Livin La Vida Lopez

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is he said Ajo with Eric Winter and Rodalin
fantezt we start with dot com. I don't I don't
have the earphones and I used to listening to myself

(00:21):
that very loud. So this is interesting anyway, today is
um It's awesome, so especially they were Actually we're actually
recording in a different studio, recording at Mario Lopez's studio,
which is pretty dope, one of our close friends. And
we're super excited because Mario and Courtney are going to
be our special guests this week, two of our dear

(00:42):
friends that we get to riff with all the time
at dinners and come up with the most outlandish hashtags
after every post we put on Instagram following a dinner
because we we really tackle every topic known demand. I'm
mad at them. It didn't come to my screening. Like
Mario is not busy, he's not at all. He doesn't

(01:03):
have three kids, he doesn't have a life time. For
Mario and Courtney, that's their own lives happened, let alone
in it. I can't wait to tell Corney all about it.
Because they're animal lovers or they are doug lovers, so
I know it's going to mean a lot to them.
You know how how screening was a hit? I mean again,
you didn't listen to me, which it would have gone
a lot smoother had you listen to me, because she

(01:25):
decided to way over invite for both screenings. When you
do an event or something, they always tell you that
only sixty shows off. What do they always tell you
is that? Like you found that on Google? Who's the
event planner experts? You spoke to event planner experts who
told you everybody knows that you invite a hundred people

(01:46):
only sixty sixty shows. Well, I said, why don't you
get headcounts? And I did, Who's going to what screening?
And I knew I was overbuild. What I thought that
over inviting? And then you did? And what happens. I
up to see this for the first time on the
big screen, and we are overbooked. First of all, we
had a crazy dude who was running the venue that

(02:08):
was made a very challenging for us to even accommodate
the place. But then on top very like non rule
breaker to the I mean millionth degree. But we were
so overbooked for the first screening that some of our
closest friends actually went home to make room for other
people to sit. I sat in like the holding area

(02:29):
with five other people, the producer, the UH, finance, year, everybody.
We all sat because we couldn't see the movie. It
was so overpacked. Then the second screening came along, which
I was hoping to see again, over overbooked, and I
spent the entire time breaking down everything and cleaning up.

(02:49):
Basically went there to bring food and clean up. You
were my employee, which is good. Basically what happened with
the users and the UH, I was with the financiers.
So we were all, you know, busting our butt and
you got to enjoy your your film, which was which
was I was so nervous. You have no idea. I

(03:10):
was dying inside. But it went so well. Do you
know what's the meaning of satos? Do I know what
the mean of sat? That's what you say it. Do
you know what the meaning of statos? Is? Straight? Straight dogs?
They call straight dogs in Puerto Rico sato. So the
movie is a short film, is forty minutes. We have
submitted them, but first time directing, first time directing. It's

(03:33):
going to like festivals. Hopefully I can win a couple
and then I'm going to do a big premiere in
Puerto Rico, and then he's gonna go to new media.
So you go to Vimeo and probably like one to
buy it in n nine cents to to rent it,
and then once to financy, her gets her money back.
Everything else that is made from people watching is gonna
go straight to helping shoulder dogs in Puerto Rico. I'm

(03:56):
very proud of it, guys. I was excited to see
the trailers. I mean again, I haven't really been able
to experience the movie and this was you know, we
shot this in Puerto Rico, and at the time, my
daughter was supposed to be in the movie. I was
supposed to be on set every day helping, being involved
with the production, and um, we all came down with influenza.
Everybody but you was me, my daughter, my son, my nanny,

(04:17):
my mom who ended up with pneumonia in hospital. So
all the time while shooting this, I was living like
a Saw movie and you were shooting a movie about
I was basically walking around the house with masks on.
Everybody's in masks, quarantined the rooms. I need to write
write a book about this experience, because people knew it
was very like bookworthy. It is bookworthy, it is book worthy.

(04:40):
Was crazy, it was crazy. What happened is going to
buy that book? I'll buy it. That's what matters, all right,
So we sold one copy. Before we jump in to
having Mario and Courtney come on the show, which again,
this is gonna be a lot of fun. Um. We
want to tackle some listener emails. We have to two emails,
both from different anonymous people. They didn't give their names.

(05:01):
The first one I'll read Rossland could read. The second. Okay,
I'm Puerto Rican. My husband is American, as I get it,
as it can, as it can get. I screwed all
that up. I can't read. I'm Puerto Rican. Husband is
as American as you as I can get. Well, I
said it wrong again, as it can get. I've been
laughing and enjoying this podcast so much. Potatoes are my

(05:21):
favorite vegetable, as well be two girls route. Okay, but
I have a question culture wise, what have been what
has been your biggest challenges? What have been your biggest
challenge challenges, etcetera. My husband, I want to incorporate both
cultures when raising our children. Our daughter. You're pretty lucky

(05:42):
because I don't have any problems culturally with you being
Puerto Rican. I actually love it. But again, I grew
up in lap one day. I don't have in THEO,
but I grew up with with more Mexican culture. Um,

(06:03):
you guys know that that Eric cannot eat anything unless
it has it has like three pounds of cholula, any
kind of sausa, like spicy. It's crazy. Spans don't like flavor.
But look for us, you know. I'm I'd say my
only frustration has been like Rosalind is uber uber uber
Puerto Rican. So proud, you know, proud of being Puerto Rican,

(06:25):
proud of our country, proud of all people. Be a
better representation of Puerto Rican. I I probably are. Only
major arguments have come and look, you do speak Spanish
to the kids, but I wish from day one Rosalind
had only spoke Spanish to our children and I spoke English.
So I wish our household was completely Spanish bilingual, completely

(06:47):
Spanish English from dad. So that way the kids always
spoke to mom in Spanish and they always spoke to
me in English. I would be okay being left out
of those conversations, and it would have helped my Spanish.
I wouldn't have had Eric, the white guy, you know, teacher,
not use as an excuse that you don't speak Spanish

(07:08):
after fifteen years that I don't speak sma excuse and
saying it would have helped. But Rosalind, for whatever reason,
only speaks English. No, I don't, Eric, come on in
the house. I speak a lot of Spanish. My kids,
you speak spake my kids, you speak my kid Mecca,

(07:29):
can you get me what Banlakash's her a thousand times
that what she needs to know is the rest of
that sentence. Give me look really bad? I do? It's
truth Spanish by lingual. Yes, don't know, Yes, yes, she's
she's more comfortable speaking in English. But father is a
green gal. It helps because our our nanny, who helps

(07:50):
us a ton, tell me only speak Spanish to everyone,
including This is why I don't get Rosalind's friends are.
Anybody comes over with the Spanish speaker and Rosalind goes
in idiot Spanish. It's the natural instinct. But Sabella says mom,
and you go, yes, dear, I don't get it. I
don't Outside of that, that's your challenge. That was that

(08:11):
was our only challenge is incorporating more of the culture.
That way we do incorporate culture in the house. The
language has been the only thing I wish she would
make more Spanish, even though she does a lot. Is
there a batrier? Another another barrier because when we go
to Puerto Rico, I'm the one that introduced you back
to Puerto Rico. Can take me because I was a
true tourist and I love to explore and I love

(08:33):
to be out a mission. Everywhere I have heard it all.
It's true. I was like, I want to go to ya,
I want to see where the coffee comes from. A
private about Puerto Rico. There's this, this, this, this, You're like,
I've never even been there, which I get it, because
when you grew up in a city or country, whatever,
you don't go explore where you grew up because it

(08:54):
just feels like a nature. But for me, we went
and rediscovered Puerto Rico. When we met, I would say, like,
you rediscovered it. I want to go that far. But yes,
I went to places that I have never been before. Yes,
I mean, because you think of Puto Rico for the
first time. In Puerto Rico, you climbed, you went in
caves with bats in Puerto Rico with me, you did.

(09:15):
You went to Jaco and set where to make coffee jacono,
which is actually made bone. We found out you learned
all this stuff about coffee in Puerto Rico because of me.
You learned. You're awesome, awesome. I appreciate your Puerto Rican dad.
Any other challenges you have with dealing with a bodriqua

(09:35):
from the heart, I mean other than it's you know,
fire all the time and you know, just Latin spicy.
You know it's crazy, but you know it's crazy. I
married this guy that was so like, chilled, relaxed, everything
was cool, square, and and now I don't know if

(09:56):
it's my influence. I don't know what what happened to
you because you have to become a n mayor driving
me crazy, that's what it is. But where is the
green goo that I'm married that was not going to
give me any problems? I just want you to go
back to that right anyways, No, I look it to
anonymous emailer, I say, the more you guys can incorporate

(10:18):
your Puerto Rican heritage into the family, the better, like NonStop,
push it everywhere, make them proud of their heritage. It's
only going to benefit them more in life is bilinguals
they can be, They'll get more jobs, more opportunities. I say,
push all of it as far as you can. I agree.
That's wow, That's what I do. That's what we do. Okay,

(10:41):
I love that. Hell of the next one? Another email
from anonymous, how do you make time for each other?
More importantly for sex or intimate moments? Do you ever
schedule them or is it usually spontaneous? Who is more
likely to try and initiate it? Erica Roz, don't get
a boom job Ross. You look amazing. I've been telling

(11:02):
her that for a while. She's been telling me that
for a while. But every time I look at the mayor,
waste the money, waste of money. So, um, how do
we make time? Because let's see you dig yourself out
of this one. Oh my god, how do we make
time for each other? Um? How do we do that? Eric?
You know what, we pretty much hands out when it

(11:23):
comes to family. People and the kids are the most
important thing. And we're always home. If we're not working,
we're home. And we yeah, some once in a while
we have to schedule, like a dinner tomorrow, dating with Valentine.
Everybody's scheduling that day. It's not like a special Well tomorrow,
we've made a special day because the world says we should.

(11:45):
You're right now. I think we try to incorporate date
nights and we try to make those things. And yeah,
sometimes with our schedules being nutty, you got to build
them into the schedule a little bit and plan proper
dinners and try and find ways to get away because
we are so family driven and it's a great I'm
still waiting for the getaway that you mentioned two months
this week. You're like, too busy, it's just too crazy,

(12:05):
you can't do it. Oh my god. So we so
do we schedule sex encounters? Try not to. It's so
hate that so random that way. He hates when it's
He likes it to be spontaneous problems. This is our day.
And then someone forgets and then like it's even upset
when I like, we're watching TV and I'm going, I'm

(12:25):
assuming he wants to have and I'm going, do you
want to beat you? And he's like, what do you
have to ask? Why do you have to ask? Why
don't you just do it? I'm going because I'm because
I'm asking. You think it's ridiculous that you're asking in
marriage anything? No man is going to sit I like
to ask. I'm very I'm very polite. Politness out the window,
throw the plantness out the window. Um, So to ask
your question, is it schedule or is this spontaneous? I

(12:47):
would like to schedule that. Eric likes it to be spontaneous.
So I don't know. Shocker, we don't agree. We don't agree.
All right, Well, let's take a break. Lets you have more.
You want to say that we didn't we didn't finish.
There was one more question? Is more likely to try
and and initiate it? Gas, what are you looking? I mean,

(13:10):
that's just ridiculous, that's of course, that's answers me. There
you're going. You got your answer. Let's take a break. Okay,
so we're back from the break. I'm not too excited
to be back right now. Why because I want I won,

(13:33):
I want super rare when you win most Spanish. Yes,
I likes doing me picks and it also speaks one
four to three, four to three with this. First of all,
do anybody doesn't even even know we're talking about? We
didn't tell them we recaping our Oscar. Do you say

(13:54):
that in Spanish? Okay, so all you English speakers, we
are recapping a little bit of this Oscar uh pool
that we sort of the best picture. We lost, both lost.
I said, everybody lost best picture. Nobody thought Parasite was
gonna win. We both got Joaquin Phoenix. Correct. You know
you were probably right about Rene's trying to have a

(14:16):
little fun with that. Brad pitt Boy copied me love
of your life? Or during you copied me on that
and we both lost? Director, I copied you what I mean?
You called you didn't see the movie? What are you
talking about? You copied me? And men this philips. I
kind of gave you that one. I just did that
to be friendly, you know, to be competitive. You haven't

(14:36):
seen no one movie? So what are you talking about?
I've seen anyways. I want. I am very happy. Let's go.
We need to see Parasite in What's what is it a?
It's South Korean? South Korea? Where is it from? A
very educated sound? Start with subtitles. You know that I

(14:58):
did Saddos my short and in Wish and Spanish, same movie,
two different languages. The screening. The first one was in
Spanish with subtitles. The second one. Second one was in English,
and a lot of people everybody's thought, you know what,
you need to show the Spanish one to the world,
forget about doing in English is more authentic and after
barras the winning because maybe right nobody could probably imagine

(15:20):
Parasite being done with all the actors speaking English. You know,
they're acting in their natural language. And it's probably like
you even said in yours, when you're acting in your
first language, you you don't lose as many things in
the translation. It's it's hard for people to maybe convey
what they want to do and on the second language.
You know, but you're almost frustrating because we've got to
company to do the subtitles. I approved everything, and when

(15:42):
I saw it in the big screen for the first
time in the big on the big screen, it's always
other problem on the big screen. Um, yeah, one of them,
the subtitles when you when you're acting, the acting was
so on point and it was so beautiful and everybody's
like Jordan thing and there's so many things that I
lost in translation because the subtitles don't really tell you
everything that they say, and it's very frustrating. To me,

(16:04):
it's true. I think you should do your next movie
in South Korea in Korean, not really South Korean, but
just in Korean. That came across weird anyway, So felicite,
felicie that is, what about this one? But why? What about? What?
You know? Guys? You know that Vakuing Phoenix had a
very interesting acceptance speech and he started talking about It

(16:26):
wasn't about saying thank you. It was talking about his
cause and his conviction and humanity and how he thinks
that people have to stop any meat and be more compassionate.
And Eric was like mortified. Eric him to say, I
want to thank my manager. Not true. I fully enjoyed
the first part of his speech. I think he got
a little lost and a little side tracked. It's very

(16:47):
difficult to convey so much information that you're passionate about
with forty five seconds. Well he did, yeah, And I
think a lot of people felt confused by some of it.
But you know, there's just a lot of people joke
around abou the fact that actors just never go up
there and except that they've got no word for good acting,
and it becomes about everything else. I don't know any
other medium I was trying to think of, Like, you know,

(17:09):
musicians do they come up there and talk about things
outside of their songs. Not as often as actors. Writers
don't wardrobe, the stylist don't bless you, makeup, artists don't
maybe some directors and writers, unless you were you can stop.
You gonna hold that sneeze again. Really, so everything I'm
saying is just getting seized over. Actors use the platform

(17:33):
differently than a lot of people. But hey, I guess
that's what they want to do. Have a lot of
talks about that. Eric, But I'm going to give you
a pass, and I don't want to argue with you.
I'm not gonna argue anyways. All right, well you you
did win. Uh. I know at the end of the day,
I really want but it's okay, we'll let you have this.
We'll let you have it this time. Then you're gonna
sneeze again. Our guest here, Mario Lopez, Court New Lopez.

(17:57):
They don't really need any introduction. Everybody knows exactly who
they are. Two of the busiest people in the world.
They are non stop their radio shows, hosting, Broadway actors, TV, everywhere.
They do everything and causes. It's it's insane. I can't
wait to catch up with them. We'll be back with
them Shortland. We have Mario Lopez and Courtney Lopez in

(18:28):
the house, two of our good friends. Were gonna have
a lot of hatchtags. Were like taking one of our
dinners to live podcast. Right, It's too bad we're doing
this in the middle of the day because I would
strongly incorporate something Laura cocktailor too. We know that that's

(18:48):
when they're really go all right, what's up? Do you
know that he calls made nobody knows nobody about. They
don't need to. Milagros Sanchez and Milagros is Spanish for
miracles miracles. So I just think that's the best name. Miracle,
a miracle, miracle. It's so cool and let love it.

(19:09):
It's cool. Come on, I say, with love you do?
Am I doing one called the other one on my
pedetrician when I grew up stupid, But it's so nice
in Spanish. It's different if it was like rosalind miracle.
You know what miracles day a stripper name. By the way,

(19:32):
that's a stripper name. That's her stripper and makes makes
miracles happen. I like that, did you see that? Was?
That was a But she had Momba mentality. She kept working.
She kept working. Jacked up her jaw, broke her jaw,
and she works with a broken jaw, broke her jawn.

(19:53):
She and she like sprained her ankle and tour ligaments. Yeah,
but she's still Yeah, she had started to go fund
me and she ended up getting like sixty grand. No,
you are amazing straightfor waiting. But she designed to climb
sixty get She's an independent contractors like Exotic Dangers are

(20:15):
independent contract so they're not part of any sort of union, right,
just infrastruct Nobody tell her to climb up on that path.
She's done a sixty foot climb before. I mean what, No,
the stream club has to have insurance. Of course, she's
getting paid, yes, and the customers. If she felt a
customer room, no, then they'd covered. She's covered by insurance
through the the whatever place you did know, because you

(20:39):
can't they can't cover artistic freedom. So in other words,
that you have the poll, it's up to you to
do what you want. If you decided to go up
there and bring the bottles, their fault. But that's not
their phone it's not. I'm telling you, if she would
have landed on a patron, he would be covered under
insurance he got hurt. They have insurance over the establishment
starts union for strippers and miracles Miracles Union, Miracles Union. Anyways,

(21:09):
we make miracles happen. God anyways, guys, So everybody has
a question, how do you guys do it? Because you
have a hundred thousand jobs, you have like a hundred
thousand jobs, you have three kids. How do you guys
make a work? You're too busy? Then, you know, and
then he works out, and then he takes a kid
to jujitsu, and then g I is champions. Oh my god,

(21:33):
there's a muscle you know. Yeah, it's uh you know.
Um here here's the thing. First of all, I feel
very uh blessed, and I don't go a day without
being grateful, um, being as busy as I am. So
you know, I wake up um always ready. I do
wake up tired. I wake up tired, but I also
wake up you know, you're not taking it for granted

(21:55):
and grateful, right, So that kind of provides incentive, and
so does having three kids going to private school provides
a lot it and said and all the activities are
they're involved in, but I just kind of just kind
of do it, you know. The good thing is, for
the most part, I'm usually there in the morning to
have breakfast with the kids, and then I'll do a
thousand things during the day. But I'm off at working
time to go coach my son's wrestling team, or be

(22:16):
there for jiu jitsu, or attend my daughter's events on
the weekends, and still have time for the family. It's
just a lot in between. The most difficult thing really
is trying to find the time to squeeze in like
a workout, honestly, and I like to eat, so if
I don't do that, I'm like a fat kid, you know.
Really inside, I'm like a fat kid that just kind
of traps. But I got energy, so I gotta like

(22:36):
burn it off. Eric says that he wants to be
that he would love to be a professional fat person.
I like, Eric is like, I love to eat. You know,
you don't be like a freaking bird. What are you
talking about. He's like a bird. Don't all the time
like a like a straight intenseine. Like I like to
eat like crazy as well. But she's just you know,

(22:58):
gifted with a really probably can't put that on. No, no,
I can get down. You couldn't lose an app if
he tried to lose. But but to answer your question
ill seriousness too, I have uh an incredible wife who
is very very supportive and holds down the fort and
aside from bouncing, taking care of the kids and um
um everything else she's got going on, working with me

(23:20):
and all the other stuff. You know, if if we
weren't united or on the same page, it would be
really difficult because the schedule, as you both know, is
very fluid and changes and unpredictable. So you've got to
kind of be uh a team with the same mindset
or else things can go right. Well, that's what they
I want to ask both of you, because you know,
it's a bit of a you know, you guys like

(23:40):
an inspiration to us because you guys as well, and
we work together a lot YouTube have really built professions
with each other in a way that I think a
lot of our listeners would appreciate working with your your spouse,
your partner. You guys host together, you do a radio
show together, you guys do I mean, you guys do
a lot together on the work side, just not not
just the family stuff. What do you think is it easy?

(24:02):
Is it easy to work with your partner? It has
its own you know, I came from theater, so this
whole world when I met Mario is different from me.
So having him next to me when we did whatever
we were doing was such. Um. It helped me. So
I I never took him for granted. And when he

(24:23):
would coach me or tell me to do things, um,
if I was doing something wrong. And you know, to
this day, he's always still giving me, giving me notes.
You know, I listened to him, and I think what's
good about us working together, it's it's not long periods
of time. It's just enough to where we can make
an impact or do whatever we're doing. And um, and
then I get to leave and then I get a break. Yes,

(24:46):
And in all serious, is that it really not to
cut you off? I'm sorry, but that's key because if
it was every day probably would be a problem. You
know what I'm saying, We'll start a business completely together
every day. Any relationship has its dynamics where you have
your ups and downs and if you have to power
through sometimes the audience, well most of the times the
audience can tell and it's not authentic. So we work
enough like we do the radio shop, coming here like

(25:07):
two three days a week, and and uh, it's perfect,
like an hour we bang out the stuff and and
then it's fine every day. But there's still been some
times where the night before maybe something happens and we've
had to be professional about its. Producers could tell. They
could tell, so we were not even talking to each other.
I was so uncomfortable and then he's like, okay, uh

(25:29):
I heard radio and we're like Hi. I was like
you mother. But I find this therapeutic at times, working
together in that in this one hour like spurt, like
a major thing the night before and you have to
put it together on the show. And then times you're like,
some of it's just little things, let it go. That's
exactly what it puts it in perspective. But I do
think it's healthy. Um that it is sort of on

(25:52):
a part time basis, if you will. So whether it's
the radio show or we haven't had a food network show,
we we bang that out. Um. In block shooting meeting,
we do like two or three over a weekend, and
then there's another couple of weeks and we'll do another.
So those are those are great? That that dynamic really
I think lends itself to married couples. Well every day
I don't think would be healthy. I really don't. I

(26:13):
don't think it'd be healthy. If we were doing it
would be tough we were all with each other all
day because not only that, you gotta have an opportunity
to miss each other. I'm a big fan of I
think couples need space, I really do. I'm not trying
to be funny, but you have your own identity, like
your own interests. You have your own interests, and then
you want to come back. And so how is this?
How would and share each other's experiences and be able
to connect When I have to go out of town

(26:34):
for the weekend, I come back really missing my wife
and want to see her. She likes it, actually, because
you know, I start my lestingers when I come in.
I'm right, honey, sure can you stay one more day?

(26:55):
I don't know if you know this. When we first
started dating, I would say how many days are you gone?
And now I'm like, how many days you? How much
help do you? Guys? Have? You have niney's? I have
somebody who's been with me since she was born. Um,
I have her a few days a week while I

(27:17):
come into radio and just enough time to Um, I
can come into radio, I can work out and take
a little you know, block of time for myself. Um,
and my mom also helps us out. To your mom
lives with you, guys, My mom lives with us. How
is that going? It's great. I always say she's like
my other husband without the benefits. You know that was.

(27:38):
But when Mario can't be there, she's always my sidekick.
She's always there. Um. You know, she's cool. If she
wasn't cool, believe me, I wouldn't roll with it. But
I really like her, and she's really cool, and she's
very helpful. Most of the time. When I get up
in the morning and I don't even see her in
the about time I get home, I barely see her,
and she helps out with the kids. And I love her.
She's great because if she wasn't, believe me, I wouldn't
I wouldn't be with it, as opposed to like my

(28:01):
sister who can't stamp her mother in law. I don't
that would be but she's very vocal about that. And
the only times a getting fights with her and her
husband over his mother's kid, this and that. But anyway,
if it was if she was difficult or like in
our business or something, then it wouldn't roll. But I'm
a big family guy. I love having all my family around.

(28:23):
My mom and dad are gonna convisit me this weekend. Um,
they're over all the time. I like when my sister's
over with all the kids, and you know, it's all
about and I think for kids to grow up with
the grandma and grandpa around, that's a beautiful thing, you know.
For me, it makes me so sad because my parents
are in Puerto Rico, so they barely know my kids,
you know, But I have um Gwen his mother my
mother situation to you guys, my mom is like she

(28:45):
doesn't live with us, but she's like two seconds down
the street and she's home every single day. Like my mother,
like my sister's mother. I got very least. My mom
is like Asia, So I'm very lucky. Your mom is
just awesome. Yeah, yeah, because you can't pick your mother
in law. Obviously you you're in law. So yeah, if

(29:06):
you're if you're in a situation where they're not cool,
that's oh my God, well no, I can. I can
totally imagine, have to hear it all the time. I'm
his sister. So you just now you have expanding universe. Actually, Garcia,
that's opening. It's going to be speak when it'll be,
it'll be out Netflix. You just were on the show. Yeah,

(29:28):
I did one episode. I did one episode, but I'm
actually going to be on Saved by the Back. Yeah,
she's been sleeping with the producers. So well, here's here's
the I which is turning out really cool that show,
by the way. But later, well here's the thing I

(29:48):
don't I don't think I'm allowed to talk about. But
he Slater goes on it on he's dating and uh,
I'm She's one of the characters that I'm dating, and
and it's it's pretty funny the way the scenes sort
of on fold. So I think that's all I could say.
I don't think it's supposed to say anymore. But yeah,
when is it going to start airing that it's going
to air after the Olympics over the summer um on

(30:09):
the new streaming service Peacock, which is NBC's new streaming service.
So yeah, they're gonna they can build it out. I
just pitched something to Peacock. I hope they And when
you did Expanding the Universe, were you acting in that
episode as well? No? I was not. So is this
the first time outside of obviously Broadway? Have you guys
acted opposite each other on more things? Say? The Bell

(30:31):
will be the first time. It will be the first one. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And and and we're dating in the We're on a
date in the scenes. Just so everybody knows. Ashley Garcia,
I had to audition for Netflix. Listen only told me that,
I'm going, what do you mean you have to audition
for who? I think? That's terrible. The Bell I did

(30:54):
not have to put you know what. It was nice
because they put her on tape and you went to
the cast and director and they sent it to everyone else,
the the other uh two partners there, Um they go. Listen, guys,
if you for some reason don't roll with this, trust me,
I said, trust me. I'm cool. I'm all about what's
best for the team. So no, she's great and this
and that. So I don't think I'm being serious, you

(31:15):
know what I mean? I would have just said, honey,
you know what. They decided they wanted to go someone older,
and she's like, what, all right, now she knocked that
out of the part. But you did audition. Here's the thing,
I'm not actively auditioning. I'm not out there trying to
be on a show. So when these things come up, um,
it's nice to you know, dip my toes back in

(31:37):
the acting pool because I haven't done it in a
long time. So it's it's nice. It's fun. Those those
days are fun because I get to do it and
then I get to leave and go back home with
my kids, so it kind of refuels the tank. But
it's not something that I'm craving should do all that time.
That's the most important really star in in that of mom,
So you can't. That's one job that you don't want

(31:58):
to do half as of those different jobs. Exactly. Was
doing amazing, looking amazing already. How How old this baby?
Seven months? Seven months months? Which has been of the
three kids? Do you think he's been the easiest at
this age or he's definitely the happiest, this kid, like

(32:19):
he's just happy to be alive. He's always smiling, he's
just in a good movie. Running for seven even through
teething and gas He's you know, he's happy, just like
Dylan our kid. No, oh my god, Dylan got constant
stink faced me. I did see a picture when he's
he's so cute with this little haircut. But I like

(32:40):
a little haircut. But I did see a picture of smiling.
It was like, oh, he's smiling all the time. We
need him, We need him next to sunny because he
was once always smiling and one is always listen. I
was just you know, you guys know Royalty, this little
place in sudo City that it's like a juice place
that everybody goes to Royalty, Royalty juice put. That's also
the aim of Chris Brown's daughter. You're right, no, not that,

(33:03):
but anyway. You know the actress Melissa Barrera, but she
is from Vida, this TV show for stars, and now
she's gonna be on in the Heights. She's like a
Mexican Mexican actress, gorgeous. If you see her face, you'll
be like, oh my god, this girl's gonna be the
next big thing, right medicare. So she's in Stutu. See.
So I'm there with my nanny and and and Dylan,

(33:23):
and she works in looking like a freaking vision you know,
it just beautiful. And I'm going, oh my god, and
I hug her and then and she she's like she
recognized Dylan because my back was to the door. And
she's like, oh my god, because she follows me on
Instagram and she and she's like, I knew that was
you because of Dylan. And Dylan is looking at her
with this menas face and then she's like, hi, baby, like,

(33:44):
and she's beautiful. And I saw his little face going like, oh,
she's hot. But I'm still not gonna smile, you know,
I mean kind of thing I'm going to, you know,
you should appreciate this beautiful like all over you. And
he's like not having it now. He goes no and
gurns away. I'm going, oh my god. I hope he
keeps his staking face for good. But he's actually super sweet.

(34:06):
That's funny, funny and awesome. He's just in public he's like,
don't I'm too cute, don't look at me. Funny. He
knows people out there are crazy, so if he just
has that face, then no one will bothers. Right, that's right.
He'sad of the don't know. He's awesome. Okay, so tell
me what Is this a just off the cuff question, fun,

(34:29):
one of the two of you, which one he was
the more jealous person? We should have our buzzers. Oh
my god, I under throwing this out there quick? Are
you asking that with a straight face face? Is wait? Wait, wait,
come on it again, Mario, Now off the cuff question

(34:54):
of the two of you, who's the more jealous person?
That was corny the buzz and if you know is
I'm like, no, I am, yeah, really going out in
the loom there, honey. It just does stuff that I
don't think is doing about any I don't know what

(35:23):
that bothers me about him. And I tell him this,
all okay, okay, somebody who's never met. Then he's all
of a sudden he's following them on Instagram and they're
they're my friend, And I'm like, they're not your friend.
You don't even like you really want to follow them
on Instagram? Is the girl doing the MS? No, No

(35:45):
one's doing. Don't act like you don't know because you
don't even check my all time anyway? Do it? First
of all, First of all, when people come here and
and I'm interviewing them, they're like, they'll put you in
that awkward position, by the way, guys in girls. Guys
in the guys goes, hey, I'm gonna post and say
and they go, uh, what's your hand? I can't follow that?

(36:08):
Can put it? Go tag me this, Nicole, keep fall Okay,
they'll ask and nicoles Nicoles, hold on, what are my
produces here? Nicos? They not do that, Nicols, I'm talking.
You can you can talk, doesn't mean you have to follow. No,
I'm just being polite. Put your award position in that

(36:31):
position where someone goes, oh my god, what's you Instagram?
I'm gonna post this picture. Oh, I'm gonna follow you. Yes,
exactly what they say, I'm gonna follow you, and I'm saying,
I'm going, oh cool that Yeah, yeah, that's you. Gotta
say you gotta you gotta respond with I'm gonna follow
you too. Like if somebody hit you with it, I
love you, What are you gonna say? Nice? Thank you?
You gotta I love you too. You know what I mean?
You're gonna hit him back with Sometimes I'll just mute

(36:52):
them after that if I don't want to come up whatever,
it's all, but he doesn't mute, He'll continue to comment,
Oh my god, I tell you he posted this picture.
Oh my god, now we're going behind it, behind a tree.
He'll follow. Happened to be friendly with hers, very deep

(37:18):
by the way she hurt years old behind a branch
topless like the same picture, and it's like like motivation
on Monday, follow your dreams in your past and you're
like showing her kids exactly about it and likes the picture.
Just say, I like how I look in this picture,

(37:40):
he writes. Peekaboo, Now you did it. You did it,
you know you did it. My god, she looked like
she was playing hight and see here's my hold on there.
He's talking to me at my let you can't the

(38:04):
defender needs to speak. Let me finish and then you
can trap o. God. The problem with that, it's not
like you did it on Rosalind's picture. You're not cool
with her like that. There's I am cool with your
last night? Does she not comment on my picks too?
And by seeing her comment on a picture of me
or with the kids? No, I know bitches, that how

(38:26):
they I know comment? It was smart. She'd be commenting
on the family pictures. That's a smart woman. Never like
all of a sudden you can start filing bread pit.
I ain't gonna trip. I wouldn't write under pictures of
him topless, like I'm so thirsty. I don't like that.

(38:51):
Do you think I'm constantly looking for this kind of
stuff because I don't follow her. What happens is people
will send to me, like random people like this is
your husband real? This like this. Somebody just wrote something
Undertank and I thought you didn't do anything wrong. But
under Jennifer Anderson you wrote a nice compliment and I didn't.

(39:12):
I thought it was it's true, like she's beautiful or whatever,
like I didn't take offense, but somebody sent that to
me taking offense to add his comment for me. You
know what I mean? You see that one? You know something,
Eric noses I have a big issue with disrespect. Never
never I happen to have known or it's like a

(39:33):
rams then reaching out to cart girl. You know, the
women take it as that's a little bit okay, but
but flip flip the coin there. I agree, and we
all probably could agree. Die if I write something I've
done things playtimes when you don't. We don't want to
and we don't want to start bringing up all kinds

(39:53):
of stuff. Trust me, all done things where we think
I'm not intending to be disrespectful. You included where I've
gone off and you're going, are you out of your mind?
I know the way guys think the same thing you said.
I know the way women think, right, we know the
way men think as well. I know what you think
you're doing and how they're going to receive it. So

(40:15):
we all do things sometimes not thinking or being disrespectful.
But then the other person or somebody else might look
and read into it and go, oh, that's disrespectful. That
on the border it's all about and here's it's all
about intent, and here's the thing. And I'm with you.
I don't, I don't ever wanna disrespect my wife and

(40:37):
maker feel uncomfortable, and I think I care myself like
a gentleman all the time. Now, sometimes my charmer chrisma
may be confused, may be misinterpreted, or confused at a
failed attempted humor. Okay, point taken, and then I will
I will it's not point taken, because then you'll do

(40:58):
something two weeks later. That weeks later, I will never
comment again on any over here like the picture. Don't comment,
do you ever? Do the like. Sometimes you can't like
because if she's no, here's one thing grow like any
any female friend or whatever, if they happened to be

(41:20):
not clothed fully even like, that's not true. If you
did something for her, I would not take offense to you,
because we're friends. I'm involved in the alright, Okay, there's
not any female friend that you're not familiar with or
not in our circle. I don't that's my point, especially
not that I don't like. I don't mention any names.

(41:40):
I won't mention any names. There's one person in here,
not in here, one person that he follows, in particular,
that he met one time. He stopped. Already stop, Okay,
I don't mention names. Names. He followed her. I wasn't
here doing the interview. He followed her. And then she
did like the tinder thing, that Dolly Parton thing, and

(42:01):
in her tender picture because she needed attention. She was
like in a bathing suit, like stantially clad. He writes,
nailed it. Time for my defense, Time for my defense. Alright,
First off, she didn't hold on. Hold on a second time.
Let me speak. I'll let you speak, let me let
me explain. Nailed it that was when they had the

(42:24):
LinkedIn Instagram. Okay, keep getting messing up how they do it.
You're supposed to have like a nerdy one for LinkedIn.
That's not the reason, the reason why I tell you
the truth. Yes, it was true. And then you're supposed
to put a family one for Facebook and you know
what I mean, put a family one because her husband's divorcing.

(42:46):
You're so I just met nailed like, Okay, you got
it right, you got the first. She nailed the mean
nailed the nailed me. This is no did she Maybe
she did. She did nail it because you commented exactly. Yeah,

(43:15):
I feel like a Comedy Central Road. So Maria has
no jealous You have any jealous jealous I don't do
stuff like that for I've never been. I'm not. I'm
being serious. I maybe maybe like in my twenties and
it was just more my cheese mold kind of possessive,

(43:35):
stupid immature thinking. But when now I'm trying to never
really was a jealous I never really was a jealous guy.
To be honest. I was a little bit out of
no because you get let me because I don't trip. Okay,
I'm quick to move on like, if she's going to
behave in a certain way that I have to tell
her uh not to do, then I'm not I'm not

(43:58):
feeling that, I'm not feeling her and I'm not tripp
And then the next day, if I have to tell
you to not do something and you're not acting that
way on your own, then you're not for me. That's
the thing about my wife. I'm about the compliment or
even though she's been trashing me, is that is that
I never once questioned the way she carried herself, um uh,

(44:20):
the way she was among other men, or I never
want a question, Oh would she be a good wife,
should be a good mom? Would she? I don't like this,
I don't I've never want she everything was always very classy,
very much late. Everything I always wanting. So it was great.
And if she wasn't, I wouldn't have I wouldn't proceed.
So it was not gonna be jealous. Jealousy comes and
you try to fix someone. People are who they are.
They show you who they are. You're not going to

(44:41):
change them. They are here, they are now. You may mature,
you may grow into a different type of individual, but
at the end of the day, you are who you are,
so that's why you know the same way now about
the divorce. Did you feel the same way about me
when you saw me myself? Richard? Which part of curious

(45:03):
of this lady? You looked at me when I met
you like you were shocked. That was up in the
VI I p area to say, hi, do you I
was just trying to figure you all out. Still across
the fifteen ye know, she acts like she's never jealous
about anything, and look, we we do get asked this question, Okay,
you guys both act and you have to kiss other people, like,
what's it like you get jealous? And I said, look, honestly,

(45:25):
I'm probably the one that's a little less comfortable with it.
If I'm doing it, no big deal. If I have
to watch her do it, I'd prefer not watch the scenes.
I don't need to see a love scene. I don't
need to. I mean, if I see it, I see it.
But it's not She's eat. It's easier for her to
watch me doing love scenes than it is for me
watching her. But in everyday life, she would have to
do something pretty outlandish for me to get a reaction

(45:47):
and be jealous. But she acts like she's not jealous.
And then, for example, just one example, we would be
at a restaurant and there happened to be a couple
ladies that I guess, we're looking at me. I didn't
even see them looking at me. And remember I turned
her remind her maybe they recognize me from a show
or something and they just are a fan, like you know,

(46:07):
so Rose and acts like I never gets nothing ever
bothers me. And we'd be sitting at dinner and you
see rons like this just looking at these two girls,
mad dogging looking. I can't see him, and I'm like,
what are you doing? Just like girls keep looking at
you and just ridiculous. I'm like, well, settle down, because
if I ever did something like that, she'd like, Eric,
don't make a scene. And I'm like, all right, I
want to make a scene. So she keeps getting if
you can see the fire building, and finally she just goes,

(46:29):
cheer up, if you want to come over and talk.
Girls keep looking at you said no, no, I didn't know.
I didn't that were there. Stop talking about now because

(46:51):
you're making no sense. Okay, listen to me. It goes
back to what I said. I don't like disrespect, but
maybe I don't. I'm not. I'm talking not the where.
This is what happens. Thank you. They have my own
yellow boss. All right there, this sound is mine. This
is okay. So what happens is you're a good looking man,

(47:12):
you're your people recognize you. Sometimes what happens is so
if I see the woman looking, because if you're looking
with admiration, if you're looking like cool, like oh my god,
that's every pointer, like you know what, there's a there's
a way, and there's a way. So I'll be all
about it. You want a picture, I'll take the picture.
I don't have a problem. What I don't like is
when they clearly see you that your wife is next

(47:33):
to you, and they're looking like trying it on, like
they're looking disregarding that you have family next to you,
and they're just being smart at what they were doing.
Yes she was, Yes she was. So I didn't get up.
I didn't do anything, Derek Winter. I moved my head
to make sure that I broke her neck, and I said,

(47:54):
what are you looking at all? I said, the girl
frecked out. This isn't last not because the table with
a lot of friends from what was doing you space?
So nobody knew who's happening. When I said, what are
you looking at? Everybody turned around, going what happened? And
when they look they asked, I said, she keeps looking
annoying me, that yellow purple. She died. I'm going, yeah,

(48:19):
that's what you deserve. And if that girl was on point,
she would have said, I was waiting to build the
courage to ask you for an autography. You're so sweet,
thank you, I'll be very nice. But it was then again,
it's because I don't like I have an issue with disrespect.

(48:40):
I felt like I was just I'm with you on that.
That in fact is huge especially and people have no
shame though something hate. And honestly, that's just how even
though I know you're not doing anything when you write
these things, it's just no, no, no, I'm just I'm
putting I'm putting a button on it or a butt
on it. I'm just saying that. It's just how it

(49:01):
makes me feel because these people don't know you the
way that I do, and sometimes it can be misconstructed.
And that's all I'm saying. So let's shut down your
Instagram and here's the thing. And here's the thing, and
I think guys just in general could benefit. Look, even
if you are completely innocent and and you're not doing

(49:24):
anything that could be perceived to be wrong, you're you're
a significant other, girlfriend, whatever, could still feel a certain way.
And that's what the important thing is. You gotta acknowledge
the way she feels, even if you didn't do anything wrong.
You can get frustrated by it you do. I've come
to learn that, you know what, it doesn't matter if
she feels okay, that's how she feels. You can't tell
somebody how you feel, so you have to respect that,
acknowledge it. What did I tell you? Just how you

(49:46):
always says? How you always say? People say what would
Jesus do? Before you write a comment? But what Courtney do? Awesome?
And the answer is not doing that is That's what
I told you about the philosophy and life. It's the

(50:09):
same thing. Just L T M and you'll be great.
Was that listen to listen to Mario and Miracle, Well,
then listen to No Never listen. I'm gonna I'm gonna

(50:32):
change the subject real Fiz really um for one second.
So we know that you love wrestling and jiu jitsu
and to ch I'm boxing out everything that has to
do with that, which I do too, which is one
of my favorite sporties boxing And it used to be UFC.
I'm not into that as much anymore. I'm changing. I'm maturing.
I don't want to see two men hurting each other
like that anyways. So I don't know, right, I don't

(50:53):
know why. I used to be like, yeahs blood want
breaking guy, believe Now I'm going, oh my god, that's awful.
And ways, so your baby Dobbini goes to wrestling. So
Mary is trying to convince my husband to have Dylan
built some cats and it wants to have Dylan going

(51:19):
with them too to ju jitsu, and I'm completely against it.
You should totally embrace it. That's exactly what it is.
It is a character builder. It is a character builder,
and at the end of the day, you want your child,
and I think especially um young boys, they need to
be not only physically tough, they need to learn how

(51:40):
to be independent, be mentally tough. They teach respect, they
teach discipline when they take a beating. No, I'm not
gonna say you listen, everyone's gonna take everyone's gonna take
a beating in life, all right, everything, and a guy,
I feel needs to know how to handle that, be
able to deal with some adversity and be able to
move on because life it's full beatens in one way

(52:00):
or another. So you got to have the mental fortitude
and the toughness I think to be able to persevere
and and work through it. I really do. Doesn't necessarily
have to compete, but I think it's a great foundation
for a young man, especially in individual sport, because there
is no team in life. You need to learn how
to rely on yourself. You learn how to be vulnerable
up there, and you need to learn how to when

(52:22):
uh the tough, when things get tough, to not have
resistance at all. Knowing that that's like his passion those
particular sports. No, because this would be something that a
fight I would lose. So no, And honestly, now that
I see Dominic, Dominic doesn't have like that aggression um
in his body, but he's really good at what he does. Like,

(52:44):
for instance, there's he's having some problems at school with
a boy that had kept keipt hitting him, and he
never once retaliated like he could have taken him down,
put him in an arm bar, choked him out. That's
not his nurture. Like he just doesn't not like to
mean temper so but he doesn't. Is that he didn't actually,
but I told him next time with which probably wasn't,

(53:06):
but I said, hey, listen, did you touch him? Said no?
Did you do anything to upset? No? And when he
just hit you and he said yeah, And I said, okay,
if he just hits you again, hit him back, take
him down, choke him out, or hit him back. He goes,
but I'll get in trouble. I said, tell the teacher
that he said it was okay, and then have him

(53:29):
call me, and I will. And I'm saying, I said,
don't ever start a fight, but finish if he comes.
You think I'm paying for these lessons. So I think
that it's good for him to know the self defense,
even though he's not using it, but um, because he's
get in trouble and stuff. But you know, and he's little,
and I think the younger, I think, as early as

(53:52):
you can put him in there, it's never too early.
I think to start teaching your kids about respect, discipline, uh, comitment,
all those things that I think are just great attributes him. No,
I do, and I want to teach them, and I
do about all that. I just don't want him to
get hurt. Hurt that little face. Listen, if Sonny could

(54:12):
be in class right now, he would put him. Really,
I gotta put a little fat as in something. He's
got to start moving around. You know. I wouldn't be
able to take him to practice because I think that
if if I feel that he's getting hurt or the
other kid is doing any kind of move with Malis,
I think I lose my banana. Now they're pretty good

(54:33):
about I got my first argument with a teacher with
a teacher with an adult and had like a h
It wasn't a fight, but like an argument with adult
after one of his classes because Dominica kept making this
kid cry. He wasn't doing anything wrong, he was doing
the moves, and the dad's like, hey, your son's kind
of he stepped to me, like, your son's kind of

(54:55):
you know, going a little hard on my kid. I said,
excuse me, he's doing the his moves, but he's yeah,
he's going a little bit. He's going a little bit
too rough. I said, well, maybe you need to pull
your kid out and take him play tennis. I said,
this is jiu jitsu, and then I said it was
this is jiu jitsu because he kept crying. He kept crying.
I said, you know, I said, he tell your son
to tap, because as soon as he taps, that's when

(55:15):
you stop. He just would cry and he wouldn't tap.
My kid doesn't stop unless you tap, not because he's mean,
those are the rules. We went to Sabella's um. Sabella
had her first tennis tournament last week, and I was
freaking out because you know, in tennis, everything is very
uptight and you cannot make a sound, and they you
can tell you can't, you can cheery. Yeah, I'm going,

(55:39):
there's no freaking away nothing. Who could have? And then
this one, of course Eric. For two weeks, Ross, make
sure that you don't say a word. Ros, don't embarrass Ross,
and I'm going, oh my god, just leave me alone.
And then as soon as we got there, we just
showed up. I'm like, Rose, we talked about this for
two weeks. Shut your mouth. That's frustrating. You'll love it.
You'll love it. Just when I can't wait till he's

(56:01):
gonna start competing. He wants to already start competing both
in wrestling. He already wants to start um, but I'm
I'm waiting till he's he's just a little heavier because
he's not of the weight classic and they let you
manifest yourself with Yeah, it's like it's like fight club.
It's like it's like a baby fight club and people,

(56:22):
Oh no, it's the best. I remember growing up here.
The only voice I heard was my mom's come on me,
and this is the only my mom and my da
have the only voice I can single out everybody screwed.
Oh yeah, and it's the best. I told my mother,
I went to a corner because I left because I
knew that this one was like looking at me like,
so I left to a different corner of the core
and I went to one once she had and everybody

(56:45):
but the man, he's like like, honey out and I'm
going to do just leave me alone. I don't know
about tennis boom. Yeah, I've seen the tournaments on on TV.
It's very like you can clap after points and right
what we tried to do it too, because this is
our first tournament even being involved in what's tricky with
with this in particulars they don't have. There's it's U

(57:06):
S t a sanction, but they have like one U
S team member that covers multiple courts. There's no alignesman,
so the kids have to call in or out, which
is super questionable because the kid kid wants to call
an outball and it was on the line. You have
to go with that kids call and we kids parents
could see it was in, like you can't argue it.
So you also kind of want to build a little
bit of a rapport with the other parents that are

(57:27):
there that were kind of rooting these kids on the play.
I want my kid to win. That's interest. But if
you're going like get get all the time and then
you see that kid do something that's wrong, it's much
easier to have a conversation with the parent and be like, look,
we both know that was out. We should have that
corrected or fixed the call. If they feel like it's
a little bit welcoming, like camaraderie, you know, with the
with the parents, it's a little easier to manage the situation.

(57:49):
We did for this first term. But she plays again Saturday,
so little good are they your tournament? All the ones
we've been going to are all out like Woodland Hills
Area that you want two out of three games. So
that wasn't Can we talk about like getting all first
places on gymnastics? It's amazing. I don't even know she

(58:09):
had cheering, Yeah, screaming, I don't do it on I
don't do it on the beam. I don't know why,
you know, before and after? And what's funny is we
put you on like a bunch of stuff. Right. She
does dance and j is one of the things she
does and takes it like coup. Well, now she's doing
three teams. She's on the team, so she's kind It

(58:30):
was just one of the things she takes one of
the many things, is my point. So wasn't she's focusing
on it all of a sudden we go to term
her all damn, she's crushing it. What's going up here?
Were so surprised. And the thing that she seems to
have gravitated to more at a point in her life
now that she's almost ten, where she we can figure
out what she really likes to do. You know, she's
doing ballet and she still does piano. I had to

(58:52):
take her out of our class, you know, so we
had to take away some things because there's just not
enough time in the day. UM. But I've always known
that she was good at gymnastics, but it wasn't until
I moved her to this new place a year ago. UM,
And they approached me back in July or June, right
before I had the baby for her to join the team.
So she's only really been training for the team because

(59:14):
I think she could be doing so many so much harder,
so many harder things, you know, flips and stuff, but
right now they're just focusing on UM this level. Also
because I say, we miss a lot because of they
work and it's sporad and travel and the higher you go,
which she could be in a higher level, they do
not unless you're dying. They do not want you to miss.

(59:36):
So they're like, if you're in this level, we can
tell her Friday thing. Yes, yeah, it's ten hours a week.
But was surprised there's a lot of little girls there.
And then I was like, oh my god, this competition
is deep. I hope she does okay, you know, at
least places maybe, And I was like, I don't know
how they work, right, and they don't really tell you
how the meats go and what happens. So the very

(59:58):
first meet, we were in pumps rings and they keep
calling her name all these first places, and I'm like
and I'm gonna keep running up, and these parents keep
watching me run up, and I'm taking pictures and I'm like,
before I'm asking people because they talk fast, you miss it.
And then the second time, um Mario was at that one,

(01:00:19):
and she was so hard on herself because her scores
weren't as high as the first time. But I said
to her, You're always gonna have different judges and different
people that you're against, because every meat are different. Um
you know gymnasts. Yeah, I don't know anything about gyms,
but she's still placing. And I said, see, these these
judges didn't um give as high scores as the first time,

(01:00:40):
but yet your scores are still really high. So she's learning.
Like she's really hard on herself because she kept looking
at us and shaking her head like she was mad
at how she did. Yeah, and like I said, don't
know anyth about gymnastics, but I know about individual sports. Inside. Look,
I said, look me, huh, I said, don't worry about
the scores, don't worry about anybody else. Don't even look
at the you go, you focus on you do your best,
stop a little breather, a little sign of the cross,

(01:01:02):
and just hit it. I go, you're ready, you're prepared.
And so she said, does her little mantra to herself.
I see her, she does a little sign of the
cross that she doesn't, you know. And so it's it's
cool to see. But Gia as opposed to my my
boy or I don't know the second one, how he's
gonna be yet smiley, But yeah, she is um very

(01:01:22):
she's very mature for her rage. But she's much more
um competitive than I think the boys will be. She's
just much She's a little bit more. She's always been more.
When I went to the Daddy Daughter Dance, which is
like the highlight of my ear when I go with her,
it was funny cause she's walking down and walking in
like all the seventh eighth graders. Hi, how do you know?
I would like a third grader when I was. So,

(01:01:45):
you know, she's like a little social butterfly. And she's
a little more, a little more competitive, and just a
little more of like a little ringleader to all her friends,
where my boy he's all boy and he just wants
to and like you know, run around and and and
do his thing. But it is a very very diff
frint boys and girls try to convince the wife one
more girl, let's go bookends right here to do it

(01:02:06):
again again, do it again? Like it's like, if you
give me one more girl, I won't follow any girls
on idea like all back, what if I give you
a boy? Or what if you give me a boy?
Because you're the one who decided I'm straight with the boy.
But at this point, now I want a girl to

(01:02:27):
book really, Oh it's gonna be a hundred please my body,
because I want to. I want to ask this question
you don't want to do. We had a listener about
this an email, and I want to throw it out
to you. Guys, three kids now working on number four?
How do you make time for YouTube? Do you guys

(01:02:50):
have date nights? Is it everything just spontaneous whenever there's
free time? You guys? Whoa? Why was? Why are you?
Which is that was a question. He's definitely a pouncer.
Pounce like cats pounce until they jump on something like alright, well, okay,
let's address that for us, the pouncing. Here's the thing

(01:03:10):
with kids. When you got three kids and you've got
like a schedule of mine, you gotta get it in
when you can fit it in. So if I got
like a little window boom, I'm all over. Okay, let's
let's you know what I mean. Or sometimes you'll be
getting out of the shower before you know what I mean.
I slighting there, but with lightness, like did it? So,
I'm good about that. I'm all about the quickies. I'm
like the heavyweight champion of the World of quickies. I'm serious.

(01:03:33):
I love me a quickie. You do, I'm serious. You
don't need a marathon heavyweight championship world. Do you understand
that my heart is gonna make the teaser? Mario Lopez
like doesn't like quick is the heavyweight champion of the
World quick undisputed. So anyway, But in all seriousness, when

(01:03:53):
you're busy, you've got to make it work. Where you
gotta make it work. You gotta go with the flow.
Sometimes you can't plan a whole big find a row
an give you. But in all seriousness, it is important
that you've got to make time, um and literally schedule
the time to have dates. And you can't stop dating
your wife so we like, uh, look, quick getaways, whether

(01:04:13):
to there to like little Wine Country or to Mecula,
or we take off to Santa Barbara or go to
Vegas for a night or two. Those are great and
those go a long way. Um. You know, when we
go on our vacations, usually take the family. That's fun,
but it's different. But it is important to to take
time just just the two of us. I've never seen
pictures of you guys on a on a getaway of
just you two, so you don't wine to the family

(01:04:37):
is always where he has blanket his friend blank Are
you what are you like trying to Ellen on this podcast?
Everything's a joke en here question never just I'm not
dreating what we do? What we doing? We were at

(01:04:57):
the freaking in oc we're baby moons? Yeah, well we
buy out by ourselves a baby moon. Yeah okay, and
we were by ourselves. That's on top of my head.
You're pregnant? Were by ourself? You yeah? No, Dr Joan
gonna be at the restaurant we were at here. You
go with us, So you say you don't have a
lot of just extra dinners like dinner nights. We know

(01:05:19):
we're always because his time is so we're so tired.
I get that time right now. It didn't make time
with friends because the family. You're trying to act like
I'm not trying to have anything. I was just just
she's answering the question. Listen, she's a smart woman. She's
a smart woman. If we have time alone together, we

(01:05:40):
get excited to if we're in bed by eight thirty
or nine, to watch a show that's like our time together. Yes,
we love that. We love out time and and and
watch any kind of murder doc, any kind of shows.
We have our shows. It's romantic. So we have our
shows and you know we're with you on that. I
fully agree. Yeah, Squeeze didn't get it in whatever I do.

(01:06:01):
You gotta make a couple of times on Disputed Heavyweight
Champing of the Quick Marrio opens anyways, guys on our podcast,
this was fun. Oh my god, we're gonna do like
a round two because most of my ask is not
this role marriage here. So tomb is expanding. Universal actually

(01:06:26):
got to see you. I hope they invite to do
a guest and you talk about that straight. I offered
you a role for you. She's trying to break my budget.
I offered you a role in The Ralio. As a
matter of fact, I said to me, we'll do it

(01:06:46):
next one. I'm gonna say yes for for free. You
have me for free. I promise. It's a really cute show.
Watch it is. It looks fantastic, the girls adorable, Jenkarro
Kanela is awesome. I love Jen Carlo. Everybody loves Jan Carlo. Right,
he's great, and we love you guys, and thank you.
And stay with the Bell and the Haunt of Thousand
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(01:07:09):
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