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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is he said ayad ho with Eric Winter and
Rodlin Fantas. Hello, Hello, Hello, welcome. Well, this is kind
of weird to say welcome to our last episode.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
You're going to break it like that, you a d ho.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
So I'm just gonna break it. I'm gonna start raw
fresh like we always are, just tell like it is
we are. So this is such a weird, it's.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Weird, unlike speechless. I don't even know what to say.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
We are going to talk about things, We're going to
go into life and this journey of he said, a
a d ho, how much joy it's brought us, But
you know, just transparency obviously because we started this way.
I started this whole podcast like this. This is gonna
be our last episode and not the last of us
doing something like this. But I think for now work
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life has become insanely overwhelming. You're about to travel again
for another five weeks, maybe longer into the new year.
So it's becoming a little challenging doing the podcast. Ye
with all our schedules, holidays coming up, so and we've
had a lot of people asking when's the next one
coming out? When's the next one coming out? We haven't
been able to give the schedule what we the attention
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and love we want to give it. So we're putting
he said adal on On on a break on a pause,
and like you said, it's not the like I just said,
it's not the last of us on your screens, and
we'll be updating you on our socials. But this is
the last of this podcast for now, right.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
It makes me sad. It's really it's it's a bit
as sweet. I don't even know if it's sweet. It's
sweet in terms of it was a lot of stress,
my friends, to be able to accomplish the podcast the
way we wanted to, which is the consistency one and two,
which is twice a week and then okay, once a
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week and then every two weeks, And when even the
two weeks became a challenge because of the schedules and traveling,
it was kind of like we were letting people down.
We are letting ourselves down, the podcast, the producers, because
we're just not available. Yeah, and then it became a stress,
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you know, instead of of oh my god, I enjoy it,
it was like, oh my god, we have to do
one and how do we do it? And and the
schedules are crazy with your shooting schedule and my stuff
and traveling. That we decided, you know, it's best if
we just take a little a beat and we just breathe,
and we just allow life to continue, and so we
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can dedicate more time to the stuff that is read
in our faces, which is a lot of work, and
we'll be back.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
We'll be back with something. Yeah, incredible.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
How many seasons did we do?
Speaker 1 (02:58):
We did? This is a third? Three? I think, thanks
so three?
Speaker 2 (03:01):
How many episodes stored? All hundreds?
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Right, yeah, yeah, I know this is hundreds. I have
to say this was something we embarked on on a whim.
It was we had no idea how this would go.
And we've learned so much about. First off, the amazing
support of all our listeners, Yeah, being there for us
writing this wave of life, parenting, marriage with us. It's
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it's been an incredible having you all by our side.
And we had so many incredible guests that I've learned
so much.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Incredible for such a small podcast. You know, it was
the guests that we had were incredible.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Everybody from so many incredible people from all.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Walks of life, exactly big celebrities to just regular people
with incredible stories. We had an incredible lineup. Yeah, to
be honest, and we had really really good, funny episodes.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
I think we've learned a lot. Yeah, we've learned a lot,
not just about doing something like this, but about each other.
It's been we joked, you know, it's been like as
a therapy.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Therapy, what are we going to do now that we
don't have he said in a dhole therapy session. It has
made it truly like the podcast is a therapist and
now we're not gonna have it. So it means I
want to mad at you before the podcast. I can
be mad at you for many, many, many hours so
I don't have to fake it while I'm doing the podcast,
and many diffuses, and then we leave and we're fine.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
We can be really.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Upset, and then we do the podcast, we have a laugh,
and then we walk out of the room. We're like, ah,
that was BS, and have that anymore.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
We've walked away with so many podcasts. We're getting listener
comments that have helped us in marriage decisions and in
parenting decisions. We've gotten great advice from all of you.
It's been it's been phenomenal.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
You So, what's your first your your favorite part of
having done the podcast.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I have to say some of our we've had some
exceptional host chats where we've been laughing, crying, uh crying,
laughing about so many fun just topics we've covered in life.
Those are probably some of my favorite moments. We've learned
some incredible things from guests, which I think have been
highlights as well, But probably just the time that you
and I have had, you know, talking to each other,
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laughing with each other, laughing with everyone who listens. That's
probably my favorite memories. What about you the same.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
I think we have like at least out of hundreds
of episodes, I mean I think all of them are
not all of them, but I think eighty eight percent
of them were very funny. And we love to laugh,
you know, and we have this banter that people find
very funny, and it was very refreshing and see and read,
you know a lot of people's comments about how we
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make them happy and how they will wake up in
the morning and listen to the episodes to get into
a good mood and start their day happy, and things
like that that seem so simple are actually huge. You know,
that we're able to bring happiness to people through problems,
through our craziness, are ups and downs, our victories, our failures,
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you know, because we've been pretty transparent about everything, and
I think that's what that's why people gravitated towards the
content because it was, it was always and it will
continue to be honest with whatever else we do.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
We do next. You know, we've had so many, so
many listeners, you know, comments and feedback about how we've,
like you said, helped get them through difficult times, and
that means so much incredible as raw as we've been
getting that raw feedback back from you all has meant
the world.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
You know, it was incredible for me to be able
to two dogs were saved and found loving homes because
of he said, A Yadehn, that's incredible. So to me,
that made it all world all worth it.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
You know, done a lot. I think we've done a lot.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
What about what has been the least favorite part of
doing he said.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Probably the least favorite, which turns into the favorite, is
when you and I have been going through something and
we're like, damn, we gotta go do this podcast right now.
We got to talk and act like everything's normal. And
probably the least favorite but then at the same time,
like you said, it's true, it diffuses. It's to fuse
so many stupid little arguments and things, which, by the way,
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that's marriage, that's relationships, that's life. Is like it's generally
filled with so many dumb little disagreements that just pile
up and make it so difficult, and it doesn't need
to be. It doesn't need to be if you haven't
outlet some way to let things go. It's so beneficial.
So I would say least favorite, and it blends right
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into my favorite part.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
You know. It's difficult for me at times because I
don't know how many times, but maybe two or three times,
and we will have to censor ourselves. Oh, I felt like,
because I will have a podcast that went amazing and
then something will get taken out of context and then
people were wrung with it and I took a beating
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you know, a lot of times and social media because
of like when she said this and that, and it
was a complete wrong interpretation of what I said. So
that part of the game I wasn't very pleased with
because I was like, oh man, it's like that's not
what I meant at all, and people are running with it,
and it was hurt. It hurts, It hurts immensely. And
then because I'm not the type of person in the
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business that will grab a problem like I have so
many people that helped me with my socials and so
many people that advise me in eras. When they hate,
that's when you have to really run with it. When
they hate, it means that something is working. So you
want haters, you want haters. I'm not built like that
because I was not used to that in my almost
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thirty years of this business and doing this for a living,
I wasn't used to that.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Ever, So for most of your career, social media didn't exist. Yeah, yeah,
it changes it.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
It changes it. And I was like, oh my god,
I don't know. I don't want to run and I mean,
I don't want to grab it and wrung with it
and create more problems and then create wrong perceptions just
so just so I can continue having people talking negatively
about me. I was like, no, no, no, that's not
that's not who I am.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
I don't all least Press Hilton didn't come after you
came after me when when I talked about your reduction,
your reduction, your lift. Yeah, and I said a joke
and then press Hilton because there was a picture of
post top and it looked all everything looked like scars.
(09:34):
You got to attack.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
You know, you have got an attack to a couple
of things.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Of course, it's part of the job, as part.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Of no you have to take the go with the bad.
You know, when for you page you you get stuff
that people you don't follow, but they keep constantly and
if you stay with that, give and more. There's this
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woman I don't know her name because an American blonde lady,
and it's actually very entertaining because she doesn't give a crap.
She will just say whatever. But the amount of hate
and the cattiness and her opinion is is so abusive
to everybody that she's talking to. And I just go,
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how how can people get away with that?
Speaker 1 (10:25):
You mean cyber bullying?
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Yeah, but the way she has an opinion about everybody
and everybody is like and when she is against somebody,
she will get the room. How how do people get
away with you can.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Say what you want?
Speaker 2 (10:37):
What's sad?
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Part of any.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
And then I'd look at her and I just go,
how unhappy you must be.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
When you make a living out of destroying.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
People like how unhappy. It's the same thing when people
like haterism people online that they just like to just
throw these horrible things. I just go, I wonder how
they live. I wonder how their body is inside. I
wonder what they look like.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
I wonder. We've tried to bring a lot of joy
to people through the podcast, which I think has been good.
We tried to try to change that, and you've got
to be able to be uplifting to others and try
to build them up.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Of course, I just feel like, I just feel like
because we open our lives and we open ourselves to
everything because of the podcast, then everything changed in perspective wise, Yeah, perspective,
I just go, ah, it's it's incredible, what what a
blessing to have a platform. But then you just go, oh,
the social media, it's crazy.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
I imagine what like the Kardashians have gone through at
the highest level of the reality show About Your Lives.
You're the biggest craziest public figures probably in America that started,
you know, straight as just celebrities, and they're constantly exposed.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
I wonder how they constantly how do they do it
and just stay happy?
Speaker 1 (11:54):
They just don't look as much. They can't look that much.
Anybody at that level, you can't. You just can't look.
It's possible, it's too much. But listen, I don't want
to go way off topic with you.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
And this has been incredible.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
It's been a joke.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
You're gonna miss the laughter. I'm gonna miss the jokes
that that part sucks, Yeah, because it was awesome.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
It's been a lot to share and talk about. We
have a great you know, a few great things coming up. Though.
You've announced you're you're about to head to Vegas to
do the Latin Grammys again. You have that happening. You
have a movie. She's about to take off for five
weeks to go do a movie in Oklahoma with Sie Morales,
which is a great friend as well. And he's a
great dude, and it's gonna be a lot of fun.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
It's gonna be a lot of fun. You know that.
I've known Isa for almost thirty years. I METI Morales
at a car wash when I think I was two
weeks in to live in Los Angeles.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Really that's how long.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
So his normans is I'm twenty twenty four years old.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
She started, he was already I was already.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Of course, and I remember that I'm sitting I went
to just in Santa Monica, Believer. I went to this
car wash and I'm sitting there and I see this
guy and he walks and he sits next to me,
and I recognize him, but I'm acting like I have
no idea who he is. But I'm dying is I
because I'm going, Oh my god, he's more is it
next to me? And then he goes, hey, Hey, I'm
going Hi Hi, And then we start talking in Puerto Rican.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
I'm Puerto Rican. What are you doing here? Oh?
Speaker 2 (13:15):
I'm here because of a show fam La. So he's
known me since I first moved to Los Angeles. Wow,
to do Famela isn't that crazy?
Speaker 1 (13:23):
You guys will have fun. That'll be a great project.
I also listen, I want to I want to share this.
It's been all my socials. But if you haven't seen
it yet, Palmer Public going to be in Europe for
the first time. I'm so excited about it. We've already
had tons of pre sales at the German film uh
Television Con. It's been on my you know, can check
my social page. When is that pumped? It's the first
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weekend of December. There are bottles being sold, merch being sold.
I'm doing a tasting. We're gonna have to we get
to meet, drink and have cocktails, talk about the rum.
Oh my god. Really phenomenal to finally get some bit
of distribution in Europe for everybody that's been asking in Germany,
Dortmund is where it's going to be. But it's the
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largest con in Europe.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
And I think they're expecting from all the different people.
It's like thirty thousand people are two or three thousand
just for the rookie, but Aaron Paul is going to
be there, and some are older, Like a lot of
people that do cons, they get that I have done
great work in the past. So I just appreciate everybody's
support already being there for Paul. And this is exciting,
like the fact that we're going to have people in
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Europe who have been asking to get the run for
so long. They're gonna have an opportunity. So check our
socials for that. I wish I could go, I know,
but you become with me to France. Next year we
have Yeah, you have two cons next year.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
You're gonna beginning with me, I'm not going to the
calm con con Con. I'm not going to the con,
but I'm going.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
To be there so you can make me shot. You
can see the ones who goes shopping with me.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Hit me up.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
You will find her. What else has been new going on?
As we exit this program, the audio tour is over.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
The Audio Tour the Five Cities. It went amazing, guys,
it kicked my booty. I'm exhausted, so I am ready
to close that chapter for a second. You're right, but no,
I can close it because November fourteenth, it goes in
all digital platforms. You can rent it or you can
buy it on Amazon, Apple, Hulu, Spotify, YouTube and Dish Spectrum,
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whatever you buy your content video on demand. It's going
to be available starting November fourteenth. Then February fifty fourteenth,
we opened to the Audio Cafe movie dot Com. The
website is already up and running, so you can get
a lot of news. We're gonna have merch coming up
for the movie. And then I need to sit down
at some point and write the second part because everybody
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is screaming for it. So let's see. Hopefully, with the
help of God, we can accomplish that maybe in a
couple of years.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
So that's a big deal that that was a huge
accomplishment wrapped up.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
That was incredible. The ADEO is something that it changed
my life forever. So thank you for all.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
The listeners have been incredible supporters of.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
That, incredible social amazing.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
I can't wait for a lot of you been asking
when can I see it? When can I see it?
So soon you'll be able to download yes, which would
be awesome.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
Yes, the movie is fantastic. Guys, You're gonna love it,
and I'm so proud of it. And thank you for
all the beautiful comments and the support. It's been overwhelming,
and it's been it's what kept us going. Like the
La leg of the tour, we were exhausted. We're like,
oh my god, guys, we're dying here. But the feedback
is so unbelievable that we just kept looking at each
other saying, this is like, what are we complaining about?
Speaker 1 (16:48):
This is the stuff that people dream of, you know,
And it's funny. I don't know if a lot of
people saw. My daughter caught it because she was at
the screen in La and she was like, you look
what happened why'd you look so angry a couple of
times when you were on the when you're in the
Q and A you did. I didn't think I did.
But what happened was I looked over at your manager
and I asked what the score of the Dodger game
was and we were down to three, and I was like, are.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
You to what was Jason sitting? I don't even know
where he was sitting.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
He was after the right by me, and he told
you he was like, oh three, And I was like,
are you kidding me? And I guess it showed him
my face and Sabella caught it and was like, I
know you found out the Dodger score. You looked miserable.
I was like, I did. I was trying to hide it.
She's like, no, no, you looked at the sets. So guys,
I wasn't upset. I was so happy to be there.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
What I have one of the girls telling me, was
that you kept moving, like what you're doing right now, Eric,
Eric when he crosses his legs one leg is like this,
like since I met him, Eric, He's doing it right now.
He moves his leg. So the girls, the leads, the
tik Tikys were telling me. I think he was very,
very anxious and antsy because he wouldn't stop. He didn't
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stop moving his leg for an hour, and I was like, No,
that's something that he does, that's who he is.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
Well, that's because I think I found out that the
Dodger game was happening in the moment we were down three,
I was losing. It was a long Q and a
losing hour and I was like, oh my god, we're
gonna lose this game, but thank god we didn't. I'm
gonna shift Gears Go Dodgers. Phenomenal. One of the best
world series I've ever been a part of or seen.
I'm not part of it. I was there, but key
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K was there. Some guys stopped me at the gym
today was like your KEYK clip from the Rookies all
over the internet because there were back you know, viral
with that and that game was epic. You didn't see
any of it. You write another screening. I went to
Downey after it was so phenomenal.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
They won. When we were at the Q and A
for the Downy leg of the tour, we leave the
theater and he's like, oh my god, that wan.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
We started like Canadian Toronto fans. I know a lot
of people that were rivaling me on on Instagram, but
that Guinea upset and going go front to go Blue Jays.
You know, just jo joking, of course, but you know,
no matter what winterlaw, winter lose. That was an insane
What is the next sport?
Speaker 2 (18:59):
Now?
Speaker 1 (18:59):
The Star basketball is up right now, so your basket
football is going so super Bowl will come up next
in January feb what is it February or end of January,
I can't remember.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
And it was people, O Jaman. We talked, We talked
about farewell, we talked about life, we talked about sports,
we talked about the area, we talked about Germany, we
talked about exactly all over the place. You see, we're
gonna we're gonna close it the way we've done it
every single time.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
We are all over the place. But it's fun again.
Thank you for your support for listening. Stay tuned for
more when the time is right. Obviously it'll be on
our socials.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
And twenty six is going to be amazing.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
It is with that, I love you, I love you,
Thanks for listening.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
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Speaker 1 (20:03):
Are the best im