February 14, 2024 • 23 mins
Hey y'all! I'm back and I'm pregnant! So we're in my mess today! Let me just set a couple things straight...
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
and the Black Effect, And.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Just like that, we're back on the air.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Welcome back to you had another carefully reckless episode with
your girl, Josh, hilarious.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
What do I be doing? I'll be fixing mess.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
So I just announced that, well, actually I didn't announce
my baby daddy slash boyfriend, slash best friend, slash lover,
slash second half of a half, all that good stuff.
He called up and he spilled the beans, y'all. Now
a lot of y'all saw my face in that Breakfast
Club episode where it looks like I didn't want him
(00:45):
to say anything. But listen, let me tell you something.
This man is my motherfucking ridah. Okay, this is my guy,
This is my everything. And Chris is the first time dad.
He's nervous as hell, but he's excited at the same time,
he's ecstatic, already in love with.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
The baby, the baby not here yet. He's in love
with me.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
This man loves me up and down, from my head
to my toes, from every finger on my body to
the spine going down my back.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Like this man loves me.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Okay, what he does for me mentally, emotionally, and all
of that shit is something that I wish for everybody.
I wish everybody, for every man, woman, non binary, all
gender appropriations, nigga, Like I.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Wish that I wish that for every fucking body. You
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Like, I'm really really happy walking to my divine right now,
you know what I mean. So you know, as bad
as I wanted to announce another way, I was still
okay with it that man is my best friend and
I'm here to protect what I have and he's doing
the same thing behind the scenes. I'm in the limelight,
I'm in the public eye, so I'm gonna protect it.
(01:52):
I'm gonna protect it. And with that being said, I'm
a clear up a few things. No, this is not
the first Chris. Okay, I had an ex named Chris,
and y'all asks y'all, And I'm sorry I'm chewing gum
right now. It's because I'm nauseous as hell every fucking
morning spite taking my prenatal vitamins.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I'm still nauseous, y'all.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
And sorry for last week's episode, I was chewing gum
as well, and the swallowing and the chewing might get
the best of me sometimes, but listen, anything to not
stop and throw up. I'm so tired of throwing up, child.
But no, this is a whole new Chris. Okay, this
is a whole new Chris. His name is Chris Tyliver.
Please y'all don't do this. This is not Chris Newton,
(02:32):
this is not the last guy, and it's not Chris Brown.
Me and Chris Brown been broke up too. Okay, so yes,
this is my third and final Chris. All right, y'all
be in the comments like she love a Chris. Y'all,
y'all get on other herbs.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Also. Now, I don't comment on blogs anymore.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
I don't even go through those comments because I know anymore.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
You know I have.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
But the end of last year was the last time
I said I'm gonna do that shit.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
The end of the year last year, in twenty twenty three,
I say, yo, look, I'm done going through blood comments.
You know what I'm saying, especially when it's supposed about me.
I don't want to do that because we already know
what we're getting ourselves into, right, and then you feel
compelled to respond. But I'm gonna go through my comments
every fucking day, you know why, because that's my house,
that's my shit, all right, and I have the power
and liberty to block any motherfucker us trying to disrupt
(03:24):
my space, trying to disturb my peace and all of
that shit. Okay, So this on, I'm gonna tell y'all,
I'm an clear up a couple more things to tell me.
She's excited to be another single mother. That's just not it.
Let me tell you something. I wasn't even a single
mother with Ashton. You know why, because Jerome has always
been in his son's life. Okay, whether he could provide
(03:44):
financially or not, he was always there. That's not my
definition of a single mother. I was a single woman
with a child, but I've always been side by side
with Rome raising our son.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
So I wasn't a single mother, all right. Now, power to.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Them out there, because there are women out there that's
doing it by theyself.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
That was never me.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Now, I was doing it by myself financially, but his
dad has always been present in his life, even times
where he couldn't afford doing shit for his son in
his younger years and Ashton's younger years, in our younger
years as parents. That man has always been there for
his child and is there for every one of his children.
(04:27):
So don't diagnose me, okay, don't categorize me with a
single mother, because I am not that. Like I said,
I'm not discrediting them, but don't put me with that.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
If that's not what I am.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Thank you, and stop trying to measure people's happiness by
which you think it should be. I understand the traditional way,
the back in the day way was to get married
and then have a baby. But time has evolved, and
y'all need to evolve with it. You don't know people's situations,
and you don't know people journeys, and you don't know
(04:58):
the difference between the two.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
I'm onna journey.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
As I spoke early in the episode of Breakfast Club
this Morning, I am on a journey, sweetheart.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
It's a big difference, all right. The difference is the.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Man wants this child, and I wanted it as well.
I wasn't trapped and I didn't trap him. And for
those who know me, and I'm talking to my fans,
my day ones, y'all knew y'all always have known. Jessica
Robin Moore has always wanted more children, But I wasn't
gonna settle and have kids by any and every man
that I dated, because I knew better than that. I
(05:30):
always knew better than that. All right, If you ain't
laying next to me in bed at night, you have
no idea how to fuck I wake up? You understand.
You have no idea the taste of my happiness. You
have no idea, But I wish it for everybody. I
wish it now. I can't tell you to mind your business.
I can't and I won't tell you to mind your
business because I mind other people's business only if I
(05:53):
know if the business is true or not, only if
I know every aspect of the business, because it's my
job to report people's biss You motherfucking right, So I'm
not gonna tell nobody to mine they business. And I'm
not gonna tell you to keep my name out your mouth.
But I'm gonna tell you watch your mouth when you're
talking about me, especially if you don't know what the
fuck you talking about. I said it there, I'll say
it here, and I'll say it to anybody I need
(06:14):
to say it to. They fucking face too, You understand,
You will not disrupt my peace, You will not disturb
my journey.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
You will not do it. You can't do it.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
So yeah, take all of that negativity up in the
motherfucking blog comments where the rest of y'all ass belong,
where you can get fifty and one hundred likes on
some shit like that, where you can read other people's
comments before you comment, and wait for somebody to tell
you how to feel. You go do that shit on
the blogs. Don't come over there to my shit. You
will get blocked every time. Believe that. Even when Charlamagne
(06:49):
sparked the question about the engagement, sir, even with that
being my big brother, you don't know what Chris got planned.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
You don't know, you have no idea.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
And then for him to immediately have to share a
story that he and his wife got married after they
had their first child. All right, then, so that you
can understand too and relate. You can relate to that.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Now.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
I appreciate everybody's concern. However, every opinion does not concern me.
So let's normalize not projecting your baggage and how unhappy
you are on other people.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
I'm happy, I'm creating life.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
How dare you motherfuckers sit in my comments and tell
me not to be happy about creating life that I
want it and I want more of it. This ain't
my last child, but I'm telling you it will be
my first and last marriage. It surely will when that
man get down on one knee when we start playing
in this wedding. Y'all don't know what he got in
store for me. Y'all don't know what he got, just
(07:44):
like y'all don't know what God got in store for me.
I don't know what God got in store for me,
but I know everything is falling in place.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
You understand.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Now. We got a commercial, and if you click off
of this podcast, I swear I'm ana beat your ass listen.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Also another thing I wanted to clear up.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Man, y'all motherfucker's here and my comments talking to me
about damn, you just got the job and you about
to leave again. Do y'all not know this is the
right motherfucking time for me to be pregnant where I
can wake up every morning, go sit my ass down
in the throne chair because I am royalty.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
That's what I am do.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Four hours of a show, sometimes five because we have interviews.
Take my ass home and work on my other businesses.
You understand, I got the choice whether I want to
travel right now.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
I got the choice.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
A lot of comedians, a lot of entertainers, they don't
have a choice. They have to tour, and more power
to that. I was just one of them. But now
I don't. I secured a bag, a station, every bag.
I don't have to be on a plane three or
four times a week, stressing my body out.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
I can be home.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Working, still working from home, because I got other businesses
to develop. I got other businesses to secure, I got
other businesses to run right now. I'm rebranding my products
right now. It's things that y'all don't know. It's things
that y'all don't need to fucking know. But that's normalized,
not saying shit until y'all know, you understand what I'm saying.
(09:08):
You can learn something from Jess with the mess baby, Yeah,
because my news is real, y'all. Opinions are based off
of what you're going through and biased emotions, and also
what y'all see a lot of other comments saying stop
fucking playing with me. Don't be a bunch of fucking sheep,
not with me right now? Is the best time. And
let me tell you something else. That man is my
(09:31):
best friend for a reason. You know why, because he's
in love with Jessica robbin Moore. He's get in love
with Jessica robbin Moore. I'm talking about somebody to just
ask you. It feel good as shit for somebody to
just ask you. How was your day? How is your
mental state? What do you feel like you could have
done better today? To block out the hate? You don't
have to respond to everything, baby, I know what we got,
(09:53):
You know what you got.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Somebody to rub your motherfucking feet even when they don't hurt.
Tell you you pretty even you don't fucking feel pretty,
make you feel good. Somebody to pour into you, not
just your girlfriends, but your man pouring into you.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Don't play with me, man, don't play with me. And
don't play with that one. Haha.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Don't play with that one, all right. I ain't gonna
let y'all do it, not in my comments, not my fans.
I ain't gonna let.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Y'all do it.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
You can unfollow, and you can become unfanned right now.
If that's what you think you're gonna do. Let's normalize
watching y'all my fucking mouth. Let's normalize that, normalize getting
your situation together.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Listen, let me also tell you something.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
I come from two married parents over thirty years, and
I'm coming to tell you right now, just because you're
married does not mean you're fucking happy. Okay, that does
not mean you are happy. People jump into marriages for
all the fucking wrong reasons. Let me tell you I
ain't jumping. I ain't jumping. I'm thirty two. I want
my kids, all my kids before I'm thirty five. I'm
(10:58):
just getting started with my career. Trust and believe, Trust
and believe. I'm just getting started. So I want to
have my babies now. And my wedding will come when
it will fucking come, all right, whether that be this year,
whether that be next year.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Let me tell you something.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Don't play yourself playing with me, because that's how you
play yourself, speaking out a turn and not knowing what
the fuck going on. This is my journey and not
my situation, sweetheart. So now, since we only got time
for like one story, and I y'all know, I had
to get on here and I had to say some things.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
And now listen.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
See this is my sacred place, my podcast. Okay, I
got a couple of sacred places. Number one in my
sanctuary in my house. That's my first sacred place when
it's just me and God.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
You know.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
My second sacred place is my man, Me and my man,
my sacred place that is me and my man. I'm
allowed to be vulnerable. Have you ever been allowed to
be vulnerable with a man? Like with a man that
can be vulnerable with you? You know what I'm saying,
and you still feel that masculinity and you still feel it.
(12:04):
You understand when a man don't gotta say he ain't
gotta tell you here, man, he don't. He ain't got
to go around boasting and bragging about what he got.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
He show you.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
You feel it, You see it, y'all living it together.
What don't ever play with that? I wish that for everybody.
I even wish a great woman for the men out there,
whoever you. I wish you good love. I wish love
were doing everything in love. Don't don't play with that.
Don't play with that something that you never knew before.
(12:34):
How can you speak on something that you've never known before?
You understand? It's crazy to me how people can do that.
But I'm gonna tell you this ain't gonna stop the hate.
But y'all know fucking well, I had to address a
lot of that negativity. You understand what I'm saying, because
a lot of it is self hate. When you learn
to love your motherfucking self, you ain't worried about a
(12:55):
woman announcing that she is giving life without a ring.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
You ain't right about that.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
You're actually knowing that that's probably around the corner. And
if it ain't, pray for it. And if you don't
know whether or not it is, pray for it. Encourage it.
Encourage it. Don't down something because one thing didn't come
with the other thing, or y'all don't see you understand
what I'm saying. I made sure one thing. I am
(13:23):
glad that my partner did. Chris, I'm glad that you
made sure I got out of my first try mester. Baby,
I'm so glad that you did that. But do you
know how many women are struggling to have children? Do
you know how many women can't have children? Do you
know how many women want children? And y'all sitting there
ridiculing and judging somebody for being happy about creating life.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
Are you fucking crazy.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
With the ways every day y'all see in the world
they're trying to create, They're trying to stop us from
producing and creating life. Are you fucking crazy? Do you
know how many child deaths there are? Do you know
how many children are dying? We read story more stories
about it today than ever.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Stop playing with that. Don't play with that.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
I'm gonna keep popping out these fucking kids, you understand,
And every one of them gonna be born healthy, with
a clear mind, and they all gonna make me and
they daddy happy. You understand, I hope If you didn't before,
you understand now. I don't even think I got time
to fucking read a story.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Y'all. Hisses make me sick.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
And for those who are happy for me, I just
want to say thank you, thank you, because it was
more happy than not.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
You understand, But you better believe.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
I had my little sister scouring them fucking comments.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Delete all that shit. Delete it, but not only delete it, block.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
It because some people go back to see how many
likes they got on a comment, how many responses they
got on a comment. Don't play with me, she on it.
She get paid good money to do that shit. Uh uh,
I said, I can't control with the blogs got going.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
On in the comments. You know what I'm saying. I
used to be one of them.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
I used to be a blog comments to run into
the fucking comments seeing if I you know what I'm saying,
battling in a comment, saying how many likes I can
get on a comment from my real last comment. You
know what I'm saying, being myself because I just always
had something to say. You know what I'm saying. No, no, no, no,
no no no. I've secured a job, I've secured a bag.
(15:27):
You understand me so greatly that I don't got to
ever crawl in the fucking comments no more. All thanks
to my creator. All thanks to God, the man upstairs.
I thank him every day for opportunity. I thank him
every day for the people that love me. I thank
them for the people that hate me or who think
they hate me. But don't play with that. Don't play
(15:50):
with that. That's all I want to say. That's the
message I want to convey, it's all of I want
you all to normalize that, normalize watching your motherfucking mouth period.
Unless you know what you're talking about. I learned my lesson,
and I'm telling you a couple more can learn from me.
Watch your mouth. If you love me, you'll listen to
this commercial and then we'll be right back. All right now,
(16:14):
what don't look like we're gonna have time for a
bunch of stories. But I'm gonna do one.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
I supposed to.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
Been got to my story, y'all shut okay, So I'm
just gonna read a short story right here. This says
the reason why people's paragraphs are getting cut off is
because there's a character limit for dms. Oh, they need
to be sure they're paying attention to where it stops
so they can start another. I love it here, and
thank you for all the messages you've fixed.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
Oh you welcome. Welcome sugar.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Y'all love the way money call people's sugar. I had
to start from the beginning to get all the gems.
Thank you for all you do. Oh, no problem, baby girl.
I appreciate you. I appreciate you. I appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
And this is another view from an episode that I
did before. Says, Hey, Jess, I hope you're doing well.
I came across your where's my Dad podcast, and it
touched my heart. I am sorry to hear about the
difficult situation that she's going through. I wanted to share
something with you that might be of help. A friend
of mine went through a similar situation with her mother.
(17:20):
Although she was not adopted. Her twin sister took an
ancestry DNA test and they were able to find family
members from their father's side who helped them locate their
dad after twenty eight years of not knowing him. I
hope it brings some comfort and hope to her.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Also, baby, if you're listening from the Where's My Dad? Podcast?
I told her that I will be checking on her.
I haven't had time, but I will make sure I
check on her today. I absolutely want you to listen
to that.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
I told you. I did not tell you. My people
listen and they love to help.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
You know. These listeners are not just here to gather
gossip ard to be nosy in your business. There are
people that really, really really eating to your stories and
it also can help you. You know, who went further
in their journey, you know what I mean? Who didn't
give up?
Speaker 2 (18:06):
You know?
Speaker 1 (18:06):
And that baby girl, she sounded defeated and a lot.
You know, she was saying she was suicidal and things
like that. Those people need love and they need help,
and any other people supporting them who's gone through something similar,
if not the same exact thing. So I do want
to uplift you that. And Happy love Day, just happy
love day. Sorry that this episode came so late, y'all,
I've been busy as hell. I've been busy as hell.
(18:29):
I took my gum out to read, y'all, But this
shit I go back in. Lord, listen, if y'all have
any suggestions on shit that I can eat, please let
me know, let me know what cannot eat. I'm living
in Jersey now, but the food in Brooklyn is so good,
But I ain't got sign to be going back and
forth like that. I think I'm gonna just hire a
nutritionist and a chef. That's what I need.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
Man.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
I'm getting headaches every goddamn day, and I'm gonna elaborate
more on this as time goes on. But y'all, being
pregnant in your thirties is way different from being pregnant
in your late teens early twenties, sweetheart, Because I was
nineteen when I was pregnant, with ash. I had ash
when I was twenty and chy. I'm talking about everything
was easy, even I was still throwing shots back like
a motherfucking don't let me get into that, because I
(19:14):
didn't know that I was pregnant until I was about
four months pregnant. When I was pregnant with Ashton, you
understand what I'm saying. I didn't really know that I
was pregnant, and me and wrong. We was trying to
get pregnant with ash and I just didn't know that
I was. I didn't start showing it until I was
five months. You know, I got a little baby bomp
right now. But honey, I know thirty two ain't old,
but it will definitely show you the difference between decades
(19:39):
of your life when you get pregnant in your twenties
late teens versus your thirties. Okay, I'm always tired, I'm
always nauseous, and yes, I do take prenatal vitamins.
Speaker 2 (19:50):
I've also secured a duela list. Let me tell you this.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Man went out and got me a duela. I said, no, no, no,
we're gonna get a duela.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
She helps she. I just love my mass so much.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Man, just trying to help make my life easier with this,
and listen, I'm really, really, really happy, and I'm happy
for those who are happy for me.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
I'm happy for those who can really congratulate me.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
My son was happy, ashed and switched at first when
I told him that I was pregnant, because he I
so told him before I told the dad. Okay, my
son is my ace bone Cone, all right, and y'all
can debate this all y'all want, up and down.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I was happy.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
I was a little nervous to tell my son because
it's just been me and him for eleven years.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
You get what I'm saying. So I was like, oh,
I mean, you know, his father has five kids with shit.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
I had just him purposely, you know, so I was
purposely not getting pregnant.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
You get what I'm saying. I was like, man, I'm pregnant. Ash.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
He was like, that's cold. It's gonna be a boy.
I was happier, So I felt like I just scored
a touchdown y'all. I was so freaking happy. You know,
my baby is supportive of me. You get what I'm saying.
That's all I need, my village, my family, my mom.
When I told her. She was like, Oh my god,
you're gonna do it this time, and we're gonna do
it right, and we're gonna listen my baby, my first baby.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
Daddy was saying, Rome was happiest shit.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
So you got my blessing, Roe, Li, nobody needs your
damn blessing after you had five damn kids. You want
to talk about giving me a blessing. But he's protective
over me as well. You know our relationship me and
my first son's dad, That relationship is protected and sacred
to him as well.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
So I mean a lot to the people I need
to mean a lot to. I mean a lot to Rome,
I mean a lot to my son. I mean a
lot to Chris. I mean a lot to my parents.
I mean a lot to a lot of fucking people.
I mean a lot to y'all. The people listening to
me every Wednesday, looking forward for me to fix mess
and and to come on this podcast and give twenty
(21:43):
twenty five minutes of my time. That's why I love y'all.
That's why I do this shit. You get what I'm saying.
My voice is so fucking powerful, So that's why I
had some mature and evolve and clean my shit up.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
You get what I'm saying Now, I'm gonna still cuss
like a sailor.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
Y'all probably said I'm like fifty, but know y'all love
me man, and I love y'all too. And just like that,
we've come to the end of yet another carefully reckless
episode with your girl jas hilarious. Tune in every Wednesday.
Peace Can't Fully Reckless is a production of iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (23:22):
And The Black Effect.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.
Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
and the Black Effect, And.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Just like that, we're back on the air.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Welcome back to you had another carefully reckless episode with
your girl, Josh, hilarious.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
What do I be doing? I'll be fixing mess.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
So I just announced that, well, actually I didn't announce
my baby daddy slash boyfriend, slash best friend, slash lover,
slash second half of a half, all that good stuff.
He called up and he spilled the beans, y'all. Now
a lot of y'all saw my face in that Breakfast
Club episode where it looks like I didn't want him
(00:45):
to say anything. But listen, let me tell you something.
This man is my motherfucking ridah. Okay, this is my guy,
This is my everything. And Chris is the first time dad.
He's nervous as hell, but he's excited at the same time,
he's ecstatic, already in love with.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
The baby, the baby not here yet. He's in love
with me.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
This man loves me up and down, from my head
to my toes, from every finger on my body to
the spine going down my back.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Like this man loves me.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Okay, what he does for me mentally, emotionally, and all
of that shit is something that I wish for everybody.
I wish everybody, for every man, woman, non binary, all
gender appropriations, nigga, Like I.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Wish that I wish that for every fucking body. You
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Like, I'm really really happy walking to my divine right now,
you know what I mean. So you know, as bad
as I wanted to announce another way, I was still
okay with it that man is my best friend and
I'm here to protect what I have and he's doing
the same thing behind the scenes. I'm in the limelight,
I'm in the public eye, so I'm gonna protect it.
(01:52):
I'm gonna protect it. And with that being said, I'm
a clear up a few things. No, this is not
the first Chris. Okay, I had an ex named Chris,
and y'all asks y'all, And I'm sorry I'm chewing gum
right now. It's because I'm nauseous as hell every fucking
morning spite taking my prenatal vitamins.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I'm still nauseous, y'all.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
And sorry for last week's episode, I was chewing gum
as well, and the swallowing and the chewing might get
the best of me sometimes, but listen, anything to not
stop and throw up. I'm so tired of throwing up, child.
But no, this is a whole new Chris. Okay, this
is a whole new Chris. His name is Chris Tyliver.
Please y'all don't do this. This is not Chris Newton,
(02:32):
this is not the last guy, and it's not Chris Brown.
Me and Chris Brown been broke up too. Okay, so yes,
this is my third and final Chris. All right, y'all
be in the comments like she love a Chris. Y'all,
y'all get on other herbs.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Also. Now, I don't comment on blogs anymore.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
I don't even go through those comments because I know anymore.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
You know I have.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
But the end of last year was the last time
I said I'm gonna do that shit.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
The end of the year last year, in twenty twenty three,
I say, yo, look, I'm done going through blood comments.
You know what I'm saying, especially when it's supposed about me.
I don't want to do that because we already know
what we're getting ourselves into, right, and then you feel
compelled to respond. But I'm gonna go through my comments
every fucking day, you know why, because that's my house,
that's my shit, all right, and I have the power
and liberty to block any motherfucker us trying to disrupt
(03:24):
my space, trying to disturb my peace and all of
that shit. Okay, So this on, I'm gonna tell y'all,
I'm an clear up a couple more things to tell me.
She's excited to be another single mother. That's just not it.
Let me tell you something. I wasn't even a single
mother with Ashton. You know why, because Jerome has always
been in his son's life. Okay, whether he could provide
(03:44):
financially or not, he was always there. That's not my
definition of a single mother. I was a single woman
with a child, but I've always been side by side
with Rome raising our son.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
So I wasn't a single mother, all right. Now, power to.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Them out there, because there are women out there that's
doing it by theyself.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
That was never me.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Now, I was doing it by myself financially, but his
dad has always been present in his life, even times
where he couldn't afford doing shit for his son in
his younger years and Ashton's younger years, in our younger
years as parents. That man has always been there for
his child and is there for every one of his children.
(04:27):
So don't diagnose me, okay, don't categorize me with a
single mother, because I am not that. Like I said,
I'm not discrediting them, but don't put me with that.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
If that's not what I am.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Thank you, and stop trying to measure people's happiness by
which you think it should be. I understand the traditional way,
the back in the day way was to get married
and then have a baby. But time has evolved, and
y'all need to evolve with it. You don't know people's situations,
and you don't know people journeys, and you don't know
(04:58):
the difference between the two.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
I'm onna journey.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
As I spoke early in the episode of Breakfast Club
this Morning, I am on a journey, sweetheart.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
It's a big difference, all right. The difference is the.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Man wants this child, and I wanted it as well.
I wasn't trapped and I didn't trap him. And for
those who know me, and I'm talking to my fans,
my day ones, y'all knew y'all always have known. Jessica
Robin Moore has always wanted more children, But I wasn't
gonna settle and have kids by any and every man
that I dated, because I knew better than that. I
(05:30):
always knew better than that. All right, If you ain't
laying next to me in bed at night, you have
no idea how to fuck I wake up? You understand.
You have no idea the taste of my happiness. You
have no idea, But I wish it for everybody. I
wish it now. I can't tell you to mind your business.
I can't and I won't tell you to mind your
business because I mind other people's business only if I
(05:53):
know if the business is true or not, only if
I know every aspect of the business, because it's my
job to report people's biss You motherfucking right, So I'm
not gonna tell nobody to mine they business. And I'm
not gonna tell you to keep my name out your mouth.
But I'm gonna tell you watch your mouth when you're
talking about me, especially if you don't know what the
fuck you talking about. I said it there, I'll say
it here, and I'll say it to anybody I need
(06:14):
to say it to. They fucking face too, You understand,
You will not disrupt my peace, You will not disturb
my journey.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
You will not do it. You can't do it.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
So yeah, take all of that negativity up in the
motherfucking blog comments where the rest of y'all ass belong,
where you can get fifty and one hundred likes on
some shit like that, where you can read other people's
comments before you comment, and wait for somebody to tell
you how to feel. You go do that shit on
the blogs. Don't come over there to my shit. You
will get blocked every time. Believe that. Even when Charlamagne
(06:49):
sparked the question about the engagement, sir, even with that
being my big brother, you don't know what Chris got planned.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
You don't know, you have no idea.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
And then for him to immediately have to share a
story that he and his wife got married after they
had their first child. All right, then, so that you
can understand too and relate. You can relate to that.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Now.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
I appreciate everybody's concern. However, every opinion does not concern me.
So let's normalize not projecting your baggage and how unhappy
you are on other people.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
I'm happy, I'm creating life.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
How dare you motherfuckers sit in my comments and tell
me not to be happy about creating life that I
want it and I want more of it. This ain't
my last child, but I'm telling you it will be
my first and last marriage. It surely will when that
man get down on one knee when we start playing
in this wedding. Y'all don't know what he got in
store for me. Y'all don't know what he got, just
(07:44):
like y'all don't know what God got in store for me.
I don't know what God got in store for me,
but I know everything is falling in place.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
You understand.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Now. We got a commercial, and if you click off
of this podcast, I swear I'm ana beat your ass listen.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Also another thing I wanted to clear up.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Man, y'all motherfucker's here and my comments talking to me
about damn, you just got the job and you about
to leave again. Do y'all not know this is the
right motherfucking time for me to be pregnant where I
can wake up every morning, go sit my ass down
in the throne chair because I am royalty.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
That's what I am do.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Four hours of a show, sometimes five because we have interviews.
Take my ass home and work on my other businesses.
You understand, I got the choice whether I want to
travel right now.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
I got the choice.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
A lot of comedians, a lot of entertainers, they don't
have a choice. They have to tour, and more power
to that. I was just one of them. But now
I don't. I secured a bag, a station, every bag.
I don't have to be on a plane three or
four times a week, stressing my body out.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
I can be home.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Working, still working from home, because I got other businesses
to develop. I got other businesses to secure, I got
other businesses to run right now. I'm rebranding my products
right now. It's things that y'all don't know. It's things
that y'all don't need to fucking know. But that's normalized,
not saying shit until y'all know, you understand what I'm saying.
(09:08):
You can learn something from Jess with the mess baby, Yeah,
because my news is real, y'all. Opinions are based off
of what you're going through and biased emotions, and also
what y'all see a lot of other comments saying stop
fucking playing with me. Don't be a bunch of fucking sheep,
not with me right now? Is the best time. And
let me tell you something else. That man is my
(09:31):
best friend for a reason. You know why, because he's
in love with Jessica robbin Moore. He's get in love
with Jessica robbin Moore. I'm talking about somebody to just
ask you. It feel good as shit for somebody to
just ask you. How was your day? How is your
mental state? What do you feel like you could have
done better today? To block out the hate? You don't
have to respond to everything, baby, I know what we got,
(09:53):
You know what you got.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Somebody to rub your motherfucking feet even when they don't hurt.
Tell you you pretty even you don't fucking feel pretty,
make you feel good. Somebody to pour into you, not
just your girlfriends, but your man pouring into you.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Don't play with me, man, don't play with me. And
don't play with that one. Haha.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Don't play with that one, all right. I ain't gonna
let y'all do it, not in my comments, not my fans.
I ain't gonna let.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Y'all do it.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
You can unfollow, and you can become unfanned right now.
If that's what you think you're gonna do. Let's normalize
watching y'all my fucking mouth. Let's normalize that, normalize getting
your situation together.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Listen, let me also tell you something.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
I come from two married parents over thirty years, and
I'm coming to tell you right now, just because you're
married does not mean you're fucking happy. Okay, that does
not mean you are happy. People jump into marriages for
all the fucking wrong reasons. Let me tell you I
ain't jumping. I ain't jumping. I'm thirty two. I want
my kids, all my kids before I'm thirty five. I'm
(10:58):
just getting started with my career. Trust and believe, Trust
and believe. I'm just getting started. So I want to
have my babies now. And my wedding will come when
it will fucking come, all right, whether that be this year,
whether that be next year.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Let me tell you something.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Don't play yourself playing with me, because that's how you
play yourself, speaking out a turn and not knowing what
the fuck going on. This is my journey and not
my situation, sweetheart. So now, since we only got time
for like one story, and I y'all know, I had
to get on here and I had to say some things.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
And now listen.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
See this is my sacred place, my podcast. Okay, I
got a couple of sacred places. Number one in my
sanctuary in my house. That's my first sacred place when
it's just me and God.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
You know.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
My second sacred place is my man, Me and my man,
my sacred place that is me and my man. I'm
allowed to be vulnerable. Have you ever been allowed to
be vulnerable with a man? Like with a man that
can be vulnerable with you? You know what I'm saying,
and you still feel that masculinity and you still feel it.
(12:04):
You understand when a man don't gotta say he ain't
gotta tell you here, man, he don't. He ain't got
to go around boasting and bragging about what he got.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
He show you.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
You feel it, You see it, y'all living it together.
What don't ever play with that? I wish that for everybody.
I even wish a great woman for the men out there,
whoever you. I wish you good love. I wish love
were doing everything in love. Don't don't play with that.
Don't play with that something that you never knew before.
(12:34):
How can you speak on something that you've never known before?
You understand? It's crazy to me how people can do that.
But I'm gonna tell you this ain't gonna stop the hate.
But y'all know fucking well, I had to address a
lot of that negativity. You understand what I'm saying, because
a lot of it is self hate. When you learn
to love your motherfucking self, you ain't worried about a
(12:55):
woman announcing that she is giving life without a ring.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
You ain't right about that.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
You're actually knowing that that's probably around the corner. And
if it ain't, pray for it. And if you don't
know whether or not it is, pray for it. Encourage it.
Encourage it. Don't down something because one thing didn't come
with the other thing, or y'all don't see you understand
what I'm saying. I made sure one thing. I am
(13:23):
glad that my partner did. Chris, I'm glad that you
made sure I got out of my first try mester. Baby,
I'm so glad that you did that. But do you
know how many women are struggling to have children? Do
you know how many women can't have children? Do you
know how many women want children? And y'all sitting there
ridiculing and judging somebody for being happy about creating life.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
Are you fucking crazy.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
With the ways every day y'all see in the world
they're trying to create, They're trying to stop us from
producing and creating life. Are you fucking crazy? Do you
know how many child deaths there are? Do you know
how many children are dying? We read story more stories
about it today than ever.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Stop playing with that. Don't play with that.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
I'm gonna keep popping out these fucking kids, you understand,
And every one of them gonna be born healthy, with
a clear mind, and they all gonna make me and
they daddy happy. You understand, I hope If you didn't before,
you understand now. I don't even think I got time
to fucking read a story.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Y'all. Hisses make me sick.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
And for those who are happy for me, I just
want to say thank you, thank you, because it was
more happy than not.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
You understand, But you better believe.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
I had my little sister scouring them fucking comments.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Delete all that shit. Delete it, but not only delete it, block.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
It because some people go back to see how many
likes they got on a comment, how many responses they
got on a comment. Don't play with me, she on it.
She get paid good money to do that shit. Uh uh,
I said, I can't control with the blogs got going.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
On in the comments. You know what I'm saying. I
used to be one of them.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
I used to be a blog comments to run into
the fucking comments seeing if I you know what I'm saying,
battling in a comment, saying how many likes I can
get on a comment from my real last comment. You
know what I'm saying, being myself because I just always
had something to say. You know what I'm saying. No, no, no, no,
no no no. I've secured a job, I've secured a bag.
(15:27):
You understand me so greatly that I don't got to
ever crawl in the fucking comments no more. All thanks
to my creator. All thanks to God, the man upstairs.
I thank him every day for opportunity. I thank him
every day for the people that love me. I thank
them for the people that hate me or who think
they hate me. But don't play with that. Don't play
(15:50):
with that. That's all I want to say. That's the
message I want to convey, it's all of I want
you all to normalize that, normalize watching your motherfucking mouth period.
Unless you know what you're talking about. I learned my lesson,
and I'm telling you a couple more can learn from me.
Watch your mouth. If you love me, you'll listen to
this commercial and then we'll be right back. All right now,
(16:14):
what don't look like we're gonna have time for a
bunch of stories. But I'm gonna do one.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
I supposed to.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
Been got to my story, y'all shut okay, So I'm
just gonna read a short story right here. This says
the reason why people's paragraphs are getting cut off is
because there's a character limit for dms. Oh, they need
to be sure they're paying attention to where it stops
so they can start another. I love it here, and
thank you for all the messages you've fixed.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
Oh you welcome. Welcome sugar.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Y'all love the way money call people's sugar. I had
to start from the beginning to get all the gems.
Thank you for all you do. Oh, no problem, baby girl.
I appreciate you. I appreciate you. I appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
And this is another view from an episode that I
did before. Says, Hey, Jess, I hope you're doing well.
I came across your where's my Dad podcast, and it
touched my heart. I am sorry to hear about the
difficult situation that she's going through. I wanted to share
something with you that might be of help. A friend
of mine went through a similar situation with her mother.
(17:20):
Although she was not adopted. Her twin sister took an
ancestry DNA test and they were able to find family
members from their father's side who helped them locate their
dad after twenty eight years of not knowing him. I
hope it brings some comfort and hope to her.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Also, baby, if you're listening from the Where's My Dad? Podcast?
I told her that I will be checking on her.
I haven't had time, but I will make sure I
check on her today. I absolutely want you to listen
to that.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
I told you. I did not tell you. My people
listen and they love to help.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
You know. These listeners are not just here to gather
gossip ard to be nosy in your business. There are
people that really, really really eating to your stories and
it also can help you. You know, who went further
in their journey, you know what I mean? Who didn't
give up?
Speaker 2 (18:06):
You know?
Speaker 1 (18:06):
And that baby girl, she sounded defeated and a lot.
You know, she was saying she was suicidal and things
like that. Those people need love and they need help,
and any other people supporting them who's gone through something similar,
if not the same exact thing. So I do want
to uplift you that. And Happy love Day, just happy
love day. Sorry that this episode came so late, y'all,
I've been busy as hell. I've been busy as hell.
(18:29):
I took my gum out to read, y'all, But this
shit I go back in. Lord, listen, if y'all have
any suggestions on shit that I can eat, please let
me know, let me know what cannot eat. I'm living
in Jersey now, but the food in Brooklyn is so good,
But I ain't got sign to be going back and
forth like that. I think I'm gonna just hire a
nutritionist and a chef. That's what I need.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
Man.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
I'm getting headaches every goddamn day, and I'm gonna elaborate
more on this as time goes on. But y'all, being
pregnant in your thirties is way different from being pregnant
in your late teens early twenties, sweetheart, Because I was
nineteen when I was pregnant, with ash. I had ash
when I was twenty and chy. I'm talking about everything
was easy, even I was still throwing shots back like
a motherfucking don't let me get into that, because I
(19:14):
didn't know that I was pregnant until I was about
four months pregnant. When I was pregnant with Ashton, you
understand what I'm saying. I didn't really know that I
was pregnant, and me and wrong. We was trying to
get pregnant with ash and I just didn't know that
I was. I didn't start showing it until I was
five months. You know, I got a little baby bomp
right now. But honey, I know thirty two ain't old,
but it will definitely show you the difference between decades
(19:39):
of your life when you get pregnant in your twenties
late teens versus your thirties. Okay, I'm always tired, I'm
always nauseous, and yes, I do take prenatal vitamins.
Speaker 2 (19:50):
I've also secured a duela list. Let me tell you this.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Man went out and got me a duela. I said, no, no, no,
we're gonna get a duela.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
She helps she. I just love my mass so much.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Man, just trying to help make my life easier with this,
and listen, I'm really, really, really happy, and I'm happy
for those who are happy for me.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
I'm happy for those who can really congratulate me.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
My son was happy, ashed and switched at first when
I told him that I was pregnant, because he I
so told him before I told the dad. Okay, my
son is my ace bone Cone, all right, and y'all
can debate this all y'all want, up and down.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I was happy.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
I was a little nervous to tell my son because
it's just been me and him for eleven years.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
You get what I'm saying. So I was like, oh,
I mean, you know, his father has five kids with shit.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
I had just him purposely, you know, so I was
purposely not getting pregnant.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
You get what I'm saying. I was like, man, I'm pregnant. Ash.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
He was like, that's cold. It's gonna be a boy.
I was happier, So I felt like I just scored
a touchdown y'all. I was so freaking happy. You know,
my baby is supportive of me. You get what I'm saying.
That's all I need, my village, my family, my mom.
When I told her. She was like, Oh my god,
you're gonna do it this time, and we're gonna do
it right, and we're gonna listen my baby, my first baby.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
Daddy was saying, Rome was happiest shit.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
So you got my blessing, Roe, Li, nobody needs your
damn blessing after you had five damn kids. You want
to talk about giving me a blessing. But he's protective
over me as well. You know our relationship me and
my first son's dad, That relationship is protected and sacred
to him as well.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
So I mean a lot to the people I need
to mean a lot to. I mean a lot to Rome,
I mean a lot to my son. I mean a
lot to Chris. I mean a lot to my parents.
I mean a lot to a lot of fucking people.
I mean a lot to y'all. The people listening to
me every Wednesday, looking forward for me to fix mess
and and to come on this podcast and give twenty
(21:43):
twenty five minutes of my time. That's why I love y'all.
That's why I do this shit. You get what I'm saying.
My voice is so fucking powerful, So that's why I
had some mature and evolve and clean my shit up.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
You get what I'm saying Now, I'm gonna still cuss
like a sailor.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
Y'all probably said I'm like fifty, but know y'all love
me man, and I love y'all too. And just like that,
we've come to the end of yet another carefully reckless
episode with your girl jas hilarious. Tune in every Wednesday.
Peace Can't Fully Reckless is a production of iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (23:22):
And The Black Effect.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.
Popular Podcasts
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations.
The Nikki Glaser Podcast
Every week comedian and infamous roaster Nikki Glaser provides a fun, fast-paced, and brutally honest look into current pop-culture and her own personal life.
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.