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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in grub.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
A dub dumb the very oily today.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
You don't look oily in real life, so I think something.
Maybe your light's given too much.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Yeah, it's giving. It's giving too much about it needs
to be GI give you.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Too much reflection?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, yeah, very oily.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
No, you're not looking oily.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Thanks. But you know what.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
The difference between a grape and a raisin is, Well,
they say water, but in this case, I'm gonna go oil.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
My skin is oily. Bring it on, baby.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Wowow that was impactful. It wasn't right, It wasn't a right.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Scientific factor, but it makes it.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
It makes a powerful punch.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
A grape and literally the.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Only difference between a juicy, luscious grape and.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Raisin water water.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
Yeah, hydration.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
That's why our skin can even look like a raisin
or hydrated and plump exactly and juicy exactly.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
You know, if you're inside of California, to make sure
you're hydrating because it is hot.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
My biggest sick in the news when I'm watching the
news and they're like, make sure you're drinking your water,
and I'm like, I know.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
I can't help it.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Though, Like both Haley and I do this to each other.
We're like one of us won't be feeling well. It's like,
have you drink water.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
And we both do it to each other.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Different.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
That's different than hot outside and the news man saying
please bring your water jug.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
If I'm not feeling well, there's probably another reason other
than I haven't had enough water.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
You know my new thing that's gonna that I'm gonna
make this this winter.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Look.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
So I'm gonna take garlic clothes and I'm gonna put
them in a mason jar and I'm gonna fill it
up with honey. And a pair only has a lot
of medicinal benefits if you're feeling sick to like.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
She's episode of the Tanya Show.
Speaker 6 (02:07):
She's in her witch cauldron era.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
That's right, That's how my friend kills me.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Yeah, you like take like a spoonful of it if
you're feeling sick, or you can like put it you
you just use it as like honey. But it has
it's been like soaking in the garlic since I'm going
to do it now.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
Tanya said to me earlier. She says, you know, Robbie's
done a lot of stuff for me that you know,
he didn't really want to do necessarily. And I'm like
everything if he does the family meetings, the journals, that
taping your mouth shut, that there's a hundred things.
Speaker 7 (02:36):
I had to remind her of this, so I you know,
I'm glad we're bringing this up because he likes those
things I was referencing, like a concert here or there
that he doesn't necessarily want to go to, but he
knows I want to that type of stuff.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
I'm taping his mouth shut. He is happy as a
clawm taping.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
He never would have done that if not for you.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Thank God for me, because he never eyes.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
I don't force him. I don't say, here's my mouth tape,
take yours.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
I think some of these things I don't think.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
So I think that he does.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
He would have never done it without you, But I
think after doing it.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
He does enjoy it. Yeah, but I do think he.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Uh Tanya finds himself for you and then he like
likes it.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
He's thanking God every day on his knees.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
He walks in the house and you're and you know,
there's got it like I don't know, your fridge is empty,
there's piles of stuff everywhere, and he's just like, oh boy,
what is it this week? What are we getting into now?
I bet there's got to be a moment of him
be like, okay, I gotta gear up for this.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Man like making that stuff for forty eight hours. He
is me in male form I.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Have has made me. I do feel there's been a switch.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Yeah, he's me in a man's body.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
All the way.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Yeah, not all emotionally, not all the way now, I
would say one hundred percent, but he's like eighty percent there.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Yeah, y'all are a great match.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
I was laughing today because so Haley and I now
that we're living together, it's like okay, like.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Who's doing what you know, and the chores whatnot.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
And I was thinking about how she goes it's okay
like today, but she was like, it's okay, it's okay,
don't worry.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
We're gonna get into a routine. And I was like, yeah,
it's hard because not I feel.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Like typically there's a person in a relationship that's like
the clean organized person and like that's like their thing,
but neither of us are that way.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
So it's like, oh, it's chaos, but.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
We have to be really intentional about it otherwise because like,
and I'm actually grateful because I think if there was
one person who was like more that way, there would
be resentment. You know, we're both just like, oh, you're messy, Yeah, whatever,
will you do that?
Speaker 4 (04:50):
It's like just out in the open.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
But I feel like Alison, well, I feel like you're clean,
but I noticed Alison.
Speaker 8 (04:57):
Was very Allison's much cleaner. Yeah, yeah, and thank god
for that.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
I'm sorry, but I did.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
I wanted to make sure you're alive.
Speaker 6 (05:09):
Yeah, you were good.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Yeah, you have to vacate the room feels bad.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Mark was having a coffe attack.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
And he's still not back yet.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
Yeah, he's not back. He took his water though.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I think you guys should just divvy up the chores.
I'm in charge of this, you're in charge of that, right.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
So what happened was we were leaving for something over the
weekend and I was like, oh my gosh, hold I
have to feed Phoebe because I'm always the one that
feeds Phoebe and she goes babe, and I'm.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
Like, did you think of Phoebe? Would Phoebe have eaten
if I didn't feed Phoebe.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
And she's like, okay, so from now on, I'll do
Phoebe's food in the morning. But this morning it's such
a habit for me that I.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Made Phoebe's food and then she made it again.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
She was about to leave and she goes, wait, I
gotta feed Phoebe, and I go, I already feed Phoebe.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
And she's like, that's my chour.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
It's gonna take some adjustment, but I'm glad everyone's eager,
you know, everyone's eager to participate.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
That's all I needed.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
That's the best thing.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
Mark's returned.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
I try to be so mindful and demure and just
step out for a moment.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Yeah, hacking and like.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
It looks like a little tickle.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Well, we couldn't start Dear BONDI without because we're just
killing the chores, the chores, my chores with my girlfriend
living together.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
Yeah, it's not great, but I did want to.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
The way we feed Sonny is like whoever whoever during
the week when I obviously I leave in the morning,
so Robbie does it when I'm not there, and then
it's just whoever wakes up first and goes downstairs feed Sonny.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Well, Phoebe's not an instant, like she doesn't.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
Take her time in the morning. Sonny is like chomping
at the bitch's like.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Just let her like kind of when she walks over
to that area, I'm like, okay, I'll feed her. So
I never have like a specific time, so that's why
I've always just on it. But now she Hailey's like,
that's my chore now. So I was like, okay, good
luck Phoebe.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Hope you eat eat.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
So yeah, but today's episode is a dear bizybanya and uh,
we're so excited because we got some got some some
good stuff in.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Here, some good stuff, good good stuff.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
I'm good advice emails people seeking advice.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
So mark without further reduce, Oh, thank you so much.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
This is from an anonymous mom to be help. I'm
looking for ideas to make my husband's fortieth birthday special
at home. We're expecting our first baby two weeks before
his birthday, so I'm not thinking I'll be in any
condition to go out. We'll have a surprise birthday dinner
with the family before the baby comes, but I want
to make sure he feels super special on the actual day.
He's a low key guy and he mostly geeks out
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in movies and actors, astronomy and really good coffee. When
I started thinking about what to do for him, I
thought about, how this is right up Tanya's Ali. I'd
love a man's perspective of Mark and Easton too. Thank
you so much for making me, helping me make this
super special for him.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
You know what's so interesting. I was just talking to
a friend of mine. Her daughter was born, like I think,
maybe a few days before her birthday, and she's like,
my birthday is no longer existent. It's like all about
the kid, you know. And I was like, that's so.
I guess you don't really care when you're a parent.
It's just like whatever, everything is about the kid. But
I was like, oh, Like I like made a mental note,
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and I was like, I don't want you know, like,
I want your birthday to still be your birthday. So
I feel like you should make him feel special. The
fact that you said that he's a low key guy,
I feel like he'll like this idea because I've done
I feel like I've done this for Becca, I've done
it for Robbie and it's always a hit where you
get the forty balloons and you write down something that
(08:51):
you look like, one thing you love about that person
on each balloon, and you put him in a room
so they like look really cool and cute and they're
like sentimental, so it makes them feel good.
Speaker 5 (09:02):
That would make him feel special, no question.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Yeah, yeah, that's it.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
That's all.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Oh I have an idea. She said, he loves astronomy.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
That's stars, right, Yes, yeah, okay, I was thinking, what
if you got those glow in the dark stars and
you put them all over the ceiling and then you
did a movie night where you watch one of his
favorite movies and had like popcorn and cant like made
it like the stars.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Yeah, under the stage.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
Each star you could write down your favorite thing about him,
put their glow in the dark.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
Oh, it's just Nick straight out, I love you.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
You know, just spitballing here.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
Well that could be the morning, like yeah, he comes
down and then.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
No, no, no, no, okay.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
The balloons have the glow up stars on them with
the writings on them, so he reads them all in
the morning and then she takes all the stars, she
puts them on the ceiling for a movie night that night,
or they just.
Speaker 4 (09:59):
Hang in the air and they glow in the dark
on the blue.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Yes.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
See, these are all great ideas. I think they will
all make him feel very special and very very very thoughtful,
very thought through. I was just gonna say, I'm just
I'm a simple guy, and I don't need much. And
a lot of times my wife thinks, oh, he doesn't
need any more Brewers and Packers stuff because he has
a million things. That's all I need, that's all I want,
that's all I care about. I can't get too much
(10:24):
of that stuff because that's what I'm obsessed with. So
just whatever his obsessions are, you might think, oh, he
doesn't need another astronomy thing, get it. He'll love it absolutely. Yes,
whatever he's obsessed with, lean into it.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
Woh.
Speaker 4 (10:37):
I like, that's that's good to know.
Speaker 8 (10:39):
I went to Mark's fiftieth birthday party, and I've never
felt less stressed about buying a gift for.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
Someone so simple.
Speaker 6 (10:44):
I was like, this is easy, man.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
He got me baseball cards, like a book of cards.
Speaker 8 (10:50):
I got you the program for the Brewers game that
was the day you were born.
Speaker 9 (10:56):
I think I was not exactly it isn't I that's
not exactly what. No, it was like it was like
a it was a bunch of It was a little
book on the players from the seventy one Brewers team.
Speaker 6 (11:10):
Yes, yes, yes, that.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
Was very nice.
Speaker 6 (11:11):
They would have given it out on the game the
day he was born.
Speaker 8 (11:15):
Oh, it's the game that they celebrated Mark's birth.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
Wow, that's so thoughtful.
Speaker 5 (11:20):
It was very thoughtful.
Speaker 4 (11:21):
Yes, it was very thoughtful.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Yeah, that's a great idea if you want to get him.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Yeah, maybe you could find the DVD of the movie
that he were What if.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
You bought him a store?
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Yes, you can do that.
Speaker 5 (11:35):
You can't do that, forty it's so it's easy. It's
throwing away your money. Like, I don't I think he
has an astronomer would know that you don't actually name,
you're not actually naming.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
You get the coordinates and everything else.
Speaker 5 (11:49):
You can name the drop in the ocean, you can
name a grain to say it on the beach, just
the same thing. It's just a certificate. It's just taking
your money.
Speaker 4 (11:57):
She he's an astronomer, she said, he loves a strong
of me.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Yeah, oh my gosh, if I have a star in
this sky. That was named after me that I'm not
even astronomer.
Speaker 8 (12:06):
What about get him a snapshot of what the stars
looked like the night he was bad or the day
they all met.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
Yes, and we're really pushing the astronomy. And and like
the fact that he likes good coffee.
Speaker 4 (12:21):
Get him a good cup of coffee.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
Oh my gosh, makes him homemade milk or almond milk.
Whatever his milk.
Speaker 4 (12:29):
She's gonna be way too pregnant.
Speaker 5 (12:32):
Milk real soon.
Speaker 4 (12:34):
Different he can't have that.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
Yeah, I can. Actually is like very healing.
Speaker 4 (12:41):
Yeah, it's like it's like that's why they encourage you
to if you are and stuff. Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (12:46):
I think it is. I think that's like a lot
of healing property.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
I thought about Robbie wrapping his burn and his own
skin way too many times.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
It's the podcast. I gotta be honest.
Speaker 6 (12:58):
I had blissfully gotten that.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
Thinking about a NonStop he had.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
Okay, so he burned.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
He was making me soup and he went to go
pour it into the bowl and it went all over
his hands.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
So he got a second degree burn on.
Speaker 5 (13:14):
His finger, like hot fingers.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Se I was like, but it was a huge blister
that like appeared on his finger like so like on
top right, like a big giant one. So he uh,
he got it drained, the blister drained, and then you
leave the skin. You don't like peel the skin off.
You see that skin as its own band aid.
Speaker 3 (13:38):
That's what he did. It's not as gross I thought
you were.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Actually he caught his skin and then wrapped it around there.
Speaker 4 (13:46):
I just loved it.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
He loved his.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Skin, and then it was starting to peel up, and
then he had to kind of peel it back down.
Speaker 4 (13:51):
And I don't need more details.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Skin.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Skin makes the best band aid for your skin. So
if you're ever out there and you're wonder what's the best.
Speaker 5 (14:01):
Bank, they take off that skin, it's just super red
and raw correct, so you can get a.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
Band aid, like you're saying, right right, yeah, fair enough
is the best band aid.
Speaker 5 (14:10):
Shall we move on to another one?
Speaker 4 (14:12):
Options?
Speaker 2 (14:13):
Yeah, maybe wake him up with his favorite couple of
job well that or his favorite and then his favorite
couple of.
Speaker 5 (14:20):
Something sexual is never not going to.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Be two weeks before giving birth. I just cann't imagine.
Her gag reflex is off the charts, Like your.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
Gag reflex is that bad? That pregnant.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
I imagine everything is gaggy when you're that pregnant.
Speaker 8 (14:34):
Shall have had the kid for two weeks before, two weeks.
Speaker 6 (14:38):
Before, we're expecting two weeks before his birthday. Kid in
one hand.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
This you're going to have to ask for some help
for some of these ideas we've given. Yeah, we need
a friend or a parent to come over. Yeah, there
are some good, good options in there. Congratulations, we're so
happy for you.
Speaker 5 (14:57):
We didn't take a break after. I'm not going to
have you do me like you did on Monday.
Speaker 3 (15:01):
So let's take a break scrubbing in.
Speaker 5 (15:06):
Sorry, wrong button, Sorry, all right, we're back.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
Break one, done, done, Moving on to anonymous number two.
Speaker 5 (15:33):
Here we go. Everyone's and I'm you know, I put
these on there because everyone's anonymous nowadays.
Speaker 3 (15:37):
Not true. We're going to get to Aaron at the end.
Speaker 5 (15:38):
Sweet Hi, Becca and Tanya parenthetically and Marcanistan that's us
easty were the parentheticals?
Speaker 6 (15:45):
All right, we made it.
Speaker 5 (15:46):
I've been a scrubber since day one. Thanks for bringing
sunshine to so many people's days and for showing up
every week to provide us with episodes. My husband and
I have these friends we'll call them Derek and Meredith.
A few years ago, they came to our friends giving
and hit it off with another couple we invited. A
week later, I saw on Instagram that they hung out
with that other couple without us, And then over the
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next few months, Derek and Mereth seemed to steal every
friend we introduced them to and excluded us from events.
This pattern happened with three other couples we knew, and
it really started to upset us. A few months ago,
I talked to Meredith about it, and she apologized said
it wasn't their intention to hurt us. Despite this, the
pattern continues with excuses like it was a dog's birthday
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party and you don't have a dog, or oh, I
thought you.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Were out of town.
Speaker 5 (16:32):
Eventually, I decided to pull myself out of these uncomfortable situations.
Meredith noticed the distance and said, what's wrong. I shared
my feelings and she ended up crying. I told her
I'd be happy to stay friends, but I no longer
feel comfortable being part of the larger friend group. My
question is, am I weird to feel this way? I'm
not sure how to move forward with his friendship, but
it also puts me in a weird spot with the
other couples. Since now it comes off as I'm causing drama,
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how would you move forward with it? Any advice would
be so appreciated. Thank you all.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
So she's basically just saying she's fine to stay friends
with Meredith, but that doesn't need to be friends with
all the other people as a group.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
Yeah, I'm confused on the question.
Speaker 4 (17:12):
She doesn't want to feel she said, The.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
Question is, am I weird to feel this way? The
question is no, You're not weird because you feel that
type of way, so your feelings are always valid.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
However, I'm not really sure how to get you out.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Of this curm fluckle because.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
Quite the curffluckle, because at the end of the day,
you were.
Speaker 4 (17:34):
Just a kerfuffle. It's a curve fuckle.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
It's her is that the word is kerfluffle? What is it?
Speaker 4 (17:40):
Isn't it kerfluffle?
Speaker 6 (17:42):
Kerfuffle is a very.
Speaker 3 (17:48):
It's it's an interesting one.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
And I think that at the end of the day,
you have to take people as they are. And I
feel like Derek and Meredith, this might just be maybe
they wanted to hang out with couples, you know, two
on two. They like doing the double day thing that
don't want to do bigger things.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
Maybe they don't.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
Obviously they're not seeing that it's like hurting your feelings.
I just think you have to take people as they are.
I feel like it's going to help you feel more
settled in yourself and it's going to help you feel
more settled in this situation because I think at the
end of the day, like we all try to control
other people circumstances, situations, outcomes, and you just can't.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
You just can't.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
I also think sometimes especially when you're in a group
setting and you're married and there's like couples, people will
connect and have interest outside of what you connected with
them on you know what I'm saying. So like, right,
they came to your friends giving and there was another
couple there that maybe they were like, oh my gosh,
like we are literally the same people and we have
the same interests and we should do something together. And
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then it happens, and it like sucks because it sucks
to see people that you introduced hanging out without you
as the connector. But I also think it's okay for
people to want to do that, and I think you're
valid to like want to exclude yourself, and I don't
think you're having drama.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
I think you can just be like, yeah, I just
I do better one on one.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
And I don't like the big way I'm making. It's
making me feel.
Speaker 4 (19:16):
The big group settings are just like not my thing.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
But I also think too when you said, like the
excuses it's a dog party and you don't have a dog,
like I would. I would never think to invite a
friend that didn't have a dog to my dog's party, right, So,
like I understand the Meredith and Derek's I know, I know,
but that was the one she chose, which to me
it seems valid like I just would never, like I
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just would never think to do that, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
But I think Meredith might be totally aloof because it
seems she noticed when you were more distant, like she
picked up on it. She would she didn't ignore your
distance and asked you about it and then listen to
you and she cried. So I mean, to me, I
feel like Meredith is like a villain or trying to
be malicious. I think it's just maybe just being a
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little like aloof about your feelings, right, And I think
that if you feel better not being a part of
the group settings or putting yourself in that situation. Again,
that's totally valid and you're fine. You're not dramatic for that.
Y y'all have like a couple of friends, right, like
people that have have you introduced people that have hung
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out without you or had that experience.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
I know, I was trying to put myself in this
situation and I can't.
Speaker 5 (20:31):
I've had like solo friends that I've that have met
through me and then they hang out together, and I
think that's neat. I think that's kind of Yeah. I
always like, oh, I'm the reason that those two were
together right now.
Speaker 6 (20:41):
And Spider Man teaming up.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
Yeah exactly, It's like Wolverine and Deadpool.
Speaker 6 (20:45):
Yes exactly. It's like, yeah, it's fun. I like that.
So yeah, so impressed.
Speaker 8 (20:51):
I feel like I've been this person before, like where
like I've met someone through a different friend that we
end up hanging out with those friends a lot and
not the person and the introduce us, and uh, sometimes
I feel bad, but also uh like like for example,
we had some friends named Trish and Dylan. They introduced
me to David. David rides bikes. He got me and
riding bikes. I ride back to him all the time.
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We don't hang out with the other people as much
because they were my neighbors. Now they moved away. No
one's there. I don't know, like, it's not weird. No
one's ever like said anything.
Speaker 6 (21:23):
I don't know. It's just how it's just how things
go sometimes.
Speaker 5 (21:25):
I guess. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (21:26):
It's not really good advice.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
But but if.
Speaker 5 (21:28):
You feel like you're being excluded and.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
That sucks, yeah, no, your feelings are valid.
Speaker 4 (21:31):
Yea, yeah, yeah, what were you gonna say?
Speaker 3 (21:34):
Speaking of Sunny's birthday parties November third? Thank you.
Speaker 5 (21:39):
It's a long time from now.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
It's a Sunday, I mean, just coming up, all right.
Speaker 5 (21:45):
Next one. I don't know if we answered that one
or not, but here we go from anonymous. I've been
with my boyfriend a little over four years.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
Wait, where are we?
Speaker 5 (21:53):
The softball one? Okay, spoiler alert. We live together and
have a dog together. Every summer, he plays in a
softball league four nights a week. These evenings include one
to two games and then hanging out for hours after
the games drinking beers with friends. About a month ago,
everyone went to the bar after one of the games,
but I didn't know about that until about a week
later when one of the wives told me they all
went to the bar.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
Oh.
Speaker 5 (22:14):
So I was frustrated and said I didn't know this
information and my boyfriend didn't tell me. I made it
clear that I want to know this information at the moment,
even if I already went to bed. Last night, same
thing happened. He went to the game, went to the bar,
didn't tell me until eleven PM when I asked him
where he could possibly be. It's not being at the
bar that bothers me. It's the not telling me what's
going on when he's out and about. He came home
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drunk and said that he gets nervous telling me things
because he knows I'm going to be mad regardless of
if he tells me or if he doesn't tells me.
Tell me. I tried to make it clear that I
wouldn't be mad if he just told me, but I
don't think he gets it. How do I set a
clear boundary and stick to it. I don't want to
be a naggy girlfriend, but I won't continue a relationship
like this.
Speaker 4 (22:56):
I this is so.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
This is a very difference to situation but Haley and
I had this time in our relationship where she would
not tell me things that she didn't find important out
of fear that maybe I would have a reaction to it,
And so we would go in the circle because I'd
be like, why didn't you just tell me? Because now
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I'm more upset that you didn't just tell me and
I wouldn't have been upset, and She's like, but I
was scared that you would be upset. So we had
to like set this boundary of being safe, a safe
space for both of us because she had to make
me feel safe by being upfront and honest with me
and letting me know certain things, especially if it was
like a sensitive time, and then I had to give
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her the benefit of the doubt of not being upset
if she told me. So I think it's setting the
boundary of like, hey, I will work on I don't
want to be the naggy girlfriend, but that is a
boundary that's important to me. If you're gonna go out
and drink, I would just as your girlfriend and someone
who wants to know that you're safe, so that I
know what you're you're are, where you are. I don't
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care if you go without me. I don't care what
you're doing. I just want to know. And I think
that's out of respect and being in a relationship.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
It is the approach to it because I will say, like,
I feel like, maybe, Anonymous, you aren't really telling us
how exactly you are reacting to the situation.
Speaker 3 (24:20):
And I give you full.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Credit to do so because I do the same thing.
I can sometimes my sentiment is is good, and like
my feelings and everything that I'm saying is valid. My
approach to it is can come off very naggy or
like annoying or it's it's always in the approach. So
and like I've learned this through my therapist because she's like,
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the the sentiment and the things and your ideas and
what you.
Speaker 3 (24:48):
Want is very totally normal.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
It's the way that you approach it that makes people
that makes him feel like attacked.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
And so I would kind of.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Like, look at how you you are communicating these things
to him, because again, what you're saying is totally valid
and totally he should be respecting you. And if all
you want is to keep you in the loop, like
it's very easy to do.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
But there's he had He's saying there's a reason why.
Speaker 1 (25:15):
He's not doing that, So I would kind of maybe
try and approach it in a different in a different way,
say it in a different manner.
Speaker 4 (25:22):
You're so right.
Speaker 2 (25:23):
If it's coming across a tackie, he's never going to
feel safe to tell you.
Speaker 5 (25:27):
He's probably right. And why aren't you going to the
softball games? Because I think it's the same group of
people at the games. Are then moving to the bar, right, And.
Speaker 3 (25:33):
If she doesn't want to go to games a week,
I don't want to go either.
Speaker 1 (25:38):
I'd be like, by have fun, but I would like
to know when you're coming home or like, you know,
just kind of update me and then I'll text you, hey,
I'm going to sleep. And then by that came good night,
Yeah yeah, Samuel kissy emoji and we're all good.
Speaker 4 (25:54):
Funny.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
I would give anything to be in bed with you,
caressing your face as you drift into a dreamland.
Speaker 4 (26:00):
This is what Tanya would want to hear.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
I would give anything to be there, but instead I'm
at this gross dingy bar.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
This morning he said you're the air and my lugs.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
Because he saw this like TikTok, and it was like, what.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
What I want?
Speaker 1 (26:17):
What my partner says to me, and it's like, hey, babe,
I'm gonna get my old change be back in thirty
or whatever. This is what she wants me to say. Hey, babe,
I really hate to leave you, and I don't want
to leave you. If somebody could change my l for
me like I would want, I would welcome it.
Speaker 3 (26:31):
But I have to go.
Speaker 1 (26:32):
And since I have to go, I'm gonna be thinking
about you every minute of every second that I'm gone.
I cannot wait to come back and see you again.
I was like, yeah, there we go, Yeah, yeah, step
it up, which is actually so dark because he's wonderful.
Speaker 2 (26:50):
Yeah, no, I think that's just I was laughing. Hey,
I was laughing because I was like, this is so sick.
That's that is like.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
How And then and then just to top it off,
to to put some salt in the wound that night,
I'm going to sleep right. It was like I was
in bed and she was facetiming Haley in the kitchen
and I hear Haley you say like, babe, you're my
best friend and I'm and I miss you so much
I know.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
And I'm like, this is what I was for.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
I was trying there's this trend on TikTok where it's
like I'm going to say everything twice, like you repeat
everything twice that you say and.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
See if your friend or partner notices.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
So we were in bed and I was doing it
and you can just see my face, and so I'm
like starting, I'm like saying things twice, and she goes
into this rant and she's like, Babe, I'm just beaming.
Speaker 4 (27:38):
With love for you. I love you so much. You're
my favorite person.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
It's the cutest thing ever because I got her like
I'm trying to do this brank and I'm like dying off.
She's not catching on to everything I'm saying. And I
was like, Tanya would love this. This is literally the dream.
Speaker 5 (27:54):
Everyone's different.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
Yeah, it's true.
Speaker 5 (27:56):
I would like that. My wife's not like that. My
wife is not you know, I know she loves me
and all this stuff, but she's not I'm not getting
like you and best friend I am so said, you
have to leave for work. I'm gonna miss you so
much when you're gone. I mean it's been twenty seven years,
so I get it. Stuff. Yeah, I would like that
because of cancers. Is that way for sure?
Speaker 4 (28:18):
What's crazy. I love it too. It's shocking. I love it. Yeah,
it's just so so, but only.
Speaker 3 (28:24):
From Haley because when I'm texting you.
Speaker 4 (28:26):
Yeah, it does have its limits. Yeah, well then.
Speaker 3 (28:34):
Shall we do erin?
Speaker 5 (28:36):
Not yet?
Speaker 4 (28:36):
Oh yeah, we need one more. We need one more
before Aaron.
Speaker 5 (28:39):
Another break to Oh my god, here we go. There's
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a cute anonymous Dear Banya, Hi, scrubbing in gang. First
of all, love all of you. Just came back from
a trip and binged the podcast on my thirteen hour
flight and it made the flight easier to get through. Wow,
there's a lot of scrubbing in right there. Really simple
ask of a question for advice, How do I have
just a great makeout session? I sometimes just want a healthy,
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long makeout session with my boyfriend, But five minutes in
he always wants to do more. He says, I should
take that as a compliment that I turn him on.
But for me, I'm good with just the kissing sometimes.
Thanks for keeping me company on my plane ride.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
You know, one man's pie is another man's pleasure. Because
it's like someone out there might be saying, how can
I get my guy to boink me more?
Speaker 3 (29:51):
You know?
Speaker 5 (29:51):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Yeah, so it's so interesting. It's so interesting. Life is
so interesting, right.
Speaker 4 (29:58):
But what's what's your advice just to her?
Speaker 3 (30:00):
Why? I mean, to me, the more the merrier, So
I'd be like, welcome.
Speaker 5 (30:04):
You're like the escalation.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Yeah, like I'm I'm I am her boyfriend in this right,
Yeah you are. Yeah, take it any time, any place.
But yeah, I don't know, I don't know how to
answer that.
Speaker 2 (30:17):
Well, I feel like maybe the guys can answer, because
I feel like I think that they're Well I was
gonna say it's different for guys because, like, you know,
if they get turned on there, like.
Speaker 1 (30:28):
Right, their wand wands can't just collapse their mental wand.
Speaker 3 (30:33):
Magic wand Oh can't just collapse.
Speaker 4 (30:35):
I mean it can it will.
Speaker 3 (30:37):
Isn't that painful?
Speaker 5 (30:38):
No, that's not that. That's a myth.
Speaker 3 (30:39):
Oh my god, I thought it was painful.
Speaker 5 (30:41):
No, it comes, it goes by the way, by the way,
it comes, It goes randomly, it comes, it goes for
no particular reason.
Speaker 3 (30:48):
Oh, such a fascinating.
Speaker 5 (30:52):
Thing with the wand in the morning. It doesn't mean
we were dreaming about sex.
Speaker 3 (30:56):
That's that's what you Okay, Yeah, I mean something was
going on that head.
Speaker 5 (31:02):
It means absolutely nothing.
Speaker 6 (31:03):
It's a it's a pottly function that involves blood flow.
Speaker 5 (31:07):
That's what. It's a circuity.
Speaker 1 (31:08):
I was thought that it hurt if you if the
magic want It's like, let's say the umbrella opened. I
always thought if it didn't, if the umbrella didn't, Uh.
Speaker 4 (31:17):
I don't think you're gonna get an analogy this one.
Speaker 1 (31:20):
If the umbrella didn't shelter you from the rain and
you just put it back down, that I thought it
was hurt you.
Speaker 5 (31:28):
No, that the blue balls thing is a myth that
guys have used to guilt you with you having sex
with them.
Speaker 3 (31:34):
That's so gross.
Speaker 8 (31:35):
Yeah, there was a post in the Facebook group about
blue balls and it may be so mad.
Speaker 4 (31:40):
Because he was comparing to period or something.
Speaker 2 (31:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (31:47):
Yeah, not only is it not comparable. That doesn't hurt.
There's no pain whatsoever.
Speaker 2 (31:52):
And they're so nice, girls are like, well you know
his feeling, yes, can we nots.
Speaker 3 (32:01):
For a day?
Speaker 6 (32:02):
You'd be crying like in pain, Like it makes me
so sorry. That sets me off like no other.
Speaker 2 (32:09):
I just feel like there should be like I guess
what what when it hurts your feelings? That that like
if Alice was like I just want to make out
nothing more. What could she say that didn't make you
feel rejected?
Speaker 8 (32:20):
I guess I'm trying to think because I don't know.
I do tm I here, but uh, there was a
period in my life where I was like this dude,
you know, like it started making out and it's like, oh, yeah,
there's a goal here. But then something just clicked and
I I like prefer making out to the other stuff.
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Often it's it's it's to me, they're very different experiences,
and I don't know, I don't know how to make
that Like I don't know how to say that too,
you know, like like uh, because.
Speaker 5 (32:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 8 (32:56):
If someone said to me like I just want to
make out like I, I like to think that I
would interpret it as like, oh, well, we just want
to you just want to enjoy this longer, you know,
like you just want to have that type of connection
on a different level. But like I think if I
was a younger man, to'd be like, oh, man's it's
just like me, you know, That's what I would think.
Speaker 5 (33:13):
Yeah, I don't think I feel rejected because the fact
that she wants to make out with me is a
compliment in itself, Like I would feel wanted by that,
so I I would feel rejected. I think my best
advice for her in this situation with this guy who
clearly wants to descilate things is to find situations where
you don't have a choice, Like perhaps the first day
of your period, and you have a rule that nothing
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happens on the first day of your period, maybe that's
the day to make out.
Speaker 3 (33:38):
One day a month.
Speaker 6 (33:39):
I mean, well, it's better than.
Speaker 2 (33:41):
Zero da having a conversation of like, I love yeah,
pretty part of this relationship. Sometimes, Like I know, I
take it as a compliment that you always want to
move forward after we make out, But sometimes for me,
I just want it to be a makeout and then
cuddle or you know, and not be it. And it
doesn't mean that I don't want you. It's just it's
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just what I need. And I would hope.
Speaker 3 (34:05):
That's very valid.
Speaker 1 (34:06):
I think like a lot of times too in relationships,
somebody wants to have sex more than the other person
and you just meet in the middle.
Speaker 4 (34:12):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (34:13):
I think it's just like how again, it's the approach
of like not making him feel because he's going to
be sensitive about it and let him know that you
feel so wanted and it's flattering to you that he
wants it to go beyond. But sometimes you just want
a good old fashioned makeout and nothing more.
Speaker 5 (34:28):
It'll say great, I agree, that sounds great, and then
when it happens he's going to change his mind.
Speaker 3 (34:33):
Well we cross that bridge.
Speaker 4 (34:34):
Well remember our talk.
Speaker 5 (34:37):
I mean, yeah, guys need to be trained.
Speaker 2 (34:39):
Yeah that's true, but you would hope that he would
get to a point where he would, you know, get
to a point where it's like he could feel comfortable,
they could feel comfortable being like, how are you feeling? Like?
Speaker 4 (34:51):
Is this just a makeout night? Maybe there's a code
word to you know.
Speaker 6 (34:54):
Like a safe word.
Speaker 4 (34:55):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (34:57):
All right, let's get to erin. These are good questions.
I'm not trying to answer these questions, but they're very good.
Maybe gonna work it out together. Hi, Banya and friends.
Random fun question idea for the pod and she does
all four of us, but we'll do them one of
the time. Becca marcron easton what's the most Tanya thing
You've done lately?
Speaker 4 (35:19):
Oh? The most Tanya thing I've done lately is.
Speaker 2 (35:25):
Heley and I have been getting up and going on
walks together in the morning as like our quality time
to start the day, and it feels very Tanya.
Speaker 5 (35:39):
The most Tanya thing I've done lately is I she
a pudding wo because she eats it regularly and I'm
always curious what it tastes like. So I got some
over the weekend and it was delicious, and all I
thought about all eating was Tiny's onto something here.
Speaker 3 (35:52):
Thank you. I wish she would feel that way about everything.
Speaker 5 (35:55):
I don't. Okay, you'll get there, we'll see yes up.
Speaker 6 (36:01):
My mine's also food related. We made a hard pivot
to see chips.
Speaker 3 (36:05):
Nice nice, nice, nice nice. Wow.
Speaker 2 (36:08):
I do eat chips on the regular. That is something
I do.
Speaker 5 (36:12):
Thank you, Tanya Easton Mark. What's the most Becka thing
You've done lately?
Speaker 3 (36:18):
I binged five episodes of a show in one day.
Speaker 4 (36:23):
That sounds more like you at this point. No, yeah,
I don't really binge a lot of.
Speaker 3 (36:28):
TV shows more so than me.
Speaker 4 (36:31):
I don't think you watched like you'd binge a lot binge.
Speaker 3 (36:34):
I watched one episode a day. There's a difference. Do
you think I.
Speaker 4 (36:40):
Definitely think you watched way more TV than I do.
Speaker 2 (36:44):
I don't really binge a lot of shows, but I
guess I did in my past.
Speaker 5 (36:48):
Yeah, I think that's our image of you, whether you
sitting on the couch a lot of TV time.
Speaker 4 (36:55):
That's so interesting. Yeah, No, I don't do a lot
of TV time.
Speaker 5 (36:58):
So what do you do? We've established this week you
don't so interesting because.
Speaker 1 (37:03):
After two hours like a walk up, wake up to bedtime.
Speaker 4 (37:07):
I was literally thinking about that after the last episode.
I was like, what do I do all day?
Speaker 1 (37:15):
Because last I saw you were binging just Josie Doanes
in the six Jones.
Speaker 3 (37:21):
Jones through six, So I'm not that far off.
Speaker 2 (37:23):
No, but that's very rare, Like I very rarely find
a show that I love that much to binge, but
I did.
Speaker 4 (37:29):
I was obsessed with Daisy Jones.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
So I'm just saying my my Becca thing is not
off kilter.
Speaker 3 (37:37):
No walk us through a day, non podcast day, Oh.
Speaker 2 (37:40):
God, I mean the podcast is like my busiest day.
I wake up now we're going to walk together. That's
around eight eight thirty. I make breakfast, the healthy oatmeal waffles,
put those in, do the dishes. Then I'll get ready
for the day, make my bed, do my hair and makeup,
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pick out an outfit, and then typically I have stuff
to film for like we're like Instagram stuff like stuff
I have to film and that can take that actually
can take a long time.
Speaker 4 (38:13):
If I'm doing like reels.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
And stuff, that can really take a long time because
I have to edit and everything. I edit all my
own stuff. So I do have some stuff to do
that during the day if I'm busy.
Speaker 3 (38:21):
Even shooting those bad Boys.
Speaker 4 (38:22):
Yeah, it's a lot, and I'm a I'm a one
woman show. Yeah, I literally don't know. I don't do
things like I'm not like I want to go shop.
I go like, I literally don't know what I do
think about it.
Speaker 1 (38:38):
So, like let's even say that that the shooting the
videos and editing them takes you four hours after breakfast,
that's like that takes you like one pm.
Speaker 4 (38:47):
What do I do? I don't I do?
Speaker 2 (38:50):
Like lately, I've been trying to go on like a
like an afternoon walk again.
Speaker 5 (38:54):
Okay, that's it right now, it's too hot now, isn't it?
Speaker 4 (38:57):
Just this past week?
Speaker 5 (38:59):
Down?
Speaker 2 (39:01):
And then Haley gets home like five or six, and
then we have dinner and stuff together. So like there's
a chunk of time where I don't really.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
Know, right, there's like a two or three window, but
it changes every day.
Speaker 2 (39:11):
Like I'm not doing the same thing every day, right,
Like I'm not in like a routine, so it does
like change up. But yeah, I was thinking after the
last episode of like what do I spend my time
doing for so many hours of the day. You know?
Speaker 1 (39:21):
What's interesting what I've found with myself is like the
days where I have a crazy jam pack schedule, I
will be more efficient and get more done when I
have so much going on in my day than I do.
Like on Labor Day, I was like, this is my
day to my this is my get get done day,
Like this was the day that we just we're gonna
sit and just get stuff done. And I had a
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list of like twenty things and I'd say I got
to like seven of them, okay, And I had the
whole day like what did I do with this day?
I only did seven of my twenty things?
Speaker 4 (39:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (39:53):
Yeah, but I think it was because I had no
structure to my.
Speaker 4 (39:56):
Day, right, it makes sense.
Speaker 1 (39:58):
Yeah, So I can see where because I was like,
what came six pm? And I was like, we gotta
watch our show and go to bed.
Speaker 5 (40:06):
Yeah what Americans?
Speaker 2 (40:09):
Yeah, yeah, I'll I'll be more aware of what I'm
doing on those days so I can report back tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (40:15):
This will be a fun game tomorrow. Why don't you
make a tomorrow of a busy day?
Speaker 4 (40:19):
Tomorrow of a busy day.
Speaker 2 (40:20):
Well, okay, so I didn't talk about this, but I
did something to my back where like it hurts so
bad to turn my neck, like I have to turn
like my body like this or like my sting pain.
But I Haley goes to acupuncture all the time, and
she's like, will you please go see my acupuncture. So
I went this morning and she's like, come tomorrow and
then Friday. So tomorrow I have acupuncture, I have the dentist,
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which is my nightmare. And then Laura comes into town.
Speaker 3 (40:46):
Okay, so tomorrow is a bad, bad example.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
Tomorrow is gonna be busy. Yeah, actually the rest of
the week because Laura's in town. So I'm gonna be
hostess with the mistess.
Speaker 3 (40:54):
Okay, so maybe next week we revisit this.
Speaker 5 (40:56):
Yeah, well I have my answer. I'm the most back
thing intermationally. A Saturday night, I had a burger and fries. Wow,
it was an impossible burger, but still it felt very decadent.
Speaker 6 (41:06):
And where was it from?
Speaker 5 (41:08):
It was that that's uh, we're up in OHI all right,
yeah it was really good.
Speaker 2 (41:12):
Yeah, very and I Becca with the impossible burger burger
fries is as good as it's gonna get.
Speaker 5 (41:18):
I think. So I slept with a woman. Does that count?
Speaker 2 (41:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (41:23):
Okay, great, there we go, there we go.
Speaker 4 (41:27):
Wow, that's the most thing.
Speaker 8 (41:31):
I'm sorry to make this about fast food again, but
when I got home from d C, I landed late
at night and I was sexting Alison. I'm like, which
did you eat? Like I'm good, and I'm like, all right,
I'm starving. I went through the Taco Bell drive through.
I got a crunch rap with three cheese and stead
not cha cheese, and I got Cheesygordy to crunch and
I got a large PEPSI.
Speaker 4 (41:51):
Oh wow, that sounds stooped down.
Speaker 8 (41:54):
It was so good, but I never got I don't
go to Taco Bell almost ever anymore because Els has
never been to Taco Bell. Allison has never had it,
So it's not part of our routine.
Speaker 4 (42:04):
Is that like a thing that she's antire?
Speaker 8 (42:06):
She just it's just never come up. It's never come
across her desk. I don't know how how.
Speaker 4 (42:10):
Do I make it come across us.
Speaker 6 (42:12):
She would do it for you if you wanted to
go talk about with her, she would do that.
Speaker 4 (42:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (42:17):
But uh, I crave it a lot, and I feel
like I have like a mistress, like when Alison's like
out of town or something like, well.
Speaker 3 (42:23):
Is damn good.
Speaker 6 (42:24):
It's so good.
Speaker 3 (42:25):
It is really good.
Speaker 8 (42:26):
Of all the major chains, I think they're the most
consistently good.
Speaker 4 (42:31):
It just hits hits, no matter what, sober, drunk, high.
Speaker 3 (42:35):
Whatever, Yeah, it hits. Yeah, alright, that's very.
Speaker 5 (42:39):
Much Tanya, Becca and Mark. What's the most Eastern thing
you've done lately?
Speaker 1 (42:45):
I haven't been a cheesecak factory in a while, So
I have two things. One of them's food related. I
ordered these like very decadent donuts that had all these
different designs on them. Yeah, and I hate one felt
very eastern. And my crocs, the crocs that I wear often,
they that feels like Eastern to me.
Speaker 4 (43:07):
Yeah, I would say.
Speaker 2 (43:08):
I was gonna say my buying crocs for my ziplining
excursion was a very east like I thought about Eastern
the whole time, and I was like, for some reason,
they don't. I never am like, wow, those are so
ugly when I see Eastern war them. But when I
put them on, I was like, I've never felt worse
about myself.
Speaker 7 (43:27):
I know.
Speaker 6 (43:27):
Cool.
Speaker 1 (43:28):
It's a weird thing because you feel so bad about
yourself and yet so comfortable at the same time.
Speaker 3 (43:33):
So really is like this thing that tugs it.
Speaker 2 (43:34):
It's like that there's something about Eastern in them that
doesn't like I'm not like.
Speaker 4 (43:40):
Even Hailey was like.
Speaker 3 (43:41):
The gibbets, you need gibbets, Yeah, gibbets. Don't know gibbs.
Speaker 4 (43:46):
Hailey was like, I.
Speaker 2 (43:47):
Thought I was gonna feel like people make them look
so cool, and they looked so ugly on me, but
I did get them.
Speaker 6 (43:56):
I'm sure you were comfortable.
Speaker 4 (43:57):
I did not, but they were so comfortable. So there
was I ate something too that I thought.
Speaker 2 (44:04):
Oh, I did the trend where you line I don't
know if you would actually do this, but I feel
like you'd be interested in trying it where you line
the cup with marshmallow fluff and then you.
Speaker 4 (44:14):
You don't drink. Do you drink?
Speaker 5 (44:15):
So?
Speaker 4 (44:15):
Do you drink?
Speaker 5 (44:16):
I drink?
Speaker 6 (44:16):
So I tried the doctor pepper pepper.
Speaker 4 (44:20):
And pickles that was the most easting thing I've ever done.
Speaker 5 (44:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (44:24):
It was Doctor Pepper Died Doctor Prepper with pickle bits
and juice in it. And I don't really anything with
Doctor Pepper good enough.
Speaker 4 (44:36):
I love Doctor Pepper.
Speaker 3 (44:38):
Good I can't tell you last I had it.
Speaker 2 (44:41):
Oh, I can't, and palm springs my sonic dirty Doctor Pepper,
Dirty Doctor Pepper, which is coconut cream, lime and Doctor Prepper,
and she kept reaching for it, and I was like,
don't drink all that please.
Speaker 6 (44:54):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't have a good answer for this.
Speaker 5 (45:00):
I'm sorry. My best answer is that I engineered my
own audio last week when Eastern was gone processing. Don't
notice this sound? I can a little more low end.
Speaker 6 (45:12):
Listen to wind out Jane Kreamer this week, see how
he did?
Speaker 5 (45:15):
You know what's funny?
Speaker 4 (45:15):
Though?
Speaker 6 (45:16):
What's it?
Speaker 5 (45:17):
One of our producers emailed, It's like, this sounds different
than usual. I think we can do to fix them.
I don't know, man, what you get? It sounds different
because Easton's gone, but I don't know what else to do.
So I did it poorly, but I did part of it.
He did it, baby Wow. And finally Tanya back in
Easton what's the most mark thing you've done lately.
Speaker 1 (45:39):
Ah, I tried to I have been trying to convince
Robbie that we should have dedicated days of the week
with our food.
Speaker 5 (45:48):
I think it makes life simpler.
Speaker 3 (45:50):
I think so.
Speaker 1 (45:50):
Too, that is what I'm trying to say. I'm like,
we'll go to the grocery store once a week. We'll
get us through, you know, Monday through Friday, and then
have a little fun on the weekends.
Speaker 3 (45:59):
Yes, but every day has its meal.
Speaker 5 (46:01):
The other day, you mentioned that with Ryan the other
day and Sis and he said, oh, I could never
do that. My life to hectic. And I was like, no,
that's the point, makes it less.
Speaker 3 (46:09):
Yeah, you don't have to choose what do I feel
like eating?
Speaker 5 (46:12):
That's so much and what do I have in the fridge?
Speaker 3 (46:14):
It's just there.
Speaker 5 (46:16):
So that's the that's good.
Speaker 4 (46:17):
Yeah, that's I mean, that's how do you beat that?
Speaker 6 (46:23):
I have life any more time?
Speaker 8 (46:27):
The most Oh okay, well, well I'm going now I
have the floor. When we were we were in Denver
this weekend and we're driving around and I was like.
Speaker 6 (46:38):
We got to go check out course field. We gotta go.
Speaker 8 (46:41):
It was nighttime. There was a game going on. Actually
they were playing. It was a Friday night, and uh,
I was like, I'm not a big baseball guy, but
Mark is making me a baseball guy. And I'm like,
I just got to go see course field. So we
like went over there and checked it out. It's a
beautiful facility and we did.
Speaker 5 (46:58):
We were there for Ryan a few years ago. We
did the same thing for no reason. There was no game.
I think it wasn't even baseball season. We just went
up there and walked around that stadium because I love
baseball stadiums. Thank you. That's a good one.
Speaker 8 (47:08):
They're playing the Orioles that night, and I saw a
lot of got there there, but they got beat.
Speaker 3 (47:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (47:12):
Yeah, So anyway, I thought of you, yeah.
Speaker 5 (47:16):
That's really good.
Speaker 4 (47:18):
I went on a hike on a trail like you
do with your dogs. Yes, I did, ye, Yeah, you know.
Speaker 5 (47:25):
I expected to be more insulted by these responses. I
thought you guys would be doing boring things and drinking
water and stupid.
Speaker 4 (47:30):
Crap that I drink water with one of my meals.
Speaker 2 (47:33):
I literally never drink like I always have some sort
of like fizzy drink with my meals, like.
Speaker 4 (47:38):
Oh my gosh, and I almost said, I drink water.
Speaker 1 (47:42):
Like fizzy drinks make me so unwell like physically yeah,
like not even like just soda, like like sparkling water.
Speaker 6 (47:52):
Your stomach acid.
Speaker 3 (47:53):
Yeah it does.
Speaker 5 (47:54):
I'm with you, Bubbly drinks.
Speaker 1 (47:56):
No Wento for me, although give me an operol sprits And.
Speaker 3 (48:03):
Oh that was fun, fun one Yeah, that's a fun
one eron not anonymous.
Speaker 2 (48:10):
And thank you all of the people, even the anonymous,
thank you for submitting your ask bonya questions.
Speaker 4 (48:18):
But we have to go.
Speaker 3 (48:20):
It is time.
Speaker 4 (48:21):
They is time.
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Speaker 3 (48:41):
We are here.
Speaker 4 (48:43):
We're here, and uh that's all for now, so have
a good week. Are here.
Speaker 1 (48:52):
And we hear you, and we here are ye gotta
Speaker 4 (48:57):
Go, bye bye