January 14, 2020 • 46 mins
Roselyn thinks Eric is boring... Eric thinks Roselyn is boring!
What?!?!?
Eric and Roselyn discuss the Personality Test they both took and it's results.
Then, it's time again for the Cauldron of Chisme.
All the hottest topics are discussed including... Prince Harry's move to North America, The Bachelor, Man Caves vs Girls Night Out and The Oscar Nominations.
Finally, Eric and Roselyn give advice on having kids that is a must listen.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is, he said, with Eric Winter and Rosalind Fantez
waiting for me to say something first. This time, I
always want to say that, you know, I always played back.
I've never heard I thought. Everybody's making a face to
the room like no, no, okay. Well today is also
(00:25):
part of the problem. You think you do things all
the time and you you just make them up on
the spot. Eric Winter, Eric Barrett Winter Macomber. How are
your New Year's for solutions holding up so far? My
my breathing technique is doing okay, Like I haven't seen
you once. We're going to know the breathing. It's not
like I look at you and go that's called my
(00:48):
First you your breathing, It goes to your stomach, Then
second part is the chest. Then you exhale the chest
first and then down to if you're the one that
fired me up, and it's not, I just turned away
and do next is near the room, so it's not
you are working on that. That's going better. I think. Uh.
Patients has been pretty good, with the exception of you know,
(01:10):
our daughter's a pistol and our son has been sick
this weekend, so that Patients was very challenging guy. Um,
but yeah, hanging in about yours? Um, well, I said
that I was going to try to control some the sweets.
That went really well. We got to cup as soon
as we walked in the door. So it's not working
through chocolate. I think I'm going through like a functional depression.
(01:35):
And I and I eat a lot, a lot of junk,
A lot of junk. You don't eat a lot. You
eat a lot of a lot of junk. Is terrible.
But I still look fab, So it's okay. But your
resolution is not fab. You're right, so I have to
work on that. What else? Um, everything else? Everything else
is pretty good. I think. Yeah, we're managing our Archie situation.
(01:56):
Oh my god, talk to me about Archie where he
lives in the house. We wanna talk to you about
Archie every day. Guys like got my Puerto Rican rescue.
That's not true. We are dog sitting this dog for
your mom. I don't know why you keep trying to
emphasize that you got your rescue. We'll talk. No decision
(02:17):
has ever been made, we have to decision has ever
been made on Archie is a sweet, sweet dog. He's awesome. Um,
but it's like someone dropped the dog at your doorstep
and just like here that don't say that. My mom
didn't drop yet, No, she didn't. What you do? Then
she said, can you keep him that's dropping until when
(02:39):
you go back to Puerto Rico bring him back. But
we've been discussing and I talked to you about it.
We went, we went to therapy. Body didn't talk to
me about anything. And Archie belongs to the senses another
way belong to She's doing incredible. Archie is being trained
(03:04):
and he is part of the family. And even Maracca.
You know, Marac is being very sick. Marak is walking again.
She's doing much better. But I think the Pregnis zone,
because she's taking steroids every single day. I think the
Preni zone is making her a little cook when a
little crazy. But though she won, everybody got that joke.
But you why I didn't. Prez is a steroid. That's
(03:27):
what she's taking. That's why I said she can bench
press a ton of weight like she's strong. Okay, well,
I don't think bodybuilders take sterotive. I didn't know that.
I'm not about a bodybuilders. I don't know that was
just a straight even like a flashed to make that
joke in Spanish that was anyways, Um, she's losing market
(03:52):
is doing better, and I have to say that Archie
is part of the reason why marac is doing better.
I think she's so confused about what is this doctor
in here? That I'm going to be alive and I'm
gonna make it so I can claim my place again.
And they're actually getting along grade and it's beautiful, still temporary,
that we have no resolution, there's no part of our process.
(04:15):
And really this is the this is copy your compromise.
Resolution is going great. By the way, this is really
great compromising. Oh my god, that was my resolution to you, compromise.
This is what I have to say, Eric, thank you
so much. I'm gonna be on pregnans on but the
end of this thing, and you're gonna be bench pressing
what it whatever you said, Um, listen to me. I
(04:38):
have to say thank you, my love, because you've been great.
You're actually um getting to love Archie little bit little
and he's getting close to you, and you've been very
tolerant and I appreciate it. No problem. I love animals,
I love dogs. I have no problem taking care of
Archie and then your mom will be so happy with
what we've how we've trained him. Next topic, I'm done, guys,
(05:02):
to be continued, to be continued. Um. So one fun
thing we did, and this was actually a request by
a listener, Caitlin Clark. She asked if we could take
the Myers Briggs personality test on sixteen personalities dot com.
And uh, that was very entertaining. I will say we
(05:24):
I mean just to say, we're going to show how
different we are. Just to say, out the gate, the
first thing that it says about you is your mind,
if you're extroverted or introverted. I was sixty percent extrovert
and Rosalind was like, what were you do? Having from
of you? She was like a s introvert. So right
(05:44):
out the gate, we are completely opposite when it comes
to that, which is weird because she says I'm the
one introverted actually, but I am more I'm not as
ms Mrs Congeniality test. Cording to your test, you're well
an introvert and you were happy to brag about all
the positives in the test the other night. So because okay, guys,
it's called my personality type is advocate. That's how you're
(06:08):
saying advocate, Yes, and your personality type is completely wrong,
is way more boring. No, mine is actually very about
the mind and passion and check yoursel before your dreams
and accomplishing them. Healthy people and beautiful steal. Anyways, so
(06:29):
question number one, let's just do a little what is wrapping? Um? Okay,
so look that was weird, but okay, let's continue. People go,
oh my god, do you let me speak borrow advocate? Okay, okay,
so question number one, you enjoy vibrant social events with
lots of people. What was your answering? Of course, because
(06:53):
this is the thing. Okay, you just said I'm boring,
so just go on because that clearly I'm not going
to explain. That doesn't mean that you're oh god, he's
great because he loves to just talk to everybody. This
is what we do. You know, we have to go
through a lot of functions, um within the business that
we're just in general. I don't mind going whatever. So
we go to let's say there's like a Golden Globes
(07:14):
pre party or viewing anywhere anyway. Anyway, So this is me.
I get all dressed off on the heels and whatever.
I do the carpet and then I just want to
sit and just enjoy and people can just come and
talk to me. Eric has to do the rounds around
to make sure everybody says, here, I'm sorry, diva, Diva,
did you just say I like to sit down and
(07:35):
have people come to talk to me? Hi, maintenance Diva.
I simply walk around me and go have fun. He's like,
I'm here, you go through here, let's go, let's go.
We have to say hi. We have to say hi. No, no,
we don't you go through hours of getting ready to
then go to a place and sit your butt in
a corner anyone and not see anyone everybody, and then
(07:58):
complain the moment we sick. We go now, we go now.
And I'm the introvert. I'm the square. You are square
because you actually want to walk around to be seen.
I don't know anyways, agreeing with you girls that the
girls agree with me anyways, It's it's fine. Travel plans
are more likely to look like a rough list of
(08:20):
ideas than a detailed itinerary. Were opposite on this one
because I am full detailed itinerary, which is also exactly
what my personality tests said. Yeah, like I'm going to
give an ex lost store. We went to We went
to Prague once, right, We went to have a wedding
in France, and then we went to Prague. And he
(08:40):
had this idea that every single day was go, go, go,
go go. Eric cannot sit still inside a hotel room
to save his life. He needs to be out on
about every single day. Everything is planned. We're gonna see this,
we're gonna see that, we're gonna there's a dude. We're
on vacation, you know, because I'm in Prague. Can we
just chill? It was raining, like like a freaking storm.
(09:03):
He had me put sneakers, sneakers, high heels. Oh my gosh,
he had me in sneakers very well. Anyways, so this
is me and Eric with a backpack right umbrellas walking
all of Prague his poem reigning, because he needed to
(09:24):
go see the castle, a castle that doesn't exist in
Los Angeles, a castle you would have been in Prague
for a week and be like, Oh, the hotel room
is really cool. I read, I watch a bunch of netflixgue.
I don't know. Anyways, Number three wants everything way too much.
We'll argue about this like if I'm working out of
(09:45):
town and she's working out of town. I again, like
she said, I can't stay in my room by myself.
So I find by myself somewhere on location. I will
explore the entire city. I will eat at all the
restaurants by myself. I am busy, busy, busy. I don't
sit still cut to She's like, I'm so bored and
in my room and like, go out dinner by myself.
(10:06):
I feel like weirder than I by myself. We'll go
walk around and go do something. Yeah, but what am
I gonna do? I'm just gonna sit here and talking nothing.
Kind of give me a scet make sense. That was
not good with impersonation. But you do nothing when you're
out of town and then get and then get mad
at I think a lot, I plan, don't think You're
(10:28):
on Instagram a lot, and then you get mad at
me thinking, think you I'm going to write, think you
what I'm going to post next whatever. Number three, You
often think about what you should have said in a
conversation long after he has taken place. That is Eric.
I'm not going to deny that one. That's me. Eric
was working on that. It was affecting for forty hours.
If he went to a meeting and he said something
(10:49):
that he didn't think you should have said, you talk
about it, and you recreate the situation until your in
the face. You also don't help with this problem because
like we'll be we'll be somewhere and somebody like, let's
say they did something that was kind of really rude
to the two of us or something, and I kind
of tried to be patient about it and let it go,
and Ross like, really, you're just gonna let that happen.
You're not gonna like say something. So then I get
(11:10):
all worked up by her and I go make a
comment or a statement on the whole situation, and then
she goes, wow, you really took that too far. You
shouldn't have done that. So then I'm fully in my
head for the entire day. Was I rude to this person?
Should I have not said that? You told me I
should have, So you kind of feed this problem. But
it is true that I have that issue, you know,
and you're good at forgetting things, so that does that's
(11:32):
something where we do help each other. I do that
you help me forget, and I help you because I
remember things because I don't have a good memory. I'm
going to say something very interesting about advocate. People treat
people as if they were what they ought to be,
and you help them to become what they are capable
of being. You know that. I love to help, and
(11:53):
I actually always feel like if I can be if
I can serve as inspiration to anybody, it will be
like a mean, if I can affect one girl that
comes to this country with a dream and a clear
vision of what I want, what they want to do
in life, if I can be part of that journey
and help in any way, I actually love that. So yeah,
that's very advocate advocating of me. It's very true. That's
(12:15):
very true. A lot of this stuff was very accurate.
I mean, like my strengths as a console, strong practical
skills very true. Unlike this one who's a dreamer and
what dreams crazy stuff. Can we go back to Hatchtock
dream paper because that comment strong sense of duty um
(12:36):
responsibility to strive and meet their obligations. I'm a very
loyal person. I'm sensitive and warm, good at connecting with others.
These are all my strength, Mr Congeniality. My weakness is
worried about their social status. That's not totally true. It's
not totally true. I don't really care about my social status.
That's not true. That's not true, Eric, Are you're joking.
I don't believe that. Eric, Please, I don't think they're
(13:00):
no way. I'm that okay, inflexible, that's kind of true.
I do. This is one thing that's very accurate about me.
I have a little bit of a tough time doing
things that aren't socially acceptable in a way, Like I
don't like to rock the boat or make a big
scene or do something I get really anxious about that.
You're very by the book. Everything is like super by
the book. Yeah, I'm a bit straightforward that. Like I said, Eric,
(13:27):
this also says I'm too needy, which I'm not sure
I agree with. Oh my god, super needy. But I'm
also too selfless. That's I do a lot of things
for other people, and I don't take care of myself.
Let me answer something. If your friend is sad about something,
your first instinct is to support them emotionally or to
not not try to solve their problem. So what do
(13:48):
you do you support them emotionally and not try to
solve the problem. I don't try to solve the problem.
I'm kind of a fifty fifty on something like this,
Like I like to be a good listener first if
I can, and support what they're talking about. But my
analytical brain does go into overdriving because I was also
like psych major. I love to try and sort of
figure out some of they's problems and get to the
root of it. So I don't shy away from that.
(14:09):
I think I kind of do both. What do you
think you do? I think I try to solve the problem.
I listen and I'll be all about I'll be very
empathetic and all that. But I think my instinct is
to be like, well this is what I would do, dude,
and just try to solve it. I don't know this.
Ask some friends about relationships. You think you're trying to
solve the problems. Uh, I don't know about that one.
(14:35):
What do you think? Or you the introvert this goes
into a shell. Yeah, I'm like, don't talk to me.
I want to go and read or do something. Um, Eric,
I have a problem. Did you read about d I
go to tortoise the tortoise, How do you say that
tortoise tortoise, it's written tortoise. Well, I mean tomato tomorrow. Okay,
(14:57):
so how do you say tortoise tortoise? What Honey was
a tortoise? I know what? I always called her turtle.
She's got a turtle. There's a big difference. Did you
read about Do you even know the difference verse of
turto tortoise. We talked about this last week. The turtle
has um, the turtle is water. Tortoises are strictly land
exactly did you read about Diego the total he's a playboy.
(15:21):
All you know about single handily saved the species? How
do you know it? Because I watched the news? Oh wow, okay,
quite the social media you follow now this? Now this, No,
I don't but you I mean you realize he's at
the This is one thing. Like you know, there's a
lot of controversy with Zoo's back and forth, there's no question,
(15:43):
but like the San Diego Zoo, I learned quite a
few things about their missions of saving endangered spe and
this is a situation where they, single handedly, with this tortoise,
have managed to repopulate the entire species and basically of
the population of that kind of tortoise? Is there his hair,
(16:04):
his kids? Yeah, so this is my problem. There also
be a ton of inbreeding after that one honeybacke, How
did that turn into this tortoise is first of all
the years old. I get it. Yeah, I think it's
beautiful to have an animal that is going to continue
to live in past past you because with dogs, you know,
they you outlive them. With turtles, do you feel bad
(16:25):
letting honey move on and repopulate the world now, which
he could be like the next playboy out there like
our other tortoise buddy, He could be out there, you know,
causing a ruckus and you're worried about us letting him
go now versus us dying and then he's by himself
just in a cage and let him be free. I
just feel like we let him down and we let
(16:45):
him go and we let him live. Okay, do you
think he's gonna be he's been doing a lot of
First of all, what is that? No? Do you think
he's going to be doing a lot of party, A
lot of sexy sexy stuff, sexy dances? No, like put
it in. If he's a male, I think he's gonna
been doing that that was aggressive if he okay, of
(17:09):
course maybe do I think he's gonna be doing all that?
And he's a male thoughts all he cares about spread money.
I miss you, break. I'm sad we are back with
(17:29):
something that our producers helped us fall in love with.
It is time for called cheese. It's hilarious. Oh my god, Okay,
let's start. Let's start going ahead, cheap man Oi, Prince,
(17:50):
Harry and Megan moving to America. That's three ky guys
heard they're moving to the studio city. You do it?
That's what hurt? Oh my god. So we're gonna get
We're gonna meet you know my mom named aren't you
because of you? Are? Well? It's quite the thing, huh,
(18:11):
I mean, it's you agree. Do you think it's a
smart move? Do you do you think it was necessary?
Do you think she influenced this whole decision. I'm sure
she had a huge impact on the decision making with
all that, but I wow, this is one of those
ones where you just know that the the info, the
stuff deep down in in this reality is something we
(18:34):
will never know about. Like there's gonna be so much speculation.
This is so locked in the vault, like we will
never know until he but for someone to make this
type of no one's gonna write it. But I think
to make this kind of a leap and jump out
of royal history. I mean something that's since the beginning
of the country. And you imagine how much how much
(18:55):
they can't stand that girl on the royal family, how
much the Brits in general probably have an issue with
her because it feels like it's disrupting, because she's gonna
be to blame. Maybe it's going to be like this
girl just basically took over and aid his mind and
he completely changed. But the reality is, we don't know
if he was his decision. Maybe he said, you know what,
I've been struggling with this Royal family lifestyle that I've
(19:16):
he's always supposed to be a bad boy, like he's
supposed to be the one that's a literal way I'm
talking about. Yeah, the more controversial in his whole life.
I mean, we should do that. If you're married into
royalty and your wife is a queen, would you be like,
you know what, let's just get out of here. I
(19:37):
feel like you knew what you were signing up. It's
a big. You'll be like, there's no way I'm giving this.
I'm married into it. Why would I throw it out
so soon? At least give it five years to put
some in the pocket from Wow, that's the very console
of you. I just to understand, it's so give must do.
(20:00):
It must have been really bad to make it happen
like that. Yeah, she was not happy. She was not happy. Sorry,
I moved away. Okay, next one girls night out to
where you like girls? I mean you love? What the heck?
What are you talking about girls? He's talking about disrespectful
(20:24):
rant in Spanish. All I knew was stupid, though, um,
girls right out do? I think you should do it?
Because what uses your American idol auditions? It's American idol moment. No,
I think you need more of them because you're the
one that stays in the hotel room and just like
the girls. Yeah, I go out with my girls sometimes.
(20:46):
That was one of my resolutions. I wanted to spend
more time with my girlfriend. Hasn't happened yet, but I
think it's important for you. I think you need more
of it. It also will make it easier if I
have a guy, because every time I plan something with
the guy. She's like, really, really you need that? No,
I don't you just stay home? What? Never? I actually
love it because I know that I can just go
(21:07):
to bed and read and be be quiet and not
have to be like, hey, do you want to do
the the quickie? So? What the hell do you out
of your mind? So we're going to, uh, guys night
Miami fishing trip? Who why do you make the face? No,
I'm just asking about this fishing trip. It's okay, right,
we're gonna go fishing, Go and fish all you want,
(21:30):
fish and fish and fish and fishes. Meanwhile, okay, so
keeping up keeping your New Year's resolutions. We already talked
about that one I keep moving away of Okay, if
they Oscar nominations, there's a big deal about this Oscar
nominations because no females, barely no women. Uh, no diversity,
(21:51):
It's all white male club. What do you think about that?
I think it's definitely a shame. I think diversity. I
think it's it starts with more diversity and the voters,
you know, like it needs to be. I think the
academy is trying to bring more people in that are
this background. That's why I've heard, but they need to
try harder. It's a lot of probably older, right people,
(22:15):
and they said, you know, Jayla didn't get nominated, and
she did for a Golden Globe and I'm sure Latino's,
but I don't know how much. And look, I've never
been nominated for either of these things, so it's not
like speak up much. But everybody always jokes this is
the Golden Globes. You're kind of like you can you
can buy your way into a nomination. Um, I don't
know what are you trying to saying. No, I'm just
saying in general, people say so, I don't know if
(22:35):
it totally correlates to the Oscars. We need more representation, guys.
You know it's it's it's actually disgusting and it's a
very sensitive topic for me. So Eric doesn't want me
to usually talk about it because he doesn't want me
to ruck the bood because we agree with you, we
need to we need more diversity. I feel, well, you
know that we want to talk about diversity in Hollywood
(22:57):
and the boast that this um business and tales. You're
usually telling me roll stop st you start phrasing it
like that. It's a business. We work because it's calm down. Anyways,
they formed an l A collab l A collaboration more
Latinos in Hollywood. This isn't the movement an organization that
they're gonna be taking care of business. And Rodriguez a Longoria,
Patricia Reagan, a lot of influencial Latinos and jams almost
(23:20):
are part of the part of it. Because it's time.
Time's up, tim ends up, and we need to create
opportunities or a kind. I agree, Okay, let's do it.
So how I'll should Bachelor Pete get back together with
Hannah b Dude, you're the bachelor now, hasn't had to
(23:43):
be in that ship sailed, move on. She's out doing
like ten different reality shows right now. Pete, he's the
freaking bachelor. Hannah stars the place. I feel like she's
doing her little social you know, so I think, yeah,
(24:04):
she has to go find another way to be, you know,
doing her thing in the reality space, and he's now
going to try and find real love. Going back. Maybe
people want them to go. Then people need to let
that go. No going back, Pete, play the field, play
the field, Yeah, she should do Okay, TikTok. I don't know.
(24:28):
What that is. You know, I don't know whole lot
about TikTok. I know people are sending all these videos
and on TikTok and doing things. I know, the military band, TikTok.
I think we do we touch on that last week. No,
the military band anybody and he can't use it? Yeah?
Friends of a union? Yes or no? Should they reboot? Friends?
Were your friends? Huge friends? Family? I never really so
friends amigos amigos. Yeah, no episodes here and there, But
(24:55):
I wasn't. I wasn't a big they didn't run in
Puerto Rico. I'm sure to did cable TV. You know,
I got a finding with me. I got into Friends
on the reruns years ago when I was in college.
That's when I got into it. But do you care
about a reboot? No? I think I think that should
be the cast. No, you can't do with the new cast.
It's not it's not. Yeah, it's like Will and Grace
(25:17):
they did that when they do. But I think, uh,
and you could do a Friends movie. I'd probably watch it,
but I don't know that I would care enough. I'd
rather see a Seinfeld reboot. Love Seinfeld. That's a great show, Okay,
Shakira and Jennifer Lopez super Bowl halftime show. It's gonna
be that's gonna be hot. It's gonna be hot. Those
(25:40):
two girls are sexy, they can dance, they could sing,
They're gonna throw down on one of the biggest stages.
It's actually surprised that I'm surprised that doesn't happen. Good
for Latinos. It's amazing for Latinos inclosure. You know, the hot,
the the what is that? What sport isn't a football?
Oh my gosh. Half there in the world where there
(26:02):
are no people. Joe ATOI being I Pamlita, I think
it's a wonderful thing. I would never think that Jailo
would do a halftime show, which is such a massive
opportunity and event, and share her time with another massive
Latino megastar that is a female, and both of them
are deserving of their own show. So it's so the
(26:22):
fact that they both said, you know, let's just do
this together, when I would think that the inclination would be,
I don't need anybody anybody else to do this. I
can do a solo or get a male to be
next to me, not a female, so or their man
and they're both sick performers. We said Jo and concert
here in l A. They're going to be incredible. Concert's
going to be incredible. I just hope that they actually
(26:43):
at some point are together so it's not like her
show and her show. I hope that at some point
we have them both on stage doing some kind of
collaboration that is going to be mind blowing. That's what
I'm hoping. A lot of booty shaking. There's gonna be
a lot of booty shaking. Who do you think it's
going to do the best shake the best? Yeah? Ah,
maybe the booty shake is gonna end up going to
(27:04):
j Lo. But then that stomach rule is going to
go to Shakira, and the hip shake is gonna go
to Shakira's gonna go to Shakira. Yeah, it's gonna be cool, man,
It's gonna be cool. One thing we should talk about,
Jennie for love is um right, sure tell people my
history anyway. Man caves, Man caves, we love it. We
(27:25):
need one now immediately. Why so I can have my
own cave, my own space to go to and breathe.
Are you are your house? Yeah? I mean my house.
If we had the space at your house. How much
money I got put in that house? Anyways, So you
(27:49):
want my cave, I think we can find one. I
like to build like a bat cave because we live
up next next to a hillside. I could build it
into the hill and have like the dirt go down,
I can go. I'm I allowed to visit Hell now
and I'm gonna have my lady cave. Please do You're
gonna have a new idea? What's going to happen in
the books? Instagram sleeping? Should Tom Brady the love of
(28:12):
your life retire? Because guys, I don't know if you
know that Brett hit Tom Brady's greatest of all time?
You know, I think despite deflate Gate, greatest of all
time still. I think Tom's has a thing against Tom
Brady because schools told Tody Fins that he's a cheater.
(28:37):
We have fights about it. I'm going don't don't talk
bad about Tom Brady. That's Daddy's man. Um. Look, I
think he's got another year in him to prove. This
year was a really edgy year for tom Um. But
there are a lot of factors that played into that.
But I think he could go out with one more
year try and get that stuff back up. Um, and
I I would like to see him still be a Patriot.
(28:58):
I think it's gonna be sue for weird that is
there a chance? Is there a chance that he's not
going to come back? Yeah, A lot of the greats
of all you know, Look, Peyton Manning went off to Denver.
He's always Montana left the Niners, went to the Kansas
City chief has always been his whole career. But a
lot of these guys, Joe Montanna has always, always was
a forty Niners, greatest quarterback of all time. Money. No,
(29:19):
the Niners had to move on from him because he
was getting old in his career and he still felt
like he could play, and he went to the Kansas
City Chiefs and he won on all. I didn't want
another ring. We did a good run. But Peyton Manning
went to Denver Broncos when Indy let him go, and
he want to ring. I think it'd be really weird.
You know. The other thing that would be sad is
if he if he goes but Belichick stays, then this
(29:41):
whole thing about who's really the reason the Patriots have
won all these rings would finally have some kind of
weight to it because they beat without each other. They've
never been without each other. Okay, I don't really care
about this topic. You asked me the question. I'm like,
liking this topic, can we move on? Said a great topic? Okay,
(30:05):
financially independent? I don't have to settle for this stuff.
Are you financially independent? Eric? Yes, I have very mentioned
what what what's the question? Though? That's just a state.
It's just like this independent. I'm all about it. It's
something that I'm teaching my daughter. Yes, as a female
be financially independent. I do agree with with that. I
(30:29):
think I don't think anybody should have to rely on
somebody else. However, I do think in marriages, if somebody
and I've always said this, whether it's the male that's
a stay at home dad or the mom that's a
stay at home mom, I do believe that is one
of the most difficult jobs out there in the world,
is being a stay at home parent. And my hat
goes off to all stay at home parents because to me,
(30:52):
that's the rock of the family, that's what makes it
keeps everything going. And you're not, you know, out there
earning the money per se, but the reason everything works.
The way it works is because of that parents staying
home and raising sometimes three four kids. I mean, I
can't imagine and maybe not even having a nanny for help.
If you're the one being the soul caregiver. I mean,
(31:14):
that's that's a job, so you could be financially independent.
I think it's an amazing and empowerful thing to teach
any boy or girl to not have to depend on
somebody else as they get older. However, when you get
into that position and you're the stay at home person,
all power to you as long as you're holding it down. Okay. Um.
(31:36):
Last one, Tina Fe and Amy Poehl are hosting Golden Gloves.
I like them a lot, but I love Ricky Dreves.
Love Ricky drell What are you talking about? He just
do the Golden gloves that you just said, Golden globes.
What you asked me the question, what show are you doing?
That's like you didn't just do it once today, it's
(31:58):
like the tenth time. Does that? The Oscars? Yeah? Sorry? Sorry, sorry,
I'm glad you're paying attention to the same thing I'm
paying attention to. H Yeah, I agree. You can't even agree,
you don't you know what you read, but I don't know.
I don't I know. Yes, Ricky Gervas period, and I
get a little fuzzy. Okay, you get a lot of
things funny. But al right, we are back and we
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are going to read some emails that our listeners have
sent in and just for you know, again to say
it on air. Anybody. If anybody wants to send us
any emails to read, you can always comment on our
Instagram page at He Said Adeo podcast or email us
at Eric and Roz at I heart radio dot com.
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We love answering listeners questions, so please do it now.
This one comes from miss Bow. I'm a newly we
nearly with advice. I need all the marriage advice I
can get help. I feel like a weight has been
put on our shoulders to this question. But I appreciate
you coming to us, miss Bo, because that's a a
(33:17):
This is a tough, tough keeping pep will fund. I
will say laughter number one thing. I think one of
the most important things in any relationship is laughter. If
you can't laugh together, you are screwed, because through the
good times and the bad times, you can always laugh
your way out of a problem. If you just don't
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have it carry that much weight. You can, you know
you can. You can roll with it. Um. You have
to make sure that you love and you like the person,
because a lot of times, after you are in a
relationship for a long time, you go like he and
you start learning more about your partner, and life gets
in the way. You're like, you know, I love this person,
(33:59):
I just don't like this possion. So it's very important
that love unlike come together. I think always. Uh So,
as time goes on, you're a newlywed, so you're you
guys are in the honeymoon phase. This is the fun.
This is the cotton candy of the relationship. I think
as time goes on, though, remembering these moments and finding
(34:20):
ways to always continue to reinvent and spark the relationship
with m fun you know, whether it's sexual, whether it's trips,
whether it's um quality time. I think you've got to
find a way to always remember this newly weed phase
and continue to reinvent and grow in the relationship together
(34:41):
and keep it fun and interesting and enjoyable, because it's
easy to get caught up in the cycle and the
boring nous of just life uncompromised. That's Eric's favorite word. Yeah,
we're ten years in, eleven years in, just about out,
and you're still learning how to compromise. So don't worry
(35:04):
that one takes time and you compromise. It's not easy. Yeah,
it's not easy. It's it's a lot. Listen. Marriage is
like any job. It's a lot of work. You have
to put in a lot too. It sounds hard to
say that. Some people like, Wow, why would you call
marriage a job. I'm not. It's not meant to be
in a in a bad way. People love their jobs sometimes, right,
(35:25):
It's just you have to put in work. It doesn't
come easy. It's not like in this newlywed phase where
everything feels fresh and new and you know, I don't
know you guys could have been engaged or dating for
five years before getting married to um. Let me ask you.
Sometimes you don't think like, oh my god, like when
we are having a fight. Right, Sometimes you don't go,
(35:46):
oh my god, I'm going to have to spend the
rest of my life with this person. Clearly you have
done that. Just literally you as you stare off into
the ceilinging and something from your I was looking straight
into your eyes. I think you felt awkward and then
(36:08):
looked in my eyes. I didn't I looked into your No,
I haven't thought like that, but I'm gonna start thinking
that way, just to remind myself. Um. Also, kids, I think, look,
we both knew we wanted to have children. I think
if you can, I don't know, you know how old
you all are. You know what the time crunches on
kids right now in your lives. But if you can
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enjoy the act of marriage for a period of time
before introducing children, I think that would be an amazing
thing to to really consider. And uh, make that a
point because a lot of people, like we joke and
even our friends have kids. Like you can't remember life
before kids. That's how all consuming kids are in your life.
(36:51):
You can't remember what it was like to be single,
you can't remember what it was like to be just
married without kids. They take up everything of your memory
and it's amazing they take you as a person. But
I think to continue to build on that marriage as
a couple before introducing these additional extensions. I think it's
it's a very valuable thing. Enjoy that that enjoy marriage.
(37:15):
You know, good luck, it's fun more advice for them. Yeah, yeah,
we get it. So much more stuff we could talk about.
That's Oh, do you want to talk more about I
feel like we should talk a little. Go ahead, as
you go to a doctor, Drew, doctor, mind you. We're
giving you all this advice. And both of us have
been divorced once before, so I don't know how much
(37:38):
any of this matters. Do you guys know that? I
don't know if the listeners know that that we've been divorced,
that we actually this is our second marriage for each
each of us. Yeah, I wonder which of mega we
should do a show about about that, about divorce, about divorce, relationship,
not about because about specifics with a person, but experience. Yeah,
(37:59):
I also married at a very young age. We both did. Yeah,
I got married too. I think I was twenty fourth.
I don't remember remember remember a whole lot. So that's
you know, you went to Vegas. I got married in
Vegas like a lunatic. That was more of a proper wedding. Whatever.
I don't care. You said we're going to get a
show to this year. We're talking about my past. Actually
(38:22):
I don't need to know. I also will say this,
I'm not I look, and I'm I was a psych major.
I truly I'm a person that fully supports psychology and
therapy in a marriage. I think I'm all about it.
If and if you're ever going through a tough time,
you should never be afraid to reach out and find
a good therapist that you can talk to separately, together,
(38:45):
go through go through those motions of having a third
party mediator that can really talk to you guys about
what you're going through and why certain things happen. You know,
when you're in um a confrontational moment, you know why
you're you might go zero to sixty, or why you're
fight flight or fight fight or flight might kick in.
I just think that's an important thing to always keep
(39:06):
in your back pocket and know that you're not alone.
You can find help, you can talk to people, and
you just you can't, like she said, you can't ever
stop the fight. You have to look in the sky
and go, oh my god, I'm gonna be with this
person the rest of my life. Okay, we have no
more advice. Wow, Yeah, I thought you would have a
(39:27):
lot of advice. I do have a lot of advice.
I think we gave we gave her a lot of
beautiful quality answers. Ei did too. He should be funny.
Can we move on all right? Bowie? We love you,
We wish you nothing but the best. That's Bowie. Maybe Bowie,
(39:48):
I don't know. Enjoy it. It's awesome from Anonymous. From Anonymous,
help in my career? Oh wo. I moved out to
l A a couple of years ago for act seeing.
I have a manager, I'm getting some cast things. I'm
about to embark on my second pilot season, but how
how do I keep it going? I'm feeling a little discouraged.
(40:09):
Mm hmm. What do you do for a living? Are
you an actor? Okay, I'm an actress too. I'm assuming
most of our listeners, um, they follow us because they
know they know us as actors. So we should have
a lot of valuable advice and information to give. Anonymous,
I wish starting with I hate auditioning. Look I mean,
(40:34):
and our listeners Caro probably relate to this in every way.
It's not acting. Audition is the same as any job interview.
It's just very different in the actors space. Like in
a job interview, you're being judging your personality and how
you answer questions and how you how you are in
a room with people and we are in the same way.
But our business is completely subjective, and when something is
(40:55):
so subjective, you have you have to really be able
to swallow the pill that you are not in control
of your own destiny and we will not you because
you always want to be a performer. So you're a
little different than me in this regard. But I went
to school I wanted to be a doctor. I was
a psychobiology major at U c l A. I always
had career goals in mind, and I being an athlete
(41:17):
my whole life as well. I always grew up with
the mindset if I just work hard, I will get
where I need to be. If I study hard, if
I play hard, if I work hard, I will get
to my goal. In acting, I always say that some
of the best actors in the world are fully unemployed,
and some of the worst actors in the world our
movie stars. It is so subjective in our business to
(41:40):
make it or not make it, because everything is in
somebody else's hands. Someone else is making a decision on
if you are good, if you nailed it, if you
look like what we're thinking, if you speak the way
I'm thinking, the characters should speak or else you will
never get the job. Even if you studied the greatest
schools ever and you've always been told and you're the
eat and every play or everything you've ever done in school,
(42:03):
it's not that way in our business. This is the
bottom line. You don't do this if this is not
your passion and your vocation and something that you really love.
Because the dynamic of acting is rejection. You're going to
go to your going to a hundred editions and maybe
you'll get it. Yes, So unless you have super things
might be a call back, you may not even get
(42:23):
the job. Let's right. And so it's a it's a
brutal business. Everybody that comes to the city, that's what
they want to do. At least of them, you know,
they want to be in the business. Somehow doesn't have
to be an actor, but they want to be involved
in the business. So unless it's is something that you
really want to do and you believe that you're really
good at um, just think about it twice. And I
(42:44):
don't want to mean to be negative. I think Eric
gave beautiful advice and it was very poetic and I
appreciate it, but I think um that like it's it's
it's not easy guys. To me, I have a big issue. Listen,
I've been doing it for twenty five years. When I
first moved to the Trio, went to New York, and
the auditioning process and the pilot season pilot is how
(43:05):
do you explain about the season for people that don't
know what's pilot season is? When all pilots season is, um,
what's it's different? There never used to be used to
be a network pilot season. So television shows it's when
they put money into their new projects and then they
decide if that new project will be something that makes
it onto air. And that's the same with streaming or
everything else. But a lot of streaming projects it's not
really a pilot season. They usually just sometimes pick things up.
(43:27):
You went to Heady anyways, it is if you're going
to get a show that's a concept and you turn
it into a show that you're gonna see on television.
So actors are the wait a whole year for pilot
season because of the opportunity to audition for all these
different possibilities and maybe you get one and it might
be life changing or it might not. Never making the
air and blah blah blah. Anyways, when I first moved here,
because you have nothing to prove to anybody because people
(43:48):
don't know you. The auditioning process was fantastic. It was
a way to exercise your muscle and to discover what
you like as an actress and to practice and practice
and and it was beautiful and you get it. You
don't get it does really matter because you love palet season.
What happens is when you have a career, when people
know who you are and you're still like, we're at
the level that we can get offers. But sometimes a
(44:10):
director wants to read you read, meaning they want you
to say their lines audition right um or the studio
the executives want to read you an audition because they
love your work, but they might not think that you're
perfectly right for that specific role. So when you're somebody
and people know who you are and they have an
expectation and you still have to prove to these people
(44:32):
that have never acted in their in their lives and
they're judging you, and you have five minutes to convince them,
then you're right for the part. And you're inside this
little room that has nothing to do with the circumstances
of the actual movie. Yeah, I'm gonna end lose your
because I hate it. I hate it, so I have
five minutes to go in and convince that person, and
(44:55):
that person has never acted before, that I can do this.
It sucks. I want to put needles in my eyes.
The life you chose. I feel offended when they tell
me they want you to read for the ten of
time to play a cup. I have played many cups.
So if you don't think I can do it, suck it.
I don't know where we're going to go to that place.
(45:16):
But look, at the end of the day, honestly, you
just gotta pursue push and don't forget the small victories.
The fact that you're getting on the fact that you're
getting in an audition is a win. Some people can't
even get those. The fact that you get a call back,
some people don't get those. The fact that you get
a job, whether it's a costar, guest star, some people
(45:37):
can't get those. Enjoy the small victories. If it's your
passion in any career, If even if you can just
get a job interview, not everybody got called in for
that job interview and if you get a second in iView.
Not everybody got the second interview. You have an accent.
Oh my god, I'm trying to help other in general.
Can you get off the event? We need another episode
that we just talked about how hard it is because
(45:57):
you're just yelling for an hour and then people can't
understand you because you have an accent. Oh that was
a dig joking. I can understand. We were keeping it funny. Sensitive,
keep it funny, sensitive on your personality trait rico. Alright,
Earth queens, I hope we help. And uh, super negative.
(46:23):
You didn't just barely come, you can grout super negative,
super angry like you just went through a crazy venting sessional. Anonymous.
Now I'm gonna listen to this the whole way home.
All right, that's it for us. I want to keep
talking till next time because I have more to say
about this. No, No, we're gonna think about all right,
(46:43):
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This is, he said, with Eric Winter and Rosalind Fantez
waiting for me to say something first. This time, I
always want to say that, you know, I always played back.
I've never heard I thought. Everybody's making a face to
the room like no, no, okay. Well today is also
(00:25):
part of the problem. You think you do things all
the time and you you just make them up on
the spot. Eric Winter, Eric Barrett Winter Macomber. How are
your New Year's for solutions holding up so far? My
my breathing technique is doing okay, Like I haven't seen
you once. We're going to know the breathing. It's not
like I look at you and go that's called my
(00:48):
First you your breathing, It goes to your stomach, Then
second part is the chest. Then you exhale the chest
first and then down to if you're the one that
fired me up, and it's not, I just turned away
and do next is near the room, so it's not
you are working on that. That's going better. I think. Uh.
Patients has been pretty good, with the exception of you know,
(01:10):
our daughter's a pistol and our son has been sick
this weekend, so that Patients was very challenging guy. Um,
but yeah, hanging in about yours? Um, well, I said
that I was going to try to control some the sweets.
That went really well. We got to cup as soon
as we walked in the door. So it's not working
through chocolate. I think I'm going through like a functional depression.
(01:35):
And I and I eat a lot, a lot of junk,
A lot of junk. You don't eat a lot. You
eat a lot of a lot of junk. Is terrible.
But I still look fab, So it's okay. But your
resolution is not fab. You're right, so I have to
work on that. What else? Um, everything else? Everything else
is pretty good. I think. Yeah, we're managing our Archie situation.
(01:56):
Oh my god, talk to me about Archie where he
lives in the house. We wanna talk to you about
Archie every day. Guys like got my Puerto Rican rescue.
That's not true. We are dog sitting this dog for
your mom. I don't know why you keep trying to
emphasize that you got your rescue. We'll talk. No decision
(02:17):
has ever been made, we have to decision has ever
been made on Archie is a sweet, sweet dog. He's awesome. Um,
but it's like someone dropped the dog at your doorstep
and just like here that don't say that. My mom
didn't drop yet, No, she didn't. What you do? Then
she said, can you keep him that's dropping until when
(02:39):
you go back to Puerto Rico bring him back. But
we've been discussing and I talked to you about it.
We went, we went to therapy. Body didn't talk to
me about anything. And Archie belongs to the senses another
way belong to She's doing incredible. Archie is being trained
(03:04):
and he is part of the family. And even Maracca.
You know, Marac is being very sick. Marak is walking again.
She's doing much better. But I think the Pregnis zone,
because she's taking steroids every single day. I think the
Preni zone is making her a little cook when a
little crazy. But though she won, everybody got that joke.
But you why I didn't. Prez is a steroid. That's
(03:27):
what she's taking. That's why I said she can bench
press a ton of weight like she's strong. Okay, well,
I don't think bodybuilders take sterotive. I didn't know that.
I'm not about a bodybuilders. I don't know that was
just a straight even like a flashed to make that
joke in Spanish that was anyways, Um, she's losing market
(03:52):
is doing better, and I have to say that Archie
is part of the reason why marac is doing better.
I think she's so confused about what is this doctor
in here? That I'm going to be alive and I'm
gonna make it so I can claim my place again.
And they're actually getting along grade and it's beautiful, still temporary,
that we have no resolution, there's no part of our process.
(04:15):
And really this is the this is copy your compromise.
Resolution is going great. By the way, this is really
great compromising. Oh my god, that was my resolution to you, compromise.
This is what I have to say, Eric, thank you
so much. I'm gonna be on pregnans on but the
end of this thing, and you're gonna be bench pressing
what it whatever you said, Um, listen to me. I
(04:38):
have to say thank you, my love, because you've been great.
You're actually um getting to love Archie little bit little
and he's getting close to you, and you've been very
tolerant and I appreciate it. No problem. I love animals,
I love dogs. I have no problem taking care of
Archie and then your mom will be so happy with
what we've how we've trained him. Next topic, I'm done, guys,
(05:02):
to be continued, to be continued. Um. So one fun
thing we did, and this was actually a request by
a listener, Caitlin Clark. She asked if we could take
the Myers Briggs personality test on sixteen personalities dot com.
And uh, that was very entertaining. I will say we
(05:24):
I mean just to say, we're going to show how
different we are. Just to say, out the gate, the
first thing that it says about you is your mind,
if you're extroverted or introverted. I was sixty percent extrovert
and Rosalind was like, what were you do? Having from
of you? She was like a s introvert. So right
(05:44):
out the gate, we are completely opposite when it comes
to that, which is weird because she says I'm the
one introverted actually, but I am more I'm not as
ms Mrs Congeniality test. Cording to your test, you're well
an introvert and you were happy to brag about all
the positives in the test the other night. So because okay, guys,
it's called my personality type is advocate. That's how you're
(06:08):
saying advocate, Yes, and your personality type is completely wrong,
is way more boring. No, mine is actually very about
the mind and passion and check yoursel before your dreams
and accomplishing them. Healthy people and beautiful steal. Anyways, so
(06:29):
question number one, let's just do a little what is wrapping? Um? Okay,
so look that was weird, but okay, let's continue. People go,
oh my god, do you let me speak borrow advocate? Okay, okay,
so question number one, you enjoy vibrant social events with
lots of people. What was your answering? Of course, because
(06:53):
this is the thing. Okay, you just said I'm boring,
so just go on because that clearly I'm not going
to explain. That doesn't mean that you're oh god, he's
great because he loves to just talk to everybody. This
is what we do. You know, we have to go
through a lot of functions, um within the business that
we're just in general. I don't mind going whatever. So
we go to let's say there's like a Golden Globes
(07:14):
pre party or viewing anywhere anyway. Anyway, So this is me.
I get all dressed off on the heels and whatever.
I do the carpet and then I just want to
sit and just enjoy and people can just come and
talk to me. Eric has to do the rounds around
to make sure everybody says, here, I'm sorry, diva, Diva,
did you just say I like to sit down and
(07:35):
have people come to talk to me? Hi, maintenance Diva.
I simply walk around me and go have fun. He's like,
I'm here, you go through here, let's go, let's go.
We have to say hi. We have to say hi. No, no,
we don't you go through hours of getting ready to
then go to a place and sit your butt in
a corner anyone and not see anyone everybody, and then
(07:58):
complain the moment we sick. We go now, we go now.
And I'm the introvert. I'm the square. You are square
because you actually want to walk around to be seen.
I don't know anyways, agreeing with you girls that the
girls agree with me anyways, It's it's fine. Travel plans
are more likely to look like a rough list of
(08:20):
ideas than a detailed itinerary. Were opposite on this one
because I am full detailed itinerary, which is also exactly
what my personality tests said. Yeah, like I'm going to
give an ex lost store. We went to We went
to Prague once, right, We went to have a wedding
in France, and then we went to Prague. And he
(08:40):
had this idea that every single day was go, go, go,
go go. Eric cannot sit still inside a hotel room
to save his life. He needs to be out on
about every single day. Everything is planned. We're gonna see this,
we're gonna see that, we're gonna there's a dude. We're
on vacation, you know, because I'm in Prague. Can we
just chill? It was raining, like like a freaking storm.
(09:03):
He had me put sneakers, sneakers, high heels. Oh my gosh,
he had me in sneakers very well. Anyways, so this
is me and Eric with a backpack right umbrellas walking
all of Prague his poem reigning, because he needed to
(09:24):
go see the castle, a castle that doesn't exist in
Los Angeles, a castle you would have been in Prague
for a week and be like, Oh, the hotel room
is really cool. I read, I watch a bunch of netflixgue.
I don't know. Anyways, Number three wants everything way too much.
We'll argue about this like if I'm working out of
(09:45):
town and she's working out of town. I again, like
she said, I can't stay in my room by myself.
So I find by myself somewhere on location. I will
explore the entire city. I will eat at all the
restaurants by myself. I am busy, busy, busy. I don't
sit still cut to She's like, I'm so bored and
in my room and like, go out dinner by myself.
(10:06):
I feel like weirder than I by myself. We'll go
walk around and go do something. Yeah, but what am
I gonna do? I'm just gonna sit here and talking nothing.
Kind of give me a scet make sense. That was
not good with impersonation. But you do nothing when you're
out of town and then get and then get mad
at I think a lot, I plan, don't think You're
(10:28):
on Instagram a lot, and then you get mad at
me thinking, think you I'm going to write, think you
what I'm going to post next whatever. Number three, You
often think about what you should have said in a
conversation long after he has taken place. That is Eric.
I'm not going to deny that one. That's me. Eric
was working on that. It was affecting for forty hours.
If he went to a meeting and he said something
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that he didn't think you should have said, you talk
about it, and you recreate the situation until your in
the face. You also don't help with this problem because
like we'll be we'll be somewhere and somebody like, let's
say they did something that was kind of really rude
to the two of us or something, and I kind
of tried to be patient about it and let it go,
and Ross like, really, you're just gonna let that happen.
You're not gonna like say something. So then I get
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all worked up by her and I go make a
comment or a statement on the whole situation, and then
she goes, wow, you really took that too far. You
shouldn't have done that. So then I'm fully in my
head for the entire day. Was I rude to this person?
Should I have not said that? You told me I
should have, So you kind of feed this problem. But
it is true that I have that issue, you know,
and you're good at forgetting things, so that does that's
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something where we do help each other. I do that
you help me forget, and I help you because I
remember things because I don't have a good memory. I'm
going to say something very interesting about advocate. People treat
people as if they were what they ought to be,
and you help them to become what they are capable
of being. You know that. I love to help, and
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I actually always feel like if I can be if
I can serve as inspiration to anybody, it will be
like a mean, if I can affect one girl that
comes to this country with a dream and a clear
vision of what I want, what they want to do
in life, if I can be part of that journey
and help in any way, I actually love that. So yeah,
that's very advocate advocating of me. It's very true. That's
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very true. A lot of this stuff was very accurate.
I mean, like my strengths as a console, strong practical
skills very true. Unlike this one who's a dreamer and
what dreams crazy stuff. Can we go back to Hatchtock
dream paper because that comment strong sense of duty um
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responsibility to strive and meet their obligations. I'm a very
loyal person. I'm sensitive and warm, good at connecting with others.
These are all my strength, Mr Congeniality. My weakness is
worried about their social status. That's not totally true. It's
not totally true. I don't really care about my social status.
That's not true. That's not true, Eric, Are you're joking.
I don't believe that. Eric, Please, I don't think they're
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no way. I'm that okay, inflexible, that's kind of true.
I do. This is one thing that's very accurate about me.
I have a little bit of a tough time doing
things that aren't socially acceptable in a way, Like I
don't like to rock the boat or make a big
scene or do something I get really anxious about that.
You're very by the book. Everything is like super by
the book. Yeah, I'm a bit straightforward that. Like I said, Eric,
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this also says I'm too needy, which I'm not sure
I agree with. Oh my god, super needy. But I'm
also too selfless. That's I do a lot of things
for other people, and I don't take care of myself.
Let me answer something. If your friend is sad about something,
your first instinct is to support them emotionally or to
not not try to solve their problem. So what do
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you do you support them emotionally and not try to
solve the problem. I don't try to solve the problem.
I'm kind of a fifty fifty on something like this,
Like I like to be a good listener first if
I can, and support what they're talking about. But my
analytical brain does go into overdriving because I was also
like psych major. I love to try and sort of
figure out some of they's problems and get to the
root of it. So I don't shy away from that.
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I think I kind of do both. What do you
think you do? I think I try to solve the problem.
I listen and I'll be all about I'll be very
empathetic and all that. But I think my instinct is
to be like, well this is what I would do, dude,
and just try to solve it. I don't know this.
Ask some friends about relationships. You think you're trying to
solve the problems. Uh, I don't know about that one.
(14:35):
What do you think? Or you the introvert this goes
into a shell. Yeah, I'm like, don't talk to me.
I want to go and read or do something. Um, Eric,
I have a problem. Did you read about d I
go to tortoise the tortoise, How do you say that
tortoise tortoise, it's written tortoise. Well, I mean tomato tomorrow. Okay,
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so how do you say tortoise tortoise? What Honey was
a tortoise? I know what? I always called her turtle.
She's got a turtle. There's a big difference. Did you
read about Do you even know the difference verse of
turto tortoise. We talked about this last week. The turtle
has um, the turtle is water. Tortoises are strictly land
exactly did you read about Diego the total he's a playboy.
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All you know about single handily saved the species? How
do you know it? Because I watched the news? Oh wow, okay,
quite the social media you follow now this? Now this, No,
I don't but you I mean you realize he's at
the This is one thing. Like you know, there's a
lot of controversy with Zoo's back and forth, there's no question,
(15:43):
but like the San Diego Zoo, I learned quite a
few things about their missions of saving endangered spe and
this is a situation where they, single handedly, with this tortoise,
have managed to repopulate the entire species and basically of
the population of that kind of tortoise? Is there his hair,
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his kids? Yeah, so this is my problem. There also
be a ton of inbreeding after that one honeybacke, How
did that turn into this tortoise is first of all
the years old. I get it. Yeah, I think it's
beautiful to have an animal that is going to continue
to live in past past you because with dogs, you know,
they you outlive them. With turtles, do you feel bad
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letting honey move on and repopulate the world now, which
he could be like the next playboy out there like
our other tortoise buddy, He could be out there, you know,
causing a ruckus and you're worried about us letting him
go now versus us dying and then he's by himself
just in a cage and let him be free. I
just feel like we let him down and we let
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him go and we let him live. Okay, do you
think he's gonna be he's been doing a lot of
First of all, what is that? No? Do you think
he's going to be doing a lot of party, A
lot of sexy sexy stuff, sexy dances? No, like put
it in. If he's a male, I think he's gonna
been doing that that was aggressive if he okay, of
(17:09):
course maybe do I think he's gonna be doing all that?
And he's a male thoughts all he cares about spread money.
I miss you, break. I'm sad we are back with
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something that our producers helped us fall in love with.
It is time for called cheese. It's hilarious. Oh my god, Okay,
let's start. Let's start going ahead, cheap man Oi, Prince,
(17:50):
Harry and Megan moving to America. That's three ky guys
heard they're moving to the studio city. You do it?
That's what hurt? Oh my god. So we're gonna get
We're gonna meet you know my mom named aren't you
because of you? Are? Well? It's quite the thing, huh,
(18:11):
I mean, it's you agree. Do you think it's a
smart move? Do you do you think it was necessary?
Do you think she influenced this whole decision. I'm sure
she had a huge impact on the decision making with
all that, but I wow, this is one of those
ones where you just know that the the info, the
stuff deep down in in this reality is something we
(18:34):
will never know about. Like there's gonna be so much speculation.
This is so locked in the vault, like we will
never know until he but for someone to make this
type of no one's gonna write it. But I think
to make this kind of a leap and jump out
of royal history. I mean something that's since the beginning
of the country. And you imagine how much how much
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they can't stand that girl on the royal family, how
much the Brits in general probably have an issue with
her because it feels like it's disrupting, because she's gonna
be to blame. Maybe it's going to be like this
girl just basically took over and aid his mind and
he completely changed. But the reality is, we don't know
if he was his decision. Maybe he said, you know what,
I've been struggling with this Royal family lifestyle that I've
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he's always supposed to be a bad boy, like he's
supposed to be the one that's a literal way I'm
talking about. Yeah, the more controversial in his whole life.
I mean, we should do that. If you're married into
royalty and your wife is a queen, would you be like,
you know what, let's just get out of here. I
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feel like you knew what you were signing up. It's
a big. You'll be like, there's no way I'm giving this.
I'm married into it. Why would I throw it out
so soon? At least give it five years to put
some in the pocket from Wow, that's the very console
of you. I just to understand, it's so give must do.
(20:00):
It must have been really bad to make it happen
like that. Yeah, she was not happy. She was not happy. Sorry,
I moved away. Okay, next one girls night out to
where you like girls? I mean you love? What the heck?
What are you talking about girls? He's talking about disrespectful
(20:24):
rant in Spanish. All I knew was stupid, though, um,
girls right out do? I think you should do it?
Because what uses your American idol auditions? It's American idol moment. No,
I think you need more of them because you're the
one that stays in the hotel room and just like
the girls. Yeah, I go out with my girls sometimes.
(20:46):
That was one of my resolutions. I wanted to spend
more time with my girlfriend. Hasn't happened yet, but I
think it's important for you. I think you need more
of it. It also will make it easier if I
have a guy, because every time I plan something with
the guy. She's like, really, really you need that? No,
I don't you just stay home? What? Never? I actually
love it because I know that I can just go
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to bed and read and be be quiet and not
have to be like, hey, do you want to do
the the quickie? So? What the hell do you out
of your mind? So we're going to, uh, guys night
Miami fishing trip? Who why do you make the face? No,
I'm just asking about this fishing trip. It's okay, right,
we're gonna go fishing, Go and fish all you want,
(21:30):
fish and fish and fish and fishes. Meanwhile, okay, so
keeping up keeping your New Year's resolutions. We already talked
about that one I keep moving away of Okay, if
they Oscar nominations, there's a big deal about this Oscar
nominations because no females, barely no women. Uh, no diversity,
(21:51):
It's all white male club. What do you think about that?
I think it's definitely a shame. I think diversity. I
think it's it starts with more diversity and the voters,
you know, like it needs to be. I think the
academy is trying to bring more people in that are
this background. That's why I've heard, but they need to
try harder. It's a lot of probably older, right people,
(22:15):
and they said, you know, Jayla didn't get nominated, and
she did for a Golden Globe and I'm sure Latino's,
but I don't know how much. And look, I've never
been nominated for either of these things, so it's not
like speak up much. But everybody always jokes this is
the Golden Globes. You're kind of like you can you
can buy your way into a nomination. Um, I don't
know what are you trying to saying. No, I'm just
saying in general, people say so, I don't know if
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it totally correlates to the Oscars. We need more representation, guys.
You know it's it's it's actually disgusting and it's a
very sensitive topic for me. So Eric doesn't want me
to usually talk about it because he doesn't want me
to ruck the bood because we agree with you, we
need to we need more diversity. I feel, well, you
know that we want to talk about diversity in Hollywood
(22:57):
and the boast that this um business and tales. You're
usually telling me roll stop st you start phrasing it
like that. It's a business. We work because it's calm down. Anyways,
they formed an l A collab l A collaboration more
Latinos in Hollywood. This isn't the movement an organization that
they're gonna be taking care of business. And Rodriguez a Longoria,
Patricia Reagan, a lot of influencial Latinos and jams almost
(23:20):
are part of the part of it. Because it's time.
Time's up, tim ends up, and we need to create
opportunities or a kind. I agree, Okay, let's do it.
So how I'll should Bachelor Pete get back together with
Hannah b Dude, you're the bachelor now, hasn't had to
(23:43):
be in that ship sailed, move on. She's out doing
like ten different reality shows right now. Pete, he's the
freaking bachelor. Hannah stars the place. I feel like she's
doing her little social you know, so I think, yeah,
(24:04):
she has to go find another way to be, you know,
doing her thing in the reality space, and he's now
going to try and find real love. Going back. Maybe
people want them to go. Then people need to let
that go. No going back, Pete, play the field, play
the field, Yeah, she should do Okay, TikTok. I don't know.
(24:28):
What that is. You know, I don't know whole lot
about TikTok. I know people are sending all these videos
and on TikTok and doing things. I know, the military band, TikTok.
I think we do we touch on that last week. No,
the military band anybody and he can't use it? Yeah?
Friends of a union? Yes or no? Should they reboot? Friends?
Were your friends? Huge friends? Family? I never really so
friends amigos amigos. Yeah, no episodes here and there, But
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I wasn't. I wasn't a big they didn't run in
Puerto Rico. I'm sure to did cable TV. You know,
I got a finding with me. I got into Friends
on the reruns years ago when I was in college.
That's when I got into it. But do you care
about a reboot? No? I think I think that should
be the cast. No, you can't do with the new cast.
It's not it's not. Yeah, it's like Will and Grace
(25:17):
they did that when they do. But I think, uh,
and you could do a Friends movie. I'd probably watch it,
but I don't know that I would care enough. I'd
rather see a Seinfeld reboot. Love Seinfeld. That's a great show, Okay,
Shakira and Jennifer Lopez super Bowl halftime show. It's gonna
be that's gonna be hot. It's gonna be hot. Those
(25:40):
two girls are sexy, they can dance, they could sing,
They're gonna throw down on one of the biggest stages.
It's actually surprised that I'm surprised that doesn't happen. Good
for Latinos. It's amazing for Latinos inclosure. You know, the hot,
the the what is that? What sport isn't a football?
Oh my gosh. Half there in the world where there
(26:02):
are no people. Joe ATOI being I Pamlita, I think
it's a wonderful thing. I would never think that Jailo
would do a halftime show, which is such a massive
opportunity and event, and share her time with another massive
Latino megastar that is a female, and both of them
are deserving of their own show. So it's so the
(26:22):
fact that they both said, you know, let's just do
this together, when I would think that the inclination would be,
I don't need anybody anybody else to do this. I
can do a solo or get a male to be
next to me, not a female, so or their man
and they're both sick performers. We said Jo and concert
here in l A. They're going to be incredible. Concert's
going to be incredible. I just hope that they actually
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at some point are together so it's not like her
show and her show. I hope that at some point
we have them both on stage doing some kind of
collaboration that is going to be mind blowing. That's what
I'm hoping. A lot of booty shaking. There's gonna be
a lot of booty shaking. Who do you think it's
going to do the best shake the best? Yeah? Ah,
maybe the booty shake is gonna end up going to
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j Lo. But then that stomach rule is going to
go to Shakira, and the hip shake is gonna go
to Shakira's gonna go to Shakira. Yeah, it's gonna be cool, man,
It's gonna be cool. One thing we should talk about,
Jennie for love is um right, sure tell people my
history anyway. Man caves, Man caves, we love it. We
(27:25):
need one now immediately. Why so I can have my
own cave, my own space to go to and breathe.
Are you are your house? Yeah? I mean my house.
If we had the space at your house. How much
money I got put in that house? Anyways, So you
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want my cave, I think we can find one. I
like to build like a bat cave because we live
up next next to a hillside. I could build it
into the hill and have like the dirt go down,
I can go. I'm I allowed to visit Hell now
and I'm gonna have my lady cave. Please do You're
gonna have a new idea? What's going to happen in
the books? Instagram sleeping? Should Tom Brady the love of
(28:12):
your life retire? Because guys, I don't know if you
know that Brett hit Tom Brady's greatest of all time?
You know, I think despite deflate Gate, greatest of all
time still. I think Tom's has a thing against Tom
Brady because schools told Tody Fins that he's a cheater.
(28:37):
We have fights about it. I'm going don't don't talk
bad about Tom Brady. That's Daddy's man. Um. Look, I
think he's got another year in him to prove. This
year was a really edgy year for tom Um. But
there are a lot of factors that played into that.
But I think he could go out with one more
year try and get that stuff back up. Um, and
I I would like to see him still be a Patriot.
(28:58):
I think it's gonna be sue for weird that is
there a chance? Is there a chance that he's not
going to come back? Yeah, A lot of the greats
of all you know, Look, Peyton Manning went off to Denver.
He's always Montana left the Niners, went to the Kansas
City chief has always been his whole career. But a
lot of these guys, Joe Montanna has always, always was
a forty Niners, greatest quarterback of all time. Money. No,
(29:19):
the Niners had to move on from him because he
was getting old in his career and he still felt
like he could play, and he went to the Kansas
City Chiefs and he won on all. I didn't want
another ring. We did a good run. But Peyton Manning
went to Denver Broncos when Indy let him go, and
he want to ring. I think it'd be really weird.
You know. The other thing that would be sad is
if he if he goes but Belichick stays, then this
(29:41):
whole thing about who's really the reason the Patriots have
won all these rings would finally have some kind of
weight to it because they beat without each other. They've
never been without each other. Okay, I don't really care
about this topic. You asked me the question. I'm like,
liking this topic, can we move on? Said a great topic? Okay,
(30:05):
financially independent? I don't have to settle for this stuff.
Are you financially independent? Eric? Yes, I have very mentioned
what what what's the question? Though? That's just a state.
It's just like this independent. I'm all about it. It's
something that I'm teaching my daughter. Yes, as a female
be financially independent. I do agree with with that. I
(30:29):
think I don't think anybody should have to rely on
somebody else. However, I do think in marriages, if somebody
and I've always said this, whether it's the male that's
a stay at home dad or the mom that's a
stay at home mom, I do believe that is one
of the most difficult jobs out there in the world,
is being a stay at home parent. And my hat
goes off to all stay at home parents because to me,
(30:52):
that's the rock of the family, that's what makes it
keeps everything going. And you're not, you know, out there
earning the money per se, but the reason everything works.
The way it works is because of that parents staying
home and raising sometimes three four kids. I mean, I
can't imagine and maybe not even having a nanny for help.
If you're the one being the soul caregiver. I mean,
(31:14):
that's that's a job, so you could be financially independent.
I think it's an amazing and empowerful thing to teach
any boy or girl to not have to depend on
somebody else as they get older. However, when you get
into that position and you're the stay at home person,
all power to you as long as you're holding it down. Okay. Um.
(31:36):
Last one, Tina Fe and Amy Poehl are hosting Golden Gloves.
I like them a lot, but I love Ricky Dreves.
Love Ricky drell What are you talking about? He just
do the Golden gloves that you just said, Golden globes.
What you asked me the question, what show are you doing?
That's like you didn't just do it once today, it's
(31:58):
like the tenth time. Does that? The Oscars? Yeah? Sorry? Sorry, sorry,
I'm glad you're paying attention to the same thing I'm
paying attention to. H Yeah, I agree. You can't even agree,
you don't you know what you read, but I don't know.
I don't I know. Yes, Ricky Gervas period, and I
get a little fuzzy. Okay, you get a lot of
things funny. But al right, we are back and we
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are going to read some emails that our listeners have
sent in and just for you know, again to say
it on air. Anybody. If anybody wants to send us
any emails to read, you can always comment on our
Instagram page at He Said Adeo podcast or email us
at Eric and Roz at I heart radio dot com.
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We love answering listeners questions, so please do it now.
This one comes from miss Bow. I'm a newly we
nearly with advice. I need all the marriage advice I
can get help. I feel like a weight has been
put on our shoulders to this question. But I appreciate
you coming to us, miss Bo, because that's a a
(33:17):
This is a tough, tough keeping pep will fund. I
will say laughter number one thing. I think one of
the most important things in any relationship is laughter. If
you can't laugh together, you are screwed, because through the
good times and the bad times, you can always laugh
your way out of a problem. If you just don't
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have it carry that much weight. You can, you know
you can. You can roll with it. Um. You have
to make sure that you love and you like the person,
because a lot of times, after you are in a
relationship for a long time, you go like he and
you start learning more about your partner, and life gets
in the way. You're like, you know, I love this person,
(33:59):
I just don't like this possion. So it's very important
that love unlike come together. I think always. Uh So,
as time goes on, you're a newlywed, so you're you
guys are in the honeymoon phase. This is the fun.
This is the cotton candy of the relationship. I think
as time goes on, though, remembering these moments and finding
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ways to always continue to reinvent and spark the relationship
with m fun you know, whether it's sexual, whether it's trips,
whether it's um quality time. I think you've got to
find a way to always remember this newly weed phase
and continue to reinvent and grow in the relationship together
(34:41):
and keep it fun and interesting and enjoyable, because it's
easy to get caught up in the cycle and the
boring nous of just life uncompromised. That's Eric's favorite word. Yeah,
we're ten years in, eleven years in, just about out,
and you're still learning how to compromise. So don't worry
(35:04):
that one takes time and you compromise. It's not easy. Yeah,
it's not easy. It's it's a lot. Listen. Marriage is
like any job. It's a lot of work. You have
to put in a lot too. It sounds hard to
say that. Some people like, Wow, why would you call
marriage a job. I'm not. It's not meant to be
in a in a bad way. People love their jobs sometimes, right,
(35:25):
It's just you have to put in work. It doesn't
come easy. It's not like in this newlywed phase where
everything feels fresh and new and you know, I don't
know you guys could have been engaged or dating for
five years before getting married to um. Let me ask you.
Sometimes you don't think like, oh my god, like when
we are having a fight. Right, Sometimes you don't go,
(35:46):
oh my god, I'm going to have to spend the
rest of my life with this person. Clearly you have
done that. Just literally you as you stare off into
the ceilinging and something from your I was looking straight
into your eyes. I think you felt awkward and then
(36:08):
looked in my eyes. I didn't I looked into your No,
I haven't thought like that, but I'm gonna start thinking
that way, just to remind myself. Um. Also, kids, I think, look,
we both knew we wanted to have children. I think
if you can, I don't know, you know how old
you all are. You know what the time crunches on
kids right now in your lives. But if you can
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enjoy the act of marriage for a period of time
before introducing children, I think that would be an amazing
thing to to really consider. And uh, make that a
point because a lot of people, like we joke and
even our friends have kids. Like you can't remember life
before kids. That's how all consuming kids are in your life.
(36:51):
You can't remember what it was like to be single,
you can't remember what it was like to be just
married without kids. They take up everything of your memory
and it's amazing they take you as a person. But
I think to continue to build on that marriage as
a couple before introducing these additional extensions. I think it's
it's a very valuable thing. Enjoy that that enjoy marriage.
(37:15):
You know, good luck, it's fun more advice for them. Yeah, yeah,
we get it. So much more stuff we could talk about.
That's Oh, do you want to talk more about I
feel like we should talk a little. Go ahead, as
you go to a doctor, Drew, doctor, mind you. We're
giving you all this advice. And both of us have
been divorced once before, so I don't know how much
(37:38):
any of this matters. Do you guys know that? I
don't know if the listeners know that that we've been divorced,
that we actually this is our second marriage for each
each of us. Yeah, I wonder which of mega we
should do a show about about that, about divorce, about divorce, relationship,
not about because about specifics with a person, but experience. Yeah,
(37:59):
I also married at a very young age. We both did. Yeah,
I got married too. I think I was twenty fourth.
I don't remember remember remember a whole lot. So that's
you know, you went to Vegas. I got married in
Vegas like a lunatic. That was more of a proper wedding. Whatever.
I don't care. You said we're going to get a
show to this year. We're talking about my past. Actually
(38:22):
I don't need to know. I also will say this,
I'm not I look, and I'm I was a psych major.
I truly I'm a person that fully supports psychology and
therapy in a marriage. I think I'm all about it.
If and if you're ever going through a tough time,
you should never be afraid to reach out and find
a good therapist that you can talk to separately, together,
(38:45):
go through go through those motions of having a third
party mediator that can really talk to you guys about
what you're going through and why certain things happen. You know,
when you're in um a confrontational moment, you know why
you're you might go zero to sixty, or why you're
fight flight or fight fight or flight might kick in.
I just think that's an important thing to always keep
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in your back pocket and know that you're not alone.
You can find help, you can talk to people, and
you just you can't, like she said, you can't ever
stop the fight. You have to look in the sky
and go, oh my god, I'm gonna be with this
person the rest of my life. Okay, we have no
more advice. Wow, Yeah, I thought you would have a
(39:27):
lot of advice. I do have a lot of advice.
I think we gave we gave her a lot of
beautiful quality answers. Ei did too. He should be funny.
Can we move on all right? Bowie? We love you,
We wish you nothing but the best. That's Bowie. Maybe Bowie,
(39:48):
I don't know. Enjoy it. It's awesome from Anonymous. From Anonymous,
help in my career? Oh wo. I moved out to
l A a couple of years ago for act seeing.
I have a manager, I'm getting some cast things. I'm
about to embark on my second pilot season, but how
how do I keep it going? I'm feeling a little discouraged.
(40:09):
Mm hmm. What do you do for a living? Are
you an actor? Okay, I'm an actress too. I'm assuming
most of our listeners, um, they follow us because they
know they know us as actors. So we should have
a lot of valuable advice and information to give. Anonymous,
I wish starting with I hate auditioning. Look I mean,
(40:34):
and our listeners Caro probably relate to this in every way.
It's not acting. Audition is the same as any job interview.
It's just very different in the actors space. Like in
a job interview, you're being judging your personality and how
you answer questions and how you how you are in
a room with people and we are in the same way.
But our business is completely subjective, and when something is
(40:55):
so subjective, you have you have to really be able
to swallow the pill that you are not in control
of your own destiny and we will not you because
you always want to be a performer. So you're a
little different than me in this regard. But I went
to school I wanted to be a doctor. I was
a psychobiology major at U c l A. I always
had career goals in mind, and I being an athlete
(41:17):
my whole life as well. I always grew up with
the mindset if I just work hard, I will get
where I need to be. If I study hard, if
I play hard, if I work hard, I will get
to my goal. In acting, I always say that some
of the best actors in the world are fully unemployed,
and some of the worst actors in the world our
movie stars. It is so subjective in our business to
(41:40):
make it or not make it, because everything is in
somebody else's hands. Someone else is making a decision on
if you are good, if you nailed it, if you
look like what we're thinking, if you speak the way
I'm thinking, the characters should speak or else you will
never get the job. Even if you studied the greatest
schools ever and you've always been told and you're the
eat and every play or everything you've ever done in school,
(42:03):
it's not that way in our business. This is the
bottom line. You don't do this if this is not
your passion and your vocation and something that you really love.
Because the dynamic of acting is rejection. You're going to
go to your going to a hundred editions and maybe
you'll get it. Yes, So unless you have super things
might be a call back, you may not even get
(42:23):
the job. Let's right. And so it's a it's a
brutal business. Everybody that comes to the city, that's what
they want to do. At least of them, you know,
they want to be in the business. Somehow doesn't have
to be an actor, but they want to be involved
in the business. So unless it's is something that you
really want to do and you believe that you're really
good at um, just think about it twice. And I
(42:44):
don't want to mean to be negative. I think Eric
gave beautiful advice and it was very poetic and I
appreciate it, but I think um that like it's it's
it's not easy guys. To me, I have a big issue. Listen,
I've been doing it for twenty five years. When I
first moved to the Trio, went to New York, and
the auditioning process and the pilot season pilot is how
(43:05):
do you explain about the season for people that don't
know what's pilot season is? When all pilots season is, um,
what's it's different? There never used to be used to
be a network pilot season. So television shows it's when
they put money into their new projects and then they
decide if that new project will be something that makes
it onto air. And that's the same with streaming or
everything else. But a lot of streaming projects it's not
really a pilot season. They usually just sometimes pick things up.
(43:27):
You went to Heady anyways, it is if you're going
to get a show that's a concept and you turn
it into a show that you're gonna see on television.
So actors are the wait a whole year for pilot
season because of the opportunity to audition for all these
different possibilities and maybe you get one and it might
be life changing or it might not. Never making the
air and blah blah blah. Anyways, when I first moved here,
because you have nothing to prove to anybody because people
(43:48):
don't know you. The auditioning process was fantastic. It was
a way to exercise your muscle and to discover what
you like as an actress and to practice and practice
and and it was beautiful and you get it. You
don't get it does really matter because you love palet season.
What happens is when you have a career, when people
know who you are and you're still like, we're at
the level that we can get offers. But sometimes a
(44:10):
director wants to read you read, meaning they want you
to say their lines audition right um or the studio
the executives want to read you an audition because they
love your work, but they might not think that you're
perfectly right for that specific role. So when you're somebody
and people know who you are and they have an
expectation and you still have to prove to these people
(44:32):
that have never acted in their in their lives and
they're judging you, and you have five minutes to convince them,
then you're right for the part. And you're inside this
little room that has nothing to do with the circumstances
of the actual movie. Yeah, I'm gonna end lose your
because I hate it. I hate it, so I have
five minutes to go in and convince that person, and
(44:55):
that person has never acted before, that I can do this.
It sucks. I want to put needles in my eyes.
The life you chose. I feel offended when they tell
me they want you to read for the ten of
time to play a cup. I have played many cups.
So if you don't think I can do it, suck it.
I don't know where we're going to go to that place.
(45:16):
But look, at the end of the day, honestly, you
just gotta pursue push and don't forget the small victories.
The fact that you're getting on the fact that you're
getting in an audition is a win. Some people can't
even get those. The fact that you get a call back,
some people don't get those. The fact that you get
a job, whether it's a costar, guest star, some people
(45:37):
can't get those. Enjoy the small victories. If it's your
passion in any career, If even if you can just
get a job interview, not everybody got called in for
that job interview and if you get a second in iView.
Not everybody got the second interview. You have an accent.
Oh my god, I'm trying to help other in general.
Can you get off the event? We need another episode
that we just talked about how hard it is because
(45:57):
you're just yelling for an hour and then people can't
understand you because you have an accent. Oh that was
a dig joking. I can understand. We were keeping it funny. Sensitive,
keep it funny, sensitive on your personality trait rico. Alright,
Earth queens, I hope we help. And uh, super negative.
(46:23):
You didn't just barely come, you can grout super negative,
super angry like you just went through a crazy venting sessional. Anonymous.
Now I'm gonna listen to this the whole way home.
All right, that's it for us. I want to keep
talking till next time because I have more to say
about this. No, No, we're gonna think about all right,
(46:43):
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