June 2, 2023 • 50 mins
In the most unplanned episode to date, the hosts cover...just about every topic. From discussions about popular movies that shaped us as young adults, conspiracy theories about Chipotle's quesadillas, what it's like to date models in New York City, and Sydni's spiritual connection to red-heads. Tune in for rollercoaster that is this week's episode (which is very in tune with the start of Gemini season).
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Hello. I'm just telling Sarah that I have this like
innate inability to not multitask like I think I've ever
recorded and just sat here like I always have to
be like curling my hair, shrading my hair, doing my makeup, eating,
actually doing anything but just sitting here.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
And it would be a problem because when we were
more than two people, we had this one girl who
was just like she also multitasked, but she did it badly.
You could tell she was a person who is not
very adept to multitasking, but you did it anyway. I
just remember us being on zoom because it was around COVID,
and you're eating this giant cookie cake while we were recording,
(00:43):
And so it would be a problem with Sydney, and
I probably would bring it up. But you do it
so well it does not impact recording. It is still
like awesome, and I think that's why it works for you. I,
on the other hand, does not work like sen You'll
ask me a question, I'll be texting somebody back and
I'll go, h, what, you.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Just do it so well. I don't know how it's
like even when it comes to like doing like homework
or schoolwork, I'm just like you know when you watch
Netflix in your bed, like before you go to sleep.
I basically can't just sit there and just watch the show.
Like it's like I need to be doing something else.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
I don't know, I get that desire, but then I
get distracted doing the other thing and it kind of
makes me switch off.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
So I'll be watching TV, feel the innate need to
do something else, go do that thing, and then turn
off the TV.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
And you know, that's why I can't watch K dramas.
There's actually like a very big slemma for me. Really,
it's because I would love K dramas. I love romance,
I love like opulence, like I want to be able
to watch them and mops like obsessed, so like I
want to be able to start them too. But I
don't like dubbing because I want the voice to match
the person, and like I can just tell when like
(01:46):
they don't match up or like I hate when I
see them like saying a certain word but like the
voice doesn't match or like the word doesn't match with
their mouth, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:55):
And you know what's the worst is when the producers
try to make the dubbing the lip movements, but then
it ends up kind of messing with the translation, so
you're not really getting the full effect.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Like it's a different language, you're not gonna look the same.
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
That's what happened with Squod Games.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
But like I rather just watched the subtitles, like Swied Games.
I watched the subtitle, so did I. But I have
to be doing something else. Whenever I turned my head
and I missed something, and I'm like, damn, I app
to go back, and it just it hurts my soul.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
No, I was just saying to Sydney.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
We were both eating before recording, and that's why the
conversation came up. I'm eating some I'm not eating devouring
an entire big Laze packet right now. And I will
just say, you know how some people have a sweet tooth.
There's no sweet tooth to be heard of in my mouth.
I crave salt constantly, whether it's and it could be
my birth control because that's a side effect, but I
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doubt it because I've had my birth control for three
years and I have crave salt my entire life. But
like soy sauce baked lays, which is what I'm eating
chips in general are good sandwiches, like really salty sandwiches.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
I love you salt. I never think anything is too salty.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
I always crave pasta and cheese. I could have pasta
for every Like my dad never eats pasta. I find disturbing,
Like I sing, I was, like everyone likes pasta. I
thought about, like my dad never has pasta, but like
I don't know about everyone else's business, but like I
could not go a week without pasta. Yea, pasta and
cheese and chocolate are where it's at. Like one thing
(03:25):
I hate is candy, like sweet candy, like unless it's
like a chocolate bar. If it's like sour patch or nerve,
like the thought of it makes me sick.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Yeah, the sour candies. Oh no, I am a salt girl,
not a sour girl.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Theyd be like no artificial flavoring. It is a gummy
bear that tastes like blueberry raspberry explosion. What about that
is natural?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
I saw this TikTok on that topic about artificial dyes.
It's and so right now I'm literally ingesting yellow number
what is it yellow number five or something?
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Butotatoes are yellow, so I'm less tessed about that than
like a lime grewn ball.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
If it's if it yeah, because I know potatoes are yellow,
but potatoes are more white, if that makes sense. These
are yellow, so there is like yellow number five or
whatever that's called in here, and it's okay to eat
them once in a while, but you have to be mindful.
And especially with like children, I think it affects their development.
Not permanently, it is very it can be long term
if you eat nothing but processed and artificial dyed foods.
(04:22):
But it was crazy because this one woman made a
TikTok about how her son was like nine years old
or no, not a TikTok, a ted talk about how
her son who's like nine would eat you know, cosmic
brownies or all this crap. And once they switched his diet,
the MoodSwing stop, the tantrum stop, and he just became
a whole other child. And they said that once they
(04:43):
stopped their addictive substances kind of because anything can really
be addicted when you think about it. And he was
dead for like three months, like he couldn't get out
of bed, he did not have any energy. But once
he kind of came out of the withdrawal. He was
a whole different child, and I thought that was really
interesting because of course his brain is still develop make
and he's small, so the effects of artificial dyes are
going to have a different, you know, effect on him,
(05:05):
but on adults it still has an impact too, And
it's interesting kind of taking note of my mood swings
whenever I eat foods with artificial dyes.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
In them, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
And it's some food that you would never think, like
Macha ice cream, the Macha ice cream desert that I
always get at Domo Domo that has green die in it.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Baby, baby, baby, it's lyme green, don't.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Well, I know, but it's not really something you think about,
really because you hear Macha and I think automatic.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
I know this was the case for me.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
I associated Macha with health because oh, Macha green tea
and Macha like whatever, and so I associate that with
like health influencers. But they're digesting artificial dyes every day.
If you have like those little Macha makers with the
phae swirly blender situation.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
And that's just crazy because it's the foods that you
don't even think about.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
It's that's fun to me, just like the most disgusting
food I could think of is a clastic brownie.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
That's what my boyfriends and I just have to vehemently disagree.
I know, I just said that I didn't like sweet stuff,
but cosmic brownies is the one exception.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
You know, my theory about red Gatorade kids. Okay, so
if you guys haven't listened to the podcast from the beginning,
I have this theory, like, you know, those kids are
just like bad, Like they're just bad kids. They're the
kids like punching someone on the playground, or like drawing
weird pictures or like ones that just like don't listen.
They always have every single one of them has this
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like ring of red gatorader around their mouth. If it's like, like,
I don't know what it is, but when you see
that little red ring around their mouth, you know they're
about their worst behavior. And it's not even like Gary
in general. I love Gatory, it's only the red one.
And you see, I've never I'll never drink cretigaroraya because
of that. But I feel like cosmic brownies have the
same effect that the red gatorade ring does on children.
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And I've seen a kid eat a kasic brownie and
then like behave. But I do like honeybuns, and I
do like zebra cakes. And if anyone ever ever insults those,
it will hurt meat personally. I'm gonna allergic to honeymuns
and I'll still eat them, that's how good they are.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Wait, what's in honey buns? Zor o cinnamon?
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Oh, I don't care, give me, give me highs. I
don't care. It's so but not like the weird ones
they have in like vending machines. Like actually the brand honeybun,
it needs to be brand's name. Yeah, they want us
don't do injustice.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Oh yeah, because they do have the dupes in the
vending machine and they're so bad.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Vending machine dupes. When in one they're huge and if
you look at the back, it's like nine hundred fifty
million grams of sugar. Do not consume, like wh I
put that on your own labeling. No, those are actually
kind of scary.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Don't eat if you're pregnant, have diabetes.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Et cetera.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Like it's actually scary.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
That is hilarious.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Also, those kids always go away to sleep away camp,
not just day camp. It has to be the overnight
camp and it has to be in the woods. It's
always those kids.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
It's just kind of scared me, Like I would never
think like, oh, let me send my kids away where
I don't know what they're doing.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
I don't think I could do that. I mean, it
would kind of be good to get them off my
hands for a while, but then it's kind of like,
should I be a mom if I think that.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
No, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
I never went to sleep boy camp, and I never
was allowed to have sleepovers either when I was little
because my parents are very protective.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Or I didn't show me schepovers but.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Overprotective.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
I would like to say they're helicopter parents, not that
your mom is protective.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
I didn't do camp though. I didn't like camp, but
like my school me too. I did day camp, but
I never did like go away camp for the whole summer. Well,
one because I'm black, and two I don't like nature,
so I feel like it's kind of conintuitive. But like,
oh my god, Oh, there was that group of girls
and mostly elementary middle school, but some of them carried
(08:39):
over were into high school. They went to freaking campumchole
or like those random camps in like Tennessee, and they
were always horse girls, and it was like they come
back all little Braceleton, They're like I got this at
camp and Machyley. They would talk about it until the
next summer. I'm like, girls go live with the camp
buck it so much.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
And then they talk about their camp friends and that's
all that and then they're like, ugh, they make it
a big deal when they want to write to their
camp friends and they have all the stationary.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
It's always those girls.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
This is the last two scholed to be like, write
to me at Campamachley and here's the address. Girl, I'm
not writing you a letter.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
And then they always find a way to creep camp
into every conversation, kind of like, oh, you know, I
like swam in the lake in camp, or I learned I.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Don't know the camp rock dance at camp. I don't know.
That's the first thing I thought of. But oh, camp
rock is so good. I recently listened to that.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Soundtrack the other day, straight through Oh my God, I
Give You the Fire.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
That's so good and then.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
The one Ray Ray Call Me and Sick Johnny insane.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
But I guess even already.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
As a kid, I love that song, but this the
way they filmed it would make me actually so mad.
Why is this a duet? One of them is on
the other side of the camp. How do you hear
each other? And like they would match up perfect them
Like I get it's a movie and I give it
for kids, but like, there's no way he heard her
from all the way over there and had perfect timing.
It actually makes me really upset. But I'm gonna say
(10:06):
what everyone else is scared to say. I'm gonna be honest.
Camp Rock two the Battle of the Camps or whatever,
is better than Camp Rock one. No, actually the music's better,
but let's let's be let's be for real. All of
us would be a camp star. I don't want being
that dingy little This is a sloppy Joe camp. You
all know very well. I'll be where the funding and
(10:27):
the ac is. Like, let's be for real. Everyone was
like number one, oh, number two, number two, who want
to be for real? I think they did lose the
battle they should have. That song was awful. The song
was off of them five real kids running around with
beach balls, like you know, for real, like get some decorum.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Because you know how the guy who ran camp Star
paid off apparently everybody to vote for camp Star.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
I think even if he didn't do he didn't need to.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
They were worse and they're like, oh, we got saved anyway,
let's get some marshmallows. Okay, that was a.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
Really annoying Actually, Cambrock makes this whole big deal about
fire flies and family and community and like water balloon
fights and everything ac state of the art recording studios.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Literally, my ass.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Would be in choreography please, because what ever camp Rock
was doing a little shoulder thing ooh, maybe's sick and.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
The song where she goes marching down the lane to be.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Like you can't rock, Yeah, I was like, I'm uncomfortable.
But I will say that Sharpay and Zeke walked so
that Tessa and the black I can get rock too,
could skip. So I'm sure they end up together, but you.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
Know, do they start dating in the movie.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
But Cheater Girls will always be supreme, Like none of
the girls touched her. I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
My hottest take and I think I've said this on
the podcast before and I'm pretty sure it affected Sydney
and I's friendship. For the worst is I think that
Cheetah Girls three to one world is better than both
one and two combined.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
In my home.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
I don't know how to tell you this, but you
might be the only person in the world who has
that opinion.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
It's the hottest take of all time. But it's true.
I mean the bops. I know every word to every
song of that movie.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Like, Gabrielle is not in it, and she's the star
of the group. Let's be honest, and you know what,
you know what, She's not the villain, and that's what
really makes me upset.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
She'd be you.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Literally, I would be her in camp Rop too, and
I think you would be two. I'd be like, can
we rehearse please?
Speaker 1 (12:12):
And everyone's like I want number one? Why do you
go walking around Spain by themselves? Are like twelve number two?
They were there for a competition. She used her dad's
air miles to get these little girls across the world,
and the least you could do is rehearse like she's
crazy and all the comes that realization. It took me
a little too long, but I will say that she
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was not the villain. And the one thing would be
like ranches to the station in them pajamas, do more
like you could have given a real apology. I don't know.
All I gotta say is like they were in their
back with that movie, Like I'm gonna start crying. It's
so good, like the costumes, spain, the songs, like I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
That ending song was so good? What was that Amiga's
Cheetah spends the Life.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Yes, Cheetah Girls. That entire trilogy is so good.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
And you know what else? I like Teen Beach movie.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
That's literally only oh that was.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
I don't think so, I really don't think so.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
I never I watched it, like the first five minutes
and I was like, please turn this.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
I love Oh my god, Blues Guys, gentle Breeze, No,
because it was like a little bit past our time.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
So like if anyone I knew watched it, I was like,
why are you still watching Disney? But then secondly, Ross
Lynch makes me feel a little weird.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Really, I think he's so attractive.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
I think he's cute now and he's a black girlfriend period,
but in that time, I don't know, it made me
very uncomfortable and like I get it was like a
West Side story like rendition, but she was like, you
can't date anyone with a bike, you can't date a surfer.
I was like, okay, you kind of lost me with
that one.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
You don't jam out to the song cruising for a Bruising.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
There's that one part where it's like the really really
cute guy on like the leather side he does like
this one little dance and then like Ross Lunch does
it back, And I was like, this is where my began.
These are where my ex started, like.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
A little shoulder movement. I think I know what you're
talking about.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
And like I love an artistic man, like I would
love to be with someone that's like creative and does
like art or theater and music successfully like no SoundCloud
but like Spotify, yes yes, but something about like I
don't know, I couldn't like after seeing that I couldn't
be with any of them. Well.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
Also, I feel like a lot of musicians give you
the ick when they do icky stuff like remember that
one guy after a date that you went on, brought
you back to his apartment and serenaded you, And I
remember that one time I brought you back to my
apartment and serenaded you.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
It's stuff like that where I feel like it had
of triggered your.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Eck okay, but that one guy, let me, let me explained
to you the whole ich. So we yeah, red flag
he was a model, which was the red flag number one.
He's actually like extremely cute, to the point where like
he was so good looking. But I was like kind
of concerned. I was like, am I being caffished? And
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so first I was like, am I being caffish too?
I was like, why is SPA being on me? Something's
wrong with him? So no, I'm not even saying that
in like a self deprecation kind of way, but like
I was genuinely curious. So which hopes this date he
is real and he's actually like very very very very attractive,
like he's built like a like a Greek statute. Red
Flag number two, because why I spend that much time
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in the gym? I was he jacked? He's jacked, but
he was like, I know we're out, I'll just run
number three. Why are you've running so hard? But he
talked about like being a model the entire time of
the date, and he was like everyone says they're one,
but it's hard to actually be one. And Red Flag
number fourteen and he wouldn't sit down like we were
sitting at a like a high top table and he
would just like stand and talk and I was like,
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can you please, it's like making me anxious, like please
sit down. And then the way it gives us our
shrinks for free because she likes him, and I was like, okay,
don't like that. And then also he showed me his
Instagram like I followed him like while we were sitting there.
I can't date someone that has comments like that.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
I don't know, having a lot of Instagram followers. I
cannot stress this enough. Is for the girl he had.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
Like twenty six K. I was like, uh, that's scary.
And then but I was like, you know what, we
still have like a good conversation like whatever. So apartment
sometime weeks days later, an'ma whatever and we're like relaxing, talking,
having a drink, whatever, and he's like, I'm gonna put
some music on and I was like okay. So it
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puts on music and I'm like, wow, this is actually
like really bad. So I was like, oh, like who
sings this and he was like, huh, it's me. I
was like, and like that was already bad. And it
was like like kind of like a little bit of
rap a little bit of singing, and I was like,
this is trying to give drink but it wasn't. So
I was like interesting, like wow, this is this is
so good. Wow. It could have been worse at that
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but made me want to leave. They started dancing to
it and he was like shiving his shoulder singing along
with himself, and I was like, this is it, this
is it, this is the it has been solidified. I
need to go.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
I would have been so upset because how are you
gonna look like that and then act like a fool?
Speaker 1 (16:49):
I know? But then it made sense, Okay. I was
like the karmic balance, like the ying and the yang,
like it was there. He was so physically attractive, but
he was so in love with himself that made me
very uncomfortable. It's like I didders before. I did the
country singer once actually because the great love that got away,
but like that I love. No.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
It's crazy because I often feel and I know this
is a stereotype for sure, but I often feel that
model not even like objectively good looking people, because oftentimes
a lot of models, how do I not how do
I say this?
Speaker 3 (17:19):
Let me rephrase kirky looking that's like, yeah, do you
know what I'm talking about?
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Like what I'm trying to say very nicely right now
is that something.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Yeah, like pre pre twenty sixteen, to be a model,
you had to be like negative fifty pounds, five foot ten, blonde,
blue eyes and like just an incredibly how do you
look like that kind of body like this Candice Swinampole
or like Cindy Crawford. Like it's be like a ninety supermodel,
but like twenty sixteen on, it's less of like a
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conventionally attractive type of model, like a Dghdide more delicate.
I feel like a Bellahadide, Like if you have anything
that makes you interesting looking, like you have like something
quirky about euro if you have freckles, or you have
like cool eyes like a Uniber or like really cool
big hair. Oh, something unique about you that makes you
a model. And I'm not just being like conventionally like
gig Hidide attractive. It's more Bella Hidie now exactly. And
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they all have a very similar quality about them.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
The model the post twenty sixteen models that.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
I can't quite put my finger on, but I would
describe it as that. And also very delicate features. I
don't really know how to describe it. So I'm not
really saying it's all conventionally attractive people, not that I'm
trying whatever.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
I'm just gonna say. What I want to say is
that I feel like, as someone who has.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
The profession of model, I every model that I have met,
I kind of look out for self obsession, if that
makes sense, because I feel like a lot of models
who have platforms.
Speaker 3 (18:48):
Kind of promote I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
I'm really trying to be nice now I say it,
and I'm also trying to be kind of correct because
this can come off really mean, but I.
Speaker 3 (18:55):
Don't mean it to be.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
I think just like whenever I either like date a
model or like meet one, it's always.
Speaker 3 (19:04):
Something to look out for, with something to look out
for with everybody.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
But I think that profession, this is what I'm trying
to say, that profession can foster. So it's not really
necessarily the individual's fault a lot of the times, but
having a profession where you have to constantly be thinking
about your looks, that can often seep into your personal life.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
So I think it's just something to look out for,
if that makes.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Sense, And that's like one thing that of course I
I could be a model. I'm also like five foot
two and don't want like a model at all. I
think it'd be scary to me. And it's one thing
that I do, I guess kind of admire. It's gonna
sound weird saying that, but like I couldn't do a
job where it's tied to my looks me neither, because
like when I get really in mind, like so I
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have depression, if I get depressed, or if I get
really anxious and like my weight fluctuates, or like I'm
a woman, so I have a uterus, and like if
I have a fupa like I don't want my ability
to succeed or be successful to be tied to how
my body looks. But women who can do that, I
have the almost respectful because I couldn't have that mental
toll on me, you know. But I do think that's
like one reason as to why I feel like especially nowadays,
(20:04):
because like Instagram and TikTok makes it so much more
accessible to be like a model or to be like
an influencer, where like it is more looks based. If
that's like what your platform is. To the point where
it's like you kind of have to be self obsessed
to do it because your entire career is tied to
how you look. And I feel like that's a kind
of pressure I can like honestly never have on myself,
Like I look ratty, You're atty sometimes and I have
(20:25):
to be okay. I can't think about having to leave
my house and always look like I'm a tin. You know.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
That's exactly what I'm trying to say is that I
feel like the profession ken Foster is such an unhealthy
like view of body that I could never do it,
and the people who do it and manage to have
that not seep into their personal life of most respect,
because it is extremely hard.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
I can't even imagine how.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
I mean, I know I would be like that, Like
if I was a model, which I would never be,
I would very much kind of let that I'm not
strong enough for that. It's the same thing why I
didn't do musical theater. It's like I can't necessarily associate
my talent, which is something I care very much about,
to my I can't tie that to my success, my rent,
how I put food on the table because I just
(21:08):
don't have the grit for it, you know, and like, yeah,
that's just something that I feel like when you have
all that pressure on something so physical, it's hard, and
I think that, yeah, to do it, you have to
be a certain kind of person.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
I'm definitely not that person.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
It's also like being on a hinge in twenty twenty three.
I can't explain to you and Ember. One it's sickening,
but two, it's like every single man on hinge in
New York City's occupation is model, Like, y'all can't all
be models. But I don't know what is worse actually,
and it'sact making me feel like being alone is a
lovely because I don't have to deal with this.
Speaker 3 (21:44):
You know, Yeah, exactly. It's a lot dating someone new
you never really know.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
It's so crazy because it can be the pendulum swings
so far one way.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
I feel like you never get anyone normal anymore.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
I mean like literally, when I was going out on dates,
I was like waiting. I almost found myself. And I'm
sure you can relate waiting for the weird thing. Yeah, Like,
I know there has to be something wrong with you.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
What is it?
Speaker 3 (22:05):
I thought's a very pessimistic view, but I'm a pessimistic person.
What can I say?
Speaker 1 (22:08):
And then when they're not, I'm like, wait, am I
a weird one? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (22:11):
Yeah, I'm like is it me? Oh, I totally understand that.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
I get so nervous because what if they go off
And I know you can't really run your life like
this because you know that's no way to run your life.
But I'm like, what if they go home to their
apartment and what if I'm the topic of the group chat? Yeah,
I go and text my friends after a first date.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
That's that was so weird. What if he's doing that
about me?
Speaker 1 (22:30):
So so I went on like I finally started dating
again and it's been ess actually been pretty good, Like
no one's like actually made me that mad. Yet I
went on date with this guy and he kept staring
at me and mine. He's from Europe, so I was like,
maybe he's just European and not weird. And then I
was I was finally like you really like to like
you stare very intensely, and he was like, oh, like
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in my culture, like eye contact is very important. Like
that's crazy because if you look like me, look look
at it's gonna be a problem because why are you
staring so hard.
Speaker 3 (23:00):
I'm even love.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
I don't know what it is. Like I try to
do eye contact for like thirty seconds, and now I was like,
I actually can't do this because I'm like, this is
what makes me really mad. I can't stare at both
of your eyes at once. Like. It's not the eyes
that freak me out, it's that like, I'm very aware
of people's eyes and they look at me, so like
Sarah looking at me right now, You're staring right here,
and I can see your eyes looking to the side
of my face.
Speaker 3 (23:20):
That's so funny because I'm literally looking at your left really.
Speaker 1 (23:22):
Yeah, I see you staring here. So my first thought
is there something in my hair or like in my
ear right now, crazy nose. I was looking at your
left eye look right here right now. Okay, not with
your like your whole face, but like just your eyes.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Wait, okay, wait, now I'm getting.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Or stare at stare at one of my eyes. Now
I see you staring at this one.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
Yeah, okay, what about it?
Speaker 1 (23:47):
I don't know. I feel like you're staring at my ears,
so it freaks me out. I was like, really bad
eye contacts, I think, but on Love Island, everyone's like
eye contact is still hot, and I'm like, well, maybe
this is my problem.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
No, I don't think you're bad at eye contact at all.
I think that you have a very rare ability to
make people feel at ease. And I feel like one
of those reasons that you do that is that you
make really good eye contact or one of those Yeah,
one of a big reason why you can do that
is because you make really good eye contact. Is that
the first thing you notice about people their eyes.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
I know that's where they're staring at me. Like, if
I'm talking to someone, I can always tell what side
you're looking at. And it makes me so angry because
while you look at my ears every time someone talks
to me, I feel like you're staring at my ears.
It makes me very self common.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
Really, no, you is it perfect?
Speaker 2 (24:30):
The first thing I look at when I see people
or their smiles.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
Really, I'm constantly staring at people's mouth. I feel bad
for it.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
I feel like I've even look at people. I don't
really know what I do that's not I like multi
ask in my head. I'm like, what's that for there?
Speaker 2 (24:44):
I think it's I know for me because I'm very
self conscious about what's on my mouth and in my
teeth at all times?
Speaker 3 (24:52):
You know. That's my biggest thing is Like.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
Sarah will be like, it's something in my teeth. I'm
like no, she goes. Look again, I'm like no, she goes.
I can feel it. I was like, there's no thing
in your teeth.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
That's my biggest insecurity is when there's food in my
teeth or something on my mouth, or if my lipstick
is gone or whatever. And when my lips get chopped,
I physically can't do anything.
Speaker 3 (25:11):
Except for chapstick.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
One.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
I get such bad sensory overload.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
And when I forget chapstick or gum on a night out,
I have a mental breakdown.
Speaker 1 (25:18):
Is that right? No, Like you stopped wearing lipstick as much,
but like, oh my gosh, wait, like give it like
two or three years ago, everything else before like August
of this year. It would actually drive me crazy because
I don't just didn't understand it. So Sarah would wear
like the liquid matte lipstick, like the Kaylie not the
Kylie brand, but like that kind of VI yeah, yeah,
(25:39):
the hoodah booty.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
What was it called?
Speaker 1 (25:42):
Not fame? It was like I forgot the shame name.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
Oh trendsetter, say see.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
Also on the same subject. Yeah, but she we would
go out to eat, she had a lipstick on. She
would take one bite of feet or one sip and
reapply her entire lipstick, take another bite, reappire. I was like, girl,
I promise you if you just eat the food and
then we apply, good life would be so much eier.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
She's like, no, yeah, you always used to may Or
when I would finish dinner and then would order another drink,
I would reapply my lipstick.
Speaker 3 (26:08):
Continuing would be like, you're.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
About to do You're about to put your mouth on
something else.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
No, my boyfriend gets on me about that all the time,
because my I have pretty good manners, I think, But
this one thing I do drive some nuts. We'll be
at dinner and I'll take out my phone camera to
like check my face and see if there's any food
on it, or like my teeth or whatever.
Speaker 3 (26:26):
He gets so he's like, you know, there's a bathroom here, right, Yeah,
that thing.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
I do it all the time, but I get such
bad sensory overload when I forget chapstick, and oh my god,
this one this is like friendship ending.
Speaker 3 (26:37):
This one time I was at who was I with.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
I was at home with like a couple friends, and
we were with my guy friend group back home, which
we don't speak of because my exit part of that group.
And we all were out to lunch and we were
eating salad or I was eating a salad, and this
one leafy green was in my tooth the entire lunch,
And of course this is the one day I don't
check it in my phone. And then at the end
(27:01):
of the lunch, I go to the bathroom, I go
back to the table. I am furious.
Speaker 3 (27:06):
Two of the guys too. I was like, so, no
one was going to tell me there's something in my teeth?
I think I left.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
I was literally so bad, you know, like honestly, sometimes Okay,
if it's something in someone's teeth, I'll tell them. But
if it's like a booger, that's territory. I don't care
how close we are. You can literally have come from
my stomach. He could be my child, my parents, my
little brother. If you have a booger, I'm not telling you.
That's not my business. I'm sorry. And so one thing
I can't do. I think it's so awkward.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
Yeah. Also, one thing that also annoys me though.
Speaker 2 (27:35):
There's another side to the spectrum, and it's when you
have something on your teeth or on your clothes or
in your hair or whatever, and you are in front
of someone you want to impress and the other person
screams it at you in front of all these people, Like.
Speaker 3 (27:47):
You, take me aside, send me a text, give motion
to me, like, don't scream it in front of thirty people.
I can't stand that.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
Shit. That's I feel about about friends who okay, and
I had one friendlies do this all the time. You
know who I'm talking about? Where? Yes, where? It's like
the kind of friend I almost like a jealousy thing
or like a competition thing. But like if you're in
a group of people and they're like guys around or
like attractive people, and like that person will compliment you
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or like someone will be like, oh, like you're outfit,
I'm like it's mine. Or like if someone I like
your hair, she's like yeah, she's extentions in like why
do you feel the need to like? Or they'll be
like you make it look so good today, you look pretty.
You're like, why do you have to comment that? It's
like not something that's I don't know, I saw a
TikTok about that.
Speaker 3 (28:31):
Well, Also, it's pay attention how people act, and especially.
Speaker 2 (28:36):
Your friends in front of the men you like, or
the men that you're dating, or the men that you're
in love with, or the person you have a crush on,
or honestly just people you want to impress. In general,
pay attention how your friends act, because a great way
to indicate that a friend is really not a very
good friend is how they treat you in that scenario.
Speaker 3 (28:53):
Do they lift you up? Do they bring you down?
Speaker 2 (28:56):
And it is literally one or the other, because I
know my friends sending chance when I was, you know,
kind of trying to impress the man who I'm currently dating,
they would.
Speaker 3 (29:06):
Hype me up in front of him.
Speaker 2 (29:08):
They would always like mention my accomplishments or find ways
to kind of support me in that way. But I
have had too many friends who did the same, and
it was always about appearance too, or just like dumb
things in general. You know what I mean is like,
don't insult my intelligence in front of this Like it
makes no sense, but that's a great way. That's a
really big red flags with friends. And it's something kind
of like that. A lot of people don't think about,
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but it makes you feel so shitty in the moment.
Speaker 3 (29:33):
I also think.
Speaker 2 (29:33):
It's weird when you bring your manner, your crush or
whatever around your friends and they start acting different. Yes,
oh my god, I hate are they like I know
obviously sometimes with new people in general. Yeah, like you
want to make sure you look good, so you might
like flip your hair or something. But sometimes it gets
to be a little too much, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (29:51):
I just can't stand it.
Speaker 2 (29:52):
There's so many of these little cues that can really
tell you whether or not you should be friends with
this person.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
We have not talked about the topic at all.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
Thirty four minutes. One last thing. I was thinking about
this a lot actually, because of course, you know, I'm
on wedding TikTok because I love weddings so much, despite
me not having a boyfriend. I love like everything about
I have my entire wedding planned out and I don't
have a man yet. But like I see people doing
like their maid of honor speeches and are talking about
like how much they love their person's partner. But like,
(30:22):
until now, kind of only one of my friends I've
never been in like a place in my life where
like all of my friends have liked my friend's boyfriend,
or like all my friends like I've never had people
like my boyfriend like my friends actually my entire life,
no matter who I dated, they have all hated the
person I've been with, or like your ex, or like
(30:42):
people my friends are dating too, like none of them.
I've never in my life had a friend date a
guy and how everyone like him. So I'm kind of
like when people get married, what do they do, like
just put the hate away?
Speaker 3 (30:53):
Yeah, I don't really know.
Speaker 2 (30:54):
I mean, I'm like, everyone likes my current boyfriend, right,
everybody likes my friend, Like.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
Yes, I know, but it's like it's just a weird thing.
It's like it's it's three things. Is it one that
like the guy actually isn't good and no one sees it,
or like anyone sees it besides the person that's dating them,
which is what happened with my ex. Or is it
that no girls just ever like their friend's boyfriends and they
don't think they're ever good enough? Or three Like I
(31:20):
don't know, is that just the way life is? I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (31:22):
That's actually a really good question because as very friend
oriented people. How am I supposed to have, for example,
my maid of honor standing next to this guy that
they hate and vice versa, Like what am I supposed
to do if it's the other way around? Either, Like
if someone didn't like you, I don't I could not
be with them.
Speaker 3 (31:36):
I don't really know if how does that work?
Speaker 1 (31:38):
Like what are the odds that like all of us
like all of each other's boyfriends, you know, like I thought,
that's such a rare thing that could occur.
Speaker 3 (31:44):
That's good the university.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
It's kind of spooky. But then also the thing that's
different is like maybe in the past because like think
about like my parents for example, like all of their
friends are also couples and they all get along. But
I think also it's because we're digging in a situation
where like something happens with my with like someone I'm seeing,
I text you guys immediately, So you guys only really
ever hear the bad stuff. I think sometimes the good stuff.
(32:06):
But like back then, like you'd only see your friends
in person, so it's gonna brant about how bad they
are in person, Like I'd have time to like think
things through you before I saw you, But like now
It's like the minute something bad happens, the first thing
I do is text my friends, So like, of course
you're having a negative view of the person. So it's
very weird, But also at the same time, it's like
I have the really awful guys in the past. My
friends have always told me they're awful, but I was
so like in love and in and nambored with them
(32:28):
that I couldn't see it from myself. So is it
more of that kind of situation or more so like
it's my doing by always talking about the negative.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
I think.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
It's not so much the negative you have to worry about,
it's the positive. So I would say, if you are
a person who runs to your friend group, which is
sitting and I both are, and so is our roommate,
what you have to do is you have to ensure
that if they are actually a good person, or if
you think they're a good person, which clearly you have
thought that about all your exo's Otherwise why would you
have dated them that you kind of implement the positive
just as much as you are the negative. I would say,
(33:01):
don't take out any negative because at that point, what
are you who are you kidding? If that makes sense like, oh,
you know, he cheated on me again, let me not
tell my friend, you know what I mean. I think
it's just like more the positive stuff that he does.
So like in your future relationships, don't only talk about
the negative. I wouldn't say refrain because where your friends,
we're here to support you, and we want to know
(33:22):
what's going on and if we want to know if
you're sad, so we can support you and everything, and
so we could give you advice.
Speaker 3 (33:27):
But also implement the positive as well.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
And I would also say Sinney and I have talked
about a lot on the podcast. If like enough of
your friends and your family and the people who you
know say that you're not dating a good guy, and
if they know the guy, I would say that it's
probably true. If they don't know him, that's a whole
other scenario, and a lot of people. That's the case
with a lot of people in like long distance relationships
(33:51):
and new relationships. But if they do know the guy
and they're like, if enough people tell you to get
the fuck out, you might want to start listening to
that advice.
Speaker 3 (33:58):
That's what do you think?
Speaker 1 (33:59):
I agree because it's like I was with someone for
four and a half years and my family, my friends,
people weren't even my family, our friends all hated him
and they're like, this man's awful, And I was like, yes,
he's awful for.
Speaker 3 (34:10):
Me, you know, he's my awful boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
And I wish my friends hear that for a reason,
because they know me and they see how it affects me.
So I feel like if I listen to them, or
to myself, or to actually literally anyone, even the guy,
like he will tell me like I'm awful to you,
I'm like, okay, I li the in probably a much
better place now. But I do think everything happens for
a reason, and like I've hopefully learned from that, so
you know.
Speaker 2 (34:33):
Yeah, I think once you do start dating a good guy,
you know, not to be mean towards your ex, but
to be very mean towards your ex once you start
dating an amazing guy, because I know you well, I
know it's in the cards for you. Of course, I
think that then implement the good stuff along with the bad.
But if the guy sucks, yeah, I don't want to
hear the good shit like it's happened before.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
Fuck that it's been thirty eight minutes and we have
not talked about the topic.
Speaker 2 (34:57):
I think maybe we just don't this time and come
up with the topic ourselves.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
Do you like how to touch on? And like not
really at all.
Speaker 2 (35:04):
So one thing we didn't talk about yet, which is
very against my character, is the vander Pump Rules Reunion
Part two. Because it came out yesterday, it is now Thursday,
June first, in case any of y'all are wondering, and
I watched it today on Peacock.
Speaker 3 (35:18):
Oh my god, they just brought Racheilan Raquel.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
I don't really know which one it is, and I'm
so excited to see where this goes.
Speaker 3 (35:26):
It's actually so funny. Tom called Ariana a mother effort on.
Speaker 2 (35:30):
The show, and I was like, oh my god, it's
so so funny because men will never not get mad
at the women they cheat on. Never, I've never, ever,
ever on TV in real life, in my situation, I
have never seen a situation where a man cheated on
a woman and did not scream at her for it,
like it was her own fault.
Speaker 1 (35:48):
It's them projecting their guilt.
Speaker 2 (35:50):
Yes, it's or yeah, trying to displace her something makes
no sense. It's hilarious, not actually, but it was hilarious
to watch. And then Tom was like outside of the
recording studio, they kept trying to film him because they
signed a contract where they were like, they have to
have cameras on them all day, even when they're breaking
or at lunch, and they can go off by themselves
(36:10):
and if they need a moment like to the bathroom
or to go get food or something, if they wanted
a moment by themselves, that could go off by themselves
without the cameras. But if they were talking to another
cast member, they signed an agreement that's part of what
being on a reality TV show is. And he was
talking with Raquel and the cameras are following them around
and Tom starts verbally.
Speaker 3 (36:28):
Assaulting the camera people, being like, get.
Speaker 2 (36:30):
Out, I don't want a fucking camera in my face
all this stuff, and the producer was trying to very
calmly explain to him, this is what you signed up for.
Speaker 3 (36:37):
This is reality TV. We have to follow.
Speaker 2 (36:39):
That's our job to follow you around with cameras and
it's your job to be in front of them.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
Yeah, it makes no sense. It's like one thing to cheat, though,
but to cheat with the person's friend. I'm kind of
like there's no situation in which you get out of
that like unscathed. Yeah, Like, are you really that dumb?
I just honest.
Speaker 2 (36:56):
And Andy Bravo Cohen asked, Raquel, did you really think
there was future with Arianna and your French after this?
And Raquel goes, yeah, Dad, like I think I was
living in my own little reality.
Speaker 3 (37:06):
Guys, that's how she talks.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
I swear she was living in her own reality, she said,
And from what Tom was telling her, it was like
Arianna didn't want to know.
Speaker 3 (37:15):
This is what's so delusional to me. And I'm sure,
like I don't mean to.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
Like I hate seeing one person just get so much
hate at once. And she was sitting there explaining to
Andy how she thought from what Tom was telling her
that Arianna didn't want to know about the affair because
people were giving her hints and she would always kind
of shut it down and not really want to hear it,
and she didn't confront either Raquel or Tom about it,
and because she just blindly trusted him, because she should
(37:41):
because they were dating for ten years. And Raquel was
just like, oh yeah, I mean she just didn't want
to know, and Andy goes, it sounds like you're blaming
Arianna for the affair because she didn't want.
Speaker 3 (37:52):
To know, and also why would she not want to know?
That makes no sense.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
It's that part that I got so pissed at because
I was like, you're right, Andy, why wouldn't some girlfriend
of ten years not want to know that he cheated?
Speaker 3 (38:02):
That makes no sense.
Speaker 1 (38:04):
That's what's so funny to me, is that, like the
difference in reality shows like The Only Are Out of
Shell actually ever watch or two of them? Actually three
one the Kardashians, just because I'd like to know what
I already know, but from a different point of view,
Like I started any One to Love Island because that's
the best show that's ever been created. Obviously, new season's
(38:25):
coming out this week. Actually, ooh three Real Hospalie of Atlanta.
I'm sorry they created humor like Meani leaks like I've
never seen someone like you could take any clip from
any minute of that show and make ten memes out
of it. If she's speaking, like, oh my gosh, and
I quote her on like a daily bit. I didn't
even seen the whole show.
Speaker 3 (38:46):
You do quote?
Speaker 1 (38:46):
I quote her on a daily She's so funny, Like
the thing she says, who thinks of that? Like type bob?
I used type bob every day. I don't know what
that means. I have to It's so funny.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
I've said this on the podcast before, but the fact
that Nannie was in the Lee it was just so funny.
You can imagine my shock when I watched Glee for
the first time ever and Nini was on this episode,
and Nini and Jane Lynch were the funniest duo of
all time.
Speaker 1 (39:11):
I actually wrote her own lines. That's what she would
actually say.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
Yeah, I was trying the whole episode. It's so fun
I've seen a couple episodes of Atlanta, but I've never
went through the seasons like I did with Beverly Hills.
Sidney's eating chips and walk right now, and you can
hear the bag wrestling, which is actually quite relaxing.
Speaker 3 (39:28):
But there guacamole is poop brown.
Speaker 1 (39:31):
Usually like and don't mind, jo I got it like
twenty minutes ago. Usually the top is brown, the rest
is green. No, the entire thing is rotten. And it's
actually making me very disappointed because it's actually a million dollars.
Speaker 3 (39:40):
How does it taste like poop? Really?
Speaker 1 (39:44):
God?
Speaker 3 (39:47):
Sindy's like shoveling this shit right now? Why are you
eating it?
Speaker 1 (39:51):
Being out of anger and protest?
Speaker 2 (39:52):
Okay, you told that story on the podcast where you
went to Chipotle and the guy gave you milk, right,
and you took it as a threat.
Speaker 1 (40:00):
Oh my gosh. He made me Saykay, this is like
the worst Chipole experience. Actually, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (40:05):
I have you heard this before, but I really think
it's worth of retail. It's so funny.
Speaker 2 (40:08):
Did you I feel like you do? Okay, maybe it
was just a side cover. I don't know, but it's
so funny, you guys.
Speaker 1 (40:12):
So I went to so Chipotle has this absurd rule
where you can't order a casada in the store. It
actually makes me actually very upset because as the person
who originated it's actually all me. I who sorry at
cacda is a Chipotle. Since I was freaking eight years old,
I'd walk up in there cheese and chicken caesadia, thank you,
and they would always make it for me. Suddenly everyone
(40:33):
wants fun, so they make it a menu item. But
with the cavyat that you can only order it online.
Please don't insult my intelligence if I walk up to
the front. They made the case of dia right there.
I order it online or in person, put some cheese
and chicken in a tortilla, put it in a little
smashy thing and put it at the end. You can
only order it online. It's actually very annoying and it's
(40:54):
more expensive online. Very annoying. So I go in. It
was a kind of case ida. He's like, no, you
get to order online. I'm not gonna sit there wait
thirty minutes to order it online and wait no. I like,
you know what, I'll dupe you too, if you wanna
doup me on dupe you. So order two kids quesadias
as I should. And he looks so annoyed, and I
was like, yeah, make my KISSI right now. And so
I ordered a chicken and cheeseca c dia, the only
(41:16):
thing I can get from Chipotle. I don't think to
check him because I'm thinking to do that disrespectful to me.
So I was like, I'm taking my little casidias. Got
to the end, He's like, do you want a kids
to drink? I was like no, and he was like,
are you sure this is a different guy, the first guy,
disrespectful guy. We'll get to him in a second second,
if that's your thing, if he's your type. And he's
(41:38):
like making like seductive eyes at me, and I'm like,
we're in a Chipotle stir please calm down, and he's like,
I'm in my gym stuff, I'm wearing like spandex in
a sports brawl. And he's like, you sure I don't
want to drink. I was like, I just said no
to you three times. He opens the fridge. He does
not break eye contact this entire time. He's staring at me,
put his arm behind him, opens the fridge, grabs a
(41:58):
one percent low fat cow's milk that the kids won,
and once emotion he slides across the tape when he
was like on me, wiky face. Number one, it's not
on you. It's a kid's meal. It comes with the meal.
Number two. You just put low fat, organic one percent
normal milk in my face and wink at me. I
am a lot for some tolerant, that's a threat. No
(42:20):
oat milk, okay, And my thing is like it could
have been a little bit cute if it had been
chocolate milk, but like normal milk with the straw, Like
let's let's actually be for real you know what. That
milk is still sitting in our fridge. It's been a month,
but I went in chocolate milk with anything. I thought
it was very rude.
Speaker 2 (42:38):
What is it with you and walking into stores to
order food and just getting so disrespected?
Speaker 1 (42:44):
I would love to know because it's the Starbucks thing too.
Oh that's even better, it's even better. I didn't even
finch a story. First, it was mister milk weird. Then
I get home, you know, I was like, I'm gonna
put the milk thing aside. It's like, enjoy my kid's meal.
I open this foil and it's just chea. Yeah, why
would I, as a grown, developing woman, order a tortilla
(43:09):
cheese on it? You actually be fucking for real, and
it goes, how do you miss putting chicken on ch
chicken and cheese? Casey, the is now, I've actually been
so mad in my life. So it was me, my cheese,
tortilla and my milk. So Yeahntola, you need to have
some words.
Speaker 3 (43:27):
I literally get a breathe. Who oh that is so funny.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
I want chocolate milk. It You've always want chol Also,
I get we're in a recession and the economy kind
of stuffs right now, there's no reason casey d should
be twenty dollars. I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
Oh my god, I'm going to be clearing my throat
for the next twenty minutes.
Speaker 3 (43:47):
I'm sorry, guys, that was so funny. I don't know.
I feel like I have pretty normal experience.
Speaker 1 (43:54):
I never had no experience in my life, even like
me and the Insomnia man. So Insomnia Cookies is like
right next to a part don't look up our apartment.
We have like a love affair going on. I don't
know his name, he doesn't know mine. But I'll walk
in there and I'll be like, I have one sugar cookie.
He'd be like, yeah, I'll give me like eight cookies.
And I'm like, if you love me, just say that.
Speaker 3 (44:14):
That happened in another Insomnia store too.
Speaker 1 (44:16):
Yeah, every time I'm going to Insomnia. Oh yeah, I
went in to Insomnia and their car machine was working
or something, or like my card was working on their machine.
He gave me your free and I was like, you
love me, don't you. Oh my god, you love me
for real? You love me bad.
Speaker 2 (44:31):
And then the Apple store thing, you know, the thing
with the iPhones that you have.
Speaker 1 (44:38):
Oh yeah, d Irak tell this on the podcast.
Speaker 3 (44:41):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (44:42):
Okay, So we're getting into a series theories. So that
I have Chipotle is against me, Insomnia loves me. The
Apple Store. I have this theory that like they have two.
So when you go and get so you walk in
there they have all these people sitting around doing nothing.
You finally go up to a store like a little
stand like little wooden table, seeing it for thirty minutes,
finally be like, some do you need help. Yes, they've
(45:03):
been here for thirty minutes. You will ask I want
a new phone. They'll blah blah blah blah, talk about
this stuff. They look at you really long and hard,
like they have like a little like little thing in
the glasses. They look at you hard. They're like, okay,
rache on a scale of one to ten. Then they
go into back. There are two piles of iPhones, the
good ones all the pretty people have, then the ones
that have actually the camera of a potato and on
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the other side, and if you are hot and they
give you the nice ones. If you are below a five,
you get the potato ones. And every I can't, I
can't I have the iPhone. I have the purple one,
so it's an iPhone what XS no, since that like
iPhone twelve or something, I phone eleven whatever, then the
least new, like, okay, there's a new one? Is the
one before that?
Speaker 3 (45:46):
Thirteen?
Speaker 1 (45:47):
Yes, it's fresh. It should be fresh and new. We're
twenty twenty three.
Speaker 3 (45:51):
It should.
Speaker 1 (45:51):
I should be able to see my pupils if I
put this, like I should see my pores in my hair.
I know people that have an iPhone freakin' three gs
have better care than I do. I have never had
an iPhone with normal camera.
Speaker 3 (46:04):
Cidy has a really bad camera on.
Speaker 1 (46:06):
Her phone, Like I will put it up and it
will be dark like all look like I took it
with a brick, Like the picture some random girl comes
to wall sing up her nice, perfect little hair, prickle
little teeth, little eyes, puts her iPhone three gs up
and it's perfectly clear quality. And I don't know what
it is, but every single freaking person I know has
a perfect iPhone camera and might have always sucked. I
think it's personal potato phone funny.
Speaker 2 (46:31):
That theory is obviously not true, but I literally think
it is the funniest thing ever I feel.
Speaker 1 (46:36):
I think it's true. Anytime someone's like, your phone quality sucks,
thank you for calling me ugly, honestly, thank you. I've
never seen a pretty person with the bad phone cameras
all I gotta say. And I want you, if you're
listening to this, ask yourself and the prettiest person you know,
does their phone quality suck? No? And I think it's
very annoying.
Speaker 3 (46:55):
You know, energy this is giving. Have you read those
Dear Dumb Diary books when you were younger?
Speaker 1 (46:58):
I know, I know the cover, but I was like,
it's giving.
Speaker 3 (47:03):
That energy, which is which I like it's giving. Geni b.
Jones had a very bad day, see I don't.
Speaker 1 (47:07):
I didn't like the kids books for like, the main
character was like a messy girl, like really Ramon and
Bezus like I couldn't imphathie with her, so I was like,
I feel like I'm Beesus, not Romon.
Speaker 3 (47:19):
I loved Magic Treehouse, genebe Jones.
Speaker 1 (47:23):
I love Magic Treehouse. Actually kind of ate with that
and the other magic one, the Magic Bus, Magic tree
Buster School.
Speaker 3 (47:31):
You know, the theme song is so funny.
Speaker 2 (47:32):
The Magic school Bus has to start wait and then Arnold's.
Speaker 3 (47:38):
Like, please let this be a normal field trip with
the Friz No what.
Speaker 1 (47:43):
The Lizard?
Speaker 3 (47:45):
Oh the Liz are just so funny.
Speaker 2 (47:46):
Remember that one episode where they stranked the bus and
went inside the wizard.
Speaker 3 (47:49):
Yeah, that sounded very sexual, but it's true.
Speaker 1 (47:51):
I like to the black girls. She kind of ate
them up every time.
Speaker 3 (47:53):
Oh yeah, she was cool. Arnold's my favorite though.
Speaker 1 (47:55):
I like it really. I really relate to redheads. I
don't know what it is, gets like a spiritual connection.
Speaker 3 (48:01):
Really. Yeah, a lot of people don't like red heads.
Speaker 1 (48:03):
I know, you know what, why what did every do does?
I kind of like redheads as like a spiritual connection.
Speaker 3 (48:11):
You dated a couple of redheads.
Speaker 1 (48:12):
Let's not go that far. There was one and actually
I went to Coney Island and this is why I
don't get tear card readings. I got a tear card
reading for like two bucks in Coney Island and she
was like, you will fall in love with the redhead.
And I was like, girl, don't be for real right now.
She's like, no, you will. I was like she's crazy
because like black and redhead, that's an interesting combination. So
(48:36):
then I was in a bar Josie's. Actually, if you
go to n y U and someone came out to me.
He was a redheaded British man and he was like,
I sit here or got kind of this chair. I
was like, yeah, you're sitting next to me staring and
I was like do you need something? And he was like,
oh yeah, I just wanted to talk. And then I
did end up like becoming obsessed with him.
Speaker 3 (48:55):
So, oh my gosh, all right, you guys, that is
about the time I am that we have for today.
We were really gonna do this episode about burnout.
Speaker 1 (49:04):
We had like a whole topic planned, and then we
started talking about camp Rock and then I went from
camp Rock to like redheads but you know everything sick.
Speaker 2 (49:12):
Yes, there was going to be such an inspiring motivational
message in this podcast for you guys.
Speaker 3 (49:18):
You were gonna we were ready, We had a we
had an outline. No we didn't. We had an outline
on our brains. We were ready to go. And then
you know how Sinny and I just.
Speaker 1 (49:24):
Get to well, we can't do that next.
Speaker 3 (49:27):
Yeah, you edged me with your laugh.
Speaker 1 (49:33):
Sorry, I've never heard I'm going to be that. I'm
just gonna be that, but what I doesn't even know
what that means. I'm trying I'm trying to think about what.
Speaker 2 (49:50):
Let me clarify, your face looks like it's about to laugh,
and then it makes me laugh, but then you never end.
Speaker 3 (49:55):
Up laughing, so you're like edging basically together.
Speaker 1 (49:58):
We haven't an introduction for a plot in a very
long time.
Speaker 3 (50:01):
Yeah, okay, so we're crying out now. I can't do
it now.
Speaker 2 (50:05):
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Speaker 3 (50:13):
We love you, ye bye bye
Hello. I'm just telling Sarah that I have this like
innate inability to not multitask like I think I've ever
recorded and just sat here like I always have to
be like curling my hair, shrading my hair, doing my makeup, eating,
actually doing anything but just sitting here.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
And it would be a problem because when we were
more than two people, we had this one girl who
was just like she also multitasked, but she did it badly.
You could tell she was a person who is not
very adept to multitasking, but you did it anyway. I
just remember us being on zoom because it was around COVID,
and you're eating this giant cookie cake while we were recording,
(00:43):
And so it would be a problem with Sydney, and
I probably would bring it up. But you do it
so well it does not impact recording. It is still
like awesome, and I think that's why it works for you. I,
on the other hand, does not work like sen You'll
ask me a question, I'll be texting somebody back and
I'll go, h, what, you.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Just do it so well. I don't know how it's
like even when it comes to like doing like homework
or schoolwork, I'm just like you know when you watch
Netflix in your bed, like before you go to sleep.
I basically can't just sit there and just watch the show.
Like it's like I need to be doing something else.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
I don't know, I get that desire, but then I
get distracted doing the other thing and it kind of
makes me switch off.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
So I'll be watching TV, feel the innate need to
do something else, go do that thing, and then turn
off the TV.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
And you know, that's why I can't watch K dramas.
There's actually like a very big slemma for me. Really,
it's because I would love K dramas. I love romance,
I love like opulence, like I want to be able
to watch them and mops like obsessed, so like I
want to be able to start them too. But I
don't like dubbing because I want the voice to match
the person, and like I can just tell when like
(01:46):
they don't match up or like I hate when I
see them like saying a certain word but like the
voice doesn't match or like the word doesn't match with
their mouth, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:55):
And you know what's the worst is when the producers
try to make the dubbing the lip movements, but then
it ends up kind of messing with the translation, so
you're not really getting the full effect.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Like it's a different language, you're not gonna look the same.
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
That's what happened with Squod Games.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
But like I rather just watched the subtitles, like Swied Games.
I watched the subtitle, so did I. But I have
to be doing something else. Whenever I turned my head
and I missed something, and I'm like, damn, I app
to go back, and it just it hurts my soul.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
No, I was just saying to Sydney.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
We were both eating before recording, and that's why the
conversation came up. I'm eating some I'm not eating devouring
an entire big Laze packet right now. And I will
just say, you know how some people have a sweet tooth.
There's no sweet tooth to be heard of in my mouth.
I crave salt constantly, whether it's and it could be
my birth control because that's a side effect, but I
(02:47):
doubt it because I've had my birth control for three
years and I have crave salt my entire life. But
like soy sauce baked lays, which is what I'm eating
chips in general are good sandwiches, like really salty sandwiches.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
I love you salt. I never think anything is too salty.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
I always crave pasta and cheese. I could have pasta
for every Like my dad never eats pasta. I find disturbing,
Like I sing, I was, like everyone likes pasta. I
thought about, like my dad never has pasta, but like
I don't know about everyone else's business, but like I
could not go a week without pasta. Yea, pasta and
cheese and chocolate are where it's at. Like one thing
(03:25):
I hate is candy, like sweet candy, like unless it's
like a chocolate bar. If it's like sour patch or nerve,
like the thought of it makes me sick.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Yeah, the sour candies. Oh no, I am a salt girl,
not a sour girl.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Theyd be like no artificial flavoring. It is a gummy
bear that tastes like blueberry raspberry explosion. What about that
is natural?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
I saw this TikTok on that topic about artificial dyes.
It's and so right now I'm literally ingesting yellow number
what is it yellow number five or something?
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Butotatoes are yellow, so I'm less tessed about that than
like a lime grewn ball.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
If it's if it yeah, because I know potatoes are yellow,
but potatoes are more white, if that makes sense. These
are yellow, so there is like yellow number five or
whatever that's called in here, and it's okay to eat
them once in a while, but you have to be mindful.
And especially with like children, I think it affects their development.
Not permanently, it is very it can be long term
if you eat nothing but processed and artificial dyed foods.
(04:22):
But it was crazy because this one woman made a
TikTok about how her son was like nine years old
or no, not a TikTok, a ted talk about how
her son who's like nine would eat you know, cosmic
brownies or all this crap. And once they switched his diet,
the MoodSwing stop, the tantrum stop, and he just became
a whole other child. And they said that once they
(04:43):
stopped their addictive substances kind of because anything can really
be addicted when you think about it. And he was
dead for like three months, like he couldn't get out
of bed, he did not have any energy. But once
he kind of came out of the withdrawal. He was
a whole different child, and I thought that was really
interesting because of course his brain is still develop make
and he's small, so the effects of artificial dyes are
going to have a different, you know, effect on him,
(05:05):
but on adults it still has an impact too, And
it's interesting kind of taking note of my mood swings
whenever I eat foods with artificial dyes.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
In them, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
And it's some food that you would never think, like
Macha ice cream, the Macha ice cream desert that I
always get at Domo Domo that has green die in it.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Baby, baby, baby, it's lyme green, don't.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Well, I know, but it's not really something you think about,
really because you hear Macha and I think automatic.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
I know this was the case for me.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
I associated Macha with health because oh, Macha green tea
and Macha like whatever, and so I associate that with
like health influencers. But they're digesting artificial dyes every day.
If you have like those little Macha makers with the
phae swirly blender situation.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
And that's just crazy because it's the foods that you
don't even think about.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
It's that's fun to me, just like the most disgusting
food I could think of is a clastic brownie.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
That's what my boyfriends and I just have to vehemently disagree.
I know, I just said that I didn't like sweet stuff,
but cosmic brownies is the one exception.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
You know, my theory about red Gatorade kids. Okay, so
if you guys haven't listened to the podcast from the beginning,
I have this theory, like, you know, those kids are
just like bad, Like they're just bad kids. They're the
kids like punching someone on the playground, or like drawing
weird pictures or like ones that just like don't listen.
They always have every single one of them has this
(06:29):
like ring of red gatorader around their mouth. If it's like, like,
I don't know what it is, but when you see
that little red ring around their mouth, you know they're
about their worst behavior. And it's not even like Gary
in general. I love Gatory, it's only the red one.
And you see, I've never I'll never drink cretigaroraya because
of that. But I feel like cosmic brownies have the
same effect that the red gatorade ring does on children.
(06:49):
And I've seen a kid eat a kasic brownie and
then like behave. But I do like honeybuns, and I
do like zebra cakes. And if anyone ever ever insults those,
it will hurt meat personally. I'm gonna allergic to honeymuns
and I'll still eat them, that's how good they are.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Wait, what's in honey buns? Zor o cinnamon?
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Oh, I don't care, give me, give me highs. I
don't care. It's so but not like the weird ones
they have in like vending machines. Like actually the brand honeybun,
it needs to be brand's name. Yeah, they want us
don't do injustice.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Oh yeah, because they do have the dupes in the
vending machine and they're so bad.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Vending machine dupes. When in one they're huge and if
you look at the back, it's like nine hundred fifty
million grams of sugar. Do not consume, like wh I
put that on your own labeling. No, those are actually
kind of scary.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Don't eat if you're pregnant, have diabetes.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Et cetera.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Like it's actually scary.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
That is hilarious.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Also, those kids always go away to sleep away camp,
not just day camp. It has to be the overnight
camp and it has to be in the woods. It's
always those kids.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
It's just kind of scared me, Like I would never
think like, oh, let me send my kids away where
I don't know what they're doing.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
I don't think I could do that. I mean, it
would kind of be good to get them off my
hands for a while, but then it's kind of like,
should I be a mom if I think that.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
No, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
I never went to sleep boy camp, and I never
was allowed to have sleepovers either when I was little
because my parents are very protective.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Or I didn't show me schepovers but.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Overprotective.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
I would like to say they're helicopter parents, not that
your mom is protective.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
I didn't do camp though. I didn't like camp, but
like my school me too. I did day camp, but
I never did like go away camp for the whole summer. Well,
one because I'm black, and two I don't like nature,
so I feel like it's kind of conintuitive. But like,
oh my god, Oh, there was that group of girls
and mostly elementary middle school, but some of them carried
(08:39):
over were into high school. They went to freaking campumchole
or like those random camps in like Tennessee, and they
were always horse girls, and it was like they come
back all little Braceleton, They're like I got this at
camp and Machyley. They would talk about it until the
next summer. I'm like, girls go live with the camp
buck it so much.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
And then they talk about their camp friends and that's
all that and then they're like, ugh, they make it
a big deal when they want to write to their
camp friends and they have all the stationary.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
It's always those girls.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
This is the last two scholed to be like, write
to me at Campamachley and here's the address. Girl, I'm
not writing you a letter.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
And then they always find a way to creep camp
into every conversation, kind of like, oh, you know, I
like swam in the lake in camp, or I learned I.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Don't know the camp rock dance at camp. I don't know.
That's the first thing I thought of. But oh, camp
rock is so good. I recently listened to that.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Soundtrack the other day, straight through Oh my God, I
Give You the Fire.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
That's so good and then.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
The one Ray Ray Call Me and Sick Johnny insane.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
But I guess even already.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
As a kid, I love that song, but this the
way they filmed it would make me actually so mad.
Why is this a duet? One of them is on
the other side of the camp. How do you hear
each other? And like they would match up perfect them
Like I get it's a movie and I give it
for kids, but like, there's no way he heard her
from all the way over there and had perfect timing.
It actually makes me really upset. But I'm gonna say
(10:06):
what everyone else is scared to say. I'm gonna be honest.
Camp Rock two the Battle of the Camps or whatever,
is better than Camp Rock one. No, actually the music's better,
but let's let's be let's be for real. All of
us would be a camp star. I don't want being
that dingy little This is a sloppy Joe camp. You
all know very well. I'll be where the funding and
(10:27):
the ac is. Like, let's be for real. Everyone was
like number one, oh, number two, number two, who want
to be for real? I think they did lose the
battle they should have. That song was awful. The song
was off of them five real kids running around with
beach balls, like you know, for real, like get some decorum.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Because you know how the guy who ran camp Star
paid off apparently everybody to vote for camp Star.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
I think even if he didn't do he didn't need to.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
They were worse and they're like, oh, we got saved anyway,
let's get some marshmallows. Okay, that was a.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
Really annoying Actually, Cambrock makes this whole big deal about
fire flies and family and community and like water balloon
fights and everything ac state of the art recording studios.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Literally, my ass.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Would be in choreography please, because what ever camp Rock
was doing a little shoulder thing ooh, maybe's sick and.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
The song where she goes marching down the lane to be.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Like you can't rock, Yeah, I was like, I'm uncomfortable.
But I will say that Sharpay and Zeke walked so
that Tessa and the black I can get rock too,
could skip. So I'm sure they end up together, but you.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
Know, do they start dating in the movie.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
But Cheater Girls will always be supreme, Like none of
the girls touched her. I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
My hottest take and I think I've said this on
the podcast before and I'm pretty sure it affected Sydney
and I's friendship. For the worst is I think that
Cheetah Girls three to one world is better than both
one and two combined.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
In my home.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
I don't know how to tell you this, but you
might be the only person in the world who has
that opinion.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
It's the hottest take of all time. But it's true.
I mean the bops. I know every word to every
song of that movie.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Like, Gabrielle is not in it, and she's the star
of the group. Let's be honest, and you know what,
you know what, She's not the villain, and that's what
really makes me upset.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
She'd be you.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Literally, I would be her in camp Rop too, and
I think you would be two. I'd be like, can
we rehearse please?
Speaker 1 (12:12):
And everyone's like I want number one? Why do you
go walking around Spain by themselves? Are like twelve number two?
They were there for a competition. She used her dad's
air miles to get these little girls across the world,
and the least you could do is rehearse like she's
crazy and all the comes that realization. It took me
a little too long, but I will say that she
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was not the villain. And the one thing would be
like ranches to the station in them pajamas, do more
like you could have given a real apology. I don't know.
All I gotta say is like they were in their
back with that movie, Like I'm gonna start crying. It's
so good, like the costumes, spain, the songs, like I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
That ending song was so good? What was that Amiga's
Cheetah spends the Life.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
Yes, Cheetah Girls. That entire trilogy is so good.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
And you know what else? I like Teen Beach movie.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
That's literally only oh that was.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
I don't think so, I really don't think so.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
I never I watched it, like the first five minutes
and I was like, please turn this.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
I love Oh my god, Blues Guys, gentle Breeze, No,
because it was like a little bit past our time.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
So like if anyone I knew watched it, I was like,
why are you still watching Disney? But then secondly, Ross
Lynch makes me feel a little weird.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Really, I think he's so attractive.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
I think he's cute now and he's a black girlfriend period,
but in that time, I don't know, it made me
very uncomfortable and like I get it was like a
West Side story like rendition, but she was like, you
can't date anyone with a bike, you can't date a surfer.
I was like, okay, you kind of lost me with
that one.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
You don't jam out to the song cruising for a Bruising.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
There's that one part where it's like the really really
cute guy on like the leather side he does like
this one little dance and then like Ross Lunch does
it back, And I was like, this is where my began.
These are where my ex started, like.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
A little shoulder movement. I think I know what you're
talking about.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
And like I love an artistic man, like I would
love to be with someone that's like creative and does
like art or theater and music successfully like no SoundCloud
but like Spotify, yes yes, but something about like I
don't know, I couldn't like after seeing that I couldn't
be with any of them. Well.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
Also, I feel like a lot of musicians give you
the ick when they do icky stuff like remember that
one guy after a date that you went on, brought
you back to his apartment and serenaded you, And I
remember that one time I brought you back to my
apartment and serenaded you.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
It's stuff like that where I feel like it had
of triggered your.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Eck okay, but that one guy, let me, let me explained
to you the whole ich. So we yeah, red flag
he was a model, which was the red flag number one.
He's actually like extremely cute, to the point where like
he was so good looking. But I was like kind
of concerned. I was like, am I being caffished? And
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so first I was like, am I being caffish too?
I was like, why is SPA being on me? Something's
wrong with him? So no, I'm not even saying that
in like a self deprecation kind of way, but like
I was genuinely curious. So which hopes this date he
is real and he's actually like very very very very attractive,
like he's built like a like a Greek statute. Red
Flag number two, because why I spend that much time
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in the gym? I was he jacked? He's jacked, but
he was like, I know we're out, I'll just run
number three. Why are you've running so hard? But he
talked about like being a model the entire time of
the date, and he was like everyone says they're one,
but it's hard to actually be one. And Red Flag
number fourteen and he wouldn't sit down like we were
sitting at a like a high top table and he
would just like stand and talk and I was like,
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can you please, it's like making me anxious, like please
sit down. And then the way it gives us our
shrinks for free because she likes him, and I was like, okay,
don't like that. And then also he showed me his
Instagram like I followed him like while we were sitting there.
I can't date someone that has comments like that.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
I don't know, having a lot of Instagram followers. I
cannot stress this enough. Is for the girl he had.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
Like twenty six K. I was like, uh, that's scary.
And then but I was like, you know what, we
still have like a good conversation like whatever. So apartment
sometime weeks days later, an'ma whatever and we're like relaxing, talking,
having a drink, whatever, and he's like, I'm gonna put
some music on and I was like okay. So it
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puts on music and I'm like, wow, this is actually
like really bad. So I was like, oh, like who
sings this and he was like, huh, it's me. I
was like, and like that was already bad. And it
was like like kind of like a little bit of
rap a little bit of singing, and I was like,
this is trying to give drink but it wasn't. So
I was like interesting, like wow, this is this is
so good. Wow. It could have been worse at that
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but made me want to leave. They started dancing to
it and he was like shiving his shoulder singing along
with himself, and I was like, this is it, this
is it, this is the it has been solidified. I
need to go.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
I would have been so upset because how are you
gonna look like that and then act like a fool?
Speaker 1 (16:49):
I know? But then it made sense, Okay. I was
like the karmic balance, like the ying and the yang,
like it was there. He was so physically attractive, but
he was so in love with himself that made me
very uncomfortable. It's like I didders before. I did the
country singer once actually because the great love that got away,
but like that I love. No.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
It's crazy because I often feel and I know this
is a stereotype for sure, but I often feel that
model not even like objectively good looking people, because oftentimes
a lot of models, how do I not how do
I say this?
Speaker 3 (17:19):
Let me rephrase kirky looking that's like, yeah, do you
know what I'm talking about?
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Like what I'm trying to say very nicely right now
is that something.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Yeah, like pre pre twenty sixteen, to be a model,
you had to be like negative fifty pounds, five foot ten, blonde,
blue eyes and like just an incredibly how do you
look like that kind of body like this Candice Swinampole
or like Cindy Crawford. Like it's be like a ninety supermodel,
but like twenty sixteen on, it's less of like a
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conventionally attractive type of model, like a Dghdide more delicate.
I feel like a Bellahadide, Like if you have anything
that makes you interesting looking, like you have like something
quirky about euro if you have freckles, or you have
like cool eyes like a Uniber or like really cool
big hair. Oh, something unique about you that makes you
a model. And I'm not just being like conventionally like
gig Hidide attractive. It's more Bella Hidie now exactly. And
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they all have a very similar quality about them.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
The model the post twenty sixteen models that.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
I can't quite put my finger on, but I would
describe it as that. And also very delicate features. I
don't really know how to describe it. So I'm not
really saying it's all conventionally attractive people, not that I'm
trying whatever.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
I'm just gonna say. What I want to say is
that I feel like, as someone who has.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
The profession of model, I every model that I have met,
I kind of look out for self obsession, if that
makes sense, because I feel like a lot of models
who have platforms.
Speaker 3 (18:48):
Kind of promote I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
I'm really trying to be nice now I say it,
and I'm also trying to be kind of correct because
this can come off really mean, but I.
Speaker 3 (18:55):
Don't mean it to be.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
I think just like whenever I either like date a
model or like meet one, it's always.
Speaker 3 (19:04):
Something to look out for, with something to look out
for with everybody.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
But I think that profession, this is what I'm trying
to say, that profession can foster. So it's not really
necessarily the individual's fault a lot of the times, but
having a profession where you have to constantly be thinking
about your looks, that can often seep into your personal life.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
So I think it's just something to look out for,
if that makes.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Sense, And that's like one thing that of course I
I could be a model. I'm also like five foot
two and don't want like a model at all. I
think it'd be scary to me. And it's one thing
that I do, I guess kind of admire. It's gonna
sound weird saying that, but like I couldn't do a
job where it's tied to my looks me neither, because
like when I get really in mind, like so I
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have depression, if I get depressed, or if I get
really anxious and like my weight fluctuates, or like I'm
a woman, so I have a uterus, and like if
I have a fupa like I don't want my ability
to succeed or be successful to be tied to how
my body looks. But women who can do that, I
have the almost respectful because I couldn't have that mental
toll on me, you know. But I do think that's
like one reason as to why I feel like especially nowadays,
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because like Instagram and TikTok makes it so much more
accessible to be like a model or to be like
an influencer, where like it is more looks based. If
that's like what your platform is. To the point where
it's like you kind of have to be self obsessed
to do it because your entire career is tied to
how you look. And I feel like that's a kind
of pressure I can like honestly never have on myself,
Like I look ratty, You're atty sometimes and I have
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to be okay. I can't think about having to leave
my house and always look like I'm a tin. You know.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
That's exactly what I'm trying to say is that I
feel like the profession ken Foster is such an unhealthy
like view of body that I could never do it,
and the people who do it and manage to have
that not seep into their personal life of most respect,
because it is extremely hard.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
I can't even imagine how.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
I mean, I know I would be like that, Like
if I was a model, which I would never be,
I would very much kind of let that I'm not
strong enough for that. It's the same thing why I
didn't do musical theater. It's like I can't necessarily associate
my talent, which is something I care very much about,
to my I can't tie that to my success, my rent,
how I put food on the table because I just
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don't have the grit for it, you know, and like, yeah,
that's just something that I feel like when you have
all that pressure on something so physical, it's hard, and
I think that, yeah, to do it, you have to
be a certain kind of person.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
I'm definitely not that person.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
It's also like being on a hinge in twenty twenty three.
I can't explain to you and Ember. One it's sickening,
but two, it's like every single man on hinge in
New York City's occupation is model, Like, y'all can't all
be models. But I don't know what is worse actually,
and it'sact making me feel like being alone is a
lovely because I don't have to deal with this.
Speaker 3 (21:44):
You know, Yeah, exactly. It's a lot dating someone new
you never really know.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
It's so crazy because it can be the pendulum swings
so far one way.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
I feel like you never get anyone normal anymore.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
I mean like literally, when I was going out on dates,
I was like waiting. I almost found myself. And I'm
sure you can relate waiting for the weird thing. Yeah, Like,
I know there has to be something wrong with you.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
What is it?
Speaker 3 (22:05):
I thought's a very pessimistic view, but I'm a pessimistic person.
What can I say?
Speaker 1 (22:08):
And then when they're not, I'm like, wait, am I
a weird one? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (22:11):
Yeah, I'm like is it me? Oh, I totally understand that.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
I get so nervous because what if they go off
And I know you can't really run your life like
this because you know that's no way to run your life.
But I'm like, what if they go home to their
apartment and what if I'm the topic of the group chat? Yeah,
I go and text my friends after a first date.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
That's that was so weird. What if he's doing that
about me?
Speaker 1 (22:30):
So so I went on like I finally started dating
again and it's been ess actually been pretty good, Like
no one's like actually made me that mad. Yet I
went on date with this guy and he kept staring
at me and mine. He's from Europe, so I was like,
maybe he's just European and not weird. And then I
was I was finally like you really like to like
you stare very intensely, and he was like, oh, like
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in my culture, like eye contact is very important. Like
that's crazy because if you look like me, look look
at it's gonna be a problem because why are you
staring so hard.
Speaker 3 (23:00):
I'm even love.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
I don't know what it is. Like I try to
do eye contact for like thirty seconds, and now I was like,
I actually can't do this because I'm like, this is
what makes me really mad. I can't stare at both
of your eyes at once. Like. It's not the eyes
that freak me out, it's that like, I'm very aware
of people's eyes and they look at me, so like
Sarah looking at me right now, You're staring right here,
and I can see your eyes looking to the side
of my face.
Speaker 3 (23:20):
That's so funny because I'm literally looking at your left really.
Speaker 1 (23:22):
Yeah, I see you staring here. So my first thought
is there something in my hair or like in my
ear right now, crazy nose. I was looking at your
left eye look right here right now. Okay, not with
your like your whole face, but like just your eyes.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Wait, okay, wait, now I'm getting.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Or stare at stare at one of my eyes. Now
I see you staring at this one.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
Yeah, okay, what about it?
Speaker 1 (23:47):
I don't know. I feel like you're staring at my ears,
so it freaks me out. I was like, really bad
eye contacts, I think, but on Love Island, everyone's like
eye contact is still hot, and I'm like, well, maybe
this is my problem.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
No, I don't think you're bad at eye contact at all.
I think that you have a very rare ability to
make people feel at ease. And I feel like one
of those reasons that you do that is that you
make really good eye contact or one of those Yeah,
one of a big reason why you can do that
is because you make really good eye contact. Is that
the first thing you notice about people their eyes.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
I know that's where they're staring at me. Like, if
I'm talking to someone, I can always tell what side
you're looking at. And it makes me so angry because
while you look at my ears every time someone talks
to me, I feel like you're staring at my ears.
It makes me very self common.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
Really, no, you is it perfect?
Speaker 2 (24:30):
The first thing I look at when I see people
or their smiles.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
Really, I'm constantly staring at people's mouth. I feel bad
for it.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
I feel like I've even look at people. I don't
really know what I do that's not I like multi
ask in my head. I'm like, what's that for there?
Speaker 2 (24:44):
I think it's I know for me because I'm very
self conscious about what's on my mouth and in my
teeth at all times?
Speaker 3 (24:52):
You know. That's my biggest thing is Like.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
Sarah will be like, it's something in my teeth. I'm
like no, she goes. Look again, I'm like no, she goes.
I can feel it. I was like, there's no thing
in your teeth.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
That's my biggest insecurity is when there's food in my
teeth or something on my mouth, or if my lipstick
is gone or whatever. And when my lips get chopped,
I physically can't do anything.
Speaker 3 (25:11):
Except for chapstick.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
One.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
I get such bad sensory overload.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
And when I forget chapstick or gum on a night out,
I have a mental breakdown.
Speaker 1 (25:18):
Is that right? No, Like you stopped wearing lipstick as much,
but like, oh my gosh, wait, like give it like
two or three years ago, everything else before like August
of this year. It would actually drive me crazy because
I don't just didn't understand it. So Sarah would wear
like the liquid matte lipstick, like the Kaylie not the
Kylie brand, but like that kind of VI yeah, yeah,
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the hoodah booty.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
What was it called?
Speaker 1 (25:42):
Not fame? It was like I forgot the shame name.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
Oh trendsetter, say see.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
Also on the same subject. Yeah, but she we would
go out to eat, she had a lipstick on. She
would take one bite of feet or one sip and
reapply her entire lipstick, take another bite, reappire. I was like, girl,
I promise you if you just eat the food and
then we apply, good life would be so much eier.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
She's like, no, yeah, you always used to may Or
when I would finish dinner and then would order another drink,
I would reapply my lipstick.
Speaker 3 (26:08):
Continuing would be like, you're.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
About to do You're about to put your mouth on
something else.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
No, my boyfriend gets on me about that all the time,
because my I have pretty good manners, I think, But
this one thing I do drive some nuts. We'll be
at dinner and I'll take out my phone camera to
like check my face and see if there's any food
on it, or like my teeth or whatever.
Speaker 3 (26:26):
He gets so he's like, you know, there's a bathroom here, right, Yeah,
that thing.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
I do it all the time, but I get such
bad sensory overload when I forget chapstick, and oh my god,
this one this is like friendship ending.
Speaker 3 (26:37):
This one time I was at who was I with.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
I was at home with like a couple friends, and
we were with my guy friend group back home, which
we don't speak of because my exit part of that group.
And we all were out to lunch and we were
eating salad or I was eating a salad, and this
one leafy green was in my tooth the entire lunch,
And of course this is the one day I don't
check it in my phone. And then at the end
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of the lunch, I go to the bathroom, I go
back to the table. I am furious.
Speaker 3 (27:06):
Two of the guys too. I was like, so, no
one was going to tell me there's something in my teeth?
I think I left.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
I was literally so bad, you know, like honestly, sometimes Okay,
if it's something in someone's teeth, I'll tell them. But
if it's like a booger, that's territory. I don't care
how close we are. You can literally have come from
my stomach. He could be my child, my parents, my
little brother. If you have a booger, I'm not telling you.
That's not my business. I'm sorry. And so one thing
I can't do. I think it's so awkward.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
Yeah. Also, one thing that also annoys me though.
Speaker 2 (27:35):
There's another side to the spectrum, and it's when you
have something on your teeth or on your clothes or
in your hair or whatever, and you are in front
of someone you want to impress and the other person
screams it at you in front of all these people, Like.
Speaker 3 (27:47):
You, take me aside, send me a text, give motion
to me, like, don't scream it in front of thirty people.
I can't stand that.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
Shit. That's I feel about about friends who okay, and
I had one friendlies do this all the time. You
know who I'm talking about? Where? Yes, where? It's like
the kind of friend I almost like a jealousy thing
or like a competition thing. But like if you're in
a group of people and they're like guys around or
like attractive people, and like that person will compliment you
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or like someone will be like, oh, like you're outfit,
I'm like it's mine. Or like if someone I like
your hair, she's like yeah, she's extentions in like why
do you feel the need to like? Or they'll be
like you make it look so good today, you look pretty.
You're like, why do you have to comment that? It's
like not something that's I don't know, I saw a
TikTok about that.
Speaker 3 (28:31):
Well, Also, it's pay attention how people act, and especially.
Speaker 2 (28:36):
Your friends in front of the men you like, or
the men that you're dating, or the men that you're
in love with, or the person you have a crush on,
or honestly just people you want to impress. In general,
pay attention how your friends act, because a great way
to indicate that a friend is really not a very
good friend is how they treat you in that scenario.
Speaker 3 (28:53):
Do they lift you up? Do they bring you down?
Speaker 2 (28:56):
And it is literally one or the other, because I
know my friends sending chance when I was, you know,
kind of trying to impress the man who I'm currently dating,
they would.
Speaker 3 (29:06):
Hype me up in front of him.
Speaker 2 (29:08):
They would always like mention my accomplishments or find ways
to kind of support me in that way. But I
have had too many friends who did the same, and
it was always about appearance too, or just like dumb
things in general. You know what I mean is like,
don't insult my intelligence in front of this Like it
makes no sense, but that's a great way. That's a
really big red flags with friends. And it's something kind
of like that. A lot of people don't think about,
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but it makes you feel so shitty in the moment.
Speaker 3 (29:33):
I also think.
Speaker 2 (29:33):
It's weird when you bring your manner, your crush or
whatever around your friends and they start acting different. Yes,
oh my god, I hate are they like I know
obviously sometimes with new people in general. Yeah, like you
want to make sure you look good, so you might
like flip your hair or something. But sometimes it gets
to be a little too much, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (29:51):
I just can't stand it.
Speaker 2 (29:52):
There's so many of these little cues that can really
tell you whether or not you should be friends with
this person.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
We have not talked about the topic at all.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
Thirty four minutes. One last thing. I was thinking about
this a lot actually, because of course, you know, I'm
on wedding TikTok because I love weddings so much, despite
me not having a boyfriend. I love like everything about
I have my entire wedding planned out and I don't
have a man yet. But like I see people doing
like their maid of honor speeches and are talking about
like how much they love their person's partner. But like,
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until now, kind of only one of my friends I've
never been in like a place in my life where
like all of my friends have liked my friend's boyfriend,
or like all my friends like I've never had people
like my boyfriend like my friends actually my entire life,
no matter who I dated, they have all hated the
person I've been with, or like your ex, or like
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people my friends are dating too, like none of them.
I've never in my life had a friend date a
guy and how everyone like him. So I'm kind of
like when people get married, what do they do, like
just put the hate away?
Speaker 3 (30:53):
Yeah, I don't really know.
Speaker 2 (30:54):
I mean, I'm like, everyone likes my current boyfriend, right,
everybody likes my friend, Like.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
Yes, I know, but it's like it's just a weird thing.
It's like it's it's three things. Is it one that
like the guy actually isn't good and no one sees it,
or like anyone sees it besides the person that's dating them,
which is what happened with my ex. Or is it
that no girls just ever like their friend's boyfriends and they
don't think they're ever good enough? Or three Like I
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don't know, is that just the way life is? I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (31:22):
That's actually a really good question because as very friend
oriented people. How am I supposed to have, for example,
my maid of honor standing next to this guy that
they hate and vice versa, Like what am I supposed
to do if it's the other way around? Either, Like
if someone didn't like you, I don't I could not
be with them.
Speaker 3 (31:36):
I don't really know if how does that work?
Speaker 1 (31:38):
Like what are the odds that like all of us
like all of each other's boyfriends, you know, like I thought,
that's such a rare thing that could occur.
Speaker 3 (31:44):
That's good the university.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
It's kind of spooky. But then also the thing that's
different is like maybe in the past because like think
about like my parents for example, like all of their
friends are also couples and they all get along. But
I think also it's because we're digging in a situation
where like something happens with my with like someone I'm seeing,
I text you guys immediately, So you guys only really
ever hear the bad stuff. I think sometimes the good stuff.
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But like back then, like you'd only see your friends
in person, so it's gonna brant about how bad they
are in person, Like I'd have time to like think
things through you before I saw you, But like now
It's like the minute something bad happens, the first thing
I do is text my friends, So like, of course
you're having a negative view of the person. So it's
very weird, But also at the same time, it's like
I have the really awful guys in the past. My
friends have always told me they're awful, but I was
so like in love and in and nambored with them
(32:28):
that I couldn't see it from myself. So is it
more of that kind of situation or more so like
it's my doing by always talking about the negative.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
I think.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
It's not so much the negative you have to worry about,
it's the positive. So I would say, if you are
a person who runs to your friend group, which is
sitting and I both are, and so is our roommate,
what you have to do is you have to ensure
that if they are actually a good person, or if
you think they're a good person, which clearly you have
thought that about all your exo's Otherwise why would you
have dated them that you kind of implement the positive
just as much as you are the negative. I would say,
(33:01):
don't take out any negative because at that point, what
are you who are you kidding? If that makes sense like, oh,
you know, he cheated on me again, let me not
tell my friend, you know what I mean. I think
it's just like more the positive stuff that he does.
So like in your future relationships, don't only talk about
the negative. I wouldn't say refrain because where your friends,
we're here to support you, and we want to know
(33:22):
what's going on and if we want to know if
you're sad, so we can support you and everything, and
so we could give you advice.
Speaker 3 (33:27):
But also implement the positive as well.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
And I would also say Sinney and I have talked
about a lot on the podcast. If like enough of
your friends and your family and the people who you
know say that you're not dating a good guy, and
if they know the guy, I would say that it's
probably true. If they don't know him, that's a whole
other scenario, and a lot of people. That's the case
with a lot of people in like long distance relationships
(33:51):
and new relationships. But if they do know the guy
and they're like, if enough people tell you to get
the fuck out, you might want to start listening to
that advice.
Speaker 3 (33:58):
That's what do you think?
Speaker 1 (33:59):
I agree because it's like I was with someone for
four and a half years and my family, my friends,
people weren't even my family, our friends all hated him
and they're like, this man's awful, And I was like, yes,
he's awful for.
Speaker 3 (34:10):
Me, you know, he's my awful boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
And I wish my friends hear that for a reason,
because they know me and they see how it affects me.
So I feel like if I listen to them, or
to myself, or to actually literally anyone, even the guy,
like he will tell me like I'm awful to you,
I'm like, okay, I li the in probably a much
better place now. But I do think everything happens for
a reason, and like I've hopefully learned from that, so
you know.
Speaker 2 (34:33):
Yeah, I think once you do start dating a good guy,
you know, not to be mean towards your ex, but
to be very mean towards your ex once you start
dating an amazing guy, because I know you well, I
know it's in the cards for you. Of course, I
think that then implement the good stuff along with the bad.
But if the guy sucks, yeah, I don't want to
hear the good shit like it's happened before.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
Fuck that it's been thirty eight minutes and we have
not talked about the topic.
Speaker 2 (34:57):
I think maybe we just don't this time and come
up with the topic ourselves.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
Do you like how to touch on? And like not
really at all.
Speaker 2 (35:04):
So one thing we didn't talk about yet, which is
very against my character, is the vander Pump Rules Reunion
Part two. Because it came out yesterday, it is now Thursday,
June first, in case any of y'all are wondering, and
I watched it today on Peacock.
Speaker 3 (35:18):
Oh my god, they just brought Racheilan Raquel.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
I don't really know which one it is, and I'm
so excited to see where this goes.
Speaker 3 (35:26):
It's actually so funny. Tom called Ariana a mother effort on.
Speaker 2 (35:30):
The show, and I was like, oh my god, it's
so so funny because men will never not get mad
at the women they cheat on. Never, I've never, ever,
ever on TV in real life, in my situation, I
have never seen a situation where a man cheated on
a woman and did not scream at her for it,
like it was her own fault.
Speaker 1 (35:48):
It's them projecting their guilt.
Speaker 2 (35:50):
Yes, it's or yeah, trying to displace her something makes
no sense. It's hilarious, not actually, but it was hilarious
to watch. And then Tom was like outside of the
recording studio, they kept trying to film him because they
signed a contract where they were like, they have to
have cameras on them all day, even when they're breaking
or at lunch, and they can go off by themselves
(36:10):
and if they need a moment like to the bathroom
or to go get food or something, if they wanted
a moment by themselves, that could go off by themselves
without the cameras. But if they were talking to another
cast member, they signed an agreement that's part of what
being on a reality TV show is. And he was
talking with Raquel and the cameras are following them around
and Tom starts verbally.
Speaker 3 (36:28):
Assaulting the camera people, being like, get.
Speaker 2 (36:30):
Out, I don't want a fucking camera in my face
all this stuff, and the producer was trying to very
calmly explain to him, this is what you signed up for.
Speaker 3 (36:37):
This is reality TV. We have to follow.
Speaker 2 (36:39):
That's our job to follow you around with cameras and
it's your job to be in front of them.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
Yeah, it makes no sense. It's like one thing to cheat, though,
but to cheat with the person's friend. I'm kind of
like there's no situation in which you get out of
that like unscathed. Yeah, Like, are you really that dumb?
I just honest.
Speaker 2 (36:56):
And Andy Bravo Cohen asked, Raquel, did you really think
there was future with Arianna and your French after this?
And Raquel goes, yeah, Dad, like I think I was
living in my own little reality.
Speaker 3 (37:06):
Guys, that's how she talks.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
I swear she was living in her own reality, she said,
And from what Tom was telling her, it was like
Arianna didn't want to know.
Speaker 3 (37:15):
This is what's so delusional to me. And I'm sure,
like I don't mean to.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
Like I hate seeing one person just get so much
hate at once. And she was sitting there explaining to
Andy how she thought from what Tom was telling her
that Arianna didn't want to know about the affair because
people were giving her hints and she would always kind
of shut it down and not really want to hear it,
and she didn't confront either Raquel or Tom about it,
and because she just blindly trusted him, because she should
(37:41):
because they were dating for ten years. And Raquel was
just like, oh yeah, I mean she just didn't want
to know, and Andy goes, it sounds like you're blaming
Arianna for the affair because she didn't want.
Speaker 3 (37:52):
To know, and also why would she not want to know?
That makes no sense.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
It's that part that I got so pissed at because
I was like, you're right, Andy, why wouldn't some girlfriend
of ten years not want to know that he cheated?
Speaker 3 (38:02):
That makes no sense.
Speaker 1 (38:04):
That's what's so funny to me, is that, like the
difference in reality shows like The Only Are Out of
Shell actually ever watch or two of them? Actually three
one the Kardashians, just because I'd like to know what
I already know, but from a different point of view,
Like I started any One to Love Island because that's
the best show that's ever been created. Obviously, new season's
(38:25):
coming out this week. Actually, ooh three Real Hospalie of Atlanta.
I'm sorry they created humor like Meani leaks like I've
never seen someone like you could take any clip from
any minute of that show and make ten memes out
of it. If she's speaking, like, oh my gosh, and
I quote her on like a daily bit. I didn't
even seen the whole show.
Speaker 3 (38:46):
You do quote?
Speaker 1 (38:46):
I quote her on a daily She's so funny, Like
the thing she says, who thinks of that? Like type bob?
I used type bob every day. I don't know what
that means. I have to It's so funny.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
I've said this on the podcast before, but the fact
that Nannie was in the Lee it was just so funny.
You can imagine my shock when I watched Glee for
the first time ever and Nini was on this episode,
and Nini and Jane Lynch were the funniest duo of
all time.
Speaker 1 (39:11):
I actually wrote her own lines. That's what she would
actually say.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
Yeah, I was trying the whole episode. It's so fun
I've seen a couple episodes of Atlanta, but I've never
went through the seasons like I did with Beverly Hills.
Sidney's eating chips and walk right now, and you can
hear the bag wrestling, which is actually quite relaxing.
Speaker 3 (39:28):
But there guacamole is poop brown.
Speaker 1 (39:31):
Usually like and don't mind, jo I got it like
twenty minutes ago. Usually the top is brown, the rest
is green. No, the entire thing is rotten. And it's
actually making me very disappointed because it's actually a million dollars.
Speaker 3 (39:40):
How does it taste like poop? Really?
Speaker 1 (39:44):
God?
Speaker 3 (39:47):
Sindy's like shoveling this shit right now? Why are you
eating it?
Speaker 1 (39:51):
Being out of anger and protest?
Speaker 2 (39:52):
Okay, you told that story on the podcast where you
went to Chipotle and the guy gave you milk, right,
and you took it as a threat.
Speaker 1 (40:00):
Oh my gosh. He made me Saykay, this is like
the worst Chipole experience. Actually, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (40:05):
I have you heard this before, but I really think
it's worth of retail. It's so funny.
Speaker 2 (40:08):
Did you I feel like you do? Okay, maybe it
was just a side cover. I don't know, but it's
so funny, you guys.
Speaker 1 (40:12):
So I went to so Chipotle has this absurd rule
where you can't order a casada in the store. It
actually makes me actually very upset because as the person
who originated it's actually all me. I who sorry at
cacda is a Chipotle. Since I was freaking eight years old,
I'd walk up in there cheese and chicken caesadia, thank you,
and they would always make it for me. Suddenly everyone
(40:33):
wants fun, so they make it a menu item. But
with the cavyat that you can only order it online.
Please don't insult my intelligence if I walk up to
the front. They made the case of dia right there.
I order it online or in person, put some cheese
and chicken in a tortilla, put it in a little
smashy thing and put it at the end. You can
only order it online. It's actually very annoying and it's
(40:54):
more expensive online. Very annoying. So I go in. It
was a kind of case ida. He's like, no, you
get to order online. I'm not gonna sit there wait
thirty minutes to order it online and wait no. I like,
you know what, I'll dupe you too, if you wanna
doup me on dupe you. So order two kids quesadias
as I should. And he looks so annoyed, and I
was like, yeah, make my KISSI right now. And so
I ordered a chicken and cheeseca c dia, the only
(41:16):
thing I can get from Chipotle. I don't think to
check him because I'm thinking to do that disrespectful to me.
So I was like, I'm taking my little casidias. Got
to the end, He's like, do you want a kids
to drink? I was like no, and he was like,
are you sure this is a different guy, the first guy,
disrespectful guy. We'll get to him in a second second,
if that's your thing, if he's your type. And he's
(41:38):
like making like seductive eyes at me, and I'm like,
we're in a Chipotle stir please calm down, and he's like,
I'm in my gym stuff, I'm wearing like spandex in
a sports brawl. And he's like, you sure I don't
want to drink. I was like, I just said no
to you three times. He opens the fridge. He does
not break eye contact this entire time. He's staring at me,
put his arm behind him, opens the fridge, grabs a
(41:58):
one percent low fat cow's milk that the kids won,
and once emotion he slides across the tape when he
was like on me, wiky face. Number one, it's not
on you. It's a kid's meal. It comes with the meal.
Number two. You just put low fat, organic one percent
normal milk in my face and wink at me. I
am a lot for some tolerant, that's a threat. No
(42:20):
oat milk, okay, And my thing is like it could
have been a little bit cute if it had been
chocolate milk, but like normal milk with the straw, Like
let's let's actually be for real you know what. That
milk is still sitting in our fridge. It's been a month,
but I went in chocolate milk with anything. I thought
it was very rude.
Speaker 2 (42:38):
What is it with you and walking into stores to
order food and just getting so disrespected?
Speaker 1 (42:44):
I would love to know because it's the Starbucks thing too.
Oh that's even better, it's even better. I didn't even
finch a story. First, it was mister milk weird. Then
I get home, you know, I was like, I'm gonna
put the milk thing aside. It's like, enjoy my kid's meal.
I open this foil and it's just chea. Yeah, why
would I, as a grown, developing woman, order a tortilla
(43:09):
cheese on it? You actually be fucking for real, and
it goes, how do you miss putting chicken on ch
chicken and cheese? Casey, the is now, I've actually been
so mad in my life. So it was me, my cheese,
tortilla and my milk. So Yeahntola, you need to have
some words.
Speaker 3 (43:27):
I literally get a breathe. Who oh that is so funny.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
I want chocolate milk. It You've always want chol Also,
I get we're in a recession and the economy kind
of stuffs right now, there's no reason casey d should
be twenty dollars. I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
Oh my god, I'm going to be clearing my throat
for the next twenty minutes.
Speaker 3 (43:47):
I'm sorry, guys, that was so funny. I don't know.
I feel like I have pretty normal experience.
Speaker 1 (43:54):
I never had no experience in my life, even like
me and the Insomnia man. So Insomnia Cookies is like
right next to a part don't look up our apartment.
We have like a love affair going on. I don't
know his name, he doesn't know mine. But I'll walk
in there and I'll be like, I have one sugar cookie.
He'd be like, yeah, I'll give me like eight cookies.
And I'm like, if you love me, just say that.
Speaker 3 (44:14):
That happened in another Insomnia store too.
Speaker 1 (44:16):
Yeah, every time I'm going to Insomnia. Oh yeah, I
went in to Insomnia and their car machine was working
or something, or like my card was working on their machine.
He gave me your free and I was like, you
love me, don't you. Oh my god, you love me
for real? You love me bad.
Speaker 2 (44:31):
And then the Apple store thing, you know, the thing
with the iPhones that you have.
Speaker 1 (44:38):
Oh yeah, d Irak tell this on the podcast.
Speaker 3 (44:41):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (44:42):
Okay, So we're getting into a series theories. So that
I have Chipotle is against me, Insomnia loves me. The
Apple Store. I have this theory that like they have two.
So when you go and get so you walk in
there they have all these people sitting around doing nothing.
You finally go up to a store like a little
stand like little wooden table, seeing it for thirty minutes,
finally be like, some do you need help. Yes, they've
(45:03):
been here for thirty minutes. You will ask I want
a new phone. They'll blah blah blah blah, talk about
this stuff. They look at you really long and hard,
like they have like a little like little thing in
the glasses. They look at you hard. They're like, okay,
rache on a scale of one to ten. Then they
go into back. There are two piles of iPhones, the
good ones all the pretty people have, then the ones
that have actually the camera of a potato and on
(45:26):
the other side, and if you are hot and they
give you the nice ones. If you are below a five,
you get the potato ones. And every I can't, I
can't I have the iPhone. I have the purple one,
so it's an iPhone what XS no, since that like
iPhone twelve or something, I phone eleven whatever, then the
least new, like, okay, there's a new one? Is the
one before that?
Speaker 3 (45:46):
Thirteen?
Speaker 1 (45:47):
Yes, it's fresh. It should be fresh and new. We're
twenty twenty three.
Speaker 3 (45:51):
It should.
Speaker 1 (45:51):
I should be able to see my pupils if I
put this, like I should see my pores in my hair.
I know people that have an iPhone freakin' three gs
have better care than I do. I have never had
an iPhone with normal camera.
Speaker 3 (46:04):
Cidy has a really bad camera on.
Speaker 1 (46:06):
Her phone, Like I will put it up and it
will be dark like all look like I took it
with a brick, Like the picture some random girl comes
to wall sing up her nice, perfect little hair, prickle
little teeth, little eyes, puts her iPhone three gs up
and it's perfectly clear quality. And I don't know what
it is, but every single freaking person I know has
a perfect iPhone camera and might have always sucked. I
think it's personal potato phone funny.
Speaker 2 (46:31):
That theory is obviously not true, but I literally think
it is the funniest thing ever I feel.
Speaker 1 (46:36):
I think it's true. Anytime someone's like, your phone quality sucks,
thank you for calling me ugly, honestly, thank you. I've
never seen a pretty person with the bad phone cameras
all I gotta say. And I want you, if you're
listening to this, ask yourself and the prettiest person you know,
does their phone quality suck? No? And I think it's
very annoying.
Speaker 3 (46:55):
You know, energy this is giving. Have you read those
Dear Dumb Diary books when you were younger?
Speaker 1 (46:58):
I know, I know the cover, but I was like,
it's giving.
Speaker 3 (47:03):
That energy, which is which I like it's giving. Geni b.
Jones had a very bad day, see I don't.
Speaker 1 (47:07):
I didn't like the kids books for like, the main
character was like a messy girl, like really Ramon and
Bezus like I couldn't imphathie with her, so I was like,
I feel like I'm Beesus, not Romon.
Speaker 3 (47:19):
I loved Magic Treehouse, genebe Jones.
Speaker 1 (47:23):
I love Magic Treehouse. Actually kind of ate with that
and the other magic one, the Magic Bus, Magic tree
Buster School.
Speaker 3 (47:31):
You know, the theme song is so funny.
Speaker 2 (47:32):
The Magic school Bus has to start wait and then Arnold's.
Speaker 3 (47:38):
Like, please let this be a normal field trip with
the Friz No what.
Speaker 1 (47:43):
The Lizard?
Speaker 3 (47:45):
Oh the Liz are just so funny.
Speaker 2 (47:46):
Remember that one episode where they stranked the bus and
went inside the wizard.
Speaker 3 (47:49):
Yeah, that sounded very sexual, but it's true.
Speaker 1 (47:51):
I like to the black girls. She kind of ate
them up every time.
Speaker 3 (47:53):
Oh yeah, she was cool. Arnold's my favorite though.
Speaker 1 (47:55):
I like it really. I really relate to redheads. I
don't know what it is, gets like a spiritual connection.
Speaker 3 (48:01):
Really. Yeah, a lot of people don't like red heads.
Speaker 1 (48:03):
I know, you know what, why what did every do does?
I kind of like redheads as like a spiritual connection.
Speaker 3 (48:11):
You dated a couple of redheads.
Speaker 1 (48:12):
Let's not go that far. There was one and actually
I went to Coney Island and this is why I
don't get tear card readings. I got a tear card
reading for like two bucks in Coney Island and she
was like, you will fall in love with the redhead.
And I was like, girl, don't be for real right now.
She's like, no, you will. I was like she's crazy
because like black and redhead, that's an interesting combination. So
(48:36):
then I was in a bar Josie's. Actually, if you
go to n y U and someone came out to me.
He was a redheaded British man and he was like,
I sit here or got kind of this chair. I
was like, yeah, you're sitting next to me staring and
I was like do you need something? And he was like,
oh yeah, I just wanted to talk. And then I
did end up like becoming obsessed with him.
Speaker 3 (48:55):
So, oh my gosh, all right, you guys, that is
about the time I am that we have for today.
We were really gonna do this episode about burnout.
Speaker 1 (49:04):
We had like a whole topic planned, and then we
started talking about camp Rock and then I went from
camp Rock to like redheads but you know everything sick.
Speaker 2 (49:12):
Yes, there was going to be such an inspiring motivational
message in this podcast for you guys.
Speaker 3 (49:18):
You were gonna we were ready, We had a we
had an outline. No we didn't. We had an outline
on our brains. We were ready to go. And then
you know how Sinny and I just.
Speaker 1 (49:24):
Get to well, we can't do that next.
Speaker 3 (49:27):
Yeah, you edged me with your laugh.
Speaker 1 (49:33):
Sorry, I've never heard I'm going to be that. I'm
just gonna be that, but what I doesn't even know
what that means. I'm trying I'm trying to think about what.
Speaker 2 (49:50):
Let me clarify, your face looks like it's about to laugh,
and then it makes me laugh, but then you never end.
Speaker 3 (49:55):
Up laughing, so you're like edging basically together.
Speaker 1 (49:58):
We haven't an introduction for a plot in a very
long time.
Speaker 3 (50:01):
Yeah, okay, so we're crying out now. I can't do
it now.
Speaker 2 (50:05):
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in Public podcast on TikTok and Instagram, and you can
listen to us on iHeart, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever
you get your podcasts.
Speaker 3 (50:13):
We love you, ye bye bye
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