May 9, 2024 • 17 mins
Sometimes in order to jumpstart a romance you need to do a little gentle sabotaging... The couple on the phone were on our show a few months ago and now they're back to tell us everything that's happened since in your Second Date Update!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date, up date, Alexis, let me ask you and
just be honest here, have you ever gone out with
a guy just to get something out of him for free?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Like a meal or of coffee? Duh?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Okay, Jeff, why would you Sorry?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
I didn't mean.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I didn't mean every single time you've ever spoken to
a guy. I just meant like once or twice. But
sure for you, Alexis, you didn't think anything of that.
You feel like they deserved to pay for your steak
dinner and the fourteen white claws just to enjoy the
privilege of being next time I am fun company.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
Think about the guy? What is he left with?
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Yes, that's what dating is, Jeff.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
It's a large credit card bill too, okay, with nothing
to show for it. But one of our listeners, John,
says he feels like he may have been used when
he went out with a woman the other night, and
we're gonna try and help him out.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
What does he expect? I mean? Okay, all right, John,
you're getting sympathy from today. What do you want in return? There? John? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Why don't you actually rand over your credit card information
to us now before we get started? Okay?
Speaker 5 (01:07):
Yeah, you know relationship guarantee that'd be more fun.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Can you not judge them? He hasn't even gotten to
say hello to us. It's like John, what's that man?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
John away?
Speaker 5 (01:19):
Bro?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Hey, I'm here. I don't know. I feel like maybe
I've been years.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
So usually, what what were you used for?
Speaker 2 (01:28):
All right, we'll back it up.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Yeah, why don't you start from the beginning. Tell us
about this woman that you met, how you met her,
what her name is, and then lead us into the story.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
If you say, Alexis, I swear to change my name.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
What's her name?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Now you're sake her name? I guess her identity is
probably safe if I just get coded the first name
Nikki we had after last name.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
We've got a caller, bro, Like that's how.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
They said that. Okay, her name is Nicky? And how
did you meet her?
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Okay? Uh, you know I met her online?
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Okay? And was there any red flags? Seeing that you
think you got used?
Speaker 2 (02:04):
I mean it was cool at first. She's cute. She's
not like strangely hot where you know it.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
She doesn't look like a bot, is what you're saying?
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Yeah, exactly. So we were having trouble getting together because
I have that schedule. Okay, we're getting casino. I'm in
the surveillance room.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
You have like a crazy schedule.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, it's a problem.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
It's funny that a guy who works in surveillance thinks
he may have gotten scammed.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
It was ironic.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Yeah yeah, so, I mean your schedule must be hard
to like find a good time to go out with
somebody that you really like.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
What did you end up doing with Nikki?
Speaker 2 (02:43):
So it was cool. She goes, all right, you come over,
I'll make you a nice dinner before you're going to work.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Oh are you complaining about being scammed?
Speaker 6 (02:52):
About that?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
It was so.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Awesome and it sounds amazing.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
And she trusts you right, like, because she's inviting you
to your place before she's even met you exactly.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I thought that was cool. I'm not like a criminal
looking guy, so.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
I don't think it's looks on that one. Yeah, there's
a lot of good looking guys, and also you can't trust.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
But yeah, sure, so she invites you over.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
She opens the door, she tells you here, put your
wallet over here, and.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Yeah, not so blatant, okay, like salmon and wine. Oh yes,
it was awesome. There's nothing this movie too fast we're
just having a nice dinner. It was the first step.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
It's cool, great, Well, you have to go to work later,
so it's not even like you can have a drink
or two, you know.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
It's like nothing's going to happen during.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
That date, right right, But okay, so there, and then
she mentions the fact that her bathroom sink is gripping
a lot, and she's like she did the scene where
it was like she mentioned it like twice and stop.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Oh she keeps bringing up that darn sink.
Speaker 5 (03:54):
Oh that's funny, right, Okay, it was like enough of
a pump where I'll was like, you want me to
look at it?
Speaker 2 (04:01):
She did, and I'm like, yeah, cool. I was happy, Honestly,
I was like, cool, Okay.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Are you a hand to feel helpful? Are you a
handy guy? Did she know that about you?
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yeah? So I think that's like maybe why she did
mention it because I mentioned that I renovated my place.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
I see what the using I think is going to
come into play here.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
But it may not be using.
Speaker 6 (04:22):
Still, she may still be into you and be like, look,
while you're here, I don't go on a lot of dates.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
Just look for me. Yeah, Okay, So did you go
look at the sink?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
I did, and I fixed it in like ten minutes.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
So yeah, how did the date end?
Speaker 5 (04:36):
Did you just like fix the sink and you're like,
all right, well it works here done?
Speaker 2 (04:40):
No, I mean it ended like I thought we were
totally vibing, got the hug, got a kiss, but there
was like thirst strain kiss. You know, I kind of
initiated it, and uh, okay, it's.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Gonna be a little awkward.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
So she cooked you a meal, she gave you a kiss,
you fixed her sink in like ten minutes, and you
feel like that was the scam.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I mean, I'm wondering. I can't help but wonder because
I thought the day was good. You know, I texted her.
I texted her again.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
Okay, she's not responding exactly, but like, maybe she just
doesn't like you like you like it doesn't mean that.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
She's using you for them. I want to give you
a to do list of things that.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
It makes it.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Sound like you didn't want to do it as a favor,
Like it just sounds like a friendly favorite thing to do,
like you expected something in return.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Oh, it's sound like I expect her to do something
in return. But it comes down to this, right, it's
you that she's not into be don't ask me to
picture shaken.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
I don't want to waste her night. She wouldn't give
you a full dinner if she already knew that. That's
a good point, you know, like she wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I mean, if that's what a scam is, I hope
that somebody scams.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
Open first. I got you so good with that five
course meal.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Oh, let's find out once and for all, maybe there
is a nuggative truth to this. We're gonna call Nikki
for you and try and get you a second date
update right after this.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Okay, a right, all right, man, hold on second date update.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
You're in the middle of a second date update update,
and we're gonna find out how.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
The couple is doing right after you here Part two.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
To be scammed or not to be scammed? That is
the question.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Because one of our listeners, Noble John, foundeth himself at
the apartment of the beautiful and fair Nikki Ah and
during the dining date, she exclaimth oh down, noblest of
John's my Sinketh doth leake it?
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Can you fix it perchance? Which he did.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Yeah, that's nice of him, it was very nice ten.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Minutes, and then he went on his way to work
because he does the night shift over at the casino
inside of the surveillance room. Has not heard from Nicky
though in eight days. Yeah, why don't you guys applauding
the performance that I had.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
The Shakespeare halfways?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Well, I only had a small role in anyway. John
feels like maybe Nikki took advantage of his handyman skills
and had planned on using him for free plumbing work
the entire time.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
But it's not free, John, she paid for the salmon.
That's expensive.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
We don't know that she paid for that salmon.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Fisherman using men all over time, time is money.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
She cooked the salmon. She put an effort.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I mean, you didn't text her anything like hey, are
you using me or anything like that.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
No, I'm not like texting your accusations and stuff, you know,
I'm just like, hey.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
It's okay.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
We don't have to read all the texts that she
sent to her. But you've tried to reach out and
she's not responding back, and that's enough for us to
give her a call. Yeah, let's find out once and
for all whether or not she's a scammer here.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
We don't think she's a scammer.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
If you're gonna do something nice for someone, then you
shouldn't expect anything in return.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
That's the nice part. Do you see what I'm saying, jeff.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Don't do nice things for other people.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
That's okay, let's just call that's the nice thing we're
gonna do for John. Maybe John, you can get us
back when we're done. All right, here we go.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
I'm dialing it right now. Hello, Hey, is this Nicky?
Yes it is Hey, Nikki.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
I apologize for the weird call that we're pushing you
into here, but you're on the radio right now.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Oh hey, Nikki?
Speaker 6 (08:45):
Uh did I wait for something?
Speaker 4 (08:49):
Well?
Speaker 3 (08:49):
I mean you could at the end of this.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
At this moment, what we're doing is something called a
second Date Update, and that's a segment where we try
and help out lit steners who've gone out with someone
and they're not getting.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
A callback afterwards, to help him figure out why.
Speaker 6 (09:07):
Who did you say you were?
Speaker 5 (09:07):
Again?
Speaker 3 (09:08):
It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning is the name
of the show.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
That's not what she She asked who I was? She
wants to know who the stars are.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
I think she meant in the room.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
Now, She med me.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
I'm Jeff, and I would like to ask you about
a date you went on eight days ago with a.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Guy named John.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Did you say, John, yeah, John, that you cooked him dinner?
You cooked him a lovely salmon dinner.
Speaker 6 (09:28):
He said, Yeah, I did.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
I did.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
I went on a date with with John.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
Right, we heard that you made him dinner and you
guys hung out right before he had to go to
his work, his like night shift. He says that you
haven't responded to any of his texts in the last
eight days. And I'm just gonna be honest. He says,
he feels like he was used by you were going
to scammed.
Speaker 6 (09:51):
Wait if he thinks he's being scammed, I mean he's not.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
I think I was the one being scammed.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Oh no, that's it.
Speaker 5 (09:59):
Wait a statement I didn't expect to hear from you. Wait,
you think you're being scammed by him?
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Yeah, I don't understand. We know that he fixed your sink.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
That's the way he thinks he was being used for.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
He feels like you knew that he's good at being
like a handy guy, and so you invited him over
just for that.
Speaker 6 (10:16):
What No, and also like he thinks he fixed my thick,
but I tried it out and it was fine. Then
we were ending the day and he goes to leave
and then he's like, oh, can I go to the
bathroom of fat And I was like okay. And then
later on that night, I go to the bathroom and
the stick's like broken, like the hot water isn't turning on? What?
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (10:38):
No?
Speaker 6 (10:39):
I mean the weird part about it was that later
on he started texting me like, hey, if you have
any other problems, like, I'm totally there for you, I'll
come around and fix it.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
That's nice though, Yeah, but why would she have more problems?
It's like I think she's saying he's using it as
an excuse.
Speaker 5 (10:56):
It's like the classic like girl leaves, you know, to
at said man's house, like he breaks her sink.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
So that right, is that what you're thinking, Nikki?
Speaker 6 (11:05):
Yeah, he like fixed it and then he purposely unfixed
it to invite himself back into my house.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
The oldest plumber trick in the book. I don't know
if that's true.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
That's it's kind of a stretch.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
He thinks that you're scamming him, You think that he's
scamming you.
Speaker 5 (11:23):
Maybe it's maybe it means you're meant for each other.
Two scam artists on the one day.
Speaker 6 (11:29):
I never scammed him. I invited him over for dinner.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Yeah, I'm on your side.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Well, let's find out for sure, because we do have
John on the other line, who's been listening to this
entire conversation secretly.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
What another But don't you want to know? John?
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Yeah, Hey, guys, I'm here.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
What's going on with the sink?
Speaker 5 (11:52):
Dude?
Speaker 3 (11:52):
That's a big accusation that she laid down there? John,
did you.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
Mess with the sink before you left?
Speaker 2 (11:58):
I mean, hold, dude that has a patience a little
light cute sabotage.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
I knew it.
Speaker 6 (12:09):
I knew I knew that that was the case. And
you met me there with no hot water, Like you
made my life worse by doing to.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Wash your hands in cold water. Can you imagine if
you would have.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
Invited me back the next day? It would have been.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
John romantic when you put it that.
Speaker 5 (12:27):
But is there like a string of women out there
with plumbinesses because of you?
Speaker 2 (12:34):
The THERMT? So I'm joking, it's.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Really hard to that's a good joke.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
Maybe does that make you feel special that, out of
all the women he's dated, you're the only person to
sink that he has sabotage.
Speaker 4 (12:51):
He wants to come back.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
That jo sabotage very.
Speaker 6 (12:54):
Cute, said, I mean, he's breaking things instead of fixing them.
And I had to call my neighbor and like inconvenience
people because of him. I mean, oh, man, John, you
don't have to call your gamer.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
I live close.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
Oh do you not feel bad?
Speaker 6 (13:12):
No?
Speaker 2 (13:12):
I don't feel bad. I'm fixed the main problems. You
don't have a leak anymore.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
It's just turning enough.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
I mean, would you blame a woman for purposely leaving
something at a guy's house?
Speaker 4 (13:23):
Would you call her a bad person for doing that?
Speaker 5 (13:25):
I mean if she called the radio station and accuse
the guy of using her first, I would call her
a kind of a crappy person.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Yeah, judge, I would Oh, hold on, everybody's like paying
me is the bad guy? Certainly you did turn off
her hot walk? Yes, yeah, well, I mean just barely.
Speaker 4 (13:44):
GA mean, it's really up to you.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Could you find it in your heart to forgive him
for just doing a little cute sabotage because he really
wanted to see you that badly one more time?
Speaker 4 (13:54):
Could you see that and maybe give him one more chance.
It's kind of.
Speaker 6 (13:59):
Funny, he is kind of funny. We did have a
good time.
Speaker 4 (14:05):
This is crazy.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Come on, Nikky. Maybe it looks in a certain light
that I did something less than above board, but come on.
Speaker 7 (14:17):
He said, yeah, come on, yeah, how can you say
no to this romantic You.
Speaker 6 (14:25):
Know what, life too short?
Speaker 5 (14:27):
Let's do it.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
She wants a little.
Speaker 4 (14:30):
Extra punishment for you.
Speaker 6 (14:32):
You too.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
Don't invite me back to your house. Never let a
look on your car.
Speaker 4 (14:36):
You just scam us for a day.
Speaker 5 (14:38):
Yes, yes, he did, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
Well it took some convincing, but we got Nikky to
agree to give John one more chance, and now look
what happened. Months later, here we are doing an update
update with the cute saboteurs themselves.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
I know, I want to know who's simming this time.
Speaker 4 (14:58):
Welcome back to the show, guys.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
How are you guys?
Speaker 4 (15:02):
We're doing okay? The question is how are you guys doing?
Speaker 6 (15:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Are you both on the phone?
Speaker 4 (15:07):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (15:10):
Sounds scared John? Are you guys dating? What's going on?
Speaker 6 (15:13):
Yeah? After we talked on the phone and you all
told me to give him a second chance. Something really
funny ended up happening.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
Okay, what happened?
Speaker 6 (15:25):
Okay, So he got ticket to a show and he
picked me up and it was awesome, Like we had
a great time.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
That's a good review, John, good job man.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Yeah, Okayante, Okay.
Speaker 6 (15:41):
All of a sudden, when we got back to my place,
I'm like doing the dishes and stuff, and then my
garbage disposal decides to just break down.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
John, did you break something down?
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Nothing to do with me in the world. I came
and switched it.
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Oh, you're a hero. Sounds like you know exactly what
was wrong with it.
Speaker 6 (16:08):
But I'm like, every single time that something breaks down, Now,
you know, I'm always going to be wondering if he
totally did that so he could come over.
Speaker 3 (16:16):
I mean, in your dating I think you can hang out.
Speaker 6 (16:18):
Whenever he.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
So.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Now that's like the running joke between you guys that
if anything ever breaks down.
Speaker 6 (16:27):
Running out of appliances.
Speaker 4 (16:28):
Yeah on the freeway.
Speaker 5 (16:33):
Breaks went out again. But it sounds like you guys
are doing good.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Yeah, you guys are happy.
Speaker 6 (16:43):
Yeah, we're still dating and it's been going great.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
We'll keep us updated on your budding relationship, if if
your phone doesn't break down because Jonathan sabotaged it, but.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, y
Second date, up date, Alexis, let me ask you and
just be honest here, have you ever gone out with
a guy just to get something out of him for free?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Like a meal or of coffee? Duh?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Okay, Jeff, why would you Sorry?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
I didn't mean.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I didn't mean every single time you've ever spoken to
a guy. I just meant like once or twice. But
sure for you, Alexis, you didn't think anything of that.
You feel like they deserved to pay for your steak
dinner and the fourteen white claws just to enjoy the
privilege of being next time I am fun company.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
Think about the guy? What is he left with?
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Yes, that's what dating is, Jeff.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
It's a large credit card bill too, okay, with nothing
to show for it. But one of our listeners, John,
says he feels like he may have been used when
he went out with a woman the other night, and
we're gonna try and help him out.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
What does he expect? I mean? Okay, all right, John,
you're getting sympathy from today. What do you want in return? There? John? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Why don't you actually rand over your credit card information
to us now before we get started? Okay?
Speaker 5 (01:07):
Yeah, you know relationship guarantee that'd be more fun.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Can you not judge them? He hasn't even gotten to
say hello to us. It's like John, what's that man?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
John away?
Speaker 5 (01:19):
Bro?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Hey, I'm here. I don't know. I feel like maybe
I've been years.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
So usually, what what were you used for?
Speaker 2 (01:28):
All right, we'll back it up.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Yeah, why don't you start from the beginning. Tell us
about this woman that you met, how you met her,
what her name is, and then lead us into the story.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
If you say, Alexis, I swear to change my name.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
What's her name?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Now you're sake her name? I guess her identity is
probably safe if I just get coded the first name
Nikki we had after last name.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
We've got a caller, bro, Like that's how.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
They said that. Okay, her name is Nicky? And how
did you meet her?
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Okay? Uh, you know I met her online?
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Okay? And was there any red flags? Seeing that you
think you got used?
Speaker 2 (02:04):
I mean it was cool at first. She's cute. She's
not like strangely hot where you know it.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
She doesn't look like a bot, is what you're saying?
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Yeah, exactly. So we were having trouble getting together because
I have that schedule. Okay, we're getting casino. I'm in
the surveillance room.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
You have like a crazy schedule.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, it's a problem.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
It's funny that a guy who works in surveillance thinks
he may have gotten scammed.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
It was ironic.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Yeah yeah, so, I mean your schedule must be hard
to like find a good time to go out with
somebody that you really like.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
What did you end up doing with Nikki?
Speaker 2 (02:43):
So it was cool. She goes, all right, you come over,
I'll make you a nice dinner before you're going to work.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Oh are you complaining about being scammed?
Speaker 6 (02:52):
About that?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
It was so.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Awesome and it sounds amazing.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
And she trusts you right, like, because she's inviting you
to your place before she's even met you exactly.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I thought that was cool. I'm not like a criminal
looking guy, so.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
I don't think it's looks on that one. Yeah, there's
a lot of good looking guys, and also you can't trust.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
But yeah, sure, so she invites you over.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
She opens the door, she tells you here, put your
wallet over here, and.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Yeah, not so blatant, okay, like salmon and wine. Oh yes,
it was awesome. There's nothing this movie too fast we're
just having a nice dinner. It was the first step.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
It's cool, great, Well, you have to go to work later,
so it's not even like you can have a drink
or two, you know.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
It's like nothing's going to happen during.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
That date, right right, But okay, so there, and then
she mentions the fact that her bathroom sink is gripping
a lot, and she's like she did the scene where
it was like she mentioned it like twice and stop.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Oh she keeps bringing up that darn sink.
Speaker 5 (03:54):
Oh that's funny, right, Okay, it was like enough of
a pump where I'll was like, you want me to
look at it?
Speaker 2 (04:01):
She did, and I'm like, yeah, cool. I was happy, Honestly,
I was like, cool, Okay.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Are you a hand to feel helpful? Are you a
handy guy? Did she know that about you?
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yeah? So I think that's like maybe why she did
mention it because I mentioned that I renovated my place.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
I see what the using I think is going to
come into play here.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
But it may not be using.
Speaker 6 (04:22):
Still, she may still be into you and be like, look,
while you're here, I don't go on a lot of dates.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
Just look for me. Yeah, Okay, So did you go
look at the sink?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
I did, and I fixed it in like ten minutes.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
So yeah, how did the date end?
Speaker 5 (04:36):
Did you just like fix the sink and you're like,
all right, well it works here done?
Speaker 2 (04:40):
No, I mean it ended like I thought we were
totally vibing, got the hug, got a kiss, but there
was like thirst strain kiss. You know, I kind of
initiated it, and uh, okay, it's.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Gonna be a little awkward.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
So she cooked you a meal, she gave you a kiss,
you fixed her sink in like ten minutes, and you
feel like that was the scam.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I mean, I'm wondering. I can't help but wonder because
I thought the day was good. You know, I texted her.
I texted her again.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
Okay, she's not responding exactly, but like, maybe she just
doesn't like you like you like it doesn't mean that.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
She's using you for them. I want to give you
a to do list of things that.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
It makes it.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Sound like you didn't want to do it as a favor,
Like it just sounds like a friendly favorite thing to do,
like you expected something in return.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Oh, it's sound like I expect her to do something
in return. But it comes down to this, right, it's
you that she's not into be don't ask me to
picture shaken.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
I don't want to waste her night. She wouldn't give
you a full dinner if she already knew that. That's
a good point, you know, like she wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I mean, if that's what a scam is, I hope
that somebody scams.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
Open first. I got you so good with that five
course meal.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Oh, let's find out once and for all, maybe there
is a nuggative truth to this. We're gonna call Nikki
for you and try and get you a second date
update right after this.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
Okay, a right, all right, man, hold on second date update.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
You're in the middle of a second date update update,
and we're gonna find out how.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
The couple is doing right after you here Part two.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
To be scammed or not to be scammed? That is
the question.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Because one of our listeners, Noble John, foundeth himself at
the apartment of the beautiful and fair Nikki Ah and
during the dining date, she exclaimth oh down, noblest of
John's my Sinketh doth leake it?
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Can you fix it perchance? Which he did.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Yeah, that's nice of him, it was very nice ten.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Minutes, and then he went on his way to work
because he does the night shift over at the casino
inside of the surveillance room. Has not heard from Nicky
though in eight days. Yeah, why don't you guys applauding
the performance that I had.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
The Shakespeare halfways?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Well, I only had a small role in anyway. John
feels like maybe Nikki took advantage of his handyman skills
and had planned on using him for free plumbing work
the entire time.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
But it's not free, John, she paid for the salmon.
That's expensive.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
We don't know that she paid for that salmon.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Fisherman using men all over time, time is money.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
She cooked the salmon. She put an effort.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I mean, you didn't text her anything like hey, are
you using me or anything like that.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
No, I'm not like texting your accusations and stuff, you know,
I'm just like, hey.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
It's okay.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
We don't have to read all the texts that she
sent to her. But you've tried to reach out and
she's not responding back, and that's enough for us to
give her a call. Yeah, let's find out once and
for all whether or not she's a scammer here.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
We don't think she's a scammer.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
If you're gonna do something nice for someone, then you
shouldn't expect anything in return.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
That's the nice part. Do you see what I'm saying, jeff.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Don't do nice things for other people.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
That's okay, let's just call that's the nice thing we're
gonna do for John. Maybe John, you can get us
back when we're done. All right, here we go.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
I'm dialing it right now. Hello, Hey, is this Nicky?
Yes it is Hey, Nikki.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
I apologize for the weird call that we're pushing you
into here, but you're on the radio right now.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Oh hey, Nikki?
Speaker 6 (08:45):
Uh did I wait for something?
Speaker 4 (08:49):
Well?
Speaker 3 (08:49):
I mean you could at the end of this.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
At this moment, what we're doing is something called a
second Date Update, and that's a segment where we try
and help out lit steners who've gone out with someone
and they're not getting.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
A callback afterwards, to help him figure out why.
Speaker 6 (09:07):
Who did you say you were?
Speaker 5 (09:07):
Again?
Speaker 3 (09:08):
It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning is the name
of the show.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
That's not what she She asked who I was? She
wants to know who the stars are.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
I think she meant in the room.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
Now, She med me.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
I'm Jeff, and I would like to ask you about
a date you went on eight days ago with a.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Guy named John.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Did you say, John, yeah, John, that you cooked him dinner?
You cooked him a lovely salmon dinner.
Speaker 6 (09:28):
He said, Yeah, I did.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
I did.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
I went on a date with with John.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
Right, we heard that you made him dinner and you
guys hung out right before he had to go to
his work, his like night shift. He says that you
haven't responded to any of his texts in the last
eight days. And I'm just gonna be honest. He says,
he feels like he was used by you were going
to scammed.
Speaker 6 (09:51):
Wait if he thinks he's being scammed, I mean he's not.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
I think I was the one being scammed.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Oh no, that's it.
Speaker 5 (09:59):
Wait a statement I didn't expect to hear from you. Wait,
you think you're being scammed by him?
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Yeah, I don't understand. We know that he fixed your sink.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
That's the way he thinks he was being used for.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
He feels like you knew that he's good at being
like a handy guy, and so you invited him over
just for that.
Speaker 6 (10:16):
What No, and also like he thinks he fixed my thick,
but I tried it out and it was fine. Then
we were ending the day and he goes to leave
and then he's like, oh, can I go to the
bathroom of fat And I was like okay. And then
later on that night, I go to the bathroom and
the stick's like broken, like the hot water isn't turning on? What?
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (10:38):
No?
Speaker 6 (10:39):
I mean the weird part about it was that later
on he started texting me like, hey, if you have
any other problems, like, I'm totally there for you, I'll
come around and fix it.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
That's nice though, Yeah, but why would she have more problems?
It's like I think she's saying he's using it as
an excuse.
Speaker 5 (10:56):
It's like the classic like girl leaves, you know, to
at said man's house, like he breaks her sink.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
So that right, is that what you're thinking, Nikki?
Speaker 6 (11:05):
Yeah, he like fixed it and then he purposely unfixed
it to invite himself back into my house.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
The oldest plumber trick in the book. I don't know
if that's true.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
That's it's kind of a stretch.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
He thinks that you're scamming him, You think that he's
scamming you.
Speaker 5 (11:23):
Maybe it's maybe it means you're meant for each other.
Two scam artists on the one day.
Speaker 6 (11:29):
I never scammed him. I invited him over for dinner.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Yeah, I'm on your side.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Well, let's find out for sure, because we do have
John on the other line, who's been listening to this
entire conversation secretly.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
What another But don't you want to know? John?
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Yeah, Hey, guys, I'm here.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
What's going on with the sink?
Speaker 5 (11:52):
Dude?
Speaker 3 (11:52):
That's a big accusation that she laid down there? John,
did you.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
Mess with the sink before you left?
Speaker 2 (11:58):
I mean, hold, dude that has a patience a little
light cute sabotage.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
I knew it.
Speaker 6 (12:09):
I knew I knew that that was the case. And
you met me there with no hot water, Like you
made my life worse by doing to.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Wash your hands in cold water. Can you imagine if
you would have.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
Invited me back the next day? It would have been.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
John romantic when you put it that.
Speaker 5 (12:27):
But is there like a string of women out there
with plumbinesses because of you?
Speaker 2 (12:34):
The THERMT? So I'm joking, it's.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Really hard to that's a good joke.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
Maybe does that make you feel special that, out of
all the women he's dated, you're the only person to
sink that he has sabotage.
Speaker 4 (12:51):
He wants to come back.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
That jo sabotage very.
Speaker 6 (12:54):
Cute, said, I mean, he's breaking things instead of fixing them.
And I had to call my neighbor and like inconvenience
people because of him. I mean, oh, man, John, you
don't have to call your gamer.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
I live close.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
Oh do you not feel bad?
Speaker 6 (13:12):
No?
Speaker 2 (13:12):
I don't feel bad. I'm fixed the main problems. You
don't have a leak anymore.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
It's just turning enough.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
I mean, would you blame a woman for purposely leaving
something at a guy's house?
Speaker 4 (13:23):
Would you call her a bad person for doing that?
Speaker 5 (13:25):
I mean if she called the radio station and accuse
the guy of using her first, I would call her
a kind of a crappy person.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Yeah, judge, I would Oh, hold on, everybody's like paying
me is the bad guy? Certainly you did turn off
her hot walk? Yes, yeah, well, I mean just barely.
Speaker 4 (13:44):
GA mean, it's really up to you.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Could you find it in your heart to forgive him
for just doing a little cute sabotage because he really
wanted to see you that badly one more time?
Speaker 4 (13:54):
Could you see that and maybe give him one more chance.
It's kind of.
Speaker 6 (13:59):
Funny, he is kind of funny. We did have a
good time.
Speaker 4 (14:05):
This is crazy.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Come on, Nikky. Maybe it looks in a certain light
that I did something less than above board, but come on.
Speaker 7 (14:17):
He said, yeah, come on, yeah, how can you say
no to this romantic You.
Speaker 6 (14:25):
Know what, life too short?
Speaker 5 (14:27):
Let's do it.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
She wants a little.
Speaker 4 (14:30):
Extra punishment for you.
Speaker 6 (14:32):
You too.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
Don't invite me back to your house. Never let a
look on your car.
Speaker 4 (14:36):
You just scam us for a day.
Speaker 5 (14:38):
Yes, yes, he did, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
Well it took some convincing, but we got Nikky to
agree to give John one more chance, and now look
what happened. Months later, here we are doing an update
update with the cute saboteurs themselves.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
I know, I want to know who's simming this time.
Speaker 4 (14:58):
Welcome back to the show, guys.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
How are you guys?
Speaker 4 (15:02):
We're doing okay? The question is how are you guys doing?
Speaker 6 (15:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Are you both on the phone?
Speaker 4 (15:07):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (15:10):
Sounds scared John? Are you guys dating? What's going on?
Speaker 6 (15:13):
Yeah? After we talked on the phone and you all
told me to give him a second chance. Something really
funny ended up happening.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
Okay, what happened?
Speaker 6 (15:25):
Okay, So he got ticket to a show and he
picked me up and it was awesome, Like we had
a great time.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
That's a good review, John, good job man.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Yeah, Okayante, Okay.
Speaker 6 (15:41):
All of a sudden, when we got back to my place,
I'm like doing the dishes and stuff, and then my
garbage disposal decides to just break down.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
John, did you break something down?
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Nothing to do with me in the world. I came
and switched it.
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Oh, you're a hero. Sounds like you know exactly what
was wrong with it.
Speaker 6 (16:08):
But I'm like, every single time that something breaks down, Now,
you know, I'm always going to be wondering if he
totally did that so he could come over.
Speaker 3 (16:16):
I mean, in your dating I think you can hang out.
Speaker 6 (16:18):
Whenever he.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
So.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Now that's like the running joke between you guys that
if anything ever breaks down.
Speaker 6 (16:27):
Running out of appliances.
Speaker 4 (16:28):
Yeah on the freeway.
Speaker 5 (16:33):
Breaks went out again. But it sounds like you guys
are doing good.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Yeah, you guys are happy.
Speaker 6 (16:43):
Yeah, we're still dating and it's been going great.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
We'll keep us updated on your budding relationship, if if
your phone doesn't break down because Jonathan sabotaged it, but.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, y
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