Sharelle is joined by W.A.G.s to Riches star Porsha Berto to react to Joy Taylor's recent podcast appearance where she discussed her relationship red flags, Mother's Day affirmations, postpartum depression, and much more!
01:38 - Getting Your Sexy Back
17:15 - Sharelle’s Perfect Man
22:41 - Joy Taylor’s Relationship Red Flags
29:13 – Humble Baddies Mailbag
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Like get in my way, never out of mind name.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
It's been like you one and the more one, so
it is gonna be baby squad. We past let's get
it out saying well, let's get we get it this
one you can relate to portion because you got your
sexy back and it is getting your sex sea back
after having a baby.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Mother's Day is this Sunday.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
We'll shout out to all the mother's Happy Mother's Day.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
We love y'all. Hope y'all man.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Do it for y'all, y'all kid to take a nap,
That's what I hope.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
I hope. Do you think mother they should be spent
with the kids or a long time?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Okay, let me not say that. So I think for
this is what I've been doing for like the last
two or three years. For the first half of the day,
we get up and we do things with our moms,
which is like not for me because I'm like spending
time with your mom and my mom, so that's for them.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
For me.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
After we use the brunch and the things and the
pictures and the cute shit, I'm gonna need you to
get me a hotel room up the street, check me in,
take the kids home, Bring me some Chipotle, bring me
Krispy Kreme, bring me a PEPSI, let me watch, bring
me the fire stick. I'm trying to watch housewives and
(01:19):
let me sleep alone. And I've done this for like
the past three years. I will spend the day with
the kids, with his mama, with my mama. But then
after that, I'm going up the street to that hotel
and he doesn't even stay, like he'll literally drop me off.
He'll bring me food, will usually have sex, and then
he leaves and I sleep there in the bed all
(01:41):
by myself, and it's wow, it's perfect. But you don't
get you don't get piped down before you before you
say absolutely, and he leaves.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
He goes. He doesn't even stay. He goes.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
He's like, okay, watch housewives. I'm like, yup, and that's it.
And he come get me in the morning. The greatest
gift idea I've ever had for myself. And I would
like to continue the tradition.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
That's right. I have been.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I'm spending time with my babies. Then we probably go
out to eat, and I just want to be lazy.
How can you be lazy if you spending time with
your baby that's what I'm gonna be lazy. Look, I'm
gonna get this is the time, what the whole day.
Serenity can have her path, the whole our path the
whole day, because that's gonna keep my busy.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
She's gonna be tuned in. Listen, we're gonna be good.
It's just dumb.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Mother's Day is a lot because you go, you do
the bronch, you do the stuff.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
You gotta get everybody dressed.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Like an outing with all of your children is just
that's just not relaxing to me. I'll do it, you
know what I mean. But if you ask me what
I really want, I'm gonna stay at home. Mom. I'm
riddled with children. I've got a gaggle of kids downstairs
right now. They're clawing at the door like little animals,
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waiting for me to come out like I don't on
Mother's Day.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Put me at that courtyard Marriott and close the door.
I will see you in the morning. Period. I know
that's right. You should it.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Okay, all right, baddies, let's talk about something real. We're
diving into the raw, beautiful emotional chaos of postpartum a
fourth trimester. That what the hell just happened to my body,
my mind, and my soul. Season you brought life into
this world, and now you're trying to remember the parts
(03:47):
of you that existed before diaper bag, leaky boots, split deprivation,
and us solicited advice.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
It's say rye, y'all.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
So today we're having a conversation that's not sure you
called it. We're talking body image, mental health, sensuality, confidence,
and how the hell did you get your sexy back
after becoming someone's mama, because yes, you are a mother,
but you're still a woman and she deserves to shine too.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
That was cute, brother from So it's like the five.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Key things people tell don't tell you about postpartum and
I think you can speak on that because you just
and you probably dealing with it or you just had
your baby and I know it's hectic.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Well, first things.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
First, postpartum is the ghetto, and nobody told me. I
mean I heard a lot about, like, you know, postparum depression,
which I didn't really think that I had it before.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Maybe I didn't, Maybe i'll it was just disassociating.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I have no idea, but I definitely feel it more
so with this one than I did the first two
like full on. You know they say the baby blues
last like two weeks, three weeks, anything after that, like
you need to talk to somebody, girl. That postpartum depression
hit me like a mac truck. Like a mac truck,
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everything was wrong and nothing was wrong.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
I love everything, I hated everything it was.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
It was just I don't I don't know, But this
time Andre didn't get on my nerves.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
When I had Legacy, I hated him so much. Oh,
it was so bad. Friend.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
When I had Legacy, I didn't want nothing to do
with Andrea on his face, But this time he's the
only person I want to be around.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Do you think it's because the genders or I don't
know what it is.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
I think it was just a shock of the first kid,
Like I resented him so much. Yeah, you're you're different.
It's something new to you. Your whole body is changing,
and you're like, what the fuck did that? Only that
it felt like my life had completely changed and his
didn't at all. Everything looked different for me, and his
shit just looked like it was just another day. Like, Oh,
(06:21):
I'm just gonna watch Game of Thrones. I know you
haven't slept in six days.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
But you got this, you know what I mean, Like
it was just not damn acne.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
It was Oh it was the ghetto. Like I said,
it was the ghetto. So I resented him real bad.
The first one. I didn't want nothing to do with him.
I was just like, you got it too easy over here,
this is whack, like return to Cender on this.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
This is crazy this time. I think it was just.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
I don't know. I think my age probably played a
part because my first kid, I was twenty eight.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
I'm thirty five now. The pregnancy was a little bit different.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
I assume post problem would be too, So I think
I experienced a little bit more sadness.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
It's time around.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
I think in my body pretty much to do the
same thing all all three times. Like you know, I'm
a little bony thing, so great, I ain't holding no weight,
not really. So that's that was, you know what this
little bit, this this is a question to help new
you know parents, mothers that just you know, had their
first one and they're going through it, and they're looking
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at these moms because it's been a trend. Like a
lot of these moms, it's like a gold as soon
as you have your baby or a week lady, you
posting like my baby pick after I did and had
my baby, and.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
It's like did you wear your baby? Like did you
really have a bag or were you really pregnant?
Speaker 2 (07:52):
You know? How did you feel sexy again when your
body feels like it's been through war?
Speaker 1 (08:01):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
I just think it takes time, because to say it's
one thing to look sexy, it's another thing to feel sexy.
And I'm almost six months out and I can put
it on something and be like, oh, yeah, I look sexy,
But that doesn't mean that I feel sexy.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Like I have to.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Take my brain and turn it off of my mode
and then turn it onto like a sexual person time,
you know.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
What I mean. I'm not walking around all day just
feeling sexy. I'm just not.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
I feel like a mess. I'm like a utility. I'm breastfeeding.
They want things from me, They're hanging all over me,
like I'm just not in that and that that frame
of mind, like almost ever until I purposely comb my hair,
put on something decent, go somewhere with my man alone,
(08:53):
and then I start to feel better. But it's just
it's hard to get away. It's hard to tear away
from the routine. But like I mean, you just have
to do things for yourself, even if it's just little
stuff like I get in asauna. That's fifty minutes. It's
the best fifty minutes, you know what I mean. Update
sometimes because it's just quiet, you know what I mean.
(09:14):
But I'm not far away from my kids because I'm
I'm crazy attached like a velcrow mom. And I think
that's the that's the thing too. And for all the fathers,
that's so listen, not here. Help help that, you know,
help your wife or your girlfriend or your mate out
because they even if it's like thirty minutes, just give
them that time to you know, regroup.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
And it's okay.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Like I feel like the communication is not there, like
and it's okay for that mother to say, baby, can
you just take care of the baby for like fifteen
to twenty minutes while I just regrip, just have I
think something else we need to normalize is like what
is considered a break and what is considered time. Because
a shower's not a break, no necessity, people need to bathe,
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you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
I mean, like showers not a break.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Going to the Bathroom's not a break, like grocery shopping
is not a break. It's still a task like.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
You just takes. It takes a lot.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
I feel like if men just understood, like how like
and they just never will those hormones.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
It is just something different. It's something different.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
It's something that you really can't even explain, but it
requires all the patients that you have inside of you,
like to deal with somebody who's going through that. So
I feel like for me, getting my sexy back was
a lot of working out, you know what I mean,
going to the gym, really taking care of myself, getting
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in the sauna, eating the right things, you know, putting
the right things.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
In my body.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Just feeling like feeling clean, you know, feeling like healthy
is what makes feeling healthy makes me feel sexy, which
you know, sometimes it is hard to do when you
have kids, are a very young baby, and that's what
mothers have to realize, like not only do you have
to take care of your baby, but you also have
to take care of your your body too.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
You have to get your body back together.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
You can't just put all your focus on your child,
like you have to get yourself back in shape and
make sure, you're good just as well as your You know,
you're taking care of your child, and it's okay to
take time out. Of course, follow the doctor roof the timeframe.
But get back in that gym and get yourself, lose
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that water weight, the baby weight or whatever. It's okay
to do that. What do you think about that? What
do you think about the the snap back culture? Because
they have mixed feelings. Girl, I'm snapping back when I
tell you I had serenity.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
I had my waist trainer on.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
As soon as I deliver her, I put that waist
trainer on, and like I I my doctor always told me,
of course, you know, do what your body allows you.
Of course I have about to go on and jam
and start lifting weights and do all this. And you
know I'll slowly starting off with a little walk and
(12:07):
then progress from a walk to a little job, and
from a job.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
It's a easy working out. Because you was on my ass.
Oh you need jail the people how you was on
my ass? You was on my ass.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
You was on my Your ass wasn't even a good
three weeks saying, and you lift in fifteen twenty five pounds.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
I'm like point told me to do that. That was
a mistake. I just thought it was light.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I was like, what like, it was just shocking to
me that I just could not get this thing. And
I was like, my inside is about to fall out.
I was strapping back, that's all I said. Push, wait going, you.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
Cannot lift weights now? Oh? Inside everything about to drop out? Yeah, girly.
So you was like, okay, when you finna start walking?
You know what I mean? You did. You did motivate me,
you encouraged me, but I was walking.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Yes, I told you. I'm saying, you know you can,
you can start walking. But your ass went from zerol
to one thousand real quick. And I'm like, hold up
for get back real quickick, okay, I put that weight,
be held down.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
I learned real quick. All it was horrible. Yes, okay.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
So before we go into our next segment, a little
affirmation and advice for Mom's and Mother's Day. Before we close,
we want to speak directly to every mama listening, whether
it's your first baby or your fifth. You're allowed to
be softed, sean. You are allowed to breathe your old
self and still love your news. You're not broken. You
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are becoming sexy. Doesn't have an inspiration date. And mother
to day is at the end of your power. It's
the beginning of a deeper one. This Mother's Day, we
see you, we honor you, and we're rooting for every
version of you that is still unfolding. Happy Mother's Day, beautiful,
Happy Mother's Day.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
It was beautiful.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Thank you, Nap, Get you a room. It's some chipotle please,
hella me thing?
Speaker 1 (14:17):
What are we talking about?
Speaker 2 (14:18):
Child?
Speaker 1 (14:18):
What is this? What the bay? Charrell's perfect?
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Man?
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Oh yeah, let me get my phone, let me do
the bay. We're gonna do it. Okay, we about to
do this. I cannot thank you because.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
I feel like I have like your type, like you're perfect,
but I don't know. We're gonna do this for people,
and we're gonna we're gonna test. We're gonna test where
your heart really at. Okay, rapid fire, don't sleep on
the questions, rapid fire.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
All right, you're ready?
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Okay, what so get two choices, right, I'm gonna say
two things.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
You pick the one.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
That resonates the most, and we put them all together,
and that's your that's your build, debate, that's your baby,
and then we go out.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
We're gonna find that.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
We're not gonna find that, we're gonna pray for that,
and then he's gonna find you.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
Boom you ready, I'll say say so smart. But now
I'm listening.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
What's the question of skinny daddy buff daddy? I don't
like him skinny, I like him in between, I like
I like him. Uh you know, I like a lovely
like a little fluffy, not too fluffy, but you know
I look push it?
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Okay, all right?
Speaker 2 (15:47):
Next week athlete ceo the e old baby kids, no kids.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Kids? Beard or waves? Oh? Either or either? How about both?
Speaker 2 (16:02):
Oh? That's right, friend, love notes for head, kisses, anty,
dinner or cook for you? You better not say both. You
don't know what you want to say. Grew up post
bates that you keep them people in business. Hear me,
you always ordered me food? Okay, new York accent A country.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Boy not the light of New York accents.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Fully thought she was gonna say, country boy, new York
music sound?
Speaker 1 (16:34):
What what look like? What you're doing? What? No country?
Speaker 2 (16:44):
All the funds talking back up on to each other.
I need me a New York accent.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Disappointed?
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Okay, next one, the last one, and obviously the most
important one good head, a good pen If you lose
with that, but I agree, I agree with you. Okay,
so true, that's perfect baby Bill debate is a a
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little fluffy ceo.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
With kids with beard and waves.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
I know you say you like love notes and for
head kisses, you greedy, uh, fancy dinner and he gotta cook?
Speaker 1 (17:26):
Okay from New York, you are wild from They don't
have to be from New York. You gave me a choice,
But I love that. That's what York.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Okay, somebody who aggrevated, I'm kiddos were good ten all right.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Well, but I'm gonna make you what what a bumble account? What?
What the people be doing? They be on? Right? What
is it called right right? Anyways? About let me see,
don't be mad if I make you a profile some
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what ry out right?
Speaker 2 (18:06):
Is that?
Speaker 1 (18:08):
I don't know? But it's pending.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
My friend siped me up for one and this week.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Okay, So what's the theme of it?
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Because you know a lot of dating apps have like
you know, for farmers only, you know, like they have
like it's one of the invite invite only. That sounds
like it's for rich men's mm hmm. It's in like
only so we will see what's on there.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
You got to be coined up to Rember invite. I
don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
I'm just I'm just I was told, Okay, Christina, keep
me posted.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
See shout out to Christina. The girls be coming through.
Hey do I mean keep me posted? I just want
to going on? You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
That? Well, I'll keep you because you know you and Ashley,
y'all both are happily married. Y'all doing y'all think, and
y'all sometimes y'all want to, you know, be nosing and
see what's going on. I had to keep my girl
away from the camels and lips and the oxtail tacos.
I got to keep you out of the fray, hey, okay,
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and the infinity. In the infinity, I would say the hookah,
but you actually like hookah, bubb flavor. Ain't nothing out
there but hookah and don Julio what they said and
Tekeithlak who can kidding? Our last segment of the night,
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and that is it's been going viral with Joyce Taylor.
She stirred up some conversation when she said that a
man leading with I'm a man of God.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
Is a red flat for her.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
Her reason, from various podcasts centers around is it often
feels performative, like a mask some men used to present
themselves as good guys while still engaging in.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
Toxic or manipulative behavior.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
She's encountered men who weaponized religion to excuse bad actions
or gain trust. Quickly, she clarified, it's not about being
spiritual or religious, it's about how how that phrase is
often used as a front, especially especially in dating contexts.
It's a bold take, but one many women resonated with,
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especially those who've been hurt by men who use faith
to manipulate or fast track emotional closeness. I mean at first,
when you first hear it, hear her speak on it
saying that you know, she it's a red flat when
someone says I'm a man, a.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
Guy, it's like this is you a red flag?
Speaker 2 (20:54):
That's what it's like, right right, But she went to
death and it's tru like a lot of people use
a a mask and they they say things that they
think that women who want to hear, and a lot
of men you know, say that they are a man
of God, but their actions show others, you know, show different.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
So I can think I understand where she's coming.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
From, Like, you don't have to lead with I'm a
man of God.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Show it.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
Yeah, don't tell don't speak on it, basically what she's saying,
don't don't talk about it.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Show me that you know you're a man of God.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
Don't tell me what you you can do or what
you're doing to show it. Yeah, I mean I can
kind of see her perspective. I'm not mad at somebody
coming and saying today, are a man of God because
I feel like a lot about a lot of a
lot about your walk with God is you know you
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you really do wear that and your confession of it
and your confession of your love for Him and your
your devotion. And I don't think it's a bad thing,
but I do understand why it can seem performative because
I have known both types of people. I have known
the man that like real deal in his life and
he's seeking the kingdom of the Lord. Okay every day
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I know that, and then I also know the one
that knows that that I am seeking the kingdom. So
you're finna come over here with kingdom talk, but you're
not even really in that you know what I mean,
You're gonna use it as a man tactic. I have
known both guys, so I think that I don't know
if I would say it's a red flag, because I
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hope that I have discernment enough to know what the
hell I'm looking at and what I'm listening to. Uh.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
The comments were lit up, like initially like what as
red flag? You are red flag? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
It was up, But I can understand once you know
the context of it. I can understand why she said
that is because you know, it happens. People see you
in a you know, they don't want to look. Sometimes
guys do that as a way to hide how aggressive
their nature really is, you know what I mean, Like
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make it look like they fired up for the Lord
and you're gonna be my wife one day.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Make it look like they the type.
Speaker 2 (23:13):
Of commit do this and they're not there at all.
They're not, And it's a manipulation tactic.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
So I get it.
Speaker 2 (23:22):
You lead, Well, I'm a man, a guy, you know,
I grew up in the church home, this, that, and
now y'all together this time to go to church. He
ain't never showing up. He don't pray with you. He
don't say his praise. It's a lot of things like
what happened? I always tell because somebody will no scripture
without context.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
They were no quotes, but don't know the.
Speaker 2 (23:39):
Story right, They just be honey, scripture without context will
send you straight to hell.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
What did you do?
Speaker 2 (23:46):
Like?
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Why is you? That is not even what that means, sir?
Speaker 2 (23:49):
Like I can't believe the Bible said, okay, be fruitful.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
And multi people that get away from me.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
The Bible's Abraham had I don't want to hear about
how many wives get away from me with your pulling
in me go away?
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Sir.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
That's crazy, But yeah, I get it. But the comments,
you know, I live in the comments. Comments be funny, girl,
i'mtle bit. I think people should definitely, you know, understand
what she's speaking on instead of just reading the headlines
of the statement that she said. And I totally understand because,
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like you said, it's a lot of men out there
that just pray on women who and they'll learn what
type of woman, and they'll go and and study that
woman and tell that woman everything that she wants to hear.
And women do it too towards me and tell them
everything they want to hear, just the rhythm in and
then now you know, the real person, the real you
(24:58):
is coming out after you brought them in, and it's
it's crazy. So I definitely understand what she's saying. You
just have to Sometimes when I like that, I can
tell who people are just determined not to like, you
know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (25:15):
You could tell like who's determined just not to like
her or whatever.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
They ain't even want to hear what she had to say,
like what your love, Lord, she ain't nothing, she ain't
ship like it's crazy, yeah, jee, all the people love
the people love to say somebody got a Jezebel's spirit.
They love to say If and Andre talk about that
(25:43):
all the time. How people use that in the wrong
context that they always say that Jezebel is like a
home record this and that, when it's really just a manipulative,
overbearing woman not necessarily somebody sleeping with everybody, man, you
know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
But it's just imported in the community, like oh she
got to is Bill's spirit? Why? Or I don't understand
they was in them? God missed going nuts on that
lady whole thing? Oh got it? We understand Joe, we
understand you.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Alright, it's time for our last segment of the day,
and that is bad.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
Such a good time, my gosh, our last one. Of course,
you're you supposed to read this because I'm official. Okay,
I got no old Let me scroll down. Oh he
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put a line in here, all right? Gay? Oh, I
gotta go down, down, down, down, down down. This is
what you've been reading this whole time. Okay. Hm, that's
how you stay on track. You're right, You're right, I
got it? You ready? This is from Keisha from Charlot,
North Carolina. Hey, ladies, you girl.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
I've watched all of you on Wax and Riches and
I seriously loved the show. Okay, I can't wait for
more from you guys. But I also used to be
a huge fan of Selling Tampa. And my question is
for Harrell Charrelle. How did you navigate from being a
realtor to becoming a developer? Like, what were the steps
you took to go from selling homes to building homes?
And how was that transition for you? I see so
(27:27):
much online about you, and I just want to say
I'm so proud that you've built an empire on your
own and that's right. It's amazing to watch and no shade.
Oh but girl, you could do so much better without
that och Sinko.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Through. Thank you for hearing fact. Thank you so much, ladies.
Oh Keisha's fine.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
Oh Keisha talk through it like that, but thank you
so much for your support.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
Thank you for your support.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
You know, becoming a developer, I mean from I felt like,
you know, my passion was was there, but it wasn't
there as much and I wanted to get into something
like once I start saying like how much y'all making it,
and I'm like, okay, I didn't sold the highest of
the high that I can sell.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
Now it's time to get to that next level.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
And I'm very competitive, Like I saw that it was
predominantly mail.
Speaker 1 (28:25):
Fuilled and I wanted to tap into it.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
So I started off, you know, working with different companies
on the government contract. Inside, I partnered with a few
things and I started learning and Joanna had.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
A lot of opportunities with the city.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
So we got together and we went after the opportunity
where we felt like we had a good chance to
when we partnered with the GC and we went after it,
won it and we were awarded our first lot. So
right now we're about to start ground breaking to build
five affordable town homes in the city of Tampa. And
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that's how it started, just like I observe, and I
was very interested, and I took the leap on faith,
out on faith, and I just did it. You know.
I started networking being around people who who are good
at what they do in the development industry, and I
learned from them, and I just took a leap out
on faith and did it.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
And now I'm not he dealing homes. There are aspiring
the girls. Look at you, inspiring the girlies.
Speaker 2 (29:31):
Thank you, thank you, And I have a huge opportunity
to I wasn't gonna speak on it yet, but I
was just awarded the letter three letters from the DA
that I made it to the final stage. My company
made it to the final stage to potentially build three
hospitals in the state of Florida.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
Oh way, so well, that is so exciting. Oh my god,
this deal. Don't just slide that in them A.
Speaker 2 (30:00):
You're talking about three hospitals. Oh that's insane, that's amazing.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
It's on the final stage. We'll believe in it. It's happening. Yeah,
it's done already.
Speaker 2 (30:17):
I mean I've been moving quietly, but for my people
who support me, I'm letting y'all know what I'm doing
behind the scenes.
Speaker 1 (30:23):
It's not just traveling.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
I'm really, you know, busting my ass to make sure
you know, a lord lpt is it's growing and my business,
the law.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
Management Solutions, like, we're out here killing it.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
So I have some big, major moves going on and
I'm threats it.
Speaker 1 (30:40):
So don't give them everything. Keep on the edge of
their seat now wait for it. I'm excited. Look, but
clean lain seat bell. It's gonna be a long ride.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
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Speaker 1 (32:12):
We love y'all. We enjoyed you for myself. Bye, bye,
guys
Like get in my way, never out of mind name.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
It's been like you one and the more one, so
it is gonna be baby squad. We past let's get
it out saying well, let's get we get it this
one you can relate to portion because you got your
sexy back and it is getting your sex sea back
after having a baby.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Mother's Day is this Sunday.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
We'll shout out to all the mother's Happy Mother's Day.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
We love y'all. Hope y'all man.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Do it for y'all, y'all kid to take a nap,
That's what I hope.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
I hope. Do you think mother they should be spent
with the kids or a long time?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Okay, let me not say that. So I think for
this is what I've been doing for like the last
two or three years. For the first half of the day,
we get up and we do things with our moms,
which is like not for me because I'm like spending
time with your mom and my mom, so that's for them.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
For me.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
After we use the brunch and the things and the
pictures and the cute shit, I'm gonna need you to
get me a hotel room up the street, check me in,
take the kids home, Bring me some Chipotle, bring me
Krispy Kreme, bring me a PEPSI, let me watch, bring
me the fire stick. I'm trying to watch housewives and
(01:19):
let me sleep alone. And I've done this for like
the past three years. I will spend the day with
the kids, with his mama, with my mama. But then
after that, I'm going up the street to that hotel
and he doesn't even stay, like he'll literally drop me off.
He'll bring me food, will usually have sex, and then
he leaves and I sleep there in the bed all
(01:41):
by myself, and it's wow, it's perfect. But you don't
get you don't get piped down before you before you
say absolutely, and he leaves.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
He goes. He doesn't even stay. He goes.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
He's like, okay, watch housewives. I'm like, yup, and that's it.
And he come get me in the morning. The greatest
gift idea I've ever had for myself. And I would
like to continue the tradition.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
That's right. I have been.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I'm spending time with my babies. Then we probably go
out to eat, and I just want to be lazy.
How can you be lazy if you spending time with
your baby that's what I'm gonna be lazy. Look, I'm
gonna get this is the time, what the whole day.
Serenity can have her path, the whole our path the
whole day, because that's gonna keep my busy.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
She's gonna be tuned in. Listen, we're gonna be good.
It's just dumb.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Mother's Day is a lot because you go, you do
the bronch, you do the stuff.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
You gotta get everybody dressed.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Like an outing with all of your children is just
that's just not relaxing to me. I'll do it, you
know what I mean. But if you ask me what
I really want, I'm gonna stay at home. Mom. I'm
riddled with children. I've got a gaggle of kids downstairs
right now. They're clawing at the door like little animals,
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waiting for me to come out like I don't on
Mother's Day.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Put me at that courtyard Marriott and close the door.
I will see you in the morning. Period. I know
that's right. You should it.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Okay, all right, baddies, let's talk about something real. We're
diving into the raw, beautiful emotional chaos of postpartum a
fourth trimester. That what the hell just happened to my body,
my mind, and my soul. Season you brought life into
this world, and now you're trying to remember the parts
(03:47):
of you that existed before diaper bag, leaky boots, split deprivation,
and us solicited advice.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
It's say rye, y'all.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
So today we're having a conversation that's not sure you
called it. We're talking body image, mental health, sensuality, confidence,
and how the hell did you get your sexy back
after becoming someone's mama, because yes, you are a mother,
but you're still a woman and she deserves to shine too.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
That was cute, brother from So it's like the five.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Key things people tell don't tell you about postpartum and
I think you can speak on that because you just
and you probably dealing with it or you just had
your baby and I know it's hectic.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Well, first things.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
First, postpartum is the ghetto, and nobody told me. I
mean I heard a lot about, like, you know, postparum depression,
which I didn't really think that I had it before.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Maybe I didn't, Maybe i'll it was just disassociating.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I have no idea, but I definitely feel it more
so with this one than I did the first two
like full on. You know they say the baby blues
last like two weeks, three weeks, anything after that, like
you need to talk to somebody, girl. That postpartum depression
hit me like a mac truck. Like a mac truck,
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everything was wrong and nothing was wrong.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
I love everything, I hated everything it was.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
It was just I don't I don't know, But this
time Andre didn't get on my nerves.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
When I had Legacy, I hated him so much. Oh,
it was so bad. Friend.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
When I had Legacy, I didn't want nothing to do
with Andrea on his face, But this time he's the
only person I want to be around.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Do you think it's because the genders or I don't
know what it is.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
I think it was just a shock of the first kid,
Like I resented him so much. Yeah, you're you're different.
It's something new to you. Your whole body is changing,
and you're like, what the fuck did that? Only that
it felt like my life had completely changed and his
didn't at all. Everything looked different for me, and his
shit just looked like it was just another day. Like, Oh,
(06:21):
I'm just gonna watch Game of Thrones. I know you
haven't slept in six days.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
But you got this, you know what I mean, Like
it was just not damn acne.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
It was Oh it was the ghetto. Like I said,
it was the ghetto. So I resented him real bad.
The first one. I didn't want nothing to do with him.
I was just like, you got it too easy over here,
this is whack, like return to Cender on this.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
This is crazy this time. I think it was just.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
I don't know. I think my age probably played a
part because my first kid, I was twenty eight.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
I'm thirty five now. The pregnancy was a little bit different.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
I assume post problem would be too, So I think
I experienced a little bit more sadness.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
It's time around.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
I think in my body pretty much to do the
same thing all all three times. Like you know, I'm
a little bony thing, so great, I ain't holding no weight,
not really. So that's that was, you know what this
little bit, this this is a question to help new
you know parents, mothers that just you know, had their
first one and they're going through it, and they're looking
(07:35):
at these moms because it's been a trend. Like a
lot of these moms, it's like a gold as soon
as you have your baby or a week lady, you
posting like my baby pick after I did and had
my baby, and.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
It's like did you wear your baby? Like did you
really have a bag or were you really pregnant?
Speaker 2 (07:52):
You know? How did you feel sexy again when your
body feels like it's been through war?
Speaker 1 (08:01):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
I just think it takes time, because to say it's
one thing to look sexy, it's another thing to feel sexy.
And I'm almost six months out and I can put
it on something and be like, oh, yeah, I look sexy,
But that doesn't mean that I feel sexy.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Like I have to.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Take my brain and turn it off of my mode
and then turn it onto like a sexual person time,
you know.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
What I mean. I'm not walking around all day just
feeling sexy. I'm just not.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
I feel like a mess. I'm like a utility. I'm breastfeeding.
They want things from me, They're hanging all over me,
like I'm just not in that and that that frame
of mind, like almost ever until I purposely comb my hair,
put on something decent, go somewhere with my man alone,
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and then I start to feel better. But it's just
it's hard to get away. It's hard to tear away
from the routine. But like I mean, you just have
to do things for yourself, even if it's just little
stuff like I get in asauna. That's fifty minutes. It's
the best fifty minutes, you know what I mean. Update
sometimes because it's just quiet, you know what I mean.
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But I'm not far away from my kids because I'm
I'm crazy attached like a velcrow mom. And I think
that's the that's the thing too. And for all the fathers,
that's so listen, not here. Help help that, you know,
help your wife or your girlfriend or your mate out
because they even if it's like thirty minutes, just give
them that time to you know, regroup.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
And it's okay.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Like I feel like the communication is not there, like
and it's okay for that mother to say, baby, can
you just take care of the baby for like fifteen
to twenty minutes while I just regrip, just have I
think something else we need to normalize is like what
is considered a break and what is considered time. Because
a shower's not a break, no necessity, people need to bathe,
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you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
I mean, like showers not a break.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Going to the Bathroom's not a break, like grocery shopping
is not a break. It's still a task like.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
You just takes. It takes a lot.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
I feel like if men just understood, like how like
and they just never will those hormones.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
It is just something different. It's something different.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
It's something that you really can't even explain, but it
requires all the patients that you have inside of you,
like to deal with somebody who's going through that. So
I feel like for me, getting my sexy back was
a lot of working out, you know what I mean,
going to the gym, really taking care of myself, getting
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in the sauna, eating the right things, you know, putting
the right things.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
In my body.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Just feeling like feeling clean, you know, feeling like healthy
is what makes feeling healthy makes me feel sexy, which
you know, sometimes it is hard to do when you
have kids, are a very young baby, and that's what
mothers have to realize, like not only do you have
to take care of your baby, but you also have
to take care of your your body too.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
You have to get your body back together.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
You can't just put all your focus on your child,
like you have to get yourself back in shape and
make sure, you're good just as well as your You know,
you're taking care of your child, and it's okay to
take time out. Of course, follow the doctor roof the timeframe.
But get back in that gym and get yourself, lose
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that water weight, the baby weight or whatever. It's okay
to do that. What do you think about that? What
do you think about the the snap back culture? Because
they have mixed feelings. Girl, I'm snapping back when I
tell you I had serenity.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
I had my waist trainer on.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
As soon as I deliver her, I put that waist
trainer on, and like I I my doctor always told me,
of course, you know, do what your body allows you.
Of course I have about to go on and jam
and start lifting weights and do all this. And you
know I'll slowly starting off with a little walk and
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then progress from a walk to a little job, and
from a job.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
It's a easy working out. Because you was on my ass.
Oh you need jail the people how you was on
my ass? You was on my ass.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
You was on my Your ass wasn't even a good
three weeks saying, and you lift in fifteen twenty five pounds.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
I'm like point told me to do that. That was
a mistake. I just thought it was light.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I was like, what like, it was just shocking to
me that I just could not get this thing. And
I was like, my inside is about to fall out.
I was strapping back, that's all I said. Push, wait going, you.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
Cannot lift weights now? Oh? Inside everything about to drop out? Yeah, girly.
So you was like, okay, when you finna start walking?
You know what I mean? You did. You did motivate me,
you encouraged me, but I was walking.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Yes, I told you. I'm saying, you know you can,
you can start walking. But your ass went from zerol
to one thousand real quick. And I'm like, hold up
for get back real quickick, okay, I put that weight,
be held down.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
I learned real quick. All it was horrible. Yes, okay.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
So before we go into our next segment, a little
affirmation and advice for Mom's and Mother's Day. Before we close,
we want to speak directly to every mama listening, whether
it's your first baby or your fifth. You're allowed to
be softed, sean. You are allowed to breathe your old
self and still love your news. You're not broken. You
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are becoming sexy. Doesn't have an inspiration date. And mother
to day is at the end of your power. It's
the beginning of a deeper one. This Mother's Day, we
see you, we honor you, and we're rooting for every
version of you that is still unfolding. Happy Mother's Day, beautiful,
Happy Mother's Day.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
It was beautiful.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Thank you, Nap, Get you a room. It's some chipotle please,
hella me thing?
Speaker 1 (14:17):
What are we talking about?
Speaker 2 (14:18):
Child?
Speaker 1 (14:18):
What is this? What the bay? Charrell's perfect?
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Man?
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Oh yeah, let me get my phone, let me do
the bay. We're gonna do it. Okay, we about to
do this. I cannot thank you because.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
I feel like I have like your type, like you're perfect,
but I don't know. We're gonna do this for people,
and we're gonna we're gonna test. We're gonna test where
your heart really at. Okay, rapid fire, don't sleep on
the questions, rapid fire.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
All right, you're ready?
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Okay, what so get two choices, right, I'm gonna say
two things.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
You pick the one.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
That resonates the most, and we put them all together,
and that's your that's your build, debate, that's your baby,
and then we go out.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
We're gonna find that.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
We're not gonna find that, we're gonna pray for that,
and then he's gonna find you.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
Boom you ready, I'll say say so smart. But now
I'm listening.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
What's the question of skinny daddy buff daddy? I don't
like him skinny, I like him in between, I like
I like him. Uh you know, I like a lovely
like a little fluffy, not too fluffy, but you know
I look push it?
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Okay, all right?
Speaker 2 (15:47):
Next week athlete ceo the e old baby kids, no kids.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Kids? Beard or waves? Oh? Either or either? How about both?
Speaker 2 (16:02):
Oh? That's right, friend, love notes for head, kisses, anty,
dinner or cook for you? You better not say both. You
don't know what you want to say. Grew up post
bates that you keep them people in business. Hear me,
you always ordered me food? Okay, new York accent A country.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Boy not the light of New York accents.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Fully thought she was gonna say, country boy, new York
music sound?
Speaker 1 (16:34):
What what look like? What you're doing? What? No country?
Speaker 2 (16:44):
All the funds talking back up on to each other.
I need me a New York accent.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Disappointed?
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Okay, next one, the last one, and obviously the most
important one good head, a good pen If you lose
with that, but I agree, I agree with you. Okay,
so true, that's perfect baby Bill debate is a a
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little fluffy ceo.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
With kids with beard and waves.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
I know you say you like love notes and for
head kisses, you greedy, uh, fancy dinner and he gotta cook?
Speaker 1 (17:26):
Okay from New York, you are wild from They don't
have to be from New York. You gave me a choice,
But I love that. That's what York.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Okay, somebody who aggrevated, I'm kiddos were good ten all right.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Well, but I'm gonna make you what what a bumble account? What?
What the people be doing? They be on? Right? What
is it called right right? Anyways? About let me see,
don't be mad if I make you a profile some
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what ry out right?
Speaker 2 (18:06):
Is that?
Speaker 1 (18:08):
I don't know? But it's pending.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
My friend siped me up for one and this week.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Okay, So what's the theme of it?
Speaker 2 (18:17):
Because you know a lot of dating apps have like
you know, for farmers only, you know, like they have
like it's one of the invite invite only. That sounds
like it's for rich men's mm hmm. It's in like
only so we will see what's on there.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
You got to be coined up to Rember invite. I
don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
I'm just I'm just I was told, Okay, Christina, keep
me posted.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
See shout out to Christina. The girls be coming through.
Hey do I mean keep me posted? I just want
to going on? You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
That? Well, I'll keep you because you know you and Ashley,
y'all both are happily married. Y'all doing y'all think, and
y'all sometimes y'all want to, you know, be nosing and
see what's going on. I had to keep my girl
away from the camels and lips and the oxtail tacos.
I got to keep you out of the fray, hey, okay,
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and the infinity. In the infinity, I would say the hookah,
but you actually like hookah, bubb flavor. Ain't nothing out
there but hookah and don Julio what they said and
Tekeithlak who can kidding? Our last segment of the night,
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and that is it's been going viral with Joyce Taylor.
She stirred up some conversation when she said that a
man leading with I'm a man of God.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
Is a red flat for her.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
Her reason, from various podcasts centers around is it often
feels performative, like a mask some men used to present
themselves as good guys while still engaging in.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
Toxic or manipulative behavior.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
She's encountered men who weaponized religion to excuse bad actions
or gain trust. Quickly, she clarified, it's not about being
spiritual or religious, it's about how how that phrase is
often used as a front, especially especially in dating contexts.
It's a bold take, but one many women resonated with,
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especially those who've been hurt by men who use faith
to manipulate or fast track emotional closeness. I mean at first,
when you first hear it, hear her speak on it
saying that you know, she it's a red flat when
someone says I'm a man, a.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
Guy, it's like this is you a red flag?
Speaker 2 (20:54):
That's what it's like, right right, But she went to
death and it's tru like a lot of people use
a a mask and they they say things that they
think that women who want to hear, and a lot
of men you know, say that they are a man
of God, but their actions show others, you know, show different.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
So I can think I understand where she's coming.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
From, Like, you don't have to lead with I'm a
man of God.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Show it.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
Yeah, don't tell don't speak on it, basically what she's saying,
don't don't talk about it.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Show me that you know you're a man of God.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
Don't tell me what you you can do or what
you're doing to show it. Yeah, I mean I can
kind of see her perspective. I'm not mad at somebody
coming and saying today, are a man of God because
I feel like a lot about a lot of a
lot about your walk with God is you know you
(21:52):
you really do wear that and your confession of it
and your confession of your love for Him and your
your devotion. And I don't think it's a bad thing,
but I do understand why it can seem performative because
I have known both types of people. I have known
the man that like real deal in his life and
he's seeking the kingdom of the Lord. Okay every day
(22:13):
I know that, and then I also know the one
that knows that that I am seeking the kingdom. So
you're finna come over here with kingdom talk, but you're
not even really in that you know what I mean,
You're gonna use it as a man tactic. I have
known both guys, so I think that I don't know
if I would say it's a red flag, because I
(22:34):
hope that I have discernment enough to know what the
hell I'm looking at and what I'm listening to. Uh.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
The comments were lit up, like initially like what as
red flag? You are red flag? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
It was up, But I can understand once you know
the context of it. I can understand why she said
that is because you know, it happens. People see you
in a you know, they don't want to look. Sometimes
guys do that as a way to hide how aggressive
their nature really is, you know what I mean, Like
(23:08):
make it look like they fired up for the Lord
and you're gonna be my wife one day.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Make it look like they the type.
Speaker 2 (23:13):
Of commit do this and they're not there at all.
They're not, And it's a manipulation tactic.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
So I get it.
Speaker 2 (23:22):
You lead, Well, I'm a man, a guy, you know,
I grew up in the church home, this, that, and
now y'all together this time to go to church. He
ain't never showing up. He don't pray with you. He
don't say his praise. It's a lot of things like
what happened? I always tell because somebody will no scripture
without context.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
They were no quotes, but don't know the.
Speaker 2 (23:39):
Story right, They just be honey, scripture without context will
send you straight to hell.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
What did you do?
Speaker 2 (23:46):
Like?
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Why is you? That is not even what that means, sir?
Speaker 2 (23:49):
Like I can't believe the Bible said, okay, be fruitful.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
And multi people that get away from me.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
The Bible's Abraham had I don't want to hear about
how many wives get away from me with your pulling
in me go away?
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Sir.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
That's crazy, But yeah, I get it. But the comments,
you know, I live in the comments. Comments be funny, girl,
i'mtle bit. I think people should definitely, you know, understand
what she's speaking on instead of just reading the headlines
of the statement that she said. And I totally understand because,
(24:37):
like you said, it's a lot of men out there
that just pray on women who and they'll learn what
type of woman, and they'll go and and study that
woman and tell that woman everything that she wants to hear.
And women do it too towards me and tell them
everything they want to hear, just the rhythm in and
then now you know, the real person, the real you
(24:58):
is coming out after you brought them in, and it's
it's crazy. So I definitely understand what she's saying. You
just have to Sometimes when I like that, I can
tell who people are just determined not to like, you
know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (25:15):
You could tell like who's determined just not to like
her or whatever.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
They ain't even want to hear what she had to say,
like what your love, Lord, she ain't nothing, she ain't
ship like it's crazy, yeah, jee, all the people love
the people love to say somebody got a Jezebel's spirit.
They love to say If and Andre talk about that
(25:43):
all the time. How people use that in the wrong
context that they always say that Jezebel is like a
home record this and that, when it's really just a manipulative,
overbearing woman not necessarily somebody sleeping with everybody, man, you
know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
But it's just imported in the community, like oh she
got to is Bill's spirit? Why? Or I don't understand
they was in them? God missed going nuts on that
lady whole thing? Oh got it? We understand Joe, we
understand you.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Alright, it's time for our last segment of the day,
and that is bad.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
Such a good time, my gosh, our last one. Of course,
you're you supposed to read this because I'm official. Okay,
I got no old Let me scroll down. Oh he
(26:42):
put a line in here, all right? Gay? Oh, I
gotta go down, down, down, down, down down. This is
what you've been reading this whole time. Okay. Hm, that's
how you stay on track. You're right, You're right, I
got it? You ready? This is from Keisha from Charlot,
North Carolina. Hey, ladies, you girl.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
I've watched all of you on Wax and Riches and
I seriously loved the show. Okay, I can't wait for
more from you guys. But I also used to be
a huge fan of Selling Tampa. And my question is
for Harrell Charrelle. How did you navigate from being a
realtor to becoming a developer? Like, what were the steps
you took to go from selling homes to building homes?
And how was that transition for you? I see so
(27:27):
much online about you, and I just want to say
I'm so proud that you've built an empire on your
own and that's right. It's amazing to watch and no shade.
Oh but girl, you could do so much better without
that och Sinko.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Through. Thank you for hearing fact. Thank you so much, ladies.
Oh Keisha's fine.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
Oh Keisha talk through it like that, but thank you
so much for your support.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
Thank you for your support.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
You know, becoming a developer, I mean from I felt like,
you know, my passion was was there, but it wasn't
there as much and I wanted to get into something
like once I start saying like how much y'all making it,
and I'm like, okay, I didn't sold the highest of
the high that I can sell.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
Now it's time to get to that next level.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
And I'm very competitive, Like I saw that it was
predominantly mail.
Speaker 1 (28:25):
Fuilled and I wanted to tap into it.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
So I started off, you know, working with different companies
on the government contract. Inside, I partnered with a few
things and I started learning and Joanna had.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
A lot of opportunities with the city.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
So we got together and we went after the opportunity
where we felt like we had a good chance to
when we partnered with the GC and we went after it,
won it and we were awarded our first lot. So
right now we're about to start ground breaking to build
five affordable town homes in the city of Tampa. And
(29:01):
that's how it started, just like I observe, and I
was very interested, and I took the leap on faith,
out on faith, and I just did it. You know.
I started networking being around people who who are good
at what they do in the development industry, and I
learned from them, and I just took a leap out
on faith and did it.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
And now I'm not he dealing homes. There are aspiring
the girls. Look at you, inspiring the girlies.
Speaker 2 (29:31):
Thank you, thank you, And I have a huge opportunity
to I wasn't gonna speak on it yet, but I
was just awarded the letter three letters from the DA
that I made it to the final stage. My company
made it to the final stage to potentially build three
hospitals in the state of Florida.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
Oh way, so well, that is so exciting. Oh my god,
this deal. Don't just slide that in them A.
Speaker 2 (30:00):
You're talking about three hospitals. Oh that's insane, that's amazing.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
It's on the final stage. We'll believe in it. It's happening. Yeah,
it's done already.
Speaker 2 (30:17):
I mean I've been moving quietly, but for my people
who support me, I'm letting y'all know what I'm doing
behind the scenes.
Speaker 1 (30:23):
It's not just traveling.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
I'm really, you know, busting my ass to make sure
you know, a lord lpt is it's growing and my business,
the law.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
Management Solutions, like, we're out here killing it.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
So I have some big, major moves going on and
I'm threats it.
Speaker 1 (30:40):
So don't give them everything. Keep on the edge of
their seat now wait for it. I'm excited. Look, but
clean lain seat bell. It's gonna be a long ride.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
A right. That is the end of humble Baddies. We
got my girl, pors your portion. Tell them where they
can support it. I'll see you have your bad Bitch
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I should have had my little wine. You know, I
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