July 31, 2023 • 28 mins
A routine checkup leaves Ros in shock!
Meanwhile Eric explores the TikTok term "Eggshell Parenting"...and how it can make kids crack under pressure.
Plus, could Roselyn's morbid memories of coffee, crackers, and coffins be the real reason she won't drink a cup of joe?
The caffeine confession that left Eric wide awake!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is, he said, A yad ho with Eric Winter
and Rodland Fantaz.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
How was everybody? He said? A jav ho listeners, How
are you doing?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
You had a little You had a meeting with our
friend Chris Life coach Chris Life coach, Chris Lee.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
We went to breakfast, then we went shopping for a
little bit. I couldn't find anything I liked. That was unfortunate.
Break any additions may breakthroughs. Every time I'm with Chris,
I have a breakthrough. Yeah, he's amazing. I want to
have him over for dinner because he's here for another week.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Week.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Anyways, I have to start by saying something.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
What do you have to say?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
So you know what? We had a podcast last week
and I was talking, you know, blahlah blah blah. And
then we were talking about like tiktoks and comments and
I was like making fun of you, going please, And
then I said something as people don't know who I am,
it's like google me. And then I used the B
word after I.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Don't remember, but I guess you did.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
I did as a joke. And then I know the
Instagram he said, ayad hoo page posted that clip. I
didn't use it I actually used it on my TikTok,
and I deleted that little word at the very end
because I knew if people don't listen to the episode completely,
(01:23):
it can be taken completely out of context.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Who are you calling the B word to anybody? Anybody?
But you're calling the social media followers who didn't know
who you were that are.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Fans of mine as a joke, not fans of yours,
of course, not I love your fans who were like
somebody like, so people anybody that is rude saying like,
oh my god, who is she? Or whatever? It was like, listen,
it was unnecessary, but it was actually a joke. I
was just making a point and just trying to be funny.
And I guess very few people, not a lot of people,
because a lot of people were like they thought it
was funny and so rosse you cracked me up. And
(01:55):
another people took offense, saying, why are you calling me
a biach? If I don't know who you are, You're
like arrogant. And then there's a lot of comments and
I was reading them and I shouldn't and I was
reading them and I was like, but I take responsibility,
and I didn't mean to offend anybody, you know, And
if people are listeners of the show, they I'm assuming
(02:17):
they know by now that I'm a lover, not a hater,
that I love fans, and I am very strong and
I can come across a little strong sometimes, but it's
all with it's not bad intentions. I'm not calling any
woman a BH on purpose or maliciously, especially somebody that
I don't know. Is that when somebody when somebody goes, oh,
(02:39):
come on, bitch, you know what I mean? Like, I
don't mean, I wasn't like, yeah, I think you're a
BH if you don't know me. Plenty of people don't
know who I am. And it's okay this. I don't
like reading things, but I don't like exactly when you did.
When you said that my boob practice.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Joke, that guy got reamed for exactly exactly.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
So anyways, I just let me just get out of
my system and that's it.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
All right, Well, get it out. No more calling people
to be work never again. Listen, do you see my
boy Tom Brady moved on? Brady has moved on.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
You don't know that? Yeah, it's all big to Bradley
Cooper's X Shocker.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Why the shock. Why is the shocker?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
I don't know. People are going it doesn't mean that
he moved on. He could he could be dating somebody
else and still love his ex wife dearly.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
No, no, for sure, but I mean, listen, he's been spotted.
You know, I guess they met at a wedding. That
Irena check. You know, you know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
That I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
I know she is yet beautiful.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Yes, I guess they met at a wedding, and a
lot of people are joking saying that she was going
after him like crazy. Anyways, they they decided to meet up,
came to LA and I guess there's like all his
video now of her leading his house and so people
are going bonkers and I don't know why. Though he's divorced,
says Giselle, asked for a divorce, so why can't he date?
(04:06):
He the people, Yeah, move on, it's good, be happy.
So you got you got no issues with it? Going
from one super model to the next in this problem
typical because it's typical. Why he's a good looking dude
has nothing.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
To do with it has nothing to do with being
good looking.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
And looking there's a supermodel then was wrong?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
There's nothing wrong.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Why don't hate on Tom?
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Tom? Do you?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
I think it's okay?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Go from supermodel to supermodel.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
It's okay, now, I guess it doesn't you know. One
of the producer questions was, would it matter to you
if your partner had been in several high profile uh
relationships before you? But I think when you're at that level,
a lot of those people are just high profile and
high profile. I mean, she was linked to Rinaldo, she
was linked to obviously Bradley Cooper. I think she was
(04:56):
hanging out with DiCaprio at one point. Then she's with
Kanye at one point. I mean, she's been with a
lot of high profile people, but no Brady, Yeah. But
I mean, what do you mean?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
What are you trying to say.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
If your partner had been linked to a lot of
high profile people?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Like, would I not date somebody that has dated a
lot of high profile girls?
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Would it matter to you?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
No? I don't think so. I don't think so. I
think there's a there's a.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Or is there a type of high profile person that
would maybe bother you?
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Maybe maybe that I don't I don't know. I don't
know if the type. I don't know I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
You've been fine with it either way.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I mean, I think if it's a pattern that is
so obvious, I'll be like, I wonder if this is
even Let's say that I like the person a lot,
and he's just wonderful and cool and I have a
fantastic time and we have chemistry and all that. But
I know that the four or the five before me
were high level figures. There's a subconscious little voice that
(05:56):
will be telling me. I wonder if this is his thing, you.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Know, yeah, I mean, look teach his own. I mean,
I don't know, but I think people are people are
freaking out because Giselle supposedly moved on a long time
ago with her jiu jitsu instructor, and that's everybody's been
whoeverybody's been linking her.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Nobody has proven proven.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
I mean, she's been traveling all over with him and been.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Seeing with him, but he didn't go to another high
profile person.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
She went to move publicly if she really moved on
with this person first, So who cares when he when
he moves on, I feel I feel like he's getting
a lot of their.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Divorced It's okay, whatever they.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Want feels like he's getting a lot.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Of it because he chose a high profile person. If
he would have chosen uh, interior decorator from Iowa, it
wouldn't be a problem.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Why is that person I have profile? Maybe the interior
decorator from.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Iowa unless she is like an influencer of h G
t V interior decorator.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
It's so be it, It doesn't matter. Are you happy?
You're happy Brady? Then good?
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Yeah, we're happy for him. We're happy for him. How
about speaking another high profile athletes about that documentary we
saw There the Night with Steph Curry. How good was that?
People need to watch that? Two great documentaries we saw.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Lah and we saw Underrated Underrated with step That's how
I feel.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
You feel underrated.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
I feel underrated my whole life.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
People tell you too small, what, not fast enough, not
smart enough?
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Like oh my god, you're so tiny, Like when I
saw that movie, you look so tall, like you're tiny.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
I think both docs were interesting in their own right,
right the Dela Hooya one, we know this guy was
going to be forced into greatness, his family pushed in
a way, right like he was. But don't you think
in a way he was great, but I mean it
was by the drive of his parents that sort of
gave him the all or none. You're in. You're going
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to be a pro and you're going to be pushed
to be the very best you can be, even if
you feel like breaking or crack, and you're going to
be pushed.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Right. But then it also fell opposite with Curry, whereas
he was not in a position really to be necessarily
great due to his height, due to a lot of
other things holding him back, and his parents didn't seem
like they were pushing him to the degree that De
la Hoya's family was.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
I don't think so. But I mean I think the
dad said, if you want to do this for real,
let me teach you all these bad habits unless correct thing,
because the dad himself was a proast player. But I
don't think they groomed him and I don't think they
forced him.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
To do this didn't feel like the same story as
Delahi Delahoy is much darker story, and the Curry story
was full of like family that in that regard two
polar opposite ways of reaching the top in a profession.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
And it was fascinating both the story is pretty incredible,
this kid from East East LA. And how he was
able able to accomplish incredible things.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Yeah, no, for sure, it overcome a lot.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
And so insecure and so underrated, you know as well,
because you know he's the pretty boy and he's so
nobody believed the hype and he had to show every
single instant of his life, every single match during his
training that he was worthy of greatness and he did.
You know, he was an incredible boxer, absolutely incredible boxer.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Also good story. Did you see this piece? I don't
you know, I don't want to really gossip too much
about this because I don't, you know, whatever. To each
his own, but I guess Kristen Bell is getting a
lot of a lot of heat because her children enjoy
drinking non alcoholic beer. Does that bother you?
Speaker 2 (09:34):
How how old?
Speaker 3 (09:36):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
Daughters are Delta eight and Lincoln nine, but drink well,
it's not non alcoholic.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
Really. My understanding though, was not alcoholic beer still had
some sort of alcohol percent, like very minimal.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
It doesn't have it at all.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
No, it's notoolic, I know, but I thought it still
was not fully non alcoholic? Am I wrong in that?
It's just not at a level that you can call
it alcohol like an alcoholic beverage. I don't know. I mean,
you wonder if they're gonna go.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Yeah. Bill went to say that the drinks contained zero
percent alcoholic, and that seems establishing this routine. Her kids
have asked for non alcoholic beer at restaurant.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
That's hilarious though. You see a kid asking for an aduel?
Can I have well beer please? Asking for what a noduels,
which like a non alcoholic beer.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Well, it's not alcoholic, but let me ask you something.
It's not alcoholic, but it still tastes a little bit
like beer.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
So many beers will have point three or point four
percent alcohol despite the name non alcohol.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
No, I don't believe it has any I just.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
Googled it because I had heard. I had heard that
was the case that a lot of non alcohol based
beers do have a little bit of a percent of alcohol.
Now it says, as stayed on his label, Heineken has
zero percent alcohol volumes classified as alcohol free. So maybe
some are totally zero. I have heard that some have. Hint.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
The question here is what do you think about kids
getting used to the taste of beer, even if it
doesn't contain alcohol. Would you would you be comfortable with
Dylan and Sabella liking that brand that you just said.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
I'll be honest, I probably tasted a beer when I
was at that age. I'm sure. I feel like I
was one of those kids where maybe I wasn't dating,
not like I remember my dad giving me a sip
of a beer or something like when I was a kid,
and it was like a joke. I don't know how
old I was. I was definitely underage. I just took
like a sip of something. But I actually didn't grow
up liking beer, so I can't say that it does.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
I am not. I don't want to judge, you know,
because I don't like to mess with anybody. Anybody's parenting
and if they don't have a problem, then it's none
of our business to have a problem. So I'm okay
now if you ask me, I wouldn't be comfortable with
my kids having it just because it has the same
taste as beer. So I feel like, you know how
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coffee and alcohol, and it's like an acquired taste. I
don't want them liking an acquiring something because I think
the transition from one to another is seamless.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
It's because they taste a same Yeah, I would think
it's easier for sure, because beer. For me growing up,
I never really liked the taste of beer until I
got older. Now I actually really liked the taste of beer.
But when I was younger, when I could, when I
even started drinking, I just beer was it's disgusting. I
never liked it.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
And it tastes like you're drinking, peepy. I'm sorry, so
you're drinking, you're drinking.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
I just never I just never liked the taste of it.
But I could see if I did grow up liking
the taste of something that was not agog based, how
easy the transition would be to go to something and
I love it.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
I'm sorry, guys, I don't love it for you. But
to each its own is that a saying to each
its own, to each its own, So if they like it,
it's okay. Listen, I am the girl. It's like, it's funny,
like I don't drink coffee and I don't want my
kids drinking coffee. And I was the girl my entire
life that drank coffee, even as Dylan's age, I'm going
(12:56):
to be it's just.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
Supposed to be terrible for you too, caffeine that you do.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
I drag coffee since I can remember, yes, And to
the point that my grandmother and grandfather on my dad's
side ailla Rosa and I will romance. Can I tell
you something. It's so vivid. And I think it was
Dylan's age or even younger when they passed away. I
was a baby, And now to this day, I remember
(13:23):
how much I loved the coffee. At the funeral. They
had this little table with coffee and soda, crackers and
how do you call that? Esportsola saltines, so saltines with
butter and coffee.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
And you were drinking that and I was.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Getting my coffee and putting butter in the sultine and
dipping the sultine into the coffee. Like to this day,
I remember when he passed away first, and I was like,
this is the best thing I've had in my life,
and looking forward to go into my next funeral coffee,
to have that coffee and crackers.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
How crazy is telling people to get coffee and crackers?
And now you won't even now you won't even touch coffee.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
And I haven't touched coffee in twenty three years. I
can't even smell it.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
I won't let the kids drink coffee, even though I
love coffee and I and I have no problem with
them drinking coffee, and they get older, I still don't
want them touching coffee.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
At the time. The caffeine is you need to stop
drinking coffee. You drink so much coffee.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
I don't understand that much coffee.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
You drink coffee. You know that it's not good for
your vocal core. Its just not good for your acidity.
I don't know why you do it.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
I don't drink. I don't know. I don't know. I
want to producery. It stunts your growth.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
What stunts the growth? Coffee it does?
Speaker 3 (14:35):
That's what That's what Easton is saying.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
That stunts your growth. Coffee or alcohol.
Speaker 3 (14:43):
Oh am to the I mean, yeah, maybe that's what
happened to you. Fine.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
I never said that.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
I was supposed to be coffee at the funeral.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
That's my mom is like five feet tall, like five
to one. There's no way they didn't have a chance.
Speaker 3 (14:56):
You stopped a five it with the coffee.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
It was a coffee.
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Speaker 3 (16:42):
Here's a topic that I find interesting. What is the
deal with this new TikTok parenting term eggshell parenting? The
phrase eggshell parenting game popularity when licensed clinical psychologist doctor
Kim Sage. Sage went viral on TikTok. She describes the
parenting style as making kids like they are walking on
egg shells due to the unpredictability of a parent's mood
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and behavior with no warnings or cues. Egg Shell parenting
we have putting your child in a position where they
have to always be hyper vigilant to what may or
may not happen next. I have never heard of this
in my life. Did you grow up absorbing any kind
of crazy energy in your household? Oh my god, you're
(17:28):
like my life was eggshell parenting.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Do we have like maybe five hours for this podcast
today so I can talk to you about my upbringing? No,
I feel bad. I'm always like all over my parents
like my oupbringing. I have wonderful parents. But was it
a phenomenal environment? No?
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Was the mood volatile where it could switch on a dime?
Speaker 2 (17:53):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (17:54):
Really?
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Yeah? What do you think I am the way I am.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
At any moment?
Speaker 2 (17:57):
You just I don't do that. Actually, I'm actually until
two days ago that I snapped at my daughter.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
Yeah, we generally, I don't think either of us like
I feel like we build up when we snap. Like
we I've seen us both try really hard with the kids,
try really hard, and to findly we can't take it,
and then we're fed up with it and then we snap.
I don't think we just snap.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
No, we don't. We don't. And I need this, and
to me, it is because I'm so mindful of raising
these kids with a very functional, normal, loving, nursing, supportive
environment and family that I'm super mindful of that, you
know what I mean. Like, even if I'm in a
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terrible mood and Dylan comes over, I don't want to
take my problems on my kids because I think it's
just wrong and brutal. I don't always win to be
honest with you, you know, a lot of times I'm just
like ah, But I try, and I think we try
our best because to us, I priority is the well
being and the mental being of these kids.
Speaker 3 (19:01):
The man kids can push buttons, buttons like you've never
even buttoned you have.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
But I think that's why they come into your life.
I think kids are teaching parents the most incredible lessons
that we need to learn. Otherwise, what's the point of
being a parent, you know? So I think they they
come into your life to make you better people, and
to test you and to teach you, and to freaking
school you, and to be honest with you. That's what
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I think.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Yeah, I feel like we got schooled quite a few times.
It does happen. It's hard. Parenting's tough, but I think, yeah,
we try to approach it with balance and with patients
as much as possible.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Because the other day I was like Savella was getting
into my nerves and I snapped. It was first in
the morning, I didn't sleep well. I got a text
that kind of like completely lost my balance because of
this text that I received and a lot of stuff. Anyways,
I basically she didn't want to take a vitamins and
I just snapped horrifically, and she.
Speaker 3 (20:00):
That she has one it's a tone in which she
community y guys everything.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
It's just annoying. She's just annoying. So I went to
but I knew that my reaction was a little bit
out of control, but I was just so made her. Yeah,
So I went to the bedroom before you guys left
to before you took them to school, and I went
over and I looked at her and she was like
choking by herself, right, And I went over and I said,
I'm seb and she was want to look at me,
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and I said, I'm very sorry, my apologies. That wasn't
called for, and I don't want you to have a
bad day, so I'm sorry. Mammy is in a very
bad mood. And then she looked at me and started
crying and said, well, don't take your bad mood on me.
It's not my fault that you have, that you're in
a bad mood. She was correct, and I was like,
you know what, you're absolutely right, mammy. I love you
so much. And I apologize and I give her a
hug and then she you know, and then she was fine.
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But I was like, there you go. She just taught
me a lesson because it's absolutely true. It's okay to
be upset because she was just being impossible. But my
reaction was not necessary. And she basically said, it's not
what are you going through, It's not my problem. I mean,
just just bring it down a notch. And I was like,
oh my god.
Speaker 3 (21:07):
Yeah, you'd like to think that they it's hard because
she's right. And then but we're also human and we
try to forgive ourselves because we are also balancing a lot.
And when you balance a lot and then you get
a lot of resistance or fighting from the kids, that
it just refuses much shorter.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Yeah, sure, it's crazy, And I'm not sleeping. And I
thought that I was not sleeping because life and stress,
you know, and strikes and I'm about to start traveling
again and like a lot of stuff. So I've been
getting some like a little bit of like pelvic pain again.
And you know, guys, after I did my hysterectomy, I've
(21:41):
been feeling much better. So I was a little bit surprised.
Why am I getting all these things that I'm not
liking that resemble a little bit of what I used
to go before. So I said, I need to go
to the gynecologist to do an ultrasound, and blah blah blah.
My gynecologists passed away unfortunately not too long ago. So
now I have a new guy that is part of
the practice, so I'm meeting him for the first time.
(22:03):
So it was not as simple as just let me
just go with the technician, do an ultrasound, do some
blood work, and that's it. Because now I have a
new doctor. And basically, so I had to go through
the whole protocol of like you just sitting down a meeting,
and so what brings you here? Let me look at
your history. So we're just talking and then he says,
how are you sleeping. I'm going I'm not sleeping very well.
You know, it's kind of weird. So you're getting hot flashes,
not really you know, like not the hot flashes what
(22:25):
people say, oh my god, Like I've seen friends of
mine that are going through menopause that are like sweating
in front of me and they get red and they're miserable.
So I'm like, I'm not getting any of that. But yeah,
you know what. The other night, I sleep with like
a shirt and sweatpants and I took my shirt off
because I got very hot in the middle of the
night and the acy was on. But I don't think
it's anything bad. And he goes, are you're getting mood swings. Ah,
(22:47):
I get mood swings all the time, so it doesn't
really matter. You're getting headaches. I'm actually getting headaches. Yeah,
but you know it's okay, TikTok, etc. And he goes,
you know what, you're going through menopause.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
And I'm going, I'm going, what I know.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
I just turned fifty, But madamos, I look great, you know,
And he's laughing. And then he said, you know, well,
let's check everything. But everything you're telling me and the
fact that you're fifty and you had a hysterectomy even
though you have your ovaries. Yes, he goes, I am
almost positive. And then he goes, how's your libido and
how's this and how's that? Through the room, and I'm like, well,
(23:25):
come to think of it, no, anyways, so I ended
up doing all this blood work. So I do an
ultrasound for my ovaries right to make sure that everything
is okay, because you know. So it's interesting because the technician,
and this is the first time that my gynecologies is
actually my previous doctor. He will receive the images after
(23:47):
the technician does the ultrasound, right immediately after, I go
back to his office and we'll discuss this time. Doctor Gail.
I believe it. This last name went to the ultrasound
as well. So the technician is like doing her thing,
and the doctor is looking, and they're looking and looking
and looking, and they can't find it.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
The overies, but what do you mean?
Speaker 2 (24:11):
And they finally find them. They look fine, nothing like jobs.
They're very small, and he goes, they're shrinking considerably. They're
very small. What does that mean? And he's like explaining me,
there is no blood flow because the a lot of
the blood that the over his feet have come from
the uterus. You don't have a urus anymore, so the
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blood flow is very minimal. Therefore they start basically shrinking.
So yeah, you're going through menopause. I passed out, came
back to life, and then I started laughing, going, oh
my god, I'm officially old. And now we're always joking
about it. And I'm still joking because I don't want
to cry. And it's part of womanhood, you know. And
(24:54):
at some point I was going to enter that stage
of my life, but I was hoping that I was
going to be more like my mom five fifty six.
Not now.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
So what do you do in your menopause? I don't
know that. What happens? You have to you have to
supplement with hormones. What do you do? Yes, you are shrinking?
Speaker 2 (25:09):
Yeah, so basically I need estrogen, not progesterone. If I
had a uterus, then progesterone is important, but I don't
need it. So he goes, We're gonna have to start supplementing.
Estrogen is gonna be life changing for you. You need something.
And then I was at the weight because if I
have any pre cancer cells, I don't want to feed
the cancer because the estrogen. And he was telling me,
none of that is gonna happen. We're gonna be very specific.
Speaker 3 (25:29):
You know.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Once we get your levels, we know exactly what you need.
But you need to need a little bit and a
little bit of that, and with the right cocktail, right
that is catered for you. He goes, everything is gonna
it's gonna work. You know, your weight is gonna get better.
He explained to me, this little belly is like you
know what it's It was fascinating how science and how
(25:51):
the body works. And he goes, it's normal. Every woman
goes through it. You're know, the only one get over it.
It's okay, You're gonna be okay. It's not that deep.
The good thing is, do you nobody know, Nobody will
ever think you're going through this unless you verbally say so.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
You're gonna have to go on a hormone cocktail.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Apparently. I mean, we have to wait for my results.
They're checking everything thyroid and all my markers and inflammation
markers and VITAM. Indeed, he's like, he says, leads to
the entire thing. So we can have a comprehensive panel
of your body and then will assess and then I
have doctor Darryl, my functional medicine doctor, that will also
look at that. And then I'll compare notes and then
(26:26):
I'll decide. I'll decide what is my my cocktail. What
is my mocktail?
Speaker 3 (26:31):
To tell Sabelli you're sorry because you're with your menopause.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
I'm not gonna talk to anapause right now. She's gonna
be like, man, no, what.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Oh man? But yes, all the stuff that just happened
today exciting.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
Stuff not exciting at all. It's disgusting.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
I mean, should give you some answers.
Speaker 2 (26:46):
Explains a lot, It explains a lot.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
All the shee Hulk nature of the ups and downs,
the moods.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
Oh, the she was she Hulk? What is that?
Speaker 3 (26:54):
She Hulk? Like the incredible Sheeholk, the incredible Hulk, and
then there's shee Hulk. There's the female version of the incredible.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Hole you think of she Hulk.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
Well, I'm saying, with all the ups and downs of
the mood swings and the and the the hormones all.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
Over the he just called me she Hulk. Okay, thank you.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
Wow, And now you're gonna pump a cocktail.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
I'm going to do a mocktail.
Speaker 3 (27:15):
A mocktail, you know what I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
I'm going to create a brand of mocktail that is
going to be called menopause.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
There you go, No that all the young girls are
gonna have a drink it. I was gonna call it
was a good idea for a second.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
Man is coming. Excuse me, Meno is coming.
Speaker 3 (27:31):
Men is coming.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Meno like menopause.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
Meno is coming sounds terrible.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Many is coming.
Speaker 3 (27:41):
No, it sounds like the guy's name is men or
Many and meno Meno him he is coming. That sounds terrible.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
Meno is coming. That's funny, there, canno.
Speaker 3 (27:54):
Because he's coming. No one's going to be buying that mocktail.
You are you have? Your names are wacky.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
Men Meno is coming.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
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This is, he said, A yad ho with Eric Winter
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Speaker 2 (00:09):
How was everybody? He said? A jav ho listeners, How
are you doing?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
You had a little You had a meeting with our
friend Chris Life coach Chris Life coach, Chris Lee.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
We went to breakfast, then we went shopping for a
little bit. I couldn't find anything I liked. That was unfortunate.
Break any additions may breakthroughs. Every time I'm with Chris,
I have a breakthrough. Yeah, he's amazing. I want to
have him over for dinner because he's here for another week.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Week.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Anyways, I have to start by saying something.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
What do you have to say?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
So you know what? We had a podcast last week
and I was talking, you know, blahlah blah blah. And
then we were talking about like tiktoks and comments and
I was like making fun of you, going please, And
then I said something as people don't know who I am,
it's like google me. And then I used the B
word after I.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Don't remember, but I guess you did.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
I did as a joke. And then I know the
Instagram he said, ayad hoo page posted that clip. I
didn't use it I actually used it on my TikTok,
and I deleted that little word at the very end
because I knew if people don't listen to the episode completely,
(01:23):
it can be taken completely out of context.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Who are you calling the B word to anybody? Anybody?
But you're calling the social media followers who didn't know
who you were that are.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Fans of mine as a joke, not fans of yours,
of course, not I love your fans who were like
somebody like, so people anybody that is rude saying like,
oh my god, who is she? Or whatever? It was like, listen,
it was unnecessary, but it was actually a joke. I
was just making a point and just trying to be funny.
And I guess very few people, not a lot of people,
because a lot of people were like they thought it
was funny and so rosse you cracked me up. And
(01:55):
another people took offense, saying, why are you calling me
a biach? If I don't know who you are, You're
like arrogant. And then there's a lot of comments and
I was reading them and I shouldn't and I was
reading them and I was like, but I take responsibility,
and I didn't mean to offend anybody, you know, And
if people are listeners of the show, they I'm assuming
(02:17):
they know by now that I'm a lover, not a hater,
that I love fans, and I am very strong and
I can come across a little strong sometimes, but it's
all with it's not bad intentions. I'm not calling any
woman a BH on purpose or maliciously, especially somebody that
I don't know. Is that when somebody when somebody goes, oh,
(02:39):
come on, bitch, you know what I mean? Like, I
don't mean, I wasn't like, yeah, I think you're a
BH if you don't know me. Plenty of people don't
know who I am. And it's okay this. I don't
like reading things, but I don't like exactly when you did.
When you said that my boob practice.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Joke, that guy got reamed for exactly exactly.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
So anyways, I just let me just get out of
my system and that's it.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
All right, Well, get it out. No more calling people
to be work never again. Listen, do you see my
boy Tom Brady moved on? Brady has moved on.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
You don't know that? Yeah, it's all big to Bradley
Cooper's X Shocker.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Why the shock. Why is the shocker?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
I don't know. People are going it doesn't mean that
he moved on. He could he could be dating somebody
else and still love his ex wife dearly.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
No, no, for sure, but I mean, listen, he's been spotted.
You know, I guess they met at a wedding. That
Irena check. You know, you know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
That I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
I know she is yet beautiful.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Yes, I guess they met at a wedding, and a
lot of people are joking saying that she was going
after him like crazy. Anyways, they they decided to meet up,
came to LA and I guess there's like all his
video now of her leading his house and so people
are going bonkers and I don't know why. Though he's divorced,
says Giselle, asked for a divorce, so why can't he date?
(04:06):
He the people, Yeah, move on, it's good, be happy.
So you got you got no issues with it? Going
from one super model to the next in this problem
typical because it's typical. Why he's a good looking dude
has nothing.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
To do with it has nothing to do with being
good looking.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
And looking there's a supermodel then was wrong?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
There's nothing wrong.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Why don't hate on Tom?
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Tom? Do you?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
I think it's okay?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Go from supermodel to supermodel.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
It's okay, now, I guess it doesn't you know. One
of the producer questions was, would it matter to you
if your partner had been in several high profile uh
relationships before you? But I think when you're at that level,
a lot of those people are just high profile and
high profile. I mean, she was linked to Rinaldo, she
was linked to obviously Bradley Cooper. I think she was
(04:56):
hanging out with DiCaprio at one point. Then she's with
Kanye at one point. I mean, she's been with a
lot of high profile people, but no Brady, Yeah. But
I mean, what do you mean?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
What are you trying to say.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
If your partner had been linked to a lot of
high profile people?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Like, would I not date somebody that has dated a
lot of high profile girls?
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Would it matter to you?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
No? I don't think so. I don't think so. I
think there's a there's a.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Or is there a type of high profile person that
would maybe bother you?
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Maybe maybe that I don't I don't know. I don't
know if the type. I don't know I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
You've been fine with it either way.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I mean, I think if it's a pattern that is
so obvious, I'll be like, I wonder if this is
even Let's say that I like the person a lot,
and he's just wonderful and cool and I have a
fantastic time and we have chemistry and all that. But
I know that the four or the five before me
were high level figures. There's a subconscious little voice that
(05:56):
will be telling me. I wonder if this is his thing, you.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Know, yeah, I mean, look teach his own. I mean,
I don't know, but I think people are people are
freaking out because Giselle supposedly moved on a long time
ago with her jiu jitsu instructor, and that's everybody's been
whoeverybody's been linking her.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Nobody has proven proven.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
I mean, she's been traveling all over with him and been.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Seeing with him, but he didn't go to another high
profile person.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
She went to move publicly if she really moved on
with this person first, So who cares when he when
he moves on, I feel I feel like he's getting
a lot of their.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Divorced It's okay, whatever they.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Want feels like he's getting a lot.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Of it because he chose a high profile person. If
he would have chosen uh, interior decorator from Iowa, it
wouldn't be a problem.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Why is that person I have profile? Maybe the interior
decorator from.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Iowa unless she is like an influencer of h G
t V interior decorator.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
It's so be it, It doesn't matter. Are you happy?
You're happy Brady? Then good?
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Yeah, we're happy for him. We're happy for him. How
about speaking another high profile athletes about that documentary we
saw There the Night with Steph Curry. How good was that?
People need to watch that? Two great documentaries we saw.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Lah and we saw Underrated Underrated with step That's how
I feel.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
You feel underrated.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
I feel underrated my whole life.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
People tell you too small, what, not fast enough, not
smart enough?
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Like oh my god, you're so tiny, Like when I
saw that movie, you look so tall, like you're tiny.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
I think both docs were interesting in their own right,
right the Dela Hooya one, we know this guy was
going to be forced into greatness, his family pushed in
a way, right like he was. But don't you think
in a way he was great, but I mean it
was by the drive of his parents that sort of
gave him the all or none. You're in. You're going
(07:53):
to be a pro and you're going to be pushed
to be the very best you can be, even if
you feel like breaking or crack, and you're going to
be pushed.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Right. But then it also fell opposite with Curry, whereas
he was not in a position really to be necessarily
great due to his height, due to a lot of
other things holding him back, and his parents didn't seem
like they were pushing him to the degree that De
la Hoya's family was.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
I don't think so. But I mean I think the
dad said, if you want to do this for real,
let me teach you all these bad habits unless correct thing,
because the dad himself was a proast player. But I
don't think they groomed him and I don't think they
forced him.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
To do this didn't feel like the same story as
Delahi Delahoy is much darker story, and the Curry story
was full of like family that in that regard two
polar opposite ways of reaching the top in a profession.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
And it was fascinating both the story is pretty incredible,
this kid from East East LA. And how he was
able able to accomplish incredible things.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Yeah, no, for sure, it overcome a lot.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
And so insecure and so underrated, you know as well,
because you know he's the pretty boy and he's so
nobody believed the hype and he had to show every
single instant of his life, every single match during his
training that he was worthy of greatness and he did.
You know, he was an incredible boxer, absolutely incredible boxer.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Also good story. Did you see this piece? I don't
you know, I don't want to really gossip too much
about this because I don't, you know, whatever. To each
his own, but I guess Kristen Bell is getting a
lot of a lot of heat because her children enjoy
drinking non alcoholic beer. Does that bother you?
Speaker 2 (09:34):
How how old?
Speaker 3 (09:36):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
Daughters are Delta eight and Lincoln nine, but drink well,
it's not non alcoholic.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
Really. My understanding though, was not alcoholic beer still had
some sort of alcohol percent, like very minimal.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
It doesn't have it at all.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
No, it's notoolic, I know, but I thought it still
was not fully non alcoholic? Am I wrong in that?
It's just not at a level that you can call
it alcohol like an alcoholic beverage. I don't know. I mean,
you wonder if they're gonna go.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Yeah. Bill went to say that the drinks contained zero
percent alcoholic, and that seems establishing this routine. Her kids
have asked for non alcoholic beer at restaurant.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
That's hilarious though. You see a kid asking for an aduel?
Can I have well beer please? Asking for what a noduels,
which like a non alcoholic beer.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Well, it's not alcoholic, but let me ask you something.
It's not alcoholic, but it still tastes a little bit
like beer.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
So many beers will have point three or point four
percent alcohol despite the name non alcohol.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
No, I don't believe it has any I just.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
Googled it because I had heard. I had heard that
was the case that a lot of non alcohol based
beers do have a little bit of a percent of alcohol.
Now it says, as stayed on his label, Heineken has
zero percent alcohol volumes classified as alcohol free. So maybe
some are totally zero. I have heard that some have. Hint.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
The question here is what do you think about kids
getting used to the taste of beer, even if it
doesn't contain alcohol. Would you would you be comfortable with
Dylan and Sabella liking that brand that you just said.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
I'll be honest, I probably tasted a beer when I
was at that age. I'm sure. I feel like I
was one of those kids where maybe I wasn't dating,
not like I remember my dad giving me a sip
of a beer or something like when I was a kid,
and it was like a joke. I don't know how
old I was. I was definitely underage. I just took
like a sip of something. But I actually didn't grow
up liking beer, so I can't say that it does.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
I am not. I don't want to judge, you know,
because I don't like to mess with anybody. Anybody's parenting
and if they don't have a problem, then it's none
of our business to have a problem. So I'm okay
now if you ask me, I wouldn't be comfortable with
my kids having it just because it has the same
taste as beer. So I feel like, you know how
(11:53):
coffee and alcohol, and it's like an acquired taste. I
don't want them liking an acquiring something because I think
the transition from one to another is seamless.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
It's because they taste a same Yeah, I would think
it's easier for sure, because beer. For me growing up,
I never really liked the taste of beer until I
got older. Now I actually really liked the taste of beer.
But when I was younger, when I could, when I
even started drinking, I just beer was it's disgusting. I
never liked it.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
And it tastes like you're drinking, peepy. I'm sorry, so
you're drinking, you're drinking.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
I just never I just never liked the taste of it.
But I could see if I did grow up liking
the taste of something that was not agog based, how
easy the transition would be to go to something and
I love it.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
I'm sorry, guys, I don't love it for you. But
to each its own is that a saying to each
its own, to each its own, So if they like it,
it's okay. Listen, I am the girl. It's like, it's funny,
like I don't drink coffee and I don't want my
kids drinking coffee. And I was the girl my entire
life that drank coffee, even as Dylan's age, I'm going
(12:56):
to be it's just.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
Supposed to be terrible for you too, caffeine that you do.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
I drag coffee since I can remember, yes, And to
the point that my grandmother and grandfather on my dad's
side ailla Rosa and I will romance. Can I tell
you something. It's so vivid. And I think it was
Dylan's age or even younger when they passed away. I
was a baby, And now to this day, I remember
(13:23):
how much I loved the coffee. At the funeral. They
had this little table with coffee and soda, crackers and
how do you call that? Esportsola saltines, so saltines with
butter and coffee.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
And you were drinking that and I was.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Getting my coffee and putting butter in the sultine and
dipping the sultine into the coffee. Like to this day,
I remember when he passed away first, and I was like,
this is the best thing I've had in my life,
and looking forward to go into my next funeral coffee,
to have that coffee and crackers.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
How crazy is telling people to get coffee and crackers?
And now you won't even now you won't even touch coffee.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
And I haven't touched coffee in twenty three years. I
can't even smell it.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
I won't let the kids drink coffee, even though I
love coffee and I and I have no problem with
them drinking coffee, and they get older, I still don't
want them touching coffee.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
At the time. The caffeine is you need to stop
drinking coffee. You drink so much coffee.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
I don't understand that much coffee.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
You drink coffee. You know that it's not good for
your vocal core. Its just not good for your acidity.
I don't know why you do it.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
I don't drink. I don't know. I don't know. I
want to producery. It stunts your growth.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
What stunts the growth? Coffee it does?
Speaker 3 (14:35):
That's what That's what Easton is saying.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
That stunts your growth. Coffee or alcohol.
Speaker 3 (14:43):
Oh am to the I mean, yeah, maybe that's what
happened to you. Fine.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
I never said that.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
I was supposed to be coffee at the funeral.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
That's my mom is like five feet tall, like five
to one. There's no way they didn't have a chance.
Speaker 3 (14:56):
You stopped a five it with the coffee.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
It was a coffee.
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Here's a topic that I find interesting. What is the
deal with this new TikTok parenting term eggshell parenting? The
phrase eggshell parenting game popularity when licensed clinical psychologist doctor
Kim Sage. Sage went viral on TikTok. She describes the
parenting style as making kids like they are walking on
egg shells due to the unpredictability of a parent's mood
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and behavior with no warnings or cues. Egg Shell parenting
we have putting your child in a position where they
have to always be hyper vigilant to what may or
may not happen next. I have never heard of this
in my life. Did you grow up absorbing any kind
of crazy energy in your household? Oh my god, you're
(17:28):
like my life was eggshell parenting.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Do we have like maybe five hours for this podcast
today so I can talk to you about my upbringing? No,
I feel bad. I'm always like all over my parents
like my oupbringing. I have wonderful parents. But was it
a phenomenal environment? No?
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Was the mood volatile where it could switch on a dime?
Speaker 2 (17:53):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (17:54):
Really?
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Yeah? What do you think I am the way I am.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
At any moment?
Speaker 2 (17:57):
You just I don't do that. Actually, I'm actually until
two days ago that I snapped at my daughter.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
Yeah, we generally, I don't think either of us like
I feel like we build up when we snap. Like
we I've seen us both try really hard with the kids,
try really hard, and to findly we can't take it,
and then we're fed up with it and then we snap.
I don't think we just snap.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
No, we don't. We don't. And I need this, and
to me, it is because I'm so mindful of raising
these kids with a very functional, normal, loving, nursing, supportive
environment and family that I'm super mindful of that, you
know what I mean. Like, even if I'm in a
(18:38):
terrible mood and Dylan comes over, I don't want to
take my problems on my kids because I think it's
just wrong and brutal. I don't always win to be
honest with you, you know, a lot of times I'm just
like ah, But I try, and I think we try
our best because to us, I priority is the well
being and the mental being of these kids.
Speaker 3 (19:01):
The man kids can push buttons, buttons like you've never
even buttoned you have.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
But I think that's why they come into your life.
I think kids are teaching parents the most incredible lessons
that we need to learn. Otherwise, what's the point of
being a parent, you know? So I think they they
come into your life to make you better people, and
to test you and to teach you, and to freaking
school you, and to be honest with you. That's what
(19:28):
I think.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Yeah, I feel like we got schooled quite a few times.
It does happen. It's hard. Parenting's tough, but I think, yeah,
we try to approach it with balance and with patients
as much as possible.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Because the other day I was like Savella was getting
into my nerves and I snapped. It was first in
the morning, I didn't sleep well. I got a text
that kind of like completely lost my balance because of
this text that I received and a lot of stuff. Anyways,
I basically she didn't want to take a vitamins and
I just snapped horrifically, and she.
Speaker 3 (20:00):
That she has one it's a tone in which she
community y guys everything.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
It's just annoying. She's just annoying. So I went to
but I knew that my reaction was a little bit
out of control, but I was just so made her. Yeah,
So I went to the bedroom before you guys left
to before you took them to school, and I went
over and I looked at her and she was like
choking by herself, right, And I went over and I said,
I'm seb and she was want to look at me,
(20:23):
and I said, I'm very sorry, my apologies. That wasn't
called for, and I don't want you to have a
bad day, so I'm sorry. Mammy is in a very
bad mood. And then she looked at me and started
crying and said, well, don't take your bad mood on me.
It's not my fault that you have, that you're in
a bad mood. She was correct, and I was like,
you know what, you're absolutely right, mammy. I love you
so much. And I apologize and I give her a
hug and then she you know, and then she was fine.
(20:46):
But I was like, there you go. She just taught
me a lesson because it's absolutely true. It's okay to
be upset because she was just being impossible. But my
reaction was not necessary. And she basically said, it's not
what are you going through, It's not my problem. I mean,
just just bring it down a notch. And I was like,
oh my god.
Speaker 3 (21:07):
Yeah, you'd like to think that they it's hard because
she's right. And then but we're also human and we
try to forgive ourselves because we are also balancing a lot.
And when you balance a lot and then you get
a lot of resistance or fighting from the kids, that
it just refuses much shorter.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
Yeah, sure, it's crazy, And I'm not sleeping. And I
thought that I was not sleeping because life and stress,
you know, and strikes and I'm about to start traveling
again and like a lot of stuff. So I've been
getting some like a little bit of like pelvic pain again.
And you know, guys, after I did my hysterectomy, I've
(21:41):
been feeling much better. So I was a little bit surprised.
Why am I getting all these things that I'm not
liking that resemble a little bit of what I used
to go before. So I said, I need to go
to the gynecologist to do an ultrasound, and blah blah blah.
My gynecologists passed away unfortunately not too long ago. So
now I have a new guy that is part of
the practice, so I'm meeting him for the first time.
(22:03):
So it was not as simple as just let me
just go with the technician, do an ultrasound, do some
blood work, and that's it. Because now I have a
new doctor. And basically, so I had to go through
the whole protocol of like you just sitting down a meeting,
and so what brings you here? Let me look at
your history. So we're just talking and then he says,
how are you sleeping. I'm going I'm not sleeping very well.
You know, it's kind of weird. So you're getting hot flashes,
not really you know, like not the hot flashes what
(22:25):
people say, oh my god, Like I've seen friends of
mine that are going through menopause that are like sweating
in front of me and they get red and they're miserable.
So I'm like, I'm not getting any of that. But yeah,
you know what. The other night, I sleep with like
a shirt and sweatpants and I took my shirt off
because I got very hot in the middle of the
night and the acy was on. But I don't think
it's anything bad. And he goes, are you're getting mood swings. Ah,
(22:47):
I get mood swings all the time, so it doesn't
really matter. You're getting headaches. I'm actually getting headaches. Yeah,
but you know it's okay, TikTok, etc. And he goes,
you know what, you're going through menopause.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
And I'm going, I'm going, what I know.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
I just turned fifty, But madamos, I look great, you know,
And he's laughing. And then he said, you know, well,
let's check everything. But everything you're telling me and the
fact that you're fifty and you had a hysterectomy even
though you have your ovaries. Yes, he goes, I am
almost positive. And then he goes, how's your libido and
how's this and how's that? Through the room, and I'm like, well,
(23:25):
come to think of it, no, anyways, so I ended
up doing all this blood work. So I do an
ultrasound for my ovaries right to make sure that everything
is okay, because you know. So it's interesting because the technician,
and this is the first time that my gynecologies is
actually my previous doctor. He will receive the images after
(23:47):
the technician does the ultrasound, right immediately after, I go
back to his office and we'll discuss this time. Doctor Gail.
I believe it. This last name went to the ultrasound
as well. So the technician is like doing her thing,
and the doctor is looking, and they're looking and looking
and looking, and they can't find it.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
The overies, but what do you mean?
Speaker 2 (24:11):
And they finally find them. They look fine, nothing like jobs.
They're very small, and he goes, they're shrinking considerably. They're
very small. What does that mean? And he's like explaining me,
there is no blood flow because the a lot of
the blood that the over his feet have come from
the uterus. You don't have a urus anymore, so the
(24:33):
blood flow is very minimal. Therefore they start basically shrinking.
So yeah, you're going through menopause. I passed out, came
back to life, and then I started laughing, going, oh
my god, I'm officially old. And now we're always joking
about it. And I'm still joking because I don't want
to cry. And it's part of womanhood, you know. And
(24:54):
at some point I was going to enter that stage
of my life, but I was hoping that I was
going to be more like my mom five fifty six.
Not now.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
So what do you do in your menopause? I don't
know that. What happens? You have to you have to
supplement with hormones. What do you do? Yes, you are shrinking?
Speaker 2 (25:09):
Yeah, so basically I need estrogen, not progesterone. If I
had a uterus, then progesterone is important, but I don't
need it. So he goes, We're gonna have to start supplementing.
Estrogen is gonna be life changing for you. You need something.
And then I was at the weight because if I
have any pre cancer cells, I don't want to feed
the cancer because the estrogen. And he was telling me,
none of that is gonna happen. We're gonna be very specific.
Speaker 3 (25:29):
You know.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Once we get your levels, we know exactly what you need.
But you need to need a little bit and a
little bit of that, and with the right cocktail, right
that is catered for you. He goes, everything is gonna
it's gonna work. You know, your weight is gonna get better.
He explained to me, this little belly is like you
know what it's It was fascinating how science and how
(25:51):
the body works. And he goes, it's normal. Every woman
goes through it. You're know, the only one get over it.
It's okay, You're gonna be okay. It's not that deep.
The good thing is, do you nobody know, Nobody will
ever think you're going through this unless you verbally say so.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
You're gonna have to go on a hormone cocktail.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Apparently. I mean, we have to wait for my results.
They're checking everything thyroid and all my markers and inflammation
markers and VITAM. Indeed, he's like, he says, leads to
the entire thing. So we can have a comprehensive panel
of your body and then will assess and then I
have doctor Darryl, my functional medicine doctor, that will also
look at that. And then I'll compare notes and then
(26:26):
I'll decide. I'll decide what is my my cocktail. What
is my mocktail?
Speaker 3 (26:31):
To tell Sabelli you're sorry because you're with your menopause.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
I'm not gonna talk to anapause right now. She's gonna
be like, man, no, what.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Oh man? But yes, all the stuff that just happened
today exciting.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
Stuff not exciting at all. It's disgusting.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
I mean, should give you some answers.
Speaker 2 (26:46):
Explains a lot, It explains a lot.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
All the shee Hulk nature of the ups and downs,
the moods.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
Oh, the she was she Hulk? What is that?
Speaker 3 (26:54):
She Hulk? Like the incredible Sheeholk, the incredible Hulk, and
then there's shee Hulk. There's the female version of the incredible.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Hole you think of she Hulk.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
Well, I'm saying, with all the ups and downs of
the mood swings and the and the the hormones all.
Speaker 2 (27:06):
Over the he just called me she Hulk. Okay, thank you.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
Wow, And now you're gonna pump a cocktail.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
I'm going to do a mocktail.
Speaker 3 (27:15):
A mocktail, you know what I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
I'm going to create a brand of mocktail that is
going to be called menopause.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
There you go, No that all the young girls are
gonna have a drink it. I was gonna call it
was a good idea for a second.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
Man is coming. Excuse me, Meno is coming.
Speaker 3 (27:31):
Men is coming.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Meno like menopause.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
Meno is coming sounds terrible.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Many is coming.
Speaker 3 (27:41):
No, it sounds like the guy's name is men or
Many and meno Meno him he is coming. That sounds terrible.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
Meno is coming. That's funny, there, canno.
Speaker 3 (27:54):
Because he's coming. No one's going to be buying that mocktail.
You are you have? Your names are wacky.
Speaker 2 (28:01):
Men Meno is coming.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Oh my god, I love you. I love you too.
Thanks for listening. Don't forget to write us a review
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Speaker 2 (28:11):
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Speaker 3 (28:23):
See you next time.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Bye,
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