July 28, 2021 • 21 mins
Bria is back by popular demand! This time the ladies are discussing friendship boundaries. Can your friend check your man? Can you check your friend? Let's find out what Jess and Bria think
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
and the Black Effect. And just like that, we're back
(00:20):
on it and welcome to another episode of Carefully Reckless
with your girl just hilarious. And I got Bria Shannon again.
And here it's the ratings for me, I know it's
the ratings. Look Charlemagne and Gard and then told me,
like you on here, I don't know you. He don't
ain't gonna like you until he know, you know, when
he meets you with a different story. But he gonna
(00:41):
he's gonna be a little blown back by your little
ass personality. And she she she littles. Okay, so she's
four seven with a six nine personality, so whatever. Okay.
So now, like the last two episodes, Bria has always
known what we were going to talk about. But I
decided to switch it up on her today and not
(01:04):
let her know what we're talking about. I told her
I want her to go into the subject completely blind
because I feel like she funked up last night. I'm
in for a rude awake and you are in for
a rude awaken her, honey, and listen, let me tell
you this. You're my friend, I'm gonna do it, you
know what I'm saying, because most of our friends. When
(01:25):
our friends suck up and like players do, we got
to get them back on track. We can't just throw
you out there to the wolves like I'm kind of doing.
But I'm gonna let you know, definitely doing it up
last night. Okay. So anyway, this's a story time for y'all. Okay,
last night we went out to a rooftop party in
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Baltimore City and it was lit. It was freaking lit.
I'm talking about one of the most littlest rooftop parties
you could ever be at on a Monday night. Okay.
And my friend is very extras She's very short, and
you know a lot of people who are short have
these you know, big man big woman complexes, and she
(02:08):
definitely showed that last night. Okay, you were totally fine
at the rooftop party. There was an after party that
took me to. She got I did thank you to it.
I took you to. I wanted to see a special
with somebody and I wanted to go there. You took me.
I rode with her, so she felt like she was
in charge. Let's just start there. We get there. We
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get put in a section, put up nice too. I'm talking,
but it was lit. Okay, I'm listening. I looked around.
I did not see who I wanted to see. So
I looked at Bria. I said to you, y'all, I
said to her, listen, I'm not gonna be here too
much longer. If Sharon Sharrench ain't in here, right, so, no,
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that's his name, Sharon Shrench. If Shrank Shrench, I'm not
in here, I'm not I'm not gonna be What did
I say? You said, I don't see screw from so
let's go. That's what you said. I did not say that.
I said, I'm not gonna be here. I'm not gonna
be here too much longer if I don't see snu snunch.
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And he was like, all right, put let's go. But
she had to go to the bathroom. You said, are
you okay to sit here? And I said yeah, I'm good.
I'm good. I'm straight. He was like, are you sure?
I said okay. He was like, do you need me
to take your purse? I said, now, now, she's very
protective of me, y'all. This is something y'all should know.
And I do understand that everywhere we go. This girl
is my little ass bodyguard in midget for him. So
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it's like, okay, cool, that's my girl. But all right,
I get it. She goes to the bathroom, she comes back,
she ain't even sitting down for six minutes. Security roll
up like a motherfucker. I'm like, hold up, what's going
on you? No? No? So so then come out of
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nowhere right here. She yeah, came out of the ware.
It was like, oh second, so you leave it seconds
and I said, what are you talking about? Like I
didn't even know. I didn't even know. And so I
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saw it that like maybe somebody was getting put out
of the club, but they had the wrong section, bitch,
I'm talking about because security was the biggest fuck, biggest ship.
And then another motherfucker was trying to do too much
because he was trying to impress you. So you went
downstairs and told me that she was going to the bathroom.
You went down stairs, and he was like, hey, um, look,
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she ready to go. So what it is? What it is,
and she needs security to exit because I'm too short.
I imagine those were your words. And he came up
fifteen minutes later, give you this one and no, don't
give me, no, don't give me Ship my surprise with this.
I'm gonna give you this trying to you quote me,
(05:01):
but I surprised with this. Baby, Oh Nino got me.
You said you were ready to go because you did
not see whatever. But the thing about it is I
never said I was ready to go. I said, look,
I'm gonna sucking leave if I get it. Listen, no, no, no, okay, cool,
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no gout at the funk outgund. I didn't say wrong.
I just feel like you should have told me, like, look,
I got scary coming up here. We already get the
funk out of here. That's it. Put me on points.
You came back from the bathroom at K downstairs letting niggas.
No I was ready to go, and didn't tell me Ship,
So you were just like all right, cool whatever whatever
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police I mean, not the police. Basically it's big walked
up like shack, like yo, ready go, and I was like,
uh no, because then sir walked up. It seems like
he walked up with security at all. Was with him? Baby,
It wasn't. Joe. I was like dash and have said nothing.
First of all, I should have mind my business. The world,
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I should have said, look, friend, I told security to
come up because you told me that you may not
be here. You told me you wanted to go. You
told me that you ain't here, and so he ended
up coming. I think Snurch was already there but was
trying to Yeah. I think he was yeah, because I
felt like he was already there now now that i'm
thinking about it, because I didn't know this was one
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of the thing. So then i'm thinking about I'm thinking
he was already there, and then saw security coming up
to get you and came up the blue light, I'm here,
and it was like it's too late, like it was
like a thing, bitch, it will never be too late
for Snurs and so it's my god. But I was
just saying, it just had That's just the way it happened.
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And I felt like as a friend, I was being proactive,
but I may have overstepped. Listen, I'm not saying that
we're not proactive, honey, sweetheart. I just said that this
could have all been killed if you was like, look,
called whatever, whatever and whatever, we we won't be on
the way out. And not even like cool, but liked
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because I had people buying me drinks and everything. Motherfucker
was we didn't you? I know I didn't need no
more drinking. I know I was. I do know it
wasn't time to go. You you I told you that
I might not beat her anymore. He was like, all right,
time to go because she's not comfortable. Cool. Yeah, but
it's not that I'm not comfortable. I actually feel safe
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in that place. I just was like, where is that's
all showed up? He did, and once he did, what
did I do? Stayed? And that's just what y'all. He
was like, no, for real, I stayed my ass right
there and didn't listen and it was my fault. Okay,
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but look, we're not even talking. This is not even
that part. The part of it was when you kept
telling that nigga sit down like you was the principal
or something. I was trying to tell him that the
matter was calm because he arrived. That's what I was trying.
I was trying to actually please, and you was just like,
definitely that the one thing that you was you did
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anything I said. I called for security because you said
to me they you didn't see him and you were
ready to exit. Period. That's what I got out the deal,
but did not say, well, I read between the lines. Okay,
so look that's what you did. You read between the lines.
You're my friend. That's what friends do. They look out
for other friends and they may read signals a little
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wrong sometimes, but whatever, I'll take just what it was.
That's just what it was. We can't change last night.
You know what I'm saying. But that's why I wanted
to tell you and keep that ship just as real
as I can keep with you because I'm like, oh no, no, no, no, no,
frank with here in my mouth, and I kept yet
you was like, sit on, sit doing on right here
and talk to her. First of all, Mrs trench Bull,
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we're not st oh ain't you? Was like, first of all,
you wasn't here, so we had I'm like, no, so
the fun she's not talking to my man like that,
like what's going on with you? Yes? And you knew.
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So I was like, okay, all right, I got this.
And I could see he was giving you that look
like look, yeah he was because listen, I have to
understand she's very short. He was giving you that look like, look,
little mama, you better get it together because I ain't
fucking around with a little way of telling me what
the fights sucking around when no big women. He was like,
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you know, what's a great care out here? He said,
Wait a minute, No, I wouldn't never have you put out.
But no, it was just like, wait a minute, what
the hell is going away at this little this little
girl talking to me like this. Then you hand to
make up on last night? Girl? You really look like
a little kid. Girl. You wouldn't let me got the
makeup on because well, I said too, I was to
get ready and decided to get ready. That's on you.
(10:10):
You de started to get ready while a bitch was
walking to the car. Listen, that was on you. Okay,
I give your pass. So this topic would be friends
overstepping their boundaries and their friends relationships. Now you have
to imagine the shoot on the other foot, because if
I called Joe Nigga heard her, you will be like,
I'm why do you say that? That's too huhh, And
(10:31):
I'm like, no, I was talking to hu hunh because
like you know what I'm saying. So we got snursh
nursh and her hunh. So yeah, that's what we're not doing. Okay.
I would never I love this friend. Yeah, I would
never try to play I wouldn't ever try to play
out of position period. You know, even if when it
comes to you, I got you, but I don't make
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decisions for you. Like if I was making all decisions
for you, he would be like, wait a minute, I'm
dating her, not you. What I'm dating Bria, I'm not
dating you. And I do understand because at the end
of the day, I sat on Dick last night. Keep
that record, so whatever. But no, no, no, he's not
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upset with you. But he did express to me like
what was her problem? Like I never see her and
he sees you, you know, out not too often, but
like he sees you and he's like, look, FaceTime she
literally never I'm sorry, you said what he'd be FaceTime
you because this we're not doing. I said, FaceTime him
to him. I would never over the fact that the
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men that you're shot with this one right here, you
got I'm gonna give you this one. You got me
all you just gotta get me next week. Either way,
we got someone, we got something, We got some more
topics to cover. Now we got a commercial. And if
you click off of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna
beat your ass. Listen. Now listen. So the first half
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was about overstepping your boundaries and your your friends relationships
or your friends situation ships. Now the second one is
about friends period. Now listen. So, if you had a
friend that one day bought you around another friend and
introduced you too. If you started hanging with that friend
because you two got so cool without the other friends,
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the original friend, the original friend who even was the
reason that you two came together or even was introduced
to one another, how does that affect the friendship between
you and their original friends. Been on both sides of defenses,
it can destroy some stuff. Um, I have introduced people
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to other individuals and they have done things to me
or we have had to fallen out, but they have
stayed connected with my other you know, friends, and then
we're still friends. So it's like it's like a thing,
but it's like a disappointing thing because like, how are
you still friends with my in it like it's a thing,
So like it can be a very hurtful thing too
at the end of the day, being on the other
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side of the other fence, you was introduced to a
friend from another friend and you and the other friend
gets the vibing and it's it's a vibe like into
vibes period. So when a vibe comes my way, I
try to you know, I try to embrace a vibe
because I don't like negative energy. So I just like,
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we're doing this, we're doing that like it's my it's not,
it's my type of vibe. Like I just I just
always wanted to be in the presence of positive energy,
if that makes sense. So I'll just go where the
vibe is, where the vibe is taking me, because I
know where I want to, So that that's it's a thing.
It's a vibe for me. It's energy for me. It's
that type of thing. And it's always authenticity. It's genuinity,
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like if you are genuine and you are the type
of it that I can go with anywhere. It's a vibe,
like I said, for me, I told my listeners this
ship last week, like I haven't known you for very
very long, but I met you through one of our
mutual friends, and you are very genuine. You make me laugh,
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and all I do is make other people laugh for
a living. I do that. I have to do that,
whether I want to or not. If I have a
show at eight o'clock tomorrow, I can't postpone the show
because I'm going through some ship. I gotta go, you
know what I'm saying. Unless there is a family emergency
of death or you know, COVID or whatever can stop that.
Not too many things can stop that though, you know
what I'm saying, TV opportunity, Okay, cool, But I have
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to go out there with that hat on all the time.
I have to go out there with that face on
all the time, you know, and I never get to laugh.
That's why even the guy I'm dating now, he makes
me laugh so much. You you make me laugh like
I'm getting this laughter in my life. Now. I'm not
saying I had like a hard life or anything, but
you know, it's very trying when you have to make
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everybody else laughing and you don't find much funny. Like
too many people being caliber will allow people even in
their space, make them laugh like it's like because it's
you know, some people have motives and what they do.
You know what I'm saying, They want to be around
you because who you are, that's my you know what
I'm saying that that's the last thing I'm wanna do,
you know, I just try to be who I am
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and the fact that I could be who I am
around you, and that's still a vibe for you, and
we can still do stuff and then you can still
correct me when I'm wrong. I can say, like, yes,
that was wrong, or you can come to me for advice.
Even the short period of time that we've been friends,
it madness, Like that's a vibe, like you know, we
always gotta go out and and doff, we can do
stuff in the house, you know, we watch anything we can.
(15:34):
How often, like almost every day more than I'm home period.
So like I do understand that it's and and the
access to my place now is very limited. There are
I can count on not even two hands how many
people know where I live now. And three of those
people know because they have to know. That's family, that's
my team, you know. But you know you and baby,
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you know. So it's just like it's very different for
me to expose everything coming from friends who just had
it out for me literally, you know. And and in
the previous past, like oh I had a bit put
my address out online, big reason why I moved, but
because I mean seriously, like when we're speaking on friends
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and you know, meeting you do a mutual friend, like
like I don't I don't even know what my first
impression of you was or I don't even remember because
I felt like we clicked and you know, we've seen
each other prior to meeting this mutual friend. We see
each other out, you know, basketball games and stuff like that.
But it was like when we when we clicked, when
we were like when we were connecting, we clicked, it
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was like there was a thing. It wasn't like a
who's that, It wasn't that, It just we just connected.
It was like, um, you know, I know you're into
the church absolutely, but you know I mean and then
day my prayer is always the um. I want to
be in a divine connection. Like I don't want to
know like relationships just because of who I am or
because it's who else who somebody else is. I just
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want everything to be divine and lined up, if that
makes sense, And that's that's the only thing I want.
I don't want to be around the why because what
they got going on, because but they got out ahead
and they can give me inspiration to get what they
you know, what I'm saying, So it's never my things
to be around to my because of what they have
and all that stuff. It's always been a motivational thing
for me. Anse and so us be into a mutual
friend who we love to death, like you know what
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I'm saying, and you know we we still cool. Felt
me true friend. But I feel like it was a
blessing from above. And if that makes sense, it makes sense.
And even if it doesn't, we can make it makes
sense to people because it makes sense to us. So
we just have to interpret it for them, you know
what I'm saying. On the spiritual level, Maybe this this
was supposed to happen, you know what I'm saying, because
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you're dealing with things in your life. I deal with
things in my life. We talk all the time. We
talk every day. We prophesied to one another. You know,
we were given encouraging words um to each other. And
a lot of things that I say to you you
feel from your heart, you know when I say them
from my heart. So I do want to tell you
wholeheartedly I love you. I love you. Put your funk
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up last night and you know what it is, what
it is, and you knew I was gonna come back
to that. I don't know why you're sitting here looking like,
oh she like she let me. Yeah, I love you
to death. That's where friends are. But if you can
correct me, am I wrong, and we can bounce back
from that, then that's that's a whole you know what
I'm saying, Like some people think that when you do this,
it's like she's no, I can't be cool. She came
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to her friend, She no cool. We were bounces back
like double time from with we what was going on?
You know that? And that's how we didn't like and
you've kind of twt me even in the relationship with
our friendship, you've kind of tipt me that, like, no,
you can be friends after this, like after two three
five weeks without speaking, like you texted me the next
day like a good friends. Yeah, what you know? I
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think you just mindset. We really got to talk today
and was like OK, and then you went to sleep
because we were so tired and boke up. I was like,
all right, girl, we gotta do this podcast. Girl, we
gotta chill. You know what I'm saying. You want to eat?
Oh mission, Like we didn't let nothing stop it? And
what we're gonna do when we leave today, via probably
gonna get some drinks and some crabs. You're gonna get
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some drinks of some goddamn crabs and listen. That brings
you to the end of the episode today. If I
can give a word to any of my women, it
can be listening. If you fall out with a friend,
you can honestly get back depending on the fallout. Now, bitch,
she's been slept with your man, if she didn't called
your mama crackhead, if she didn't stole from you, those
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are things you can't come back from. You know what
I'm saying, Because Okay, my mom don't deserve that. I
didn't deserve to get taken off by you. What the funk?
I look like a lick? And you know, certain things
just you you just can't reconcile after, you know. But
if you truly love someone, you wouldn't say anything to
hurt them to the point of no return anyway. So
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I want to say that now. In the beginning of
the episode, we talked about friends overstepping boundaries. You gotta
check your friends, like I checked my friend on the episode.
I really did. I checked my baby and she got
it right, It'll never happen again. But one thing she
will always do is her best to protect me. And
she cannot tell me that she's not gonna do that,
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you understand, because that will just be too much unlike her.
Shout out to Labria Shannon on Today for her third
week in a row, her third consecutive episode of Carefully
Reckless with me just hilarious. What you gotta say. Don't
surprise me next week. I promised, I want. I had
to do this. You made my baby mad at me.
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He never gets mad at anybody I know he got.
He has the most laid back personality I know. Okay,
all right, looks she's telling me to get off because
she's gonna cuss this nigga the fuck out. She gonna
cuss me out lotus nigga when we get off of here.
So make sure you tune in next week every Wednesday,
hump Day and in my best pan boys, I love me,
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I of y'all, and y'all love me. Ain't y'all of y'all?
Peace feel. Carefully Reckless is a production of I Heart
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Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
and the Black Effect. And just like that, we're back
(00:20):
on it and welcome to another episode of Carefully Reckless
with your girl just hilarious. And I got Bria Shannon again.
And here it's the ratings for me, I know it's
the ratings. Look Charlemagne and Gard and then told me,
like you on here, I don't know you. He don't
ain't gonna like you until he know, you know, when
he meets you with a different story. But he gonna
(00:41):
he's gonna be a little blown back by your little
ass personality. And she she she littles. Okay, so she's
four seven with a six nine personality, so whatever. Okay.
So now, like the last two episodes, Bria has always
known what we were going to talk about. But I
decided to switch it up on her today and not
(01:04):
let her know what we're talking about. I told her
I want her to go into the subject completely blind
because I feel like she funked up last night. I'm
in for a rude awake and you are in for
a rude awaken her, honey, and listen, let me tell
you this. You're my friend, I'm gonna do it, you
know what I'm saying, because most of our friends. When
(01:25):
our friends suck up and like players do, we got
to get them back on track. We can't just throw
you out there to the wolves like I'm kind of doing.
But I'm gonna let you know, definitely doing it up
last night. Okay. So anyway, this's a story time for y'all. Okay,
last night we went out to a rooftop party in
(01:45):
Baltimore City and it was lit. It was freaking lit.
I'm talking about one of the most littlest rooftop parties
you could ever be at on a Monday night. Okay.
And my friend is very extras She's very short, and
you know a lot of people who are short have
these you know, big man big woman complexes, and she
(02:08):
definitely showed that last night. Okay, you were totally fine
at the rooftop party. There was an after party that
took me to. She got I did thank you to it.
I took you to. I wanted to see a special
with somebody and I wanted to go there. You took me.
I rode with her, so she felt like she was
in charge. Let's just start there. We get there. We
(02:31):
get put in a section, put up nice too. I'm talking,
but it was lit. Okay, I'm listening. I looked around.
I did not see who I wanted to see. So
I looked at Bria. I said to you, y'all, I
said to her, listen, I'm not gonna be here too
much longer. If Sharon Sharrench ain't in here, right, so, no,
(02:51):
that's his name, Sharon Shrench. If Shrank Shrench, I'm not
in here, I'm not I'm not gonna be What did
I say? You said, I don't see screw from so
let's go. That's what you said. I did not say that.
I said, I'm not gonna be here. I'm not gonna
be here too much longer if I don't see snu snunch.
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And he was like, all right, put let's go. But
she had to go to the bathroom. You said, are
you okay to sit here? And I said yeah, I'm good.
I'm good. I'm straight. He was like, are you sure?
I said okay. He was like, do you need me
to take your purse? I said, now, now, she's very
protective of me, y'all. This is something y'all should know.
And I do understand that everywhere we go. This girl
is my little ass bodyguard in midget for him. So
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it's like, okay, cool, that's my girl. But all right,
I get it. She goes to the bathroom, she comes back,
she ain't even sitting down for six minutes. Security roll
up like a motherfucker. I'm like, hold up, what's going
on you? No? No? So so then come out of
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nowhere right here. She yeah, came out of the ware.
It was like, oh second, so you leave it seconds
and I said, what are you talking about? Like I
didn't even know. I didn't even know. And so I
(04:19):
saw it that like maybe somebody was getting put out
of the club, but they had the wrong section, bitch,
I'm talking about because security was the biggest fuck, biggest ship.
And then another motherfucker was trying to do too much
because he was trying to impress you. So you went
downstairs and told me that she was going to the bathroom.
You went down stairs, and he was like, hey, um, look,
(04:41):
she ready to go. So what it is? What it is,
and she needs security to exit because I'm too short.
I imagine those were your words. And he came up
fifteen minutes later, give you this one and no, don't
give me, no, don't give me Ship my surprise with this.
I'm gonna give you this trying to you quote me,
(05:01):
but I surprised with this. Baby, Oh Nino got me.
You said you were ready to go because you did
not see whatever. But the thing about it is I
never said I was ready to go. I said, look,
I'm gonna sucking leave if I get it. Listen, no, no, no, okay, cool,
(05:23):
no gout at the funk outgund. I didn't say wrong.
I just feel like you should have told me, like, look,
I got scary coming up here. We already get the
funk out of here. That's it. Put me on points.
You came back from the bathroom at K downstairs letting niggas.
No I was ready to go, and didn't tell me Ship,
So you were just like all right, cool whatever whatever
(05:44):
police I mean, not the police. Basically it's big walked
up like shack, like yo, ready go, and I was like,
uh no, because then sir walked up. It seems like
he walked up with security at all. Was with him? Baby,
It wasn't. Joe. I was like dash and have said nothing.
First of all, I should have mind my business. The world,
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I should have said, look, friend, I told security to
come up because you told me that you may not
be here. You told me you wanted to go. You
told me that you ain't here, and so he ended
up coming. I think Snurch was already there but was
trying to Yeah. I think he was yeah, because I
felt like he was already there now now that i'm
thinking about it, because I didn't know this was one
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of the thing. So then i'm thinking about I'm thinking
he was already there, and then saw security coming up
to get you and came up the blue light, I'm here,
and it was like it's too late, like it was
like a thing, bitch, it will never be too late
for Snurs and so it's my god. But I was
just saying, it just had That's just the way it happened.
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And I felt like as a friend, I was being proactive,
but I may have overstepped. Listen, I'm not saying that
we're not proactive, honey, sweetheart. I just said that this
could have all been killed if you was like, look,
called whatever, whatever and whatever, we we won't be on
the way out. And not even like cool, but liked
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because I had people buying me drinks and everything. Motherfucker
was we didn't you? I know I didn't need no
more drinking. I know I was. I do know it
wasn't time to go. You you I told you that
I might not beat her anymore. He was like, all right,
time to go because she's not comfortable. Cool. Yeah, but
it's not that I'm not comfortable. I actually feel safe
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in that place. I just was like, where is that's
all showed up? He did, and once he did, what
did I do? Stayed? And that's just what y'all. He
was like, no, for real, I stayed my ass right
there and didn't listen and it was my fault. Okay,
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but look, we're not even talking. This is not even
that part. The part of it was when you kept
telling that nigga sit down like you was the principal
or something. I was trying to tell him that the
matter was calm because he arrived. That's what I was trying.
I was trying to actually please, and you was just like,
definitely that the one thing that you was you did
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anything I said. I called for security because you said
to me they you didn't see him and you were
ready to exit. Period. That's what I got out the deal,
but did not say, well, I read between the lines. Okay,
so look that's what you did. You read between the lines.
You're my friend. That's what friends do. They look out
for other friends and they may read signals a little
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wrong sometimes, but whatever, I'll take just what it was.
That's just what it was. We can't change last night.
You know what I'm saying. But that's why I wanted
to tell you and keep that ship just as real
as I can keep with you because I'm like, oh no, no, no, no, no,
frank with here in my mouth, and I kept yet
you was like, sit on, sit doing on right here
and talk to her. First of all, Mrs trench Bull,
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we're not st oh ain't you? Was like, first of all,
you wasn't here, so we had I'm like, no, so
the fun she's not talking to my man like that,
like what's going on with you? Yes? And you knew.
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So I was like, okay, all right, I got this.
And I could see he was giving you that look
like look, yeah he was because listen, I have to
understand she's very short. He was giving you that look like, look,
little mama, you better get it together because I ain't
fucking around with a little way of telling me what
the fights sucking around when no big women. He was like,
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you know, what's a great care out here? He said,
Wait a minute, No, I wouldn't never have you put out.
But no, it was just like, wait a minute, what
the hell is going away at this little this little
girl talking to me like this. Then you hand to
make up on last night? Girl? You really look like
a little kid. Girl. You wouldn't let me got the
makeup on because well, I said too, I was to
get ready and decided to get ready. That's on you.
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You de started to get ready while a bitch was
walking to the car. Listen, that was on you. Okay,
I give your pass. So this topic would be friends
overstepping their boundaries and their friends relationships. Now you have
to imagine the shoot on the other foot, because if
I called Joe Nigga heard her, you will be like,
I'm why do you say that? That's too huhh, And
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I'm like, no, I was talking to hu hunh because
like you know what I'm saying. So we got snursh
nursh and her hunh. So yeah, that's what we're not doing. Okay.
I would never I love this friend. Yeah, I would
never try to play I wouldn't ever try to play
out of position period. You know, even if when it
comes to you, I got you, but I don't make
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decisions for you. Like if I was making all decisions
for you, he would be like, wait a minute, I'm
dating her, not you. What I'm dating Bria, I'm not
dating you. And I do understand because at the end
of the day, I sat on Dick last night. Keep
that record, so whatever. But no, no, no, he's not
(11:14):
upset with you. But he did express to me like
what was her problem? Like I never see her and
he sees you, you know, out not too often, but
like he sees you and he's like, look, FaceTime she
literally never I'm sorry, you said what he'd be FaceTime
you because this we're not doing. I said, FaceTime him
to him. I would never over the fact that the
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men that you're shot with this one right here, you
got I'm gonna give you this one. You got me
all you just gotta get me next week. Either way,
we got someone, we got something, We got some more
topics to cover. Now we got a commercial. And if
you click off of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna
beat your ass. Listen. Now listen. So the first half
(12:02):
was about overstepping your boundaries and your your friends relationships
or your friends situation ships. Now the second one is
about friends period. Now listen. So, if you had a
friend that one day bought you around another friend and
introduced you too. If you started hanging with that friend
because you two got so cool without the other friends,
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the original friend, the original friend who even was the
reason that you two came together or even was introduced
to one another, how does that affect the friendship between
you and their original friends. Been on both sides of defenses,
it can destroy some stuff. Um, I have introduced people
(12:45):
to other individuals and they have done things to me
or we have had to fallen out, but they have
stayed connected with my other you know, friends, and then
we're still friends. So it's like it's like a thing,
but it's like a disappointing thing because like, how are
you still friends with my in it like it's a thing,
So like it can be a very hurtful thing too
at the end of the day, being on the other
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side of the other fence, you was introduced to a
friend from another friend and you and the other friend
gets the vibing and it's it's a vibe like into
vibes period. So when a vibe comes my way, I
try to you know, I try to embrace a vibe
because I don't like negative energy. So I just like,
(13:26):
we're doing this, we're doing that like it's my it's not,
it's my type of vibe. Like I just I just
always wanted to be in the presence of positive energy,
if that makes sense. So I'll just go where the
vibe is, where the vibe is taking me, because I
know where I want to, So that that's it's a thing.
It's a vibe for me. It's energy for me. It's
that type of thing. And it's always authenticity. It's genuinity,
(13:47):
like if you are genuine and you are the type
of it that I can go with anywhere. It's a vibe,
like I said, for me, I told my listeners this
ship last week, like I haven't known you for very
very long, but I met you through one of our
mutual friends, and you are very genuine. You make me laugh,
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and all I do is make other people laugh for
a living. I do that. I have to do that,
whether I want to or not. If I have a
show at eight o'clock tomorrow, I can't postpone the show
because I'm going through some ship. I gotta go, you
know what I'm saying. Unless there is a family emergency
of death or you know, COVID or whatever can stop that.
Not too many things can stop that though, you know
what I'm saying, TV opportunity, Okay, cool, But I have
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to go out there with that hat on all the time.
I have to go out there with that face on
all the time, you know, and I never get to laugh.
That's why even the guy I'm dating now, he makes
me laugh so much. You you make me laugh like
I'm getting this laughter in my life. Now. I'm not
saying I had like a hard life or anything, but
you know, it's very trying when you have to make
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everybody else laughing and you don't find much funny. Like
too many people being caliber will allow people even in
their space, make them laugh like it's like because it's
you know, some people have motives and what they do.
You know what I'm saying, They want to be around
you because who you are, that's my you know what
I'm saying that that's the last thing I'm wanna do,
you know, I just try to be who I am
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and the fact that I could be who I am
around you, and that's still a vibe for you, and
we can still do stuff and then you can still
correct me when I'm wrong. I can say, like, yes,
that was wrong, or you can come to me for advice.
Even the short period of time that we've been friends,
it madness, Like that's a vibe, like you know, we
always gotta go out and and doff, we can do
stuff in the house, you know, we watch anything we can.
(15:34):
How often, like almost every day more than I'm home period.
So like I do understand that it's and and the
access to my place now is very limited. There are
I can count on not even two hands how many
people know where I live now. And three of those
people know because they have to know. That's family, that's
my team, you know. But you know you and baby,
(15:57):
you know. So it's just like it's very different for
me to expose everything coming from friends who just had
it out for me literally, you know. And and in
the previous past, like oh I had a bit put
my address out online, big reason why I moved, but
because I mean seriously, like when we're speaking on friends
(16:19):
and you know, meeting you do a mutual friend, like
like I don't I don't even know what my first
impression of you was or I don't even remember because
I felt like we clicked and you know, we've seen
each other prior to meeting this mutual friend. We see
each other out, you know, basketball games and stuff like that.
But it was like when we when we clicked, when
we were like when we were connecting, we clicked, it
(16:39):
was like there was a thing. It wasn't like a
who's that, It wasn't that, It just we just connected.
It was like, um, you know, I know you're into
the church absolutely, but you know I mean and then
day my prayer is always the um. I want to
be in a divine connection. Like I don't want to
know like relationships just because of who I am or
because it's who else who somebody else is. I just
(17:02):
want everything to be divine and lined up, if that
makes sense, And that's that's the only thing I want.
I don't want to be around the why because what
they got going on, because but they got out ahead
and they can give me inspiration to get what they
you know, what I'm saying, So it's never my things
to be around to my because of what they have
and all that stuff. It's always been a motivational thing
for me. Anse and so us be into a mutual
friend who we love to death, like you know what
(17:23):
I'm saying, and you know we we still cool. Felt
me true friend. But I feel like it was a
blessing from above. And if that makes sense, it makes sense.
And even if it doesn't, we can make it makes
sense to people because it makes sense to us. So
we just have to interpret it for them, you know
what I'm saying. On the spiritual level, Maybe this this
was supposed to happen, you know what I'm saying, because
(17:44):
you're dealing with things in your life. I deal with
things in my life. We talk all the time. We
talk every day. We prophesied to one another. You know,
we were given encouraging words um to each other. And
a lot of things that I say to you you
feel from your heart, you know when I say them
from my heart. So I do want to tell you
wholeheartedly I love you. I love you. Put your funk
(18:07):
up last night and you know what it is, what
it is, and you knew I was gonna come back
to that. I don't know why you're sitting here looking like,
oh she like she let me. Yeah, I love you
to death. That's where friends are. But if you can
correct me, am I wrong, and we can bounce back
from that, then that's that's a whole you know what
I'm saying, Like some people think that when you do this,
it's like she's no, I can't be cool. She came
(18:28):
to her friend, She no cool. We were bounces back
like double time from with we what was going on?
You know that? And that's how we didn't like and
you've kind of twt me even in the relationship with
our friendship, you've kind of tipt me that, like, no,
you can be friends after this, like after two three
five weeks without speaking, like you texted me the next
day like a good friends. Yeah, what you know? I
(18:49):
think you just mindset. We really got to talk today
and was like OK, and then you went to sleep
because we were so tired and boke up. I was like,
all right, girl, we gotta do this podcast. Girl, we
gotta chill. You know what I'm saying. You want to eat?
Oh mission, Like we didn't let nothing stop it? And
what we're gonna do when we leave today, via probably
gonna get some drinks and some crabs. You're gonna get
(19:12):
some drinks of some goddamn crabs and listen. That brings
you to the end of the episode today. If I
can give a word to any of my women, it
can be listening. If you fall out with a friend,
you can honestly get back depending on the fallout. Now, bitch,
she's been slept with your man, if she didn't called
your mama crackhead, if she didn't stole from you, those
(19:32):
are things you can't come back from. You know what
I'm saying, Because Okay, my mom don't deserve that. I
didn't deserve to get taken off by you. What the funk?
I look like a lick? And you know, certain things
just you you just can't reconcile after, you know. But
if you truly love someone, you wouldn't say anything to
hurt them to the point of no return anyway. So
(19:53):
I want to say that now. In the beginning of
the episode, we talked about friends overstepping boundaries. You gotta
check your friends, like I checked my friend on the episode.
I really did. I checked my baby and she got
it right, It'll never happen again. But one thing she
will always do is her best to protect me. And
she cannot tell me that she's not gonna do that,
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you understand, because that will just be too much unlike her.
Shout out to Labria Shannon on Today for her third
week in a row, her third consecutive episode of Carefully
Reckless with me just hilarious. What you gotta say. Don't
surprise me next week. I promised, I want. I had
to do this. You made my baby mad at me.
(20:37):
He never gets mad at anybody I know he got.
He has the most laid back personality I know. Okay,
all right, looks she's telling me to get off because
she's gonna cuss this nigga the fuck out. She gonna
cuss me out lotus nigga when we get off of here.
So make sure you tune in next week every Wednesday,
hump Day and in my best pan boys, I love me,
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I of y'all, and y'all love me. Ain't y'all of y'all?
Peace feel. Carefully Reckless is a production of I Heart
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