September 4, 2023 • 17 mins
A family day spent go-kart racing in Puerto Rico goes off track when an aggressive driver gets Ros all revved up! Find out why this mama bear was afraid she would end up on the news for defending her familia!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is He Said a Yadjo with Eric Winter and
Rodlin Fantaz. So welcome back to another episode of He
Said a Ja the hook almost as.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
I'm doing okay, doing okay, we have wow big stuff.
This week. We have Dylan starting kindergarten for the first time.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
How do you feel about that?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
I'm excited. He's excited. You know, this little dude's come
a long way. He used to be such a shy kid.
And it's funny. He's like one of the most outgoing
little kids in our family, more outgoing than Sabella. Even
at times he is.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
He is, Can I sell you something?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Incited?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
I was, And I didn't have this feeling when he
started preschool, even though he's like dropping him off and
he's actually going to like a little school. But there's
something about kindergarten. I was taking a shower this morning
and I was thinking about it and I was getting emotional.
I'm like, I am freaking out.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Why are you freaking out?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
I don't know, Like I don't have a baby freaking
out Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Not freaking out for him, just freaking out, Like why
how my kid is getting much older?
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Like my kid is getting much Yeah, like he's I
don't have any any babies.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Yeah, I started reminising. Know, it's funny. I started having
this thought the other day because he's still had this
really fun, cuddly, you know, loving stage. And it does
make me sad to think, like when he starts getting
to that, you know, much older, we have quite a
few more years where I think we start to lose
some of that one like one, I know, I know
(01:30):
you said that to another day. My mom doesn't want
me to get older. Oh that was in a video.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
I don't want him to. I see him and I
go the long, where's my baby? He's so tall, and
he's so smart, and it's almost like a little man
having a conversation with you, you know, like like he
speaks like an actual He has some.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Pretty good, you know, educated conversations.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
It's incredible and I miss I miss my baby. I
asked him today I was doing my makeup and I
don't know what happened, and he goes, oh, look at
your tommy, and then he says he says something about me,
baby came out of your tommy. And I said, yeah,
you're right, and I said, we work on preschool. Me
baby was weird?
Speaker 3 (02:07):
It was.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
It was kind of trying like to put together, like
I came from you. And then he said and I
said to him, I don't know why I said. I
said something about, oh, speaking of babies, do you want
to have a little a little sister or a little brother,
just to see what he was going to say, And
you know what, he said.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
No, because he wants to be there.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Yeah, And I said, what do you mean no? You
know Sabbie would love to have a little sister. And
he's like no, and but explain to me why why not?
And he's like I don't want to And I said
you can't even like a little baby brother will be
so cute, Daylan, And he's like, I don't want you.
You was so upset, and I was like, can you
put into words what are you feeling?
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Like?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Like why not? Like do you want to be the
or the last kid? Like you want to be the
youngest child. And he says, yes, yes, I don't want
a baby sister. I don't want a baby brother. And
I was like, okay, then what happened, don't worry about it.
But it's interesting because to me his personality, I thought
he was going to say, oh, yeah, when I have
a little brother. He was like, don't even freaking think
(03:05):
about it.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
What was the you just talked about an article? Was it?
Was it kindergarten or was it elementary school? What was
it about these teachers scaring kids and they just got
in trouble.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Yeah, it's a daycare workers terrified children with Halloween masks
were just punished in court.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
What were they doing?
Speaker 1 (03:21):
And the picture that the article shows is like the
scream face mask and the guy like and the kid
is petrified, Like what would you do?
Speaker 2 (03:29):
And they're just going around daycare doing.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
This at a daycare center? Can you imagine you just
send your kids to a there's so place where they're
supposed to be nourished and taking care of.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
It just shows you really have to do your research
as a parent of where you're leaving your kids and
who's in charge of them, and who's would you do.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
If you find out that some teachers or some employees
are doing that to your kid.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
They're immediately raising hell, oh.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
My god, guys, this is funny. I was very proud
of you and I'm the one that lost my bananas.
Puerto Rico and we go to this place that they
have like like go cards. So there's like whatever, like
maybe seven or eight gold cards at a time. They
give instructions, they say to you, you know what, don't
don't don't bump, you know, keep it civil. You know,
it's like it's all fun and games. Eric is with
(04:17):
Dylan in a gold cart and Sabella, for the first time,
is able to go by herself, like a solo cart.
So they start the race, and I see Sabella getting
a little frustrated because she's behind this lady. It's a tourist.
I can tell she's not a local, this lady that
is going a little slow for her liking. And Sabella
is like, I see her face and going, Isabella, please
don't try it on. So Sabella, of course, after like
(04:39):
on a race track now. But Sabella, after after three
or four turns, she decides to pass the lady very careful,
very carefully, didn't touch the gold card. She passed a lady.
But I saw the lady's face mega annoyed, and I
knew it it was going to be a problem, right,
So they keep going around and around around, and I know,
(05:01):
now I see the lady's behavior, I'm going to follow
her very close until I can pass again. So I'm
getting I'm seeing the whole thing happening, and I'm getting
more and more uncomfortable because i know what's coming and
I know me so funny enough, of course, the lady
goes to pass her, but decides to bump Sabella to
the point that Sabella's go cart does a full flip, right,
(05:24):
none like sins as spins and faces the opposite way. Now, Sabella,
it's like, oh my god, scared and kind of like,
what the heck happened? She stops. So she's in the
middle of the the what if you call it the
ring whatever and the track, and the lady keeps going
like nothing is going on. Right, I'm screaming, screaming, going.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
What the heck? I have no this is gonna happen.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
So now everybody's looking at me, and I'm waiting for
this right to be over, for the lady to probably
probably come over and cause a problem.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Maybe she didn't hear it because it's very loud.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
You guys, are everybody waiting?
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Yeah, but none of her family was there, right, her
husband was on the track.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
It was a freaking night.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
What do you do?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Like people?
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Normally, I'm the one that loses my cool noose. Situation
on the car with Dylan and this lady in front
of us was literally like ping pong like a pinball
off the sides of the track. Anytime you try to
pass your just like to have your ride be more
more enjoyable. She would cut you off to the point
of trying to run into you and clip you when
(06:30):
she has a little kid in the car too, totally
and is the thing. You're on a track, drive responsibly,
but also understand it's a racetrack. People are going to
pass you, and if they pass you, it's a game.
It's not that big of a deal. What I have
an issue with is that people that are the adults
acting like the kids. It wasn't like Sabella misbehaving or
or being irresponsible. It's this adult being mad than an
(06:52):
eleven year old pastor on the on the track perfectly fine,
like without bumping or without causing a problem. Now Sabella
would have bumped her that I understand.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Didn't. Yeah, it's it's tricky, guys.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
I almost got into it. I didn't do anything rather
than just the funniest I didn't even know this was happening.
As soon as I get out of the out of
the carrs like, don't say anything, just keep walking, walk, And.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Like what I was expecting a problem. I was expecting
the lady to come over or like something will happened.
I'm going, am I gonna have to fight? I've never
fought in my life. I have never thought of a girl.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
What I'm shocked is why you didn't start speaking in
Spanish to the people that work there, saying, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Where the guy went, the guy had to walk all
the way to Sabella and.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
The person for doing that, or the girl who's acting
like idiot bouncing off the walls, why don't you tell
the guy that she shouldn't be doing that.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Her family was telling you know, could I speak Spanish too,
so you probably couldn't be a yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
But I was like it was scary. I'm going please, don't,
don't don't do this to me. And I was like,
oh my god, I'm gonna be in the news the
next day because it was in Puerto Rico and this
place is very public and the people know me and
I'm going there, They're going to think I'm crazy. But
I was like, oh my god. But I was like,
am I going to be? Is this going to be
the place that I'm going to have to fight for
the first I mean high heels. She was going to
(08:04):
kick my.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Booty though she was bigger than me and like he
had a good fight, that would not have been a
good fight.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Although skills, I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
I will freaking.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
I will freaking I'll throw a punch that is going
to be a good one.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Unless she gets to me first. The key is throw
the first punch.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
If you throw, you ever fought, Like, have you ever
been in a fist fight.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
I've only been in a couple of fights, and I
was in high school, junior high like very big.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
One of my greatest fear you get into a fist
fight in front of me. Honestly, it's one of my
greatest Like it gives me crazy anxiety. Really yeah, why,
I don't know, because.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
I wouldn't want to see you get in a fight either,
because I wouldn't want to see you get hurt. And
I also wouldn't you know, I don't care that you're like,
it doesn't to me. It doesn't look better if you
beat somebody up, Like, I don't care. I just don't
want to so you get in a fight either.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
It was awful watching fights, street fights. It's uncomfortable, so
uncomfortable like a person. It's awful, Like I don't have
a problem like m M A or like a boxing
match them all over it. But people in the street
fighting each other. It gives me like I get really
it's really bad.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
And we used to have fights at school and it
would be like meet me here, and everybody would go
meet to watch the fight.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
And even that was it's awful. It's awful. And if
you ever get into a fight in front of me,
I think I'll pass out. But I will definitely I
think I will lose my mind.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
It's not like I will lose This is a random topic.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
I know, what are we talking about. You're talking about anxiety.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
You're thinking I go cause a problem with this problem
or at the daycare if they did that today.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Would a problem?
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Well for sure? For sure.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
It's good of like oh my god, it gives me
my heart is it's like bidding real fast. It gives me, Oh,
I hate it.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
It's all part the whole thing with kids growing up,
getting into this stage of new school news space. Kids
that are that you don't understand everybody's temperament or temper
even hear about your kid getting into a fight is
brutally young.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
It's brutal. I would now, I don't even know what
I'll do if my kid, Sabella, or like, somebody calls
us from school saying Dylan got into a fight, and
I will.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
I don't think anybody from Sabella is funny enough. And
I was already experiencing fights in elementary school, for sure, Isabella.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
I don't think I've ever heard of a school saying
that there's been a fistfight or something like that.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Thank god, Zero, I'm very very happy to hear that.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
This figure skater. Do you see this Canadian figure skater
with her son, Olympian figure skater a big truck a
car accident and she thirty something years old, Oh my god,
and she was killed and her little baby. It's insane
that also I read it this morning. And you know,
we have a we have a good friend of ours.
(11:02):
Sabella is really close. It's her actually her her best
friend that never allowed for nobody nobody was allowed to
drive her daughter. Remember, not even the nanny, nobody, just
mom and dad, nobody else. And we Also, we always
thought that it was like like we we couldn't do
that because we work a lot and we depend on
the nanny or your mom, you know, to help us.
(11:27):
And we always thought it was kind of like, that's
crazy that she doesn't allow anybody. Now she does, you know,
with the girl has been But.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Even you driving doesn't change something, you know.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
But there's something about me going like what if I mean,
God forbid that Sabella is with nanny, your mom or
you or somebody else that is not you and something
bad and there is a bad accident. I don't know
if I can survive mentally after that.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
But even if it was with me, if you weren't there.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
But just the fact that it's somebody else that is
not you, This.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Is another why why I know this is hard? Fact?
Is that a word that's okay? Let me switch gears?
Speaker 1 (12:03):
Fatal was the word fatalistic? Fatalistic?
Speaker 2 (12:07):
I don't I don't know, I.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Just made up a word fast?
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Is that not the best fisition? Listen speak you didn't
want to talk about this, but what do you think
about this heat? That this the coach from the Women's
World Cup from Spain. He's taking you know here his
mom has locked herself in a church. She's not coming out.
She's fully fasting until her son is taking off. Basically
the public trial who said that it's it's what's happening.
(12:35):
Now it's out, it's out in the press. Now the
mom has gone into the church and she's going to
his mother, his mother because his her son is being
attacked publicly for winning the World Cup and kissing one
of the players on the mouth. Not long, it's a peck.
It's like they're they're screaming, they're hugging. They we won
(12:55):
the World Cup. He gives her a big hug. Oh
my god, we want to got.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
And the Well, the problem is that the lady he
said it was consensual, and she came out saying it
was not. Oh the player, I guess she said it
was not consensual. It happened. I don't know where, but
it was not consensual.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
Well, I don't think anybody's thinking because.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
At that moment, the heat of the moment, they're celebrating.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
Ah.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
But the thing is the way he grabbed the face
very strongly. Yeah, and listen, I'm gonna tell you what's
going on. I think the problem here is the aftermath
if you know you're getting all this heat, right, And
clearly the lady's saying she's not saying I hated it.
I was severely uncomfortable. Oh my god, I've been abused.
(13:38):
She's not saying that. She's basically saying it was unexpected,
it was not consensual. But if you know you're getting
some heat, be smart and apologize, even if deep inside
you're like, you know what I did it, it is
what it is. If everybody be smart and go out
and say, I severely apologized. I had no idea that
(13:59):
she felt disrespect. It was just the heat of the moment.
We're so excited. What a big accomplishment she was. She's
one of my girls, she's you know, she's part of
the team. And I just got excited. And I am
so very sorry. But the fact that he became defiant
about the whole thing, and and now now it's personal.
Now the entire world, especially nowadays, canceled culture and now
(14:23):
you know, it doesn't matter what you do, you're gonna
be scrutinized. And now he's he's about to.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
Lose, he's gonna have to resign. They're not gonna after
he just won the world cup, which is.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
Crazy, which is sad. So, you know, we don't know
this man. Maybe he is a pig, who the heck knows.
But that's the way he went about it.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
It's the aftermath of how I went about it. I
truly don't think in that moment he was thinking I'm
doing anything wrong. I'm trying to, you know, do something
romantic with this girl. I like this girl. I might
take advantage of this girl. I don't. I can't imagine
that he's thinking.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
That unless we know there's some there's more to the
story exactly, there's some history that he is a bit
of a handful and the players are not really comfortable
with him. Then we're talking about a different conversation, but
we don't know that. We don't know that. I just
wish that he would take a little bit of a
humble pie and say, guys, I was wrong. I am
very sorry.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Well, his mom is starving herself in a church.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
It's sad. It's very sad because she's probably thinking, they're
attacking my baby, and this is not what is his character?
Speaker 2 (15:23):
What would you do?
Speaker 3 (15:24):
Well?
Speaker 2 (15:25):
Is it your kids of age? Right? So of the
kids of age, it's a big difference too, But would
you it's your daughter, she's twenty something. Let's say she's
twenty one, and then this is man who's forty something
and he's that coach. Would you what would you think
in that moment?
Speaker 1 (15:42):
I'll think, oh, that was odd? Why is it kissing her?
And then I'll have a conversation, Mommy, what was that about?
Are you that close to this man that he's comfortable
enough to do that? They didn't make you uncomfortable? Can
you talk to me about the relationship before that moment.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
But she's a twenty one year old adult and depending.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Spending on that conversation, she goes, Mom, I don't know
what it was.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
It was so weird.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Yeah I feel weird, but oh my god, I'm celebrating.
I'm happy it is what it is. We like the guy.
Then you can still go ahead and call the coach
or the owner of the whoever he is, and say
do me a favor. I know that everybody's very happy,
but don't do that again. But if she says, mom,
I can't stand it. It made me uncomfortable. It was disgusting.
It's not the first time that he tries it on,
(16:26):
then yeah, then it's different.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Is the latest that I've read on it is that
the he won't resign for kissing the player, but the
team won't play until he goes, so the team is
not happy.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
So I think there's more to it than it has
to be what we know. So at the end of
the day, if this is what he sewed, how do
you say that put you so exactly? Then now he's
dealing with the consequences. A pick is a pick. It's
going to be manifested at some point.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
But some of that is do you think that's still
it's on the mouth? But culturally like it's a very
affectionate culture, right, like you celebrate your CA's like it's
it's not yeah, But.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Will you ever if you are the coach of Isabella's
high school team. If you are the coach, would you
know you grab their face and kiss them out? You
have to be more so who knows at the end
of the day, who the heck knows? Anyway, I go,
I gotta go, I gotta.
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This is He Said a Yadjo with Eric Winter and
Rodlin Fantaz. So welcome back to another episode of He
Said a Ja the hook almost as.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
I'm doing okay, doing okay, we have wow big stuff.
This week. We have Dylan starting kindergarten for the first time.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
How do you feel about that?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
I'm excited. He's excited. You know, this little dude's come
a long way. He used to be such a shy kid.
And it's funny. He's like one of the most outgoing
little kids in our family, more outgoing than Sabella. Even
at times he is.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
He is, Can I sell you something?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Incited?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
I was, And I didn't have this feeling when he
started preschool, even though he's like dropping him off and
he's actually going to like a little school. But there's
something about kindergarten. I was taking a shower this morning
and I was thinking about it and I was getting emotional.
I'm like, I am freaking out.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Why are you freaking out?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
I don't know, Like I don't have a baby freaking
out Okay.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Not freaking out for him, just freaking out, Like why
how my kid is getting much older?
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Like my kid is getting much Yeah, like he's I
don't have any any babies.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Yeah, I started reminising. Know, it's funny. I started having
this thought the other day because he's still had this
really fun, cuddly, you know, loving stage. And it does
make me sad to think, like when he starts getting
to that, you know, much older, we have quite a
few more years where I think we start to lose
some of that one like one, I know, I know
(01:30):
you said that to another day. My mom doesn't want
me to get older. Oh that was in a video.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
I don't want him to. I see him and I
go the long, where's my baby? He's so tall, and
he's so smart, and it's almost like a little man
having a conversation with you, you know, like like he
speaks like an actual He has some.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Pretty good, you know, educated conversations.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
It's incredible and I miss I miss my baby. I
asked him today I was doing my makeup and I
don't know what happened, and he goes, oh, look at
your tommy, and then he says he says something about me,
baby came out of your tommy. And I said, yeah,
you're right, and I said, we work on preschool. Me
baby was weird?
Speaker 3 (02:07):
It was.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
It was kind of trying like to put together, like
I came from you. And then he said and I
said to him, I don't know why I said. I
said something about, oh, speaking of babies, do you want
to have a little a little sister or a little brother,
just to see what he was going to say, And
you know what, he said.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
No, because he wants to be there.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Yeah, And I said, what do you mean no? You
know Sabbie would love to have a little sister. And
he's like no, and but explain to me why why not?
And he's like I don't want to And I said
you can't even like a little baby brother will be
so cute, Daylan, And he's like, I don't want you.
You was so upset, and I was like, can you
put into words what are you feeling?
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Like?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Like why not? Like do you want to be the
or the last kid? Like you want to be the
youngest child. And he says, yes, yes, I don't want
a baby sister. I don't want a baby brother. And
I was like, okay, then what happened, don't worry about it.
But it's interesting because to me his personality, I thought
he was going to say, oh, yeah, when I have
a little brother. He was like, don't even freaking think
(03:05):
about it.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
What was the you just talked about an article? Was it?
Was it kindergarten or was it elementary school? What was
it about these teachers scaring kids and they just got
in trouble.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Yeah, it's a daycare workers terrified children with Halloween masks
were just punished in court.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
What were they doing?
Speaker 1 (03:21):
And the picture that the article shows is like the
scream face mask and the guy like and the kid
is petrified, Like what would you do?
Speaker 2 (03:29):
And they're just going around daycare doing.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
This at a daycare center? Can you imagine you just
send your kids to a there's so place where they're
supposed to be nourished and taking care of.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
It just shows you really have to do your research
as a parent of where you're leaving your kids and
who's in charge of them, and who's would you do.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
If you find out that some teachers or some employees
are doing that to your kid.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
They're immediately raising hell, oh.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
My god, guys, this is funny. I was very proud
of you and I'm the one that lost my bananas.
Puerto Rico and we go to this place that they
have like like go cards. So there's like whatever, like
maybe seven or eight gold cards at a time. They
give instructions, they say to you, you know what, don't
don't don't bump, you know, keep it civil. You know,
it's like it's all fun and games. Eric is with
(04:17):
Dylan in a gold cart and Sabella, for the first time,
is able to go by herself, like a solo cart.
So they start the race, and I see Sabella getting
a little frustrated because she's behind this lady. It's a tourist.
I can tell she's not a local, this lady that
is going a little slow for her liking. And Sabella
is like, I see her face and going, Isabella, please
don't try it on. So Sabella, of course, after like
(04:39):
on a race track now. But Sabella, after after three
or four turns, she decides to pass the lady very careful,
very carefully, didn't touch the gold card. She passed a lady.
But I saw the lady's face mega annoyed, and I
knew it it was going to be a problem, right,
So they keep going around and around around, and I know,
(05:01):
now I see the lady's behavior, I'm going to follow
her very close until I can pass again. So I'm
getting I'm seeing the whole thing happening, and I'm getting
more and more uncomfortable because i know what's coming and
I know me so funny enough, of course, the lady
goes to pass her, but decides to bump Sabella to
the point that Sabella's go cart does a full flip, right,
(05:24):
none like sins as spins and faces the opposite way. Now, Sabella,
it's like, oh my god, scared and kind of like,
what the heck happened? She stops. So she's in the
middle of the the what if you call it the
ring whatever and the track, and the lady keeps going
like nothing is going on. Right, I'm screaming, screaming, going.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
What the heck? I have no this is gonna happen.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
So now everybody's looking at me, and I'm waiting for
this right to be over, for the lady to probably
probably come over and cause a problem.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Maybe she didn't hear it because it's very loud.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
You guys, are everybody waiting?
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Yeah, but none of her family was there, right, her
husband was on the track.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
It was a freaking night.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
What do you do?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Like people?
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Normally, I'm the one that loses my cool noose. Situation
on the car with Dylan and this lady in front
of us was literally like ping pong like a pinball
off the sides of the track. Anytime you try to
pass your just like to have your ride be more
more enjoyable. She would cut you off to the point
of trying to run into you and clip you when
(06:30):
she has a little kid in the car too, totally
and is the thing. You're on a track, drive responsibly,
but also understand it's a racetrack. People are going to
pass you, and if they pass you, it's a game.
It's not that big of a deal. What I have
an issue with is that people that are the adults
acting like the kids. It wasn't like Sabella misbehaving or
or being irresponsible. It's this adult being mad than an
(06:52):
eleven year old pastor on the on the track perfectly fine,
like without bumping or without causing a problem. Now Sabella
would have bumped her that I understand.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Didn't. Yeah, it's it's tricky, guys.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
I almost got into it. I didn't do anything rather
than just the funniest I didn't even know this was happening.
As soon as I get out of the out of
the carrs like, don't say anything, just keep walking, walk, And.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Like what I was expecting a problem. I was expecting
the lady to come over or like something will happened.
I'm going, am I gonna have to fight? I've never
fought in my life. I have never thought of a girl.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
What I'm shocked is why you didn't start speaking in
Spanish to the people that work there, saying, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Where the guy went, the guy had to walk all
the way to Sabella and.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
The person for doing that, or the girl who's acting
like idiot bouncing off the walls, why don't you tell
the guy that she shouldn't be doing that.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Her family was telling you know, could I speak Spanish too,
so you probably couldn't be a yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
But I was like it was scary. I'm going please, don't,
don't don't do this to me. And I was like,
oh my god, I'm gonna be in the news the
next day because it was in Puerto Rico and this
place is very public and the people know me and
I'm going there, They're going to think I'm crazy. But
I was like, oh my god. But I was like,
am I going to be? Is this going to be
the place that I'm going to have to fight for
the first I mean high heels. She was going to
(08:04):
kick my.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Booty though she was bigger than me and like he
had a good fight, that would not have been a
good fight.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Although skills, I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
I will freaking.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
I will freaking I'll throw a punch that is going
to be a good one.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Unless she gets to me first. The key is throw
the first punch.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
If you throw, you ever fought, Like, have you ever
been in a fist fight.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
I've only been in a couple of fights, and I
was in high school, junior high like very big.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
One of my greatest fear you get into a fist
fight in front of me. Honestly, it's one of my
greatest Like it gives me crazy anxiety. Really yeah, why,
I don't know, because.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
I wouldn't want to see you get in a fight either,
because I wouldn't want to see you get hurt. And
I also wouldn't you know, I don't care that you're like,
it doesn't to me. It doesn't look better if you
beat somebody up, Like, I don't care. I just don't
want to so you get in a fight either.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
It was awful watching fights, street fights. It's uncomfortable, so
uncomfortable like a person. It's awful, Like I don't have
a problem like m M A or like a boxing
match them all over it. But people in the street
fighting each other. It gives me like I get really
it's really bad.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
And we used to have fights at school and it
would be like meet me here, and everybody would go
meet to watch the fight.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
And even that was it's awful. It's awful. And if
you ever get into a fight in front of me,
I think I'll pass out. But I will definitely I
think I will lose my mind.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
It's not like I will lose This is a random topic.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
I know, what are we talking about. You're talking about anxiety.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
You're thinking I go cause a problem with this problem
or at the daycare if they did that today.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Would a problem?
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Well for sure? For sure.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
It's good of like oh my god, it gives me
my heart is it's like bidding real fast. It gives me, Oh,
I hate it.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
It's all part the whole thing with kids growing up,
getting into this stage of new school news space. Kids
that are that you don't understand everybody's temperament or temper
even hear about your kid getting into a fight is
brutally young.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
It's brutal. I would now, I don't even know what
I'll do if my kid, Sabella, or like, somebody calls
us from school saying Dylan got into a fight, and
I will.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
I don't think anybody from Sabella is funny enough. And
I was already experiencing fights in elementary school, for sure, Isabella.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
I don't think I've ever heard of a school saying
that there's been a fistfight or something like that.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Thank god, Zero, I'm very very happy to hear that.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
This figure skater. Do you see this Canadian figure skater
with her son, Olympian figure skater a big truck a
car accident and she thirty something years old, Oh my god,
and she was killed and her little baby. It's insane
that also I read it this morning. And you know,
we have a we have a good friend of ours.
(11:02):
Sabella is really close. It's her actually her her best
friend that never allowed for nobody nobody was allowed to
drive her daughter. Remember, not even the nanny, nobody, just
mom and dad, nobody else. And we Also, we always
thought that it was like like we we couldn't do
that because we work a lot and we depend on
the nanny or your mom, you know, to help us.
(11:27):
And we always thought it was kind of like, that's
crazy that she doesn't allow anybody. Now she does, you know,
with the girl has been But.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Even you driving doesn't change something, you know.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
But there's something about me going like what if I mean,
God forbid that Sabella is with nanny, your mom or
you or somebody else that is not you and something
bad and there is a bad accident. I don't know
if I can survive mentally after that.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
But even if it was with me, if you weren't there.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
But just the fact that it's somebody else that is
not you, This.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Is another why why I know this is hard? Fact?
Is that a word that's okay? Let me switch gears?
Speaker 1 (12:03):
Fatal was the word fatalistic? Fatalistic?
Speaker 2 (12:07):
I don't I don't know, I.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Just made up a word fast?
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Is that not the best fisition? Listen speak you didn't
want to talk about this, but what do you think
about this heat? That this the coach from the Women's
World Cup from Spain. He's taking you know here his
mom has locked herself in a church. She's not coming out.
She's fully fasting until her son is taking off. Basically
the public trial who said that it's it's what's happening.
(12:35):
Now it's out, it's out in the press. Now the
mom has gone into the church and she's going to
his mother, his mother because his her son is being
attacked publicly for winning the World Cup and kissing one
of the players on the mouth. Not long, it's a peck.
It's like they're they're screaming, they're hugging. They we won
(12:55):
the World Cup. He gives her a big hug. Oh
my god, we want to got.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
And the Well, the problem is that the lady he
said it was consensual, and she came out saying it
was not. Oh the player, I guess she said it
was not consensual. It happened. I don't know where, but
it was not consensual.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
Well, I don't think anybody's thinking because.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
At that moment, the heat of the moment, they're celebrating.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
Ah.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
But the thing is the way he grabbed the face
very strongly. Yeah, and listen, I'm gonna tell you what's
going on. I think the problem here is the aftermath
if you know you're getting all this heat, right, And
clearly the lady's saying she's not saying I hated it.
I was severely uncomfortable. Oh my god, I've been abused.
(13:38):
She's not saying that. She's basically saying it was unexpected,
it was not consensual. But if you know you're getting
some heat, be smart and apologize, even if deep inside
you're like, you know what I did it, it is
what it is. If everybody be smart and go out
and say, I severely apologized. I had no idea that
(13:59):
she felt disrespect. It was just the heat of the moment.
We're so excited. What a big accomplishment she was. She's
one of my girls, she's you know, she's part of
the team. And I just got excited. And I am
so very sorry. But the fact that he became defiant
about the whole thing, and and now now it's personal.
Now the entire world, especially nowadays, canceled culture and now
(14:23):
you know, it doesn't matter what you do, you're gonna
be scrutinized. And now he's he's about to.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
Lose, he's gonna have to resign. They're not gonna after
he just won the world cup, which is.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
Crazy, which is sad. So, you know, we don't know
this man. Maybe he is a pig, who the heck knows.
But that's the way he went about it.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
It's the aftermath of how I went about it. I
truly don't think in that moment he was thinking I'm
doing anything wrong. I'm trying to, you know, do something
romantic with this girl. I like this girl. I might
take advantage of this girl. I don't. I can't imagine
that he's thinking.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
That unless we know there's some there's more to the
story exactly, there's some history that he is a bit
of a handful and the players are not really comfortable
with him. Then we're talking about a different conversation, but
we don't know that. We don't know that. I just
wish that he would take a little bit of a
humble pie and say, guys, I was wrong. I am
very sorry.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Well, his mom is starving herself in a church.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
It's sad. It's very sad because she's probably thinking, they're
attacking my baby, and this is not what is his character?
Speaker 2 (15:23):
What would you do?
Speaker 3 (15:24):
Well?
Speaker 2 (15:25):
Is it your kids of age? Right? So of the
kids of age, it's a big difference too, But would
you it's your daughter, she's twenty something. Let's say she's
twenty one, and then this is man who's forty something
and he's that coach. Would you what would you think
in that moment?
Speaker 1 (15:42):
I'll think, oh, that was odd? Why is it kissing her?
And then I'll have a conversation, Mommy, what was that about?
Are you that close to this man that he's comfortable
enough to do that? They didn't make you uncomfortable? Can
you talk to me about the relationship before that moment.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
But she's a twenty one year old adult and depending.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Spending on that conversation, she goes, Mom, I don't know
what it was.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
It was so weird.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Yeah I feel weird, but oh my god, I'm celebrating.
I'm happy it is what it is. We like the guy.
Then you can still go ahead and call the coach
or the owner of the whoever he is, and say
do me a favor. I know that everybody's very happy,
but don't do that again. But if she says, mom,
I can't stand it. It made me uncomfortable. It was disgusting.
It's not the first time that he tries it on,
(16:26):
then yeah, then it's different.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Is the latest that I've read on it is that
the he won't resign for kissing the player, but the
team won't play until he goes, so the team is
not happy.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
So I think there's more to it than it has
to be what we know. So at the end of
the day, if this is what he sewed, how do
you say that put you so exactly? Then now he's
dealing with the consequences. A pick is a pick. It's
going to be manifested at some point.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
But some of that is do you think that's still
it's on the mouth? But culturally like it's a very
affectionate culture, right, like you celebrate your CA's like it's
it's not yeah, But.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Will you ever if you are the coach of Isabella's
high school team. If you are the coach, would you
know you grab their face and kiss them out? You
have to be more so who knows at the end
of the day, who the heck knows? Anyway, I go,
I gotta go, I gotta.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
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