April 5, 2024 • 29 mins
Today on “Golden Hour,” Kathy and Susan are answering dating and relationship questions from Bachelor Nation! Listeners wrote in some juicy questions, and Kathy and Susan are sharing their advice. From cheating to age gaps, Susan and Kathy don’t hold back with their thoughts on how they’d navigate the situations.
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Speaker 1 (00:07):
We're back, Susan and Kathy here. Welcome to Bachelor Happy
Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for joining us, and.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
If you haven't listened to our episode from Wednesday, you
gotta go check it out. We had former bachelor Zach
and his fiance Katie on the pod. Kathy, weren't they fantastic?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Oh? You know, they are an amazing couple. I think
I said it on the on the podcast yesterday. When
you look at them and how they speak and how
well they talk with each other, they're so in love.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
It's I don't learn so many things about them, like
Katie's sharing that she visited Texas and she's from Canada
and said I want to make this my home and
did it. And how they communicate together, what they shared
about their future. I loved it.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
I you know what I find amazing. They've been together
what several months, and they already know so much about
each other And what makes a great relationship. I should say,
what makes a relationship great? They work together, they spend
time together, they have date nights. Katie does the cleaning,
(01:21):
Zach has dinner ready for when she gets home from work.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
I were not thrilled when he said sometimes I'll have
dinner ready. When she walks through the door, I was like,
oh my god, a man after my own heart.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
I know you and you're cooking, But honestly, I really
I mean, if anyone questions whether the process can work
on The Bachelor, listen to this podcast again. They are
proof positive how great and fast a really loving relationship
can grow.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
And we talk to them about the difficulties of living
together when you don't really know each other well and
you're getting to know each other. And how about what
they shared.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
They communicate, that's right, that's what you and I were talking.
They compromise, they communicate. It's I feel like these are
the words that we keep saying, but it's these are
the things that make a great relationship. And they I'm
just so happy for them and I can't wait to
go to their wedding.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
I know I never destination or alstin either one works
for you.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Know what, You're gonna have to get some cowboy boot
Susan if it's in Texas.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
I've got like forty pair.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Okay, perfect, Okay, So listen. Today we're going to be
answering questions from fans who have written in asking for
advice and you are not going to believe some of
these questions. They're really good, Susan. You can submit your
questions at bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Well wait, I want to do that, but first let's
get started with today's question of the day. So what's
something you used to believe about relationships but no longer do?
What do you not believe in anymore?
Speaker 1 (03:05):
I think that for me, it's not that I don't
believe in it. I think that love is something that
takes a lot of work, stain and love. It's easy
to fall in love, fall in lust, but I think
that relationships don't just happen. They take a lot of
work to be good. What about you?
Speaker 2 (03:26):
I agree with that something that I used to think.
I used to think that that puppy love, or that
lust love, the beginning stage, that one year thing is
going to last forever. But I know it does it.
You're exactly right, Kathy, Yeah, it takes work, which is
why you want to find your best friend, somebody that
without the love and the intimacy, that you could hang
(03:49):
out with every day. You know what I mean? You
share your space with, share your time with.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Well, I agree with all that, But I also think
that relationships change over time. You just said that, I
mean they evolve, and a good relationship in a perfect world,
we grow together in a relationship and we find ways
to build our relationship stronger. But you know, it takes
a lot of time and effort, and that's I think
(04:16):
a lot of people just aren't willing sometimes to put
in the effort.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yeah, some people give up too early. I mean it's happened.
As I said earlier talking with Zach and Katie. You
hold things in and you don't let it out, and
you build resentment. And I think that's a lot of
reasons why relationships don't last, because you're not speaking your.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Truth and well. And I think sometimes I agree with that.
Sometimes you have to hold it and at compromise. I
keep saying that coming back. You know, you just not
everything you think needs to be said, right. But I
think it's time to get on to some listener questions.
What do you think I like it?
Speaker 2 (04:56):
So do you read the first one?
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Okay Ron from North Carolina says, I'm sixty nine and
a retired military man. My wife passed away almost two
years ago. I'm very fond of a single neighbor who
is thirty and has two children. She has been inviting
me for supper at her house at least three times
(05:20):
a week, and when I leave, we hug. I'd like
to kiss her, but I don't know if I should
ask first or tell her I'm attracted to her. How
do I find out if she has feelings for me?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Oh? Well, Ron, thank you very much for sending you
this question to us, and we're going to talk about this. Kathy.
Do you have a strong feeling one way or the
other on this?
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Susan? Yes, Perhaps you didn't let me just say two
words to you, two little phrases here.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
I know what you're going to say. The age I
know it.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
He is sixty nine. She is thirty with two young children.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Down, ok, Ron, hear me?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Hear me?
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Wrong?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
So when you're hugging her, you know, when you look
somebody in the eye, you know whether they're going to
be receptive of that kiss or perhaps when you get
real close to say, I really want to kiss you,
but I don't want to ruin this relationship. Are you
okay with that? Are you what's wrong with that?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Susan?
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (06:22):
First of all, her children are young, so unless she's
looking for a grandfather for those children, he is absolutely
deluding himself that a thirty year old would be interested
forty years. Let's do the maths and start shouting.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Inviting him three times a week and she has two children.
There's age. There doesn't matter.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Age doesn't matter. Are you really okay? If you really
believe that, I want you to start counting, and at
the end of this episode you're still going to be
counting the years between them. So it's ridiculous. It's ridiculous.
It is a big gap.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
I agree with that, it is a huge gap.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
However, she's probably inviting him because he's an older man
and she feels sorry for him.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Are you consider yourself an older woman that people pity
you're seventy and look at you, you're still hot?
Speaker 1 (07:15):
No, no, no, thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
It could be an adult relationship on the side. You
don't know where people want to be.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
I know where a thirty year old doesn't want to be,
and that's in the arms of a seventy year old guy.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Give it, Ron, I'm all about it. Communicate with her,
don't shock her, Communicate with her, and please let us
know the results.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Ron My thought for you is by the kids happy
birthday cards and sign it love your neighborly grandfather. You're done, Okay,
get onto the next tay then okay listener question number two.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
This is Casey from California. She right, My girlfriend and
I have been in the same sex relationship for almost
five years. Okay. Prior to being together, I had a boyfriend. However,
she has only been with women. I have been thinking
a lot about proposing to her lately. Then out of nowhere,
(08:19):
she told me the other day that she thinks she
would like to explore being with a man before she
can fully commit to me. I was totally shocked, but
I really love her. Should I suggest bringing a man
into our relationship and do this together or should I
let her go off and do her thing. I don't
(08:41):
want to lose her, but I can't imagine her being
with someone else.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Can I? Can I start off on this one?
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Please?
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Yes, Casey, you have to let her go. She's not
asking if she can bring another man, bring a man
into the relationship. She's saying she wants to explore being
with a man. Unfortunately for you, Casey, that may mean
that she's deciding to go in a different direction. You
(09:13):
can only control your own ideas and behavior. Casey, I
know that your heart will break if she leaves you
for a man, But do you really want to be
with someone who doesn't want to be with you. It's
not a question of bringing a man into the relationship.
It's a choice she has yet to make.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
What do you think? I agree with a lot of that, Kathy,
But again, our big C word. Communicate about it, talk
to her about it. And if that's all she wants
to do is have a physical thing with a man,
and Casey is comfortable with it, bring the man over.
It's that what you two feel comfortable with. I don't
know if you want to watch. I don't know if
you want.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
To do a live in Susan. Do you have because I'm.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Very open minded that way, And if they're comfortable with that, but.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
That'd be it okay. But that's not what Casey's girlfriend
is asking or communicating. She is saying she might want
to explore a relationship with a man. I don't think.
We don't know because we don't know either of these people.
But it doesn't sound like she's saying, hey, can we
(10:20):
have a threesome?
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Well, she says, she out of nowhere. She's thinking she'd
like to explore being with a man before she can
fully commit. She wants to try a man, not a relationship.
It doesn't say that I was thinking pure sex. She
wants to have a physical thing with a man and
make sure the woman is what she wants.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Okay, But Casey's saying, should I suggest bringing a man
into the relationship. That's where I'm going. She's not asking
to have a man threesome. She's saying, maybe I want
to be with a man. So I think Casey, unfortunately
for you, you have to just sit back and be
patient and wait and see how it plays out.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Do you not agree that they should talk about it?
Speaker 1 (11:08):
You always should talk about it, But I think it's hard.
Here's the thing. I think Casey's obviously in love with
this woman, and I get that. But you know, sometimes
our hearts, our hearts get broken. Sometimes things change, people change,
relationships change, situations change.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
And you do want to know before you get into
that exactly. I think, Susan, you and I can I'm
also I'm sorry now, I was just going to say,
I think you and I can agree that we wish
them both the best and that it works out for
both of them. Have you ever, Susan, let me ask
(11:52):
you something. Have you ever had to let someone go
and see if they've come back? You know that old
thing about to go there.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
I am the worst at breaking up, absolute world's worst.
I feel too bad, you know what I end up doing.
It takes like six months. I've already decided it's done,
it's over, but I'm still there. Yeah, because I don't
like hurting people's feelings. And you know, I'm a mush mush.
I end up and this is something I learned about
(12:21):
myself that I will improve on. But I end up
doing things that make them not like me, just so
it's easier.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
You sabotage, You sabotage it, yeah kind of.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
However, those days are over, but I know that was
my pattern. I hate breaking up. I hate walking away.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
I think for me, I don't know. I'm sure I've
sabotaged relationships, but I think for me, I just when
when I feel like it's empty, it's almost like I
communicate that physically body language.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Well yeah, yeah, I can see that happens.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
So you know, and I honestly, if I let someone go,
I don't want to know if they come back. I
don't want them to come back if I let them go.
I don't play those games.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
See, I'm still friends with all my exes.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Oh so am I that's That's not what I'm saying.
I'm saying I'm friends with all my exes as well,
all two of them.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
But I just know it sounds like we have twenty five.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
I'm just saying, if I let someone go from a
romantic relationship, I don't want them back as that. I
want them to be friends, but I don't want them
back as in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
Exactly exactly.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
I agree, I agree, have you ever taken one back?
Speaker 2 (13:45):
So I just want to thank Casey for writing that
in I'm glad you shared it with us, and I
once again want to know how it works out.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Yeah, let us know for sure. Okay, we have one
time for one more question.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Only one more today.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Well, okay, we got to move on. But this question
comes from Macy and she's from Idaho. She says, I
have two beautiful daughters who are twenty seven and thirty.
My thirty year old is married and just had her
first baby. Everyone was at my house for Christmas dinner.
(14:21):
And I accidentally grabbed my son in law's phone thinking
it was mine. We both have the same blue case.
When I picked it up, I noticed a text that
said the other night was incredible. Can't wait to do
it again? Oh boy, kissy face emoji. Oh yeah, the
(14:42):
text was from someone named TJ. I really think as
a mom, you know when something isn't right. I have
a horrible feeling about the text, but my daughter has
a newborn and I don't want to put more undue
stress on her. Do you have any suggestions? Wow, we
(15:02):
both have daughters. This is gonna be good. We both
have daughters.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
Do you want to go first? Well, we're not gonna
like what I'm gonna say, but I think you should
go first.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
All right, Okay, So, as I just said, we both
have daughters. My daughter just had her first baby. She
isn't even a year old yet. If I read that
on my son in law's phone, which I find hard
to believe because I adore him, But if I saw that,
I got to be honest. Susan. To me, my family
is everything everything, So I would probably have to tell
(15:38):
my daughter quietly take her aside, because protecting my family
and my daughter's happiness is everything for me. I think
it's possible that you know. Here's my thing with texting
you never you can't read the emotion in it.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
So but I do who it's from.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
There's its initials. And on the other hand, you know,
the other night was incredible, can't wait to do it again.
I mean, they weren't at a sushi restaurant learning how
they were golf yeah, I mean, and then with a
kissy face emoji. So I don't know. That's a tough
one for me. I here's the thing if you say
I know this, If you say something and it turns
(16:24):
out to be completely innocent, you or I would really
be putting a wrench in the works of the relationship
and the family. So I don't know. That's kind of
my initial thought.
Speaker 2 (16:36):
What about you, Okay, Macy, you have to know I'm
Susan from Philadelphia. I'm one hundred percent Italian. First of all, Yes,
our daughters come first. However, their hormones are still raging.
They just had a baby. It is Christmas. I'm going
to take that guy by the you know what and
pull him outside. Back in the day, he'd be going
(16:58):
to the wine cellar, and I'm going to find out
the truth.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
I mean it might sounds violent, Susan, this sounds violent.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
No, but we're gonna have an eye to eye right there,
right there, and we're gonna find out. Open the phone,
talk to me. I don't care if you have to
call the person. I need to know what is going
on before my daughter's world just falls apart.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
So okay, now you find out, let's let's go. If
you find out, what are you gonna do about it?
Let's say it's true and he's he's messing around, what
are you gonna do about it?
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Unfortunately, Christmas is ruin because he's going to have to
go tell her. I'll make him.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
Oh no, no, no, see you uh huh.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
No, I'll be right there. You would make him the
baby so she can smack him one. I hope it
wasn't something that bad.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
But what are you gonna knock over the Christmas tree? Wa?
Speaker 2 (17:46):
No, the garage? I don't know what will happen. Maybe
hit him with a bat, I don't know. That's my
first reaction. That's where I go from.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Okay, I I I would tell her, but listen, if
he's been cheating on her, let's let's just make it
up for.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Two minutes, all right, Okay.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Do you really are you really going to ruin Christmas
Day and Christmas dinner when the grandfather the grandmother's there.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
I don't want to ruin Christmas Day. I want to
wait the truth. I see him him and I will know,
and then we'll find the time for him to tell
the truth. But like you said, our daughters are our lives. Yes, yeah,
we protect right. Yeah, anybody hurts your daughter, you're not
going to go crazy on them.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
Well, I'm not going to take a back to them
like you depend. I'm not Italian, though, so maybe I
would if I read Italian. You know, I just think
that that is a really tough one because you know,
as parents, we are there to support our children, but
we also have to let them learn for themselves. And
(18:51):
you know what, if you the daughter might know, I mean,
we don't know the circumstances here. Again, we only know
this little bid, the Kis.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Emoji thing and the fabulous time last night. Your brain's
going to go crazy. I'll tell you what. Macy's Christmas
was ruined by picking up that phone, and I feel
for her.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
Yes, I agree with that, but I don't know. I
look at family a little differently, Susan. I have well, obviously,
you know, I have a brand new daughter in law
and I have a son in law, and I only
have one son in law, and I worshiped the ground
he walked. He's great, he cherishes my daughter. He is
a lovely man. And so for this question's hard for
(19:32):
me because I can't.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
You can imagine see that not coming from him.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
Okay, do I know you have a son in law?
Tell me, tell me what that's like.
Speaker 2 (19:40):
What's they'll ever do it? But I mean there's been
times where their relationship was struggling not too long ago,
and I stepped in and had a private conversation with him.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Did you use a bath?
Speaker 2 (19:53):
No, of course not. I want to know where your
head's at. What's happening here? Can I help? But that
wasn't a case of a this emoji emoji on his phone,
you know what I mean. But yes, I'm there for
them as you would be for your family.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Sure, Yeah, I just think it's a little bit of
a slippery slope. I think, you know, when I think
back to early days of my marriage, I didn't really
want my parents telling me what to do what to think?
And I don't know the old expression budding in. I
(20:27):
see a little bit of that. I don't know. It's
it's just an accident.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
Though she'd grab the phone by mistake, But wasn't an
accident something like that? You react, I would just react.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
I'd probably start crying. That's where I start to cry. Oh,
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
So, everybody out there, if you have a question for us,
we want to hear it. We really want to hear it.
Just go to Bachelor nation dot com slash Golden Hour.
You may even be featured on one of our podcasts.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
We would love to hear from you. Okay, So all
of you out there in Bachelor Nation, you know that
Susan and I are great friends. We take care of
each other, we love each other. We agree on a
(21:19):
lot of things, but there's some things, really many things
that we definitely don't agree on. So we're gonna play
a little game here, call another game, another game. I
love games. Who's most likely one of us is going
to read the scenario and then we're both going to
say who's most likely to do it? Okay and Susan.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Okay, I'm in, I'm in? Which one of us is
most likely to kiss on the first date?
Speaker 1 (21:47):
Oh, both of us? I think we think we would
do that. I think so I'm going to kiss him
right before he pays the bill for dinner.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Yeah, okay, if he doesn't pay the bill, there will
be no kissing them. But wait, what do you call
a kiss? Like a pet? The first date is just
a thank you?
Speaker 1 (22:06):
I've got like a kiss. I have kiss, I've done
a making obsession. If I'm attracted to the guy, sure,
why not lean.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
In and hang in? You don't pull back?
Speaker 1 (22:16):
All right, go Kathy? Hey, okay, how about this one?
Who is most likely to go skinny dipping in the ocean? Oh?
Speaker 2 (22:25):
Wait, wait, bless us all.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
In case anyone tells me to have a good memory here,
let's just remember about Susan skinny dipping in the pool
at the mansion. So Susan, who's most likely?
Speaker 2 (22:37):
Every morning, six thirty a m. Nobody was up. It
was all good. But no, I yeah, it would definitely
be me. Okay, who would put a much younger photo
of their selves in your online dating profile?
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Not me? Never?
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Why why would you do that?
Speaker 1 (22:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
You've got have to go meet them?
Speaker 1 (23:01):
How many times you and I have talked about this
because we've been on dating sites. You get there, you
meet the guy, you walk right by him because he
doesn't look anything like his picture, and then he'll say, Kathy,
and I turn around. I still don't see him because
I'm looking for a guy twenty years ago.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Kathy. That's cat pishing. That's the word cat pishing. That's
when they put something up. Well really catfishing is it's
not even that person at all, but the same thing applies.
If it's a thirty year old picture a twenty year
old picture, you're not the same.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
So yeah, just think you're teaching me something every day. Susan, Okay,
who would date someone twenty years younger? And I want
to remind you of the question we just thirty or
sixty nine year old?
Speaker 2 (23:45):
I got you? No, no, twenty years now?
Speaker 1 (23:48):
What's your limit?
Speaker 2 (23:50):
Too much? I mean, it depends on who I meet,
but probably ten.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
I'd go ten. That's about it, all right, all right?
Speaker 2 (23:58):
I mean, if that really he was attracted to him
and liked him, twelve would be pushing the limits.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
And Susan, if not, really, if you really really really
liked him and it was next door admit it, you'd
go thirty.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Well, that wouldn't be for a relationship, though, that would
be something different. That's what That's what I was reading
that time. Yeah, all right. Who would be the first
one to hit the dance floor at a wedding?
Speaker 1 (24:29):
We just did it. We just did it at my
son's wedding. We both were the first ones out on
the dance floor.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
It was great, absolutely, and it was so much fun.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Okay, who is most likely to buy a round of
shots for strangers at a bar?
Speaker 2 (24:42):
I've done it.
Speaker 1 (24:43):
I've done it, and you know I'm going to throw
back a shot. So okay, yeah, I know.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
Right on Joey's Hip to the Final Rose when they
passed out those shots, I was like, oh, I gotta
do this. Gut be give me yours. You already sipped it.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
You know, there's nothing wrong with doing a shot. It
just makes a day without a shot. It's like a
day without sunshine.
Speaker 2 (25:03):
God. Okay, here's one who would have a vacation fling.
What's a fling? Tell me what a fling is? Gath,
I think is that a fling?
Speaker 1 (25:17):
Yeah? I'd go for what I'd say that that would
could be considered a fling. Would you do it?
Speaker 2 (25:23):
I don't think, I know, not just once and done.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
I mean, what if it was a what if it
was a two week vacation fling?
Speaker 2 (25:34):
No, my luck, I would do it. I would fall okay,
and then they'd never call me again, and I'd hate myself.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
You know, my vacation. You know what my luck would be.
He'd have lied about where he was from. I'd get
home to Austin. He'd be like living down the street
torturing me. My god, all right, which one of us
we are? We've talked about this, Which one of us
would often to split the bill with a man on
the first Yeah, we've covered that one.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
Okay, So who would be the first one to sign
up for another reality show?
Speaker 1 (26:08):
Oh? Ding ding ding?
Speaker 2 (26:09):
We we're already. I mean, we had such an experience
being on the Golden Bachchelor. It was so much fun.
Like we said before about friendships, about getting to know
who we are and being okay.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
You know and who you know when you think about it.
I don't know about you, but I didn't think that's
what I was going to get out of our friends,
out of being on the reality TV show. Who ever
thought we knew going in only one woman was going
to get the guy. But did you really think that
you would build a friendship like we have.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
I never even thought I went there to fall in love, right.
Unfortunately we got into the friend zone. I did make
a friend, I mean Gary and I we be friends forever.
But no, no, I never gave that a thought.
Speaker 1 (26:53):
I mean I would sign up for some reality shows.
But I think the lessons we learned were so great
and the friendship we made were so great it was
definitely worth it, okayly, and.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
Then the message we got to share with everybody about
it's never too late to feel good about yourself, to
live life again, and.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
It's never too late to have a fling. All right?
The last one who gives better love advice? Who do
you think?
Speaker 2 (27:22):
Oh? I think both of us have something to share,
Katie that we can't pick one.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
I agree. I think we both have lived a lot
of life. We've both had great experiences and heartbreaking experiences,
and I think that's why we're both able to give advice.
Speaker 2 (27:36):
Yes, and I'd be happy to share what I know
and what I've learned with all of you.
Speaker 1 (27:43):
I think that's what makes this podcast so great. We
can share our thoughts and we're waiting to hear from
other people as well to help them with their.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Let them give us their thoughts on what we say.
Maybe we're missing something right.
Speaker 1 (27:59):
I'll tell you what I'm missing. I'm waiting for my
dms to get full because they're still crickets.
Speaker 2 (28:05):
So, ladies and gentlemen, thanks so much for joining us.
That does it for this episode, and don't forget check
us out on Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
Yeah, thank you guys so much. Be sure to subscribe
as we have new episodes coming out every week that
you won't want to miss.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
And make sure to submit your question to us. We're
gonna dish out all kinds of answers advice every week
twice a week Wednesdays and Fridays. Just go to Bachelorhappy
Hour dot com slash Golden Hour and Kathy and I
will be there.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
So don't forget. Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour
on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to podcasts.
Thanks for joining us this week, See you next time.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
Signing off, Kathy and Season Chauprin Now
We're back, Susan and Kathy here. Welcome to Bachelor Happy
Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for joining us, and.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
If you haven't listened to our episode from Wednesday, you
gotta go check it out. We had former bachelor Zach
and his fiance Katie on the pod. Kathy, weren't they fantastic?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Oh? You know, they are an amazing couple. I think
I said it on the on the podcast yesterday. When
you look at them and how they speak and how
well they talk with each other, they're so in love.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
It's I don't learn so many things about them, like
Katie's sharing that she visited Texas and she's from Canada
and said I want to make this my home and
did it. And how they communicate together, what they shared
about their future. I loved it.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
I you know what I find amazing. They've been together
what several months, and they already know so much about
each other And what makes a great relationship. I should say,
what makes a relationship great? They work together, they spend
time together, they have date nights. Katie does the cleaning,
(01:21):
Zach has dinner ready for when she gets home from work.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
I were not thrilled when he said sometimes I'll have
dinner ready. When she walks through the door, I was like,
oh my god, a man after my own heart.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
I know you and you're cooking, But honestly, I really
I mean, if anyone questions whether the process can work
on The Bachelor, listen to this podcast again. They are
proof positive how great and fast a really loving relationship
can grow.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
And we talk to them about the difficulties of living
together when you don't really know each other well and
you're getting to know each other. And how about what
they shared.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
They communicate, that's right, that's what you and I were talking.
They compromise, they communicate. It's I feel like these are
the words that we keep saying, but it's these are
the things that make a great relationship. And they I'm
just so happy for them and I can't wait to
go to their wedding.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
I know I never destination or alstin either one works
for you.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Know what, You're gonna have to get some cowboy boot
Susan if it's in Texas.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
I've got like forty pair.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Okay, perfect, Okay, So listen. Today we're going to be
answering questions from fans who have written in asking for
advice and you are not going to believe some of
these questions. They're really good, Susan. You can submit your
questions at bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Well wait, I want to do that, but first let's
get started with today's question of the day. So what's
something you used to believe about relationships but no longer do?
What do you not believe in anymore?
Speaker 1 (03:05):
I think that for me, it's not that I don't
believe in it. I think that love is something that
takes a lot of work, stain and love. It's easy
to fall in love, fall in lust, but I think
that relationships don't just happen. They take a lot of
work to be good. What about you?
Speaker 2 (03:26):
I agree with that something that I used to think.
I used to think that that puppy love, or that
lust love, the beginning stage, that one year thing is
going to last forever. But I know it does it.
You're exactly right, Kathy, Yeah, it takes work, which is
why you want to find your best friend, somebody that
without the love and the intimacy, that you could hang
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out with every day. You know what I mean? You
share your space with, share your time with.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Well, I agree with all that, But I also think
that relationships change over time. You just said that, I
mean they evolve, and a good relationship in a perfect world,
we grow together in a relationship and we find ways
to build our relationship stronger. But you know, it takes
a lot of time and effort, and that's I think
(04:16):
a lot of people just aren't willing sometimes to put
in the effort.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yeah, some people give up too early. I mean it's happened.
As I said earlier talking with Zach and Katie. You
hold things in and you don't let it out, and
you build resentment. And I think that's a lot of
reasons why relationships don't last, because you're not speaking your.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Truth and well. And I think sometimes I agree with that.
Sometimes you have to hold it and at compromise. I
keep saying that coming back. You know, you just not
everything you think needs to be said, right. But I
think it's time to get on to some listener questions.
What do you think I like it?
Speaker 2 (04:56):
So do you read the first one?
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Okay Ron from North Carolina says, I'm sixty nine and
a retired military man. My wife passed away almost two
years ago. I'm very fond of a single neighbor who
is thirty and has two children. She has been inviting
me for supper at her house at least three times
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a week, and when I leave, we hug. I'd like
to kiss her, but I don't know if I should
ask first or tell her I'm attracted to her. How
do I find out if she has feelings for me?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Oh? Well, Ron, thank you very much for sending you
this question to us, and we're going to talk about this. Kathy.
Do you have a strong feeling one way or the
other on this?
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Susan? Yes, Perhaps you didn't let me just say two
words to you, two little phrases here.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
I know what you're going to say. The age I
know it.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
He is sixty nine. She is thirty with two young children.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Down, ok, Ron, hear me?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Hear me?
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Wrong?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
So when you're hugging her, you know, when you look
somebody in the eye, you know whether they're going to
be receptive of that kiss or perhaps when you get
real close to say, I really want to kiss you,
but I don't want to ruin this relationship. Are you
okay with that? Are you what's wrong with that?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Susan?
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (06:22):
First of all, her children are young, so unless she's
looking for a grandfather for those children, he is absolutely
deluding himself that a thirty year old would be interested
forty years. Let's do the maths and start shouting.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Inviting him three times a week and she has two children.
There's age. There doesn't matter.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Age doesn't matter. Are you really okay? If you really
believe that, I want you to start counting, and at
the end of this episode you're still going to be
counting the years between them. So it's ridiculous. It's ridiculous.
It is a big gap.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
I agree with that, it is a huge gap.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
However, she's probably inviting him because he's an older man
and she feels sorry for him.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Are you consider yourself an older woman that people pity
you're seventy and look at you, you're still hot?
Speaker 1 (07:15):
No, no, no, thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
It could be an adult relationship on the side. You
don't know where people want to be.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
I know where a thirty year old doesn't want to be,
and that's in the arms of a seventy year old guy.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Give it, Ron, I'm all about it. Communicate with her,
don't shock her, Communicate with her, and please let us
know the results.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Ron My thought for you is by the kids happy
birthday cards and sign it love your neighborly grandfather. You're done, Okay,
get onto the next tay then okay listener question number two.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
This is Casey from California. She right, My girlfriend and
I have been in the same sex relationship for almost
five years. Okay. Prior to being together, I had a boyfriend. However,
she has only been with women. I have been thinking
a lot about proposing to her lately. Then out of nowhere,
(08:19):
she told me the other day that she thinks she
would like to explore being with a man before she
can fully commit to me. I was totally shocked, but
I really love her. Should I suggest bringing a man
into our relationship and do this together or should I
let her go off and do her thing. I don't
(08:41):
want to lose her, but I can't imagine her being
with someone else.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Can I? Can I start off on this one?
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Please?
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Yes, Casey, you have to let her go. She's not
asking if she can bring another man, bring a man
into the relationship. She's saying she wants to explore being
with a man. Unfortunately for you, Casey, that may mean
that she's deciding to go in a different direction. You
(09:13):
can only control your own ideas and behavior. Casey, I
know that your heart will break if she leaves you
for a man, But do you really want to be
with someone who doesn't want to be with you. It's
not a question of bringing a man into the relationship.
It's a choice she has yet to make.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
What do you think? I agree with a lot of that, Kathy,
But again, our big C word. Communicate about it, talk
to her about it. And if that's all she wants
to do is have a physical thing with a man,
and Casey is comfortable with it, bring the man over.
It's that what you two feel comfortable with. I don't
know if you want to watch. I don't know if
you want.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
To do a live in Susan. Do you have because I'm.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Very open minded that way, And if they're comfortable with that, but.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
That'd be it okay. But that's not what Casey's girlfriend
is asking or communicating. She is saying she might want
to explore a relationship with a man. I don't think.
We don't know because we don't know either of these people.
But it doesn't sound like she's saying, hey, can we
(10:20):
have a threesome?
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Well, she says, she out of nowhere. She's thinking she'd
like to explore being with a man before she can
fully commit. She wants to try a man, not a relationship.
It doesn't say that I was thinking pure sex. She
wants to have a physical thing with a man and
make sure the woman is what she wants.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Okay, But Casey's saying, should I suggest bringing a man
into the relationship. That's where I'm going. She's not asking
to have a man threesome. She's saying, maybe I want
to be with a man. So I think Casey, unfortunately
for you, you have to just sit back and be
patient and wait and see how it plays out.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Do you not agree that they should talk about it?
Speaker 1 (11:08):
You always should talk about it, But I think it's hard.
Here's the thing. I think Casey's obviously in love with
this woman, and I get that. But you know, sometimes
our hearts, our hearts get broken. Sometimes things change, people change,
relationships change, situations change.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
And you do want to know before you get into
that exactly. I think, Susan, you and I can I'm
also I'm sorry now, I was just going to say,
I think you and I can agree that we wish
them both the best and that it works out for
both of them. Have you ever, Susan, let me ask
(11:52):
you something. Have you ever had to let someone go
and see if they've come back? You know that old
thing about to go there.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
I am the worst at breaking up, absolute world's worst.
I feel too bad, you know what I end up doing.
It takes like six months. I've already decided it's done,
it's over, but I'm still there. Yeah, because I don't
like hurting people's feelings. And you know, I'm a mush mush.
I end up and this is something I learned about
(12:21):
myself that I will improve on. But I end up
doing things that make them not like me, just so
it's easier.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
You sabotage, You sabotage it, yeah kind of.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
However, those days are over, but I know that was
my pattern. I hate breaking up. I hate walking away.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
I think for me, I don't know. I'm sure I've
sabotaged relationships, but I think for me, I just when
when I feel like it's empty, it's almost like I
communicate that physically body language.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Well yeah, yeah, I can see that happens.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
So you know, and I honestly, if I let someone go,
I don't want to know if they come back. I
don't want them to come back if I let them go.
I don't play those games.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
See, I'm still friends with all my exes.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Oh so am I that's That's not what I'm saying.
I'm saying I'm friends with all my exes as well,
all two of them.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
But I just know it sounds like we have twenty five.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
I'm just saying, if I let someone go from a
romantic relationship, I don't want them back as that. I
want them to be friends, but I don't want them
back as in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
Exactly exactly.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
I agree, I agree, have you ever taken one back?
Speaker 2 (13:45):
So I just want to thank Casey for writing that
in I'm glad you shared it with us, and I
once again want to know how it works out.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Yeah, let us know for sure. Okay, we have one
time for one more question.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Only one more today.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Well, okay, we got to move on. But this question
comes from Macy and she's from Idaho. She says, I
have two beautiful daughters who are twenty seven and thirty.
My thirty year old is married and just had her
first baby. Everyone was at my house for Christmas dinner.
(14:21):
And I accidentally grabbed my son in law's phone thinking
it was mine. We both have the same blue case.
When I picked it up, I noticed a text that
said the other night was incredible. Can't wait to do
it again? Oh boy, kissy face emoji. Oh yeah, the
(14:42):
text was from someone named TJ. I really think as
a mom, you know when something isn't right. I have
a horrible feeling about the text, but my daughter has
a newborn and I don't want to put more undue
stress on her. Do you have any suggestions? Wow, we
(15:02):
both have daughters. This is gonna be good. We both
have daughters.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
Do you want to go first? Well, we're not gonna
like what I'm gonna say, but I think you should
go first.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
All right, Okay, So, as I just said, we both
have daughters. My daughter just had her first baby. She
isn't even a year old yet. If I read that
on my son in law's phone, which I find hard
to believe because I adore him, But if I saw that,
I got to be honest. Susan. To me, my family
is everything everything, So I would probably have to tell
(15:38):
my daughter quietly take her aside, because protecting my family
and my daughter's happiness is everything for me. I think
it's possible that you know. Here's my thing with texting
you never you can't read the emotion in it.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
So but I do who it's from.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
There's its initials. And on the other hand, you know,
the other night was incredible, can't wait to do it again.
I mean, they weren't at a sushi restaurant learning how
they were golf yeah, I mean, and then with a
kissy face emoji. So I don't know. That's a tough
one for me. I here's the thing if you say
I know this, If you say something and it turns
(16:24):
out to be completely innocent, you or I would really
be putting a wrench in the works of the relationship
and the family. So I don't know. That's kind of
my initial thought.
Speaker 2 (16:36):
What about you, Okay, Macy, you have to know I'm
Susan from Philadelphia. I'm one hundred percent Italian. First of all, Yes,
our daughters come first. However, their hormones are still raging.
They just had a baby. It is Christmas. I'm going
to take that guy by the you know what and
pull him outside. Back in the day, he'd be going
(16:58):
to the wine cellar, and I'm going to find out
the truth.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
I mean it might sounds violent, Susan, this sounds violent.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
No, but we're gonna have an eye to eye right there,
right there, and we're gonna find out. Open the phone,
talk to me. I don't care if you have to
call the person. I need to know what is going
on before my daughter's world just falls apart.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
So okay, now you find out, let's let's go. If
you find out, what are you gonna do about it?
Let's say it's true and he's he's messing around, what
are you gonna do about it?
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Unfortunately, Christmas is ruin because he's going to have to
go tell her. I'll make him.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
Oh no, no, no, see you uh huh.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
No, I'll be right there. You would make him the
baby so she can smack him one. I hope it
wasn't something that bad.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
But what are you gonna knock over the Christmas tree? Wa?
Speaker 2 (17:46):
No, the garage? I don't know what will happen. Maybe
hit him with a bat, I don't know. That's my
first reaction. That's where I go from.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Okay, I I I would tell her, but listen, if
he's been cheating on her, let's let's just make it
up for.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Two minutes, all right, Okay.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Do you really are you really going to ruin Christmas
Day and Christmas dinner when the grandfather the grandmother's there.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
I don't want to ruin Christmas Day. I want to
wait the truth. I see him him and I will know,
and then we'll find the time for him to tell
the truth. But like you said, our daughters are our lives. Yes, yeah,
we protect right. Yeah, anybody hurts your daughter, you're not
going to go crazy on them.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
Well, I'm not going to take a back to them
like you depend. I'm not Italian, though, so maybe I
would if I read Italian. You know, I just think
that that is a really tough one because you know,
as parents, we are there to support our children, but
we also have to let them learn for themselves. And
(18:51):
you know what, if you the daughter might know, I mean,
we don't know the circumstances here. Again, we only know
this little bid, the Kis.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Emoji thing and the fabulous time last night. Your brain's
going to go crazy. I'll tell you what. Macy's Christmas
was ruined by picking up that phone, and I feel
for her.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
Yes, I agree with that, but I don't know. I
look at family a little differently, Susan. I have well, obviously,
you know, I have a brand new daughter in law
and I have a son in law, and I only
have one son in law, and I worshiped the ground
he walked. He's great, he cherishes my daughter. He is
a lovely man. And so for this question's hard for
(19:32):
me because I can't.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
You can imagine see that not coming from him.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
Okay, do I know you have a son in law?
Tell me, tell me what that's like.
Speaker 2 (19:40):
What's they'll ever do it? But I mean there's been
times where their relationship was struggling not too long ago,
and I stepped in and had a private conversation with him.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Did you use a bath?
Speaker 2 (19:53):
No, of course not. I want to know where your
head's at. What's happening here? Can I help? But that
wasn't a case of a this emoji emoji on his phone,
you know what I mean. But yes, I'm there for
them as you would be for your family.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Sure, Yeah, I just think it's a little bit of
a slippery slope. I think, you know, when I think
back to early days of my marriage, I didn't really
want my parents telling me what to do what to think?
And I don't know the old expression budding in. I
(20:27):
see a little bit of that. I don't know. It's
it's just an accident.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
Though she'd grab the phone by mistake, But wasn't an
accident something like that? You react, I would just react.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
I'd probably start crying. That's where I start to cry. Oh,
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
So, everybody out there, if you have a question for us,
we want to hear it. We really want to hear it.
Just go to Bachelor nation dot com slash Golden Hour.
You may even be featured on one of our podcasts.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
We would love to hear from you. Okay, So all
of you out there in Bachelor Nation, you know that
Susan and I are great friends. We take care of
each other, we love each other. We agree on a
(21:19):
lot of things, but there's some things, really many things
that we definitely don't agree on. So we're gonna play
a little game here, call another game, another game. I
love games. Who's most likely one of us is going
to read the scenario and then we're both going to
say who's most likely to do it? Okay and Susan.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Okay, I'm in, I'm in? Which one of us is
most likely to kiss on the first date?
Speaker 1 (21:47):
Oh, both of us? I think we think we would
do that. I think so I'm going to kiss him
right before he pays the bill for dinner.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Yeah, okay, if he doesn't pay the bill, there will
be no kissing them. But wait, what do you call
a kiss? Like a pet? The first date is just
a thank you?
Speaker 1 (22:06):
I've got like a kiss. I have kiss, I've done
a making obsession. If I'm attracted to the guy, sure,
why not lean.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
In and hang in? You don't pull back?
Speaker 1 (22:16):
All right, go Kathy? Hey, okay, how about this one?
Who is most likely to go skinny dipping in the ocean? Oh?
Speaker 2 (22:25):
Wait, wait, bless us all.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
In case anyone tells me to have a good memory here,
let's just remember about Susan skinny dipping in the pool
at the mansion. So Susan, who's most likely?
Speaker 2 (22:37):
Every morning, six thirty a m. Nobody was up. It
was all good. But no, I yeah, it would definitely
be me. Okay, who would put a much younger photo
of their selves in your online dating profile?
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Not me? Never?
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Why why would you do that?
Speaker 1 (22:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
You've got have to go meet them?
Speaker 1 (23:01):
How many times you and I have talked about this
because we've been on dating sites. You get there, you
meet the guy, you walk right by him because he
doesn't look anything like his picture, and then he'll say, Kathy,
and I turn around. I still don't see him because
I'm looking for a guy twenty years ago.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Kathy. That's cat pishing. That's the word cat pishing. That's
when they put something up. Well really catfishing is it's
not even that person at all, but the same thing applies.
If it's a thirty year old picture a twenty year
old picture, you're not the same.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
So yeah, just think you're teaching me something every day. Susan, Okay,
who would date someone twenty years younger? And I want
to remind you of the question we just thirty or
sixty nine year old?
Speaker 2 (23:45):
I got you? No, no, twenty years now?
Speaker 1 (23:48):
What's your limit?
Speaker 2 (23:50):
Too much? I mean, it depends on who I meet,
but probably ten.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
I'd go ten. That's about it, all right, all right?
Speaker 2 (23:58):
I mean, if that really he was attracted to him
and liked him, twelve would be pushing the limits.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
And Susan, if not, really, if you really really really
liked him and it was next door admit it, you'd
go thirty.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Well, that wouldn't be for a relationship, though, that would
be something different. That's what That's what I was reading
that time. Yeah, all right. Who would be the first
one to hit the dance floor at a wedding?
Speaker 1 (24:29):
We just did it. We just did it at my
son's wedding. We both were the first ones out on
the dance floor.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
It was great, absolutely, and it was so much fun.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Okay, who is most likely to buy a round of
shots for strangers at a bar?
Speaker 2 (24:42):
I've done it.
Speaker 1 (24:43):
I've done it, and you know I'm going to throw
back a shot. So okay, yeah, I know.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
Right on Joey's Hip to the Final Rose when they
passed out those shots, I was like, oh, I gotta
do this. Gut be give me yours. You already sipped it.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
You know, there's nothing wrong with doing a shot. It
just makes a day without a shot. It's like a
day without sunshine.
Speaker 2 (25:03):
God. Okay, here's one who would have a vacation fling.
What's a fling? Tell me what a fling is? Gath,
I think is that a fling?
Speaker 1 (25:17):
Yeah? I'd go for what I'd say that that would
could be considered a fling. Would you do it?
Speaker 2 (25:23):
I don't think, I know, not just once and done.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
I mean, what if it was a what if it
was a two week vacation fling?
Speaker 2 (25:34):
No, my luck, I would do it. I would fall okay,
and then they'd never call me again, and I'd hate myself.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
You know, my vacation. You know what my luck would be.
He'd have lied about where he was from. I'd get
home to Austin. He'd be like living down the street
torturing me. My god, all right, which one of us
we are? We've talked about this, Which one of us
would often to split the bill with a man on
the first Yeah, we've covered that one.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
Okay, So who would be the first one to sign
up for another reality show?
Speaker 1 (26:08):
Oh? Ding ding ding?
Speaker 2 (26:09):
We we're already. I mean, we had such an experience
being on the Golden Bachchelor. It was so much fun.
Like we said before about friendships, about getting to know
who we are and being okay.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
You know and who you know when you think about it.
I don't know about you, but I didn't think that's
what I was going to get out of our friends,
out of being on the reality TV show. Who ever
thought we knew going in only one woman was going
to get the guy. But did you really think that
you would build a friendship like we have.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
I never even thought I went there to fall in love, right.
Unfortunately we got into the friend zone. I did make
a friend, I mean Gary and I we be friends forever.
But no, no, I never gave that a thought.
Speaker 1 (26:53):
I mean I would sign up for some reality shows.
But I think the lessons we learned were so great
and the friendship we made were so great it was
definitely worth it, okayly, and.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
Then the message we got to share with everybody about
it's never too late to feel good about yourself, to
live life again, and.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
It's never too late to have a fling. All right?
The last one who gives better love advice? Who do
you think?
Speaker 2 (27:22):
Oh? I think both of us have something to share,
Katie that we can't pick one.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
I agree. I think we both have lived a lot
of life. We've both had great experiences and heartbreaking experiences,
and I think that's why we're both able to give advice.
Speaker 2 (27:36):
Yes, and I'd be happy to share what I know
and what I've learned with all of you.
Speaker 1 (27:43):
I think that's what makes this podcast so great. We
can share our thoughts and we're waiting to hear from
other people as well to help them with their.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Let them give us their thoughts on what we say.
Maybe we're missing something right.
Speaker 1 (27:59):
I'll tell you what I'm missing. I'm waiting for my
dms to get full because they're still crickets.
Speaker 2 (28:05):
So, ladies and gentlemen, thanks so much for joining us.
That does it for this episode, and don't forget check
us out on Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
Yeah, thank you guys so much. Be sure to subscribe
as we have new episodes coming out every week that
you won't want to miss.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
And make sure to submit your question to us. We're
gonna dish out all kinds of answers advice every week
twice a week Wednesdays and Fridays. Just go to Bachelorhappy
Hour dot com slash Golden Hour and Kathy and I
will be there.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
So don't forget. Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour
on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to podcasts.
Thanks for joining us this week, See you next time.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
Signing off, Kathy and Season Chauprin Now
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