August 10, 2023 • 22 mins
Ros and Eric share thoughts on some major Hollywood headlines.
From the lawsuit launched against Lizzo, to the Eva Mendes mindset, to the Taylor Swift takeover...it's all chisme all the time!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is he said a Yadiho with Eric Winter and
Rosalind Fantaz.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
All right, good afternoon for lack at that.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Why are you incognito? I'm looking at the footage here.
Your hat looks like a crook for your head.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I know it's big, as big as your hat.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
And it looks enormous on you. I'm sorry, like a
child wearing like my hat. It's funny, you know.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
It's really big. Anyways, who cares people?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
You hiding from paparazzi?
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Well, I'm looking a little rough at the moment because
I'm running super late.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
I think we've established her the late one.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
I am late? Why am I late? I got up early?
I don't know. I don't understand why I'm always late anyways,
So what do you have for me today?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Action Pact Weekend? Listen? We watched we had a big
family weekend. Watched some sports. We watched Women's World Cup.
Unbelievable that these ladies got knocked out for the first
time in history this early in the World Cup. Weird
And I can't even imagine, like the pressure of someone
like it shouldn't be any pressure, funny enough at that
(01:05):
stage in your career there's always pressure. But Megan Rappino
missing a penalty kick, which is like when the captains
of the team, one of the veterans.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
She's going to retire retire.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
So now you have to leave with that sour note.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I was telling you she's not going to retire, She's
going to give it one.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
I don't think sure, because it's not for four years,
so she can't. Yeah, no, she may keep playing you know,
Major League soccer, but not doing you know World Cup.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Well, she's not the only one that missed.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Is just when you have like an established veteran like that,
and then you cut to Messi over here in the
MLS and he's just like saving that team every second.
Another another free kick and he nails it from a distance.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
To tie a second.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
It's unbelievable. That guy is like transform. I mean, I
don't know if you don't care about any of this stuff.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Though, No, I don't follow soccer.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
See, Dylan's all into soccer now, So we have to
start paying attention to soccer a bit more. It can't
just be all tennis.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
I know. I don't want him to play tennis.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
No, please, No, I can't do another I love so
much I love it so much, but junior tennis needs
an overhaul with what is being done with the USTA
and how they have lines, people and umpires and the
way these tournaments are run. And yeah they're not great parents,
being out of control. It's it's so much. I can't
(02:20):
go through another one with Dylan. I can't.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
It's okay, I could, but okay, oh godzo, what do
you have to say about Lizzo? Come on, go all out?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know. Listen, she's getting nailed
by a bunch of her backup dancers. Of course she's
denying it.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
But let's let's explain three dancers. I've accused the Grammy
winning singer of creating a hostile work environment during the
Grammy winning Singer's Special Tour. The lawsuit, filed in an
LA Superior Court, claims the dancers were exposed to an
environment of sexual harassment and wait shame. Oh my god.
(02:57):
There's a dancers that claims that Lisa asked her why
are you getting wait another incident. The dancer said that
Lisa made them touch nude performers in a clubbing.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Amster with like a banana tu or some like weird
things are involved with.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
That, and of course Lisa says she never sexually harassed
the dancers as as a victim of way to shame
in herself, she could never do it to someone else.
So what do you believe?
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Listen, truth is always in the middle, right, But at
the end of the day, it's not one dancer, it's
not one person, it's multiple dancers coming forward. And yeah,
I mean, I don't think they're lying. I'm sure they
experienced some of these things as their truths for sure.
(03:48):
You know, I'm sure Lizo has her side obviously that
what she's saying is not accurate. But I just don't
they're not backing down, like they're still coming full full
core pressed with this lawsuit and standing by their accusations,
and I think that there's probably some truth into what
they felt. It's crazy because again, I mean, this is
(04:08):
just the thing with being that big in the public.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
He said, she said, she said, But this is interesting
because she said, she said, So it's it's too you know,
you're it's it's kind of like a me too situation, right,
But it's two females and there's no way of being like,
well that you know, this one's saying it because of
this reason that this is, you know, another woman standing up.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
For what she believes her not women women, not one
woman standing up for what how they believe they should
have been treated, and apparently unanimously with all of them,
they had some issues. Now, I'm sure other dancers had
great experiences or have had plenty of great experiences with her,
but these are this is not going to go away,
but she says.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Usually I choose not to respond to false allegations, but
these are as unbelievable as they sound, and too outrageous
to not be addressed. These sensational life stories are coming
from former employees who have already publicly admitted that they
were told their behavior and tour was inappropriate and unprofessional.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
You know, it's funny because one of our producer questions
brought up was, you know, Eliza was essentially saying that
dancers are disgruntled former employees who were terminated. But do
you think a male performer would be able to use
that defense? And and this is why I say, sadly,
they wouldn't. A male performer wouldn't be able to say
those things.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Why do you say that?
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Because I don't believe in today's age, people would view
a man coming out saying you were weight shaming me
and you you were harassing me. It just wouldn't I
don't believe in today's world that's as easy of a
position for a guy to come out and take and
then have people think that he's telling the truth. I
think there's a lot of weight with a girl coming
(05:52):
out about the claims and you it makes you think
twice about it. But this way, if a man came
out and did it, I think it overlooked much quicker
and wouldn't be circulated in the press as long.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Can I tell you something interesting and tell me if
you agree? So you know, there's this figure Candace Owens.
She has a podcast, very opinionated. You know, you have
to believe her beliefs to be able to swallow her.
I got this thing sent to me that she was
(06:24):
predicting that in five years the entire Taylor's swift dream,
you know, And how do you call the swift teest,
how do you call the swift teas right, it's gonna
come crumbling down because she believes that at the moment
she's on top of the world, but she's predicting that
(06:45):
within five years, the true colors are going to come
out and people are going to see this girl basically
falling to pieces. No, I don't, I don't, I don't know.
But she says that nobody is picking up on the
fact that behind this entire female empowerment and dreamer and
(07:07):
you know, appealing to young girls, that there's a lot
of bullying underneath it all. Because it says she is
very talented. She acknowledges Taylor Swift is incredibly talented. She
can write, she can say, you know, she's an incredible musician,
and she has a great work ethic. She works really,
really hard. But she says what she does writing, the
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simplicity of her lyrics are usually I had a bad
experience with you. I'm gonna tear you apart, and then
she does it in a very very catchy way, so
girls identify with the rhythm and the lyrics and everything
goes huge, right, but she goes every single thing that
she writes about is based on somebody or an experience
(07:50):
that she has, and she doesn't name the name, but everybody,
the dogs, you know, she's talking about this, she's talking
about that, and they can be very and it's hurtful
what she writes, and it's very like it's fatal empowerment.
But by doing so, I'm going to tear you down.
So she's basically saying nobody is talking about the fact
that she's a bully.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Well, I think the young generation doesn't pay attention to
the lyrics to that degree, like our daughter's age. I
don't think they're really hearing it. But listen, Olivia Rodrigo
does has very similar you know.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Yeah, but I think I think but Olivia hasn't reached
the stardom and Taylor Swift.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Her concert caused an earthquake. It's a magnitude of people
jumping what is happening. She is a powerhouse.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
She is. It's almost like the force she has among girls,
you know, and her swifters is supernatural. So she's like
in that I.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Don't know her at all. She seems like she's cool girl.
I love the documentary about her and people that know
her and love her.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
And for all disclosure, I'm not saying that I agree
or disagree, like I'm just giving it as I'm bringing
it up because I don't know a lot about Tailor Switch.
I actually I'm a fan. I think she's very talented.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Interesting topic for sure. The flip of it all is
if a man was writing those lyrics to that degree,
If a man was writing those lyrics and singing, would
it be received the same way and would he be
(09:26):
view Listen, there are plenty of songs out there that
are demeaning by men towards women that are not very polite.
This is sort of like poetic in a way, right
about breakups and the way it is and the heart,
you know, hurt feelings and all that. So it's not
done in a derogatory way, and I don't know if
you could classify it as bullying. It's her life experience, right,
(09:47):
like this person hurt her or this and that. But
obviously there's another side to the story. She's not a saint,
I'm assuming in every relationship. I'm sure her exites have
their point of view as well. So if you had
an ex singing about the you know, a girl in
that way, like how much they destroyed them. But then
would it be viewed like you're such a cray baby, dude,
(10:07):
get over it? Would it be viewed differently?
Speaker 2 (10:10):
Right, Like if a man was like, oh, she broke
my heart, hurt my feet, this and that. You people
be like, if it's a country singer will be huge.
Contra singers they write about real stuff, you.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Know, like well, you know you know that it was
a joke. When you play a country song backwards, you
know what you get. You get your house back, your
car back, your woman back. What do you mean because
you lose everything in country song everything is like sad,
like oh I lost my lady, But you play it
backwards everything because there's like country music has that you
know to it as well. Do you know the economists
(10:41):
are saying that she single handley has boosted the American economy.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
It's supernatural.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
I saw so many people that went to her concert.
I wanted to go to that concert. At concert people
love it like a blast, And I asked, Smells, do
you want to go? And she's like, I like Taylor
Swift with me. She's like singing her songs all the time.
But she didn't really care to go to the concert.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
I don't think she will stand three hours.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
I don't know. It's a pretty awesome looking concert. I
would have loved that, so, I mean, this girl is
killing it.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
You know. I was talking about guys, is this bad
parenting like we love music at our house, you know,
and the kids love music, especially Dylan, and he's like
an eighties tepe of Dude's interesting. He's five years old
and he loves aries music, but he is ubsess eighties.
He's obsessed with low. Can you please recite the lyrics
(11:35):
for low give me the give me the chorus? No no,
just talk talking spoken word apple jeans with no no,
don't saying it talking and the whole talk talk not
go from the top.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
The whole club was looking at her and then you
got low Low No, you're just skipping baggy sweatpants and
you gave that oh smack.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
So here we are like, we are so mindful about
social media now the kids and blah blah blah. And
here's this is day line all day long, Apple Bottom year.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
That songs played all over every radio stage because there's
no explicit ner.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
It's awesome. I love this song. It's really funny.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
But there are so many songs like that that the
lyrics you're teaching.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
I have year old to smack that booty.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
Okay, here's ago one for you. Like this topic. Even
Mendez won't allow her kids to access the internet, should
parents curate their children's lives listen. She recently shared a
post basically tell her followers that her kids are not
allowed to access the Internet. Her daughters eight and seven
don't have any devices that can connect to Wi Fi.
They're not allowed to search anything at all, where everybody believes. Look,
(12:53):
we're in an Internet centry. Eventually everyone will need or
want to access the Internet. But she said, yes, true,
but in my house, children do not have access to
the Internet. It's too dangerous. Just like drinking or voting
or gidding and driver's license, it's not allowed for children.
The Internet falls under that category for me, as especially
social media. They have no The only devices they have
are an iPad and they only are allowed to make
(13:14):
movies on it or watch movies that she downloads. Look,
I think at some point I never ever, it's when
it stuff comes to stuff like this. You know me,
I don't critique. I have no issues without people parent
if it's you know, safe parenting, like you're being good
to the kids. I think to each's own. I never
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judge people for their version of good parenting and stuff
like this, because I can't stand when people look at
us and look at restrictions that we put on our
kids and they and they judge us because I've seen
it and we've been around it, and I don't like it.
Because I don't care. If someone says to me, Hey, Eric,
I know so and so is coming over, but please
don't let x Y and Z happen. I will make
(13:56):
sure X Y and Z do not happen because I
respect their parenting and I don't care how I parent
my kids. If your kids at my house, as long
as it's not impeding on in a bad way on
what my kids do, I have no problem following your rules,
you know what I mean, when your kids at my
house and vice versa. I would expect the same without judgment.
So if our kids happen to be friends with even
(14:17):
Mendez as kids, and they went over there and there's
like no Internet, I'd be like, Okay, cool, no Internet.
I don't care. So I think it's great what she's
trying to accomplish. I think it's Yeah. Natfls's kids are homeschooled,
then you can probably avoid a lot of that internet stuff.
But as you get into other grades at school, they
have technology classes and computer classes and they're teaching how
to work through the internet, how to access things on
(14:38):
the internet when you're in class, so it's impossible to
avoid at most schools. What are your thoughts social media?
I fully agree. I'm still very adamant about no social media.
It drives me crazy. That's my rant.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
That's your rant. No, I respect what she's doing. I
think to each its own, you know. I think it's
amazing if you can accomplish that, you know. And again
I don't judge, and I respect it, and I agree
with the way she, you know, explains it. It's true
drinking has an age. Not everybody follows it, but there's
(15:16):
an age voting. You have no choice. Driving, you have
no choice. All those people sneak around and try and
drive a car when they're underage. But the truth is,
the internet is a scary place for young children, and
there is no reason for a child to just be
searching the internet, in my opinion, or especially social media.
There should be an age parameter, without question, I think.
But yeah, the thing is, I believe that when you
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restrict something, then you, I don't know, awaken their curiosity.
And this era twenty three and I'm not talking about
social media connectivity and WI Fi and Internet, you know,
(16:03):
everything that is so technological, and it's like, for example,
when we went to school, it was textbook it was books.
You actually go to the place and all you and
your parents have to buy all this. I don't remember.
I think it may be not event I think in
junior high school or high school is when I actually
open a computer for the first time.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
You're older than me. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
So nowadays, even in kindergarten they have a little iPad,
you know, and first grade, the everything is they have
an iPad in front of them, so their DNA is
wired differently. I think it's the way of the future,
and the future is here. So but it's.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
Difficult search the internet for things in kindergarten.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
No why I know. But at eight, nine, ten years old,
when all your friends are doing it and it is
so it's it's.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
It okay, it's organic to that. It flip it on
you because we don't.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
I'm not saying he's right or wrong. I'm just saying
that my worry is by saying no, no, no, no no,
when everybody else your surroundings, that's what they do. I'm
not talking about going on social media, and I'm talking
about if Sabella wants to ask Google, Hey, Google, what
is the capital of whatever the state? Right? Like, when
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you deprive them of absolutely everything, I don't want them
to go behind your back and feel like this is
a forbidden fruit. It's therefore I really about because we.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Deprive our kids of junk food a lot. We deprive
our kids of junk you, trashy drinks. Things are bad.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
Right, So the point is whether they tell us I
cannot wait to be eighteen, so I can.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
It's a flip, right, We do things for their own
health and well being, and they and by restricting that,
they say I can't wait to do X. And you're
just hoping that you're teaching them along the way.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
Yes, I think everything in moderation and moderation is okay,
Like listen, I think what Eva is doing is fabulous
and I hope it pays off. And I'm sure these
girls are next level and amazing.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
I love it.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
I'm just I'm I'm just wary, and I just to me,
it's like, I don't mind introducing them to a little
bit so they don't have to hear from somebody.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
Else, like what do we do this week? We got admit,
we got into a bad habit at times of letting
the kids watch TV when they eat right. We don't
do it every meal, but it happens a lot. And
this last week I was like, we got to cut
back on this habit. I want to have family dinners more.
I want to sit and have a little prayer before dinner.
We want to like I introduce Well, we've talked about
it many times in the past, but my point is
I wanted to have more family dinners and not always
(18:31):
having this feeling that everybody needs to go now in
our in their schedules. When back in school it's hard,
and our schedules with work, everybody kind of goes their
own way. It's top. We don't know when we come home,
when they're back from she's back from tennis whatever. Right,
but like right now, weren't strike, there's no work and
we're all home. I want to have more of these dinners.
And that's something I think is super important to keep
in line and not you know.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
It was beautiful. We had a fantastic time with them.
We had an amazing dinner last night.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
Let's talk about what about Barbie? What about Barbie billion dollars?
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Crazy?
Speaker 3 (19:02):
You saw it, You saw it was the bell they
have a contract, went over my god, here we.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
Go and I won it and I saw it.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
Yes, Belle didn't didn't love it. I think it was
too mature for her.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
It's not for true it's not for children. Guys. Yeah,
it went over her head.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
She didn't. You think it was incredible or that was
really good.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
I don't think it's incredible at all.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
That was good.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
I thought. I laughed a lot. I have to say
I was laughing the whole time.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
The performances were good.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
Brian Gosling was fantastic, Margaret Ruby was beautiful and she
was great. Everybody was Everybody was awesome. And the movie
is esthetically stunning. You know, I think she did She
interpreted Barbie the way she wanted and you know, it
has beautiful messages about my mother and daughter relationships. So
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if you if you dissect the movie, there's there's moments
and there's messages of the movie that you just go
as a woman, not as a guy, because what they
what they do is shet all over man. The entire
movie is a shitting contest for mine. But as a
woman is female empowerment. It's fun, you know, it's it's
everything that we've been fighting for forever. Do I think
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it's a fantastic movie. I mean, some people love that.
I have my friends all of it. Friends, you have
to see this movie. And I've never been obsessed with Barbie.
I had Barbie's my growing up, my whole life, but
it wasn't my I'd rather have Cabbage Patch kids, you
know what I mean. So, but to me, I laughed
(20:42):
a lot. I laughed about the absurdity and the cheesiness
of it all. It was one liners that were hysterical
political so and you know I love everything political, so
I left.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
But yeah, I think it's a product of incredible marketing.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
The marketing was even win the Oppenheimer they have Basically
they paired those two together and they took over the world.
But listen, it's a good thing. I want to tell
you why after COVID has been so difficult for uh,
for the movie theaters, for the industry to be able
to thrive again. And this shows that, you know, COVID
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is pretty much I don't want to say a thing
of the past, because it's still around. People are still
getting super sick, you know, and it's affecting lives but
this crazy fear about I don't want to go back
to my normal life. You know, this is a testament
that people are actually going to the theaters and supporting
and they're much more free.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
I think. Yeah, a lot of people just want to
escape from.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
The theater was packed when I went, like I've been
trying to I was. I think I tried three different
times and everything was sold out. And then we finally
found this place in Sherman Oaks and still was packed.
So people love it. People love it well and good.
I'm happy for the director is It's an amazing the
thing that we have a female director ACCOMPLI accomplishing something
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like this. Good for her.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
All Right, you said your piece, I said my.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
Piece, and yeah that's it.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
Right.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
What else do we have to talk about until next time?
Speaker 3 (22:14):
I love you, Love you, thanks for listening. Don't forget
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Speaker 3 (22:30):
See you next time.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
Bye,
This is he said a Yadiho with Eric Winter and
Rosalind Fantaz.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
All right, good afternoon for lack at that.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Why are you incognito? I'm looking at the footage here.
Your hat looks like a crook for your head.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I know it's big, as big as your hat.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
And it looks enormous on you. I'm sorry, like a
child wearing like my hat. It's funny, you know.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
It's really big. Anyways, who cares people?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
You hiding from paparazzi?
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Well, I'm looking a little rough at the moment because
I'm running super late.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
I think we've established her the late one.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
I am late? Why am I late? I got up early?
I don't know. I don't understand why I'm always late anyways,
So what do you have for me today?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Action Pact Weekend? Listen? We watched we had a big
family weekend. Watched some sports. We watched Women's World Cup.
Unbelievable that these ladies got knocked out for the first
time in history this early in the World Cup. Weird
And I can't even imagine, like the pressure of someone
like it shouldn't be any pressure, funny enough at that
(01:05):
stage in your career there's always pressure. But Megan Rappino
missing a penalty kick, which is like when the captains
of the team, one of the veterans.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
She's going to retire retire.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
So now you have to leave with that sour note.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I was telling you she's not going to retire, She's
going to give it one.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
I don't think sure, because it's not for four years,
so she can't. Yeah, no, she may keep playing you know,
Major League soccer, but not doing you know World Cup.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Well, she's not the only one that missed.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Is just when you have like an established veteran like that,
and then you cut to Messi over here in the
MLS and he's just like saving that team every second.
Another another free kick and he nails it from a distance.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
To tie a second.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
It's unbelievable. That guy is like transform. I mean, I
don't know if you don't care about any of this stuff.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Though, No, I don't follow soccer.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
See, Dylan's all into soccer now, So we have to
start paying attention to soccer a bit more. It can't
just be all tennis.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
I know. I don't want him to play tennis.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
No, please, No, I can't do another I love so
much I love it so much, but junior tennis needs
an overhaul with what is being done with the USTA
and how they have lines, people and umpires and the
way these tournaments are run. And yeah they're not great parents,
being out of control. It's it's so much. I can't
(02:20):
go through another one with Dylan. I can't.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
It's okay, I could, but okay, oh godzo, what do
you have to say about Lizzo? Come on, go all out?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know. Listen, she's getting nailed
by a bunch of her backup dancers. Of course she's
denying it.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
But let's let's explain three dancers. I've accused the Grammy
winning singer of creating a hostile work environment during the
Grammy winning Singer's Special Tour. The lawsuit, filed in an
LA Superior Court, claims the dancers were exposed to an
environment of sexual harassment and wait shame. Oh my god.
(02:57):
There's a dancers that claims that Lisa asked her why
are you getting wait another incident. The dancer said that
Lisa made them touch nude performers in a clubbing.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Amster with like a banana tu or some like weird
things are involved with.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
That, and of course Lisa says she never sexually harassed
the dancers as as a victim of way to shame
in herself, she could never do it to someone else.
So what do you believe?
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Listen, truth is always in the middle, right, But at
the end of the day, it's not one dancer, it's
not one person, it's multiple dancers coming forward. And yeah,
I mean, I don't think they're lying. I'm sure they
experienced some of these things as their truths for sure.
(03:48):
You know, I'm sure Lizo has her side obviously that
what she's saying is not accurate. But I just don't
they're not backing down, like they're still coming full full
core pressed with this lawsuit and standing by their accusations,
and I think that there's probably some truth into what
they felt. It's crazy because again, I mean, this is
(04:08):
just the thing with being that big in the public.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
He said, she said, she said, But this is interesting
because she said, she said, So it's it's too you know,
you're it's it's kind of like a me too situation, right,
But it's two females and there's no way of being like,
well that you know, this one's saying it because of
this reason that this is, you know, another woman standing up.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
For what she believes her not women women, not one
woman standing up for what how they believe they should
have been treated, and apparently unanimously with all of them,
they had some issues. Now, I'm sure other dancers had
great experiences or have had plenty of great experiences with her,
but these are this is not going to go away,
but she says.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Usually I choose not to respond to false allegations, but
these are as unbelievable as they sound, and too outrageous
to not be addressed. These sensational life stories are coming
from former employees who have already publicly admitted that they
were told their behavior and tour was inappropriate and unprofessional.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
You know, it's funny because one of our producer questions
brought up was, you know, Eliza was essentially saying that
dancers are disgruntled former employees who were terminated. But do
you think a male performer would be able to use
that defense? And and this is why I say, sadly,
they wouldn't. A male performer wouldn't be able to say
those things.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Why do you say that?
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Because I don't believe in today's age, people would view
a man coming out saying you were weight shaming me
and you you were harassing me. It just wouldn't I
don't believe in today's world that's as easy of a
position for a guy to come out and take and
then have people think that he's telling the truth. I
think there's a lot of weight with a girl coming
(05:52):
out about the claims and you it makes you think
twice about it. But this way, if a man came
out and did it, I think it overlooked much quicker
and wouldn't be circulated in the press as long.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Can I tell you something interesting and tell me if
you agree? So you know, there's this figure Candace Owens.
She has a podcast, very opinionated. You know, you have
to believe her beliefs to be able to swallow her.
I got this thing sent to me that she was
(06:24):
predicting that in five years the entire Taylor's swift dream,
you know, And how do you call the swift teest,
how do you call the swift teas right, it's gonna
come crumbling down because she believes that at the moment
she's on top of the world, but she's predicting that
(06:45):
within five years, the true colors are going to come
out and people are going to see this girl basically
falling to pieces. No, I don't, I don't, I don't know.
But she says that nobody is picking up on the
fact that behind this entire female empowerment and dreamer and
(07:07):
you know, appealing to young girls, that there's a lot
of bullying underneath it all. Because it says she is
very talented. She acknowledges Taylor Swift is incredibly talented. She
can write, she can say, you know, she's an incredible musician,
and she has a great work ethic. She works really,
really hard. But she says what she does writing, the
(07:28):
simplicity of her lyrics are usually I had a bad
experience with you. I'm gonna tear you apart, and then
she does it in a very very catchy way, so
girls identify with the rhythm and the lyrics and everything
goes huge, right, but she goes every single thing that
she writes about is based on somebody or an experience
(07:50):
that she has, and she doesn't name the name, but everybody,
the dogs, you know, she's talking about this, she's talking
about that, and they can be very and it's hurtful
what she writes, and it's very like it's fatal empowerment.
But by doing so, I'm going to tear you down.
So she's basically saying nobody is talking about the fact
that she's a bully.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Well, I think the young generation doesn't pay attention to
the lyrics to that degree, like our daughter's age. I
don't think they're really hearing it. But listen, Olivia Rodrigo
does has very similar you know.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Yeah, but I think I think but Olivia hasn't reached
the stardom and Taylor Swift.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Her concert caused an earthquake. It's a magnitude of people
jumping what is happening. She is a powerhouse.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
She is. It's almost like the force she has among girls,
you know, and her swifters is supernatural. So she's like
in that I.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Don't know her at all. She seems like she's cool girl.
I love the documentary about her and people that know
her and love her.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
And for all disclosure, I'm not saying that I agree
or disagree, like I'm just giving it as I'm bringing
it up because I don't know a lot about Tailor Switch.
I actually I'm a fan. I think she's very talented.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Interesting topic for sure. The flip of it all is
if a man was writing those lyrics to that degree,
If a man was writing those lyrics and singing, would
it be received the same way and would he be
(09:26):
view Listen, there are plenty of songs out there that
are demeaning by men towards women that are not very polite.
This is sort of like poetic in a way, right
about breakups and the way it is and the heart,
you know, hurt feelings and all that. So it's not
done in a derogatory way, and I don't know if
you could classify it as bullying. It's her life experience, right,
(09:47):
like this person hurt her or this and that. But
obviously there's another side to the story. She's not a saint,
I'm assuming in every relationship. I'm sure her exites have
their point of view as well. So if you had
an ex singing about the you know, a girl in
that way, like how much they destroyed them. But then
would it be viewed like you're such a cray baby, dude,
(10:07):
get over it? Would it be viewed differently?
Speaker 2 (10:10):
Right, Like if a man was like, oh, she broke
my heart, hurt my feet, this and that. You people
be like, if it's a country singer will be huge.
Contra singers they write about real stuff, you.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Know, like well, you know you know that it was
a joke. When you play a country song backwards, you
know what you get. You get your house back, your
car back, your woman back. What do you mean because
you lose everything in country song everything is like sad,
like oh I lost my lady, But you play it
backwards everything because there's like country music has that you
know to it as well. Do you know the economists
(10:41):
are saying that she single handley has boosted the American economy.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
It's supernatural.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
I saw so many people that went to her concert.
I wanted to go to that concert. At concert people
love it like a blast, And I asked, Smells, do
you want to go? And she's like, I like Taylor
Swift with me. She's like singing her songs all the time.
But she didn't really care to go to the concert.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
I don't think she will stand three hours.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
I don't know. It's a pretty awesome looking concert. I
would have loved that, so, I mean, this girl is
killing it.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
You know. I was talking about guys, is this bad
parenting like we love music at our house, you know,
and the kids love music, especially Dylan, and he's like
an eighties tepe of Dude's interesting. He's five years old
and he loves aries music, but he is ubsess eighties.
He's obsessed with low. Can you please recite the lyrics
(11:35):
for low give me the give me the chorus? No no,
just talk talking spoken word apple jeans with no no,
don't saying it talking and the whole talk talk not
go from the top.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
The whole club was looking at her and then you
got low Low No, you're just skipping baggy sweatpants and
you gave that oh smack.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
So here we are like, we are so mindful about
social media now the kids and blah blah blah. And
here's this is day line all day long, Apple Bottom year.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
That songs played all over every radio stage because there's
no explicit ner.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
It's awesome. I love this song. It's really funny.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
But there are so many songs like that that the
lyrics you're teaching.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
I have year old to smack that booty.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
Okay, here's ago one for you. Like this topic. Even
Mendez won't allow her kids to access the internet, should
parents curate their children's lives listen. She recently shared a
post basically tell her followers that her kids are not
allowed to access the Internet. Her daughters eight and seven
don't have any devices that can connect to Wi Fi.
They're not allowed to search anything at all, where everybody believes. Look,
(12:53):
we're in an Internet centry. Eventually everyone will need or
want to access the Internet. But she said, yes, true,
but in my house, children do not have access to
the Internet. It's too dangerous. Just like drinking or voting
or gidding and driver's license, it's not allowed for children.
The Internet falls under that category for me, as especially
social media. They have no The only devices they have
are an iPad and they only are allowed to make
(13:14):
movies on it or watch movies that she downloads. Look,
I think at some point I never ever, it's when
it stuff comes to stuff like this. You know me,
I don't critique. I have no issues without people parent
if it's you know, safe parenting, like you're being good
to the kids. I think to each's own. I never
(13:35):
judge people for their version of good parenting and stuff
like this, because I can't stand when people look at
us and look at restrictions that we put on our
kids and they and they judge us because I've seen
it and we've been around it, and I don't like it.
Because I don't care. If someone says to me, Hey, Eric,
I know so and so is coming over, but please
don't let x Y and Z happen. I will make
(13:56):
sure X Y and Z do not happen because I
respect their parenting and I don't care how I parent
my kids. If your kids at my house, as long
as it's not impeding on in a bad way on
what my kids do, I have no problem following your rules,
you know what I mean, when your kids at my
house and vice versa. I would expect the same without judgment.
So if our kids happen to be friends with even
(14:17):
Mendez as kids, and they went over there and there's
like no Internet, I'd be like, Okay, cool, no Internet.
I don't care. So I think it's great what she's
trying to accomplish. I think it's Yeah. Natfls's kids are homeschooled,
then you can probably avoid a lot of that internet stuff.
But as you get into other grades at school, they
have technology classes and computer classes and they're teaching how
to work through the internet, how to access things on
(14:38):
the internet when you're in class, so it's impossible to
avoid at most schools. What are your thoughts social media?
I fully agree. I'm still very adamant about no social media.
It drives me crazy. That's my rant.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
That's your rant. No, I respect what she's doing. I
think to each its own, you know. I think it's
amazing if you can accomplish that, you know. And again
I don't judge, and I respect it, and I agree
with the way she, you know, explains it. It's true
drinking has an age. Not everybody follows it, but there's
(15:16):
an age voting. You have no choice. Driving, you have
no choice. All those people sneak around and try and
drive a car when they're underage. But the truth is,
the internet is a scary place for young children, and
there is no reason for a child to just be
searching the internet, in my opinion, or especially social media.
There should be an age parameter, without question, I think.
But yeah, the thing is, I believe that when you
(15:43):
restrict something, then you, I don't know, awaken their curiosity.
And this era twenty three and I'm not talking about
social media connectivity and WI Fi and Internet, you know,
(16:03):
everything that is so technological, and it's like, for example,
when we went to school, it was textbook it was books.
You actually go to the place and all you and
your parents have to buy all this. I don't remember.
I think it may be not event I think in
junior high school or high school is when I actually
open a computer for the first time.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
You're older than me. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
So nowadays, even in kindergarten they have a little iPad,
you know, and first grade, the everything is they have
an iPad in front of them, so their DNA is
wired differently. I think it's the way of the future,
and the future is here. So but it's.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
Difficult search the internet for things in kindergarten.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
No why I know. But at eight, nine, ten years old,
when all your friends are doing it and it is
so it's it's.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
It okay, it's organic to that. It flip it on
you because we don't.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
I'm not saying he's right or wrong. I'm just saying
that my worry is by saying no, no, no, no no,
when everybody else your surroundings, that's what they do. I'm
not talking about going on social media, and I'm talking
about if Sabella wants to ask Google, Hey, Google, what
is the capital of whatever the state? Right? Like, when
(17:19):
you deprive them of absolutely everything, I don't want them
to go behind your back and feel like this is
a forbidden fruit. It's therefore I really about because we.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Deprive our kids of junk food a lot. We deprive
our kids of junk you, trashy drinks. Things are bad.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
Right, So the point is whether they tell us I
cannot wait to be eighteen, so I can.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
It's a flip, right, We do things for their own
health and well being, and they and by restricting that,
they say I can't wait to do X. And you're
just hoping that you're teaching them along the way.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
Yes, I think everything in moderation and moderation is okay,
Like listen, I think what Eva is doing is fabulous
and I hope it pays off. And I'm sure these
girls are next level and amazing.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
I love it.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
I'm just I'm I'm just wary, and I just to me,
it's like, I don't mind introducing them to a little
bit so they don't have to hear from somebody.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
Else, like what do we do this week? We got admit,
we got into a bad habit at times of letting
the kids watch TV when they eat right. We don't
do it every meal, but it happens a lot. And
this last week I was like, we got to cut
back on this habit. I want to have family dinners more.
I want to sit and have a little prayer before dinner.
We want to like I introduce Well, we've talked about
it many times in the past, but my point is
I wanted to have more family dinners and not always
(18:31):
having this feeling that everybody needs to go now in
our in their schedules. When back in school it's hard,
and our schedules with work, everybody kind of goes their
own way. It's top. We don't know when we come home,
when they're back from she's back from tennis whatever. Right,
but like right now, weren't strike, there's no work and
we're all home. I want to have more of these dinners.
And that's something I think is super important to keep
in line and not you know.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
It was beautiful. We had a fantastic time with them.
We had an amazing dinner last night.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
Let's talk about what about Barbie? What about Barbie billion dollars?
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Crazy?
Speaker 3 (19:02):
You saw it, You saw it was the bell they
have a contract, went over my god, here we.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
Go and I won it and I saw it.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
Yes, Belle didn't didn't love it. I think it was
too mature for her.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
It's not for true it's not for children. Guys. Yeah,
it went over her head.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
She didn't. You think it was incredible or that was
really good.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
I don't think it's incredible at all.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
That was good.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
I thought. I laughed a lot. I have to say
I was laughing the whole time.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
The performances were good.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
Brian Gosling was fantastic, Margaret Ruby was beautiful and she
was great. Everybody was Everybody was awesome. And the movie
is esthetically stunning. You know, I think she did She
interpreted Barbie the way she wanted and you know, it
has beautiful messages about my mother and daughter relationships. So
(19:57):
if you if you dissect the movie, there's there's moments
and there's messages of the movie that you just go
as a woman, not as a guy, because what they
what they do is shet all over man. The entire
movie is a shitting contest for mine. But as a
woman is female empowerment. It's fun, you know, it's it's
everything that we've been fighting for forever. Do I think
(20:21):
it's a fantastic movie. I mean, some people love that.
I have my friends all of it. Friends, you have
to see this movie. And I've never been obsessed with Barbie.
I had Barbie's my growing up, my whole life, but
it wasn't my I'd rather have Cabbage Patch kids, you
know what I mean. So, but to me, I laughed
(20:42):
a lot. I laughed about the absurdity and the cheesiness
of it all. It was one liners that were hysterical
political so and you know I love everything political, so
I left.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
But yeah, I think it's a product of incredible marketing.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
The marketing was even win the Oppenheimer they have Basically
they paired those two together and they took over the world.
But listen, it's a good thing. I want to tell
you why after COVID has been so difficult for uh,
for the movie theaters, for the industry to be able
to thrive again. And this shows that, you know, COVID
(21:20):
is pretty much I don't want to say a thing
of the past, because it's still around. People are still
getting super sick, you know, and it's affecting lives but
this crazy fear about I don't want to go back
to my normal life. You know, this is a testament
that people are actually going to the theaters and supporting
and they're much more free.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
I think. Yeah, a lot of people just want to
escape from.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
The theater was packed when I went, like I've been
trying to I was. I think I tried three different
times and everything was sold out. And then we finally
found this place in Sherman Oaks and still was packed.
So people love it. People love it well and good.
I'm happy for the director is It's an amazing the
thing that we have a female director ACCOMPLI accomplishing something
(22:04):
like this. Good for her.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
All Right, you said your piece, I said my.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
Piece, and yeah that's it.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
Right.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
What else do we have to talk about until next time?
Speaker 3 (22:14):
I love you, Love you, thanks for listening. Don't forget
to write us a review and tell us what you think.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
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Speaker 3 (22:30):
See you next time.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
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