April 1, 2020 • 41 mins
Ros can’t stop cleaning.
Her need for things to look pretty led to a complete fail with the groceries.
Eric is perfect per usual ( according to him!)
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is he said Ajo with Eric Winter and Rogalin Fantev.
Al Right, here we are with our second Quarantine podcast,
second one. Inside the closet again the closet and start
calling us, why are you getting Beauty Plus app? Because
I'm getting it ready for last time. I don't want
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to do Beauty Plus. My lips are red. I didn't
want upon it red lipsticks. So I can just feel
sexy for you because you're the only one looking in
the closet. In the closet, that's a that's a sexy
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thought right there. I don't want to be I don't
want to be on the Beauty Plus. So I'm gonna
do a video from my I don't like when your show. Okay, ready,
so we're doing a video right now that doesn't have
beauty plause Lacana. The Beauty Plus is gonna be terrible.
All right, we'll see you later. Um okay, So next episode,
this episode we're doing now we uh, we want to
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touch base on some of the things we talked about
last week, which is, you know, homeschooling is now over.
We are on spring breaks. It's been three weeks now.
We had two weeks of schooling. Now we're on spring break,
which is oddly more difficult. More difficult because at least
with the homeschooling, I had a regimented schedule. I had
structured to the day that I was able to line
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out for Sabella and say, okay, this is what you're
doing for math, as we're doing for English, as you
have this, this, this, Now it's a free for all.
We're trying to figure out what to do with these kids.
It's like a real taste often math. It's madness, but
it's lovely at the same time. You know, we're spending
so much time with the kids, and it's awesome to
see them have tantrums and fight with each other and
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love on each other because you know, they adore each other.
And they're playing a lot, and they're fight but they
play and it's cute and I don't it's actually, you know,
we complain and we complain, but the re ality of
it all, it's don't complain that much. It's a blessing. Yeah,
it's a blessing that we get to see them all
this time. One thing I've realized though, is that the
more that we are around each other, you find yourself
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like sort of micro observing everything that your partner is
doing because we're together all day long, so we're seeing
every little detail. Like this morning, for example, you've seen
me drink coffee. I don't know how many times every
morning today You're like, you drink coffee every single morning,
do you realize and before due to yourself. I don't
drink it before I go to bed, Like a five
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pm you have a coffee for no reason. One in
the middle of the day cofee. Coffee is fantastic, acidic
and coffee is not good for you, and Eric sleeps
it is fantastic. Yeah, because banana. At least I'm having
the fruit. I'm not having a cidity into my stomach.
Eric will sleep for eight hours, then he will break
the fast. That's the definition of breakfast with a coffee.
(02:57):
I know nine your money, you're ever really listening, does
the same thing. It has a coffee first thing the morning.
You know. She didn't what I'm talking about anyway. She
complains and says, Jude, you're gonna do yourself. You're gonna
just be so sick when you get older. I mean,
just that was the way I started my morning, her
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telling me I'm gonna be sick. I'm gonna trying to
help you, Eric because I love you and I want
you to grow old and healthy. What I am enjoying, though,
is uh this sort of new role that Rosin has
fallen into of you know, our maid or chef. She's
taking care of the house and an amazing maid fifteen
years I've never seen this happen. Are increasing everything every
day on the cooking, and she's saying organizing. I'm naming it.
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You know what I think when this whole thing is done,
I don't have to go back to acting. I'm gonna
start a maid service is going to be Rosalind the
Maid three one zero seven four zero. I think three
one zero seven four zero. I think I'm hot maid service?
Oh my god, when they have anything to do with
maid that was random like those pink busses see for time?
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Would you rather have? I think about having made service
that is a lot of cute women, and they better
say I am hot, because that's that sounds of indulgence.
I think I would buy I would buy into it
more if they said I'm hot. I think I'm hire
a hot made versus a made that thinks there. I
just want to be humble. God, I don't think I'm hot.
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This is one problem that I figured out that it's
driving me mad. And I want to bring this because
if anybody else can relate to what I'm saying. So
we talked before about how her, how anal she is
with keeping our pantry organized. So we bought all of
this survival food, all these things that we're supposed to
stay fresh in packaging for as long as possible in case,
I don't know, the world is gonna stop and we
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couldn't go to the grocery store anymore. Cut to, she's
obsessed with organizing now more than ever. She's taken all
of our quarantine food out of its packages, put them
in all these stupid plastic containers we have so it
looks nicer now they're all going stay. They are not not.
I just threw away a whole thing to se because
you left it in there and it's been stale. Which
one doesn't matter which one it was freaking it's stale
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because you didn't leave it in the box. It was
survival for it was probably way before it was in
the box. Then it was fine as soon as you
open the box. It's now exposure to the air. It's
now going to stale too. It's an eyesore to have
this beautiful pantry. And then there's a corner where Eric
puts all the boxes. It doesn't go with the flow.
It doesn't make any sense. It's more of an ice store.
If we can't go to the grocery store anymore, and
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when our quarantine food is alwayted and gone, we don't
have any not important that important. Import that, well import
it should be import that because if we need food
and it's gone because of your aesthetic reasons, because it's stale, Well,
it's ridiculous. Okay, we're using the spot a lot. We
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have this jacuzzi, we're using all these things in the
house we never thought we'd be used, Like we'd readed
our house a couple of years ago. And there are
still things we haven't really used because we just don't
have we don't find the time. Yeah, the cabana stuff
we don't use. But now, warrantine, we've used the spot
twice this week and it's so nice that the kids
go to bed. We have a lot of cheese platters
that you complain What about Eric, I'm getting uh sterling?
(06:10):
Is you call it a wine, said to Melin said
to me, I think I want to drink. I think
this this quarantine is leading me to want to have
a drink. So I was like, sweet, this is great.
Let's let's have a have a glass of wine in
the in the spa. They didn't want to try to
find the sweetest wine I can get. It wasn't sweet.
It was disgusting because she wants she wants a dessert wine.
But I don't if anybody's that's drinking syrup, I don't
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care it's syrup. But I'll drink sugar water. It's okay,
give me some sugar water. You'll be more recently that recently.
You're gonna be did into the job. You didn't even
try it. I couldn't swallow it. She was too busy.
First of all, I hate the spot, and she goes, oh,
that's it, that's all. You're gonna ghat it too. I
think they should easily be one ten. It's at one
oh four. We get in the spot. Within thirty minutes.
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She's like, oh my god, oh my god, I'm over eating.
Oh's just too much. I think I might have a breakdown.
What do you mean you have a breakdown? It was,
it's just getting too hot, and that's all the bubbles
we can make. It doesn't make any more bubbles. I said, no,
I can turn the booster pump on. You'll get some
more bubbles. Crank, I do the booster pump. I mean,
bubbles are flying all over the spot. Oh my god,
look at the steam coming up. Oh I'm trying hypervently.
I'm trying to have So the whole spot experience was
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a fiasco because she thought she was hyperventally from the
heat and then the steam was driving. So sorry you
didn't enjoy it. I happened to enjoy it a lot.
All I was doing was chasing the bubbles, chasing. I
remember being like super chilled. Yes, I was hot and
I was sweating, and I was like, god, this is
very very hot. But my mom my relaxing. I loved that.
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I want to do it every single day. And then
every single day it was light to only light, to
only change one color. Oh, they're changing slowly, Okay, they
only go green, No rods. They're going to change as
the timer. It's called color splash. So we are going
to have a special guest today that I love this woman,
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you know, she's a special friend. She's my us on
a trainer. Um, she has become like my sister. Her
name is Maria Legui Samone from Colombia, Colombiana Bigi Sima
so handle an Instagram is Colombian Mafia Fit. If you
follow me, I'm sure you have seen me post a
lot of things about Colombia Mafia. Um. We're going to
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discuss the importance sustaining healthy and active, especially nowadays with
this quarantine. I love that she's a girl's girl. Um,
she's a mom of three boys. She's loud, she has
a fun personality. She's super funny, she's obsessed with fitness.
She empowers people to be the best they can be.
And we're going to have her a little later. Right
before we get to that, we're gonna take a break.
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But you know what I've realized, as we're in quarantine,
could you keep trying to find things to do? We
I found myself actually searching the internet just for random information.
And the first thing I want to talk about is
a site that I found which is all about basics,
every basics about life that everyone should know. So we're
gonna we come back from the break. We're gonna talk
about that and then go on to another topic. So
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we are back and we found well, Eric found this
article basics about life everyone should know, And yeah, there
were about fifty different things, but we just picked a
few that we thought were interesting. And Rosald was super
excited because her and I actually one of the other
things that we bicker about, and I don't know if
anybod else can relate to this, is I like the bedroom,
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you know, cozy, I don't. I don't need it super hot,
like sauna, like yoga backrum. Really that kind of like
I'm talking seventy degrees. She wants it at six. I
mean freeze your tell them? Why tell them? Why? No, No,
that's not why you just learned this. So now I'm
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now I'm learning I'm losing this potential argument because one
of the things that everyone should know is that sleeping
in a cold room will help you slim down, which
it sounds bonkers. First of all, it sounds bunkers and
doing a video at the same time, um, which is
why are you doing a video while we're trying to talk. Anyways,
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it sounds like nonsense, but as I started thinking about
I guess it makes sense. You're so cold. Your body's
metabolism kicks into overdrive because of how cold you are,
and that's why you burn more. That's amazing. You know
what you can because it's fine. You like listen. The
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same thing happens with Sabella. I blow dry my hair
is perfectly straight. It's very nice. I do the same
with Seby. We go to bed with luscious hair. We
get up the next morning and because we sweat all
night because of eric and sleep, nude take off. You
have sweat side sweatshirt on. You got a downcome. You
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know what? You know? What is my highlight of going
on location? When I'm I'm by myself, so I can
be in a hotel by myself, like I just I
went to Mexico. Yes, I went to Mexico to do
this movie. I was there for about three weeks. Oh
my god, guys, I was able to keep that a
C going so high and I was so happy. I
slept like a baby. And I say, meat, I'm seriously,
you're you're you're making your body going to survival modes
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now because you think you're burning calories. You czy. Next one,
women have more pain receptors than men. Also, A higher
tolerance for pain. That's why we have babies and women.
But you're tolerance for pain is nowhere near my tolerance.
I don't have a lot of tolerance for pain. I'm
going to accept that. But that doesn't mean that women,
in general, we do have more pain receptions. I believe
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that there are probably more male cry babies out there
when it comes to pain than your one. On what
are you talking about, cry baby? I handle pain way
better than you do. You complain about pain all the
time everything, but because I feel you vocalize it all
the time, I just internalized that and I don't really
tell you. You should tell me. It could be comfortable
telling me, Yeah, you'd love it. I told you how
many times I was in pain. No, I will help
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you feel better, all right. I don't really believe that. Well,
I don't believe it when because of my wife, but
I'm sure a lot of women out there do. You
can leave everything you own to your pets, like Hotelier
Hote say that. Leona Helmsley, she left twelve million to
her pop, but they pop only got two millions, So
who gets the rest of Because I'm assuming there's some
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loss that or maybe they text. I think it's crazy
that the dog got two million dollars, so I'm gonna
leave everything. Would Why would you? Why would you leave
everything to your pet? Listen, I love she didn't have
any family, but leave. I mean, I guess if you have,
But that still doesn't make any sense. Leave it to
a charity, leave your pet to a good home, and
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then leave that money to people who need it. Why
would you leave? That's just absurd. The point is that
is legal. You can actually leave your money to blue cheese.
It is stupid. Blue cheese can change your dreams. That
explains the bet sleep of the last Jackouzy night, because
you got blue cheese and it was a little funky
and then I could perfectly fine. I slept great. You
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sleep bad, doesn't matter what you're eating. You don't. You
don't know how to sleep, apparently, thank you the brownie
thing that you never did. I don't know if I
believe about this. Blue cheese gives weird dreams. You just
said it happened to you, but I think it. I
am going to skip on the finishing your antibiotics because
I don't want to care about that. There's the most
important one, this one, right here proved everything that I've
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been arguing with Rosan about since we met. Finishing your
antibiotics is crucial. This woman next to me never does so.
She was talking before in the podcast, Oh I get
U T I is blah blah blah. They prescribe medication
antibiotic for the U T I. Did she finish the bottle? No,
it's a seven day supply or ten day supplies. She
stops at five because she feels the symptoms are going away.
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And I said, Rose, you don't do that. You have
to finish it. I'm not going to finish it, and
I feel feel fine. Well, what it says is because
you don't finish the anibotics, you actually aren't killing the
back tia entirely, and instead you're creating a super strain
of the bacteria in your body, which makes fighting it
the next time even harder, which explains why you get
so damn many of them. You have never treated them properly.
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They are not human, they're the bionic bacteria is in
your body. Okay, tell everybody you're gonna start to finishing.
The point is, finish your damn antibiotics. Okay, So everybody,
you need to finish your auntibiotics. You need to. You
can't tell everybody else if you don't do it. Yeah,
I'm not great. Aren't not great for you? When you're
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missing with you times over in a row because you
can't kill the first Your God is very important and
the autobiotics are not good for you. Or maybe I
get you t is because you need to clean. But no,
maybe that's ridiculous because we don't even have sex. Maybe
why don't you look at the fact that you've never
killed it and you keep making it worse. I'll call
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I'll call my brother. He's a doctor, and I'll see
your brother. Every doctor is going to tell you that. Come.
That's ridiculous. Now, thanks. Everyone needs to know how to do.
That was another link that Eric found out. I love
this one. We're gonna come back to this one after
the break though. Stay tuned. We are back with things
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everyone needs to know how to do. I thought this
one was pretty interesting because given the circumstances that we're
in right now, you know, we are trying to sort
of figure out what survival mode maybe feels like. I mean,
we're not really having to survive that bad. We're in
a house, but you guys are stupid. You guys were stupid. No,
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I'm saying people in this time right now, it's like okay,
rationing food, taking care of yourself, figuring out what you'd
have to do in the worst case scenario environment. Um.
I think this quarantine time has given me that much
to think about what would you do in an emergency?
So some things we need to know how to do here.
You should know how to grow your own vegetables, and
you know, we want to start doing that. We've been
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talking about doing like a home gardening type of thing.
Our neighbor is doing it. Um, it looks great. But
dream Popper over here is already finding reasons where we can't. No,
I would love to do it if we had a
place to put the box that we have to build.
We have plenty of places to put the box. It's
just that you decide that there's not enough sun or
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I decide the earth deside where the sun is going
to be our house. I don't decide. You do your
research and say you know this kind of vegetable the
low light works, and blah blah blah. It's just already
finding ways of saying no, you don't even needed I mean,
tomatoes needs sie. Everything we want needs sun that that
side of the patio gets enough son to be able
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to do it. Don't say no before you try. This
is the thing every kinds of tendency of saying no.
Dream she will go buy everything, make me build it all,
and then we'll realize everything that makes it happen. Make
it happen. You dictate what you want. You dictate what
you want. I have to put it together, and then
it all falls apart, and you go, why that happened?
Would you do wrong? Did you overwater it? This is
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this is a lovely marriage. People. We apologize for what
we are making you guys here on a weekly basis.
We actually love and respect each other. Um, we're just
working through the things that anyways, I would love to
plant vegetables. Then do it be a door? Be a door?
What else? All right? Well, you should know how to
start a fire from scratch? Do you think you can
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do that with two pieces of like two rocks? And
you do? And then what that? That just makes sparks?
So how do you start the fire? Then you find
a piece of paper that the spark touches the leaf
of the piece of paper, hair it's good. All right,
you got something. There's some thinking. I'm surprised. I dont
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think you're gonna get that. You should know how to
change a tire. I'm screwed. I can do that. You
can't change a tire. I don't think. No, I've never
done it. I have no idea how jack and the
trunk and pop the car up? That how pension me?
I'll just go, hey, hey, help, got somebody help me?
And the maid that wants to be be sexy or
what have you said that thinks they're sexy? It's me
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and that maid that thought I was sexy? Can help.
I can guarantee you somebody will start by and change
my time. Okay. You should know how to jump start
a car. I don't know how to do that either.
You don't know how to jumped out of car. You've
never had to jump start a car. Have you ever
had anybody help you jumpstart a car? I'm sure in
Puerto Rico. Yes, you'll call a you take look at
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take your red you're black? You put the red negative
in the ground one and the like. He help? Okay.
You should know how to dress properly. Oh, Eric is screwed?
What are you talking about. I dress fine. You don't
dress bad. You actually don't dress bad. You just don't
have a lot of style. You're very simple. You're like
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a gene and T shirt kind of. I guess what's
working during quarantine, gym, close casual? I know, but whatever,
jeans whatever, we're moment, moment in time. I'm talking about
in the even even your cast mate from the Rookie
Okay offered to told Eric one the dude, whenever you
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have another event of something, holiers, your boy and I
can help you, so titles please, we need you. Here's
the problem. I struggle with making decisions even at the store.
One thing that I don't like to do is going
to the store with Eric because it's the most like.
I don't even try things on. I know what fits,
I know what I like. I grab everything. I pay
them out. Eric, is that you like this? Do you
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like this one? But what about this one? But what
about this one? But oh my god, it drives me
demos in the size of person in the world. Anyways,
you sure know how to speak at least one or
two languages besides English, Eric is screwed. Yeah, this one
I actually fully agree would be beneficial. I wish. That's
one of my big regrets. It is not taking learning
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the second language seriously. I took French in high school
because I thought it was a language of love and
it was gonna help me with more ladies. I have
no idea why I grew up in la plante Spanish.
Was I did latinas I don't know why I didn't
take Spanish, And almost fifteen years later and still he
can't speak spani. You should know how to negotiate well.
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Eric is an expert, and it is embarrassing on times,
and then you want to negotiate on top of negotiating
on top of negotiating, and it comes out like it
comes back like your cheating. And sometimes I just have
to walk at all the stone some of the people,
so many people I know, many people I know. It's
not even about being frugal. It's about negotiating the best deal.
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When you're talking about but you're talking on a car,
you want to just pay sticker over sticker because you
don't want to, but you ever do it with everything,
even if it's something that is like ten dollars, you
want to get it for fifty Oh my gosh. Through ridiculous.
Everything should be negotiated. People mark things. You are your
that's son. She wants to buy jewelry from every big,
(21:10):
big place whatever. All the jewelry comes from the same place,
at the local, local jewel What does do He goes downtown,
downtown Los Angeles and he gets the jewelry. Yeah, and
you can negotiate it and get it for the price
it's worth. I only do it in Carly, my friend
Carl Levine. I love Carl. If anybody else, Hay can
go downtown and get whatever she gets me whatever, and
I'll believe it, and I'll buy it in a second,
because it's Carly. She's amazing. And if any of her
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friends negotiate right downright now and do something, she thinks
it's okay. I do it and I'm annoying. But if
her friends do it perfectly, Oh, they're so smart. They
make all the right decisions. You're not annoying, You're awesome.
I appreciate that you know how to negotiate, but not
all the time. You should know how to invest in
the stock market. We're both horrible and choosing investments. I
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think I've struck out, not know I've had I've had
maybe not one. Yeah, and the one good investment for
sure invested in the sports E sports is Boom. That's
one I didn't understand. You for me to see if
I wanted to to invest, and I was like, no,
I don't get it. I don't understand it. I think
it's a waste. No, I didn't do it, so I
I might regret it. Outside of that, Yeah, we're both
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horrible investment. You should know how to manage your personal finances.
I think I'm great at that. Rosal going back to
being frugal. I am frugal and I'm good with managing
my finances. Rosa whatever. No, it's not. I'm paying for
a business manager to take care of all my violences,
and you know it alleviates a lot of the work
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and that you have to pay them. But I'm so
used to it. I've had them since two thousand, so
for twenty years. Even managing your finances starts with you
being smart with your money. Good. You should know how
to have a conversation with somebody at any age. Eric
is all said, because Eric can talk to a wall. No,
there's no problem with that. I like that's great, that's
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a great trait that you have that you can just talk,
talk and talk and talk and talk all the along.
Rosin will drag me to any event, party, anything she
has to go to because she knows I can always
find a way to entertain myself with somebody, whatever the
case may be. I invite her to something with me,
and she goes and plops down in the corner, says
her feet hurt and doesn't want to talk to anyone.
True story, you remember, not true? Did I ever tell
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this story? And I don't. I don't mean to sound weird.
This is actually funny. When I first started at eating
dating Eric, I got invited to the opening or you
know the jay Z. Remember the jay Z had a club.
It was the super Cale. I don't know what it
was in York. It was in New York, and it
was at the very beginning of the relationship and they
wanted me to do like an oppearance, and um so
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they fly me to New York and I take Eric
and it's, uh, jay Z, it's very urban. It's it's
a lot of African Americans and and we're not because
of Boat Trip and Rush Over two and all these
movies that I did. That demo I'm very blessed. They
love me, you know, and it's beautiful. Anyways, So I
am going is this the right thing? I'm bringing this
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white boy, this thing that everybody's gonna be so disappointed
that I'm walking in with this white boy. And I said,
you know what, he's awesome and he can talk to anybody.
So we walk in. At the beginning, they're looking at
me like, what the heck happened here? Because they wanted
me to be by myself or at least bring somebody else. Anyways,
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I'm not kidding. You want to tell you that by
the end of the night, I'm sitting down and Eric
has befriended every single man and they're all, I, hey
do a warrior mur that they love him. He's playing pool,
he's drinking with all these Jews. He is listening to
rap music. I thought it was hysterical. Yeah, so you
can make yourself comfortable with anybody. That's a beautiful thing.
I can't. You can't just get off anyway. You should
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not sing or play an instrument. Another thing I regret
my life. I played piano. I wish I could play anything.
I sing a little bit. No, you have definitely more
gifted in the musical and vocal talent standpoint than I am.
I'm destroyed. And that's the other thing. Everybody out there,
there's a great time to find another hobby that you
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can do during quarantine. Pick up something, pick up something FaceTime.
I've seen girls on Instagram picking up a guitar and
their like self self talk like teaching themselves how to
play guitar online and they're showcasing there. We weren't so
busy in the household, I would definitely picking. I have
time to work out with Maria Mafia fit and on
(25:33):
what else I'm writing. I'm doing writing, you know, I'm
writing my next I want to direct another movie, and
I'm writing and and that's having me super excited. I
actually believe this is the time for everybody to be
the most inspired and creative because we have nothing more
than time on our hands to think about how we
can do things better. And you never know, you might start.
You might start the next hot trend or business out there.
(25:55):
They're saying that moments like this is when a lot
of entrepreneurs step up and they create magic. You know,
a lot of big, big companies were created our moments
like this so be creative. People, don't let's take this
as a blessing. I know it's it's it's horrific, you know,
it's it's the it's a time when we can't control anything.
It's almost like a girl when a girl is pregnant.
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You know, pregnancy is the only time in life that
women have zero control. That's how we feel. You know,
the virus is controlling everything. The government therefore has to
react to based on the virus, and we are just waiting.
Is the waiting game. But let's see it as something
valuable and a blessing and and and just create, create,
get do Here's here's another one that you should know
(26:38):
how to do. And I think this is fantastic. You
should know how to say I'm sorry and I was wrong. Okay, great,
next you're talking, you do it or not. You said
you're ready. Everybody say I'm sorry, I'm good. I was
not good at it, but I'm getting better and I'm sorry.
We have talked about this. I am more and more
(26:59):
conscious of what's saying. I'm sorry, and I'm saying I
was wrong. I don't know because you believe you, but
this is my truth in the moment, meaning that you're
always right because if it's your truth, you're always right
to respect my truth. Yeah, but I don't know how
you feel like that. Well, yes, because it's my truth.
And then now you love to use that against you're
(27:22):
using out a context. But it doesn't work when you
say that. It works when I say, all right, last
one that I think this was actually pretty great. You
should know how to navigate with a map and a compass.
Can you do that? I'm screwed. Did you ever have
like a Thomas Guide in Puerto Rico where it was
I didn't in my car and sound my car, but
I couldn't. I couldn't read that to save my life.
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You know, my brother Georgie's it was a genius like
reading those things. Not me. I'm not very smart at
things like that. I'm actually no very smart. Just see
the heart of being able to read a map. First
of all, that's something you should be working on right
now in quarantine. That's great. What if everything shout that
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you We we all realized so much on navigation, even
when we go to Puerto Rico. Even in Puerto Rico,
every drives better than me. The joke with you can
go right or left, you got a fifty shot of
making the right decision. She always goes horrible directions. I
don't know I'm gonna retain like left of the time.
(28:25):
It's always a right. Anyways, guys, we are going to
call Maria. Stay tuned. What's people, Maria? Maria? Oh, we've
(28:48):
been singing your prices, lady, what's happening? You know I
was just running. I was running outside, running for my
life here like I was again. You're running from running
from from your kids. Oh my god, running that way
from my kids and my husband. Man, at least for
twenty minutes, right, I should do that. You know I
(29:10):
requested a treadmill. I think I'm going to start running
away from I'm going to run away from Eric. You
know I was saying run away, yeah right away sometimes,
I know. I was telling our listeners. Mariana. Number one,
you know that I'm your biggest fan. Number two, you
know that I love you. I love you. Three. You
have changed my life. You help me get back in
(29:31):
shape and back in love with my body after my
second baby. You know how hard that was, and you
got me when I was like, I think three months
after delivery. I think right, yes, yes, really early, so
I was really hard to yourself. Every woman is so
hard to themselves, you know. I know what I like
(29:53):
the most about you, be said you're like a rock star,
amazing kick as trainer and a great friend. Is that
you power women, that you're like a girl's girl, that
you love too for every woman and every man to
be the best version of themselves. So now that these
times are crazy with the quarantine and we don't even
know what's happening with the world, how do you keep
(30:14):
it moving? Because I know you're busy with three or
three boys and the crazy part of it. Yeah, I
have a two all week called five and a seven
year old. I think you know you you like to me,
exercising and working out is just my release, like my
my relief of all the stress of society. And I
feel um. Every woman, every mom, every like even not
(30:38):
not only moms, single woman should do that to themselves
right now. There's no excuses. Now you're at home, there's
not an excuse that all the kids are running around,
you know, don't feel guilty. Put them to watch thirty
minutes of TV of a cartoon, and you know, get
yourself to working out. That feeling and you can. You
can say that you come to work out with me
(30:58):
and you feel tired, or your neck hurts or these
or that, and we have drama in our lives or
whatever that is, and then you finished working out and
you feel amazing, You feel like a million box. Well,
there's no question that I think working out just sends
a ton of positive energy into your mind, out and
out into the world. You feel better, You want to
be more charged with your day, even if your day
(31:20):
means staying at home, you just at you attack the
day with more positive attitude. And one thing that's great,
it's and not just women but men too. Um you know,
staying as active as possible. And you cater to both
your your your workouts. I've been doing your workouts at
home with roz Um. I didn't do sols at the
(31:40):
day I was going to. I said this one you
might not be able to follow us. Well, wow, why
are you gonna You're gonna shot my dancing man, I
could could could have. But one thing that we'll even
try and do is take turns if you you know,
if you don't have some really can watch to watch
(32:00):
the kids or you you know whatever you kid. Actually
you feel bad putting them in front of a computer,
iPad or whatever. You just say, hey, all right, might
turn to work out. Let me work out for an
hour and then you watch the kids. Didn't switch, and
then your partner works out and watches the kids, and um,
you know what, what you've been doing on Instagram live
every morning, it's fantastic. It's a great at home workout
that really kicks your butt. And I think it's what
everybody needs to be doing. I'm doing it and I know.
(32:23):
And we go back to the whole empowering yourself. Even
man or woman like you work out, you still empower
you feel that you're able to keep going through the day.
You know, like even like me, like I yesterday I
was texting roads like I'm having a society like this
and that, and I just worked out and I felt
completely different. I felt like I could do this. I
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felt Okay, I can be the best mom. I'm not
gonna lose it because we have to lose it, you
know what I mean. Like life is high with three kids,
Oh my god, and three months ago you had a baby.
That's insane. You know what. What I love, Maria, that
what I'm doing them the Instagram Live workout with you
at eleven am every morning. Um, at the beginning, you
(33:06):
see comments and then you shot them off so it's
not distracting. And then at the very end you turn
them back on and you see all these girls and
they're so happy and they all love the workout and
they feel so ready for the day. And there's girls
from a lot of different countries. You know, they're all
following you, and it's like you give and you like
they smile, you know when they're doing their workouts. They're
(33:27):
doing something for their bodies. They're enjoying it, and your
energy is crazy. And she loves to say they were cool.
Um nature so cool, like Eric, you love so cool?
Who does? And That's what I love about working out.
Working out also leads you getting laid more often because
(33:49):
a boost your sex drive, a boost a lot of
you talking about actually, you know what I'm gonna sex drive,
what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna release some text exchanges
between Maria and Eric about my sexual life and how
Maria tells me just open your legs and give him
(34:10):
some cool. Yeah, like you know, like a squat on
top of it, and like why now you know what
I mean like squatted out. You know, it's really funny
because when I teach my classes, girls don't know how
to squat that much. Like that's one of my biggest
like septics that I love, Like I love to teach
out to squat, and I always the way I teach,
(34:31):
it's like, hey, you just sit on that. I mean
you sit on that. You know what I mean. I
say that man breaches, go and sit on that, you
know what I mean? Like basic down Like those squads
are perfect. So yeah, Like you know, it happens to
me when I'm working out downstairs and I'm like, I
(34:52):
put my music and you know what, when I worked out,
I feel sexy and I'm looking at myself in the mirror.
I'm like, yeah, harty, mommy to sell it. My husband
can't bad. Like my husband is like, well tonight, I'm like, okay,
we'll negotiate some time here and there. You know, you
mightn't make it happen. Make it happen. Let me open
(35:13):
those legs, legs, preach, preach us anymore, no excuses. All
you do is look at each other all day long.
It should make you excited, even even with you you know,
you're in insane shape and you're very conscious and aware
of eating healthy. Do you find it hard as well
(35:36):
during this quarantine time to just like we can't keep
ourselves out of the pantry or out of the fridge,
and we constantly want to eat all day. Why it's
eating in her big and diet. I mean I keep
sending her like recipes to her, like to what I'm doing,
because we're kind of like becoming eight percent big and
(35:56):
here almost almost bigger. But you know, yeah, it's one
of the things that people need to be careful with,
like just don't buy John food, you know, buy song,
but then considerate. I feel this sun it's also too.
I feel the earth is just kind of who we're
setting itself, and we have to reset ourselves as well,
clean like eat clean, works out, drink silk water and
(36:19):
doing like if you're putine, you know, and then if
you want to have that chocolate, well you can have it,
you know. But it's it's anxiety just converted. Like in
my case, to be honest, Eric, like with just all
this society, I just don't eat, which is perfectly just
because I just had a baby's I lose weight. But
that's convenient. I just don't eat. I can't do that.
I just want to eat, and you don't want to have.
(36:42):
Everybody got so scared. Everybody was like, we're gonna be
locked down for months to calm, Like we thought, we're
not going to be able to even buy some food.
So everybody wants to the supermarket like maniacs. And and
for the most part, why you bought because it has
a lot of preservatives and it stays longer. Um, so
what happened. We bought because laugh past its ships a
(37:05):
lot of jump. Also because the kids, what happens if
there's there's nothing to eat. We need to give them something.
So we bought so much junk. And I can't control
myself and it's driving me mad. And I'm working out
because you know what, I'm doing it every day. But
now you work out, so there's a balance there to
like what what you don't want to do is feat
like crazy and sit down and watching it. You know.
I'm still I'm still practive, but I have I feel
(37:28):
like I have gain gain some weight and it's going
through my cool, and it's going through my papa, my papa.
I don't want cool, my papa means double chain like
like my senses. It runs in my family. Now we
all have that. I can be super skinny and I
still have a Papa potatoes the potatoes. She think she's
(37:52):
should have double gen since I met her, I always
have a double can be. But and she's like this kid,
a hearted woman on earth, like I always tell I'm like,
I want to be like you want to go up
like where boots are. It's all about having control, man,
(38:15):
like we cannot like, let's take this time to also
like concentrating ourselves rather than losing it, you know, because
I mean we're really lost with all this problem. So
you know, yeah, if your chocolate, if your pappita, it
can actually spit. I can popcorn and all this stuff.
But find those thirty minutes an hour of working out
(38:36):
and maintaining yourself active, grown up and down the stairs. Man,
I don't know you know what I mean, Like, but
get it gone. Do not just sit down on a
sofa and like do nothing, you know nothing, don't follow
you show. They can follow me on Instagram, Columbia and
Mafia Pit. I'm doing worked out at eleven a m.
Tuesdays and Thursdays Live We're also doing these amazing South
(38:58):
Samarange work out. I'm gonna I'm gonna include it once
a week and on Saturdays, and I'm putting all the
workouts on my YouTube tube YouTube flash for me and
Mafia Fit. Yea, I love it, love it. So there
you have it. I'm giving my secret. I think you
guys for calling me. Okay, mommy, love you kidding and
(39:18):
sit down on Eric Mommy ut out by hit him
so cool old bye Well Colombian Mafia Fit. I love
this girl's Yeah, Colombia Mafia recommend Colombia Mafia Fit on Instagram. Listen,
(39:41):
You'll love your ass off, You'll work out, your body
is gonna be fantastic in three months. She is like
a magician and just a great human beings. So I'll
sit on your partner later at night. So the next
topic what she's said, So, oh yeah, this was a
really interesting, really interesting show. A lot of variety we
(40:05):
we we covered here. So we want to encourage everybody
to continue staying strong and healthy and this um war
that we're going through, hopefully is going to end before
the summer. You know, try and find a way, try
and find a way to stay positive, find the laughs
when you can find them. You know, enjoy this time
(40:26):
with your loved ones, because it's really something we're never
going to get back. And it's unusual that you get
this much time that you can spend with your with
your family, and so so for all the families that
have lost loved ones, you know, because people keep dying
on a daily basis, and it's it's brutal, it's brutal.
So we are so so we stay strong and we
love you and thank you for listening. And make sure
(40:47):
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This is he said Ajo with Eric Winter and Rogalin Fantev.
Al Right, here we are with our second Quarantine podcast,
second one. Inside the closet again the closet and start
calling us, why are you getting Beauty Plus app? Because
I'm getting it ready for last time. I don't want
(00:21):
to do Beauty Plus. My lips are red. I didn't
want upon it red lipsticks. So I can just feel
sexy for you because you're the only one looking in
the closet. In the closet, that's a that's a sexy
(00:43):
thought right there. I don't want to be I don't
want to be on the Beauty Plus. So I'm gonna
do a video from my I don't like when your show. Okay, ready,
so we're doing a video right now that doesn't have
beauty plause Lacana. The Beauty Plus is gonna be terrible.
All right, we'll see you later. Um okay, So next episode,
this episode we're doing now we uh, we want to
(01:05):
touch base on some of the things we talked about
last week, which is, you know, homeschooling is now over.
We are on spring breaks. It's been three weeks now.
We had two weeks of schooling. Now we're on spring break,
which is oddly more difficult. More difficult because at least
with the homeschooling, I had a regimented schedule. I had
structured to the day that I was able to line
(01:26):
out for Sabella and say, okay, this is what you're
doing for math, as we're doing for English, as you
have this, this, this, Now it's a free for all.
We're trying to figure out what to do with these kids.
It's like a real taste often math. It's madness, but
it's lovely at the same time. You know, we're spending
so much time with the kids, and it's awesome to
see them have tantrums and fight with each other and
(01:50):
love on each other because you know, they adore each other.
And they're playing a lot, and they're fight but they
play and it's cute and I don't it's actually, you know,
we complain and we complain, but the re ality of
it all, it's don't complain that much. It's a blessing. Yeah,
it's a blessing that we get to see them all
this time. One thing I've realized though, is that the
more that we are around each other, you find yourself
(02:12):
like sort of micro observing everything that your partner is
doing because we're together all day long, so we're seeing
every little detail. Like this morning, for example, you've seen
me drink coffee. I don't know how many times every
morning today You're like, you drink coffee every single morning,
do you realize and before due to yourself. I don't
drink it before I go to bed, Like a five
(02:35):
pm you have a coffee for no reason. One in
the middle of the day cofee. Coffee is fantastic, acidic
and coffee is not good for you, and Eric sleeps
it is fantastic. Yeah, because banana. At least I'm having
the fruit. I'm not having a cidity into my stomach.
Eric will sleep for eight hours, then he will break
the fast. That's the definition of breakfast with a coffee.
(02:57):
I know nine your money, you're ever really listening, does
the same thing. It has a coffee first thing the morning.
You know. She didn't what I'm talking about anyway. She
complains and says, Jude, you're gonna do yourself. You're gonna
just be so sick when you get older. I mean,
just that was the way I started my morning, her
(03:17):
telling me I'm gonna be sick. I'm gonna trying to
help you, Eric because I love you and I want
you to grow old and healthy. What I am enjoying, though,
is uh this sort of new role that Rosin has
fallen into of you know, our maid or chef. She's
taking care of the house and an amazing maid fifteen
years I've never seen this happen. Are increasing everything every
day on the cooking, and she's saying organizing. I'm naming it.
(03:40):
You know what I think when this whole thing is done,
I don't have to go back to acting. I'm gonna
start a maid service is going to be Rosalind the
Maid three one zero seven four zero. I think three
one zero seven four zero. I think I'm hot maid service?
Oh my god, when they have anything to do with
maid that was random like those pink busses see for time?
(04:00):
Would you rather have? I think about having made service
that is a lot of cute women, and they better
say I am hot, because that's that sounds of indulgence.
I think I would buy I would buy into it
more if they said I'm hot. I think I'm hire
a hot made versus a made that thinks there. I
just want to be humble. God, I don't think I'm hot.
(04:22):
This is one problem that I figured out that it's
driving me mad. And I want to bring this because
if anybody else can relate to what I'm saying. So
we talked before about how her, how anal she is
with keeping our pantry organized. So we bought all of
this survival food, all these things that we're supposed to
stay fresh in packaging for as long as possible in case,
I don't know, the world is gonna stop and we
(04:43):
couldn't go to the grocery store anymore. Cut to, she's
obsessed with organizing now more than ever. She's taken all
of our quarantine food out of its packages, put them
in all these stupid plastic containers we have so it
looks nicer now they're all going stay. They are not not.
I just threw away a whole thing to se because
you left it in there and it's been stale. Which
one doesn't matter which one it was freaking it's stale
(05:05):
because you didn't leave it in the box. It was
survival for it was probably way before it was in
the box. Then it was fine as soon as you
open the box. It's now exposure to the air. It's
now going to stale too. It's an eyesore to have
this beautiful pantry. And then there's a corner where Eric
puts all the boxes. It doesn't go with the flow.
It doesn't make any sense. It's more of an ice store.
If we can't go to the grocery store anymore, and
(05:25):
when our quarantine food is alwayted and gone, we don't
have any not important that important. Import that, well import
it should be import that because if we need food
and it's gone because of your aesthetic reasons, because it's stale, Well,
it's ridiculous. Okay, we're using the spot a lot. We
(05:48):
have this jacuzzi, we're using all these things in the
house we never thought we'd be used, Like we'd readed
our house a couple of years ago. And there are
still things we haven't really used because we just don't
have we don't find the time. Yeah, the cabana stuff
we don't use. But now, warrantine, we've used the spot
twice this week and it's so nice that the kids
go to bed. We have a lot of cheese platters
that you complain What about Eric, I'm getting uh sterling?
(06:10):
Is you call it a wine, said to Melin said
to me, I think I want to drink. I think
this this quarantine is leading me to want to have
a drink. So I was like, sweet, this is great.
Let's let's have a have a glass of wine in
the in the spa. They didn't want to try to
find the sweetest wine I can get. It wasn't sweet.
It was disgusting because she wants she wants a dessert wine.
But I don't if anybody's that's drinking syrup, I don't
(06:33):
care it's syrup. But I'll drink sugar water. It's okay,
give me some sugar water. You'll be more recently that recently.
You're gonna be did into the job. You didn't even
try it. I couldn't swallow it. She was too busy.
First of all, I hate the spot, and she goes, oh,
that's it, that's all. You're gonna ghat it too. I
think they should easily be one ten. It's at one
oh four. We get in the spot. Within thirty minutes.
(06:54):
She's like, oh my god, oh my god, I'm over eating.
Oh's just too much. I think I might have a breakdown.
What do you mean you have a breakdown? It was,
it's just getting too hot, and that's all the bubbles
we can make. It doesn't make any more bubbles. I said, no,
I can turn the booster pump on. You'll get some
more bubbles. Crank, I do the booster pump. I mean,
bubbles are flying all over the spot. Oh my god,
look at the steam coming up. Oh I'm trying hypervently.
I'm trying to have So the whole spot experience was
(07:16):
a fiasco because she thought she was hyperventally from the
heat and then the steam was driving. So sorry you
didn't enjoy it. I happened to enjoy it a lot.
All I was doing was chasing the bubbles, chasing. I
remember being like super chilled. Yes, I was hot and
I was sweating, and I was like, god, this is
very very hot. But my mom my relaxing. I loved that.
(07:37):
I want to do it every single day. And then
every single day it was light to only light, to
only change one color. Oh, they're changing slowly, Okay, they
only go green, No rods. They're going to change as
the timer. It's called color splash. So we are going
to have a special guest today that I love this woman,
(07:58):
you know, she's a special friend. She's my us on
a trainer. Um, she has become like my sister. Her
name is Maria Legui Samone from Colombia, Colombiana Bigi Sima
so handle an Instagram is Colombian Mafia Fit. If you
follow me, I'm sure you have seen me post a
lot of things about Colombia Mafia. Um. We're going to
(08:19):
discuss the importance sustaining healthy and active, especially nowadays with
this quarantine. I love that she's a girl's girl. Um,
she's a mom of three boys. She's loud, she has
a fun personality. She's super funny, she's obsessed with fitness.
She empowers people to be the best they can be.
And we're going to have her a little later. Right
before we get to that, we're gonna take a break.
(08:41):
But you know what I've realized, as we're in quarantine,
could you keep trying to find things to do? We
I found myself actually searching the internet just for random information.
And the first thing I want to talk about is
a site that I found which is all about basics,
every basics about life that everyone should know. So we're
gonna we come back from the break. We're gonna talk
about that and then go on to another topic. So
(09:11):
we are back and we found well, Eric found this
article basics about life everyone should know, And yeah, there
were about fifty different things, but we just picked a
few that we thought were interesting. And Rosald was super
excited because her and I actually one of the other
things that we bicker about, and I don't know if
anybod else can relate to this, is I like the bedroom,
(09:33):
you know, cozy, I don't. I don't need it super hot,
like sauna, like yoga backrum. Really that kind of like
I'm talking seventy degrees. She wants it at six. I
mean freeze your tell them? Why tell them? Why? No, No,
that's not why you just learned this. So now I'm
(09:54):
now I'm learning I'm losing this potential argument because one
of the things that everyone should know is that sleeping
in a cold room will help you slim down, which
it sounds bonkers. First of all, it sounds bunkers and
doing a video at the same time, um, which is
why are you doing a video while we're trying to talk. Anyways,
(10:14):
it sounds like nonsense, but as I started thinking about
I guess it makes sense. You're so cold. Your body's
metabolism kicks into overdrive because of how cold you are,
and that's why you burn more. That's amazing. You know
what you can because it's fine. You like listen. The
(10:34):
same thing happens with Sabella. I blow dry my hair
is perfectly straight. It's very nice. I do the same
with Seby. We go to bed with luscious hair. We
get up the next morning and because we sweat all
night because of eric and sleep, nude take off. You
have sweat side sweatshirt on. You got a downcome. You
(10:55):
know what? You know? What is my highlight of going
on location? When I'm I'm by myself, so I can
be in a hotel by myself, like I just I
went to Mexico. Yes, I went to Mexico to do
this movie. I was there for about three weeks. Oh
my god, guys, I was able to keep that a
C going so high and I was so happy. I
slept like a baby. And I say, meat, I'm seriously,
you're you're you're making your body going to survival modes
(11:16):
now because you think you're burning calories. You czy. Next one,
women have more pain receptors than men. Also, A higher
tolerance for pain. That's why we have babies and women.
But you're tolerance for pain is nowhere near my tolerance.
I don't have a lot of tolerance for pain. I'm
going to accept that. But that doesn't mean that women,
in general, we do have more pain receptions. I believe
(11:39):
that there are probably more male cry babies out there
when it comes to pain than your one. On what
are you talking about, cry baby? I handle pain way
better than you do. You complain about pain all the
time everything, but because I feel you vocalize it all
the time, I just internalized that and I don't really
tell you. You should tell me. It could be comfortable
telling me, Yeah, you'd love it. I told you how
many times I was in pain. No, I will help
(12:01):
you feel better, all right. I don't really believe that. Well,
I don't believe it when because of my wife, but
I'm sure a lot of women out there do. You
can leave everything you own to your pets, like Hotelier
Hote say that. Leona Helmsley, she left twelve million to
her pop, but they pop only got two millions, So
who gets the rest of Because I'm assuming there's some
(12:24):
loss that or maybe they text. I think it's crazy
that the dog got two million dollars, so I'm gonna
leave everything. Would Why would you? Why would you leave
everything to your pet? Listen, I love she didn't have
any family, but leave. I mean, I guess if you have,
But that still doesn't make any sense. Leave it to
a charity, leave your pet to a good home, and
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then leave that money to people who need it. Why
would you leave? That's just absurd. The point is that
is legal. You can actually leave your money to blue cheese.
It is stupid. Blue cheese can change your dreams. That
explains the bet sleep of the last Jackouzy night, because
you got blue cheese and it was a little funky
and then I could perfectly fine. I slept great. You
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sleep bad, doesn't matter what you're eating. You don't. You
don't know how to sleep, apparently, thank you the brownie
thing that you never did. I don't know if I
believe about this. Blue cheese gives weird dreams. You just
said it happened to you, but I think it. I
am going to skip on the finishing your antibiotics because
I don't want to care about that. There's the most
important one, this one, right here proved everything that I've
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been arguing with Rosan about since we met. Finishing your
antibiotics is crucial. This woman next to me never does so.
She was talking before in the podcast, Oh I get
U T I is blah blah blah. They prescribe medication
antibiotic for the U T I. Did she finish the bottle? No,
it's a seven day supply or ten day supplies. She
stops at five because she feels the symptoms are going away.
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And I said, Rose, you don't do that. You have
to finish it. I'm not going to finish it, and
I feel feel fine. Well, what it says is because
you don't finish the anibotics, you actually aren't killing the
back tia entirely, and instead you're creating a super strain
of the bacteria in your body, which makes fighting it
the next time even harder, which explains why you get
so damn many of them. You have never treated them properly.
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They are not human, they're the bionic bacteria is in
your body. Okay, tell everybody you're gonna start to finishing.
The point is, finish your damn antibiotics. Okay, So everybody,
you need to finish your auntibiotics. You need to. You
can't tell everybody else if you don't do it. Yeah,
I'm not great. Aren't not great for you? When you're
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missing with you times over in a row because you
can't kill the first Your God is very important and
the autobiotics are not good for you. Or maybe I
get you t is because you need to clean. But no,
maybe that's ridiculous because we don't even have sex. Maybe
why don't you look at the fact that you've never
killed it and you keep making it worse. I'll call
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I'll call my brother. He's a doctor, and I'll see
your brother. Every doctor is going to tell you that. Come.
That's ridiculous. Now, thanks. Everyone needs to know how to do.
That was another link that Eric found out. I love
this one. We're gonna come back to this one after
the break though. Stay tuned. We are back with things
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everyone needs to know how to do. I thought this
one was pretty interesting because given the circumstances that we're
in right now, you know, we are trying to sort
of figure out what survival mode maybe feels like. I mean,
we're not really having to survive that bad. We're in
a house, but you guys are stupid. You guys were stupid. No,
(15:44):
I'm saying people in this time right now, it's like okay,
rationing food, taking care of yourself, figuring out what you'd
have to do in the worst case scenario environment. Um.
I think this quarantine time has given me that much
to think about what would you do in an emergency?
So some things we need to know how to do here.
You should know how to grow your own vegetables, and
you know, we want to start doing that. We've been
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talking about doing like a home gardening type of thing.
Our neighbor is doing it. Um, it looks great. But
dream Popper over here is already finding reasons where we can't. No,
I would love to do it if we had a
place to put the box that we have to build.
We have plenty of places to put the box. It's
just that you decide that there's not enough sun or
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I decide the earth deside where the sun is going
to be our house. I don't decide. You do your
research and say you know this kind of vegetable the
low light works, and blah blah blah. It's just already
finding ways of saying no, you don't even needed I mean,
tomatoes needs sie. Everything we want needs sun that that
side of the patio gets enough son to be able
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to do it. Don't say no before you try. This
is the thing every kinds of tendency of saying no.
Dream she will go buy everything, make me build it all,
and then we'll realize everything that makes it happen. Make
it happen. You dictate what you want. You dictate what
you want. I have to put it together, and then
it all falls apart, and you go, why that happened?
Would you do wrong? Did you overwater it? This is
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this is a lovely marriage. People. We apologize for what
we are making you guys here on a weekly basis.
We actually love and respect each other. Um, we're just
working through the things that anyways, I would love to
plant vegetables. Then do it be a door? Be a door?
What else? All right? Well, you should know how to
start a fire from scratch? Do you think you can
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do that with two pieces of like two rocks? And
you do? And then what that? That just makes sparks?
So how do you start the fire? Then you find
a piece of paper that the spark touches the leaf
of the piece of paper, hair it's good. All right,
you got something. There's some thinking. I'm surprised. I dont
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think you're gonna get that. You should know how to
change a tire. I'm screwed. I can do that. You
can't change a tire. I don't think. No, I've never
done it. I have no idea how jack and the
trunk and pop the car up? That how pension me?
I'll just go, hey, hey, help, got somebody help me?
And the maid that wants to be be sexy or
what have you said that thinks they're sexy? It's me
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and that maid that thought I was sexy? Can help.
I can guarantee you somebody will start by and change
my time. Okay. You should know how to jump start
a car. I don't know how to do that either.
You don't know how to jumped out of car. You've
never had to jump start a car. Have you ever
had anybody help you jumpstart a car? I'm sure in
Puerto Rico. Yes, you'll call a you take look at
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take your red you're black? You put the red negative
in the ground one and the like. He help? Okay.
You should know how to dress properly. Oh, Eric is screwed?
What are you talking about. I dress fine. You don't
dress bad. You actually don't dress bad. You just don't
have a lot of style. You're very simple. You're like
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a gene and T shirt kind of. I guess what's
working during quarantine, gym, close casual? I know, but whatever,
jeans whatever, we're moment, moment in time. I'm talking about
in the even even your cast mate from the Rookie
Okay offered to told Eric one the dude, whenever you
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have another event of something, holiers, your boy and I
can help you, so titles please, we need you. Here's
the problem. I struggle with making decisions even at the store.
One thing that I don't like to do is going
to the store with Eric because it's the most like.
I don't even try things on. I know what fits,
I know what I like. I grab everything. I pay
them out. Eric, is that you like this? Do you
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like this one? But what about this one? But what
about this one? But oh my god, it drives me
demos in the size of person in the world. Anyways,
you sure know how to speak at least one or
two languages besides English, Eric is screwed. Yeah, this one
I actually fully agree would be beneficial. I wish. That's
one of my big regrets. It is not taking learning
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the second language seriously. I took French in high school
because I thought it was a language of love and
it was gonna help me with more ladies. I have
no idea why I grew up in la plante Spanish.
Was I did latinas I don't know why I didn't
take Spanish, And almost fifteen years later and still he
can't speak spani. You should know how to negotiate well.
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Eric is an expert, and it is embarrassing on times,
and then you want to negotiate on top of negotiating
on top of negotiating, and it comes out like it
comes back like your cheating. And sometimes I just have
to walk at all the stone some of the people,
so many people I know, many people I know. It's
not even about being frugal. It's about negotiating the best deal.
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When you're talking about but you're talking on a car,
you want to just pay sticker over sticker because you
don't want to, but you ever do it with everything,
even if it's something that is like ten dollars, you
want to get it for fifty Oh my gosh. Through ridiculous.
Everything should be negotiated. People mark things. You are your
that's son. She wants to buy jewelry from every big,
(21:10):
big place whatever. All the jewelry comes from the same place,
at the local, local jewel What does do He goes downtown,
downtown Los Angeles and he gets the jewelry. Yeah, and
you can negotiate it and get it for the price
it's worth. I only do it in Carly, my friend
Carl Levine. I love Carl. If anybody else, Hay can
go downtown and get whatever she gets me whatever, and
I'll believe it, and I'll buy it in a second,
because it's Carly. She's amazing. And if any of her
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friends negotiate right downright now and do something, she thinks
it's okay. I do it and I'm annoying. But if
her friends do it perfectly, Oh, they're so smart. They
make all the right decisions. You're not annoying, You're awesome.
I appreciate that you know how to negotiate, but not
all the time. You should know how to invest in
the stock market. We're both horrible and choosing investments. I
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think I've struck out, not know I've had I've had
maybe not one. Yeah, and the one good investment for
sure invested in the sports E sports is Boom. That's
one I didn't understand. You for me to see if
I wanted to to invest, and I was like, no,
I don't get it. I don't understand it. I think
it's a waste. No, I didn't do it, so I
I might regret it. Outside of that, Yeah, we're both
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horrible investment. You should know how to manage your personal finances.
I think I'm great at that. Rosal going back to
being frugal. I am frugal and I'm good with managing
my finances. Rosa whatever. No, it's not. I'm paying for
a business manager to take care of all my violences,
and you know it alleviates a lot of the work
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and that you have to pay them. But I'm so
used to it. I've had them since two thousand, so
for twenty years. Even managing your finances starts with you
being smart with your money. Good. You should know how
to have a conversation with somebody at any age. Eric
is all said, because Eric can talk to a wall. No,
there's no problem with that. I like that's great, that's
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a great trait that you have that you can just talk,
talk and talk and talk and talk all the along.
Rosin will drag me to any event, party, anything she
has to go to because she knows I can always
find a way to entertain myself with somebody, whatever the
case may be. I invite her to something with me,
and she goes and plops down in the corner, says
her feet hurt and doesn't want to talk to anyone.
True story, you remember, not true? Did I ever tell
(23:21):
this story? And I don't. I don't mean to sound weird.
This is actually funny. When I first started at eating
dating Eric, I got invited to the opening or you
know the jay Z. Remember the jay Z had a club.
It was the super Cale. I don't know what it
was in York. It was in New York, and it
was at the very beginning of the relationship and they
wanted me to do like an oppearance, and um so
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they fly me to New York and I take Eric
and it's, uh, jay Z, it's very urban. It's it's
a lot of African Americans and and we're not because
of Boat Trip and Rush Over two and all these
movies that I did. That demo I'm very blessed. They
love me, you know, and it's beautiful. Anyways, So I
am going is this the right thing? I'm bringing this
(24:02):
white boy, this thing that everybody's gonna be so disappointed
that I'm walking in with this white boy. And I said,
you know what, he's awesome and he can talk to anybody.
So we walk in. At the beginning, they're looking at
me like, what the heck happened here? Because they wanted
me to be by myself or at least bring somebody else. Anyways,
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I'm not kidding. You want to tell you that by
the end of the night, I'm sitting down and Eric
has befriended every single man and they're all, I, hey
do a warrior mur that they love him. He's playing pool,
he's drinking with all these Jews. He is listening to
rap music. I thought it was hysterical. Yeah, so you
can make yourself comfortable with anybody. That's a beautiful thing.
I can't. You can't just get off anyway. You should
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not sing or play an instrument. Another thing I regret
my life. I played piano. I wish I could play anything.
I sing a little bit. No, you have definitely more
gifted in the musical and vocal talent standpoint than I am.
I'm destroyed. And that's the other thing. Everybody out there,
there's a great time to find another hobby that you
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can do during quarantine. Pick up something, pick up something FaceTime.
I've seen girls on Instagram picking up a guitar and
their like self self talk like teaching themselves how to
play guitar online and they're showcasing there. We weren't so
busy in the household, I would definitely picking. I have
time to work out with Maria Mafia fit and on
(25:33):
what else I'm writing. I'm doing writing, you know, I'm
writing my next I want to direct another movie, and
I'm writing and and that's having me super excited. I
actually believe this is the time for everybody to be
the most inspired and creative because we have nothing more
than time on our hands to think about how we
can do things better. And you never know, you might start.
You might start the next hot trend or business out there.
(25:55):
They're saying that moments like this is when a lot
of entrepreneurs step up and they create magic. You know,
a lot of big, big companies were created our moments
like this so be creative. People, don't let's take this
as a blessing. I know it's it's it's horrific, you know,
it's it's the it's a time when we can't control anything.
It's almost like a girl when a girl is pregnant.
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You know, pregnancy is the only time in life that
women have zero control. That's how we feel. You know,
the virus is controlling everything. The government therefore has to
react to based on the virus, and we are just waiting.
Is the waiting game. But let's see it as something
valuable and a blessing and and and just create, create,
get do Here's here's another one that you should know
(26:38):
how to do. And I think this is fantastic. You
should know how to say I'm sorry and I was wrong. Okay, great,
next you're talking, you do it or not. You said
you're ready. Everybody say I'm sorry, I'm good. I was
not good at it, but I'm getting better and I'm sorry.
We have talked about this. I am more and more
(26:59):
conscious of what's saying. I'm sorry, and I'm saying I
was wrong. I don't know because you believe you, but
this is my truth in the moment, meaning that you're
always right because if it's your truth, you're always right
to respect my truth. Yeah, but I don't know how
you feel like that. Well, yes, because it's my truth.
And then now you love to use that against you're
(27:22):
using out a context. But it doesn't work when you
say that. It works when I say, all right, last
one that I think this was actually pretty great. You
should know how to navigate with a map and a compass.
Can you do that? I'm screwed. Did you ever have
like a Thomas Guide in Puerto Rico where it was
I didn't in my car and sound my car, but
I couldn't. I couldn't read that to save my life.
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You know, my brother Georgie's it was a genius like
reading those things. Not me. I'm not very smart at
things like that. I'm actually no very smart. Just see
the heart of being able to read a map. First
of all, that's something you should be working on right
now in quarantine. That's great. What if everything shout that
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you We we all realized so much on navigation, even
when we go to Puerto Rico. Even in Puerto Rico,
every drives better than me. The joke with you can
go right or left, you got a fifty shot of
making the right decision. She always goes horrible directions. I
don't know I'm gonna retain like left of the time.
(28:25):
It's always a right. Anyways, guys, we are going to
call Maria. Stay tuned. What's people, Maria? Maria? Oh, we've
(28:48):
been singing your prices, lady, what's happening? You know I
was just running. I was running outside, running for my
life here like I was again. You're running from running
from from your kids. Oh my god, running that way
from my kids and my husband. Man, at least for
twenty minutes, right, I should do that. You know I
(29:10):
requested a treadmill. I think I'm going to start running
away from I'm going to run away from Eric. You
know I was saying run away, yeah right away sometimes,
I know. I was telling our listeners. Mariana. Number one,
you know that I'm your biggest fan. Number two, you
know that I love you. I love you. Three. You
have changed my life. You help me get back in
(29:31):
shape and back in love with my body after my
second baby. You know how hard that was, and you
got me when I was like, I think three months
after delivery. I think right, yes, yes, really early, so
I was really hard to yourself. Every woman is so
hard to themselves, you know. I know what I like
(29:53):
the most about you, be said you're like a rock star,
amazing kick as trainer and a great friend. Is that
you power women, that you're like a girl's girl, that
you love too for every woman and every man to
be the best version of themselves. So now that these
times are crazy with the quarantine and we don't even
know what's happening with the world, how do you keep
(30:14):
it moving? Because I know you're busy with three or
three boys and the crazy part of it. Yeah, I
have a two all week called five and a seven
year old. I think you know you you like to me,
exercising and working out is just my release, like my
my relief of all the stress of society. And I
feel um. Every woman, every mom, every like even not
(30:38):
not only moms, single woman should do that to themselves
right now. There's no excuses. Now you're at home, there's
not an excuse that all the kids are running around,
you know, don't feel guilty. Put them to watch thirty
minutes of TV of a cartoon, and you know, get
yourself to working out. That feeling and you can. You
can say that you come to work out with me
(30:58):
and you feel tired, or your neck hurts or these
or that, and we have drama in our lives or
whatever that is, and then you finished working out and
you feel amazing, You feel like a million box. Well,
there's no question that I think working out just sends
a ton of positive energy into your mind, out and
out into the world. You feel better, You want to
be more charged with your day, even if your day
(31:20):
means staying at home, you just at you attack the
day with more positive attitude. And one thing that's great,
it's and not just women but men too. Um you know,
staying as active as possible. And you cater to both
your your your workouts. I've been doing your workouts at
home with roz Um. I didn't do sols at the
(31:40):
day I was going to. I said this one you
might not be able to follow us. Well, wow, why
are you gonna You're gonna shot my dancing man, I
could could could have. But one thing that we'll even
try and do is take turns if you you know,
if you don't have some really can watch to watch
(32:00):
the kids or you you know whatever you kid. Actually
you feel bad putting them in front of a computer,
iPad or whatever. You just say, hey, all right, might
turn to work out. Let me work out for an
hour and then you watch the kids. Didn't switch, and
then your partner works out and watches the kids, and um,
you know what, what you've been doing on Instagram live
every morning, it's fantastic. It's a great at home workout
that really kicks your butt. And I think it's what
everybody needs to be doing. I'm doing it and I know.
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And we go back to the whole empowering yourself. Even
man or woman like you work out, you still empower
you feel that you're able to keep going through the day.
You know, like even like me, like I yesterday I
was texting roads like I'm having a society like this
and that, and I just worked out and I felt
completely different. I felt like I could do this. I
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felt Okay, I can be the best mom. I'm not
gonna lose it because we have to lose it, you
know what I mean. Like life is high with three kids,
Oh my god, and three months ago you had a baby.
That's insane. You know what. What I love, Maria, that
what I'm doing them the Instagram Live workout with you
at eleven am every morning. Um, at the beginning, you
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see comments and then you shot them off so it's
not distracting. And then at the very end you turn
them back on and you see all these girls and
they're so happy and they all love the workout and
they feel so ready for the day. And there's girls
from a lot of different countries. You know, they're all
following you, and it's like you give and you like
they smile, you know when they're doing their workouts. They're
(33:27):
doing something for their bodies. They're enjoying it, and your
energy is crazy. And she loves to say they were cool.
Um nature so cool, like Eric, you love so cool?
Who does? And That's what I love about working out.
Working out also leads you getting laid more often because
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a boost your sex drive, a boost a lot of
you talking about actually, you know what I'm gonna sex drive,
what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna release some text exchanges
between Maria and Eric about my sexual life and how
Maria tells me just open your legs and give him
(34:10):
some cool. Yeah, like you know, like a squat on
top of it, and like why now you know what
I mean like squatted out. You know, it's really funny
because when I teach my classes, girls don't know how
to squat that much. Like that's one of my biggest
like septics that I love, Like I love to teach
out to squat, and I always the way I teach,
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it's like, hey, you just sit on that. I mean
you sit on that. You know what I mean. I
say that man breaches, go and sit on that, you
know what I mean? Like basic down Like those squads
are perfect. So yeah, Like you know, it happens to
me when I'm working out downstairs and I'm like, I
(34:52):
put my music and you know what, when I worked out,
I feel sexy and I'm looking at myself in the mirror.
I'm like, yeah, harty, mommy to sell it. My husband
can't bad. Like my husband is like, well tonight, I'm like, okay,
we'll negotiate some time here and there. You know, you
mightn't make it happen. Make it happen. Let me open
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those legs, legs, preach, preach us anymore, no excuses. All
you do is look at each other all day long.
It should make you excited, even even with you you know,
you're in insane shape and you're very conscious and aware
of eating healthy. Do you find it hard as well
(35:36):
during this quarantine time to just like we can't keep
ourselves out of the pantry or out of the fridge,
and we constantly want to eat all day. Why it's
eating in her big and diet. I mean I keep
sending her like recipes to her, like to what I'm doing,
because we're kind of like becoming eight percent big and
(35:56):
here almost almost bigger. But you know, yeah, it's one
of the things that people need to be careful with,
like just don't buy John food, you know, buy song,
but then considerate. I feel this sun it's also too.
I feel the earth is just kind of who we're
setting itself, and we have to reset ourselves as well,
clean like eat clean, works out, drink silk water and
(36:19):
doing like if you're putine, you know, and then if
you want to have that chocolate, well you can have it,
you know. But it's it's anxiety just converted. Like in
my case, to be honest, Eric, like with just all
this society, I just don't eat, which is perfectly just
because I just had a baby's I lose weight. But
that's convenient. I just don't eat. I can't do that.
I just want to eat, and you don't want to have.
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Everybody got so scared. Everybody was like, we're gonna be
locked down for months to calm, Like we thought, we're
not going to be able to even buy some food.
So everybody wants to the supermarket like maniacs. And and
for the most part, why you bought because it has
a lot of preservatives and it stays longer. Um, so
what happened. We bought because laugh past its ships a
(37:05):
lot of jump. Also because the kids, what happens if
there's there's nothing to eat. We need to give them something.
So we bought so much junk. And I can't control
myself and it's driving me mad. And I'm working out
because you know what, I'm doing it every day. But
now you work out, so there's a balance there to
like what what you don't want to do is feat
like crazy and sit down and watching it. You know.
I'm still I'm still practive, but I have I feel
(37:28):
like I have gain gain some weight and it's going
through my cool, and it's going through my papa, my papa.
I don't want cool, my papa means double chain like
like my senses. It runs in my family. Now we
all have that. I can be super skinny and I
still have a Papa potatoes the potatoes. She think she's
(37:52):
should have double gen since I met her, I always
have a double can be. But and she's like this kid,
a hearted woman on earth, like I always tell I'm like,
I want to be like you want to go up
like where boots are. It's all about having control, man,
(38:15):
like we cannot like, let's take this time to also
like concentrating ourselves rather than losing it, you know, because
I mean we're really lost with all this problem. So
you know, yeah, if your chocolate, if your pappita, it
can actually spit. I can popcorn and all this stuff.
But find those thirty minutes an hour of working out
(38:36):
and maintaining yourself active, grown up and down the stairs. Man,
I don't know you know what I mean, Like, but
get it gone. Do not just sit down on a
sofa and like do nothing, you know nothing, don't follow
you show. They can follow me on Instagram, Columbia and
Mafia Pit. I'm doing worked out at eleven a m.
Tuesdays and Thursdays Live We're also doing these amazing South
(38:58):
Samarange work out. I'm gonna I'm gonna include it once
a week and on Saturdays, and I'm putting all the
workouts on my YouTube tube YouTube flash for me and
Mafia Fit. Yea, I love it, love it. So there
you have it. I'm giving my secret. I think you
guys for calling me. Okay, mommy, love you kidding and
(39:18):
sit down on Eric Mommy ut out by hit him
so cool old bye Well Colombian Mafia Fit. I love
this girl's Yeah, Colombia Mafia recommend Colombia Mafia Fit on Instagram. Listen,
(39:41):
You'll love your ass off, You'll work out, your body
is gonna be fantastic in three months. She is like
a magician and just a great human beings. So I'll
sit on your partner later at night. So the next
topic what she's said, So, oh yeah, this was a
really interesting, really interesting show. A lot of variety we
(40:05):
we we covered here. So we want to encourage everybody
to continue staying strong and healthy and this um war
that we're going through, hopefully is going to end before
the summer. You know, try and find a way, try
and find a way to stay positive, find the laughs
when you can find them. You know, enjoy this time
(40:26):
with your loved ones, because it's really something we're never
going to get back. And it's unusual that you get
this much time that you can spend with your with
your family, and so so for all the families that
have lost loved ones, you know, because people keep dying
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