April 5, 2023 • 45 mins
Sun Signs—or as Brenda Rose likes to call them, "the gateway drug of astrology"—are the most popular and well-known astrological placement in one's birth chart. Your Sun Sign helps you better understand your gifts, blindspots, challenges, and opportunities during this lifetime. Today, Brenda Rose breaks down the Sun Signs into their elements—fire, water, earth, and air, bringing a fresh outlook to each sign from ignition (Aries) to landing (Capricorn). You'll discover why this knowledge is beneficial: increasing self-awareness, setting you up for success, and identifying your place and purpose in this cosmic wheel. By understanding the Sun signs—their motivations and mantras—you'll gain the ability to view the world with each zodiac sign's perspective, bringing connections and clarity.Because Earth School is hard without the willingness to understand ourselves and each other better.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production
of iHeartRadio. Hi, y'all, I'm Julie. Hi there, I'm Brenda.
Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side. Now, y'all
need to know that we are obsessed with everything on
the other side. Yes, we are, because once you learn
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to navigate the energetic, or to some the invisible world,
life is going to be more fun and much more serene. Heck,
yes it can, because, let's be honest, bred earth school
is hard. In fact, you taught me that, let's crush
Earth School together. Well, hello, my witchie pooh, how what
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signs do you shit that did go away? Wait? Hello,
Witchie pooh, what some signs do we have for you?
I don't know. I try. Oh. I'm so glad y'all
can listen to our interpersonal conversations because this is actually
what life is like when we're not recording, when the
record button has not been hit. Welcome, It's true, and
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sometimes we do forget to hit it because sometimes that
I've done that. Yes, welcome myself crazy, crazy, so playful,
so playful. Today, if we're talking about some size, well
and y'all ask for him, so you know, we got some.
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I mean it's like, listen, you asked for it, so
you're gonna get it, and you're gonna get all my
horse shit and weaved in between. Um. But it's it's
really great because I love how interested everybody is in astrology,
and I love that my Witchy Pooh has been studying
for you know, a little while on it. Um. But
it's something that we've a decade. I know, I was
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just being nice. I was trying to be nice about it.
But I love that this is something that is really
is embraced, and I think it's been embraced to a
certain degree for quite a while. But I really feel
like that hug is getting tighter around astrology. So we,
you know, we will asked about to go deeper into
the various sun signs. I cannot tell you why, Witchie Pooh.
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How funny it is when I talk to people, they're like, well,
da da da da and there a Taurus, or like
da da dada sad and da da da da da,
And it's so funny to listen to it in everyday conversation.
So we thought it'd be a good idea to kind
of discuss them. I think you want to discuss them
based on element, which I think is a great idea.
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But also discussing them isn't about how to shame somebody
about their sign, because I've been shamed about being a Leo.
But it's really about how do you deal with yourself?
You know, It's like where does this resonate with you?
And how do you care for yourself? Is that a
fair introduction to what we want to talk about. Well,
first of all, it's the sun signs? Are they if
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they're like the gateway drug to astrology? Right? Totally? So
there's this fun aspect of knowing your sunsign, knowing the
sunsign of the people you love around you, and just
being curious how to bring out their best or accommodate
their quirks and you know, and just be kind and
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compassionate as we engage with each other. And you know,
the reason we study astrology is to increase our self
awareness and to set ourselves up for success, knowing what
our gifts are, knowing what our blind spots are, knowing
where we have challenges and like I want to I
want to get stronger there. You know, when people think
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like having a square in your chart is terrible or
an opposition. You're like, no, no, this is not a problem, right,
this is that's an opportunity. Opposition equals an opportunity. Then
the thing about the signs is to understand, I think
more about those around us, because understanding is everything, right,
and we're all like thrown on the planet together at
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this time, so we may as well put a little
effort and to not only understanding ourselves, but understanding those
around us, and maybe a little bit about why certain
people for certain ways, like every cat all my cancers.
I love cancers, but for the love of God, do
they cry all the fucking time? But because of that,
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I'm actually very empathetic. But they do, all of them,
Yes they do, and I of the doo it is,
and I love them, but I understand them more now
about because it's like, I'm not that person. But that's okay.
I don't want everybody like me. I want to understand
our differences, and I want to be empathetic, sympathetic, I
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want to be all of those things understanding. Um, because again,
if we had a world full of elves, good lord,
how exhausting would that be. So we want the differences right,
and so this is just I think a little little
guide and to maybe help understand understanding who you are
and those around you that you love and maybe kind
of like exactly that. So we're going to dive in
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what I have done. You can do this a thousand
different ways. We're at least a handful, you know. But
I have broken the sun signs into their elements. We
have four elements. We have fire, Earth, air, and water.
And so we're going to go in that order. It says,
we go through the sun signs, and so there are
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three signs in each of the four elements. That's why
we have twelve signs, right, So we're going to start
with fire, yes fire, Fire says yes. Ignition, ignision. Of course,
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the first sign of the Zodia wheel is Aries, right,
and we are heading into Arie season right now, and
it's the ignition. It's the beginning of the year. It's
the beginning of the wheel. It's literally the I think
of it, the soul moves through all these twelve houses.
So if you think of the first house as the
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you know, entry point of the wheel of embodiment, so
Aries has a newness. They bringing an ignition, they bring creativity,
a discovery, element and their drive says, I am, I exist,
I came to the planet. This is amazing. And if
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you know any aries, they are all about getting things done.
Like there's just a drive. Now do they get them
done correctly? That's not all the time. It's it's all
about taking action. I have but a for effort and
a for action. I mean, you gotta like they're not sitting.
They're not sitting on their asses with their feet kicked up.
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They are in perpetual motion. Yep. Oh, I know. I
have a friend who has a son who isn't aries,
and he is all aries. He like, will just run
run into a wall, get up and run into the wall,
and get up and run into the wall like this
is awesome, hilarious. It's just they don't care if they
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blow it up. No, because they have enough energy. They'll
just do it again, right or no, just move on,
Like I I'm only good at stubbing things. I'm not
really good at finishing. That's true too. I've seen a
lot of that. But to know that that is so
to all of our aries out there. To know if
you're that person that you can ignite, you can start
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fires everywhere and there and fire meaning ideas everywhere. You
may not be the best one to see it all
the way through, so you know, create the right group.
If you're an ideation session or a brainstorming session, get
a couple of areas in there as ringers. They'll know
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you can do this way, you could do it this way.
What about this? Have you ever thought about that? Just like, oh,
my love of God, it's awesome. Right, this is in
their suite and they they're not attached to them, they're
not attached. They're like, yeah, they'll let them go. Yeah,
and unlike some other signs that you know, don't let go,
and they're quite as flexible. Nope. So that that's our
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and our initiating fire sign. The second fire sign is
of course you know yours truly Leo raw So Leo
is it's all about I create right this. It can
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be very dramatic, it can be very powerful, it can
be very courageous. There's a performance element with Leo, right,
because I create, and so I want to embody this,
I want to show I want to display right and
and at the same time there's also a shyness sometimes
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all that showiness all right, all the bluster, all the
bravado is to cover up the authenticity, right, because what
if what if it's too vulnerable to show my authentic self? Right?
And so this is the charm really of the LEO.
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So when when you see them do something spectacular, because
they're usually doing something spectacular or something that's at least
completely compelling and engaging, like what are you what are
you doing there? Oh my god, are you really going
to do this? And then when you talk to them
afterwards and they're just like chill, laid back. It's not huge,
it's not this huge energy, and you just are so
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charmed by them because it's like, wow, that is all
contained within one being. I can do both ends of
that spectrum. It's extraordinary. It's an extraordinary gift. And we
are shy. I'm shy often. You're the one who called
me out. You're the first human that ever called me
out on my shyness because people get you know, distracted
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by all though, and it's awfully exhausting to be a LEO.
I'm just gonna say, yeah, we wear ourselves out. Well,
you put on a good show, right, that's kind of
your job. We're we're the greatest show people. Yeah, but yes, yeah. Yeah,
and so creative, right, so creative, I create, Oh we
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are very much. I create people and I will something
to be done. Oh there's that as well, Right, there's
all that third chakra energy. I will, I will this.
It's going to happen. I will drag this over the
finish line, kicking and screaming and whoever needs to go.
We it's happening. And we wear ourselves out too by
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because that's what we do. We're exhausted, that's literally. And
also it's interesting because that I remember, Yeah, I was
just gonna say, remember line'd like to sleep like twelve
hours a day. Yeah, this line does. Um. Yeah, I
chill out. I chill out a lot. But it's interesting
because statistically, there are more CEOs that are Leo's than
any other sun sign. Yeah, and I think part of
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the vulnerability is why the really good ones can do it.
I mean, there's the leadership, but I think that I
would never lose sight of the the vulnerability. Listen, we're staying
on this because I'm a Leo and I'm stopping on it.
But we should move on to my other favorite fire sign,
which is the sadge I think I loved. Is your favorite.
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I didn't know because everyone I know is hilarious. They
are the funniest people. Oh I mean, come on, ruben Um,
I know so fast, They're oh so fast. Holy shit.
If I could just spend time around Sadges all the time,
I would just like be happy, go lucky and just
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laughing and probably peeing down my leg because they are funny.
They are funny. Don't don't forget Sadges my rising sign
um but full on sun sign sun sign Sadges say
that nine times um are hilarious. That's why I love
them so much. Yeah, I mean, I love all the signs,
let's be honest, but those are the ones are the
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ones that make me laugh. I have a little closer,
tighter affinity too. And they have a quirky aspect about that.
Yeah right, it's not it's not down the middle middle
predictable funny, like almost trite funny. They're bored by that
because their minds are so inquisitive that they are philosophers.
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They study, they consume information, and they'll watch and consume
people's patterns. They love to travel because they love to
know everything. That's like on Earth school Mini and I
feel like they're always running these algorithms just to take
in more information. I will the funniest saidge I ever
met Mona's sister, Pam. I used to say that she
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was the funniest sad person I've ever met my life,
Like she could be funny and the deepest, darkest depths
of her soul with these horrible things that happened to
her postcar accident. Right, still funny, Yeah, yeah, they have.
They have a lightness to how they weave. And they're
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also just seekers of truth, yes, right, And they can
speak so philosophically of what they know to be true
and how they understand humanity. It's extraordinary. Yeah, it is. Yeah.
So all you said is I love you, and we
need to take a break and we'll be okay, damn it, Okay,
we'll get back. Okay, everybody, we are back. And I
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promise that we will move away from the fire signs, um,
and I think we're gonna go into Earth. Yeah, Earth signs. Yeah, Earth,
so Earth signs. I'm very different from the transformative, constantly
moving and igniting, creating fire. Right, Earth signs, super steady,
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super solid, strong foundation, right, that's and remember Earth, So
that's that's theirth sign, and we need you Earth signs.
We need everybody everyone, right, we need all of them, right,
that's everyone's got their lane. We need everyone playing in
all the lanes. So our first first sign that we
come to in the wheel is Taurus. So Taurus, so
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that's our first one. I guess, yeah, it's a second
house right yeah, okay, So and Taurus is represented by
the bowl. So people think of them as stubborn and
they can be that they are and I love them
because they will like dig their hoofs in. And yes,
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and they're also very caring, oh, no doubt, there's no question. Yeah,
they're very caring. Um. And they are very sensitive physically.
Remember we're in the art signs, which represents the body.
Oh of course, yeah, so they just went through all
my tauruses and it's exactly that. Yes, physically, they're very sensitive,
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sensitive to touch. They'll always have exquisite m fabric and
their clothing it has to be soft, has to be pristine,
has to be the exact right thing. No, I don't
need these sneakers. I need these sneakers like they have
with distinctions among their items, their things. Then all of
Earth signs do. But specifically the Taurus. Right, that's fascinating.
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It makes so much sense. By the way, I'm like,
just so to your listeners, I'm like you right now,
this is awesome. I'm just like taking it all in good.
So the other thing is Taurus is because they're very caring.
They're very they're very nice, they can be very compassionate.
They have a pace where they don't like to be rushed.
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So if you have a child that's Taurists. Give them
lots of transition time because they do not they don't
like to talk fast, they don't like to move fast.
They have their own pace super important, and they do
like their things. So part of the drive of the
Taurus is I have like I own. What I own
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is very important. They don't like to I'll share always.
It's a little hard for them because you might not
appreciate the very fine chocolate they have. Then they usually
have snacks. Tourses always need snacks. That's hilarious and by
the way, totally on par with all the Tauruses. I know.
This is great. So if by the way, that's hilarious,
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But and you you should just ask them ahead of
time because it's not just any snacks ask them are
you sweet or savory like, because they'll have their preference
and they won't touch thegether. It's not just all snacks.
Oh I love, they're so funny. So our next Earth
sign that we come to is, of course Virgo. Virgo
is known as the healer and again body focused in healing,
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although not limited because we've as we've discussed many times
on this pub that healing goes across you know, physical, mental, emotional, spiritual,
so um, but oftentimes healing in the body. And they
have a way of approaching things with exacting energy, right,
they can get kind of personicity like oh no, it's
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not this, it's that. So they get persnicity in a
different way that the Taurus energy does. But they're very precise,
a bit of perfectionists. But you know, don't look in
their drawers because the drawers will be chaos, even though
the house looks pristine otherwise. The Virgo is the latter
part of August then goes through the big chunk of September. Right, yes, Virgo, okay, yep,
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right right after Leo. Yes, they're very different than my people.
Oh gosh, yeah, no, no, that's real, that's real because
it's earth right. So as they get very precise, like
you want your doctor, you want your dentist, you want
like someone who's caring for something physically, you want them
to be the virgo because they're going to get it
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right and they and they won't stop until it's done.
Would that be a weird question to interview a doctor?
Be like, so when were you born? They asked all
the time. Gets people are always asking everyone one's your birthday?
Just to be social, and people have no idea like
the kind of information they're sharing exactly exactly. I have
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a friend who's a physical therapist who is like, she's
I think she's a double virgo. She remembers every seminar
she ever took. She remember. She's like, oh you know,
it's like she's downloading trials. Oh yeah, I need this technique.
I'm going to do this. I haven't done it in
ten years, but she does it perfectly. I'm like, oh
my god, it's amazing. Her mind's amazing. I love that. Yeah,
it's extraordinary. So are very precise and um yeah, so
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that's it. They Virgos also have some mind trash where
they're really hard on themselves and people don't see that.
They only see how they show up as perfectionists. They say, oh,
that looks so easy for you, and you're like, oh
my god, I was totally stressed about that for four
days before. So they have some anxiety for sure because
they have some tie standards. Then our last Earth sign
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is Capricorn, which on the natural astrology is at the
of the chart in the ten pasts. So, um, Capricorn
is usually how we are seen professionally in the world,
so it's an Earth sign. So remember body finances are
all represented by the Earth element. So at the top
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of the chart is the Capricorn, which is how we
make money. It's how we bring our gifts to be
valued by our community, which isn't always monetary, but it's
our reputation, right, So that's just at the top of
the chart in the sign of Capricorn. Capricorn has is
represented by them by the sea goat. The sea goat, yes, okay,
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And I think it's a mythological fiction figure. Yeah, so
but what are you telling me? It's not real? But
I think it goes m like it's always looking to ascend,
it's always going after a goal, which is not a
bad thing an energy to how in the side of
your career, right, I'm always going after the target. I'm
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always going after It doesn't even have to be promotion
as much as I'm going after my whatever my goal
is in front of me, whether I'm studying or you know,
moving things forward and looking for the promotion even but
what is Capricorn. There's December, so it comes in at
the end of December. At the end of December, okay, yeah,
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so um, so that makes sense. Yeah, this is Capricorn. Right,
so when you think about it, when you go into
the new year, you are automatically like, what are my
goals that you're in that Capricorn energy, what are my
goals for the new year? And it's it's really driven
by this Capricorn drive and the drive for Virgo I
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didn't talk about, which is I analyze, I figure things
out and so um when I so again that remember
the the mental busyness of Virgo. The drive for Capricorn
is I utilize, I utilize my gifts, I utilize resources,
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I utilize to create value. That's their job. Right. That's
interesting and again of course falls in line. That's fascinating. Yeah,
and remember capricornis do not miss deadlines. That's kind of
their thing, just say, you know, it's funny. Yeah wow,
well yeah that it's Suzanne's brother born on Christmas Day.
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It's him. Yeah, that's crazy. That's why I ask you
because I'm like, sounds like Bob, very very dependable. Oh
I absolutely, there's no doubt, like yep. If if you're
in a bind, let him, he'll figure it out. Oh yeah.
If there's one call you make, it's to a Capricorn,
no doubt. That's exactly right. Yeah, I mean unless you
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need something uh you know done, it's kind of on
the edge, then you call one of the fire signs.
That's right. We will back up the capricorns. Yeah, exactly,
we are there. Uh yeah, we're there like backup dancers,
you know, backup dancers were there, like the backup dancers.
It's exactly right, exactly right from there, I will do
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O good, Yeah, thank you, O good. So we go
into to air signs right after we close out our
earth signs. So we have three air signs, and the
first air sign we come to is Gemini. So Gemini
are the little chatterboxes of the zodiac. So many words
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I love Geminis. I know, they just talk and talk
and talk, and they process as they talk. I love
them external processors. Yeah, and then let me tell you
about this, and then let me tell you about that
that's not the roll, and then your day's gone because
you lost all your time listen to the damn Gemini. Right,
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But for the Gemini, it's so valuable because they talk
to process and their drive is I think like they
like learning. They this is all about school. You know,
this is the sign they like new ideas. Now, let's
be clear, they prefer their own new ideas than learning
someone else's. Most of the time. The case, it's just
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about everybody. They're not everybody, but definitely Gemini is well.
They're the leaders of that well. And they're so fun
because they'll look at things so differently. Right that well,
I was thinking of a bit more like this, and
you're like, really, I never thought of it that way. Huh.
Let's see how would that be? You know, it's fascinating,
it's fascinating. It's fun to see them think because they're
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so dynamic and how they do it and so articulate.
It's a joy, right, It's a joy to be around them.
Oh I love that. Yeah. Um, so that's the Gemini energy.
And the next air sign we come to is Libra,
and Libra is where the first sign where we move
beyond our self focus and we begin to think about
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we as we move through you know, this wheel of
the zodiac houses. So now I'm engaged with we. So
the drive for Libra is I balance and we balance right,
because you can't really balance with yourself, you need another
element to balance with right. So this goes from the
singular to two and at least an element of two,
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if not more. And this is the energy that Libra
brings in always scanning and taking in other people for consideration,
and of course it's the sign of beauty and justice,
things like that, things that will require other parties. So
a quick question just for everybody is, you know, we
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talk about these sun signs, but then we also have
the ones the customers, right, and when you're a customer,
you can take on maybe the latter part of the
one prior to you or no, you'll you will be
influenced by it. Usually your your son will land in
one house or the other. But you know, if you're
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in you know that that window of like oh, if
I've been born three hours before or the day before
or something, that I would have been the previous sign.
So you'll have influence of that. Got it. They caught
the entry point to the to the next house or
to the previous house. That's that's yeah, they'll call that so.
And it's actually a very very Libra question that you
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would ask because Libra is always considering others. Well, I mean,
you're you're Libra. So was my mother? Interesting? And it
all it's just so funny because this is this is
That's why I said earlier, Im I feel like I'm
an audience member because I have a feeling everybody when
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they listen to this, they're going to be identifying all
these people in their life. And that's the fun Yeah. Right,
that's the great part about it. Um. Yeah, that's really fascinating.
But that is the wei right, like before we start
getting to all the water emotional people but who cry
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a lot um and I love them. But anyway, but
that's interesting. I didn't know that about the Libra. That's fascining. Okay,
Like I'm leaning in, I'm so about whatever the hell
you're going to say next. Remember, if you're working with
the Libra. You know, you can ask them, hey, how's
your balancing going, how are things are you balancing all?
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Are you taking care of yourself? Right? These these are
things that is not there, you know, natural, but it's
it's part of the invitation that they have to move
through the world as with that Libra energy. And then
our last air sign is the Aquarius, the sign of Aquarius, right,
which everyone knows the song I was gonna say, there's
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a about it, the Age of Aquarius. So yes, this
is the sign of Aquarius. And Aquarius is that you know, again,
the last air sign, and so it's the highest aspect
of the air sign. And it's all about innovation and
technology and taking care of the communal tribe. Right. So
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this lever brings in the weakness and Aquarius takes it
to the next level that says, no, we are global family,
like we have to figure this out. So it's a
really big step up. And how you would do that
is through technology. Like how we're going to leverage technology,
whether it's Zoom right, Zoom went to from being a
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very legit platform to in the pandemic to being everywhere, right,
So this is a way that we leverage technology to
take care of the community, the communal It seems a
perfect example of that. So and astrology is housed in
the sign of Aquarius in that right, because it is
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all about technology, right astrology. If you were in medical school,
you studied astrology back in the day, because would you
would want to bring balance to different people in ways
that were in harmony with their own nature. So oh,
I love that. I know. I wish they were taught that. Still,
we could come back to it, right because we're yeah,
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why not everything, Yeah, exactly exactly. Saturn's moving into you know, Um,
it's going to be fabulous. Um. And so we're didn't
take a break, and then we'll come back with our
final element, which is water. We're going to leave all
the emotional ones to just take it all in here
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at the end, soak it up. We'll be right back
and everybody, we are back. And I don't want to
say this because I don't want to offend anybody, but
they're kind of the best for last. I love our
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water people so much. We need them, well, we need everybody,
but these guys, like from a human condition, stands standpoint
and for all the things that I think humankind suffers from,
which is dealing with emotions. That's why I really love them.
We need them, we need them now, we need them
always for that because that's causes so much. Thanks that,
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Thank you ANST for the rest of us well, And
the truth is we feel like we can't control our emotions.
But emotions aren't meant to be controlled. They're meant to
be felt. Right, how you exactly how you get to
move through them, like emotions they're literally supposed to move
is to feel them, integrate them. That's how you get
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through them, not by trying to control them, which is yeah,
and never tell a water sign stop crying or stop
that for one is don't I actually a huge proponent.
I'm not trying to tell anybody what to think, feel
or do. But that's just me. Um. But yeah, but
you're right because they do feel it. And my cancers
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have helped me significantly. That's why I kind of tease
with them so much. Like I have a lot of them.
I think that's a sign. Well, you have a lot
of fires, so you would naturally attract water. Yeah, I
guess that's true. Makes sense. So our first, our water
sign that we come to is cancer. I love those
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damn cancers. Yeah, they're so kind and nurturing, giant hearts.
I love them, Like I feel like when you walk
into a house of cancers, I was like, what do
you need, darlin? What can I get for you? You know,
like it doesn't matter if you pop in or thing.
It was planned, like they're they're always going to give
you food while like they're just gonna take care of you.
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It's like getting a big hug every time you eat, exactly,
and sometimes you're also a big hugs. Amona was a
cancer and that oh that yeah, that crazy woman. She
would like just like float into her house, PLoP down
practically on me but next to me, kind of half on,
half off, and to sit there and grab my hand
and hold my hand. I mean it was like the
sweetest Yeah, yeah, sure, so sweet. Yeah. They're just people
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just feel loved in their presence. Yes, yes, um, it's it's.
One of my teachers said, it's so unfortunate that we
call this sign cancer, which we associate with a disease. Agreed,
but if but it didn't start out that way, right.
It literally is the sign of the crab, and it's
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it literally should be called the sign of love. Agreed.
It's it's just so um yeah. But do you think
about it as you know, jumping in the jumping in
the deep end of love, like that's the initial water
sign and they cry all the time, and then they do.
And here's the thing I've I've been indoctrinated to my cancers.
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Didn't know for a long time what they were. But
when I did know what they were, I'm like, oh, well,
hell that makes sense. And so because because the thing is,
when you're not one, you're trying to fix it. Because
a lot of times we think that there's a problem,
but there actually isn't. We're uncomfortable with their own sign right,
or their own emotions. Right. So if someone else comes
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to ed us with a lot of emotions, you're like, well,
needs shut that down, right, I take care on my
side of the street, I shut that all down. You
shut it down. So by being open to them, yes,
because they're the ones I think out of the different
elements that you know, because they're unlike the rest of
I mean, you know, like they the fire brings out
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the transformation, all the initiation, The water brings all the
steadiness and the structure, the air brings the idea Earth
was steady and steady. Oh sorry, what did I say? Sorry,
you're here in the moment. Yeah, Earth, Earth brings the
steadiness and the structure the container, paying attention to the physicality.
Air brings the ideas and transformation through technology, and then
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water brings returns us to our humanity. Yes, that's exactly
how yes, yeah, that's our humanity. So and of course
the drive or the phrase is associated with the cancer,
is I feel no shit that yeah? Oh you know what,
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I don't think I gave the phrase of the affirmation
for aquaries, which is I know, oh yeah, because again
the air the high sign of air, which is the
idea of generation. So then our second water sign sorry
I'm jumping here to our water sign is scorpio, right,
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the sign of scorpio, which scares a lot of people,
that makes them nervous. I mean, what happened to all
the water signs? They are all we got cancer, which
is a disease. We have scorpio, which stings you. It's
like I think that the water signs got screwed with
all the labels. I will say, every single sign has
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things that they get, you know, dinged for which you know,
can be taken out of context for a lot of situations.
What scorpios get dinged with is sexual. They're over sexed.
They're oversexualized. I guess as the HU you would, really, yeah,
because it's sex, death and other and other people's money,
right set in taxes like that's that's the sign of scorpio. Yeah,
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And and it's because when you think about the sign
of scorpio, you literally think about things that go underwater,
that are submerged. Right, these are these are um, you know,
topics that aren't discussed in polite company, whatever that means. Right,
I've never been polite company, So I don't know what
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you're saying. That was foreign to me. If not alien,
we'll get someone to translate that phrase. Susanne explain this
to him later. Um, but the thing about scorpios is
because they feel things so deeply, oftentimes they won't have
access to their words because they're so deep in water.
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They literally don't have access to air. Wow, right, right, right, right,
so much sense, It makes so much sense. Right, But
this is the thing. It doesn't mean that they don't
have incredible insights. They're so psychic because they're picking up
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and processing everything underneath the surface. That's their gift, that's
their home base, that's their currency. And so sometimes you
have to wait for them or encourage them to speak
because they're like, oh, no, no, I understand what you're saying. Well,
what is that like for you? Well, it's the same,
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and then you don't, well is it well not exactly,
and you know, then they'll come out with it like
you literally have to pull it out of them, and
it's always worth it because there's always this story or
a giggle. They're they're very sensitive, they're very insightful, and
it doesn't mean that there's not an intensity. There absolutely
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is an intensity to this sign because they're a little
bit other worthy, right, So of course I love them.
I love that so much. I am like, then I
am now on a campaign to find more Scorpio friends. Well,
and it's hard because they hide. Yeah, I'll find them. Yeah,
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they don't themselves. Yeah yeah, and you will. You will
attract them for sure. I mean because I said it
out loud and it's been recorded all of Scorpios and
the annals of history. It's now there. D M Julie like,
I'll be your friend. And actually, thing is, they won't
actually raise their hand. That's the thing. Yeah, you have
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to you have to find them, and then then you
have to be quiet to give them lots of space
to talk because once I know that they'll be heard,
they'll show up. Yeah okay, yeah, super tape. But the
thing is like the just ask them about, hey, what
kind of signs and signals do you have from the universe?
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And then the coverage then came on. Then they're like, oh, well,
you know, this is how I know this and this
is how I know that, and it's just so fascinating.
Oh I'm doing that. Yeah, it's really fun. They're so magical.
Um and then um is the energy of the water.
The final water sign is Pisces, right, and Pisces is
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it's it is. They love to go with the flow.
They're not very timely and they don't care about not
because they're not able to be just because they don't
care about it. And they they love merging with people,
like let's let's all be on the same page. Let's
I want to make sure everybody's good here, Like is
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everyone good with this idea? Because if someone's not, then
we've come up with a new one. But I've like
I want everyone to be on the same page. I
want everyone to feel comfortable. I want to be connected.
I want to move as one because they know that
we're all connected, that we're all more alike than we
are different. That's how they move through the world, right,
That's how they move through the world. And you know
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they they it's a very strong sign with dreams. They
have a lot of energy that's not conscious. They have access.
So when you talk to your price to say, hey,
what's dream about last night? Yeah, exactly, it's exactly it.
I love that. Yeah, I love that. See, I love
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I mean, I love everybody, don't even me wrong, But
I have a little bit slight teck up of affinity
to these water signs. Yeah. Now you do have to
watch them because of their connectivity to the dream world.
Sometimes um facts get lost in the mix. Totally understand that. Yeah,
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there's an element of illusion, delusion that can be very present,
that can be very present. Yeah. Right, So just just
something to keep in mind. Secrets are big. Secrets are
um can be big for Pisces can show up in Scorpio,
mostly because it feels like a secret when you find
out about it. But they just didn't they just forgot
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to tell you. I didn't. I didn't say that aloud.
I thought I said that a hilarious there. They are
incredibly complicated, yeah, right, because they clear the seat of
our emotion, right, Yeah, they're very complex, right to complicated
Yeah is what makes us complex for sure. So those
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are the twelve signs. I hope that gave people something
to think about, to consider, to double click on and
go find more information. I love it. Yeah, it's very fun.
Thanks for I mean, I'm going to do it. Yeah,
And it actually wasn't me. I was just like picking
up on other people asking. I was like, you know,
this would be really great. I'm going to learn a
lot more because I have not spent the time studying
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astrology like you have, and I just think that there's
so much depth to it because there's so much depth
with us. And it's also not the only thing that
you know, kind of determines how we view or operating
in the world. It's our whole really, our whole whole chart,
which I was saying to you earlier. I started giving
the gift of um of like when a friend has
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a baby and getting them the child's chart because it's
kind of like an instruction manual. I mean, my mom
had me figured out, but interesting things in there. That
was a different connection though you and your mind. And
really this is why we study astrology so that we
can understand the map of our lives. So I could
say literally an invitation for our life, our school journey.
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And again, we're complicated, all of us are, because we're
not just one thing, right, We're lots of things. Except
when you talk about people that are like triple virgos
or triple something alike benimally, but a few people on
the planet like that, Um, right, they're complicated. Um, But
we all are because we're again, we're not just one thing.
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We're a lot of different things. Where the sun sign
is a big driver force. But we have like our
where we are various houses, and our moon and are rising,
and there's like all sorts of other things. But this
is so significant it was worth an episode, right of
how I should have said this at the beginning and
I didn't that we start with the sun sign because
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this is the initiation that everyone sees of how we
move through the world. It's our drive, it's it's how
you know, the first thing people notice about us the
other science. You know, the sun moon rising are big ones,
but there's so many other things in the chart. Yeah,
it's I loved it. Thank you so much for actually
sharing this with all of us, um and we hope
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Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production
of iHeartRadio. Hi, y'all, I'm Julie. Hi there, I'm Brenda.
Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side. Now, y'all
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to navigate the energetic, or to some the invisible world,
life is going to be more fun and much more serene. Heck,
yes it can, because, let's be honest, bred earth school
is hard. In fact, you taught me that, let's crush
Earth School together. Well, hello, my witchie pooh, how what
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signs do you shit that did go away? Wait? Hello,
Witchie pooh, what some signs do we have for you?
I don't know. I try. Oh. I'm so glad y'all
can listen to our interpersonal conversations because this is actually
what life is like when we're not recording, when the
record button has not been hit. Welcome, It's true, and
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sometimes we do forget to hit it because sometimes that
I've done that. Yes, welcome myself crazy, crazy, so playful,
so playful. Today, if we're talking about some size, well
and y'all ask for him, so you know, we got some.
(01:34):
I mean it's like, listen, you asked for it, so
you're gonna get it, and you're gonna get all my
horse shit and weaved in between. Um. But it's it's
really great because I love how interested everybody is in astrology,
and I love that my Witchy Pooh has been studying
for you know, a little while on it. Um. But
it's something that we've a decade. I know, I was
(01:56):
just being nice. I was trying to be nice about it.
But I love that this is something that is really
is embraced, and I think it's been embraced to a
certain degree for quite a while. But I really feel
like that hug is getting tighter around astrology. So we,
you know, we will asked about to go deeper into
the various sun signs. I cannot tell you why, Witchie Pooh.
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How funny it is when I talk to people, they're like, well,
da da da da and there a Taurus, or like
da da dada sad and da da da da da,
And it's so funny to listen to it in everyday conversation.
So we thought it'd be a good idea to kind
of discuss them. I think you want to discuss them
based on element, which I think is a great idea.
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But also discussing them isn't about how to shame somebody
about their sign, because I've been shamed about being a Leo.
But it's really about how do you deal with yourself?
You know, It's like where does this resonate with you?
And how do you care for yourself? Is that a
fair introduction to what we want to talk about. Well,
first of all, it's the sun signs? Are they if
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they're like the gateway drug to astrology? Right? Totally? So
there's this fun aspect of knowing your sunsign, knowing the
sunsign of the people you love around you, and just
being curious how to bring out their best or accommodate
their quirks and you know, and just be kind and
(03:23):
compassionate as we engage with each other. And you know,
the reason we study astrology is to increase our self
awareness and to set ourselves up for success, knowing what
our gifts are, knowing what our blind spots are, knowing
where we have challenges and like I want to I
want to get stronger there. You know, when people think
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like having a square in your chart is terrible or
an opposition. You're like, no, no, this is not a problem, right,
this is that's an opportunity. Opposition equals an opportunity. Then
the thing about the signs is to understand, I think
more about those around us, because understanding is everything, right,
and we're all like thrown on the planet together at
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this time, so we may as well put a little
effort and to not only understanding ourselves, but understanding those
around us, and maybe a little bit about why certain
people for certain ways, like every cat all my cancers.
I love cancers, but for the love of God, do
they cry all the fucking time? But because of that,
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I'm actually very empathetic. But they do, all of them,
Yes they do, and I of the doo it is,
and I love them, but I understand them more now
about because it's like, I'm not that person. But that's okay.
I don't want everybody like me. I want to understand
our differences, and I want to be empathetic, sympathetic, I
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want to be all of those things understanding. Um, because again,
if we had a world full of elves, good lord,
how exhausting would that be. So we want the differences right,
and so this is just I think a little little
guide and to maybe help understand understanding who you are
and those around you that you love and maybe kind
of like exactly that. So we're going to dive in
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what I have done. You can do this a thousand
different ways. We're at least a handful, you know. But
I have broken the sun signs into their elements. We
have four elements. We have fire, Earth, air, and water.
And so we're going to go in that order. It says,
we go through the sun signs, and so there are
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three signs in each of the four elements. That's why
we have twelve signs, right, So we're going to start
with fire, yes fire, Fire says yes. Ignition, ignision. Of course,
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the first sign of the Zodia wheel is Aries, right,
and we are heading into Arie season right now, and
it's the ignition. It's the beginning of the year. It's
the beginning of the wheel. It's literally the I think
of it, the soul moves through all these twelve houses.
So if you think of the first house as the
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you know, entry point of the wheel of embodiment, so
Aries has a newness. They bringing an ignition, they bring creativity,
a discovery, element and their drive says, I am, I exist,
I came to the planet. This is amazing. And if
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you know any aries, they are all about getting things done.
Like there's just a drive. Now do they get them
done correctly? That's not all the time. It's it's all
about taking action. I have but a for effort and
a for action. I mean, you gotta like they're not sitting.
They're not sitting on their asses with their feet kicked up.
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They are in perpetual motion. Yep. Oh, I know. I
have a friend who has a son who isn't aries,
and he is all aries. He like, will just run
run into a wall, get up and run into the wall,
and get up and run into the wall like this
is awesome, hilarious. It's just they don't care if they
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blow it up. No, because they have enough energy. They'll
just do it again, right or no, just move on,
Like I I'm only good at stubbing things. I'm not
really good at finishing. That's true too. I've seen a
lot of that. But to know that that is so
to all of our aries out there. To know if
you're that person that you can ignite, you can start
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fires everywhere and there and fire meaning ideas everywhere. You
may not be the best one to see it all
the way through, so you know, create the right group.
If you're an ideation session or a brainstorming session, get
a couple of areas in there as ringers. They'll know
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you can do this way, you could do it this way.
What about this? Have you ever thought about that? Just like, oh,
my love of God, it's awesome. Right, this is in
their suite and they they're not attached to them, they're
not attached. They're like, yeah, they'll let them go. Yeah,
and unlike some other signs that you know, don't let go,
and they're quite as flexible. Nope. So that that's our
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and our initiating fire sign. The second fire sign is
of course you know yours truly Leo raw So Leo
is it's all about I create right this. It can
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be very dramatic, it can be very powerful, it can
be very courageous. There's a performance element with Leo, right,
because I create, and so I want to embody this,
I want to show I want to display right and
and at the same time there's also a shyness sometimes
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all that showiness all right, all the bluster, all the
bravado is to cover up the authenticity, right, because what
if what if it's too vulnerable to show my authentic self? Right?
And so this is the charm really of the LEO.
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So when when you see them do something spectacular, because
they're usually doing something spectacular or something that's at least
completely compelling and engaging, like what are you what are
you doing there? Oh my god, are you really going
to do this? And then when you talk to them
afterwards and they're just like chill, laid back. It's not huge,
it's not this huge energy, and you just are so
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charmed by them because it's like, wow, that is all
contained within one being. I can do both ends of
that spectrum. It's extraordinary. It's an extraordinary gift. And we
are shy. I'm shy often. You're the one who called
me out. You're the first human that ever called me
out on my shyness because people get you know, distracted
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by all though, and it's awfully exhausting to be a LEO.
I'm just gonna say, yeah, we wear ourselves out. Well,
you put on a good show, right, that's kind of
your job. We're we're the greatest show people. Yeah, but yes, yeah. Yeah,
and so creative, right, so creative, I create, Oh we
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are very much. I create people and I will something
to be done. Oh there's that as well, Right, there's
all that third chakra energy. I will, I will this.
It's going to happen. I will drag this over the
finish line, kicking and screaming and whoever needs to go.
We it's happening. And we wear ourselves out too by
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because that's what we do. We're exhausted, that's literally. And
also it's interesting because that I remember, Yeah, I was
just gonna say, remember line'd like to sleep like twelve
hours a day. Yeah, this line does. Um. Yeah, I
chill out. I chill out a lot. But it's interesting
because statistically, there are more CEOs that are Leo's than
any other sun sign. Yeah, and I think part of
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the vulnerability is why the really good ones can do it.
I mean, there's the leadership, but I think that I
would never lose sight of the the vulnerability. Listen, we're staying
on this because I'm a Leo and I'm stopping on it.
But we should move on to my other favorite fire sign,
which is the sadge I think I loved. Is your favorite.
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I didn't know because everyone I know is hilarious. They
are the funniest people. Oh I mean, come on, ruben Um,
I know so fast, They're oh so fast. Holy shit.
If I could just spend time around Sadges all the time,
I would just like be happy, go lucky and just
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laughing and probably peeing down my leg because they are funny.
They are funny. Don't don't forget Sadges my rising sign
um but full on sun sign sun sign Sadges say
that nine times um are hilarious. That's why I love
them so much. Yeah, I mean, I love all the signs,
let's be honest, but those are the ones are the
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ones that make me laugh. I have a little closer,
tighter affinity too. And they have a quirky aspect about that.
Yeah right, it's not it's not down the middle middle
predictable funny, like almost trite funny. They're bored by that
because their minds are so inquisitive that they are philosophers.
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They study, they consume information, and they'll watch and consume
people's patterns. They love to travel because they love to
know everything. That's like on Earth school Mini and I
feel like they're always running these algorithms just to take
in more information. I will the funniest saidge I ever
met Mona's sister, Pam. I used to say that she
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was the funniest sad person I've ever met my life,
Like she could be funny and the deepest, darkest depths
of her soul with these horrible things that happened to
her postcar accident. Right, still funny, Yeah, yeah, they have.
They have a lightness to how they weave. And they're
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also just seekers of truth, yes, right, And they can
speak so philosophically of what they know to be true
and how they understand humanity. It's extraordinary. Yeah, it is. Yeah.
So all you said is I love you, and we
need to take a break and we'll be okay, damn it, Okay,
we'll get back. Okay, everybody, we are back. And I
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promise that we will move away from the fire signs, um,
and I think we're gonna go into Earth. Yeah, Earth signs. Yeah, Earth,
so Earth signs. I'm very different from the transformative, constantly
moving and igniting, creating fire. Right, Earth signs, super steady,
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super solid, strong foundation, right, that's and remember Earth, So
that's that's theirth sign, and we need you Earth signs.
We need everybody everyone, right, we need all of them, right,
that's everyone's got their lane. We need everyone playing in
all the lanes. So our first first sign that we
come to in the wheel is Taurus. So Taurus, so
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that's our first one. I guess, yeah, it's a second
house right yeah, okay, So and Taurus is represented by
the bowl. So people think of them as stubborn and
they can be that they are and I love them
because they will like dig their hoofs in. And yes,
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and they're also very caring, oh, no doubt, there's no question. Yeah,
they're very caring. Um. And they are very sensitive physically.
Remember we're in the art signs, which represents the body.
Oh of course, yeah, so they just went through all
my tauruses and it's exactly that. Yes, physically, they're very sensitive,
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sensitive to touch. They'll always have exquisite m fabric and
their clothing it has to be soft, has to be pristine,
has to be the exact right thing. No, I don't
need these sneakers. I need these sneakers like they have
with distinctions among their items, their things. Then all of
Earth signs do. But specifically the Taurus. Right, that's fascinating.
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It makes so much sense. By the way, I'm like,
just so to your listeners, I'm like you right now,
this is awesome. I'm just like taking it all in good.
So the other thing is Taurus is because they're very caring.
They're very they're very nice, they can be very compassionate.
They have a pace where they don't like to be rushed.
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So if you have a child that's Taurists. Give them
lots of transition time because they do not they don't
like to talk fast, they don't like to move fast.
They have their own pace super important, and they do
like their things. So part of the drive of the
Taurus is I have like I own. What I own
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is very important. They don't like to I'll share always.
It's a little hard for them because you might not
appreciate the very fine chocolate they have. Then they usually
have snacks. Tourses always need snacks. That's hilarious and by
the way, totally on par with all the Tauruses. I know.
This is great. So if by the way, that's hilarious,
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But and you you should just ask them ahead of
time because it's not just any snacks ask them are
you sweet or savory like, because they'll have their preference
and they won't touch thegether. It's not just all snacks.
Oh I love, they're so funny. So our next Earth
sign that we come to is, of course Virgo. Virgo
is known as the healer and again body focused in healing,
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although not limited because we've as we've discussed many times
on this pub that healing goes across you know, physical, mental, emotional, spiritual,
so um, but oftentimes healing in the body. And they
have a way of approaching things with exacting energy, right,
they can get kind of personicity like oh no, it's
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not this, it's that. So they get persnicity in a
different way that the Taurus energy does. But they're very precise,
a bit of perfectionists. But you know, don't look in
their drawers because the drawers will be chaos, even though
the house looks pristine otherwise. The Virgo is the latter
part of August then goes through the big chunk of September. Right, yes, Virgo, okay, yep,
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right right after Leo. Yes, they're very different than my people.
Oh gosh, yeah, no, no, that's real, that's real because
it's earth right. So as they get very precise, like
you want your doctor, you want your dentist, you want
like someone who's caring for something physically, you want them
to be the virgo because they're going to get it
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right and they and they won't stop until it's done.
Would that be a weird question to interview a doctor?
Be like, so when were you born? They asked all
the time. Gets people are always asking everyone one's your birthday?
Just to be social, and people have no idea like
the kind of information they're sharing exactly exactly. I have
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a friend who's a physical therapist who is like, she's
I think she's a double virgo. She remembers every seminar
she ever took. She remember. She's like, oh you know,
it's like she's downloading trials. Oh yeah, I need this technique.
I'm going to do this. I haven't done it in
ten years, but she does it perfectly. I'm like, oh
my god, it's amazing. Her mind's amazing. I love that. Yeah,
it's extraordinary. So are very precise and um yeah, so
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that's it. They Virgos also have some mind trash where
they're really hard on themselves and people don't see that.
They only see how they show up as perfectionists. They say, oh,
that looks so easy for you, and you're like, oh
my god, I was totally stressed about that for four
days before. So they have some anxiety for sure because
they have some tie standards. Then our last Earth sign
(19:56):
is Capricorn, which on the natural astrology is at the
of the chart in the ten pasts. So, um, Capricorn
is usually how we are seen professionally in the world,
so it's an Earth sign. So remember body finances are
all represented by the Earth element. So at the top
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of the chart is the Capricorn, which is how we
make money. It's how we bring our gifts to be
valued by our community, which isn't always monetary, but it's
our reputation, right, So that's just at the top of
the chart in the sign of Capricorn. Capricorn has is
represented by them by the sea goat. The sea goat, yes, okay,
(20:42):
And I think it's a mythological fiction figure. Yeah, so
but what are you telling me? It's not real? But
I think it goes m like it's always looking to ascend,
it's always going after a goal, which is not a
bad thing an energy to how in the side of
your career, right, I'm always going after the target. I'm
(21:03):
always going after It doesn't even have to be promotion
as much as I'm going after my whatever my goal
is in front of me, whether I'm studying or you know,
moving things forward and looking for the promotion even but
what is Capricorn. There's December, so it comes in at
the end of December. At the end of December, okay, yeah,
(21:23):
so um, so that makes sense. Yeah, this is Capricorn. Right,
so when you think about it, when you go into
the new year, you are automatically like, what are my
goals that you're in that Capricorn energy, what are my
goals for the new year? And it's it's really driven
by this Capricorn drive and the drive for Virgo I
(21:45):
didn't talk about, which is I analyze, I figure things
out and so um when I so again that remember
the the mental busyness of Virgo. The drive for Capricorn
is I utilize, I utilize my gifts, I utilize resources,
(22:09):
I utilize to create value. That's their job. Right. That's
interesting and again of course falls in line. That's fascinating. Yeah,
and remember capricornis do not miss deadlines. That's kind of
their thing, just say, you know, it's funny. Yeah wow,
well yeah that it's Suzanne's brother born on Christmas Day.
(22:33):
It's him. Yeah, that's crazy. That's why I ask you
because I'm like, sounds like Bob, very very dependable. Oh
I absolutely, there's no doubt, like yep. If if you're
in a bind, let him, he'll figure it out. Oh yeah.
If there's one call you make, it's to a Capricorn,
no doubt. That's exactly right. Yeah, I mean unless you
(22:56):
need something uh you know done, it's kind of on
the edge, then you call one of the fire signs.
That's right. We will back up the capricorns. Yeah, exactly,
we are there. Uh yeah, we're there like backup dancers,
you know, backup dancers were there, like the backup dancers.
It's exactly right, exactly right from there, I will do
(23:19):
O good, Yeah, thank you, O good. So we go
into to air signs right after we close out our
earth signs. So we have three air signs, and the
first air sign we come to is Gemini. So Gemini
are the little chatterboxes of the zodiac. So many words
(23:40):
I love Geminis. I know, they just talk and talk
and talk, and they process as they talk. I love
them external processors. Yeah, and then let me tell you
about this, and then let me tell you about that
that's not the roll, and then your day's gone because
you lost all your time listen to the damn Gemini. Right,
(24:00):
But for the Gemini, it's so valuable because they talk
to process and their drive is I think like they
like learning. They this is all about school. You know,
this is the sign they like new ideas. Now, let's
be clear, they prefer their own new ideas than learning
someone else's. Most of the time. The case, it's just
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about everybody. They're not everybody, but definitely Gemini is well.
They're the leaders of that well. And they're so fun
because they'll look at things so differently. Right that well,
I was thinking of a bit more like this, and
you're like, really, I never thought of it that way. Huh.
Let's see how would that be? You know, it's fascinating,
it's fascinating. It's fun to see them think because they're
(24:44):
so dynamic and how they do it and so articulate.
It's a joy, right, It's a joy to be around them.
Oh I love that. Yeah. Um, so that's the Gemini energy.
And the next air sign we come to is Libra,
and Libra is where the first sign where we move
beyond our self focus and we begin to think about
(25:10):
we as we move through you know, this wheel of
the zodiac houses. So now I'm engaged with we. So
the drive for Libra is I balance and we balance right,
because you can't really balance with yourself, you need another
element to balance with right. So this goes from the
singular to two and at least an element of two,
(25:32):
if not more. And this is the energy that Libra
brings in always scanning and taking in other people for consideration,
and of course it's the sign of beauty and justice,
things like that, things that will require other parties. So
a quick question just for everybody is, you know, we
(25:54):
talk about these sun signs, but then we also have
the ones the customers, right, and when you're a customer,
you can take on maybe the latter part of the
one prior to you or no, you'll you will be
influenced by it. Usually your your son will land in
one house or the other. But you know, if you're
(26:16):
in you know that that window of like oh, if
I've been born three hours before or the day before
or something, that I would have been the previous sign.
So you'll have influence of that. Got it. They caught
the entry point to the to the next house or
to the previous house. That's that's yeah, they'll call that so.
And it's actually a very very Libra question that you
(26:37):
would ask because Libra is always considering others. Well, I mean,
you're you're Libra. So was my mother? Interesting? And it
all it's just so funny because this is this is
That's why I said earlier, Im I feel like I'm
an audience member because I have a feeling everybody when
(26:59):
they listen to this, they're going to be identifying all
these people in their life. And that's the fun Yeah. Right,
that's the great part about it. Um. Yeah, that's really fascinating.
But that is the wei right, like before we start
getting to all the water emotional people but who cry
(27:19):
a lot um and I love them. But anyway, but
that's interesting. I didn't know that about the Libra. That's fascining. Okay,
Like I'm leaning in, I'm so about whatever the hell
you're going to say next. Remember, if you're working with
the Libra. You know, you can ask them, hey, how's
your balancing going, how are things are you balancing all?
(27:39):
Are you taking care of yourself? Right? These these are
things that is not there, you know, natural, but it's
it's part of the invitation that they have to move
through the world as with that Libra energy. And then
our last air sign is the Aquarius, the sign of Aquarius, right,
which everyone knows the song I was gonna say, there's
(27:59):
a about it, the Age of Aquarius. So yes, this
is the sign of Aquarius. And Aquarius is that you know, again,
the last air sign, and so it's the highest aspect
of the air sign. And it's all about innovation and
technology and taking care of the communal tribe. Right. So
(28:25):
this lever brings in the weakness and Aquarius takes it
to the next level that says, no, we are global family,
like we have to figure this out. So it's a
really big step up. And how you would do that
is through technology. Like how we're going to leverage technology,
whether it's Zoom right, Zoom went to from being a
(28:49):
very legit platform to in the pandemic to being everywhere, right,
So this is a way that we leverage technology to
take care of the community, the communal It seems a
perfect example of that. So and astrology is housed in
the sign of Aquarius in that right, because it is
(29:09):
all about technology, right astrology. If you were in medical school,
you studied astrology back in the day, because would you
would want to bring balance to different people in ways
that were in harmony with their own nature. So oh,
I love that. I know. I wish they were taught that. Still,
we could come back to it, right because we're yeah,
(29:31):
why not everything, Yeah, exactly exactly. Saturn's moving into you know, Um,
it's going to be fabulous. Um. And so we're didn't
take a break, and then we'll come back with our
final element, which is water. We're going to leave all
the emotional ones to just take it all in here
(29:52):
at the end, soak it up. We'll be right back
and everybody, we are back. And I don't want to
say this because I don't want to offend anybody, but
they're kind of the best for last. I love our
(30:13):
water people so much. We need them, well, we need everybody,
but these guys, like from a human condition, stands standpoint
and for all the things that I think humankind suffers from,
which is dealing with emotions. That's why I really love them.
We need them, we need them now, we need them
always for that because that's causes so much. Thanks that,
(30:38):
Thank you ANST for the rest of us well, And
the truth is we feel like we can't control our emotions.
But emotions aren't meant to be controlled. They're meant to
be felt. Right, how you exactly how you get to
move through them, like emotions they're literally supposed to move
is to feel them, integrate them. That's how you get
(31:00):
through them, not by trying to control them, which is yeah,
and never tell a water sign stop crying or stop
that for one is don't I actually a huge proponent.
I'm not trying to tell anybody what to think, feel
or do. But that's just me. Um. But yeah, but
you're right because they do feel it. And my cancers
(31:21):
have helped me significantly. That's why I kind of tease
with them so much. Like I have a lot of them.
I think that's a sign. Well, you have a lot
of fires, so you would naturally attract water. Yeah, I
guess that's true. Makes sense. So our first, our water
sign that we come to is cancer. I love those
(31:44):
damn cancers. Yeah, they're so kind and nurturing, giant hearts.
I love them, Like I feel like when you walk
into a house of cancers, I was like, what do
you need, darlin? What can I get for you? You know,
like it doesn't matter if you pop in or thing.
It was planned, like they're they're always going to give
you food while like they're just gonna take care of you.
(32:05):
It's like getting a big hug every time you eat, exactly,
and sometimes you're also a big hugs. Amona was a
cancer and that oh that yeah, that crazy woman. She
would like just like float into her house, PLoP down
practically on me but next to me, kind of half on,
half off, and to sit there and grab my hand
and hold my hand. I mean it was like the
sweetest Yeah, yeah, sure, so sweet. Yeah. They're just people
(32:31):
just feel loved in their presence. Yes, yes, um, it's it's.
One of my teachers said, it's so unfortunate that we
call this sign cancer, which we associate with a disease. Agreed,
but if but it didn't start out that way, right.
It literally is the sign of the crab, and it's
(32:52):
it literally should be called the sign of love. Agreed.
It's it's just so um yeah. But do you think
about it as you know, jumping in the jumping in
the deep end of love, like that's the initial water
sign and they cry all the time, and then they do.
And here's the thing I've I've been indoctrinated to my cancers.
(33:15):
Didn't know for a long time what they were. But
when I did know what they were, I'm like, oh, well,
hell that makes sense. And so because because the thing is,
when you're not one, you're trying to fix it. Because
a lot of times we think that there's a problem,
but there actually isn't. We're uncomfortable with their own sign right,
or their own emotions. Right. So if someone else comes
(33:37):
to ed us with a lot of emotions, you're like, well,
needs shut that down, right, I take care on my
side of the street, I shut that all down. You
shut it down. So by being open to them, yes,
because they're the ones I think out of the different
elements that you know, because they're unlike the rest of
I mean, you know, like they the fire brings out
(33:58):
the transformation, all the initiation, The water brings all the
steadiness and the structure, the air brings the idea Earth
was steady and steady. Oh sorry, what did I say? Sorry,
you're here in the moment. Yeah, Earth, Earth brings the
steadiness and the structure the container, paying attention to the physicality.
Air brings the ideas and transformation through technology, and then
(34:23):
water brings returns us to our humanity. Yes, that's exactly
how yes, yeah, that's our humanity. So and of course
the drive or the phrase is associated with the cancer,
is I feel no shit that yeah? Oh you know what,
(34:44):
I don't think I gave the phrase of the affirmation
for aquaries, which is I know, oh yeah, because again
the air the high sign of air, which is the
idea of generation. So then our second water sign sorry
I'm jumping here to our water sign is scorpio, right,
(35:04):
the sign of scorpio, which scares a lot of people,
that makes them nervous. I mean, what happened to all
the water signs? They are all we got cancer, which
is a disease. We have scorpio, which stings you. It's
like I think that the water signs got screwed with
all the labels. I will say, every single sign has
(35:25):
things that they get, you know, dinged for which you know,
can be taken out of context for a lot of situations.
What scorpios get dinged with is sexual. They're over sexed.
They're oversexualized. I guess as the HU you would, really, yeah,
because it's sex, death and other and other people's money,
right set in taxes like that's that's the sign of scorpio. Yeah,
(35:49):
And and it's because when you think about the sign
of scorpio, you literally think about things that go underwater,
that are submerged. Right, these are these are um, you know,
topics that aren't discussed in polite company, whatever that means. Right,
I've never been polite company, So I don't know what
(36:10):
you're saying. That was foreign to me. If not alien,
we'll get someone to translate that phrase. Susanne explain this
to him later. Um, but the thing about scorpios is
because they feel things so deeply, oftentimes they won't have
access to their words because they're so deep in water.
(36:34):
They literally don't have access to air. Wow, right, right, right, right,
so much sense, It makes so much sense. Right, But
this is the thing. It doesn't mean that they don't
have incredible insights. They're so psychic because they're picking up
(36:58):
and processing everything underneath the surface. That's their gift, that's
their home base, that's their currency. And so sometimes you
have to wait for them or encourage them to speak
because they're like, oh, no, no, I understand what you're saying. Well,
what is that like for you? Well, it's the same,
(37:18):
and then you don't, well is it well not exactly,
and you know, then they'll come out with it like
you literally have to pull it out of them, and
it's always worth it because there's always this story or
a giggle. They're they're very sensitive, they're very insightful, and
it doesn't mean that there's not an intensity. There absolutely
(37:40):
is an intensity to this sign because they're a little
bit other worthy, right, So of course I love them.
I love that so much. I am like, then I
am now on a campaign to find more Scorpio friends. Well,
and it's hard because they hide. Yeah, I'll find them. Yeah,
(38:01):
they don't themselves. Yeah yeah, and you will. You will
attract them for sure. I mean because I said it
out loud and it's been recorded all of Scorpios and
the annals of history. It's now there. D M Julie like,
I'll be your friend. And actually, thing is, they won't
actually raise their hand. That's the thing. Yeah, you have
(38:24):
to you have to find them, and then then you
have to be quiet to give them lots of space
to talk because once I know that they'll be heard,
they'll show up. Yeah okay, yeah, super tape. But the
thing is like the just ask them about, hey, what
kind of signs and signals do you have from the universe?
(38:46):
And then the coverage then came on. Then they're like, oh, well,
you know, this is how I know this and this
is how I know that, and it's just so fascinating.
Oh I'm doing that. Yeah, it's really fun. They're so magical.
Um and then um is the energy of the water.
The final water sign is Pisces, right, and Pisces is
(39:11):
it's it is. They love to go with the flow.
They're not very timely and they don't care about not
because they're not able to be just because they don't
care about it. And they they love merging with people,
like let's let's all be on the same page. Let's
I want to make sure everybody's good here, Like is
(39:33):
everyone good with this idea? Because if someone's not, then
we've come up with a new one. But I've like
I want everyone to be on the same page. I
want everyone to feel comfortable. I want to be connected.
I want to move as one because they know that
we're all connected, that we're all more alike than we
are different. That's how they move through the world, right,
That's how they move through the world. And you know
(39:53):
they they it's a very strong sign with dreams. They
have a lot of energy that's not conscious. They have access.
So when you talk to your price to say, hey,
what's dream about last night? Yeah, exactly, it's exactly it.
I love that. Yeah, I love that. See, I love
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I mean, I love everybody, don't even me wrong, But
I have a little bit slight teck up of affinity
to these water signs. Yeah. Now you do have to
watch them because of their connectivity to the dream world.
Sometimes um facts get lost in the mix. Totally understand that. Yeah,
(40:37):
there's an element of illusion, delusion that can be very present,
that can be very present. Yeah. Right, So just just
something to keep in mind. Secrets are big. Secrets are
um can be big for Pisces can show up in Scorpio,
mostly because it feels like a secret when you find
out about it. But they just didn't they just forgot
(40:58):
to tell you. I didn't. I didn't say that aloud.
I thought I said that a hilarious there. They are
incredibly complicated, yeah, right, because they clear the seat of
our emotion, right, Yeah, they're very complex, right to complicated
Yeah is what makes us complex for sure. So those
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are the twelve signs. I hope that gave people something
to think about, to consider, to double click on and
go find more information. I love it. Yeah, it's very fun.
Thanks for I mean, I'm going to do it. Yeah,
And it actually wasn't me. I was just like picking
up on other people asking. I was like, you know,
this would be really great. I'm going to learn a
lot more because I have not spent the time studying
(41:41):
astrology like you have, and I just think that there's
so much depth to it because there's so much depth
with us. And it's also not the only thing that
you know, kind of determines how we view or operating
in the world. It's our whole really, our whole whole chart,
which I was saying to you earlier. I started giving
the gift of um of like when a friend has
(42:05):
a baby and getting them the child's chart because it's
kind of like an instruction manual. I mean, my mom
had me figured out, but interesting things in there. That
was a different connection though you and your mind. And
really this is why we study astrology so that we
can understand the map of our lives. So I could
say literally an invitation for our life, our school journey.
(42:29):
And again, we're complicated, all of us are, because we're
not just one thing, right, We're lots of things. Except
when you talk about people that are like triple virgos
or triple something alike benimally, but a few people on
the planet like that, Um, right, they're complicated. Um, But
we all are because we're again, we're not just one thing.
(42:50):
We're a lot of different things. Where the sun sign
is a big driver force. But we have like our
where we are various houses, and our moon and are rising,
and there's like all sorts of other things. But this
is so significant it was worth an episode, right of
how I should have said this at the beginning and
I didn't that we start with the sun sign because
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this is the initiation that everyone sees of how we
move through the world. It's our drive, it's it's how
you know, the first thing people notice about us the
other science. You know, the sun moon rising are big ones,
but there's so many other things in the chart. Yeah,
it's I loved it. Thank you so much for actually
sharing this with all of us, um and we hope
(43:35):
everybody enjoyed it. And remember, I'm gonna like mess with
everybody right now. Earth's school is hard without the other Side. Yeah,
how about how about wait, wait, wait wait wait, nobody
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