June 19, 2023 • 33 mins
Ros and Eric discuss the inner workings (or not workings) of their previous marriages. Ros shares personal details about her body and a maddening professional situation.
Plus, find out why Eric’s happiness is overshadowed.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is, he said a yad Ho with Eric Winter
and Rodlin fantaz.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hi. Hello, how are you?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
I'm doing good? How you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I'm okay? How is everybody? He said a Jay Hos.
Eric has a big announcement, big announcement. Yeah, I don't
have a big announcement. I wish I had a pick announcement.
What is your announcement?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
I don't have any announcement.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Eric is going on chicken bomb bombing?
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Is it? Yeah? I'm not going to.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Oh that's too funny, because I was. I took Dylan
to tennis last week. I was picking up balls and
somehow I just went over with chicken bomb bomb and
then he started copying it, and the whole class he
keeps doing that. And then another dad said that was
really interesting, a really interesting choice of music. I know
he's repeating it, and I was like, I know it
(00:56):
was funny. Ha ha ha. I didn't know it was a
porn Oh my god, why did you tell me that?
Speaker 1 (01:02):
No, No, this is going around going boom trick about
the entire class. Usually it means like porn sex. It
just means sexy. It means like sexy time.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
What song is that from? What from what's just like.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
A I don't think it's a real song. It's like
a generic porno Yes it is, you know. The trick
means like you're going to get down.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
That was very intrigued. What I chose that it was
cute that he was going.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
My son how to do a sexy song.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
I didn't tell you that kingson and Clemy's oh dad.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
My gosh. Anyways, that means what are you teaching our kids?
Speaker 2 (01:36):
He does it all the time of the house.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Great because of you. I don't know what you're bragging about.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I don't know you personally.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Be teaching him like a porn sexy thing. I thought
would be you. That's funny.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I agree with that anyways. So because I didn't know
it was a porno thing.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
So my announcement is not that I'm going to do
any kind of porno.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Or sex thing. What are you going to call the
rookie cookie?
Speaker 1 (01:59):
What the cook cat? What did I do?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
That is your porn moving?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
What?
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Listen? No, Eric is going to go to Monacol. Is
that Monte Carlo?
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Yeah, Monte Carlo for the Monte car.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Festival Festival represents in the rookie and he's very excited.
He's going solo for four days with his manager.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I don't know why you think I'm very excited. I'm
of course you're excited, but I'm not like you think
that I'm excited. Apparently I wanted to go with you.
We were going to go together. That would have made
me excited. Or you had to stay.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
I've never been to Monaco.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Have been amazing when i've been before, and I wanted
to go with you, and that's like I haven't been
in twenty plus years. But no, you chose to stay back,
which was, you know, the right decision because Dylan's graduating
from pre school or.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
TK, and I cannot believe that you decided to go
knowing that you were going to missus graduates.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
She talked about this crazy. I think we talked about
this in the podcast briefly. I didn't actually calculate the
dates correctly, and so that was my mistake. But I
was able to get a very special graduation performance for
me with him in the class, just me and the teachers.
I got to watch him rehearse and gave my Father's
Day gift, and so that was really cool and I
(03:08):
got all teary eyed and he did. I felt, yeah,
and I still feel super bad that I'm leaving, like
I've never done that. I don't think for him, for Sabella,
for I don't know. It sucks. So that part has
me down. And he's not making it easy because he's
really he's devastating, really sad about this about me going.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
It is very very attached to his daddy, so it's
like he's having a hard time. But I said, you know,
we're going to have sleepovers every night. You're going to
sleep with mommy. It's gonna be all good. And still
he didn't care. Still, he was like, what I want, daddy.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
You guys are gonna have fun. You're gonna have fun.
Are you're excited? I'm gone. I'm sure you get to
have some peace and quiet in the house.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
That part is. That part is great to me, not
annoying you.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Yes, it's good.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
See, it's gonna be awesome. I have a little vacation,
me and Sabella have a little vacationion.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
No, we are sad that you're leaving.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
It's it's it's interesting, for sure. But Monica will be fun.
I'm going to b manager Colton. It's gonna be a good.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Time, guys, young handsome.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
The party at the palace with the prince.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Wow, Prince interesting. Yeah, let's see how it goes.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
That'll be fun. What else is new on your end
that you won't stop about this? What's that thing you
want to do that paneuvaerne.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I'm not sure that's how you pronounce it, but it's
perneuval is this machine? Guy, friend Jena just did just
everybody's doing it.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Everybody's doing it.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
I want to be at least at least six people
that I know I have done it.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Six people's everybody's.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Doing you anyways, it's an MRI. There's no radiation and it.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Well, no m ris have radiation.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
There you go, so that's good. So the city scan
has radiations, so no radiation. You go in for an
hour and it basically scans. It's the most comprehensive MRI
in the history of MRIs because it will detect pre
cancerous like it will basically give you a whole map
of your future pretty much, you know, And a lot
of people that go in thinking, oh, you know, I
(05:08):
have a back pain or whatever. They go in and
something else manifestus in their freaking shoulder or whatever, and
there's finding two moors and cysts and all kinds of
things that people had no idea, So it's actually saving
lives when it is the way of the future.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
When did your research start on this.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I think it popped on my like a year ago.
It popped on my Instagram and yeah, for sure, and
then I was like, this is really interesting, Like I
am so curious because I think, first of all, I
think everybody should be able to get this for free,
you know, but you know, the health care system in
all over the world, especially in this country, sure it does,
it doesn't cover it. And it's twenty five hundred for
full body I think twenty one hundred for a head
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and torso and fifteen hundred for just torso no insurance,
so you know what, a lot of people cannot do it.
And it'll be fantastic if the governments will just pay
for this thing because it's preventative and so many things
things can be resolved, and so much her heartache you
say that can be eliminated, like you.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Will be a stress case.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
This is the thing I want to do it. I
have to call the company because you're inside a tube
for an hour. They put in Netflix, and they make
it very comfortable. But I think they probably say you
and everything if you are a claustrophobic. What they don't
know it's rosaline's claustrophobia.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
I don't think they really date. They probably give you
like a value to get your a little.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yeah, like a volume or something like that. That's not station.
I will have to be like like anesthesia. I'm out
sleeping for an hour. There's no way I wouldn't be
able to do it otherwise, And I want to call
them to ask if that's even possible. But I believe
that even when you're inside and you're watching Netflix, they
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speak to you. I don't know if it is to
tell you move your head. You're not supposed to move,
but I think they speak to you. So if if
there's a command that you have to follow and I'm out,
I can't.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Do it, I already as soon as they tay to
roll on your side and you just realize that you can't.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Move, I'll be screaming. First of all, would to last
fifteen seconds. We had our guest that she gave me
some exercises and some things that I was supposed to
do to help my thing. But I haven't done it,
but it's okay. Well, anyways, inside of two Like I've
been inside an MRI screaming and they have to take
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me up.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
I've been with you with an MRI and you had
to have a stick that had like a mirror on
one side of it that you could look to the
outside world. And I had to hold your hand like
I had to lay in the MRI. I practically when
I don't remember when it was formed. I was like
holding your hand, and then I can't do it. I
can't do it, I can't do I get it. I
don't remember going back in. Okay, you take your pilly
the half volume quarter value, you get more in your
(07:46):
way up quarter volume, half value, almost a full valume
holding the mirror. The mirror is dropping because you're like loop.
It's unbelievable.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Anyways, I want to do pernevo. If you're if you're
listening to this, can you please put me to bed
for an hour and then tell me all my issues
inside my body? Hopefully it'll come out like you are perfect.
There is nothing You're going to live until you're ninety
eight years old. I'm not interested, but yeah, what is
your ideal age?
Speaker 1 (08:13):
By the way to live.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Yeah, eighty eight, eighty seven, eighty seven because I like
the number seven?
Speaker 1 (08:20):
What about seventy seven?
Speaker 2 (08:22):
You no give me a little more because I'm an
old mother, so I want to at least see them. Okay,
let me see something. So if I'm eighty seven, how
old is Dylan?
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Well, you're you're fifty, right, thirty seven more years.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
And he's fine. Oh no, he's too young. He'll be
in his forties.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
I don't want to die when he's in his forties.
Oh my god, I'm going to have to live until
i'm a hundred.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Oh okay, Oh my god, I'm going to stick it
off a Dylan?
Speaker 2 (08:56):
Why did I become a mom so late? Ladies, if
you listen to me, don't wait until thirty five and onder,
don't wait for more than that. And I'm listening. I'm
all about career and ambition and just being independent and
just live your life and travel and enjoy and then
have kids. But oh my god.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
You know it's fun you bring you bring me up
to a topic. I remember this isn't fully relate, but
there was somebody a fan that wrote in, and so
they'd love for us to discuss this on the podcast,
and it says a friend of hers and just made
me think about this because you're talking about not having
kids too late and so forth and so on, And
it says a friend of hers has ENDO. Wanted a
hysterectomy when she was twenty nine. She didn't have kids,
(09:34):
still doesn't, she's thirty five now, never wanted kids. She
had a doctor tell her that he wouldn't give her
a hysterectomy, despite the end of complications, because your future
husband might want kids someday. So this doctor refused to
do the procedure for her based on the hypothetical What
do you feel about that?
Speaker 2 (09:55):
She never wanted to have kids?
Speaker 1 (09:56):
She never wanted to have kids, But then she wants
to instrect me, which you know what this is all
about now, because to get rid of that end of pain.
But the doctor said no, because your future husband might
want kids.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
So I see both points on both sides of the story.
I know what it is to live with ENDO. It's unbearable.
At some point you're like, I'm done, I want everything
out of my body, which is was it was my case.
I would have done it way before. I didn't do
it before because I wanted to. I don't even if
I wanted to have kids, but I was like, you
know what, let me just not do it. I my
(10:27):
gynecologists rest in peace. He passed away last year. That
delivered both of my kids. I think for at least
seven years, I kept telling my gynecologists, I want to
do it. He's directing me at one point, and he
kept talking me out of it. You have no idea.
It's not that simple. It's you know, it's like forget
about forget about it, and he was talking me out
(10:48):
of it, talking me out of it. I delivered both
of my kids, and I think two years into it,
I was like, I don't want to bleed anymore. I'm miserable.
I hate life. I want it out. And then one
day he took me seriously and he gave me read
this book, go to this Facebook page and research this medication.
And I did my due diligence, and then I read
(11:08):
the book and I ended up doing surgery with the
author of the book. I highly recommend it. It's been
pretty life changing for me, to be honest. Although there's
a lot of people I remember when I was doing
Davis Mates. I remember my hair lady she always said
to me, because she will see me go to work
all cramping. I'm so miserable. I want to remove my
freaking uters. And she kept telling me, telling me, And
(11:30):
to this day I think about her and I think
about that sentence. She said, my grandma always said to me,
do not mess with your female parts. Do not mess
with your female parts. Everything changes. Please, don't ever touch that.
And I'm like, I know, I know, I know. And
I ended up doing it, you know. And now I
see things with my skin and the quality of my
skin and my hair and little things that I just go, oh,
(11:51):
I think I provoked menopause to come early. I'm seeing
some differences when it comes to my whatever, and I
I'm pretty sure it's because of my hysterectomy. But I
rather live without pain than with pain. I don't care.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
But you're a person that was always on the fence
about kids. You didn't have a no.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
I didn't have a no, but I didn't have a
yeas I was like, if it happens, it's wonderful. If
it doesn't happen, okay, Yes.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
I was fine in this girl situation of she knows
she never wants kids. Do you think she should be
talked out of the possibility.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
I think what the doctor is saying is not wrong.
I feel like she was in her late thirties, but
she's only time now, No she was, so she's thirty
five at the moment.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Yeah, thirty five, And I think it's it.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
This is what I think. I think the doctor should advise. Listen.
I know you don't want to have kids, but you
don't have a partner, whatever your situation is. But if
what if at some point you do meet a woman
or a man that says I want to have a family, right,
or if you're single, but at some point you go
like you know what, I feel the motherly gene at
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the moment, I think, I, oh my god, why did
I do that? So it's very easy before you do
your hysterectomy if you are, if your organs are still
viable and they function, and you ovulate well and you
produce eggs, why don't you just.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Now? I mean there's a financial strain all that, right,
because you're gonna be You're gonna get an embryo, and
then now you have to get a surrogate, so which
is a bit more expensive.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
So it's definitely because she doesn't. If she doesn't have
a uterus, she's gonna have to I know. But at
least she has an egg. Yes, I think so, maybe
you're on the fence. Give it a few more years,
maybe a couple more years to like the late thirties,
before you make a decision like that. I just don't
want her to be in pain. That's the thing I
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think she should if she has the money to deal with.
He's directed me, although there sure is. Did insurance cover
my norm in? My insurance didn't cover anything. I pay
for the whole thing this doctor, I think, yeah, I
pay for the home.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
I think there's ways you can go.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
Because it wasn't like I had cancer or two more.
You know, I don't know why I paid for the.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Whole thing the doctor.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Okay, anyways, I think my advice is freeze some eggs
if you are financially able to do that as a
backup plan, just in case at some point you go,
oh my god, I would have loved to be a mom.
There's adoption, there's so many ways. There's a lot of
ways that you can have a kid. But if you
want your biological children, even especially if your men says
(14:29):
I wanted our kid DNA from you and me. At
least you say, you know what, I prepared fully and
I have some frozen eggs. Let's se if they work.
And if you don't have the money to do that,
and you don't want to live in pain anymore, and
you don't want to be a mom. You know, you're
the owner of your body and your mind and your soul,
and whoever man comes into your life or women, you
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just go, I don't want to have kids. That's the
end of it.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
Yeah. Listen, one of the one of the makeup parties
I work with, she's young and she had hysterectomy, same
reason and not it doesn't have a part. I don't
think she wants kids. And it was in a lot
of pain she had the director. Yeah, and she's so
happy she did it.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Yeah. I do know somebody in Puerto Rico that was
young had a horrible end. Do it wasn't sure like
me if she wanted to have kids and she run
for a governor of Puerto Rico. Fund enough, she's this
beautiful lady and the doctor said, I will remove everything,
but let's free them X. Because you're saying you don't
want to be a mom at the moment and you
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don't have a partner, and da da da da da.
But what if it changes and she did and now
she has a daughter.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Gives you that backup plan. Yeah, well, thank you doctor
Roslind for this episode.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Of Living Living with.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
No I hope that's helpful. I do for for our listeners,
because that was a question. Definitely, that was no joke.
Now I'm here and so many celebrities come out about
it now too.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
It's everyway. It's just people. It wasn't It wasn't a
hot topic before. Nobody talks about it, and and now
there's a lot of research and a lot of women
saying my life is hell because it's pretty much hell.
Well in the meantime, in the meantime, what else is
happening besides going to Monaco and having a good time.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
And leaving me happy? About happy?
Speaker 2 (16:12):
I think you deserve it. Your leg has been bothering
your back. You're a little miserable. You're not a happy camera,
so maybe this will make you. You know what, You're miserable.
We're going through therapy because you're miserable.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Miserable because your body, because you have pain and you
have like considering surgeries and not surgeries and devices and
like doctors and nurses and what do I do when?
Speaker 2 (16:36):
And there's a lot of turmoil going inside your head,
on your mind, on your body.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
That sounds so dark, so deep.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
No, it's okay. You're still a child. You don't complain,
You don't complain, but your your demeanor complaints, energy complaints,
aura complaints.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Okay, here we.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
Go, and I'm just quiet, minding my own business.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Last night when her stomach was wrecked and she was miserable,
your a, I.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Don't know it still bother me. I don't know what
I happen. I don't know what's going on, Reneve.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
I will tell you.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
So enough about you and me and everything that I heard, slits.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Do you want to talk about Here's here's a good
here's a good hot topic over about marriage. Because we
just touched on a little bit. The beauty is the
easy parts about marriage. O. Kelly Clarkson reveals why she
stayed in limiting Brandon Blackstock marriage for so long. She
opened up about why she waited so long for this
divorce after nearly seven years of marriage. Basically, you know,
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she said to be selfish for her was very important
that she's never ever been a selfish person. That's not
who she is. It was beaten into her. She was
not literally but since she was a child to have
a servant's heart, so it was very hard to not
just fight and stick through and work and push. I
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guess even though she was pretty miserable for quite some time,
she was never selfish and she just couldn't find a
way to pull apart in this marriage.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
But how are you selfish if you are in a
bad relationship that is not fulfilling you or making you happy.
Why are you selfish if you decide to be strong
and walk away. I'm confused about that. I think a
servant heart meaning I'm going to be a server. I'm
going to take whatever you throw on me because.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
You're going to ride. Yeah. I think she she wanted
to ride the wave, and she felt that she couldn't
quit on something, and she could quit on him, to
him on trying to always trying to save him, save him,
you know what I mean, she says, when when you're
in it, I'm like, I can do this, I can
reach this person and I can get through it.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
So he has so he has some issues and she thought,
I'm going to change him, I'm going to help him,
I'm going to heal him.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Yeah, okay, she wanted to keep serving the marriage, serving him,
taking care of it, trying to make it happen. Though
I guess it was misery. And you know, look, a
lot of people that believe that you should really stick
something out for as long as you can before you split,
and there are others that say, look, you need to
get out and you need to make sure you take
care of yourself, make sure you're happy.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
So how do you feel about that? Have you ever
been to somebody that if you think, Okay, this person
might not be compatible to me. I love her, I
like her, I fancy her, but I do know there's
some issues I can savor. I can change her. Have
you ever have you ever done that?
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Yeah? I mean, look, we talked about that a little bit.
Like I think of my first marriage. I was a
person I thought, surprisingly to me, was somebody that there
was a lot of things that I normally wouldn't have
jumped into early on in the marriage. But I was like, no,
I can fix this, I can change that. I can
help I can I think.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
You try to change her?
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Yeah, like certain things, make her stop smoking, make her
stop you know, she had just finished, you know, going
through a rough period with other stuff. Like I thought
I could help in a lot of ways. She wasn't
a bad person, she wasn't a mess, but there was
things I thought I could fix and that she didn't
want to be fixed in those areas, you know what
I mean. Like that was who she was and she
was happy with that. So I get that you want
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to try to fix somebody. But again, I'm not saying
that she was, you know, in a SUPERI like a
super bad place like this, you know, marriage might have been.
But I do have that characteristic where I think I
can fix or save somebody, you know what I mean,
So I can relate to it. But I also believe
it depended on how bad the marriage is, and it
sounds like this was pretty bad. I do see value
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in trying to stick and see something through and fight
and work because marriage isn't easy, you know what I mean.
You got to you gotta keep working. I don't think
you quit on marriage.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Did you work it?
Speaker 1 (20:48):
I tried in that one, but it was that was
not gonna survive, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
I think you guys were too young, too young, and.
Speaker 1 (20:53):
It wasn't what was I going to survive? It was
just there was two the issues were too deep for
a young couple to figure out. Unlike I think your
first marriage, where I think that was a bad marriage,
where it was just not healthy and you made a
decision fairly fast to get out.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
I did, yeah, And I thought, I don't think you
thought you couldn't.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
I don't know if you're I don't don't.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
I didn't have the tools or the maturity to be honest,
to fix anything. This person was older than me, more
experienced than me, and I think there was an element
of because I think I'm invincible. So I was like, oh, no,
I'm going to be the exception, you know, like I
am going to be the one that it's going to
be able to.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (21:32):
I don't think I was arrogant or stupid to think
I'm going to fix him. But I was like, it's
not going to affect me. We're going to be okay,
even though I realized the odds are pretty against me,
because when you're dealing with somebody like in his case,
he was abandoned by his It was three boys and
dad and the mom left them because you fell in
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love with another man and he was very young, and
the and the parents made the I don't want to say,
the mistake or they made the decision even though they
were so young to let them know. We are your
mom is out of the house and I'm keeping custody
and she's every bad name in the book because she's
leaving us because she's a were somebody else, somebody else,
(22:15):
but the bad like h you know, wh what whatever.
And when somebody grows up thinking that all women have
the capability.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
To do that, yeah, well the example is not correct.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
So the trust issues were way too deep, you know,
So it doesn't matter how good I was, because I'm
a good person. I'm never I'm never gonna do that,
you know, I'm I respectful. It was never enough because
the greatest fear was, oh, you're going to do it too.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
And I will add to a situation where I think,
like being in a situation like Kelly was much different
than ours is they have kids. So that also even
in a situation where it might be tough for more
more difficult marriage, you're finding ways to suck it up
and deal with it a lot longer. Or because of it.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
Because of the case for the sake of the children,
which I completely understand now that I'm a parent.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
But in general, I do think you know, when you
just have ups and downs in a marriage, Yeah, and
it's it's very tough at times. You have to push
through as long as everybody's to treat each other with respect.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Yeah. You know what's interesting I heard I don't know
who said this to me or if I read it
to be honest and not too long ago, I heard
that it's actually more or was it somebody on the podcast.
I don't know that it's more damaging for children when
they're teenagers, if there's a divorce that happens within the
family and it's not like five, six, seven, and when
they are teenagers, those like I guess eleven to nineteen,
(23:42):
those format formative years are so important, so it affects
them more than an actual little little kid. I imagine then,
because they're like discovering who they are because they need
a validation. I don't know what it is that I
guess it's really damaging when it's at that age I
thought me or here not knowing that it's more hurtful
(24:04):
if there are kids like two, three, four, five, six.
Then they're more.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Mature, probably forget when they're that young. I think their
new norm becomes what it is.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Maybe yeah, maybe.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
So let's talk another hot topic here. This is perfect
for what we're going through with our strike with AI.
Paul McCartney says the Beatles will release a final song
using John Lennon's voice via AI. What do you think
about that?
Speaker 2 (24:37):
Eluduro algigado. So actors and writers and we're all freaking
out about we're gonna be out of work because of AI,
and then we have people telling us, don't worry about it.
Just to a deal. It's just three years. It is
way too premature to know what's gonna happen with AI
and that, and then we something like this that it says,
(25:01):
you know, they're actually using John Lennon's voice and they're
gonna come out with a brand new track that can
it looks like it was done yesterday.
Speaker 1 (25:07):
But this one doesn't bother me so much though. This
is where I think AI can be cool, right, Like,
this is something where you have technology being able to
bring a track back that John Lennon had been working on. Right,
this would be the last Beatles record ever done. It
was a demo that John had worked on and they
(25:30):
just finished it all up. So via the technology today
we're able to get another Beatles hit with John Lennon
and Paul McCartney.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
Yeah, but you missing the point. The point is it's scary,
we love it.
Speaker 1 (25:43):
AI is everywhere, you can't avoid it. But I think
in this situation it doesn't bother me. For some reason.
This I'm not listening to an AI artist. Now that's
where it's going to be crazy. It's like you're gonna
have AI artists just right. I think it could sound
like probably some fake person's like a blend of people's voices. Yeah, voice,
(26:07):
it's not like you helium.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
Like how you call it, like like the mags.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
I mean, okay, let me ask you this.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
Imagine they create like the next Seline Dion. That sounds unbelievable.
It's a machine.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
But you wouldn't take any like you wouldn't connect you
because of the beat The best voice I've ever heard,
it's a robot. Of course it's the best voice.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
It's not going to sound like a robot.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
You know it's fake, so they make it.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
You know, how do you you know this show that
you love. This will be funny. Guys, the show That
You Love Dave Right that had this look mannequin and
that he was in love with that. It was like
a like a sexty. You know those sex toys exactly?
They okay, yeah, they look like a real woman. If
you're walking by, you will never think it's it's a
fake thing. It looks like can you imagine if they
(27:02):
do the most incredible voice with the with that look
that men go crazy.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Yeah, that's what you're going to get. I guarantee you.
If that's already a sex toy, you're gonna get a
sex way that will interact with you for sure. That's
be a huge business. Oh guarantee you. Oh my god,
think about the sex toy on day. That thing was
like a perfect looking like look like a perfect woman person.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
So, guys, will is this going to be a problem?
Is this going to make Yeah, the human pressure off
of women is going to be extinct, because like I
don't care about chilling.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
Bed that I don't to bother and I just go
go use your robot.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
That's brilliant.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
You see, AI works for everybody perfect.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
I'll buy her, I'll buy her for you I'll name
her for you. Oh my god, that's your AI. You're
gonna use my voice. My voice turns you on. You
can use my voice.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
We really deviated from the Beatles to a sex toy
using your voice. That was a sounds like a sharp right.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
Anyway.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
But would you ever be into our AI to connect
with loved ones from the past, Like, I don't that
doesn't What do you mean? I don't know. I guess
they're talking about technology where you can connect with your
loved ones. But because you're taking like John Lennon's you know,
past right, or using his voice in a song. But
I don't think you can really make up a script
that's going to make me feel connected to a past
relative because they've already passed. I just I don't think
(28:25):
I could buy into that.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
I don't know what you're talking about. How do you do? Know?
Speaker 1 (28:29):
Like bringing you like your voice, one passes away and
you use their voice, and you could probably bring it
to create conversation with that voice, the same voice, like
you're still talking to the person.
Speaker 2 (28:38):
It might be soothing for some people for sure.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
Maybe, but then you just know it's not real. You're
playing your imagination.
Speaker 2 (28:44):
But it feels real, feel real?
Speaker 1 (28:46):
Is that sex toy might feel real?
Speaker 2 (28:48):
But that's guys, he's going to get us sex.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
Topic discus. Paul McCartney says, no topic. God, no, no,
they're here. It is more celebrities are embracing their gray hair.
Rosland's not, but most celebrities.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
What are you talking about? Celebrities are I have posted
pictures that you can see my grayes, even even the
lives and videos that I actually make.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
Drink fun like this hair look got a grave. Photos
don't ever show that it was the most horrific picture ever.
Speaker 2 (29:21):
Yeah, listen, Yeah, they're embracing. Maybe it becomes a trend
now it's Salma, Jennifer and so.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
And it takes people like them that are taking rolls
like that, or they're just posting it on social media.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
They're just posting on social media. I'll believe the hype
when they actually do a role like that.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
That is not a wig, that is actually their hair.
And they want to be exposed, you know, they.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Might just be a little behind on getting some color
that week, so they're like, let me post a picture,
this is me with my grayes.
Speaker 2 (29:47):
I tell you there's women if you have a beautiful face.
I love women in the sixties and seventies and even
fifties that decide to just go natural and have the
grays out. If your face king of it, it looks beautiful.
The problem is when you face.
Speaker 1 (30:03):
Can avoid you afford it. Let me see it, bring
it out.
Speaker 2 (30:06):
No, I'm only fifteen, oh yet. But if I'm in
my seventies and I look great and my bodies it's fine,
I will try it. It'll be amazing.
Speaker 1 (30:14):
I want to post that picture.
Speaker 2 (30:15):
In my seventies. No, you want, And you know what's sad,
because man, if you're salt and pepper, you're hot, you're handsome,
it's like ooh, I like it. I personally love it.
But if you're a woman, it's like forbidden. It's like
no good. Especially for actresses, it's not comfortable, especially if
you're somebody that your career has, you're well known for
(30:36):
you looks. Salmi is a bombershell Jennifer Anist. Don't everybody
thinks that she's a beautiful, like good looking woman. You know, Angelina,
all the actresses that people always thought they are from
the beautiful list, not the average or the character actress.
You know, it's difficult for you to be like, you
know what, I'm going to do a three sixty and
I'm going to reinvent myself and now I want you
(30:58):
to see me as who I am. It's very hard.
Speaker 1 (31:01):
I want to see you who for who you are.
Speaker 2 (31:03):
Not of the moment. It's okay. Oh I don't have
a lot of gray. I don't. It's just like the
beer is almost getting it's amazing, it's almost I wish
you would live raised. But what's crazy about you is
that your hair not one gray and then your beard
is all gray. How is that possible? Like, no one
gray on top of your head A little bit over
here on the over here is super like, not even one.
(31:25):
I don't know what I don't want, but listen, you
know how women struggle actresses. This is really funny. So
I was up for this movie with this guy that
was a wrestler and now his I don't even know
was it wrestler. Anyways, she's doing really, really well. And
there was a girl, some girl fell through Ano. They're
looking for another girl, and I guess they want her
(31:47):
to be Latina. And my manager was like, you know,
and I'm friends with the producer, I'm gonna send your stuff.
They actually love the idea. They think you'll be phenomenal.
But they were thinking about so and so. So and
so is may be thirty two years old, be thirty one.
The guy it's probably late fifties. Okay, And I'm going okay,
(32:10):
So she's a female leader. Yeah, she's like love interest,
and they're going for somebody that is twenty something young
years younger. Unfortunately, listen, she's beautiful, she's talented. I don't
have a problem, but I'm like, if that's what they're
aiming for, I don't have a chance. I look, if
you put me next to her, nobody will think that
I am twenty something years older than her, Like, we're
very comparable, to be honest with you, because I don't
(32:31):
look my age, but it's just the stigma that they
know my age. Therefore, we're going to go with somebody
that is not as experienced, doesn't have my resume, you know,
but he's hot at the moment, and she's twenty something
years younger. And I was like, so, then can you
imagine if I'm dealing with that already.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
And showing your grades exactly?
Speaker 2 (32:50):
So, can you imagine if I'm I'm already dealing with
that that I'm competing with a girl that I can
be her mother, when I should get it because the
guy is not in his thirties, He's in his late sixties.
So why the heck your love interests have to be
lay fifties? Why does your love interest have to be
somebody that can be your daughter? You know what I mean.
It's like, come on, guys. So even on top of that,
I decide I'm just gonna leave my grades b. Then
(33:12):
I'm gonna get the roll about what the great grandmother
for my next movie. I'm the great grandmother of somebody.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
I will take the great grandmother as my elevend.
Speaker 2 (33:20):
That's very nice.
Speaker 1 (33:26):
Thanks for listening. Don't forget to write us a review
and tell us what you think.
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Speaker 1 (33:41):
See you next time.
This is, he said a yad Ho with Eric Winter
and Rodlin fantaz.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hi. Hello, how are you?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
I'm doing good? How you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I'm okay? How is everybody? He said a Jay Hos.
Eric has a big announcement, big announcement. Yeah, I don't
have a big announcement. I wish I had a pick announcement.
What is your announcement?
Speaker 1 (00:25):
I don't have any announcement.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Eric is going on chicken bomb bombing?
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Is it? Yeah? I'm not going to.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Oh that's too funny, because I was. I took Dylan
to tennis last week. I was picking up balls and
somehow I just went over with chicken bomb bomb and
then he started copying it, and the whole class he
keeps doing that. And then another dad said that was
really interesting, a really interesting choice of music. I know
he's repeating it, and I was like, I know it
(00:56):
was funny. Ha ha ha. I didn't know it was a
porn Oh my god, why did you tell me that?
Speaker 1 (01:02):
No, No, this is going around going boom trick about
the entire class. Usually it means like porn sex. It
just means sexy. It means like sexy time.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
What song is that from? What from what's just like.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
A I don't think it's a real song. It's like
a generic porno Yes it is, you know. The trick
means like you're going to get down.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
That was very intrigued. What I chose that it was
cute that he was going.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
My son how to do a sexy song.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
I didn't tell you that kingson and Clemy's oh dad.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
My gosh. Anyways, that means what are you teaching our kids?
Speaker 2 (01:36):
He does it all the time of the house.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Great because of you. I don't know what you're bragging about.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I don't know you personally.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Be teaching him like a porn sexy thing. I thought
would be you. That's funny.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I agree with that anyways. So because I didn't know
it was a porno thing.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
So my announcement is not that I'm going to do
any kind of porno.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Or sex thing. What are you going to call the
rookie cookie?
Speaker 1 (01:59):
What the cook cat? What did I do?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
That is your porn moving?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
What?
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Listen? No, Eric is going to go to Monacol. Is
that Monte Carlo?
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Yeah, Monte Carlo for the Monte car.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Festival Festival represents in the rookie and he's very excited.
He's going solo for four days with his manager.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I don't know why you think I'm very excited. I'm
of course you're excited, but I'm not like you think
that I'm excited. Apparently I wanted to go with you.
We were going to go together. That would have made
me excited. Or you had to stay.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
I've never been to Monaco.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Have been amazing when i've been before, and I wanted
to go with you, and that's like I haven't been
in twenty plus years. But no, you chose to stay back,
which was, you know, the right decision because Dylan's graduating
from pre school or.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
TK, and I cannot believe that you decided to go
knowing that you were going to missus graduates.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
She talked about this crazy. I think we talked about
this in the podcast briefly. I didn't actually calculate the
dates correctly, and so that was my mistake. But I
was able to get a very special graduation performance for
me with him in the class, just me and the teachers.
I got to watch him rehearse and gave my Father's
Day gift, and so that was really cool and I
(03:08):
got all teary eyed and he did. I felt, yeah,
and I still feel super bad that I'm leaving, like
I've never done that. I don't think for him, for Sabella,
for I don't know. It sucks. So that part has
me down. And he's not making it easy because he's
really he's devastating, really sad about this about me going.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
It is very very attached to his daddy, so it's
like he's having a hard time. But I said, you know,
we're going to have sleepovers every night. You're going to
sleep with mommy. It's gonna be all good. And still
he didn't care. Still, he was like, what I want, daddy.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
You guys are gonna have fun. You're gonna have fun.
Are you're excited? I'm gone. I'm sure you get to
have some peace and quiet in the house.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
That part is. That part is great to me, not
annoying you.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Yes, it's good.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
See, it's gonna be awesome. I have a little vacation,
me and Sabella have a little vacationion.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
No, we are sad that you're leaving.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
It's it's it's interesting, for sure. But Monica will be fun.
I'm going to b manager Colton. It's gonna be a good.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Time, guys, young handsome.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
The party at the palace with the prince.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Wow, Prince interesting. Yeah, let's see how it goes.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
That'll be fun. What else is new on your end
that you won't stop about this? What's that thing you
want to do that paneuvaerne.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I'm not sure that's how you pronounce it, but it's
perneuval is this machine? Guy, friend Jena just did just
everybody's doing it.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Everybody's doing it.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
I want to be at least at least six people
that I know I have done it.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Six people's everybody's.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Doing you anyways, it's an MRI. There's no radiation and it.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Well, no m ris have radiation.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
There you go, so that's good. So the city scan
has radiations, so no radiation. You go in for an
hour and it basically scans. It's the most comprehensive MRI
in the history of MRIs because it will detect pre
cancerous like it will basically give you a whole map
of your future pretty much, you know, And a lot
of people that go in thinking, oh, you know, I
(05:08):
have a back pain or whatever. They go in and
something else manifestus in their freaking shoulder or whatever, and
there's finding two moors and cysts and all kinds of
things that people had no idea, So it's actually saving
lives when it is the way of the future.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
When did your research start on this.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I think it popped on my like a year ago.
It popped on my Instagram and yeah, for sure, and
then I was like, this is really interesting, Like I
am so curious because I think, first of all, I
think everybody should be able to get this for free,
you know, but you know, the health care system in
all over the world, especially in this country, sure it does,
it doesn't cover it. And it's twenty five hundred for
full body I think twenty one hundred for a head
(05:47):
and torso and fifteen hundred for just torso no insurance,
so you know what, a lot of people cannot do it.
And it'll be fantastic if the governments will just pay
for this thing because it's preventative and so many things
things can be resolved, and so much her heartache you
say that can be eliminated, like you.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Will be a stress case.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
This is the thing I want to do it. I
have to call the company because you're inside a tube
for an hour. They put in Netflix, and they make
it very comfortable. But I think they probably say you
and everything if you are a claustrophobic. What they don't
know it's rosaline's claustrophobia.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
I don't think they really date. They probably give you
like a value to get your a little.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yeah, like a volume or something like that. That's not station.
I will have to be like like anesthesia. I'm out
sleeping for an hour. There's no way I wouldn't be
able to do it otherwise, And I want to call
them to ask if that's even possible. But I believe
that even when you're inside and you're watching Netflix, they
(06:46):
speak to you. I don't know if it is to
tell you move your head. You're not supposed to move,
but I think they speak to you. So if if
there's a command that you have to follow and I'm out,
I can't.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Do it, I already as soon as they tay to
roll on your side and you just realize that you can't.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Move, I'll be screaming. First of all, would to last
fifteen seconds. We had our guest that she gave me
some exercises and some things that I was supposed to
do to help my thing. But I haven't done it,
but it's okay. Well, anyways, inside of two Like I've
been inside an MRI screaming and they have to take
(07:23):
me up.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
I've been with you with an MRI and you had
to have a stick that had like a mirror on
one side of it that you could look to the
outside world. And I had to hold your hand like
I had to lay in the MRI. I practically when
I don't remember when it was formed. I was like
holding your hand, and then I can't do it. I
can't do it, I can't do I get it. I
don't remember going back in. Okay, you take your pilly
the half volume quarter value, you get more in your
(07:46):
way up quarter volume, half value, almost a full valume
holding the mirror. The mirror is dropping because you're like loop.
It's unbelievable.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Anyways, I want to do pernevo. If you're if you're
listening to this, can you please put me to bed
for an hour and then tell me all my issues
inside my body? Hopefully it'll come out like you are perfect.
There is nothing You're going to live until you're ninety
eight years old. I'm not interested, but yeah, what is
your ideal age?
Speaker 1 (08:13):
By the way to live.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Yeah, eighty eight, eighty seven, eighty seven because I like
the number seven?
Speaker 1 (08:20):
What about seventy seven?
Speaker 2 (08:22):
You no give me a little more because I'm an
old mother, so I want to at least see them. Okay,
let me see something. So if I'm eighty seven, how
old is Dylan?
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Well, you're you're fifty, right, thirty seven more years.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
And he's fine. Oh no, he's too young. He'll be
in his forties.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
I don't want to die when he's in his forties.
Oh my god, I'm going to have to live until
i'm a hundred.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Oh okay, Oh my god, I'm going to stick it
off a Dylan?
Speaker 2 (08:56):
Why did I become a mom so late? Ladies, if
you listen to me, don't wait until thirty five and onder,
don't wait for more than that. And I'm listening. I'm
all about career and ambition and just being independent and
just live your life and travel and enjoy and then
have kids. But oh my god.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
You know it's fun you bring you bring me up
to a topic. I remember this isn't fully relate, but
there was somebody a fan that wrote in, and so
they'd love for us to discuss this on the podcast,
and it says a friend of hers and just made
me think about this because you're talking about not having
kids too late and so forth and so on, And
it says a friend of hers has ENDO. Wanted a
hysterectomy when she was twenty nine. She didn't have kids,
(09:34):
still doesn't, she's thirty five now, never wanted kids. She
had a doctor tell her that he wouldn't give her
a hysterectomy, despite the end of complications, because your future
husband might want kids someday. So this doctor refused to
do the procedure for her based on the hypothetical What
do you feel about that?
Speaker 2 (09:55):
She never wanted to have kids?
Speaker 1 (09:56):
She never wanted to have kids, But then she wants
to instrect me, which you know what this is all
about now, because to get rid of that end of pain.
But the doctor said no, because your future husband might
want kids.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
So I see both points on both sides of the story.
I know what it is to live with ENDO. It's unbearable.
At some point you're like, I'm done, I want everything
out of my body, which is was it was my case.
I would have done it way before. I didn't do
it before because I wanted to. I don't even if
I wanted to have kids, but I was like, you
know what, let me just not do it. I my
(10:27):
gynecologists rest in peace. He passed away last year. That
delivered both of my kids. I think for at least
seven years, I kept telling my gynecologists, I want to
do it. He's directing me at one point, and he
kept talking me out of it. You have no idea.
It's not that simple. It's you know, it's like forget
about forget about it, and he was talking me out
(10:48):
of it, talking me out of it. I delivered both
of my kids, and I think two years into it,
I was like, I don't want to bleed anymore. I'm miserable.
I hate life. I want it out. And then one
day he took me seriously and he gave me read
this book, go to this Facebook page and research this medication.
And I did my due diligence, and then I read
(11:08):
the book and I ended up doing surgery with the
author of the book. I highly recommend it. It's been
pretty life changing for me, to be honest. Although there's
a lot of people I remember when I was doing
Davis Mates. I remember my hair lady she always said
to me, because she will see me go to work
all cramping. I'm so miserable. I want to remove my
freaking uters. And she kept telling me, telling me, And
(11:30):
to this day I think about her and I think
about that sentence. She said, my grandma always said to me,
do not mess with your female parts. Do not mess
with your female parts. Everything changes. Please, don't ever touch that.
And I'm like, I know, I know, I know. And
I ended up doing it, you know. And now I
see things with my skin and the quality of my
skin and my hair and little things that I just go, oh,
(11:51):
I think I provoked menopause to come early. I'm seeing
some differences when it comes to my whatever, and I
I'm pretty sure it's because of my hysterectomy. But I
rather live without pain than with pain. I don't care.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
But you're a person that was always on the fence
about kids. You didn't have a no.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
I didn't have a no, but I didn't have a
yeas I was like, if it happens, it's wonderful. If
it doesn't happen, okay, Yes.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
I was fine in this girl situation of she knows
she never wants kids. Do you think she should be
talked out of the possibility.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
I think what the doctor is saying is not wrong.
I feel like she was in her late thirties, but
she's only time now, No she was, so she's thirty
five at the moment.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Yeah, thirty five, And I think it's it.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
This is what I think. I think the doctor should advise. Listen.
I know you don't want to have kids, but you
don't have a partner, whatever your situation is. But if
what if at some point you do meet a woman
or a man that says I want to have a family, right,
or if you're single, but at some point you go
like you know what, I feel the motherly gene at
(12:59):
the moment, I think, I, oh my god, why did
I do that? So it's very easy before you do
your hysterectomy if you are, if your organs are still
viable and they function, and you ovulate well and you
produce eggs, why don't you just.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Now? I mean there's a financial strain all that, right,
because you're gonna be You're gonna get an embryo, and
then now you have to get a surrogate, so which
is a bit more expensive.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
So it's definitely because she doesn't. If she doesn't have
a uterus, she's gonna have to I know. But at
least she has an egg. Yes, I think so, maybe
you're on the fence. Give it a few more years,
maybe a couple more years to like the late thirties,
before you make a decision like that. I just don't
want her to be in pain. That's the thing I
(13:46):
think she should if she has the money to deal with.
He's directed me, although there sure is. Did insurance cover
my norm in? My insurance didn't cover anything. I pay
for the whole thing this doctor, I think, yeah, I
pay for the home.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
I think there's ways you can go.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
Because it wasn't like I had cancer or two more.
You know, I don't know why I paid for the.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Whole thing the doctor.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Okay, anyways, I think my advice is freeze some eggs
if you are financially able to do that as a
backup plan, just in case at some point you go,
oh my god, I would have loved to be a mom.
There's adoption, there's so many ways. There's a lot of
ways that you can have a kid. But if you
want your biological children, even especially if your men says
(14:29):
I wanted our kid DNA from you and me. At
least you say, you know what, I prepared fully and
I have some frozen eggs. Let's se if they work.
And if you don't have the money to do that,
and you don't want to live in pain anymore, and
you don't want to be a mom. You know, you're
the owner of your body and your mind and your soul,
and whoever man comes into your life or women, you
(14:51):
just go, I don't want to have kids. That's the
end of it.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
Yeah. Listen, one of the one of the makeup parties
I work with, she's young and she had hysterectomy, same
reason and not it doesn't have a part. I don't
think she wants kids. And it was in a lot
of pain she had the director. Yeah, and she's so
happy she did it.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Yeah. I do know somebody in Puerto Rico that was
young had a horrible end. Do it wasn't sure like
me if she wanted to have kids and she run
for a governor of Puerto Rico. Fund enough, she's this
beautiful lady and the doctor said, I will remove everything,
but let's free them X. Because you're saying you don't
want to be a mom at the moment and you
(15:26):
don't have a partner, and da da da da da.
But what if it changes and she did and now
she has a daughter.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Gives you that backup plan. Yeah, well, thank you doctor
Roslind for this episode.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Of Living Living with.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
No I hope that's helpful. I do for for our listeners,
because that was a question. Definitely, that was no joke.
Now I'm here and so many celebrities come out about
it now too.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
It's everyway. It's just people. It wasn't It wasn't a
hot topic before. Nobody talks about it, and and now
there's a lot of research and a lot of women
saying my life is hell because it's pretty much hell.
Well in the meantime, in the meantime, what else is
happening besides going to Monaco and having a good time.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
And leaving me happy? About happy?
Speaker 2 (16:12):
I think you deserve it. Your leg has been bothering
your back. You're a little miserable. You're not a happy camera,
so maybe this will make you. You know what, You're miserable.
We're going through therapy because you're miserable.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Miserable because your body, because you have pain and you
have like considering surgeries and not surgeries and devices and
like doctors and nurses and what do I do when?
Speaker 2 (16:36):
And there's a lot of turmoil going inside your head,
on your mind, on your body.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
That sounds so dark, so deep.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
No, it's okay. You're still a child. You don't complain,
You don't complain, but your your demeanor complaints, energy complaints,
aura complaints.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Okay, here we.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
Go, and I'm just quiet, minding my own business.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Last night when her stomach was wrecked and she was miserable,
your a, I.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Don't know it still bother me. I don't know what
I happen. I don't know what's going on, Reneve.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
I will tell you.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
So enough about you and me and everything that I heard, slits.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Do you want to talk about Here's here's a good
here's a good hot topic over about marriage. Because we
just touched on a little bit. The beauty is the
easy parts about marriage. O. Kelly Clarkson reveals why she
stayed in limiting Brandon Blackstock marriage for so long. She
opened up about why she waited so long for this
divorce after nearly seven years of marriage. Basically, you know,
(17:51):
she said to be selfish for her was very important
that she's never ever been a selfish person. That's not
who she is. It was beaten into her. She was
not literally but since she was a child to have
a servant's heart, so it was very hard to not
just fight and stick through and work and push. I
(18:11):
guess even though she was pretty miserable for quite some time,
she was never selfish and she just couldn't find a
way to pull apart in this marriage.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
But how are you selfish if you are in a
bad relationship that is not fulfilling you or making you happy.
Why are you selfish if you decide to be strong
and walk away. I'm confused about that. I think a
servant heart meaning I'm going to be a server. I'm
going to take whatever you throw on me because.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
You're going to ride. Yeah. I think she she wanted
to ride the wave, and she felt that she couldn't
quit on something, and she could quit on him, to
him on trying to always trying to save him, save him,
you know what I mean, she says, when when you're
in it, I'm like, I can do this, I can
reach this person and I can get through it.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
So he has so he has some issues and she thought,
I'm going to change him, I'm going to help him,
I'm going to heal him.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Yeah, okay, she wanted to keep serving the marriage, serving him,
taking care of it, trying to make it happen. Though
I guess it was misery. And you know, look, a
lot of people that believe that you should really stick
something out for as long as you can before you split,
and there are others that say, look, you need to
get out and you need to make sure you take
care of yourself, make sure you're happy.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
So how do you feel about that? Have you ever
been to somebody that if you think, Okay, this person
might not be compatible to me. I love her, I
like her, I fancy her, but I do know there's
some issues I can savor. I can change her. Have
you ever have you ever done that?
Speaker 1 (19:42):
Yeah? I mean, look, we talked about that a little bit.
Like I think of my first marriage. I was a
person I thought, surprisingly to me, was somebody that there
was a lot of things that I normally wouldn't have
jumped into early on in the marriage. But I was like, no,
I can fix this, I can change that. I can
help I can I think.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
You try to change her?
Speaker 1 (19:57):
Yeah, like certain things, make her stop smoking, make her
stop you know, she had just finished, you know, going
through a rough period with other stuff. Like I thought
I could help in a lot of ways. She wasn't
a bad person, she wasn't a mess, but there was
things I thought I could fix and that she didn't
want to be fixed in those areas, you know what
I mean. Like that was who she was and she
was happy with that. So I get that you want
(20:18):
to try to fix somebody. But again, I'm not saying
that she was, you know, in a SUPERI like a
super bad place like this, you know, marriage might have been.
But I do have that characteristic where I think I
can fix or save somebody, you know what I mean,
So I can relate to it. But I also believe
it depended on how bad the marriage is, and it
sounds like this was pretty bad. I do see value
(20:39):
in trying to stick and see something through and fight
and work because marriage isn't easy, you know what I mean.
You got to you gotta keep working. I don't think
you quit on marriage.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Did you work it?
Speaker 1 (20:48):
I tried in that one, but it was that was
not gonna survive, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
I think you guys were too young, too young, and.
Speaker 1 (20:53):
It wasn't what was I going to survive? It was
just there was two the issues were too deep for
a young couple to figure out. Unlike I think your
first marriage, where I think that was a bad marriage,
where it was just not healthy and you made a
decision fairly fast to get out.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
I did, yeah, And I thought, I don't think you
thought you couldn't.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
I don't know if you're I don't don't.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
I didn't have the tools or the maturity to be honest,
to fix anything. This person was older than me, more
experienced than me, and I think there was an element
of because I think I'm invincible. So I was like, oh, no,
I'm going to be the exception, you know, like I
am going to be the one that it's going to
be able to.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (21:32):
I don't think I was arrogant or stupid to think
I'm going to fix him. But I was like, it's
not going to affect me. We're going to be okay,
even though I realized the odds are pretty against me,
because when you're dealing with somebody like in his case,
he was abandoned by his It was three boys and
dad and the mom left them because you fell in
(21:54):
love with another man and he was very young, and
the and the parents made the I don't want to say,
the mistake or they made the decision even though they
were so young to let them know. We are your
mom is out of the house and I'm keeping custody
and she's every bad name in the book because she's
leaving us because she's a were somebody else, somebody else,
(22:15):
but the bad like h you know, wh what whatever.
And when somebody grows up thinking that all women have
the capability.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
To do that, yeah, well the example is not correct.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
So the trust issues were way too deep, you know,
So it doesn't matter how good I was, because I'm
a good person. I'm never I'm never gonna do that,
you know, I'm I respectful. It was never enough because
the greatest fear was, oh, you're going to do it too.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
And I will add to a situation where I think,
like being in a situation like Kelly was much different
than ours is they have kids. So that also even
in a situation where it might be tough for more
more difficult marriage, you're finding ways to suck it up
and deal with it a lot longer. Or because of it.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
Because of the case for the sake of the children,
which I completely understand now that I'm a parent.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
But in general, I do think you know, when you
just have ups and downs in a marriage, Yeah, and
it's it's very tough at times. You have to push
through as long as everybody's to treat each other with respect.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Yeah. You know what's interesting I heard I don't know
who said this to me or if I read it
to be honest and not too long ago, I heard
that it's actually more or was it somebody on the podcast.
I don't know that it's more damaging for children when
they're teenagers, if there's a divorce that happens within the
family and it's not like five, six, seven, and when
they are teenagers, those like I guess eleven to nineteen,
(23:42):
those format formative years are so important, so it affects
them more than an actual little little kid. I imagine then,
because they're like discovering who they are because they need
a validation. I don't know what it is that I
guess it's really damaging when it's at that age I
thought me or here not knowing that it's more hurtful
(24:04):
if there are kids like two, three, four, five, six.
Then they're more.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Mature, probably forget when they're that young. I think their
new norm becomes what it is.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Maybe yeah, maybe.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
So let's talk another hot topic here. This is perfect
for what we're going through with our strike with AI.
Paul McCartney says the Beatles will release a final song
using John Lennon's voice via AI. What do you think
about that?
Speaker 2 (24:37):
Eluduro algigado. So actors and writers and we're all freaking
out about we're gonna be out of work because of AI,
and then we have people telling us, don't worry about it.
Just to a deal. It's just three years. It is
way too premature to know what's gonna happen with AI
and that, and then we something like this that it says,
(25:01):
you know, they're actually using John Lennon's voice and they're
gonna come out with a brand new track that can
it looks like it was done yesterday.
Speaker 1 (25:07):
But this one doesn't bother me so much though. This
is where I think AI can be cool, right, Like,
this is something where you have technology being able to
bring a track back that John Lennon had been working on. Right,
this would be the last Beatles record ever done. It
was a demo that John had worked on and they
(25:30):
just finished it all up. So via the technology today
we're able to get another Beatles hit with John Lennon
and Paul McCartney.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
Yeah, but you missing the point. The point is it's scary,
we love it.
Speaker 1 (25:43):
AI is everywhere, you can't avoid it. But I think
in this situation it doesn't bother me. For some reason.
This I'm not listening to an AI artist. Now that's
where it's going to be crazy. It's like you're gonna
have AI artists just right. I think it could sound
like probably some fake person's like a blend of people's voices. Yeah, voice,
(26:07):
it's not like you helium.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
Like how you call it, like like the mags.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
I mean, okay, let me ask you this.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
Imagine they create like the next Seline Dion. That sounds unbelievable.
It's a machine.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
But you wouldn't take any like you wouldn't connect you
because of the beat The best voice I've ever heard,
it's a robot. Of course it's the best voice.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
It's not going to sound like a robot.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
You know it's fake, so they make it.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
You know, how do you you know this show that
you love. This will be funny. Guys, the show That
You Love Dave Right that had this look mannequin and
that he was in love with that. It was like
a like a sexty. You know those sex toys exactly?
They okay, yeah, they look like a real woman. If
you're walking by, you will never think it's it's a
fake thing. It looks like can you imagine if they
(27:02):
do the most incredible voice with the with that look
that men go crazy.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Yeah, that's what you're going to get. I guarantee you.
If that's already a sex toy, you're gonna get a
sex way that will interact with you for sure. That's
be a huge business. Oh guarantee you. Oh my god,
think about the sex toy on day. That thing was
like a perfect looking like look like a perfect woman person.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
So, guys, will is this going to be a problem?
Is this going to make Yeah, the human pressure off
of women is going to be extinct, because like I
don't care about chilling.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
Bed that I don't to bother and I just go
go use your robot.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
That's brilliant.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
You see, AI works for everybody perfect.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
I'll buy her, I'll buy her for you I'll name
her for you. Oh my god, that's your AI. You're
gonna use my voice. My voice turns you on. You
can use my voice.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
We really deviated from the Beatles to a sex toy
using your voice. That was a sounds like a sharp right.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
Anyway.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
But would you ever be into our AI to connect
with loved ones from the past, Like, I don't that
doesn't What do you mean? I don't know. I guess
they're talking about technology where you can connect with your
loved ones. But because you're taking like John Lennon's you know,
past right, or using his voice in a song. But
I don't think you can really make up a script
that's going to make me feel connected to a past
relative because they've already passed. I just I don't think
(28:25):
I could buy into that.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
I don't know what you're talking about. How do you do? Know?
Speaker 1 (28:29):
Like bringing you like your voice, one passes away and
you use their voice, and you could probably bring it
to create conversation with that voice, the same voice, like
you're still talking to the person.
Speaker 2 (28:38):
It might be soothing for some people for sure.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
Maybe, but then you just know it's not real. You're
playing your imagination.
Speaker 2 (28:44):
But it feels real, feel real?
Speaker 1 (28:46):
Is that sex toy might feel real?
Speaker 2 (28:48):
But that's guys, he's going to get us sex.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
Topic discus. Paul McCartney says, no topic. God, no, no,
they're here. It is more celebrities are embracing their gray hair.
Rosland's not, but most celebrities.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
What are you talking about? Celebrities are I have posted
pictures that you can see my grayes, even even the
lives and videos that I actually make.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
Drink fun like this hair look got a grave. Photos
don't ever show that it was the most horrific picture ever.
Speaker 2 (29:21):
Yeah, listen, Yeah, they're embracing. Maybe it becomes a trend
now it's Salma, Jennifer and so.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
And it takes people like them that are taking rolls
like that, or they're just posting it on social media.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
They're just posting on social media. I'll believe the hype
when they actually do a role like that.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
That is not a wig, that is actually their hair.
And they want to be exposed, you know, they.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Might just be a little behind on getting some color
that week, so they're like, let me post a picture,
this is me with my grayes.
Speaker 2 (29:47):
I tell you there's women if you have a beautiful face.
I love women in the sixties and seventies and even
fifties that decide to just go natural and have the
grays out. If your face king of it, it looks beautiful.
The problem is when you face.
Speaker 1 (30:03):
Can avoid you afford it. Let me see it, bring
it out.
Speaker 2 (30:06):
No, I'm only fifteen, oh yet. But if I'm in
my seventies and I look great and my bodies it's fine,
I will try it. It'll be amazing.
Speaker 1 (30:14):
I want to post that picture.
Speaker 2 (30:15):
In my seventies. No, you want, And you know what's sad,
because man, if you're salt and pepper, you're hot, you're handsome,
it's like ooh, I like it. I personally love it.
But if you're a woman, it's like forbidden. It's like
no good. Especially for actresses, it's not comfortable, especially if
you're somebody that your career has, you're well known for
(30:36):
you looks. Salmi is a bombershell Jennifer Anist. Don't everybody
thinks that she's a beautiful, like good looking woman. You know, Angelina,
all the actresses that people always thought they are from
the beautiful list, not the average or the character actress.
You know, it's difficult for you to be like, you
know what, I'm going to do a three sixty and
I'm going to reinvent myself and now I want you
(30:58):
to see me as who I am. It's very hard.
Speaker 1 (31:01):
I want to see you who for who you are.
Speaker 2 (31:03):
Not of the moment. It's okay. Oh I don't have
a lot of gray. I don't. It's just like the
beer is almost getting it's amazing, it's almost I wish
you would live raised. But what's crazy about you is
that your hair not one gray and then your beard
is all gray. How is that possible? Like, no one
gray on top of your head A little bit over
here on the over here is super like, not even one.
(31:25):
I don't know what I don't want, but listen, you
know how women struggle actresses. This is really funny. So
I was up for this movie with this guy that
was a wrestler and now his I don't even know
was it wrestler. Anyways, she's doing really, really well. And
there was a girl, some girl fell through Ano. They're
looking for another girl, and I guess they want her
(31:47):
to be Latina. And my manager was like, you know,
and I'm friends with the producer, I'm gonna send your stuff.
They actually love the idea. They think you'll be phenomenal.
But they were thinking about so and so. So and
so is may be thirty two years old, be thirty one.
The guy it's probably late fifties. Okay, And I'm going okay,
(32:10):
So she's a female leader. Yeah, she's like love interest,
and they're going for somebody that is twenty something young
years younger. Unfortunately, listen, she's beautiful, she's talented. I don't
have a problem, but I'm like, if that's what they're
aiming for, I don't have a chance. I look, if
you put me next to her, nobody will think that
I am twenty something years older than her, Like, we're
very comparable, to be honest with you, because I don't
(32:31):
look my age, but it's just the stigma that they
know my age. Therefore, we're going to go with somebody
that is not as experienced, doesn't have my resume, you know,
but he's hot at the moment, and she's twenty something
years younger. And I was like, so, then can you
imagine if I'm dealing with that already.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
And showing your grades exactly?
Speaker 2 (32:50):
So, can you imagine if I'm I'm already dealing with
that that I'm competing with a girl that I can
be her mother, when I should get it because the
guy is not in his thirties, He's in his late sixties.
So why the heck your love interests have to be
lay fifties? Why does your love interest have to be
somebody that can be your daughter? You know what I mean.
It's like, come on, guys. So even on top of that,
I decide I'm just gonna leave my grades b. Then
(33:12):
I'm gonna get the roll about what the great grandmother
for my next movie. I'm the great grandmother of somebody.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
I will take the great grandmother as my elevend.
Speaker 2 (33:20):
That's very nice.
Speaker 1 (33:26):
Thanks for listening. Don't forget to write us a review
and tell us what you think.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
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Speaker 1 (33:41):
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