Grief and Fatherhood Feat. Tony Baker

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello when we're back.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
This week, we have a really special guest, Tony Baker.
You guys have probably seen him on the internet reenacting
animal videos. Maybe you've been to one of his live
stand up comedy shows, or maybe you just follow on
Instagram because he's a funny guy. But this episode were
really diving into grief, fatherhood, how he got his start,
and I think you really see a side of Tony

(00:24):
that maybe you haven't seen yet.

Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yeah, we get really deep. We're asking him about his
dating life. You know, Tony's kind of fine and we
don't see that side of him a lot. But you know,
leave it to the good moms to bring out all
the best parts of everybody gets really deep. This is
our Father's Day episode. Happy Father's Day to all the
fathers out there. You know, we love the daddies too,
and so we featured a great dad, Tony Baker.

Speaker 4 (00:47):
Once upon a.

Speaker 5 (00:47):
Time there was a good old traditional housewife. She cooked,
she cleaned, cared for her children and the man of
the house, and of course she didn't talk back. She
was both obedient and soft by nature. She was a
good woman who always made good choices.

Speaker 2 (01:03):
That ship we're good Mom's bad choices to single mom,
he said, But the patriarchy shared all.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
Their bad choices and found out they weren't so bad.
After all.

Speaker 3 (01:11):
We're experts over chairs and your new bestiae sit back
and near the ride.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
I can do a pack, but like I would rather
you have a titty than a birchest period.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
Give me you have to commit. I would rather have
a full titty than a bird.

Speaker 4 (01:29):
Check. What if it was just like a good ass,
solid d cup.

Speaker 6 (01:34):
That's fine, I've been moving to Hew was work.

Speaker 4 (01:38):
He'd be talking to you and they'd be naturally moving.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
Okay, maybe not that.

Speaker 6 (01:43):
I don't know, maybe like.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
A small s I could do that, But the bird
has really pisses me off. It's like a concave. Sorry
to the birchest niggas listening, but right now, do some
like pump it up Pop?

Speaker 3 (01:57):
Actually don't see that song here saying we don't think
that's anyway. That was a good hit back in the
fifth grade. Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm
Erica and I'm Mila. Another wonderful episode of Good Mom's
Bad Choice.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
I'm really excited, y'all because we have a special guest today.

Speaker 1 (02:18):
As you can hear as you can hear.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
We have none other than the comedian, the father himself,
Tony Baker.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
Because I'm a podcaster, I gotta you know, you got
to seduce them, don't you know?

Speaker 5 (02:32):
We don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:32):
I've always have a lot of men on the show.

Speaker 3 (02:35):
Oh that's true. You know when the testosterone comes in
and get a little blasted. He's only just a landout here.
We're like, look, are's a new man. We're in the bathroom. Like,
he's so handsome.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
I was like, she was like, he's so tall, Like
I didn't know, are you exposing this?

Speaker 4 (02:49):
Sneaky?

Speaker 1 (02:51):
You can't tell your ship? God?

Speaker 3 (02:53):
Fuck you need a podcaster, you know what it is
with the microphone just makes me tell all my business.
I know, literally, even with you, I gotta confess them.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
I don't think I'm gonna talk about it. But so
guess what, bitch, hilarious, I.

Speaker 3 (03:03):
Feel my confidence. I could tell my truth.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
So you would snitch with the cows. All they need
is a microphone podcast your husband Like, so what happened that?

Speaker 1 (03:12):
I don't know? Nothing I did.

Speaker 4 (03:17):
That's what makes her break. But they beating her up,
they socking around. She's taking it like the hell get
the microphone.

Speaker 1 (03:26):
It's like it's like it's like.

Speaker 4 (03:28):
I did it.

Speaker 2 (03:30):
Maybe that is it's the Jim Carrey Liar Liar version
Podcaster hilarious part. I really I recently watched Liar Liar
with Irin. Oh God, my daughter's really into Jim Carrey
these days. Like she's actually like her personality and like, are.

Speaker 5 (03:42):
You Jim Carrey?

Speaker 4 (03:43):
Oh okay, she's goofy.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
Like her like him. But god, he has so many
good he has some good ones.

Speaker 4 (03:52):
I called on him late honestly, really, like when a
Ventur first came out. I don't know how old y'all are,
but like when a Ventur came out, was just like
he's doing too much. He was doing a lot, and
then the mask. I was like, he doing too much.
I didn't see Liar Liar until twenty twenty.

Speaker 1 (04:09):
I just aid, there's Dick and Jane, and I like
Dick and Jay. I watched that recently. That was a
good one.

Speaker 4 (04:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
I like Cable Guy, Cable Cable Guy Truman show.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
That was kind of serious.

Speaker 4 (04:20):
I was that sh Scared Dumber is Good.

Speaker 3 (04:22):
To Dummer is my first intro.

Speaker 1 (04:24):
That's the other one, the Spotless Mind something Shine that
when he played the comedian.

Speaker 4 (04:30):
No, no, you're talking about that one.

Speaker 3 (04:33):
When I know the documentary about Man on the Moon.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
That's what really got me.

Speaker 4 (04:36):
Yeah, because he's staying character.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
Yeah, but also is he okay? Probably not? Where is Yeah?

Speaker 4 (04:42):
Man? I can't get a bead on him.

Speaker 1 (04:44):
And really I think he knows too much.

Speaker 4 (04:47):
But he's been doing Sonic the Sonic movies though. Oh
he's doctor Robot.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
I was right. I mean I used to be besties
with his daughter in middle school. Is she okay? Shout
out to Jane, Hey, Jane.

Speaker 4 (04:56):
Are you okay?

Speaker 1 (04:57):
Are you okay?

Speaker 4 (04:57):
R right?

Speaker 1 (04:58):
Are you okay? Doing Jane? Hit my friend?

Speaker 3 (05:00):
Come on the show. We need to figure out the thing.

Speaker 2 (05:01):
Fun fact, the first time I ever got drunk was
at Jim Carrey's house. What So I went to school
to growing up in Ella. I know, I went to well,
I went to public school, and then my mom got
me to this rich white school, so that I was
with all these rich white kids in sixth grade. And
Jane was one of them, and she was she was
like a hippie.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
So she was just always wanted to play her guitar
and just chill out.

Speaker 2 (05:19):
She was like one day she invited us over to
her dad's house and she's like, I become to my
dad's house like he'd be here, but he don't really
be here.

Speaker 1 (05:25):
And I was like, oh, let's go. So I was
I think it was sixth grade, maybe seventh.

Speaker 2 (05:30):
I'm gonna say sixth And we went over there, and bitch,
he must have it.

Speaker 1 (05:34):
He went to bed.

Speaker 2 (05:35):
He went to bed, and then we raided his liquor cabinet.
And when you're eleven, I don't even know.

Speaker 1 (05:41):
You don't know what to drink.

Speaker 2 (05:42):
So I'm just drinking everything anything like, mixing all types
of concoctions together. We're just like, I don't know, Bitch,
I got so drunk. I just remember they put me
in the shower, didn't even know what to do with me.
I was throwing up. I was there washing my face
with shampoo.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
It was.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
It was a disaster zone. Anyway, the next morning, my
mom came pick me up and I get in the
car and she's like, have you been drinking?

Speaker 1 (06:10):
You smell like alcohol. Have you been drinking? And I
was like, no, what are you talking about. I'm eleven.

Speaker 4 (06:19):
The microphone came in. The microphone came in. I was drinking.
We got drunk. Mom, you never is the beginning of
the mom.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
You never trust me like that. You know every you
know their every daughter has done this to their mom.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
You never trust me. You need to trust? Is this
a valley thing? Because I'm definitely like, don't you trust
who you raised? Don't don't you trust who you raised?
You must not trust yourself. That literally, that was my narrative.

Speaker 4 (06:40):
I always did work.

Speaker 1 (06:42):
I've used it. No, I'm almost like, bitch gets your
ass in the car.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
And then we talked about it recently. My mom is like,
I knew you were fucked up, and I just like
I couldn't believe it. I couldn't believe I let you
go to Jim Carrey's house and this nigga went.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
To bed and you little stupid bitches.

Speaker 4 (06:57):
When did you know what happened?

Speaker 1 (07:00):
And I know my mom didn't even text him. She
probably was like, I'm not going to text you. No,
I'm not going to distract Jim Carrey like that. He's tired.

Speaker 4 (07:09):
That's my Tim Adams alone. Good morning, follow shout out spice. Yeah,
he's hilarious.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
Yes, tell us about you. How did you get into comedy?

Speaker 4 (07:29):
Uh? So? I wanted to act. I want to be
like Jim Carre.

Speaker 1 (07:32):
Even to Jim Carrey.

Speaker 4 (07:35):
He was doing too much.

Speaker 1 (07:35):
Was your favorite comedian back back then?

Speaker 4 (07:38):
Uh? Well, growing up it was some bad damon Wayne.
So it was my two top every comedy specially they
did I watched and then uh, but mind you. I
was never like I want to be a comedian. I
was just like, you know, they funny, and then I
was gone. But movies, you know, And so I always
wanted to act. And then when I did extra work

(08:02):
and Transformers they shot the first one in New Mexico.

Speaker 6 (08:05):
You're an extra trans see the back of my head.

Speaker 4 (08:08):
Wow, Transformer shooting at the decept the con.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
What is the time stamp?

Speaker 4 (08:15):
Uh, that's a good question. Blink if you miss it,
but my head cut it in right here.

Speaker 1 (08:22):
You can you be watching it the hall.

Speaker 4 (08:27):
This the beginning. You don't even got to watch yep.

Speaker 1 (08:30):
Okay, So it's familiar.

Speaker 4 (08:31):
With my ball head shooting at the Decepticon, the first
Decepticon in the beginning of the movie that came the
comes and wipes out the army base. We were we
were the soldiers because you lived.

Speaker 1 (08:41):
In New Mexico. Because I was like they're flying extras
to New Mexico.

Speaker 4 (08:43):
Yep. So, and everybody was there. Ty Reese was there,
Josh uh, what's the name of dow Hammer or whatever.
And so I did the extra work for that, and
I was like, Yo, this ship is fire, you know.
And I had done theater on campus before, and so
I was just like that was the final straw. I
was just like, man, let's just yeah, let's just go
to Calian. Let me just by this time, I'm in

(09:05):
college for mad long. I'm gonna changed my major three times.
You know, I was gonna be a teacher, middle school,
high school teacher, social studies. But man, the passion, Man,
I gotta do it. Moved out here for acting. And
then when you get out here, you think you're gonna
be the one. You think you're a director, gonna see
you get off the gray hand. Yeah, you're the one.
You you what we've been looking for. Man, I'm gonna

(09:27):
cast you in this. It's not the reality. So I'm
doing extra work that's trash now, like the mundane extra transformer.

Speaker 3 (09:37):
I shout to come on the extra.

Speaker 4 (09:41):
That's met budget budgets. I'm doing the wag extra work.
I'm just like man cross and I'm just at the
nightclub walking past and Dexter. I'm like, MANX five bround.

(10:01):
I was a loyal man. It was a scene with
the with the cop, the Cuban cop.

Speaker 2 (10:07):
God, the one was like going and he was turning bad.

Speaker 4 (10:10):
I tapped out, I gotta finish it anyway, So I
was like, wait, sorry.

Speaker 1 (10:15):
I tell you nobody got out here. He was acting?

Speaker 4 (10:19):
Did he really.

Speaker 1 (10:22):
Yeah? What he was saying that, I'm sorry because now.

Speaker 4 (10:26):
I'm really thinking, like how did that kept? Anyway? So
watch it? So uh so, you know, you get discouraged.
You know, you're in the sea of everybody with the
same dream. So I was just like, maybe I should
do stand up as a way of exposure, you know
what I mean. And so because people always say I
was funny, and like, you know, I've always been funny,
but it was never like registered, you know. Uh. This

(10:47):
one girl when I went to a Common concert during
his Electric Circus tour in Albuquerque, she just pulled me.
She's like, You're hilarious, and I was like, who are you?
And she was like, I saw you host that MC
battle at New Mexico State. You were funny as hell.

Speaker 1 (11:01):
And I was like, oh wow.

Speaker 4 (11:03):
I'm funny. Funny, It's just always resonated.

Speaker 1 (11:06):
Just something girl funny, huh.

Speaker 4 (11:09):
Because it never it never registered for me that I
was funny because my older brothers never laughed at me
at the house, and so I would go to school
making them laugh. But it didn't register because I'm like,
brothers don't be there. And then when you get older
and you start liking girls, they be like, you're funny.
I'm like, man, fuck that.

Speaker 1 (11:24):
I don't want to be funny.

Speaker 4 (11:25):
I don't want to be funny. I want to be sexy.
Then not realizing that the funniest part of the second,
that's what I'm saying. But then I was just like nah, man,
and so.

Speaker 1 (11:37):
I had a whole baby with funny see.

Speaker 4 (11:40):
So then so yeah, I was like, let me try
stand up. And then I tried it. I did one
open mic at the High High North Hollywood and fell
in love with it and never stopped sixteen years later,
still doing it.

Speaker 2 (11:54):
Wow.

Speaker 3 (11:54):
That's a testament, you know, if you've got to compliment
to give somebody, give it to him because you never know.

Speaker 1 (11:58):
Where it's going to lead.

Speaker 4 (11:59):
It exactly because that I'm telling you, DA stayed it
was like, you're hilarious, and they just echoed, I'm still
cool with her to this day. Your name is Laurence
Lauren Man whole trajectory and so now like you know,
I still act, but that stand up.

Speaker 3 (12:16):
Is just and the crazy thing is is like acting
is one thing another feet but like stand up as
hard as hell.

Speaker 2 (12:23):
I was going to say, you have to be really
brave because sometimes, I mean, I'm assuming your jokes always hey,
like what have you been?

Speaker 1 (12:30):
You had some bad, bad days? You're after It's so
hard to watch from people bombs. That's how I know.

Speaker 3 (12:37):
It's like I'm the one. I'm such people please it.

Speaker 2 (12:39):
I'm the audience, Like like you look like you you
would just sit there and just take it.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
Make me laugh.

Speaker 4 (12:49):
You had one person in the front because every comedian and.

Speaker 2 (12:52):
Tell you like, I don't sit in the front because
I don't want to be roasted.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
Don't. I'm gonna sit back in the back corner.

Speaker 4 (12:57):
You hard to roast though you can't you know what
I'm saying. You're gonna get talked to, but roasting you're
not really roastable.

Speaker 1 (13:04):
No, I feel like now I've been roasted. Really Yeah,
you said you're traumatized. You said flirt, so you know
it's like a little punch.

Speaker 4 (13:13):
One thing about me is a comedian. I don't like
embarrassing audience members like interact. I interact, but I don't
want you to feel stupid or little. I never want
that unless you're an asshole. If you're an asshole, I'll
tell your ass up. I put people on stage that
were heckling too much. You think you could do this
because I was hosting the show and they were disrespectful
to one of the community, like, come up here and

(13:34):
do five minutes. He went up there and got his
ass took a huge air.

Speaker 3 (13:41):
I've been going to a lot of comedy shows. We've
been hanging out with to here, so he always invites us.

Speaker 4 (13:45):
Right, Yeah, that's my guy.

Speaker 1 (13:46):
I love. We love to hear.

Speaker 3 (13:47):
So when you're going to like date nights, come the bomb,
I'll be in the audience.

Speaker 7 (13:51):
Like I do this, and I've been five like I
got my set together shut then, but I I've been
had having seen.

Speaker 4 (14:03):
Come on.

Speaker 1 (14:06):
It's at my house. I have a sign there and everything.

Speaker 4 (14:08):
I don't need to tell what if you do and
fall in love with.

Speaker 1 (14:11):
It like I did, I mean maybe I think I
have some strong points.

Speaker 3 (14:14):
There's not a lot of women and comedy and comedy
there generally, there's not a lot of attractive people. Some
are already winning and I already.

Speaker 4 (14:21):
Talk a lot so boom that already made.

Speaker 1 (14:24):
For the stage.

Speaker 3 (14:26):
Can you imagine, Tony, if you you got to bring book,
bring on tour.

Speaker 1 (14:35):
We're doing well now.

Speaker 4 (14:36):
You gotta be funny though, Okay, I can.

Speaker 3 (14:38):
Okay, I'm gonna get my ten minutes together.

Speaker 6 (14:40):
I gotta see the comedy duos.

Speaker 1 (14:43):
No, but we could do it. Me and Jade talked
about the people that go up together always do.

Speaker 4 (14:47):
Like twins twins, they go up together. There's a I
don't know if they're real comedians. Are those those two
swol black dudes that are kind of Republican black dudes? Yeah,
they tour together.

Speaker 1 (15:04):
Right now.

Speaker 4 (15:05):
It's just like because people will be trying to say Tony,
remind me of them, and I'd be like, how how
I'll be low key in wrong. So yeah, So that's
how I ended up in comedy.

Speaker 3 (15:20):
And you just continue to do stand up and extra
work and then that's how you made your big break
in LA.

Speaker 4 (15:25):
Well, really, I feel like just stand up was the
was the big break because I don't consider myself big
in acting at all, Like you know, I'm barely in anything,
but the stand up is how people know me, and
just the comedy. And then the voiceovers took off and
then so all of that and then the sketches working
with all death all the time. So it's just like

(15:46):
a body of work. And then but the dream came
to fruition because it was like I started doing stand
ups so people can be like, I want you to
be in something. And that's what happened with Michael joh White.
He was doing Outlaw Johnny Black, and he was like,
I want you to be in it. I was like,
I ain't got an audition. Finally, God, thank you and

(16:06):
so and then it happened again recently. So it's just
like that was the goal for like, you know, if
I can, if I can bypass these auditions, it just.

Speaker 2 (16:16):
Feel you like you're there, Like, yeah, that's the fact
that you would even have to audition at this point
would be crazy to me.

Speaker 4 (16:23):
Oh yeah, everybody auditioning until you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (16:26):
So Tony Baker, let me be your agent.

Speaker 4 (16:30):
I'll tell.

Speaker 1 (16:34):
Tony gets the job.

Speaker 4 (16:34):
Done. Just trust men. I'm a good liver, but can
you do the accent?

Speaker 1 (16:39):
Mans?

Speaker 4 (16:41):
Right? And I'm butchering an accent to.

Speaker 3 (16:45):
Every new Jersey movie you've ever heard of, So we
gotta do all London movies, all Jersey movies.

Speaker 1 (16:49):
You come out of that thing with the.

Speaker 4 (16:50):
Accent, right, It'd be terrible and they'd be like, man,
I hate it when black people judge my British accent?
Where are you from? I'm not gonna do it right now.
I'll mix it in later. Right now, the pressure is on.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
Is that right? It's all right? You got it?

Speaker 4 (17:13):
You go?

Speaker 8 (17:15):
Man?

Speaker 1 (17:15):
Oh no, no, no, you gotta practice. Yeah, client on the.

Speaker 3 (17:19):
Spot, can watch a couple of movies first research.

Speaker 4 (17:25):
I did that challenge on Instagram. Recently they had the
British challenge that you say like fifteen things with the accent.
The people was judging me. I was like, where are
you from? Missip about it?

Speaker 1 (17:37):
You never been the British challenge? How do I miss
that one?

Speaker 4 (17:39):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (17:40):
I think we needed. We need to maybe do more
more full episodes and accents. I see what happens. We
might get unsubscribed.

Speaker 4 (17:48):
I should do this.

Speaker 3 (17:49):
People already feel uncomfortable with the actual voices that we
do have really because we're black and we say nigga
and baby daddy, but maybe like vocally we don't sound
as black.

Speaker 1 (17:57):
So we've had some.

Speaker 4 (17:58):
Pretty get uncomfortable because yeah, like but they don't.

Speaker 1 (18:00):
Think we should say it, even though obviously black.

Speaker 4 (18:03):
You'll be saying sometimes nigga hurts, depending on who's saying it.
Like when my brother says it'll be like.

Speaker 1 (18:10):
How does he say it? Can you put can your
brother's nigga in the sentence police.

Speaker 4 (18:14):
Like nigga in't said he was around the corner because
we played college. When he say, nigga yelling at you, Yeah,
it's not really me, it's like, you know the team
he's yelling at. I was like, his niggas hurt?

Speaker 1 (18:25):
Has anyone ever do people say this when they have sex? Like, oh,
that's my nigga? Is that?

Speaker 4 (18:30):
Like?

Speaker 1 (18:30):
Is that? Like I just had to I realized I've
never done that.

Speaker 3 (18:33):
I even never said niggah damn nigga.

Speaker 2 (18:36):
No like nigga, Yes, I put it in nigga nigga.

Speaker 4 (18:42):
These are some good pumps niggas.

Speaker 1 (18:44):
Yeah, yeah, that's that's a gangster.

Speaker 4 (18:50):
My favorite position.

Speaker 3 (18:51):
Listen that this is that sug roll play, you know,
like did role play, but we never did thug ro play.

Speaker 1 (18:55):
But I'm a thug to dick nigga.

Speaker 4 (19:00):
Give me that Dick nigga.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
Boy bro playing. Come on, Damn nigga, give me that
jig would.

Speaker 4 (19:06):
Actually worked, Nigga.

Speaker 1 (19:12):
I'm uncomfortable. Dam d nig.

Speaker 4 (19:20):
What happened in while you got my legs up like that?

Speaker 1 (19:26):
You know what? We got a new character?

Speaker 3 (19:29):
Try it up as a Friday Damn nigga, nigga.

Speaker 4 (19:38):
Oh my god, I don't think I've ever said it
though during six a Bitch, I'll probably ill probably threw
it in, but I can't remember, but probably maybe I'm
pretty quiet, really.

Speaker 1 (19:53):
Not, you're talking ass being.

Speaker 4 (19:54):
Quiet, I'd be all business.

Speaker 3 (19:57):
You know, the girls probably coming over with the cats,
hoping that you say something some you know, funny ship,
some sexy ship.

Speaker 4 (20:03):
I'll be talking. I'll be talking to make sure you're good.
You're good, good, good, you straight? All right?

Speaker 3 (20:09):
We might need to iterate some like sexy talk for you,
because if you have that voice, you know, you're a
known voice, you gotta like integrate your your four plate talk.

Speaker 4 (20:17):
My ex girlfriend was like, you be too quiet like, like,
you just be silent, like you know, I'll be quiet.
I have to think about it, like I'll be quiet
and I'll just.

Speaker 1 (20:28):
Be you know.

Speaker 2 (20:31):
I would say, when a nigga talks too much, too
much shocking is like shut the funk at least.

Speaker 1 (20:35):
And you also have to know what you're saying.

Speaker 3 (20:36):
Some niggas just be talking too much and saying the
wrong thing, but also asking you stuff and you can't
really hear.

Speaker 1 (20:41):
That's another thing we need to discuss this.

Speaker 3 (20:43):
Okay, depending on the positions, it's really not an ear
mouth shot. Usually I'm like, huh.

Speaker 1 (20:53):
This recently happened. I was like what me?

Speaker 2 (20:55):
Like three times like and then I was like, but
I really want to know what you said because I
feel like it was important.

Speaker 1 (21:02):
I feel like he says something really nice about me,
and I do want to.

Speaker 4 (21:04):
Know you missed it.

Speaker 1 (21:06):
So we need to come up with like what the
repeating again and again He's like, bit, you never mind, just.

Speaker 4 (21:11):
Forget it, getting soft every time you're asking me to get.

Speaker 2 (21:16):
Solved, and so that's what you know, that's what you
gotta do.

Speaker 4 (21:22):
Speak Then up, I said, I said, did you go
to the post office earlier today? Because I forgot. God
damn man, did you go to the post office? Nigga?

Speaker 1 (21:37):
Did you?

Speaker 4 (21:39):
I told you to put the fish up. See, I'm
not a goodie two shoes.

Speaker 3 (21:51):
You got the good mama fact we did that to
people cage.

Speaker 4 (21:55):
I wasn't even in there. You ain't give me a chance.

Speaker 1 (21:58):
Look at you judging him, right, I'm a little judging.

Speaker 4 (22:01):
I was on my phone. He's he grew up in
the cheers. I just literally on my phone. He grew
up in the cherry.

Speaker 1 (22:10):
You know, people can't talk.

Speaker 3 (22:13):
I think he's a Christian. Christians only closed doors, quietly, quietly.
He's having quiet sex over there.

Speaker 4 (22:23):
See I'll be talking, though occasionally I'll be checking in.

Speaker 1 (22:27):
Looking deep in their eyes.

Speaker 4 (22:28):
I'll do that contact.

Speaker 3 (22:30):
Okay, I have a proposal for you, because me and
Orlando do this and it's really worked. And I know
that you do the animal voiceovers, so you should just
integrate them into your sex life because sometimes you gotta
just be primal. And I think maybe you just like
bring out your tourists and be primal.

Speaker 1 (22:44):
And his animal he's not like growling in his video,
but he could.

Speaker 4 (22:47):
Okay, Well, one thing I want I don't want to
be too funny to where it's just like I can't
be taken seriously during the smash.

Speaker 1 (22:56):
There's a nice, healthy balance.

Speaker 4 (22:58):
So I don't want to mess up the flow because
when't it get turned off like that? So one false move,
one false sentence, We're done.

Speaker 1 (23:06):
What is your type or do you have one?

Speaker 4 (23:07):
I don't know what my type is. I was trying
to figure that out recently. I'm like, what is because
some some girl with my DMS was like, this looks
like your type. I was like, what is my type?
Why would you think this is type? So I posted
I posted a picture of so it's an episode of Siinfield.
Y'all watch Field. Remember the super Nazi episode. So the

(23:28):
girl working the cashier at the souper Nazi place. I
always thought she was flying. I was like, yo, So
I paused it and put that on my story. But
she looks Middle Eastern or something like that. So and
so I posted that as somebody was like, she looks
like your time was like, what is my type? You
know what I mean? And so I was just like,

(23:50):
because most people haven't seen me with anybody but my
ex and then you know what my ex wife looks like.
That's all they got. Everybody else is tucked away. So
I was just like, what is my type? What you know?
And so they don't know.

Speaker 3 (24:03):
Because you don't even know.

Speaker 4 (24:04):
I don know. I don't even know.

Speaker 3 (24:06):
What when you're out and there's a crowd of women,
what usually makes.

Speaker 1 (24:10):
Your head go like?

Speaker 4 (24:13):
It's an assortment though it's it's a variety. It just
depends like, uh, is.

Speaker 1 (24:17):
It visually personality? Energy?

Speaker 4 (24:19):
It's visually at first visually gets me in the door.
I'm like, what we got going on? And then when
I talk, when I interact, I'll be like, alright, I
get turned off very fast. So energy, closed minded, this
uh intolerance. If a girl says I hate cats, I'll

(24:40):
be like wrong, Like if they're allergic there, I'd be like,
I understand that. But if they just be like I
hate them, they just I don't know, I'll be.

Speaker 1 (24:50):
Like, that's a cat you need. That's a very large
group of.

Speaker 5 (24:56):
It.

Speaker 4 (24:57):
It's a turnoff for me.

Speaker 3 (24:59):
Like in l A, all the bitches love cats and
dogs there, I feel like it's just a bunch of
pet loving people.

Speaker 1 (25:05):
And I.

Speaker 4 (25:07):
Feel like people love pets differently in LA like they
be keeping them sho you American dogs be outside in.

Speaker 3 (25:16):
The restaurant, the kitchen counter because that.

Speaker 4 (25:21):
All now my black cat midnight, like the cat right here,
he always goes he jumps up on the counter. So
me and him been fighting for years.

Speaker 1 (25:31):
Like the cats.

Speaker 4 (25:32):
I got spikes on the stove, I got I got
deflated balloons up there because he's scared of balloons. If
you look at my kitchen right now, spikes and balloons
to keep him off the stove.

Speaker 1 (25:44):
Your magical.

Speaker 4 (25:46):
I'm trying to keep him at bay. And so uh.
The other cat is Tuxedo Dapper. He never goes up there,
but this midnight he always hopes up there. And I
know when he's been up there because when I come downstairs,
he'd be hiding from me behind the couch. Be like,
what you're doing man? Or if I go in the
kitchen and he knocks them off the counter and I
see it, he'd be like, I think he saw it,

(26:07):
and I started yelling, and then that's when he starts
scurrying off. I'd be like, he knows what he's doing.

Speaker 1 (26:11):
Both Mail and Tuxedo.

Speaker 4 (26:14):
Midnight and Dapper he's a dapper dapper. Yeah, they get
the tuxedo on. So but he just keeps going up
there and I don't allow all that walking on the counter.
Hell no. And then in the bedroom, don't want my
bed full of cat hair? Absolutely not.

Speaker 3 (26:31):
Oh my god, I heard this terrible story once from lesbian.

Speaker 4 (26:35):
Who is this important?

Speaker 1 (26:39):
The fact really important?

Speaker 6 (26:42):
I want to know that all I want to see.

Speaker 4 (26:45):
Let's see, let's see if it really ties to get
and don't try to force it now if we put
you on the spot.

Speaker 3 (26:50):
This is a horry. This is not my Someone told
me this. We have a segment on a show called
hor where we tell like sometimes like horror stories that
are super high the hor end or just like horrific
and also horror.

Speaker 1 (27:08):
Stories.

Speaker 4 (27:11):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (27:12):
So this lesbian takes this bitch home with her.

Speaker 3 (27:15):
She's like, you know when it was late night Lesbian Bart,
late night Lesbie West Hollywood. She brings the mornings like Xena.
It's a friend of her, warrior princess. Yeah, she's best
friends with I'll tell.

Speaker 4 (27:29):
You later Lucy Longless.

Speaker 1 (27:31):
And that is her name. That's that's that's Zena.

Speaker 4 (27:34):
Yeah she's still alive.

Speaker 6 (27:36):
Right, she's icon.

Speaker 1 (27:39):
We need to have her on.

Speaker 3 (27:40):
Okay, Zina, where are you? She takes the bitch home.
She has cats, right with the late night lesbian has cats,
has cats, takes a bitch home.

Speaker 1 (27:49):
They fuck. She uses a dill donor.

Speaker 3 (27:52):
Two days later, the bitch calls her, No, what the
fuck my vagina is like inflamed?

Speaker 1 (27:59):
She goes to the doctor.

Speaker 3 (28:01):
The doctor finds cat hair and the bitches pussy because
it was stuck to the fucking dildo.

Speaker 1 (28:06):
Bitch cat hair in her pistols. Oh no, oh, that
is a horri. That's a kitty. That's a kitty pussy.

Speaker 3 (28:18):
Talk about flattening some bad That's why.

Speaker 1 (28:21):
You don't go to Nick's houses. Cats.

Speaker 3 (28:23):
You never don't put things near a regina from their drawers.

Speaker 2 (28:25):
First of all, you would I would never allow if
I went to a man's house and he pulled out
a vibrator of any sort.

Speaker 1 (28:34):
I need to be bringing these things.

Speaker 6 (28:37):
I brought one of my purse.

Speaker 3 (28:38):
This is I prefaced that this was a lesbian hory.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
Okay, this is the matter.

Speaker 3 (28:45):
But actually remember that guy I used to do anal
with it by the airport. He had a lot of
dildos and its closet airport.

Speaker 2 (28:55):
She was driving past the airport for anal, and I
was always like when she was driving.

Speaker 4 (29:02):
Is that the spot to go to when you want aim?

Speaker 2 (29:04):
It was a man who lived past the airport, and
I said this, but muld be the best abling you
ever got because everyone knows you don't drive today.

Speaker 6 (29:10):
That's far.

Speaker 1 (29:11):
It's not a strong point in my life. I just
had needs that.

Speaker 4 (29:15):
You just want it purely anal.

Speaker 3 (29:16):
He just liked to do anal and his penis wasn't
that big, and I just it just worked out like that,
it's what we do.

Speaker 4 (29:23):
I've never done anal really, never tried. A couple of times,
I just couldn't get in there and I was just like,
you know what, I'm tapped out.

Speaker 3 (29:31):
You know, I don't think I don't have a penis,
but I don't think you're missing out on much.

Speaker 1 (29:34):
It can be. There's a lot of surprises involved, and
you could. Yeah, it takes a lot of prep.

Speaker 3 (29:39):
You would need a long term girlfriend to I mean,
I know there's people who do it just on a Tuesday,
but for the most part, most people need a little
time for comfort and prepping.

Speaker 1 (29:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (29:50):
Yeah, the fast the vagina is good enough for me.
Like I've never been like I need to get up
in their booty, you know, what I'm saying. I I
need to get up in that.

Speaker 1 (30:03):
I need to get up in that booty hole.

Speaker 4 (30:05):
You know what I'm saying, Like your pussy ain't enough
booty hole.

Speaker 6 (30:09):
Look but you're trying to your couch.

Speaker 4 (30:11):
He ain't tight enough for your boy. Let me get
up in that given for prison. The booty hole is where.
That's why I thrive. Like what yeah, nigga, nigga, it
is weird.

Speaker 1 (30:31):
Yeah, I mean that was scared me a bit. If
that was well, I'm told you.

Speaker 2 (30:36):
Remember I had that scenario and when I went on
my trip to Spain. I went on a trip to
Spain and we met a bachelor. He was there for
his bachelor party. I was there with my girls and
we were all hanging out, and I was like, you
know what this is.

Speaker 1 (30:50):
This man's about to get married. Let me gift him.
Let me gift him some pussy.

Speaker 4 (30:55):
But you smashed the dude that was about to get married.

Speaker 3 (30:57):
She was a different country tony that she was in. Yeah,
she lives in California.

Speaker 4 (31:04):
I mean I get it from the.

Speaker 6 (31:07):
List down.

Speaker 1 (31:08):
He barely spoke English.

Speaker 2 (31:10):
She was Italian or something, which I was curious about
because I don't really do the white thing. So I
was like, he looks like a special white and he's
getting married. I'm never going to see this man. I'm
never gonna see this man again.

Speaker 1 (31:19):
Let's go.

Speaker 2 (31:20):
So I went back to his hotel room and I
was all, I went in the mirror, you know, wiped
up real quick. Okay about white guy. Like wow, I
can't wait to tell my friends about I'm in spine.

Speaker 1 (31:31):
Never happens. I'm in Spain.

Speaker 2 (31:32):
We're in Madrid, Barcelona.

Speaker 1 (31:35):
We're in Barcelona, perfect place to bengal white. This is
perfect territory. Was gonna be so romantic. I'm gonna put
it down because this is his last time.

Speaker 2 (31:46):
So we like start kissing, is on top of me,
and then immediately I'm like, oh god, white skin feels
so weird too.

Speaker 1 (31:54):
I was like, oh no, okay.

Speaker 2 (31:55):
We're gonna we're pushing through a pushing IM like he's
so fine though, he's good. And then we're like touching
his hair again. The thing with the hair. I have
a thing with the skin and the hair. The hair,
it was just it was very like stringy. I was like,
we're pushing through a pushing through. Then he like pull
he like gets aggressive and flips me over.

Speaker 1 (32:15):
I take it. This man puts his penis straight in
my ass, No loop, no note, no question, just straight in.
And I was like oh. I was like, oh my god,
like what the fuck? Was it big?

Speaker 2 (32:31):
No?

Speaker 5 (32:32):
No?

Speaker 4 (32:33):
Did he make it in on the first.

Speaker 2 (32:35):
It was small and I didn't know. I hadn't really
I thought the test didn't work.

Speaker 1 (32:39):
Ladies.

Speaker 2 (32:40):
You know the test we're talking about. Sometimes that should
be fucking.

Speaker 1 (32:42):
Wrong, especially if they have big bulls wide or there's balls. Yeah,
there was. I was wrong.

Speaker 4 (32:47):
What's the test?

Speaker 1 (32:48):
Just like a little like.

Speaker 3 (32:49):
A little to make sure you're not gonna get disappointed
if you're thinking about going home, that dance on you
a little bit, like.

Speaker 1 (32:58):
What's going on there?

Speaker 4 (32:59):
Okay, that kind of goes in Okay.

Speaker 2 (33:04):
Anyway, he put that ship in my butt and I
was appalled and I was like, I was like whoa, whoa,
and he just kept going and I was like, okay, stop, stop,
stop stop, and then he pulled it out.

Speaker 1 (33:14):
Then I looked at it and I was like.

Speaker 2 (33:16):
Oh, I was like, yeah, your wife, poor wife, she
has like a long life of anal sex.

Speaker 1 (33:21):
Like I'm pretty sure that's all that she's getting.

Speaker 3 (33:24):
There is like quick, that's all he knows.

Speaker 6 (33:27):
Booty whole sex for life.

Speaker 4 (33:30):
For life.

Speaker 2 (33:31):
Little it was, it was for his His dick was
for butthole sex.

Speaker 3 (33:37):
Some dicks are made for butthole sex.

Speaker 2 (33:40):
Anyway, Yeah, we figured out we didn't finish, and I
snuck out.

Speaker 1 (33:43):
I was like, we're out. I'm out of here, just left.

Speaker 2 (33:45):
I left, and I was like, damn, that was even
worth it, Like damn, my car mustn't.

Speaker 1 (33:48):
Be fucked up for this ship. It doesn't care.

Speaker 3 (33:50):
You're out the country jurist.

Speaker 2 (33:55):
And I was like, I'm gonna pray for his wife, Like,
poor baby, she likes anal, she like by the airport.

Speaker 4 (34:03):
Gott to be by the airport. Is don't count. Don't count?

Speaker 3 (34:08):
You know, listen, it's only three times.

Speaker 2 (34:13):
Well, speaking of sex and things and animals, not beast
you guys if you haven't checked out Tony's Instagram ship,
because it's fucking hilarious than you.

Speaker 1 (34:27):
I was watching it on the way here rearch.

Speaker 2 (34:30):
Somebody was cracking find I follow you.

Speaker 1 (34:34):
I'm familiar with you.

Speaker 3 (34:35):
But I was like, you know, Tony, he does all
the funny videos with the animals, all the funny movies,
all the ones with the animals.

Speaker 2 (34:44):
Well we actually we asked our audience like, are there
any dads that we should interview?

Speaker 1 (34:49):
And you came up. But I had seen you.

Speaker 2 (34:52):
I've been seeing you comment on things and you respond
your your avatars like it stands out good king, Yes
it's working.

Speaker 4 (35:01):
Thank you. Shout up to Jay Orbit for drawing.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
But your your videos where you do voiceovers for animal hilarious.

Speaker 4 (35:10):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (35:11):
And I thought, you know, me and Mila we have
like we have high hopes of one day being audio.

Speaker 4 (35:18):
What is it?

Speaker 1 (35:18):
What what are we trying to do for dipsy audio actors?
Audio actors? That's not no, what is it? It's over
over figure, I think audio.

Speaker 4 (35:30):
That's the world you were looking for.

Speaker 1 (35:33):
We have high helpes of being audio actors.

Speaker 8 (35:34):
Ye.

Speaker 1 (35:35):
Hey, I'm an audio.

Speaker 3 (35:36):
I'm an active audio actor here in l A and.

Speaker 1 (35:39):
Ready to introduce me. And so I found a video
and I thought we could just improv.

Speaker 4 (35:47):
To okay, you are you are sweating?

Speaker 1 (35:53):
Move you makeet her nervous?

Speaker 4 (35:55):
Am I doing this?

Speaker 1 (35:57):
Turn?

Speaker 4 (35:59):
She know only this wedding?

Speaker 1 (36:01):
You nervous?

Speaker 4 (36:03):
I'm you? We over he and Dar gave you at the.

Speaker 2 (36:09):
Turn the air is all why are you doing this?

Speaker 1 (36:18):
What they're doing to my friend. You know, she's been
selliving for a while.

Speaker 4 (36:22):
So she being damn you out here.

Speaker 1 (36:29):
He's not a shirt I do, but.

Speaker 4 (36:38):
Yeah, come on. Claudia then told you, hey.

Speaker 1 (36:42):
Hey girl, get your ass away from you.

Speaker 2 (36:46):
Say no, girl, you're always trying to come over here.

Speaker 3 (36:48):
You always bring him over here because he's too aggressive.

Speaker 4 (36:51):
And she every time you get over there with Nancy,
you start acting funny.

Speaker 1 (36:55):
Man, Come on, don't by this on me. Okay, come on,
maybe you should give him some that's I don't want
that nigga.

Speaker 4 (37:03):
Work hard with his pride. Man, Come on, y'all see
me on here. Man, Come on, you always.

Speaker 1 (37:09):
Simple bitch, you ain't ship.

Speaker 3 (37:11):
We got the last five.

Speaker 4 (37:13):
Now, y'all gonna spread out?

Speaker 1 (37:14):
Girl, girls act dead. Maybe I know y'all alive.

Speaker 4 (37:18):
I know y'all y'all in trifling efence. Man. Next time
crocodile come over here, I ain't gonna shoo him off.
I'm gonna let him get.

Speaker 3 (37:25):
Y'all pull y'all the last crocodile nigga, you know, to
get his ass out of here because Johnny's coming over soon.

Speaker 4 (37:31):
Oh Johnny, huh, it's main raggedy anyway, man, I hope
he go in your booty hoole and you ain't ready.
How about that?

Speaker 3 (37:38):
You know, Johnny know what he's doing with that mouth though?

Speaker 4 (37:40):
Nyew what he down? Shut up?

Speaker 3 (37:44):
Oh well, thank you for entertaining our hoochie version of what.

Speaker 4 (37:50):
That was a good video. That was a good pick. People.

Speaker 2 (37:55):
I'll start sending you one a fine I listen to
good moms.

Speaker 3 (37:59):
I think more improv, Tony, thank you for showing.

Speaker 4 (38:01):
Us the absolutely We're always growing.

Speaker 1 (38:04):
We're gonna do comedy. We're gonna do improv.

Speaker 3 (38:07):
I told Erica when we do live shows, I said,
when we first started, I said, I didn't sign up
to be a comedian.

Speaker 1 (38:12):
With the I know our live shows. I'm like, we're
doing stand up two hours.

Speaker 4 (38:16):
Ye, but y'all sitting down right.

Speaker 1 (38:20):
We're doing fucking dancing, sexy moves. We have outfha changes
we don't make. We don't know. We've retired.

Speaker 3 (38:30):
I don't know how comedians do it be on the road.

Speaker 4 (38:33):
How many days did y'all do?

Speaker 1 (38:35):
Five?

Speaker 2 (38:35):
Y'all did five days twice.

Speaker 1 (38:40):
We did it twice six dates in a row.

Speaker 4 (38:42):
See, y'all did a total twelve show.

Speaker 1 (38:43):
No, no, no, we did six. The other one was the.

Speaker 4 (38:45):
Year before was backed up.

Speaker 1 (38:48):
What cities, you know, because we don't. We don't do
it often.

Speaker 3 (38:51):
So we go when one thing about good Mom's bad
choices is we're extreme.

Speaker 1 (38:55):
Bitches, we're the total momming p t A.

Speaker 3 (38:58):
Or we're fucking in the street right, And so we're
in the streets twelve days at a time. The streets
are heavy, so we're drinking. We're like, we're no, it's
just not for show. We're really doing the thing. So
it's by the end our livers and our serotonin.

Speaker 6 (39:12):
Six shows, though, don't you judge us.

Speaker 1 (39:16):
It was a lot of work older than we look.
You don't understand. I'm about to show you a little videos,
so you get.

Speaker 4 (39:21):
A little city thought, don't bypass.

Speaker 3 (39:23):
We did New York, we did Philly, we did d C.
We did Atlanta, and we did Chicago.

Speaker 4 (39:30):
How close was the proximity in terms of dates?

Speaker 1 (39:32):
Some of them were back to back. We did like Chicago,
New York back to back. And we had one day.

Speaker 4 (39:38):
We did you know, we one show at night? Yeah, no, soft.

Speaker 2 (39:43):
A little shot they solved bro Now, y'all we're rock stars.

Speaker 1 (39:49):
We're soft.

Speaker 4 (39:50):
I mean y'all not soft.

Speaker 1 (39:53):
Look at that we're soft that we're doing something. We're
doing weird ship at.

Speaker 4 (39:56):
Our showy, but it's one that ship.

Speaker 1 (39:59):
I'm tied up.

Speaker 4 (40:00):
It's one shows. It's a two hour show. Y'all did
six show happening?

Speaker 1 (40:07):
See it's it's not a good representation.

Speaker 4 (40:11):
As y'all ain't got no stand with them?

Speaker 1 (40:13):
Were rock? You haven't seen anything ever.

Speaker 4 (40:16):
You ain't got no stand with it.

Speaker 1 (40:18):
Yeah? Are you crawling on the floor and some of
yours are you doing?

Speaker 4 (40:21):
Yeah? I do act jumping the crowd. I'll do all this.

Speaker 1 (40:25):
We need to come to your show, then to your next.

Speaker 4 (40:26):
Show, multiple shows. The next show me and Kevin on
stage are doing the show are set together June seventeenth
at Flappers and then my Tony Baker Friends show is
June twenty fourth.

Speaker 3 (40:38):
Oh, my birthday is a twenty second Oh is this
episode coming up before that?

Speaker 1 (40:40):
Right?

Speaker 3 (40:41):
Yeah, this is our Father's Day episode. Okay, tell people
were the of course.

Speaker 1 (40:46):
You're the father's while you brought you on the show.
Where's it? Where are the shows coming out?

Speaker 4 (40:51):
At Flappers and Burbank on the nineteen, ones on the seventeenth,
and ones on the.

Speaker 6 (40:55):
Twenty fourth in the same place.

Speaker 4 (40:57):
Yep, same place.

Speaker 1 (40:58):
Buzz of them.

Speaker 4 (40:58):
Okay, I'm co ill do that every month. By the way,
if you're in l A, I do Tony Baker Friends
the last Monday of every month. So it's me hosting
the show and I give you a comedians. It's a
good time.

Speaker 1 (41:09):
Every time you got.

Speaker 3 (41:10):
Good comedians or you got okay, so next, she don't.

Speaker 1 (41:13):
Bring no bullsh respect his own name, embarrass himself.

Speaker 4 (41:17):
There's been a couple of times where you know, I'll be.

Speaker 1 (41:20):
Like, got embarrassed. You're like, nigga, what the fun was that?

Speaker 4 (41:23):
But since our host all night, I'm gonna make up
for the loss on that tip, you know what I'm saying,
Because I'll be up there all night.

Speaker 1 (41:29):
You have female comics come up.

Speaker 4 (41:30):
To Yeah, absolutely.

Speaker 3 (41:32):
I actually met a female comic recently that I invited
on the show.

Speaker 1 (41:35):
I got to call her.

Speaker 4 (41:36):
Yeah, I know, a bunch of funnies.

Speaker 1 (41:38):
She was really funny. What was her name?

Speaker 4 (41:39):
Black?

Speaker 3 (41:40):
Huh, like a kind of round, light skin, short hair.

Speaker 4 (41:42):
Canisia Bus, yea bus. She's hilarious. Yes, absolutely, that's my
girl right there, Carnesia Bus.

Speaker 1 (41:51):
Yeah, she was funny.

Speaker 4 (41:52):
Has she been on this show.

Speaker 3 (41:53):
No, that's what I saw her. I said, girl, she said,
I'm coming. So that was we made that all need
to have you have like a comedy month so I
can get my comedy up.

Speaker 4 (42:04):
Get ye do it. But y'all need to go back
on tour.

Speaker 2 (42:09):
First of all, saw okay, well I listen. If you
just want us to go on tour, they do. I
need you to pull up more. I need to pull
up more because one tour we sold out all the shows,
and then this next tour was a little struggle bus
a little bit.

Speaker 1 (42:24):
We were struggling a little bit, and tickets don't be
that ex and they weren't even that expensive. And I
was annoyed.

Speaker 3 (42:29):
And y'all be all in the d ms and all
into comments coming to my show, come to my sitting,
and then we.

Speaker 1 (42:33):
Come to your city and they're like, I have a baby.

Speaker 4 (42:35):
I have.

Speaker 3 (42:38):
I literally have a Nigga's been in my d MS.
I would I honestly thought we were maybe best friends.

Speaker 1 (42:44):
I was like, we're in Philly company. He's like, oh
my schedule. I said, nigga, you d.

Speaker 3 (42:47):
M me every fucking day.

Speaker 1 (42:51):
You I was offended.

Speaker 4 (42:52):
I was like, they do this all the time they do.
This is where I get really pissed, and.

Speaker 3 (42:57):
Also just in general, because we're all black, come like,
I just need you guys, let's just come a little closer.

Speaker 1 (43:04):
Support black artist. What the fuck do you think we're
doing this for.

Speaker 3 (43:08):
I know you could get the funny videos for free.

Speaker 1 (43:11):
I know you can listen for free. I know it's
great and I'd love to give free shit.

Speaker 3 (43:14):
But my nigga, if somebody comes to your city and
you listen and you watch faithfully every motherfucking week, the
least you could do is say, you know, I let
me put it on my little forty dollars. That's a
little twenty for drinks, and come see these bitches and
my people that I support an audio for free every
day black people.

Speaker 1 (43:31):
This is how we keep our dollar dollars. We have
to support each other. That is the only way. And
why you can't tol the show? Bitch, I was about
to buy my ticket. You should have been.

Speaker 2 (43:43):
By the amount of messages we got about that from
Charlotte and Houston.

Speaker 1 (43:47):
What happened? I said, they may the ticket.

Speaker 3 (43:49):
We can't rely on you. Why are you waiting till
the last minute to buy the ticket? So this is
what summer people won't tell you. I'm not gonna even
try to be cute. Buy the fucking ticket three months
and just know you're coming. So don't cancel, because then
we're gonna be first of all, who the fun would
to be up in the city they never been to
on the stage looking stupid with nobody, not me, nobody

(44:10):
listen to consider our feelings.

Speaker 2 (44:12):
This church for me, this is church because the one
thing about me. But don't I'll cancel. I don't give
Jamila the one. She's a cancer. She's a cancer.

Speaker 1 (44:21):
She should be all sweet and ship. I'll be like,
fuck them, I'm can't. I'm not going up there. And
she'd be like, let's just wait. I'm like now, Schori, Yeah,
like now, we're not waiting. But we're like sister signs.

Speaker 4 (44:39):
But it'd be like an intensi attraction. But it don't.

Speaker 2 (44:45):
We're total opposites, but we're all we're supposed to get
along really well. I don't know what scorpios did to you.

Speaker 4 (44:50):
You know, Scorpios, we can I'll begining.

Speaker 2 (44:53):
You gotta find a good one because if we are
out if we're out here, just just out.

Speaker 1 (44:58):
Here, unhealed, and just I mean, not that anyone is
really healed, but but.

Speaker 2 (45:03):
Just out here just slanging our fucking scorpionic hook around.

Speaker 6 (45:09):
It's it can be really bad for everyone.

Speaker 3 (45:11):
Gorpiels are not great unhealed. I mean, I don't think
any water sign is because they're highly emotional and sensitive.

Speaker 4 (45:16):
So when you heard big sensitive.

Speaker 3 (45:18):
Big sensitive people fifty cancer and.

Speaker 2 (45:22):
Y'all ain't really that sensitive tours, y'all are like so
grounded and.

Speaker 4 (45:29):
We all grounded. But I'll be, I'll be, I'll be.

Speaker 2 (45:34):
That's my daughter, Maybe i'll she'ld be crying behind closed doors,
should be she don't care at first.

Speaker 4 (45:39):
I used to cry behind closed Now just be like
I cry more solo, but.

Speaker 3 (45:44):
In movies as long as you cry, I cry mostly
doing movies too.

Speaker 1 (45:49):
I will cry my ass off on a movie, tear up.

Speaker 3 (45:51):
Literally in real life, I'll laugh at somebody's.

Speaker 1 (45:54):
Pain, but in the movie, I cool.

Speaker 4 (45:56):
Real life, I'll be like people cry from me.

Speaker 1 (45:59):
Like cooking kid shows, so I know i'd be emotionally cooking.
This ship really made that shut up Terry not Terry
me soon? Did you are you?

Speaker 4 (46:18):
Huh?

Speaker 1 (46:18):
I was asking Eric if she was going to play trigger.
Oh yeah, let's play a little game of.

Speaker 4 (46:22):
Called Okay, it's time for trigger. Oh, I like game.

Speaker 1 (46:27):
We're gonna we're gonna kidnap you. We've had We've had
Tony here all day. Okay, we're gonna let you leave soon.
Don't worry, Tony, and then you got things to do,
like maybe started forty five minutes. Have me back, okay, Tony.

Speaker 2 (46:42):
So this is a game called trigger, where we ask
our guests, well, we say one word, and you have
to say the first thing that comes to your mind.

Speaker 1 (46:49):
Don't overthink it, just go for it, all right.

Speaker 2 (46:52):
Bad habits, procrastination, marriage, good time, fatherhood, dope, religion.

Speaker 4 (47:04):
Untrustworthy, aintal.

Speaker 1 (47:09):
But eating pussy.

Speaker 4 (47:13):
M hmm, picky.

Speaker 1 (47:14):
I don't like that face. Why would you make that face?
Love language, touch, favorite sex position.

Speaker 4 (47:25):
I don't know what it's called, but I know it.
What is it? It's uh, I'm laying sideways and she's
on her back and I'm in there. Wait, she's on
her back, and so you would be no, but you
would bring your body down so your legs would be here,

(47:51):
and then yeah, wrapped around, your legs are here, but
you're inside of her. Yeah, like that? Like that it's
usually used, I'm more like.

Speaker 2 (48:02):
Yeah, so this is like a lazy sex move because
you can just kind of we both can just kind
of cuddle, you.

Speaker 4 (48:07):
Can get some color land. But usually usually I'm a
little bit further back. But yeah, it's like my low
key favorite.

Speaker 1 (48:14):
I'm gonna try that one out.

Speaker 4 (48:16):
Yeah, it's dope that I love it. I like missionary too.

Speaker 1 (48:20):
We call that.

Speaker 4 (48:22):
I just did a video my top five sex position.
I don't know what it's called though, the bending baker,
the baker. If I could, if I could get rights
to it, why is it? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (48:35):
The baker?

Speaker 4 (48:35):
Oh man, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (48:37):
Could you baking them cakes?

Speaker 4 (48:39):
You know?

Speaker 3 (48:40):
We have our sex Physician segment on Patreon for those
of you who are not pat.

Speaker 2 (48:43):
For anyone watching this, I need you to make sure
you go on YouTube and are listening to this. Make
sure you go on YouTube and watch this episode position.
If you haven't watched, you might have been You might
have noticed had an outfit changed. I don't know if
anyone noticed, but something happened.

Speaker 1 (48:57):
It was getting really.

Speaker 3 (48:58):
Intense, an extreme sweat. It's hack because Tony made are
so nervous.

Speaker 4 (49:02):
I would like for that to be the narrative.

Speaker 1 (49:03):
I don't think that was the start talking about.

Speaker 3 (49:05):
Sex and she was getting completely overwhelmed and she hadn't
changed hen celibate for so long.

Speaker 1 (49:10):
It's so long and so long eight months? How long
have you ever gone?

Speaker 4 (49:16):
What's a long as you've ever I had sex one
time in twenty twenty three once?

Speaker 1 (49:22):
Whoa?

Speaker 4 (49:23):
So it was cool, like I can, I can go for.

Speaker 1 (49:26):
A So you were fine with that? Huh you're fine
with it? Yeah, okay, last time you had sex?

Speaker 4 (49:33):
Uh? April thirteen?

Speaker 1 (49:35):
Whoa is the birthday or something? What's going on in
April three? How do you remember the day?

Speaker 4 (49:39):
Because I looked like I was having a conversation with
somebody else, like what was the last time? And then
I looked context messages.

Speaker 1 (49:47):
Was your birthday? Was it your bir not your brother?

Speaker 4 (49:49):
Before? That was the last time? La?

Speaker 6 (49:51):
Women assortment happily ever after myth.

Speaker 1 (49:58):
Childhood fun monogamy, good time, open relationship.

Speaker 4 (50:05):
Good time? Have you done it? I've never tried it?

Speaker 1 (50:08):
Yeah, you've been monogamous successfully?

Speaker 4 (50:11):
Yeah, my last relationship five years.

Speaker 1 (50:15):
No, no mistakes. Emotional cheating.

Speaker 4 (50:19):
No, that's I had to think of, like emotional cheating.

Speaker 1 (50:24):
Sure, yeah, you're really that you're ready to die by that?

Speaker 4 (50:28):
Down down the cross of emotionally, what's emotional.

Speaker 3 (50:31):
Cheating like confiding in another woman like uh, technological.

Speaker 4 (50:35):
Confiding in another woman. There in the relationship, you.

Speaker 1 (50:38):
Were cannabis.

Speaker 6 (50:43):
Overrated white women.

Speaker 4 (50:48):
Sorry, sorry, I.

Speaker 1 (50:49):
Don't mean to brush over that. That's crazy speaking of cannabis.
Where is our cannabis? We said we weren't in a
hot box, Tony, Okay, fine, Oh.

Speaker 4 (50:58):
I gave you. I said, I don't just got me
in this little box. Not me.

Speaker 2 (51:07):
I'm filthy out here's prejudiced.

Speaker 1 (51:09):
Nobody believes that you're filthy.

Speaker 4 (51:11):
What is my energy?

Speaker 3 (51:14):
You got to get you some gold chains or something,
maybe a girl's bees.

Speaker 1 (51:19):
And ship circle.

Speaker 6 (51:23):
Watch out, white women, Oh, white women, pale?

Speaker 1 (51:31):
Do you partake?

Speaker 4 (51:33):
I've only I've only had sex with one white girl.

Speaker 3 (51:37):
I always asked black men in in l A, particularly
in the industry, because I feel like it's like the
world is like the white women are at your Yeah,
how was it.

Speaker 4 (51:48):
It's a good time.

Speaker 1 (51:50):
Just decided not to revisit it.

Speaker 4 (51:53):
No, it wasn't. It wasn't anything like that. It was
just it was a complicated situation.

Speaker 1 (52:00):
So I was like, oh, do white women give better head.
Where does this myth come from? Where did you hear
this from black guys? Is this what Orlando told you?

Speaker 4 (52:09):
No, I can't say that.

Speaker 1 (52:12):
I just heard it from black guys. They'd have smaller lips.
I don't know. They just they told me they were
more filthy.

Speaker 4 (52:18):
Black men say it.

Speaker 3 (52:19):
Yeah, I've heard black women have like the best pussy.
White girls give better head because they're just filthy, nasty.

Speaker 4 (52:24):
Black Black women would be nasty, though.

Speaker 8 (52:26):
I know.

Speaker 2 (52:27):
That's why I was like nastier than us. I know,
because we will have to grade ourselves. It's some of
it's trauma.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
No, some of it is trauma. I think women just
like to be like sledded out, honestly.

Speaker 6 (52:40):
Boxers or briefs, boxer briefs.

Speaker 4 (52:44):
You know.

Speaker 2 (52:44):
I recently had this conversation with my friends and I said,
what would be the first thing you would do if
you had if you woke up with a dick? And
all my friends said masturbate, And I said, well, first
thing I would do is pee because I want to
know what that's like. And the second thing I'm going
to do is try an assortment of underwear and understand
why men choose the underwear that they choose, because some

(53:04):
some men.

Speaker 1 (53:05):
Just like the boxers thing hanging around.

Speaker 2 (53:07):
Other ones like the little tidy whities, the other ones
like the long like Ethica.

Speaker 1 (53:11):
Whatever the.

Speaker 3 (53:14):
Yes, I see I can see the logo.

Speaker 1 (53:17):
Everyone with all the men got you never heard.

Speaker 4 (53:23):
What that is?

Speaker 1 (53:24):
You never heard? I feel they would.

Speaker 4 (53:27):
Send you some stuff, but they go, they go along.

Speaker 2 (53:30):
They're like here, they're like, because I see niggas underwear,
They're like down to their knees, like, oh wow.

Speaker 4 (53:36):
I never yeah, I do the boxing right here. Some
of them are a little bit shorter.

Speaker 1 (53:41):
I like those. Those are my preference on a man.

Speaker 3 (53:43):
I don't like, I've never seen a man wear those,
like the underwear, the tidy like the white ones.

Speaker 1 (53:48):
Since like I was in my dad in like high school,
and I was like.

Speaker 4 (53:50):
My friend, I was off there, get us out of here.
Turn on, oh man, uh smell.

Speaker 1 (54:00):
Oh it's a turn on.

Speaker 4 (54:01):
The smell and a good if it's a good smell.

Speaker 3 (54:04):
It's like body odor or like a perfume.

Speaker 4 (54:08):
It's a combination of like because something some perfumes are
too perfume me and I'll be like, look, how you're
doing it too much? But like because I'm a smeller.
I'll be like my no, shes be working, like when
you know I hugged her. I was like the hair.

Speaker 1 (54:22):
Yeah, I was like, that's why this got you sweating
ship the first time.

Speaker 4 (54:29):
So but yeah, I like like clean fresh smells or
like you know, citrus oil oil black blackness, but yeah,
it's shape buttery. Yeah, like you was in the Murray part. Yeah,
I'd like, yeah, I like those.

Speaker 1 (54:49):
Turn off.

Speaker 4 (54:53):
Smells.

Speaker 6 (54:55):
Last bad choice, I had popcorn at the movie theater.

Speaker 1 (55:04):
It got stuck in your teeth. No, it was just
why is that bad?

Speaker 4 (55:08):
Just because I've been trying to watch what I eat,
I'll be trying to be it's popcorn.

Speaker 1 (55:14):
I guess it's just corn.

Speaker 4 (55:14):
There has no nutrition, just that butter. I'll put on it.
I'll be going buck wild.

Speaker 1 (55:18):
I love it me too.

Speaker 3 (55:21):
This morning I was putting I was putting cream cheese
in my bangland. I said, you're gonna clog your arteries
and I was just like, I just didn't say anything
my morning like this, Like nobody asked you about ship.

Speaker 1 (55:39):
Uh, porn.

Speaker 4 (55:43):
The life?

Speaker 1 (55:43):
You watch porn? What's your category?

Speaker 4 (55:47):
I like orgy porn too.

Speaker 1 (55:49):
I like, but sometimes it gets a little too.

Speaker 3 (55:51):
I like orgy porn too, like gang bang.

Speaker 1 (55:53):
Sometimes it's like there's it's too wide shot. I need
close up, so we gotta bring it in. Why why
to the whole house?

Speaker 4 (56:00):
It doesn't have to be the whole house? But like
you know, sometimes they focus on the wrong couple and
I'll just be like no, and then I'll start watching
the people in the backs. Get you options, I like
why shots and porn?

Speaker 1 (56:13):
Did you go to the highest quality?

Speaker 4 (56:16):
I prefer higher quality porn, like I prefer like.

Speaker 1 (56:19):
Like HD the HD selection.

Speaker 3 (56:21):
Yeah, like you know this is a nigga hack because
only niggas do this.

Speaker 1 (56:25):
Yeah, that's good high quality porn. Don't you say the one?
I think you're gonna say what because they don't? No,
not them.

Speaker 2 (56:32):
There's this one because you know, I like to watch
white girls kids banged out by black men.

Speaker 1 (56:36):
Black their camera work camera you think are these cameras.

Speaker 3 (56:41):
I'm pretty sure they have the camera top where you
need to write any cameras magic for sure. The only
thing about black this is okay if anyone knows the
people at black These are my requests. Can you please,
for the love of sucking God, stop letting the white
bitches put the white makeup on the black niggas and
nobody pausing to wipe it off.

Speaker 2 (57:00):
Irritates the ship out and notice like they're like their
makeup is getting on the whole white bitches the face.

Speaker 1 (57:06):
It looks like he's been fucking rolling around in powdered.
I never noticed that either, because I'm usually fast forward.
I don't I don't need the storyline. I just need
to get straight to that. They have good gang bangs
have they have the good group. I just I wish
they would.

Speaker 2 (57:22):
Choose better white women because they're always like so homely,
like like I don't know, need to wear settings they need.

Speaker 1 (57:30):
I just just like maybe one with like a little
more ass, just a little more ass. They're always like
flat ass.

Speaker 3 (57:35):
Like if you need any new any new execs that
have unique partnerships, Erica and I available anyway.

Speaker 1 (57:45):
After life.

Speaker 4 (57:49):
Mysterious therapy needed.

Speaker 1 (57:55):
Biggest regret.

Speaker 4 (57:59):
There has to be one word. His first name comes
to mind.

Speaker 1 (58:01):
First thing comes to mind.

Speaker 4 (58:03):
I wish I would have went for the dream sooner. Yeah,
that's my biggest It's student.

Speaker 1 (58:09):
Loans, biggest accomplishments.

Speaker 3 (58:11):
Oh my kids, how old were you when you moved
to La and decided to pursue your dream. And how
old were the kids?

Speaker 4 (58:20):
So we're looking at two thousand and six, So I
was thirty, No, no way, two thousand and six. I
was twenty nine, is it right?

Speaker 1 (58:32):
Trying to do the math money, it's almost twenty years ago.

Speaker 4 (58:34):
Yeah, twenty nine.

Speaker 1 (58:36):
Eighteen years ago.

Speaker 4 (58:37):
Eighteen years yeah, about twenty nine. And your kids, so
they were so two thousand and six. Seraine was six,
Sincere it was about four, about to be five.

Speaker 3 (58:47):
And you came with your wife. Yeah you're married at
the time, and they all said were on board and
said we're going as a family.

Speaker 4 (58:54):
Because my ex wife is a nurse, so they can
go anywhere and get a job pretty much. She know,
they'd be like, oh yeah, you know, they're the rock
stars of the other games. So that wasn't an issue.
And then you know, she had a cousin that was
out in Newport Beach, so we had like a connection
kind of not knowing the landscape of l a man

(59:17):
and so, but yeah and so, and the boys were
so young.

Speaker 1 (59:21):
They were just like, you know, California, California, here we come.

Speaker 4 (59:24):
And so so yeah, so that's how that went, And
how was how.

Speaker 3 (59:29):
Was raising your kids in La opposed to coming from
like Chicago and New Mexico, Like, was that a different experience?

Speaker 4 (59:35):
So the boys, they were born in New Mexico. Uh,
Seraine was born in Las Cruces since here was born
in Albuquerque. And so when we moved here, so they
coming from New Mexico, you know what I mean. So
they didn't have that transition of like culture shock that
because you know, New Mexico to Cali is not a

(59:56):
huge difference demographically, so it wasn't a you know, because
when I went from Chicago to New Mexico, I was like,
where the black folks at? Where at? Because I grew
up Chicago's very segregated, so I grew up with an
all black existence and so I was just like damn.
And so they didn't really have to adjust on that front.

(01:00:17):
And then when we moved to Burbank, I was like, man,
they ain't enough black black kids out here. Because I'm
one of my my kids around black folks, you know,
outside of the parents and our families. I was just like, well,
but Burdban got good schools and I was close to everything,
so I was like all right, So that was my
biggest thing is like how will they navigate through their

(01:00:39):
little social settings racially and all that and so, and
I was always interested, like what kind of girls they
gonna like? Oh yeah, and so so my my oldest,
my oldest son's first girlfriend.

Speaker 5 (01:00:53):
She was.

Speaker 4 (01:00:57):
It wasn't It wasn't Mexican.

Speaker 5 (01:00:59):
It was uh.

Speaker 1 (01:01:02):
El Guatemalan, Puerto Rican, Dominican.

Speaker 4 (01:01:09):
No, why why am I drawing a blank on where
they were from? It wasn't Guatemala, it was it was
South American. We'd just say that South America, not so
South American. And then his second girlfriend, I forget what
she was. She was a halfful though. I think she

(01:01:31):
was like half black, half white, I think. And then
my youngest son, his first girlfriend was Chinese or Korean,
one of those this girl Asian? So yeah, so Asian? Yeah,
this girl is this girl now is Asian. So it's
just like, all right, so that's their and so then
you know, you know, and I think I told you

(01:01:52):
I don't know who I was DM And I lost
my oldest son in twenty twenty one to a car accident,
and so he because we would talk about women who
who you like? You know what I'm saying just cause
I always be one to know, y'all like black girls,
that's just sad in my spirit. I was just like
because I grew up in a family that was racially mixed.
My mom is like half white and so and my

(01:02:14):
brothers dated whoever. My oldest brother's first wife was Filipino,
and then he remarried to an Italian woman, like from Italy,
proper like you know, accent and everything, good ass pasta.
My god, damn, I never had passau too, now, that's
what I felt like when she cooked. But uh. And
then my brother, my other brother, Scott, mixed it up.

(01:02:35):
His first wife was from Trinidad and like, so they
always mixed it up, and so I was just like,
all right, And so for me my personal taste, I
grew up with all black girls at the school, so
that was my flath. I was just like black girls.
And of course, you know, I didn't discriminate, but they
were always like the the main. And then my last girlfriend,

(01:02:58):
she's a Dominican import wreaking, was some Haitian in there.
So she was always from New York. Yeah. So, and
we're still cool as shit, by the way, And so
I always wanted to know if the boys, was like,
I like black women, right, you know what I'm saying,
I just want them to like black women. They can
mix it up, but just I just want you to

(01:03:20):
at least try to recognize and realize.

Speaker 3 (01:03:22):
It's interesting that you feel strongly about it. Did your
mom instill that in you?

Speaker 4 (01:03:26):
Nobody, really, We didn't have those conversations. I was just
going on pure like instinct, watching watching my brothers diversify,
you know, organically, because you know there'd be black girls
in there. They were just dating whoever, and so I
was just like dying whoever. And since I was around
so many black girls, it was just like that's all
that was in my school. There was nobody else, and

(01:03:46):
so I was just like and so I diversified with
skin tone, you know what I'm saying. Like Katrina Wilson,
she was dark and she was the color of the
black on that boot, and I was like Wilson. But
Erica Banks was also fine. She was super light skin.
So I was just like, I'm mixing it up.

Speaker 1 (01:04:09):
Yeah. It was just like with the boys, offended, like
shut up.

Speaker 4 (01:04:13):
That, nah, because I would ask in a way that
was just like what you think, just casual. We had
great like conversations because I try not to. The only
thing I imposed on them was like Chicago bears loyalty,
like you know, and I feel bad for that later on,
I'm sorry the teens was I forced it on y'all.
Mad y'all feel bad, but I apologize for that. But

(01:04:35):
as far as like women and stuff like that, I
just did lead by example type of thing.

Speaker 1 (01:04:41):
And your your wife, their mom is black black.

Speaker 4 (01:04:43):
She's black. Yeah. Relationship, yeah, great relationship. I'm cool with her.
Her her husband now, it's great. His name is Tony. Also,
we got the same first name in middle name. Shut
up like you got a tight And he's bald, but
he's white, but he looks like Jason Kidds. So it's
like when everybody finds out he's white, we'd be like

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you are. Even her she was shocked. No, she thought
he was like a mix or something like that. He's
like straight white.

Speaker 1 (01:05:13):
She still lives out here now.

Speaker 4 (01:05:15):
They live in Pasadenaka. Yeah, and my son lives in
San Francisco.

Speaker 5 (01:05:19):
Now.

Speaker 4 (01:05:20):
He graduated from school up there, yep. Until he out
there in San fran I was like, man, look at
you moving to one of the most expensive cities. In
America on your right out of college. That's braid.

Speaker 1 (01:05:33):
Yeah, you got to be proud of that.

Speaker 4 (01:05:34):
That's big braid.

Speaker 2 (01:05:35):
Yeah, I'm curious about your son that you lost. I
think a lot of people listening, It's not a lot,
but I know that there's some listeners that can relate
to that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:43):
Yeah, how how did you?

Speaker 2 (01:05:47):
How have you been able to I guess I don't
because I think about the loss of a child and
I can't even I can't even fathom. And I think,
especially because of yours was so shocking. There was no
like racing yourself for impact, like what has been the
process or anything that is giving you any sort of comfort.

Speaker 1 (01:06:08):
In dealing with that.

Speaker 4 (01:06:10):
Honestly, the most comforting thing I have is that we
had a great relationship. That's the main thing that helps
me navigate the grief is because we were good. Like
you know, we never had beef. There's no regret, we
never had a falling out like that. So there's because
a lot of people, like when you lose somebody that close,

(01:06:30):
a lot of people deal with guilt and regret like
I should have I should have did this, I should
have did that. I don't have that, like because we
were in a great space. We communicated. You know, I
saw my hour before he passed, so and our last
words were I love you, I love you too. So
that to me is the main anchor of just like, okay,
we were good. So I know what he left here.

(01:06:51):
He knew his family loved him, there was no doubt.
And so that to me is the main thing that
gets me through it because when I think about people
that have lost like that and they have to deal
with guilt and regret, that shit will tear your asshole
open and go in there no lube. So for me,

(01:07:11):
that's the that's the biggest tool that I use to
just get through it. And so you know, it's never easy.
You know, we're forever damaged, but it's like for me,
knowing that we were good helps me out a lot.
And I'd be like, man, because I never would have thought,
because you know, we always see the news and we

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see stuff and we see people that lose children we
put out we'd be like, well, I couldn't imagine. It'd
be like I wouldn't be able to talk. And so
when it happened to us and I'm talking and I'm laughing,
I'm still existing I'm just like I never would have
imagined i'd be able to you know, exists, like you
know what I'm saying now. Granted, in ground zero, I

(01:07:53):
was like take me instead, you know what I'm saying,
Like take you even now, Like even if God came
like I can bring you some back, take me, I'll go.
And so, but knowing that there's nothing you can do
about there, you know, I just have to take the
al So since I'm taking the air, might as well
push through. Anybody that you lose. They want you to

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still exist. Like my son would never want me to
just be like shut down and just stop moving. So
I know if I pass away, I would want my
family members be like, hey, I'm good over here, just
keep moving. So those type of things, you know, helped
me get through. And like I remember me and my
ex wife were talking in the backyard. This was in
ground zero after it happened, and she was just like,

(01:08:39):
I'm just grateful that at least with this he died instantly.
It wasn't a lot of suffering. We didn't have to
make a decision on if we had to pull a plug.
I was like, yeah, you're right about that. I didn't
even think about that, because that's a whole nother Oh
my god, like if we were in a situation where
we had to tell them and get pull a plug or.

Speaker 1 (01:09:01):
Sometimes people don't. Yeah, and I've seen that happen.

Speaker 3 (01:09:04):
That happened to and now the aftermath of that is
just you existing but not really really truly existing, and
that is in ground zero. You're just like whatever it takes, right, yeah,
not thinking it, you know, it's selfishly.

Speaker 4 (01:09:17):
So, yeah, that happened to my step cousin. My step cousin,
he was like in a coma like for long, like years,
I think, and so they finally let him go. But
it was just like, at least we didn't have to
deal with that type of situation within if we gotta
take this l let's look at the positives and so
those were like the positives that we drew from. And

(01:09:38):
so so yeah, like you know, that's why, that's why
I always tell people, like, you know, if you got
loved ones, whether it be family, whatever, you know, work
through it if you can, but make sure they know
that you love them and they love you, even if
even if you got beef with somebody and they're not
ready to forgive you just say your part, what you
can do, leave it over there, Yes, listen, I love you.

(01:10:01):
I'm sorry this I.

Speaker 1 (01:10:04):
Mean, that's if that's not a testimony. Shit.

Speaker 3 (01:10:06):
Even when I read it, I was just like, oh,
like it, I don't even I don't know you had
but never met you. But like, as a mother, I
think that is the biggest that's the hardest thing, is
like as a mother birthing something into the world, as
apparently birth is something into the world. Knowing that like
we're just all this shit is temporary and we are
just temporarily given these moments, you know, these experiences to

(01:10:27):
be close and to exist in this form, in this format,
and it's just like that is a difficult concept to
accept and to know that we you know, generally we
don't have power over how, how and what way we
come and we go need we come all in one
way the vagina, but how we go, you know, And
it's like it's it is scary. It's almost like a liability,

(01:10:50):
not a liability. But even with like loving someone, I
think about that too, Like falling in love is beautiful,
be getting married is beautiful, but it's like, but then
what if one day this person is gone? You know,
and like there's literally nothing you can do but right,
and it changes your whole trajectory of like your everyday routine.
You call someone like I can't possibly imagine, but also
like seeing you here and seeing you speaking and seeing
you work through it is like it's a testimony that

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every moment that we have to experience people and to
be you know, in laughter and joy and pleasure in
community is a gift, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:11:22):
And sometimes I think people get caught up.

Speaker 3 (01:11:24):
In the day to day bullshit, this rat race, like
oh my video didn't hit this, or oh I don't
get this, or all the bills is this? You know,
there's always going to be shit to be like stressed about.
But overall, like sometimes you have to lift the veil
of all the things that are happening directly in front
of you and just be like, look at us living
right and laughing and shit.

Speaker 1 (01:11:43):
For sure, life's basic thing, right.

Speaker 4 (01:11:46):
Yeah, the get up in the morning, That's all I'll
be telling people on my podcast. I'll be like, yo,
if you woke up this morning, that's blessing number one.
It's your eyes open and you were able to get
on your phone. If you on your phone scrolling. You
already blessed because you got a phone. It's working you
You ain't stressed enough to where I can't even look
at my phone. So I just look at you know,
stuff like that, and like you know, and you know,

(01:12:08):
I'll be fucked up, like it'd be certain times when
I'll be crying my eyes out, you know what I'm saying.
I still have those moments, but I just take the
waves as they come because it's just a it's a
wavy thing. And so but ultimately I'll be mad because
they don't show up in my dreams a lot though,
Like I'll be willing to see him more in the dreams.
Ask him. Yeah, I'll be talking to him all the time,

(01:12:28):
Like you know, I walk around the house because he
got cremated, so you know, me and Shari split the urn,
so I got to earn there and his pictures up.
I got paintings of them. And so I'll just be
like same, man show up in my dreams. Even my
ex girlfriend, she'd be he'd be in her dreams a lot,
like man, man tell him to come, tell them to
pull up next time you see him. And so but

(01:12:50):
every time people speak about him or like you know,
I come across people that are kind of like mediums
and like in that realm, they always say his energy
is good, like he'd be smiling a lot, And that's
always the feedback I get. And that's the energy I
feel even in her dreams, he's smiling, he's happy. I'm
just like, that's the vibe. Yes, And so I was like,

(01:13:12):
and that's what he was when he was here. He
was always laughing. They was laughing at me when I'm mad,
Like I'll be annoyed with something like you funny dad,
I'm pissed. Comedy.

Speaker 2 (01:13:23):
How have you been able to I guess if you
have forgive the people for the person that this happened to,
because I can only imagine like that that's a whole
other process that you kind of have to go through.
It was like the like the hate and the anger
and all of that, Like, how has that been for you?

Speaker 4 (01:13:43):
Now? That that part I've avoided for the most part,
Like Shari and her husband, they go to the court
dates because it's still like an ongoing court thing, you
know what I'm saying. So that that just took forever
and we're still working on because it was two it
was two cars involved in the collision that didn't involve
our kids. So it was my son, his best friend

(01:14:05):
and another girl and another girl that was driving but
she survived and two cars had hit them, and so
one was two cars. Yeah, so one was an adult,
one was a juvenile, so the juvenile case got a
little trickier. So but I went to one court date
and then I was like, I can't. I can't do

(01:14:26):
the court thing because it was just like everything felt
so final and sterile, and like, you know, when you
lose somebody, you can still dwell in their spirit, their energy,
you know what I'm saying, But when you go to court,
that's when it's like this ship is real, it happened.
There's no energy here. And so I was like, I can't.
I can't keep coming to court. You know what I'm saying,

(01:14:48):
y'all can keep me posting. Sometimes she would get me
updates and then I hang up the phone and just ball.
And so I was just like the court ain't for
me because I'm being there angry. And so anger is
something that I've kept in check for the vast majority
of the of the loss because I know it was
an accident. Even though they were stupid as hell to
be driving that fast and burdbank. I know it's an accident,

(01:15:12):
so it's not like I have that you know, you
murdered my son on purpose. It was stupid, but so
I'm like, it was an accident, so you know you
didn't mean to do it. So I can keep that
anger and check on that realm. And so for me,
because I feel like I can't do anything with the anger,
and I want it. So it's like the quarters gonna
make me angry. They gonna be in there. She'd be

(01:15:33):
telling me like you. She be telling me about how
the family be looking at them, like I would custom
the question exactly, at least your son is in jail,
but at least you can talk to him, You can
still hug them, you can still sit letters Jim exactly.
You know what I'm saying. So how dare you look
at Shari and her husband any kind of wayside ways?

(01:15:54):
You know what I'm saying. So when I hear stuff
like that, I'll be like, yeah, so it's like, you know,
this is just gonna fuck up my spirits. So so
that's how I've been able to navigate past the anger
and like the raide and just like you know, as
far as forgiving forgiving them, I kind of already forgave

(01:16:15):
in the way that I speak and the way that
I think about it. It was an accident. That's all
you can get from me, you know what I'm saying.
But as far as like me hating your guts, I
can't because it's just it's not gonna serve me.

Speaker 1 (01:16:27):
So can you for that? Because that's really I mean,
I can't.

Speaker 2 (01:16:32):
That's that takes a lot of courage, honestly, a lot
of bravery to be able to even speak about it
in that way and even honestly speak about it so candidly.

Speaker 1 (01:16:40):
So thank you for sharing.

Speaker 4 (01:16:41):
I feel like CHERI and them should get the real
courage because they be going to them court dates. They'd
be in there and I'll be like, I tell them
all the time, I'm sorry, man, I applaud y'all. Even
Jaden's parents too. They always go to the court dates.
But they be getting fed up, like you know, they
they I think they've kind of reached like a breaking
point now. But it's like I gotta you know, I

(01:17:02):
gotta live. So it's like, you know, I know that's
the courtrooms already gonna suck me up, so let it.

Speaker 1 (01:17:08):
Protect yourself. You gotta protect your yeah, your spirit. So
oh well yeah, yeah, no ranging good moment. There's a balance.

Speaker 2 (01:17:20):
Yeah, And you know, we got to talk about it all.
We gotta talk about the fun ship. We gotta talk
about the real ship, right parent shit, And I think
a lot of people here listening can relate that. So
everyone's lost somebody, and you know, the loss of a
child is something I think people get really hush hush about.
And I think more people need to speak about their
experiences to help other people be able to kind of
confront and and heal and face it. And so there's

(01:17:43):
a lot of power in sharing. So thank you for sharing.

Speaker 4 (01:17:46):
I'm always down to talk about Serena now always because
I don't want him to ever become He should not
be mentioned. Harry Potter ship, you know what I'm saying.
So always I'm always down to talk about him, speak
about him, speak about what happened, you know what I'm saying.
If I fold up in the moment, I fold up,
you know, But normally I'm good on like podcasts and stuff.

Speaker 3 (01:18:05):
I appreciate you men need to hear the message that
lets the emotions flow.

Speaker 4 (01:18:10):
Oh absolutely feel them cry.

Speaker 3 (01:18:13):
Cry that shout out, especially black men.

Speaker 4 (01:18:15):
I cry all the time. Even even before this type
of heartbreak, I used to make myself cry. I would
watch that scene.

Speaker 1 (01:18:26):
Tear they get the camera, there we go, that scene in.

Speaker 4 (01:18:31):
Pursuit of happiness, when Will Smith gets the job. I
would just watch that scene here. I'm I ain't cried
in a couple of months.

Speaker 1 (01:18:39):
You know. Then you choose the bathroom that's a Saturday.
Choose the happy tears.

Speaker 4 (01:18:44):
I choose the happy tears.

Speaker 1 (01:18:46):
I never thought about it.

Speaker 4 (01:18:47):
When he gets the job and he's trying to hold
it together in the office, and then he goes outside
the clap.

Speaker 6 (01:18:53):
I'm like about to cry.

Speaker 4 (01:18:55):
This is beautiful. This even their first scene when his
dad didn't show up. I'll be watching that too.

Speaker 1 (01:19:03):
Will Smith does it for you.

Speaker 4 (01:19:04):
Will Smith has the access codes to my tear Ducks.
He's a good actor, him, Tom Hanks. They just got
the access codes. Man, I'm like.

Speaker 1 (01:19:15):
A good as not the access code to my tear duck.

Speaker 9 (01:19:18):
Yeah, some people got the access code. I'll be like
you see they do kids cooking. They got the access code.
They got the ingredients and the access.

Speaker 3 (01:19:28):
Shit everybody got the access code to these eyes. They
must have leaked it on the internet.

Speaker 4 (01:19:34):
People.

Speaker 1 (01:19:37):
I like.

Speaker 4 (01:19:37):
I like crying, though, even in the movie. I get
emotional fast when I watch movies.

Speaker 1 (01:19:42):
You know what I hate. I hate when I I
hate when I cry and I don't want to cry.

Speaker 2 (01:19:46):
And then I can't stop the cry and I'm trying
to have a real conversation with someone. I don't want
them to like console me. I just want to talk,
But a bitch can't stop crying.

Speaker 4 (01:19:54):
And I'm like, I don't even want to be crying out.

Speaker 1 (01:19:56):
I'm ring.

Speaker 4 (01:19:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:19:58):
God, I've been taught to hold our emotions to conform
to Like, sometimes the.

Speaker 1 (01:20:03):
Tears get in the way of what I'm trying to
get through.

Speaker 3 (01:20:06):
I don't there's no rush. What's the rush where you
got to go just cry first?

Speaker 4 (01:20:11):
What I like about the tears is they're real. It's
like a real you know, you're not putting on in
that moment, can you know what I mean? So it's
just like, this is a real moment. So regardless of
how like when people cry in front of me, I'll
be like, oh oh, I'll just be like I just
I just keep listening. I just keep listening. You know
what I'm saying, Like, I don't force to console her. No,

(01:20:34):
you know, I remember the first time I was around
somebody that just burst into tears. This was in New
Mexico State Department of Black Programs. There was a girl
I knew, and she was just crying at the computer.
I don't know what happened. I don't know what because
I just walked in. She was like. I was like,
I just hugged her and didn't even say that, never
said a word to her, just hugged her for a while,

(01:20:56):
sat in the hug. She was sitting down. I was
standing there, and then that was it. I didn't ask
what was wrong. That's all that you needed. That was it.

Speaker 1 (01:21:05):
That's God. I prefer to be that type of consoler too. Deep.

Speaker 3 (01:21:08):
I just I'll be here physically for you. We can talk,
our bodies can telepathically exchange, like I was doing.

Speaker 4 (01:21:16):
With him earlier. Man, when I was thinking about what
dad was and he just blurted out, it's Friday, and
I was just like this, that's what we were laughing.

Speaker 3 (01:21:26):
Hes gonna take off his wave cap and it's gonna
be only your brain underneath.

Speaker 4 (01:21:29):
Yeah, man, Yeah, But you missed it though, because you
was you was sweating away.

Speaker 1 (01:21:39):
Everyone shut the fuck out. I don't know what you're
talking about, Tony.

Speaker 3 (01:21:43):
Do you have an affirmation for our listeners today? Sometimes
we asked our guests to have affirmations, something you go
by every day that gets you through or pumps you up.

Speaker 1 (01:21:53):
You know what.

Speaker 4 (01:21:54):
Like I'm always thinking, like, man, you know what. I
don't know if it's an affirmation, but it's like an appreciation.
Like I moved with gratitude all the time. Like my
whole thing in life was to be able to do
something I enjoy and be able to make a living
off of it. That's always been because I knew I

(01:22:15):
would find love. Like the way I look at love
is just like I know it's gonna happen, not to be,
not to be like Ericant or anything like that. But
I never was like, find somebody I will alone.

Speaker 2 (01:22:28):
I'm like, I won't I find one of these bitches
around here, even if even at the last second of
my life, I'm gonna find it.

Speaker 4 (01:22:37):
I'm gonna find somebody that nurse nurse. So for me,
my biggest fear and worry was will I find something
that I love to do? That I can make a
living off of. And so now that I'm in that space,

(01:22:58):
I'll just be like, thank you, you know what I mean.
So for me, I'm always thankful, Like even when I
be like, man, I don't feel like going over here
to do this, but this is a blessing. That's all
I got to do. This is what I'm you know,
complaining about. I got to do this for a few hours, right,
even if I have to shoot something that's like a

(01:23:19):
commercial or you know, a long shoot day. It's not permanent.

Speaker 5 (01:23:24):
You know.

Speaker 4 (01:23:24):
It's people out here going to jobs they hate forty
hours a week, you know what I'm saying, multiple weeks
a year, and I'm just even this, I'm like, this
is gonna be over soon, gonna be done with this.
And so I try to move in constant gratitude of
just like you know, I have my health, I got
health insurance, saying good good test results every time my

(01:23:46):
son is good. So I'll just be like, I love it, man,
So I try to I try to move in that
is that an affirmation?

Speaker 2 (01:23:54):
Yeah, moving gratitude, moving gratitude, Move and gratitude.

Speaker 3 (01:23:58):
I'll be forgetting sometimes. Girl here just smoking weed and
talking ship.

Speaker 4 (01:24:02):
That's the best life. Yeah, when you think, when you
think about the alternative, going to imagine going to work.

Speaker 1 (01:24:09):
I did, I've done it. I had jobs. I'm cool.
You just love It's not for me.

Speaker 3 (01:24:12):
I was getting in an argument with every manager I
ever had. They're all hating on me and then eventually
firing me.

Speaker 4 (01:24:18):
And you a fuck up. Don't be real, be accountable.
Were you a fuck up?

Speaker 3 (01:24:22):
I mean I was not the most punctual, but I
was great at the job that I was. I mean,
if I was fine, she was hungover. I was in
my twenties. I got the job that she was. I
was drinking on the job. I was a cocktail waitress.
She was a terrible employ All cocktail waitresses.

Speaker 4 (01:24:39):
Drink on the job whenever. Whenever I hear people say
I didn't.

Speaker 3 (01:24:41):
Get along with the manager, they were hating on me
because I was the friendliest, prettiest one there.

Speaker 1 (01:24:46):
I believe they were hating on me too. Girl, that's
I had attitude problem.

Speaker 4 (01:24:50):
She was.

Speaker 1 (01:24:51):
Actually I was good.

Speaker 4 (01:24:52):
I was.

Speaker 5 (01:24:52):
I was.

Speaker 1 (01:24:52):
I don't like customer service. I was late though I'm
always late.

Speaker 4 (01:24:56):
There's that, and then also it was late today. You
mother fuck? Why why did y'all, I'm late, McGee.

Speaker 1 (01:25:05):
I had a reason you were early.

Speaker 4 (01:25:07):
I was talking about I took it serious, man, y'all
had an email.

Speaker 1 (01:25:10):
It is serious.

Speaker 4 (01:25:11):
Y'all had an email. They seriously got an assistant. She
serious business up here. Let me not be late.

Speaker 1 (01:25:18):
You know we got to sign the We gotta sign
the things late. Sorry, anyway, pull a card. Can you
pull a card and just close your eyes and see
what that looks like? Look it up?

Speaker 4 (01:25:44):
What this means?

Speaker 1 (01:25:45):
This means, Oh, this is a good one.

Speaker 4 (01:25:48):
I'll be lying just to make me feel better.

Speaker 1 (01:25:50):
I think I know. It's the of the sex of swords.

Speaker 4 (01:25:53):
Y'all be reading cards and stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:25:55):
Looking at that. I think I do know that one.
It's like a soldier coming back more. Yeah, and he's
been victory. He's victorious.

Speaker 3 (01:26:03):
He's been through a battle, but he is victorious. Walking
in high with like together, you just freestyle based on
the I mean, we've been we've been pulling cards with
the thing for like two years. We should know more
than we should literally be miss Cleo at this point.
But I'm gonna pull it up just I'll give you
the ac they're all black because we're black.

Speaker 1 (01:26:23):
Yeah mm hmm, a little booger your I'm good it
like my mom.

Speaker 2 (01:26:34):
Help, it's all your finger bit don't be put on
the floor on your boots.

Speaker 1 (01:26:45):
Not just good books. I'm gonna walking around barefoot and
have a boogers like you have a child.

Speaker 8 (01:26:50):
You have.

Speaker 1 (01:26:53):
First of all, this is a human show, y'all. They
just been having.

Speaker 4 (01:26:56):
Boogers and shout boogers.

Speaker 2 (01:26:59):
Man, we talk about women with boogers matter, Okay, women
having bookers having nip.

Speaker 4 (01:27:02):
Slips and nip slips. I'm all in on a you know,
like sometimes.

Speaker 1 (01:27:08):
A couple of chin hairs. Let's be real.

Speaker 3 (01:27:09):
This has always been a show with real niggas ship Okay,
real real niggas over here, and sometimes bitches get boogers.

Speaker 1 (01:27:16):
And I'm your friends. So I had to tell you,
thank you to let you be out here.

Speaker 4 (01:27:20):
With That's a good album.

Speaker 1 (01:27:21):
Appreciate it.

Speaker 4 (01:27:22):
It's just get.

Speaker 1 (01:27:22):
Bookers, because you know, the bitches would be in the
comments like she.

Speaker 4 (01:27:26):
Had a big he could that be the name of
y'all next tour? Y'all do twelve cities? Next thing?

Speaker 1 (01:27:34):
You gonna come?

Speaker 4 (01:27:35):
If y'all have a show, I will pull up.

Speaker 1 (01:27:37):
That's not a six.

Speaker 3 (01:27:39):
It is that's a six of wands four six Okay,
six of wands, not swords, that mean same thing.

Speaker 1 (01:27:47):
That was the right thing what I said, But that
was just the wrong card that I pulled up.

Speaker 3 (01:27:51):
Okay, success, public recognition, progress, that's self confidence.

Speaker 1 (01:27:59):
You look he do.

Speaker 3 (01:28:03):
This six of Wands depicts a man wearing a victory
wreath around his chest and riding a decorated white horse
through a crowd of cheering people. His horse represents strength, purity,
and successful progression of an adventure, and the group of
people marks the public recognition of the man's achievements. The
rider holds an upright wand with a reef tied to
the top, further emphasizing success and achievement. He is not
afraid to show off others what he's accomplished in his

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life so far, and even better, the surrounding crowd is
delighted to cheer him on.

Speaker 1 (01:28:31):
See you're not even around no haters.

Speaker 3 (01:28:33):
That's why you got us. The six and ones appears
when you have reached an important milestone and achieved a
significant goal, and you're confident, self assured, and successful. You
harness your strength and talents to bring about happy outcome,
and your endeavors and made it through the chaos of
the five of wands, minimizing your distractions, focusing on the
task at hand. Yes there were challenges along the way, Yes,

(01:28:56):
but you overcame them by consecrating your energies on the
target of one suggests that not only have you achieved
your goals, but you're receiving public acknowledgment for your efforts.
You may have recently received an award, a claim of
recognition from your peers or from your work. It may
even just be a pat on the back, but this
attention is a big boost to your confidence and gives
you the strength to continue your endeavors. It also encourages

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you to put yourself out there and be proud of
what you've achieved, Shout your success from the rooftop, and
set out to be set out there for others to
see and cheer you on. You open to receiving love
and support from your biggest cheerleaders. Who are You're energized
by seeing you succeed. Now is your time to shine.

Speaker 4 (01:29:35):
That's crazy. Do tell why because it just sounded so accurate.
And y'all saw I was playing around, moving around and
up all that card and so well, I had a
moment where I I met will Smith a few weeks ago.

Speaker 1 (01:29:53):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (01:29:54):
And when I met him because we were doing something
for Bad Boys for and so when I met him,
he knew who I was and I was just like,
you know who I am? And I thought he was
just being nice and then he made reference to one
of my voiceovers.

Speaker 1 (01:30:11):
I was just like, ain't crazy.

Speaker 4 (01:30:14):
And so that that moment right there, you know what
I'm saying. I packed it away into my little luggage.

Speaker 6 (01:30:19):
It was just like you know how many times.

Speaker 4 (01:30:25):
And so, so that was the moment, you know, and
so and people were celebrating that in the comments section
when I posted the video and so. And then for
my birthday, when you asked me what I did for
my birthday, I went to New Mexico to visit my
mom and my brother. And then while I was there
for my birthday, I paid off her house.

Speaker 1 (01:30:47):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (01:30:48):
So it was just like and that's always been a
lifelong dream of mine to pay her house off. And
so I was just happy she let me do it
because I thought she was gonna be like, no, you
ain't and I was like, and so she let me
do it. I was just like, so that was the
best birthday I've ever had for me. She's like, this
is your birthday. I'm like, no, this is this is
my gift to you know. And so that moment right

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there was just like, you know, a dream come true.
So you saying all that, I was just like wow,
you know. And so I didn't I didn't say anything
about it publicly, but she posted about it on her
Instagram and then people was just like and I was
just like, that's beautiful.

Speaker 1 (01:31:27):
That's beautiful.

Speaker 4 (01:31:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:31:28):
So that's what I was like, Damn, but you are
an amazing son. She's so lucky and blessed you to
have a son that could do that and on your birthday.

Speaker 4 (01:31:36):
That's beautiful for my birthday. Yeah, it was great. It
was just like I'm gonna do this.

Speaker 2 (01:31:41):
And you were just talking about walking in gratitude for
being able to monetize your gifts do what you love,
and I think that's that was a lot of what
was said here is like you've you've figured it out
and you're doing it and you're already walking in it
and people are acknowledging your success and it's time to shine.

Speaker 1 (01:32:01):
You took a chance.

Speaker 3 (01:32:01):
Not a lot of niggas will leave New Mexico or
Middle bumblefuck and say I'm going to Hollywood and press
through and do all the bad extra work and still,
you know, continue to just have hope and and positivity
and optimism and then still execute. So that is an amazing,
amazing thing and a great testimony. And I'm very proud
of you.

Speaker 4 (01:32:22):
And one thing you said in there was like, you know,
being proud of the accomplishments. A lot of times I
don't publicly share them, share them internally, I'm trying to
get better at you know, because people want.

Speaker 1 (01:32:35):
To see, you know, emotions, they want to see.

Speaker 4 (01:32:38):
So I've been trying to open myself up to shop
and they.

Speaker 1 (01:32:40):
Want to see your heart too. Yeah, they want to
see your heart.

Speaker 2 (01:32:43):
So it's not even so much about like feeling like
this is gloating or anything. It's more so like giving
them a little peek into like who is who is
this man? Who is the more the making? What is
the making of Tony Baker? So don't be afraid to share.

Speaker 4 (01:32:56):
Yeah, that's that's what I'm working on this.

Speaker 3 (01:33:00):
Every single accolade, you know, you earned it, every stand up,
every joke everybody can't do that you're talented, and you
know people love you for your talents given gifted to
the world.

Speaker 1 (01:33:10):
So thank you. Yeah, comedy is healing. You probably hear
your own he're a healer.

Speaker 2 (01:33:13):
I hope you know that those people be saying you
are You're a healer because comedy really can literally change
the trajectory of someone's life decisions. Maybe coming to see
your show, they were like, I was about to do
some crazy shit before I came, and I came to
see you, and now I've changed my mind.

Speaker 6 (01:33:30):
Yeah, So like that's powerful.

Speaker 4 (01:33:32):
Yeah, it's dope. Like I love to make people laugh.
It's just like a you know, it's just an energy
that I can't like describe, like when they cracking up. Yeah,
like when I go for a while without performing and
then I performed, like mister, yeah, you know, because I'm
usually in my cave. I'm usually at home with the cats,

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the cats, but I'm usually in the house. So women
be frustrated me.

Speaker 1 (01:34:00):
I can tell.

Speaker 3 (01:34:01):
I can tell they like NI if you don't get
at that house with those cats, spend.

Speaker 1 (01:34:07):
Next you like you're king Kingdom? What you kingdom? No,
definitely wizard back there tonight.

Speaker 4 (01:34:16):
So and I don't even be at home, like hug,
I'll just be at home and they be there too.

Speaker 3 (01:34:23):
Like you know, you know, I can't leave because I
gotta I gotta feed them at two o'clock.

Speaker 1 (01:34:27):
That's the tourists. Your tourists. They don't like. They like home,
their home, homebodies.

Speaker 4 (01:34:32):
I love it. I'd be in the house chilling listens.

Speaker 3 (01:34:38):
Have you lights Hugh lights, you know, like we could
change on your phone the different colors and move. We
might need to send them to your house because that's
gonna really get your ass. And hell, we don't need
to send them because all the women are going to
be even more the still get like home. Like maybe
the Hugh lights make it date.

Speaker 1 (01:34:53):
Night at the house.

Speaker 4 (01:34:55):
And I'm not a big invitor of coming over now.

Speaker 1 (01:35:00):
I never want to see you. You better bring your
as to that concert in August.

Speaker 3 (01:35:03):
Okay, I'm about to go two weeks before, like nigga,
because I'm.

Speaker 4 (01:35:06):
A good time. When I'm outside, I'm a good time.

Speaker 1 (01:35:08):
Don't get you outside, but don't be outside. We don't
even be outside. But when there's something to do, we
go out. He'd be out inside with me.

Speaker 4 (01:35:18):
He like, oh, somebody listen, We know what we do.

Speaker 3 (01:35:20):
We invite everybody to our house. Invite me, okay, we
well to hear me coming over?

Speaker 4 (01:35:25):
Everybody fight me over. I come to people's house.

Speaker 1 (01:35:27):
That's what That's what we do.

Speaker 4 (01:35:28):
I don't like club and loungey ship. We are club like,
want to hear me doing stuff?

Speaker 1 (01:35:34):
We over outside a little outside as nigga.

Speaker 4 (01:35:37):
Yeah he outside, Yo, the street to here. When you
have something at your house, let me know. He'd be like,
we'll come to the note.

Speaker 1 (01:35:43):
He'll be in the streets. So well, Tony, thank you
so much because we know we've kidnapped you for him.

Speaker 4 (01:35:52):
It's so good.

Speaker 1 (01:35:54):
Can you tell our people where they can find you?

Speaker 4 (01:35:56):
They can find me at Tony Baker on Instagram, Tony
Baker Common Real on TikTok. I hate that I have
to have that name, but somebody already had. Tony Baker
on TikTok, Tony Baker Comedy on Facebook. Uh, subscribe to
my YouTube man Tony Baker Comedy on YouTube. Please subscribe
to that. I always forget to promote it. And uh,

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if you are in the LA area, check out Tony
Baker and Friends last Monday of every month at Flappers
Comedy Club in Burbank, California. Check out the Ball Brothers
podcast with me and Kevin on stage. Check out the
Verbal Cardio podcast with just me, and check out the
Daddy Issues podcast with myself, key On Polley, Craig Wayans,
DC Irvin, and Chaz Rogers.

Speaker 1 (01:36:39):
I was gonna say we need to come on that
podcast from not doing a lot of talking.

Speaker 3 (01:36:43):
Father, I said we should come on Issues, but I
was like, that's a lot of niggas.

Speaker 1 (01:36:47):
We don't even need to more voices.

Speaker 4 (01:36:48):
We only be having dads o.

Speaker 1 (01:36:52):
Other insights.

Speaker 4 (01:36:54):
We really do, We really do.

Speaker 1 (01:36:56):
When you want some good moms, let us know.

Speaker 2 (01:36:57):
Oh for sure, for sure, you guys know where to
find us at Good Mom's Underscore, Bad Choices on Instagram.
If you're watching this video and you haven't subscribed to
your YouTube channel, go ahead and subscribe and make sure
you join Patreon. That's what we've been posting all of
our bonus episodes while we've been off season, and there's
a lot of episodes that have stacked up over there, y'all.
Make sure you go over there and join our discord community,

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where hundreds of people are connecting daily weekly meeting in
human talking shit sharing their hories, asking for advice, pumping
each other up.

Speaker 1 (01:37:27):
I just shared it It's titty Tuesday over there sometimes
showing titties.

Speaker 3 (01:37:32):
So I just dropped my video by my MMF on Patreon,
So you guys definitely need to go check that out.
It's fantasy fantasy reel.

Speaker 2 (01:37:39):
If she's gonna be the last thing she does, everybody
is gonna hear about this shit.

Speaker 1 (01:37:42):
Please, if you haven't subscribed, if just.

Speaker 2 (01:37:44):
Please subscribe for this shit because she already cursed me
out because I didn't give her the energy she needed
when she told me the story.

Speaker 1 (01:37:50):
She was mad. She tried to start a fake fighting
on one of our episodes. I was like, what that
was a real fight. Okay. Anyway, you can find me
on Instagram at watch Erica.

Speaker 3 (01:37:59):
And me Instagram what at instagrams.

Speaker 2 (01:38:06):
But link in the episode is grip get the clicking bitch,
Bye bye jes.

Speaker 4 (01:38:11):
Yeah, I'm living so good.

Speaker 1 (01:38:13):
Can't you tell?

Speaker 6 (01:38:14):
I went through a drought.

Speaker 8 (01:38:15):
That's until I found out, Well, may my have been
known Earth? I used to be broken Hell now got
the blues in to like Beyonce Jasell throat shot with
pop in his car wearing our voices. Patriarchy kept it
in the box to exploit its women put the pee
and powers, so it's pointless.

Speaker 1 (01:38:30):
They want me to be good, so I made bad choices.
Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom.
Itter's in on the cannabis in their backbone.

Speaker 8 (01:38:38):
Walked in Boss's cap, and I blew his cat, Boss
hot dog. Now I'm immune to the cat called Herbie,
and no waisted straight to it like a dollar sign.

Speaker 5 (01:38:46):
Mother, rent the louver and to it.

Speaker 8 (01:38:47):
It's like a water sign. Where you're in the winter,
essential will win the summer time. I do what goll
Ain't no one that need to run it by

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