April 25, 2024 • 33 mins
Today on “Bachelor Happy Hour,” Joe and Serena are catching up with beloved Bachelor Nation couple Abigail and Noah! We kick off the episode with Abigail and Noah’s recent ventures into home renovation and how fruitful this path has been for them.
Then, with a date officially announced, the two are giving us all the deets on their wedding-to-be. Plus, we get more insight into their lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and how they’ve been growing together as a couple.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bachler Happy Hour. I'm Joe
and I'm Serena, and we are here with Noah and
Abigail from Bachelor in Paradise season What season were we guys? Anyways?
And then seven okay, and then Noah was Bachelorette season
I don't know, and Abigail was Bachelor Season twenty five. Wow, Hi, guys, welcome,
(00:26):
welcome back, welcome back.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Hright, we missed you, guys, thanks for having us on
the pot.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Of course, no probably missed you.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Abigail, how's it going.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
It's going going well.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Excited to chick chat your your backdrop? No, she's not.
There was there was, there was. There was zero enthusiasm
in that.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
But I think you start over. Yours was a terrible interest.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
No, we are not. We are not starting over. But
by the way, your backdrop looks wonderful. I mean, I
watch all your guys Instagram reels and you're you're doing
quite quite the job over there in Tulsa.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Thank you, Joseph.
Speaker 5 (01:07):
I truly had no idea we would be Bob the
Builder when we came back, but we're full embracing it
and we love it.
Speaker 6 (01:13):
I do want to say when you guys said that
you were going to Tulsa and Abby, I'll show me
the house and was like, Noah's going to fix it up.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
I doubted you one hundred percent.
Speaker 5 (01:24):
Listen, we respect each other enough that all if you
say you doubted me, that's fine. I talked Josh and Joel,
I'll be open about it.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Same with you.
Speaker 5 (01:31):
I wasn't sure I could pull it off either. Now, okay,
we got something around, but.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
I wasn't sure, but I was.
Speaker 6 (01:37):
I'm actually very impressed. I'm very impressed by both of
your skills. You really you have what it takes to
be an HGTV show, Like truly you've You've really flipped
this house.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Well, it's just weird from being fake busy as an
influencer to work in ten hour days manual labor and
it actually looking good.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
So we we love it.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
We're Abby's really good at it, I'm getting really good
at it, and now it's like, let's just stick with it.
But I'm truly surprised it turned out so well myself,
So don't feel.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Bad, Serena. Serena did doubt doubt you. But the truth
is I like Abigail much more than I like, Noah,
but I did not actually doubt you. I was when
when Serena said, I was like, no he, I think
he's gonna I think he's gonna do this. I didn't
do it, didn't do it very well.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
Well, you know, we figure it out eventually. I'm just
glad that we didn't have too many, too many issues.
We don't share the problems that we have, but there
were a lot.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Well that's that's why you guys are That's why you
guys are here on happy hour. But yeah, Noah, you
guys you're both doing looks to be an incredible job.
I do want to ask before you started your own
home renal what we're like. What were the pros and
what were the cons?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Do you want to start?
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Okay, the pros were It's really fun to be able
to do a project like us too, from start to finish.
I feel like it makes us appreciate our home a
lot more that we put less woe and tears into it.
The cons is living in a house when you're renovating,
it's not fun.
Speaker 5 (03:16):
I'd like the record to show that was a choice.
I had a mile and a half away that was vacant.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
But it was like a bachelor pad. It was yeah,
I would get anybody.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
The pros are we can get an idea and figure
out how we want to do it, and then you
walk in a month later and it kind of looks
like the idea in your head, and you know you
did the work because I'm not in the hospital, so
I get bored. So this is my hospital right now
is designing stuff, building stuff, and it's like I.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Have a picture. I'm like, can you do this?
Speaker 5 (03:52):
You're like, okay, yeah, it feels good because I'm myself
am like I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I don't know can I do that?
Speaker 5 (03:58):
And then you know, put a little but a research
into it started and then it's been looking kind of
like the vision in my head. So the proser it
feels good and you save a lot of money. The
cons are that only happens if you want to do
all the work. So it's like how much do I
want to spend or how much do I want to save?
And do this for ten hours a day.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
I feel like the hardest thing.
Speaker 7 (04:19):
I know.
Speaker 6 (04:19):
You guys like started with the kitchen and that was
obviously like a huge undertaking. I feel like eating out
for every meal for three months would be one of
the hardest non construction side effects.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
It was that. And then we also started renovating in
the middle of summer, and we didn't have like running water,
And granted we could have bought a water filter and
made our lives so much easier, but we were going
to the grocery store every other day and like buying
like the bolk thanes of water. And yeah, it was
just a simple.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
We chose to make life a lot harder than it was.
That's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Most people do we we also we also we also
do that. Was there ever so far? Has there been
any kind of like hiccup or rough patch where you've
had to call in help?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
We'll call in.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
It takes a lot for a suggest there. I'm like,
can we call for help? Can we ask for help?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
You're like no, I'm like, it's only two in the morning.
What do you mean we don't need to call them. Yeah,
there's been stuff. There's I can if I have enough time,
I can figure out most things. But there are stuff
where it's like, Okay, this will literally take me all day.
What am I doing? There's professionals like yeah, old in
four hours, and there's a bunch of guys that come in.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
So there is stuff.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
It's what we learned is with old houses, you think
you're gonna fix one thing.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Let's make a cute little.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
Door with some shelves and whatever, add some trim, make
it look cool. Then you start actually doing it and
you find like ten other things there.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
Oh, that's it out, Okay.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
So it's like just kind of just planning for that
stuff to happen and uh, you know, trying not to
fight over it.
Speaker 6 (06:03):
But has been what's been like the biggest hiccup in
the construction process, whether it was like an air or
like you rip down a wall and there was mold,
or what was the biggest thing that you were like,
Oh my god, I can't believe this is happening.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
I have a bad, naughty boy habit of working hard
building something than the last like twenty minutes. Just start
doing demo on something else. And then it's another.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Where you jump. So you so you before totally avoidable? Yeah, yeah,
you jump.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Okay, I think that's a common thing.
Speaker 5 (06:33):
It'll be like on my way to sleep, like Abby's
already a bed, I've one eye open and I throw
a hammer like through the wall and then I'm like,
I'll just demo this really quick just to get started.
And then I'm like, okay, great, that's ten more projects
that I have to do when the one's not done.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
I know because that's the moment where I was like,
why are we doing this?
Speaker 5 (06:51):
The wallpaper that was a hiccup. I'll take it all back.
The wallpaper was the biggest hiccup.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
We almost broke up.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Why why what happened?
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Now? A moment where I almost had a full on breakdown.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
I just think, if I'm gonna be honest, I think
wallpaper's cool. It's timeless, it's classy.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
We are going to be hired.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
It shouldn't exist.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
No.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
Yeah, that was like that's when I felt dumb, Like sure,
I built all this cool stuff with the wallpaper kind
of just it didn't be dirty. So there's little projects
like that where you don't expect it and then you're like, well,
this is taken four more days than we thought.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Now we have to make other people wait at kind
of cascades.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
But you're living in the house, you're enjoying it, trying
to make the most of it. And then it's like,
once we're done with this house, we're able to work
on other houses, which we're doing, which is nice.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
We're not living in a construction zone still.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
So you guys, are you two rehabbing other homes together?
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Yeah, we kind of just decided, like we're practicing on
our house. I've got a couple other houses and I've
bought them since I've been here, so we're kind of
just keep rolling with it.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Got my own.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
Abby's the designer. We're kind of just leaning into it
until it doesn't work.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
I know, I love I think that's I honestly, I
think that's genius and I think, yeah, I think it's
so smart and Abigail, when it comes to design, is
this something that you're passionate about? Do you love it?
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Uh? It's a learning curve. I hated it at first
because I'm so used to just designing like one room,
like an apartment or something, and putting all my attention
on that. And then we came to this Bells with
no furniture. I think, only are clothes, like nothing, and
so just having that much of a blank campus it
was really overwhelming. I didn't really know what my style was.
(08:44):
We started all the kitchen and then with a couple
of things I'm like else, Shoot, I wish I did this,
but we already put so much money into it, were
it's going to write it out. But now I would
say that we kind of got the bigger projects under
the belt. I actually love it and it's actually been
something super passionate about, like putting together the mood or
picking out the furniture. So I want to try to
(09:07):
keep doing it for as long as we can kind
of move away from like the influencing space and more
into this would definitely be a fun, long term goal.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Joe, She's good. She's really good. I would always be
getting so good at decorating.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
I said that for the first like six months, and
now it's like, no, I's definitely better at design than me,
and decorating in the vibes she makes are actually really cool.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
Kick your credit card and I just.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
Go, yeah, no, it's actually really cool. It's really nice
not having to work myself worry about that aspect.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
Yeah, be good at it and enjoy it.
Speaker 5 (09:40):
And then with you know, we're we're using social media
and stuff after the show, being able to share stuff
that we actually enjoy and I'm actually doing the work.
It is a lot more fun versus kind of what
we were doing in the last two years, which was
also fun. It was just a lot more go go
go and a lot of the stuff it's hard to
really sit down and enjoy, whereas this game, which.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Yeah, and it's not as I feel like the other
stuff is great, but it may not be as fulfilling
as doing somebody that you are passionate about, and you
could post about it and be like, this is it.
This is what we love. Take it or leave it,
but I'm gonna keep posting about it.
Speaker 5 (10:19):
I Mean, it's funny because everyone thinks, oh, you're an influencer,
you're made of millions of dollars, like nobody can do
what you're doing, like all this stuff, And I think
about all the work that we have been doing in
the money that we've been saving, and I'm like, Okay,
I could do this for the next few years just
because one I'm saving a lot of money and two
(10:40):
I am like, I'm loving it.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
It's really cool to me right now. Yeah, it's fun.
It's been a weird change, but it's been super cool.
Speaker 7 (10:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
I mean, compared to what we were doing in California,
I think we had a lot of days where we
just had a lot of time and we're kind of
trying to find things that we enjoy. And then here
I feel like we've just been busy, nonstuff, but it's
been with good things I actually look for, like waking
up and being like, here's our t do list today,
Like let's check everything done. So I definitely like our
pace better.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
No, it was just hard for the two years when
we weren't in a spot for more than you know,
three to six months. I really get any structure, find
anything you want to do outside of that.
Speaker 6 (11:21):
You when I saw you in Chicago, like after we left,
I was like, I feel like, Noah, like looks different.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
I thought it was your hair.
Speaker 6 (11:28):
But I actually think you look like the manual labor
is like slim fitted you up.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
I didn't know.
Speaker 5 (11:38):
I didn't had that many compliments high school prom when
I got a haircut.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
When you're building a home, you know, I think it's I.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Think it's uh, I think it's really cool. Been good
for you guys, And now I'm sure you're going to
be busy planning a wedding. Have you started that process yet?
Speaker 4 (12:05):
We have? We finally started about a month ago. Were like, yeah,
that's pretty much our only date.
Speaker 7 (12:12):
We have a date venue, You have a location, okay,
location planner, so Abby h and I like, I said,
you're not fighting over things that we can avoid.
Speaker 5 (12:27):
So a wedding planner to help her me doing the
house stuff. We have a date, we have a place,
and we'll see if you guys are invited.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
You guys are, no question?
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Well Noah, I mean here. So Noah. When we were
all in Chicago for Kenny and Murray's wedding, Noah said
to me, He's like, well, He's like, do you do
you think you're going to He said, do you think
you're even gonna come? I said, come to?
Speaker 6 (12:52):
What?
Speaker 1 (12:53):
To our wedding? I said, well, I don't know. Are
we invited? He said, while I don't. I mean, I'm
not gonna invite you. If you're not going to come, well,
I don't know what to tell you. I don't even
know what to do. I don't know what it is.
Speaker 5 (13:05):
We're doing such a small wedding that I'm like in
a weird position where I'm having to call my friends
that I've known for a long time but we haven't
had the time to hang out with. I'm having to
call them be like, hey, well you're not invited to
the wedding. I'm having to like call people and say, hey,
it's been a while, I love you. You're not invited
(13:25):
to the wedding unless you can make.
Speaker 6 (13:27):
It and you can really Okay, noah, Like I just
need to have like a chat I want.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
I know I can't help myself.
Speaker 6 (13:35):
No, but do you know how this works? Like you
send out an invite and then they are s VP
yes or no. You don't say if you're not coming,
I'm not going to send you an invite you don't
like you do.
Speaker 5 (13:47):
Don't send out an invite if it's an inconvenience and
you're not gonna come.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
He doesn't want any note. He just wants an invite.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
Is to find out if they're.
Speaker 4 (13:56):
Coming or not.
Speaker 5 (13:57):
If if I send an invite to you and Joe
and Joe goes, wow, I don't know what we're doing this?
Speaker 2 (14:03):
What's in Oklahoma anyways?
Speaker 5 (14:05):
Like and I'm like, okay, Joe doesn't want to be here,
that's fine, you know, but.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
No, where would I even how would where would I?
I wouldn't write that on the yes or no for
the RSVP, Like we're maybe gonna We're going to have
that conversation.
Speaker 6 (14:20):
When in Oklahoma, what am I gonna do?
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Okay, so Oklahoma is can we share? That is going
to be what it is?
Speaker 5 (14:30):
It's in Oklahoma, and it's going to be this year,
this year in Oklahoma.
Speaker 4 (14:35):
That's pretty much all the details we have at this point.
But oh, in small wedding. So we're trying to navigate
those conversations and I feel like it's only going to
get worse once the invites go out.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
My family is about thirty, yes, so for meeting.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
It's not bad. That's decent sized.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
But hm, we're trying to keep it around seventy five
would be ideal.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
We want classy.
Speaker 3 (14:59):
Dinner party, yes, luck, I love that.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
And we loved your guys' wedding. Your guys wedding was great.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
Thank you, Okay, we do. We do appreciate that. We
loved it.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
The big but the wedding was fantastic.
Speaker 6 (15:19):
Well, ours was about one thirty so yeah, that's like
like almost yeah people, it's almost.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Double what you guys are thinking.
Speaker 6 (15:30):
Yeah, and then Marie and Kenny's party was like two
hundred and fifty people.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
That was big. That was a lot. That was a
lot of people.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
Yeah, we went to our wedding last week and it
was almost three hundred people and it's still super fun,
but I think just it's very overstimulating and I just
want to be able to like talk to everyone at
the wedding, have conversations. So that was kind of we
knew right away we wanted a smaller wedding.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
Is there was there are there any takeaways from Serena
in my wedding or Teddy and Maari's wedding and you're
like where you're like, you know, that's just not for us,
Like something that they did where you're like, okay, wing this,
you want to go first.
Speaker 5 (16:11):
One thing that we are for sure doing that you
guys did, We're just gonna tweet it a little.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
The espresso bar Espresso Martini brilliant? Were you guys?
Speaker 5 (16:19):
That was?
Speaker 1 (16:20):
That was a Serena idea.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
That was the end of the night.
Speaker 5 (16:23):
Where you guys, because at the end of the night,
I had like eight I had like eight espresso martini
and I'm like, dude, I shouldn't have started drinking.
Speaker 4 (16:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
So yeah, everyone went out really late.
Speaker 6 (16:37):
Everyone said they were really late, and I honestly think
it was because people were chugging the espresso martinis at yeah,
like nine pm and then.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
Espresso. All I heard was martini.
Speaker 6 (16:49):
I forgot the express, but we wanted that because, yeah,
I feel like a lot of weddings, you say, And
we wanted dinner to be quick, like we're like an
hour and a half max, like try to get through it.
So because I feel like the longer, if I'm sitting
and drinking, I'm getting tired. So I'm like, I want
to like do it to like kick everyone's energy up
so that the dance store is popping.
Speaker 5 (17:10):
And it worked because your guys's dance floor was great.
We weren't forced to dance for an hour and a
half like most weddings, you know what I mean, where
it's like we have to do the duck dance five times.
You guys got to dance. Joe wish I wouldn't have
seen you dance, but you look like you had fun.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
You joined you.
Speaker 5 (17:27):
So we're gonna take a few pieces from your guys.
I don't know about the nos.
Speaker 4 (17:31):
I think the only thing that we're just doing a
little bit different than you guys. I think this size
really is the biggest thing. We're just doing it a
little bit smaller, but everything else like I love the
black tie element. I love, honestly just the energy, like
the low things that you guys did. For the energy,
you could just tell everyone wanted to be there and
love celebrating.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
See, that's why it's important to call before it.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
I do.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
I do appreciate how I asked you a question about
the negatives from our wedding and you turned it all
the positive. Okay, let's well.
Speaker 4 (18:10):
I did something there, but this I think it was
Charlson traffic because Charleston traffic was so bad. So a
couple of people showed up late to the ceremony until
in So because of that, I was like, maybe we
should do like a pre ceremony coptail.
Speaker 6 (18:27):
Okay, yeah, I would recommend this actually, because we put
I think five pm as the start time on our
invitations and we actually started like at five pm, which
I didn't actually expect. But I wasn't like looking at
the clock at all that day. It was kind of
just like when people told me to be places, I would,
but I should have said, like say five pm, start
(18:51):
at five point fifteen, yeah, just or say like arrive,
like if you put like a arrive at four forty five.
Ceremony begins at five pm sharp.
Speaker 4 (19:01):
Yeah, I would recommend that it was also just the
chop because I know I was like, I want to
be there at least fifteen minutes early, Like I don't
want to risk it. Me left early, and I think
we made it with like five minutes to spare.
Speaker 5 (19:15):
We weren't one of the ones sneaking in when the
ceremony started. That was one thing.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
I was specific about.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
Lovely Well.
Speaker 5 (19:24):
Part of the wedding thing for us is nobody knows
what even is in Oklahoma.
Speaker 4 (19:30):
We're gonna show you guys a good time.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
And we're wanting it to be, yeah, like a weekend fun.
Speaker 5 (19:35):
There is a state in Oklahoma called Oklahoma that's a
lot of It's not just teepee's and horse drawn carriages,
you know, and it's a lot of fun.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
So part of it's going to be like the weekend
some of our.
Speaker 5 (19:47):
Closest friends that we got over the last two years
to spend time with and obviously try to let Tulsa
shine a little.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
No, I'm excited.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
On a horse.
Speaker 6 (20:02):
Oh my god, I can't picture Joe on a horse.
I've been on a horse yeah, I know, I just
I can't picture it. I've never seen you the ones
that you put quarters and don't count.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Actually I've actually been on one of those two. What
do you say it's Serena. What were you saying?
Speaker 4 (20:20):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (20:20):
I was gonna say, like Joe and I would probably
never go to Tulsa unless we were like, yeah, visiting
you guys or visiting friends, so like it is fun
to get to go somewhere we've never been. We would
probably never go otherwise for like a weekend of celebration.
But maybe we will come back. Me we'll fall in
love with Tulsa. I know you guys are trying to
get everyone you know to move there. So maybe we'll
(20:41):
become best friends with Noahs seven hundred siblings and then
we'll all hang out in Tulsa together.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
Doesn't Sylvester Stallone have a have a TV show that's
based in Tulsa?
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Tula King?
Speaker 1 (20:54):
Okay? Is it?
Speaker 4 (20:55):
Do it?
Speaker 7 (20:56):
What?
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (20:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (20:58):
Is it good? I never watched it? Is it good?
Speaker 4 (21:02):
Extra?
Speaker 7 (21:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (21:03):
He inhaled the helium balloon and fell over. That was
like his one scene.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
Oh really, I thought it was good.
Speaker 5 (21:09):
I thought it could have been better. I heard a
lot of hype, like, oh, show about Tulsa. I was like, oh, heck, yeah,
it's gonna be good.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
So that's just alone. I was like, Okay, a little cheesy,
but it was good.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
Is it true to Tulsa.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
It is pretty true to Tulsa.
Speaker 5 (21:22):
It's he stays at the Mayo Hotel, which is like
an og because Tulsa's got in the twenties was the
oil capital of the world. There's decho, a lot of
old money, so there is a lot of that still here.
That's part of what's cool about it. So there was
that aspect. And they're legal marijuana now, so that was
also the other part of the show.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
It's a big step for Oklahoma.
Speaker 6 (21:45):
I always forget that, like that's such a big deal
here because it's legal across Canada.
Speaker 5 (21:50):
It's been legal in Canada, right, we didn't have Oklahoma
had three percent beer for until the like four or
five years ago.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
So you couldn't go over three percent.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
To go to a liquor store to get beer over
three percent.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
A bar not long ago? What about it?
Speaker 5 (22:09):
Like a bar bar is different, but just over it
can't be cold if it's over three percent, and it
can't be sold at a liquor store now it can't.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
So wow, you guys are evolving.
Speaker 6 (22:22):
Watch out, watch out everyone, Tulsa.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
I love it though. It's great. It's like a tiny
little like a whole month like everything.
Speaker 4 (22:32):
Everybody's just so happy. It's slower, peace living.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
So you guys are living in your own wholene.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
What you guys doing, But it's just like slowly trying
to convince people.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
It is crazy though, because.
Speaker 6 (22:45):
I feel like Abigail, your life has evolved, maybe more
than most people from our season, because like we came
off the show, you were like living it up in
NYC as a single gal, partying hard, and then.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
You've had Noah.
Speaker 6 (22:59):
You guys were being in l a and like your apartment,
you guys were jumping around playing pickleball, and now you're
like wiped up Mary, living in a Hallmark movie small town,
being ship.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
And enjoying the games. You've lived many lives. These passed
two years, both of us.
Speaker 5 (23:18):
I thought on Paradise that was one of the things John,
you and I didn't talk about anything important.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
But one of the things I talked about. I thought
she was just like a New York party girl. I
was like, Wow, that's fun. That's cool, but you know,
in two years it's.
Speaker 5 (23:32):
Not what I'm gonna want someone to want to settle down.
So it's funny to see how we both had.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
Oh Noah, cut the bullshit. This guy.
Speaker 4 (23:42):
There?
Speaker 1 (23:44):
Anything else? Just a party or I just want to
settle down.
Speaker 6 (23:48):
Tell you what, Joseph, Wait, No, are you going to
go back to nursing at any point?
Speaker 2 (23:57):
Do you think, dude, you and everyone to me that
I didn't quit nursing. No?
Speaker 6 (24:02):
I know, I know you're like hunt, but if you're
loving what you're doing now, like, do you think you'll
continue to do that more actively?
Speaker 2 (24:08):
I don't think I will right now. It's taking me,
like literally a whole.
Speaker 5 (24:13):
Year of debating that question with myself because it's something
I've always wanted to do and.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
I went to school for and it's my career. But
right now, with the real.
Speaker 5 (24:21):
Estate stuff and kind of where we're at, I'm it's
sort of replacing what nursing was for me. But I'm
keeping all my my credentials and everything for a while.
If we run out of money trying to buy houses,
I can go back to work. But once we kind
of get settled more here then I would like to
get back, but right now it's kind of like it's
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not really.
Speaker 3 (24:44):
Feasible and taking a back seat.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Yeah, do you guys something like right when we started
planning our wedding, I instantly started planning the honeymoon. Do
you have have you thought about where you want to
go for your honeymoon? See it's not even a think. Noah,
you and I are the same. Instantly we we we
are the guys want to plan the honeymoon.
Speaker 2 (25:08):
Well, we've traveled together. We're Joe, we are world travelers.
Speaker 5 (25:12):
Yeah, okay, so of course they say where we should go,
pick where we should thrive and chack life the most
sure I can take that burning.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
Experienced pick where we should thrive.
Speaker 5 (25:26):
Oh, anyways we want to do We basically said no
trips except for Chicago where you saw me be a
wild animal.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
Other than that, we haven't really done any trips just
because we've been so jam packed.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
So our honeymoon we kind of want to do like
a big trip as like a reward for the house
stuff honeymoon, and we were planning she's Scottish. We were
planning to go to Scotland and all those Nordic places
until we realize it's winter, so probably, but I want
to try to do a couple of week, two to
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four week trip.
Speaker 2 (26:03):
We do it all then get back to work.
Speaker 3 (26:07):
That's amazing.
Speaker 2 (26:08):
No, I haven't planned it yet.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
Okay, we're gonna play a game with you guys before
we let you go. But seeing this as a Bachelor
Nation podcast, is there anything that you want to share?
Anything that that people may not know about you guys
(26:31):
that you want to share? If not totally Okay, it's
a weird question. I wouldn't be able to answer it.
Speaker 3 (26:38):
What do you want? Like your pregnancy? Like what are
you fishing for right now?
Speaker 1 (26:41):
I don't know?
Speaker 3 (26:42):
Just like, like, is there anything you want right now?
Speaker 2 (26:47):
Do you know something I don't know?
Speaker 1 (26:52):
Okay, all right, let's news listen.
Speaker 5 (26:55):
The only update I guess from us is yeah, we've
been kind of removed from the show for a while,
but we still love the show. Our new chapter is
a lot different than I feel like a lot of
people would expect. It's very random, but it's been super fulfilling.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
We love where it's at, and I'm hoping to keep
kind of continuing it nice.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Do you know something that I don't know. That's probably
for salvage. That's funny, all right, Okay, so we are
going to play rapid Fire Questions Wedding Edition with Abigail
and Noah. Okay, question number one, Big wedding or intimate ceremony,
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intimate traditional or non traditional ceremony.
Speaker 5 (27:45):
Probably that's a shock to a lot of Oklahoma people.
I feel like, I don't think we're going to do
a lot of like the groom's men and the brides
and the what they called the garter hunt, the little
all that.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
Yeah, we didn't that.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
DJ or live band.
Speaker 5 (28:06):
Live.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Are you literally just trying to get exactly what our
wedding is gonna be like?
Speaker 3 (28:11):
Because I think, yeah, we're trying to say if we're
gonna come or not.
Speaker 2 (28:15):
Okay, oh yeah, it depends on costs. But I also
have time.
Speaker 4 (28:23):
You're gonna be the wedding.
Speaker 1 (28:25):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (28:26):
For the I guess was walking down the aisle, I
was playing already down there.
Speaker 3 (28:34):
I only know one song.
Speaker 2 (28:36):
I only know half this song.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
For the for the music A must play song in
a song on your do not play list?
Speaker 4 (28:47):
Okay, so far our do playlist?
Speaker 2 (28:51):
Adore You Miley Cyrus A cover version maybe a violin.
Speaker 3 (28:57):
Oh so classy.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
It would be a shame to have a live fiddle.
Speaker 3 (29:04):
It would be a shame.
Speaker 4 (29:05):
Yeah, I do not play song. I have one go ahead,
the Paradise theme song. Like I just want to try
like Paradise and.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
No, I get that.
Speaker 6 (29:19):
We did say like we want callbacks to early periods
in our relationship, like Joe framed like the note I
gave him after Paradise, but like I was like, I
don't want like red roses or like tropical drinks or
the Paradise theme song.
Speaker 3 (29:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (29:37):
One of the things we're going to try to do
is the people that have speeches, they write something out
before because we're gonna kind of have just like an
open time for speeches because it's such a small wedding,
and then we're going to try to let Abby read
or be able to read those or put them all
in like a picture frame after Unless we have no speeches,
one speech would be an awkward picture frame.
Speaker 3 (29:57):
No one is going up there.
Speaker 1 (30:01):
Open bar must have or no go must have Okay, Okay, Yeah.
Indoor outdoor wedding outdoor outdoor.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
If the weather that was the biggest requirement for me.
Outdoor Oklahoma weather when it's bad, it's terrible.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
Yeah, I saw your sister was over for like a
Tornadoesn't she have a.
Speaker 4 (30:25):
Go tornado earth? Yeah? Alkloaholma guts everything.
Speaker 1 (30:31):
Okay, just just to just to regard.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
From us and shows up with her passport and her dog.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
It's a thunderstorm, Okay, just to reiterate for just to
reiterate for all three of you. These are rapid fire questions.
So just I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm going to ask,
and you guys are just gonna say the first thing
comes to go by? Okay? Is this conversation as much
as I love it breaking the rules of Abigail one
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perfect dress or outfit changes, I'll fit, changes, batch, party,
relaxing trip or Vegas.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Trip, relaxing golf? Was that too long of an answer?
Speaker 1 (31:13):
You just made it too long like you were there
and then see now I'm jumping into it's the game?
Speaker 4 (31:19):
Is the game?
Speaker 1 (31:20):
Uh, Abigail, you didn't answer that.
Speaker 4 (31:25):
Relaxing.
Speaker 1 (31:26):
I find that I actually find it hard to believe,
considering you were such a party girl before.
Speaker 4 (31:34):
I like that.
Speaker 1 (31:37):
Couples cocktail, must have her no go, must have ideal
dress code for your guests.
Speaker 2 (31:46):
You better look slick, but not slicker than me.
Speaker 1 (31:49):
Oh, then I don't even know if I should go
because I'm super slick, don't Well, Okay, honestly love talking
to you guys. This has been a lot of fun.
Thank you so much for coming on. I really do
hope you guys get like an HDTV show or something,
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because I do think you're both very talented. And I
probably wouldn't watch it, but if I went to the
dentist and it was on, I would.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
You're the kind of guy that wouldn't let Serena watch it.
She'd make you do some of the work we're doing.
Speaker 7 (32:22):
I know you.
Speaker 3 (32:23):
No, I would never allow you. No, I would.
Speaker 6 (32:26):
I would be more likely to fly you out here
Noah to do it than recruit Joe to do handyman
work on our home.
Speaker 3 (32:33):
Love you, Joe, but that's not your strength and we
both know it.
Speaker 2 (32:36):
Well, all close this out since show can't close it out.
Thanks for having us on.
Speaker 5 (32:40):
You guys can check out our stuff at Noah Underscore HERB.
I'm just for soon to be her. We love you, guys,
and thank you for mentioning HGTV because we do want
to show.
Speaker 1 (32:50):
You got it and thank you to all our listeners.
We appreciate you guys tuning in and make sure you
subscribe and listen about your happy hour because we have
exclusive interviews every week.
Speaker 3 (33:01):
Thanks for listening. Bye MHM
Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bachler Happy Hour. I'm Joe
and I'm Serena, and we are here with Noah and
Abigail from Bachelor in Paradise season What season were we guys? Anyways?
And then seven okay, and then Noah was Bachelorette season
I don't know, and Abigail was Bachelor Season twenty five. Wow, Hi, guys, welcome,
(00:26):
welcome back, welcome back.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Hright, we missed you, guys, thanks for having us on
the pot.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Of course, no probably missed you.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Abigail, how's it going.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
It's going going well.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Excited to chick chat your your backdrop? No, she's not.
There was there was, there was. There was zero enthusiasm
in that.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
But I think you start over. Yours was a terrible interest.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
No, we are not. We are not starting over. But
by the way, your backdrop looks wonderful. I mean, I
watch all your guys Instagram reels and you're you're doing
quite quite the job over there in Tulsa.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Thank you, Joseph.
Speaker 5 (01:07):
I truly had no idea we would be Bob the
Builder when we came back, but we're full embracing it
and we love it.
Speaker 6 (01:13):
I do want to say when you guys said that
you were going to Tulsa and Abby, I'll show me
the house and was like, Noah's going to fix it up.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
I doubted you one hundred percent.
Speaker 5 (01:24):
Listen, we respect each other enough that all if you
say you doubted me, that's fine. I talked Josh and Joel,
I'll be open about it.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Same with you.
Speaker 5 (01:31):
I wasn't sure I could pull it off either. Now, okay,
we got something around, but.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
I wasn't sure, but I was.
Speaker 6 (01:37):
I'm actually very impressed. I'm very impressed by both of
your skills. You really you have what it takes to
be an HGTV show, Like truly you've You've really flipped
this house.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Well, it's just weird from being fake busy as an
influencer to work in ten hour days manual labor and
it actually looking good.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
So we we love it.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
We're Abby's really good at it, I'm getting really good
at it, and now it's like, let's just stick with it.
But I'm truly surprised it turned out so well myself,
So don't feel.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Bad, Serena. Serena did doubt doubt you. But the truth
is I like Abigail much more than I like, Noah,
but I did not actually doubt you. I was when
when Serena said, I was like, no he, I think
he's gonna I think he's gonna do this. I didn't
do it, didn't do it very well.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
Well, you know, we figure it out eventually. I'm just
glad that we didn't have too many, too many issues.
We don't share the problems that we have, but there
were a lot.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Well that's that's why you guys are That's why you
guys are here on happy hour. But yeah, Noah, you
guys you're both doing looks to be an incredible job.
I do want to ask before you started your own
home renal what we're like. What were the pros and
what were the cons?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Do you want to start?
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Okay, the pros were It's really fun to be able
to do a project like us too, from start to finish.
I feel like it makes us appreciate our home a
lot more that we put less woe and tears into it.
The cons is living in a house when you're renovating,
it's not fun.
Speaker 5 (03:16):
I'd like the record to show that was a choice.
I had a mile and a half away that was vacant.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
But it was like a bachelor pad. It was yeah,
I would get anybody.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
The pros are we can get an idea and figure
out how we want to do it, and then you
walk in a month later and it kind of looks
like the idea in your head, and you know you
did the work because I'm not in the hospital, so
I get bored. So this is my hospital right now
is designing stuff, building stuff, and it's like I.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Have a picture. I'm like, can you do this?
Speaker 5 (03:52):
You're like, okay, yeah, it feels good because I'm myself
am like I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I don't know can I do that?
Speaker 5 (03:58):
And then you know, put a little but a research
into it started and then it's been looking kind of
like the vision in my head. So the proser it
feels good and you save a lot of money. The
cons are that only happens if you want to do
all the work. So it's like how much do I
want to spend or how much do I want to save?
And do this for ten hours a day.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
I feel like the hardest thing.
Speaker 7 (04:19):
I know.
Speaker 6 (04:19):
You guys like started with the kitchen and that was
obviously like a huge undertaking. I feel like eating out
for every meal for three months would be one of
the hardest non construction side effects.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
It was that. And then we also started renovating in
the middle of summer, and we didn't have like running water,
And granted we could have bought a water filter and
made our lives so much easier, but we were going
to the grocery store every other day and like buying
like the bolk thanes of water. And yeah, it was
just a simple.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
We chose to make life a lot harder than it was.
That's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Most people do we we also we also we also
do that. Was there ever so far? Has there been
any kind of like hiccup or rough patch where you've
had to call in help?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
We'll call in.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
It takes a lot for a suggest there. I'm like,
can we call for help? Can we ask for help?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
You're like no, I'm like, it's only two in the morning.
What do you mean we don't need to call them. Yeah,
there's been stuff. There's I can if I have enough time,
I can figure out most things. But there are stuff
where it's like, Okay, this will literally take me all day.
What am I doing? There's professionals like yeah, old in
four hours, and there's a bunch of guys that come in.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
So there is stuff.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
It's what we learned is with old houses, you think
you're gonna fix one thing.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Let's make a cute little.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
Door with some shelves and whatever, add some trim, make
it look cool. Then you start actually doing it and
you find like ten other things there.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
Oh, that's it out, Okay.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
So it's like just kind of just planning for that
stuff to happen and uh, you know, trying not to
fight over it.
Speaker 6 (06:03):
But has been what's been like the biggest hiccup in
the construction process, whether it was like an air or
like you rip down a wall and there was mold,
or what was the biggest thing that you were like,
Oh my god, I can't believe this is happening.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
I have a bad, naughty boy habit of working hard
building something than the last like twenty minutes. Just start
doing demo on something else. And then it's another.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Where you jump. So you so you before totally avoidable? Yeah, yeah,
you jump.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Okay, I think that's a common thing.
Speaker 5 (06:33):
It'll be like on my way to sleep, like Abby's
already a bed, I've one eye open and I throw
a hammer like through the wall and then I'm like,
I'll just demo this really quick just to get started.
And then I'm like, okay, great, that's ten more projects
that I have to do when the one's not done.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
I know because that's the moment where I was like,
why are we doing this?
Speaker 5 (06:51):
The wallpaper that was a hiccup. I'll take it all back.
The wallpaper was the biggest hiccup.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
We almost broke up.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Why why what happened?
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Now? A moment where I almost had a full on breakdown.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
I just think, if I'm gonna be honest, I think
wallpaper's cool. It's timeless, it's classy.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
We are going to be hired.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
It shouldn't exist.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
No.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
Yeah, that was like that's when I felt dumb, Like sure,
I built all this cool stuff with the wallpaper kind
of just it didn't be dirty. So there's little projects
like that where you don't expect it and then you're like, well,
this is taken four more days than we thought.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Now we have to make other people wait at kind
of cascades.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
But you're living in the house, you're enjoying it, trying
to make the most of it. And then it's like,
once we're done with this house, we're able to work
on other houses, which we're doing, which is nice.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
We're not living in a construction zone still.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
So you guys, are you two rehabbing other homes together?
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Yeah, we kind of just decided, like we're practicing on
our house. I've got a couple other houses and I've
bought them since I've been here, so we're kind of
just keep rolling with it.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Got my own.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
Abby's the designer. We're kind of just leaning into it
until it doesn't work.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
I know, I love I think that's I honestly, I
think that's genius and I think, yeah, I think it's
so smart and Abigail, when it comes to design, is
this something that you're passionate about? Do you love it?
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Uh? It's a learning curve. I hated it at first
because I'm so used to just designing like one room,
like an apartment or something, and putting all my attention
on that. And then we came to this Bells with
no furniture. I think, only are clothes, like nothing, and
so just having that much of a blank campus it
was really overwhelming. I didn't really know what my style was.
(08:44):
We started all the kitchen and then with a couple
of things I'm like else, Shoot, I wish I did this,
but we already put so much money into it, were
it's going to write it out. But now I would
say that we kind of got the bigger projects under
the belt. I actually love it and it's actually been
something super passionate about, like putting together the mood or
picking out the furniture. So I want to try to
(09:07):
keep doing it for as long as we can kind
of move away from like the influencing space and more
into this would definitely be a fun, long term goal.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Joe, She's good. She's really good. I would always be
getting so good at decorating.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
I said that for the first like six months, and
now it's like, no, I's definitely better at design than me,
and decorating in the vibes she makes are actually really cool.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
Kick your credit card and I just.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
Go, yeah, no, it's actually really cool. It's really nice
not having to work myself worry about that aspect.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
Yeah, be good at it and enjoy it.
Speaker 5 (09:40):
And then with you know, we're we're using social media
and stuff after the show, being able to share stuff
that we actually enjoy and I'm actually doing the work.
It is a lot more fun versus kind of what
we were doing in the last two years, which was
also fun. It was just a lot more go go
go and a lot of the stuff it's hard to
really sit down and enjoy, whereas this game, which.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Yeah, and it's not as I feel like the other
stuff is great, but it may not be as fulfilling
as doing somebody that you are passionate about, and you
could post about it and be like, this is it.
This is what we love. Take it or leave it,
but I'm gonna keep posting about it.
Speaker 5 (10:19):
I Mean, it's funny because everyone thinks, oh, you're an influencer,
you're made of millions of dollars, like nobody can do
what you're doing, like all this stuff, And I think
about all the work that we have been doing in
the money that we've been saving, and I'm like, Okay,
I could do this for the next few years just
because one I'm saving a lot of money and two
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I am like, I'm loving it.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
It's really cool to me right now. Yeah, it's fun.
It's been a weird change, but it's been super cool.
Speaker 7 (10:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
I mean, compared to what we were doing in California,
I think we had a lot of days where we
just had a lot of time and we're kind of
trying to find things that we enjoy. And then here
I feel like we've just been busy, nonstuff, but it's
been with good things I actually look for, like waking
up and being like, here's our t do list today,
Like let's check everything done. So I definitely like our
pace better.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
No, it was just hard for the two years when
we weren't in a spot for more than you know,
three to six months. I really get any structure, find
anything you want to do outside of that.
Speaker 6 (11:21):
You when I saw you in Chicago, like after we left,
I was like, I feel like, Noah, like looks different.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
I thought it was your hair.
Speaker 6 (11:28):
But I actually think you look like the manual labor
is like slim fitted you up.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
I didn't know.
Speaker 5 (11:38):
I didn't had that many compliments high school prom when
I got a haircut.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
When you're building a home, you know, I think it's I.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Think it's uh, I think it's really cool. Been good
for you guys, And now I'm sure you're going to
be busy planning a wedding. Have you started that process yet?
Speaker 4 (12:05):
We have? We finally started about a month ago. Were like, yeah,
that's pretty much our only date.
Speaker 7 (12:12):
We have a date venue, You have a location, okay,
location planner, so Abby h and I like, I said,
you're not fighting over things that we can avoid.
Speaker 5 (12:27):
So a wedding planner to help her me doing the
house stuff. We have a date, we have a place,
and we'll see if you guys are invited.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
You guys are, no question?
Speaker 1 (12:39):
Well Noah, I mean here. So Noah. When we were
all in Chicago for Kenny and Murray's wedding, Noah said
to me, He's like, well, He's like, do you do
you think you're going to He said, do you think
you're even gonna come? I said, come to?
Speaker 6 (12:52):
What?
Speaker 1 (12:53):
To our wedding? I said, well, I don't know. Are
we invited? He said, while I don't. I mean, I'm
not gonna invite you. If you're not going to come, well,
I don't know what to tell you. I don't even
know what to do. I don't know what it is.
Speaker 5 (13:05):
We're doing such a small wedding that I'm like in
a weird position where I'm having to call my friends
that I've known for a long time but we haven't
had the time to hang out with. I'm having to
call them be like, hey, well you're not invited to
the wedding. I'm having to like call people and say, hey,
it's been a while, I love you. You're not invited
(13:25):
to the wedding unless you can make.
Speaker 6 (13:27):
It and you can really Okay, noah, Like I just
need to have like a chat I want.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
I know I can't help myself.
Speaker 6 (13:35):
No, but do you know how this works? Like you
send out an invite and then they are s VP
yes or no. You don't say if you're not coming,
I'm not going to send you an invite you don't
like you do.
Speaker 5 (13:47):
Don't send out an invite if it's an inconvenience and
you're not gonna come.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
He doesn't want any note. He just wants an invite.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
Is to find out if they're.
Speaker 4 (13:56):
Coming or not.
Speaker 5 (13:57):
If if I send an invite to you and Joe
and Joe goes, wow, I don't know what we're doing this?
Speaker 2 (14:03):
What's in Oklahoma anyways?
Speaker 5 (14:05):
Like and I'm like, okay, Joe doesn't want to be here,
that's fine, you know, but.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
No, where would I even how would where would I?
I wouldn't write that on the yes or no for
the RSVP, Like we're maybe gonna We're going to have
that conversation.
Speaker 6 (14:20):
When in Oklahoma, what am I gonna do?
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Okay, so Oklahoma is can we share? That is going
to be what it is?
Speaker 5 (14:30):
It's in Oklahoma, and it's going to be this year,
this year in Oklahoma.
Speaker 4 (14:35):
That's pretty much all the details we have at this point.
But oh, in small wedding. So we're trying to navigate
those conversations and I feel like it's only going to
get worse once the invites go out.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
My family is about thirty, yes, so for meeting.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
It's not bad. That's decent sized.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
But hm, we're trying to keep it around seventy five
would be ideal.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
We want classy.
Speaker 3 (14:59):
Dinner party, yes, luck, I love that.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
And we loved your guys' wedding. Your guys wedding was great.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
Thank you, Okay, we do. We do appreciate that. We
loved it.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
The big but the wedding was fantastic.
Speaker 6 (15:19):
Well, ours was about one thirty so yeah, that's like
like almost yeah people, it's almost.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
Double what you guys are thinking.
Speaker 6 (15:30):
Yeah, and then Marie and Kenny's party was like two
hundred and fifty people.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
That was big. That was a lot. That was a
lot of people.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
Yeah, we went to our wedding last week and it
was almost three hundred people and it's still super fun,
but I think just it's very overstimulating and I just
want to be able to like talk to everyone at
the wedding, have conversations. So that was kind of we
knew right away we wanted a smaller wedding.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
Is there was there are there any takeaways from Serena
in my wedding or Teddy and Maari's wedding and you're
like where you're like, you know, that's just not for us,
Like something that they did where you're like, okay, wing this,
you want to go first.
Speaker 5 (16:11):
One thing that we are for sure doing that you
guys did, We're just gonna tweet it a little.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
The espresso bar Espresso Martini brilliant? Were you guys?
Speaker 5 (16:19):
That was?
Speaker 1 (16:20):
That was a Serena idea.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
That was the end of the night.
Speaker 5 (16:23):
Where you guys, because at the end of the night,
I had like eight I had like eight espresso martini
and I'm like, dude, I shouldn't have started drinking.
Speaker 4 (16:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
So yeah, everyone went out really late.
Speaker 6 (16:37):
Everyone said they were really late, and I honestly think
it was because people were chugging the espresso martinis at yeah,
like nine pm and then.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
Espresso. All I heard was martini.
Speaker 6 (16:49):
I forgot the express, but we wanted that because, yeah,
I feel like a lot of weddings, you say, And
we wanted dinner to be quick, like we're like an
hour and a half max, like try to get through it.
So because I feel like the longer, if I'm sitting
and drinking, I'm getting tired. So I'm like, I want
to like do it to like kick everyone's energy up
so that the dance store is popping.
Speaker 5 (17:10):
And it worked because your guys's dance floor was great.
We weren't forced to dance for an hour and a
half like most weddings, you know what I mean, where
it's like we have to do the duck dance five times.
You guys got to dance. Joe wish I wouldn't have
seen you dance, but you look like you had fun.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
You joined you.
Speaker 5 (17:27):
So we're gonna take a few pieces from your guys.
I don't know about the nos.
Speaker 4 (17:31):
I think the only thing that we're just doing a
little bit different than you guys. I think this size
really is the biggest thing. We're just doing it a
little bit smaller, but everything else like I love the
black tie element. I love, honestly just the energy, like
the low things that you guys did. For the energy,
you could just tell everyone wanted to be there and
love celebrating.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
See, that's why it's important to call before it.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
I do.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
I do appreciate how I asked you a question about
the negatives from our wedding and you turned it all
the positive. Okay, let's well.
Speaker 4 (18:10):
I did something there, but this I think it was
Charlson traffic because Charleston traffic was so bad. So a
couple of people showed up late to the ceremony until
in So because of that, I was like, maybe we
should do like a pre ceremony coptail.
Speaker 6 (18:27):
Okay, yeah, I would recommend this actually, because we put
I think five pm as the start time on our
invitations and we actually started like at five pm, which
I didn't actually expect. But I wasn't like looking at
the clock at all that day. It was kind of
just like when people told me to be places, I would,
but I should have said, like say five pm, start
(18:51):
at five point fifteen, yeah, just or say like arrive,
like if you put like a arrive at four forty five.
Ceremony begins at five pm sharp.
Speaker 4 (19:01):
Yeah, I would recommend that it was also just the
chop because I know I was like, I want to
be there at least fifteen minutes early, Like I don't
want to risk it. Me left early, and I think
we made it with like five minutes to spare.
Speaker 5 (19:15):
We weren't one of the ones sneaking in when the
ceremony started. That was one thing.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
I was specific about.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
Lovely Well.
Speaker 5 (19:24):
Part of the wedding thing for us is nobody knows
what even is in Oklahoma.
Speaker 4 (19:30):
We're gonna show you guys a good time.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
And we're wanting it to be, yeah, like a weekend fun.
Speaker 5 (19:35):
There is a state in Oklahoma called Oklahoma that's a
lot of It's not just teepee's and horse drawn carriages,
you know, and it's a lot of fun.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
So part of it's going to be like the weekend
some of our.
Speaker 5 (19:47):
Closest friends that we got over the last two years
to spend time with and obviously try to let Tulsa
shine a little.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
No, I'm excited.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
On a horse.
Speaker 6 (20:02):
Oh my god, I can't picture Joe on a horse.
I've been on a horse yeah, I know, I just
I can't picture it. I've never seen you the ones
that you put quarters and don't count.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Actually I've actually been on one of those two. What
do you say it's Serena. What were you saying?
Speaker 4 (20:20):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (20:20):
I was gonna say, like Joe and I would probably
never go to Tulsa unless we were like, yeah, visiting
you guys or visiting friends, so like it is fun
to get to go somewhere we've never been. We would
probably never go otherwise for like a weekend of celebration.
But maybe we will come back. Me we'll fall in
love with Tulsa. I know you guys are trying to
get everyone you know to move there. So maybe we'll
(20:41):
become best friends with Noahs seven hundred siblings and then
we'll all hang out in Tulsa together.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
Doesn't Sylvester Stallone have a have a TV show that's
based in Tulsa?
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Tula King?
Speaker 1 (20:54):
Okay? Is it?
Speaker 4 (20:55):
Do it?
Speaker 7 (20:56):
What?
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (20:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (20:58):
Is it good? I never watched it? Is it good?
Speaker 4 (21:02):
Extra?
Speaker 7 (21:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (21:03):
He inhaled the helium balloon and fell over. That was
like his one scene.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
Oh really, I thought it was good.
Speaker 5 (21:09):
I thought it could have been better. I heard a
lot of hype, like, oh, show about Tulsa. I was like, oh, heck, yeah,
it's gonna be good.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
So that's just alone. I was like, Okay, a little cheesy,
but it was good.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
Is it true to Tulsa.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
It is pretty true to Tulsa.
Speaker 5 (21:22):
It's he stays at the Mayo Hotel, which is like
an og because Tulsa's got in the twenties was the
oil capital of the world. There's decho, a lot of
old money, so there is a lot of that still here.
That's part of what's cool about it. So there was
that aspect. And they're legal marijuana now, so that was
also the other part of the show.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
It's a big step for Oklahoma.
Speaker 6 (21:45):
I always forget that, like that's such a big deal
here because it's legal across Canada.
Speaker 5 (21:50):
It's been legal in Canada, right, we didn't have Oklahoma
had three percent beer for until the like four or
five years ago.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
So you couldn't go over three percent.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
To go to a liquor store to get beer over
three percent.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
A bar not long ago? What about it?
Speaker 5 (22:09):
Like a bar bar is different, but just over it
can't be cold if it's over three percent, and it
can't be sold at a liquor store now it can't.
Speaker 3 (22:18):
So wow, you guys are evolving.
Speaker 6 (22:22):
Watch out, watch out everyone, Tulsa.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
I love it though. It's great. It's like a tiny
little like a whole month like everything.
Speaker 4 (22:32):
Everybody's just so happy. It's slower, peace living.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
So you guys are living in your own wholene.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
What you guys doing, But it's just like slowly trying
to convince people.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
It is crazy though, because.
Speaker 6 (22:45):
I feel like Abigail, your life has evolved, maybe more
than most people from our season, because like we came
off the show, you were like living it up in
NYC as a single gal, partying hard, and then.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
You've had Noah.
Speaker 6 (22:59):
You guys were being in l a and like your apartment,
you guys were jumping around playing pickleball, and now you're
like wiped up Mary, living in a Hallmark movie small town,
being ship.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
And enjoying the games. You've lived many lives. These passed
two years, both of us.
Speaker 5 (23:18):
I thought on Paradise that was one of the things John,
you and I didn't talk about anything important.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
But one of the things I talked about. I thought
she was just like a New York party girl. I
was like, Wow, that's fun. That's cool, but you know,
in two years it's.
Speaker 5 (23:32):
Not what I'm gonna want someone to want to settle down.
So it's funny to see how we both had.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
Oh Noah, cut the bullshit. This guy.
Speaker 4 (23:42):
There?
Speaker 1 (23:44):
Anything else? Just a party or I just want to
settle down.
Speaker 6 (23:48):
Tell you what, Joseph, Wait, No, are you going to
go back to nursing at any point?
Speaker 2 (23:57):
Do you think, dude, you and everyone to me that
I didn't quit nursing. No?
Speaker 6 (24:02):
I know, I know you're like hunt, but if you're
loving what you're doing now, like, do you think you'll
continue to do that more actively?
Speaker 2 (24:08):
I don't think I will right now. It's taking me,
like literally a whole.
Speaker 5 (24:13):
Year of debating that question with myself because it's something
I've always wanted to do and.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
I went to school for and it's my career. But
right now, with the real.
Speaker 5 (24:21):
Estate stuff and kind of where we're at, I'm it's
sort of replacing what nursing was for me. But I'm
keeping all my my credentials and everything for a while.
If we run out of money trying to buy houses,
I can go back to work. But once we kind
of get settled more here then I would like to
get back, but right now it's kind of like it's
(24:43):
not really.
Speaker 3 (24:44):
Feasible and taking a back seat.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Yeah, do you guys something like right when we started
planning our wedding, I instantly started planning the honeymoon. Do
you have have you thought about where you want to
go for your honeymoon? See it's not even a think. Noah,
you and I are the same. Instantly we we we
are the guys want to plan the honeymoon.
Speaker 2 (25:08):
Well, we've traveled together. We're Joe, we are world travelers.
Speaker 5 (25:12):
Yeah, okay, so of course they say where we should go,
pick where we should thrive and chack life the most
sure I can take that burning.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
Experienced pick where we should thrive.
Speaker 5 (25:26):
Oh, anyways we want to do We basically said no
trips except for Chicago where you saw me be a
wild animal.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
Other than that, we haven't really done any trips just
because we've been so jam packed.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
So our honeymoon we kind of want to do like
a big trip as like a reward for the house
stuff honeymoon, and we were planning she's Scottish. We were
planning to go to Scotland and all those Nordic places
until we realize it's winter, so probably, but I want
to try to do a couple of week, two to
(26:01):
four week trip.
Speaker 2 (26:03):
We do it all then get back to work.
Speaker 3 (26:07):
That's amazing.
Speaker 2 (26:08):
No, I haven't planned it yet.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
Okay, we're gonna play a game with you guys before
we let you go. But seeing this as a Bachelor
Nation podcast, is there anything that you want to share?
Anything that that people may not know about you guys
(26:31):
that you want to share? If not totally Okay, it's
a weird question. I wouldn't be able to answer it.
Speaker 3 (26:38):
What do you want? Like your pregnancy? Like what are
you fishing for right now?
Speaker 1 (26:41):
I don't know?
Speaker 3 (26:42):
Just like, like, is there anything you want right now?
Speaker 2 (26:47):
Do you know something I don't know?
Speaker 1 (26:52):
Okay, all right, let's news listen.
Speaker 5 (26:55):
The only update I guess from us is yeah, we've
been kind of removed from the show for a while,
but we still love the show. Our new chapter is
a lot different than I feel like a lot of
people would expect. It's very random, but it's been super fulfilling.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
We love where it's at, and I'm hoping to keep
kind of continuing it nice.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Do you know something that I don't know. That's probably
for salvage. That's funny, all right, Okay, so we are
going to play rapid Fire Questions Wedding Edition with Abigail
and Noah. Okay, question number one, Big wedding or intimate ceremony,
(27:39):
intimate traditional or non traditional ceremony.
Speaker 5 (27:45):
Probably that's a shock to a lot of Oklahoma people.
I feel like, I don't think we're going to do
a lot of like the groom's men and the brides
and the what they called the garter hunt, the little
all that.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
Yeah, we didn't that.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
DJ or live band.
Speaker 5 (28:06):
Live.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Are you literally just trying to get exactly what our
wedding is gonna be like?
Speaker 3 (28:11):
Because I think, yeah, we're trying to say if we're
gonna come or not.
Speaker 2 (28:15):
Okay, oh yeah, it depends on costs. But I also
have time.
Speaker 4 (28:23):
You're gonna be the wedding.
Speaker 1 (28:25):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (28:26):
For the I guess was walking down the aisle, I
was playing already down there.
Speaker 3 (28:34):
I only know one song.
Speaker 2 (28:36):
I only know half this song.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
For the for the music A must play song in
a song on your do not play list?
Speaker 4 (28:47):
Okay, so far our do playlist?
Speaker 2 (28:51):
Adore You Miley Cyrus A cover version maybe a violin.
Speaker 3 (28:57):
Oh so classy.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
It would be a shame to have a live fiddle.
Speaker 3 (29:04):
It would be a shame.
Speaker 4 (29:05):
Yeah, I do not play song. I have one go ahead,
the Paradise theme song. Like I just want to try
like Paradise and.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
No, I get that.
Speaker 6 (29:19):
We did say like we want callbacks to early periods
in our relationship, like Joe framed like the note I
gave him after Paradise, but like I was like, I
don't want like red roses or like tropical drinks or
the Paradise theme song.
Speaker 3 (29:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (29:37):
One of the things we're going to try to do
is the people that have speeches, they write something out
before because we're gonna kind of have just like an
open time for speeches because it's such a small wedding,
and then we're going to try to let Abby read
or be able to read those or put them all
in like a picture frame after Unless we have no speeches,
one speech would be an awkward picture frame.
Speaker 3 (29:57):
No one is going up there.
Speaker 1 (30:01):
Open bar must have or no go must have Okay, Okay, Yeah.
Indoor outdoor wedding outdoor outdoor.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
If the weather that was the biggest requirement for me.
Outdoor Oklahoma weather when it's bad, it's terrible.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
Yeah, I saw your sister was over for like a
Tornadoesn't she have a.
Speaker 4 (30:25):
Go tornado earth? Yeah? Alkloaholma guts everything.
Speaker 1 (30:31):
Okay, just just to just to regard.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
From us and shows up with her passport and her dog.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
It's a thunderstorm, Okay, just to reiterate for just to
reiterate for all three of you. These are rapid fire questions.
So just I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm going to ask,
and you guys are just gonna say the first thing
comes to go by? Okay? Is this conversation as much
as I love it breaking the rules of Abigail one
(31:01):
perfect dress or outfit changes, I'll fit, changes, batch, party,
relaxing trip or Vegas.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Trip, relaxing golf? Was that too long of an answer?
Speaker 1 (31:13):
You just made it too long like you were there
and then see now I'm jumping into it's the game?
Speaker 4 (31:19):
Is the game?
Speaker 1 (31:20):
Uh, Abigail, you didn't answer that.
Speaker 4 (31:25):
Relaxing.
Speaker 1 (31:26):
I find that I actually find it hard to believe,
considering you were such a party girl before.
Speaker 4 (31:34):
I like that.
Speaker 1 (31:37):
Couples cocktail, must have her no go, must have ideal
dress code for your guests.
Speaker 2 (31:46):
You better look slick, but not slicker than me.
Speaker 1 (31:49):
Oh, then I don't even know if I should go
because I'm super slick, don't Well, Okay, honestly love talking
to you guys. This has been a lot of fun.
Thank you so much for coming on. I really do
hope you guys get like an HDTV show or something,
(32:09):
because I do think you're both very talented. And I
probably wouldn't watch it, but if I went to the
dentist and it was on, I would.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
You're the kind of guy that wouldn't let Serena watch it.
She'd make you do some of the work we're doing.
Speaker 7 (32:22):
I know you.
Speaker 3 (32:23):
No, I would never allow you. No, I would.
Speaker 6 (32:26):
I would be more likely to fly you out here
Noah to do it than recruit Joe to do handyman
work on our home.
Speaker 3 (32:33):
Love you, Joe, but that's not your strength and we
both know it.
Speaker 2 (32:36):
Well, all close this out since show can't close it out.
Thanks for having us on.
Speaker 5 (32:40):
You guys can check out our stuff at Noah Underscore HERB.
I'm just for soon to be her. We love you, guys,
and thank you for mentioning HGTV because we do want
to show.
Speaker 1 (32:50):
You got it and thank you to all our listeners.
We appreciate you guys tuning in and make sure you
subscribe and listen about your happy hour because we have
exclusive interviews every week.
Speaker 3 (33:01):
Thanks for listening. Bye MHM
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