondly, you've ruined the cake that
probably cost half a mortgage, so good one, buddy. Thirdly,
she specifically asked for you not to do it.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
But that's where I have my problem. She asked, and
he still did it. So the next day she goes,
I can't.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Be with this guy, But do I think it's worth
divorcing someone over because I don't think this guy.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
I don't think this is a one off of this guy.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
I think this guy is a prankster, and I think
she knew that he was like that, at least not
pretend he's just randomly gone rogue, Because I can tell
you categorically right now, Jason Reeves, you would never have
done that to your bride on the wedding date. My
husband would never have done that to me. You can't
usually know the type of person they are. At least
he's gone fully rogue, which I doubt it. I suspect
she should have ended this long before the wedding. Update
(05:31):
is what I'm saying I think he was bad news.
Why do it long before he slammed her face into
a cape?
Speaker 4 (05:38):
I think she's done the right thing.
Speaker 5 (05:39):
People are now saying she's ever reacted, though, so she's
copying a bit of feedback from this bit of backlash.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Skin. Come on, it's a bit of a joke. No
one got hurt.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
What if it's the straw that broke the camel's back?
What if he was on his last like, I'll give
him one more shots.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
I just think it's the straw because she asked them specifically.
She made it clear I don't want this to happen. Please,
don't let it happen. And he didn't just push it
in her face. He pushed her face into the cave.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
But what if he was an amazing What if he
was Jason Reeves up until that point?
Speaker 6 (06:04):
Nope?
Speaker 2 (06:04):
And Jason Reeves has had a brain explosion. No, you're
not divorcing him?
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Are yet?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
He doesn't giving him another job.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Jason Reave doesn't get another shot with that in my
parma for him? Know whose side are you on? What
do you reckon? Has she ever reacted or is this
fair enough?
Speaker 5 (06:16):
I eight hundred double O forecast I flick it six
to two six nine nine. This, by the way, is
going right through the media in Australia. A lot of
people taking sides of this right now. This is the
husband and bride we're talking about it. If you just
turned your radio on. A couple of minutes ago, we
talked about this bride who leading up to the wedding
her fiance, her groom to be said I'll take care
of half the wedding. She's like, what an amazing man. Sure,
so they shared the operational duties, right. But she had
(06:38):
one request on the day, please don't push any cake
into my face. It's kind of been there, done that.
I don't want any cake on my face on the
big day. So you think, aol, it's the one wish,
just do that as he grabbed the back of her
head and pushed her into the cake like that.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
I just feel like this guy.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
The fact that she even had to say that to
her groom, I mean, I just know that my husband
would never have done that because he's not a twit.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
I just feel like this guy. She should have ditched
long before the big dam.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Look, I'm glad she has now, but I feel like
the story is kind of slightly skewed because everyone's going,
oh my gosh, she got rid of him just for that.
I don't think so. I think this was the last
and a long line of dumb behavior from this guy.
Speaker 5 (07:19):
Yeah, so, she said, at that moment, at that very moment,
she knew she couldn't spend the rest of her life
with this man.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
But she went through with the ceremony. She went through
the rest of the night. You know, the reception.
Speaker 5 (07:27):
You were on, chinking the glasses, doing speeches and things.
But the next morning she woke up sick and she goes,
you know what, No, this is over. I can't do this.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
So the very next day she tried to get the wedding.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
And old, well will he ruined her big day, didn't he?
Speaker 4 (07:37):
I agree not to mention her makeup and there's probably
cake on the dress.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Can you hear?
Speaker 4 (07:44):
How could you?
Speaker 6 (07:45):
So?
Speaker 5 (07:45):
I'm with you, I'm with the bride on this, Corey.
What do your take? What's your take?
Speaker 7 (07:50):
I think in any relationship demands looking reason, respect on
both sides, And I mean to divorce over a cake,
but then for her not to respect her wishes even
when she used the word please, you know, it's at
the start of the relationship, there's alarm bells already and
that they can't look through that. Then obviously it's a
(08:12):
good decision, probably not to me, for both of them.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
Yeah, I agree, he totally didn't respect it. He should
have known that this was not going to go well
for him, and it's like he purposely sabotaged.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
Well, the thing with me is so premeditated. He had
the backup cupcakes that she didn't know about, do you.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
Know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (08:27):
He's just like, get rid of them.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
She deserves better, Like, why are these women sticking with
these douches?
Speaker 4 (08:33):
She's not What are your thoughts?
Speaker 8 (08:39):
Basically, my retired wedding photographers, like forty years of weddings
in Australia around the Pacific New Zealand.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
You'd have seen this.
Speaker 7 (08:48):
I've seen some pretty crazy stuff.
Speaker 8 (08:50):
The fact that, as Tony said, a bit of a
douche was premeditated. But I think for listeners here, I've
seen alcohol do some crazy crazy you from brid End groom,
So yeah, I think one of the most disturbing things
(09:13):
is when you do a wedding and the groom's actually
got a roving.
Speaker 6 (09:16):
Eye and then pretty much.
Speaker 8 (09:19):
We're right in your assumption that they're no longer together.
So that's probably for me, probably a lot worse than
our face plant.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
But yeah, there we go, teamank you writing this down
for the new TV and Z series Confessions of a
Wedding Photographer, I'd watch, watch, watch.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
How sad? Is that?
Speaker 3 (09:41):
Like hold your alcohol in a roving iron your weddings?
Speaker 4 (09:44):
Disgusting?
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Oh my, just I just don't know how these people
don't understand that that's what they were like before the
wedding and then they're still going.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Through with it.
Speaker 4 (09:52):
The photographers. Is that everyone's.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Everyone said, but you know what it's like, love can
be blind sometimes that's what you.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Get told through.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
One more Julie, what are your thoughts on this whole thing?
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Yeah, I kind of agree.
Speaker 7 (10:05):
I think there was probably red flags before the wedding,
but you get.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Caught up in the moment and you think, you know,
you always see the better in the honeymoon phase. And yeah,
I totally agree with her this, it's the trust thing.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
She specifically asked him.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
If she hadn't asked him, well, then yeah, but she
specifically said, no.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
Do you think do you think do you think that
you know he had too much to drink is an
acceptable excuse?
Speaker 2 (10:35):
Well, it depends how far through Yeah no, yeah.
Speaker 5 (10:37):
No, I want you because he had the backup cupcakes
was he wasn't drunk. When you organize this and every
single of about our two texts, every other text has
come from on two sixth nine nine seen the same thing,
she did the right thing to run yep.
Speaker 4 (10:50):
Good.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Can we just say take face is not a cool
thing at a wedding.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I don't even think i'd want my husband to have
done it at my fortieth day.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
You've been told Matte.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Coasts, Feel Good Breakfast, Best Show Moments podcast This week's
very best of Tony's Street, Jays Reeves and Sam Wallace.
Speaker 4 (11:09):
If you're having breakfast right about now, what are yourmly
putting your bowl? Do you have for a bit of week.
Speaker 5 (11:12):
Biks but a corn flakes, put of rice, bubbles, maybe
some toast, maybe some muffins with peanut.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Butter on it.
Speaker 3 (11:17):
That's what I have, Jason, for my benefit, I'll often
have a muffin split with some Actually I'm having coconut
slash banana peanut butter at the moment, which sounds a
bit gross, but don't worry. I can't taste it because
I've got no sense of smell. I've actually brought.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
An Amanda NDA have today to up my vitamin C.
Speaker 4 (11:33):
Go you nice.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
I don't think we have enough fruit now, diets, I think,
well I don't, do you I try? I have.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
I've had a banana already this morning, So now you have.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
So you're not fasting these.
Speaker 4 (11:42):
Days now, I'm trying, not trying to get the metabolism going.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
That's a good idea. I was worried about you not
eating it.
Speaker 4 (11:47):
Slippertty eggs.
Speaker 5 (11:48):
Yeah, so No, there's one hundred year old woman still
working six days a week, and she's revealed the foods
that she relies on to maintain her health and her youth.
The habit she's cut out is alcohol. She doesn't do
booze anymore. Okay, she's catching not booze on the head.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
I reckon if I was one hundred and hold, she's
beg one hundred one hundred. I reckon, I'd be downing
the gens a if.
Speaker 4 (12:07):
I'm working six days a week in the furniture store.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Definitely, the fact that she's doing that she must be Wow,
she must have a good body.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Not be sore, or.
Speaker 5 (12:16):
That's no eggs and pains, perhaps no creeks under By
the way, if you're doing drive toly Go, you three days,
then keep it up.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
Well done.
Speaker 5 (12:20):
But this is a woman called Marion, and she's living proof.
You really are as old as you feel. She's now saying,
I feel amazing, and these are the secrets to my lifestyle. Okay,
so even now and again she shouts herself a little
bit of dark chocolate as her treat.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
Only dark chocolate. She's one of those people, just have
the milk.
Speaker 5 (12:36):
But there are three foods she swears by for her
active life.
Speaker 4 (12:40):
Cucumbers, ah. Number three, she loves cumbers.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
I didn't think they had that much nutritional value.
Speaker 4 (12:45):
I thought that pretty much water.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
I have cucumber a lot, a little slice, and a
certain drink.
Speaker 4 (12:51):
You're almost like Marion. Number two she loves soauer kraut.
She just puts sour crowd.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
On everything fermented food. Yeah, but sher gut health will
be good.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
But what's the number one thing she swears by? Do
you think you numbers?
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Sour crouch? I look, it's not inspiring me at the moment.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
No.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
I hope it's some form of carbohydrate.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
No, it's not.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Of course it's not, because she's done so well.
Speaker 4 (13:13):
So what do you think it is? It's this. It's
a one hundred year old woman.
Speaker 5 (13:16):
She's working six days a week and she swears by cucumbers,
sour kraut, and number one. What is the number one
food on her list she eats is often? She again,
maybe twice a day. So what do you think it is?
Speaker 4 (13:26):
Have a think? It's it's something you and I have
access to all over the place.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
It's really access to Do we eat it?
Speaker 6 (13:31):
Though?
Speaker 4 (13:32):
Yeah? You you probably more than me. Oh okay, what
do you reckon? I eight hundred double O four coast
or flick?
Speaker 5 (13:37):
It takes to two six nine one if anyone gets
us right before half past the number one thing this
woman swears by at the age of one hundred. This
is a woman who names Marian, and she's in New
Jersey and she works a staggery staggering fifty hour week
at the age.
Speaker 4 (13:49):
Of one hundred.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
She's not even doing part time house. Different story for it.
I hope she flogs some couches off at the furniture store.
Speaker 5 (13:56):
I just hope she's not building the furniture of this age.
She's behind the counter.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
I mean, I trust Mary. And if I was going
to buy an arm chair, you.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
Want to get to pull out sofa Mary, and you woman.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
She's been there, done that.
Speaker 5 (14:07):
So she works six days a week and she's at
the spinach store, and she swears by three types of food.
She eats this every day, cucumbers, sour kraut, and something
else you eat every.
Speaker 4 (14:16):
Single day for her longevity. What do you think it is, Colin.
Speaker 6 (14:20):
It's definitely beetret berea. It's been classed by top down
you tristlus. It's a super food.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
Yeah, it's really good for the blood.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
As it's not beetroot, Colin.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
I'm actually I'm actually quite glad it's not Colin, because
beetroop gives me a shivery reaction like when I I
don't know, it's like I'm kind of allergic.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
I get that, the shutters when I try and eat it.
Speaker 4 (14:46):
I don't get I've never been a huge fan of
beetroot anyway.
Speaker 5 (14:48):
But people who put beetroot in a burger and everything,
and it bleeds through the whole burger.
Speaker 4 (14:51):
It's all pink and yucky.
Speaker 6 (14:52):
Ah nah.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
But some people just they love beatrip producer. Rosie's not
in her head. She's a beetroock gowl.
Speaker 4 (14:59):
Not for me. Then, all right, Dale, what do you
think it is that the Marior eats every single days?
The key to long life. I've had the avocados. You know,
avocado's pretty good to and a lot of people have
that on toast and I get it.
Speaker 5 (15:10):
I understand it. And you've put it in a smoothie
makes it It's just smooth.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
It's not there.
Speaker 3 (15:15):
Can we can we just take a moment for how
great avocado is though.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
Amy, What a beautiful food it is.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
When you get a beautiful ripe avocado, there's nothing better
to add into a salad to make it worthy.
Speaker 5 (15:25):
And that's the key, a Dale, give him the decent
one because I don't know how many times I've been
at the supermarket. You're not supposed touch the avocados, but
I'll give them a little squeeze because I don't I
don't trust.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
You have to.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
Ah, when you get it and it's brown in the middle,
and you've paid like fifteen dollars for one avocado.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
It won't even make guacamoli out of this. All right, Daily,
sitting down, this is what she eats every single day?
Speaker 2 (15:46):
Okay, is it salmon? Because someone has ticked salmon.
Speaker 5 (15:48):
It's a great guest. So it's not salmon, okay, it's tomatoes. Oh,
tomatoes every single day?
Speaker 2 (15:54):
So do you know what? This is controversial? Do you
know why?
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Because tomatoes is classified an inflammatory slash acidic food.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
And I know that because I had to go on
the Forommat diet once and don't even ask me what
that is. It's just one of those weird things.
Speaker 3 (16:08):
When you have an autoimmune disease, they think you think
you're allergic to everything, and tomatoes can be quite reactionary
with some people.
Speaker 4 (16:15):
Is that right?
Speaker 2 (16:16):
So the fact that that's good I like that because
I'm a big tomato fan.
Speaker 5 (16:19):
So I read this last night, right, and I put
it to the test with our kids, and I said,
do you not she eats every single day?
Speaker 4 (16:25):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (16:25):
It's okay, it's a fruit, so it's a veggie, so
I don't know, and it's tomatoes And eight year old said, Dad,
that's not a.
Speaker 4 (16:31):
That's a fruit, not a veggie.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Jase, you should know that by now.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
I should should know that by now. But I'm glad
tomatoes for the wind. Tomatoes for the word tomatoes with everything.
Speaker 4 (16:39):
No, I have a tomato sauce. But that's really about
it is.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
That it's get to the break that's up there.
Speaker 4 (16:45):
I have a child. I get it.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
I want you to tell me if you have ever
had an incident like this where you have suddenly just
decided that you can simply cannot live in your house
anymore unless you soort some things out. Sometimes it starts
for me and and I go, there's a mark on
the fridge, and then I look at the floor and go,
this will not do. And I get the mop out
(17:07):
and I scrub that floor within an inch of its life.
And then I look over and I haven't dusted the mantlepiece.
And then there's these old magazines everywhere and else I
have to get them. And even if I'm tired, and
it's like the stupidest time to be doing it. It
might be five o'clock at a Friday, and my husband
looks at me like, you have literally lost your mind.
I don't know what he's thinking. He's thinking she's got perimetopause.
(17:28):
And I know that he's thinking that, and that makes
me want to kill him.
Speaker 5 (17:31):
Does he does he do one of two things. Does
he get out of the way or does he try
and help out.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
I think in the beginning, remember we've been together for
over twenty years. In the beginning, he might try and
to intervene and say, hey, we don't need to do
it now. He just goes to another room because he
knows I'm just not going to stop until I sort
that out.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
So he's seeking refuge.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
But I'm here to tell you today that there is
a reason for it. And actually we're not all psychos
if we do that.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
Okay, good to know.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
So women, it turns out, and this is scientific knowledge.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
Now, women are more sensitive to clutter than men.
Speaker 3 (18:06):
Cluster increases the stress womone cortisol faster in women compared
to men. So, women, if you're sitting there, going why
does he not care about this mess?
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Why is he not perturbed by that stack.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Of magazines that is blurted all over the lounge? That
is why they just don't care as much.
Speaker 4 (18:24):
And I just don't get it.
Speaker 3 (18:25):
And I think if we I think, if we know that,
it might not make us get as angry. And I think,
as men, if you know that our brains are predisposed
to hating clutter.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
Maybe just maybe you might help us out from time
to time, is what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
Sounded quite aggressive though.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
Also I just want to say, Jason, this is for
the women and you, because we all know that you
hate clutter.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
I'm listening to this trying to be quiet with stand clutter.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
Jace, you have part of this brain, Okay. I always
thought you had a slightly female brain and that's why
we're friends.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
Feel Good Breakfast, Best Show Moments Podcast, The very Best
of Coast's Tony Street, Jace Reeves and Sam Wallas.
Speaker 4 (19:07):
Will they get the ABC's right?
Speaker 5 (19:08):
Tomorrow Night's all of the AB's against England under the
roof in Dunedham and the man who'll be listening to
while he calls that game the dulcet tones of the
brilliant grant In Is it morning?
Speaker 4 (19:17):
There's bow?
Speaker 6 (19:18):
I mean, how are you doing all right?
Speaker 4 (19:20):
Thank you very much? White Colin. You look new coaches?
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 6 (19:24):
Yeah? Look, it's very exciting, isn't it. Really? It's sort
of the unknown the unknown factor. Firstly about the All
Blacks under their new coach and new captain, et cetera,
et cetera, and England also who who come here with
pretty good form. They finished the Six Nations really well.
They beat Japan last a couple of weeks ago, and
they are a genuine opponent, so great excitement around.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
Really, yeah, Nisbo, What do you think Scott Robertson is
going to bring? How will we are actually going to
be able to see his impact? Is it going to
be a different style of rugby? Is it going to
be this risk versus reward selections that I keep hearing about.
How are we going to see his impacts?
Speaker 6 (20:03):
Well, that's a very good question. I don't know the answer,
and that's one of the intrigues about this game really.
I mean, we can only ready go back on seven
years of domination by the Crusaders. Quite frankly played quite
a conservative brand of rugby, but they took their opportunities
when they needed to, and so I think we'll see
(20:23):
a little bit more of the same. I don't think
we'll find out after one game whether the all Backs
have changed their style dramatically. They'll obviously played their strengths
and their strengths how they have a very good backline
and they want to give as much more as they
can to the likes of sebu Reese and Mark Talia
and these sort of blokes. So look, I don't know
whether we can make it. Judgment aren't the game one,
(20:45):
but it will be intriguing and equally intriguing to see
how England play, because England have always been a very
dodgy sort of a team. Showed some real signs at
the end of the Six Nations they were starting to
develop a style of where they actually gave them a
little bit of air.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
Yeah, speaking of the backline of the All Blacks, it's
one thing. You can make a judgment on the fact
that Boden Barrett's being left out of the starting team.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
Did that surprise you or expected?
Speaker 6 (21:13):
Well, look, it surprised me a wee bit, but logically
sitting on the bench chicking cover fifteen and ten and
I guess wing if he had to because he's that quick.
But a great opportunity, isn't it for Stephen Pereferte, who
was named as a fullback in the squad. You're going
to name a bloke on the squad, then you've got
to play him at some point. Has Barrett sort of
(21:34):
got more of a utility role? I think? So, I
guess on reflection, I'm not all that surprised, Okay.
Speaker 5 (21:41):
So it's under the roof, so it should be a
fast game. We know that which is going to suit
us well. That you said it might suit England quite
well as well though, So we're all coming together. We've
got players in our team who just a couple of
weeks ago and we're going here to hear they were
trying to beat each other.
Speaker 4 (21:52):
Now they're teammates. Will that plan into England's hand?
Speaker 6 (21:55):
Though?
Speaker 5 (21:55):
What are you if you had to head to head
to grunners? But what do you think the scoore might
be at the end of all this in the wash up?
Speaker 6 (22:01):
It's a good question, isn't it. Look I'm a loyal
All Black supporter obviously, and I couldn't stand the thought
of England beating us. Actually done it twice before. They
did it here in New Zealand and nineteen sixty three
of all times, way back at Eton Park in nineteen
sixty three, and they did it in the build up
to the two thousand and three World Up on a
(22:21):
terrible night at Wellington. But this, as you say, we
know when you go to dned in these days that
you're going to get fine weather for the game, whether
it's shocking outside or not, it's going to be perfect conditioned.
I think the All Blacks win, but only narrowly. I'm
going maybe by eight.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Okay. I love it, Nesbo, thank you so much.
Speaker 3 (22:38):
And I'm so excited for this weekend because i feel
like Super Rugby was a raging success for the New
Zealand teams and we've got the new Ball Blacks coach,
some exciting new players and I'm frothings.
Speaker 6 (22:49):
So am I?
Speaker 1 (22:49):
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Speaker 2 (00:08):
Variety is the spice of life.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
And if you're lucky enough to have a few friends,
you'll know that they're all very different and they all
give you different things. And it's not a cool thing
to rank your friendships, but the reality is you are
closest to some people than you are others.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Right, that's my friends are.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
That's true.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
You've got really close friends, you got associates, you got acquaintances.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
It's thin to say it, but there's a hierarchy.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Well, well, you just have different levels of friendship, right,
And that doesn't mean that one of your acquaintances or
your non besties can't be a really important person in
your life. Absolutely, And sometimes those friends actually surprise you
and can be there for you when you really need them.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
And I love that.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
So you've got to keep open to that. But have
you ever heard the term of a medium friend? But
a psychic friend, not a friend that happens to be
of average height, size, but.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
A medium friend is this? So the medium friend makes
you laugh.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
They bring you news, they offer insights or expertise, but
unlike your closest friends, the medium friends test the limits
of your patients, right, so that there is a certain
type of friend that you actually want them in your life.
You love what they bring, sure, but they also annoy
the hell out of you at times. Okay, And look,
sometimes that can be your closest friends too, let's be honest.
(01:26):
And it can certainly be your acquaintances, and it can
actually also bring It can also be people that aren't
your friends. They just annoy you, but they cannot also
be useful. And so what I've read this article in
the New York Times and I thought it was really good,
and because the vexing problem of how to deal with
the medium friends. You know, the friends that you actually
you like them. You really like them because you know
they're a good person and they can be really fun
(01:48):
and you have a good time with them, but they
also irk you.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Something chronic.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
It's that friends you have to apologize for in advance, like, oh,
she's a really nice one.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
You get to know you ye, that friend.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Ay, And sometimes that person could be someone that you've
been friends with and you've got such a shared history
that you just you don't even notice they have any
flaws anymore because it's them and you love them for
who they are.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
But other people might go, did she just say that?
And you're like, Oh, I don't worry, it's just what
she says all the time you and you're okay with it.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
So the answer is you have to acknowledge that that
person this is, according to the article, acknowledge that they
are a medium friend. So acknowledge that sometimes when you
hang out with them, they're going to annoy the hell
out of you. And apparently acknowledging that and labeling them
in your own space and your own head as a
medium friend helps you deal with the situations where they're
inevitably going to annoy you.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
So they'll annoy you, but that's okay.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
That's okay if you're expecting it, is what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
But you obviously still like them and love them enough
that you want to stay friends with them, so just
let that side of it roll over you.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
So maybe that's the exercise you all need to go through.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Do you have a medium friend that you still won
in your life because they're so awesome in many ways,
you know they're going to irk you, but don't let
it ruin your friendship right right, names down in a secure,
lockable notebook and.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Never tell, never tell anyone.
Speaker 5 (03:05):
So this is this woman and she wanted to get married,
and so her boyfriend finally proposed to her.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
She goes, yeah, my dreams about to come true. Let's
do this.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
And so what's happened is the winning Winterhead. But the
very next day she has ended her marriage. She wants
to get it an nulled.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
So for it.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Can you just tell me how long do we know?
How long they've been together?
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Yeah, they've been.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Together for a few years. Yeah, so actually he proposed
back in twenty twenty. There's been a long engagement and
so that's what she says. I never really cared too
much about it. We will talk on about half the
responsibility for organizing the winning. So so far he's taking
on half the responsibility for the winning. A lot of
grooms don't do that.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
So far.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
I like the guy, right, so pretty Reasonableut the compromise
when he really wanted something, he compromised and I compromised.
It was so so far, the partnership's working. They've been
together a while. But a take that's cool, Okay. The
next day of the relationship was over because the one
thing she did not want, she did not want. You
know how everyone does it down again, a little cute
to you to cut the cake, and like they're pushing
(03:57):
each other's face, like, oh, you know, you go to
white the cake.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
And he pushes it face.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Yeah. Usually that's just like a little bit just above
the last half of the photo.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Smithe devising on the nose, and that about it, right,
So she'd I don't want that.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
Please just don't put any cake on my face. I
don't wantny cake on my face.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
I think it usually started with the groom or the
bride actually feeding a piece of cake to them right hand.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Yeah, the first bite, that's it.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
So anyway, not only did he not listen to her,
what he's gone and done is he grabbed it by
the back of the head and smashed her face into
the cake in front of everyone. And everyone was like, oh,
we don't even laugh or clapp or do what.
Speaker 6 (04:31):
You know.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
She stood up, wiped the thing off, and he was
obviously not just the spur of the moment, because what
he did is he organized cupcakes as the backup cake,
so he ruined the first cake with her face and
then brought.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Out the cupcakes. Everybody, here, you go, here.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
You go.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
I have so many emotions about this.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
First of all, don't ruin my makeup on my big
wedding day, she said. Secondly, you've ruined the cake that
probably cost half a mortgage, so good one, buddy. Thirdly,
she specifically asked for you not to do it.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
But that's where I have my problem. She asked, and
he still did it. So the next day she goes,
I can't.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Be with this guy, But do I think it's worth
divorcing someone over because I don't think this guy.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
I don't think this is a one off of this guy.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
I think this guy is a prankster, and I think
she knew that he was like that, at least not
pretend he's just randomly gone rogue, Because I can tell
you categorically right now, Jason Reeves, you would never have
done that to your bride on the wedding date. My
husband would never have done that to me. You can't
usually know the type of person they are. At least
he's gone fully rogue, which I doubt it. I suspect
she should have ended this long before the wedding. Update
(05:31):
is what I'm saying I think he was bad news.
Why do it long before he slammed her face into
a cape?
Speaker 4 (05:38):
I think she's done the right thing.
Speaker 5 (05:39):
People are now saying she's ever reacted, though, so she's
copying a bit of feedback from this bit of backlash.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Skin. Come on, it's a bit of a joke. No
one got hurt.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
What if it's the straw that broke the camel's back?
What if he was on his last like, I'll give
him one more shots.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
I just think it's the straw because she asked them specifically.
She made it clear I don't want this to happen. Please,
don't let it happen. And he didn't just push it
in her face. He pushed her face into the cave.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
But what if he was an amazing What if he
was Jason Reeves up until that point?
Speaker 6 (06:04):
Nope?
Speaker 2 (06:04):
And Jason Reeves has had a brain explosion. No, you're
not divorcing him?
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Are yet?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
He doesn't giving him another job.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Jason Reave doesn't get another shot with that in my
parma for him? Know whose side are you on? What
do you reckon? Has she ever reacted or is this
fair enough?
Speaker 5 (06:16):
I eight hundred double O forecast I flick it six
to two six nine nine. This, by the way, is
going right through the media in Australia. A lot of
people taking sides of this right now. This is the
husband and bride we're talking about it. If you just
turned your radio on. A couple of minutes ago, we
talked about this bride who leading up to the wedding
her fiance, her groom to be said I'll take care
of half the wedding. She's like, what an amazing man. Sure,
so they shared the operational duties, right. But she had
(06:38):
one request on the day, please don't push any cake
into my face. It's kind of been there, done that.
I don't want any cake on my face on the
big day. So you think, aol, it's the one wish,
just do that as he grabbed the back of her
head and pushed her into the cake like that.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
I just feel like this guy.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
The fact that she even had to say that to
her groom, I mean, I just know that my husband
would never have done that because he's not a twit.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
I just feel like this guy. She should have ditched
long before the big dam.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Look, I'm glad she has now, but I feel like
the story is kind of slightly skewed because everyone's going,
oh my gosh, she got rid of him just for that.
I don't think so. I think this was the last
and a long line of dumb behavior from this guy.
Speaker 5 (07:19):
Yeah, so, she said, at that moment, at that very moment,
she knew she couldn't spend the rest of her life
with this man.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
But she went through with the ceremony. She went through
the rest of the night. You know, the reception.
Speaker 5 (07:27):
You were on, chinking the glasses, doing speeches and things.
But the next morning she woke up sick and she goes,
you know what, No, this is over. I can't do this.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
So the very next day she tried to get the wedding.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
And old, well will he ruined her big day, didn't he?
Speaker 4 (07:37):
I agree not to mention her makeup and there's probably
cake on the dress.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Can you hear?
Speaker 4 (07:44):
How could you?
Speaker 6 (07:45):
So?
Speaker 5 (07:45):
I'm with you, I'm with the bride on this, Corey.
What do your take? What's your take?
Speaker 7 (07:50):
I think in any relationship demands looking reason, respect on
both sides, And I mean to divorce over a cake,
but then for her not to respect her wishes even
when she used the word please, you know, it's at
the start of the relationship, there's alarm bells already and
that they can't look through that. Then obviously it's a
(08:12):
good decision, probably not to me, for both of them.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
Yeah, I agree, he totally didn't respect it. He should
have known that this was not going to go well
for him, and it's like he purposely sabotaged.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
Well, the thing with me is so premeditated. He had
the backup cupcakes that she didn't know about, do you.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
Know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (08:27):
He's just like, get rid of them.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
She deserves better, Like, why are these women sticking with
these douches?
Speaker 4 (08:33):
She's not What are your thoughts?
Speaker 8 (08:39):
Basically, my retired wedding photographers, like forty years of weddings
in Australia around the Pacific New Zealand.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
You'd have seen this.
Speaker 7 (08:48):
I've seen some pretty crazy stuff.
Speaker 8 (08:50):
The fact that, as Tony said, a bit of a
douche was premeditated. But I think for listeners here, I've
seen alcohol do some crazy crazy you from brid End groom,
So yeah, I think one of the most disturbing things
(09:13):
is when you do a wedding and the groom's actually
got a roving.
Speaker 6 (09:16):
Eye and then pretty much.
Speaker 8 (09:19):
We're right in your assumption that they're no longer together.
So that's probably for me, probably a lot worse than
our face plant.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
But yeah, there we go, teamank you writing this down
for the new TV and Z series Confessions of a
Wedding Photographer, I'd watch, watch, watch.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
How sad? Is that?
Speaker 3 (09:41):
Like hold your alcohol in a roving iron your weddings?
Speaker 4 (09:44):
Disgusting?
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Oh my, just I just don't know how these people
don't understand that that's what they were like before the
wedding and then they're still going.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Through with it.
Speaker 4 (09:52):
The photographers. Is that everyone's.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Everyone said, but you know what it's like, love can
be blind sometimes that's what you.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Get told through.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
One more Julie, what are your thoughts on this whole thing?
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Yeah, I kind of agree.
Speaker 7 (10:05):
I think there was probably red flags before the wedding,
but you get.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Caught up in the moment and you think, you know,
you always see the better in the honeymoon phase. And yeah,
I totally agree with her this, it's the trust thing.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
She specifically asked him.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
If she hadn't asked him, well, then yeah, but she
specifically said, no.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
Do you think do you think do you think that
you know he had too much to drink is an
acceptable excuse?
Speaker 2 (10:35):
Well, it depends how far through Yeah no, yeah.
Speaker 5 (10:37):
No, I want you because he had the backup cupcakes
was he wasn't drunk. When you organize this and every
single of about our two texts, every other text has
come from on two sixth nine nine seen the same thing,
she did the right thing to run yep.
Speaker 4 (10:50):
Good.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Can we just say take face is not a cool
thing at a wedding.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I don't even think i'd want my husband to have
done it at my fortieth day.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
You've been told Matte.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Coasts, Feel Good Breakfast, Best Show Moments podcast This week's
very best of Tony's Street, Jays Reeves and Sam Wallace.
Speaker 4 (11:09):
If you're having breakfast right about now, what are yourmly
putting your bowl? Do you have for a bit of week.
Speaker 5 (11:12):
Biks but a corn flakes, put of rice, bubbles, maybe
some toast, maybe some muffins with peanut.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Butter on it.
Speaker 3 (11:17):
That's what I have, Jason, for my benefit, I'll often
have a muffin split with some Actually I'm having coconut
slash banana peanut butter at the moment, which sounds a
bit gross, but don't worry. I can't taste it because
I've got no sense of smell. I've actually brought.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
An Amanda NDA have today to up my vitamin C.
Speaker 4 (11:33):
Go you nice.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
I don't think we have enough fruit now, diets, I think,
well I don't, do you I try? I have.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
I've had a banana already this morning, So now you have.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
So you're not fasting these.
Speaker 4 (11:42):
Days now, I'm trying, not trying to get the metabolism going.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
That's a good idea. I was worried about you not
eating it.
Speaker 4 (11:47):
Slippertty eggs.
Speaker 5 (11:48):
Yeah, so No, there's one hundred year old woman still
working six days a week, and she's revealed the foods
that she relies on to maintain her health and her youth.
The habit she's cut out is alcohol. She doesn't do
booze anymore. Okay, she's catching not booze on the head.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
I reckon if I was one hundred and hold, she's
beg one hundred one hundred. I reckon, I'd be downing
the gens a if.
Speaker 4 (12:07):
I'm working six days a week in the furniture store.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Definitely, the fact that she's doing that she must be Wow,
she must have a good body.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Not be sore, or.
Speaker 5 (12:16):
That's no eggs and pains, perhaps no creeks under By
the way, if you're doing drive toly Go, you three days,
then keep it up.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
Well done.
Speaker 5 (12:20):
But this is a woman called Marion, and she's living proof.
You really are as old as you feel. She's now saying,
I feel amazing, and these are the secrets to my lifestyle. Okay,
so even now and again she shouts herself a little
bit of dark chocolate as her treat.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
Only dark chocolate. She's one of those people, just have
the milk.
Speaker 5 (12:36):
But there are three foods she swears by for her
active life.
Speaker 4 (12:40):
Cucumbers, ah. Number three, she loves cumbers.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
I didn't think they had that much nutritional value.
Speaker 4 (12:45):
I thought that pretty much water.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
I have cucumber a lot, a little slice, and a
certain drink.
Speaker 4 (12:51):
You're almost like Marion. Number two she loves soauer kraut.
She just puts sour crowd.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
On everything fermented food. Yeah, but sher gut health will
be good.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
But what's the number one thing she swears by? Do
you think you numbers?
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Sour crouch? I look, it's not inspiring me at the moment.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
No.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
I hope it's some form of carbohydrate.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
No, it's not.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Of course it's not, because she's done so well.
Speaker 4 (13:13):
So what do you think it is? It's this. It's
a one hundred year old woman.
Speaker 5 (13:16):
She's working six days a week and she swears by cucumbers,
sour kraut, and number one. What is the number one
food on her list she eats is often? She again,
maybe twice a day. So what do you think it is?
Speaker 4 (13:26):
Have a think? It's it's something you and I have
access to all over the place.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
It's really access to Do we eat it?
Speaker 6 (13:31):
Though?
Speaker 4 (13:32):
Yeah? You you probably more than me. Oh okay, what
do you reckon? I eight hundred double O four coast
or flick?
Speaker 5 (13:37):
It takes to two six nine one if anyone gets
us right before half past the number one thing this
woman swears by at the age of one hundred. This
is a woman who names Marian, and she's in New
Jersey and she works a staggery staggering fifty hour week
at the age.
Speaker 4 (13:49):
Of one hundred.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
She's not even doing part time house. Different story for it.
I hope she flogs some couches off at the furniture store.
Speaker 5 (13:56):
I just hope she's not building the furniture of this age.
She's behind the counter.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
I mean, I trust Mary. And if I was going
to buy an arm chair, you.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
Want to get to pull out sofa Mary, and you woman.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
She's been there, done that.
Speaker 5 (14:07):
So she works six days a week and she's at
the spinach store, and she swears by three types of food.
She eats this every day, cucumbers, sour kraut, and something
else you eat every.
Speaker 4 (14:16):
Single day for her longevity. What do you think it is, Colin.
Speaker 6 (14:20):
It's definitely beetret berea. It's been classed by top down
you tristlus. It's a super food.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
Yeah, it's really good for the blood.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
As it's not beetroot, Colin.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
I'm actually I'm actually quite glad it's not Colin, because
beetroop gives me a shivery reaction like when I I
don't know, it's like I'm kind of allergic.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
I get that, the shutters when I try and eat it.
Speaker 4 (14:46):
I don't get I've never been a huge fan of
beetroot anyway.
Speaker 5 (14:48):
But people who put beetroot in a burger and everything,
and it bleeds through the whole burger.
Speaker 4 (14:51):
It's all pink and yucky.
Speaker 6 (14:52):
Ah nah.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
But some people just they love beatrip producer. Rosie's not
in her head. She's a beetroock gowl.
Speaker 4 (14:59):
Not for me. Then, all right, Dale, what do you
think it is that the Marior eats every single days?
The key to long life. I've had the avocados. You know,
avocado's pretty good to and a lot of people have
that on toast and I get it.
Speaker 5 (15:10):
I understand it. And you've put it in a smoothie
makes it It's just smooth.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
It's not there.
Speaker 3 (15:15):
Can we can we just take a moment for how
great avocado is though.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
Amy, What a beautiful food it is.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
When you get a beautiful ripe avocado, there's nothing better
to add into a salad to make it worthy.
Speaker 5 (15:25):
And that's the key, a Dale, give him the decent
one because I don't know how many times I've been
at the supermarket. You're not supposed touch the avocados, but
I'll give them a little squeeze because I don't I
don't trust.
Speaker 4 (15:33):
You have to.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
Ah, when you get it and it's brown in the middle,
and you've paid like fifteen dollars for one avocado.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
It won't even make guacamoli out of this. All right, Daily,
sitting down, this is what she eats every single day?
Speaker 2 (15:46):
Okay, is it salmon? Because someone has ticked salmon.
Speaker 5 (15:48):
It's a great guest. So it's not salmon, okay, it's tomatoes. Oh,
tomatoes every single day?
Speaker 2 (15:54):
So do you know what? This is controversial? Do you
know why?
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Because tomatoes is classified an inflammatory slash acidic food.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
And I know that because I had to go on
the Forommat diet once and don't even ask me what
that is. It's just one of those weird things.
Speaker 3 (16:08):
When you have an autoimmune disease, they think you think
you're allergic to everything, and tomatoes can be quite reactionary
with some people.
Speaker 4 (16:15):
Is that right?
Speaker 2 (16:16):
So the fact that that's good I like that because
I'm a big tomato fan.
Speaker 5 (16:19):
So I read this last night, right, and I put
it to the test with our kids, and I said,
do you not she eats every single day?
Speaker 4 (16:25):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (16:25):
It's okay, it's a fruit, so it's a veggie, so
I don't know, and it's tomatoes And eight year old said, Dad,
that's not a.
Speaker 4 (16:31):
That's a fruit, not a veggie.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Jase, you should know that by now.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
I should should know that by now. But I'm glad
tomatoes for the wind. Tomatoes for the word tomatoes with everything.
Speaker 4 (16:39):
No, I have a tomato sauce. But that's really about
it is.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
That it's get to the break that's up there.
Speaker 4 (16:45):
I have a child. I get it.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
I want you to tell me if you have ever
had an incident like this where you have suddenly just
decided that you can simply cannot live in your house
anymore unless you soort some things out. Sometimes it starts
for me and and I go, there's a mark on
the fridge, and then I look at the floor and go,
this will not do. And I get the mop out
(17:07):
and I scrub that floor within an inch of its life.
And then I look over and I haven't dusted the mantlepiece.
And then there's these old magazines everywhere and else I
have to get them. And even if I'm tired, and
it's like the stupidest time to be doing it. It
might be five o'clock at a Friday, and my husband
looks at me like, you have literally lost your mind.
I don't know what he's thinking. He's thinking she's got perimetopause.
(17:28):
And I know that he's thinking that, and that makes
me want to kill him.
Speaker 5 (17:31):
Does he does he do one of two things. Does
he get out of the way or does he try
and help out.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
I think in the beginning, remember we've been together for
over twenty years. In the beginning, he might try and
to intervene and say, hey, we don't need to do
it now. He just goes to another room because he
knows I'm just not going to stop until I sort
that out.
Speaker 4 (17:50):
So he's seeking refuge.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
But I'm here to tell you today that there is
a reason for it. And actually we're not all psychos
if we do that.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
Okay, good to know.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
So women, it turns out, and this is scientific knowledge.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
Now, women are more sensitive to clutter than men.
Speaker 3 (18:06):
Cluster increases the stress womone cortisol faster in women compared
to men. So, women, if you're sitting there, going why
does he not care about this mess?
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Why is he not perturbed by that stack.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Of magazines that is blurted all over the lounge? That
is why they just don't care as much.
Speaker 4 (18:24):
And I just don't get it.
Speaker 3 (18:25):
And I think if we I think, if we know that,
it might not make us get as angry. And I think,
as men, if you know that our brains are predisposed
to hating clutter.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
Maybe just maybe you might help us out from time
to time, is what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (18:41):
Sounded quite aggressive though.
Speaker 3 (18:42):
Also I just want to say, Jason, this is for
the women and you, because we all know that you
hate clutter.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
I'm listening to this trying to be quiet with stand clutter.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
Jace, you have part of this brain, Okay. I always
thought you had a slightly female brain and that's why
we're friends.
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Speaker 4 (19:17):
There's bow?
Speaker 6 (19:18):
I mean, how are you doing all right?
Speaker 4 (19:20):
Thank you very much? White Colin. You look new coaches?
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 6 (19:24):
Yeah? Look, it's very exciting, isn't it. Really? It's sort
of the unknown the unknown factor. Firstly about the All
Blacks under their new coach and new captain, et cetera,
et cetera, and England also who who come here with
pretty good form. They finished the Six Nations really well.
They beat Japan last a couple of weeks ago, and
they are a genuine opponent, so great excitement around.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
Really, yeah, Nisbo, What do you think Scott Robertson is
going to bring? How will we are actually going to
be able to see his impact? Is it going to
be a different style of rugby? Is it going to
be this risk versus reward selections that I keep hearing about.
How are we going to see his impacts?
Speaker 6 (20:03):
Well, that's a very good question. I don't know the answer,
and that's one of the intrigues about this game really.
I mean, we can only ready go back on seven
years of domination by the Crusaders. Quite frankly played quite
a conservative brand of rugby, but they took their opportunities
when they needed to, and so I think we'll see
(20:23):
a little bit more of the same. I don't think
we'll find out after one game whether the all Backs
have changed their style dramatically. They'll obviously played their strengths
and their strengths how they have a very good backline
and they want to give as much more as they
can to the likes of sebu Reese and Mark Talia
and these sort of blokes. So look, I don't know
whether we can make it. Judgment aren't the game one,
(20:45):
but it will be intriguing and equally intriguing to see
how England play, because England have always been a very
dodgy sort of a team. Showed some real signs at
the end of the Six Nations they were starting to
develop a style of where they actually gave them a
little bit of air.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
Yeah, speaking of the backline of the All Blacks, it's
one thing. You can make a judgment on the fact
that Boden Barrett's being left out of the starting team.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
Did that surprise you or expected?
Speaker 6 (21:13):
Well, look, it surprised me a wee bit, but logically
sitting on the bench chicking cover fifteen and ten and
I guess wing if he had to because he's that quick.
But a great opportunity, isn't it for Stephen Pereferte, who
was named as a fullback in the squad. You're going
to name a bloke on the squad, then you've got
to play him at some point. Has Barrett sort of
(21:34):
got more of a utility role? I think? So, I
guess on reflection, I'm not all that surprised, Okay.
Speaker 5 (21:41):
So it's under the roof, so it should be a
fast game. We know that which is going to suit
us well. That you said it might suit England quite
well as well though, So we're all coming together. We've
got players in our team who just a couple of
weeks ago and we're going here to hear they were
trying to beat each other.
Speaker 4 (21:52):
Now they're teammates. Will that plan into England's hand?
Speaker 6 (21:55):
Though?
Speaker 5 (21:55):
What are you if you had to head to head
to grunners? But what do you think the scoore might
be at the end of all this in the wash up?
Speaker 6 (22:01):
It's a good question, isn't it. Look I'm a loyal
All Black supporter obviously, and I couldn't stand the thought
of England beating us. Actually done it twice before. They
did it here in New Zealand and nineteen sixty three
of all times, way back at Eton Park in nineteen
sixty three, and they did it in the build up
to the two thousand and three World Up on a
(22:21):
terrible night at Wellington. But this, as you say, we
know when you go to dned in these days that
you're going to get fine weather for the game, whether
it's shocking outside or not, it's going to be perfect conditioned.
I think the All Blacks win, but only narrowly. I'm
going maybe by eight.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Okay. I love it, Nesbo, thank you so much.
Speaker 3 (22:38):
And I'm so excited for this weekend because i feel
like Super Rugby was a raging success for the New
Zealand teams and we've got the new Ball Blacks coach,
some exciting new players and I'm frothings.
Speaker 6 (22:49):
So am I?
Speaker 1 (22:49):
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