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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back
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on the head. Welcome back to another episode of Carefully Reckless.
I'm here with my best friend Shana again. I don't
know how she ended up back on my couch, but
she's here. Say what that? What that? What that? What that?
I know, y'all miss me, I'm bike. Yeah, So we're
gonna First of all, they've been big No I even
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know you answer, you're not even getting my are you right?
Even though even though what's up? Yeah? That's fight later.
So this week we're gonna do a comparison question there
all right. That's when I asked our ship, and you know,
I give my commentary, she gives me her commentary, and
then she asked me ships, so on and so forth.
All right, My first question to you, what would you
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do if your partner told you that they were too
tired to meet up with you after work? You know,
you just might want to see them whatever, But you
look on their Instagram a couple of hours later, uh,
and in their story you see them with that bitches,
you know, you see her were friends and ship and
you know whatever, and she don't look tight, and she
don't look tied. She's very much giving something like very much,
very doing, very much doing something everything. Okay, Yeah, I'm
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gonna had to come up in there where they at
first of all, before you get to the I'm gonna
go exactly where they at. Yeah, but and cut up
so with that, then make you text our phone like yo,
what the fuck? Like what's that? What would you pop up?
So you would just pop You wouldn't even head of phone.
You were just popped pulling up. Okay, okay, And you're
gonna what you wanna do when you get a need?
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You want me to sit down here? Yeah, that's carefully reckless.
What you're gonna killing? Yeah, hearn a couple of other people.
Oh my god, you can't in the area, you know,
it's like whoever in the area. Yea, they make an
announcement the DJE DJ mind you, this is not your wife.
This is just your girl. Maybe somebody even talking to you,
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just talking to him, just met, and you're gonna get
so y'all see the type of female she is. Person
she is. She's very untrustable. I'm very like dangerous, big dangerous.
So don't ever play with her. Um, I didn't even
know this about her myself. If you just if you
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just got to talking to her, just know, like, don't
lae to her, and you've done a lot of time
when you say you're tiring, please be tired me all right.
If I was never predicting it, if Nigga told me, look,
I'm tired, I'm just getting off of work or whatever,
and you know I want to see him, and he's
two time for me, but he ain't two tried to
end up with his niggas at the end of the night,
I would feel some type of way. I'm gonna definitely
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feel some type of way. You know. You might not
pull up, although I've done that several times before, which
never really did anything, because after that I was done
with you anyway, Like yeah, you know, I just needed
for you to see me here, like okay, because you
definitely told me the chance you pass like you don't
even say yeah, y'all, yeah, yeah, I just want you
to see I don't even want come to go for you.
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Yeah the party didn't try to slide out the back
like I ain't see you, but I'm gonna definitely give
you attacks. I'm gonna text you like, okay, so I
think it's I think it's funny you know that text
that ship. That's all I didn't think how you was
too tired just see me? But you end up party
and smoking. Who could drinking and ship with your homies
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and cool. So if you want to be Gaby Gave,
just stay there, just say that because that's what it's giving.
First of all, we're not even gonna talk about the
Gates to day, not today because loons X was that that?
Matt Gala like, what's that? Los X was a big
pregnant last week? Was sun here the baby? What's up?
Wait's that? Yeah? So I got another question for you,
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Yeah exactly, since y'a Gates think y'all know everything. So
what's your question for me? Since you're for is how
do you feel about the gays? They know I love them.
There are something I can do without, just like any
other sexuality, there are some straights I can do without.
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But you know, a lot of the gays they love
me and I love them back. Some of the ones,
it's way too many for me to say, he hand,
go down the list, stop sucking playing with me like
um listen, Since we on this topic, I feel like,
you know, Lord Nors acts like he wants people to
not like him, like he really really wants that like him.
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I know he don't give a funk, and that's cool,
this is the thing, and he I know you love it.
That's cool, y'all, you know, you all together. But at
the same time, no, I was, and that's why I'm
not because all the ship you'll be doing, but you was,
but I gave it up. So yeah, I just feel
like a lot of things that he say and he
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and he do, it's just like, uh huh, it's a lot.
It's a lot, and it's too much. We extra, what's up?
We're really extra? What's up? No, no, no, you're not
axios a no no not If that's who he is
and that's just who then is that? I feel like
like the ones we he said, stop hiding behind your
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lord booger nose kids and hate gaze with your chest.
You don't feel like enough people hate you with their chest.
You don't feel like enough people hated you and your
whole community. It's not about only you, like it's it's
really not. And then honestly, honestly, don't even feel like
people even care if this Nick is gay anymore. It's
all of the ship that he do and then turn
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around and be like, oh y'all, y'all, Oh yeah, y'all.
I think it was more so about the kids, like
people their kids are watching him, you know, and the
things that he's doing. But being pregnant. Yeah, yeah, but
maybe he's like a male seahorse or something. I mean
that feel like, I mean he probably was, you got,
But anyway, listen, he brings a lot of that negativity
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to himself. And that's just my honest opinion. Um, not
all of it, you know, because you got and the
clouds and in the shadows hovering and ship and that's
you know, like Boosty going a little free fall with
a lot of ship? Did he say about show? You
know what I'm saying, Like, at the end of the day,
he's still a person, and he's gonna be himself and
he deserves to be who the funk he is, Boosty.
You are who you are, you know, And I still
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love Boosey. But one thing that we can say about Boosey,
he's never changed anything, you know what I'm saying, Like,
he's always gonna be himself. You know what I mean.
So so no, it's just being himself right, Maybe that is, yeah,
but no, he was not like this, No, no, no,
after he came out, he wasn't like that. Like he wasn't.
I just felt like, you do a lot of ship
just because he know he's gonna get these reactions. He
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know that. You know what I'm saying. Maybe that's what
I'm saying. Maybe, but from what we've ain't from Booty,
is what I'm saying is he's always been the same nigga.
He was like period, So you're saying people can't change.
People can change. Did Lon channgels that who he is? Oh?
Why so? Now asked me? Oh yeah, I'm done with
the Geese. I mean, oh, so we got the answer
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to the question, how do you feel about gay? She's
done with up y'all answers. Now, let's go next question.
Oh my god, that's why the fun even only because
you're gonna get me canceled. Bitch. All right? Anyway, second question,
if your best friend was sucking with somebody that you
thought was interested in the same sex as them, would
you tell them? Basically, if you thought my nigga was gay,
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would you tell me when I tell you if you
if I thought your nigga was gay, If you thought so,
maybe you've seen some mannrhythms or maybe or maybe you've
seen them. We've been there on this road though in
real life. All right, what's what you think? You ain't
never saying no nigga I was with no niggas. Yeah,
let's yeah, if we're gonna be honest, let's give it
de sails. Well, now I ain't seen him with no niggas.
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But you said any uh, you know, like hand gestures
and things so that. So yeah, Chris's girl. Yeah, definitely
used to big throw the hand. Yeah, but I thought
you mean like you've seen the nigga I was working
with with nigga. I was gonna say, no, we ain't
ever I have seen your nigga with nigga? Who you bitch?
You forever want to be a fucking clown. That's why
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this is your last can't But why are you? Why
are you like? Who? I like? Lou? Because you ain't
never give me this info, but I deserve to know. Then, Yeah,
so my axes was given very much. Yeah, little man
resins and then that one time bitch, I remember I said,
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giving it again and I made left my little nail
in a little butthole and hand was like Neil was
scoring one here. You did that? You know I did
because I told you the same night. Remember I ran
in the bed from and that's what. Oh yeah you did.
But that's all right, y'all. He's good now. But I'm
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just saying, it's like he got a baby. You got
a baby. And then just because you know he I
slipped my finger this but by mistake and hent react
on me. He gay? You know, I don't mean that
at all. That does not mean that you ga extract
daddy and think they will be like, no, he's still
fullfully straight. We're getting off the topic. What would you
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tell would you tell me? Because already yeah, alright, so
safe if I get dating now, if you thought he
was gay, would you tell me? You know, we talked
so about everything. Yeah, so I would hint. I would
probably hit around it first to see what your energy
give or what you you know you are, or if
you noticed certain things that I noticed. But um, you know,
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I don't really be giving the fun for real, because Amy,
that's why you can't find nobody. Now, that's but anyway,
what you got somebody. Nah, right, So if you were
talking with somebody that I thought it was straight, what
I tell you? Because you gay, so it can't. But
I was. I was working with a girl you thought
she was straight? Yeah, and I knew she was still
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sucking a nigga or I ain't know what a nigga?
Oh yeah, I'm definitely. First of all, I would ask you.
I would be like, um, did she is she by
or did she used to be by or you know,
and then you would be like, did she have a
brother uncle? Because I've seen her like tonguing down dead
I've seen And then they went to the car and
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she talked them, and then they came back and they
came back and they kept on enjoying the strippers together.
So now, and you're my best friend, yeah, yeah, So honestly,
I would just ask her like, no, no, no, no no,
asked somebody a question that did all that to me? Honestly,
you know matter, I would just be like, you'd be
with my best friend. We're not asking no questions? Why
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are you asking her questions? And she did all let
no no, if she did all that, no, bit ain't
no questions. I'm beating up. No it's not that. But
I'm just saying, like, if I see her over the nigger,
I'll just be like, hey, you didn't know, Hi, sir,
you know Shana h Yeah, hello, you know, let's call her.
Seeing all that ax ray to ship like they fucking
and all that stucking and all that, I'm definitely snatching
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her jo snatch them all up, not joining because you
get straight. So no, I'm not. And you want people
to take my girl, take take off, change the narrative.
All right. Now, we got a commercial, and if you
click off this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen.
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Do you have a question for me? Of course I did.
Oh wow, that's funny because my question is, how do
you feel about females who date guys but want to
have a girl on the side. Wow, that is a
good one. I feel like they're bisexual or by curious.
I mean, listen, now, listen, listen, but they don't want
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to let that nigga go, but they want to have
that little on the side. Now listen me. I used
to be like, Okay, I want my boyfriend and I
want to have fun with girls on the side, but
I can't see myself with a girl. But that doesn't
excuse the fact that people may think that that's bisexual.
And it is right, yeah, right. Even though you can't
see yourself with a girl, don't mean you ain't sucking none.
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So that's where I was um for a while. I
feel like, live your motherucking life to the fullest. I mean,
I've retired that part of myself, but I really feel like, no,
there's nothing wrong with that. Is the guy knows you're wrong.
Wonder why you're wrong because last week you were saying,
oh no, you can't be swapping nixing fluid. Remember you
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said that, Yeah that was that's two niggas on the
cross contaminationship. Yeah, you can't be playing with um. You
can't get a dad and sexuality like that. But like
I said, if if that nigga know, like look, oh
my god, but I do have you know what I'm saying, Yeah,
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or I have multiple checks, like so I had to
understand it. I have to understand it. And that's cool,
that's fair. You can't high and and you have to
tell them girls to like that girl be hurt. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying. You have to tell her
like look, I do have a nigger. You know what
I'm saying. You gotta let everybody know everything upfront, because
you save a lot of dirt being put out there
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on you and ship you. You save a lot of
that ship and then you save people developing insecurities. You
save a lot of Oh my gosh, it's just a
bunch of just having to understand that. Yeah, just having
an understanding. I feel like that's cool. What you feel
about it, that's cool as long as you have an understanding.
It's sneaky ash it if you don't. But I just
know what what the outcome gonna be in the end
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of it's gonna be like them girls. Now you're like
the funk with straight bitches. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you put
my shot. Then you love taking a bit from the nigger.
I don't like straight girls girls like me, and I
like them back like straight girls. And yeah, what what
you do is you don't like girls that's already gay
like you do? You do? You do like girls who
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are already gay. But if they got too many girl
bodies on the missip And if you know somebody, because
you know a lot of people, if you know withies either,
I know, I know what I'm saying, if you know
a bit because you're in that community and all, y'all
don't hate me up with a lot of people know
your ass and if you girls over there, you don't wanna.
And that's what I learned about your ass. You like
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never before, you like to be a bit first, All right?
Uh do you like to be a bit first? To No,
I don't and I never will. So yeah, because only
one girl in my life, like she lied to me
and said she said, but she said I was the first. Yeah,
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why ain't you be? No, you're not our best for
no more. You can't say that you was some don't lie.
Wait a minute, I got a question. What happened a
few weeks back, Like we all was come and come down.
We're all was having a good time. Everybody was coming on,
you know, on the show and sitting on this reggled
ass couch with you and talking, and all of a
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sudden it was like, yeah, so I'm gonna just do
my story time. Yeah, because y'all don't need to be
here all the sound I wanna And for my fucking
fans who want to just hear me and not your
beau FLP talk shit all day, did you flop? Oh baby,
I can never that's what y'all dout the what y'all
regular asses? Yeah, and all the other guests, what's that?
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But you don't ever fucking question me about what I
do with my ship on my couch that you're not
gonna help me repairs. That's just so regular. I'm damn
that inside the couch. Yeah, that's on you. It's extra soft.
It's a lazy boy, bitch. Yeah, and you look, I
can lazy boy. So yeah, honestly, no, truly what it
is is, you know a lot of my fans, how
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I started this, I never I didn't have guests, so
you know, I would talk on I would speak on
serious topics and I would give like, you know, insight
and information that people would use, you know about the
topics that I talked about. And I guess I kind
of put the stigma on my podcasts that it would
be serious hence carefully reckless, where sometimes the bitch gotta
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be funny. Sometimes I want to bring other personalities on here, um,
people probably who are closer to me and and bring
out my more fun side that y'all don't even get
to see online because y'all don't even see me with
these people. Y'all know who she is, y'all know who
other people are, but y'all don't get to see me
around them and fight as much, you know what I'm saying,
Like you may see a story hand there or whatever
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we go out, but when we actually really conversating, Man,
my best friend be having fun. We talk about everything.
It's something. Even though this is carefully reckless and you
cannot cancel nobody's podcast, Nigga, I would be canceled in
a minute if you really really heard the ship that
me and her stage to each other, you know what
I mean, Like it ain't been detrimental to other communities,
it should, I say, we say to each other that
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y'all may feel like friends, like wow, they must really
hate they hate it. They really don't like each other
at all. I mean, like, no, y'all think Karesha and
Santana something maybe and we love them, but listen, y'all
wouldn't be able to take us, you know what I'm saying,
Like m and y'all were cringe so deeply, but no,
like I gotta cash for you there and ship, since
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you asked me asking me why did the momentum stop?
And why did I want to do my story time
and give my fans what the fun? They really really
won't let me. Yeah, ask you, do you have a
problem with any other guests that has been on my
show or that's coming to my show. First of all,
I don't have a problem with nobody. I don't give
a funk about nobody. Like, um, I actually like the
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way you do it now though, because you do your
you do your little um story times and ship and
then you bring one of us on here, they're like,
you know, laughing and keep it universal and you know,
just the cata to everybody. It's something a lot of
people like to hear different ships. Yeah, and people don't
even like that's what they like for me to be.
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This is what you need to do, and this is
what I'm like. They need some advice for real. Yeah,
they'd be wanting dr Philis and then they want comedian
just illarious, and then they want real Jesse from around
the way. Then they tell the truth. I'll be joking,
but I'd be telling the truth. Oh look, trust me,
they've figured that out by now. Yeah. So yeah, one
thing mind about is me being fucking gate to this
day and then honestly, my coach has not regularly. So yeah,
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I'm gonna need you to take that back. So are
you dating? No? I'm not not not dating. Um I
think someone wants to date me. It's a couple of
niggas that want you. Are you still no? No? No?
Are you dating? Yes? Okay, Well, worry about yourself and
that's the problem with people. That's another thing. People need
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to worrying about themselves everybody. You're not gonna change the
subject everybody. That's another thing. That's another time people got
the stunt. Yeah, we all know that, that's the obvious.
But we are in the world nowadays when anybody only
worried about theirselfs. So, yeah, let's talk about it. Am
I dating? Yes? Not yet? You have no contenders, no potentials.
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I might have a possible. Are you into dating more
than one person when you're trying to date or is
it no? You know I'd be like, yeah, so you
can't date more than one person? I can't. I can't either,
now who Yeah, all right, let's make it very clear.
I wasn't sucking all the niggas. I don't even do that.
Who bit shut up? I would have one for food.
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I would have one four rides, one for buy my
son's stuff, one for buying stuff. I've never been like that,
you know what I mean. Yeah, that's that's did I did.
That's when I was young, young, like my old time
of longos day, long long time ago. I've never been
like that. Well, nobody ever really wanted you so whatever.
But for me, I am dating one person now. I've
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been like that for a while though, like now for
like a good two years. What I've been like that
for like a good two years, Like I have not been.
It's just something I can't keep up with more than
one guy. I can't. You're getting lazy man. You gotta
get your ship bigger. Yeah, it's like, no, I don't
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want you to all the ship that we're talking about now,
I was talking. I was just talking about in just
the message you said I did one day fore yesterday,
day fore yesterday, yes on my day? Was that? Nah,
I haven't. You haven't watched for the mess. I ain't
even see that. I'm gonna have to check it out.
Oh wow, why you usually be like one of the
first people to watch MYSA and you one of the
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people that made me and follow you. So how the
funk I made you? Because you blocked me and unblocked me. Baby,
that was a long, long, long fig and I didn't
follow your ass back. You ain't following me back, and
that was like a year ago. First of all, you've
been following the same three people for a year now, yeah,
so what's up? And it used to be last you
don't follow me? Ain't following you, bitch. That's not the
energy you had at first before I blocked you. And
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then I'm blocked you. You already know why I'm blocked
you because you were still working with that trifling bitch
that posted my license and posted alright, a bit y'all
say she post my license, I'm not playing all right,
Well you're posted my address and my numbers and he
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was like like a day later, happy birthday, happy yeah,
And I was like, alright, you good, happy block you
bit me. I was like a whole lot, y'all. And
then you still ain't following, so you ain't see a
lot of my videos. I was doing, Yeah, what's up?
Are you can get the funk out? Honestly, because you
know you're gonna follow me. I'm follow you back if
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you want me to follow you, you gotta follow me, period,
follow these nuts. And on that note, we came to
the end of the episode. Yaw say bye to this whore.
Bye to this whore. Tune in next week Every Wednesday,
that's Toumpday and then my best pamboys, I gonna have
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