Good Moms Smoke Weed Feat. The Cannabis Cutie

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Good Mom's Love Flowers. I'm Mela and I'm
Erica join us for a special segment where we roll up,
get high and deep dive into random things we found
on the internet and high thoughts.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
So sit back, roll that blood and let's get high.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and
I'm Mela, and it's.

Speaker 3 (00:47):
It's our favorite time of the year.

Speaker 1 (00:50):
It's a time where we're on hiatus. But this is
a bonus, bitch, this is.

Speaker 2 (00:54):
A bonus episode because we could not not celebrate for
twenty with our tribe.

Speaker 1 (01:00):
It seems just not right.

Speaker 2 (01:02):
I mean, we have our tribe on Patreon, which is
solid legit. It's go popping off over there, and we
want you to come over there. It's time for you
to make the investment ten dollars a month and just
come hang out with us. And during the off season,
because we're putting out a lot of content, a lot
of episodes, a lot of there's a lot.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
Of shit talking going over there.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
There's some weirdos over there, but there's also some great
people over there, and there's just.

Speaker 1 (01:24):
A couple of sprinkle a wardos. This is sprinkle of
weirdos because of recent things, but mostly it's a kosher environment.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
But we couldn't miss four twenty. We are four twenty mamas,
and we know we have some four to twenty moms
in the community. If you're watching this on YouTube, this
is your invitation to roll up right now, get the
weed out and roll up with us on this episode.

Speaker 1 (01:52):
Or grab your bong or your pipe or whatever you're
doing over there, go grab it and come in. Come, come,
come hither.

Speaker 2 (01:59):
And you know, it wouldn't be a four to twenty
episode if we didn't have a four to twenty guest.
And so today I'm really excited because this is a
long time in the making. We've known this amazing woman
for a minute and she is like she's a four
twenty mama, like for real, for.

Speaker 1 (02:17):
Us the mama.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
So I would love to welcome to the pod, Tammy
the cannabis cutie.

Speaker 4 (02:26):
So glad to finally be here, have you?

Speaker 1 (02:30):
Yeah, it feels like you've been here before, but you.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
Haven't, right, We've we've spent time in this in this
building many times for sure.

Speaker 1 (02:38):
Yeah, oh right, because didn't we do We came on
as a guest on my show. Yeah, six and spark.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
Yeah yeah, years ago and just us in the back
with problem, just Id eating and smoking lots of weed.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
Back there, printing pictures taking them to the wall. Yes,
this was our office before it was really our office.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
I know, we had manifested it for real. We like
were like, problem, how do you get it in the building?

Speaker 1 (03:01):
And boom, problem gets isn't all the buildings. He's the best.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
He's next to our love you problem. So today we
have an array of smoking items. So for me as
a as a smoker, my intro into smoking was this
right here.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
I'll show you the early the early two thousands.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
This is the early days of smoking for me.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
This is where we started the O G pipe. This
isn't the exact pipe I smoke. Actually, you know what,
the first thing I ever smoked out of.

Speaker 3 (03:34):
Was an apple.

Speaker 4 (03:35):
I was going to say it probably.

Speaker 3 (03:36):
Was because I was twelve. I was twelve, and we
didn't have access to pipes at that time, so.

Speaker 1 (03:44):
We squished down the middle of the pipe no can.

Speaker 2 (03:48):
Oh yeah, the can is so toxic that we were
smoking out of us poke holes, use poke holes and
then just put the weed right on top. Oh my god,
we should you have a can here do we need
to run it back?

Speaker 4 (03:58):
Well?

Speaker 1 (03:59):
First, have down this and this is also THC for
MG Delta nine C hemp infused beverage. It's like sprite though.

Speaker 4 (04:09):
Okay, okay, what's called lift?

Speaker 1 (04:11):
Lift? I think it's I think it's pronounced list. We
have one in our refrigerators. Okay, they sent us these,
They sent us each a case. So I've been slowly
going through these. Should we try Should we try it down?
We're gonna be so high after this.

Speaker 3 (04:25):
I know we can do. I definitely want to taste
it for sure.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (04:28):
Well yeah, and if you guys haven't checked us out
on YouTube yet, we have some as MR videos up
there right now that are really important. I really need
you to go back and look at the ASMR videos
because I feel like we're gonna we're taking over the space.
And also, I don't know, I don't know about these
other people, but they've never done it like us.

Speaker 1 (04:50):
So before you bitches, two episodes down, you know what,
I realized we're funnier whispering. I think I don't know
what happens when we whisper. Suddenly we get so funny.
I realized I was like something about us whispering. Really,
it really makes us the comedy go up.

Speaker 3 (05:07):
The good moms eat soul food.

Speaker 2 (05:09):
When I was cracking the fuck up the whole time
I was watching it to find a clip. Yeah, I
was like, we are funnier when we talk about eating
ass and salad.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
Quietly, quietly. You sent me the notes and I was like,
this is absolutely ridiculous. What kind of salad you're eating?

Speaker 4 (05:26):
Ass? Oh tass salad?

Speaker 1 (05:30):
Yeah, I told you we're funnier.

Speaker 2 (05:33):
Yeah. One the way back to my first smoking modality,
it wasn't apple, but then we graduated when some friend
along the way must have gathered I stole a pipe
from their parents maybe like or from the store because
we were thieves.

Speaker 3 (05:47):
Then also we were learning how to thief.

Speaker 2 (05:51):
But yeah, I smoked. This was my first smoking mechanism.
And then if you're from the valley, where are you from?

Speaker 4 (05:56):
I'm from everywhere, Oklahoma, California, Michigan.

Speaker 3 (06:00):
Yeah, well valley people, valley girls know this. This was
the next iteration.

Speaker 1 (06:09):
Was when you got like sixteen, Yeah, and like your
white friends were allowed to have in their room.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
Yeah, we're in their room or in the car we're
doing I was doing a lot of bong hits in
the car, which is crazy.

Speaker 3 (06:18):
We're spilling bong.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
I don't remember about doing him in the car. That
was a little different level of white than I was at.

Speaker 2 (06:23):
Oh yeah, I was doing bomb rips in the car.
And then I will never forget. There was this guy,
oh my god, Mike from high school. His parents owned
the apartment building, and so they gave Mike his own apartment,
Oh my god, And as a teenager kid, his own
apartment in the apartment building.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
And his parents also lived in the building.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
Parents also live in the building, but like not close,
like on the other side of the building.

Speaker 1 (06:43):
So we were all parents, Are that shit, mom, I
need my own apartment.

Speaker 4 (06:47):
That's crazy.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
Yeah, I would say white people shit. But he was
not white. He was black, Middle East.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
Same thing.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
I got the same white privileges as the white parents.
I don't know. That's a little tricky in the in
this scope of the world, I wouldn't say it's the same.

Speaker 3 (07:03):
Same I would say. I would not say that.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
I would say my Middle Eastern friends walked all over
with their parents.

Speaker 2 (07:08):
Okay, I'm just saying the struggles of the Middle East anyway,
We're not going there.

Speaker 1 (07:13):
I'm just talking about the Valley parental advisory.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
That's all time, you know, I'm deep free Palestine. Anyway,
Mike had his own apartment and he took it up
a whole notch because we were all ditching school and
going to Mike's during the day and sometimes on the
weekends at night.

Speaker 1 (07:33):
Knowing his parents were there.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
They were there, but they were not there. He had
some sort of what the fuck was it called? It
might have been a gravity bong, but it was like
some other shit it was. He had a pipe that
was like or a bong that was like standing like
it was tall, like as tall as me.

Speaker 3 (07:49):
The six foot the six foot I'm like, where the.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
Fuck did you get this? At sixteen? Like where did
you buy purchase this? I think he made it? What Yeah,
I think he made it. So this is just some
valley ship. So this is this was the next iteration.

Speaker 1 (08:03):
You're gonna have to be saved that for the end
or else we're not gonna have to much talking. Yes, here,
I tried the drink.

Speaker 5 (08:11):
Let me try it. That's a breeview of my.

Speaker 3 (08:23):
Hmmm. I like that it's good. Yeah, you would you
like to try it?

Speaker 4 (08:29):
I'm gonna pass she's like, She's like, it looks good though.

Speaker 3 (08:37):
But that then my next phase was blunts.

Speaker 2 (08:41):
It was actually mine, is what we're gonna say. Were
these actually Swish Swishers? Yeah, peach optimos. Do you remember
peach Optimo?

Speaker 1 (08:51):
I remember the white owls, but I remember peach Optimos
being like a huge thing in high school, like the
peach Optimo. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
Then I then I started smoking papers. And then because
I had traversed all of the terrains of smoking, it
was just like whatever was available, it was gonna get smoked.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
I think I settled on blunts because it was all
that I knew how to roll really well. It was
very easy to roll. So it was just like it
was the peach Optimised, it was Swishers, and then it
was Dutch Masters Vanilla. I really liked those for a
minute because they burned slow.

Speaker 4 (09:25):
I like their natural Dutch Masters. Those were fun.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
Those were good. I don't know where, like do they
still make them?

Speaker 4 (09:30):
Yeah for sure.

Speaker 1 (09:31):
And now as a grown queen smoker, I have graduated
to backwoods, of course, as you guys know, because we're
backwoods bitches. And most recently I've been really liking the.

Speaker 2 (09:43):
Bold because we're bold bitches.

Speaker 1 (09:44):
We're bold backwards bitches. And of course we like it
with the honey because then they burnt even slower. And
that's my happy place right now. So I went then
Tammy likes the hemp rolls.

Speaker 4 (09:59):
I like hemp blood. So they're very reminiscent of swishers,
which is how I started smoking grape swishers.

Speaker 1 (10:04):
O the grape, That's what it was. You couldn't do
it if it wasn't the great It had to be grape.

Speaker 4 (10:09):
And so the hemp blunts are very reminiscent. But tobacco
is not my friend anymore. I kind of wheeze and
just don't feel good. So hemp it is. Is that
why I'm wazing?

Speaker 2 (10:22):
Well, while we discussed this, I would really love if
one of you bitches would roll a bloot. Okay, please,
I feel like we're late. We should be smoking already.

Speaker 1 (10:30):
Can use a non violent communication tantrist speech to me.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
I would really love if one of you beautiful bitches
would roll me a blunt because I care for you.
Goddess is so much and I just want a goddess's touch,
please please, sure, honey on the medicine, I'm about to
ject no problem.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
I would love to roll you a blunt, a backwoods
bold blunt, and I'll roll a Hemp blunt.

Speaker 4 (11:00):
But I need a like if I rolled up on
your book, would that be appropriate?

Speaker 3 (11:03):
I think it's very appropriate. I think okay.

Speaker 1 (11:05):
So because it's four twenty, how have you mentioned that? Yes,
you can roll upon our book. But also it's four twenty,
which means about I don't know, two weeks from Mother's Day,
which means if you have not purchased A Good Mom's
Guide to Making Bad Choices for one of your mom
friends one, if you're expecting friends, if you're going to
a baby shower, it's Mother's Day, don't know what to

(11:27):
give your mom friend? It's this, Give her a Good
Mom's Guide to Making Bad Choices, because this is the
book that you need as a mom and as a parent.
If your dad, you might need this from perspective too.
But it's that time of year. We're coming up on
our one year anniversary of publishing our first book, which
will go down in history as the staple, the bible

(11:49):
for moms. So if you haven't gotten it for your
mom friend, now's the time.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
Well, and also I want to take it a step further,
because if you're like, Okay, I don't want to just
get her a book, I got to get her something else.
Get her this, then get her one of our merch
Good Moms Love flowers, because this is obviously a Mother's
Day purchase that you need. And when you purchase this,
you will also get a box of our beautiful pink
matches and maybe something else in there. So I can't

(12:16):
promise you it's going to be wed, but something else
will be in there, and then.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
You and your homegirl can accidentally be twinned, just like
me and Erica.

Speaker 2 (12:25):
So then just click the link in this I don't know,
I'm on YouTube. In that corner you see that shit
that pops up, there's things popping up there. I should
click them, and then it makes it a lot easier.
Or if you're listening to this, click the link in
this episode description, or just go to Good Momsbad Choices
dot com and figure it out. Anyway, long story short,
yes you may roll cannabis on my face.

Speaker 4 (12:47):
It's an amazing book.

Speaker 3 (12:48):
Thank you, thank you.

Speaker 4 (12:49):
I read it and I didn't even finish it, and
I was in Amazon ordering it for friends and shipping
it to them oh, thank you. It was so good.
It was so good, thank you.

Speaker 1 (12:58):
I went by the Barnes and Noble up the street
recently to make sure that they didn't run out and
forget to reorder it because I'm the mom of the
books and they keep over. They re ordered more. I
had to sign more because he said it's a big hit. Basically, Yeah,
he knew exactly what I was talking about when I
said it perfect right now's the common Yeah.

Speaker 3 (13:18):
I saw our book was also in Midtown, New York City,
so I went to the Barnes and Nobles there and
I checked and I signed some books there, and I said,
we've made it.

Speaker 2 (13:25):
We're in the big Apple and the big Barbles.

Speaker 1 (13:28):
I'll be honest, I have a confession. I am like
much prouder of being an author than I am a podcaster.
With the current state of the world, the current state
of podcasting, I'm kind of I'm kind of embarrassed.

Speaker 2 (13:40):
I told Jamila the Estra like podcasting is getting real ghetto.
It might have been better when it was just the
white people. When we first started, it was a white
person's space, And I don't know, it's gotten real real
ghetto out here.

Speaker 4 (13:54):
Everybody needs to be a pot. That's the issue.

Speaker 2 (13:58):
Yeah, let's just readave it to the pros, leave it
to the ogs.

Speaker 1 (14:03):
Some of the ogs aren't great either. I'm not gonna lie. Yeah,
let's be honest, but uh, le'll just leave it to
the intelligent people.

Speaker 2 (14:12):
Truly, let's leave it to the high vibrational people, right,
because there's a lot of low vibrational conversations happening and
creating these very low vibrational communities of weirdos that have
like way too much time on their hands and don't
like women.

Speaker 3 (14:27):
And you should probably just suck a dick.

Speaker 4 (14:29):
Yeah, those men podcasts are truly.

Speaker 3 (14:31):
You should just go suck that guy's dick.

Speaker 1 (14:33):
You really should just suck a dick.

Speaker 4 (14:35):
Really, because you don't like women. You don't, you don't, don't.

Speaker 2 (14:38):
You actually detest us? And you know, we talked about
this or Shanisha from Black Mom's blog. We had an
episode come out with her on Patreon a few weeks ago,
and she did she said that there that she's realized
that a lot of men, they like women's bodies, they
like the way we present in ways, but they don't
actually don't like us at all.

Speaker 1 (15:00):
They like men.

Speaker 4 (15:01):
They like men. Yeah, yeah, there's loyal to their homeboys.
They'll do anything, even.

Speaker 1 (15:06):
Not their homeboys, even people they don't know that they
just follow on the internet.

Speaker 4 (15:09):
Yeah truly, But no, I've said that for a while.
Men are really actually gay.

Speaker 1 (15:14):
And not even in a disrespectful way. It's just like
you do, like penis, you do, you do, And if
you haven't discovered it yet because you just haven't taken
the time to put one in your mouth. Yeah, And
I encourage you right now if you're listening and you're
one of those men who you know, now that you
think about it, now that you hear us talking and
you say, you know, you guys look kind of cute

(15:34):
and you're those warm, wet holes. Those are kind of nice.
But I sure do salivate every time one of these
niggas gets on a microphone and talks down about women.
If it really gets you going, if your this kind
of starts to tingle every time you hear a particular
nigga get on a microphone, you just go. I wholeheartedly agree.

Speaker 4 (15:58):
I wholeheartedly agree at these podcasts, Like literally, I'll go
from here to here in a heartbeat. As soon as
a guy that shows any interest. I'll listen to what
he's saying on his podcast and it's a rap. It's yeah,
you're definitely in the closet and you just don't know it.

Speaker 3 (16:15):
Yeah, it's a strange, strange world.

Speaker 1 (16:19):
I mean, we're in a world where you could come out,
so it's just like no reason you'll.

Speaker 2 (16:22):
Be accepted, I think for the whole community waiting to
embrace you.

Speaker 4 (16:25):
For men, it's still really really hard because they associate
straightness with masculinity and they feel like, you know, if
you like dick or take dick or touch another dick
that's not yours, you're automatically gay, so which is not true.
You could be by.

Speaker 3 (16:44):
Yeah, but for men, you can't be by true.

Speaker 4 (16:46):
They don't they don't believe that that exists.

Speaker 3 (16:48):
Yeah, there's no buying. There's no buying in the buying.

Speaker 4 (16:50):
Honestly, we would probably have less violence if they would
just start admitting their feelings for one another.

Speaker 1 (16:58):
Oh world with the straight passing men would just accept
that they actually just don't like women in our gay
it would be great.

Speaker 4 (17:06):
Yeah, stop competing with me, you can have them.

Speaker 2 (17:11):
I'm going to go ahead and pack this bowl because
we're taking too Because they're taking too long.

Speaker 3 (17:16):
Where's the doing?

Speaker 1 (17:17):
We should have did a rolling contest?

Speaker 3 (17:19):
Is there a lighter?

Speaker 1 (17:20):
We have matches, baby, we.

Speaker 2 (17:21):
Can still do a rolling contest. Oh, we can do
a speed rolling Who can roll the blood the fastest?

Speaker 3 (17:27):
You know?

Speaker 1 (17:27):
I take so much TLC with my backwards bold that
I'm gonna have to race on something else because this
one really takes a lot of delicacy.

Speaker 4 (17:35):
I am rolled and ready, Thank you darling.

Speaker 3 (17:41):
This one is for my teenage self.

Speaker 1 (17:46):
This is a form of like childhood trauma work.

Speaker 2 (17:49):
Do we have any pipe smokers listening? This is for you, baby.

Speaker 1 (17:52):
This is how you explore your childhood with weed.

Speaker 2 (17:54):
Maybe I could do pipe smoking and let's see you
know that that's the lighter?

Speaker 5 (17:59):
Ready?

Speaker 3 (18:15):
Oh yeah, I like that. I can't wait to hit
the bong and oh my god, it's going to beat.
Oh we need to do we need to.

Speaker 2 (18:23):
Do an ASMR bong edition or maybe just all different smoking.

Speaker 1 (18:28):
It smells like the hair shop.

Speaker 4 (18:31):
That maybe there was a hair in there. Can I
see the lighter?

Speaker 1 (18:38):
Do you smell it?

Speaker 4 (18:39):
I kind of smell it.

Speaker 3 (18:42):
You know?

Speaker 2 (18:42):
This is something smooth, It's very smooth and clean. This
isn't my favorite pipe. I couldn't find it. My favorite
pipe is lost in my house somewhere. But this one's
a cutie. Actually, I think my mom bought me this pipe.

Speaker 1 (18:54):
Thanks you, mom.

Speaker 4 (18:55):
Yeah, that's amazing.

Speaker 3 (18:56):
Yeah, well it took a long time for us to
get there.

Speaker 4 (18:58):
Do you guys smoke together every now and then?

Speaker 2 (19:00):
Okay, she's not a big smoker, but okay, she like
before she goes to get a massage, she'd be like.

Speaker 4 (19:05):
Let's smoke like two hits, not two hits.

Speaker 2 (19:09):
That was the first time we ever smoked. It was
my was it my twenty first birthday? She got me
a massage and I came to her house and we
got in the car and she's like, Erica, you're twenty
one and we're gonna get a massage. That like, maybe
we could smoke a joint together. It's like, what give

(19:31):
me times? I was grounded for this?

Speaker 1 (19:33):
Wow?

Speaker 2 (19:35):
So yeah, that was that was our entry into smoking.
So wait, what is this? This is a hemp blunt?
So was a hemp blunt? What flavor is our flavor?

Speaker 4 (19:43):
It is mango milli mango milli millimengo.

Speaker 1 (19:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (19:47):
So the benefit of smoking with the hemp wrap is
that you're consuming one cannabis and not paper or tobacco.
Those are things that you mind, which I was asthmatics
out there. Yeah, the paper and like the tobacco can
be a little irritating.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
The paper can irritate too.

Speaker 4 (20:06):
Heck yeah, yeahs a temp paper. Yeah. And also I
just am not the biggest fan of the taste of
burnt paper. Like That's why hitting a bong or a
pipe is so nice because you get just like that
pure flavor.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
And then.

Speaker 4 (20:24):
Yeah, with hemp, it's still you know, it still can
be a little gross for some people. I know some
people that say it's like really harsh, But I love it.

Speaker 2 (20:31):
I like variety.

Speaker 3 (20:33):
I like the cleanness.

Speaker 2 (20:35):
I do like some tobaccos sometimes, and with papers, I
like regular papers on this Jamila.

Speaker 4 (20:42):
And yeah, like what I've never seen walk her through
what you're doing.

Speaker 1 (20:46):
Yeah, I just put my little light honey coating on
my blunt.

Speaker 4 (20:53):
Okay, and it makes it burn slower.

Speaker 1 (20:57):
It burns slower, and with backwards it makes it a
little bit eas.

Speaker 4 (21:01):
Seal seal. Yeah, it's looking.

Speaker 3 (21:06):
So when was the first time you smoked weed?

Speaker 1 (21:08):
Ooh?

Speaker 4 (21:09):
For me, my first time was my second semester of college.
So there was a kid on my.

Speaker 2 (21:13):
Floor, the late life Bloomer, Late in life bloomer.

Speaker 4 (21:15):
I literally was such a squad.

Speaker 3 (21:19):
No, I started smoking when you were of age of age.

Speaker 4 (21:22):
I listened to the DARE program, and then I also
have I had older siblings as well, so there was
a lot of things that I listened to them. They said,
don't do it. I didn't do it. The kids at school,
in my head were like, oh, they're bad because of
the weed. But I got to college and there's a
kid on my floor who literally smell smelled like a pound.

(21:45):
Every other day. We used to talk about him, we
would judge him. He'd always walk in like eyes low, smiling,
just blue. He did not give a fuck at all.
Grades come out at Christmas break and he's like, yeah,
I made the honor roll and my ass is on

(22:06):
academic probation.

Speaker 3 (22:07):
I didn't.

Speaker 4 (22:07):
I didn't even get a one point oh less than that.

Speaker 2 (22:10):
Really, you were too talking shit, Tammy, Truly, you're too
judging the stone, truly judging, not taking care.

Speaker 1 (22:17):
Of I've never I've never heard a story like this.

Speaker 4 (22:22):
Unfortunately, Like I.

Speaker 1 (22:24):
Like, I'm on probation and I'm not doing shit. Fuck it.
I'm man with him. I'm gonna go with that guy.

Speaker 4 (22:28):
That letter came in the mail. My mom usually she's like.

Speaker 3 (22:31):
The opposite of a DARE campaign, truly.

Speaker 4 (22:33):
That's why I was like, oh, the DARE program lied
because I was supposed to be on honor roll. He
was supposed to be in a ditch somewhere. So when
I came back for second semester, I was like, all right,
I'll try it. Because he had been trying all semester
to get me to do it. It's like, I'll do it.
And that was pretty much a wrap. From there. We
smoked in a bowl in his three fifty Z driving
around our college town. I didn't get high, and then

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the second time I did, and then from there that
was the end of it, you know, the whole thing.
And he laughs now because it's like, look at all
this ship that you're doing.

Speaker 3 (23:03):
So I love that.

Speaker 1 (23:06):
Yeah, now him turning you out, Now you're the cannabis cutie.
Exactly did you get a did you get have a
propriate academic proprit?

Speaker 4 (23:14):
Four times after that? Yeah, this is this is a.

Speaker 2 (23:17):
Success story, success cannabis story.

Speaker 1 (23:20):
Yeah, for the moms, who's who's college students child just
started smoking. You never know ut or.

Speaker 4 (23:26):
If they don't smoke, maybe maybe they should.

Speaker 1 (23:30):
Maybe they should.

Speaker 2 (23:34):
Oh my god, I'm already too Sorry guys, I know,
let me just drink some weight.

Speaker 3 (23:39):
Maybe you don't cough directly into the mic.

Speaker 1 (23:42):
It's like everywhere. What did you say? You're the type
of person who smokes and then gets really focused and
can get a lot of shit done.

Speaker 4 (23:51):
It depends. So I've learned now that I'm here much older,
that how you make the plant do what you wanted
to do is through setting your ENTI so if I
set my intention and I say I really want to
write or I really want to create something, or I
want to knock out these emails, I have to have
like a little moment with the plant so that we
can do that together. Because she is a feminine spirit

(24:14):
and she wants to help you, and she feels so good.
But if you don't tell her what to do or
how to do it, she's just gonna go in and
expand what's already there. And if that's you thinking about
that job that you hate, or that relationship does driving
you crazy, or anything, that's gonna be kind of what
you're ending up feeling so yeah, I can consume with focus.

(24:34):
But again that intentionality is like the most important part.

Speaker 1 (24:38):
Well, speaking of that, maybe we should put some intentionality
over the weeds.

Speaker 3 (24:41):
Okay, let's put something. Yeah, let's put it over this
backward blunt.

Speaker 2 (24:46):
Because a bitch is already high and I'm going to
need intentionally be able to focus for the rest of
this episode. Right, here's going, mother plant goddess Queen. We
put all the intention into you, into us feeling at ease, us,
feeling joyful, us, feeling lifted, us, feeling like the intelligent, beautiful,

(25:11):
powerful women that we are, who know your power, who
respect your glory, and.

Speaker 4 (25:18):
Thank you, thank you for what you do, Ushasha, right,
just like blessing your food before you eat it.

Speaker 2 (25:25):
Yeah, the intention It's funny you say that because I
recently started raking my weed. Oh yeah, yeah exactly, And
because I do reiki and I was like, I need
to start raking my food. I need to start raking
my water. Listen, I live in America. Maybe if I
raky this bitch, it'll be like ten percent better than
what I'm actually eating. No, but actually too, breaking the

(25:50):
weed because you know, like the weed passes through people's
hands too. You know, it's passing through other energies that
you might not even be consenting to. And like if
you really think about just the power of just consent manifestation. Yes,
like the agreements we make. It's so important for us
to be all in agreement of what we're ingesting into

(26:11):
our bodies, you know. And I feel like the intentionality
is a big part of that absolutely, And yeah, bless
your weed.

Speaker 4 (26:20):
And when people say they get anxious, why do I
get so anxious? Well, you know, did you just mindlessly
spark up because it was there and you were thinking
about something that was already making you anxious, or maybe
the grower was anxious, or.

Speaker 1 (26:32):
You've just consumed some energy but you haven't put an
attention towards it. So it's just there, right, you don't
know what to do with it right exactly.

Speaker 4 (26:38):
And like we know how much food tastes better whenever
you know the person that's cooking it is doing it
with love. Like when my daughter she was making something
and she was just like stern, Like I was like,
I do not want that angry food. I don't want energy.

Speaker 1 (26:54):
I don't know what wrong with you, but I'm good. Yeah,
I pass that's funny.

Speaker 4 (26:59):
Yeah, your daughter to a twelve thirteen?

Speaker 1 (27:01):
Thirteen? How does she feel about you being the cannabis cutie?

Speaker 6 (27:05):
Like?

Speaker 1 (27:05):
What is her? Because I know like Lena is super
annoyed with like my weed smoking, like you just want
to say, like she's not with the shits okay, but
what did like? How does she feel? Ooh?

Speaker 4 (27:16):
My daughter is proud of me, brags about me. She
wants to take me to school to show off to
her friends, and she recently asked if she could smoke
with me. So that was not at all. I was
not ready. I've always like I'm on my platform. I've
always talked about you know, my kids are ready, we'll
do it. But thirteen is not like what you had

(27:37):
like that. Yeah, yeah, I'm not ready. So but she
you know, I educated my kids young so they understand
what this plant can do and it's benefits. And then
they've also been to the cookouts where we're only smoking
and the cookouts where people are drinking, and they see
the outcomes and they're not really big bands of the
alcohol parties, but you know, the smoker parties they see

(27:57):
were just chilling, eating, laughing, unproblematic.

Speaker 2 (28:03):
Yeah I'm not ready for that either.

Speaker 1 (28:08):
Yeah, I'm just hoping it never comes.

Speaker 2 (28:10):
I mean, I think, okay, I'm ready for it. I'm
ready for anything when it comes to parenting. I'm I'm ready.
I've agreed to the journey. I'm excited. I don't know
what I'm going to do necessarily. I mean, I think
we'll have a conversation. Obviously, I know we'll have a conversation,
we'll work it out.

Speaker 3 (28:26):
But I feel like.

Speaker 2 (28:29):
I'm just grateful though, to have if your daughter feels
comfortable enough to even come to you in that way.
Like it's also just the awareness of knowing that you're
also agreeing to knowing that if she doesn't partake with you,
she's at least telling you that she's.

Speaker 3 (28:47):
Considering doing this.

Speaker 2 (28:48):
And at the end of the day, our kids are
already doing whatever the fuck they want anyway, Yeah, do
you know what I mean? And I know that doesn't
that's not a perfect answer, that's not a perfect solution,
that doesn't make people feel comfortable, but it's true, right,
And I would rather I would rather her come to
me and and me say you know what, no, knowing

(29:09):
that there is still a chance that she might go
do what am I going to do locker up right,
you know, but like.

Speaker 4 (29:14):
That's it ain't no too, because it's like, all right,
she's gonna do it, but I don't want her to
do it without me. I don't want her smoking bad
weed like I have an orange weed sensitivity. I can't
do citrusy strains. What if she does and she doesn't
know it if she freaks out? Like so, there's a
lot that I'm thinking about. I just know that she's
not ready.

Speaker 1 (29:32):
How do I have both of these?

Speaker 4 (29:35):
I just know that she's not ready for that, that
big of it because it changes your mental state, right,
So at that age of thirteen, when you're feeling so
much like I don't want her to get used to Oh,
I can just do this and numb myself. So where
she's not there yet. Mentally, I would say maybe fifteen
we can revisit it. But I hope to God that

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she doesn't. Because they're smoking at school. It's the valley,
like they're in the back rooms. They got the bait pen.

Speaker 3 (30:02):
Let me tell you it's a valley kid. They're smoking.

Speaker 4 (30:05):
We went from OC to the valley, and it's night
and day, night and day.

Speaker 1 (30:10):
Where is it worse?

Speaker 4 (30:13):
I will say OC kids in elementary school, Angels Saints
Middle School, it's up. But then we started middle school here,
so I don't know, it's it was a shock. I
know that it's crazy in Orange County. All middle schoolers
everywhere are nightmares and experimenting. But what I saw here
in uh the Valley, I was just like, damn, I

(30:35):
have to have these conversations in sixth grade, like when
my daughter is like, what's a blowjob?

Speaker 2 (30:40):
What are back shots?

Speaker 4 (30:43):
Yeah? And my friend was at the house he was like,
backshots is when you go to the doctor and they
give you a shot. I was like, no, you gotta
be honest. But I was mortified, like why is she
asking me what backshots are?

Speaker 1 (30:59):
Where are you?

Speaker 4 (31:00):
I was talking about backshots in sixth grade? Y'all just
gotta have elementary Yeah.

Speaker 1 (31:06):
Yeah, I think we just have to just like dive in, Like,
let me tell.

Speaker 2 (31:11):
You, life is not going to unfold, and parenthood and
motherhood is not does never unfold how you think it's going.
So you don't get to decide when your kid brings
some ship or when shit has to be faced. And
that's the whole that's what motherhood and parenthood is all
about is kind of just surrender, surrendering to that, you know,
and yeah, because like, I don't think there's ever a

(31:31):
time in which I'm going to be prepared for my
daughter to ask me about backshot.

Speaker 4 (31:36):
I mean, I was so grateful, but I will people over.
But you have to know what you Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 2 (31:42):
But you have to decide as a parent how honest
you're going to be in that moment too. And that's
the blowjob is mortifying. It was when you put your
mouth on a penis.

Speaker 4 (31:50):
I hated having to explain that it's not fair and
then suck it.

Speaker 1 (31:53):
Like what, well, she asked, why did why?

Speaker 4 (31:55):
Why would anybody do that?

Speaker 3 (31:58):
It's about pleasure.

Speaker 4 (32:00):
I didn't do all that. Yeah, why would anybody do that?
I don't know, I don't know. That's all I could say.
I was just like, taken aback. It hits you in
the stomach, it's hits you in the stuff. You're not
ready for it. You still see them as your little
innocent girls. Yeah, and it's like who is corrupting you?

Speaker 1 (32:20):
Then it's like why why do you wanna know?

Speaker 4 (32:23):
I mean, you remember middle school, that's when we learned everything.

Speaker 1 (32:27):
But I feel like I don't know if they're worse
than this. In seventh grade, I wanted to get finger banged.

Speaker 4 (32:32):
I feel like they're just as bad the stuff my daughter.
I mean, I get all the gossips, so I know
everybody's business, and they are doing a lot of things.

Speaker 1 (32:41):
I mean, well, at least she tells you, because if
she's willing to tell you other people's business, she's trying
to gauge how you react.

Speaker 4 (32:47):
Yeah, which you know, godspeed to all these kids, because
if it was mine, she would have been ripped out
of that school in a heartbeat. Like things that are
going around on.

Speaker 1 (32:57):
Videos and a.

Speaker 4 (33:02):
Thank god you just heard about what people.

Speaker 2 (33:05):
That's why you have to be even more honest with
your kids, Like you will get recorded out here, you
will get exposed, and I can't protect you when that happened.
All I mean, I've always protect you, but like that
is some other ship that I don't even have.

Speaker 3 (33:18):
I don't know what to say to that.

Speaker 4 (33:19):
Yeah, we've already had that conversation of like, do not
send any of these little boys or little girls I
don't know, no pictures, Like no, don't do it.

Speaker 3 (33:28):
It will literally you barely should do that. As an adult.

Speaker 1 (33:32):
Yeah, I told her.

Speaker 4 (33:33):
I was like, I never do it.

Speaker 3 (33:35):
It's actually even risky as an adult doing that.

Speaker 1 (33:37):
Ship.

Speaker 2 (33:37):
We actually probably need to tell ourselves that don't don't
send any of these little boys.

Speaker 4 (33:42):
These little boys don't even take them because you just
never know how people are going to take advantage of you.
And it's like if it doesn't exist, like you can't
get me. But you remember everybody's eye cloud leaks. We
saw everybody's photos like that's crazy. They weren't even sending them.

Speaker 1 (33:59):
So Beyonce, Beyonce's iclod did not.

Speaker 3 (34:03):
Right people.

Speaker 1 (34:07):
Certain people. She probably doesn't take any either. I mean,
z probably has like a secret stash.

Speaker 4 (34:13):
I mean, or they're just not doing it on an iPhone.

Speaker 2 (34:17):
I really hope that Beyonce can do that. I hope
that her life isn't so that she can't send her
man sexy photos.

Speaker 3 (34:24):
That would be crazy. Pro don't even have a phone.
Think she has a phone.

Speaker 4 (34:28):
I'm sure she.

Speaker 1 (34:28):
Has to see what the world's doing. What else would
she be doing.

Speaker 4 (34:31):
There's definitely ways that they can share these things, not
needing to go through a phone.

Speaker 2 (34:36):
I don't know, Like one of my kinks is like
getting recorded like I enjoy.

Speaker 1 (34:41):
They probably have a vhs M.

Speaker 2 (34:44):
There's yeah, like not everything, even those can get taken.
You know what happened to Tommy Lee and Pamela. No
one's safe.

Speaker 1 (34:54):
They transferred it to DVD.

Speaker 2 (34:57):
Has to live in your mind, right and then it's like.

Speaker 1 (34:59):
Your staff, everybody exactly. God, just make me about a
seedless celebrity. I don't cool, you know, just being good gee.
I don't need to be all up in the abs.

Speaker 2 (35:12):
Yeah, mm hmmm, that's funny. I'm hi, you guys, not me.
Thinking of all the videos. I haven't random.

Speaker 4 (35:21):
People honestly, because they say women are emotional, but I
dky like we're emotional, but we don't get emotional and
then go kill like we calmed down right now.

Speaker 1 (35:31):
Some pictures kill, yeah.

Speaker 4 (35:33):
Some, but majority of them are non female. So imagine
what a man will do with your pictures when he's met.

Speaker 2 (35:42):
I think you know what I stand behind any pictures
I took because they looked good.

Speaker 3 (35:47):
Yeah, that's why they got sent.

Speaker 1 (35:49):
Can we talk? Can we can we broke her the deal?
I just don't fucking do it.

Speaker 3 (35:53):
But I'm just saying you're welcome.

Speaker 4 (35:55):
I mean, I've been around men who have shared videos
and pictures from girls I've seen it, like all pull
out their phones and be like, oh yeah, she sent
me this the other day and it's like so yeah,
Like so that really hit me. When I was younger
and I saw that, I was like, I'm good.

Speaker 1 (36:10):
My baby. Daddy once shared a video of me giving
him head to one of his homeboys, and his homeboy
casually mentioned it to me what audacity like in a
flirtatious way.

Speaker 4 (36:22):
Whoa?

Speaker 1 (36:24):
And I was like, you fucking idiot?

Speaker 3 (36:26):
Did you?

Speaker 1 (36:27):
I was like, you fucking idiot? Like what the like?
Maybe like was that giving him mad? I think maybe
we were having sex, like riding his dick. And I
was like, you're dumb because now this niggas in my face.
You talk about bitches like Nigga said about bitches being
sneaky all the time, but niggas are equally as curious
and equally as caddy. Oh yeah, equally as sneaky.

Speaker 4 (36:45):
The messiest person we all know is probably a man.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
Probably yeah true, but yeah, like like you think you're bragging,
but no, you're advertising.

Speaker 3 (36:57):
You're right, if.

Speaker 1 (36:59):
Only if all your friends were worse.

Speaker 2 (37:02):
The fucking ship that goes both ways, though, you're advertising
as a woman if you're showing your friend his dick,
you know what I mean? Like women will do the
same ship you wouldn't, but women will.

Speaker 4 (37:13):
I'm not telling my homegirl nothing. I don't like it.
How about that horrible?

Speaker 1 (37:20):
Actually, I'm still trying to figure out if.

Speaker 3 (37:22):
Girl that dig is not even that good.

Speaker 7 (37:24):
He just treat me good.

Speaker 2 (37:25):
He just treat me good, not horrible, trash, boring.

Speaker 1 (37:31):
Little so I'm fulfilled.

Speaker 2 (37:34):
Hate it.

Speaker 8 (37:35):
No, I've definitely had homegirls, you know, really, yeah with ans,
home girls like bridesmaid ex husband, No, you're married.

Speaker 1 (37:45):
Yeah, I was married, and your your husband, your bridesmaids.

Speaker 4 (37:49):
I don't know if they ever had sex, but she
was getting flew out and she gotta die, definitely exactly,
so you know, that's when I learned my lessons. It
was during the divorce. We weren't even officially Oh you
you don't flying your brides She didn't make it to
the wedding, she was in it. I was her maid

(38:10):
of honor in her wedding, and I was she was
a bridesmaid in mind. She couldn't make it to my
destination wedding. And then during the divorce, I'm like scrolling
Instagram and I see her like on his bike as
out like booty shorts, his helmet in front of my
house and my friends. Everybody's blowing me up, everybody is
sending it to me. Everybody's talking shit like angry.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
And I was like, wow, WHOA do you feel like
you have trust issues with women and with friendships?

Speaker 4 (38:39):
Now I think I can pick out a hater like
so there were there were red flacks. My friends and
family never liked her, so when it happened, it wasn't
really a shock. But for me, now, no, I don't.
I love women. I love women so much. But you also,

(39:00):
you know, I can see a hater, and once you
become a hater, because sometimes it happens in motion, we're
no longer friends. Like you're either going to stand in
the light and love that light on you as well,
or you're going to hate the shadow that it casts,
and either way that's none of my business. So that
for once I see, once I see that you got
a hater in you, and you got some you know,
saboteur in you.

Speaker 2 (39:21):
I like that's French, Yeah, yeah you're sabatur and yeah
I don't know about her.

Speaker 1 (39:28):
I I think that's that's a good perspective because a
lot of women will let that sour, you know, the
tank for forever. You know, Like I don't funk with pictures,
and I see women say thinking that it makes like
in a positive way, like you don't really funk with
women like that. You know, it's just like.

Speaker 2 (39:45):
It isn't They're looking for validation, looking for somebody be like, yeah,
me too, And.

Speaker 4 (39:49):
Really, honestly, our problems with one another is men. You
take the men out of the equation and we're powerhouses together, right,
And I see women as that, whether or not they
see it in themselves. I'm always gonna look at a
woman and you know, if she makes me feel insecure,
like I have an insecure feeling coming up, I am
going to compliment her because you touched me in a
way that I need to look at now. You know,

(40:11):
it wasn't you. It's something about you that I'm feeling
inside of me or if I see myself in you,
like and I hate that women are so you know,
I'm gonna go get your men now because you make
me feel infuri that's that's weak shit. And those are
the women I don't deal with. But it's not a
flex to say you don't mess with women, like we
literally give life, right, Like why would you not.

Speaker 1 (40:33):
What happens when we link up, it's crazy, Yeah, exactly,
and if we stick together.

Speaker 2 (40:37):
So you might not fuck with a particular woman, but
you cannot blanket the whole, the.

Speaker 4 (40:42):
Whole species, like we literally were handpicked to give life
and keep this planet going. We are special and we're
connected to something that can't be explained. So I love
women in their power. These fuckhead women can kiss my ass,
they don't get my energy, and then that also, you know,
makes them feel even worse.

Speaker 1 (40:59):
So you also, you know, like if you don't, if
you were a second guessing, like leaving your friend at
home with your nigga, that is not your friend or
that's maybe not your nigga.

Speaker 4 (41:11):
Okay, So that actually it happened. I had to fly
to Detroit. She was in my house in Oklahoma, and
my best friend in Oklahoma was like, that bitch is
not going to be at your house alone with your man.
I'm going over there. And it caused a problem between
me and my ex husband because he was like you
basically saying you don't trust me, and it's like it's
not me, like, I'm honestly out but but and that

(41:33):
was but the girl locked it. Yes, she clocked it,
and she was she did not like this girl at
all at all. And that was just so you know,
how you were so like, we can be de Lulu
with men, but we can also be de Lulu with
friendships when we're especially when we were younger.

Speaker 2 (41:46):
Yeah, Lulu with love overall, just between romance, whether it's
romantic or platonic, you could be fucking Delulu's exactly. It's
like who you are in close connection with on a
regular basis directly influences your belief systems around love yourself, yourself, Like,
that's why it's so important to.

Speaker 3 (42:04):
Always check in with who you have around you.

Speaker 2 (42:08):
It's so important. I think weed helps that. With weed,
i'd be like, oh my.

Speaker 1 (42:13):
God, you don't care about ship.

Speaker 3 (42:14):
Well, no, I'll be able. I'll be able to read
people more.

Speaker 2 (42:17):
When I'm high too, though, I'm like, yeah, weird bitch,
and are you twitching? I'm like, now that the world
has slowed down, I can see you clearly.

Speaker 1 (42:26):
She's high. That's why you looking at her paranoid? May
I have the blood?

Speaker 4 (42:33):
Oh yeah, keep it going, or it's twenty thank you.

Speaker 2 (42:39):
Can we take a deep breath together, lady. I think
it's time to just ground down for a moment.

Speaker 7 (42:47):
Mmm mm hmmm, hm hmm.

Speaker 1 (43:03):
That's nice.

Speaker 3 (43:06):
Sound is important for those listening. You know the value
of sound.

Speaker 2 (43:11):
You know.

Speaker 1 (43:11):
Wait, so, Tammy, how did you become the cannabis cutie?
Oh wow?

Speaker 4 (43:15):
So the zero point eight gpa that was.

Speaker 1 (43:21):
From there.

Speaker 4 (43:21):
I couldn't stop telling people about what cannabis did for me.
I could not explain it. There was a lot about
me I hadn't figured out yet. So I was using it,
and my grades were getting better, My mood was better.
I actually could see the world in a different way,
like a flower would make me cry. And I had
come from such a negative upbringing that it was just
so weird to have this outlook on the world, and

(43:44):
it was changing me for the better. And so I
was advocating just getting people onto the plant.

Speaker 1 (43:51):
Like you know.

Speaker 4 (43:53):
My friend one time she came into my dorm crying
because she failed her exam, which meant she wasn't gonna
be able to go to law school because she'd at
the proper GPA. And I handed her a bowl and
some weed and she was, you know, much calmer and
was like it's gonna be okay. She went from like
the world is crashing and on my head, and then
into my marriage and all the other housewives around me

(44:17):
and the moms at the schools sometimes and it just
never ended. And when I got to grad school, I
knew I wanted to be in cannabis because I was just,
you know, couldn't stop thinking about it, couldn't stop talking
about it. Did every project that I could in grad
school on this plant, taught all of my professors and
classmates through the whole program about weed. And then one

(44:39):
day I got an astrology reading in like twenty sixteen.
Ricky Williams, the former football player, he gave me an
astrology reading and he was like, yeah, your second house,
Like you never think you know enough, you never think
you're pretty enough, you never think you have enough money,
like you just have this lack of mentality. And I
was like, oh my god, I needed to hear that.

(44:59):
And I was like, I'm going to start this Instagram
and just talk about weed on there. And I started
in Instagram where I was making cars in my video
videos in my car, and all of a sudden, it
just became this thing. And then the pandemic hit and
everybody was wanting to learn more and it was just
like boom, it exploded and the thing that I have

(45:21):
always been, I finally just get to be and make
money doing it. So that's how it happened.

Speaker 1 (45:28):
Well that's beautiful. Yeah, Ricky Williams.

Speaker 4 (45:30):
Yeah, he's an incredible astrologier.

Speaker 2 (45:33):
I feel like I remember like hearing about him like
this football player turned.

Speaker 4 (45:38):
Like Chinese medicine.

Speaker 2 (45:41):
Yes, herbalists, astrologists, spiritualists, like.

Speaker 3 (45:45):
Just tapped in like I play football now I don't.

Speaker 2 (45:47):
This is who I am.

Speaker 1 (45:48):
I'm like, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (45:49):
If you get a reading with him, he kind of breaks,
you know. He talks about that from his own chart standpoint,
which me and him, ironically, we're both twins from born
in San Diego and give a twin. Yeah, I have
a twin brother.

Speaker 2 (46:02):
Wow, you guys are identical infraternal pternal Okay.

Speaker 4 (46:06):
Cool, And we both have these neptune placements which are
very much connected to cannabis, and then we both have
the football connection, so you know, our work is very
similar based on kind of what that shows in the chart.
So it's just so cool. How you can pinpoint things
in astrology and it be very you know. It manifests
similarly amongst people who hold certain aspects, which I'm a

(46:29):
Capricorn son Scorpio rising, Scorpio moon massa.

Speaker 2 (46:34):
Owe me to massage girl too, I'm a Scorpio sonka
capricorn rising.

Speaker 3 (46:41):
That's a great chart. No you, I'm I'm sorry. Am
I rising a scorpio?

Speaker 4 (46:45):
Okay? I'm Scorpio rising and you have a sage mood?

Speaker 1 (46:49):
Wow?

Speaker 4 (46:49):
Double scorpio sag mon okay, and I'm a capsule.

Speaker 2 (46:54):
I feel like being a Capricorn, a scorpio and a
sage means that you like are free, you are a passionate,
but you're also organized, right, I mean.

Speaker 4 (47:03):
I was organized for kids. Before kids, I was super organized.

Speaker 1 (47:08):
Of course.

Speaker 2 (47:08):
That's like, I mean, yeah, you're probably for your standards
of what are are like high.

Speaker 4 (47:15):
Yeah, No, I mean it's a lot of It's definitely
freedom is a requirement. I have to at least always
feel free, like I need.

Speaker 1 (47:23):
To have that.

Speaker 3 (47:24):
Have you ever had an open relationship?

Speaker 1 (47:26):
I have not.

Speaker 2 (47:27):
Would that be something you'd want? Not that type of
free No?

Speaker 4 (47:29):
I think potentially it depends on the partner. I think mostly.
I think I'm open to that for sure.

Speaker 3 (47:34):
M yeah, I used to be open to that. Oh
are you bonging it?

Speaker 4 (47:42):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (47:45):
Hitting bongs behind my back. I just looked over. I'm like,
what's the sound?

Speaker 1 (47:50):
Was just calling me?

Speaker 4 (47:51):
Yes, let's go. It was kind of nice, and.

Speaker 1 (47:55):
It's like a smooth like I might need to humidifying
I need to do. I didn't buy a bong.

Speaker 4 (48:01):
You guys need a bond collection. I have bongs I
can give you.

Speaker 1 (48:04):
Yeah, I need a bomb, Yeah, I'll take a ball.

Speaker 2 (48:06):
I feel like a cute little bong.

Speaker 4 (48:07):
I have tons of cute little bombs. Yeah, they're adorable. Wow,
beautiful past the ball.

Speaker 3 (48:21):
I think Sebastian left us at my house.

Speaker 2 (48:23):
Like two years ago, and I keep forgetting to tell
him it's there, and I'm probably never gonna tell him
now unless he watches this video.

Speaker 1 (48:32):
Wow.

Speaker 3 (48:35):
Like when you hit a bom, are you supposed to?
You can keep?

Speaker 7 (48:38):
Never mind?

Speaker 2 (48:39):
But I was like to change it or no, it's fine, right,
there's still waiting there.

Speaker 3 (48:43):
Okay, God, I just remember, you know what.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
I just had a flashback of me in high school
where like the goal was to like smoke the whole
thing in one rip like that was the standard and
if you couldn't, you were really as smoke.

Speaker 1 (48:55):
I'd never did that. That was too much.

Speaker 4 (48:57):
Yeah, I don't ego smoke anymore.

Speaker 3 (48:59):
But I did. You gooes smoking is real? It's a
real thing. Yes, Wow, aslutely he gooes smoking. That's a
new term.

Speaker 1 (49:06):
This is like takes it way back, like before wax
and all these high grade scientific things.

Speaker 2 (49:12):
Right.

Speaker 4 (49:12):
I love I do love concentrates.

Speaker 1 (49:15):
I do. But do you remember at the beginning when
they didn't really get the measurements down or whatever.

Speaker 4 (49:19):
Now it was a whole different world. The kids today
will never know the struggle that we have.

Speaker 1 (49:23):
You guys don't know the drugging that happened. You don't
understand the misdiagnosed. Wait did I tell you this story?
Me and Daniel Alana used to have like some blog
and we were we're just almost Craigslist looking for like
we like look for SEO or something, and we put
like four twenty friendly because we had some weed. Like

(49:43):
these fucking nerds, we're like, come down to downtown. We
have an office, we smoke weed. Come so we're like, okay,
I've met these nerds on Craigslist. They're going to help us.
We go down to downtown. We go into a high
rise apartment. There's a bunch of nerds. She is probably

(50:03):
like young white, twenty something year old, just nerds a
bunch of computers, and they're like yeah. They We start
talking briefly, and then they start passing around the fucking
wax and we think it's just like a regular bomb.
We're like, blah blah blah. Oh no, nigga, Oh no,
no niga. I think like Dan y'all hits it first,

(50:24):
then I hit it. D'ye's capricorn.

Speaker 2 (50:28):
Usually it hits quick too, should pass out upon hitting bitch.

Speaker 1 (50:32):
I think it almost did. Then air then Alana hits
it suddenly, like three minutes later. Danielle's like, we gotta
get out of here. She's like to kill us. She
was just like she witched. The bathroom comes back and
she looks like she's scared shitless. She's like she starts

(50:52):
like backing up, like I think we gotta go, like
backing up towards the door, like yeah, we just gotta go.
Here's like, no, our friends just went to the store
to get some beer. She's like, did they do it?

Speaker 3 (51:01):
This is when they do it, they're.

Speaker 1 (51:03):
So much they're so innocent looking. But suddenly she starts
freaking out.

Speaker 4 (51:09):
So it was like she ate edibles.

Speaker 1 (51:10):
She like, we like run.

Speaker 2 (51:11):
Out of there.

Speaker 1 (51:13):
She's like, do you think they cave as heroin? Oh no, because.

Speaker 3 (51:19):
It's not a heroine.

Speaker 1 (51:20):
I was like, no, bitch, it's this new kind of wheed.
It was really scary and we were really really really
really really high. I think we sat in the garage
for like two hours in the car probably, But those
are the dark times of like taking.

Speaker 4 (51:34):
Wax and you didn't know anything about it.

Speaker 3 (51:36):
No, those the dark ages of the cannabis.

Speaker 4 (51:39):
Yeah, I've seen some people do some dabs and yeah,
the dabs throwing up. Yeah, Like it's yeah you could.
But again, it's like this plant is so powerful, like mushrooms.
You would never go eat four grams and mushrooms and
be like, oh I have a high tolerance, and that's
what people do with weed. It's like it's powerful. Like,

(51:59):
do not under estimate her, Do not underestimate her. So
I think with like the concentrates, now we we have
a better gauge, and we now know with edibles there's
a number that you need to figure out for yourself.
But gosh, yeah, we've all had the fucked up brownie moment.

Speaker 3 (52:16):
With whoa whoa. Mine was an apple pie?

Speaker 2 (52:21):
Oh yeah, was it good?

Speaker 3 (52:24):
Yeah that was the problem.

Speaker 1 (52:25):
Well, oh, they just used the butter they had.

Speaker 2 (52:27):
She made these little mini apple pies, and you know
how much I love sugar, and I will eat the
whole thing. And she didn't give me any sort of
guidance and she just gave them to me, and so
I ate like three of them.

Speaker 3 (52:37):
I bought by five.

Speaker 1 (52:39):
I was already high, and so I was just on
my high. Shit, I don't eat munching. Yeah, I gotta
be careful getting the edible.

Speaker 3 (52:46):
I think I almost died.

Speaker 4 (52:48):
I did that with a fun fetty cupcake.

Speaker 3 (52:50):
I was like, please God, I prayed to God.

Speaker 2 (52:52):
I said, God, please just get me through this, like
let me just close my eyes and go to sleep.
And then I close my eyes and it was just like,
So that was Those are the dark ages.

Speaker 4 (53:05):
I actually last super Bowl got accidentally overdosed.

Speaker 3 (53:09):
Oh no, not last super Bowl.

Speaker 4 (53:11):
Yeah, this girl brought over a one thousand milligram tincture.

Speaker 3 (53:15):
Now, why on earth would one even have one of these?

Speaker 4 (53:19):
I don't know but she brought it to my house
and made me and her a drink, and I remember
asking a question that was so dumb and in my head,
I was like, why would you ask that? And it's
like how much weed did you take? And then I
asked her. I was like, how much is in this drink?
She's like, I don't know. And that's when my homie
went and checked the bottle. He's like, yo, tamn, there's

(53:40):
three hundred milligrams missing from this bottle, which means that
I had at least one hundred and fifty. And I
made it to halftime and I saw Rihanna barely. I
was hanging on and it was lights out. Yeah, then
you could sleep hard kind of because it wasn't. It
was like dizzy. I was really dizzy. Like, so I

(54:03):
woke up after the game because I was hosting a
Super Bowl party.

Speaker 1 (54:06):
It was your party.

Speaker 2 (54:07):
Oh no, oh no, no, this.

Speaker 3 (54:11):
Is Stoner's worst night mare.

Speaker 4 (54:13):
I don't believe it, but like, I know the protocol.
So I was having those moments where I was about
to freak out and I had to keep talking to
myself like there was a conscious meat somewhere in there.
And I was like breathe, just breathe because I was
like about to hyperventilate, like I'm gonna die. Like I
know I'm not gonna die. I just feel like it.
I'll live. But I was high for like twenty four hours.

Speaker 1 (54:36):
Are you still friends with her? I mean.

Speaker 4 (54:40):
She's never allowed to not even get me a water,
like when I see her, were friendly, but like, but.

Speaker 3 (54:46):
She drugged me.

Speaker 4 (54:47):
Yeah, she accidentally drug me, And it's like, I know
she wasn't intentionally trying.

Speaker 2 (54:50):
She drug herself.

Speaker 4 (54:51):
Yeah, she drugged herself too.

Speaker 1 (54:52):
But she's stuck too.

Speaker 4 (54:53):
She was a little stuck. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (54:54):
Are there other things? There's probably, I know there are.
I can't remember what they are though right now at
this moment because I'm high.

Speaker 3 (55:00):
There's like herbs.

Speaker 2 (55:00):
You can take it, like to is it pepper? What
is it like to help peppercorn? Black peppercorn to help
you kind of bring your high down if you ever
get too high. You can also to rebalance it.

Speaker 3 (55:14):
Someone get me some black pepper corn.

Speaker 5 (55:16):
I was.

Speaker 4 (55:18):
I remember waking up in the middle of the night
to pee and I stumbled. I was sideways.

Speaker 2 (55:23):
I was so high, that was me with these fucking pies.
I was so dizzy, so I sleep wasn't even an option.
I was like, in this never ending nightmare, It's like
I can't even run, I can go to sleep. It
was insane.

Speaker 4 (55:39):
So I still that's why I said no to the drake.
I still am good.

Speaker 1 (55:44):
This is like supposed to be my professional this is professional.
I didn't like someone measure this professionally. It's delta. It's
for malograms. I think it's kind of you know, had
it so I know it's like.

Speaker 4 (55:59):
Okay, yeah, four is fine, But me and cannabevs, I
just kind of look at them a little sideways. Delta
Delta nine, I mean, Delta nine is what we're smoking.

Speaker 1 (56:08):
Okay, what is Delta nine?

Speaker 4 (56:10):
Delta nine is literally what they put on those products
to skirt federal law. It's weird. Yeah, there's no difference.
I think in other states they believe it's different because
it's grown on a hemp plant. But what people don't
understand is that a hemp plant is a cannabis plant.
Like if you look at it like melanin, one is

(56:33):
allowed to express their melanin and the other is not.
That's what a hemp plant is. It's just been bred
to the point, there's no THHC in it, but sometimes
some plants will be higher in THHC. And just because
it's below that legal threshold doesn't mean it's a different cannabinoid.
Under a microscope, THHC looks exactly the same, so it's

(56:54):
the same molecular structure. And guess she's just as high.

Speaker 1 (56:57):
It's why it feels like regular as we pretty floating right.

Speaker 3 (57:02):
Now, Delta nine. I smoked delta nine today. What did
you do today?

Speaker 2 (57:06):
I smoked delta nine. I guess it sounds so official.
That's why I don't really know like the scientificness of cannabis.
I'm so I'm so always so intrigued by people that
do and understand it and such another level because I
think people forget. People associate I guess cannabis smoking with
like this stoner culture. But like, essentially you are an herbalist,

(57:28):
like you are a scientist of this beautiful specimen, and
I think cannabis gets this like weird rap, and it's
important for women like you that exist, especially women. So
thank you, thank you for your dedication to the flower.

Speaker 4 (57:46):
Thank you fading the word I'd like to think I'm
her pr.

Speaker 1 (57:50):
You are a great yeah, I know when you were
talking about how you became the cannabis cuty and you're like,
and I was just so happy. I went and told everyone.
I'm like, it's when they heard about Jesus. That's the word.

Speaker 4 (58:00):
I had no good word exactly. That's what it was like.
And I say that because I was undiagnosed. I have
a rare autoimmune disorder. I was undiagnosed at that time,
but I was absolutely suffering and weed was helping me
so much because it is medicinal, Like we have a
whole system in our body dedicated to receiving this plant.
It's a lock in a key system like the cannabis
has these keys, and we have locks in our body, and.

Speaker 3 (58:22):
We have cannabinoids inside of our bodies.

Speaker 4 (58:25):
Make our own weed, and our body and whatever we
don't make, nature allows us to supplement with. So I
with you know, immune issues. Cannabis directly talks to your
immune system. That's how I was able to get through
and made it all the way to today without traditional
Now I'm on traditional pharmaceuticals. But I was feeling better

(58:46):
because I could finally sleep, I had less pain, I
had less anxiety and depression like that's why it changed
my life. So now you know what is it? Sixteen
years later, seventeen years later, it's just kind of like
a whoa. She was there for me in a way
that I didn't know I needed.

Speaker 3 (59:07):
Yeah, what's your favorite type of cannabis?

Speaker 7 (59:10):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (59:10):
Geez, oh geez. It has to smell like gas. It
has to smell like gas. Yeah, so you don't like
the citrus. I do not like citrus weed. It makes
my heart race, It gives me anxiety, it makes me tired.
Sometimes it's a headache. Sometimes it's nausea. You know when
you smell it, Like if you smell it, your body
reacts whether or not you notice stomach ache, nasea. Don't

(59:32):
smoke it. But if you smell it and it makes
you happy, and you're like ooh, like do that? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (59:40):
Yeah, you have to know what kind of weed works
for you.

Speaker 2 (59:43):
Yeah, And I think that's why people have bad experiences
with weed, and then they write it off as like
this this bad thing, and it's like, no, bro, you
had citrus.

Speaker 1 (59:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (59:51):
I mean we look at weed is just like one thing,
but like look at alcohol. You have vodka and rum
and tequila, and there's different proofs, percentages if it's wine,
and then even wine, there's so many different kinds. Like
it is the same exact way with weed. Like there
are red wine drinkers, red wine drinkers who do not
touch white. It's the same with weed, Like I love

(01:00:12):
my yank, skunky smelling weed, but I will not touch
none of that light fruity shit, like get it away
from me. So it's the same exact thing.

Speaker 1 (01:00:21):
Yeah, and even sometimes like I just have a bad
like you know, like that one time, I'm like, I'm
paranoid of that. A motherfucker I shouldn't be smoking, Like
this is not a good weed for me. But I
think the difference is we keep trying. Yeah, a lot
of people give it up like fuck that. But yeah, my.

Speaker 4 (01:00:40):
Doctor, y'all are high as fuck. I just want to say,
ye are.

Speaker 1 (01:00:44):
I don't know if I should hit the bong of
every and then backward and the drink. Oh yeah, and I.

Speaker 9 (01:00:53):
Rolled up in og so wow, you know what that's
that's a real hybrid right there, smoking on O G
and one citrusy Should.

Speaker 1 (01:01:05):
We do, Tara?

Speaker 3 (01:01:07):
I want to, but I don't want to move. I
keep looking at the cards.

Speaker 1 (01:01:14):
I thank you don't spill that coffee.

Speaker 3 (01:01:17):
Thank you for knowing.

Speaker 2 (01:01:19):
I hope you don't have much to do, you know what,
I'm gonna go get some peppercorns right after this, or.

Speaker 4 (01:01:26):
Go get like some food that has a lot of
pepper in it. Okay, that'll sober you.

Speaker 3 (01:01:32):
I'm perfectly fine.

Speaker 2 (01:01:33):
This is my natural state.

Speaker 1 (01:01:40):
I haven't smoked this much in a long time.

Speaker 3 (01:01:44):
That's a wonderful.

Speaker 4 (01:01:45):
I haven't smoked this March since this morning. She's like,
I did I do this? It is a great pain medicine.
And that's also it too, Like my tolerance is a
little higher because you smoke, wake and bake. Sometimes I
feel like I have to stay in shape for my career.
People are expecting me to be on set all day smoking,
Like I have to literally be shut in shape.

Speaker 1 (01:02:07):
Right to be able to do that.

Speaker 4 (01:02:09):
Yeah, because I mean production. They get worried, like can
she drive so oh down all the time?

Speaker 3 (01:02:18):
Night of cups?

Speaker 1 (01:02:20):
Nights of cups? And you also have to be able to think,
because I'm telling you it's not as easy. Sometimes I'm
not like a thinker on weed. Sometimes I have a
lot a thinker on weed. I mean, I just don't
want to have to think about a lot of staff.
I want to just like chill and.

Speaker 3 (01:02:39):
Laugh and she's what you want to think about. Yeah,
so is.

Speaker 4 (01:02:44):
The tari pull for the is it for the show that?

Speaker 1 (01:02:50):
What is that?

Speaker 3 (01:02:50):
What's the message today? What is our collective message today?

Speaker 1 (01:02:54):
I've jumped out at us and the collective message today
from the Night of Cups is creativity, romance. It's charm,
imagination and beauty. It tells us. The Knight of Cups
is the classic romantic of the Tarot deck. He is
in touch with his intuition and emotions and he uses
them masterfully to charm and attract others. He shows compassion

(01:03:16):
and understanding towards others because he has learned to understand
his own feelings and emotions. The Knight is kind, caring,
and very in touch with his feminine side. He might
be found writing a romantic poem to his lover, creating
art inspired by his innermost feelings, or appreciating a vibrant
sunset with a glass of champagne in his hand. His

(01:03:36):
heart is wide. This is a jazz music video, and
he weighs it on his sleeve. He shares his love
freely with others without constraint or worry. He's in love
with love itself. I like this guy right, sounds like Orlando.

(01:03:56):
The Night of Cups appears when you thrive on all
things beautiful and are inspired by many creative outlets available
to you. While the Page of Cups was inspired by
an imaginative, imaginative idea, the Night of Cups is motivated
by action. You have dreamed about what it is you
want to create, and now are moving forward with a
dream to make it a reality, an art project, something

(01:04:18):
you feel called to do based on your emotions, imagination,
and intuition. Be open to exploring your passions and your
big ideas. You may find yourself drawn to a particular
passion or hobby and now it's time to turn it
into something. Well, you're in a hurry to reach the
finish line. Keep in mind that true imagination feeds on action.

(01:04:38):
If you do nothing with your dreams, they will remain
just that dreams and not a reality.

Speaker 7 (01:04:44):
Hmmm.

Speaker 2 (01:04:46):
So come to the Design your Life Retreat in Atlanta
and make your dreams a reality. Coming up May night
through the twelfth, the twelfth. I love that card, I
love that for everyone.

Speaker 4 (01:05:00):
Yes, that's a good one.

Speaker 1 (01:05:01):
This is good. Shout out to Bitty Taro holding it down. Yeah,
with that beautiful description, let me see night of cups.
I like that.

Speaker 4 (01:05:13):
I needed to hear that.

Speaker 3 (01:05:17):
Well, thank you for coming on.

Speaker 4 (01:05:19):
Yeah, it was a pleasure smoking with you. And it's
twenty I feel like you guys are feeling great.

Speaker 1 (01:05:25):
I am feeling great.

Speaker 3 (01:05:26):
I feel wonderful.

Speaker 1 (01:05:28):
Yeah, thank you for the celebration of the flower and education.
It's great to finally have you on.

Speaker 4 (01:05:34):
Yeah, it was.

Speaker 3 (01:05:36):
And where can our people find you?

Speaker 4 (01:05:38):
I'm at the Cannabis qt on Instagram. If you can't
find me, I'm probably over at qti's Revenge.

Speaker 2 (01:05:44):
What's that.

Speaker 4 (01:05:45):
I've been deactivated like thirteen fourteen times by that app.

Speaker 1 (01:05:50):
So yeah, they're attacking everyone truly.

Speaker 4 (01:05:54):
And then my website at cannabis qt dot com. I
have ebooks, I have courses, I have a Cannabis book Club.
And then my YouTube is also the Cannabis Cutie newsletter.
Sign up for it and more stuff coming long format
content coming in twenty twenty four. Long format yeah, more

(01:06:15):
sports content.

Speaker 3 (01:06:17):
Yes, that's amazing.

Speaker 2 (01:06:22):
And you know where to find us.

Speaker 3 (01:06:24):
Clicking the links, follow.

Speaker 1 (01:06:26):
Us, clicking in the links, all of them clicking the links.

Speaker 6 (01:06:32):
Bye bye ye

Speaker 4 (01:07:00):
Again the lastest three, last

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