April 26, 2024 • 28 mins
Today on “Golden Hour,” Kathy and Susan are back with more of your listener write-ins. We’re diving right into all the Golden advice, kicking off with drunk infidelity — is it possible to move forward?
Then, we delve into more relationship woes. From navigating fantasies and political wars to parents vs. partners, we’re covering it all. Plus, Kathy and Susan answer their first audio question. You won’t want to miss it! Be sure to follow so you never miss an episode!
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Speaker 1 (00:07):
Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for
joining us. We're excited to have another episode together.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Absolutely and if you haven't listened to our podcast from Wednesday,
please check it out. Guess who we had, our good
friend and fellow Golden Bachelor et I don't think she's
a bachelor anyhow, it was Ellen on our podcast, and
what fun we had talking to her.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
We had, we talked. I found Ellen to be as
fun on the podcast as she was in the house.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
She was great in the house. How about her princess date?
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Okay, can we talk about that?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Can I just say nobody, anybody and that anybody would
have been excited, but she has never had. She's such
Oh that was so so special that so for those.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I can't imagine there's one of you out there. But
for those of you who missed that episode, Ellen went
on this fabulous date, got fabulous diamond ear rings like
Michael Costello, clothes and we didn't talk about this on
the podcast, but here's a little dirt. So Ellen was
handing out all the dresses that she didn't want.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
You remember, Susan, Yes, yes I do.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
It didn't fit her or were too big or whatever.
Too smart one. I got one, and the way I
got it, nobody wanted it because they said it was
too big. And I finally looked at it. It's I
wore for the women's tellow it's this beautiful white jumpsuit.
And I looked at these people in the guard It's
too big. It's too big. I said to them, where
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with you people? Have you never heard of a tailor?
And I took it home and had about two feet
taken in and it was fabulous.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
So I know Ellen's going to hear all of our podcasts,
and Ellen, forgive me now, but this I have to
I just have to share it. I'll never forget. First
of all, her face was priceless. When Michael Costello walked
in and called her and she wanted to go by
new underwear, she said, I don't have pretty She was embarrassed.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Wait, it's worse than that. We get to the wedding,
Susan lectures her about her underwear. And then we get
to the wedding, Aya says again, she goes, I have
terrible underwear. We looking to go. Have you not learned
your lesson? What's wrong with you? So you think for Christmas?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
We're gonna send her Victoria's secret underwear.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I mean that she's going to kill you. Did you
love her talking about her dating the guy, that it
was selfish that she dumped right and she she saw
right away that he was narcissistic.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Good, definite no no for me.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
But she did share.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
She went to an opening of a restaurant, I believe,
she said, and met somebody else. I mean, it's news
she couldn't really share with us yet, but that is
the way it is.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Kill yourself out there, yep. And we talked about so
again for those of you who missed it, I don't
know where you were, but we won. Ellen and I
won the pickleball tournament on the Golden Bachelor. And she
plays a ton of pickleball and she's so active, and
that's how she was talking about. That's how she meets people.
Meets people. She gets out and does.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
She's very active. She golfs, she plays pickle and that's
how she meets guys. She's in a great little community Susan, Florida.
So maybe we should move to Florida.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Is that the problem?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
But we're moving to Florida in a community and we're
taking up pickleball full time. That'll be it. All right,
So today we have got even more fan questions. I
love it. I love the all are listening and writing in.
Please keep it up, and like always, we have some
really good ones today. All right, if you want to
send a question reach out, go to bachelornation dot com
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slash Golden.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Hour and please do it. But first let's get started
with today's question of the day. This is always fun,
always okay, so you ready, yep, go for it. What's
one lesson you wish you had learned earlier in your
dating journey.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
A lesson that we've learned early and so we first
start dating.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
A lesson I mean, I think I think many of
our guests have touched on it. For me, it's being
comfortable with being myself and not trying to please someone else,
being my authentic self, which I usually am, but I
think when we're first dating, when we were younger, that's harder.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I've always been who I am, which is maybe why
I don't have a lot of dates.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
But the lesson I still struggle with this that people
tell me is don't trust everyone. And I'm a very
trusting person. You yourself told me don't think everybody's as
good as you are, don't you know? You have to
get to know them before you can trust them. And
that's that's a problem I have. I guess that would
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be my lesson is not to trust everything that comes
out of anybody. Well, I find that difficult though. Well,
I look at the good in people.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Well, everyone has good and everyone has some bad. We're
not perfect. I mean, you may be Saint Susan, I
am saying Susan, yeah, but most of us are not perfect.
And I think that's just it's it's just be aware, right,
So when I date now, I'm I'm just aware of
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what they're saying.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
I don't can I say something.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
We are ready to date now, and we'll practice all
these things we learned, but we're not dating.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Okay, So let's get this right. When you have a date,
I'll call you soon.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Do they get a date, keviy.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
You know what's going to happen. All these people that
are listening to our podcasts are going to sell.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Us once we do a group date, group date, group date,
We're going to do paintballing.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
No, that would hurt. I would not do that, all right, Well,
that would be fun.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
We could get a group date together for both of us.
We maybe we'll go play nine.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
You know, Susan, the only thing harder than having a
date with one of us is having a date with
both of us that they.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Can withstand that we're bound to pick somebody.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
All right, well, let's move on, Come on, let's start
our questions here. We've got some great boks.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Question number one, Marissa from Phoenix sent us this, Susan
and Kathy. I did something that I'm not proud of.
After a night out in a club with my best friends,
I got a little too drunk and made out with
a stranger on the dance floor. I cheated on my
boyfriend of one year. The morning after this happened, I
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regretted it immediately, and I felt like I had to
come clean. After I told him, he was completely heartbroken
and said he needed some space for me. Do you
think there's any way that I could win his trust back?
I don't want to end things like this. He really
means a lot to me.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
You know what, This happens more times. I mean rule
number one, Why were you so drunk that you didn't
know what you were doing? People use alcohol? People use
alcohols and excuse for a lot of bad behavior. I
think that she's not in control of this. She's going
to have to try to earn his trust back. It
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may or may not happen.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
I admire the fact that you came clean immediately, but
you got to give him some time.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Yeah, and if.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
He really loves you and realizes you did tell the
truth and that's all you did. But the problem is
he's going to feel like my friend saw you or
who saw you?
Speaker 3 (07:29):
That's going to come back and tell me. That's when
it gets ugly.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
You know, it does. Here's a couple of questions I have,
which you know, Marissa can't answer for us. But she's
been with a guy for a year and she's out
clubbing with her friends. No, no problem, no problem with that.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
Why are kissing somebody else?
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Well? People, you know when they get drunk. They say
I wouldn't know because I've never been drunk, But they
say that you're real, you know, you drop your inhibitions.
So maybe you're not as happy with your relationship as
you think.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Why did you kiss him? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Make sure that's true. That's it. Good luck with that one, Yeah,
good luck, And next time, stay sober and things may
go better for it.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I hope it doesn't end for you, and I hope
he respects the fact that you did come clean and
tell the truth and you do regret it. But I
feel as if, even if he forgives you, it's always
going to be there.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Oh No, I don't think that at all.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
I do. I think he'll never forget what she did.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Oh I disagree. I disagree. If anybody can make a mistake,
I mean, she can go to bed with the guys,
she made out with him, she came clean. I think
if they have to forgive her. Yeah, and if you
know what, if you don't forget, oh I do if
you forgive someone, Oh yeah, Susan, if you forgive, you
got to be able to move on and forget.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
You can move on and it's all good. But it's
always there. It's always there, a second guess of trusting.
That's so you're saying, you're saying he'll never trust her again.
I'm not, but he would question things. Yeah, one ever given.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Okay, Well, that's it's Susan.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
An uncomfortable situation. He's going to remember what she did. Well,
hopefully she's learned her lesson isn't going to call that again.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Absolutely, I wish you lucky.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Yeah, we wish you all the luck in the world,
and stay away from the alcohol. Okay. Listener question number two,
Jess from New York says, I've been with my boyfriend
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for a couple of years now. He's always watched porn,
but I think lately he's just been more open about it.
It really bothers me. It doesn't bother me that he masturbates,
but the fact that he does it while watching videos
of other women makes me feel really insecure. On top
of that, I asked him what kind of porn stars
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he's into, and he described women that are the total
opposite of my body type and race. Does this mean
that he's not actually that attracted to me? Is it
worth me putting my foot down over my own securities?
Or should I keep letting him do his own thing? Wait?
(10:11):
The last line says it all. What should I keep
letting him do his money? You don't have a choice,
You're not in control of him.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
No, And you know what, I've tried in a relationship.
A man likes to watch I don't get anything out
of it. I'm sorry, but there's an issue here.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Why because he does porn?
Speaker 2 (10:31):
No, she doesn't like that he's choosing somebody that's not her,
So that's making her feel like she's not as attractive
to him as he should be. He likes other race,
other but men are different than women.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
Well, here's I'm not going to excuse it. I don't
dig it.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Well, it's not the porn of them. No, you know
what gets me? She asks him what kind of porn
stars he's into? Like, why would you ask? It's like
asking you what color? You know? Flavor ice cream? Who cares?
Speaker 3 (11:07):
And I wonder if it's all women? Is it women
and men?
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Like usually it's you know, she's asking us. Here's what
I would say, Jess. You're asking us. You're telling us
you feel insecure. You're asking if he's not that into
you're asking is worth putting your foot down? Have you
talked to him about any of this? I would No,
I'm saying, Hashi, Jess. If you haven't, you need to
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talk to him about it. Because if he's into porn
and that's what floats his boat, guess what you can
either get on board or get out?
Speaker 2 (11:42):
And is he masturbating in front of you? After watching
this are you there or is he telling you about this?
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Like?
Speaker 2 (11:47):
How do you know this is what's happening? Is it
a thing you do together? I don't know the details.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Can I just be honesting you this, Susan, I'm feeling
really old right now. I'm feeling really old like this stuff.
This wasn't in my marriage. It was like he had
a playboy in the back of the toilet. That was it.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
Things have come a long way.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
I feel old. I'm going to end it on that now.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
I know a lot of people that they are into
porn and that's their thing, as long as he's not
making you go without because he'd rather do that.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
I mean, I don't know. That's a tough one.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
You know what I'm gonna do while he's masturbating to
porn you watching, I'm taking the name and Marcus cart
and I'm going shopping. I had met. I wish you
a lot of luck, Honey. That's a tough one, Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
Amy from Texas says Hi, Susan and Kathy. I'm an
only child and I've always been very close to my
parents my whole life. I lived with them for a
couple of years after college, and I'm now finally on
my own, in my own apartment and financially independent.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
Good for you.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
But we still see each other all the time since
I only live about twenty minutes away. I've been with
my current boyfriend now for about six months, and I
just recently introduced him to my parents. My parents are
very conservative, and I begged them not to bring up
anything political with my boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
Of course they did. Of course they did.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
My boyfriend is.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
Much more liberal, and he's also not afraid to speak
his mind. They got into a rather heated discussion throughout dinner.
Now every time I see my parents they make random
comments about my boyfriend, hinting that I should break up
with him. I really like him, but I feel like
I'm between a rock and a hard place. How can
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I get them to.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
All get along?
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Oh, never talk about religion. It's like rule number one. Wow,
leave religion and politics at the door.
Speaker 3 (13:48):
But it was her parents that brought it up. Yeah,
and he's.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
Can I first, just can we just go back a minute. Yeah,
she's in her own apartment and she's independent. We do wrong?
Speaker 3 (14:01):
I did mine?
Speaker 1 (14:02):
No, But that's a taboo thing.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion. I don't think
their parents. I mean, okay, they had something to say,
but not every time you see her. If your daughter's happy,
he's good to her, they're falling in love.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Shut up, well, tell us what you really think.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
Just because their political issues are different.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
Listen, I live in Texas, yeah, and you know it
is a pretty conservative state, and I think that parents
there maybe are a little different than they are in
the Northeast, and that they maybe feel like it's fair
game to tell their daughter what they think and expect
her to follow suit. But here's the thing. If she's independent,
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then it may mean she has to pull back from
them a little bit and say, guys, I love you,
but I love this guy too. And if you can't
respect my right to date who I want then or
keep your opinions to yourself, I'm sorry. If if they're
how old, it's clearly you know they're baked. They're not changing, no.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
And he's not afraid to share his uh so amy
feeling Amy.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Here's what I'm going to say to you. Either get
a Confederate flag and start waving, or you gotta You're
gonna have to stand up to your parents.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
Either you beg one or the other babe, the boyfriend. Please,
if they start with this topic, just shut it down,
move on to something else.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
But he sounds like he's a.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Little cocky and he's going to go right back at
him with his views.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
But here's the thing. Do you think that it would
be a problem going forward like that show between married, Like,
we don't know? Is she liberal? Say that?
Speaker 3 (15:51):
She did not say that.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
I mean every time she sees her parents they make
random comments.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
Well, she says. She also says she begged them not
to bring up any I think political, so this time
they did. This is not a first time deal here.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Well, be your own person, live your own life, Pete,
love your parents to death, and if it gets really bad,
you go see them by yourself, leave them home. I
don't know what to say. I don't know what they
did that. Nothing's going to change. The parents are going
to be the parents. The boyfriend's going to be the
boy Susan, Yeah, what are you saying, not see your
parents anymore?
Speaker 1 (16:21):
I'm saying, play hardball if they If you're in love
with this guy, you want to be with this guy,
and they're not being nice about it. Mom and dad,
I love you, but I really love Joe, John Sam whatever.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Whatever his name is, and be with your man.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
Be with your man, Stand by your man. There's a
song stand by Now.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
If it were a different situation like he did you
wrong and you were hurt and your parents took up
for you and they end up not liking him very
much and you get back together, that's that's even tougher.
But this is a political like really, I mean, mind
your own businessman.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
You're not between a rock and a hard place. I'm sweetie.
You're an adult and you're gonna have to make a
tough decision here exactly.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
So if you do have a question for us, as
you can see, we talk about it all we want
to hear it, go to bachelornation dot com slash Golden
Hour and you may be featured on our podcast. Kathy,
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how about that? We just got our first audio and
Maylan gets to be live on our podcast.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
Do you just love getting these audio calls?
Speaker 3 (17:34):
I absolutely do.
Speaker 5 (17:36):
I am currently talking to this new guy, but and
it's going really well, and it's getting to the point
now where we should probably start introducing each other to
our families. But the thing is is, I have never
introduced a guide to my family ever in my life.
So just wondering your guys's advice on kind of advice encouragement,
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and yeah, I guess, like what should we do for
the first time that happens? What should I expect? What
should he expect?
Speaker 1 (18:10):
Yeah, I love you guys.
Speaker 5 (18:11):
You guys are amazing, And yeah, you guys are just
so fun and funny to watch. And I love you guys.
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
I mean her question, there's so many questions I.
Speaker 3 (18:22):
Have right, Like, I don't know how old you are.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
I don't know how long you've been seeing the guy.
I want to know why you've never brought a guy home.
What's the first thing that came to both of our
minds when we heard her?
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Really, she never brought anyone home before? And I remember
Joey's reaction to that.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
I was like, what are you lying?
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Well, like I said, I don't know how old you are,
should never have brought anybody? Or maybe she thinks that
nobody was worth bringing home and she hasn't felt a
certain way about somebody before.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Okay, let's focus on she wants to bring him home.
She wants to her parents to meet them, meet him, So.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
Tell your parents first, Like, there is somebody in my life, mom,
that I'm interested in, but I'm going to keep it casual.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
I'm going to say I'm not going to say, you know,
I've never put anyone home before. I'm going to say, hey,
you know, I might not even bring him to my house.
I might say, hey, mom and dad need meet us
for a cup of coffee or for a drink at
a bar. There's a guy I've been seen. Keep it
casual for the first meeting, so that you.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
Know, I can have a good point there, because going
to somebody's home there's a whole another ballgame. If you
will meet out in a restaurant, have some appetizer, have
a drink, giving not a bar. You don't know what
her family's like, like a bar, restaurant.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
A cup of coffee, go for a walk on the lake, whatever,
do something that's casual. Don't be afraid, Maeland, don't be
nervous about doing this. If you have found someone that
you feel like you want to meet your family, you
clearly are invested. You're invested in it, and you're feeling
something for this guy that you've never felt for anyone else.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
I'll librate that, and how do you feel about meeting
his family for the first time.
Speaker 3 (20:04):
Are you nervous? Everybody's a little nervous, just for yourself.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
Do you remember meeting? Yes?
Speaker 3 (20:09):
I do.
Speaker 1 (20:10):
What was it like?
Speaker 3 (20:11):
Is she from New York?
Speaker 1 (20:15):
She's fast?
Speaker 2 (20:16):
I used to try to finish their sentences, Dicky, my
ex was from North Carolina, from Charlotte, North Carolina, and
they talk slow, and you know, I'm quick.
Speaker 3 (20:26):
Is she from New York?
Speaker 1 (20:28):
That's really funny. I remember I was so nervous when
my husband we met in college and he drove me
to meet his parents for the weekend, and we had
to do a whole weekend, whole weekend, and it was dark,
and we're driving off the New York State Thruway and
he takes this exit and I'm thinking, you don't live here.
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You're taking me parking, parking?
Speaker 3 (20:53):
Did you hear that?
Speaker 1 (20:54):
I told you I'm old, showing you. I'm sure you're
gonna make it. That's right. We did that to We
drove down this I'm telling you, one blinking stop like
town and he pulls in and I knew we're here.
It was like I'd landed on Mars. It was, but
it is.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
It's scary to meet people for the first time, and
this is a big moment in your life.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Embrace, embrace it, celebrate joy it y's and you know what,
we both wish you if this is the guy. If
this is the guy, Susan wants to be your wedding official.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
Yes, and call us and let us know how this
works out, because I want to hear how it went.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
And we wish you, we hope for you the best
best outcome for this meeting.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
And I'm sure your parents are ready to Yeah, yeah,
you know what, you're fourteen.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
I mean I was saying, they're probably thrilled. Finally somebody's
going to take her off our hands. No good luck
with that. Really, we love you, and thanks so much
for calling in.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
And just know you were the first live one on
our podcast and we celebrate.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
We want more. Feels free to call in. Okay, So today, Susan,
you know it's always game day. Oh yes, game face
for game day already. All right, we're going to play
this game that we've called moral quandary. We're going to
read a quandary if you will, and we each have
to try. Let's this time, let's try to guess what
the other one would do. Okay, all right, as soon
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as we start, you're going to get it. Okay, you're
going to guess that. I'm going to guess.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
All right.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
All right. You're at the park with your grandkids when
one of them finds one hundred dollars bill on the ground.
You are the only people at the park and you
don't see anyone else nearby? Do you keep the one
hundred dollars?
Speaker 3 (22:41):
I let my grandchild keep it.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
You're supposed to go?
Speaker 2 (22:45):
Sorry, I blew that one. I would let my grandchild.
What would you do, Kathy?
Speaker 1 (22:50):
What do you think? There's nobody else there? I'm going
to start this. O. We're gonna start this.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
Kathy would let the children keep it?
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Now, Kathy might pocket it herself.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
You think I would pocket it?
Speaker 2 (23:01):
No, you're wrong, you would if there's no what am
I gonna You're not letting the kid have it?
Speaker 1 (23:07):
You know? Oh? With my grandkid?
Speaker 2 (23:09):
Yes, the grandkid finds it, let them keep it? Good
for you?
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Oh yeah, I would.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
But here's what you look around, make sure nobody's Here's.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
What I thought you were going to say, But take
a picture. Put it up lost and found it's on
her bucks? Were at a bark. Wait, what if your
grandchild is like six.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
And you go home and tell mommy and daddy that's yours.
You could spend it on whatever you want, put it
in the bank.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
Would say college account. I'm keeping it and I'm putting
in their college ground.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
I'll tell you what, you get fifty to buy something
and the other fifty goes in the savings. Okay, my turn, Kathy.
You're searching for a nanny for your three children. I
wish you interview someone who seems perfect. You're ready to
make her an offer, but first search her online. You
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discover her instagram, which features almost all provocative of half
dressed photos.
Speaker 3 (24:02):
Do you still hire her?
Speaker 1 (24:03):
What do I say?
Speaker 2 (24:04):
Katsy's gonna say hell no, hell no, nobody would like
that's a crazy one.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
Wait a minute, what do you think I would have
hired her?
Speaker 1 (24:15):
No? I don't think you would hire her. But I'm
gonna play Devil's advocated in a minute.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
Okay, fair enough.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
She was sixteen, she was drunk, she didn't know what
she was doing. She has looked at those pictures in
you know, ten years.
Speaker 3 (24:27):
In first of all, she's sixteen and they've been there
for ten years.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
That's a big red flag. That's okay, you know what
I'm saying. No, she hasn't. No, no, And by the way,
you're being judgy against Susan, I'm seeing a whole new
side of you.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
Okay, Why I don't have half dressed, provocative people raising
my babysitting my kids?
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Excuse me? Would you let Katy Perry babysit your kids? Oh?
She's tooxy for her Yeah? No, Okay, try another one.
You meet someone at a Starbucks and start texting. He
asks you out on a date, but tells you via
text that he feels he needs to let you know
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he's only ever dated men. You would be the first
woman he's ever gone out with. Do you still go
out with him? Now? Guess what you think I would say? Okay,
thought too long?
Speaker 3 (25:25):
Are you sure you I don't know?
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Are they in Texas? No? Hell no, not even a chance.
I'm just going what do you think i'd say?
Speaker 4 (25:40):
Oh, of course I would. I give anyone a chance,
give me my new best friend. I just like to
chat with him and let him buy me dinner, and oh,
he'd probably fall in love with me.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
They'll let him buy me dinner? Is so wrong? Because
you know, I.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
Always pay my own way. But yeah, no, would you
go out with him? Yeah? I might talk to him? Yeah?
Am I speaking English here? Would you go out.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
The first woman he's ever going out with? Probably if
I liked him?
Speaker 3 (26:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (26:08):
Okay, let me paint a clearer picture for you. You seem
to be struggling. He's sixty nine, he is what. No,
I don't picture that. I'm saying, why your world, you're
sixty seven. Let's make him sixty five. You want a
younger guy, God, you got it. You're sixty seven, he's
sixty five.
Speaker 3 (26:26):
That's a whole different story.
Speaker 1 (26:28):
What do you hell A?
Speaker 2 (26:28):
I'm thinking to myself as being younger and this happened, Susan.
It doesn't say you were somebody at Starbucks at this
age of the game and he's only ever dated. Meant
that now, Okay, of course it took a long time
to get them. I mean, I don't judge people like
Remember the question we had I guess either. It hasn't
come up out yet, but we did discuss one of
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the people's questions about the two women, and she was
about to propose remember.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
That one yes, and he wanted to be with them she.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
Wants to try him. Still, that's where what that came
to mind. That's different, and that's a and that's a
much younger situation. There is no way because he's been
with yeah man for sixty years if he's sixty.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
But anyhow, I love this answer that we have.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
I love getting to know more about you, Kathy and
your opinions on things. Not that we always agree, but
we agree to disagree. That's what friendship.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
But don't you think we agree? Susan and I come
from very different backgrounds. We're both Northeasterners. Even though I
live in Texas, I grew up in Massachusetts outside of Boston.
But we agree on a lot a lot of things,
and it's funny because our life has been so different.
And that does it for this episode.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Thank you so much for joining us today on Bachelor
Happy Hours Golden Hour.
Speaker 1 (27:44):
Thanks everyone for listening and tuning in. Please be sure
to follow us as we have new episodes coming out
every week.
Speaker 2 (27:52):
And don't forget to submit your questions. As you can see,
we love it. We absolutely love hearing from you. Go
to Bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour to send them in. Plus,
don't forget If you know any friends that want.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
To date Kathy and Susan, send.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
Them in and we'll check them out. We're really seriously
considering a group date. I think I like that idea.
We should talk more about that. Okay, we will, we will. First,
we need the guy, Susan well, first comment. Baby, they're
coming all right.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Well. In the meantime, listen to Bachelor halfy hours Golden
Hour on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to podcasts.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
Thank you so much, grain weeks, See you soon, See
you next week.
Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for
joining us. We're excited to have another episode together.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Absolutely and if you haven't listened to our podcast from Wednesday,
please check it out. Guess who we had, our good
friend and fellow Golden Bachelor et I don't think she's
a bachelor anyhow, it was Ellen on our podcast, and
what fun we had talking to her.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
We had, we talked. I found Ellen to be as
fun on the podcast as she was in the house.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
She was great in the house. How about her princess date?
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Okay, can we talk about that?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Can I just say nobody, anybody and that anybody would
have been excited, but she has never had. She's such
Oh that was so so special that so for those.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I can't imagine there's one of you out there. But
for those of you who missed that episode, Ellen went
on this fabulous date, got fabulous diamond ear rings like
Michael Costello, clothes and we didn't talk about this on
the podcast, but here's a little dirt. So Ellen was
handing out all the dresses that she didn't want.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
You remember, Susan, Yes, yes I do.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
It didn't fit her or were too big or whatever.
Too smart one. I got one, and the way I
got it, nobody wanted it because they said it was
too big. And I finally looked at it. It's I
wore for the women's tellow it's this beautiful white jumpsuit.
And I looked at these people in the guard It's
too big. It's too big. I said to them, where
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with you people? Have you never heard of a tailor?
And I took it home and had about two feet
taken in and it was fabulous.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
So I know Ellen's going to hear all of our podcasts,
and Ellen, forgive me now, but this I have to
I just have to share it. I'll never forget. First
of all, her face was priceless. When Michael Costello walked
in and called her and she wanted to go by
new underwear, she said, I don't have pretty She was embarrassed.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Wait, it's worse than that. We get to the wedding,
Susan lectures her about her underwear. And then we get
to the wedding, Aya says again, she goes, I have
terrible underwear. We looking to go. Have you not learned
your lesson? What's wrong with you? So you think for Christmas?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
We're gonna send her Victoria's secret underwear.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I mean that she's going to kill you. Did you
love her talking about her dating the guy, that it
was selfish that she dumped right and she she saw
right away that he was narcissistic.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Good, definite no no for me.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
But she did share.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
She went to an opening of a restaurant, I believe,
she said, and met somebody else. I mean, it's news
she couldn't really share with us yet, but that is
the way it is.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Kill yourself out there, yep. And we talked about so
again for those of you who missed it, I don't
know where you were, but we won. Ellen and I
won the pickleball tournament on the Golden Bachelor. And she
plays a ton of pickleball and she's so active, and
that's how she was talking about. That's how she meets people.
Meets people. She gets out and does.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
She's very active. She golfs, she plays pickle and that's
how she meets guys. She's in a great little community Susan, Florida.
So maybe we should move to Florida.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Is that the problem?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
But we're moving to Florida in a community and we're
taking up pickleball full time. That'll be it. All right,
So today we have got even more fan questions. I
love it. I love the all are listening and writing in.
Please keep it up, and like always, we have some
really good ones today. All right, if you want to
send a question reach out, go to bachelornation dot com
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slash Golden.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Hour and please do it. But first let's get started
with today's question of the day. This is always fun,
always okay, so you ready, yep, go for it. What's
one lesson you wish you had learned earlier in your
dating journey.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
A lesson that we've learned early and so we first
start dating.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
A lesson I mean, I think I think many of
our guests have touched on it. For me, it's being
comfortable with being myself and not trying to please someone else,
being my authentic self, which I usually am, but I
think when we're first dating, when we were younger, that's harder.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I've always been who I am, which is maybe why
I don't have a lot of dates.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
But the lesson I still struggle with this that people
tell me is don't trust everyone. And I'm a very
trusting person. You yourself told me don't think everybody's as
good as you are, don't you know? You have to
get to know them before you can trust them. And
that's that's a problem I have. I guess that would
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be my lesson is not to trust everything that comes
out of anybody. Well, I find that difficult though. Well,
I look at the good in people.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Well, everyone has good and everyone has some bad. We're
not perfect. I mean, you may be Saint Susan, I
am saying Susan, yeah, but most of us are not perfect.
And I think that's just it's it's just be aware, right,
So when I date now, I'm I'm just aware of
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what they're saying.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
I don't can I say something.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
We are ready to date now, and we'll practice all
these things we learned, but we're not dating.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Okay, So let's get this right. When you have a date,
I'll call you soon.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Do they get a date, keviy.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
You know what's going to happen. All these people that
are listening to our podcasts are going to sell.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Us once we do a group date, group date, group date,
We're going to do paintballing.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
No, that would hurt. I would not do that, all right, Well,
that would be fun.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
We could get a group date together for both of us.
We maybe we'll go play nine.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
You know, Susan, the only thing harder than having a
date with one of us is having a date with
both of us that they.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Can withstand that we're bound to pick somebody.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
All right, well, let's move on, Come on, let's start
our questions here. We've got some great boks.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Question number one, Marissa from Phoenix sent us this, Susan
and Kathy. I did something that I'm not proud of.
After a night out in a club with my best friends,
I got a little too drunk and made out with
a stranger on the dance floor. I cheated on my
boyfriend of one year. The morning after this happened, I
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regretted it immediately, and I felt like I had to
come clean. After I told him, he was completely heartbroken
and said he needed some space for me. Do you
think there's any way that I could win his trust back?
I don't want to end things like this. He really
means a lot to me.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
You know what, This happens more times. I mean rule
number one, Why were you so drunk that you didn't
know what you were doing? People use alcohol? People use
alcohols and excuse for a lot of bad behavior. I
think that she's not in control of this. She's going
to have to try to earn his trust back. It
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may or may not happen.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
I admire the fact that you came clean immediately, but
you got to give him some time.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Yeah, and if.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
He really loves you and realizes you did tell the
truth and that's all you did. But the problem is
he's going to feel like my friend saw you or
who saw you?
Speaker 3 (07:29):
That's going to come back and tell me. That's when
it gets ugly.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
You know, it does. Here's a couple of questions I have,
which you know, Marissa can't answer for us. But she's
been with a guy for a year and she's out
clubbing with her friends. No, no problem, no problem with that.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
Why are kissing somebody else?
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Well? People, you know when they get drunk. They say
I wouldn't know because I've never been drunk, But they
say that you're real, you know, you drop your inhibitions.
So maybe you're not as happy with your relationship as
you think.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Why did you kiss him? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Make sure that's true. That's it. Good luck with that one, Yeah,
good luck, And next time, stay sober and things may
go better for it.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I hope it doesn't end for you, and I hope
he respects the fact that you did come clean and
tell the truth and you do regret it. But I
feel as if, even if he forgives you, it's always
going to be there.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Oh No, I don't think that at all.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
I do. I think he'll never forget what she did.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Oh I disagree. I disagree. If anybody can make a mistake,
I mean, she can go to bed with the guys,
she made out with him, she came clean. I think
if they have to forgive her. Yeah, and if you
know what, if you don't forget, oh I do if
you forgive someone, Oh yeah, Susan, if you forgive, you
got to be able to move on and forget.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
You can move on and it's all good. But it's
always there. It's always there, a second guess of trusting.
That's so you're saying, you're saying he'll never trust her again.
I'm not, but he would question things. Yeah, one ever given.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Okay, Well, that's it's Susan.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
An uncomfortable situation. He's going to remember what she did. Well,
hopefully she's learned her lesson isn't going to call that again.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Absolutely, I wish you lucky.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Yeah, we wish you all the luck in the world,
and stay away from the alcohol. Okay. Listener question number two,
Jess from New York says, I've been with my boyfriend
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for a couple of years now. He's always watched porn,
but I think lately he's just been more open about it.
It really bothers me. It doesn't bother me that he masturbates,
but the fact that he does it while watching videos
of other women makes me feel really insecure. On top
of that, I asked him what kind of porn stars
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he's into, and he described women that are the total
opposite of my body type and race. Does this mean
that he's not actually that attracted to me? Is it
worth me putting my foot down over my own securities?
Or should I keep letting him do his own thing? Wait?
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The last line says it all. What should I keep
letting him do his money? You don't have a choice,
You're not in control of him.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
No, And you know what, I've tried in a relationship.
A man likes to watch I don't get anything out
of it. I'm sorry, but there's an issue here.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Why because he does porn?
Speaker 2 (10:31):
No, she doesn't like that he's choosing somebody that's not her,
So that's making her feel like she's not as attractive
to him as he should be. He likes other race,
other but men are different than women.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
Well, here's I'm not going to excuse it. I don't
dig it.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Well, it's not the porn of them. No, you know
what gets me? She asks him what kind of porn
stars he's into? Like, why would you ask? It's like
asking you what color? You know? Flavor ice cream? Who cares?
Speaker 3 (11:07):
And I wonder if it's all women? Is it women
and men?
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Like usually it's you know, she's asking us. Here's what
I would say, Jess. You're asking us. You're telling us
you feel insecure. You're asking if he's not that into
you're asking is worth putting your foot down? Have you
talked to him about any of this? I would No,
I'm saying, Hashi, Jess. If you haven't, you need to
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talk to him about it. Because if he's into porn
and that's what floats his boat, guess what you can
either get on board or get out?
Speaker 2 (11:42):
And is he masturbating in front of you? After watching
this are you there or is he telling you about this?
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Like?
Speaker 2 (11:47):
How do you know this is what's happening? Is it
a thing you do together? I don't know the details.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Can I just be honesting you this, Susan, I'm feeling
really old right now. I'm feeling really old like this stuff.
This wasn't in my marriage. It was like he had
a playboy in the back of the toilet. That was it.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
Things have come a long way.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
I feel old. I'm going to end it on that now.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
I know a lot of people that they are into
porn and that's their thing, as long as he's not
making you go without because he'd rather do that.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
I mean, I don't know. That's a tough one.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
You know what I'm gonna do while he's masturbating to
porn you watching, I'm taking the name and Marcus cart
and I'm going shopping. I had met. I wish you
a lot of luck, Honey. That's a tough one, Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
Amy from Texas says Hi, Susan and Kathy. I'm an
only child and I've always been very close to my
parents my whole life. I lived with them for a
couple of years after college, and I'm now finally on
my own, in my own apartment and financially independent.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
Good for you.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
But we still see each other all the time since
I only live about twenty minutes away. I've been with
my current boyfriend now for about six months, and I
just recently introduced him to my parents. My parents are
very conservative, and I begged them not to bring up
anything political with my boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
Of course they did. Of course they did.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
My boyfriend is.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
Much more liberal, and he's also not afraid to speak
his mind. They got into a rather heated discussion throughout dinner.
Now every time I see my parents they make random
comments about my boyfriend, hinting that I should break up
with him. I really like him, but I feel like
I'm between a rock and a hard place. How can
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I get them to.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
All get along?
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Oh, never talk about religion. It's like rule number one. Wow,
leave religion and politics at the door.
Speaker 3 (13:48):
But it was her parents that brought it up. Yeah,
and he's.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
Can I first, just can we just go back a minute. Yeah,
she's in her own apartment and she's independent. We do wrong?
Speaker 3 (14:01):
I did mine?
Speaker 1 (14:02):
No, But that's a taboo thing.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion. I don't think
their parents. I mean, okay, they had something to say,
but not every time you see her. If your daughter's happy,
he's good to her, they're falling in love.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Shut up, well, tell us what you really think.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
Just because their political issues are different.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
Listen, I live in Texas, yeah, and you know it
is a pretty conservative state, and I think that parents
there maybe are a little different than they are in
the Northeast, and that they maybe feel like it's fair
game to tell their daughter what they think and expect
her to follow suit. But here's the thing. If she's independent,
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then it may mean she has to pull back from
them a little bit and say, guys, I love you,
but I love this guy too. And if you can't
respect my right to date who I want then or
keep your opinions to yourself, I'm sorry. If if they're
how old, it's clearly you know they're baked. They're not changing, no.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
And he's not afraid to share his uh so amy
feeling Amy.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Here's what I'm going to say to you. Either get
a Confederate flag and start waving, or you gotta You're
gonna have to stand up to your parents.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
Either you beg one or the other babe, the boyfriend. Please,
if they start with this topic, just shut it down,
move on to something else.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
But he sounds like he's a.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Little cocky and he's going to go right back at
him with his views.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
But here's the thing. Do you think that it would
be a problem going forward like that show between married, Like,
we don't know? Is she liberal? Say that?
Speaker 3 (15:51):
She did not say that.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
I mean every time she sees her parents they make
random comments.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
Well, she says. She also says she begged them not
to bring up any I think political, so this time
they did. This is not a first time deal here.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Well, be your own person, live your own life, Pete,
love your parents to death, and if it gets really bad,
you go see them by yourself, leave them home. I
don't know what to say. I don't know what they
did that. Nothing's going to change. The parents are going
to be the parents. The boyfriend's going to be the
boy Susan, Yeah, what are you saying, not see your
parents anymore?
Speaker 1 (16:21):
I'm saying, play hardball if they If you're in love
with this guy, you want to be with this guy,
and they're not being nice about it. Mom and dad,
I love you, but I really love Joe, John Sam whatever.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Whatever his name is, and be with your man.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
Be with your man, Stand by your man. There's a
song stand by Now.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
If it were a different situation like he did you
wrong and you were hurt and your parents took up
for you and they end up not liking him very
much and you get back together, that's that's even tougher.
But this is a political like really, I mean, mind
your own businessman.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
You're not between a rock and a hard place. I'm sweetie.
You're an adult and you're gonna have to make a
tough decision here exactly.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
So if you do have a question for us, as
you can see, we talk about it all we want
to hear it, go to bachelornation dot com slash Golden
Hour and you may be featured on our podcast. Kathy,
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how about that? We just got our first audio and
Maylan gets to be live on our podcast.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
Do you just love getting these audio calls?
Speaker 3 (17:34):
I absolutely do.
Speaker 5 (17:36):
I am currently talking to this new guy, but and
it's going really well, and it's getting to the point
now where we should probably start introducing each other to
our families. But the thing is is, I have never
introduced a guide to my family ever in my life.
So just wondering your guys's advice on kind of advice encouragement,
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and yeah, I guess, like what should we do for
the first time that happens? What should I expect? What
should he expect?
Speaker 1 (18:10):
Yeah, I love you guys.
Speaker 5 (18:11):
You guys are amazing, And yeah, you guys are just
so fun and funny to watch. And I love you guys.
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
I mean her question, there's so many questions I.
Speaker 3 (18:22):
Have right, Like, I don't know how old you are.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
I don't know how long you've been seeing the guy.
I want to know why you've never brought a guy home.
What's the first thing that came to both of our
minds when we heard her?
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Really, she never brought anyone home before? And I remember
Joey's reaction to that.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
I was like, what are you lying?
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Well, like I said, I don't know how old you are,
should never have brought anybody? Or maybe she thinks that
nobody was worth bringing home and she hasn't felt a
certain way about somebody before.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Okay, let's focus on she wants to bring him home.
She wants to her parents to meet them, meet him, So.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
Tell your parents first, Like, there is somebody in my life, mom,
that I'm interested in, but I'm going to keep it casual.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
I'm going to say I'm not going to say, you know,
I've never put anyone home before. I'm going to say, hey,
you know, I might not even bring him to my house.
I might say, hey, mom and dad need meet us
for a cup of coffee or for a drink at
a bar. There's a guy I've been seen. Keep it
casual for the first meeting, so that you.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
Know, I can have a good point there, because going
to somebody's home there's a whole another ballgame. If you
will meet out in a restaurant, have some appetizer, have
a drink, giving not a bar. You don't know what
her family's like, like a bar, restaurant.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
A cup of coffee, go for a walk on the lake, whatever,
do something that's casual. Don't be afraid, Maeland, don't be
nervous about doing this. If you have found someone that
you feel like you want to meet your family, you
clearly are invested. You're invested in it, and you're feeling
something for this guy that you've never felt for anyone else.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
I'll librate that, and how do you feel about meeting
his family for the first time.
Speaker 3 (20:04):
Are you nervous? Everybody's a little nervous, just for yourself.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
Do you remember meeting? Yes?
Speaker 3 (20:09):
I do.
Speaker 1 (20:10):
What was it like?
Speaker 3 (20:11):
Is she from New York?
Speaker 1 (20:15):
She's fast?
Speaker 2 (20:16):
I used to try to finish their sentences, Dicky, my
ex was from North Carolina, from Charlotte, North Carolina, and
they talk slow, and you know, I'm quick.
Speaker 3 (20:26):
Is she from New York?
Speaker 1 (20:28):
That's really funny. I remember I was so nervous when
my husband we met in college and he drove me
to meet his parents for the weekend, and we had
to do a whole weekend, whole weekend, and it was dark,
and we're driving off the New York State Thruway and
he takes this exit and I'm thinking, you don't live here.
(20:50):
You're taking me parking, parking?
Speaker 3 (20:53):
Did you hear that?
Speaker 1 (20:54):
I told you I'm old, showing you. I'm sure you're
gonna make it. That's right. We did that to We
drove down this I'm telling you, one blinking stop like
town and he pulls in and I knew we're here.
It was like I'd landed on Mars. It was, but
it is.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
It's scary to meet people for the first time, and
this is a big moment in your life.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Embrace, embrace it, celebrate joy it y's and you know what,
we both wish you if this is the guy. If
this is the guy, Susan wants to be your wedding official.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
Yes, and call us and let us know how this
works out, because I want to hear how it went.
Speaker 1 (21:32):
And we wish you, we hope for you the best
best outcome for this meeting.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
And I'm sure your parents are ready to Yeah, yeah,
you know what, you're fourteen.
Speaker 1 (21:43):
I mean I was saying, they're probably thrilled. Finally somebody's
going to take her off our hands. No good luck
with that. Really, we love you, and thanks so much
for calling in.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
And just know you were the first live one on
our podcast and we celebrate.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
We want more. Feels free to call in. Okay, So today, Susan,
you know it's always game day. Oh yes, game face
for game day already. All right, we're going to play
this game that we've called moral quandary. We're going to
read a quandary if you will, and we each have
to try. Let's this time, let's try to guess what
the other one would do. Okay, all right, as soon
(22:22):
as we start, you're going to get it. Okay, you're
going to guess that. I'm going to guess.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
All right.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
All right. You're at the park with your grandkids when
one of them finds one hundred dollars bill on the ground.
You are the only people at the park and you
don't see anyone else nearby? Do you keep the one
hundred dollars?
Speaker 3 (22:41):
I let my grandchild keep it.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
You're supposed to go?
Speaker 2 (22:45):
Sorry, I blew that one. I would let my grandchild.
What would you do, Kathy?
Speaker 1 (22:50):
What do you think? There's nobody else there? I'm going
to start this. O. We're gonna start this.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
Kathy would let the children keep it?
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Now, Kathy might pocket it herself.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
You think I would pocket it?
Speaker 2 (23:01):
No, you're wrong, you would if there's no what am
I gonna You're not letting the kid have it?
Speaker 1 (23:07):
You know? Oh? With my grandkid?
Speaker 2 (23:09):
Yes, the grandkid finds it, let them keep it? Good
for you?
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Oh yeah, I would.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
But here's what you look around, make sure nobody's Here's.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
What I thought you were going to say, But take
a picture. Put it up lost and found it's on
her bucks? Were at a bark. Wait, what if your
grandchild is like six.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
And you go home and tell mommy and daddy that's yours.
You could spend it on whatever you want, put it
in the bank.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
Would say college account. I'm keeping it and I'm putting
in their college ground.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
I'll tell you what, you get fifty to buy something
and the other fifty goes in the savings. Okay, my turn, Kathy.
You're searching for a nanny for your three children. I
wish you interview someone who seems perfect. You're ready to
make her an offer, but first search her online. You
(23:55):
discover her instagram, which features almost all provocative of half
dressed photos.
Speaker 3 (24:02):
Do you still hire her?
Speaker 1 (24:03):
What do I say?
Speaker 2 (24:04):
Katsy's gonna say hell no, hell no, nobody would like
that's a crazy one.
Speaker 3 (24:11):
Wait a minute, what do you think I would have
hired her?
Speaker 1 (24:15):
No? I don't think you would hire her. But I'm
gonna play Devil's advocated in a minute.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
Okay, fair enough.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
She was sixteen, she was drunk, she didn't know what
she was doing. She has looked at those pictures in
you know, ten years.
Speaker 3 (24:27):
In first of all, she's sixteen and they've been there
for ten years.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
That's a big red flag. That's okay, you know what
I'm saying. No, she hasn't. No, no, And by the way,
you're being judgy against Susan, I'm seeing a whole new
side of you.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
Okay, Why I don't have half dressed, provocative people raising
my babysitting my kids?
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Excuse me? Would you let Katy Perry babysit your kids? Oh?
She's tooxy for her Yeah? No, Okay, try another one.
You meet someone at a Starbucks and start texting. He
asks you out on a date, but tells you via
text that he feels he needs to let you know
(25:12):
he's only ever dated men. You would be the first
woman he's ever gone out with. Do you still go
out with him? Now? Guess what you think I would say? Okay,
thought too long?
Speaker 3 (25:25):
Are you sure you I don't know?
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Are they in Texas? No? Hell no, not even a chance.
I'm just going what do you think i'd say?
Speaker 4 (25:40):
Oh, of course I would. I give anyone a chance,
give me my new best friend. I just like to
chat with him and let him buy me dinner, and oh,
he'd probably fall in love with me.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
They'll let him buy me dinner? Is so wrong? Because
you know, I.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
Always pay my own way. But yeah, no, would you
go out with him? Yeah? I might talk to him? Yeah?
Am I speaking English here? Would you go out.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
The first woman he's ever going out with? Probably if
I liked him?
Speaker 3 (26:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (26:08):
Okay, let me paint a clearer picture for you. You seem
to be struggling. He's sixty nine, he is what. No,
I don't picture that. I'm saying, why your world, you're
sixty seven. Let's make him sixty five. You want a
younger guy, God, you got it. You're sixty seven, he's
sixty five.
Speaker 3 (26:26):
That's a whole different story.
Speaker 1 (26:28):
What do you hell A?
Speaker 2 (26:28):
I'm thinking to myself as being younger and this happened, Susan.
It doesn't say you were somebody at Starbucks at this
age of the game and he's only ever dated. Meant
that now, Okay, of course it took a long time
to get them. I mean, I don't judge people like
Remember the question we had I guess either. It hasn't
come up out yet, but we did discuss one of
(26:51):
the people's questions about the two women, and she was
about to propose remember.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
That one yes, and he wanted to be with them she.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
Wants to try him. Still, that's where what that came
to mind. That's different, and that's a and that's a
much younger situation. There is no way because he's been
with yeah man for sixty years if he's sixty.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
But anyhow, I love this answer that we have.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
I love getting to know more about you, Kathy and
your opinions on things. Not that we always agree, but
we agree to disagree. That's what friendship.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
But don't you think we agree? Susan and I come
from very different backgrounds. We're both Northeasterners. Even though I
live in Texas, I grew up in Massachusetts outside of Boston.
But we agree on a lot a lot of things,
and it's funny because our life has been so different.
And that does it for this episode.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Thank you so much for joining us today on Bachelor
Happy Hours Golden Hour.
Speaker 1 (27:44):
Thanks everyone for listening and tuning in. Please be sure
to follow us as we have new episodes coming out
every week.
Speaker 2 (27:52):
And don't forget to submit your questions. As you can see,
we love it. We absolutely love hearing from you. Go
to Bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour to send them in. Plus,
don't forget If you know any friends that want.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
To date Kathy and Susan, send.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
Them in and we'll check them out. We're really seriously
considering a group date. I think I like that idea.
We should talk more about that. Okay, we will, we will. First,
we need the guy, Susan well, first comment. Baby, they're
coming all right.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Well. In the meantime, listen to Bachelor halfy hours Golden
Hour on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to podcasts.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
Thank you so much, grain weeks, See you soon, See
you next week.
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