June 26, 2023 • 25 mins
Ros and Eric discuss the Neymar rumors. Are they true? And what does it really say about them? They take sides in the Kevin Costner debate and reveal an obsession (and an issue) with Arnold Schwarzenegger.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is he said a Yadiho with Aeric Winter and
Rosalind Fantaz. Hey, Hello, Hello, I'm good. How are you
You are back back?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
So?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
How was Monte Carlo?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
I wish you guys were there. But it was a
great trip. It was really a great trip. And the
whole time I kept thinking my kids, my wife, they
would love it here, they would love to see all
so sweet.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
But it was.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
It was awesome to see the support for the rookie overseas, really,
I mean insane support.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
I didn't even imagine it was going to be like
that great.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Festival he was basically Brad Pitt. Well, I don't know
if I go that far Monte Carlo.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
I don't think I go that far.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
But there were a lot of supporters of Bradford and
the rookie, and the festival did a great job, just
the way the whole thing's put together. And and you know,
you know me, I got the travel bug again. That's
what's crazy is I had been to Monica twenty five
years ago, so I you know it's changed. I had
been there for sure, not a ton, but it definitely
has changed. But you know, my manager and I went
(01:06):
to this little town say that I told you about,
and that just gave me this insane travel bug again
where I'm like, we have got to go to Europe
next year because I mean, I'm sitting in this beautiful
medieval town that you know, the area around it was
discovered in like three hundred BC, and then you know
the medieval town was built up in the thirteen hundreds
(01:26):
and it was exquisite. Yeah, I mean, I want to
go back and travel and go to Europe. I want
to go get you and the kids back there.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
It was it was great.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
That's awesome. I'm glad you had a.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Wonderful reception for Father's Day, which was super nice.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Yeah, the kids, they're paintings for you and cards, and
I go to a lot of clothes. You did a
lot of stuff.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
It was fun.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
It was fun. I'm glad you're happy, and I'm glad
you had a good time. So you want to cover
some hot topics.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Go for what's the first one?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
So Neymar, you take over. You know more about sports.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Than Menaymar's fiance rumored to have three shocking rules that
allow soccer start to cheat.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
No Jesu lord, Okay, I thought this was about sports
and it's about its cheating.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Okay, topic, great topic, laughing. Three shocking rules. Wow, okay, Well,
let's see are the rules listed here?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Yeah? I mean she's pregnant by the way.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Okay, let me let me say the rule.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
The reported agreement between the couple is that Neymar could
stay with other girls as long as he is discreet
about the relationship. He is forbidden to be with call
girls and make love without a condom, and he cannot
kiss them on the mouth. How could you ever know
that he's a not kissing them on the mouth, be
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not using a condom? I mean, I guess he's he's
getting a lot. I mean full haul passes twenty four
to seven. So maybe he's going to try to abide
by this.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
What do you think do we know these for a fact?
Is this just rumors that they have an agreement or
there's like a like a like a press release saying
we have come to press that we want to share
with the world that we have an agreement that these
are the parameters for.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Him to che doubt there's a press release because one
of the rules is he has to be discreet about it.
So listen, I do know this is what sources say,
I do know that I've heard about this before, like
in the NBA community, because I used to have a
buddy that played in the NBA, and I know there
were some players that had these rumored understandings with their
wives that they could have like one a year. The
(03:37):
thing is, if you're gonna have one a year, I
highly doubt they're gonna uphold that rule of one a year.
Maybe one maybe one that they're open about. But I mean,
you've opened the flood gates to.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
One a year. I'm assuming there's are gonna be there
are gonna be multiples.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Basically, this is just an open relationship. I don't know
that it's like, uh now, I guess it's not open
if she can't.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
So, don't she has used condom, don't fall in love,
don't kids in the mouth, and be discreet and no
call girls and no call girls.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Yeah, but does she have these rules can.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
She go to I don't think so. I don't think
a professional athlete, like a pro famous, wealthy athlete, will
be comfortable with his woman doing that. I mean, what
do I know? I don't. I don't know. Do you
believe it's true?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Believe it's true?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
So you know you know this, So this kind of
agreement happens.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Yes, I do, Yes, I do know for a fact
because of again my source in the NBA, who is
my source who has talked about listen, listen at the
end of the day, Yes, these type of agreements happen.
How much they stick to these agreements, because again, once
you open the floodgates, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
How much they stick to.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
I wonder what of women you have to be to
be able to be comfortable with that. Either you're a
woman that truly believes monogamy doesn't exist, so I'm not
going to lie to myself. At some point, the guy
is going to cheat. I don't know when, but he's
going to happen because monogamy is not sustainable. So you're
going knowing that. Therefore, you don't have a problem by
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giving him permission because you know it's going to happen anyways,
or if you're the top of the.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Power when you do that, because you're saying I'm.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Giving you the permission, you're not assuming any power.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
You're saying I'm okay with it.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
You're assuming a lot of weakness. No, no, because power
is if you ever cheat on me. You pack your.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Power, because that power exists if a person doesn't support cheating.
But if this girl's okay with an open relationship, you can't.
Some people are okay with open relationship.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
I wonder if it's not. I wonder if it's I
don't believe in monogamy or what I care about is
status and somebody taking care of me. Therefore, I am
open to whatever he wants to do as long as
I'm comfortable.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
It could be a combination of both. Some people are
comfortable with open relationship.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Do you think women that behave like that or have
that mentality? Do you think they love and respect themselves?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
I would never judge somebody based on if they're comfortable
and they have an open relationship.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
So do you think they love and respect themselves?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Yeah, because they're saying that they're okay with this. Don't
you think it's Do you think it's worse if someone
is not not giving these parameters, but you see someone
that you believe, don't know if it's true, you believe
married for the money, male or female, and you know
that the other one's probably messing around and they're staying
in the relationship.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
What's worse?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
What's worse knowing that somebody is probably messing around, that
they are probably very in it for the money or
the fame, but they're turning their they're turning their cheek
the other way.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Or someone who knows this is all happening, and I'm
okay with it.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
I don't I with either one.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
But you're not either one. You personally are not either one,
so you can't speak for you. You're speaking for yourself.
I'm talking about if you were to talk about those
two people, what's worse in your eyes? Someone who turns
the other cheek, acts like it's not happening, or someone
who is just open to it.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
I think it's both.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
I think they're both crazy because they're crazy because it's
not you.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
But if it's, if it works for them, I rather know.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying to me.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
I mean, no, no, I rather know, and I'm given
the permission.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
That that person in those scenarios, right, that person assumes
the power.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
I know.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
I'm okay with it. I'm allowing it. This is what
I want. Maybe they do it too, maybe they have
an open relationship.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
I don't think. I don't think the guy will allow
the woman to do it.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Who knows.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
But my point is I think the person who is accepting, acknowledging,
and basically allowing it has more power than the person
that is acting like it's not happening and.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Turning the other cheek. You don't agree, it's not your life.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
We're talking hypothetically. How would you see it for those people?
That's all we're saying.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
I don't know Kevin Costner is strange story. I know
once nearly two hundred and fifty thousand dollars a month
in child support. Yeah, because you know she is saying
that ship does she wants to continue her lifestyle, and
less than that is not going to support the lifestyle
(08:18):
that her and her kids are accustomed.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
I love the story too that she's still living in
the house, Like I think she refuses to move out
because she believes, based on what he did, he needs
to move out.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
So they're still living in the same house.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
It sounds like they didn't have the same agreement.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
The name or we don't know what they're getting divorced.
I shouldn't be laughing. That's awful.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
No, they're saying they're getting a divorced because of an affair.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Not, No, that's not all, not at all. I don't
think I don't think so. So that's why she's bitter.
She's like Mabe lesten baby, take him to the cleaner.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
I am very confident this is coming after.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Take it to the cleaners. If he cheated. No, no,
I'm joking, guys.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
I don't know what I feel, but I'm pretty sure
that's what the deal.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
This is a question. This is a question. No matter
how much money a spouse makes, is there any justification
for want in almost a quarter of a million dollars
a month? Or is that out of spite for towards
your ex?
Speaker 3 (09:20):
I don't know. What do you think I want to
hear from you? What should she ask for that?
Speaker 1 (09:27):
I think it's a lot of money. I don't think
it's necessary.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
Okay, should she get? Should she?
Speaker 1 (09:33):
But listen, they have how many kids? Three? Four kids?
And they all go to private school. She needs to
use to the math and go. Okay, so this is
what private school is going to cost the regardless.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
There's there's alimony in child sport.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
There's both, right, So these two hundred and fifty thousand
dollars do they cover both? Things, because there are things
that there is is his responsibility to continue. This is
child support. Okay, so ilmso been she's doing her math.
I'm assuming that her her team of lawyers are advising
her doing their they're doing their math. So if this
is the number that they came up with, I'm assuming
(10:04):
that this is the number that they Wait, what is
this say here? She's really mad because she told her
three children they were getting a divorce via zoom behind
her back. No, this two hundred and fifty is aside
from school sports and health insurance. Oh so she does
want to take him too, that.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
She's mad because he did it by zoom without including her.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
It's a lot of money. I don't think you need
two hundred and fifty thousand dollars to raise any child,
to be honest with you, unless you're telling me that
this this family has ten private chefs and they and
they fly private all the time, and they go to
the most expensive, incredible schools ever. And I don't know.
(10:50):
I'm very confused.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Okay, let me ask you this. So a couple, let's
say it's let's say.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
It's what are you look at? What do you tell me?
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Okay, let's say it's an affair, you know, whatever. The
case may be many issues throughout the years.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Okay, somebody's worth a lot of money.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
Like you have Jeff Basis money.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
Yeah, there's a lot of money. She wants half. You
go with it.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
She's the wife and the mother of three kids. She's
entitled to halfa It doesn't matter what I want. She
wants she's entitled to have.
Speaker 3 (11:17):
So let me flip it.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
The wife is the one that's worth one hundreds of
millions of dollars. The wife has an affair or some
other issues, they get a divorce, her husband wants half.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
You go with it.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
No, but he go to work, but the ex wife
don't go to work. Well, if the wife is the
one that has the money, clearly the wife is the
one going to well.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
If the husband is the one that had the money,
the husband is going to work.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
The wife does what I'm saying, Well, she's entitled, goes by.
She's entitled.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Man, But you're not okay with it?
Speaker 1 (11:58):
No, I don't know. I have to say it depends
on the situation. Case.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
I just gave you the case.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
The case husband major breadwinner, has an affair, wife should
get half. You said, yes, he's entitled to wife major breadwinner.
Wife has an affair, husband should not.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
He's entitled to have.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
Are you okay with it?
Speaker 1 (12:15):
No? I don't love it. I don't know because I
have a very old school Puerto Rican much his momentality,
which is, you know what, the man is the one
that supports.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
But in this case the world.
Speaker 1 (12:25):
Well, I don't live by that because you know what
I do. You know how I am. I'm very independent.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
But in this case, the wife was the breadwinner I'm saying,
and the husband was whatever, the stay at home dad.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
He was taking care of everything. By law, He's gonna
get some money.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
But that bothers you.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
Why because he's a man.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
But if he is.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
The stay at home dad and he is the one
doing all.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Of that career, but you didn't mention that.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
So in both scenarios, one is a state home parent,
one is not. One is the man breadwinner, one is not.
The woman is the breadwinner.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
I think he's entitled to some money, for sure. Half
I don't know. I don't understand that topic.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
But why is it weird you always believe that the
woman should get everything but the man should not. In
the same scenario.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
It always gets you mad when you see some guy
asking for alimoney.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
You're like, that's ridiculous.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
And like what if that guy gave up his home?
Speaker 1 (13:21):
I hate it.
Speaker 3 (13:22):
But if a woman asks for alimony, you're like, take
him that cleaner.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
Because usually the mom is the one that stays at home,
but usually the mom is the one that raises the kids.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
You know, how many in this world today, because of
all the fights and all the and all the the
push right for for women rights, how many CEOs of
major companies now are female who are the driving force
in relationships?
Speaker 1 (13:42):
This is me, this is what I'll do because by law,
he's entitled to. Like, let's let's say this is my husband. Right,
we get divorced, he's gonna and I'm the breadwinner. Right,
he's gonna get what he's gonna get by loan. So
I don't have a say, right, but for my mental
health and for me to continue having respect for this man,
assuming he's the one.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
That open he just walks away.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
No no, no, no, not at all, not at all.
But if he's the one that truly is raising the kids,
and he's the one that is home.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
And gave up his career.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Correct, So if he's how you say that stay at
home dad? Right, Let's do the numbers. So this is
this is our lifestyle.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
If the lifestyle is half, he's part.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Of the numbers. This is how much. This is how
much you need to continue raising my kids properly. That's
what you got.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Lifestyle was built because one person was able to stay
at home and be the rock while the other one
could go out.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
There doesn't exist anymore because there's a divorce.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Yes, so that person should get half.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
No, then you adapt.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
If it's the woman you get half, it's the man
you adapt.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
I don't know. I don't want to talk about it.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
You know what solves the problem the agreement neymar has.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
Just laying that agreement out, there ain't no man having
to worry about give a path. No woman has to
worry about giving a path, because the agreement isn't writing.
Go be free, that's be read.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
Just wear a kind of no no call girls and
no kissing on the mountain.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
That is disgusting. Oh my god, all the problems, all.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
The problems might be just writing the relationship Bible. Maybe
he just got it all down.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Wow, he's crushing it wishful thinking by Eric. Anyways, I'm
sorry Kevin Costner and the wife. Let me say it's
not It's none of our business. I hope you guys
work it out.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
Well, yeah, I don't know. I they're gonna work it out.
But we kids are okay through this process.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
And your favorite person, Megan Marco, accused of not actually
conducting all of her podcast interviews for twenty million Spotify.
I don't see a world where this is true.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
She's not actually doing that.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
Come on, guys, I don't believe that. I think the
hatreds are towards that woman is so intense that the
reaching reaching reaching just to take her down. And if
she's she was doing that, maybe that is a business
model that Spotify and everybody agreed on and listen, it
is what it is is that I don't think people
(16:07):
shouldn't be that bother. It's another problem.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
Here is the issue at hand.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
And I feel bad right because Megan and Harry are
taking a lot of heat for everything. But at the
end of the day, when you continue to put yourself
out there in the public pretty quiet. They have been
for quite some time now bringing the heat against other people, right,
so when that happens, don't you think the flip is
(16:33):
going to happen to people retaliate and people are gonna
come at you for different but enough. I think the
only way it's enough is if.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
People just go away and do their own business and
don't keep making money off of scenarios and annoing.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
No, but I think there's there's a podcast. It's not
that she's like reality TV. We're inviting Camera Store Home
so you can follow her life. She's doing a freaking podcast.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
I think it's from all of the other things that
built up.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
I think people are better that she made twenty million
dollars that that that number bothers people. So I don't
think it worked or is not as big as they anticipated.
I don't know exactly why. We don't know any so
we just leave them alone. Oh my goodness, I don't know.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
It's I just want I just want twenty million dollars
to do to show up my heart, my heart.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Is it possible that a salary is twenty million for
he said yeah. I think he said they idea was
worth it. We have four point eight stars. People like
the podcast.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
Oh man, what a great problem to have. By the way,
I made twenty million dollars. People don't think it's me.
It's me people.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
I'm here, I'm on the mic. Pay me my twenty,
pay me twenty. Oh my god, that's a great problem.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
Anyways, Why are we laughing about people's problems? I feel awful.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
Well, that's not really a problem.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
It's just a problem that I have with host chest.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
But you made twenty million dollars. It's not really a problem.
That's not really a problem.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
No, we're just discussing things that we one of our business.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
Well, the divorces everywhere. I mean, that's kind of like
become everybody.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
It's a lot of business.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
Well, life isn't our business outside of our business. And
all you're on is TikTok all the time? Look at
other people's business Instagram?
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Are you okay? What are you so rude?
Speaker 3 (18:14):
That's what those things are.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Why don't you check other people's business? No, Eric, why
don't you check the content that I would look on TikTok,
which is all motivational, incredible singers, things about the politics,
And I'm actually looking at things that are enlightening because
I'm trying to learn and open.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
It's it true. Is it propagain?
Speaker 1 (18:32):
I don't care if it's true. Da, I'm just trying
to get informed, you know.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
But you're getting informed by good good information, bad information.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
I'm assuming it's good informations because it feels goodly right,
and people that are because I don't. I don't. I'm
not looking at some eighteen year old influencer about how to.
Speaker 3 (18:48):
Applies about something good.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
Okay, you know we both are loving right now or
we just loved was the Arnold Schwarzenegger documentary on Netflix?
Speaker 3 (18:56):
Let me tell you it's incredible. Talk about an inspirational story. Listen.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
I've always been a Schwartznegger fan through his movies, but
never really like Arnold. And listen, this is from his perspective.
He's producing it, he's in it obviously, Like we always say,
there's always a biased when you're the one. But this
guy talked about everything. He talked about his failures, he
talked about his affairs.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
He's pretty awesome.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
He doesn't hide behind the woman izing, and he doesn't
hide behind illegitimate son. He doesn't hide about behind anything.
His ups and downs and politics is what he did
to make it. It's all there, and this guy is truly,
and I love that he said this. He's not self made.
He's like the team of people behind me that helped
me get.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
To where I'm at. That's why I'm here today.
Speaker 2 (19:40):
I hate when people say I'm self made because I
didn't do it about myself. But he is the most like
one of the purest inspirational American dream type stories.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
This is what happened to me, guys. He's three episodes.
We highly recommend that you need to watch it. I've
always been a fan. I am a huge, mega, mega
mega fan. In the first two episodes, it's about his
upbringing in the Austria. I know that. The second is
about actings acting, and then the third is when he
became a governor and a politician. So he's about it
into three things. I was all about it. I'm like,
(20:10):
I am in love with this man. He is incredible.
Everything about him his mind is just delicious, delicious, So
I was like, I love him. Then he gets to
the third episode when he becomes governor, which is a
huge compliment, accomplishment from a man that it was a bodybuilder,
mister Olympia, mister Universe to freaking mega movie star, and
(20:32):
now he's playing with politics and actually was a phenomenal governor.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
And not from this country, like he cared enough about.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
And he passed a lot of bills and laws that
you know what, had have influenced politics to this day
and on and on. So I think he is a
brilliant person. The missing thing for me was the oops moment,
was like, I wasn't such a high I love him,
Oh my god, he's incredible. Then the fair moment because
(21:01):
he covers it very very honestly and transparent and you know,
and they show footage of the kid. And but then
my problem was what a what a bad personal trait
is that.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
A he was a womanizer's whole life.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
But listen, no, no, no, no, this is one I'm thinking.
You are married, you're a public figure, you're married, you
have four children. When your wife conceived one of your children,
there's another woman that works for you, that is part
of the family that conceived your child. And he was
able to keep it a secret and still be dad
(21:43):
and husband and governor and travel the world and be
beloved and having that secret for so many years to me,
that's not then that's a horrible character flaw. I know,
I know that but having the capability of lying to
your kids and to your wife every single day, and
(22:05):
having the same cleaning lady that you had the affair
with still with you, and seeing another child grow and
nobody knowing that is your blood.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
The craziest part, not to make a joke, but the
craziest part is that kid couldn't look any more like Arnld.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
He might look more like.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Than all because because God is perfect and the universe
is perfect, Arnold, and I wonder if that similarity is
what made her, the family and the wife be like.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
Wait wait, said Maria asked him in therapy.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
I know, but I wonder if it was because she
had she had rumors or behavior between the maiden and him.
I don't know if it was just the physical appearance
of the boy. We will never know why she decided
to ask the question to me, it was like, listen, Arnold,
you're perfect. But the fact that you were able to
conceal that while still functioning perfectly fine, that's the part
(23:01):
that I just go, that's not wrong.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
You don't know if he was functionally functioning perfectly fine,
and you don't know, you know what that marriage was
really like has gone alone?
Speaker 1 (23:09):
It caused him his marriage. He was a strange from
his kids for a while. It was a lot of suffering, and.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
He says, the one thing I'll have to live with
the rest of my life. And he suffers, so you
can tell, and it's it's brutal. But this is a
guy who also his whole life, and he says it
was able to compartmentalize the different aspects of his life.
So his brain was already built that way to.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
Be able to departmentalize. But you know what I mean,
he was able to build such an amazing platform.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
I think is incredible. I just wish that that chapter
of his life didn't happen, because it's just a big minus,
just the way it was done. At least if it
happens and you're honest immediately, but just concealing that lie,
it's brutal. I'm sorry, but it's brutal. Anyways, the documentary
is fantastic and he is a powerholl comes.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
Back to the Naymark conversation. If he just would have
had that contract.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
Maria Schreiver will never.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Should you force your kids to attend family gatherings when
they don't want to go.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
Well, when I was growing up. We're not a freaking
you don't have a choice.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
I think it depends on the age. I think at
some point you you're the alpha, your control. But then
at some point when they're teenagers and they really don't
want to go, you don't. You don't solve anything better.
Speaker 3 (24:32):
I remember not wanting to go to many gatherings. You're like,
oh my, another one or this I had to when
you're a teger, I had to go to.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
When you're a teenager, you're kind of like, oh, here
we go, but you know you you end up getting
there and having fun most of the time.
Speaker 1 (24:44):
There's something very special about trying to keep the family
together and teaching kids the importance of family. So it's
just not something that.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
Is neg it's just nowadays kids have so many choices
and were at fault for this too, Like kids have
so many options, like.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
What are their feelings? What do they want to do?
When we were kids, it.
Speaker 1 (24:59):
Was just like our household Sabella runs the show, so
Sabella can do whatever she wants because Sabella knows how
to be like incredibly manipulative. I mean, I like, like
I want to be Sabella. I want to reincarnae and
be Sabella because that girl is freaking out.
Speaker 3 (25:14):
Of my dream.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Anyways, all right, well everything has been lovely.
Speaker 3 (25:20):
This is a fun episode.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
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This is he said a Yadiho with Aeric Winter and
Rosalind Fantaz. Hey, Hello, Hello, I'm good. How are you
You are back back?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
So?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
How was Monte Carlo?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
I wish you guys were there. But it was a
great trip. It was really a great trip. And the
whole time I kept thinking my kids, my wife, they
would love it here, they would love to see all
so sweet.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
But it was.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
It was awesome to see the support for the rookie overseas, really,
I mean insane support.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
I didn't even imagine it was going to be like
that great.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Festival he was basically Brad Pitt. Well, I don't know
if I go that far Monte Carlo.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
I don't think I go that far.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
But there were a lot of supporters of Bradford and
the rookie, and the festival did a great job, just
the way the whole thing's put together. And and you know,
you know me, I got the travel bug again. That's
what's crazy is I had been to Monica twenty five
years ago, so I you know it's changed. I had
been there for sure, not a ton, but it definitely
has changed. But you know, my manager and I went
(01:06):
to this little town say that I told you about,
and that just gave me this insane travel bug again
where I'm like, we have got to go to Europe
next year because I mean, I'm sitting in this beautiful
medieval town that you know, the area around it was
discovered in like three hundred BC, and then you know
the medieval town was built up in the thirteen hundreds
(01:26):
and it was exquisite. Yeah, I mean, I want to
go back and travel and go to Europe. I want
to go get you and the kids back there.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
It was it was great.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
That's awesome. I'm glad you had a.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Wonderful reception for Father's Day, which was super nice.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Yeah, the kids, they're paintings for you and cards, and
I go to a lot of clothes. You did a
lot of stuff.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
It was fun.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
It was fun. I'm glad you're happy, and I'm glad
you had a good time. So you want to cover
some hot topics.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Go for what's the first one?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
So Neymar, you take over. You know more about sports.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Than Menaymar's fiance rumored to have three shocking rules that
allow soccer start to cheat.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
No Jesu lord, Okay, I thought this was about sports
and it's about its cheating.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Okay, topic, great topic, laughing. Three shocking rules. Wow, okay, Well,
let's see are the rules listed here?
Speaker 1 (02:20):
Yeah? I mean she's pregnant by the way.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Okay, let me let me say the rule.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
The reported agreement between the couple is that Neymar could
stay with other girls as long as he is discreet
about the relationship. He is forbidden to be with call
girls and make love without a condom, and he cannot
kiss them on the mouth. How could you ever know
that he's a not kissing them on the mouth, be
(02:49):
not using a condom? I mean, I guess he's he's
getting a lot. I mean full haul passes twenty four
to seven. So maybe he's going to try to abide
by this.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
What do you think do we know these for a fact?
Is this just rumors that they have an agreement or
there's like a like a like a press release saying
we have come to press that we want to share
with the world that we have an agreement that these
are the parameters for.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Him to che doubt there's a press release because one
of the rules is he has to be discreet about it.
So listen, I do know this is what sources say,
I do know that I've heard about this before, like
in the NBA community, because I used to have a
buddy that played in the NBA, and I know there
were some players that had these rumored understandings with their
wives that they could have like one a year. The
(03:37):
thing is, if you're gonna have one a year, I
highly doubt they're gonna uphold that rule of one a year.
Maybe one maybe one that they're open about. But I mean,
you've opened the flood gates to.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
One a year. I'm assuming there's are gonna be there
are gonna be multiples.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Basically, this is just an open relationship. I don't know
that it's like, uh now, I guess it's not open
if she can't.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
So, don't she has used condom, don't fall in love,
don't kids in the mouth, and be discreet and no
call girls and no call girls.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Yeah, but does she have these rules can.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
She go to I don't think so. I don't think
a professional athlete, like a pro famous, wealthy athlete, will
be comfortable with his woman doing that. I mean, what
do I know? I don't. I don't know. Do you
believe it's true?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Believe it's true?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
So you know you know this, So this kind of
agreement happens.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Yes, I do, Yes, I do know for a fact
because of again my source in the NBA, who is
my source who has talked about listen, listen at the
end of the day, Yes, these type of agreements happen.
How much they stick to these agreements, because again, once
you open the floodgates, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
How much they stick to.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
I wonder what of women you have to be to
be able to be comfortable with that. Either you're a
woman that truly believes monogamy doesn't exist, so I'm not
going to lie to myself. At some point, the guy
is going to cheat. I don't know when, but he's
going to happen because monogamy is not sustainable. So you're
going knowing that. Therefore, you don't have a problem by
(05:12):
giving him permission because you know it's going to happen anyways,
or if you're the top of the.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Power when you do that, because you're saying I'm.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Giving you the permission, you're not assuming any power.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
You're saying I'm okay with it.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
You're assuming a lot of weakness. No, no, because power
is if you ever cheat on me. You pack your.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Power, because that power exists if a person doesn't support cheating.
But if this girl's okay with an open relationship, you can't.
Some people are okay with open relationship.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
I wonder if it's not. I wonder if it's I
don't believe in monogamy or what I care about is
status and somebody taking care of me. Therefore, I am
open to whatever he wants to do as long as
I'm comfortable.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
It could be a combination of both. Some people are
comfortable with open relationship.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Do you think women that behave like that or have
that mentality? Do you think they love and respect themselves?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
I would never judge somebody based on if they're comfortable
and they have an open relationship.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
So do you think they love and respect themselves?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Yeah, because they're saying that they're okay with this. Don't
you think it's Do you think it's worse if someone
is not not giving these parameters, but you see someone
that you believe, don't know if it's true, you believe
married for the money, male or female, and you know
that the other one's probably messing around and they're staying
in the relationship.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
What's worse?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
What's worse knowing that somebody is probably messing around, that
they are probably very in it for the money or
the fame, but they're turning their they're turning their cheek
the other way.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Or someone who knows this is all happening, and I'm
okay with it.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
I don't I with either one.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
But you're not either one. You personally are not either one,
so you can't speak for you. You're speaking for yourself.
I'm talking about if you were to talk about those
two people, what's worse in your eyes? Someone who turns
the other cheek, acts like it's not happening, or someone
who is just open to it.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
I think it's both.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
I think they're both crazy because they're crazy because it's
not you.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
But if it's, if it works for them, I rather know.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying to me.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
I mean, no, no, I rather know, and I'm given
the permission.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
That that person in those scenarios, right, that person assumes
the power.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
I know.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
I'm okay with it. I'm allowing it. This is what
I want. Maybe they do it too, maybe they have
an open relationship.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
I don't think. I don't think the guy will allow
the woman to do it.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Who knows.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
But my point is I think the person who is accepting, acknowledging,
and basically allowing it has more power than the person
that is acting like it's not happening and.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Turning the other cheek. You don't agree, it's not your life.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
We're talking hypothetically. How would you see it for those people?
That's all we're saying.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
I don't know Kevin Costner is strange story. I know
once nearly two hundred and fifty thousand dollars a month
in child support. Yeah, because you know she is saying
that ship does she wants to continue her lifestyle, and
less than that is not going to support the lifestyle
(08:18):
that her and her kids are accustomed.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
I love the story too that she's still living in
the house, Like I think she refuses to move out
because she believes, based on what he did, he needs
to move out.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
So they're still living in the same house.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
It sounds like they didn't have the same agreement.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
The name or we don't know what they're getting divorced.
I shouldn't be laughing. That's awful.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
No, they're saying they're getting a divorced because of an affair.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Not, No, that's not all, not at all. I don't
think I don't think so. So that's why she's bitter.
She's like Mabe lesten baby, take him to the cleaner.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
I am very confident this is coming after.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Take it to the cleaners. If he cheated. No, no,
I'm joking, guys.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
I don't know what I feel, but I'm pretty sure
that's what the deal.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
This is a question. This is a question. No matter
how much money a spouse makes, is there any justification
for want in almost a quarter of a million dollars
a month? Or is that out of spite for towards
your ex?
Speaker 3 (09:20):
I don't know. What do you think I want to
hear from you? What should she ask for that?
Speaker 1 (09:27):
I think it's a lot of money. I don't think
it's necessary.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
Okay, should she get? Should she?
Speaker 1 (09:33):
But listen, they have how many kids? Three? Four kids?
And they all go to private school. She needs to
use to the math and go. Okay, so this is
what private school is going to cost the regardless.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
There's there's alimony in child sport.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
There's both, right, So these two hundred and fifty thousand
dollars do they cover both? Things, because there are things
that there is is his responsibility to continue. This is
child support. Okay, so ilmso been she's doing her math.
I'm assuming that her her team of lawyers are advising
her doing their they're doing their math. So if this
is the number that they came up with, I'm assuming
(10:04):
that this is the number that they Wait, what is
this say here? She's really mad because she told her
three children they were getting a divorce via zoom behind
her back. No, this two hundred and fifty is aside
from school sports and health insurance. Oh so she does
want to take him too, that.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
She's mad because he did it by zoom without including her.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
It's a lot of money. I don't think you need
two hundred and fifty thousand dollars to raise any child,
to be honest with you, unless you're telling me that
this this family has ten private chefs and they and
they fly private all the time, and they go to
the most expensive, incredible schools ever. And I don't know.
(10:50):
I'm very confused.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Okay, let me ask you this. So a couple, let's
say it's let's say.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
It's what are you look at? What do you tell me?
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Okay, let's say it's an affair, you know, whatever. The
case may be many issues throughout the years.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Okay, somebody's worth a lot of money.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
Like you have Jeff Basis money.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
Yeah, there's a lot of money. She wants half. You
go with it.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
She's the wife and the mother of three kids. She's
entitled to halfa It doesn't matter what I want. She
wants she's entitled to have.
Speaker 3 (11:17):
So let me flip it.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
The wife is the one that's worth one hundreds of
millions of dollars. The wife has an affair or some
other issues, they get a divorce, her husband wants half.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
You go with it.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
No, but he go to work, but the ex wife
don't go to work. Well, if the wife is the
one that has the money, clearly the wife is the
one going to well.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
If the husband is the one that had the money,
the husband is going to work.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
The wife does what I'm saying, Well, she's entitled, goes by.
She's entitled.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Man, But you're not okay with it?
Speaker 1 (11:58):
No, I don't know. I have to say it depends
on the situation. Case.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
I just gave you the case.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
The case husband major breadwinner, has an affair, wife should
get half. You said, yes, he's entitled to wife major breadwinner.
Wife has an affair, husband should not.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
He's entitled to have.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
Are you okay with it?
Speaker 1 (12:15):
No? I don't love it. I don't know because I
have a very old school Puerto Rican much his momentality,
which is, you know what, the man is the one
that supports.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
But in this case the world.
Speaker 1 (12:25):
Well, I don't live by that because you know what
I do. You know how I am. I'm very independent.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
But in this case, the wife was the breadwinner I'm saying,
and the husband was whatever, the stay at home dad.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
He was taking care of everything. By law, He's gonna
get some money.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
But that bothers you.
Speaker 1 (12:40):
Why because he's a man.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
But if he is.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
The stay at home dad and he is the one
doing all.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Of that career, but you didn't mention that.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
So in both scenarios, one is a state home parent,
one is not. One is the man breadwinner, one is not.
The woman is the breadwinner.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
I think he's entitled to some money, for sure. Half
I don't know. I don't understand that topic.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
But why is it weird you always believe that the
woman should get everything but the man should not. In
the same scenario.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
It always gets you mad when you see some guy
asking for alimoney.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
You're like, that's ridiculous.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
And like what if that guy gave up his home?
Speaker 1 (13:21):
I hate it.
Speaker 3 (13:22):
But if a woman asks for alimony, you're like, take
him that cleaner.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
Because usually the mom is the one that stays at home,
but usually the mom is the one that raises the kids.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
You know, how many in this world today, because of
all the fights and all the and all the the
push right for for women rights, how many CEOs of
major companies now are female who are the driving force
in relationships?
Speaker 1 (13:42):
This is me, this is what I'll do because by law,
he's entitled to. Like, let's let's say this is my husband. Right,
we get divorced, he's gonna and I'm the breadwinner. Right,
he's gonna get what he's gonna get by loan. So
I don't have a say, right, but for my mental
health and for me to continue having respect for this man,
assuming he's the one.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
That open he just walks away.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
No no, no, no, not at all, not at all.
But if he's the one that truly is raising the kids,
and he's the one that is home.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
And gave up his career.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Correct, So if he's how you say that stay at
home dad? Right, Let's do the numbers. So this is
this is our lifestyle.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
If the lifestyle is half, he's part.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Of the numbers. This is how much. This is how
much you need to continue raising my kids properly. That's
what you got.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Lifestyle was built because one person was able to stay
at home and be the rock while the other one
could go out.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
There doesn't exist anymore because there's a divorce.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Yes, so that person should get half.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
No, then you adapt.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
If it's the woman you get half, it's the man
you adapt.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
I don't know. I don't want to talk about it.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
You know what solves the problem the agreement neymar has.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
Just laying that agreement out, there ain't no man having
to worry about give a path. No woman has to
worry about giving a path, because the agreement isn't writing.
Go be free, that's be read.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
Just wear a kind of no no call girls and
no kissing on the mountain.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
That is disgusting. Oh my god, all the problems, all.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
The problems might be just writing the relationship Bible. Maybe
he just got it all down.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Wow, he's crushing it wishful thinking by Eric. Anyways, I'm
sorry Kevin Costner and the wife. Let me say it's
not It's none of our business. I hope you guys
work it out.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
Well, yeah, I don't know. I they're gonna work it out.
But we kids are okay through this process.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
And your favorite person, Megan Marco, accused of not actually
conducting all of her podcast interviews for twenty million Spotify.
I don't see a world where this is true.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
She's not actually doing that.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
Come on, guys, I don't believe that. I think the
hatreds are towards that woman is so intense that the
reaching reaching reaching just to take her down. And if
she's she was doing that, maybe that is a business
model that Spotify and everybody agreed on and listen, it
is what it is is that I don't think people
(16:07):
shouldn't be that bother. It's another problem.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
Here is the issue at hand.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
And I feel bad right because Megan and Harry are
taking a lot of heat for everything. But at the
end of the day, when you continue to put yourself
out there in the public pretty quiet. They have been
for quite some time now bringing the heat against other people, right,
so when that happens, don't you think the flip is
(16:33):
going to happen to people retaliate and people are gonna
come at you for different but enough. I think the
only way it's enough is if.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
People just go away and do their own business and
don't keep making money off of scenarios and annoing.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
No, but I think there's there's a podcast. It's not
that she's like reality TV. We're inviting Camera Store Home
so you can follow her life. She's doing a freaking podcast.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
I think it's from all of the other things that
built up.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
I think people are better that she made twenty million
dollars that that that number bothers people. So I don't
think it worked or is not as big as they anticipated.
I don't know exactly why. We don't know any so
we just leave them alone. Oh my goodness, I don't know.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
It's I just want I just want twenty million dollars
to do to show up my heart, my heart.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Is it possible that a salary is twenty million for
he said yeah. I think he said they idea was
worth it. We have four point eight stars. People like
the podcast.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
Oh man, what a great problem to have. By the way,
I made twenty million dollars. People don't think it's me.
It's me people.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
I'm here, I'm on the mic. Pay me my twenty,
pay me twenty. Oh my god, that's a great problem.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
Anyways, Why are we laughing about people's problems? I feel awful.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
Well, that's not really a problem.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
It's just a problem that I have with host chest.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
But you made twenty million dollars. It's not really a problem.
That's not really a problem.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
No, we're just discussing things that we one of our business.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
Well, the divorces everywhere. I mean, that's kind of like
become everybody.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
It's a lot of business.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
Well, life isn't our business outside of our business. And
all you're on is TikTok all the time? Look at
other people's business Instagram?
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Are you okay? What are you so rude?
Speaker 3 (18:14):
That's what those things are.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Why don't you check other people's business? No, Eric, why
don't you check the content that I would look on TikTok,
which is all motivational, incredible singers, things about the politics,
And I'm actually looking at things that are enlightening because
I'm trying to learn and open.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
It's it true. Is it propagain?
Speaker 1 (18:32):
I don't care if it's true. Da, I'm just trying
to get informed, you know.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
But you're getting informed by good good information, bad information.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
I'm assuming it's good informations because it feels goodly right,
and people that are because I don't. I don't. I'm
not looking at some eighteen year old influencer about how to.
Speaker 3 (18:48):
Applies about something good.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
Okay, you know we both are loving right now or
we just loved was the Arnold Schwarzenegger documentary on Netflix?
Speaker 3 (18:56):
Let me tell you it's incredible. Talk about an inspirational story. Listen.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
I've always been a Schwartznegger fan through his movies, but
never really like Arnold. And listen, this is from his perspective.
He's producing it, he's in it obviously, Like we always say,
there's always a biased when you're the one. But this
guy talked about everything. He talked about his failures, he
talked about his affairs.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
He's pretty awesome.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
He doesn't hide behind the woman izing, and he doesn't
hide behind illegitimate son. He doesn't hide about behind anything.
His ups and downs and politics is what he did
to make it. It's all there, and this guy is truly,
and I love that he said this. He's not self made.
He's like the team of people behind me that helped
me get.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
To where I'm at. That's why I'm here today.
Speaker 2 (19:40):
I hate when people say I'm self made because I
didn't do it about myself. But he is the most like
one of the purest inspirational American dream type stories.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
This is what happened to me, guys. He's three episodes.
We highly recommend that you need to watch it. I've
always been a fan. I am a huge, mega, mega
mega fan. In the first two episodes, it's about his
upbringing in the Austria. I know that. The second is
about actings acting, and then the third is when he
became a governor and a politician. So he's about it
into three things. I was all about it. I'm like,
(20:10):
I am in love with this man. He is incredible.
Everything about him his mind is just delicious, delicious, So
I was like, I love him. Then he gets to
the third episode when he becomes governor, which is a
huge compliment, accomplishment from a man that it was a bodybuilder,
mister Olympia, mister Universe to freaking mega movie star, and
(20:32):
now he's playing with politics and actually was a phenomenal governor.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
And not from this country, like he cared enough about.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
And he passed a lot of bills and laws that
you know what, had have influenced politics to this day
and on and on. So I think he is a
brilliant person. The missing thing for me was the oops moment,
was like, I wasn't such a high I love him,
Oh my god, he's incredible. Then the fair moment because
(21:01):
he covers it very very honestly and transparent and you know,
and they show footage of the kid. And but then
my problem was what a what a bad personal trait
is that.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
A he was a womanizer's whole life.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
But listen, no, no, no, no, this is one I'm thinking.
You are married, you're a public figure, you're married, you
have four children. When your wife conceived one of your children,
there's another woman that works for you, that is part
of the family that conceived your child. And he was
able to keep it a secret and still be dad
(21:43):
and husband and governor and travel the world and be
beloved and having that secret for so many years to me,
that's not then that's a horrible character flaw. I know,
I know that but having the capability of lying to
your kids and to your wife every single day, and
(22:05):
having the same cleaning lady that you had the affair
with still with you, and seeing another child grow and
nobody knowing that is your blood.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
The craziest part, not to make a joke, but the
craziest part is that kid couldn't look any more like Arnld.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
He might look more like.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Than all because because God is perfect and the universe
is perfect, Arnold, and I wonder if that similarity is
what made her, the family and the wife be like.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
Wait wait, said Maria asked him in therapy.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
I know, but I wonder if it was because she
had she had rumors or behavior between the maiden and him.
I don't know if it was just the physical appearance
of the boy. We will never know why she decided
to ask the question to me, it was like, listen, Arnold,
you're perfect. But the fact that you were able to
conceal that while still functioning perfectly fine, that's the part
(23:01):
that I just go, that's not wrong.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
You don't know if he was functionally functioning perfectly fine,
and you don't know, you know what that marriage was
really like has gone alone?
Speaker 1 (23:09):
It caused him his marriage. He was a strange from
his kids for a while. It was a lot of suffering, and.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
He says, the one thing I'll have to live with
the rest of my life. And he suffers, so you
can tell, and it's it's brutal. But this is a
guy who also his whole life, and he says it
was able to compartmentalize the different aspects of his life.
So his brain was already built that way to.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
Be able to departmentalize. But you know what I mean,
he was able to build such an amazing platform.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
I think is incredible. I just wish that that chapter
of his life didn't happen, because it's just a big minus,
just the way it was done. At least if it
happens and you're honest immediately, but just concealing that lie,
it's brutal. I'm sorry, but it's brutal. Anyways, the documentary
is fantastic and he is a powerholl comes.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
Back to the Naymark conversation. If he just would have
had that contract.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
Maria Schreiver will never.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Should you force your kids to attend family gatherings when
they don't want to go.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
Well, when I was growing up. We're not a freaking
you don't have a choice.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
I think it depends on the age. I think at
some point you you're the alpha, your control. But then
at some point when they're teenagers and they really don't
want to go, you don't. You don't solve anything better.
Speaker 3 (24:32):
I remember not wanting to go to many gatherings. You're like,
oh my, another one or this I had to when
you're a teger, I had to go to.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
When you're a teenager, you're kind of like, oh, here
we go, but you know you you end up getting
there and having fun most of the time.
Speaker 1 (24:44):
There's something very special about trying to keep the family
together and teaching kids the importance of family. So it's
just not something that.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
Is neg it's just nowadays kids have so many choices
and were at fault for this too, Like kids have
so many options, like.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
What are their feelings? What do they want to do?
When we were kids, it.
Speaker 1 (24:59):
Was just like our household Sabella runs the show, so
Sabella can do whatever she wants because Sabella knows how
to be like incredibly manipulative. I mean, I like, like
I want to be Sabella. I want to reincarnae and
be Sabella because that girl is freaking out.
Speaker 3 (25:14):
Of my dream.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Anyways, all right, well everything has been lovely.
Speaker 3 (25:20):
This is a fun episode.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
Very much, love you bye, no agreement for you.
Speaker 3 (25:26):
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and tell us what you think.
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Speaker 3 (25:41):
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