Do I look Scammable?

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife,
and she couldn't. She cleaned and cared for her children
and the man of the house, and of course she
didn't talk back.

Speaker 2 (00:09):
She was both obedient and soft by nature.

Speaker 1 (00:12):
She was a good woman who always made good choices.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
We're good Mom's bad choices.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
Who's single mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all
their bad choices.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
And found out they were so bad after all.

Speaker 3 (00:24):
We're experts, overshares and your new besties.

Speaker 2 (00:26):
Sit back and enjoy the ride. Welcome back to good
Mom's bad Choices. I'm Erica and I'm Jamila.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
Happy Wednesday, bitches, and DJ.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
You love in the house, butes, Is that gonna your
DJ drop? I have a confession.

Speaker 3 (00:52):
I think I know my next my next adventure, my
next talent. I'm gonna be a meditation MC. So it's
like I'm gonna just like talk over the yeah, but
but like live at a festival. Live, Yeah, everybody, breathe, everybody,

(01:12):
feel your pleasure, move your hips. I told DJ Niche
drop some tracks. I'm just send them over. I'm a
DJ Niche Niche Niche Niche Niche.

Speaker 4 (01:23):
I think I think I think they told me this,
that you did this at the and on top of
the mountain the other day.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
I didn't.

Speaker 2 (01:28):
I'm feeling it.

Speaker 3 (01:29):
I think I think I need to do some some
empty meditation.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
Here goes, Actually do it? Do it? Pick up?

Speaker 3 (01:35):
Just hands me the microphone and then I tell Orlando.

Speaker 2 (01:38):
He's like, right now. I was like, you're a hater.
Stop in my dreams. So I knew not to fuck
with you. You're a hater. Meanwhile, as she's like do it,
do it, she turns it on.

Speaker 4 (01:48):
Oh my god, you know we all need that friend.
Speaking of friends, did you go out last night?

Speaker 3 (01:54):
I did, But apparently every Wednesday my new friend and
I met on my hike touring and does his thing,
except yesterday.

Speaker 2 (02:02):
So we went and we left. So it wasn't this.
It wasn't the right day. It was the right day.

Speaker 4 (02:07):
He wasn't there that day of always, it wasn't. It
wasn't like a vibe, No, oh, it was like, what
was it like in there? It's Anderson Pack's Club or something.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
Yeah, Andy's.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
I don't want to tell everybody our spot, but Andy's
on Wednesdays has live music.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
It's really bombed.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
It's really cute in there too. It's like a little bar.
Apparently it was an upstairs. I didn't know there's upstairs,
Nisha told me, because you know, Nisha's outside and there's
a little patio. It's not like some crazy line. It's
not very La like usual, like who who's the list
day at?

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Who invited you? It's not like that yet. I don't know.
I think, I think I don't know. I don't I
don't know Anderson Pack at all.

Speaker 3 (02:39):
I would imagine his spot would be like I feel
like he's there. I think he did it on purpose.
So it's like just very chill like last night. I
wanted to just let us in last week too, But yeah,
I was on a hike last week and I was
just sitting there and this guy we started talking and
he's like, come to Andy said ten I'm performing. I'm
like okay, And then I went and it was like amazing.
I danced for like two hours straight. I don't know

(03:00):
if anybody's familiar with going out in the LA area Holly, Hollywood, y'all,
but nobody dances. Historically, nobody dances. It's just not fun.
There's barely even a dance floor, so it's like, why
the fuck are we here? So if you find a
place that people are dancing and there's like good music
and live music, and then you need to hold on
to it like a treasure. So this is if I'm

(03:21):
going to be outside, it's probably going to be on
a Wednesday at Andy's.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
So, yeah, what happened to you last night? Were you
going to what'd you guys do?

Speaker 3 (03:28):
Now?

Speaker 2 (03:28):
My homegirls?

Speaker 4 (03:29):
She just came over and we drank tequila and talked
about girl stuff.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
I went to a stuff life stuff, former stuff.

Speaker 3 (03:40):
I went to an event this week with somebody we
met at the mom Juice event, and.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
Within like twenty minutes, all.

Speaker 3 (03:47):
The women were gathered around talking about deep stuff. And
I was like, is this a bitches do?

Speaker 2 (03:51):
Like strangers? Hi? What's your childhood drama?

Speaker 1 (03:54):
Me?

Speaker 2 (03:54):
So, what happened to you? Literally? I was like, is
this like? Women are so has? Like are just so deep?

Speaker 3 (04:01):
I mean, at least the women I'm around, because within
literally fifteen minutes, we're just talking about childhood trauma and
pleasure and like religious trauma. And I'm like, I know
for a fact men don't gather around in small crowds
and talk about these things, which is probably the problem. True, Yeah,

(04:23):
but also I'm like, are we too deep? Also, like
I don't sometimes you know what it is. I think women,
I think what's important that we have spaces like that,
But I also think.

Speaker 2 (04:32):
That we confuse each other because we.

Speaker 4 (04:35):
Can't wait to insert our experience into someone else's experience.
Like oh, like if I say, oh, I'm going through
a hard time with my boyfriend, oh girl, I did that.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
I had the same problem, and let me tell you
how that ended up.

Speaker 4 (04:46):
And then now this bitch on the other side is like,
oh my god, is that's gonna end up?

Speaker 2 (04:49):
It's like I sometimes I feel like we.

Speaker 4 (04:50):
Plant unnecessary seeds by oversharing, you know, Like I.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
Think it's it just depends who you're asking, who you're
talking to, and just.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
Well, if you're at a fucking party with a bunch
of bitches.

Speaker 3 (04:59):
No, I'm basically having discernment of like what information and
what advice you're you're taking in. And it also depends
like if it's a yeah, I guess if it's a
relationship that's early on and not a lot of people
know that person, or like you know what I mean,
Like it's it is you have to have the discernment
because you're the bitch that knows him. If you're getting

(05:19):
the dick and you're doing the pillow talking, hopefully you
have a better understanding of this person than like Susie
Q on the street. I think, I don't know, it's
a it's a balance because I do feel like you're friends.
I'm not saying strangers on the street, but like your
close friends have your best interest in mine and kind
of know you, and so I feel like their usually
friend advice is sound. But then there's always you hear

(05:41):
in like rap videos and songs that like you're getting
advice from the bitch doesn't have a boyfriend and shit
like that.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
You know, you know it's been in like E R
and B song. I'm just gonna say, most bitches don't
have discernment.

Speaker 4 (05:54):
Did you get bad advice and you're no, I just
I just no, No, I didn't get bad advice. But
I you know, I just I think I listen to
people talk so much, and I listen to women share
a lot, and I listen to myself too, and I
have to like sometimes check myself on when someone is
sharing and not just waiting to insert my experience that

(06:15):
they've had. You know, I think a lot of times
we do that because yes, we want to be in
conversation with someone, like we want to relate to someone,
and sometimes like you just need to shut the fuck
up and listen.

Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yeah, I mean some people just want to a listening ear.

Speaker 3 (06:29):
I also feel like, just in general, as humans, it
is it is human nature. You share something with me,
no matter what you're talking about, no matter what I'm
talking about, even if we're not giving each other advice,
I'm always because it's the human it's the human nature.
I'm always going to be looking at looking at said
thing through a filter of my experience. This is what

(06:52):
we do. We have a conversation. We are listening aka
evaluating aka judging aka comparing it to something that you're
familiar with and feel comfortable with so that we can
rationalize whatever said thing is. And so automatically there's a
scope of judgment because even if even as listening, we're
generally evaluating to respond in a way that's only going

(07:13):
to have the opinion of something that you've experienced, because
you're going to make it as close to something you've
experienced as possible, even if it's not that exact thing,
because I feel like that's just like the way the
human brain works realistening. So I always I battle with
that because like that's kind of like how we how
we engage in conversation.

Speaker 4 (07:34):
No, I know, I think I think it's I'm not
saying don't do it, but I think I think the
person who is the listener also has to have discernment on.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
Who they're sharing this with.

Speaker 4 (07:43):
So like if they know that someone is really impressionable
and highly influenced, then like, if you really want this
person to make their own choices and own decisions not
based on your said experience, that is maybe similar, but
also everyone's circumstances are different than having the discernment, because
I know, like there's been times where I've shared things
with people that I that I feel like my sharing

(08:05):
discernment was not on point or like irresponsible, and that
person made a choice that because I said, this is
what happened to me and this is what I would
have done.

Speaker 2 (08:14):
Was that the right choice for them? Maybe maybe not?

Speaker 4 (08:17):
You know, like, I think we're also in a society
that like is because we're so and this is just
in relationships, because we're so we have so many options
and we're overstimulated. We're quick to just say fuck it,
you know, like this isn't serving me. I've definitely been
in that relation. I've definitely been in that space a lot,

(08:40):
especially early on in the podcast where when I was
first dating, where it's like it's not work, it's not
serving me, it's not serving me, it's not serving me.
And I've been in relationships where I'm like, okay, and
maybe you can speak to this even more because you're engaged,
you've been in a long term relationship, and you're gonna
get married. There's there has definitely been instances, I'm sure
in your relationship that maybe you didn't feel like we're
serving you at the time. But are you gonna leave

(09:01):
your relationship because it's not serving you in that moment
or are there other things in the relationship foundationally that
are sustaining you there where this thing that is not
serving at the moment is not going to break up
your relationship.

Speaker 3 (09:14):
Yeah, that's why I said the thing about discernment. But honestly,
this is another thing I feel okay in this relationship.
Of course, things are there's gonna be things that bother
me and things and I'm like, fuck this, nigga, fuck
all this shit.

Speaker 2 (09:26):
I'm blowing it up.

Speaker 3 (09:27):
But at my coreus core, I'm never leaving Orlando, and
I know that there's nothing anyone could tell me, even
I think I told one of our friends you just
got off the phone with and they's like, are you
going to break up?

Speaker 2 (09:38):
And I was like, no, nigga, I'm just telling you
a story.

Speaker 3 (09:41):
So I think I've never I've never been in a
relationship where I've said that or you said it's not
serving me. No, I've never been in a relationship where
I've said no, I'm not gonna leave you. And I've
never been so clear about a relationship that doesn't matter
what happens that I know I'm not going anywhere and

(10:01):
he's not going anywhere like that. It's never in my
friend obviously, in my like my fantasy mind, I'm leaving.

Speaker 2 (10:07):
Him, But I well, I don't want to assume.

Speaker 3 (10:10):
Would you say that part of that is not just
because you came to that, or part of that is
because Orlando won't let you leave.

Speaker 2 (10:18):
Not like you're not leave, but there's been times where
you wanted to run away and he was like a bitch,
come back.

Speaker 4 (10:22):
You know what I mean, Like it requires sometimes I
think especially for women who we can be runners and
like we like I said, there is like a very
I think it's an important piece for women too, because
historically women haven't left relationships that haven't served them right,
Like we've overstayed and so now there's like swinging to
the other side of the pendulum where bitches are like,
it's also me, I'm out of out of'm mount.

Speaker 3 (10:43):
Marriage is ending because I'm out of out of mount.

Speaker 4 (10:47):
But there also is a I think a need for
the other person to sustain, to say you're not leaving me.

Speaker 2 (10:57):
We're going to figure this out.

Speaker 4 (10:58):
If Orlando would have been like, all right, well fuck it,
then you might have been like, all right, well fuck it.

Speaker 3 (11:01):
Then you know, I try to bring up with this,
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (11:03):
So like, because you have a partner that has like
pulled you back, now perhaps you have now exercised a
muscle of okay, I'm not gonna leave. Like that isn't
like your instinct to say.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
All right, well's not working. Oh you don't think it's
working either, okay, cool?

Speaker 3 (11:18):
Peace is like that's not the stronger muscle anymore, Like
the stronger muscle is I'm gonna sit here and work
it out with you, because I know I have someone
else that is gonna sit here and work it out
with me too. I think, I think it has a
lot to do, like we said, like discernment and intuition,
because I see both sides, and I think generally women know,
I think generally, in your heart of hearts and your

(11:39):
gut and your intuition, you know if you should be
somewhere or not.

Speaker 2 (11:43):
Yeah, And nine times out.

Speaker 3 (11:44):
Of ten it obviously your friends or your the influence
or the opinions of others can like contribute to how
you're feeling. But overall, I feel like bitches know when
they need to get out of something, and generally that
is the talent, like the thing that make some leave
when our land those times in the beginning, like early on,
where I was like, I'm bringing up with a landown.

(12:04):
He was like, I'll call you back those times, Yes,
those were important that he say, bitch, have a seat
and moving through that and I hadn't, I hadn't had
someone that I in those situations I had. I had
to ask myself do I still love this person? And
I did, and I couldn't. I couldn't deny the fact
that I even though this shit really pissed me off,

(12:24):
or there's things about you that I don't think I
can see long term. The reassurance and then having the
self awareness to ask myself, do I still love this
person enough to be with them? Was what got me
through those like those things. But there were times in
like other relationships, where I was like, I do still
love this person, and I don't want to be with them.
I know that I cannot see my life with this

(12:46):
person in this way, and I think sometimes like women,
I don't know, Like for instance, like I have I
have someone close to me who's been in a relationship
for literally like eight years, and I sometimes feel guilty
because we went on a trip together and she met
this crazy ass nigga and moved him in with her

(13:06):
and he's been there the whole time, and like I
saw her kid grow eight like this is my cousin
grow eight years, Like I've just seen her be in
this cycle, and like I will I'm hi, it's me,
I'll do it. I'm the friend. I'm like, hey, bitch,
what's up? Because every time I see you, you're complaining
and I know this person is literally clinically crazy not medicating.

Speaker 2 (13:27):
So I'm like, I will sometimes I feel like.

Speaker 3 (13:30):
I will be the voice of hey, bitch, you're wasting
your life. This is you're not getting any younger. Do
you want to have another kid? Because this is not it? Like,
I sometimes think it's important to have a friend that's
going to reiterate the shit that you said that you
wanted because if it doesn't line up, and you know,
and I'm sure you can attest to this too. And
I think I have a sensitivity to this because I

(13:52):
saw my mom be in a relationship for one hundred
years too long and literally is just now getting a
divorce at fifty, you know, eight years old, and I
see how stunted her growth was. And so when I
see cycles in my friends or my family, and I'm like.

Speaker 2 (14:09):
Hey, girl, this is crazy.

Speaker 4 (14:11):
What about when you hear about long term marriages that
went through years of disconnection and then healing, Because like,
that's what I'm saying, like where they've gone to the
other side and they're happier than ever, et cetera. There
probably were people in there that were like, what are
you doing? You know what I'm saying and that's where, like,
I think your intuition has to come into place. So

(14:34):
the people that have stayed in those long term marriages
something kept them there.

Speaker 2 (14:36):
Right. Well, Well, I'm also like, was it always like this?

Speaker 3 (14:39):
So I think I think women get into relationships and
then they the same way. The same things that bothered
them ten years in are the things that existed at
year one, and they it was early on so it
didn't bother them as much. But I feel like if
when you started out, there was something suit that pulled
you was super like super pulling, there was something that

(15:01):
like grounded you into this relationship and you know who
this person is, and then you fall upon disconnected time,
which is inevitable. If you live with someone, you're changing,
you're growing, you're working. That's inevitable. But I always come
back to, well, was there ever passion? Was there ever?

Speaker 2 (15:16):
Intimacy?

Speaker 3 (15:17):
Was there ever reassurance? Like you have to ask yourself realistically,
because I think women we have been so programmed to
be like, oh, well this will change or this is
a nice guy, when in the end, the usually the
things that break you up are things that already existed
that you ignored.

Speaker 2 (15:31):
So I think those are important things too.

Speaker 3 (15:33):
But again, like I think everyone should have discerned enough,
like this is your relationship and your life. And I
think women don't take enough responsibility for their lives and
they don't realize like, bitch, this shit is short. Life
could be over in a blink of an eye. So
how much are you investing? I think there's such a
thin line in relationships and how much because women are nurturers.

(15:54):
We poor, we become, we grow, we water and like,
so when you were when you know your power, you
have to be really careful where you're pouring because you
can if it's not being reciprocated, you will die in
the process of growing another plant, you know. So I'm like,
I'm always like, okay, let's go to the beginning. Were

(16:14):
you getting fucked in the beginning where you're happy? You know,
were you like, were these issues existing but they weren't
that bad because it wasn't ten years in. So I
just think there's a level of like honesty, like brutal
honesty you have to have with yourself that sometimes women,
for some reason, we're just people pleasing or whatever.

Speaker 2 (16:30):
We're giving people the benefit of the doubt.

Speaker 3 (16:31):
We just tend not to have, But I don't believe
in running, but I do believe in Like, I know
a lot of bitches right now in my friend's circle.
I wish I could say their names and call those
hoes out, but that have are just in ridiculous cycles,
and I'm like, what are you doing?

Speaker 2 (16:48):
What the fuck are you doing?

Speaker 3 (16:49):
Like and I and I and I have balance because
I have a best friend calls me every other week
with the same shit, and I'm like, mm hmm, you
said this. You know you said this last week. You
know you said you gon to leave them aon line.
Oh he's back over, Okay, Well, well what do you
say this?

Speaker 2 (17:02):
Then?

Speaker 3 (17:03):
I'm patient, but I'm always going to be like, you
know you said this last week and the week before that.
Are you tired yet? I'm always gonna I try to
put the court the ball in their court?

Speaker 2 (17:12):
Are you telling?

Speaker 3 (17:12):
Are you tired of this yet? Because this is what
you you. I'm going to repeat back to me what
you told me, just for clarity in March, and then
in April, and then again in June a long more
time in August you said, you know, and I think
it's important to like not insert yourself, but to reiterate
what people are telling you.

Speaker 4 (17:30):
Yeah, no, I think that's what friend I think that's
what friendships are for.

Speaker 2 (17:33):
But also, do you feel like you talk like.

Speaker 3 (17:37):
I feel like women have a problem of telling the
bad things but not the good things, Like if you're
like like like they're always talking about the bad step
and not the good stuff, Like we forget to celebrate
our relations.

Speaker 2 (17:48):
Well, yeah, that's what we think about.

Speaker 4 (17:49):
Like we think about like you saying you went to
this conversation with I don't know what you guys talked about,
but at the event you went to say, it got
very deep. I don't know if it got very dark, but
women can get very deep and dark fast. Yeah, like
real fast, you know, like I think because we like
I don't know, there's like a we dwell in that space,
like we create from that space too, so there's like
a familiarityness. But I I do notice that I noticed

(18:14):
that about myself too. I think that generally, I feel
like I read a statistic about this too, Like I
think generally, No, I think women specifically do not always
talk about the good parts of their relationship. They keep
those things to themselves, not even maybe on purpose, but
maybe like it's just supposed to be, so there's nothing
to share.

Speaker 3 (18:33):
I feel it feels like cheesy or braggy. I feel
like women like it's easy. Like I feel like women
have been told this lie that like the like it's
more relatable to complain, like, oh, my husband's such an
asshole like mine too, you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (18:46):
It's not like, oh my god, you know my man
did for me today, Like I love this. I love this.

Speaker 3 (18:50):
Think it's so much he's so crazy did the dishes,
you know, Like it's like we I think, I don't know,
there's a level of oh, she's bragging or she's like
doing too much, or she's obsessed or something like that
that like women, because I feel like I do, like
I tend to not downplay, but I'm not like I
have the best husband ever, Like you know, it's just

(19:11):
I realized that, just in this relationship, that it's just
so much easier to talk shit than to talk like
in abundance and positivity.

Speaker 2 (19:22):
And I'm just wondering, what is that and.

Speaker 3 (19:25):
What can we do to like switch that, Yeah, shift
that in our friendships and our and in the circles
of like our conversation because I think that's important.

Speaker 4 (19:35):
No, I think that's I think that is important too,
because I think whenever someone asks you, so, how's Brian.

Speaker 2 (19:42):
Like, you're gonna like maybe sprinkle a little positive. Just
got a new job.

Speaker 4 (19:48):
But girl, you know, like that's because there is it's
like I don't want to sound too braggadocious, or maybe
we can relate more on this level because you're not
in a relationship, so like I want to really to
you where maybe like there's something negative happening in your
you know, like I don't know, but why do.

Speaker 3 (20:05):
We think that negativity is the common place of relatability
for some reason?

Speaker 2 (20:10):
Yeah? Yeah, I think I don't know. We gotta work
on that, ladies.

Speaker 3 (20:14):
I mean yeah, because I and I think just in general,
I read this and for those that are doing fucking
keep going, tell your friends.

Speaker 2 (20:22):
I mean. But also I think.

Speaker 3 (20:25):
I remember that girl online she's getting high that we
got annoyed withent because she got that boyfriend, and she
would have shut the fuck up about it, that one
you loved it loved to hat online. And then there's
sometimes I'm like, you know what, I think there's also
an underlying thing about like women breaking up, no, like women.

Speaker 2 (20:42):
Being so desperate, like I want a man so bad when.

Speaker 3 (20:48):
My husband, Like, I believe in manifesting what you want,
but I don't believe in forcing it. I believe, like
I think I wrote this in my notes, This was
a good one. What did I say? Oh, I said,
desperation reads.

Speaker 2 (21:02):
Well.

Speaker 4 (21:02):
I think there's a difference between desperation and doing what
you just said, which is like talking positively about your
partner or your partner that's on the way, and being
like I want my man, well my mom man gets here,
he's gonna be dead. Da da da he We're gonna
do dad d Like there's nothing wrong with that.

Speaker 3 (21:18):
Like Rosa who wrote who's writing letters to her husband?

Speaker 2 (21:21):
Yeah, I think.

Speaker 4 (21:21):
I mean, I'll even admit, like maybe I was triggered
by that girl because I wanted something that she that
she had, even though it was a little corny, even
though she's just you know what I'm saying, But at
at its core, like that shouldn't really bother me, you know.

Speaker 3 (21:35):
Yeah, why then there's a question why is it bothering?

Speaker 2 (21:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (21:38):
I think I think for me, I just was. It's
more so like I think about the I'm always thinking
about the end. I'm like, damn, I'm gonna have to
lead all those photos, all those sunset reels of eating
oysters by the water and the rose petals to the beach.
And but then it's like, well, but like that's her
fucking life and its right, you know. So I think

(22:00):
a lot of times when we feel triggered by what
we see on Instagram, yes there's the discernment of us
knowing like okay, bitch, like this is not for real,
and then also like okay, well I kind of I
want that. I kind of want that. I want that
to be for real for me.

Speaker 2 (22:14):
Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Unfortunately update they broke up. It
didn't work out, ended up.

Speaker 4 (22:20):
Not working out. My dream couple. Ye, dream moneration couple
didn't work out. But you know, she's she's you know,
she's a boss bitch. She'll figure it out.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
You know.

Speaker 3 (22:31):
I've never been the type of bit like I'll delete
like if there's an overload, but I'll leave a couple
for memories.

Speaker 2 (22:36):
I really will.

Speaker 3 (22:37):
If you scroll back and them, you'll see every scene
I forget to hide.

Speaker 2 (22:41):
And think I hit everything. I hide everything.

Speaker 3 (22:43):
I maybe, but there's you'll see some niggas that got
got kept on there by mistake, just because I said,
this is what happened, and you see the jerks.

Speaker 4 (22:50):
The only time it doesn't get deleted is a I
look really good and I'm like this. I think there
is one photo of an ex that where you just
see his mouth and like below and I was like, an,
I'm in the photo and I look really good, and
it's my birthday, so this is going to stay up.
This is an important image. It's the only picture of
my birthday.

Speaker 2 (23:07):
So what has to day?

Speaker 3 (23:07):
I guess it's just like we're human, We're gonna something
is gonna stick around. Some are and we're also human
and we're stupid. So we've decided to record every single
detail and oyster beachside oyster of date of our lives.

Speaker 2 (23:23):
So yeah, this is where we're at now.

Speaker 4 (23:25):
So including our sex tapes and our hidden folders, like
at any time that at any moment could be retrieved
by the government anyway, what do you mean the government
just you know, there's just no boundaries. We can anything
can happen. I don't think that.

Speaker 2 (23:41):
I don't they can retrieve our photos from the iCloud.
What is the fucking iCloud?

Speaker 4 (23:46):
At this point, they're buying. They're buying everything. They're buying TikTok,
they're about to go out by.

Speaker 2 (23:51):
Not about that.

Speaker 3 (23:52):
Like I started getting is when they feed me certain
jokes about illegal things, and like, are they making a
profile on me my porn searches, like the secret memes
I send people like they're making a profile, like drinks
tequila goes to the bar, she hates the government.

Speaker 2 (24:13):
They're literally there's a profile.

Speaker 3 (24:14):
They're like, she likes she likes this kind of porn,
telling you it's like the book The Circle.

Speaker 2 (24:18):
Read the book the fucking stressed out in it.

Speaker 4 (24:23):
Anyway, is there time for bad choice of the week?
She we have a bad choice of the week submission bad.

Speaker 1 (24:31):
Mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom so good.

Speaker 2 (24:44):
This is from a OG.

Speaker 3 (24:47):
Listener shout out to I'm going to keep you anonymous,
but you know who you are.

Speaker 2 (24:51):
A baby. Her bad choice of the week is left
the baby with.

Speaker 4 (24:56):
Grandma, so me and the wife could eat molly and
have sex in the forest.

Speaker 3 (25:02):
I think I know who this is. Do they live
in this state?

Speaker 2 (25:07):
Molly?

Speaker 4 (25:08):
What this says Molly and shoots in the forest? What
does mean have shoots like photo shoots?

Speaker 2 (25:13):
Well, I did see a picture, so I don't know.
I think of like mushroom shoots. I don't know.

Speaker 4 (25:19):
Yeah, this is an excellent choice. I love doing Molly
and Shoots in the store in the forest.

Speaker 3 (25:25):
Molly in the Forest sounds like really fun.

Speaker 2 (25:27):
I want it's a pretty magical camp again camp. Yeah,
camping was really fun. Yeah, I would.

Speaker 3 (25:32):
I would go to Joshua Tree, or we could just
go Joshua Tree and stay in a nice house.

Speaker 4 (25:36):
I would go yirding, you know, I'm go yirding. So
it's like a substantial tent. That's bit they built it.
There's maybe a flooring underneath.

Speaker 2 (25:45):
There's canvas, but there's maybe camp or yeah, you know.

Speaker 4 (25:49):
Yeah, if I had to get down on my knees
and get into the tent, I would if I had to,
But I don't have to.

Speaker 2 (25:55):
I don't want to.

Speaker 3 (25:56):
Can we can we be really madice at this, but
can we podcast in the wild and go camping? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (26:05):
You could? You need to bring back.

Speaker 3 (26:06):
Podcasting in the wild. This is a question for you
to the people.

Speaker 2 (26:10):
Yeah, do we? I mean it was it was fun.
It's fun.

Speaker 4 (26:13):
If you haven't checked out our podcasting in the wild,
would you call it a.

Speaker 2 (26:19):
Segment a.

Speaker 3 (26:21):
Series called Podcasting in the Wild at the top of
this year, right last last year?

Speaker 2 (26:27):
Yeah, not this year, last year, last year. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (26:30):
Sure, And we went to a soul food restaurant. We
got botox and very important, very important content.

Speaker 2 (26:44):
The mountain.

Speaker 3 (26:45):
We walked through Santa Monica.

Speaker 2 (26:49):
Where else did we do? We went to my mom's house.
We did go to your mom's house. Yeah, we laid
by the pool.

Speaker 3 (26:54):
Actually, this was great. This We might need to bring
that back. I'm sick of I mean, I love the studio,
but maybe we need a new couch. But dms, if
you think we should go back to the wild because
I want to go camping or maybe the Joshua Tree,
which is kind of the same thing.

Speaker 2 (27:11):
Do you have camping gear?

Speaker 1 (27:12):
Like?

Speaker 2 (27:12):
Do you have all the things that we're gonna are
you gonna know? I brought it from David. Oh, David,
do you have a grilled You have a grilled day?

Speaker 1 (27:18):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (27:18):
My god, we need to you have a whole kit?
He did?

Speaker 3 (27:21):
I think we lost We lost the top to his tent,
so he may not ever let us borrow anything.

Speaker 2 (27:24):
Ever, how did you lose the top? To know?

Speaker 3 (27:27):
We had one from Nisha one from him and then
they I think we have it. Just there's so many
there's so many bags. Like the only thing about camping.
I went with like seventy five people. It was insane,
but it was a lot of work. Like I felt
like a nature bitch, like peeing outside, like going up hills,
like going in the water in the morning and brushing it.

Speaker 2 (27:48):
It just feels very nature. I don't know, I'm really immersed,
you know. And I did it for five days.

Speaker 3 (27:55):
That's in an island like you couldn't get to.

Speaker 2 (27:58):
I mean, there wasn't an island. That must have felt
really good for your nervous system. Yeah, to sleep outside
of me.

Speaker 3 (28:03):
At the end, I was like, okay, this is a
small last ten I've been on the ground for five days.
But those first four day yeah, three and a half, yeah, half,
I was like, wow, we're fourth morning.

Speaker 2 (28:13):
Yeah. I went camping and Montana. It was beautiful. I
know you did that thing right. It was so beautiful.

Speaker 4 (28:20):
It was such a like important experience, and I think
every person should take, no matter what age.

Speaker 3 (28:27):
Should we do a good mom's gone camping family trip.

Speaker 2 (28:30):
Oh, good mom's gone camping like that.

Speaker 3 (28:33):
I like that good mom's gone camping could be a
whole family trip.

Speaker 2 (28:36):
We meet.

Speaker 3 (28:37):
I have an idea to go exactly where I went. Okay,
and this we contribute. We all bring well, yeah, we'll
we'll provide the food. Papa oh will barbecue it. We'll
have a fire.

Speaker 2 (28:48):
It'll be fun.

Speaker 3 (28:50):
We'll sing camp songs to the window, to the wall.

Speaker 4 (28:55):
When I did when I went into a on a
ship camp like we were on like a pirate ship.

Speaker 2 (29:00):
We learned pirate songs. I forgot.

Speaker 3 (29:01):
You told me that. And Martha Stewart right vineyard, Martha
Steward and Martha Stewart. You couldn't tell me that Martha's
vineyard wasn't Martha Stewart.

Speaker 2 (29:11):
I thought it was just.

Speaker 3 (29:12):
Her property, like that was her property, and we're going
to go see Martha.

Speaker 2 (29:16):
That's a whole other Martha.

Speaker 4 (29:18):
Martha's yeah, right, same vibes Martha's. Martha's mineyard might have
inspired Martha Stewart her aesthetic.

Speaker 2 (29:28):
And Martha's a bad bitch. Fucking love her, God, I
really do.

Speaker 3 (29:31):
She's vicious. She is vicious, She's fierce, She's can Martha
Stewart come? I think I damned her and no one
else wanted who Martha Stewart.

Speaker 2 (29:42):
Yeah, we need to just you know, we need to
put a list together, write them down. We have a
list together. We need to have it on the wall
right there.

Speaker 3 (29:49):
Maybe we need to put it in the middle and
like masturbate close to each other and then.

Speaker 2 (29:59):
And then they'll call us.

Speaker 4 (30:02):
She kem asked me the day, He's like, what would
mean one thing that would make you feel like you've
made it? And I was like, Eric abaud do on
my show and he was like, are you serious? Like,
I'm dead ass serious, I'm dead ass serious.

Speaker 2 (30:15):
Yes.

Speaker 4 (30:15):
Wait, did you see the thing I sent you about
the Chelsea Handler scam?

Speaker 1 (30:18):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (30:18):
Yeah, we saw it. We got scammed.

Speaker 3 (30:20):
We got scammed by Chelsea Handler. Guys, we were scammed.
I was so mad.

Speaker 2 (30:26):
I still it really made.

Speaker 4 (30:27):
My fucking day. We sent it to the group chat.
That's how serious this this scam was.

Speaker 2 (30:32):
We emailed us.

Speaker 3 (30:36):
Chelsea can you come on the show because Sammed, it's
not your fault or anything, but I just think it
would be a great collab and we can we can ski,
we can smoke.

Speaker 2 (30:46):
Did you see the comment I wrote her? What you say?

Speaker 4 (30:49):
I said, we were a product of your scamming and
I was like, we got really fucking excited, so can
you just come on the show. We can't wait to
ski down mountains with our tits out.

Speaker 3 (31:00):
I was gonna see it, so anyway, eventually someone's gonna see.

Speaker 2 (31:05):
There's a lot of scam.

Speaker 4 (31:06):
When she broke down that scam, it made me think
of the other scam we're.

Speaker 2 (31:09):
Also called scam.

Speaker 3 (31:11):
Yeah, people are scamming us right now, we're getting scammed.

Speaker 2 (31:14):
Do we look like we should? Everyone else getting scammed?

Speaker 3 (31:17):
But I really look like I don't feel like my
face says scam me. I feel like I say fuck off.

Speaker 2 (31:21):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (31:21):
I don't think they give a fuck what you look like.
It's just anyone who get scammed out here.

Speaker 2 (31:25):
Wait, let me tell you.

Speaker 3 (31:25):
We're in Costa Rica and we get offered like about
like a couple thousand dollars. It just seemed too good
to be true to do a pot live podcast. And
then we look at it and it's like a Christian
We're like, are they are they fucking with us? It
was like a very black Christian woman and she was
a real person. My cousin, my Christian cousin, was following her.
I'm like, who's this, and she I was like, do

(31:47):
you think that this is real? She's like, probably not
because because she don't be talking about what you'll be
talking about. And I was Me and Erica really had
to have a serious conversation with it with ourselves, like
I don't think she's reaching out to us.

Speaker 2 (31:58):
I don't.

Speaker 4 (31:58):
I don't think it's really it's not. We're not doing this.
Come to find out, people are scamming you for your Facebook.

Speaker 2 (32:04):
Then we got in the call.

Speaker 3 (32:05):
So it's like a black woman in DC and we
get in the call and it's like an englishman ausy
like yeah, yeah, so she just does a Facebook live
and we're like what he I think he knew we
were on to him, so he was like, let me follow.

Speaker 2 (32:22):
I was just like, why would this Christian black woman
asking many questions. I was like, because we're not stupid.
I don't have scammed me.

Speaker 3 (32:28):
On my face, but but the money almost scammed me.
I know, crazy, what money will do?

Speaker 2 (32:33):
I know?

Speaker 3 (32:33):
I was like yeah, I was like Eric Canty slaves.
So this was like Eric, no, yeah, I know. I'm
glad we didn't fall for those who.

Speaker 2 (32:40):
Were too smart. Our intuition are spidey isn't too strong.

Speaker 3 (32:45):
We've done lives where we got paid easily and it
wasn't a scam, so I understand, but it didn't seems.

Speaker 2 (32:52):
I mean, I really believe.

Speaker 3 (32:53):
Chelseat watch out people. I believe Chelsea handler that really.

Speaker 4 (32:57):
But you know what, I'm glad that she spoke. Thank you, Chelsea,
because we were waiting still. I was gonna wait forever.

Speaker 2 (33:04):
Literally, I was gonna wait.

Speaker 4 (33:06):
I was willing to wait forever. Now I know I
just have to keep trying follow back up. At least
now I know I'm gonna start dming you again, and
you know, we'll start there again.

Speaker 3 (33:14):
I feel like we're gonna I'm gonna see her like
in La somewhere in an event, and I'm just gonna
pull up.

Speaker 2 (33:20):
Like, hey, do you want to take a shot? Yeah?
I know, I do. I know you do. Come on? Also,
do you want to come on my podcast? Yeah? That's
what I feel like. It's going to be a run in.
It's going to be a running situation. You know what.

Speaker 3 (33:34):
We're not in a good season for podcasts, Like it
doesn't sound cool. There's so many podcasts if you like,
slide up next to someone and they don't know you're
got to part and you're like, hey, do you want
to go on my podcast?

Speaker 2 (33:43):
They're like, you know, like next to the wrong girl
at the party.

Speaker 4 (33:48):
No, you gotta just be you gotta be people's friends.
You gotta be cool, be people's friends. You actually might
have to get to know Chelsea hand the first.

Speaker 3 (33:56):
Oh, I feel like we are going to be really
good friends. That's like half the reason that I should
go on your show.

Speaker 2 (34:02):
Yeah, she probably already seen us. Most people have seen us. Yeah.
Does that sound bragadocis No, it's the internet. See.

Speaker 4 (34:10):
I think we just have to be honest with ourselves
and speak even if most people haven't seen us.

Speaker 2 (34:16):
Now and you're gonna see us. You can see us.
You will see us. You see us? Do you see us?
Recognize us? Listen to us? Look at this face? Do
you see me? Remember? I see you? I see you,
I see you? You see me? I really see you?
I see you too? Do you see me? I see
how do I look? You look great? Great? Oh my god?

(34:39):
They say, I know. Wait, we had some horries. Oh
the bad choices.

Speaker 3 (34:44):
Oh I named one, I did one, I read one.
Oh it was our og listeners. Oh right, I'm high
speaking of bad choices. Last week, we had a caller,
I mean a caller, yeah, rite someone write in and
he said he gave another bitch some money. Even has
a girlfriend, and I I said how much money? And
so we followed up, and I thought that we should

(35:04):
let you guys know, because when she messaged me, I
was pissed, like I was the girlfriend.

Speaker 2 (35:10):
How much was it? Eighteen hundred? Eighteen fucking hundreds?

Speaker 3 (35:15):
I found out my man gave another bitch eighteen hundred dollars.

Speaker 2 (35:19):
I told you last week.

Speaker 3 (35:20):
I get mad at my man gave him bitch twenty dollars.
Why the fuck are you sending this bitch twenty dollars
for one drink?

Speaker 4 (35:29):
I mean wait, wait he said. I said, do better, sir.
I responded, you were pissed. I said, do better, sir.
He said no, because the other girl was into pegging
men and my girl is not.

Speaker 2 (35:41):
That's the full update.

Speaker 3 (35:42):
Oh yeah, let's talk about this.

Speaker 2 (35:46):
Yeah, there was Yeah.

Speaker 3 (35:47):
Women, I feel like, well, obviously he's asked her and
she said no, Well then maybe you need to flip,
like if that's something you need in the relationship.

Speaker 4 (35:55):
Wait, this person is following two thousand people, but only
has five followers, and it's like a hidden like it's
like a secret page.

Speaker 2 (36:05):
Let mess ite like, do I know this person?

Speaker 3 (36:08):
Is it your crazy stalker? Who the one who's emailing everybody?

Speaker 2 (36:12):
Is it? Maybe? He emailed me again? He responded, He
responded to this, Actually.

Speaker 3 (36:19):
That's one who said he gave someone.

Speaker 2 (36:23):
I mean, I don't believe it. Why you thought because
it's not a real page the stalker? I mean, people
are weird. I feel like it's someone different.

Speaker 3 (36:34):
We've had some pretty interesting online relationships in the DMS.

Speaker 2 (36:38):
We are wait live update. Are you ready?

Speaker 4 (36:41):
I just opened INSTAGRAMA Cardi B just snatched a getting
snatched a Guinness World record after selling the most signed
items in eight hours for who for I.

Speaker 2 (36:52):
Am the Drama.

Speaker 3 (36:53):
She's the most signed items in eight hours? She set
the record. Her hand is she okay? She likes shit,
I'm pregnant. Let me sit down and break some records
and makes something to drink. Yeah, us, it's fine.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
Why would they have a sign?

Speaker 3 (37:10):
I love her? This is just feeding into the am
I the Drama. This is this is this is excellent marketing.

Speaker 2 (37:16):
Did you see the best market I've ever seen? In
the video, I said to you. She was like, he oh,
baby daddy, my baby daddy too.

Speaker 3 (37:22):
I'm stopping it out. They're making mac and cheese for kids.
Maybe daddy on me too. She's like, oh, well, and congratulations,
you're right.

Speaker 2 (37:35):
Ship.

Speaker 3 (37:36):
She is over here setting Guinness World Records for random
ship because she is, in fact the drama and I
fucking love it. Can We said, is there something we
got to think of? Something random to sead of Guinness
reel records. I could just add that to my list
of like, what's something like?

Speaker 2 (37:51):
Uh, I on a podcast? Do you have a podcast?

Speaker 3 (37:53):
I'm on the Guinness World Records for sucking the most
lollipops in twenty minutes and.

Speaker 2 (38:02):
Get in get into the gam fastest. Hurry me, like,
go harder, harder. Look at I've eaten.

Speaker 3 (38:08):
I may I've sucked a blow pop to the gum
the fastest in all history of America.

Speaker 2 (38:12):
Oh my gosh. The apple flavor? Is that your favorite? Yeah?
That is a good flavor. I like the apple flavor.
I like blow pops. I don't like titsy pops.

Speaker 4 (38:21):
I don't want tisty pops either. That that goes together
first of all, Yeah, that filling is not it it
tastes like what a motherfucking owl would want to eat
some fucking some bullshit.

Speaker 2 (38:32):
I like apple Jolly, I like Jolly ranchers. I also like,
what are those airheads? My god, is so sour?

Speaker 4 (38:42):
Like this, the long ones that they're like, oh, oh,
you know what I'm talking about, right, those little airhead balls,
like they're like you suck.

Speaker 2 (38:48):
On them, and they're super super sour. They're called sour
sour heads. Sourheads. They're not sour. E didn't try as
an adult. They're like a little sour. Are some of
these candies retired never to be eaten again? No, there's
so there. We could like find them on the internet. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (39:03):
Maybe we're talking like this because Halloween, our favorite season,
is coming up.

Speaker 2 (39:06):
It's a coming. Oh, by the way, do you know
what you're gonna be for Halloween?

Speaker 3 (39:09):
I was actually thinking about running back the costume really
actually I have me and Orlando have one that's I'm
really excited about.

Speaker 2 (39:16):
What is it? I can't tell you why? What the fuck?

Speaker 3 (39:19):
It's not gonna be as fun. Oh okay, that's what
we're at. Whoa we're not I'm sharing Halloween costumes together?

Speaker 2 (39:24):
Wow? Well, this is just one.

Speaker 3 (39:25):
We're gonna have like we should have five, Okay.

Speaker 2 (39:31):
Just get away. I seen the movie, so it doesn't
even fucking matter, is yes? Oh yeah, I can't, like,
how are we even? I watched some of it.

Speaker 4 (39:40):
I fall asleep. You know, TV turns like my brain off.
So I'll try again.

Speaker 2 (39:45):
I'll try again. This is for the yeah. Oh.

Speaker 3 (39:50):
Also, I don't know if I told you that I
bought us tickets to the Craft Hollywood Cemetery.

Speaker 2 (39:55):
Thank God, What day is that? I don't know. It's
in my It's in October. It's in my phone. You
gotta look for it. Light up. Yeah, if you.

Speaker 3 (40:01):
Guys are in the LA area Hollywood, we meet us
at Hollywood Cemetery to watch the Craft. I don't know
if you guys are just joining us. But October the fall,
we just hit the fall equinox. This is our season
outside of Hot Girls Summer, which is my birthday.

Speaker 2 (40:19):
Scary spooky witch season. Fall is our other spooky bitch witch. Yeah,
scoop spooky witchat up the Brew.

Speaker 3 (40:28):
Yeah, this is our other timer, Like I don't know,
it's going to watch scary movies and buy skeletons and
do spooky shit and eat soup even though it's eighty
seven degrees and it's important.

Speaker 2 (40:41):
I know.

Speaker 4 (40:41):
I was just I was just saying that I wish
it would be. I was like, can it just be
like sixty seven today? I just need it to be
a nice sixty seven. I can wear a hoodie if
it's gloomy in the morning. Need be it's like cool
enough in LA, but not hot and left to make
me sweat in a sweatshirt.

Speaker 3 (40:58):
It will probably be baser until February here.

Speaker 2 (41:02):
Is that sweatshirt season anywhere else? Definitely? I don't know,
but with like global warming, maybe not.

Speaker 4 (41:08):
Well, you know what my friend who came over was
basically said, by twenty fifty, like LA basically only like Sweden, Denmark,
Canada all these other countries are going to be the
last man standing because everything else is going to like
be so hot and unlivable below.

Speaker 3 (41:25):
The equator in twenty five years. Yeah, like soon, you
know when you tell me things like that. And then
I said, the rocking was also last week, and I
think working out.

Speaker 2 (41:33):
We don't we really don't even want to live to
one hundred. What are we working out?

Speaker 3 (41:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (41:37):
Why are we even? Like because because like I honestly,
one hundred might be pushing it. Working at first feels good.
We just have to reframe.

Speaker 3 (41:45):
Working out doesn't have to be going to the gym,
you know, moving our bodies.

Speaker 2 (41:50):
And this shit really blowed down. That's an option also,
I think we should.

Speaker 4 (41:57):
Can we find a balance between like in the middle,
so that like by the time we die, where our
bodies are not in bad.

Speaker 2 (42:05):
How long Ozzie Osborne lived. It's rare though.

Speaker 4 (42:07):
There's a few people that preserve by drug, you know,
like there's people created to preserve by drug. He's one
of them.

Speaker 3 (42:15):
I feel like, what's the other guy.

Speaker 4 (42:18):
Mick Jagger is one of them? Like there's some people
that have preserved by drugs.

Speaker 2 (42:23):
Like the alcohol has for mel to hide at their
body like.

Speaker 4 (42:26):
Yay Yang twins. Like these are a few people that
have preserved. Trick Daddy, I mean, rest in peace. But
like you, Trick Daddy, Trick Dady is not dead. Oh wait,
never mind, He's like.

Speaker 2 (42:34):
Why would you kill what the fuck you sick bitch?
I didn't know. I thought he died. Maybe it's a'm I.

Speaker 3 (42:44):
Thinking, I don't know, Notady, wrong, you are killing Oliver,
all of our legenes Okay, who's the like this coolioh Okay,
sorry Coolio.

Speaker 4 (42:58):
He died, Yeah, he died. That's what I was thinking
about for trick Daddy the braids. But no, trick Daddy
did not die.

Speaker 2 (43:04):
But trick Daddy was looking like he was about to die.
He was looking yad, he's nice. Think he has some
kind of Oh my pad.

Speaker 3 (43:15):
I'm sorry, very very very very sorry, trick Daddy, I hope.
And then there's Chaer who got young Dick to preserve her.
I think it's the black young Dick. There are vampires
among us, and we are watching them like shares of vampire.

Speaker 2 (43:32):
Christian is a vampire.

Speaker 4 (43:33):
Like we see how they become youthful with like melanated there.
I feel like there's living vampires and there we see them.
They like culture vulture from society, but they're kind of likable.
They're getting younger somehow, they're getting younger and more successful

(43:54):
and richer.

Speaker 2 (43:55):
They're literally vampires period.

Speaker 3 (43:57):
There's organ harvesting, there's a lot, there's sex traffickings in
all time.

Speaker 2 (44:02):
I there's a lot of crazy shit. You know what.

Speaker 3 (44:04):
I realized, we're gonna have to talk all of our
crazy me all of our crazy conspiracy theory things on Patreon.
You can say like full sentences and we should just
not get scared and like censored and maybe they're gonna
come for us.

Speaker 2 (44:20):
So maybe I don't know. No, I think you're right.
I think I was not about that. I can't even
speak freely. I'm scared, you know. Sweet.

Speaker 4 (44:29):
After last week's episode, David comes in, he goes, what word?
And I was thinking, like, how many people last week
are like, what is the c K word?

Speaker 2 (44:38):
I'm like, y'all don't know what the K word is?

Speaker 3 (44:40):
I think they know it was only David because he
lives under rock. Oh, they speaking of censorship. They brought
Jimmy Kimble back, right, What did you think about that?

Speaker 4 (44:53):
I'm still unsubscribed even though my account goes told.

Speaker 2 (44:56):
I don't know. I told I like, had this whole
talk with ire. I was like, saturd down. I was like, honey,
we're going to delete Disney. We're deleting Disney. Honey, it's
so breaking every child. I literally had this conversation with her.

Speaker 4 (45:07):
I sat down with her because I was like, I
didn't want to just delete it and be like because
I said's out.

Speaker 2 (45:10):
You know, I was going to do that too. I mean,
you're got to tell this.

Speaker 4 (45:14):
So I was like, so listen, we're deleting Disney, like
free speech is under attack and we can't, like we
have to start making these uncomfortable choices household and get
used to it. That what like it's it's going to
be required of us in this time, in a season
of everybody wants to be comfortable.

Speaker 2 (45:33):
What is she said, and she said.

Speaker 4 (45:34):
But why She's like, mom, but why and then and
then I said, because we have to. And then she
said okay. She didn't really push back. I was like,
all right, So I deleted it all proud of myself.
And it was like your subscription ends like November first,
because you just paid four days ago or some shit.
I was like, okay, well we still have it, but
I'm not going to resubscribe to it.

Speaker 2 (45:55):
I don't know, Like we talked about this before, about.

Speaker 4 (45:58):
Like protesting and like you know, just the impact of
like when then when the DEI stuff happened, and like
seeing the impact has had on target and like if
we did that more and it was a more collective effort,
like the influence we have, not just black people, humans
in general have over capitalism, which is really what runs America.
But because they've groomed us to always need to be

(46:22):
in comfort, it's so inconvenient, you know, and so and
it feels like that what's my thing going to do?
What's one what's one thing going to do? So now
we see what it does, and we continue to see
what it does, and hopefully like things happen in move
because of it, and people I don't know, like I
hope that people don't resubscribe, although like there are you know,

(46:43):
it's it's going to impact people that have nothing to
do with this, you know, like the Avid elementaries like
that were loved, like talking about like people have created
who create creations on these channels, you know, the access,
it's the access it's given communities like ours to like
ribe and with so it's like, but I feel like

(47:04):
things some people have to be casualties.

Speaker 2 (47:07):
Okay, elementary can go anywhere. And that's what I was saying,
and that's what I was saying about Jimmy Kimmel.

Speaker 3 (47:12):
I was like, so are we resubscribing or are we encouraging.

Speaker 2 (47:16):
People like Jimmy? I feel like creators to go create
their people anymore. I don't be very I don't see
these channels anymore.

Speaker 3 (47:25):
When he came with his speech, and I granted he cried,
I'm sure it was very emotional when he's like, what
the fuck I just lost my job overnight and having
an after a job for having you know, twenty years.
But I think that it's a little bit manufactured. I
think now he is going to be.

Speaker 2 (47:38):
His comeback was manufactured. Did you watch it? I just
heard it. Yeah, I saw like a monologue. Yeah, it
was his monologue and he cried and he cried. Yeah,
oh I'm as that. Yeah, and what does he cry about?

Speaker 3 (47:52):
He never meant to make make light of somebody's death.

Speaker 4 (47:57):
Has he ever done that before? I'm just wondering if
he's ever made a light of anyone's set before. And
it wasn't the big I'm pretty sure. And but he
wasn't making light of the guy's death.

Speaker 2 (48:07):
I know it.

Speaker 4 (48:07):
I mean he was talking about the guy's death in
relation to it not being of Trump's priority at all.

Speaker 2 (48:13):
I was really saying that he wasn't really concerned. Yeah,
but I don't know.

Speaker 3 (48:19):
I feel like when you work for those big conglomerates
news news outlets, radio, like it's no secret, you guys,
that everything is orchestrated to you know, control the masses.
It's not like, it's not rocket science. And I think
that you have to always consider that there's a level
of censorship that you know, if I say this was

(48:42):
my fucking job, right, and because they just showed you
last week, so you're going to tread lightly, you know.

Speaker 2 (48:49):
It's like, the reality is.

Speaker 3 (48:50):
We we we've been under the illusion that we live
in a democracy and it hasn't been that in quite
some time.

Speaker 2 (48:56):
And that's what's really scary.

Speaker 3 (48:57):
When you're under the illusion and the masses of people
are delusional enough to believe it and not recognize that
this is orchestrated and controlled.

Speaker 2 (49:06):
And that there's a narrative and.

Speaker 3 (49:09):
It looks like democracy and it's some other ship. It's
some puppeteer shit. It's it's disappointing. But the truth is
it's not.

Speaker 2 (49:18):
It's never been that, So stay woke, stay vigilant. It's true.
So basically had the move to Switzerland, Denmark, Sweden.

Speaker 3 (49:34):
Actually I was on a call with some other intimacy
people and she was moving, Yeah, like Switzerland or something
over there was on the border of some other ship
I was like, Okay, that's random, but I write that down.

Speaker 2 (49:51):
I don't want to live there. I don't think I
meant what did she say? I don't know if I
believe her. I don't want to.

Speaker 3 (50:00):
I mean, maybe lovely, don't control cold. You can finally
wear those first right now? You said you wanted seasons,
not one. I mean, I guess I think there's seasons.

Speaker 2 (50:15):
Yeah, you're right. I don't know.

Speaker 4 (50:16):
I'm just whatever's gonna be is gonna be, you know
what I'm saying. So just fucking enjoy the ride.

Speaker 2 (50:23):
Yeeha, yeehah. Yeah. Is that the affirmation whatever's gonna be
is gonna be?

Speaker 3 (50:31):
Yeahah yeah, bitch yeah, bitch, rock out with your balls out.

Speaker 2 (50:35):
I think we already had. Okay, well, now.

Speaker 3 (50:39):
It's whatever's gonna be is gonna be.

Speaker 2 (50:43):
I'm gonna pick a card. Okay, there's a horror story
stories horrorsh story if you could call it that. Oh gosh,
don't disappoint me.

Speaker 4 (51:01):
Ended a relationship, and shortly after ended up having my
first threesome with two gentlemen who owned a cannabis company
together and were roommates in college. At three am when
they realized there was only one condom left and both
of them wanted to have sex with me. They rock
paper scissors, battled for three rounds. Wait, where's the rest
of the story, right?

Speaker 3 (51:21):
The rock paper scissors for the last condom is epics
and she's telling me in the middle like.

Speaker 4 (51:29):
Wait, I'm around, come on, it was just okay there
it is okay, they okay, let's start this over horrors story,
if you could call it. That ended up ended a

(51:49):
relationship and shortly after ended up having my first threesome
with two gentlemen who owned a cannabis company together and
were roommates in college. At three am, when they realized
there was only one condom left and both of them
wanted to have sex with me, they rock paper sais
are battled for three rounds for who was going to
go to the store?

Speaker 2 (52:08):
Well, not not doing not do it?

Speaker 3 (52:11):
Like bye, niggae, I got it?

Speaker 4 (52:14):
No, because why why would we not want both? Come on,
let's get this together. Someone's about to go get this
condat go to the store.

Speaker 2 (52:20):
I want both.

Speaker 4 (52:22):
It went to sunrise and was equal part sexy and
hilarious because of how attuned to each other and secure
in the dynamic. Also not American, so that helps. It
felt pretty great to experience that after being single for
the first time in almost eleven years.

Speaker 3 (52:37):
That's a really nice way to pop your cheriot eleven
year relationship. Hell yeah too, my motherfucking sex god is Yeah. Yeah,
there's something about having sex with two men that are
both like adorning you that I don't know Ulicia's like
some kind of guy Like I feel like they do
tell you not to do it on purpose, like there
is like a like an intuitiven sure, I'm.

Speaker 2 (53:00):
Like, oh, I'm supposed to do this rising oh the
sex goddess.

Speaker 4 (53:07):
I mean, that's how I thought of that sex party
when I was getting I didn't even have sex.

Speaker 2 (53:11):
They were pleasing me and massaging me, both.

Speaker 3 (53:13):
Of them, and I was just like, what the It's
just like whomen are supposed to be served in that way. Yeah,
it was a level of service that just yeah, I
didn't even know I could ask for had arrive, or
it was even an option, or that they would care
that much. It's really that that you would even care
that much about my pleasure, that you would move work together. Yeah,
you would work together and remove any sort of like

(53:35):
like societal expectation or story you might tell yourself and
just fucking make it about me, because hello, yeah, like
focus on what's important. This is about me. This is
just do what needs to get done. I feel like
that was a divine story, like only you know, people
have like different ideas of God and how God shows
up and like how God looks and like and I

(53:55):
think we oftentimes in religion cut off like relating God
to pleasure and actuality. But like that seems like God
assuring you into your single dim Like here you go, honey,
this is this is a liberation you've been looking for.
You made the right decision, and I'm escorting you out
of your old relationship into a new this way, you know,
like it's like a not a rite of passage, but

(54:16):
like there's something that it feels divinely aligned. And I
know people would have some people have controversy over shit
like that.

Speaker 2 (54:23):
I don't know. I don't get it. I literally don't
underget it. What why Like if it feels good, it's good.
So anyway, that was beautiful. Thank you. It was a
beautiful horror story. That was beautiful. Tarot time, Terot time.

(54:48):
I picked the two of wands and it looks pretty righteous.
He's holding the world. He has two staffs.

Speaker 3 (54:54):
He looks like he's on his hassle, looking down at everyone.
The True of Wanes takes the spark of inspiration from
the A Wands and turns it into a clear action plan.
You went through the discovery phase and now and know
what you want to manifest. Now you need to figure
out how you're exploring your options and carefully plotting out
the path ahead, accounting for all possibilities and potential challenges.

(55:14):
You are open to growth and exploring new territories. So
long as you maintain a level of certainty, then your
efforts will work out in the end. When the Two
of Wands appears in the Tari reading, you are not
ready to make your move. It is important that you
established a clear plan before proceeding. We've got to make
a clear plan if we're going to switcher in or
The Two of Wands is also about discovery, particularly as

(55:36):
you step outside of your comfort zone and explore new
worlds and experiences. It may encourage you to set out,
but this card gives you the confidence of self knowledge.
You know what your goal is and are sure it's
eventual fulfillment. Let your intuition and passion guide you as
you confirm your next steps. I feel like that speaks

(55:57):
to me or us right now.

Speaker 2 (55:59):
I think that.

Speaker 3 (56:02):
We've done good moms for so long, and like doing
things separately seems like uncomfortable and like.

Speaker 2 (56:10):
What alone me?

Speaker 3 (56:12):
I'm a human individual, and so it's like taking the
courage and study out and not like and stepping out
of your comfort zone and exploring new worlds and experiences
and yeah, and the self knowledge, like acknowledging that we've
learned a lot in this process and giving ourselves like
credit and like not being so critical and saying, of

(56:32):
course you could do anything you want and that's good,
and like sitting with that and not being I feel
like we live in a world that I feel like
it makes sometimes expansion like so nerve wracking, like it
has to be perfect, it has to make money like
or else. It's like I don't know, like there's a
perfectionism that comes with.

Speaker 4 (56:53):
Oh yeah, that's definitely perfection, like the timing and the
like yeah, like the.

Speaker 2 (56:57):
Rollout, what's the wrong? I don't know, I know what
are the colors? I don't know what's the fun? FRANKT,
How can I do it. If I don't have a
brand kit, What do you want to do with a
brand kit? You don't have a fun so I want
to make it up. That's an extra fee. That's an
extra fee because I don't know what your colors are.

(57:19):
I can't do it. I don't know. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (57:21):
So yeah, I'm just like in the world of Canvaya.

Speaker 4 (57:25):
I've been thinking a lot about like the reframing of
gifts because like I've just that's that's where I've been lately,
like with me getting back into acting and like me,
you know, I went to New York Fashion Week and
help my friend with with something that I was like.

Speaker 2 (57:38):
I could do this, Like I do this. I am
a producer. I produce shows every.

Speaker 4 (57:43):
Stage behind the cameras, like I've I've done this in
the yeah, like I've done this here, I've done this
in other like other like realms, like with beauty, and
I'm like, what the fuck?

Speaker 2 (57:54):
Yeah, like why am I?

Speaker 4 (57:56):
Why am I like putting these different even like almost
like eras of my life and like I don't do
that anymore. Now I do this and not really weaving
them together and seeing like how they can he make
me multiple streets against streams of income because bitch, like, yeah,
I don't.

Speaker 2 (58:12):
I feel like that's the only way to really survive.
And in the times we're in.

Speaker 4 (58:15):
It's like my friend came over the other last night
and she was telling me that she she's made like
twelve thousand dollars doing this thing, this app called sniff
Sniff Spot what okay?

Speaker 2 (58:28):
Sniff Spot is.

Speaker 4 (58:29):
An app where people who don't have backyards can use
your backyard to play with their dogs in the backyard.

Speaker 3 (58:36):
So play with their dogs.

Speaker 4 (58:37):
Yeah, Like they live in apartments or maybe their dogs
are aggressive, so they can't really go to like the
park and run them around. And they live in an
apartment and they have nowhere, so there's a hole.

Speaker 3 (58:46):
She has like three hundred and fifty reviews. She's like
top tiers. She made how many twelve thousand, how.

Speaker 2 (58:53):
Many dogs are in the backyard. They clean up their
own shit. They clean up their own shit.

Speaker 4 (58:57):
But she's like a top like a cellar because she
has like puppy treats since she has do chikabana like
dog perfume, and she has bagels for the owners and
like they.

Speaker 2 (59:10):
Just be chilling.

Speaker 4 (59:11):
Sometimes they'll have she had a Great Dane party. There
were seven Great Danes. Like people want to have puppy parties.

Speaker 2 (59:17):
I was only in La. I was like, damn do I.
I brought her to my backyard. I'm like, She's like,
it could be like a small puppy oasis. I could
see it.

Speaker 4 (59:27):
I was like, the branding that's happening for small Peppy
and I.

Speaker 2 (59:32):
Was like, I could see it.

Speaker 4 (59:33):
And I was like, she said, she's like a dog lover,
like she she saves dogs like every week from the shelter.

Speaker 2 (59:40):
And I told her. I was like, oh yeah, and
then like my jacuzzie.

Speaker 4 (59:42):
She's like, oh my god. Yeah, the dogs could use
the jaccuzzie. I was like, no, that's not what I met. Like,
the humans could use the jacuzzie.

Speaker 2 (59:49):
What would the.

Speaker 3 (59:49):
Dogs doing the jacuzzie? Bitch, it's too hot. They have
a fur car she has.

Speaker 2 (59:53):
She's a doggy pool for them in her backyard.

Speaker 4 (59:56):
She's top tier sniff spot Anyway, multiple streams of income.

Speaker 2 (01:00:01):
Is what I'm saying is.

Speaker 3 (01:00:01):
I'm not I'm not thinking and I'm not I'm not
thinking out of the box.

Speaker 2 (01:00:04):
You're not, We're not.

Speaker 4 (01:00:06):
Okay, we got to get creative and reframe our gifts.
And that's kind of where I'm at right now in
my life, is like really reframing the gifts because we
have so many, so fucking many that can do so
many different things. And I'm like, okay, and and and
are creative and keep me creative.

Speaker 2 (01:00:21):
So and thinking broader and yeah, So.

Speaker 4 (01:00:25):
This is an invitation for you to reframe your gifts
if you're in a space in your life where you
feel stuck, or you want to shift careers, or you
just you need to like find the inspiration in the
thing that you used to love again, Like just think
about reframing the gift that you have, Like what does
it look like doing like having a different mechanism doing

(01:00:45):
something else, like being expressed in a different way, maybe
in behind the scenes role. Like for me, like I've
done so much in front of the camera over the
last few years that I forgot what it's like to.

Speaker 2 (01:00:55):
Be behind the scenes. And I do enjoy that. Yeah,
you know, it was great. I don't have I didn't
have to.

Speaker 3 (01:01:00):
I was like, no pressure. I mean it's not like
it was great. I really enjoyed it.

Speaker 2 (01:01:06):
So yeah, just being open to switching roles.

Speaker 3 (01:01:09):
So as the season shifts you can just sit on
that and start to imitate on the new avenues of creativity,
the new ways of expression. Yes, yes, well anyway, y'all,
we love you. Thank you for joining us. Make sure
you rate and subscribe to our podcast. Follow us on

(01:01:33):
YouTube and follow the Good Vibe Retreat. We're going to
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Speaker 2 (01:01:40):
Year, and just click the links in the episode description.
Bitch okay, just go through them and look, look, look
at it, look at everything. Subscribe, review. There's a lot
of cool stuff there. There's discounts probably I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:01:53):
Just go look, love you bye bye.

Speaker 1 (01:01:57):
Yeah, so good, can't you sell? I went through a drought,
that's until I found out, Well may my have been
known earth? I used to be broken tail. Now I
got the blues in ins like Beyonce J justa throat
shot or pop in his cow wearing our voices. Patriarchy
kept it in the box to exploit it. Women put
the pee in power, so it's pointless. They want me
to be good, so I make bad choices. Bad mom,

(01:02:19):
not a bad mom, but a bad mom. It he's
in on the cannabis in their bathbon walked in Bosts
cap and I blew his cat ball, hop dog. Now
I'm immune to the cat called Herbie and no waisted
straight to it like a dollar sign. Mother, rent the
lover when too. It in like a water sumner where
you're rent the winter essential will when the summertime.

Speaker 2 (01:02:36):
I do it all.

Speaker 1 (01:02:37):
Ain't know when that needs to running by

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