Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:01):
Call It what it Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille Luddington,
an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Well, Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello call it crew, and welcome
to another episode of short and Sweet.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
This this one, this is a short no matter what.
But I I mean, is it sweet?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
It's I don't. Well, maybe some people, this is why
we're talking about it. Maybe some people will think that
it's fine. And it is a little tangy, a.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Little, it's got some it's got some tang Well.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
The subject heading would be chat GPT and how it
affects our lives in different ways. This this way maybe
a little more surprising than others.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
This way is a little specific. And I have I
have a sneaking suspicion that someone's going to listen to
this cop podcast and be like, actually that's a great
idea and they're going.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
To be longing.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Ang, okay, this what do we what are we talking? So?
Speaker 3 (01:02):
What happened?
Speaker 2 (01:02):
What happened was People magazine. Someone wrote in and this
is what they said. It was from the am I
the asshole read it, you know post Okay.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
He said that she read out what she had for
the ceremony the night before and he told her that
he thought it sounded great, to which she responded, well,
I had chat gpt write it again, she had since
February or March, so this I know this. He then
asked her if she had the AI chat bot to
(01:34):
write the whole speech, to which she responded more or.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Less or less yeah yeah, more or less yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
So then he said, or he reports in the subreddit.
I then said, it made me feel kind of weird
in my stomach that she would have AI write the
ceremony for her longest and dearest best friend. He felt
it in his stomach. I feel at other places.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
I mean, okay, here's here's I'm going to play Devil's
advocate for a second.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Do it.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Do I think think that it is the way to go? No,
I think it has you know, it should come from
the heart. However, there are some people that get a
lot of anxiety speaking in public and sort of like,
you know, they can't put into words a speech like this.
It's a big speech, right, Like, it's a huge speak
in front of a lot of people, and maybe they're
(02:21):
stressed out, maybe having anxiety, and they're leaning on something
to help form create that speech for them. So I
understand a little bit because it's intimidating. It's an intimidating
thing I understand thinking like, wow, something can help me.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
I completely get that, and I would add in there
that I have not yet, but I know that I will.
I think that that it's a really great resource to
use as maybe like a first draft or like a
go at it, like, I am interested to.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Hear what people would say.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
So I'm not against the use of it is I
guess my point. I think that where I'm a little
bit and maybe I share some of this man sentiments
is when it's about something super intimate, like a longest
and dearest best friend since the age of two, there's
just no way that chat GIPT can know, like they
(03:13):
can't come up with the stories and the memories and
everything else. So maybe as a framework I would run
it through as like a first draft, but I think
then you would really need to then comb through it
and add in yeah, you know, support your insert your
evidence right, give your examples.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Yeah, And I definitely think, I definitely think that there
are times like when you should forego it completely, no
matter how nervous you are. If I had found out
that Matt had proposed me with a chat GPT speech.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
I probably wouldn't. Yeah, I don't think you'd be like,
oh he just gets so nervous.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
No, no, no, I do think because it's like a
public what the well, wait, how would you how would
you feel if you found out that your your girl,
your boy, whoever it is that you picked to do
that speech, had used that.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
I also it kind of I mean, no one has
said how good or bad it was in this little report,
like was it a phenomenal speech? Because I feel like
that matters. So Like my point is is that if
someone in my life.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
And even okay, okay, let's let's play the game of like,
the speech was absolutely like your entire wedding. The party
was blown away. They were laughing, They're like, oh my god,
get a Netflix special. You're so amazing. This is incredible.
In fact, it overshined your whole wedding. Yeah, yea, everyone's
high fiving.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
And then if they find out, you find out that
it's that I'm gonna I'm gonna do some bitching.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
I'm gonna be honest bitch, Yeah, go for it.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
No, no, no, I'm saying I would be side texting
you like are you kidding me.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Oh yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I mean, I feel like if if the if chet
chipet like hoodwinked us all and there was high fiving
and like a big Ponga train the celebration of that
amazing speech that just happened, then I would just I'd
roll with it. I'd be like, wow, you gave chat
GBT like a very a really great description, and and
wow did those bots really serve you? I don't know,
(05:16):
I wouldn't take it personally.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Well, because somebody's someone's response to this is if someone
is really your best friend, is it that hard to
write a speech for them? I think I think speeches
are hard. It's not my forte.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
I do think speeches are hard, and sometimes.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
I think they're harder when someone is that close to you,
because the weight of it feels a lot.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Yeah yeah, yeah, Well one of my best friends gave
a toast at our wedding and she did actually do
what you just talked about. She crushed it, like just
I mean, and she hates giving speeches. She hates talking
in front of anybody, truly. I didn't say dislike, she
hates it, and she took beta blockers.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
She was just I mean, I know it's actually torture.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
I almos feel I shouldn't have done it to her,
but she got up there and crushed it and and
it met And you know what, now that I'm being
pulled back into that moment, it meant so much to
me that everybody was high fiving, and it absolutely contributed
to the mood because there was so much love and
so much knowing in her speech. So if I had
(06:19):
then found out that Cheept had written it, I well,
first of all, I'd also be like, damn, they know
a lot about me in my life.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yeah, where does that information?
Speaker 3 (06:28):
How did they know all that? And who is they?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
I think I would probably feel differently about it. I
guess it would make it feel maybe a tiny bit
less valuable. Yeah, I think it would affect its value
and connection.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
So you did a speech at my wedding, Yeah I did.
Now is the time if you did use a jass
to confess because I have been suspicious over the years.
I can a little gpt to.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
A little tinny.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
There was a little there's a tiney quality to it,
like maybe you didn't I didn't know you so well? No, No,
I had the armpit sweat to prove that it was authentic,
and I was.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
It was all it was all true. It was all true.
Giving a speech. By the way, again, I'm back at
this moment.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
It is nerve wracking, really nerve wracking.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
And then I mean, if.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
You're being an officiant, And my guess is that she
doesn't do that every day of her life.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
So yeah, I told my dad on my wedding day.
I told him that because he had a this is
what happened on my brother's wedding day. Okay, so my
older brother got married and my dad's opening comment in
his speech was unfortunately, oh Daniel met the love of
his life ten years ago. Unfortunately she can't be here today.
(07:58):
That's how that speech started, right on his wedding day.
He thought it was very funny. There was one laugh
in the crowd that came from him, and so I
said to him, no speeches. You cannot do a speech.
What you're allowed to do is the welcome speech. And
he still turned it into a complete disaster. I don't
know if you remember. He sung, he's saying, can you
feel the love tonight? Then he pretended that he got
(08:21):
a phone call from Snoop dogg congratulating us.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
That was random.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
I mean, there were so many disaster Honestly, I would
have loved chat GP to write that. That should have
been a chat GPT.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Whenever you talk about your father, I am just I'm
reminded the very fertile soil of hilarity that you grew up.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
It's not what I mean, yeah, as an outsider. As
an insider, it's you know, we need therapy.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
So bunkers though.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
And I said to him the night before because he
was in a little he was in a little saucy,
little mood right and was drinking his red wine. He was,
he was he was mingling with all of the crowd.
And I don't know if you have a parent that
you're like desperately hoping never mingles.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
I have that.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
I don't hate him mingling. I'd rather him in a
corner with a muzzle on. He was mingling in the crowd.
And I said to him, Dad, this speech tomorrow is
just a welcome speech. And he's like, oh my god, Dunning,
I've gone it for Gaussie. I know, I know, it's
just got it. And the next day is when he
was like, kids, you feel And I died inside. So
(09:29):
these speeches are tough people, is my boy, and sometimes
you should be using jett.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
I know, I know.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
And by the way, it is really interesting how different
what you think might be acceptable and what someone else
might think is acceptable. I was, I too, was at
a wedding where the best man gave a speech the
night before where he he.
Speaker 3 (09:53):
Revealed that the groom had cheated on the.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
You know the timeline he like kind of released it
was I remember when we were yes.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Yeah, stop, and they were supposed to be on a break.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
But I think that the groom reported there was a
break and the bride did not know that it.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Was a break.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
So yeah, so the night before they were about to
get married about something that happened, you know, ten years prior,
because it was one of those like college sweetheart. No,
yeah it was, and I remember it was drum oh
my god, and then the bride ran.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
To the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
No, Jessica, I'm like literally sweating so bad.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
No, I know, I know, because I was. I was
very young when it happened.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
It was like I was like sixteen, and the bride
ran to the bathroom and but nobody knew that's where
she'd gone. And so maybe like ten minutes later, my
girlfriend and I go to the bathroom and we didn't
know she was stuck herself in one of the bathroom stalls,
and we're going to the bathroom talking about it in
the bathroom, and then we hear like the sniffles and
then the sniffles turned into like whales of just absolutely lot, like,
(11:01):
oh it was.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Awful, poor lady.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
And marriage didn't last by the way they did, because
you're all wondering what happened got married and divorced?
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Wow, Okay, so I think I think what we're feeling here.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
We have divers we've we've we've we've gone off topic.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
No, no, no, no, we've given reasons that you should use
it because chat GPT would not have told the crowd
about Ashley and Cabo back in.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
That's true. That's true. So maybe you should.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Unless you're plug in that information, in which I hope
you're not even chat GPTs Like, no.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Dude, yeah, don't say that, don't say that part.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Listen clearly clearly, for some people, this works, this works.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
Go with what works.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Go with what works, Go with what's gonna make the
congo line and not the bride in the bathroom.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
Crying no, no, no, bride in the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
You could compare it to people who have ghost writers
for music, right or celebrity memoirs. Exactly does it feel
any different? Possibly?
Speaker 1 (12:02):
Hmmm, well actually maybe yeah, you know why because well,
I mean, if you have a good I mean, I
guess if you're saying you have a ghostwriter, then that's
just accepted. But I mean, you know, I can't say that.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
People don't it. Hell, no, I'm not out promoting Camilla
Lennington auto Biocrey and I'm like, but my ghost wrote this, No,
I'm not. Oh, definitely on Good Morning.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
America saying.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
I wrote this is stufrom till Midnight writing this yeah, yeah, Well.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
That seems kind of naughty to me because then you're
saying you did something you didn't do and you're making
money from it. Like, I think that's definitely you should
you know. I don't know, that's maybe another episode. I
don't even know what to say about that.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
That just feels, I know, but it happens all the time.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
So I think the way I've landed on is this,
if you need a little help, get.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
A little help.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Yeah, but that okay, okay, is it the same thing
as like you're reading, say I'm writing a speech, I'm
reading it to you. You're like, Camella, take that out.
Why don't you mention this isn't it kind of the
same thing. I mean, there's a lot of people that
get maybe they yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
Yeah, I think that's absolutely what people think. I think
absolutely people feel that way.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Although although we have to quote this, he did ask
her if it had written the whole speech, and she
did say more.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
Or less, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I saw that part.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
Well.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
And by the way, listen, relationship is what relationship is.
And it sounds like this the story is really actually
more about a boyfriend having an opinion about a girlfriend's choice, like,
so maybe you should let her know that he does
not want her to have her vows.
Speaker 3 (13:38):
Written by CHATCHBT.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Chill out about the speech, Yeah, chill out about this speech, buddy,
It's all good.
Speaker 3 (13:44):
It went well.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
I think that the crew is going to have an
opinion on this. I think he is not going to
be okay, let's hear it from you guys, hop into
our comments. I think they're going to.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Disagree with us, okay, So do they think it was
okay or do they think that those a little questionable?
Speaker 2 (14:01):
Yeah, we want to hear from you. Guys, you're part
of this conversation. It is drop a comment.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
Yeah, and let us know if any of this, any
of this has happened for you to you.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Yeah, if you're if you're writing a speech right now,
we want to hear from you. If you're like, wait,
this is a great idea.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
And by writing a speech, I mean talking into your
phone and letting chat GPT know what you'd like to
speech on.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Listen.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
Time is of the essence.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
And maybe they're busy, I don't know, very busy people.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
All Right, I love it. I love the shortened sweets.
Let's call it.
Speaker 2 (14:32):
Let's call it. The end of the episode.