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April 2, 2024 16 mins

Erin and Charissa are back with an all-new Pregame! The ladies answer your questions about unhappy wedding guests, jealous friends and dating when you're young. By the way, where did all this hair come from?! 

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I have more hair on my face than I've ever
had in my life. I'm growing everywhere, Like I just
sit here and pet my fur.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
It's like I'm petty Cowie. Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (00:11):
Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
Welcome everybody to the Preaking.

Speaker 1 (00:21):
It's been a minute. You've seen one another. I've missed
you you I would to do calm down. I saw
you was in Montana. We have to go on vacation
to see one another, and we've missed all of you.
We apologize. We have had life things happen. So we
are back, and so is in Sync, which leads us

(00:42):
to our first question. Anna, Oh my god, how blonde
can I be? I did just get my hair done? Ok?

Speaker 2 (00:49):
Great, a natural?

Speaker 1 (00:50):
I am not a natural, Rise says in Sync is back,
discuss not to be confused with backstreets back.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
All right, all right, I don't I guess they're back.

Speaker 1 (01:00):
I don't know. Justin we were listening to his album
in Montana. I saw that they performed together. I would
go to that. I can't wait for us to go
to see Justin. When may we got to figure that out.
We have a lot of concerts were supposed to be
going to that We hid two circles, really marks marks
the spot, write it down in sync. I was definitely
more of an in sync person than Backstreet Boys, although

(01:23):
in high school, my high school, not my long term
high school boyfriend, but my last little fling of a
high school boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
He was older, he was a senior when I was
a sophomore.

Speaker 1 (01:33):
But he was one of the Backstreet in like the
school talent show thing. He was one of them that
performed and he did like a whole serenade. Shout out
to J Lewis. Was J Lewis up to these days?
He was a great construction worker. This guy he could
fix anything. In fact, I could use him at the ranch.
Jay Lewis, are you available for hire? And he can
sing to you as well. Favorite in sync song.

Speaker 2 (01:57):
Bye Vibe.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
I mean, I mean, I'm not always one of those
people that I never know the name of the song.

Speaker 2 (02:02):
This, I promise you. I mean really him.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Shit, wow, lifestyle love songs. Oh my god, this brings
up all kinds of emotions for you. What was his name?
Oh no, no, I just I love when jay Z
or not jay Z JC and Justin They hit their
parts obviously dirty pop or dirty bird pop pop, dirty

(02:25):
pop pop pop.

Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, I did.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
I feel like Kendron and you both knew the dance too,
Bye bye bye for sure you did? Okay, love those boys?
Next up girl, Okay? Anonymous, Yes, it's been a minute.
My fiance and I decide I like to read anonymous
with this kind of like tone. My fiance and I
decided to have a small, private ceremony with a larger reception.
After now people are upset they weren't invited to this ceremony.

(02:52):
How do you respond? You don't who wants to go
to a ceremony? And I'm sorry, I want to go
to yours, Chris, after no one wants to go into yours.
And it was hysterical. It was a vow about the
guests that were in the audience. It was really funny.

Speaker 2 (03:08):
Oh no, they're so ridiculous.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
You know what, Actually, I think this is a as
someone that's had two ceremonimonies and no one was invited,
I think this is a great way to show why
those people shouldn't have been at the ceremony to begin with. Like,
if they're going to get upset about that, then they're
not good enough friends. By the way, I would be
thanking anyone that was like, hey, yo, just show up
for the party.

Speaker 2 (03:30):
Let's get the promises. This I promise you.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
I will not make you go to the nuptials, only
the after party. I see this with all due respect
to all of my friends and even yours. When I'm
praying there's going to be a wedding for you, I
want that, but I would rather cut to I would
rather go pregame while you're getting married.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
And then see you at the post. You know, I don't.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
Hey, I got here's the only nuptials I will be doing.
I don't stop it. I'm never getting married again. I
will have a party, though we've talked to great this. Yeah,
we will have a party. You pick the venue, tell
me what day it is, and I will show up.
But I ain't doing any of those other things. Third
time is not the charm ladies and gentlemen, you know,

(04:15):
and I disagree.

Speaker 2 (04:16):
I'm gonna keep working on you and this I promise you.

Speaker 1 (04:19):
Okay, you and I have a better chance of getting
married before I get married again to Steve, God love him.
It has nothing to do with Steve, all right, we've
got Dennis Kovechy. By the way, this should be a
game us figuring out those names. How to deal with
jealous insecure women? Who's dating your platonic guy friend? How

(04:41):
to deal with jealous insecure woman who's dating your platonic
guy friend? Oh, like the new girlfriend's jealous of you?

Speaker 2 (04:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (04:48):
Wow, and you're like good relationship. I honestly, how come
I'm not getting it?

Speaker 2 (04:55):
What do you mean? Who's jealous?

Speaker 1 (04:58):
So your best guy friend, okakay is dated platonic, she's
insecure and jealous.

Speaker 2 (05:04):
Of your friendship?

Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (05:06):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you got to ditch that chick.

Speaker 1 (05:08):
You know what I started doing playing it up? Of
course you do late night sending, not even what's up?
It's me thinking about you.

Speaker 2 (05:19):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
I feel like I'm trying to think if I had
a situation. Yeah, I mean I think that if if
you're not secure enough with your boyfriend to have girlfriends,
that's a problem because I want Steve to have girlfriends.
Because I'm thinking to myself, Yeah, I'm thinking myself if
you mean late at night? Seriously, I'm jealous of you

(05:42):
and you do. I think you text Steve and call.

Speaker 2 (05:45):
Him more than me and you don't answer me. I
call him, where is she that son?

Speaker 1 (05:51):
And I love that I love I think that that's
a fantastic relationship to have.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
Where your girlfriends?

Speaker 1 (05:57):
Actually, I'm going to stay on track here because I
could go on a whole tangent about this, but as
it pertains to this, I want Steve to have girlfriends
because if I don't trust him to have a girlfriend,
that he can't keep his in the pants and like
not want to just jump every woman he sees, well,
then we have a bigger problem.

Speaker 2 (06:14):
You should be able to have.

Speaker 1 (06:15):
Like if I was, I don't go through his phone,
but if I ever wanted to, he would give it
to me. If I saw girls names, my first thought
is not like, oh my god, he's having an affair.
My first thought is, well, I didn't know that Hillary
worked for you, like I wouldn't. My first thought is
not like I don't know to answer the question succincly,
which is hard for me. Sometimes I think that's a
huge I think that's a massive red flag. And if

(06:38):
it's a brand new relationship, then talk to her and
be like, Hey, if you're going to have an issue
with this, then this isn't going to work out because
I'm not getting rid of my friends or getting rid
of anything just because you don't like it. Like my
lifelong friend, I'm going to have to leave because you're insecure. No,
I think it's hard saying the word succincly. I yeah,
I feel like at first I'd be difficult to deal with,

(07:01):
and then I would have a flat out conversation with
him and be like, listen, she's got an issue with this,
Like we're not even together. I think you should talk
to her, maybe you take her out. But I'm just
one you and then I are also people on the
other side of this. Think about how many men we
talk to in our lives, Like I would say it's
ninety percent men in our phones, as for all the

(07:24):
guys that we work with or whatever it is in
our lives that we have the majority of men. And
if we had insecure significant others, that would be a
massive problem. So conversely, I think you gotta either you
got to nip that in the But I'm also wine
in the bud or butt bud, yeah, bud succinctly. I'm
also one that, if you know, prime example, I like

(07:45):
to be friends with everybody within the family. So like,
I'm on so many texts with Kevin and Rachel Burkhardt
and I'll text them Kara and Greg Olsen, so I'll
text them together.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
You know, I like to add Jarrett to it.

Speaker 1 (07:58):
Maybe you start a text Shane with the three of
you guys, or that's an idea, so to show to
her she's not really missing out.

Speaker 2 (08:06):
The jokes. Aren't that funny? You know what I mean?
I think that's a good idea, good advice.

Speaker 1 (08:12):
Okay, Strath monster, can we please talk about what age
you have to stop worrying about, stop worry about and
acne at the same time. I don't know what that means,
but I stopped reading after acne, and the answer is forever,
if you're us forever.

Speaker 2 (08:30):
I had this right here. Good thing? Is that a mole? No,
it's not a wal Cyndy Crawford, it is it?

Speaker 1 (08:35):
Although my face has gotten a lot great better because
guess what, I'm not picking as much and I'm just
gonna say it.

Speaker 2 (08:42):
I'm just gonna say it.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
I'm not getting as many facials and I love a facial.
I think that facial just brings it all out. So
I mean, don't get a magnifying glass around this face.
But right now, if I'm not in there digging and
I'm not in there extracting everything, everything's just laying dormant. Again,
if we did a scam on layer four, it might
not look good.

Speaker 2 (09:02):
But I don't know. I think I've for the most part,
grown out of it.

Speaker 1 (09:07):
But I get like, yeah, I get this jawline stuff
a little bit here, there spara lactil. No, you know,
I'm the biggest proponent of the nantibiotic when it comes
ounds great. That is something a dermatologist in Nashville for
any of you that have had chronic acne your whole life. Me,
I finally went to a different dermatologist in Nashville and
she prescribed spar lactone and it.

Speaker 2 (09:26):
Changed my life.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
I don't take it every day anymore because I don't
want to be on an antibiotic all the time. But
when I see it flaring up, I go back into
the old bottle and start taking some. It probably is
expired at this point, but I just go back two years.
You know, got two years in it's definitely expired. I
haven't lived in Nashville in four so doctor's license, my doctor.
You know training I've done. I am taking a pill

(09:53):
for hair, not like neutrafl I'll say it, y yeah,
and because I just like you know, we're giving our
hair break and not styling it obviously as much as
I do during the season, I have more hair on
my face than I've ever had in my life. I'm
growing everywhere, like hair just on my face. I just
sit here and pet with her. You're just like, I'm

(10:15):
petty cowie. Oh my god, and then I get I
hate getting the derma flash out because that.

Speaker 2 (10:22):
Brings me out. So I'm here. You know what I do,
and you know where I'm going.

Speaker 1 (10:26):
After this podcast with Jinga Linz, She's taking that box
cutter straight to this face and straight to this Now. Hey, look,
when you're a rancher and you come home, that's what
you get forgot these hands look cold? I'm a worker,
you know were What are you gonna do?

Speaker 2 (10:42):
What do we got here? We?

Speaker 1 (10:42):
Okay, Robin Lane, you little cutie, probably not even your name,
sports reporter in mid twenties. How do I put myself
out there dating wise? When this job is a lot. Well,
first of all, congratulations for living out all of our dreams.

Speaker 2 (10:58):
Who we're working for We'll tell everything.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
Yeah, exactly, we got all the gossip offline, anonymous.

Speaker 2 (11:04):
How do I put myself out there?

Speaker 1 (11:07):
So I'll tell you this. Here's my advice on this one.
Don't be in a rush because I thought that being
in a relationship really early on professionally was going to
be great for me because then I wasn't distracted and
I had this you know, constant at home, and I
married the wrong person. Then later in life, I married
the wrong person again. But I think that give yours
for me. If I had to go back and do

(11:28):
it again, I would not feel like I just had
to be with someone just to be with someone.

Speaker 2 (11:34):
I would let it happen.

Speaker 1 (11:35):
Naturally and date when it worked around my schedule because
I was making and continued to make at times my
job more of a priority.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
I'm trying to do a better job of that now.

Speaker 1 (11:46):
I think we both are, but it took at least
until my late thirties to realize that. And obviously, if
you want a date and you want to still have
a personal life, I would just say make sure that
you pick someone that is very secure, going back to
our previous conversation, and understands that your job is really
important because especially in your twenties. I mean, think about

(12:07):
what we were doing in our twenties with our job,
and they have to be open to traveling and being
able to leave on a whim and all these kinds
of things. So find a guy that is open minded
and secure and also don't be in a rush in
your twenties, right, but enjoy it too. I would just date.
I mean, I'll be honest and say I didn't do
a lot of it because I was doing three hoops

(12:29):
games a week, two football games a week, two baseball games.
I had a good time when I did it, but
I wish I had done it more. I was literally
married to the job in my twenties because I had
this thought process that if I did as much as
I could, then I wouldn't have to work a lot
in my forties. Okay, so, yeah, you brought up a

(12:49):
good point. They have to be secure in themselves with
all the traveling you may have to do for your job.
You'll figure it out really quick if they are or.

Speaker 2 (12:56):
Aren't, and just go have fun. Yeah. Yeah, it's not
that serious.

Speaker 1 (13:01):
I was.

Speaker 2 (13:01):
If I could do it over, I was too.

Speaker 1 (13:04):
Yeah, I give off a lot of bad signals apparently,
did you do they come back around and talk about.

Speaker 2 (13:10):
Them around away girl?

Speaker 1 (13:12):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (13:12):
Somehow Yeah have told me yep, yeah, bamboo era and
I was like, why did you know? That's not what
I was saying or doing. Wow.

Speaker 1 (13:21):
But though I don't think those people are very smart either,
I also think that we've tried to be too cool
in so many situations. This just in I am so
far from being cool.

Speaker 2 (13:32):
It's wow.

Speaker 1 (13:34):
The lighting where it right now on you is fantastic.
Oh god, those people can either.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
A date on my rut.

Speaker 1 (13:40):
But I'm trying to be nicer to myself as you
and I had this discussion with somebody at a dinner
and I was thinking a lot about it.

Speaker 2 (13:48):
But anyways, we'll give an update on the rut.

Speaker 1 (13:50):
I'm okay for everyone is. I do think my hormones
played a lot into it as well, but work also
affected that. Whoa any who anonymous? What would you do
if your boyfriend's husband, Steve came auntie because they aren't
having bedroom time and he's not dead? Oh oh my god, Jared,

(14:14):
is this for me? I'm kidding, joking, joking, that's not
we're on his text chain. I would see him saying
that to you. That is awkward.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
Okay, we need to go back to this.

Speaker 1 (14:33):
There's a lot of things that you can share with
your girlfriend's boyfriend or whatever, but like this, come on,
not that. And it's also a violation of like your
friendship where it's like why are we talking about that? No, No,
I don't need them, we.

Speaker 2 (14:49):
Need you need to go to her. That's just that's
red flag.

Speaker 1 (14:54):
Yeah, because imagine if it comes back and she's like,
I can't do the math today.

Speaker 2 (14:59):
Who his confessions?

Speaker 1 (15:00):
Like oh, so and so told me that, you know,
we should be having sex more whatever, It's like, well,
why are you having those conversations with my boyfriend? Ew? Yeah, No,
that's weird that this husband husband that too. I mean, yeah,
best friend's husband. You took a vow or you gave
a vow?

Speaker 2 (15:17):
What is it?

Speaker 1 (15:18):
He ow?

Speaker 2 (15:20):
You're not going to that ceremony either, No, you're not.

Speaker 1 (15:22):
Actually you're going to the divorce proceedings as the witness,
and you need to be a witness protection program. After
she finds out that you've been talking to him that way,
enough is enough enough and enough of the pre game.
We love you guys. You can tell there's a lot
to talk about. Join us for the full length episode.
Lots to discuss. Aaron is okay, everyone, I almost wasn't

(15:43):
fine last week and you don't even know this. We
did an emergency security landing, had an episode on the plane.
We'll get the more after the break. Calm Down with
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