September 1, 2025 • 58 mins
Once again, Roz is transported to the astral plane—David Dastmalchian is back!! It’s a reunion for the ages! Amid the infinite swirl of cosmic dust, the two discuss David’s epic pilgrimage to Roswell, synchronicities, and déjà vu!
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Speaker 1 (00:07):
What's that at the bed? It's spooky and jooky. I'm
pretty sure it's dead. He's coming this way.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Wait a minute, I ghosted.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I not nandas.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Plle.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Hey boo, it's me Roz and welcome to you Ghosted
by Roz Hernandez, the podcast where I talk to people
that I like about the paranormal.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
People.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
David Dysmalchin. I mean nothing, nothing about this guy is
uh is your run of the mill. He's even got
a last name that's super cool and fascinating. He is
just truly the coolest. He was on the pod last
(01:04):
year and he just gave us so much deep conversation,
amazing storytelling and one of my favorite stories I've heard
in a minute.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
We get on this.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Episode today, so just like the last time I had
him on, we get all deep. We start talking about
a dicktion and what the world means in the universe
and just all this stuff. And I'm like, okay, you know,
I'm not pulling up my silly haunted dolls in my
(01:39):
what's this ghost trying to say?
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Tell me?
Speaker 2 (01:43):
I just skipped it this time and we just have
a nice deep conversation. I hope you enjoy I'm pretty
sure you will. He's an amazing actor as well. If
you've never seen his work, the guy, He's been a
lot of stuff and he's very talent. I'm obsessed with him. Okay,
I'm obsessed with him. Before we get into that, I'll
(02:05):
just tell you I am still toward the end of
the tour. I got a couple more dates.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
I know.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
I'm doing DC Los Angeles back at the Cavern Club,
which has finally reopened in Silver Lake. All those dates
are raz Hernandez tour dot com. I've been traveling NonStop.
We are recording this on one of my little off
(02:34):
days where I've been able to pop back to LA
to record a couple of episodes, and I'm just having
the time of my life and I'm getting to meet
so many of you, and I just I appreciate you
all for listening and supporting me and this weird stuff
I do.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
It's the second episode with David Dysmalchin.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
On with the show. Well, yes for it, people.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
You kept begging me to get him back, and I
can't believe it.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
It's it's happening.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
He is back. David Dysmulchin.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Oh nailed it ross. Your fans must be masochists. They
want me back. I really appreciate that though, Thank you
so much.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
People were obsd when you were on last time.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Because let me tell you, most of the time these
people would get on the show, tell me, oh god,
just monsters. They got nothing, they got nothing to say.
I don't know where they find these people. But then
every once in a while we get a David Dysmulchin.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Yeah, and you know what I want to be for you,
Like when you Instacart or you you know, you order
groceries from Dave Dismalchen. He has to go run a
second car. He's going to bring so much to your doorstep.
I want to leave it there for you. Roz, your
show is so awesome. You are so awesome. Like my
(04:17):
best de since childhood. Josh listens to you religiously, and
we've been talking about this stuff since we were kids,
and it's all the stuff that we still talk about
all the time. So when you started to rise from
the ashes of the entertainment world and your voice became amplified,
(04:38):
and I go, who the fuck is this person? They
are awesome? It was like wow. So yeah, it's it's
really cool. It's nice to be a fan of someone
and then have them want you to be on their thing,
and then for us to you get nervous because the
last time I was honest like, oh my god, what
if I saw what if we don't have the right chemistry,
what if it doesn't go well? And it was just
like but it was so good. It was so effortless,
(05:01):
and I really appreciate it. Thank you for making this
stuff so easy.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Yes, so yeah, but also you got to follow what
you did last time.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Oh boy, now the pressure's on.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
This is the second don't don't fuck itt up second?
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Okay, well this could be my empire strikes back. Let's
be honest. Sometimes the second installment is even better than
the first. So get ready, everybody, hold on, buckle up,
because it's gonna be a bumpy high way.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I do love your backdrop. You have a fire going.
You're so vincent price.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Yeah, it's it's June in La. Why not have a
fire going? Right, That's what I say.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
You're so cool.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
You got candles, You've got I see a half moon.
I mean you you really are spooky a little bit
we're conjuring.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Over here, we're manifesting, and we're ritualizing all of the
good stuff.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I feel like last time you were on, we heard
some of your stories, we heard some of your thoughts,
and then I just you left us wanting more because
I'm like, oh, I don't even know this guy's thoughts
on aliens.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
I don't know this guy. There's so many things we
didn't get to.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
So I feel like we should just just go through it.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Let's go, let's do it. Here we go, Well, let's.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Start with aliens. Do you believe in it? Do you
think there's right?
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Absolutely, unquestionably? Do I believe that there is intelligent life
in the galaxy in Do I think this universe is infinite?
And do I think that you know, time, space, matter, dimensions,
all so beyond the realm of human understanding. I think
I'm one of those, you know, spiritual humanists who believes
(06:49):
in the power of science, believes that there is a
higher power, believes that there is room for aliens, cryptids, monsters,
all who exist in the same plane. And I, since
I was quite young, you know, I go to the
public library. I grew up in Kansas, and so go
to public library, and I would I would my mom
(07:10):
would take me quite often. I would either check out
the books on like monster movies so like and horror
effects makeup, or I'd look at anything I could find
on like the Occult. And I was also obsessed with
like aliens and fascinating And this is pre this is
like actually the birth of cable television. We're talking like
early eighties. I'm just getting there. So there isn't a
lot of stuff you can find on TV the way nowadays.
(07:34):
I mean you could turn on TV twenty four hours
a day and find another alien files special or documentary series.
But back then, it was like you had to go
seek it out. And they were at that time a
number of the like most in the common knowledge law
or you know, established stories, the roswells, you know, the
abduction stories, et cetera. So it's just enough to tantalize
(07:54):
me and make me start to wonder if there was
some connection between like cryptid law. I was fascinated with
like Mothman stories and stuff aliens, and because I lived
in Kansas and it was always so common that these
experiences are happening in more rural or less you know,
metropolitan areas, which is baffling to me. I mean, there
are some fascinating metropolitan alien stories, but like most are
(08:16):
outside of you know, metro areas. I was like, could
there be a way I could experience something? I was
so yearning for contact? I was so yearning for experience.
So probably second grade, I took a summer course at
a community college. I don't know why. I was like
a writing course, but I was allowed to research and
(08:38):
write a report on anything I wanted, and mine was
on alien encounters. Hell yeah, I had no science whatsoever,
but I believed somehow I was going to build a
communication device to pick up anything that may be existing
out there. So I took some Frisbees, wrap them in
aluminum foil, took speaker wire that I then ran into
(09:00):
the AMFM record player stereo that I'd inherited from my
older siblings that I had down my room. I was
in an attic room in Kansas, and I would put
those aluminum wrapped Frisbees as if they were you know,
antennae like dishes by my window looking out at the sky,
and I would tune the radio dial far, far far
(09:23):
down to the left on the FM and then far
to the all over the place on the AM and
just listen for hours at a time for anything I
might be able to hear. That's that's the start of
the story. I mean that that just sets up like
the journey that now leads to a forty nine year
old who's still fascinated with this. I mean, Josh, Josh,
Josh and I took up pilgrimage to Roswell. That's a
(09:45):
whole story. I mean we I.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Want to hear about that. I've never been.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
I want to go so bad. I like to joke
that my middle name as well, but it's I don't
have a middle name, but ros Well Hernandez.
Speaker 4 (10:03):
I love that. Yeah, no middle name for me. I
don't know why because my family was religious growing up,
and I feel like it comes from religious traditions. I
could be wrong. How come you don't have a middle name,
did you just?
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Well, I chose my name as an adult, so and
I didn't choose a medal, so legally I don't have
a medal. But I'll just say, well, well it's Ra's well.
Speaker 4 (10:27):
So we'll jump around a little bit here. But for
those curious, because you know, Josh and I grew up
fascinated and obsessed with all things ex phileyan We. I
was working as a fisherman in Alaska. I was trying
to put money to Yeah, I worked as a professional
fisherman in Alaska for several years. I was trying to
put together the money to continue to support myself to
(10:49):
finish college, which I was going to in Chicago at
that time. And I'm like nineteen twenty years old already
is struggling deeply, by the way, with my own battles
with addiction and mental illness stuff. And it was like,
I get away to this boat thinking it's going to
be a straightening out time for me to get off
of stuff, and instead there was more drugs there than
(11:09):
you could find in the city of Chicago. And Josh
was at the same school as me. We were actually roommates.
We were about to be roommates back in Chicago when
I returned to college. So he was on a trip
with his family to Seattle. I said, well, I'm on
a leave from the boats. How about when we dock
in Seattle we meet, and we did. We met, and
(11:31):
then we said let's get on and off buses going
down the coast. We went to San Francisco, tried to
score acid in the Haye Ashbury got something. We don't
know what it was. You know, we were like shoplifting
our lunches, sleeping on the beach. Terrible idea. Never sleep
on the beach in San Francisco at the Golden Gate
Park you will freeze to death, which we did, we
(11:52):
nearly did. Then we kept going south. Our goal was
to get to Roswell, so we finally get as far
as the Rayhound station in downtown Roswell. We realized we
have no plan because to get out to the area
is a hike. And I don't mean by feet, I
mean like maybe it was twenty miles. I forget. There's
no way we could walk this thing. Although, like the
(12:15):
ambitious young fools we were, we started walking along a
railroad track, just heading in the direction of the base,
and we started hitchhiking, and fortunately got picked up by
this really nice farmer who was telling us no, actually
that's not true. It was yes, that was true. It
was a farmer. His name was David, I believe. But
(12:38):
the interesting thing about him he was telling me about
his son who had struggled with addiction, and he was
trying to give us advice, which we weren't really interested
in listening to. But he was the loveliest of men.
I mean, he's just so kind and gave us a
ride all the way out to Lake van. This is
not really a lake. It felt like a pond. It's
on the edge of the fence that can get you
(12:59):
to the area. So we start exploring and trying to
figure out how where we're going to sneak in, how
we're going to get there. And each time we get
close to a spot where we think we can penetrate,
like military, there are these signs that are just like
you will be shocked, like do not come further, you
will be shocked.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
Yeah, that's terrifying. I feel like they're not messing around
in New Mexico.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
No messing around, no messing around. And it's the government.
So we decide, let's sleep by the edge of the
fence to night and let's just spy. Let's be spies.
Let's sneak around and see what we can find. Well,
eventually we get hungry, of course, and eventually we're like,
(13:44):
what are we doing? And there's this little family, there's
a gazebo by this little lake and it's this. They're
having this like little wedding with like a band plan,
and I mean there's like a truck driver and this
long time girlfriend decided they're going to get married. And
we're spying all their food looking like that looks really good,
(14:06):
and they wave us over. We get to eat with
these folks, We get to party with them, have a
great time at their wedding. They clean up and clear out,
and now where bellies are full, the sun is setting.
Josh has his camera with film loaded in it, and
we lay under the stars ready to we know something.
We could just feel it, something's going to happen, and Roz,
(14:29):
the sky just starts lighting up with an electrical storm
and it's the most intense electrical storm, Like the lightning
is so fierce and intense, and we were getting scared,
and Josh is like taking pictures of the sky because
the sky looks weird and crazy, and we're like, what
are we about to see? What is being conducted out here?
(14:51):
And then it rain starts like shit, so we run.
There's like a little bathroomy thing hutch out in this place.
We run and we hide in there and we wait
until the rain passes and now we go back to
this like concrete slab or we lay down and eventually
we are able to finally get some sleep. And we're
so excited about some of the pictures that he took
(15:12):
because we felt like everything just seemed so strange, and
that the lightning formation seems strange, and we're like, I
bet you there's something we're gonna get this filmed, and
there's something we'd get up in the morning. And when
we were between us, maybe there's fifteen dollars left, like
to our names and where there's a little diner up
the hill, and we're like, maybe we'll go to the diner,
get some food and then we can hitchhike back to town.
(15:35):
So we're gathering our stuff and we're like, where's the camera,
And we go through all of our stuff where Josh
had put the camera. Where's the fucking camera? Now, a logical,
a grown adult would say, you two were wild, you know,
running in an electric storm. Somebody dropped it. But it
was only about twenty feet between where we had been
(15:56):
laying and where that bathroom was. That we took shelter,
and we looked all over or all morning. We even
put signs up at the diner, like, if you find
a camera, please call this number. So the conspiratorial part
of myself says that absolutely somebody took our camera from us,
the parent and forty nine year old amigos. You guys
(16:20):
probably just dropped it running back and forth. But we
searched high and low, and then we took the butt
we did get. We got these wonderful a truck full
of migrant workers. We didn't speak Spanish, they didn't speak English,
and it didn't matter. They threw us in their truck
with them, gave us a ride all the way back
to town. We had this wonderful time with them. What
an adventure. So that's one of my stories. The other
(16:44):
is a little more crazy.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
I'm going with the aliens stole your camera, thank you,
And I think you got to get the Frisbees with
the aluminum foil back and see if you know, you
can get a hold of them, see if they would
return that.
Speaker 4 (17:02):
Well, by the way, how are we doing so far?
Second part two? Are we having fun? Everybody? Everybody? This
story is okay, hold on hold on to your Frisbees. Okay,
hold on your aluminum covered Frisbees. Let's backtrack now that
bedroom in Kansas. It's the holidays. I'm about eight or
(17:26):
nine years old, maybe a little younger, but I'm young
enough that I still have a faith or belief in
Santa Claus. And if you're listening and you still have
a faith and belief in Santa Claus, good for you.
Speaker 3 (17:38):
You should well, yeah, of course he's real.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
So I am awoken one night, deep, deep, deep into
the late hour, by a feeling, a sensation something. Now
was I awoken or was it a dream? Who knows.
I walk to the window of my attic bedroom that
looks out on the Kansas sky, and I see this
blue light coming towards the window from the sky, and
(18:03):
it's the strangest size of a ball of light. Because
I can't tell the distance between me and the light,
it seems like it could be a mile away. It
seems like it could be twelve feet away. Like its
shape and its size didn't seem to change, even though
it was getting closer, which you would think it would
expand in size as it gets closer. So it's very
(18:24):
hard to describe. But as it got closer, I did
realize it was not a light. It was a formation
of lights, and the lights shifted in their formation. Maybe
this lasted twenty seconds, maybe it lasted a minute. I
don't know. I was so groggy and it was so
odd to me, and it was I was young enough
(18:47):
ros that it was the kind of thing. So when
I go back to bed, I don't know. I don't know.
If I lay there and thought about it, it pondered it,
but I just went back to bed, and all I
remember thinking was, oh, I saw the real I saw Santa.
I saw the real Santa. Oh you thought I was
rude of no kidding, even though I was already fascinated
by aliens. I don't know why my brain didn't go
(19:08):
to aliens. My brain went to Santa. So the interesting
thing was for another year, maybe I would say to
people with all sincerity like, oh I've seen Santa Santa Israel,
and of course no one people would laugh. And then
the years go by, and you let time pass, and
you let memory become what it does, because our brains
are editing machines, and they do what they will with memories,
especially the more harder process memories, or the more complicated
(19:32):
or odd ones. Now, when I decided to go become
a fisherman in Alaska. I had no money. I was
in Chicago trying to get myself through theater school, and
so I took a bus out to Seattle, where I
knew that the fishing boat's hired, because I thought, well,
I've read about these are the backs of comic books,
and I could get a job on a fishing boat,
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and I could make it, says one thousand dollars a week,
and then I could save up enough money to go
finish school. So that's the goal. I get to Seattle,
Washing it much harder to just get a job on
a fishing boat than I had imagined it would be.
I was going to all the docks talking to the
boat workers, and I was sleeping in the park on
the nights that it wasn't raining, but because at Seattle
when it was raining, I was sleeping at the Bread
(20:14):
of Life mission for the unhoused at First Pioneer Square
first in Maine in Seattle, and Pioneer Square is a
wonderful gathering place of all the different people from the city.
And I would just sit there if I wasn't able
to pick up a day labor gig, just I would
smoke roll them up cigarettes called buglers and I would
just wait until I was able to get myself connected
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with a fishing job. And I'm sitting there in the
Pioneer Square one day and there's this gentleman who appears
maybe unhoused. Maybe he's just a Mary prankster who dresses
in tatters. But there's a style to him, a bit
mad hatterie style with like a kind of a pork pipe. No,
it's more like make a top hat, but it's self fabricated,
(20:57):
like this guy has either followed the Grateful Dead, or
he's been to Burning Man or something, and he's just
he's in another special place, and he was performing with
things that he had made. He'd taken old boxes of cereal,
some of my favorite cereals, by the way, like Captain Crunch.
I think there were some of the Monster seials and
he formed them into like percussive instruments. And he's he's
doing kind of a dance. He looks like a marionette almost,
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and he's performing for these tourists. But I don't think
anyone knows what's going on, so I don't think anyone's
giving him any money. And he makes eye contact with
me from across the park, from across the square, and
we have this deep eye contact and he gestures like
a cigarette as if he's asking me for a cigarette.
So I just kind of nod and he comes over
in this very strange fashion, and I give him a
cigarette and he says, oh, thank you so much, and
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I say ah. And he says, my name is Francis,
and I don't even tell him my name. And he's
talking to me and he's making really no sense to
me at first, but he seems very harmless and sweet
and this merry guy. And he says, oh, blue, and
I said what, and he goes, well, they visited you
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when you're little. You're blue dah. And I said, I'm sorry,
and he reaches into his little session and he pulls
out a This is so strange because around the time
that this happened to me, the Kansas City Royals won
the World Series and I was a big, big, big
flip out. I mean I still have like a tantoo,
(22:26):
like I was like freaked out, so excited. He hands
me a Kansas City Royals baseball card and he says,
blue is special. They're all special, you know, but you're
you know, you're blue, and they they shared some things
with you, and I said, I don't know. At this point,
I was not willing to ignowl. I was like, I
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don't I'm sorry, I don't know what you're talking about.
He goes, well, look, Kiera. I was like, what do
you mean? And at that moment, a bus unloads and
a bunch of people just getting off of work are
getting off the bus with their suitcases and they're very like,
regimentedly going about their business as most of us do
on any given day, leaving work from the city and
getting off a bus. And he's like, these are mostly browns,
and that you know, a lot of people think brown
(23:09):
is a bad thing, but brown just it's just they're
just they're doing their purpose and they're serving their their
thing and they're doing what they need to do and
it's great and it's wonderful. And then there's whites and
there's gray and he was giving me some low down.
It was all happening and processing so quickly, and he's like,
but yeah, he goes like, there's not a ton of
(23:30):
blues and it's really wonderful. You know, when they contact
you and I'd like to show you more if you
want to come with me. I can take you to
the bat cave.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
So the bat cave.
Speaker 4 (23:42):
This is what he says, to the batcave. Now, remember
in Seattle, if you've ever visited, there's an underground city
right below. It begins like right below Kimyer's Square, and
it was where the city used to exist before they
had to elevate it because of whatever you know, geological
or other stuff of a one hundred years ago, pointing to
like an area down the way that's going to lead
(24:03):
to a place. It's going to lead to a place.
And you know what, Roz, I just got scared, and
I just I just said, thank you. I don't think
I can go to the bat cave to day goes
It's okay, no worries, whenever you're ready, And he just
saunters back across the square and like gave me a
(24:24):
Charlie Chaplin kind of wave. Didn't dance for a little bit.
I was sitting there contemplating, now, going, am I going
to regret that I didn't go to the back cave?
Should I do it? Should I do it? And then
he just disappeared and I never saw him again.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Well, I'm going to be in Seattle in a couple
of weeks and I'm gonna go look for this man
and I'll see what he says about the blues in
the back cave. This is crazy. So are you ready
now to know what that means?
Speaker 4 (24:52):
Now? It's forty nine absolutely, and you know what's you
know what's what sucks about it, though, is the part
of me that is curious and as a believer and
wants to believe, want so badly to go and see
whatever the control center of the bat Cave is all about.
Whatever it is that I'm going to be illuminated with
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sounds so incredibly fascinating to me. And then at the
same time I go, the pragmatist is like, yeah, what
if you go and you're just like, you're looking at
the hovel of a unhoused, unwell person who just has
dangling a bunch of pieces of trash. That is like,
welcome to the bat cave. And here is so I'm like,
(25:35):
I'm afraid of seeing the truth. I'm also afraid of
getting my hopes up and then being disappointed. And that's
been a theme my whole life and it's one of
the things I think that to me is the most
fascinating and scary and unifying, whether people care to admit
(25:56):
it or not, about why the beyond being the common
denominator for all of us. I mean, eventually, we're all
going to shed these mortal coils and we're going to
either just go fade to black, or we're going to
discover something else. We're going to get some kind of
answer or we're not. But it's like that's the stuff
that I still But right now I would have said, oh, sure,
(26:19):
let's go, because I feel like I can take care
of myself. I don't think this I got. I listened
to my instincts. I think everyone needs to learn how
to listen to their gut. Sometimes I ignore. It always
gets me in trouble when I ignore my gut. When
I listen to my gut, when I listen to my
little god voice, I'm safe. And that person in no
way was flagging any of my cautionary alarms.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
Well maybe there will be another opportunity for you to
be contacted by this. Did you ever see blue lights, sir? Anything?
Speaker 4 (26:49):
The only other experiences that I had, and a lot
of them were around that time. We're so drug affected
that I don't I don't I don't give them much agency,
and that's that's okay. Some people have had like drug fueled,
incredibly true prophetic experience. I mean, I'll say, you know, forever,
(27:10):
I'm twenty three years clean and sober. I don't use drugs,
alcohol or anything to this point other than good old fashioned,
you know, advilain, whatever my doctor thinks I need. But
I think that some of the things that I'm like,
not that they're not that they weren't true or real
to me at the time, but they're just they're always
they always have that like asterisk on them, like right,
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and I was on a pound of mushrooms or I
was on, you know, a hit of acid. So I
think it's it's the stories when I was fully present
and clear to me are the ones I feel the
most sharing with, like people at large, because then it's
like you can say that I'm mentally, you know, psychotic
or something, I was having delusions. But other than that,
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these are things that happened without any outside influence on
my brain.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
But this man, Francis, it's like that.
Speaker 4 (28:01):
It's wild ros that's real.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
I don't know that.
Speaker 2 (28:05):
It just means something something, something who knows what. Well,
let's change topics what about like psychics. Do you ever
go to them? Have you had any great experiences with them?
Speaker 1 (28:18):
Are you one?
Speaker 4 (28:20):
I'm not myself psychic. I believe that I have a
gift for storytelling. Yeah, I have a natural you know,
something in me that lends itself to the craft and
art and love of acting. I think there's certain things
about being a human that come naturally to me. There
are many things, frustratingly which don't, which I wish did,
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because I feel like they seem like most people just get.
But that's okay. We're each built and constructed completely in
our own unique way. And I think there are people
that have a gift for sensorial perceptive experiences that of
us don't possess or is so underdeveloped within us that
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it's not at a place where it can you catch
any of the spark. And so I, you know, beyond
what I'm able to see with my own eyes, it's
you know, I've never seen a human being fly. But
it's like I believe if someone to me has had
an experience like psychics, mediums, people with a perception and
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an ability to perceive both time presence, you know, history, experience, imprints, echoes,
all of that to me is just it's science that
hasn't been scienced yet. It's just stuff that is still
you know, waiting to be run properly through a scientific method,
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because I believe it's all really true. And I've seen
a couple of psychics that have been you know, I
don't think I've ever had an sperience where somebody hasn't
really given me some wonderful bit of intuitive insight into
something and awareness of something, and it's usually in their opinions.
They always feel like it's kind of myself showing things
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to myself. I love connecting people with good psychics. I've
hired a number of them over the years. Like when
I'll have a gathering at my home, I always like
to have a tarot reader or you know, somebody that's
that can do readings, because I've had people I've never
had the experience, but I've had people walk out of
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the room with really gifted you know, readers, and they're
just the look on their face is like Wow, they
just they've something really special just happened. Man, I am
open to it.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
I haven't necessarily had like that, what like, I haven't
had that experience.
Speaker 4 (30:57):
The Gong moment. Yeah, I haven't had the Gong moment.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
But I've seen it. I've seen people have it. I
don't know what it is about me, but it hasn't happened. Also,
sometimes I wonder, I think there's you know, of course,
there's like real deal people that got some gift, and
then there's like a bunch of people that are just like,
who knows.
Speaker 4 (31:16):
What, hustlers. Well, the hustlers ruined it for everybody, especially
during the movement, like the spiritualist movement. There's always going
to be those who are going to come in and
capitalize on, of course, something beautiful. So let's say cinema,
for example, had true magicians at work. Still does people
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who conjure using the artistry of cinema truly magical, transformative,
transporting experiences that collectively just penetrate our hearts, minds, and souls.
And these artists find some way to make these things
happen and all of us go, oh my god, wow.
And when all of us go oh my god, wow,
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the way we get to experience these things. We pull
out our wallets and we show up and we sit
in these churches of the theaters or on our couches
and we go on these journeys. Right. So there's, unfortunately,
by the necessity of capitalism, consumerism, all forms of consumptionism,
a supply and demand scenario where four thousand people standing
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around the one person who's made the thing that is
really special, beautiful, wonderful, really transformative, really magical. They go,
oh my god, look how much money that thing made.
I don't really know how to do that thing. I
don't really understand how movies. I don't really care about
the magic of movies. But hell fuck, I can get
a bunch of rich people to give us money. We're
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going to build a studio here, and we're going to
churn out as much as we possibly can to get
as many people in those seats and get as many
popcorn bucket salts. We can make as much money as
we possibly can so that we can get rich. And
people been doing that since they saw, Oh my god,
there's a real gifted healer. This person is incredible. They're
able to connect with the other side, with the future,
with the past. Wow, imagine how much money we could
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get out of people if we died that. So thankfully,
people like Harry Houdini and others went around busting a
bunch of the byes ors. But I still believe at
the seed of that, at the heart of that, there
are those gifted ones walking around, and I think it's
undiscovered science have some to tap into something else. The
hucksters they ruin everything for everybody. I mean, you get it.
(33:33):
Car Like how many people like see something you're doing
and they go, oh, I want to do that, I
can do that, and they just want to jump on it.
Do they see a desire to connect with people? Do
they see a desire to like share stories and maybe
you know, get inside people, make them look at things
a little differently, like what you're doing. Or do they
go I wonder how much rostery this gets when they
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you know, when there's an ad on there, we should
do a podcast about this. It's like it's crazy. That's
my little rant. Sorry everybody, I went on a little tirade.
Speaker 1 (34:05):
No, I'm totally with yeah, some of them.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
I think some of the people that try to be
a psychic, I think they're just really good at improv.
They know how to just sort of yes and and
pick up on Oh that person just got sad when
I when I said, does the color yellow mean anything?
To you, Oh, let's go with that, let's keep moving.
Speaker 4 (34:30):
You know what, if you watch Late Night with the Devil,
there's a great example in the beginning of the film
when our psychic you know, is trying to do what's
basically a BS reading with somebody and then something real
starts to happen. And I love that moment in the
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film because I was like, oh, that's so good. But
look at what's his name? Darren? You know, he can
get in a room and he can say that he
can read people have the crying, convincing them he's talking
to their grandma. And then he turns around and he goes,
that was all bullshit. This is how I was able
to get them there. This is how I was able
to use deduction and improv, you know, saying yes, who Darren, Oh,
(35:15):
come on help me? The guy who's he also does
he He had that really fascinating documentary called The Push
on Netflix a few years ago. Did you see that?
Speaker 1 (35:26):
No?
Speaker 4 (35:26):
It will blow your flipping lid ras. So Darren. I
want to say his name is Darren Anthony, but that's
not it. It's Darren I'm looking at, not Darren Cross. It's
not Darren Anthony, Darren Brown.
Speaker 1 (35:42):
Darren Brown.
Speaker 4 (35:43):
So Darren Brown. He did that. He had this hypothesis
that you know, group think and the pressure of the group.
His theory was that the power and pressure of a
large group dynamic against an individual can get a human
being to do anything, including to commit murder. And he
(36:04):
goes to prove this theory by giving himself one hour
with a person who doesn't know that they're being filmed
in an entirely set up scenario with a group dynamic,
which this person just thinks they're going to a party,
and within one hour he's His theory was that he
could take any person and get them to commit murder.
(36:28):
You've got to watch that. It's called the push.
Speaker 3 (36:31):
Okay, I want to say that that sounds right.
Speaker 4 (36:33):
But he also does a thing where he'll go with
it with like, let's say there's a psychic doing their
their like a show or readings where they're in front
of a crowd, and they go, is there's someone out
here with you know, a jay is significant? They pull
that person down and they do their thing with him.
He does that and then he goes, this is how
I did it, this, this, this, this, this right?
Speaker 3 (36:55):
Are you a reincarnation person.
Speaker 4 (36:58):
I'm an honestly roz, I'm an everything person except for
punishing God. That's the one that I've that I've made
peace with letting go. That was I was raised with
this idea that there's this like punishing Creator that we
have to stay in good graces with all the time
or else we're going to be abandoned. Because that's a
(37:20):
term that means a lot to me and my therapeutic
work as an adult, abandonment fears and anxieties, and I
think the earliest attachment I had to a loving, you know,
creator figure was also you know, shadowed by this idea
that if I didn't live up to their expectations or
if I didn't choose to do things a certain way,
it was you know, abandonment into punishment. So that's the
(37:43):
only thing I've been consciously, psychically, spiritually, and psychologically working
to untether myself from the potential of aliens, reincarnation, levitation,
mind melding. Everything is on the table. And so when
everything goes back to Josh, Josh said to me many
(38:07):
years ago, oh my gosh, this book changed my life.
It's called Many Lives, Many Masters. I was doing this
show last year called murder Bock, which I'm very proud of.
Everybody go watch it right now. It's on Apple and
Noma Doomsueney, who is my co star on the show,
and she plays the leader of our group who my
(38:27):
character's in love with. We would have these wonderful deep
conversations and we were talking about like philosophical beliefs, religious beliefs.
She said, Oh, my gosh, many lives, many masters. I
read this book and she was like the third person
within a week that brought it up. So I read
it because I was like, I got to read this.
Josh gave it to me. I never finished it, and
(38:47):
I got to read it, and it really it made
me think a lot about you know, is reincarnation a
part of our lives? Is it a part of my life?
I don't know, But could it be a part of
other people's lives? For sure? Does it have to be
a part of everyone's lives? I don't prescribe to that.
The only thing I think that happens to all of
us is we're born and we die, right, That's the
(39:09):
only thing that happens to all of us. Everything else
is like I could be so illuminated and elevated by
the teachings of the Qur'an, the bodies of Vata, you
name it, like the Bible. I don't know what I
could be totally moved into where I'm meant to be
in my alignment with what I'm on my journey to
(39:30):
do as a fall straight on atheist. That stuff, I
think is so specific to the individual.
Speaker 3 (39:36):
Sometimes I think like maybe all of it is true.
Speaker 2 (39:41):
Like you kind of pick on Earth which one is
for you, and then that works for you in terms
of like Heaven and everything. It's like, yeah, you go
to whichever one you believe in.
Speaker 4 (39:55):
I would like to think that we pick. I think
sometimes a lot of people are not given a choice right,
and that makes me sad because I do want people
to have an opportunity I want to give, like for
my children. You know, I was raised in a very
specific faith, with a very specific dogma, with a very
specific way that you raise children, what you teach them,
(40:16):
how you raise them to have the same beliefs as you.
To me, beliefs like the value and importance of kindness,
of acceptance, of independence, independent thinking, of self resilience. Those
are the things that I would like to raise them,
to teach them. But when they asked me about my
thoughts on God, my thoughts on you know, who is Jesus?
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I like sharing with them information without indoctrinating them into
my own beliefs, because I love the idea of them
coming to a belief system, because it's the path that
their soul's journey is on. I didn't get that choice
as a kid, because I was told this is what
we do. You believe this or you are you know,
(41:05):
you're abandoned and punished eternally. And I go, oh, my god,
what about the millions of Hindus or Buddhists or the
Jewish people or this, that and the other. So it's like, well,
they're all going to hell? And I couldn't. I couldn't.
It hurts so much. It still hurts to think about that,
you know, it hurts a lot. And so people who
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adamantly feel that they need to raise a child with
a certain belief, it's like they're doing it because they
think they're doing what's best for the child. What I
believe is best for my children, raising them to be kind, independent,
self reliant people who can love and accept themselves. And
then hopefully. What the way that my spiritual practice involves prayer.
(41:51):
I do pray to my higher power, and I believe
in God, and I believe in the power of meditation
and mindfulness and mantra ing and magic service as an
act of removal from self pity, which is, you know,
often tied to my own suffering. Boy, we just went
all over the place. Sorry, ros, look at me. It's
(42:13):
the coffee.
Speaker 1 (42:14):
No, it's great. What about cryptids?
Speaker 4 (42:18):
So growing up in the Midwest, you know you deeply
want the bog creatures because the ozarks, like the ozark Howler,
was something I was raised with. They're not far from
where I grew up. Which one is that ozark Howler.
It's like a it's like a banshee ish kind of
(42:39):
hairy creature that is like half something, half monkey half
We don't know existing out in the wilds of the
because the ozarks are just like they go on. If
you go from Arkansas all the way up through Missouri,
it's just there's so much like unseen wild and wilderness,
(43:00):
and it's gorgeous and it's haunting and it's scary, and
the energy is really intense. I want to believe in Bigfoot.
I'm doing something right now actually that involves a cryptid.
I'm currently in the midst of production on a Holiday
of Horrors special with the Boulets, and I really wanted
(43:25):
to get to explore like some cryptid stuff with it.
And fortunately for me, my creative and other many things
partner Leah and her friend Jenny had written a piece
that really spoke to me. So, oh god, yeah, And
I would like some time for someone to write a book,
if you're out there and you've got the time, the energy,
(43:47):
the bandwidth and the passion for this, to do the
research and write a book about all the stuff that
people reported about that everyone said was lore or mythology
and eventually we proved was actually a real I know,
a lot of that stuff exists in the sea where
for hundreds of years they would describe this you know,
sea monster and it ultimately ended up being you know,
(44:10):
the narwhal or whatever. But it would be really cool
to have somebody be able to say, sure, we don't
have enough scientific evidence to irrefutably prove the presence of
X cryptid, but don't forget for a very long time
we didn't have the scientific proof to unquestionably verify the
(44:30):
existence of watch a watch and now we all just
think of that as like, oh, that's that's a thing, right.
Speaker 2 (44:37):
Have you encountered synchronistic things, you know, like, have you
ever encountered things in life where you're like, this is
too yeah, this is too yeah. I mean, I guess,
I guess. Francis is sort of one of those things
where you go, how would you know that?
Speaker 4 (44:55):
Here's what's tricky for me, And I really want to
present a trigger warning for anyone out there who has
struggled with bipolar, borderline personality, other you know, mental health issues, schizophrenia.
I am an individual who can sit here today and
tell you I've deeply struggled and continue to live with,
(45:20):
you know, psychiatric disorders and am in full treatment and
will probably be for life because it's a journey. And
thankfully I'm at a place now where most of my
days are cogent. I still struggle a lot, and I
still feel alone a lot, and it's why I'm grateful
(45:41):
to do stuff like talk to you and then have
a really small network of private, close friends and allies
on the journey, professionals and otherwise. This is all to
say there have been moments in my life where I've
been in the midst of a manic episode. And if
anyone out there is listening has experienced that, they know
(46:01):
how terrifying that can be, because what it feels like,
what it feels like in that space is that everything
is suddenly synchronized and coordinated in a way that isolates you,
as if this whole experience is suddenly a manipulation or
(46:23):
something around you, like there's a sign you're driving past
that says something, as somebody's on the radio saying another thing,
as you're having a thought about this anxiety that you're feeling.
And I've had moments like that that were not in
a place of wellness, that were so hard to process
(46:45):
and so hard to not completely come unwound over and
feel like I'm crazy. So with that and with the work,
I will also say, in conjunction with that, there have
afe hundred percent been moments in my life where the Universe, God,
my intuition, whatever you want to call it, maybe the
(47:08):
golden thread, all in alignment, an instinct about something said
to either with the positive, take this risk. There's a
little sign of hope, here's a little sign of encouragement.
Look at that as a beautiful sign of yourself being
open to the possibility of the yes and it really happening,
(47:29):
and that feeling so empowering. It's very different than the other.
And I wish I was more educated or able to
speak on these things in a way other than to
say I believe I've had both experiences and it's really
important for me and distilling, especially when things go wrong
where I get a synchronicity series of things makes me
(47:51):
feel like I'm oh gosh, I'm being punished or oh
my gosh, this is terrifying me, and then I have
to really breathe and relax and go. Sometimes coincidences do happen.
That's the law of chaos, that's the law of mathematics.
Sometimes my brain is looking for things when what it
needs to be doing is just being present. That's a
(48:13):
long answer to that question.
Speaker 2 (48:15):
But sometimes like you can be present and it's like, wait,
why did that happen?
Speaker 4 (48:20):
What did that mean? Yeah? I know, I know? What
does it mean?
Speaker 2 (48:24):
Do you put any extra thought into like deja vous?
Do you go way this is? I remember I've already
thought this, or I don't.
Speaker 4 (48:36):
Know, Yeah, is it past? Life. Is it inter dimensional something?
Is it a wave? I've often wondered, is that like
just an echo or a wave of like have we
done this and now we're trying to do it again
and do it a little better?
Speaker 3 (48:51):
Yeah, my second chance?
Speaker 4 (48:53):
Is this a little just a blip? Can the brain blip? Yeah?
I don't know. What do you think it is when
you get through jogu.
Speaker 2 (49:00):
I think that you get like you get like a
little peak. Like I think that's why I think all
this stuff is. I don't want to actually know the
answers to anything. I just think it's fun to talk
about when we get like a little peak sometimes at
the other realm, where like I don't know, God or
(49:21):
whoever it is, is like, oh shit, they were't supposed
to see that. Like, you know, It's kind of like
when you get like when a company accidentally leaks a
new product or something. Oh delete, So then you just
like get like a little peak of it, and then
when it actually happens, then you go, oh.
Speaker 3 (49:39):
Good, this this was supposed to happen.
Speaker 2 (49:41):
This is how I interpret it. I go, oh, this
was supposed to happen because I thought about this already.
So I'm in the right place where I'm supposed to be.
This was kind of a plan the whole time for
me to end up here or to experience whatever this
thing is.
Speaker 1 (49:57):
That's what I think.
Speaker 4 (49:59):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (50:00):
Who knows?
Speaker 4 (50:01):
Who knows?
Speaker 2 (50:02):
Wait, how long have we been doing this? Fifty two minutes?
How does this happen?
Speaker 4 (50:10):
You know? So the part three, which is always either
the whole thing goes down in flames or if you
become historic, because in my opinion, now I've been literally
flapping my gums for fifty one minutes. I think I
gave you one minute to talk in the last hour.
Speaker 2 (50:29):
Who cares these people hear about hear me talk with
my ideas way too much?
Speaker 4 (50:34):
But like, I feel like part two we brought the groceries.
Speaker 2 (50:37):
I can't get over the Francis story.
Speaker 1 (50:41):
Were you planning to tell that?
Speaker 4 (50:44):
No, I wasn't planning anything. When I come on with you,
I don't plan anything. I just go be as open
as you feel safe being today, and I felt safe
being open with you. You know.
Speaker 2 (50:56):
I heard people talk about this being present stuff for
a while long time, and I was always like, yeah,
I don't know about that, And I don't know because
you know, I'm sober too, and I don't know if
like that was part of it too, was just like
not wanting to be pron I don't know, but I
would say the last like year or so, I have
(51:17):
gotten to this point where I am so obsessed with like,
I'm not going to prepare anything. I'm just going to
show up and whatever comes my way. Let's ride the way, baby,
And wow, it's been a fun way to live.
Speaker 4 (51:34):
I look at the so many things I look at
through the lens of being an actor. The thing that
I really strive to do is do my homework, be prepared,
prepare my if it's dialect, physical work, character, backstory, all
of that. I think the preparation is very, very very important.
Make sure my lines are memorized, make sure I'm ready
to go. But what I don't want to do is
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prepare the way I'm going to do something right, because
then I lose the ability to be present and to
experience the thing through that, and I learned that a
lot watching working with Alexander Skarsgard on Murder Bot. Not
only was a joy because I just got to look
at his incredible face and body every day, Sorry Alexander,
(52:19):
but it was also because every take was a new thing.
He never rehashed if we nailed something on a certain arc,
a certain line, a certain moment the take before, unless
the director specifically said, oh, can we get that again
from this angle, which he would do perfectly. Every take
was a brand new experience every fucking take. That to
(52:42):
me is courage. That to me is wow. I want
to show up every day like that, Like I have
my due diligence, I do my parameditation, I go to
my you know, meetings, I you know, do certain things
that are part of my mental health routine. But then
I want to just be present and not and plan everything.
Speaker 1 (53:01):
Well.
Speaker 2 (53:01):
I keep thinking of my life like I enjoy it
being like structured improv like uh Reno nine to one
one or Curb your Enthusiasm. It's like we know where
each scene, what certain things you have to.
Speaker 3 (53:17):
Hit on in life.
Speaker 2 (53:19):
Okay, I do know I need to like exercise at
this point or whatever.
Speaker 1 (53:23):
Everything else.
Speaker 2 (53:24):
You just like whatever comes your way, you listen, you respond,
you know who knows where it'll lead you.
Speaker 4 (53:33):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (53:34):
So what's all the stuff you want us to to see?
Speaker 4 (53:38):
Okay, listen. So there's a beautiful movie that's from Mike
Flanagan called The Life of Chuck so cool. It's a
beautiful film. It's based on the Stephen King story and
I have a wonderful opportunity in it to chew on
some of Mike's incredible dialogue. And then murder Bot is
(53:59):
currently on Apple. It is a series that is so wonderful,
based on a book, a series of books by Martha
Wells called the murder Bot Diaries. Alexander scars Guard plays
a sec unit, this you know, non binary sum of flesh,
some machines, security unit, this construct that has become conscious,
(54:21):
and I'm part of the little team of scientists that
it is meant to secure and keep safe on this planet.
And it's a really wonderful show that pushes a lot
of incredible boundaries and it's still very funny, very light,
very human. I love it. It's got, oh my gosh everything,
it's got thrupples, it's got a matriarchal leadership, it's got
(54:45):
Alexander's scars Guard, it's got me being an annoying ass.
And then, you know, I write a lot. I'm very
proud of the work of being able to achieve it,
especially in the comic book space. So if you get
a chance, check out my Creature Commando series at DC.
I've got a series called Nights Versus Samurai at Image.
(55:06):
Some really exciting new books coming. We're going to announce
a comic con and then be sure to stay tuned
for the lay Brothers Holiday of Horror special that I'll
be starring in and helping create with them.
Speaker 2 (55:20):
So great, Honestly, the easiest thing you could ever do.
I swear to god, if you just told like a theater,
can I just have like an hour and a half
and then you just start telling stories, or if you
just had the audience be like, tell us one about this,
Oh my god, it would be so successful. You're such
(55:41):
a good storyteller. Thank you, ros I'm very impressed. I'm
very pleased by this episode.
Speaker 3 (55:48):
Thank you. I appreciate you taking the time.
Speaker 4 (55:51):
Thank you, my fiend, my amazing raws. Well, that's the thing. Now,
it's happening, and I'm.
Speaker 2 (55:58):
Trying to get invited to one of these tarot reading
haunted doll parties that you have.
Speaker 4 (56:03):
You got it, You're there the next one that I throw.
Speaker 1 (56:06):
Put me on the list.
Speaker 4 (56:07):
You're on the list. You are on the.
Speaker 1 (56:09):
List, all right. Well, that's it.
Speaker 4 (56:11):
That's it. Thanks Ron, Thank you so much to David.
Speaker 1 (56:19):
Wow. Wow, he's good.
Speaker 2 (56:23):
He's real good at ghosted that's for sure. Hopefully we
can get him to come back on another time. Thanks
for listening. I love you all, both living and dead.
But if I didn't ask you to haunt me, don't
haunt me came back. This has been an exactly right production.
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What's that at the bed? It's spooky and jooky. I'm
pretty sure it's dead. He's coming this way.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Wait a minute, I ghosted.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
I not nandas.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Plle.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Hey boo, it's me Roz and welcome to you Ghosted
by Roz Hernandez, the podcast where I talk to people
that I like about the paranormal.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
People.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
David Dysmalchin. I mean nothing, nothing about this guy is
uh is your run of the mill. He's even got
a last name that's super cool and fascinating. He is
just truly the coolest. He was on the pod last
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year and he just gave us so much deep conversation,
amazing storytelling and one of my favorite stories I've heard
in a minute.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
We get on this.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Episode today, so just like the last time I had
him on, we get all deep. We start talking about
a dicktion and what the world means in the universe
and just all this stuff. And I'm like, okay, you know,
I'm not pulling up my silly haunted dolls in my
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what's this ghost trying to say?
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Tell me?
Speaker 2 (01:43):
I just skipped it this time and we just have
a nice deep conversation. I hope you enjoy I'm pretty
sure you will. He's an amazing actor as well. If
you've never seen his work, the guy, He's been a
lot of stuff and he's very talent. I'm obsessed with him. Okay,
I'm obsessed with him. Before we get into that, I'll
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just tell you I am still toward the end of
the tour. I got a couple more dates.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
I know.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
I'm doing DC Los Angeles back at the Cavern Club,
which has finally reopened in Silver Lake. All those dates
are raz Hernandez tour dot com. I've been traveling NonStop.
We are recording this on one of my little off
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days where I've been able to pop back to LA
to record a couple of episodes, and I'm just having
the time of my life and I'm getting to meet
so many of you, and I just I appreciate you
all for listening and supporting me and this weird stuff
I do.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
It's the second episode with David Dysmalchin.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
On with the show. Well, yes for it, people.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
You kept begging me to get him back, and I
can't believe it.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
It's it's happening.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
He is back. David Dysmulchin.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Oh nailed it ross. Your fans must be masochists. They
want me back. I really appreciate that though, Thank you
so much.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
People were obsd when you were on last time.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Because let me tell you, most of the time these
people would get on the show, tell me, oh god,
just monsters. They got nothing, they got nothing to say.
I don't know where they find these people. But then
every once in a while we get a David Dysmulchin.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Yeah, and you know what I want to be for you,
Like when you Instacart or you you know, you order
groceries from Dave Dismalchen. He has to go run a
second car. He's going to bring so much to your doorstep.
I want to leave it there for you. Roz, your
show is so awesome. You are so awesome. Like my
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best de since childhood. Josh listens to you religiously, and
we've been talking about this stuff since we were kids,
and it's all the stuff that we still talk about
all the time. So when you started to rise from
the ashes of the entertainment world and your voice became amplified,
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and I go, who the fuck is this person? They
are awesome? It was like wow. So yeah, it's it's
really cool. It's nice to be a fan of someone
and then have them want you to be on their thing,
and then for us to you get nervous because the
last time I was honest like, oh my god, what
if I saw what if we don't have the right chemistry,
what if it doesn't go well? And it was just
like but it was so good. It was so effortless,
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and I really appreciate it. Thank you for making this
stuff so easy.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Yes, so yeah, but also you got to follow what
you did last time.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Oh boy, now the pressure's on.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
This is the second don't don't fuck itt up second?
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Okay, well this could be my empire strikes back. Let's
be honest. Sometimes the second installment is even better than
the first. So get ready, everybody, hold on, buckle up,
because it's gonna be a bumpy high way.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I do love your backdrop. You have a fire going.
You're so vincent price.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Yeah, it's it's June in La. Why not have a
fire going? Right, That's what I say.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
You're so cool.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
You got candles, You've got I see a half moon.
I mean you you really are spooky a little bit
we're conjuring.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Over here, we're manifesting, and we're ritualizing all of the
good stuff.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I feel like last time you were on, we heard
some of your stories, we heard some of your thoughts,
and then I just you left us wanting more because
I'm like, oh, I don't even know this guy's thoughts
on aliens.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
I don't know this guy. There's so many things we
didn't get to.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
So I feel like we should just just go through it.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Let's go, let's do it. Here we go, Well, let's.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Start with aliens. Do you believe in it? Do you
think there's right?
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Absolutely, unquestionably? Do I believe that there is intelligent life
in the galaxy in Do I think this universe is infinite?
And do I think that you know, time, space, matter, dimensions,
all so beyond the realm of human understanding. I think
I'm one of those, you know, spiritual humanists who believes
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in the power of science, believes that there is a
higher power, believes that there is room for aliens, cryptids, monsters,
all who exist in the same plane. And I, since
I was quite young, you know, I go to the
public library. I grew up in Kansas, and so go
to public library, and I would I would my mom
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would take me quite often. I would either check out
the books on like monster movies so like and horror
effects makeup, or I'd look at anything I could find
on like the Occult. And I was also obsessed with
like aliens and fascinating And this is pre this is
like actually the birth of cable television. We're talking like
early eighties. I'm just getting there. So there isn't a
lot of stuff you can find on TV the way nowadays.
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I mean you could turn on TV twenty four hours
a day and find another alien files special or documentary series.
But back then, it was like you had to go
seek it out. And they were at that time a
number of the like most in the common knowledge law
or you know, established stories, the roswells, you know, the
abduction stories, et cetera. So it's just enough to tantalize
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me and make me start to wonder if there was
some connection between like cryptid law. I was fascinated with
like Mothman stories and stuff aliens, and because I lived
in Kansas and it was always so common that these
experiences are happening in more rural or less you know,
metropolitan areas, which is baffling to me. I mean, there
are some fascinating metropolitan alien stories, but like most are
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outside of you know, metro areas. I was like, could
there be a way I could experience something? I was
so yearning for contact? I was so yearning for experience.
So probably second grade, I took a summer course at
a community college. I don't know why. I was like
a writing course, but I was allowed to research and
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write a report on anything I wanted, and mine was
on alien encounters. Hell yeah, I had no science whatsoever,
but I believed somehow I was going to build a
communication device to pick up anything that may be existing
out there. So I took some Frisbees, wrap them in
aluminum foil, took speaker wire that I then ran into
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the AMFM record player stereo that I'd inherited from my
older siblings that I had down my room. I was
in an attic room in Kansas, and I would put
those aluminum wrapped Frisbees as if they were you know,
antennae like dishes by my window looking out at the sky,
and I would tune the radio dial far, far far
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down to the left on the FM and then far
to the all over the place on the AM and
just listen for hours at a time for anything I
might be able to hear. That's that's the start of
the story. I mean that that just sets up like
the journey that now leads to a forty nine year
old who's still fascinated with this. I mean, Josh, Josh,
Josh and I took up pilgrimage to Roswell. That's a
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whole story. I mean we I.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Want to hear about that. I've never been.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
I want to go so bad. I like to joke
that my middle name as well, but it's I don't
have a middle name, but ros Well Hernandez.
Speaker 4 (10:03):
I love that. Yeah, no middle name for me. I
don't know why because my family was religious growing up,
and I feel like it comes from religious traditions. I
could be wrong. How come you don't have a middle name,
did you just?
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Well, I chose my name as an adult, so and
I didn't choose a medal, so legally I don't have
a medal. But I'll just say, well, well it's Ra's well.
Speaker 4 (10:27):
So we'll jump around a little bit here. But for
those curious, because you know, Josh and I grew up
fascinated and obsessed with all things ex phileyan We. I
was working as a fisherman in Alaska. I was trying
to put money to Yeah, I worked as a professional
fisherman in Alaska for several years. I was trying to
put together the money to continue to support myself to
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finish college, which I was going to in Chicago at
that time. And I'm like nineteen twenty years old already
is struggling deeply, by the way, with my own battles
with addiction and mental illness stuff. And it was like,
I get away to this boat thinking it's going to
be a straightening out time for me to get off
of stuff, and instead there was more drugs there than
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you could find in the city of Chicago. And Josh
was at the same school as me. We were actually roommates.
We were about to be roommates back in Chicago when
I returned to college. So he was on a trip
with his family to Seattle. I said, well, I'm on
a leave from the boats. How about when we dock
in Seattle we meet, and we did. We met, and
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then we said let's get on and off buses going
down the coast. We went to San Francisco, tried to
score acid in the Haye Ashbury got something. We don't
know what it was. You know, we were like shoplifting
our lunches, sleeping on the beach. Terrible idea. Never sleep
on the beach in San Francisco at the Golden Gate
Park you will freeze to death, which we did, we
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nearly did. Then we kept going south. Our goal was
to get to Roswell, so we finally get as far
as the Rayhound station in downtown Roswell. We realized we
have no plan because to get out to the area
is a hike. And I don't mean by feet, I
mean like maybe it was twenty miles. I forget. There's
no way we could walk this thing. Although, like the
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ambitious young fools we were, we started walking along a
railroad track, just heading in the direction of the base,
and we started hitchhiking, and fortunately got picked up by
this really nice farmer who was telling us no, actually
that's not true. It was yes, that was true. It
was a farmer. His name was David, I believe. But
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the interesting thing about him he was telling me about
his son who had struggled with addiction, and he was
trying to give us advice, which we weren't really interested
in listening to. But he was the loveliest of men.
I mean, he's just so kind and gave us a
ride all the way out to Lake van. This is
not really a lake. It felt like a pond. It's
on the edge of the fence that can get you
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to the area. So we start exploring and trying to
figure out how where we're going to sneak in, how
we're going to get there. And each time we get
close to a spot where we think we can penetrate,
like military, there are these signs that are just like
you will be shocked, like do not come further, you
will be shocked.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
Yeah, that's terrifying. I feel like they're not messing around
in New Mexico.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
No messing around, no messing around. And it's the government.
So we decide, let's sleep by the edge of the
fence to night and let's just spy. Let's be spies.
Let's sneak around and see what we can find. Well,
eventually we get hungry, of course, and eventually we're like,
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what are we doing? And there's this little family, there's
a gazebo by this little lake and it's this. They're
having this like little wedding with like a band plan,
and I mean there's like a truck driver and this
long time girlfriend decided they're going to get married. And
we're spying all their food looking like that looks really good,
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and they wave us over. We get to eat with
these folks, We get to party with them, have a
great time at their wedding. They clean up and clear out,
and now where bellies are full, the sun is setting.
Josh has his camera with film loaded in it, and
we lay under the stars ready to we know something.
We could just feel it, something's going to happen, and Roz,
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the sky just starts lighting up with an electrical storm
and it's the most intense electrical storm, Like the lightning
is so fierce and intense, and we were getting scared,
and Josh is like taking pictures of the sky because
the sky looks weird and crazy, and we're like, what
are we about to see? What is being conducted out here?
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And then it rain starts like shit, so we run.
There's like a little bathroomy thing hutch out in this place.
We run and we hide in there and we wait
until the rain passes and now we go back to
this like concrete slab or we lay down and eventually
we are able to finally get some sleep. And we're
so excited about some of the pictures that he took
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because we felt like everything just seemed so strange, and
that the lightning formation seems strange, and we're like, I
bet you there's something we're gonna get this filmed, and
there's something we'd get up in the morning. And when
we were between us, maybe there's fifteen dollars left, like
to our names and where there's a little diner up
the hill, and we're like, maybe we'll go to the diner,
get some food and then we can hitchhike back to town.
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So we're gathering our stuff and we're like, where's the camera,
And we go through all of our stuff where Josh
had put the camera. Where's the fucking camera? Now, a logical,
a grown adult would say, you two were wild, you know,
running in an electric storm. Somebody dropped it. But it
was only about twenty feet between where we had been
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laying and where that bathroom was. That we took shelter,
and we looked all over or all morning. We even
put signs up at the diner, like, if you find
a camera, please call this number. So the conspiratorial part
of myself says that absolutely somebody took our camera from us,
the parent and forty nine year old amigos. You guys
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probably just dropped it running back and forth. But we
searched high and low, and then we took the butt
we did get. We got these wonderful a truck full
of migrant workers. We didn't speak Spanish, they didn't speak English,
and it didn't matter. They threw us in their truck
with them, gave us a ride all the way back
to town. We had this wonderful time with them. What
an adventure. So that's one of my stories. The other
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is a little more crazy.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
I'm going with the aliens stole your camera, thank you,
And I think you got to get the Frisbees with
the aluminum foil back and see if you know, you
can get a hold of them, see if they would
return that.
Speaker 4 (17:02):
Well, by the way, how are we doing so far?
Second part two? Are we having fun? Everybody? Everybody? This
story is okay, hold on hold on to your Frisbees. Okay,
hold on your aluminum covered Frisbees. Let's backtrack now that
bedroom in Kansas. It's the holidays. I'm about eight or
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nine years old, maybe a little younger, but I'm young
enough that I still have a faith or belief in
Santa Claus. And if you're listening and you still have
a faith and belief in Santa Claus, good for you.
Speaker 3 (17:38):
You should well, yeah, of course he's real.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
So I am awoken one night, deep, deep, deep into
the late hour, by a feeling, a sensation something. Now
was I awoken or was it a dream? Who knows.
I walk to the window of my attic bedroom that
looks out on the Kansas sky, and I see this
blue light coming towards the window from the sky, and
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it's the strangest size of a ball of light. Because
I can't tell the distance between me and the light,
it seems like it could be a mile away. It
seems like it could be twelve feet away. Like its
shape and its size didn't seem to change, even though
it was getting closer, which you would think it would
expand in size as it gets closer. So it's very
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hard to describe. But as it got closer, I did
realize it was not a light. It was a formation
of lights, and the lights shifted in their formation. Maybe
this lasted twenty seconds, maybe it lasted a minute. I
don't know. I was so groggy and it was so
odd to me, and it was I was young enough
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ros that it was the kind of thing. So when
I go back to bed, I don't know. I don't know.
If I lay there and thought about it, it pondered it,
but I just went back to bed, and all I
remember thinking was, oh, I saw the real I saw Santa.
I saw the real Santa. Oh you thought I was
rude of no kidding, even though I was already fascinated
by aliens. I don't know why my brain didn't go
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to aliens. My brain went to Santa. So the interesting
thing was for another year, maybe I would say to
people with all sincerity like, oh I've seen Santa Santa Israel,
and of course no one people would laugh. And then
the years go by, and you let time pass, and
you let memory become what it does, because our brains
are editing machines, and they do what they will with memories,
especially the more harder process memories, or the more complicated
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or odd ones. Now, when I decided to go become
a fisherman in Alaska. I had no money. I was
in Chicago trying to get myself through theater school, and
so I took a bus out to Seattle, where I
knew that the fishing boat's hired, because I thought, well,
I've read about these are the backs of comic books,
and I could get a job on a fishing boat,
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and I could make it, says one thousand dollars a week,
and then I could save up enough money to go
finish school. So that's the goal. I get to Seattle,
Washing it much harder to just get a job on
a fishing boat than I had imagined it would be.
I was going to all the docks talking to the
boat workers, and I was sleeping in the park on
the nights that it wasn't raining, but because at Seattle
when it was raining, I was sleeping at the Bread
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of Life mission for the unhoused at First Pioneer Square
first in Maine in Seattle, and Pioneer Square is a
wonderful gathering place of all the different people from the city.
And I would just sit there if I wasn't able
to pick up a day labor gig, just I would
smoke roll them up cigarettes called buglers and I would
just wait until I was able to get myself connected
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with a fishing job. And I'm sitting there in the
Pioneer Square one day and there's this gentleman who appears
maybe unhoused. Maybe he's just a Mary prankster who dresses
in tatters. But there's a style to him, a bit
mad hatterie style with like a kind of a pork pipe. No,
it's more like make a top hat, but it's self fabricated,
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like this guy has either followed the Grateful Dead, or
he's been to Burning Man or something, and he's just
he's in another special place, and he was performing with
things that he had made. He'd taken old boxes of cereal,
some of my favorite cereals, by the way, like Captain Crunch.
I think there were some of the Monster seials and
he formed them into like percussive instruments. And he's he's
doing kind of a dance. He looks like a marionette almost,
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and he's performing for these tourists. But I don't think
anyone knows what's going on, so I don't think anyone's
giving him any money. And he makes eye contact with
me from across the park, from across the square, and
we have this deep eye contact and he gestures like
a cigarette as if he's asking me for a cigarette.
So I just kind of nod and he comes over
in this very strange fashion, and I give him a
cigarette and he says, oh, thank you so much, and
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I say ah. And he says, my name is Francis,
and I don't even tell him my name. And he's
talking to me and he's making really no sense to
me at first, but he seems very harmless and sweet
and this merry guy. And he says, oh, blue, and
I said what, and he goes, well, they visited you
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when you're little. You're blue dah. And I said, I'm sorry,
and he reaches into his little session and he pulls
out a This is so strange because around the time
that this happened to me, the Kansas City Royals won
the World Series and I was a big, big, big
flip out. I mean I still have like a tantoo,
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like I was like freaked out, so excited. He hands
me a Kansas City Royals baseball card and he says,
blue is special. They're all special, you know, but you're
you know, you're blue, and they they shared some things
with you, and I said, I don't know. At this point,
I was not willing to ignowl. I was like, I
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don't I'm sorry, I don't know what you're talking about.
He goes, well, look, Kiera. I was like, what do
you mean? And at that moment, a bus unloads and
a bunch of people just getting off of work are
getting off the bus with their suitcases and they're very like,
regimentedly going about their business as most of us do
on any given day, leaving work from the city and
getting off a bus. And he's like, these are mostly browns,
and that you know, a lot of people think brown
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is a bad thing, but brown just it's just they're
just they're doing their purpose and they're serving their their
thing and they're doing what they need to do and
it's great and it's wonderful. And then there's whites and
there's gray and he was giving me some low down.
It was all happening and processing so quickly, and he's like,
but yeah, he goes like, there's not a ton of
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blues and it's really wonderful. You know, when they contact
you and I'd like to show you more if you
want to come with me. I can take you to
the bat cave.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
So the bat cave.
Speaker 4 (23:42):
This is what he says, to the batcave. Now, remember
in Seattle, if you've ever visited, there's an underground city
right below. It begins like right below Kimyer's Square, and
it was where the city used to exist before they
had to elevate it because of whatever you know, geological
or other stuff of a one hundred years ago, pointing to
like an area down the way that's going to lead
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to a place. It's going to lead to a place.
And you know what, Roz, I just got scared, and
I just I just said, thank you. I don't think
I can go to the bat cave to day goes
It's okay, no worries, whenever you're ready, And he just
saunters back across the square and like gave me a
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Charlie Chaplin kind of wave. Didn't dance for a little bit.
I was sitting there contemplating, now, going, am I going
to regret that I didn't go to the back cave?
Should I do it? Should I do it? And then
he just disappeared and I never saw him again.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Well, I'm going to be in Seattle in a couple
of weeks and I'm gonna go look for this man
and I'll see what he says about the blues in
the back cave. This is crazy. So are you ready
now to know what that means?
Speaker 4 (24:52):
Now? It's forty nine absolutely, and you know what's you
know what's what sucks about it, though, is the part
of me that is curious and as a believer and
wants to believe, want so badly to go and see
whatever the control center of the bat Cave is all about.
Whatever it is that I'm going to be illuminated with
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sounds so incredibly fascinating to me. And then at the
same time I go, the pragmatist is like, yeah, what
if you go and you're just like, you're looking at
the hovel of a unhoused, unwell person who just has
dangling a bunch of pieces of trash. That is like,
welcome to the bat cave. And here is so I'm like,
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I'm afraid of seeing the truth. I'm also afraid of
getting my hopes up and then being disappointed. And that's
been a theme my whole life and it's one of
the things I think that to me is the most
fascinating and scary and unifying, whether people care to admit
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it or not, about why the beyond being the common
denominator for all of us. I mean, eventually, we're all
going to shed these mortal coils and we're going to
either just go fade to black, or we're going to
discover something else. We're going to get some kind of
answer or we're not. But it's like that's the stuff
that I still But right now I would have said, oh, sure,
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let's go, because I feel like I can take care
of myself. I don't think this I got. I listened
to my instincts. I think everyone needs to learn how
to listen to their gut. Sometimes I ignore. It always
gets me in trouble when I ignore my gut. When
I listen to my gut, when I listen to my
little god voice, I'm safe. And that person in no
way was flagging any of my cautionary alarms.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
Well maybe there will be another opportunity for you to
be contacted by this. Did you ever see blue lights, sir? Anything?
Speaker 4 (26:49):
The only other experiences that I had, and a lot
of them were around that time. We're so drug affected
that I don't I don't I don't give them much agency,
and that's that's okay. Some people have had like drug fueled,
incredibly true prophetic experience. I mean, I'll say, you know, forever,
(27:10):
I'm twenty three years clean and sober. I don't use drugs,
alcohol or anything to this point other than good old fashioned,
you know, advilain, whatever my doctor thinks I need. But
I think that some of the things that I'm like,
not that they're not that they weren't true or real
to me at the time, but they're just they're always
they always have that like asterisk on them, like right,
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and I was on a pound of mushrooms or I
was on, you know, a hit of acid. So I
think it's it's the stories when I was fully present
and clear to me are the ones I feel the
most sharing with, like people at large, because then it's
like you can say that I'm mentally, you know, psychotic
or something, I was having delusions. But other than that,
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these are things that happened without any outside influence on
my brain.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
But this man, Francis, it's like that.
Speaker 4 (28:01):
It's wild ros that's real.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
I don't know that.
Speaker 2 (28:05):
It just means something something, something who knows what. Well,
let's change topics what about like psychics. Do you ever
go to them? Have you had any great experiences with them?
Speaker 1 (28:18):
Are you one?
Speaker 4 (28:20):
I'm not myself psychic. I believe that I have a
gift for storytelling. Yeah, I have a natural you know,
something in me that lends itself to the craft and
art and love of acting. I think there's certain things
about being a human that come naturally to me. There
are many things, frustratingly which don't, which I wish did,
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because I feel like they seem like most people just get.
But that's okay. We're each built and constructed completely in
our own unique way. And I think there are people
that have a gift for sensorial perceptive experiences that of
us don't possess or is so underdeveloped within us that
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it's not at a place where it can you catch
any of the spark. And so I, you know, beyond
what I'm able to see with my own eyes, it's
you know, I've never seen a human being fly. But
it's like I believe if someone to me has had
an experience like psychics, mediums, people with a perception and
(29:27):
an ability to perceive both time presence, you know, history, experience, imprints, echoes,
all of that to me is just it's science that
hasn't been scienced yet. It's just stuff that is still
you know, waiting to be run properly through a scientific method,
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because I believe it's all really true. And I've seen
a couple of psychics that have been you know, I
don't think I've ever had an sperience where somebody hasn't
really given me some wonderful bit of intuitive insight into
something and awareness of something, and it's usually in their opinions.
They always feel like it's kind of myself showing things
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to myself. I love connecting people with good psychics. I've
hired a number of them over the years. Like when
I'll have a gathering at my home, I always like
to have a tarot reader or you know, somebody that's
that can do readings, because I've had people I've never
had the experience, but I've had people walk out of
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the room with really gifted you know, readers, and they're
just the look on their face is like Wow, they
just they've something really special just happened. Man, I am
open to it.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
I haven't necessarily had like that, what like, I haven't
had that experience.
Speaker 4 (30:57):
The Gong moment. Yeah, I haven't had the Gong moment.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
But I've seen it. I've seen people have it. I
don't know what it is about me, but it hasn't happened. Also,
sometimes I wonder, I think there's you know, of course,
there's like real deal people that got some gift, and
then there's like a bunch of people that are just like,
who knows.
Speaker 4 (31:16):
What, hustlers. Well, the hustlers ruined it for everybody, especially
during the movement, like the spiritualist movement. There's always going
to be those who are going to come in and
capitalize on, of course, something beautiful. So let's say cinema,
for example, had true magicians at work. Still does people
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who conjure using the artistry of cinema truly magical, transformative,
transporting experiences that collectively just penetrate our hearts, minds, and souls.
And these artists find some way to make these things
happen and all of us go, oh my god, wow.
And when all of us go oh my god, wow,
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the way we get to experience these things. We pull
out our wallets and we show up and we sit
in these churches of the theaters or on our couches
and we go on these journeys. Right. So there's, unfortunately,
by the necessity of capitalism, consumerism, all forms of consumptionism,
a supply and demand scenario where four thousand people standing
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around the one person who's made the thing that is
really special, beautiful, wonderful, really transformative, really magical. They go,
oh my god, look how much money that thing made.
I don't really know how to do that thing. I
don't really understand how movies. I don't really care about
the magic of movies. But hell fuck, I can get
a bunch of rich people to give us money. We're
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going to build a studio here, and we're going to
churn out as much as we possibly can to get
as many people in those seats and get as many
popcorn bucket salts. We can make as much money as
we possibly can so that we can get rich. And
people been doing that since they saw, Oh my god,
there's a real gifted healer. This person is incredible. They're
able to connect with the other side, with the future,
with the past. Wow, imagine how much money we could
(33:10):
get out of people if we died that. So thankfully,
people like Harry Houdini and others went around busting a
bunch of the byes ors. But I still believe at
the seed of that, at the heart of that, there
are those gifted ones walking around, and I think it's
undiscovered science have some to tap into something else. The
hucksters they ruin everything for everybody. I mean, you get it.
(33:33):
Car Like how many people like see something you're doing
and they go, oh, I want to do that, I
can do that, and they just want to jump on it.
Do they see a desire to connect with people? Do
they see a desire to like share stories and maybe
you know, get inside people, make them look at things
a little differently, like what you're doing. Or do they
go I wonder how much rostery this gets when they
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you know, when there's an ad on there, we should
do a podcast about this. It's like it's crazy. That's
my little rant. Sorry everybody, I went on a little tirade.
Speaker 1 (34:05):
No, I'm totally with yeah, some of them.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
I think some of the people that try to be
a psychic, I think they're just really good at improv.
They know how to just sort of yes and and
pick up on Oh that person just got sad when
I when I said, does the color yellow mean anything?
To you, Oh, let's go with that, let's keep moving.
Speaker 4 (34:30):
You know what, if you watch Late Night with the Devil,
there's a great example in the beginning of the film
when our psychic you know, is trying to do what's
basically a BS reading with somebody and then something real
starts to happen. And I love that moment in the
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film because I was like, oh, that's so good. But
look at what's his name? Darren? You know, he can
get in a room and he can say that he
can read people have the crying, convincing them he's talking
to their grandma. And then he turns around and he goes,
that was all bullshit. This is how I was able
to get them there. This is how I was able
to use deduction and improv, you know, saying yes, who Darren, Oh,
(35:15):
come on help me? The guy who's he also does
he He had that really fascinating documentary called The Push
on Netflix a few years ago. Did you see that?
Speaker 1 (35:26):
No?
Speaker 4 (35:26):
It will blow your flipping lid ras. So Darren. I
want to say his name is Darren Anthony, but that's
not it. It's Darren I'm looking at, not Darren Cross. It's
not Darren Anthony, Darren Brown.
Speaker 1 (35:42):
Darren Brown.
Speaker 4 (35:43):
So Darren Brown. He did that. He had this hypothesis
that you know, group think and the pressure of the group.
His theory was that the power and pressure of a
large group dynamic against an individual can get a human
being to do anything, including to commit murder. And he
(36:04):
goes to prove this theory by giving himself one hour
with a person who doesn't know that they're being filmed
in an entirely set up scenario with a group dynamic,
which this person just thinks they're going to a party,
and within one hour he's His theory was that he
could take any person and get them to commit murder.
(36:28):
You've got to watch that. It's called the push.
Speaker 3 (36:31):
Okay, I want to say that that sounds right.
Speaker 4 (36:33):
But he also does a thing where he'll go with
it with like, let's say there's a psychic doing their
their like a show or readings where they're in front
of a crowd, and they go, is there's someone out
here with you know, a jay is significant? They pull
that person down and they do their thing with him.
He does that and then he goes, this is how
I did it, this, this, this, this, this right?
Speaker 3 (36:55):
Are you a reincarnation person.
Speaker 4 (36:58):
I'm an honestly roz, I'm an everything person except for
punishing God. That's the one that I've that I've made
peace with letting go. That was I was raised with
this idea that there's this like punishing Creator that we
have to stay in good graces with all the time
or else we're going to be abandoned. Because that's a
(37:20):
term that means a lot to me and my therapeutic
work as an adult, abandonment fears and anxieties, and I
think the earliest attachment I had to a loving, you know,
creator figure was also you know, shadowed by this idea
that if I didn't live up to their expectations or
if I didn't choose to do things a certain way,
it was you know, abandonment into punishment. So that's the
(37:43):
only thing I've been consciously, psychically, spiritually, and psychologically working
to untether myself from the potential of aliens, reincarnation, levitation,
mind melding. Everything is on the table. And so when
everything goes back to Josh, Josh said to me many
(38:07):
years ago, oh my gosh, this book changed my life.
It's called Many Lives, Many Masters. I was doing this
show last year called murder Bock, which I'm very proud of.
Everybody go watch it right now. It's on Apple and
Noma Doomsueney, who is my co star on the show,
and she plays the leader of our group who my
(38:27):
character's in love with. We would have these wonderful deep
conversations and we were talking about like philosophical beliefs, religious beliefs.
She said, Oh, my gosh, many lives, many masters. I
read this book and she was like the third person
within a week that brought it up. So I read
it because I was like, I got to read this.
Josh gave it to me. I never finished it, and
(38:47):
I got to read it, and it really it made
me think a lot about you know, is reincarnation a
part of our lives? Is it a part of my life?
I don't know, But could it be a part of
other people's lives? For sure? Does it have to be
a part of everyone's lives? I don't prescribe to that.
The only thing I think that happens to all of
us is we're born and we die, right, That's the
(39:09):
only thing that happens to all of us. Everything else
is like I could be so illuminated and elevated by
the teachings of the Qur'an, the bodies of Vata, you
name it, like the Bible. I don't know what I
could be totally moved into where I'm meant to be
in my alignment with what I'm on my journey to
(39:30):
do as a fall straight on atheist. That stuff, I
think is so specific to the individual.
Speaker 3 (39:36):
Sometimes I think like maybe all of it is true.
Speaker 2 (39:41):
Like you kind of pick on Earth which one is
for you, and then that works for you in terms
of like Heaven and everything. It's like, yeah, you go
to whichever one you believe in.
Speaker 4 (39:55):
I would like to think that we pick. I think
sometimes a lot of people are not given a choice right,
and that makes me sad because I do want people
to have an opportunity I want to give, like for
my children. You know, I was raised in a very
specific faith, with a very specific dogma, with a very
specific way that you raise children, what you teach them,
(40:16):
how you raise them to have the same beliefs as you.
To me, beliefs like the value and importance of kindness,
of acceptance, of independence, independent thinking, of self resilience. Those
are the things that I would like to raise them,
to teach them. But when they asked me about my
thoughts on God, my thoughts on you know, who is Jesus?
(40:42):
I like sharing with them information without indoctrinating them into
my own beliefs, because I love the idea of them
coming to a belief system, because it's the path that
their soul's journey is on. I didn't get that choice
as a kid, because I was told this is what
we do. You believe this or you are you know,
(41:05):
you're abandoned and punished eternally. And I go, oh, my god,
what about the millions of Hindus or Buddhists or the
Jewish people or this, that and the other. So it's like, well,
they're all going to hell? And I couldn't. I couldn't.
It hurts so much. It still hurts to think about that,
you know, it hurts a lot. And so people who
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adamantly feel that they need to raise a child with
a certain belief, it's like they're doing it because they
think they're doing what's best for the child. What I
believe is best for my children, raising them to be kind, independent,
self reliant people who can love and accept themselves. And
then hopefully. What the way that my spiritual practice involves prayer.
(41:51):
I do pray to my higher power, and I believe
in God, and I believe in the power of meditation
and mindfulness and mantra ing and magic service as an
act of removal from self pity, which is, you know,
often tied to my own suffering. Boy, we just went
all over the place. Sorry, ros, look at me. It's
(42:13):
the coffee.
Speaker 1 (42:14):
No, it's great. What about cryptids?
Speaker 4 (42:18):
So growing up in the Midwest, you know you deeply
want the bog creatures because the ozarks, like the ozark Howler,
was something I was raised with. They're not far from
where I grew up. Which one is that ozark Howler.
It's like a it's like a banshee ish kind of
(42:39):
hairy creature that is like half something, half monkey half
We don't know existing out in the wilds of the
because the ozarks are just like they go on. If
you go from Arkansas all the way up through Missouri,
it's just there's so much like unseen wild and wilderness,
(43:00):
and it's gorgeous and it's haunting and it's scary, and
the energy is really intense. I want to believe in Bigfoot.
I'm doing something right now actually that involves a cryptid.
I'm currently in the midst of production on a Holiday
of Horrors special with the Boulets, and I really wanted
(43:25):
to get to explore like some cryptid stuff with it.
And fortunately for me, my creative and other many things
partner Leah and her friend Jenny had written a piece
that really spoke to me. So, oh god, yeah, And
I would like some time for someone to write a book,
if you're out there and you've got the time, the energy,
(43:47):
the bandwidth and the passion for this, to do the
research and write a book about all the stuff that
people reported about that everyone said was lore or mythology
and eventually we proved was actually a real I know,
a lot of that stuff exists in the sea where
for hundreds of years they would describe this you know,
sea monster and it ultimately ended up being you know,
(44:10):
the narwhal or whatever. But it would be really cool
to have somebody be able to say, sure, we don't
have enough scientific evidence to irrefutably prove the presence of
X cryptid, but don't forget for a very long time
we didn't have the scientific proof to unquestionably verify the
(44:30):
existence of watch a watch and now we all just
think of that as like, oh, that's that's a thing, right.
Speaker 2 (44:37):
Have you encountered synchronistic things, you know, like, have you
ever encountered things in life where you're like, this is
too yeah, this is too yeah. I mean, I guess,
I guess. Francis is sort of one of those things
where you go, how would you know that?
Speaker 4 (44:55):
Here's what's tricky for me, And I really want to
present a trigger warning for anyone out there who has
struggled with bipolar, borderline personality, other you know, mental health issues, schizophrenia.
I am an individual who can sit here today and
tell you I've deeply struggled and continue to live with,
(45:20):
you know, psychiatric disorders and am in full treatment and
will probably be for life because it's a journey. And
thankfully I'm at a place now where most of my
days are cogent. I still struggle a lot, and I
still feel alone a lot, and it's why I'm grateful
(45:41):
to do stuff like talk to you and then have
a really small network of private, close friends and allies
on the journey, professionals and otherwise. This is all to
say there have been moments in my life where I've
been in the midst of a manic episode. And if
anyone out there is listening has experienced that, they know
(46:01):
how terrifying that can be, because what it feels like,
what it feels like in that space is that everything
is suddenly synchronized and coordinated in a way that isolates you,
as if this whole experience is suddenly a manipulation or
(46:23):
something around you, like there's a sign you're driving past
that says something, as somebody's on the radio saying another thing,
as you're having a thought about this anxiety that you're feeling.
And I've had moments like that that were not in
a place of wellness, that were so hard to process
(46:45):
and so hard to not completely come unwound over and
feel like I'm crazy. So with that and with the work,
I will also say, in conjunction with that, there have
afe hundred percent been moments in my life where the Universe, God,
my intuition, whatever you want to call it, maybe the
(47:08):
golden thread, all in alignment, an instinct about something said
to either with the positive, take this risk. There's a
little sign of hope, here's a little sign of encouragement.
Look at that as a beautiful sign of yourself being
open to the possibility of the yes and it really happening,
(47:29):
and that feeling so empowering. It's very different than the other.
And I wish I was more educated or able to
speak on these things in a way other than to
say I believe I've had both experiences and it's really
important for me and distilling, especially when things go wrong
where I get a synchronicity series of things makes me
(47:51):
feel like I'm oh gosh, I'm being punished or oh
my gosh, this is terrifying me, and then I have
to really breathe and relax and go. Sometimes coincidences do happen.
That's the law of chaos, that's the law of mathematics.
Sometimes my brain is looking for things when what it
needs to be doing is just being present. That's a
(48:13):
long answer to that question.
Speaker 2 (48:15):
But sometimes like you can be present and it's like, wait,
why did that happen?
Speaker 4 (48:20):
What did that mean? Yeah? I know, I know? What
does it mean?
Speaker 2 (48:24):
Do you put any extra thought into like deja vous?
Do you go way this is? I remember I've already
thought this, or I don't.
Speaker 4 (48:36):
Know, Yeah, is it past? Life. Is it inter dimensional something?
Is it a wave? I've often wondered, is that like
just an echo or a wave of like have we
done this and now we're trying to do it again
and do it a little better?
Speaker 3 (48:51):
Yeah, my second chance?
Speaker 4 (48:53):
Is this a little just a blip? Can the brain blip? Yeah?
I don't know. What do you think it is when
you get through jogu.
Speaker 2 (49:00):
I think that you get like you get like a
little peak. Like I think that's why I think all
this stuff is. I don't want to actually know the
answers to anything. I just think it's fun to talk
about when we get like a little peak sometimes at
the other realm, where like I don't know, God or
(49:21):
whoever it is, is like, oh shit, they were't supposed
to see that. Like, you know, It's kind of like
when you get like when a company accidentally leaks a
new product or something. Oh delete, So then you just
like get like a little peak of it, and then
when it actually happens, then you go, oh.
Speaker 3 (49:39):
Good, this this was supposed to happen.
Speaker 2 (49:41):
This is how I interpret it. I go, oh, this
was supposed to happen because I thought about this already.
So I'm in the right place where I'm supposed to be.
This was kind of a plan the whole time for
me to end up here or to experience whatever this
thing is.
Speaker 1 (49:57):
That's what I think.
Speaker 4 (49:59):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (50:00):
Who knows?
Speaker 4 (50:01):
Who knows?
Speaker 2 (50:02):
Wait, how long have we been doing this? Fifty two minutes?
How does this happen?
Speaker 4 (50:10):
You know? So the part three, which is always either
the whole thing goes down in flames or if you
become historic, because in my opinion, now I've been literally
flapping my gums for fifty one minutes. I think I
gave you one minute to talk in the last hour.
Speaker 2 (50:29):
Who cares these people hear about hear me talk with
my ideas way too much?
Speaker 4 (50:34):
But like, I feel like part two we brought the groceries.
Speaker 2 (50:37):
I can't get over the Francis story.
Speaker 1 (50:41):
Were you planning to tell that?
Speaker 4 (50:44):
No, I wasn't planning anything. When I come on with you,
I don't plan anything. I just go be as open
as you feel safe being today, and I felt safe
being open with you. You know.
Speaker 2 (50:56):
I heard people talk about this being present stuff for
a while long time, and I was always like, yeah,
I don't know about that, And I don't know because
you know, I'm sober too, and I don't know if
like that was part of it too, was just like
not wanting to be pron I don't know, but I
would say the last like year or so, I have
(51:17):
gotten to this point where I am so obsessed with like,
I'm not going to prepare anything. I'm just going to
show up and whatever comes my way. Let's ride the way, baby,
And wow, it's been a fun way to live.
Speaker 4 (51:34):
I look at the so many things I look at
through the lens of being an actor. The thing that
I really strive to do is do my homework, be prepared,
prepare my if it's dialect, physical work, character, backstory, all
of that. I think the preparation is very, very very important.
Make sure my lines are memorized, make sure I'm ready
to go. But what I don't want to do is
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prepare the way I'm going to do something right, because
then I lose the ability to be present and to
experience the thing through that, and I learned that a
lot watching working with Alexander Skarsgard on Murder Bot. Not
only was a joy because I just got to look
at his incredible face and body every day, Sorry Alexander,
(52:19):
but it was also because every take was a new thing.
He never rehashed if we nailed something on a certain arc,
a certain line, a certain moment the take before, unless
the director specifically said, oh, can we get that again
from this angle, which he would do perfectly. Every take
was a brand new experience every fucking take. That to
(52:42):
me is courage. That to me is wow. I want
to show up every day like that, Like I have
my due diligence, I do my parameditation, I go to
my you know, meetings, I you know, do certain things
that are part of my mental health routine. But then
I want to just be present and not and plan everything.
Speaker 1 (53:01):
Well.
Speaker 2 (53:01):
I keep thinking of my life like I enjoy it
being like structured improv like uh Reno nine to one
one or Curb your Enthusiasm. It's like we know where
each scene, what certain things you have to.
Speaker 3 (53:17):
Hit on in life.
Speaker 2 (53:19):
Okay, I do know I need to like exercise at
this point or whatever.
Speaker 1 (53:23):
Everything else.
Speaker 2 (53:24):
You just like whatever comes your way, you listen, you respond,
you know who knows where it'll lead you.
Speaker 4 (53:33):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (53:34):
So what's all the stuff you want us to to see?
Speaker 4 (53:38):
Okay, listen. So there's a beautiful movie that's from Mike
Flanagan called The Life of Chuck so cool. It's a
beautiful film. It's based on the Stephen King story and
I have a wonderful opportunity in it to chew on
some of Mike's incredible dialogue. And then murder Bot is
(53:59):
currently on Apple. It is a series that is so wonderful,
based on a book, a series of books by Martha
Wells called the murder Bot Diaries. Alexander scars Guard plays
a sec unit, this you know, non binary sum of flesh,
some machines, security unit, this construct that has become conscious,
(54:21):
and I'm part of the little team of scientists that
it is meant to secure and keep safe on this planet.
And it's a really wonderful show that pushes a lot
of incredible boundaries and it's still very funny, very light,
very human. I love it. It's got, oh my gosh everything,
it's got thrupples, it's got a matriarchal leadership, it's got
(54:45):
Alexander's scars Guard, it's got me being an annoying ass.
And then, you know, I write a lot. I'm very
proud of the work of being able to achieve it,
especially in the comic book space. So if you get
a chance, check out my Creature Commando series at DC.
I've got a series called Nights Versus Samurai at Image.
(55:06):
Some really exciting new books coming. We're going to announce
a comic con and then be sure to stay tuned
for the lay Brothers Holiday of Horror special that I'll
be starring in and helping create with them.
Speaker 2 (55:20):
So great, Honestly, the easiest thing you could ever do.
I swear to god, if you just told like a theater,
can I just have like an hour and a half
and then you just start telling stories, or if you
just had the audience be like, tell us one about this,
Oh my god, it would be so successful. You're such
(55:41):
a good storyteller. Thank you, ros I'm very impressed. I'm
very pleased by this episode.
Speaker 3 (55:48):
Thank you. I appreciate you taking the time.
Speaker 4 (55:51):
Thank you, my fiend, my amazing raws. Well, that's the thing. Now,
it's happening, and I'm.
Speaker 2 (55:58):
Trying to get invited to one of these tarot reading
haunted doll parties that you have.
Speaker 4 (56:03):
You got it, You're there the next one that I throw.
Speaker 1 (56:06):
Put me on the list.
Speaker 4 (56:07):
You're on the list. You are on the.
Speaker 1 (56:09):
List, all right. Well, that's it.
Speaker 4 (56:11):
That's it. Thanks Ron, Thank you so much to David.
Speaker 1 (56:19):
Wow. Wow, he's good.
Speaker 2 (56:23):
He's real good at ghosted that's for sure. Hopefully we
can get him to come back on another time. Thanks
for listening. I love you all, both living and dead.
But if I didn't ask you to haunt me, don't
haunt me came back. This has been an exactly right production.
(56:50):
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My senior producer is the startling Jiha Lee. Associate producer
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is the petrifying Patrick Kuttner. My theme music is by
the spine Chilling Brendan Lynch Salomon. Artwork by the spooky
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by the chilling Karen Kilgareff, the spooky Georgia hart Stark,
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