March 31, 2025 • 16 mins
Erin and Charissa are answering your questions in this latest edition of the Pregame. They give their best advice on how to approach a cut neighbor and how to make a long-distance relationship work. They also believe it’s okay to tell your friends and family to “stop being weird” when asking about someone new in your life.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ask are you single? Wow, I would never have the
balls to do that. Calm Down with Aeron and Carissa
is a production of iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I love when you guys writing some questions, comments and concerns.
So I see a few anonyms on here, which makes
me excited. We'll start with Echo Brave eighty six. I'm Italian.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Ooh jealous.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
I'm interested in how the high school football works in
terms of compatibility with study time.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Huh WHOA.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
I'm not sure exactly what that question means. Do you
can you disseminate what that means? How much time I
can take to learn football?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
What did she mean? Do you think? Oh?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Or how do high schoolers balance study time and high
school football? I don't know, ride, Do you have any
clarification on this?
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Just go pone A not inmcatibility to study time?
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Okay, but I do like, yeah, that's probably the line
of question that makes sense because it's high school football.
Don't do that with your face. I know you and
I are going to do this whole podcast next next week.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
This tape. We should get the tape. Do you think
it works? He guys, no, tail of the tape if
it did more people would be doing it, but I
would like to try.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
How about these people? How about these people are like,
I don't do botox anymore. I just use the tape.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
No knock it off. That's a that's a lot. That's
a lot. You're not fooling anyone. Okay, well, we're going.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
To come back as soon as I get my headphone here,
Echo bravy. You know we're going to do We're not
going to come back because Echo Brave can't clarify this
for us. We are going to answer it the way
that it's perfect.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
So let's see.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I would say my brother was the high school quarterback,
Go Tyson Go. I would say it was one of
those things where you know, you go to whatever your
regular school hours during the day and then practice was
always is right after school for them, and then go
home and study after that. I mean, I think that
(02:05):
high school football is like the least demanding in terms
of commitment. I don't know if there's any like we
had the basketball we had like you know, AAU teams
and stuff like that that was year round. I don't
think football does that, just because the physical nature of
the sport. But I would say that high school's probably
easier to balance that for study time. But then when
(02:25):
you get into college, like, yeah, you just mentioned forget it,
Like those guys have to have like tutors and all
sorts of stuff to try to make sure that they
get their work finished, because then you also have to
think about their traveling so for games and stuff like that.
So I think it's just more of time management more
than anything. I mean, collegiate athletes are badass. When you
(02:47):
think about you're still trying to go to school, you're
trying to get your degree, you have all the other stuff.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
It's like, yeah, echo brave.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
I'm sorry if that didn't really answer the question, but
I want to learn more about you being Italian because
that's interesting.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
I do too. I love that.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Okay, Tristan Elizabeth, what's a self care thing I should
start doing for myself weekly, monthly to treat myself. I
think we spoke about it a million times today. I
love getting a facial, especially as you're getting older, just
to help you with your skin, give you a little
pick me up. Mm hmm, Tristan, I also say to
do I like nails if you don't want to spend
(03:24):
a lot of money on nails, don't you can just also,
like you don't get Gael and all that other stuff.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Just get a manicure.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
But I think the other one to do that doesn't
cost anything and sort of in line with what we've
been talking about on this podcast anyways, is just put
your phone down. I think that's a really big gift
you can give yourself. I've been trying to do more
of that as well, and been telling Steve to do it.
Steve is constantly on his phone constantly, and I'm like,
if you put your phone down from it one hour
(03:50):
a day, is.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
It really going to be a difference maker.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
I get, you know, we're all have different things that
we need to do, but one hour day, like the
clarity that can come from just not feeling like you're inundated.
Maybe just do that and that doesn't cost anything. So
that would be my suggestion.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Anonymous.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
My girlfriend and I have been together for two and
a half years, and long distance from LA to NYC.
I know that one any tips to make long distance
work two and a half years by coastal that is
a doozy. Aaron and I Air and I have both
done that the exact thing, the La to NYC move
great freaking flyer miles though you guys got to be
(04:29):
high standing on the old airline.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
FaceTime has really helped, I.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Think when it comes to long distance, we didn't have
I mean, FaceTime has just been like a newer thing
over the last couple of years. But Steve and I
did this the other day. Actually we I as I mentioned,
I was at the ranch.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
He was here. I was.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
It wasn't able to come back and see him before
he left again. So we did a date night over over.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
FaceTime, which is, by the way, this is so steep.
I wish I would have screenshoted it. I wish I
would have screen shot at it.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
So I take a shower, I like, have my you know,
sweats up my hair's back and slip back ponytail from
the shower and I call him and he goes, oh, shoot,
I'm not ready, And I'm like thinking, like, what does
he have to get ready for? So he calls me
back two minutes later. He has put a collared shirt
on and a suit jacket, and he has set up
candles around the table in the corner and got a
(05:23):
glass of wine and he said, Okay, now I'm ready
for our date night. I said, you know what, Steve,
You're just a real national treasure.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I want you to look nice date. I go, well,
I look insane.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
He's like, no, I just wanted you to know that
I care anyway, So set up a date night, so
FaceTime and then I don't know what is just some
of your suggestions. Man, No, I to be honest with you,
we are in long distance relationships for about six months
out of the year. I mean we are, and like,
even when I'm home, I can't say that I'm fully
present because I'm doing other things. I'm on I'm more
(05:58):
married to my job during the NFL season because you
have to be with the time and all that. So
I would say the putting the phone down applies here
when you are with your significant other. If you can
the date night however way you can.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I even like get to the point where it's like communication.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
If like I have to run and go do something,
and Jarrett is you know here, I'm like, I got
to get in the car, but I'm gonna call you
as soon as I get in the car because I
just want to talk to you and see how you
are and check in. Even if I'm running to something.
I just think communication is so so big when you
guys are apart, it's really really hard. I love that,
And I also think the last thing I would say
(06:38):
on that is, Look, this is how I felt long distance.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Look.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Have those dates on your calendar marked where you're going
to see each other or you know you have somebody
to look forward to, so doesn't feel so daunting like
oh it's going to be months. Like give yourself little
kind of moments of you know, excitement where you know
you're going to see each other. All right, nudes be
present when you are around each other. Beca I just
moved into a new apartment complex. I met one of
my new neighbors upon moving in, and he's so cute.
(07:04):
I've only run into him in passing and a couple
of times and want to strike a convo. How do
I get him to notice me? And how do I
find out if he's single?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Cute? Ask? Are you single? Wow? I would never have
the balls to do that.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
I was gonna say, you would do that, now you wouldn't. No,
I would never do that either. You know what I
would be doing. I would be checking his Instagram. Well,
when you're not taking a break from Instagram.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Whenever you're allowed.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, start with Instagram and then I would figure out
like where you can kind of get into Like well,
that sounds weird, like you're, you know, monitoring his every move,
but you know it's like if he were certain hours
that he works, like if you see him at the
same time every day, I don't know, or like on
the weekends something like that.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
I think that's so cute.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
I always envision like myself like in a melrose Place,
like falling in love with the neighbor and like you have.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
That whole thing, remember melrose Place?
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Or yeah, yeah, what's that? So was I two two
seven was like an old old like show based on
an apartment complex. Cute three company old like I'm really
dating myself Three's company.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
That's me Anica Kevin from Always Janet. Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
I wouldn't erin and I don't have the uh cojones
to just ask if you're single, But I think that
you can do a little scouting report and sniffing around.
You know.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Also if you know anybody else in the what do
we got?
Speaker 1 (08:39):
What do we got?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
What do we got?
Speaker 1 (08:41):
Well? I was just thinking also rom com moment, like
you've gone out with your girlfriends. You're fumbling around in
your purse looking for your keys. He's getting in and
you're like, you've had a couple and you're like, you
know what, I'm just gonna ask you, are you dating someone? Like?
You know the whole like, bumble bumble for my keys?
Now I'm fumble, bumbling over my words. I'm an asshole.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Wait, that's cute. You know what I instantly thought of
for that?
Speaker 1 (09:06):
Do you remember the movie with Kate Hudson and then
the cute brunette I'm gonna forget her name. She's also
and he's just not that into you, and it's it's
based on Emily griffin book Something Borrowed?
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Maybe? Is that what I'm thinking of?
Speaker 1 (09:20):
What great em So when I used to read books
on the regular, these were the books I was reading
Emily Griffin. But she had some great books that they
made into rom coms.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Cassie G. How funny is it? Well, I can lift
my phone up.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
How funny is it when men in the bar are
arguing with each other about sports or sports trivia and
they're both wrong?
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Meanwhile, I know the answer. What would you do? Answers?
Stay quiet or let it go? I'm going to tell
you right now, Aaron's not staying quiet. Nope, not there.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
She won't make your single, but she is going to
tell you the answer to that trivia question. You're stupid,
yours just the answer it actually would be.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
No, this is what she would do. They're at the
other table over here, and she's like, okay, we get it.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Uh huh yeah, and actually it's this and it's that,
but thank you, keep your voices down and then go
back over to our table, my gal.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, I don't think.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
Yeah, she would do the same fucking thing. Come on,
come on, Cassy, come on. That's happened to us before though,
where people have been saying stuff and we're like, yeah,
anyways whatever. Oh really, let me FaceTime him and he
can tell you now that's stupid.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I would never do that part. Okay, you guys.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Aaron and this lipstick that she reminds me of my
sweet grandma rest in Peace, where she would take it
out of her purse.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
That was Honestly, that's such.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
A sweet I'm not calling you a grandma, but it's
such a sweet grandma thing where they always were reapplying
their lipstick that technique that you're doing is different though
I don't know the dot dot dot dot technique on lipstick.
Ttok oh god, I did You're not anymore?
Speaker 2 (11:08):
No anyout? Okay Anonymous.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
I started seeing someone new and one of my close
friends won't stop asking for pictures of him, close up
of the face, a full body shot. How do I
tell her to stop being weird? I need my friends
to think my boyfriends are attractive. I don't need my
friends to think my boyfriends are attractive. I don't want
their approval. Oh yeah, that's weird, Like that's weird. Why
(11:35):
are you asking for like a montage of photos? Well, yeah,
I don't think it's weird to ask for a picture,
that's that's normal. But I think that it's weird to
ask for the full body shot. Imagine if you just
wanted dating Jared and I was like, send me a
full body shot of him.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
You'd be like, I need the fuck. No, we're not
doing that.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
I think you know how this happened, Like if someone
was to send, like, I don't know, like a picture,
I mean, fuck, even of ourselves. I just said, like, Jared, fack, fact,
you're looking for like the best picture of even if
she says she doesn't want their approval. That's fine, but
I totally think it's normal where it's like you want
(12:16):
to send like the best version of the person, right,
like sending a picture like if Steve said, you know,
this is what happens too. Another reason to stay off
the internet, Like think about the Google images of us? No,
like the Google image or like when they do articles,
it's like they always take the worst fucking picture and I'm.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
Like, I've given you seventy five good ones.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
They're right there on Instagram, Okay, seventy five seventy five,
and you want to take the one of the terrible
angle from the Getty images from god knows what year
where I was seventeen, drinks in on a red carpet
thinking I was all cute, posy like this, and it's
like I can't get rid of these images. I mean,
who do I have to pay to get rid of
(12:57):
shitty images?
Speaker 2 (12:58):
I just swear to God, serious season desist. Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
Any who back to you, Anonymous, tell your girlfriend to
stop being a weirdo and just send her, just send
her one picture of him and be like, hey, you're
gonna love this guy. He makes me happy. Can't wait
for you guys to meet. You can ask him to
take your shirt off when you see him in person.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
Don't be weird.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
That is perfectly said, but I also think you should
lead with the how do I tell her to stop
being weird?
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Be like you're being weird?
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Like before, you just have to take like that juice
and say it, you're being weird.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
He's great, like, just do that. Blame it on us
being weird. Juice.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Take that juice, juice, juice, Shelby, drink your juice and
be like, Okay, you're being weird.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
Stop it. Aaron did that.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
So I was pining over something, yeah a few weeks ago,
and I was going on I thought about that about it,
and she stopped me, and she goes, Okay, what's going
on here? This is what I'm saying. You're you're so
good about saying what everybody else. Yeah, but like you're
good at diagnosing the thing. You're like, Okay, there's something
else going on here, and sometimes there isn't, Like sometimes
(14:11):
it could just be like no, I don't know, I'm
just blabbering on. But no, you're very good about that
where you're like, hey, there's something else happening here, Let's
workshop it, let's work through.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
It, because enough is enough.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
But yeah, happening Now I think it's interesting. Yeah no,
but now I think it's interesting because I get worked
up over the same thing and your situation isn't the
same as mine.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Why am I.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
Worked up over it? Because I'm protective of you and him? Yeah,
the same way that I'm protective of the person. It's
like a domino effect. So since it's affecting, the first
domino falls and anyways, there's a whole underlying situation here,
so it's probably boring for the listeners. But the idea
behind this conversation is when somebody hurts somebody close to you,
(14:57):
then you get defensive and you want to protect them.
So yeah, but I don't know if that's in your situation, Anonymous,
just say stop being weird and if your friend gets
weird about it, keep it moving whatever. Send us a picture. Yeah, exactly. Okay, gal,
you're just as cute as can be. I can't even
take it.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
I can't wait to see your new eyebrows.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Oh yeah, oh god, I'm going to be calling you
tomorrow crying. If they're like if I come back to
this everything he's done. If I come back to this
podcast next week and I've got sharpy eyebrows, sh it's
going down.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
It's going I say.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
This, and I'll due respect to Lynn, who does a
great job on your nails. She's not doing that, is she?
Speaker 2 (15:37):
No?
Speaker 1 (15:38):
No, the micro waiting Okay, I mean, I mean you
get a lot of things. Oh, you're right, you're right. Yeah,
she is doing my breast augmentation the next fall. So
it's fine.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
I was going to say, you get your paps done there,
you know, I mean I will if I don't.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
If Lynn did micro needle or get pap snares, I
just do them there because it is just line them up.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
I'm at the car wash. I'll take one of everything,
and we thank you.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
How we we are so sorry, so sorry, I say,
stop being weird.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
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Speaker 2 (00:13):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I love when you guys writing some questions, comments and concerns.
So I see a few anonyms on here, which makes
me excited. We'll start with Echo Brave eighty six. I'm Italian.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Ooh jealous.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
I'm interested in how the high school football works in
terms of compatibility with study time.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Huh WHOA.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
I'm not sure exactly what that question means. Do you
can you disseminate what that means? How much time I
can take to learn football?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
What did she mean? Do you think? Oh?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Or how do high schoolers balance study time and high
school football? I don't know, ride, Do you have any
clarification on this?
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Just go pone A not inmcatibility to study time?
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Okay, but I do like, yeah, that's probably the line
of question that makes sense because it's high school football.
Don't do that with your face. I know you and
I are going to do this whole podcast next next week.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
This tape. We should get the tape. Do you think
it works? He guys, no, tail of the tape if
it did more people would be doing it, but I
would like to try.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
How about these people? How about these people are like,
I don't do botox anymore. I just use the tape.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
No knock it off. That's a that's a lot. That's
a lot. You're not fooling anyone. Okay, well, we're going.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
To come back as soon as I get my headphone here,
Echo bravy. You know we're going to do We're not
going to come back because Echo Brave can't clarify this
for us. We are going to answer it the way
that it's perfect.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
So let's see.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I would say my brother was the high school quarterback,
Go Tyson Go. I would say it was one of
those things where you know, you go to whatever your
regular school hours during the day and then practice was
always is right after school for them, and then go
home and study after that. I mean, I think that
(02:05):
high school football is like the least demanding in terms
of commitment. I don't know if there's any like we
had the basketball we had like you know, AAU teams
and stuff like that that was year round. I don't
think football does that, just because the physical nature of
the sport. But I would say that high school's probably
easier to balance that for study time. But then when
(02:25):
you get into college, like, yeah, you just mentioned forget it,
Like those guys have to have like tutors and all
sorts of stuff to try to make sure that they
get their work finished, because then you also have to
think about their traveling so for games and stuff like that.
So I think it's just more of time management more
than anything. I mean, collegiate athletes are badass. When you
(02:47):
think about you're still trying to go to school, you're
trying to get your degree, you have all the other stuff.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
It's like, yeah, echo brave.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
I'm sorry if that didn't really answer the question, but
I want to learn more about you being Italian because
that's interesting.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
I do too. I love that.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Okay, Tristan Elizabeth, what's a self care thing I should
start doing for myself weekly, monthly to treat myself. I
think we spoke about it a million times today. I
love getting a facial, especially as you're getting older, just
to help you with your skin, give you a little
pick me up. Mm hmm, Tristan, I also say to
do I like nails if you don't want to spend
(03:24):
a lot of money on nails, don't you can just also,
like you don't get Gael and all that other stuff.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Just get a manicure.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
But I think the other one to do that doesn't
cost anything and sort of in line with what we've
been talking about on this podcast anyways, is just put
your phone down. I think that's a really big gift
you can give yourself. I've been trying to do more
of that as well, and been telling Steve to do it.
Steve is constantly on his phone constantly, and I'm like,
if you put your phone down from it one hour
(03:50):
a day, is.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
It really going to be a difference maker.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
I get, you know, we're all have different things that
we need to do, but one hour day, like the
clarity that can come from just not feeling like you're inundated.
Maybe just do that and that doesn't cost anything. So
that would be my suggestion.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Anonymous.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
My girlfriend and I have been together for two and
a half years, and long distance from LA to NYC.
I know that one any tips to make long distance
work two and a half years by coastal that is
a doozy. Aaron and I Air and I have both
done that the exact thing, the La to NYC move
great freaking flyer miles though you guys got to be
(04:29):
high standing on the old airline.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
FaceTime has really helped, I.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Think when it comes to long distance, we didn't have
I mean, FaceTime has just been like a newer thing
over the last couple of years. But Steve and I
did this the other day. Actually we I as I mentioned,
I was at the ranch.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
He was here. I was.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
It wasn't able to come back and see him before
he left again. So we did a date night over over.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
FaceTime, which is, by the way, this is so steep.
I wish I would have screenshoted it. I wish I
would have screen shot at it.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
So I take a shower, I like, have my you know,
sweats up my hair's back and slip back ponytail from
the shower and I call him and he goes, oh, shoot,
I'm not ready, And I'm like thinking, like, what does
he have to get ready for? So he calls me
back two minutes later. He has put a collared shirt
on and a suit jacket, and he has set up
candles around the table in the corner and got a
(05:23):
glass of wine and he said, Okay, now I'm ready
for our date night. I said, you know what, Steve,
You're just a real national treasure.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I want you to look nice date. I go, well,
I look insane.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
He's like, no, I just wanted you to know that
I care anyway, So set up a date night, so
FaceTime and then I don't know what is just some
of your suggestions. Man, No, I to be honest with you,
we are in long distance relationships for about six months
out of the year. I mean we are, and like,
even when I'm home, I can't say that I'm fully
present because I'm doing other things. I'm on I'm more
(05:58):
married to my job during the NFL season because you
have to be with the time and all that. So
I would say the putting the phone down applies here
when you are with your significant other. If you can
the date night however way you can.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I even like get to the point where it's like communication.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
If like I have to run and go do something,
and Jarrett is you know here, I'm like, I got
to get in the car, but I'm gonna call you
as soon as I get in the car because I
just want to talk to you and see how you
are and check in. Even if I'm running to something.
I just think communication is so so big when you
guys are apart, it's really really hard. I love that,
And I also think the last thing I would say
(06:38):
on that is, Look, this is how I felt long distance.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Look.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Have those dates on your calendar marked where you're going
to see each other or you know you have somebody
to look forward to, so doesn't feel so daunting like
oh it's going to be months. Like give yourself little
kind of moments of you know, excitement where you know
you're going to see each other. All right, nudes be
present when you are around each other. Beca I just
moved into a new apartment complex. I met one of
my new neighbors upon moving in, and he's so cute.
(07:04):
I've only run into him in passing and a couple
of times and want to strike a convo. How do
I get him to notice me? And how do I
find out if he's single?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Cute? Ask? Are you single? Wow? I would never have
the balls to do that.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
I was gonna say, you would do that, now you wouldn't. No,
I would never do that either. You know what I
would be doing. I would be checking his Instagram. Well,
when you're not taking a break from Instagram.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Whenever you're allowed.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, start with Instagram and then I would figure out
like where you can kind of get into Like well,
that sounds weird, like you're, you know, monitoring his every move,
but you know it's like if he were certain hours
that he works, like if you see him at the
same time every day, I don't know, or like on
the weekends something like that.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
I think that's so cute.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
I always envision like myself like in a melrose Place,
like falling in love with the neighbor and like you have.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
That whole thing, remember melrose Place?
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Or yeah, yeah, what's that? So was I two two
seven was like an old old like show based on
an apartment complex. Cute three company old like I'm really
dating myself Three's company.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
That's me Anica Kevin from Always Janet. Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
I wouldn't erin and I don't have the uh cojones
to just ask if you're single, But I think that
you can do a little scouting report and sniffing around.
You know.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Also if you know anybody else in the what do
we got?
Speaker 1 (08:39):
What do we got?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
What do we got?
Speaker 1 (08:41):
Well? I was just thinking also rom com moment, like
you've gone out with your girlfriends. You're fumbling around in
your purse looking for your keys. He's getting in and
you're like, you've had a couple and you're like, you
know what, I'm just gonna ask you, are you dating someone? Like?
You know the whole like, bumble bumble for my keys?
Now I'm fumble, bumbling over my words. I'm an asshole.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Wait, that's cute. You know what I instantly thought of
for that?
Speaker 1 (09:06):
Do you remember the movie with Kate Hudson and then
the cute brunette I'm gonna forget her name. She's also
and he's just not that into you, and it's it's
based on Emily griffin book Something Borrowed?
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Maybe? Is that what I'm thinking of?
Speaker 1 (09:20):
What great em So when I used to read books
on the regular, these were the books I was reading
Emily Griffin. But she had some great books that they
made into rom coms.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Cassie G. How funny is it? Well, I can lift
my phone up.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
How funny is it when men in the bar are
arguing with each other about sports or sports trivia and
they're both wrong?
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Meanwhile, I know the answer. What would you do? Answers?
Stay quiet or let it go? I'm going to tell
you right now, Aaron's not staying quiet. Nope, not there.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
She won't make your single, but she is going to
tell you the answer to that trivia question. You're stupid,
yours just the answer it actually would be.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
No, this is what she would do. They're at the
other table over here, and she's like, okay, we get it.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Uh huh yeah, and actually it's this and it's that,
but thank you, keep your voices down and then go
back over to our table, my gal.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, I don't think.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
Yeah, she would do the same fucking thing. Come on,
come on, Cassy, come on. That's happened to us before though,
where people have been saying stuff and we're like, yeah,
anyways whatever. Oh really, let me FaceTime him and he
can tell you now that's stupid.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I would never do that part. Okay, you guys.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Aaron and this lipstick that she reminds me of my
sweet grandma rest in Peace, where she would take it
out of her purse.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
That was Honestly, that's such.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
A sweet I'm not calling you a grandma, but it's
such a sweet grandma thing where they always were reapplying
their lipstick that technique that you're doing is different though
I don't know the dot dot dot dot technique on lipstick.
Ttok oh god, I did You're not anymore?
Speaker 2 (11:08):
No anyout? Okay Anonymous.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
I started seeing someone new and one of my close
friends won't stop asking for pictures of him, close up
of the face, a full body shot. How do I
tell her to stop being weird? I need my friends
to think my boyfriends are attractive. I don't need my
friends to think my boyfriends are attractive. I don't want
their approval. Oh yeah, that's weird, Like that's weird. Why
(11:35):
are you asking for like a montage of photos? Well, yeah,
I don't think it's weird to ask for a picture,
that's that's normal. But I think that it's weird to
ask for the full body shot. Imagine if you just
wanted dating Jared and I was like, send me a
full body shot of him.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
You'd be like, I need the fuck. No, we're not
doing that.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
I think you know how this happened, Like if someone
was to send, like, I don't know, like a picture,
I mean, fuck, even of ourselves. I just said, like, Jared, fack, fact,
you're looking for like the best picture of even if
she says she doesn't want their approval. That's fine, but
I totally think it's normal where it's like you want
(12:16):
to send like the best version of the person, right,
like sending a picture like if Steve said, you know,
this is what happens too. Another reason to stay off
the internet, Like think about the Google images of us? No,
like the Google image or like when they do articles,
it's like they always take the worst fucking picture and I'm.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
Like, I've given you seventy five good ones.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
They're right there on Instagram, Okay, seventy five seventy five,
and you want to take the one of the terrible
angle from the Getty images from god knows what year
where I was seventeen, drinks in on a red carpet
thinking I was all cute, posy like this, and it's
like I can't get rid of these images. I mean,
who do I have to pay to get rid of
(12:57):
shitty images?
Speaker 2 (12:58):
I just swear to God, serious season desist. Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
Any who back to you, Anonymous, tell your girlfriend to
stop being a weirdo and just send her, just send
her one picture of him and be like, hey, you're
gonna love this guy. He makes me happy. Can't wait
for you guys to meet. You can ask him to
take your shirt off when you see him in person.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
Don't be weird.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
That is perfectly said, but I also think you should
lead with the how do I tell her to stop
being weird?
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Be like you're being weird?
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Like before, you just have to take like that juice
and say it, you're being weird.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
He's great, like, just do that. Blame it on us
being weird. Juice.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Take that juice, juice, juice, Shelby, drink your juice and
be like, Okay, you're being weird.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
Stop it. Aaron did that.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
So I was pining over something, yeah a few weeks ago,
and I was going on I thought about that about it,
and she stopped me, and she goes, Okay, what's going
on here? This is what I'm saying. You're you're so
good about saying what everybody else. Yeah, but like you're
good at diagnosing the thing. You're like, Okay, there's something
else going on here, and sometimes there isn't, Like sometimes
(14:11):
it could just be like no, I don't know, I'm
just blabbering on. But no, you're very good about that
where you're like, hey, there's something else happening here, Let's
workshop it, let's work through.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
It, because enough is enough.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
But yeah, happening Now I think it's interesting. Yeah no,
but now I think it's interesting because I get worked
up over the same thing and your situation isn't the
same as mine.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Why am I.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
Worked up over it? Because I'm protective of you and him? Yeah,
the same way that I'm protective of the person. It's
like a domino effect. So since it's affecting, the first
domino falls and anyways, there's a whole underlying situation here,
so it's probably boring for the listeners. But the idea
behind this conversation is when somebody hurts somebody close to you,
(14:57):
then you get defensive and you want to protect them.
So yeah, but I don't know if that's in your situation, Anonymous,
just say stop being weird and if your friend gets
weird about it, keep it moving whatever. Send us a picture. Yeah, exactly. Okay, gal,
you're just as cute as can be. I can't even
take it.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
I can't wait to see your new eyebrows.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Oh yeah, oh god, I'm going to be calling you
tomorrow crying. If they're like if I come back to
this everything he's done. If I come back to this
podcast next week and I've got sharpy eyebrows, sh it's
going down.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
It's going I say.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
This, and I'll due respect to Lynn, who does a
great job on your nails. She's not doing that, is she?
Speaker 2 (15:37):
No?
Speaker 1 (15:38):
No, the micro waiting Okay, I mean, I mean you
get a lot of things. Oh, you're right, you're right. Yeah,
she is doing my breast augmentation the next fall. So
it's fine.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
I was going to say, you get your paps done there,
you know, I mean I will if I don't.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
If Lynn did micro needle or get pap snares, I
just do them there because it is just line them up.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
I'm at the car wash. I'll take one of everything,
and we thank you.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
How we we are so sorry, so sorry, I say,
stop being weird.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
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