September 23, 2025 • 62 mins
Chanel N. Scott joins Angela Yee and the Lip Service crew alongside actor/singer Algee Smith for a wild and unfiltered conversation. Algee opens up about the breakup that inspired his new EP, how he got caught cheating, and the lessons he’s still learning about monogamy, discipline, and self-control.
The conversation gets even spicier when he admits to walking away from a bad sex/hygiene situation, and the ladies press him on what makes someone truly great in bed. From navigating fame and women throwing themselves at him, to his real thoughts on honesty, standards, and why men and women cheat differently, no topic is off-limits.
Chanel N. Scott adds her raw perspective on relationships, dating across age gaps, and what women really want when it comes to purpose, standards, and love. Together, they dig into why so many modern relationships feel transactional, the reality of breakups, and whether monogamy is even realistic anymore.
If you’ve ever wondered what really goes down after heartbreak — from Magic City nights to messy bedroom confessions — this episode delivers the laughs, the honesty, and the drama Lip Service is known for.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
What epics.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Sela, Yee, I'm g G.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Maguire, I'm Jordie Jr.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
I'm Algie Smith.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
I'm on the coast God periods. Don't forget the middle name.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
Listen, before this show started, we were saying the coast
Gout is a conversationalist.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Yes, she.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
We do not want to label her as a relationship expert,
even though that's how I look at it.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Yes, you're a conversationalist.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Right, Well, you asking me I'm going to say a comedy.
You're not going to say it. I'm not going to
say it.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
But you got whole games and everything.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Yeah, you got a game, the dating game, right, yes,
dating card game. Okay, And I want to tell you
that Jordan in particular was excited.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
She was like, I cannot wait to do that's your single.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
Yes, I'm ready. Well I don't know if I'm ready
to mingle, but I'm open to it.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
You open to it, I'm open to it. I'm a
little break right now.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Okay, Yeah, your break is always good, you know, because
what you're doing on the break nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
And then how she was nervous because you know he
has a whole breakup ep and so we want to
dig into what type of person he is.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Because it was very and he's very tight lipped about
the relationships. That's what I was going to be.
Speaker 6 (01:14):
We'll see.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
My congratulations though. You know you've been killing it too
by the way out here. It's just I think it's
just amazing to see everything you've done, and then with
the music, because some people didn't even know you do.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Music, which is crazy.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
So it has to feel good when you're putting out
music and it's really resonating with people.
Speaker 6 (01:35):
Yeah, it does. It does because I love both.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
I love both both of my crafts very deeply, and
I take them very seriously and I put a lot
of time into them. And so for people to respect
both of them and for me to be building the
respect in that in that world like I am in
the acting world, it's just it's dope.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
I feel like people really want you to be an athlete,
like a lot of them that you play.
Speaker 6 (01:56):
The film right now.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
I really I was going.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
To ask you, because that's you boxing. I was like,
is that for a roller for yourself?
Speaker 6 (02:03):
Yes, for a role.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
So I'm doing a film with Jamie Fox right now,
and it's based on the nineteen eighty four Olympic boxing team.
That's all I can say because they might.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Okay, that's great. Boxes my favorite sport to watch.
Speaker 6 (02:20):
Yeah, yeah, you're gonna watch one on Saturday.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Crawford and Can Yes, I who you got?
Speaker 6 (02:25):
I got Crawford Court.
Speaker 4 (02:26):
Bo Okay that's what we went. Yeah, of course, Okay,
what do you I don't know if everybody in here
watching it.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
To go watch you know what I'm saying. But I
went to that sh That was kind.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
But I was say boxing matches are a great place
to go because it it's definitely very male heads.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Sporting events in general. I was just saying this.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
I went to a Jets game yesterday. Not a football girly,
but I do love the Ravens. I was like, this
is the perfect place for single ladies to me man,
and it was just me and one my cute little friend.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
I'm like, they're.
Speaker 5 (02:57):
Swimming and go to the Mail sports, golf, tennis?
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Okay she did? Ye went to the US US. You know.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
I tell people to like, if you want to date people,
be thinking someone's going to just show up at the door,
Like you got to make an effort if you want to. Like,
I love that you're going on because you're also having
fun while you're going out, So you would do it anyway.
But then it's nice when like you don't got to
pay for a drink that part. Yes, are you the
type of person alg when you go out that you
buy drinks for ladies, even if it's you're not trying
(03:38):
to holler at them.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I'm not doing it all the time, but I don't
mind doing it though, because.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
More it depends on where you are certain places.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
It's regional because New So I'm a Jersey girl and
so that's what we do up here. But I live
in Atlanta, Georgia, and it's just not like that.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
You're gonna talk.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
They're gonna talk you to death forever.
Speaker 7 (04:04):
I live in Atlanta too, And I literally have a
friend who was like, he's a guy, and he's like,
he's from Detroit, and we know the Detroit guys like
to spend money.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
They're very generous, right, they won't even speak to you,
they just send a drinks.
Speaker 8 (04:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:17):
Love that.
Speaker 7 (04:18):
So we had a whole debate one day because he's like,
you should never have to spend money when you're outside.
He's like, if I saw you anywhere, I would just
walk up and pay your tab just because how.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Fine you are.
Speaker 7 (04:27):
And I'm like, that's not my life. You chased and
spend much when I go out. Now there are the person.
You know, we do get, you know, the perks. But
he made it seem like every time I stop about
the door watchuld never spend a dollar.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
But that is from who you getting. Are you interested
in the one that you're getting the perks from? Then
that's the other thing.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Right.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
Well, we had a whole debate about this up here
with Snapdog. I'm going to ask you, Algie, as the
man in the room, if you're buying, like say you're
at a bar and you send a woman a drink,
does that mean that Let's say she accepts it, but
she's in a relationship, is that disrespectful to her man?
Speaker 6 (05:02):
If her man is there, he's.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Not there.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Drink over she just says thank you? That's it?
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Like?
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Is that like she disrespecting her man?
Speaker 6 (05:11):
Or mmmm?
Speaker 9 (05:17):
I think.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
I want to say if it was my girl, then no,
you're not. He selling the drink from Why are you
selling and drink from a nigga? It don't matter. But
on the flip side, if I saw myself doing it,
I could see how a woman would accept it. So
I guess I'm just very contradicting myself.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Right, You're like, because you know your intentions, but you
don't know where somebody else's intentions are.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Might be like, I'm just getting you a drink exactly,
So why.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Would you just get someone to drink that You're not interested.
Speaker 6 (05:45):
In that part too? And I'm not just buying drinks
because you're beautiful though.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
You know what's crazy. I was at the bar one
day with this guy and there.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Was a girl sitting by herself, like across the bar.
He was like, let's pay for her drinks and I
was like, okay, And he paid for her drink, didn't
think anything. It was really nice to do it because
she was sitting by herself at the bar.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
He didn't go over and speak like anything. I didn't.
And he's just a friend of mine, so even if
he wanted to, I wouldn't care. But he wasn't. She
was like regular. She wasn't you know, she wasn't bad.
She wasn't. He wasn't even looking at it, like to
talk to her. He was a woman by herself.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
Sometimes you want to and I've done that before the
people like I've been at restaurants and seeing like women
out celebrating and be.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Like, let's take care of their tab. So I think
it's it's like sometimes to pay it forward type.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
Sometimes in this world people don't just like sometimes you
just feel like I had a great day.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
Let me tell you.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
I don't know. I just think like that though.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
So yet last night I was walking home from the
bar and has spent I was watching the Lines and
we lost, so I spent a lot of money in
the bar. I was yesterday and then surprised.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
I'm very surprised because when.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
Did Lines make it to the super Bowl? They lose
the Super Bowl? Yeah, that was they didn't make it
to the playoff. Yeah, and I was there at play
in Detroit when they lost that game.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Okay, I didn't have.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
My card and so I went to the ice cream
shop and I was going to get some ice cream.
I didn't have no more casual on my card.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
So you're not lactose intolerant.
Speaker 9 (07:24):
I'm not.
Speaker 10 (07:26):
Was just like, I'll get it for you, Like, no
one should not have ice cream, just like, let's look, yeah, I.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
Cream crazy to me because I feel like people think
everything is so transactional when people really just do something nice.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
I mean, the world we live in a lot of
people are very transaction though.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
It's like the.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Quality of relationships is low key being lost because of transaction.
It's crazy.
Speaker 7 (08:10):
Do you think that it's an era of because a
lot of people equated to how people are looking at
other people's lives and things that are put on social media?
Do you think that they had something to do with
this transactional vibe they.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Ran right now.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
You're saying, like like trying to keep up pretty much? Yeah,
I think yeah, for sure. Yeah, And everybody just focused
on like and it's not wrong to be focused on
year agos and what you want to do. But I
think the humanity and relationships is a real thing. Just
checking on people or just like talking to them on
the phone just because not because I got to ask
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Right, I want to ask you what is this fucking
jet to Holiday thing?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Where it's come from? So I know a little bit
about it.
Speaker 7 (08:55):
So Jet to Holiday is a company based in Europe
in the UK where it's like, you know how it's
like a travel agency. So as Americans, we just book
our own ship and we travel. You know, we booked
through the airline or through Expedia or back in the day,
people actually used to frequent travel agencies. Well, in the
UK they have this company called Jetsu Holli. They were
(09:17):
people actually save up for their family vacation for the
year or whatever and they pay on it in jets lay. Yeah,
and Jetsu Holiday is the actual company. So this, this
sound that we're hearing is a is a it's a commercial.
So you know, wait, going back, you know vacation they
call it holiday, right, So there's a commercial that's been
(09:39):
running for years, this commercial that we hear. Somehow somebody
found the sound and made it go viral and the
people on the internet, I don't want to say the
wrong word, the people on the internet ran with it.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
It just blew it up into something that is just
dumb and then like money. Like somebody said in the
comments earlier that was taking Mariah. I don't even know
what it means, but it's just funny.
Speaker 5 (10:09):
Every time you hear it, the vacation turns into a disaster.
It's all funny games and then show the gentlement down
fall the trip.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Now, I'm like, what did they think about that marketing?
Speaker 5 (10:21):
Because it's kind of giving disasters.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Like is it the argument of all press is good pressure?
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Yeah, for sure, because I'm not.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Going to hold you. Yeah, I went and searched up
what is.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
You need to make a movie? A jetsu holiday movement?
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Time right now?
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Let me in the next month. Though I know she
got one.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
I already have yet, I already have you know, So,
can you think about the first vacation that you've ever
been with been on a woman?
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Like been with on? I can't even vacation with a woman.
What was the first vacation you ever took? I went
to Hawaii that was.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
Like that was like four years ago.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
It wasn't this like committed relationship or with it like.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Okay, So we went to Hawaii, a Paara cl for
the first time, snorker for the first time. I got
to see just to smurs the whole of Hawaii.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
But I was on. I was in Waikiki.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Next time, I want to go to a wai Ho
because I heard that's more it's not so touristic.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
Okay, Okay, I place, you know what I'm saying. Nothing now?
Is this the young lady who this EP break up
EP was about? Okay?
Speaker 3 (11:49):
So it's a different one, different real person.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
Okay, he caup at the time, all right, so I
want to hear about this. I think he didn't take.
Speaker 4 (12:01):
You start the EP off with numb and I know
what that feels like when you feel like you're talking
to a guy and he don't give a ship man,
you know what I'm saying, and he's just like you're
trying to pour your heart at you're expressing it, and
he's just yeah, it's like a defense mechanism thing.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
Low key, yeah, in the position that I was describing
in the EP that I was in.
Speaker 6 (12:26):
So the breakup was my.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
Fault, I'll start there, Okay, Okay, let me drink. I'm
taking a whole account of there for what I worked through,
my problems with it. I sat with myself with it.
I would deal with my my certain things about it.
Speaker 2 (12:37):
But at the time you weren't acting like it was
your fault.
Speaker 3 (12:40):
Though.
Speaker 4 (12:40):
Is this something that looking back you take accountability or looking.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
At accountability because I was a little pig headed in
the moment. You know, it's like either what I want or.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
You know what I'm saying, my way highway.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
That's that is not conducive to a real relationship. And
so at that point when I when I did numb,
it was just she had already left. And then for
me to not have to feel the accountability and feel
the regret and feel all of that, I just felt
like I don't want to feel anything at all. So
(13:11):
I'm just goning to know myself, like I'll forget it.
I'm just go out and let me drink, let me
smoke some let me not have to think about it,
because when I think about it, I'm going to realize
it was my fault.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
What was your fault? Like, what did you do?
Speaker 3 (13:24):
I was cheating? Yeahship, why here we go?
Speaker 6 (13:36):
Why were you?
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Were you cheating to feel a void? Were you bored? I?
Speaker 1 (13:43):
Did I have something to do with everything that's happening
in your life right now with all the notoriety, And
I think it's all that right.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
I think obviously the notoriety as a big part to
it because people are just loki throwing themselves at you
and yeah, and so with that, so yeah, with that,
it was that I was kind of bored. Yeah, And
(14:13):
I just at that time I didn't have as much
self control as I wanted to. So I had a
lot of growing to do and a lot of discipline.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
And how did she catch you?
Speaker 3 (14:25):
She went to my phone a couple of times.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
Okay, that's always.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
I woke about my sleep one time and she was
going through it.
Speaker 6 (14:30):
She woke me on just like huh wait right now,
like I just see black. I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
So was it with more than one woman or.
Speaker 3 (14:43):
Yeah, it was with a couple m hmm. But it
was over a time span of like, uh, three or
four year relationship. But it wasn't like more than it
wasn't more than two people. Yeah, but still it doesn't
matter though.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Right right?
Speaker 4 (14:58):
You think it's worse when some the teats with like
only one or two other people, or sometimes we feel
like it's not as big a deal if it's like
a whole bunch of people, like you.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Just have a problem. But if it's like one other person,
you really cared about that.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Other person, you actually engage and have a conversation with
them and find out do they even think they're in
a relationship, because more unlikely they thought they would in
a relationship even if you didn't.
Speaker 6 (15:21):
That wasn't the case though.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
Yeah, I wasn't leading anybody on, like okay, sure, Yeah,
I promise you.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
You know, we'll make it what we wanted to be.
Speaker 9 (15:31):
But that energy.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
But you just said it though, so what I would.
I'm very I'll be very transparent at the top. I'll
let you know what I'm not looking for. I'll let
you know what I am looking for. Now. What you
decide to make up in your head after that is.
Speaker 6 (15:46):
Not align with you.
Speaker 3 (15:48):
I don't like. I don't like it.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
Does where you protecting yourself?
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Yeah, the entire time.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
With them to people he was getting you can't having
a condo, no kidding the car head.
Speaker 7 (16:19):
You know morning didn't on the street when they jump
in your car for.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
We ain't gonna figure out what is crazy.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
But you know, at a point like that, when someone
goes through your phone, the first thing that God does
is get mad at you for going through his phone.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Yeah that's what you like?
Speaker 8 (16:42):
What you you don't my mama?
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Clearly you can't have reason to go and check she
found what she was looking for. And then you're like,
now I can't trust you because you try to.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
Turn it around some crazy you guys do you did No,
I didn't do that.
Speaker 6 (17:02):
I actually took it on the chin.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
I was like, yeah, you're right, Like I fucked up,
It's my fault.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Did you want to stay after that?
Speaker 6 (17:07):
Did I want to stay?
Speaker 2 (17:08):
The other day?
Speaker 3 (17:09):
Like, this's a very good question because a lot of
time it's like did they want you to stay? But
it's like did you want to stay? A part of
me did and a part of me didn't.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
It's a lot of work to stay after that.
Speaker 3 (17:24):
That's why, because you know, you know that like, Okay,
now this is now the whole structure is damaged. Now
You're always going to feel like this now, I'm always
going to have to fight this. I wanted to.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Stop doing what you're doing just because she went through.
Speaker 3 (17:38):
What she calls you exactly exactly. So that's why I said,
like even after the relationship ended, it took me about
a year.
Speaker 6 (17:46):
It's took me about six months.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
To a year to really like have to be with
myself and not even really entertaining a lot of women
to be real, and you just kind of like figure out, Okay,
if I want to do this the next time, how
do I want to do it, and what do I
what do I want to not do and what I
want to do right for the relationship, not saying, however,
not saying what is writing what's wrong? But for me
(18:08):
and for the relationship, I get into what do I
want to do right? And what I want to do?
What I want to do anymore?
Speaker 4 (18:12):
That it's interesting because on this EP right, Magic City
is a song on there, and I feel like when
guys go through something and you break up with them,
the first thing they're going to do is.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
Try to act like they are extra and what they're
going to.
Speaker 6 (18:27):
Come on, we're going to pick you up. Man, We're
going to.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Me and my women are the exact opposite were scribed.
But then we heal, you know, you let that. And
then when we heal.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
Because y'all do the real work faster than we try
to avoid, and then.
Speaker 6 (18:47):
We got to sit with the real work later.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
Right, So y'all, y'all go through the feelings. First, we
mask your first, y'all get over it, and then we
gotta go do it.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
Because even how guys express themselves to each other, it's
not like you was.
Speaker 2 (18:59):
Like, man, and I'm really hurt.
Speaker 4 (19:01):
I shouldn't like y'all would be like, yeah, she went
through my ship, yo, Let's go to Magic City.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
That's how guys. But we'd be like, oh my god,
you don't believe, and.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
We're gonna talk about every little detail three times, yeah,
a thousand times.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
He ain't anyway, Like.
Speaker 4 (19:18):
You know, we're gonna do all of that, Like we're
gonna talk about every single detail of what he did
to us, what happened, what was in those text messages.
We're gonna cry, we're gonna sit at home, we're gonna
have our girlfriends over.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
That's the real work, though, like you're letting it out,
you know.
Speaker 4 (19:32):
I feel like y'all don't have the space to like,
your boy's gonna come over, and I know you like
ice cream, but they're not gonna come over.
Speaker 6 (19:39):
Eat ice cream. The definitely.
Speaker 3 (19:53):
Doing that.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
And then so the song the way it goes.
Speaker 4 (19:56):
I really like that song on the EP in particular,
and that it's really about knowing when to let it go,
because sometimes it's like people act like you're supposed to
fight for your relationship, and I want to ask you
about that, like when do you stop fighting?
Speaker 2 (20:11):
Because that's hard to because people feel like, oh, you
just gave up.
Speaker 4 (20:14):
Oh you're not gonna fight, Oh you're not gonna you know,
try to work through this. Then you didn't really care.
And I feel like sometimes women, if a man cheats,
they'll be like, well, he's a good man, he just
messed up, Like you can't just let all these years
or whatever go. But I always feel like when you
do something and get caught, a woman has a they
have the right to do whatever they want. If they're like,
(20:36):
this is it, I'm not doing it, like nobody should
argue that. So what do you think about when is
it time to say? And I want to ask everybody,
when is it like, Okay, we got to just let
this go.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
When he's not giving any more energy, Like if he's nonchalant,
like I don't know, Like if she's pouring out her
heart and he's just sitting there with no response, no feedback,
no nothing, and you leave me to myself to create
this narrative in my head what's really happening, then that's time.
It's time to go. Every situation is different, though, because
not everyone is going to leave when their person cheeks. Now,
(21:08):
if he's remorseful and he's like, I apologize, y'all have
the difficult conversation, then I think it's cool to give
especially if you're single and not married. I mean be
clear if you married, it's actually so if you're just dat,
you're just dating, then you're still trying to figure it out, right,
And just like we're on our own journey, the man
he's on his journey too, He's trying to figure it
out too. And that's a lot of times women don't
(21:30):
realize that we're both on a journey trying to figure
it out. So if he cheats, then that's the time
to have that difficult conversation and find out what it
is that you really want to do moving forward.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
Did you guys live together?
Speaker 3 (21:43):
No?
Speaker 6 (21:43):
I never lived, are you never having?
Speaker 3 (21:47):
Always have my own spots, So even if I would
be over there all the time, I could still go
to myf.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
I have a toothbrush here. Can I ask my question?
Speaker 1 (21:54):
Algi, did you how did you feel about the other
woman that you cheated with? Like once you a girl,
she found out that she were cheating, Like, how did
you treat that situationship?
Speaker 3 (22:04):
I think I didn't feel anything about it because it
wasn't even a situation ship. It was just like one off.
It was just one off, Okay, So I didn't even them.
Speaker 6 (22:13):
People weren't even in my mind to be honest.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
I hate to say, but it's the truth.
Speaker 6 (22:20):
The truth.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
So yeah, I didn't even have any feelings towards in
your real what did.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
You learn from all this? To delete those messages?
Speaker 6 (22:33):
I want my mother is just to be straight up
and not to lie, like.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
Did you want to go do it?
Speaker 6 (22:40):
I want to go do it?
Speaker 1 (22:40):
I mean, I know, did she just found out?
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Did she asking? You said?
Speaker 3 (22:44):
No, No, she just found out. But I mean, if
you're if you're dating someone and you're doing something behind
the back, that's low key line.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Yeah, when are you going to be straight up like listen,
when you're gonna yes.
Speaker 6 (23:00):
I've been doing this for no reason.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
Made her go into your phone in the first place?
If these were like one offs and it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
Serious when I think that was the moment he had
that orgasm. She was wrong, right, something.
Speaker 4 (23:28):
Different, different, going different, you know how your phone like that.
Speaker 3 (23:34):
I don't think I was moving different. I just think
that she just had an intuition and that she just
I just think that she just didn't trust me off
top from jump because she just knew, like what type
of life so I'm in, So she just like maybe
she maybe in the back of her head she thought
it was going to come where she knew it was
going to come. So I feel like she always was
just like, you know, I'm here because I love you,
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but I don't fully trust you.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
So it started off that way.
Speaker 4 (23:59):
I think that's a hard way to start a relationship
when you already don't trust it and nothing happened yet,
because you kind of got to start with a clean slate.
Speaker 11 (24:08):
Yeah, yeah, have you been cheated on?
Speaker 6 (24:11):
Have I cheated on?
Speaker 3 (24:12):
No?
Speaker 2 (24:13):
Nothing, you know it's very good.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
Well, yeah, you're right, nothing I know, but I only
had two serious relationships. Well wow, so to my knowledge, no,
I haven't been because you're right, y'all are very good.
Though y'all are very good, Like I probably wouldn't even ship.
Speaker 6 (24:32):
I probably wouldn't even know. But to my knowledge, do you.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Think women are better cheaters than men?
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Absolutely? Yeah, I think we're better at everything, no offense.
But though we have one foot out the door, best
believe that we're not just cheating and we're you know,
we're with you. We already got one foot out the door,
and it's just a matter of time before we let
you know.
Speaker 3 (24:53):
It's so, would you say that, like if a man
cheats is not as serious as a woman cheating because I.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Think so because some times men can objectify women and
they just want to sleep with them. It's nothing, there's
no emotional attachment. It's something that they did right. Whereas
with us, if we make the decision to sleep with
another man, then there's a deficit in our relationship period.
It's something missing, something that's not happening, something that we're
not getting that maybe we did but we're not getting
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now and we're already moving.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
On subconsciously, or we was never fully in it, or we're.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
Never fully in it.
Speaker 6 (25:25):
Absolutely, So let me ask you something.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
Do y'all think monogamy is like the real way for humanity?
Speaker 1 (25:31):
Absolutely?
Speaker 2 (25:31):
It works for me.
Speaker 1 (25:32):
It works for me.
Speaker 4 (25:34):
But if that's not what you want to do, I
just want to say, Joey Badass sat up here and
acted like it wasn't for him, and now looking at.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Him, I love that.
Speaker 6 (25:45):
He's all in.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (25:47):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
I haven't been in a long term relationship in a
long time, and the last one that I was in
I felt myself getting bored. And I feel like at
some point, if I was with somebody for ten fifteen years,
I think I would have a conversation with opening it
up in some capacity. What that was, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (26:09):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (26:09):
Maybe I wouldn't feel that way about the right person,
but I don't know. I think people are just so
closed off to ideas before they even allow themselves to
explore the concept or even have the conversation. So I
think i'd be at least open to you think if
I don't give a shit, that's the problem.
Speaker 9 (26:29):
I don't really give anything.
Speaker 5 (26:30):
I really don't, and that's one of my problems.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Do you feel like if you really had feelings for
a dude, though, and you really cared about them, that
you were still not give a shit?
Speaker 6 (26:39):
I you really cared about them though.
Speaker 5 (26:41):
When that happens, I'll let you know.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (26:46):
Yeah, I like that me and vulnerability are that's my struggle.
That's my red flag right there. So I don't know
if I've ever let myself.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
Get that far.
Speaker 4 (26:55):
You haven't felt comfortable enough, right, you know? You did
this ep level loss, So I have to think that
this was something that meant a lot to you to
actually put together a whole project.
Speaker 6 (27:05):
Yeah, it did, it did.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
What did she did you tell her that you were
doing this or no.
Speaker 6 (27:09):
I didn't.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
She probably obviously heard it by now, but definitely heard it.
Speaker 6 (27:15):
Yeah, but I.
Speaker 3 (27:15):
Didn't tell her I was doing it. But it did
mean a lot to me. I think it meant a lot.
It meant a lot to me too, because I'm just
a very empathetic person, and so I know what I
did was hurt someone and I didn't feel good about that,
And I think that I just had to, like I said,
go through my process of dealing with myself in certain
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aspects and then you know, I do art, so why
not put it in my art or share it? Because
when I was thinking, I was just like, this is
going to be the most relatable thing to people. Everybody
has been through heartbreak, at least a lot of people,
so a lot of people can relate to that. So
how do I be as authentic as I can be even.
Speaker 6 (27:54):
Though it's you don't want to admit to the world.
Speaker 3 (27:57):
That, yeah, I was, I was a trash nig relag
ship that wasn't good.
Speaker 6 (28:01):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
You don't want to admit that exactly what it's related
where people actually go through that, men actually feel like that.
So I'm like, you know, what I've been through. It.
It's my story. I'm gonna tell it, and.
Speaker 7 (28:10):
Especially if you learn from it, Yeah, forwards a better
man exactly.
Speaker 3 (28:14):
Yeah, because I ain't trying to be out in these
streets whatever. Man, I want to build myself with family,
like I want to. I want to, I have. I
have plans and goals of owning like three hundred acres
and building my family compound and having my wife and
my kids and all that.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
One wife, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (28:36):
But what do y'all feel about that? Though?
Speaker 3 (28:38):
Like I mean, obviously relationship is different, But what do
y'all feel about? But look at me?
Speaker 1 (28:42):
Yeah, women are opening up to the idea, especially where
I live in Atlanta, and they say that they're more
they're open to the lifestyle. But I just think that
they're tired of having a long shelf value, Like they're
tired of waiting for meeting the right one. So then
they settle and tell themselves, Oh, I'm engaging in this
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lifestyle and these are the benefits. But really and truly,
they're just tired of waiting for that one person. They're like,
I've been single for however many however, many years. However,
long and I want to be in a relationship.
Speaker 4 (29:15):
You feel like that, no, younger men, do you think
that that could be you avoiding a relationship with somebody
who's ready to be in one.
Speaker 1 (29:31):
No, the thing, this is my thing. So you you
probably know a little bit of my story. I was
cellibate for eight years, single, not dating, and those eight years, Yeah,
those years, it's like I got to make up.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Like and I.
Speaker 1 (29:47):
Typically don't for the sake of a conversation because I
typically don't tell my age. But guys, I'm fifty one.
Speaker 3 (29:53):
Right, amazing, Yeah, that's crazy, that's great.
Speaker 1 (29:59):
Yeah, And so I attract younger men most people, and
then I feel like the men my age are older,
they're not gonna want to do the things that I
want to do. I feel like they're not gonna want
to go the places I want to go. They're not
even gonna dress like I want them to dress. I
just think at a certain age, it's those things are
just not important. And because of those eight years that
I didn't get to do it, it's like I'm making
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up for that time. It's almost like I'm eight years
younger than what I really am. That's how I feel
because I really didn't live during those eight years, Like
my life literally went on pause. So I'm just like,
it's just I've tried it and it's just.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
Not what I like to do.
Speaker 1 (30:34):
And I don't try to say that you like to
do that. You feel like girl like to have fun.
I mean, do you know when you get like, you know,
at the fifties, when you start having health issues and
you know.
Speaker 6 (30:46):
What, is it.
Speaker 1 (30:49):
Not menopause for me, because that's good for them.
Speaker 2 (30:52):
For the younger guys that.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
Would a comes impotent.
Speaker 6 (31:01):
Yeah, you know that's the.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Age range for you that you're leaning towards. When it
comes to the younger man, I.
Speaker 1 (31:11):
Would say, I would say a ten year gap. No, no, younger,
because I've tried it and it doesn't work. The conversation
is totally just it's crazy.
Speaker 2 (31:19):
I have a sixteen year age gap in my relationship currently. Wow,
who's younger?
Speaker 3 (31:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (31:26):
Actually, like my daughter like you, she don't care, she's
happy for me. I'm but you have fun, right, I
don't have a.
Speaker 3 (31:37):
Different And I was.
Speaker 7 (31:39):
Very skeptical at first because of that main reason of
my daughter being around his same age, like a not
even a year apart, and also like we it's a
long distance relationship. So those were the two red flags,
but we work through it. We waited nine months to
have sex, like it was like a whole like journey,
and now we're like fifteen months in and it's I'm
(31:59):
we're yeah, what do you think you're waiting to have sex? Algie,
Like if you.
Speaker 2 (32:03):
Were like we did that on purpose?
Speaker 1 (32:05):
Yeah, I want to know how y'all managed those nine months.
Speaker 7 (32:08):
Well, there was a time you did didn't see each
other for four months. Four months went byble dollar seeing
each other.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
Okay, so that's that. And then honestly, there was a
time and we had sex in I think April.
Speaker 7 (32:29):
There was a time in January that I wanted to
give him something, but I got sick so it didn't happen.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
So in my mind it was gonna happen at night
I was getting It's like, because.
Speaker 7 (32:46):
We still.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
Don't see it, dur ship, there was like one time.
Speaker 8 (33:09):
There was nothing touch So are you you'll please obviously relationships,
he said, no, Ship, I think waiting is.
Speaker 6 (33:20):
Cool if that's what you want to do.
Speaker 3 (33:22):
I think I don't you know, I think it just
depends on the relationship and the people in the relationship
because I've waited sometimes to depending on the person.
Speaker 6 (33:30):
I don't know, but I think it just depends.
Speaker 3 (33:41):
I respect. I respect people's boundaries and spirituality if they
are like, you know what, I want to wait and
save myself, or I've even fasted from sex some time
in a relationship, like I just need to take some
time for Like.
Speaker 6 (33:59):
My plan was like three months only lasted like a month. Yeah,
what did I do for you? It did bring a
lot of clarity though for.
Speaker 3 (34:07):
Me is it I was just able to kind of
just lock in more on certain things with myself and
even with her though, like we weren't focused on sex.
We were just focused on building outside of that. That
was our thing.
Speaker 2 (34:19):
So then what happened after thirty days? I was there.
Speaker 5 (34:25):
Because she was like, she was like, was that the
longest you've ever gone without doing anything.
Speaker 6 (34:37):
In a relationship.
Speaker 2 (34:38):
Yeah, you didn't have sex during that time with the
other women, right.
Speaker 7 (34:46):
As you about your celibacy after the like after the
eight years, when did you know that you were like, Okay,
I'm ready again.
Speaker 1 (34:54):
Because at the time, during the eight years, I was
believing that someone was my husband and he was not.
So it was an erroneous belief and I had to
struggle and deal with that. And so once I put
that to rest, and I was like, Okay, I want
to start dating again. And I mean cause I was like, this,
ain't it you know what I'm saying, And I don't
think like I still don't know because I'm still single.
I don't know if I can do it in a relationship.
(35:16):
Like I can do it by myself, yes, but in
a relationship, I'm not so sure I could do it.
I've never tried it. So we Shelsea. But for me,
it was just like I went from thirty three to
forty one and so all of my thirties it was
just like, Okay, I'm missing out on life. I ain't living.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
This is crazy. I don't want to do this.
Speaker 1 (35:34):
But now as I get older, I realize why that's
so important, because, like you say, it brings a lot
of clarity. It helps you make better decisions in your relationship.
Speaker 2 (35:45):
Right.
Speaker 1 (35:45):
And so I just me, I hooked up with someone
who I was just infatuated with some years before. We
never you know, we never done it. So and he
was he lived in Atlanta. I moved to Atlanta, and
it's like it's always like, gosh, you're just in love
with this guy at the time, and he was like,
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he's actually ten years before he was actually abstinate. He
was like on something else, and so I was coming
out of my season.
Speaker 3 (36:19):
Yes it was.
Speaker 4 (36:20):
You know, you talk a lot about having standards too, right,
and so I wanted to ask everybody as far as standards,
what would you say in a relationship your standards? All right, Jordan,
let's start with you for what you're looking for. What
are your standards.
Speaker 5 (36:34):
I'm tough a job.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
Okay, that's not Tom.
Speaker 6 (36:37):
Well, I'm just a job.
Speaker 2 (36:40):
You need to have a job.
Speaker 5 (36:41):
You need to have something that you do for fun.
You need to have friends, you need to treat your
parents well. You need to have a sense of humor.
I do like my men a little uptight, like okay,
reachable to these hosts, unaccessible that, but also like I
sometimes I like to bug out when I'm out, and
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I don't want you to do that.
Speaker 2 (37:02):
That's for me today. Okay, you want you were going home?
I was like, Okay, you need to get checked just
a little bit.
Speaker 5 (37:09):
Yeah, Because I feel like I can be very dominant
in relationships and I want someone to put me in
my feminine when appropriate.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
Yeah, okay, what if that's your standards?
Speaker 1 (37:19):
Take everything that she said, But one of the more
important things for me is someone who's in purpose. Like
that is so important to have to have similar goals
and values, because what else is going to sustain the
relationship when there is no sex, right, you got to
have some level of compatibility or it's not going to work.
You just can't be handsome, and that's it.
Speaker 2 (37:37):
It has to be something else to you.
Speaker 1 (37:39):
So for me, it's purpose and that's something that I
feel like before you even consider being in a relationship,
you gotta have that locked in, Like what am I
here for? What is my God given assignment?
Speaker 2 (37:48):
What am I called to do? All those things that
you said? But purpose plus purpose? What would you say, Alie,
is your standards in a relationship?
Speaker 3 (37:58):
I would say security in yourself and loving yourself. First
of all, I've been through a couple of different situationships
where it's just when people don't love themselves, it makes
the relationship, situationship, whatever, harder because now you're fighting.
Speaker 2 (38:11):
Two battles insecurity is a really tough thing to battle.
Speaker 3 (38:15):
It's really tough. So I would say someone who's securing themselves,
who loves themselves, someone who has some type of spiritual
connection with the creator of the world. I'm not going
to say what your religion should be, but as long
as there's some spiritual connection that you feel like there's
something bigger than yourself, someone who is empathetic, who loves family,
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the idea of family.
Speaker 6 (38:40):
A hard worker.
Speaker 3 (38:41):
Yeah, but I'm not trying to have my woman paying
the bills. So you can work if you want to.
But I think it's just like you said, purpose, even
if you ain't bringing in whatever bread, what's your purpose?
Are you doing that every day? Are you living out
your truth? You know what I'm saying, what you want
to do and not just an at home person.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
Have you ever dated somebody who made more than you.
Speaker 3 (39:02):
Currently? No?
Speaker 2 (39:03):
Okay, are you open to that?
Speaker 3 (39:05):
Yeah? For sure?
Speaker 9 (39:06):
He's like, you know, yeah, I think I think why not?
Speaker 3 (39:18):
Like if my woman made more than me, I'm like, yeah,
what go back?
Speaker 2 (39:22):
But you would still pay the bills?
Speaker 3 (39:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (39:23):
I still pay the bills for sure.
Speaker 3 (39:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (39:28):
What about you?
Speaker 7 (39:28):
What you're saying, I feel like everything everybody said is
spot on. I just want to add to those things
that me personally. Communication is the biggest thing for me.
I feel like, if you cannot communicate with your partner,
then why are you guys together? And the next thing
for me would be honesty. People have a problem telling
the truth. People have a problem living in their truth,
and that kind of goes with the communication hand in hand.
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I've dealt with in the past people that felt like
they had the hide things or that weren't you with themselves,
and it just always ended in disaster.
Speaker 2 (40:00):
You have a song called honest on the EP. Are
you honest?
Speaker 6 (40:07):
You think I am?
Speaker 10 (40:09):
Now you are?
Speaker 4 (40:09):
Yeah, that's and I want to say that's the most
important thing. Like we go through stuff in life, we
go through relationships, and everything should make us a better person, right,
Everything is like a lesson learned, even if it didn't
work out, you know, we learn these different lessons. And
you you talked about insecurity. That's so interesting to me because,
for instance, right on Euphoria, you dating Sidney Sweeney on
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the show, her character Cassie, Right, that's okay, So that
has to be hard for somebody because they look at
her as like this big sex symbol right now, like
everybody's like Sidney, and so I can imagine how somebody
would feel like, damn, he was, you know, on the show,
and he was with Sidney Sweeney and doing X, Y and.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
Z and having sex scenes.
Speaker 4 (40:50):
But that is probably if you're a regular girl and
that's your man, that has to feel like damn.
Speaker 2 (40:56):
I don't you know how can I compare that to that?
Speaker 3 (40:59):
Yeah, my girl at the time, she wasn't even really tripping.
I think she actually low key liked that.
Speaker 2 (41:04):
She really Yeah, to be real with you, I.
Speaker 3 (41:07):
Think she did, like, But I could I see the
flip side of that though. It's like, because I don't
know if I would want to watch my girl.
Speaker 2 (41:15):
Can you imagine if yet, if that was your girl
doing the sex sye.
Speaker 6 (41:19):
Yeah, it's just acting, But I'm not trying to see
it either, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (41:22):
Yeah, you never dated another person in the business, like
another woman who was an.
Speaker 6 (41:26):
Actress dated, no, like messed around with Fine?
Speaker 4 (41:33):
Would you want to you think you think that could
because then maybe you guys don't understand each other more.
But then to your point, you wouldn't want to watch
something like that.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
I don't think I would want to be I think
when I come home, I wouldn't want to have a
conversation of like, oh yeah, I was set today for you.
Oh yeah, this is how it was today for me.
When I come home, I don't want to talk about
set anymore. I want to talk about Okay, how was
your day in this other field that you're doing what
you're doing. How was that that interesting? You know? Like
so I don't think I would want to be with
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somebody in my field.
Speaker 4 (42:05):
You know how amazing it is that you are where
you are, Like coming from Saginaw, Michigan, I mean it's
a big deal. Do you ever have to sit back
and think like I can't believe this is my life.
Speaker 3 (42:16):
Yeah. I don't do it that often, but I did
have a moment like two weeks ago. I was just
like sitting with myself and I was just thanking God
because like nobody in my family or my you know
what I'm saying. It's just I've just been so blessed
to get to where I am and to be able
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to help the way I can. And I'm just I
don't take it for.
Speaker 6 (42:39):
Granted at all.
Speaker 3 (42:40):
But yeah, I'm just like, this is crazy. The only
the only ones about the Sacond is me. Draymond Green,
Stevie wonder. I mean, doesn't y'all Serena Lewis, They talked
like she's in confident but she was born in name.
Speaker 6 (42:52):
But it ain't a lot of us.
Speaker 3 (42:53):
Though, So it's just like, you know, it's it's really dope.
Speaker 4 (42:56):
Yeah, yeah, I mean it's a big I remember watching
you and the hate you give because I of that
movie and seeing I know you were in the beginning
and then that was it. But that was a really
impactful part of that movie, you know. And I think
you've had like some great roles, I mean really legendary.
Just to think about where you are right now and
(43:17):
now you're about to play a box. You haven't told
us much about it, but I know that's gonna be
a big one because Jamie Fox is in the tube.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
It's gonna be really big. And the story is when
I read the script, I got goosebumps. That's how I
always know if it's a good script or not. Yeah,
if I get goosebumps while I'm reading it, or if
I'm just like yo, I can't stop reading this. And
that's how I know when I read that, when I'm like, yo,
this is gonna be because it's a true story. It's
based on a true story too, and the true story
is very tragic.
Speaker 2 (43:42):
So to find out more information, what's your training process?
Speaker 3 (43:47):
Like, Oh, so I go to the gym from nine
to four every day and we are essentially just becoming boxers.
So when we get there, we have to either run
on a treadmill for an hour or were outside it
and then we come back in. We do we jump
rope for a long time, and then we do sparring
with each other and then we'd spar the actual pro boxers.
Speaker 2 (44:09):
Game and what you spired with.
Speaker 6 (44:12):
So our trainers.
Speaker 3 (44:13):
I'm getting trained by a guy named Chris Algery. So
he's from Staten Island. He was a pro boxer, very fire,
and they got Mike, his nephew, Mike Algery, who was
the number one amateur in New York right now, which
is crazy to say. Then another guy named Jose Jose Gonzalez.
(44:34):
He's he was a pro boxer as well. So we're
in there with some people that have gone the distance
and fought in like the Manny Pacquias of the world.
Yeah all that, so, yeah, it's good.
Speaker 2 (44:43):
You know, you can't have sex before you fight either.
Speaker 3 (44:45):
So your energy.
Speaker 2 (44:47):
Yeah, so you have to be at this point in time.
This is a great time for you to.
Speaker 7 (44:54):
The fact.
Speaker 6 (44:55):
No, the weekends, the weekends. The weekends is good. You know,
take my Friday Saturday night.
Speaker 3 (45:01):
It good.
Speaker 6 (45:02):
I'm good with Monday. I'm cool.
Speaker 3 (45:04):
Yeah, that's very funny though, because it's real. Me and
my castmate were just talking about that. Was like, like, bro,
one time I showed up and I was just drained.
Speaker 6 (45:12):
I couldn't get through the day.
Speaker 3 (45:16):
I know that it is different.
Speaker 2 (45:17):
Masturbate does.
Speaker 3 (45:20):
Still releasing, like yeah, you gotta you gotta there you go.
Speaker 6 (45:25):
Yeah, but yeah, you really are, Like you think you're.
Speaker 2 (45:29):
Good in bed.
Speaker 6 (45:30):
I think I'm great in bed?
Speaker 2 (45:32):
Yeah, why, Like, who have women been like, oh my god,
you're the best?
Speaker 3 (45:37):
As we say that.
Speaker 6 (45:39):
The best. I mean, yeah, y'all do say that.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
But one thing that y'all can't hide is faces, And
one thing y'all can't hide is faces and breaths.
Speaker 6 (45:51):
Y'all can't hide that. You can't hide that, so you know,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (45:58):
But you're an actor, yeah, working all those things you
know you apply to women before and faked it like
it was amazing just.
Speaker 3 (46:06):
To get out of it early.
Speaker 2 (46:07):
Same Oh, my god, I can't. You did have to
get out of there early? Can you make yourself finished?
Speaker 3 (46:13):
Like or do you?
Speaker 2 (46:14):
Or have they been times when you have to pretend
you were done?
Speaker 3 (46:18):
Why?
Speaker 2 (46:20):
Why did you want to get out of there? It
wasn't it just wasn't field or smell or oh my god.
Speaker 1 (46:26):
Yeah, that's because I'm like, what would be a reason dry.
Speaker 6 (46:32):
Rhythm? Oh my god, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (46:38):
Like what's bad vagina in your definition? Is it just
the vagina or is it the whole experience.
Speaker 3 (46:43):
With the woman? Okay, I'll just say this, like in
my experience yet, bad vagina is vagina that's not well kept,
you know.
Speaker 2 (46:55):
Like groomed. Well it's well kept.
Speaker 3 (46:57):
Yeah, the grooming, because I'll take like it's natural, right,
like hair is natural. You feel me?
Speaker 6 (47:05):
Like, as long as it ain't looking hella crazy down there?
Speaker 9 (47:08):
Like you know I'm not, yeah, but.
Speaker 3 (47:17):
Oh damn, this is crazy. A specific time I had
to get up out of there was when I was
messing around with this girl and we had messed around
times before and she her hygen really good, like she
had no problem yet normally this time when I was
just hitting it from the back, there was just there
(47:38):
was just in Aroma that was coming up, and I'm
just like, just like you knew I was coming over?
Speaker 6 (47:46):
Did you take a ship and then you didn't? It's
like did you did you not get in a shower?
Speaker 2 (47:57):
Or like what did it Tuesday? Taco?
Speaker 3 (48:09):
I don't remember the day The first time, it's.
Speaker 2 (48:14):
Usually like she was musty or trust not ship?
Speaker 3 (48:20):
Yeah, shitty, And so I'm like, yo, I gotta get
up out of here.
Speaker 9 (48:24):
Did you tell her?
Speaker 3 (48:25):
No? I didn't tell her.
Speaker 6 (48:27):
Maybe I should have told her in my mom like
you know this?
Speaker 3 (48:31):
How do you not write?
Speaker 2 (48:34):
But did you see anything? You know? Because that's the
time when you'd be like, what's going on in Okay?
Thank god? I feel like it was just that wasn't
be crazy? Can you see that ship? She didn't smell it?
(48:55):
Because that's what I'm saying, like.
Speaker 3 (48:57):
There's no way, there's no way.
Speaker 2 (49:02):
I was coming.
Speaker 3 (49:04):
Damn.
Speaker 6 (49:05):
After that, it's just I just didn't want to even.
Speaker 3 (49:09):
Talk to her no more.
Speaker 1 (49:10):
Really, so you never told her why you ended it?
Speaker 2 (49:15):
Well now she know we don't know who he's talking about.
If you was the one who got ghost girl, you
should have washed that ass. You should have watched that
whole body.
Speaker 3 (49:31):
Even if I were, even if you were to take
a ship before I have sex, I'm getting in the shower.
I care about myself that much, like I'm really big
on that before I have Before I have sex at all,
I'm getting in the.
Speaker 4 (49:44):
Shower making I will never forget. I was when I
used to work in artist management. One of my friends,
like you know, the artist I was working with, had
a show and she ended up sleeping with somebody from
like the crew, and she was like, Angela.
Speaker 2 (50:03):
We were in the bad.
Speaker 4 (50:04):
He got it and took a ship in the bathroom
in the hotel and got right back in what and
she was like, she told him, She's like, you're not
gonna take a shower. She was like, I can smell
the ship like you in the hotel room and in
the room and got in the bad and she told me,
she was like, you're not gonna like you gotta get
in the shower.
Speaker 3 (50:28):
Immediately, and as but me just just me personally, like
I said, I care on my hygiene so much that
I don't even want to even put you in a
position of smelling me in.
Speaker 6 (50:38):
A bad way. So I'm going to be like, let
me jump in the shower.
Speaker 2 (50:41):
You give me here smelling good today?
Speaker 4 (50:44):
Yeah, men don't like to tell what Colonne they were
because they don't want other people to buy what type
of what colonne.
Speaker 3 (50:51):
It's a mix, I do, but it's a green bottle
with a gold top.
Speaker 9 (50:58):
But it's really green Cree. It's really is the brand Creed, No,
it's not.
Speaker 6 (51:05):
Creed is cool, but I was.
Speaker 3 (51:07):
Like, I smelled Creed everywhere, so many.
Speaker 4 (51:10):
Different ones, you know. Yeah, yeah, they always have new
sense coming out and everything like that. So you know,
sometimes guys put too much cologne on.
Speaker 1 (51:19):
Good Lord, you're still trying to jay gone for a
whole day.
Speaker 7 (51:24):
Calming down, bro, especially when it's a bad one, like
you drenched yourself with some bullshit and now it's lingering.
Speaker 3 (51:31):
Like I've smelled times when I put on too much
colomny by accident, and I'm like, I got on too
much colomne.
Speaker 7 (51:41):
I've done that with perfume, but it's because I smoked weed.
So I always try to cover up the aroma like that.
Speaker 2 (51:46):
He's been like weeding perfume.
Speaker 6 (51:48):
It's crazy because we never goes anywhere, right, It's crazy.
Speaker 4 (51:54):
Do you mind if a woman like comes over smelling
like we I feel like we's not a bad smell.
Speaker 3 (51:58):
Like if you can smell like cigarettes, that's different.
Speaker 7 (52:01):
Well unless you're somebody who actually hates it. Because I
was outdated someone who hated my weed, and he didn't
want to smell it, he didn't want to see it,
he didn't want to taste it on my breath or
my mouth, you know.
Speaker 2 (52:15):
So that was that became an issue in our relationship.
Speaker 5 (52:17):
Because and what you're rolling it into, I feel like
makes a difference. Sometimes I'm like, I don't like what
they Yeah.
Speaker 7 (52:23):
See you know I'm a no tobacco girl. Yeah, so
I'm a I'm a clean smoker. But even still, when
you got that good good do you know it?
Speaker 6 (52:30):
Lingers smoke papers?
Speaker 2 (52:32):
Yeah, and.
Speaker 3 (52:35):
We're on a healthier side, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (52:38):
All the backwoods don't work.
Speaker 4 (52:44):
Now, are you actively dating even though you're single? Like,
are there do you what do you think about like
a roster? Or do you think I can only date
one person at a time?
Speaker 7 (52:53):
Yeah, that is me.
Speaker 1 (52:54):
I can only date one person. I'm not actively dating
right now.
Speaker 3 (52:56):
No, No, I mean I.
Speaker 1 (53:00):
I've entertained someone recently, but it wasn't a good fit
for me. Why, Well, because he was he was a
lot younger. The conversation just wasn't there, and he talked
about his previous relationship too much on the phone.
Speaker 2 (53:22):
Every time we would.
Speaker 1 (53:23):
Get on the phone, he would just talk about the problems,
like because they had a small child. I would they
had a small child. And then the time that I
because normally I would just listen. But then one particular
time I thought to engage the conversation and I realized,
this man doesn't take accountability for anything.
Speaker 2 (53:40):
That's everything is someone else.
Speaker 4 (53:43):
Whenever you are talking to somebody, and they are always
the victim, and everything is this person did that, this person,
did this, this person, and they never are like because
you came in here and said at accountability, like I
messed up, I cheated. I realized now there are people
that will never admit the wrong and never take responsibility
for the part they played.
Speaker 1 (54:03):
It was just where he proposed to this young lady,
and he took the ring back. But once you propose,
like we're moving towards marriage, we're looking at houses, we're
doing all these things. Well, she wanted to buy a house,
and I don't think he was in a position to
be able to do. So her mom helped her buy
this house. And he was like, who does that? Who
gets engaged and buy a house? I said, everybody.
Speaker 3 (54:25):
Yeah he could.
Speaker 2 (54:33):
He didn't want to.
Speaker 1 (54:36):
Afford the mortgage though he couldn't he want in a
position to do it.
Speaker 2 (54:39):
And I'm like, no, so I understand that out. Yeah,
like this got to get your back against the water,
figure some ship out.
Speaker 4 (54:46):
Okay, right, we're gonna buy this house, and then I
got to figure out how to pay this mortgage. Sometimes
that's what puts you in the position to be a
better person. And like, because I feel like there's people
who cost through life they do yeah, and then there's
people who are like, I got to make this happen,
and I'm a figure it out and do whatever I can.
Speaker 3 (55:02):
But also it's like I don't know brush situation and
how because everybody relationship is a certain relationship and we
never know the ins and outs of it. But I
feel like that's also a time where you're like, Okay,
we've fit about this house, so we're going to put
together a plan that involves both of us to be
able to cover this until I can fully cover it myself.
Speaker 2 (55:20):
Right, right, But maybe he didn't like her doing something without.
Speaker 1 (55:23):
His Well, he wanteds to rent. And I'm like, if
she was in a position to do this and her
mom just I think helped her with the down payment,
then I think that's cool. But I feel like, if anything,
he was slowing her down.
Speaker 2 (55:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (55:35):
Yeah, And he just didn't want to admit that I'm
non a position.
Speaker 2 (55:40):
I was like, you behave me so.
Speaker 4 (55:44):
Right here, my gosh, and so Algie, can you see yourself?
You know, we're just talking about all of these different things, relationships.
I wonder what it's going to be like to live
with you, Like, can you see that happening?
Speaker 2 (56:01):
Is that that's something that you want?
Speaker 6 (56:02):
Because when yeah, that you want living with me is
I mean everybody will say this, right living with me?
Speaker 3 (56:10):
Yeah? Great?
Speaker 6 (56:14):
And dirty clothes I do, and the.
Speaker 1 (56:17):
Floor in the bathroom.
Speaker 6 (56:22):
If I leave in front of the bathroom, coming right
back to get them.
Speaker 3 (56:25):
Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (56:26):
So streets.
Speaker 6 (56:31):
I'm pretty, I'm pretty smooth going though.
Speaker 3 (56:35):
I can cook.
Speaker 6 (56:36):
I'm pretty to a dish.
Speaker 2 (56:37):
If a girl's coming over.
Speaker 3 (56:40):
I may do some steak and some mashed potatoes and
like maybe broccolini.
Speaker 11 (56:49):
I've never heard anybody say that I may do some
honey glaze, salmon okay, okay, cook low key my pops.
Speaker 3 (57:01):
But also myself. I did a lot of YouTube university. Yeah,
I just go in there and find different meals that
I like, like like the eating restaurants, and I figure
how to cook them.
Speaker 4 (57:11):
So your father was a big, key part of part
of your life kind of Yeah, that shapes a lot
of how we deal with relationships and everything, for sure.
I feel like even for women, our fathers shape a
lot of that too, like our relationship with our dads.
Speaker 3 (57:27):
Yeah, a lot with y'all too, though, right, because it's
like I fel like either that well, a lot with
both sides. Because the absence of a father in a
man's life is really great too, Like that's not great
in a good way, but it's a great absence, you
know what I'm saying, Just like it isn't a woman's
great impact.
Speaker 2 (57:45):
Yeah. So, have you ever proposed to anyone?
Speaker 8 (57:49):
No?
Speaker 3 (57:50):
Not ship, not ship.
Speaker 2 (57:55):
Enjoy your life, you know what I'm saying. You got
a lot of great things happening.
Speaker 3 (57:58):
I will say this, though, I don't want to wait
too long to start my family, Like I would love
to start a family and be married by the time,
I'm like thirty six, thirty seven.
Speaker 6 (58:13):
Okay, I got a little I'm thirty right now. Yeah, yeah, time,
I got some I'm not trying.
Speaker 3 (58:19):
To be fifty years old as a man and be
like yah, I'm staying here playing the game and I'm like, no, bro,
you're supposed to be building your legacy now, like absolutely.
Speaker 1 (58:28):
One of the things that you get to choose. Yeah,
you get to decide as the man when you're ready
to do that.
Speaker 10 (58:35):
What do you think from a woman's perspective, because we
don't get to choose like we do the GFU we
want to or not.
Speaker 1 (58:41):
But you set the tone for the relationship that's real.
Speaker 2 (58:45):
Yeah, yeah, choose wisely.
Speaker 6 (58:48):
Oh yeah, for sure.
Speaker 3 (58:49):
A thousand, a thousand.
Speaker 4 (58:52):
Well, listen, Algie, I appreciate you so much for coming.
I always enjoy having conversations with you. And congratulations on
the EP. I know it's been out a couple of
months already, but you know, we were finding finally able
to sit down and talk to you. But you've been
doing tremendous things. I think we spoke when you did
the new addition, you know, a serious also, but just
(59:12):
seeing like everything that you've been doing and I cannot wait,
since I'm a big boxing fan for that movie to drop.
Speaker 3 (59:17):
It's gonna be so hard.
Speaker 6 (59:18):
I'm literally becoming a boxer right now.
Speaker 3 (59:20):
It's crazy.
Speaker 6 (59:21):
But I got the hands, you know what, They've been
training us to have the hands.
Speaker 2 (59:26):
Get too hype, now, anybody have any of the trainers
dropped you yet?
Speaker 8 (59:32):
No?
Speaker 3 (59:33):
But I did get rocked.
Speaker 9 (59:35):
I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 6 (59:37):
The thing the thing you learn is in order to
give one, you got to take one.
Speaker 3 (59:41):
Yeah, okay, And so if you're going to go in
and give one, you've got to be prepared to take one.
Speaker 2 (59:45):
Who's your who's your favorite boxer? Have you got to
say somebody that.
Speaker 6 (59:49):
You are like, I'm gonna say Pernell Whitaker.
Speaker 3 (59:54):
Okay, yeah, yeah, from from Virginia, from Norfolk, some of
the best defense ever in the sport of boxing. He
fought on the Olympic.
Speaker 9 (01:00:05):
Damn, okay, that's what I'm playing.
Speaker 3 (01:00:17):
So he fought on the Olympic team with Evander, with
Henry Tillman. You know, Mike Tyson was actually trying to
get on that Olympic team.
Speaker 2 (01:00:25):
Are you gonna didn't make this out after check this out? Okay? Okay? Perfect?
Speaker 3 (01:00:35):
All right?
Speaker 4 (01:00:36):
Well again, thank you so much for coming through left
to see and celebrate everything that you have going on.
So now listen, thank you for being a great conversation
and listen and your honesty. I love when you come
up and talk to him and talk to me and
talk to us.
Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
Anytime you had having us have a moment. Last time
I saw you, yes, we show.
Speaker 4 (01:00:56):
We had She did way out, but she had DeAndre
on and also doctor out to heavenly that Heavenly had
no idea who DeAndre was.
Speaker 2 (01:01:05):
You know, she's a baby with Jack Queeze, And yeah,
it was funny.
Speaker 6 (01:01:11):
That was something.
Speaker 2 (01:01:12):
Yeah, it was funny. You was like, you have a baby.
She wouldn't let the story get out though.
Speaker 5 (01:01:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:01:23):
I was like, let's let her tell the story.
Speaker 9 (01:01:25):
Let her talk.
Speaker 3 (01:01:26):
It was funny though.
Speaker 2 (01:01:29):
Atlanta, man, he's the friends. Atlanta is a wild place.
You came out. Jacqueie text me like, really, I didn't
say nothing bad about you. You know, it's how to
do my jobs, you know what I mean? And let
the woman talk. But she didn't say nothing crazy. He
was like, okay, I'm gonna watch it.
Speaker 3 (01:01:49):
Yeah she didn't.
Speaker 2 (01:01:50):
Yeah, yeah, I don't. You know, we weren't trying to
have viral moments off of negativity and.
Speaker 1 (01:01:55):
Was so worried about what her dad's gonna say anyway,
like my dad is gonna.
Speaker 4 (01:01:59):
Hear so yeah, that's tough to have a dad like that.
Absolutely all right, Well listen you guys, Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (01:02:05):
Love Lost.
Speaker 4 (01:02:06):
Make sure y'all check out that EP thousand percent now,
Oh and congratulate she's on the on the position in
the black.
Speaker 1 (01:02:14):
Yes, yes, chief, I'm an officer.
Speaker 2 (01:02:16):
Yes, in the network. Yeah. If anybody have anything they
want to you know what I'm saying. Yes, yeah, thank you,
Thank you so much, just amazing, so thank you for
joining us.
What epics.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Sela, Yee, I'm g G.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Maguire, I'm Jordie Jr.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
I'm Algie Smith.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
I'm on the coast God periods. Don't forget the middle name.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
Listen, before this show started, we were saying the coast
Gout is a conversationalist.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Yes, she.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
We do not want to label her as a relationship expert,
even though that's how I look at it.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Yes, you're a conversationalist.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Right, Well, you asking me I'm going to say a comedy.
You're not going to say it. I'm not going to
say it.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
But you got whole games and everything.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Yeah, you got a game, the dating game, right, yes,
dating card game. Okay, And I want to tell you
that Jordan in particular was excited.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
She was like, I cannot wait to do that's your single.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
Yes, I'm ready. Well I don't know if I'm ready
to mingle, but I'm open to it.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
You open to it, I'm open to it. I'm a
little break right now.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Okay, Yeah, your break is always good, you know, because
what you're doing on the break nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
And then how she was nervous because you know he
has a whole breakup ep and so we want to
dig into what type of person he is.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Because it was very and he's very tight lipped about
the relationships. That's what I was going to be.
Speaker 6 (01:14):
We'll see.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
My congratulations though. You know you've been killing it too
by the way out here. It's just I think it's
just amazing to see everything you've done, and then with
the music, because some people didn't even know you do.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Music, which is crazy.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
So it has to feel good when you're putting out
music and it's really resonating with people.
Speaker 6 (01:35):
Yeah, it does. It does because I love both.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
I love both both of my crafts very deeply, and
I take them very seriously and I put a lot
of time into them. And so for people to respect
both of them and for me to be building the
respect in that in that world like I am in
the acting world, it's just it's dope.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
I feel like people really want you to be an athlete,
like a lot of them that you play.
Speaker 6 (01:56):
The film right now.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
I really I was going.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
To ask you, because that's you boxing. I was like,
is that for a roller for yourself?
Speaker 6 (02:03):
Yes, for a role.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
So I'm doing a film with Jamie Fox right now,
and it's based on the nineteen eighty four Olympic boxing team.
That's all I can say because they might.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Okay, that's great. Boxes my favorite sport to watch.
Speaker 6 (02:20):
Yeah, yeah, you're gonna watch one on Saturday.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Crawford and Can Yes, I who you got?
Speaker 6 (02:25):
I got Crawford Court.
Speaker 4 (02:26):
Bo Okay that's what we went. Yeah, of course, Okay,
what do you I don't know if everybody in here
watching it.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
To go watch you know what I'm saying. But I
went to that sh That was kind.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
But I was say boxing matches are a great place
to go because it it's definitely very male heads.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Sporting events in general. I was just saying this.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
I went to a Jets game yesterday. Not a football girly,
but I do love the Ravens. I was like, this
is the perfect place for single ladies to me man,
and it was just me and one my cute little friend.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
I'm like, they're.
Speaker 5 (02:57):
Swimming and go to the Mail sports, golf, tennis?
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Okay she did? Ye went to the US US. You know.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
I tell people to like, if you want to date people,
be thinking someone's going to just show up at the door,
Like you got to make an effort if you want to. Like,
I love that you're going on because you're also having
fun while you're going out, So you would do it anyway.
But then it's nice when like you don't got to
pay for a drink that part. Yes, are you the
type of person alg when you go out that you
buy drinks for ladies, even if it's you're not trying
(03:38):
to holler at them.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
I'm not doing it all the time, but I don't
mind doing it though, because.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
More it depends on where you are certain places.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
It's regional because New So I'm a Jersey girl and
so that's what we do up here. But I live
in Atlanta, Georgia, and it's just not like that.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
You're gonna talk.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
They're gonna talk you to death forever.
Speaker 7 (04:04):
I live in Atlanta too, And I literally have a
friend who was like, he's a guy, and he's like,
he's from Detroit, and we know the Detroit guys like
to spend money.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
They're very generous, right, they won't even speak to you,
they just send a drinks.
Speaker 8 (04:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:17):
Love that.
Speaker 7 (04:18):
So we had a whole debate one day because he's like,
you should never have to spend money when you're outside.
He's like, if I saw you anywhere, I would just
walk up and pay your tab just because how.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Fine you are.
Speaker 7 (04:27):
And I'm like, that's not my life. You chased and
spend much when I go out. Now there are the person.
You know, we do get, you know, the perks. But
he made it seem like every time I stop about
the door watchuld never spend a dollar.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
But that is from who you getting. Are you interested
in the one that you're getting the perks from? Then
that's the other thing.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Right.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
Well, we had a whole debate about this up here
with Snapdog. I'm going to ask you, Algie, as the
man in the room, if you're buying, like say you're
at a bar and you send a woman a drink,
does that mean that Let's say she accepts it, but
she's in a relationship, is that disrespectful to her man?
Speaker 6 (05:02):
If her man is there, he's.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Not there.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Drink over she just says thank you? That's it?
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Like?
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Is that like she disrespecting her man?
Speaker 6 (05:11):
Or mmmm?
Speaker 9 (05:17):
I think.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
I want to say if it was my girl, then no,
you're not. He selling the drink from Why are you
selling and drink from a nigga? It don't matter. But
on the flip side, if I saw myself doing it,
I could see how a woman would accept it. So
I guess I'm just very contradicting myself.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Right, You're like, because you know your intentions, but you
don't know where somebody else's intentions are.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Might be like, I'm just getting you a drink exactly,
So why.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Would you just get someone to drink that You're not interested.
Speaker 6 (05:45):
In that part too? And I'm not just buying drinks
because you're beautiful though.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
You know what's crazy. I was at the bar one
day with this guy and there.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Was a girl sitting by herself, like across the bar.
He was like, let's pay for her drinks and I
was like, okay, And he paid for her drink, didn't
think anything. It was really nice to do it because
she was sitting by herself at the bar.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
He didn't go over and speak like anything. I didn't.
And he's just a friend of mine, so even if
he wanted to, I wouldn't care. But he wasn't. She
was like regular. She wasn't you know, she wasn't bad.
She wasn't. He wasn't even looking at it, like to
talk to her. He was a woman by herself.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
Sometimes you want to and I've done that before the
people like I've been at restaurants and seeing like women
out celebrating and be.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Like, let's take care of their tab. So I think
it's it's like sometimes to pay it forward type.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
Sometimes in this world people don't just like sometimes you
just feel like I had a great day.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
Let me tell you.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
I don't know. I just think like that though.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
So yet last night I was walking home from the
bar and has spent I was watching the Lines and
we lost, so I spent a lot of money in
the bar. I was yesterday and then surprised.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
I'm very surprised because when.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
Did Lines make it to the super Bowl? They lose
the Super Bowl? Yeah, that was they didn't make it
to the playoff. Yeah, and I was there at play
in Detroit when they lost that game.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Okay, I didn't have.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
My card and so I went to the ice cream
shop and I was going to get some ice cream.
I didn't have no more casual on my card.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
So you're not lactose intolerant.
Speaker 9 (07:24):
I'm not.
Speaker 10 (07:26):
Was just like, I'll get it for you, Like, no
one should not have ice cream, just like, let's look, yeah, I.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
Cream crazy to me because I feel like people think
everything is so transactional when people really just do something nice.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
I mean, the world we live in a lot of
people are very transaction though.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
It's like the.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Quality of relationships is low key being lost because of transaction.
It's crazy.
Speaker 7 (08:10):
Do you think that it's an era of because a
lot of people equated to how people are looking at
other people's lives and things that are put on social media?
Do you think that they had something to do with
this transactional vibe they.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Ran right now.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
You're saying, like like trying to keep up pretty much? Yeah,
I think yeah, for sure. Yeah, And everybody just focused
on like and it's not wrong to be focused on
year agos and what you want to do. But I
think the humanity and relationships is a real thing. Just
checking on people or just like talking to them on
the phone just because not because I got to ask
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Right, I want to ask you what is this fucking
jet to Holiday thing?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Where it's come from? So I know a little bit
about it.
Speaker 7 (08:55):
So Jet to Holiday is a company based in Europe
in the UK where it's like, you know how it's
like a travel agency. So as Americans, we just book
our own ship and we travel. You know, we booked
through the airline or through Expedia or back in the day,
people actually used to frequent travel agencies. Well, in the
UK they have this company called Jetsu Holli. They were
(09:17):
people actually save up for their family vacation for the
year or whatever and they pay on it in jets lay. Yeah,
and Jetsu Holiday is the actual company. So this, this
sound that we're hearing is a is a it's a commercial.
So you know, wait, going back, you know vacation they
call it holiday, right, So there's a commercial that's been
(09:39):
running for years, this commercial that we hear. Somehow somebody
found the sound and made it go viral and the
people on the internet, I don't want to say the
wrong word, the people on the internet ran with it.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
It just blew it up into something that is just
dumb and then like money. Like somebody said in the
comments earlier that was taking Mariah. I don't even know
what it means, but it's just funny.
Speaker 5 (10:09):
Every time you hear it, the vacation turns into a disaster.
It's all funny games and then show the gentlement down
fall the trip.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Now, I'm like, what did they think about that marketing?
Speaker 5 (10:21):
Because it's kind of giving disasters.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Like is it the argument of all press is good pressure?
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Yeah, for sure, because I'm not.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Going to hold you. Yeah, I went and searched up
what is.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
You need to make a movie? A jetsu holiday movement?
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Time right now?
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Let me in the next month. Though I know she
got one.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
I already have yet, I already have you know, So,
can you think about the first vacation that you've ever
been with been on a woman?
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Like been with on? I can't even vacation with a woman.
What was the first vacation you ever took? I went
to Hawaii that was.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
Like that was like four years ago.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
It wasn't this like committed relationship or with it like.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Okay, So we went to Hawaii, a Paara cl for
the first time, snorker for the first time. I got
to see just to smurs the whole of Hawaii.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
But I was on. I was in Waikiki.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Next time, I want to go to a wai Ho
because I heard that's more it's not so touristic.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
Okay, Okay, I place, you know what I'm saying. Nothing now?
Is this the young lady who this EP break up
EP was about? Okay?
Speaker 3 (11:49):
So it's a different one, different real person.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
Okay, he caup at the time, all right, so I
want to hear about this. I think he didn't take.
Speaker 4 (12:01):
You start the EP off with numb and I know
what that feels like when you feel like you're talking
to a guy and he don't give a ship man,
you know what I'm saying, and he's just like you're
trying to pour your heart at you're expressing it, and
he's just yeah, it's like a defense mechanism thing.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
Low key, yeah, in the position that I was describing
in the EP that I was in.
Speaker 6 (12:26):
So the breakup was my.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
Fault, I'll start there, Okay, Okay, let me drink. I'm
taking a whole account of there for what I worked through,
my problems with it. I sat with myself with it.
I would deal with my my certain things about it.
Speaker 2 (12:37):
But at the time you weren't acting like it was
your fault.
Speaker 3 (12:40):
Though.
Speaker 4 (12:40):
Is this something that looking back you take accountability or looking.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
At accountability because I was a little pig headed in
the moment. You know, it's like either what I want or.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
You know what I'm saying, my way highway.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
That's that is not conducive to a real relationship. And
so at that point when I when I did numb,
it was just she had already left. And then for
me to not have to feel the accountability and feel
the regret and feel all of that, I just felt
like I don't want to feel anything at all. So
(13:11):
I'm just goning to know myself, like I'll forget it.
I'm just go out and let me drink, let me
smoke some let me not have to think about it,
because when I think about it, I'm going to realize
it was my fault.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
What was your fault? Like, what did you do?
Speaker 3 (13:24):
I was cheating? Yeahship, why here we go?
Speaker 6 (13:36):
Why were you?
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Were you cheating to feel a void? Were you bored? I?
Speaker 1 (13:43):
Did I have something to do with everything that's happening
in your life right now with all the notoriety, And
I think it's all that right.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
I think obviously the notoriety as a big part to
it because people are just loki throwing themselves at you
and yeah, and so with that, so yeah, with that,
it was that I was kind of bored. Yeah, And
(14:13):
I just at that time I didn't have as much
self control as I wanted to. So I had a
lot of growing to do and a lot of discipline.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
And how did she catch you?
Speaker 3 (14:25):
She went to my phone a couple of times.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
Okay, that's always.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
I woke about my sleep one time and she was
going through it.
Speaker 6 (14:30):
She woke me on just like huh wait right now,
like I just see black. I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
So was it with more than one woman or.
Speaker 3 (14:43):
Yeah, it was with a couple m hmm. But it
was over a time span of like, uh, three or
four year relationship. But it wasn't like more than it
wasn't more than two people. Yeah, but still it doesn't
matter though.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Right right?
Speaker 4 (14:58):
You think it's worse when some the teats with like
only one or two other people, or sometimes we feel
like it's not as big a deal if it's like
a whole bunch of people, like you.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Just have a problem. But if it's like one other person,
you really cared about that.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Other person, you actually engage and have a conversation with
them and find out do they even think they're in
a relationship, because more unlikely they thought they would in
a relationship even if you didn't.
Speaker 6 (15:21):
That wasn't the case though.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
Yeah, I wasn't leading anybody on, like okay, sure, Yeah,
I promise you.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
You know, we'll make it what we wanted to be.
Speaker 9 (15:31):
But that energy.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
But you just said it though, so what I would.
I'm very I'll be very transparent at the top. I'll
let you know what I'm not looking for. I'll let
you know what I am looking for. Now. What you
decide to make up in your head after that is.
Speaker 6 (15:46):
Not align with you.
Speaker 3 (15:48):
I don't like. I don't like it.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
Does where you protecting yourself?
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Yeah, the entire time.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
With them to people he was getting you can't having
a condo, no kidding the car head.
Speaker 7 (16:19):
You know morning didn't on the street when they jump
in your car for.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
We ain't gonna figure out what is crazy.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
But you know, at a point like that, when someone
goes through your phone, the first thing that God does
is get mad at you for going through his phone.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Yeah that's what you like?
Speaker 8 (16:42):
What you you don't my mama?
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Clearly you can't have reason to go and check she
found what she was looking for. And then you're like,
now I can't trust you because you try to.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
Turn it around some crazy you guys do you did No,
I didn't do that.
Speaker 6 (17:02):
I actually took it on the chin.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
I was like, yeah, you're right, Like I fucked up,
It's my fault.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Did you want to stay after that?
Speaker 6 (17:07):
Did I want to stay?
Speaker 2 (17:08):
The other day?
Speaker 3 (17:09):
Like, this's a very good question because a lot of
time it's like did they want you to stay? But
it's like did you want to stay? A part of
me did and a part of me didn't.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
It's a lot of work to stay after that.
Speaker 3 (17:24):
That's why, because you know, you know that like, Okay,
now this is now the whole structure is damaged. Now
You're always going to feel like this now, I'm always
going to have to fight this. I wanted to.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Stop doing what you're doing just because she went through.
Speaker 3 (17:38):
What she calls you exactly exactly. So that's why I said,
like even after the relationship ended, it took me about
a year.
Speaker 6 (17:46):
It's took me about six months.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
To a year to really like have to be with
myself and not even really entertaining a lot of women
to be real, and you just kind of like figure out, Okay,
if I want to do this the next time, how
do I want to do it, and what do I
what do I want to not do and what I
want to do right for the relationship, not saying, however,
not saying what is writing what's wrong? But for me
(18:08):
and for the relationship, I get into what do I
want to do right? And what I want to do?
What I want to do anymore?
Speaker 4 (18:12):
That it's interesting because on this EP right, Magic City
is a song on there, and I feel like when
guys go through something and you break up with them,
the first thing they're going to do is.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
Try to act like they are extra and what they're
going to.
Speaker 6 (18:27):
Come on, we're going to pick you up. Man, We're
going to.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Me and my women are the exact opposite were scribed.
But then we heal, you know, you let that. And
then when we heal.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
Because y'all do the real work faster than we try
to avoid, and then.
Speaker 6 (18:47):
We got to sit with the real work later.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
Right, So y'all, y'all go through the feelings. First, we
mask your first, y'all get over it, and then we
gotta go do it.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
Because even how guys express themselves to each other, it's
not like you was.
Speaker 2 (18:59):
Like, man, and I'm really hurt.
Speaker 4 (19:01):
I shouldn't like y'all would be like, yeah, she went
through my ship, yo, Let's go to Magic City.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
That's how guys. But we'd be like, oh my god,
you don't believe, and.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
We're gonna talk about every little detail three times, yeah,
a thousand times.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
He ain't anyway, Like.
Speaker 4 (19:18):
You know, we're gonna do all of that, Like we're
gonna talk about every single detail of what he did
to us, what happened, what was in those text messages.
We're gonna cry, we're gonna sit at home, we're gonna
have our girlfriends over.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
That's the real work, though, like you're letting it out,
you know.
Speaker 4 (19:32):
I feel like y'all don't have the space to like,
your boy's gonna come over, and I know you like
ice cream, but they're not gonna come over.
Speaker 6 (19:39):
Eat ice cream. The definitely.
Speaker 3 (19:53):
Doing that.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
And then so the song the way it goes.
Speaker 4 (19:56):
I really like that song on the EP in particular,
and that it's really about knowing when to let it go,
because sometimes it's like people act like you're supposed to
fight for your relationship, and I want to ask you
about that, like when do you stop fighting?
Speaker 2 (20:11):
Because that's hard to because people feel like, oh, you
just gave up.
Speaker 4 (20:14):
Oh you're not gonna fight, Oh you're not gonna you know,
try to work through this. Then you didn't really care.
And I feel like sometimes women, if a man cheats,
they'll be like, well, he's a good man, he just
messed up, Like you can't just let all these years
or whatever go. But I always feel like when you
do something and get caught, a woman has a they
have the right to do whatever they want. If they're like,
(20:36):
this is it, I'm not doing it, like nobody should
argue that. So what do you think about when is
it time to say? And I want to ask everybody,
when is it like, Okay, we got to just let
this go.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
When he's not giving any more energy, Like if he's nonchalant,
like I don't know, Like if she's pouring out her
heart and he's just sitting there with no response, no feedback,
no nothing, and you leave me to myself to create
this narrative in my head what's really happening, then that's time.
It's time to go. Every situation is different, though, because
not everyone is going to leave when their person cheeks. Now,
(21:08):
if he's remorseful and he's like, I apologize, y'all have
the difficult conversation, then I think it's cool to give
especially if you're single and not married. I mean be
clear if you married, it's actually so if you're just dat,
you're just dating, then you're still trying to figure it out, right,
And just like we're on our own journey, the man
he's on his journey too, He's trying to figure it
out too. And that's a lot of times women don't
(21:30):
realize that we're both on a journey trying to figure
it out. So if he cheats, then that's the time
to have that difficult conversation and find out what it
is that you really want to do moving forward.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
Did you guys live together?
Speaker 3 (21:43):
No?
Speaker 6 (21:43):
I never lived, are you never having?
Speaker 3 (21:47):
Always have my own spots, So even if I would
be over there all the time, I could still go
to myf.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
I have a toothbrush here. Can I ask my question?
Speaker 1 (21:54):
Algi, did you how did you feel about the other
woman that you cheated with? Like once you a girl,
she found out that she were cheating, Like, how did
you treat that situationship?
Speaker 3 (22:04):
I think I didn't feel anything about it because it
wasn't even a situation ship. It was just like one off.
It was just one off, Okay, So I didn't even them.
Speaker 6 (22:13):
People weren't even in my mind to be honest.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
I hate to say, but it's the truth.
Speaker 6 (22:20):
The truth.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
So yeah, I didn't even have any feelings towards in
your real what did.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
You learn from all this? To delete those messages?
Speaker 6 (22:33):
I want my mother is just to be straight up
and not to lie, like.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
Did you want to go do it?
Speaker 6 (22:40):
I want to go do it?
Speaker 1 (22:40):
I mean, I know, did she just found out?
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Did she asking? You said?
Speaker 3 (22:44):
No, No, she just found out. But I mean, if
you're if you're dating someone and you're doing something behind
the back, that's low key line.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Yeah, when are you going to be straight up like listen,
when you're gonna yes.
Speaker 6 (23:00):
I've been doing this for no reason.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
Made her go into your phone in the first place?
If these were like one offs and it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
Serious when I think that was the moment he had
that orgasm. She was wrong, right, something.
Speaker 4 (23:28):
Different, different, going different, you know how your phone like that.
Speaker 3 (23:34):
I don't think I was moving different. I just think
that she just had an intuition and that she just
I just think that she just didn't trust me off
top from jump because she just knew, like what type
of life so I'm in, So she just like maybe
she maybe in the back of her head she thought
it was going to come where she knew it was
going to come. So I feel like she always was
just like, you know, I'm here because I love you,
(23:55):
but I don't fully trust you.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
So it started off that way.
Speaker 4 (23:59):
I think that's a hard way to start a relationship
when you already don't trust it and nothing happened yet,
because you kind of got to start with a clean slate.
Speaker 11 (24:08):
Yeah, yeah, have you been cheated on?
Speaker 6 (24:11):
Have I cheated on?
Speaker 3 (24:12):
No?
Speaker 2 (24:13):
Nothing, you know it's very good.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
Well, yeah, you're right, nothing I know, but I only
had two serious relationships. Well wow, so to my knowledge, no,
I haven't been because you're right, y'all are very good.
Though y'all are very good, Like I probably wouldn't even ship.
Speaker 6 (24:32):
I probably wouldn't even know. But to my knowledge, do you.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Think women are better cheaters than men?
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Absolutely? Yeah, I think we're better at everything, no offense.
But though we have one foot out the door, best
believe that we're not just cheating and we're you know,
we're with you. We already got one foot out the door,
and it's just a matter of time before we let
you know.
Speaker 3 (24:53):
It's so, would you say that, like if a man
cheats is not as serious as a woman cheating because I.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Think so because some times men can objectify women and
they just want to sleep with them. It's nothing, there's
no emotional attachment. It's something that they did right. Whereas
with us, if we make the decision to sleep with
another man, then there's a deficit in our relationship period.
It's something missing, something that's not happening, something that we're
not getting that maybe we did but we're not getting
(25:19):
now and we're already moving.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
On subconsciously, or we was never fully in it, or we're.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
Never fully in it.
Speaker 6 (25:25):
Absolutely, So let me ask you something.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
Do y'all think monogamy is like the real way for humanity?
Speaker 1 (25:31):
Absolutely?
Speaker 2 (25:31):
It works for me.
Speaker 1 (25:32):
It works for me.
Speaker 4 (25:34):
But if that's not what you want to do, I
just want to say, Joey Badass sat up here and
acted like it wasn't for him, and now looking at.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Him, I love that.
Speaker 6 (25:45):
He's all in.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (25:47):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
I haven't been in a long term relationship in a
long time, and the last one that I was in
I felt myself getting bored. And I feel like at
some point, if I was with somebody for ten fifteen years,
I think I would have a conversation with opening it
up in some capacity. What that was, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (26:09):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (26:09):
Maybe I wouldn't feel that way about the right person,
but I don't know. I think people are just so
closed off to ideas before they even allow themselves to
explore the concept or even have the conversation. So I
think i'd be at least open to you think if
I don't give a shit, that's the problem.
Speaker 9 (26:29):
I don't really give anything.
Speaker 5 (26:30):
I really don't, and that's one of my problems.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Do you feel like if you really had feelings for
a dude, though, and you really cared about them, that
you were still not give a shit?
Speaker 6 (26:39):
I you really cared about them though.
Speaker 5 (26:41):
When that happens, I'll let you know.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (26:46):
Yeah, I like that me and vulnerability are that's my struggle.
That's my red flag right there. So I don't know
if I've ever let myself.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
Get that far.
Speaker 4 (26:55):
You haven't felt comfortable enough, right, you know? You did
this ep level loss, So I have to think that
this was something that meant a lot to you to
actually put together a whole project.
Speaker 6 (27:05):
Yeah, it did, it did.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
What did she did you tell her that you were
doing this or no.
Speaker 6 (27:09):
I didn't.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
She probably obviously heard it by now, but definitely heard it.
Speaker 6 (27:15):
Yeah, but I.
Speaker 3 (27:15):
Didn't tell her I was doing it. But it did
mean a lot to me. I think it meant a lot.
It meant a lot to me too, because I'm just
a very empathetic person, and so I know what I
did was hurt someone and I didn't feel good about that,
And I think that I just had to, like I said,
go through my process of dealing with myself in certain
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aspects and then you know, I do art, so why
not put it in my art or share it? Because
when I was thinking, I was just like, this is
going to be the most relatable thing to people. Everybody
has been through heartbreak, at least a lot of people,
so a lot of people can relate to that. So
how do I be as authentic as I can be even.
Speaker 6 (27:54):
Though it's you don't want to admit to the world.
Speaker 3 (27:57):
That, yeah, I was, I was a trash nig relag
ship that wasn't good.
Speaker 6 (28:01):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
You don't want to admit that exactly what it's related
where people actually go through that, men actually feel like that.
So I'm like, you know, what I've been through. It.
It's my story. I'm gonna tell it, and.
Speaker 7 (28:10):
Especially if you learn from it, Yeah, forwards a better
man exactly.
Speaker 3 (28:14):
Yeah, because I ain't trying to be out in these
streets whatever. Man, I want to build myself with family,
like I want to. I want to, I have. I
have plans and goals of owning like three hundred acres
and building my family compound and having my wife and
my kids and all that.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
One wife, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (28:36):
But what do y'all feel about that? Though?
Speaker 3 (28:38):
Like I mean, obviously relationship is different, But what do
y'all feel about? But look at me?
Speaker 1 (28:42):
Yeah, women are opening up to the idea, especially where
I live in Atlanta, and they say that they're more
they're open to the lifestyle. But I just think that
they're tired of having a long shelf value, Like they're
tired of waiting for meeting the right one. So then
they settle and tell themselves, Oh, I'm engaging in this
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lifestyle and these are the benefits. But really and truly,
they're just tired of waiting for that one person. They're like,
I've been single for however many however, many years. However,
long and I want to be in a relationship.
Speaker 4 (29:15):
You feel like that, no, younger men, do you think
that that could be you avoiding a relationship with somebody
who's ready to be in one.
Speaker 1 (29:31):
No, the thing, this is my thing. So you you
probably know a little bit of my story. I was
cellibate for eight years, single, not dating, and those eight years, Yeah,
those years, it's like I got to make up.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Like and I.
Speaker 1 (29:47):
Typically don't for the sake of a conversation because I
typically don't tell my age. But guys, I'm fifty one.
Speaker 3 (29:53):
Right, amazing, Yeah, that's crazy, that's great.
Speaker 1 (29:59):
Yeah, And so I attract younger men most people, and
then I feel like the men my age are older,
they're not gonna want to do the things that I
want to do. I feel like they're not gonna want
to go the places I want to go. They're not
even gonna dress like I want them to dress. I
just think at a certain age, it's those things are
just not important. And because of those eight years that
I didn't get to do it, it's like I'm making
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up for that time. It's almost like I'm eight years
younger than what I really am. That's how I feel
because I really didn't live during those eight years, Like
my life literally went on pause. So I'm just like,
it's just I've tried it and it's just.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
Not what I like to do.
Speaker 1 (30:34):
And I don't try to say that you like to
do that. You feel like girl like to have fun.
I mean, do you know when you get like, you know,
at the fifties, when you start having health issues and
you know.
Speaker 6 (30:46):
What, is it.
Speaker 1 (30:49):
Not menopause for me, because that's good for them.
Speaker 2 (30:52):
For the younger guys that.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
Would a comes impotent.
Speaker 6 (31:01):
Yeah, you know that's the.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Age range for you that you're leaning towards. When it
comes to the younger man, I.
Speaker 1 (31:11):
Would say, I would say a ten year gap. No, no, younger,
because I've tried it and it doesn't work. The conversation
is totally just it's crazy.
Speaker 2 (31:19):
I have a sixteen year age gap in my relationship currently. Wow,
who's younger?
Speaker 3 (31:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (31:26):
Actually, like my daughter like you, she don't care, she's
happy for me. I'm but you have fun, right, I
don't have a.
Speaker 3 (31:37):
Different And I was.
Speaker 7 (31:39):
Very skeptical at first because of that main reason of
my daughter being around his same age, like a not
even a year apart, and also like we it's a
long distance relationship. So those were the two red flags,
but we work through it. We waited nine months to
have sex, like it was like a whole like journey,
and now we're like fifteen months in and it's I'm
(31:59):
we're yeah, what do you think you're waiting to have sex? Algie,
Like if you.
Speaker 2 (32:03):
Were like we did that on purpose?
Speaker 1 (32:05):
Yeah, I want to know how y'all managed those nine months.
Speaker 7 (32:08):
Well, there was a time you did didn't see each
other for four months. Four months went byble dollar seeing
each other.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
Okay, so that's that. And then honestly, there was a
time and we had sex in I think April.
Speaker 7 (32:29):
There was a time in January that I wanted to
give him something, but I got sick so it didn't happen.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
So in my mind it was gonna happen at night
I was getting It's like, because.
Speaker 7 (32:46):
We still.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
Don't see it, dur ship, there was like one time.
Speaker 8 (33:09):
There was nothing touch So are you you'll please obviously relationships,
he said, no, Ship, I think waiting is.
Speaker 6 (33:20):
Cool if that's what you want to do.
Speaker 3 (33:22):
I think I don't you know, I think it just
depends on the relationship and the people in the relationship
because I've waited sometimes to depending on the person.
Speaker 6 (33:30):
I don't know, but I think it just depends.
Speaker 3 (33:41):
I respect. I respect people's boundaries and spirituality if they
are like, you know what, I want to wait and
save myself, or I've even fasted from sex some time
in a relationship, like I just need to take some
time for Like.
Speaker 6 (33:59):
My plan was like three months only lasted like a month. Yeah,
what did I do for you? It did bring a
lot of clarity though for.
Speaker 3 (34:07):
Me is it I was just able to kind of
just lock in more on certain things with myself and
even with her though, like we weren't focused on sex.
We were just focused on building outside of that. That
was our thing.
Speaker 2 (34:19):
So then what happened after thirty days? I was there.
Speaker 5 (34:25):
Because she was like, she was like, was that the
longest you've ever gone without doing anything.
Speaker 6 (34:37):
In a relationship.
Speaker 2 (34:38):
Yeah, you didn't have sex during that time with the
other women, right.
Speaker 7 (34:46):
As you about your celibacy after the like after the
eight years, when did you know that you were like, Okay,
I'm ready again.
Speaker 1 (34:54):
Because at the time, during the eight years, I was
believing that someone was my husband and he was not.
So it was an erroneous belief and I had to
struggle and deal with that. And so once I put
that to rest, and I was like, Okay, I want
to start dating again. And I mean cause I was like, this,
ain't it you know what I'm saying, And I don't
think like I still don't know because I'm still single.
I don't know if I can do it in a relationship.
(35:16):
Like I can do it by myself, yes, but in
a relationship, I'm not so sure I could do it.
I've never tried it. So we Shelsea. But for me,
it was just like I went from thirty three to
forty one and so all of my thirties it was
just like, Okay, I'm missing out on life. I ain't living.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
This is crazy. I don't want to do this.
Speaker 1 (35:34):
But now as I get older, I realize why that's
so important, because, like you say, it brings a lot
of clarity. It helps you make better decisions in your relationship.
Speaker 2 (35:45):
Right.
Speaker 1 (35:45):
And so I just me, I hooked up with someone
who I was just infatuated with some years before. We
never you know, we never done it. So and he
was he lived in Atlanta. I moved to Atlanta, and
it's like it's always like, gosh, you're just in love
with this guy at the time, and he was like,
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he's actually ten years before he was actually abstinate. He
was like on something else, and so I was coming
out of my season.
Speaker 3 (36:19):
Yes it was.
Speaker 4 (36:20):
You know, you talk a lot about having standards too, right,
and so I wanted to ask everybody as far as standards,
what would you say in a relationship your standards? All right, Jordan,
let's start with you for what you're looking for. What
are your standards.
Speaker 5 (36:34):
I'm tough a job.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
Okay, that's not Tom.
Speaker 6 (36:37):
Well, I'm just a job.
Speaker 2 (36:40):
You need to have a job.
Speaker 5 (36:41):
You need to have something that you do for fun.
You need to have friends, you need to treat your
parents well. You need to have a sense of humor.
I do like my men a little uptight, like okay,
reachable to these hosts, unaccessible that, but also like I
sometimes I like to bug out when I'm out, and
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I don't want you to do that.
Speaker 2 (37:02):
That's for me today. Okay, you want you were going home?
I was like, Okay, you need to get checked just
a little bit.
Speaker 5 (37:09):
Yeah, Because I feel like I can be very dominant
in relationships and I want someone to put me in
my feminine when appropriate.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
Yeah, okay, what if that's your standards?
Speaker 1 (37:19):
Take everything that she said, But one of the more
important things for me is someone who's in purpose. Like
that is so important to have to have similar goals
and values, because what else is going to sustain the
relationship when there is no sex, right, you got to
have some level of compatibility or it's not going to work.
You just can't be handsome, and that's it.
Speaker 2 (37:37):
It has to be something else to you.
Speaker 1 (37:39):
So for me, it's purpose and that's something that I
feel like before you even consider being in a relationship,
you gotta have that locked in, Like what am I
here for? What is my God given assignment?
Speaker 2 (37:48):
What am I called to do? All those things that
you said? But purpose plus purpose? What would you say, Alie,
is your standards in a relationship?
Speaker 3 (37:58):
I would say security in yourself and loving yourself. First
of all, I've been through a couple of different situationships
where it's just when people don't love themselves, it makes
the relationship, situationship, whatever, harder because now you're fighting.
Speaker 2 (38:11):
Two battles insecurity is a really tough thing to battle.
Speaker 3 (38:15):
It's really tough. So I would say someone who's securing themselves,
who loves themselves, someone who has some type of spiritual
connection with the creator of the world. I'm not going
to say what your religion should be, but as long
as there's some spiritual connection that you feel like there's
something bigger than yourself, someone who is empathetic, who loves family,
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the idea of family.
Speaker 6 (38:40):
A hard worker.
Speaker 3 (38:41):
Yeah, but I'm not trying to have my woman paying
the bills. So you can work if you want to.
But I think it's just like you said, purpose, even
if you ain't bringing in whatever bread, what's your purpose?
Are you doing that every day? Are you living out
your truth? You know what I'm saying, what you want
to do and not just an at home person.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
Have you ever dated somebody who made more than you.
Speaker 3 (39:02):
Currently? No?
Speaker 2 (39:03):
Okay, are you open to that?
Speaker 3 (39:05):
Yeah? For sure?
Speaker 9 (39:06):
He's like, you know, yeah, I think I think why not?
Speaker 3 (39:18):
Like if my woman made more than me, I'm like, yeah,
what go back?
Speaker 2 (39:22):
But you would still pay the bills?
Speaker 3 (39:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (39:23):
I still pay the bills for sure.
Speaker 3 (39:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (39:28):
What about you?
Speaker 7 (39:28):
What you're saying, I feel like everything everybody said is
spot on. I just want to add to those things
that me personally. Communication is the biggest thing for me.
I feel like, if you cannot communicate with your partner,
then why are you guys together? And the next thing
for me would be honesty. People have a problem telling
the truth. People have a problem living in their truth,
and that kind of goes with the communication hand in hand.
(39:51):
I've dealt with in the past people that felt like
they had the hide things or that weren't you with themselves,
and it just always ended in disaster.
Speaker 2 (40:00):
You have a song called honest on the EP. Are
you honest?
Speaker 6 (40:07):
You think I am?
Speaker 10 (40:09):
Now you are?
Speaker 4 (40:09):
Yeah, that's and I want to say that's the most
important thing. Like we go through stuff in life, we
go through relationships, and everything should make us a better person, right,
Everything is like a lesson learned, even if it didn't
work out, you know, we learn these different lessons. And
you you talked about insecurity. That's so interesting to me because,
for instance, right on Euphoria, you dating Sidney Sweeney on
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the show, her character Cassie, Right, that's okay, So that
has to be hard for somebody because they look at
her as like this big sex symbol right now, like
everybody's like Sidney, and so I can imagine how somebody
would feel like, damn, he was, you know, on the show,
and he was with Sidney Sweeney and doing X, Y and.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
Z and having sex scenes.
Speaker 4 (40:50):
But that is probably if you're a regular girl and
that's your man, that has to feel like damn.
Speaker 2 (40:56):
I don't you know how can I compare that to that?
Speaker 3 (40:59):
Yeah, my girl at the time, she wasn't even really tripping.
I think she actually low key liked that.
Speaker 2 (41:04):
She really Yeah, to be real with you, I.
Speaker 3 (41:07):
Think she did, like, But I could I see the
flip side of that though. It's like, because I don't
know if I would want to watch my girl.
Speaker 2 (41:15):
Can you imagine if yet, if that was your girl
doing the sex sye.
Speaker 6 (41:19):
Yeah, it's just acting, But I'm not trying to see
it either, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (41:22):
Yeah, you never dated another person in the business, like
another woman who was an.
Speaker 6 (41:26):
Actress dated, no, like messed around with Fine?
Speaker 4 (41:33):
Would you want to you think you think that could
because then maybe you guys don't understand each other more.
But then to your point, you wouldn't want to watch
something like that.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
I don't think I would want to be I think
when I come home, I wouldn't want to have a
conversation of like, oh yeah, I was set today for you.
Oh yeah, this is how it was today for me.
When I come home, I don't want to talk about
set anymore. I want to talk about Okay, how was
your day in this other field that you're doing what
you're doing. How was that that interesting? You know? Like
so I don't think I would want to be with
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somebody in my field.
Speaker 4 (42:05):
You know how amazing it is that you are where
you are, Like coming from Saginaw, Michigan, I mean it's
a big deal. Do you ever have to sit back
and think like I can't believe this is my life.
Speaker 3 (42:16):
Yeah. I don't do it that often, but I did
have a moment like two weeks ago. I was just
like sitting with myself and I was just thanking God
because like nobody in my family or my you know
what I'm saying. It's just I've just been so blessed
to get to where I am and to be able
(42:37):
to help the way I can. And I'm just I
don't take it for.
Speaker 6 (42:39):
Granted at all.
Speaker 3 (42:40):
But yeah, I'm just like, this is crazy. The only
the only ones about the Sacond is me. Draymond Green,
Stevie wonder. I mean, doesn't y'all Serena Lewis, They talked
like she's in confident but she was born in name.
Speaker 6 (42:52):
But it ain't a lot of us.
Speaker 3 (42:53):
Though, So it's just like, you know, it's it's really dope.
Speaker 4 (42:56):
Yeah, yeah, I mean it's a big I remember watching
you and the hate you give because I of that
movie and seeing I know you were in the beginning
and then that was it. But that was a really
impactful part of that movie, you know. And I think
you've had like some great roles, I mean really legendary.
Just to think about where you are right now and
(43:17):
now you're about to play a box. You haven't told
us much about it, but I know that's gonna be
a big one because Jamie Fox is in the tube.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
It's gonna be really big. And the story is when
I read the script, I got goosebumps. That's how I
always know if it's a good script or not. Yeah,
if I get goosebumps while I'm reading it, or if
I'm just like yo, I can't stop reading this. And
that's how I know when I read that, when I'm like, yo,
this is gonna be because it's a true story. It's
based on a true story too, and the true story
is very tragic.
Speaker 2 (43:42):
So to find out more information, what's your training process?
Speaker 3 (43:47):
Like, Oh, so I go to the gym from nine
to four every day and we are essentially just becoming boxers.
So when we get there, we have to either run
on a treadmill for an hour or were outside it
and then we come back in. We do we jump
rope for a long time, and then we do sparring
with each other and then we'd spar the actual pro boxers.
Speaker 2 (44:09):
Game and what you spired with.
Speaker 6 (44:12):
So our trainers.
Speaker 3 (44:13):
I'm getting trained by a guy named Chris Algery. So
he's from Staten Island. He was a pro boxer, very fire,
and they got Mike, his nephew, Mike Algery, who was
the number one amateur in New York right now, which
is crazy to say. Then another guy named Jose Jose Gonzalez.
(44:34):
He's he was a pro boxer as well. So we're
in there with some people that have gone the distance
and fought in like the Manny Pacquias of the world.
Yeah all that, so, yeah, it's good.
Speaker 2 (44:43):
You know, you can't have sex before you fight either.
Speaker 3 (44:45):
So your energy.
Speaker 2 (44:47):
Yeah, so you have to be at this point in time.
This is a great time for you to.
Speaker 7 (44:54):
The fact.
Speaker 6 (44:55):
No, the weekends, the weekends. The weekends is good. You know,
take my Friday Saturday night.
Speaker 3 (45:01):
It good.
Speaker 6 (45:02):
I'm good with Monday. I'm cool.
Speaker 3 (45:04):
Yeah, that's very funny though, because it's real. Me and
my castmate were just talking about that. Was like, like, bro,
one time I showed up and I was just drained.
Speaker 6 (45:12):
I couldn't get through the day.
Speaker 3 (45:16):
I know that it is different.
Speaker 2 (45:17):
Masturbate does.
Speaker 3 (45:20):
Still releasing, like yeah, you gotta you gotta there you go.
Speaker 6 (45:25):
Yeah, but yeah, you really are, Like you think you're.
Speaker 2 (45:29):
Good in bed.
Speaker 6 (45:30):
I think I'm great in bed?
Speaker 2 (45:32):
Yeah, why, Like, who have women been like, oh my god,
you're the best?
Speaker 3 (45:37):
As we say that.
Speaker 6 (45:39):
The best. I mean, yeah, y'all do say that.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
But one thing that y'all can't hide is faces, And
one thing y'all can't hide is faces and breaths.
Speaker 6 (45:51):
Y'all can't hide that. You can't hide that, so you know,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (45:58):
But you're an actor, yeah, working all those things you
know you apply to women before and faked it like
it was amazing just.
Speaker 3 (46:06):
To get out of it early.
Speaker 2 (46:07):
Same Oh, my god, I can't. You did have to
get out of there early? Can you make yourself finished?
Speaker 3 (46:13):
Like or do you?
Speaker 2 (46:14):
Or have they been times when you have to pretend
you were done?
Speaker 3 (46:18):
Why?
Speaker 2 (46:20):
Why did you want to get out of there? It
wasn't it just wasn't field or smell or oh my god.
Speaker 1 (46:26):
Yeah, that's because I'm like, what would be a reason dry.
Speaker 6 (46:32):
Rhythm? Oh my god, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (46:38):
Like what's bad vagina in your definition? Is it just
the vagina or is it the whole experience.
Speaker 3 (46:43):
With the woman? Okay, I'll just say this, like in
my experience yet, bad vagina is vagina that's not well kept,
you know.
Speaker 2 (46:55):
Like groomed. Well it's well kept.
Speaker 3 (46:57):
Yeah, the grooming, because I'll take like it's natural, right,
like hair is natural. You feel me?
Speaker 6 (47:05):
Like, as long as it ain't looking hella crazy down there?
Speaker 9 (47:08):
Like you know I'm not, yeah, but.
Speaker 3 (47:17):
Oh damn, this is crazy. A specific time I had
to get up out of there was when I was
messing around with this girl and we had messed around
times before and she her hygen really good, like she
had no problem yet normally this time when I was
just hitting it from the back, there was just there
(47:38):
was just in Aroma that was coming up, and I'm
just like, just like you knew I was coming over?
Speaker 6 (47:46):
Did you take a ship and then you didn't? It's
like did you did you not get in a shower?
Speaker 2 (47:57):
Or like what did it Tuesday? Taco?
Speaker 3 (48:09):
I don't remember the day The first time, it's.
Speaker 2 (48:14):
Usually like she was musty or trust not ship?
Speaker 3 (48:20):
Yeah, shitty, And so I'm like, yo, I gotta get
up out of here.
Speaker 9 (48:24):
Did you tell her?
Speaker 3 (48:25):
No? I didn't tell her.
Speaker 6 (48:27):
Maybe I should have told her in my mom like
you know this?
Speaker 3 (48:31):
How do you not write?
Speaker 2 (48:34):
But did you see anything? You know? Because that's the
time when you'd be like, what's going on in Okay?
Thank god? I feel like it was just that wasn't
be crazy? Can you see that ship? She didn't smell it?
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Because that's what I'm saying, like.
Speaker 3 (48:57):
There's no way, there's no way.
Speaker 2 (49:02):
I was coming.
Speaker 3 (49:04):
Damn.
Speaker 6 (49:05):
After that, it's just I just didn't want to even.
Speaker 3 (49:09):
Talk to her no more.
Speaker 1 (49:10):
Really, so you never told her why you ended it?
Speaker 2 (49:15):
Well now she know we don't know who he's talking about.
If you was the one who got ghost girl, you
should have washed that ass. You should have watched that
whole body.
Speaker 3 (49:31):
Even if I were, even if you were to take
a ship before I have sex, I'm getting in the shower.
I care about myself that much, like I'm really big
on that before I have Before I have sex at all,
I'm getting in the.
Speaker 4 (49:44):
Shower making I will never forget. I was when I
used to work in artist management. One of my friends,
like you know, the artist I was working with, had
a show and she ended up sleeping with somebody from
like the crew, and she was like, Angela.
Speaker 2 (50:03):
We were in the bad.
Speaker 4 (50:04):
He got it and took a ship in the bathroom
in the hotel and got right back in what and
she was like, she told him, She's like, you're not
gonna take a shower. She was like, I can smell
the ship like you in the hotel room and in
the room and got in the bad and she told me,
she was like, you're not gonna like you gotta get
in the shower.
Speaker 3 (50:28):
Immediately, and as but me just just me personally, like
I said, I care on my hygiene so much that
I don't even want to even put you in a
position of smelling me in.
Speaker 6 (50:38):
A bad way. So I'm going to be like, let
me jump in the shower.
Speaker 2 (50:41):
You give me here smelling good today?
Speaker 4 (50:44):
Yeah, men don't like to tell what Colonne they were
because they don't want other people to buy what type
of what colonne.
Speaker 3 (50:51):
It's a mix, I do, but it's a green bottle
with a gold top.
Speaker 9 (50:58):
But it's really green Cree. It's really is the brand Creed, No,
it's not.
Speaker 6 (51:05):
Creed is cool, but I was.
Speaker 3 (51:07):
Like, I smelled Creed everywhere, so many.
Speaker 4 (51:10):
Different ones, you know. Yeah, yeah, they always have new
sense coming out and everything like that. So you know,
sometimes guys put too much cologne on.
Speaker 1 (51:19):
Good Lord, you're still trying to jay gone for a
whole day.
Speaker 7 (51:24):
Calming down, bro, especially when it's a bad one, like
you drenched yourself with some bullshit and now it's lingering.
Speaker 3 (51:31):
Like I've smelled times when I put on too much
colomny by accident, and I'm like, I got on too
much colomne.
Speaker 7 (51:41):
I've done that with perfume, but it's because I smoked weed.
So I always try to cover up the aroma like that.
Speaker 2 (51:46):
He's been like weeding perfume.
Speaker 6 (51:48):
It's crazy because we never goes anywhere, right, It's crazy.
Speaker 4 (51:54):
Do you mind if a woman like comes over smelling
like we I feel like we's not a bad smell.
Speaker 3 (51:58):
Like if you can smell like cigarettes, that's different.
Speaker 7 (52:01):
Well unless you're somebody who actually hates it. Because I
was outdated someone who hated my weed, and he didn't
want to smell it, he didn't want to see it,
he didn't want to taste it on my breath or
my mouth, you know.
Speaker 2 (52:15):
So that was that became an issue in our relationship.
Speaker 5 (52:17):
Because and what you're rolling it into, I feel like
makes a difference. Sometimes I'm like, I don't like what
they Yeah.
Speaker 7 (52:23):
See you know I'm a no tobacco girl. Yeah, so
I'm a I'm a clean smoker. But even still, when
you got that good good do you know it?
Speaker 6 (52:30):
Lingers smoke papers?
Speaker 2 (52:32):
Yeah, and.
Speaker 3 (52:35):
We're on a healthier side, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (52:38):
All the backwoods don't work.
Speaker 4 (52:44):
Now, are you actively dating even though you're single? Like,
are there do you what do you think about like
a roster? Or do you think I can only date
one person at a time?
Speaker 7 (52:53):
Yeah, that is me.
Speaker 1 (52:54):
I can only date one person. I'm not actively dating
right now.
Speaker 3 (52:56):
No, No, I mean I.
Speaker 1 (53:00):
I've entertained someone recently, but it wasn't a good fit
for me. Why, Well, because he was he was a
lot younger. The conversation just wasn't there, and he talked
about his previous relationship too much on the phone.
Speaker 2 (53:22):
Every time we would.
Speaker 1 (53:23):
Get on the phone, he would just talk about the problems,
like because they had a small child. I would they
had a small child. And then the time that I
because normally I would just listen. But then one particular
time I thought to engage the conversation and I realized,
this man doesn't take accountability for anything.
Speaker 2 (53:40):
That's everything is someone else.
Speaker 4 (53:43):
Whenever you are talking to somebody, and they are always
the victim, and everything is this person did that, this person,
did this, this person, and they never are like because
you came in here and said at accountability, like I
messed up, I cheated. I realized now there are people
that will never admit the wrong and never take responsibility
for the part they played.
Speaker 1 (54:03):
It was just where he proposed to this young lady,
and he took the ring back. But once you propose,
like we're moving towards marriage, we're looking at houses, we're
doing all these things. Well, she wanted to buy a house,
and I don't think he was in a position to
be able to do. So her mom helped her buy
this house. And he was like, who does that? Who
gets engaged and buy a house? I said, everybody.
Speaker 3 (54:25):
Yeah he could.
Speaker 2 (54:33):
He didn't want to.
Speaker 1 (54:36):
Afford the mortgage though he couldn't he want in a
position to do it.
Speaker 2 (54:39):
And I'm like, no, so I understand that out. Yeah,
like this got to get your back against the water,
figure some ship out.
Speaker 4 (54:46):
Okay, right, we're gonna buy this house, and then I
got to figure out how to pay this mortgage. Sometimes
that's what puts you in the position to be a
better person. And like, because I feel like there's people
who cost through life they do yeah, and then there's
people who are like, I got to make this happen,
and I'm a figure it out and do whatever I can.
Speaker 3 (55:02):
But also it's like I don't know brush situation and
how because everybody relationship is a certain relationship and we
never know the ins and outs of it. But I
feel like that's also a time where you're like, Okay,
we've fit about this house, so we're going to put
together a plan that involves both of us to be
able to cover this until I can fully cover it myself.
Speaker 2 (55:20):
Right, right, But maybe he didn't like her doing something without.
Speaker 1 (55:23):
His Well, he wanteds to rent. And I'm like, if
she was in a position to do this and her
mom just I think helped her with the down payment,
then I think that's cool. But I feel like, if anything,
he was slowing her down.
Speaker 2 (55:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (55:35):
Yeah, And he just didn't want to admit that I'm
non a position.
Speaker 2 (55:40):
I was like, you behave me so.
Speaker 4 (55:44):
Right here, my gosh, and so Algie, can you see yourself?
You know, we're just talking about all of these different things, relationships.
I wonder what it's going to be like to live
with you, Like, can you see that happening?
Speaker 2 (56:01):
Is that that's something that you want?
Speaker 6 (56:02):
Because when yeah, that you want living with me is
I mean everybody will say this, right living with me?
Speaker 3 (56:10):
Yeah? Great?
Speaker 6 (56:14):
And dirty clothes I do, and the.
Speaker 1 (56:17):
Floor in the bathroom.
Speaker 6 (56:22):
If I leave in front of the bathroom, coming right
back to get them.
Speaker 3 (56:25):
Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (56:26):
So streets.
Speaker 6 (56:31):
I'm pretty, I'm pretty smooth going though.
Speaker 3 (56:35):
I can cook.
Speaker 6 (56:36):
I'm pretty to a dish.
Speaker 2 (56:37):
If a girl's coming over.
Speaker 3 (56:40):
I may do some steak and some mashed potatoes and
like maybe broccolini.
Speaker 11 (56:49):
I've never heard anybody say that I may do some
honey glaze, salmon okay, okay, cook low key my pops.
Speaker 3 (57:01):
But also myself. I did a lot of YouTube university. Yeah,
I just go in there and find different meals that
I like, like like the eating restaurants, and I figure
how to cook them.
Speaker 4 (57:11):
So your father was a big, key part of part
of your life kind of Yeah, that shapes a lot
of how we deal with relationships and everything, for sure.
I feel like even for women, our fathers shape a
lot of that too, like our relationship with our dads.
Speaker 3 (57:27):
Yeah, a lot with y'all too, though, right, because it's
like I fel like either that well, a lot with
both sides. Because the absence of a father in a
man's life is really great too, Like that's not great
in a good way, but it's a great absence, you
know what I'm saying, Just like it isn't a woman's
great impact.
Speaker 2 (57:45):
Yeah. So, have you ever proposed to anyone?
Speaker 8 (57:49):
No?
Speaker 3 (57:50):
Not ship, not ship.
Speaker 2 (57:55):
Enjoy your life, you know what I'm saying. You got
a lot of great things happening.
Speaker 3 (57:58):
I will say this, though, I don't want to wait
too long to start my family, Like I would love
to start a family and be married by the time,
I'm like thirty six, thirty seven.
Speaker 6 (58:13):
Okay, I got a little I'm thirty right now. Yeah, yeah, time,
I got some I'm not trying.
Speaker 3 (58:19):
To be fifty years old as a man and be
like yah, I'm staying here playing the game and I'm like, no, bro,
you're supposed to be building your legacy now, like absolutely.
Speaker 1 (58:28):
One of the things that you get to choose. Yeah,
you get to decide as the man when you're ready
to do that.
Speaker 10 (58:35):
What do you think from a woman's perspective, because we
don't get to choose like we do the GFU we
want to or not.
Speaker 1 (58:41):
But you set the tone for the relationship that's real.
Speaker 2 (58:45):
Yeah, yeah, choose wisely.
Speaker 6 (58:48):
Oh yeah, for sure.
Speaker 3 (58:49):
A thousand, a thousand.
Speaker 4 (58:52):
Well, listen, Algie, I appreciate you so much for coming.
I always enjoy having conversations with you. And congratulations on
the EP. I know it's been out a couple of
months already, but you know, we were finding finally able
to sit down and talk to you. But you've been
doing tremendous things. I think we spoke when you did
the new addition, you know, a serious also, but just
(59:12):
seeing like everything that you've been doing and I cannot wait,
since I'm a big boxing fan for that movie to drop.
Speaker 3 (59:17):
It's gonna be so hard.
Speaker 6 (59:18):
I'm literally becoming a boxer right now.
Speaker 3 (59:20):
It's crazy.
Speaker 6 (59:21):
But I got the hands, you know what, They've been
training us to have the hands.
Speaker 2 (59:26):
Get too hype, now, anybody have any of the trainers
dropped you yet?
Speaker 8 (59:32):
No?
Speaker 3 (59:33):
But I did get rocked.
Speaker 9 (59:35):
I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 6 (59:37):
The thing the thing you learn is in order to
give one, you got to take one.
Speaker 3 (59:41):
Yeah, okay, And so if you're going to go in
and give one, you've got to be prepared to take one.
Speaker 2 (59:45):
Who's your who's your favorite boxer? Have you got to
say somebody that.
Speaker 6 (59:49):
You are like, I'm gonna say Pernell Whitaker.
Speaker 3 (59:54):
Okay, yeah, yeah, from from Virginia, from Norfolk, some of
the best defense ever in the sport of boxing. He
fought on the Olympic.
Speaker 9 (01:00:05):
Damn, okay, that's what I'm playing.
Speaker 3 (01:00:17):
So he fought on the Olympic team with Evander, with
Henry Tillman. You know, Mike Tyson was actually trying to
get on that Olympic team.
Speaker 2 (01:00:25):
Are you gonna didn't make this out after check this out? Okay? Okay? Perfect?
Speaker 3 (01:00:35):
All right?
Speaker 4 (01:00:36):
Well again, thank you so much for coming through left
to see and celebrate everything that you have going on.
So now listen, thank you for being a great conversation
and listen and your honesty. I love when you come
up and talk to him and talk to me and
talk to us.
Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
Anytime you had having us have a moment. Last time
I saw you, yes, we show.
Speaker 4 (01:00:56):
We had She did way out, but she had DeAndre
on and also doctor out to heavenly that Heavenly had
no idea who DeAndre was.
Speaker 2 (01:01:05):
You know, she's a baby with Jack Queeze, And yeah,
it was funny.
Speaker 6 (01:01:11):
That was something.
Speaker 2 (01:01:12):
Yeah, it was funny. You was like, you have a baby.
She wouldn't let the story get out though.
Speaker 5 (01:01:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:01:23):
I was like, let's let her tell the story.
Speaker 9 (01:01:25):
Let her talk.
Speaker 3 (01:01:26):
It was funny though.
Speaker 2 (01:01:29):
Atlanta, man, he's the friends. Atlanta is a wild place.
You came out. Jacqueie text me like, really, I didn't
say nothing bad about you. You know, it's how to
do my jobs, you know what I mean? And let
the woman talk. But she didn't say nothing crazy. He
was like, okay, I'm gonna watch it.
Speaker 3 (01:01:49):
Yeah she didn't.
Speaker 2 (01:01:50):
Yeah, yeah, I don't. You know, we weren't trying to
have viral moments off of negativity and.
Speaker 1 (01:01:55):
Was so worried about what her dad's gonna say anyway,
like my dad is gonna.
Speaker 4 (01:01:59):
Hear so yeah, that's tough to have a dad like that.
Absolutely all right, Well listen you guys, Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (01:02:05):
Love Lost.
Speaker 4 (01:02:06):
Make sure y'all check out that EP thousand percent now,
Oh and congratulate she's on the on the position in
the black.
Speaker 1 (01:02:14):
Yes, yes, chief, I'm an officer.
Speaker 2 (01:02:16):
Yes, in the network. Yeah. If anybody have anything they
want to you know what I'm saying. Yes, yeah, thank you,
Thank you so much, just amazing, so thank you for
joining us.
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Angela Yee
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