October 11, 2023 • 15 mins
Hola, Hola! It’s Wednesday and that means we’re back with another episode of Dear Chiquis. Thanks to Steph, Cesar, Lesly and Vanessa for submitting their questions this week. Today, we talk about situationships and whether they’re worth investing energy into; furthering the mission of the Jenni Rivera Love Foundation; remembering fans; and tips for beating self-doubt.
Submit your questions at speakpipe.com/chiquisandchillpodcast! And don’t forget to listen to “Chiquis and Chill” every Monday. They’re longer podcast episodes filled with personal stories and interviews with special guests.
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Speaker 1 (00:19):
Hello, everyone, it's your go Cheeky's and you've reached the
voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you
advice on anything and everything you need help with. Maybe
you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with
your family, or maybe you need help figuring out how
to balance your checkbook or how to start a business,
whatever the cases, I want to hear from you. Remember
these are my thoughts and opinions, and if you're suffering
(00:40):
from an issue or hardship, you should seek help from
a qualified professional. All right, Now, go ahead and leave
your question at the sound of the beeB.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Hi Cheeky's. I want to first start off by saying
that I love you so much and thank you so
much for giving us this podcast to ask you questions.
So my question to you is about situationships. Do you
think it's worth it to just be hooking up with
a guy knowing that it's not going anywhere, like for
(01:11):
fun or do you think that we as women should
value ourselves a little more and like not do it?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
But you know, like sometimes like you need those needs
and you're like, oh, it's fine, like as long as
we both know that it's just tucking up like it's fine,
or like, what are your thoughts about that? Very interested
to know what you think about that, because you're a
very honest girl, so I know you're gonna tell me
how it is.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
But anyway, Bixis, thank you so much for everything. By
the way, I love you and the media together. You
guys are so freaking cute and you guys are just
such a good looking couple. Like damn girl, you did
that and he did that because you a boss. As Anyways,
I love you so much, and tell your siblings that
I love him too, especially Jenica, because shout out to Jenica.
I love your tiktoking. Okay, I love you byeay.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Yeah if I love you, Thank you, Mama, thank you
so much. Thank you for listening to dear Cheeky's and
sending in your question. Of course, you guys know I
always give the advice from the bottom of my heart
and definitely like a big sister friend situation But okay,
so your situationship, it all depends where you are in
your life. Okay, if you can do this and do
(02:23):
the hanky panky, which is sex, Okay, if you can
do it without getting your feelings involved, and you guys
are both on the same page and mature enough to
not get jealous if someone else is around or if
he has another situationship with someone else. It has to
be a mature decision and it has to be straight
up from the beginning, like, Hey, this is sex and
this is all it is, and don't let your feelings
(02:43):
get involve girl, because that's when it gets real messy
and sticky. If you don't have a boyfriend and your
single girl, do whatever you want with yo, ask girl. Okay.
But here's the other side of the token. If you
are ready to find someone in your life that you
want forever, like you want your person, I feel it.
(03:04):
I believe that it's best to not get involved with anyone,
even if it's just sex, because you're giving yourself to
this person and the universe and God sees it as Okay,
she's busy. I can't bring that person into her life
because she's involved in something and you're exchanging energy. Regardless
(03:25):
having sex kissing, it's still exchanging energy and it affects
you emotionally spiritually, whether you want to believe it or not.
We're all energy beings. We're energy. We share energy. So
that's why I'm saying it all depends where you're at.
So I would say give yourself some space. If you're
trying to find a special person in the person that's
going to be with you for a long time and
hopefully forever, it's good to give yourself that space and
(03:47):
cleanse yourself and prepare yourself for that person that you're
trying to attract. That is my honest opinion. I don't
think there's anything wrong with you having sex and having
a sex buddy, but if that's not going anywhere, it's
also like, okay, you have to ask yourself what do
I want, what do I really want, and then you
decide from there. Hopefully that made sense. Stuff. But thank
(04:07):
you so much. Thank you for watching my sister on
TikTok Jenica. Let her know you said hi, and listen
to her podcast too. Okay, over comfort anyways, Okay, thank
you so much, Stefan Malasito. I hope everything you know
goes well and we're protection. Okay. So next question comes
from Sessa.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Hi Jeekie's. I have been a huge fan of you
and your family for many many years. Like most of
your fans, I continue to be inspired by the growth
that you and all your siblings have made after dealing
with so much trauma in your lives. Like you, M
a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, and actually was inspired
by the resiliency that you, Jackie, and your mom have
and how you were all able to grow after the
(04:48):
abuse that you suffered. I was so inspired that now
I actually work providing prevention education to community and survivors
on how to prevent violence within their homes and within
the community. My question to you is do you and
your siblings have plans to continue and or expand the
work that the Jenny Rivera Foundation is doing for survivors everywhere?
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Sisad, You know what I love is that you speak
perfect English, but you still pronounce your name Cesa and
not Caesar. I don't know just how to say that.
Thank you, and I think it's very admirable what you're
doing for our community and that you are not victimizing
yourself or feeling That's something that I always say here
on the podcast. It's something my mom taught me. Yes,
(05:29):
we went through sexual abuse, but that does not define
who we're going to be. We're not going to be
a statistic in the world. So honestly, congratulations to you.
I love what you're doing. And yes, my sister and
I are very passionate, all of us really about philanthropy
and helping and giving back, and it's something my mom
taught us. It's something that just comes natural to us.
(05:51):
So right now we're kind of organizing everything in Jenny
Rivera Enterprises and Jenny Rivera Love Foundation is a huge
part of it, and we are just finding the right
time and the right way to do so. So the
plans are to do something and continue to do something
with my mom's legacy and what she left because that's
something she started. But right now we're still like organizing everything,
(06:12):
and you guys will hear about it for sure. I
think next year is going to be the year where
we're going to finish at the Gila because that's one
of the projects, and then we're going to like hone
in and focus on Jenny Rivera Love Foundation. So wait
for that, cessare. I would love for you to be
a part of it, for sure. So thank you so
much for being so interested and for your question. I
love it. So our next question comes from Leslie.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Hello, my love, I love you so much. I have
been following you for years and I have actually had
the blessing to meet you three times. I actually met
to this last time at the casting, and you always
seem to remember me and recognize me. I don't like
to go off and crazy. I like to keep my cool.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
We took a groop.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
Picture and then you turned around and you looked at
me and you're like, hey, I know you, and then
you gave me a hug, and oh, you do not
know how much that means to me, Like I love
you so much. On the outside, I keep my cool,
but on the inside I am dying of excitement. But
my question number one to you is how is it
that you remember me? How is that you remember a fan?
(07:21):
What about them is memorable to you?
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Two?
Speaker 5 (07:25):
I actually deal with anxiety and I actually had it
during the casting, like it was creeping up on me
and I almost walked out. But hey, no, no, no,
I have been good and I have been getting out
of my comfort zone this year, and I was not
about to walk out. What do you recommend, like any tips?
I have been wanting to try microdosing. I just don't
(07:46):
know where to start, So you can give me a
little information about that or a little bit more tips
about that. I have been looking it up. But everybody's different,
everybody starts at a different dosage. And yeah, just want
to let you know that I love you so much
and you do not know how excited I get when
(08:07):
I meet you. I love you. Thank you so much
for everything.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Cheeky's all, Leslie. I know exactly who you are. I
know what Leslie you are. I remember that moment because
I hadn't seen you in a long time. I was
very pleasantly surprised to see you, so thank you so much.
I'm so glad that your anxiety didn't get the best
of you because I was happy to see you. And
I'm proud of you for going because I know doing
(08:31):
something like that is not easy, so you should be
very proud of yourself. I didn't know you suffered from anxiety,
and that probably explains why you feel like on the
inside you're like really excited. On the outside, you don't
show it that much. It's because you're shy, and I
get that. Let me answer your second question first. Now
that we're on the anxiety subject, micro docing is something
(08:53):
that I definitely recommend. Again, I'm not a doctor, I
would say, look into it, your research. I do it. Again,
it's still not legal, you guys, but hopefully it will
be legal because it's something that I think can help
the human race and just the world in general, the earth.
(09:13):
So hopefully it does become legalized very soon. But if
you're going to start it, make sure that you get
it from someone that does it as organically as possible
and some type of spiritual growth. You know that they
are you're gonna know. And don't do it in chocolates.
I don't recommend doing chocolates or anything like that. I
would do it in a pill form, in the purest
form possible and starting with the lowest dosage. Okay, but again,
(09:37):
look into it, do your research. There's a lot of videos,
there's a lot of information out there. And also if
you don't want a microdose, I would suggest meditation. Meditation
helps so much, babe, because anxiety is worrying about something
that hasn't even happened yet. So I always say, this
depression is something that you're stuck in the past, and
anxiety is you're worrying about tomorrow about something that hasn't
(09:59):
even had So it's like, I think you just have
to like be in the moment and be present and
meditate and just say okay, I'm good. Breathe in, breathe out.
That helps so much. Sounds very very simple, but it's not.
It's a little hard when you first start, but try that.
That will definitely help you so much. Breath work, meditation, therapy, praying,
going to church, all that stuff that puts you and
(10:22):
centers you and your higher self will help with anxiety.
I know it from personal experience. So now your first
question was how do you remember fans? So I'm very
good with faces. I'm not very good with names. When
I see a face, it's very very rare when I
forget the person's face, especially if it's someone that has
given me so much love and it's a part of
my boss be nation, and you guys are so important
(10:43):
to me. You have no idea how important you guys
are that I hadn't seen you in so long and
I remembered you right away, because I'm just good with that,
Like I'm like, I'm connected to you guys forever because
you guys have given so much to me, So the
least I could do is remember your face. So I'm
very good with that, very rare when I remember your name,
but now I won't forget, so hopefully I get to
see you again, Mama, see that, and I hope you're
(11:05):
doing well, and I hope the anxiety gets better. Okay,
so our last question comes from Vanessa.
Speaker 6 (11:13):
Hi Chiki's I'm a huge fan. I have read both
of your books and your mom's book, and I am
just so in awe of both of you.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
Strong Jingo Nasa.
Speaker 6 (11:24):
You guys inspire me, and you guys made me realize
that I'm not alone in this world, and so I
wanted to ask you for some guidance slash advice. So
I have really good dreams and goals for myself, and
two of those are to be a professional fighter and
to be a successful real estate agent. And I just
got my license about like a little over two years ago,
(11:46):
so I'm.
Speaker 5 (11:46):
So fresh at it.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
So I do remind myself that it takes time and
I have to keep pushing. But yeah, these past two
years of my life have definitely been rough personally, and
things are finally starting to feel better. But now that
I feel that I have the time to pursue both
of my dreams, I feel like I've ventured some form
of depression and I don't know how to get out
(12:09):
of it. I know I'm really nervous for what's to
come ahead. I know that this is a time, but
I just feel like I'm too scared of that I'm
going to fail. And what's your advice as to how
to prepare myself for what's to come?
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Well, Vanessa, the fact that you are asking for advice
is great. Anything that's new is always scary. When you're
stepping into the unknown, it always makes you nervous. It's
completely normal. I think you need to know that it's
completely normal. Don't beat yourself up about it. Don't feel
(12:44):
like what's wrong with me or anything. Because these dreams
that you have are amazing. They're big dreams, but they're
definitely doable. You know, especially with your real estate license.
You already have it. That's good. I think you're being
very smart. You should give yourself some credit for that.
Because you want to fight and be a fighter, which
is awesome, but then you have that other side where
(13:05):
it's like, Okay, I'm gonna fight and I'm going to
do real estate. That those are two things that you
can like really be your own boss at and make
your own schedule. So that's great. I think both of
those two combined are awesome. I think more than anything,
you need to shake off as much as you possibly can,
like the what if, what if I don't make it,
what if people don't like me? I got to remove
(13:25):
that out of my mind and go for it and
take a leap of faith and take risks and know
that no matter what happens, it is meant to be.
It is meant to be that way, and you will
find the tools of correct tools to continue forward, regardless
whether you are a very successful fighter or life takes
you a different route. So you just have to live
(13:47):
in the moment and really just take it day by day.
Don't think about what's going to happen tomorrow. Believe me.
I know, I know it's hard not to, but you
have to be like, you know, right now, I can
take this towards my dream right now. This is what
I can do right now, and just do that and
just have faith that everything is going to be okay.
I mean, you have your license already, and you're a fighter,
(14:10):
and you know, and the good thing is you're moving
your body, which is good. I was gonna tell you
work out, working out helps you just release toxins, mental
toxins and just all kinds of toxins that make you
just feel happier, endorphins and all that good stuff. So
you're doing that. So I think it's just it's your mind,
and your mind is very, very strong, so focus on
something positive. I'm reading this book right now that is
(14:31):
called Don't Believe Everything You Think. Find it Don't Believe
Everything you think, and it helps you so much of
just like you know what, I have the power of
manifesting my future and my destiny by just changing my thoughts.
So try that and read that book. It's going to
help you. You guys. You guys are seriously like the
best fans ever. I am so grateful to have this
(14:51):
platform where I can connect with you all. Thank you Steph, Sasa, Leslie,
and Vanessa for submitting their questions. I appreciate you guys
so much. If you I like to be featured on
the podcast, head over to Speakpipe dot com, slash Cheeky's
and Chill Podcast. I can't wait to hear from you guys.
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Hello, everyone, it's your go Cheeky's and you've reached the
voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you
advice on anything and everything you need help with. Maybe
you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with
your family, or maybe you need help figuring out how
to balance your checkbook or how to start a business,
whatever the cases, I want to hear from you. Remember
these are my thoughts and opinions, and if you're suffering
(00:40):
from an issue or hardship, you should seek help from
a qualified professional. All right, Now, go ahead and leave
your question at the sound of the beeB.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Hi Cheeky's. I want to first start off by saying
that I love you so much and thank you so
much for giving us this podcast to ask you questions.
So my question to you is about situationships. Do you
think it's worth it to just be hooking up with
a guy knowing that it's not going anywhere, like for
(01:11):
fun or do you think that we as women should
value ourselves a little more and like not do it?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
But you know, like sometimes like you need those needs
and you're like, oh, it's fine, like as long as
we both know that it's just tucking up like it's fine,
or like, what are your thoughts about that? Very interested
to know what you think about that, because you're a
very honest girl, so I know you're gonna tell me
how it is.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
But anyway, Bixis, thank you so much for everything. By
the way, I love you and the media together. You
guys are so freaking cute and you guys are just
such a good looking couple. Like damn girl, you did
that and he did that because you a boss. As Anyways,
I love you so much, and tell your siblings that
I love him too, especially Jenica, because shout out to Jenica.
I love your tiktoking. Okay, I love you byeay.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Yeah if I love you, Thank you, Mama, thank you
so much. Thank you for listening to dear Cheeky's and
sending in your question. Of course, you guys know I
always give the advice from the bottom of my heart
and definitely like a big sister friend situation But okay,
so your situationship, it all depends where you are in
your life. Okay, if you can do this and do
(02:23):
the hanky panky, which is sex, Okay, if you can
do it without getting your feelings involved, and you guys
are both on the same page and mature enough to
not get jealous if someone else is around or if
he has another situationship with someone else. It has to
be a mature decision and it has to be straight
up from the beginning, like, Hey, this is sex and
this is all it is, and don't let your feelings
(02:43):
get involve girl, because that's when it gets real messy
and sticky. If you don't have a boyfriend and your
single girl, do whatever you want with yo, ask girl. Okay.
But here's the other side of the token. If you
are ready to find someone in your life that you
want forever, like you want your person, I feel it.
(03:04):
I believe that it's best to not get involved with anyone,
even if it's just sex, because you're giving yourself to
this person and the universe and God sees it as Okay,
she's busy. I can't bring that person into her life
because she's involved in something and you're exchanging energy. Regardless
(03:25):
having sex kissing, it's still exchanging energy and it affects
you emotionally spiritually, whether you want to believe it or not.
We're all energy beings. We're energy. We share energy. So
that's why I'm saying it all depends where you're at.
So I would say give yourself some space. If you're
trying to find a special person in the person that's
going to be with you for a long time and
hopefully forever, it's good to give yourself that space and
(03:47):
cleanse yourself and prepare yourself for that person that you're
trying to attract. That is my honest opinion. I don't
think there's anything wrong with you having sex and having
a sex buddy, but if that's not going anywhere, it's
also like, okay, you have to ask yourself what do
I want, what do I really want, and then you
decide from there. Hopefully that made sense. Stuff. But thank
(04:07):
you so much. Thank you for watching my sister on
TikTok Jenica. Let her know you said hi, and listen
to her podcast too. Okay, over comfort anyways, Okay, thank
you so much, Stefan Malasito. I hope everything you know
goes well and we're protection. Okay. So next question comes
from Sessa.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Hi Jeekie's. I have been a huge fan of you
and your family for many many years. Like most of
your fans, I continue to be inspired by the growth
that you and all your siblings have made after dealing
with so much trauma in your lives. Like you, M
a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, and actually was inspired
by the resiliency that you, Jackie, and your mom have
and how you were all able to grow after the
(04:48):
abuse that you suffered. I was so inspired that now
I actually work providing prevention education to community and survivors
on how to prevent violence within their homes and within
the community. My question to you is do you and
your siblings have plans to continue and or expand the
work that the Jenny Rivera Foundation is doing for survivors everywhere?
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Sisad, You know what I love is that you speak
perfect English, but you still pronounce your name Cesa and
not Caesar. I don't know just how to say that.
Thank you, and I think it's very admirable what you're
doing for our community and that you are not victimizing
yourself or feeling That's something that I always say here
on the podcast. It's something my mom taught me. Yes,
(05:29):
we went through sexual abuse, but that does not define
who we're going to be. We're not going to be
a statistic in the world. So honestly, congratulations to you.
I love what you're doing. And yes, my sister and
I are very passionate, all of us really about philanthropy
and helping and giving back, and it's something my mom
taught us. It's something that just comes natural to us.
(05:51):
So right now we're kind of organizing everything in Jenny
Rivera Enterprises and Jenny Rivera Love Foundation is a huge
part of it, and we are just finding the right
time and the right way to do so. So the
plans are to do something and continue to do something
with my mom's legacy and what she left because that's
something she started. But right now we're still like organizing everything,
(06:12):
and you guys will hear about it for sure. I
think next year is going to be the year where
we're going to finish at the Gila because that's one
of the projects, and then we're going to like hone
in and focus on Jenny Rivera Love Foundation. So wait
for that, cessare. I would love for you to be
a part of it, for sure. So thank you so
much for being so interested and for your question. I
love it. So our next question comes from Leslie.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Hello, my love, I love you so much. I have
been following you for years and I have actually had
the blessing to meet you three times. I actually met
to this last time at the casting, and you always
seem to remember me and recognize me. I don't like
to go off and crazy. I like to keep my cool.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
We took a groop.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
Picture and then you turned around and you looked at
me and you're like, hey, I know you, and then
you gave me a hug, and oh, you do not
know how much that means to me, Like I love
you so much. On the outside, I keep my cool,
but on the inside I am dying of excitement. But
my question number one to you is how is it
that you remember me? How is that you remember a fan?
(07:21):
What about them is memorable to you?
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Two?
Speaker 5 (07:25):
I actually deal with anxiety and I actually had it
during the casting, like it was creeping up on me
and I almost walked out. But hey, no, no, no,
I have been good and I have been getting out
of my comfort zone this year, and I was not
about to walk out. What do you recommend, like any tips?
I have been wanting to try microdosing. I just don't
(07:46):
know where to start, So you can give me a
little information about that or a little bit more tips
about that. I have been looking it up. But everybody's different,
everybody starts at a different dosage. And yeah, just want
to let you know that I love you so much
and you do not know how excited I get when
(08:07):
I meet you. I love you. Thank you so much
for everything.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Cheeky's all, Leslie. I know exactly who you are. I
know what Leslie you are. I remember that moment because
I hadn't seen you in a long time. I was
very pleasantly surprised to see you, so thank you so much.
I'm so glad that your anxiety didn't get the best
of you because I was happy to see you. And
I'm proud of you for going because I know doing
(08:31):
something like that is not easy, so you should be
very proud of yourself. I didn't know you suffered from anxiety,
and that probably explains why you feel like on the
inside you're like really excited. On the outside, you don't
show it that much. It's because you're shy, and I
get that. Let me answer your second question first. Now
that we're on the anxiety subject, micro docing is something
(08:53):
that I definitely recommend. Again, I'm not a doctor, I
would say, look into it, your research. I do it. Again,
it's still not legal, you guys, but hopefully it will
be legal because it's something that I think can help
the human race and just the world in general, the earth.
(09:13):
So hopefully it does become legalized very soon. But if
you're going to start it, make sure that you get
it from someone that does it as organically as possible
and some type of spiritual growth. You know that they
are you're gonna know. And don't do it in chocolates.
I don't recommend doing chocolates or anything like that. I
would do it in a pill form, in the purest
form possible and starting with the lowest dosage. Okay, but again,
(09:37):
look into it, do your research. There's a lot of videos,
there's a lot of information out there. And also if
you don't want a microdose, I would suggest meditation. Meditation
helps so much, babe, because anxiety is worrying about something
that hasn't even happened yet. So I always say, this
depression is something that you're stuck in the past, and
anxiety is you're worrying about tomorrow about something that hasn't
(09:59):
even had So it's like, I think you just have
to like be in the moment and be present and
meditate and just say okay, I'm good. Breathe in, breathe out.
That helps so much. Sounds very very simple, but it's not.
It's a little hard when you first start, but try that.
That will definitely help you so much. Breath work, meditation, therapy, praying,
going to church, all that stuff that puts you and
(10:22):
centers you and your higher self will help with anxiety.
I know it from personal experience. So now your first
question was how do you remember fans? So I'm very
good with faces. I'm not very good with names. When
I see a face, it's very very rare when I
forget the person's face, especially if it's someone that has
given me so much love and it's a part of
my boss be nation, and you guys are so important
(10:43):
to me. You have no idea how important you guys
are that I hadn't seen you in so long and
I remembered you right away, because I'm just good with that,
Like I'm like, I'm connected to you guys forever because
you guys have given so much to me, So the
least I could do is remember your face. So I'm
very good with that, very rare when I remember your name,
but now I won't forget, so hopefully I get to
see you again, Mama, see that, and I hope you're
(11:05):
doing well, and I hope the anxiety gets better. Okay,
so our last question comes from Vanessa.
Speaker 6 (11:13):
Hi Chiki's I'm a huge fan. I have read both
of your books and your mom's book, and I am
just so in awe of both of you.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
Strong Jingo Nasa.
Speaker 6 (11:24):
You guys inspire me, and you guys made me realize
that I'm not alone in this world, and so I
wanted to ask you for some guidance slash advice. So
I have really good dreams and goals for myself, and
two of those are to be a professional fighter and
to be a successful real estate agent. And I just
got my license about like a little over two years ago,
(11:46):
so I'm.
Speaker 5 (11:46):
So fresh at it.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
So I do remind myself that it takes time and
I have to keep pushing. But yeah, these past two
years of my life have definitely been rough personally, and
things are finally starting to feel better. But now that
I feel that I have the time to pursue both
of my dreams, I feel like I've ventured some form
of depression and I don't know how to get out
(12:09):
of it. I know I'm really nervous for what's to
come ahead. I know that this is a time, but
I just feel like I'm too scared of that I'm
going to fail. And what's your advice as to how
to prepare myself for what's to come?
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Well, Vanessa, the fact that you are asking for advice
is great. Anything that's new is always scary. When you're
stepping into the unknown, it always makes you nervous. It's
completely normal. I think you need to know that it's
completely normal. Don't beat yourself up about it. Don't feel
(12:44):
like what's wrong with me or anything. Because these dreams
that you have are amazing. They're big dreams, but they're
definitely doable. You know, especially with your real estate license.
You already have it. That's good. I think you're being
very smart. You should give yourself some credit for that.
Because you want to fight and be a fighter, which
is awesome, but then you have that other side where
(13:05):
it's like, Okay, I'm gonna fight and I'm going to
do real estate. That those are two things that you
can like really be your own boss at and make
your own schedule. So that's great. I think both of
those two combined are awesome. I think more than anything,
you need to shake off as much as you possibly can,
like the what if, what if I don't make it,
what if people don't like me? I got to remove
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that out of my mind and go for it and
take a leap of faith and take risks and know
that no matter what happens, it is meant to be.
It is meant to be that way, and you will
find the tools of correct tools to continue forward, regardless
whether you are a very successful fighter or life takes
you a different route. So you just have to live
(13:47):
in the moment and really just take it day by day.
Don't think about what's going to happen tomorrow. Believe me.
I know, I know it's hard not to, but you
have to be like, you know, right now, I can
take this towards my dream right now. This is what
I can do right now, and just do that and
just have faith that everything is going to be okay.
I mean, you have your license already, and you're a fighter,
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and you know, and the good thing is you're moving
your body, which is good. I was gonna tell you
work out, working out helps you just release toxins, mental
toxins and just all kinds of toxins that make you
just feel happier, endorphins and all that good stuff. So
you're doing that. So I think it's just it's your mind,
and your mind is very, very strong, so focus on
something positive. I'm reading this book right now that is
(14:31):
called Don't Believe Everything You Think. Find it Don't Believe
Everything you think, and it helps you so much of
just like you know what, I have the power of
manifesting my future and my destiny by just changing my thoughts.
So try that and read that book. It's going to
help you. You guys. You guys are seriously like the
best fans ever. I am so grateful to have this
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platform where I can connect with you all. Thank you Steph, Sasa, Leslie,
and Vanessa for submitting their questions. I appreciate you guys
so much. If you I like to be featured on
the podcast, head over to Speakpipe dot com, slash Cheeky's
and Chill Podcast. I can't wait to hear from you guys.
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