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Chapter 13 of Heroes in the Bible: David with Dr. Tony Evans is inspired by 1 Samuel 25.

Abigail - David and his men find themselves nearly slaughtering the household of an arrogant man named Nabal. However, his beautiful and wise wife intercedes, and David finds himself drawn to her.

Today's opening prayer is inspired by Galatians 1:10, For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? For if I were still pleasing men, I wouldn’t be a servant of Christ.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hi, I'm doct the Tony Evnger host for Heroes in
the Bible, and if you've been enjoying this series, please
write a review and let me know how this podcast
has impacted your life. Welcome to the Epic Avenger of David,
a story of honor, battle, jealousy, darkness, friendship, love, scandal,
and murder. While most people know of David the myth,

(00:21):
few know about David the man. In this episode, David
is the one who needs saving. Yes, our valiant hero
is going to need rescuing, but not from Philistine's or
King Saul. David needs somebody to save him from his
own poor decision making. This episode introduces a new character, Abigail.
She's not a warrior, scholar, or princess, but she is

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the exact person David needs right now. This is a
short episode about three things the emotional told Xil has
taken on David and his men, the wisdom of a
wife making up for the folly of a husband, and
a new budding romance that comes at the perfect time.
David has been in the wilderness for a while. His
men are skilled, but are weary, the fatigue of battle

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and lethargy of months on the run without the comforts
of a home have put them in a perfect position
to make a bad decision. God send someone to save
them just in time. We can't expect David to make
the right decision every time without guidance and providence. Before
we meet Abigail, we go to a funeral. The prelude
features a very recent event for David where he mourns

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the death of a beloved friend and greets the betrayal
of his first love. Without further ado, here is Episode
thirteen Abigail.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
Prelude to Chapter thirteen. Thousands of people flocked to the
burial site of Samuel, wailing into the heavens, the great
leader and last judge of Israel, and breathed his final breath,
and the entire nation mourned his death. The skies were gray,
as if the heavens themselves were ready to weep. Saul

(02:05):
stood in front of the throng of people facing Celia's
grave site. His hands trembled, and he let out a
cry of lament in unison with the people behind him.
All were crushed and bereaved. Behind the congregation, cloaked and
hooded in the shadows was David He watched from a
distance as the nations said good bye to their prophet

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and father. David held his head low, weeping silently for
the loss of the man who had been first to
recognize his calling. David looked up and saw his wife
may Call, sitting beside her father and brother. To her
left was another man, Paulteel, son of Leyish, who was
from Glim. He linked arms with may Call and consoled her.

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David had heard the rumors that Saul had given a
call to him in marriage, but now he knew it
to be true. His heart was broken for the loss
of Samuel and for the loss of his wife. David
was no longer the outlawed son in law of the king.
He was simply an outlaw. He let the reality of
his standing sink in. He breathed in deeply and prayed

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to the Lord silently. Then, before anyone had the chance
to recognize him, David fled back to Paran, where he
and his men had built a new home for themselves
in the countryside. Chapter thirteen, Abigail. Cutting through the narrow
road from Piran to Carmel, was a group of young

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men herding their sheep back to their master's property. The
road cut through some trees on the outskirts of the wilderness,
providing shade for the young men and their sheep. There
was a warm spring afternoon. The birds chirped and flew
from branch to branch, singing sweet melodies to the travelers
down below. However, their songs were not a comfort to
the young men. They knew that the bending road beside

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the forest was filled with bandits and raiders from the
western tribes Felista. The young shepherds held their staffs tightly
and turned their heads at the sound of every broken
twig maston.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
The ball wasn't right to send us out here without guards.

Speaker 2 (04:11):
One of them said, with a trembling voice.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
Perhaps he wants us to die.

Speaker 2 (04:15):
Another said. All ten of the shepherds were young and
inexperienced in combat. They knew if bandits came, they would
be utterly defenseless. The tree covering became thick, and the
sun was nearly blocked entirely. As darkness shrouded the young
men and their sheep, a rustling could be heard from
the darkness. Before the young men could brace themselves, a

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group of bandits emerged from the shadows to attack. The
sheep scattered in fear. As the young shepherds desperately tried
to defend themselves. The bandits attacked with clubs, swords, and hammers.
They began taking the sheep and attacked the boys for
the money in their bags. The men attacked with a
flurry of blows and jabs. They were tackled to the

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ground and bound to the rope.

Speaker 3 (05:00):
The boys that round up their sheep, or do we
hold them for ransom?

Speaker 2 (05:04):
One of the mass the others they.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
Were sent into the forest with no protection. Clearly they
are worth nothing to their master. Let us kill them
and take whatever's left in the flock.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
The rest of them agreed and laughed as they advanced
towards the boys to kill them. They brought their swords
up to their necks, posturing to swipe it across their throats.
Yet before they could move another inch, a stone flew
through the air and hit one of them directly in
the forehead. A crack of the skull proceeded a large
thud of the bandit hitting the floor. The rest of

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them looked over and gasped as David and his men
came storming forward. The men ran for their lives, but
David would not let them leave without tasting justice. Asahal,
one of David's finest warriors, ran ahead of the others,
bridging the gap between him and the fleeing bandits. He
caught them, cutting them down at the angles. The others

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caught up and took back what had been stolen from
the shepherds. Bruised and beaten, the bandits retreated back into
the shadows. David helped the young men back up to
their feet. Together they went back to their camp, and
the shepherds were given a warm meal and hospitality. David
crouched by the fire and smiled.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
My men have retrieved the rest of your sheep. All
will be returned to your master. The shepherds were grateful.
Where do you come from, he asked. We are servants
of Nabal. His land is at Carmel. He is an
incredibly wealthy man, but he is strict. It brings us
great relief that you have saved us. If those bandits

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did not kill us, sureley, Nabal.

Speaker 2 (06:40):
Would have David nodded and acknowledged their gratitude.

Speaker 3 (06:44):
We have been here for a few months now. There
are many evil men who sought the vulnerable travelers. We
have been keeping a close eye on the roads, ensuring
no harm comes to them.

Speaker 2 (06:57):
David stared at the fire and sighed.

Speaker 3 (07:00):
However, it has been a weary task keeping ourselves and
others safe. It would be nice to share a warm
meal during this festive time. It would be a grand
gesture for your master to show us some hospitality. My
men are in need of respite from the long days
and cold nights. We could inquire of a master on

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your behalf. The shepherd said, it's the least we could
do after you've saved us. May the Lord bless you
for your kindness, David said, Go up to Nebal and
greet him in my name. Say to him, long life
to you, Nebal, good health to you and your household.
I humbly request your kindness towards my men, since we

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are here at a festive time. Please be generous to
us for how we have treated your men, and grant
us any sort of hospitality.

Speaker 2 (07:53):
The shepherds looked at one another, not sure if Nebal
would be the sort to accept David's offer. However, they
had a debt to pay, so they ventured off with
their sheep to their master. A few of David's servants
went with them so they might return the message. David
watched them leave, hopeful that he and his men could
get one act of kindness, just one. The shepherds returned

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to Naball's property, nestled between the rolling hills and forests
of Carmel. The large green pastures were filled with goats
and other livestock. Gardens circled the perimeter of his home,
bloming with lush and vibrant colors. The young men entered
the great hols of Nabal's home. Large ceedar beams held
up the high ceilings, and servants laced the halls, busy

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preparing yet another large feast for Nabal and his friends.
Nabal was at a large seat in the center of
the room, like a kingwood on his throne. He was
a large and foul looking man. His large and haggard
beard hid the rotting teeth in his mouth. He sat
on his throne as he often did, half drunk and
berating his servants. Beside him was his wife, Abigail. She

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was a young woman given to him in marriage by
her father. Unlike her surly and moronic husband, Abigail was
a kind and wise young woman. She held herself with
honor and dignity, treating the servants of the household with
respect and compassion. However, even her calm and elegant demeanor
could not offset the flagrant nature of her husband. He

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raged against his entire household and abused his authority. The
shepherds approached with caution, with David's servants close behind. Na
Bal glared at them and pointed to the strangers entering
his halls.

Speaker 4 (09:39):
Not only do you come late with the sheep, but
you bring strangers into my home.

Speaker 3 (09:43):
Explain yourselves, Lord, We were attacked on the road by bandits.
They took our sheep and nearly took our lives. Yet
praise be to God that David and his men came
swiftly to our aid and saved us. They even retrieved
your sheep. And as go to us home, these are
his servants. They are here to humbly request your hospitality.

Speaker 2 (10:07):
Just as David's servants were about to speak, Nabal rose
his hand and began to chuckle David.

Speaker 4 (10:12):
He shouted, who is David, that outlaw son of Jesse.
I see many slaves are leaving the masters these days.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
He scoffed the portly landowner leaned over and spat in
the servants direction.

Speaker 4 (10:26):
Why should I offer my bread, my meat and my
water and give it to some worthless nobody like him?
Get out of my sight before I call my dogs
on you.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
The servants said nothing. They simply bowed and left the halls.
Nabal continued to laugh and drink. Leaning back in his seat, satisfied,
Abigail peered over to him.

Speaker 5 (10:48):
Are you certain you want to insult the man who
saved Israel from the Philistines, she said quietly.

Speaker 2 (10:55):
Nabal glared at his wife. He spat to the side
and held out his empty Get me more wine.

Speaker 4 (11:01):
Why you are more beautiful when you quietly filled my cup?

Speaker 2 (11:05):
Abigail said nothing. She took her husband's cup and left
into the kitchen. David's men arrived that night. All the
others were sitting by the fires, eating and laughing. David
was among them, telling valiant stories of battle beside Jonathan.
When the servants approached, he could tell they were despondent.
Why the downcast faces, brothers, David asked. The men sat

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down and rubbed their faces.

Speaker 3 (11:31):
Nibal has rejected our request.

Speaker 2 (11:34):
They said, Why is that? David asked As he sat
down beside.

Speaker 3 (11:38):
Them, he said he did not want to waste his
resources on nobody like you. He called you a slave
who ran away from his master.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
David's entire countenance changed. The Rest of the men stepped back,
feeling the anger leaking from his pores. David's bones were
shaking in raid. He stood to his feet and stormed
to his tent. The men wondered if he had retreated
for the night to think and pray, as he often did. However,
he did not. He emerged from the tent fully clothed

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in his armor, with his sword strapped to his side.

Speaker 3 (12:16):
All of you strap on your swords.

Speaker 2 (12:17):
David commanded. They did not question him. Each man retrieved
his weapon and stood at attention.

Speaker 3 (12:25):
Some of you will stay and watch camp. Four hundred
of you will come with me. I will not allow
Nibal to dishonor us after everything we have done for
his land. It is a disgrace, and I will not
allow him to spite us.

Speaker 2 (12:41):
Asa Hel, David shouted. The young man stood at attention
in front of his commander.

Speaker 3 (12:47):
You are the fastest among us. You will go ahead
and tell the shepherds we met to take cover for
destruction is on its way to Neibal's house.

Speaker 2 (12:56):
Assahl bowed his head and ran into the wilderness. Long
and lean legs burst like a gazelle's. David knew word
would reach them quick. David turned to the rest of
his men and gestured for them to march forward.

Speaker 3 (13:10):
We go now. We shall make it to the front
of Nabal's land before daybreak.

Speaker 2 (13:15):
So the men marched silently. No one dared speak to
David or question his judgment. David did not boil with
fury often, but when he did, the men knew not
to approach him. In his belly was a righteous fire
that would consume all who approached Abigail. The door burst
open and one of the shepherds came into her room.

Speaker 3 (13:36):
I am sorry, mistress, but I must speak with you.

Speaker 2 (13:39):
What is wrong, Abigail asked gently. Her hair was down
and draped over her shoulders. The shepherd was lost for
a moment in her beauty. Her eyes were a light hazel,
and in them held the wisdom and tact of a
true leader. However, she had been relegated to basic household chores.

Speaker 3 (13:57):
David gave a request to your husband for a suis
simple act of kindness. Yet he hurled insults back at him,
and I fear the anger of David has been kindled
against him.

Speaker 2 (14:07):
The shepherd said, is this.

Speaker 5 (14:09):
David so fragile that he would kill my husband just
for insulting him? That does not sound like the man
of legend everyone speaks of.

Speaker 3 (14:18):
Abigail said, that is not it at all, my lady.
David and his men were very good to us. They
provided protection for us. They put their own lives in
danger to help us when they could have simply looked
the other way. They did not mistreat us or get territorial.
In fact, they even helped us round our sheet back up.

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He was our protector, and he is the reason the
bal did not lose his entire flock. Now do you
understand why David would be so insulted?

Speaker 2 (14:47):
The shepherd boy was beginning to shake in fear and sorrow.
Clearly David had a lasting impact on him. In just
a matter of days, David was able to engender more
loyalty in this boy than the ball could in years.
Who is this man, Abigail thought to herself. She was intrigued.

Speaker 5 (15:05):
My husband is a stubborn man. Abigail said, I cannot
convince him to apologize. Even if David threatens his life.

Speaker 3 (15:13):
Then what shall we do. I'm sure David will come
to kill all the men under Nabal's guard.

Speaker 2 (15:19):
Abigail pondered for a moment. She tied up her hair
and rolled up her sleeves.

Speaker 5 (15:24):
Come down with me, we shall make this rite.

Speaker 2 (15:27):
Abigail ventured to the ovens and kitchen. She clapped her
hands together and grabbed the attention of the servants.

Speaker 5 (15:33):
Come with me, we haven't got much time together.

Speaker 2 (15:36):
They baked and gathered two hundred loaves of bread. They
poured two skins of wine, five dressed sheep, and five
saws of roasted grain. Abigail and the others also made
a hundred raisin cakes and two hundred cakes of fresh figs.

Speaker 5 (15:51):
Help me gather everything in baskets. We shall load them.

Speaker 2 (15:54):
On the donkey, Abigail ordered.

Speaker 5 (15:56):
Quickly, it is almost sun up.

Speaker 2 (15:58):
Abigail worked tirelessly. Then, once the baskets were loaded onto
a donkey, she sent two of her maid servants to
go and deliver them to David.

Speaker 5 (16:07):
Go and meet the men before they come in attack.
Tell them I will be close behind.

Speaker 2 (16:11):
The maid servants did as they were told, and took
the donkey up the hill towards the mountain ravine. The
sun was rising over the mountain range. David and his
men stood in the narrow ravine, looking down at the
Ball's estate. They waited for the first light to show
itself behind them. The sun's rays burst forth, uninhibited by
any cloud covering. The warmth of the new morning was

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a sweet relief to David's men, who had been marching
all night. David drew his sword and breathed in deeply.
He was unable to calm himself all night. His fury
was steady and unwavering. Shama could see David's hands trembling
with rage.

Speaker 3 (16:52):
Are you ready, David.

Speaker 2 (16:53):
He asked gently. David turned and clenched his jaw.

Speaker 3 (16:58):
It has been useless watching over them, this man's property
all these weeks, and keeping his servants safe. Not just
with the shepherds, but all his other supplies coming in
and out, have been protected by us. I am done
paying this man kindness, only to be repaid in insults.
He paid back evil for good. May God deal with

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me severely if I leave one of his men alive
by the time the day is finished.

Speaker 2 (17:26):
David turned back to his men and gestured for them
to move forward. Just as they began marching, three figures
appeared in the distance. Two women and a donkey approached.
David held his men back and allowed them to come.
They bowed before David and presented him with the gifts
of cakes, bread and wine.

Speaker 5 (17:47):
Our Lord, David, here is a gift from the house
of Nebal.

Speaker 2 (17:51):
Shama and Eliezar looked in the baskets and laughed at
the exorbitant amount of food and law. However, David was
suspicious of the gesture Ball sent these himself.

Speaker 5 (18:02):
David inquired, not Nabal, but our mistress Abigail. They replied,
she is on her way to greet you now.

Speaker 2 (18:08):
David looked back at his men, still teeming with rage
against a ball. His disgruntled heart was still itching for
a fight. He had been taken advantage of and ridiculed
for the last time, and he wanted justice. However, all
feelings of aggression and contempt seemed to melt away when
David looked ahead to see Abigail. Her dark brown curls

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cascaded over her shoulders like waterfalls. She wore a dark
green dress that hugged her body tightly. She wore no
jewels upon her neck. It was elegant and beautiful enough,
not needing any ornament to distract from just how perfect
it was. Her light, hazel eyes captured David's attention immediately,
and he felt himself being pulled in close by them.

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David walked out to Abigail. They stopped in the middle,
taking each other in for a long, long moment before speaking.
Neither of them expected the other to look the way
they did. Abigail scanned David up and down. He was
not as tall and broad as one would expect from
someone of his reputation. He was average height, but carry

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himself as if he was a hundred feet tall. She
perused his body that had been formed from hours of
running in the sheep pastures and battling philistines. Her eyes
met his. They were slightly hidden by his light curls
that were swaying in the breeze. Abigail broke the silence
and bowed to David, Please, my.

Speaker 5 (19:34):
Lord, pardon the household of my husband. Pay no attention
to his wicked and ignorant comments. He is a fool.
Folly follows that man like moths to a flame.

Speaker 2 (19:44):
Abigail lifted her head and gestured to the army of
men behind David. They were waiting at a distance, ready
for David's orders to attack.

Speaker 5 (19:52):
I have provided gifts for you and your men. May
God bless you for your mercy against the House of Nebal.
May He give you a law lasting dynasty because you
fight the Lord's battles, not petty squabbles because of an
obtuse and cranky man. I know that even though King
Saul pursues you, your life is bound securely by the Lord,
your God. The lives of your enemies will be hurled

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away like a stone from your sling when God has
fulfilled his calling for you and made you king. Do
you really want your conscience consumed with an act of
needless bloodshed.

Speaker 2 (20:26):
Abigail's words were kind, tactful, and wise. David took notice
that she was not only fair in appearance, but adorned
with an inner beauty. A gentle yet strong spirit dwelled
within her, and David was curious to discover more of it.
He looked back at his men and gestured for them
to be at ease. They immediately went for the baskets

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of bread and cakes. David laughed and looked again at Abigail.
He composed himself. Although he was a valiant and well
known warrior, inside he could still feel like a child
speaking to abuse woman. Praise the Lord for you, Abigail,
he said. Your good judgment has kept me from mindless
revenge and petty bloodshed. It is not like me to

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be kindled this easily. If God had not sent you,
not one male in Nabal's home would have been left alive.

Speaker 5 (21:21):
I can only imagine what you and your.

Speaker 2 (21:23):
Men have been through, Abigail said.

Speaker 5 (21:25):
You have gone beyond what others would have done and
protected the young men from raiders. Nabal cannot see what
I see. That you are the next king of Israel.

Speaker 2 (21:36):
Abigail's words were like a bomb to David's wounded heart.
This woman, a stranger, had also recognized David's calling as king.
A bashful grin came across his face, making him chuckle.
Abigail laughed as well. The two of them shared a
small moment of connection, followed by a beautiful silence that

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David did not want to end, for he knew the
next words would.

Speaker 3 (22:00):
Have to be go home in peace, Abigail, your words
have saved not only your husband's life, but also my integrity.

Speaker 2 (22:09):
Abigail bowed and returned to her donkey with her maid servants.
David turned back to enjoy the gifts with his men.
Both of them resisted the desire to turn around and
steal another glance. As Abigail trotted back to her husband's home,
she could not help but smile. David had listened to
her and heeded her wisdom, something her husband had always

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refused to do. Abigail went back home. The servants were
busy tending to the kitchen for one of Nabal's decadent feasts.
Gie would hold large and elaborate banquets like that of
a king, spoiling himself with expensive spirits and exotic meats.
His gluttony and self indulgence was famous throughout the region,
and many rich men who shared the same proclivity for

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lavished inners would join him. It was past noon and
the ball was all already considerably drunk. Abigail entered the
hall and sat next to him. We if you've been.

Speaker 4 (23:06):
The ball slurred, my cup has been in need of filling.

Speaker 5 (23:11):
You are already drunk, and it is just now high noon.

Speaker 2 (23:14):
Abigail whispered, not luxury, the Ball said, grabbing Abigail's wrist
tightly and pulling her in.

Speaker 3 (23:22):
You are mine, he laughed.

Speaker 2 (23:25):
Abigail recoiled in disgust and pulled away. The Ball's grip
became tighter. He gritted his teeth and brought Abigail in
close for a kiss. She hated the way he treated her.
She hated living under his roof and enduring his cruelty. However,
she was bound by a marriage that was arranged by
her father. Trapped without love, a prisoner in her own home,

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Abigail was about to tell the Ball of how she
saved him and his men. However, she held her tongue.
Knowing that there was no use in speaking with him
in this state, She walked out, allowing him to drown
him in his own depravity. Abigail went up to her
chambers and looked out the window. She longed for a
different life, a life of adventure and intrigue. As she

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gazed out of the sunset, watching the light of day
fade into the horizon, she thought of David. Early the
next morning, Abigail found the Ball hunched over his seat,
half asleep over his breakfast. She soldered in regally, not
allowing his repulsive demeanor to ruin her mourning. She sat
at the other end of the table, pouring water from

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a basin into her cup.

Speaker 5 (24:33):
You and your friends ate all the bread last night,
and there was none left for the shepherds and servants
to eat.

Speaker 2 (24:39):
Abigail said, abruptly, woman, what did I tell you about
lecturing me?

Speaker 4 (24:44):
Shut your mouth, or I shall shut.

Speaker 2 (24:46):
It for you. The ball mumbled. Abigail fumed with anger.

Speaker 5 (24:51):
You ought to thank mena Bal I stopped David, the
giant slayer and his men from raiding our home and
killing you last night. After you foolishly insulted him, he
marched up against you. If it were not for me
and these servants, you would have met the tip of
his spear.

Speaker 2 (25:07):
Nabal's eyes widened and he burst out, flipping the table
over you.

Speaker 4 (25:12):
Insolent, childish, disobedient.

Speaker 2 (25:17):
Nabal stopped abruptly and gripped his chest. He gasped, reached
forward for Abigail, then fell forward unto his face. The
years of self indulgence had come for a reckoning. Nebal's
body became like a stone. For ten days, Abigail faithfully
attended to him, assuring he was comfortable and taken care of. Then,

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after ten days, the Lord struck Nabald dead and his
heart ceased to beat. The foul and angry husband of
Abigail was dead, and she was made a widow to
attend to the home alone. Word of Nebal's death spread
and one of David's messengers returned with the news. David's
heart felt a sense of relief and thankfulness, not that

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Nebal was dead, but that the Lord had spared him
from spilling his blood. David walked into the woods and
prayed to the Lord, saying.

Speaker 3 (26:06):
Praise you God, Praise you for your justice and kindness.
You upheld my cause against Nebal. You kept me from
mindless bloodshed. You sent Abigail to.

Speaker 2 (26:19):
David stopped for a moment. He remembered Abigail. He remembered
her kind and wise eyes, and her smooth skin. He
was thankful for her wisdom and devotion to the Lord.
If it were not for her, David would have harnished
his name. He felt a flutter in his stomach and smiled.

Speaker 3 (26:38):
Abigail, What a breathtaking woman, he.

Speaker 2 (26:41):
Thought to himself. David closed his eyes and smiled. He
shook his head and lifted his hands to heaven. He
sprinted out of the woods and retrieved a horse Without
telling his men, David galloped to Nabal's home. It was
late and the stars were brightly arrayed over the horizon.
David rode up to Abigail's home and looked up. Abigail

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was once again sitting at her window. The two of
them locked eyes. Abigail smiled and came down to David.
She opened the door and David was there, wearing a
nervous grin. She let him in and the two of
them spoke into the night. They shared their souls with
one another, exchanging stories, emotions, and laughter. Abigail swooned over David.

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Yet what drew Abigail in most was not the way
David looked, but the sound of his voice. Every word
from his mouth was like a hymn specifically composed to
make her heart swoon. Then, in one perfect moment, David
kissed her. Their bodies drew close to one another, and
all the pain of past years disappeared. For that one moment,

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David did not feel like a man on the run,
Abigail did not feel like a forgotten bride, and David
did not feel like a forgotten son. That night, they
fell in love. The next day, Abigail left with David
to be his bride. She would follow David and his
men through the wilderness, offering her wisdom, affection, and devotion.

Speaker 1 (28:15):
The death of one thing usually signifies the birth of another.
This is a prevailing theme in scripture as well as nature.
If you are a resident of California or any area
where wildfires are common, you know that the destruction of
plants on the hills is usually replaced with new and
lush life. The mountain ranges are singed, but it opens

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the seeds so new life can be born when the
rain comes. This is the rhythm of scripture. When there
is a prominent death or loss of something significant, it
signals to us that something new is coming. The prelude
is a scene from Samuel's funeral. The death of Israel's
last judge signals to us that change is coming. A

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new way to hear from God is coming, and David
will be used to spark a new revival. Samuel was
the moral compass of Israel, continually pointing them toward God.
Without him, Israel will need someone to point them towards
their true north. It can't be solved whose mind has
completely descended into darkness. The role will be vacant until

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David can take the throne. The prelude also features a
loss of relationship. As the rain's poor and harps sound,
David watches another man put his arms around his wife.
He feels the pangs of heartbreak, mixed with the sober
reality that he is no longer a prince of Israel.
He has no title given to him by marriage or

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status in Israel. All that remains is the legend of
Goliath and rumors of his heroism in the wilderness. The
people are still pining after him, though eagerly awaiting the
day when he can return. It has taken a long
time for David to embody what everybody else knew to
be true all along. He is the king. How much

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long ago will we have to wait for his rise
to the throne? You will have to keep listening to
find out. After the prelude, we're sent back to the wilderness,
where David and his men have continued to watch over
Israel like vigilantes. Their army of misfits rise up against bandits,
highwaymen and raiders that threaten the local properties and villages.

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In the beginning of the episode, David and his men
free some shepherds that have been taken captive by bandits.
They don't save them for any reward, but David does
request that their master received them into his home for
the upcoming festival. It's been a while since David and
his men have had any sort of respite, and they
seem desperate for it. The men have adapted well to

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life on the run, however, they are creature comforts that
they have been deprived of. For the sake of his men,
David would take a break. This seems like the perfect
opportunity for him to get his men some well deserved rest. Naypall, however, returned,
earns David's kindness with an insult. David's reaction is somewhat uncharacteristic.

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The story tells us how David reacts. It says David's
entire countenance changed. The rest of the men stepped back,
feeling the anger leaking from his pores. David's bones were
shaking in rage. He stood to his feet and stormed
to his tent. The men wondered if he had retreated
for the night to think and pray, as he often did. However,

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he did not. He emerged from the tent fully clothed
in his armor, with his sword strapped to his side.
David wants to go scorched earth on nay Ball. This
furious reaction is out of character for someone as merciful
as David. What set him off a few things. First,
one small dinner seemed like a fair reward for weeks

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of protection. Second, Naball didn't simply refuse. He went out
of his way to insult David. Third, he it has
been attired. We can't ignore the human element of these stories.
Have you ever been tired, hungry, and insulted all at once?
Think of all the harsh things you've said and done
because you lack sleep, food, and basic courtesy. Imagine that

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feeling times a thousand. David is feeling the fatigue of
fighting in the wilderness, defending its country, being abandoned by
his wife and grieving Samuel, and now Nayball flagrantly denigrates David.
After saving his servants, Nayball stepped on a landline, and
David is about to explode. Let's pause for a moment

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and revisit something we have talked about in previous episodes.
David's outrage is not meant to give us an example
of what we are allowed to do. In Scripture, there
are descriptions and prescriptions. Descriptions are meant to tell us
what happened, and we can parse through the story to
find messages that pertain to us. Prescriptions are meant to

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tell us what we should do and how we should
act in a specific situation. The Old Testament, in particular,
is filled with descriptions of events such as Jacob having
several wives. Now, that does not mean the Bible condemns polygamy,
certainly not. The story is describing what happened, and the
events of Jacob's life warned us that polygamy is a

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blatantly wrong thing to do. David is ready to march
against Naball and slaughter every man under his rank, and
that is not meant to tell us revenge is okay.
In fact, what happens next in the story sends the
opposite message. We are introduced to Abigail, Naball's wife, and
the theme of contrast is reintroduced in this episode. Naball

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is gluttonous, sour, and foolish, while Abigail is beautiful, kind
and wise. She knows what a grave mistake her husband
has made and seeks to prevent David's wrath from falling
on his household. This introduces us to an eternal and
prevailing concept. A good woman is necessary to tame a
bad Mannabal, unfortunately for Abigail, is a particularly unruly beast.

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He is angry, rude, and contemptuous. His drunkenness makes him
unable to appreciate the treasure he has. She is poised,
under pressure, tries to right the wrongs caused by her
husband by providing gifts to David and his men. David
is another beast in need of taming, and Abigail comes
out to do so. Unlike Nabel, David submits to Abigail's kindness.

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Her gesture calms him down and sets his mind straight.
She is the guiding, conscious and tempered voice that David
didn't know he needed. David's son, Solomon, would eventually go
on to write A kind word turns away wrath. Abigail's
kindness turns away David's wrath, and he is sober enough
to see what a terrible mistake he was about to make.

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Abigail saved David from his own rage. Marching against Nabel's
house would have been terrible sin, and David would have
regretted it for the rest of his life. This beautiful
stranger stepped in like an angel, touched his weary soul
and soothed him back to sanity. David and Abigail go
their separate ways, both wondering about the other. It makes sense,

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doesn't it. Abigail is married to a pig, and David's
wife has just been given to another man. It is
inevitable that they would be drawn to each other. Circumstances
make way for their romance to continue as Nabal falls
dead from what we can assume was a heart attack.
Ah gluttony the most subtle of all the deadly sins.

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Its bite is slow, comforting and cruel. It came for Nebel,
leaving Abigail a widow. It came as no surprise to
any of us that she and David fell in love
shortly after they would wed, and Abigail rode off with
David into the wilderness for a life of adventure. Don't
hear much about Abigail after this. There will be a

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glimpse of her from time to time, but for the
most part, she will remain hidden in the margins of
David's story. However, her influence will become clear as David
navigates life as a hero, king, poet, and politician. Not
every figure in David's life is mentioned as much as
we'd like, but we are grateful for their influence in

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his life. Nonetheless, we will look for signs of her
wisdom and temperance in David's life as a story continues.
In our next episode, David will need to hold firm
to his convictions and not give into passion. We can
only hope that as the pressure mounts, he can remain
tether to wisdom. Join us next time for episode fourteen,

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The King Spear. Thank you for listening. For more inspiring stories,
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