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May 30, 2024 26 mins

We are back answering more of your audience questions and boy did you all send Ros and Eric some good ones this week. From Eric bumping rap music on his first date to pick up Ros, to dating advice, education, spirituality vs religion, and life lessons from characters they have played. They follow the twists and turns that your questions provided in the He Said, Ella Dijo way. 

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is, he said a yadjo with Eric Winter and
Rodland fantab Welcome back to another episode, he said at
d Ho Nay some of our favorite episodes. Audience questions.
I know we've been doing these a lot recently. Yes,
we'll try to get too as many as we can.
At Emil asks who are your favorite musicians and what

(00:25):
kind of music inspires you?

Speaker 2 (00:28):
Well, you know, guys, my thing is I like salsa music.
I like salsa, I like ballads. You know Alejandro sanz A,
Luis Miguel, Ricky Martin, this Christian. I don't know they're
together anymore, El Juan, Luis Guerra American. I'm old school.

(00:51):
I like I used to love Earth Supply and Journey
and things like that, and George Michael. But my thing
is tropical, guys. That gives me life. Tropical music.

Speaker 1 (01:03):
The funny thing is I love all the same music
that she does as well. I mean, obviously Latin music
I didn't grow up listening to, but as much I
would as many of the ones I did know a
lot of them. I'd take it back. I did know
a lot of them, but not the tropical, not the
salsa as much, and all that, but I do love
all the music she describes. We had that in common.
But I am also like way into rap, way I

(01:23):
like pretty much everything. I have not really gotten into
country as much, although this this one song I'm way
into right now. That's like a very very big song
on the charts called a bar song, Tipsy by Shaboozi.
That song is fun. I might start liking country after
that song. I'm also liking she loves country. I've been

(01:46):
catching myself listening to more country wall and I'm actually.

Speaker 2 (01:50):
Morgan than one that is dating Kyl the richer the girl.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
No, it's a guy. Oh anyway, So I've been listening
to more country, but that's not generally my thing. When
I'm at the gym doing stuff like that, it's like
it's rap. I like, I've been listening to all this
Kendrick Lamar and Drake rap beef going on.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
I don't know anything about it. I'm consumed about I'm uncles.
I'm all consumed with Puff Daddy Piddy and what's happening
with p dds A mess. It's a mess, and it
drives me crazy.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
When I picked you up for the first time, you
remember I came up to the house bumping with speed
like loud bass.

Speaker 2 (02:24):
And I almost I contemplated no coming out of the house.
I was like, no, this kid is confused. I don't
know it's happening. That was pop rap and the car
was very low to the ground.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
I don't want to know.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
It's not my thing and this but listen, okay, listen
to this one.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
Oh.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
I you know it's also consuming me, like besides p
d D the j Low Beneffleck saga. Okay, and you
know it's funny.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
I was reving here and I love all that you say.
I love all the guys.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
I love it. No, I'm actually very sad about it
because I hope it's not true because after watching the documentaries,
you know, I don't comprehend how it's possible. That's so
fast things are going south, and I wish her happiness
and love. So it's actually breaking my heart. And I
you know what's crazy, I'm driving here. This never happens

(03:13):
to me. I wonder if this is a symbol symbolism,
because I'm all, no, look, I never forget my my
wedding ring and I put all this jewey and I'm
driving here to the podcast room and I don't have
my lose.

Speaker 1 (03:24):
My mind right now because you know, all the time
look at me bling bling.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
I was like, I've forgotten my I forgot my wedding ring.
They're going to take a picture of me and they're
gonna say we have we're having trouble. Nobody's following me,
so it's okay.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
Clearly we're going we have some problems.

Speaker 2 (03:38):
No, but it isn't that weird. That has never happened
to me. And I feel naked. I'm literally naked. I'm
sure not used to. You're the one that lives going
to the.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
Gym without the work out with a ring on my finger.
That's all scratched, dude.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
I I work out with my ring on this.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
I don't mind to get all scratched up and out
of it. Every time Eric leaves coming gym, I don't
take my ring.

Speaker 2 (03:59):
That's what you need. That that's funny. Of all places
in the world where you need a ring, is it
the gym? This is funny. Guys like girls also full
of It's like there's a there is a there's an equinox.
How you saying it? And I'm not saying everybody goes
to equinox just for the show of it all, because
some people truly go to workout and you know, get

(04:22):
their healthy hour and the in and out of all
these women going so provocative, Like when I go to
the gym, I'm not don't go anymore. I just work
out of my house. But I didn't want to be shown.
Like on the contrary, I will cover myself to go
to the gym because it's not about that. And you
see them parading. It's like a fashion show and you
feel like, girls.

Speaker 1 (04:43):
This is the culture. What do you what do you
buy a little lemon alo or any of these places
you buy. People are buying fitted workout gear. That's this.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
Then you put out you put a vest on top
of it, a sweatshow. It's a show, Eric, it is
a show.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
A little top and you love it.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
I'm not saying they get sweaty, like they start and
I don't know. And it was like she looks like
the hair is getting at a ware. They're like red cheek.

Speaker 1 (05:11):
Wow, they're wearing what is being sold in the market.
Workout gears tight for women for.

Speaker 2 (05:17):
Men, go with baggies and be comfortable. There's nothing comfortable
about a g string with a tight legging that is
made of sympathetic to see them, that gives infections and
bacteria and stuff.

Speaker 1 (05:29):
Just that I'm looking at their butt. But you don't
want to see panty lions. You want to see a
thought the quiet. You're not gonna walk around with tights
on in a freaking regular underwear.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
And the sweatpants.

Speaker 1 (05:40):
I know, but if you wore leggings to the gym,
you're not well, of course I'm gonna.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Do, and then I'm gonna be caught. Then I'm uncomfortable
the entire time.

Speaker 1 (05:47):
Exactly. Well, but you're gonna wear comfortable, that's what you're
gonna wear.

Speaker 2 (05:51):
I went hiking through the guys and I'm covered her
with to toe. I have a hat and I have glasses.
I don't know. I don't want to be bothered.

Speaker 1 (05:57):
This would not have been the ra in her twenties
because you are on a talk show in a thong
and basically pasties and like ad dress that would barely
cover you. What talk shows that I don't know many
talk shows you barely had clothes on.

Speaker 2 (06:07):
When what are you talking about?

Speaker 1 (06:08):
You would be on carpet show, tell me is out cleavage?
The thigh you were showing your whole body all the
time in your time a hypocrite, I'm being a hypotrites.
Girls are generally.

Speaker 2 (06:23):
If you haven't show up. You talk about having a
healthy lifestyle, especially when it comes to eating. When you
are running around and you need something in a pinch,
what is a good healthy option and what if you

(06:44):
have to get fast food?

Speaker 1 (06:46):
That's a great question, and I'm going to be honest.
For me, I avoid fast food like I will sit
there and starve for the longest time. And I think
when we've been in a crunch like it happened to
Dylan Night, which is our version. A lot of times
the fast food now is like Starbucks. Right, you're like, oh,
but it's an a grap but it's still filled with sodium,
and it's pre made and it's frozen, and it's still

(07:08):
not great, right, but I feel it's better than other things. However,
it's still fast food. So sometimes we'll get like the
protein box, which is really just like a harribleled egg
and some protein, some peanut butter and crackers maybe and
cheese or something like that.

Speaker 2 (07:21):
I would say I would go to if we're going
to do that. Quick stop is Starbucks for the most part.

Speaker 1 (07:25):
But I would, yeah, for sure, and anywhere I can
find to stop and just grab a salad or a
clean sandwich, like something that feels like it's relatively made healthy.
But I just I avoid, and that's just me. I
don't know. I ate fast food my whole life growing up,
but I just avoid fast food like the plague. I
don't go to any of these. Yeah, we don't like

(07:46):
it fast food stops. Look at this one at Petrol
Caerry protein bars. Like you. That's also not she We've
talked about it. You have Tosh or Whoppers stash. You're
always putt stuff in your.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
Car Petrel Underscore, Timon Underscore, Sawny. This is not a
quite but a comment. I am a German and I
wanted to say thank you for motivating me to improve
my English and learn some Spanish. The show helps me
helps me be conversational with my English. Thank you. You
are more than welcome. This is so awesome. Once again,
our fans from Germany, we have to go to Germany.

(08:19):
Eric Germany. It's awesome.

Speaker 1 (08:20):
There are a bunch of times.

Speaker 2 (08:21):
And what advice do you have for someone who is
about to graduate high school and starting to join the
adult world from the Rookie Underscore seven.

Speaker 1 (08:33):
And someone is about to graduate high school. I mean, well,
I don't know. If you're not going to college, it
would buy you a little time into the adult world
travel pre adult world travel for sure, if you can.
It's hard because you have to pay bills. You have
to get out there and start working. I believe. I
believe in if as soon as you start getting out
there and working, as soon as you can do what

(08:53):
you love as your passion and you enjoy your job,
please start with that. If it's something you have to
do for the sake of making money, find some aspect
in it that makes you happy and proud to be
doing it. Because nothing annoys me more than when people
are doing jobs and acting like they hate the job
that they're in. You know, it's like, if that's the
job you're doing, do it to the best of your

(09:14):
ability and make it.

Speaker 2 (09:16):
Except well, that's only fifty percent of the workforce. Usually
people that love what they do for it.

Speaker 1 (09:20):
No, But, like I'm saying, especially if you're in the
customer relations department, right, if you're dealing with the service industry,
do it to the best of your ability and you
will be rewarded long term somehow.

Speaker 2 (09:31):
But you know what's interesting, guys, I was about to
send Eric this TikTok that I saw to David. I
was like, you know, I'm not going to do it
because he's going to have a very specific opinion anyways,
I know what he's going to say. But it was
this man. He was at a very important, huge podcast,
This man that I follow that I like a lot,
you know, and they question and they're very very provocative

(09:52):
when it comes to points of view. And this man
was saying, what is the only thing that I regret
doing to my kids right as a parent, And he said,
send them them to school? What sending them to private school?
Send them them? Sending them to public school? And then

(10:13):
he says, and then sending them to private school because
I believe the.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
Public school first, and then going to private school.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
And then he regrets both because he understands the option,
because the option is he believes school is designed to
indoctrinate and everything about it, for the most part is
what I tell you all the time is not useful
once they go into the world. That's why they didn't

(10:41):
send it to you the way he explained.

Speaker 1 (10:43):
I mean, look, school. That's ridiculous a point, there's no
point like at I could see a person going like, oh,
private school was actually worse in some ways than a
public school or vice versa. Obviously, you know, I grew
up public school my whole life. But I think and
I had this long conversation funny enough with the tennis

(11:05):
coach that's about a school because you'll start playing tennis there,
and this you know, craze about all these kids homeschooling
and homeschooling, and they're saying that in colleges, these kids
that are getting scholarships, A lot of these colleges are
really encouraging school now, even more so because and we
actually heard this firsthand from a girl that was at
Sebby's tennis academy that went to play for Princeton and

(11:27):
a lot of her friends that are on the tennis
team were homeschooled and when they got to college, they
were lost. They were getting behind because they didn't know
how to manage their time and actually operate in a
school setting. So a lot of these colleges are encouraging
these kids that are coming in on scholarships from homeschooling.
You should go to school. You should stay in school
as much as you can because it opens up your

(11:48):
brain into the way of thinking and processing things in
a school environment.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
This is a problem that I have. Yes, there are
a lot of education is everything. I just wish that
the same. The same way schools, private schools, all schools
are becoming more and more and more progressive and welcoming
different philosophies, you know, and acceptance of all kinds of genders,
you know, and educating that part of what's happening with

(12:15):
the world. You know, it's an uprising, it's a new beginning,
it's it's a it's a new era. The same way
they dedicate so much time to that, I wish they
will also dedicate more time into truly teaching them about
life and existence and and and gardening and eating healthy,
and economics and credit and investment, and like, I just

(12:38):
want them to create a more full circled individual. It
shouldn't be so much about for years and years and years,
it's the same curriculum, the same books, the same eight
to eight, eight to three, and the bell rings and
they all like little cattle, you know, everything feels so
repetitive and there's no evolution.

Speaker 1 (12:59):
Definitely time that could be used more efficiently.

Speaker 2 (13:01):
The pe time is like forty five minutes. They don't
even like it. It's doing the same thing over and
over again.

Speaker 1 (13:07):
Is super important. I do condition it is, but it
shouldn't be wrong.

Speaker 2 (13:11):
The field four times and then let's do some jumping jacks.

Speaker 1 (13:15):
Guys know, well, you have to do with what you
can in that time.

Speaker 2 (13:18):
Them.

Speaker 1 (13:19):
Pe is actually one of the very important aspect of school.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
Winter, Barrett Winter, I'm not saying that it's not, of course,
it is what I'm saying, but change the freaking playbook.

Speaker 1 (13:29):
There could be more things about nutrition, There could be
more things about We didn't really answer anyway. We did
answer this question at all. I feel terrible. We actually
just told you how how your high school probably should
have done everything differently. That was a mess. Listen, travel, travel,
love what you do, and uh just give it your

(13:50):
best and.

Speaker 2 (13:51):
My own school. Lord, so many things in life and
I don't have enough time or money.

Speaker 1 (13:55):
How you can open your own school? Huge? Can you
call me? You're talking about?

Speaker 2 (14:00):
I have so many ideas. Nobody takes me seriously. That's
what's so sad?

Speaker 1 (14:06):
Is it?

Speaker 2 (14:06):
My accent? Do I come across like an uneducated. I'm
very educated.

Speaker 1 (14:10):
Clara, Clara, Clarimicia, And you say this is there. Why
are you laughing about yourself?

Speaker 2 (14:16):
I don't know. There is illusional because I hate everybody.

Speaker 1 (14:19):
Is there a life lesson that you have learned from
a character that either of you have played, a life
lesson that a character you've played has taught you.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
I wish I had karenin Luna's belief in herself. Karra
Man Luna from Vivius Metz was the best, ambitious and
relentless and a dreamer and life. You know, it's hard,
Carmel Luna for life.

Speaker 1 (14:49):
I don't know if I have a follow up to that.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
This is a good one. This is a good one
from jab Dutch. You mentioned that going to church in
an episode. You mentioned that you guys go to church
and episode, but also that you are spiritual. I am
wondering if you feel there is a difference between being
religious and.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
Spiritual one hundred percent?

Speaker 2 (15:09):
What is a difference?

Speaker 1 (15:10):
Eric Well? I think being spiritual is your connection with
God or your higher being, whatever you want to call
the energy of the world, you know, the universe. It's
it's being spiritual to a greater purpose and I think
that connection is super important and less about a religion
and following you talking about doctrinating right, following the path

(15:32):
of one belief system if you don't feel it's right
for you. I think it's about the connection with a
higher purpose or God, let's call it as I like
to say God. But thereybody is something different. But I
think that spirituality to me is more important than the
institution of religion for me. I do love going to church.

(15:53):
I love having a setting. I love the way it
makes me feel, I love the energy it brings me.
But I could walk into a Buddhist temple and also
feel incredibly special with what that's going to give me.
I've walked into many different spiritual buildings, whatever they may
be right structures, and I feel that same overwhelming appreciation

(16:14):
for what their practices are. One of the best classes
I ever took in school was World Religions. I took that.

Speaker 2 (16:20):
It's fascinating. I think spirituality is unbelievable and the best
feeling in the world. I'm not talking about religions specifically religions.
I'm talking about that connection that you have with Source,
with the universe, with God, with whatever you believe I
think it is so so important, Like I don't know

(16:43):
how people can walk through life without having spirituality as
part of their being. I don't understand it that when
somebody says I'm a full atheist, like I don't believe
in anything. I don't believe in God, I don't listen.
I respect you. I'm sure you have your reasons, and
it doesn't mean you're a bad person. You can be
an outstanding person. But just the fact that you lack spirituality,
I don't. It's like somebody that I don't like dogs.

(17:05):
I don't connect with dogs.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
They're annoyed.

Speaker 2 (17:07):
They go to your house and the dog goes and
they jump on them when they I don't understand it.

Speaker 1 (17:14):
I think people who generally, and I could be saying
this in correctly, but people who generally have this feeling
of I don't connect spiritually. It's not about the spirit
it's about religion, what religion has done to them to
make them think I don't believe in God. I don't
believe in anything. However, I beg you they believe in
the universe still, or they believe in a higher energy.
They believe that we all, you know, die and our

(17:35):
energy goes back into a greater source if you will,
which is still kind of having spirituality. If you believe
you have a soul. Now, if you don't believe you
have a soul, then you can't really have any spirituality
at all because you're you're not believing in that part
of your of your body.

Speaker 2 (17:50):
What about Anita. Anita, this massive, massive Brazilian superstar. Our
music is great, She's beautiful, and she came out publicly,
openly saying that her religion is Santaria, which is like
Caribbean voodoo, and she lost like two hundred thousand followers,

(18:11):
like it was the people were outraged.

Speaker 1 (18:12):
Really, yeah, I didn't know that that was the back.

Speaker 2 (18:14):
It was a big deal. And she came out defending it, saying,
I am whom this is what I believe.

Speaker 1 (18:19):
This is where I would take her side, so to speak.
She was brave enough to say this is what I
believe in. You don't have to like it. You can
unfollow me. It doesn't mean you have to agree with it.
But she was brave enough to come out and say,
this is how I identify spiritually, and this is what
gives me life, right, this is what drives me in

(18:42):
my journey. To me that whether people liked it or
didn't like it, it's more powerful than all the other
artists out there that are doety by hiding behind it
and acting like it doesn't exist and acting like they
don't do it. So to me, I give her tons
of credit. And I think it's incredible because everybody has
that right to believe and follow and do what they want. Spiritually,

(19:06):
it doesn't make it even if you don't disagree with it.
I mean, even if you don't agree with it, doesn't
give you the right to say, I don't believe in
what you're what you what you stand for. So I
give her credit. I give her a lot of credit
for them, because there are a lot of people that
would not say it. They would do it behind closed doors.

Speaker 2 (19:22):
Well remember the majority, at least eighty percent of the music,
basinis and the entertainment business, they do some form of magic.
It is true, the guys, is there anybody? Is it
true that I've seen it firsthand? And they all they
they never talk about it openly or they don't want
to collect the millions, and they don't want to do
the offerings, and they kill the chickens and they don't

(19:44):
want that okay, and they don't say anything.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
I have no words at Angela Club. I am dating
someone and we both have commitment issues. We have been
seeing each other for a year, and I know we
need to have a conversation on where it is going.
We basically live together, We spend the night at my
home five to six days a week. How do I
approach one ting more? Well, let's see a year. The

(20:10):
year is a pretty good timepends on the age of
these I don't know the age of you, Angela, but
I think if you are of a reasonable likely you're
in your twenties at a certain point, right, I think.

Speaker 2 (20:19):
But what is one and more marriage? What are we
talking about.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
More or permanently moving in together? Maybe and giving that
a try. If that's on the car, you're basically living
at her house five to six days a week. I
think you can open up that conversation and say, hey,
you're basically here all the time. It's been a year.
Where are we headed in this relationship? Do you think
a year is too soon to have that conversation?

Speaker 2 (20:37):
No, not at all.

Speaker 1 (20:39):
Depends on the age of the person.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
Yeah, I would say, Angela, I think a.

Speaker 1 (20:44):
Year could be a little early, like maybe you get
into a year and a half, even maybe get into
two years, but a year still feels really good.

Speaker 2 (20:51):
Angela. You know how awesome it is just to have
just to live together five days a week, and then
for two days you don't have to and you have
the privacy of your own home.

Speaker 1 (21:00):
They just don't stay over for two days. They probably
see each other on those two days. No I know,
But then do you want me to leave for two days?
Is that what you're getting at? Do you want that privacy?
Should we be talking about what our next steps are?

Speaker 2 (21:12):
True, we'll be talking about you know that. But who's
the Who's the one that came out Carson Daily and
Mario Lopez separated, and if who else? I think it
was Gwyneth Cameron Diaz, Gwyneth foul Trow. I apologize if
I'm making it up that they also believe that it's
a good thing to have separate I even I even
think that this whole Benon Jayla thing is that sometimes

(21:32):
you know, he's very autistic and he's very heady when
it comes to directing and acting. Maybe he's just living
in a separate house because he needs some quiet time.

Speaker 1 (21:41):
I ain't. I'm not down with you sleep in a
different bedroom. There's no way. I know you're down with it.
You would love it, but I ain't down with that.

Speaker 2 (21:46):
I will never do that.

Speaker 1 (21:49):
I'm not doing that. But I think Angela, I think
you could open the conversation up if you want. If
you don't think it's too soon, you could even wait,
you know, wait a little longer. But if you're seeing
each other five to six days a week at your house,
at least at your house, that's one thing. I think
that's probably more comfortable for you. But I would probably
have the conversation about where we headed, when do we
do it? No pressure, but I would like to know

(22:11):
you're here a lot, what are we what's the direction
the path we're on? And how do you do it?
You just ask?

Speaker 2 (22:17):
Just say communication, guys, Okay? Last one Linn's Beckstar. I
am recently divorced and learning to try and comparement with
my ex. Any advice on how to put myself back
out there and when my confidence, when my confidence is
not at its highest.

Speaker 1 (22:37):
So tough. I come from divorced parents. It's so tough,
but I know my parents did a great job go
parenting they were really both hands on all the time.
And hopefully you and your ex are doing that. I
hope you guys are both accepting the fact that you
want to have the other parent very active in the

(22:58):
kid's life and you don't want to try and block
that or that in any kind of way. If you're
going down that path successfully and you guys are respecting
each other, that's a huge start. When your confidence isn't
as high ast if you're ready, Are you ready to
get back out there, because that's a big question, right,
Your confidence can be low, but you're saying to myself yourself,
I am ready. And if you're ready, you get your
friends and you have a support system, and you go

(23:20):
out and you go on a girls trip. You go
on a girls trip, you go have dinner somewhere, you
go to a nice you know, you have to go
to a club, whatever. You just go to like nice
restaurants where there's a bar, hang out, start socializing. You know,
allow the energies and the world to come your way.
You know that, you know it's very open to it.

Speaker 2 (23:37):
You know it's very powerful and it's interesting. And this
is just my experience guys. When I when I got
divorce the first time. I never liked. I was petrified
before being married to just go to a restaurant or
go to lunch by myself, Like I didn't understand how
to do that. You know, I will always be like

(23:59):
it looks weird if I'm by myself.

Speaker 1 (24:00):
I was so weird because you want your own bedroom
and you want to be alone all the time. Because
I have changed by myself all the time the.

Speaker 2 (24:06):
Time, nobody I couldn't do it. I couldn't do it.
I need a company, as like, I didn't comprehend how
to do that. Then I got married, got divorced, and
I so much want to It was such like a
I felt like such a failure because I was so young,
and I'm going like I don't want that on my resume,
my life resume. You know that I am twenty five
years old and I'm already divorced. I was so mortified

(24:29):
about that fact. And I guess it was my ego.
I don't know, I don't know what it was. I'm going,
how am I going to tell anybody else? Like, yeah,
I've been I've been married, and it was disgusting, So
I did. I just didn't want to leave the house,
you know, and I was so young. I'm doing so
fantastic and funny enough, you know what, you want to
do something funny talking about Jaylaw it's a lot of jail.

(24:49):
I apologize Jaelo that I mentioned in your name so much.
But your first husband or honey Noah Cuan the waiter
from Miami that she met her first husband. We were
friendly at the time. He was always been lovely with me.
And I'm at a goals gym in Hollywood, funny enough, miserable,
and he sees me and he goes, hey, Ross, and

(25:10):
I'm going, oh my god, how why? So what's up
with you? I'm going I had life, you know. I'm like,
I'm trying to get out there, I'm trying to work out,
and I'm just so uncomfortable. And he said to me,
this is your prime. You're beautiful, you're so young, this
is the moment that you should be so comfortable with yourself.
And what are you doing?

Speaker 1 (25:26):
Ross?

Speaker 2 (25:27):
You know, snap out of it? Oh honey, Noah, isn't
that crazy? And I was like, oh my god, thank
you so much. And it was as simple as saying,
you know what, I am going to go to breakfast
and instead of just being by myself and my friends
calling me a you okay, and I'm avoiding everybody. And
I started just going to lunch and breakfast and early
dinners by myself with a kindle or a book and

(25:50):
just minding my own business, having a great meal, just
comfortable with myself. And that was huge for me.

Speaker 1 (25:59):
If they were attractive, that a girl that's comfortable in herself,
that wants nothing to do with anybody, exactly right. It
feels hard to get so then all the guys start going, ooh,
what's up with that girl? She's so occupied, Oh she's cute.
And that was a very occupying boom boom boom.

Speaker 2 (26:10):
You start getting hit on everyone, and I didn't want
to be hit by anybody, and I was like, I
just want to be left alone.

Speaker 1 (26:15):
Get yourself back out there. It's going to be good.
And thank you for sharing all your questions. Again, we
appreciate you all. If there is something you want to
send to us, don't forget. Send your dms to he
said a a d HO on Instagram or email us
at Ericnroz at ourheartradio dot com. Until next time. I
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Speaker 2 (26:35):
If you want to follow us on Instagram, check goes
out at he said Ajay is that email Eric and
Ross at iHeartRadio dot com. He said, Ajabo is part
of iHeartRadio's Mike would do that podcast network.

Speaker 1 (26:47):
See you next time. I
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