August 2, 2023 • 38 mins
Today Julie muses on the concept of 'superiority.' Where does it come from? Is it fear based? A longing for power? And, she asks, how would aliens view our human tendency to divide one another?
From politics to religion, to race, gender, and sexuality, take a view through Julie's lens as she shares her personal evolution and spiritual journey on all things 'us-vs-them" and asks us to contemplate what drives us to claim dominion over another.
Brenda also shares how our current astrological placements influence your answers to these questions as you dig deep. She explains why this time is an opportunity to look at these systems, how they affect your energy field, and what to do about it individually and collectively. Remember, small acts of unity can support bigger actions of the collective.
Today's episode reminds you that we are all just here trying to figure it out, until we head back home to the Other Side.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production
of iHeartRadio. Hi, y'all, I'm Julie.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Hi there, I'm Brenda. Welcome to Insider's Guide to the
Other Side.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Now, y'all need to know that we are obsessed with
everything on the other side.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yes, we are, because once you learn to navigate the energetic,
or to some the invisible world, life is going to
be more fun and much more serene.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Uh heck, yes it can. Because, let's be honest, brand
earth school is hard. In fact, you taught me.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
That, let's crush Earth School together.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Well, hello, my witchy pooh, how are your nodes mooning?
Since we talked about last week, we did, we did
touch it. I just wanted to kind of bring it back,
you know, a little clap back there, Yeah, yes, clap back.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Yeah, yeah, just fine. I got eighteen months to work
at it. I'm good.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Well, you know I gave it a lot of thought. Yeah, yeah,
I love when you teach us, well you would you
find stuffinite things? Well, you know, it was at that
piece when you talked about all this intolerance I think
is the word that you use. Is that right?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
It's like an agitation that Yeah, shows up as intolerance.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
And it's very quick. It's right, there's right. Yeah, So
there's this intolerance. And so, in a typical ELF way,
and given a lot of our listeners are really interested
in aliens, started to think about, I know it's a
weird way to get here, but y'all work with me
for a second. But I thought about instead of looking
(01:51):
at it from within, like being a part of it,
to be outside of it. It's like, well, if I
were an alien and I like drop down, what would
I be thinking about these fools on this planet? If
you know where I'm headed here?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (02:08):
And there's two pieces to it, because it's like, one
is if I were an alien, what would an alien?
What would I think about it? And then the other
one is that if I were an alien, what would
you all think and do? Different? Right? So there's kind
of two sides to that alien coin. Who's ever said
that before? Nobody? Two sides to the alien coin.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
My creative alpha. So what do you think you would
see as well as alien alpha?
Speaker 1 (02:34):
As alien enough, I'd be short for sure, nice, I
would be short alien, you know, I would look and
be like what is wrong with y'all? It would be
a Southern alien. It'd be a south an alien from.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
The South, a very polite alien, very.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Ish that but like cherry pie, So I would I
would think, why are you guys fighting each other? There's
so much you're supposed to be one of the same,
Like it's because it's such an odd when you can
step outside, you know, as this aliens do, you can
look at it. And because of big eyes as well,
so we see real clearly. I but I'll be like,
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what is wrong with you guys? What in the hell
is going on over in you know, Russia and Ukraine? Right,
I'd be like, what are y'all doing? Why are you fighting?
Why are you killing each other so much? Right? Or
like why are you so mean to each other? Why
does somebody feel like they have to be superior to
someone else? Because I think superiority would be a big
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piece of that, and then the other part that kind
of goes on or dominion dominion over another right, And
then I would think, and why do you guys think
you have to right the right to be dominion over
your planet? You've trashed it so much I'm not sure
I want it anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
It's coming to get it.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
But now, yeah, right, It's like I made this long trip, the.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Deal might be off.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
I had plans, you know, and I'd be like, what
is you guys are You're one of the same, You
come from the same thing, like I again, and I
kept thinking about my alien head was thinking that whole
that that that idea of you know, you get to
(04:20):
choose either we're all special or we're all not. And
hint for the answer is it's the same damn answer.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Yeah right, it's both. And I always say, you don't
see leaves on a tree fighting each other, now, right,
they all coexist and create the beauty, the vibrancy together.
They're all part of the same system.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
And yeah, yeah, And this whole thing has hurt my
heart thinking about it, like it's like, oh my god,
we so lost our way? Do you know? What are
we doing? What do we you know? What are we
doing to our planet? What are we doing to each other?
And I think that's what the alien elf would like
to talk about today, was it's really about superiority and
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the kind of need that people feel like they have
for it because so much that's going on, is it Listen,
it's been going on and sporting teams for everything. I'm
better than you, Right, it's on every level of everything.
It's like I'm better than you. That's a little bit
more playful, you know, But then it gets very serious
when it comes to you know, I white person and
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better than you person of color. That's when it gets
like incredibly dangerous. And it's been like that unfortunately for
a long time. But like, what does that need is that?
Like the is it the ego is that? You know what?
What is that driving us?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
But you know, do you think it's I think it
has a lot to do with fear. Like I think
that superiority or dominion over another.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Is I.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Am fearful of your ex your power, your beauty, your brilliance,
your athletic ability, or whatever it is I'm intimidated by.
So I have to control it.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Yeah, I guess so, because I mean I don't know.
I don't either. I don't know if it's If it is,
fear sounds pretty good? Is it power? Because power? You
know it wuce again, it comes from fear, controlling, right, dominion,
all these words they're all in part of the same family. Right.
(06:29):
But I look at it, and I'm like, you know,
I look at how I see the world, right, because
that's all I can really make sense of is how
I see the world and how over time my thoughts
of other people have changed and have really like when
I see somebody when I listen. We had a lot
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of cities have homeless problems, so I'm just going to
start there. And we certainly do in Santa Fe. I'm
sure you do in Cincinnati. It's like Guiney City really
deals with it now. And now I look at somebody
who is they don't call them homeless anymore. They call
it unhoused, unhoused. Thank you, unhoused. Thank you for correcting me,
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because that should I should have said in the first place.
I look at somebody who's unhoused, and I am I
don't feel angry. I don't feel that they are less
than because the thing is, we're all here trying to
figure all of our shit out and eventually make our
way back home. Right. My path is different than your path,
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and different than somebody who is unhoused, different than somebody has,
you know, health issue, whatever it may be. We all have.
These things are supposed to overcome or deal with or
just learn to deal with. And I see that now
I think through my whole spiritual journey that I've had
in the last twelve years has really helped me understand.
It made probably a bit longer, and I'm on like
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fifteen anyway, But that's the point. But I see people
different and it it and I act different. I've always
been that kind of person that was always defending the underdogs,
you know, the ones who were treated that way. But
I think I do it for different reasons. I think
I do it before it was I felt like an
underdog and I was that kid, you know, that grew
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up in a with a very abusive stepfather. To now
I'm a full realized adult that doesn't have to live
in that, but can still see the same thing with
a different set of eyes. Right that makes any sense,
of course, you know, And just the need and I
see people who have that need and I douce and
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there is an empathy that I have for the people
who actually want to have dominion because there is something there.
And maybe you're right. And as we are talking about this,
I think I'm processing and this is a therapy session
for the alien l F right now. But I think
that that I feel that, but my actions I want
(09:04):
to punch them in the throat, So maybe I'm not
all the way there. Probably I'm still alive. Cancel Clear.
I knew i'd cancel clear in this episode. And that's
only one. We should have a Cancel clear drinking game
and you can drink whatever you want, grape juice, orange juice, beer, whatever.
So but it's but it is a because you see this,
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you see like, listen, let's be honest. There are certain
religions that believe that only they, they are folks, will
go to heaven, right they so they feel superior to
other people.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Yes, and that's what their religion would tell them.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Right right right. I mean, there's all these things that
try to make us superior, which is another reason why
I don't. I'm not a big joiner because I'm not
a big joiner. I don't like to join because I
don't want their karma. I don't want all their horseshit.
(10:08):
Karma plus horseshit equals no alien el Because that's another thing.
If I were an alien, I sweep down and say
what is with all your clubs and shit? And I
would say and shit like why you'll ganging up with
the small gangs against everybody else? So anyway, I think
we should take a quick break because I have a
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couple examples I like to talk about.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
Okay, we'll be right back. I'd welcome back. Thanks, So,
alien L. What do you have for us next? You
said you had a couple examples you wanted to bring up.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Well, I do, and of the ideas, yeah, I do.
And I'm sure there's some listeners like, oh, I know
where she's going. And by the way, you're probably right,
points prinkings, points for consistency, and you know, listen, we
try not to make this a political show. Every once
in a while I eke something out, but I think
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part of our school, it's it's part of our school,
and it's part of what has been happening as of late.
You know, so when we talk about dominion, in the
last year, the Supreme Court, which is supposed to be neutral,
non political, all that kind of stuff, has deemed that,
(11:29):
you know, we all know that Roe v. Wade is
no longer a protection for all women in this country.
We all know that affirmative action has been struck down
pretty sure. We all know that the gays are now
a bit on the more unwelcome side of things, you know,
(11:50):
through a case that was fraud because the guy they named,
who allegedly asked to have a gay website, came back
and has now said, I don't know why I'm named
on this. I never asked for this, and I've been
married for I don't know, fifteen twenty five years to
his wife. So we are getting to a place where's
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that superiority literally from the superior core. There's superiority that
is really unfolding so quickly, and I know a lot
of people out there are struggling as a result of it.
I was, I mean, y'all should have heard me the
day it came down. I talked to Brenda and I'm like, listen,
I fucking love you. I can't talk about this and
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where I need to go swim. I was so on
fire I had to literally put out my fire because
and it's not only just me, it's everybody. Because I
am an empathetic human being, and even if I haven't
met you, I care about you and I care that
you are treated as if everyone else is the same,
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because we are right and the for the gay one,
they left it open, and I was actually just all
listeners know. I was given Brenda this example earlier today
was they've left it into this creative field where you
can say, Nope, I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna because
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of my faith, my religious beliefs, I'm not going to
create anything for gays, which means if very potential guys
is y'all is, I can go to Cincinnati and go
see Brenda, which I need to do, and we could
go to a restaurant that has a sign on it
that said Faggot's not welcome here. And that is a
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real possibility because a restaurant can claim that what they're
creating is creativity, and by the way, it is, food
is absolutely creative, especially the places that we would choose
to go to together. No chain restaurants for me and
the witch y'all. But this is what it leaves it
open to, and it leaves it open to again when
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we're talking about dominion, right, is that we we have
such a clear cast system in this country, and so
what we do with it? Because this is where we are, right,
So what do we do with it? And I think
that is a big linger in question.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
Yeah, I think it's we get to bring awareness to
this and get to activate it within us and take
a look at some of the systems, some of the
foundation that we have individually in our lives. How have
we set things up and collectively in our groups, in
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our tribes, in our communities, right, whether they're online or
you know, in the three D, whichever it is, but
it's an activation of our field of our attention, and
it really matters.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
And in my sometimes I feel ignorant alien brain because
I have I don't understand it. I don't understand the
dominion part of things. I really don't. It just has
never made sense to me. It still doesn't make sense
to me. I look at affirmative action, which is against
people of color, and for the record, people of color
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are stunning. Oh my god, look at Brenda, y'all, she's stunning.
My friend Bettina is drop dead gorgeous woman, and she's
black and drop dead, drop dead gorgeous. And you know what,
maybe those pasty white girls are afraid of them. I
don't know. And you look at the gays and it's like,
we bring color in a very different way to the world,
(15:36):
And why wouldn't you want any of that? What is
it about yourself that makes you feel that you are
superior to these other incredibly amazing, wonderful groups of people.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
And again evaluating our lives of how we engage, how
we activate, how we are when we're in a position
of privilege and power, reaching for those who need help,
who will benefit from our you know, drafting off of us, right,
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bringing them up and helping them be in.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Positions you're a positions to actually you know, make some
decisions right, positions to write influence right, exactly right. And
you know, I've been struggling with who I am today
with all this this new news. By the way, deserve
it knows you're gonna hear dogs just warning. We love
them and they're just part of everything in our life.
(16:37):
I think Suzanne's coming home. So but you know, I've
been struggling with myself, like what do I Who am
I in this? How do I want to act in this?
Who do I want to be in this? You know?
And it's interesting because I'm in a different place than
I've ever been in this issue, in this issue of dominion,
(16:58):
because I haven't had to into like like this is
like it's like bam, bam bam, y'all, Like it's like
rapid fire.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
And you had an example that just came out right
that someone I did. That's what I wanted to share. Yeah,
I want you example here because I think, yeah, it's
a powerful example.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
I do you want me just to read it or
do you want me to just sell it? I can
just tell it, you can read it whatever.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
I had a friend and actually a lot of you
can actually relate to this because you all, many of you,
hundreds of you actually have our clearing bowls in your
home right there. Amazing. And I had actually, uh, there
was a friend of mine. His name is Tony. I
have lots of Tony's in my life. It's not my
old boss Tony, just for the record, and he reached
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out and ask, how are you doing. I have a
favor to ask. Wanted to see if you would give
me the ingredients to the clearing bowl. He can't find
his old piece of paper. And apparently a friend of
his came over that night or the other night and
he had quite an amazing experience with it, and if
I would share that with him. So my short answer
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was actually a no, that I wouldn't do it, but
I had. I expanded on that and said that today
was a very bad day because it was the day
that the Supreme Court ruling came down about gays and
gay marriage, and I said, I'm not feeling very generous
right now, and I said, if your friend is a conservative,
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the answer is no. If your friend is not, I'd
be willing to give it to you, because it's the
conservatives that keep pushing this agenda. And so I put
it on that I put it. I went to the
individual instead of being mad at the Supreme Court, you know,
being angry, where I took the power in my own
hands was actually saying no. And that was important to me.
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And I don't regret it.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
And I want you to tease out like, Okay, you said,
if this person's conservative, I'm not sharing my gifts. Right,
So how did you get there? How did I get
there to that place? Yeah? How does walk us through it?
Speaker 1 (19:02):
Yeah? I got there because of the case itself was
about creative services, and how how the case was was
positioned in a way that it was about First Amendment
rights for really religion, right, and so if somebody's really
they don't want to serve gays, they don't have to.
And so I was like, well then I don't have
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to serve you. Is really where I got to It's
it's like I'm I'm not here to be your punching back.
I'm not here to serve everyone. I will serve and
I absolutely have and will continue and have made that
commitment to do so. But for those that are using
what I do in turn, as you know, having dominion
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over other people, I'm not going to help you.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
And every element of that clearing bawl was selected and
curated and packaged by you.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Yes, correct, every single one of them, right, everying No
other human being ever packed one of those.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
It was me. Yeah, And so so you get to choose,
and I think.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
I get to choose, and I'm and I took it
like if you want to look at it as an
example of i'll say fighting, which is not what I mean.
But it's like I took it from a global place
to a very personal place, because how is anybody going
to understand the decisions that they make, how they affect
other people without them being affected. Yeah, if there's no consequences,
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there's no consequences. And I'm not being mean. And I
even at the end of the text I said, please, no,
I adore you because I do. That's true.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Well, and the other thing is you said you you said, like,
you know who is this for? And you never heard
of response back.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
So nope, sure didn't. Yeah, I think that's not on me.
I gave an option, right because I'm not I can
this this alien elf can certainly pretend to be an
asshole sometime times, because I can. I think we all
have that in us, But in my heart, I'm not
an asshole, and I don't want to treat people that
I've had, you know, any type of you know, interpersonal
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relationship with like I'm a fucking asshole. And so that's
why I gave him an option. And he, for the record,
in case somebody's asking, never wrote back. Yeah, and that's
his choice.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
But think it also would be just he's honoring your request.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
Could be right.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
I didn't take it as a negative thing.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
No, but it's either way. He didn't respond. And so
I think to your point is how do we handle
things ourselves with these issues, because I'm I'm going to
guess a lot of people that are listening are a
part of some of these injustices that are coming down
from the justices, and it affects us all very differently.
It affects either us personally or people we love, people
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we know. And I really thought it was important when
you were especially talking about, you know, the the nodes
of the moon, that these are things to think about,
you know, it's like deepen your soul. Who are you?
I made a joke last week about like, can this
start early? You know that with that piece of it,
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because it did for me, It started early.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Yeah, And all politics is local, right, that's the saying.
And it's personal.
Speaker 1 (22:28):
It is personal. I cannot separate it, right.
Speaker 2 (22:32):
Yeah. So we're going to take a break and we'll
be right back and welcome back.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
To the Alien Elf. Okay, so the second part is
still personal, not to the level of what I just shared,
but thinking about again what you were talking about last
week about the moon has me going off like crazy
with this. And I was thinking about again landing as
an alien. It's like, why y'all fighting so much against
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each other because you're one and the other is And
why are you trashing this planet? Right? Like, why are
you making all these decisions to trash this planet? And
you know, landing on it, I'd be like, oh, I'm
going someplace else. I'm going to Uranus because again I'm
a funny alien that shorts and likes pie. So but
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but it's seriously, guys, think about if you were a
stranger and you entered this planet and be like, what
have you guys done? It's hotter in hell for starters,
You're running out of water, right like all these things,
and you know, and I think about these things that
I've obviously this is the plane is something I thought
about for a long time, and I hope everybody else
has as well and tries to take some action on it.
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But you know, we've talked about the fact that we're
talking about this almost a year now that Susanna and
I have this house that we're renovating, and we made
the decision to put solar on the home and to
do these things because we don't we listen, we don't
have kids. A lot of people do things because they
have kids, like own this for my kids and my grandkids.
I don't need that as an inspiration to do the
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right thing. I don't, you know, there's humans here and
so I need to do what I can to like help,
you know, help the next generation of humans. And we're
also going to have a few cisterns that collects really
it's it is rain water, but it's more for here.
It's when the snow melts, so snow melt that we
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use for a garden that will grow food nice, you know,
all trying to be kind to the planet.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
The connectivity of it all. Yeah, right, well it's so
interesting because I think, you know, not to make it
all about astrology, but.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Make everything about astrology, you go.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
But this is how I make sense of it, right,
is that Pluto, you know, went forward from Capricorn into
the sign of Aquarius, which is when we had all
the AI breakout stack, right, because Aquarius is innovation and
tech and all that. And then it retro Pluto retrograde
back into Capricorn just for a couple of degrees and
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it will be there until November and then it'll start
coming forward again. But where it really what Pluto does
is it goes through and like digs deep into the
essence of things and then brings up all the sludge
and the darkness and says, and what are you going
to do? How are you going to transform? How are
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you going to address this? And when you go back
into Capricorn, which represents structure and tradition and government and
the patriarchy. Right, this is how things were always done,
and it gives us a choice. What are you going
to choose? Right? What are you going to activate? How
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are you going to take care of things? Right, Capricorn?
How do I take care of things? Write this Earth sign?
And it's like, so it's on this threshold because it
doesn't it's an outer planets, it doesn't move very far right,
but it's on these final degrees that are so packed
that says, how will you? How do you want to be? Like?
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And you're like, I want to be with solar panels.
I want to be with you know, like conscious. I
want to fill my place with art, you know, whatever it.
Speaker 1 (26:30):
Is I wanted. I want to reuse water.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
Right right, Like so I want to grow food.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
I want to be that we'll give to our neighbors.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
The connectivity of I think.
Speaker 1 (26:42):
I think I'm a socialist, I really do. I might
be a little bit, might just be.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
A conserve conservationists.
Speaker 1 (26:49):
Maybe that cares about you know, other folk.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
Yeah, but I think, but you're choosing the connect the
connectivity and as I'm my listening, like the connectivity of
how we live with the earth, right, and that really
is you know, preparing for that activation again of the Aquarius.
That's that's a pluter moving into the aquarius energy. This
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is how can I leverage the technology we have to
take care of community? Like that's such an aquarium thing
to do, right, So I just just it's just showing up.
And so you want to ask, you know, to our listeners,
how is how is this shift of energy this this
roto rooter of the cosmos into the coast.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
I love that the rooter of the cosmos right, Like
it's literally going deep into you know, the dirt, like literally,
and how are you cleaning up your life?
Speaker 2 (27:45):
How are you cleaning up your life?
Speaker 3 (27:46):
Right?
Speaker 1 (27:47):
I love that question. And I'm going to tell you
it's like, you know, the other day, the other day
of me, like two days ago, I was swimming and
I was so deep in thought and all of this
that you present me, you present all of us. But
I'm actually going to take as you present me personally
because I'm still Leo. And all my communism, I mean
(28:08):
all my socialism that was boy was a misspeak. It
was as that was really weird. It was an ism.
I just got the first part wrong that I was.
I was doing the backstroke and I was so deep
into thought I smashed my head into the side of
the pool because I didn't wasn't paying attention where I
was in the pool. I was so deep in thought.
(28:29):
And then it was so funny because I hit it
and I'm like, well, I deserve that. And then I
went back into my thought and all of these things
right about who do I want to be? What do
I want to do? And it's not just like I
want to be this and it's in my head. It's
like it goes from that decision to action, right, which
is why I responded to my friend Tony the way
(28:50):
I did was this decision to action because if I
don't do that, I'm not being true to myself. And
if I have to come back to this planet again
once I jump, I share the sh don't want it
to be an inferno. Yeah, and right, And it's because
I think.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
About that, Yeah, you know, of course the case I
got to come back activity, Yeah, it is. Yeah, And
I think the other one thing I would think about
it that's kind of rolling in my head is you know,
when you presented this, Okay, you're alien elf which is
landed here, but what about for the humans like if
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oftentimes when we're met with an opponent even you know,
if you've ever played on a sports team, I know
I'm sports illiterate, and I have no right to.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
Where you're going. It's going to be amazing. Keep going,
I say something.
Speaker 2 (29:40):
But teammates can fight or they can be in competition
and you know, with each other for who's the starting
player or whatever. And I've never really played on team sports, right,
but no sh but that can happen until the opponent
shows up and then the team boom. They're cohesive, right right,
the operator is one. And so like, if humanity did
(30:04):
get visited openly documented, why you know, out in the
light of day like movie like right, movie like like
just movie like you know, doesn't have the great lighting
of in day to day life. I'm just saying, but
would we be able to band together and care about
(30:26):
each other? Like? That's what I think of when I
think of if there was an outside perspective, could we
actually say, hey, we've got to get our act together.
We've got it, you know, we've got to make sure
that we're okay in this whatever's going down, whether it's
a takeover, an invasion, negotiation. You know, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
Don't you think we would? I mean, I would think
that the Russia war on Ukraine would come to an
immediate end and the one commonality or were people and
we're now we were facing a short, lesbian alien that
likes high and don't you think I mean, think about
(31:10):
like the last time I can remember that there was
any cohesiveness. And I do not agree that it was
actually COVID. I think we were still divided on that.
But nine to eleven in this country, nine eleven when
because we lived in California, lived in San Francisco, and
I remember driving under bridges with American flags that were
draping down, and it's like everybody felt the same. We
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were attacked and we all kind of we all joined arms.
I mean, we still were kind of nasty as some people,
but in terms of Americans, we probably the last time
I think that we were together that was a long
time ago.
Speaker 2 (31:46):
It was a long time ago, and you know, maybe
we can think about bringing forth that unity by activating
it personally, if not collectively, just that one on one,
Hey I can do this for you, Hey, I can
reach out to you. So anyhow, That's what I was
(32:07):
thinking about as you were talking.
Speaker 1 (32:09):
But until I'm just and this is bad elf, bad
alien el today right now, if there were some sort
of I don't know, invasion of whatever it might be,
because I don't feel good about the oppressors right now,
I would absolutely get well, I don't give my life
(32:31):
for you any day of the week, but I would.
I would certainly want to give it to those that
I felt kin to in this whole cast system right now.
I'm just being really honest about it. I'm not sure
that I would give it to you. Guys know what
(32:51):
I'm going to say, so I'm not going to say it.
I don't think i'd give it to the opposing force
to say that. I'll think I'll throw my life in
front of them to save them, because I'm saving something
that is oppressive. I'm saving, you know, those that are intolerant,
and I don't think that my life is worth giving
that up for. That's how I feel today now. If
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an alien did come down, and I don't know, maybe
I'd changed my mind, but that's how I feel about
it today, and that's part of what I've swam on. Yeah,
that kind of landed the same place. Yeah, okay, Yeah,
just FYI And again remember right the South noting relationships everything,
how my relation to other things and relation is. It
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can be how you vote, it can be what you
choose to activate, how you engage with others, Like all
of those are choices of relationships.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
So that's what's bad. Now. So you're really you're doing
the soul work.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
I'm really I am try and working on it. I
really am. I still have like some of that fiery
anger that still likes it's smoldering actually.
Speaker 2 (33:59):
And that's part of the aries, right, They're an opposition,
so you're going to you're going to draft off of that.
It clears the path. That's part of what a does.
Speaker 1 (34:09):
But I felt super true to myself when I told
Tony what I did, and I don't regret it. Yeah,
you feel I feel so good. I feel it feels
so true because sometimes bullies need to know what it
feels like.
Speaker 2 (34:27):
But you and you are not rude in that.
Speaker 3 (34:29):
No.
Speaker 1 (34:29):
I wasn't oh no, no no, but I mean in
terms of you know, it's just the concept of I
wasn't a bully at all. I was just being like, no,
you just you can't have everything, Yeah, you can't have
this even though it was something that you felt was
so magical, and it was and it is that clearing
bole is magical. Yeah, And I will say, and I
just want to say this out loud. One of our
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listeners who I absolutely adore. Her name is Lindsay, and
Lindsay and I connected actually after my book came out.
So she and I have been communic hating for years now,
and one of these days, lendsay, I'm going to meet you.
But she sent me the sweetest text and she said
to me what I, in turn had said to my
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friend Betina when they the firm of action, we have
the firma of action came down and she said to me,
She goes, I'm so sorry you feel so much hate
in the world because you are so dearly loved. And
so if you know somebody that struggling with this, use
(35:33):
those words, because I'm telling you, it made my heart
go from the size of a pee to the size
of a watermelon just with that text.
Speaker 2 (35:42):
So sweet.
Speaker 1 (35:43):
So I think the other thing is when as we're
dealing with this and deciding who we are, those things
can really make a difference. And I, in turn did
the same thing to my friend Betina. You know it's like,
I know you feel so much hate, but you are
so deeply loved and because that matters.
Speaker 2 (36:02):
And we have the power to do that, right, Yeah,
we do to choose to activate love and connection, right
and how you engage matters, Yeah, it really really does.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
So just so Lindsay knows this alien thinks she's awesome
and incredibly grateful.
Speaker 2 (36:19):
So thank you for the conversation today, maelf.
Speaker 1 (36:23):
Thanks you letting me be an alien for half an
Hour's really fun.
Speaker 2 (36:27):
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of iHeartRadio. Hi, y'all, I'm Julie.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Hi there, I'm Brenda. Welcome to Insider's Guide to the
Other Side.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Now, y'all need to know that we are obsessed with
everything on the other side.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yes, we are, because once you learn to navigate the energetic,
or to some the invisible world, life is going to
be more fun and much more serene.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Uh heck, yes it can. Because, let's be honest, brand
earth school is hard. In fact, you taught me.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
That, let's crush Earth School together.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Well, hello, my witchy pooh, how are your nodes mooning?
Since we talked about last week, we did, we did
touch it. I just wanted to kind of bring it back,
you know, a little clap back there, Yeah, yes, clap back.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Yeah, yeah, just fine. I got eighteen months to work
at it. I'm good.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Well, you know I gave it a lot of thought. Yeah, yeah,
I love when you teach us, well you would you
find stuffinite things? Well, you know, it was at that
piece when you talked about all this intolerance I think
is the word that you use. Is that right?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
It's like an agitation that Yeah, shows up as intolerance.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
And it's very quick. It's right, there's right. Yeah, So
there's this intolerance. And so, in a typical ELF way,
and given a lot of our listeners are really interested
in aliens, started to think about, I know it's a
weird way to get here, but y'all work with me
for a second. But I thought about instead of looking
(01:51):
at it from within, like being a part of it,
to be outside of it. It's like, well, if I
were an alien and I like drop down, what would
I be thinking about these fools on this planet? If
you know where I'm headed here?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (02:08):
And there's two pieces to it, because it's like, one
is if I were an alien, what would an alien?
What would I think about it? And then the other
one is that if I were an alien, what would
you all think and do? Different? Right? So there's kind
of two sides to that alien coin. Who's ever said
that before? Nobody? Two sides to the alien coin.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
My creative alpha. So what do you think you would
see as well as alien alpha?
Speaker 1 (02:34):
As alien enough, I'd be short for sure, nice, I
would be short alien, you know, I would look and
be like what is wrong with y'all? It would be
a Southern alien. It'd be a south an alien from.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
The South, a very polite alien, very.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Ish that but like cherry pie, So I would I
would think, why are you guys fighting each other? There's
so much you're supposed to be one of the same,
Like it's because it's such an odd when you can
step outside, you know, as this aliens do, you can
look at it. And because of big eyes as well,
so we see real clearly. I but I'll be like,
(03:19):
what is wrong with you guys? What in the hell
is going on over in you know, Russia and Ukraine? Right,
I'd be like, what are y'all doing? Why are you fighting?
Why are you killing each other so much? Right? Or
like why are you so mean to each other? Why
does somebody feel like they have to be superior to
someone else? Because I think superiority would be a big
(03:39):
piece of that, and then the other part that kind
of goes on or dominion dominion over another right, And
then I would think, and why do you guys think
you have to right the right to be dominion over
your planet? You've trashed it so much I'm not sure
I want it anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
It's coming to get it.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
But now, yeah, right, It's like I made this long trip, the.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Deal might be off.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
I had plans, you know, and I'd be like, what
is you guys are You're one of the same, You
come from the same thing, like I again, and I
kept thinking about my alien head was thinking that whole
that that that idea of you know, you get to
(04:20):
choose either we're all special or we're all not. And
hint for the answer is it's the same damn answer.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Yeah right, it's both. And I always say, you don't
see leaves on a tree fighting each other, now, right,
they all coexist and create the beauty, the vibrancy together.
They're all part of the same system.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
And yeah, yeah, And this whole thing has hurt my
heart thinking about it, like it's like, oh my god,
we so lost our way? Do you know? What are
we doing? What do we you know? What are we
doing to our planet? What are we doing to each other?
And I think that's what the alien elf would like
to talk about today, was it's really about superiority and
(05:09):
the kind of need that people feel like they have
for it because so much that's going on, is it Listen,
it's been going on and sporting teams for everything. I'm
better than you, Right, it's on every level of everything.
It's like I'm better than you. That's a little bit
more playful, you know, But then it gets very serious
when it comes to you know, I white person and
(05:32):
better than you person of color. That's when it gets
like incredibly dangerous. And it's been like that unfortunately for
a long time. But like, what does that need is that?
Like the is it the ego is that? You know what?
What is that driving us?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
But you know, do you think it's I think it
has a lot to do with fear. Like I think
that superiority or dominion over another.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Is I.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Am fearful of your ex your power, your beauty, your brilliance,
your athletic ability, or whatever it is I'm intimidated by.
So I have to control it.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Yeah, I guess so, because I mean I don't know.
I don't either. I don't know if it's If it is,
fear sounds pretty good? Is it power? Because power? You
know it wuce again, it comes from fear, controlling, right, dominion,
all these words they're all in part of the same family. Right.
(06:29):
But I look at it, and I'm like, you know,
I look at how I see the world, right, because
that's all I can really make sense of is how
I see the world and how over time my thoughts
of other people have changed and have really like when
I see somebody when I listen. We had a lot
(06:50):
of cities have homeless problems, so I'm just going to
start there. And we certainly do in Santa Fe. I'm
sure you do in Cincinnati. It's like Guiney City really
deals with it now. And now I look at somebody
who is they don't call them homeless anymore. They call
it unhoused, unhoused. Thank you, unhoused. Thank you for correcting me,
(07:13):
because that should I should have said in the first place.
I look at somebody who's unhoused, and I am I
don't feel angry. I don't feel that they are less
than because the thing is, we're all here trying to
figure all of our shit out and eventually make our
way back home. Right. My path is different than your path,
(07:35):
and different than somebody who is unhoused, different than somebody has,
you know, health issue, whatever it may be. We all have.
These things are supposed to overcome or deal with or
just learn to deal with. And I see that now
I think through my whole spiritual journey that I've had
in the last twelve years has really helped me understand.
It made probably a bit longer, and I'm on like
(07:58):
fifteen anyway, But that's the point. But I see people
different and it it and I act different. I've always
been that kind of person that was always defending the underdogs,
you know, the ones who were treated that way. But
I think I do it for different reasons. I think
I do it before it was I felt like an
underdog and I was that kid, you know, that grew
(08:20):
up in a with a very abusive stepfather. To now
I'm a full realized adult that doesn't have to live
in that, but can still see the same thing with
a different set of eyes. Right that makes any sense,
of course, you know, And just the need and I
see people who have that need and I douce and
(08:40):
there is an empathy that I have for the people
who actually want to have dominion because there is something there.
And maybe you're right. And as we are talking about this,
I think I'm processing and this is a therapy session
for the alien l F right now. But I think
that that I feel that, but my actions I want
(09:04):
to punch them in the throat, So maybe I'm not
all the way there. Probably I'm still alive. Cancel Clear.
I knew i'd cancel clear in this episode. And that's
only one. We should have a Cancel clear drinking game
and you can drink whatever you want, grape juice, orange juice, beer, whatever.
So but it's but it is a because you see this,
(09:30):
you see like, listen, let's be honest. There are certain
religions that believe that only they, they are folks, will
go to heaven, right they so they feel superior to
other people.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Yes, and that's what their religion would tell them.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Right right right. I mean, there's all these things that
try to make us superior, which is another reason why
I don't. I'm not a big joiner because I'm not
a big joiner. I don't like to join because I
don't want their karma. I don't want all their horseshit.
(10:08):
Karma plus horseshit equals no alien el Because that's another thing.
If I were an alien, I sweep down and say
what is with all your clubs and shit? And I
would say and shit like why you'll ganging up with
the small gangs against everybody else? So anyway, I think
we should take a quick break because I have a
(10:30):
couple examples I like to talk about.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
Okay, we'll be right back. I'd welcome back. Thanks, So,
alien L. What do you have for us next? You
said you had a couple examples you wanted to bring up.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Well, I do, and of the ideas, yeah, I do.
And I'm sure there's some listeners like, oh, I know
where she's going. And by the way, you're probably right,
points prinkings, points for consistency, and you know, listen, we
try not to make this a political show. Every once
in a while I eke something out, but I think
(11:08):
part of our school, it's it's part of our school,
and it's part of what has been happening as of late.
You know, so when we talk about dominion, in the
last year, the Supreme Court, which is supposed to be neutral,
non political, all that kind of stuff, has deemed that,
(11:29):
you know, we all know that Roe v. Wade is
no longer a protection for all women in this country.
We all know that affirmative action has been struck down
pretty sure. We all know that the gays are now
a bit on the more unwelcome side of things, you know,
(11:50):
through a case that was fraud because the guy they named,
who allegedly asked to have a gay website, came back
and has now said, I don't know why I'm named
on this. I never asked for this, and I've been
married for I don't know, fifteen twenty five years to
his wife. So we are getting to a place where's
(12:12):
that superiority literally from the superior core. There's superiority that
is really unfolding so quickly, and I know a lot
of people out there are struggling as a result of it.
I was, I mean, y'all should have heard me the
day it came down. I talked to Brenda and I'm like, listen,
I fucking love you. I can't talk about this and
(12:33):
where I need to go swim. I was so on
fire I had to literally put out my fire because
and it's not only just me, it's everybody. Because I
am an empathetic human being, and even if I haven't
met you, I care about you and I care that
you are treated as if everyone else is the same,
(12:53):
because we are right and the for the gay one,
they left it open, and I was actually just all
listeners know. I was given Brenda this example earlier today
was they've left it into this creative field where you
can say, Nope, I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna because
(13:14):
of my faith, my religious beliefs, I'm not going to
create anything for gays, which means if very potential guys
is y'all is, I can go to Cincinnati and go
see Brenda, which I need to do, and we could
go to a restaurant that has a sign on it
that said Faggot's not welcome here. And that is a
(13:35):
real possibility because a restaurant can claim that what they're
creating is creativity, and by the way, it is, food
is absolutely creative, especially the places that we would choose
to go to together. No chain restaurants for me and
the witch y'all. But this is what it leaves it
open to, and it leaves it open to again when
(13:57):
we're talking about dominion, right, is that we we have
such a clear cast system in this country, and so
what we do with it? Because this is where we are, right,
So what do we do with it? And I think
that is a big linger in question.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
Yeah, I think it's we get to bring awareness to
this and get to activate it within us and take
a look at some of the systems, some of the
foundation that we have individually in our lives. How have
we set things up and collectively in our groups, in
(14:35):
our tribes, in our communities, right, whether they're online or
you know, in the three D, whichever it is, but
it's an activation of our field of our attention, and
it really matters.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
And in my sometimes I feel ignorant alien brain because
I have I don't understand it. I don't understand the
dominion part of things. I really don't. It just has
never made sense to me. It still doesn't make sense
to me. I look at affirmative action, which is against
people of color, and for the record, people of color
(15:14):
are stunning. Oh my god, look at Brenda, y'all, she's stunning.
My friend Bettina is drop dead gorgeous woman, and she's
black and drop dead, drop dead gorgeous. And you know what,
maybe those pasty white girls are afraid of them. I
don't know. And you look at the gays and it's like,
we bring color in a very different way to the world,
(15:36):
And why wouldn't you want any of that? What is
it about yourself that makes you feel that you are
superior to these other incredibly amazing, wonderful groups of people.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
And again evaluating our lives of how we engage, how
we activate, how we are when we're in a position
of privilege and power, reaching for those who need help,
who will benefit from our you know, drafting off of us, right,
(16:11):
bringing them up and helping them be in.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Positions you're a positions to actually you know, make some
decisions right, positions to write influence right, exactly right. And
you know, I've been struggling with who I am today
with all this this new news. By the way, deserve
it knows you're gonna hear dogs just warning. We love
them and they're just part of everything in our life.
(16:37):
I think Suzanne's coming home. So but you know, I've
been struggling with myself, like what do I Who am
I in this? How do I want to act in this?
Who do I want to be in this? You know?
And it's interesting because I'm in a different place than
I've ever been in this issue, in this issue of dominion,
(16:58):
because I haven't had to into like like this is
like it's like bam, bam bam, y'all, Like it's like
rapid fire.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
And you had an example that just came out right
that someone I did. That's what I wanted to share. Yeah,
I want you example here because I think, yeah, it's
a powerful example.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
I do you want me just to read it or
do you want me to just sell it? I can
just tell it, you can read it whatever.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
I had a friend and actually a lot of you
can actually relate to this because you all, many of you,
hundreds of you actually have our clearing bowls in your
home right there. Amazing. And I had actually, uh, there
was a friend of mine. His name is Tony. I
have lots of Tony's in my life. It's not my
old boss Tony, just for the record, and he reached
(17:43):
out and ask, how are you doing. I have a
favor to ask. Wanted to see if you would give
me the ingredients to the clearing bowl. He can't find
his old piece of paper. And apparently a friend of
his came over that night or the other night and
he had quite an amazing experience with it, and if
I would share that with him. So my short answer
(18:04):
was actually a no, that I wouldn't do it, but
I had. I expanded on that and said that today
was a very bad day because it was the day
that the Supreme Court ruling came down about gays and
gay marriage, and I said, I'm not feeling very generous
right now, and I said, if your friend is a conservative,
(18:26):
the answer is no. If your friend is not, I'd
be willing to give it to you, because it's the
conservatives that keep pushing this agenda. And so I put
it on that I put it. I went to the
individual instead of being mad at the Supreme Court, you know,
being angry, where I took the power in my own
hands was actually saying no. And that was important to me.
(18:46):
And I don't regret it.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
And I want you to tease out like, Okay, you said,
if this person's conservative, I'm not sharing my gifts. Right,
So how did you get there? How did I get
there to that place? Yeah? How does walk us through it?
Speaker 1 (19:02):
Yeah? I got there because of the case itself was
about creative services, and how how the case was was
positioned in a way that it was about First Amendment
rights for really religion, right, and so if somebody's really
they don't want to serve gays, they don't have to.
And so I was like, well then I don't have
(19:24):
to serve you. Is really where I got to It's
it's like I'm I'm not here to be your punching back.
I'm not here to serve everyone. I will serve and
I absolutely have and will continue and have made that
commitment to do so. But for those that are using
what I do in turn, as you know, having dominion
(19:48):
over other people, I'm not going to help you.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
And every element of that clearing bawl was selected and
curated and packaged by you.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Yes, correct, every single one of them, right, everying No
other human being ever packed one of those.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
It was me. Yeah, And so so you get to choose,
and I think.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
I get to choose, and I'm and I took it
like if you want to look at it as an
example of i'll say fighting, which is not what I mean.
But it's like I took it from a global place
to a very personal place, because how is anybody going
to understand the decisions that they make, how they affect
other people without them being affected. Yeah, if there's no consequences,
(20:32):
there's no consequences. And I'm not being mean. And I
even at the end of the text I said, please, no,
I adore you because I do. That's true.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Well, and the other thing is you said you you said, like,
you know who is this for? And you never heard
of response back.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
So nope, sure didn't. Yeah, I think that's not on me.
I gave an option, right because I'm not I can
this this alien elf can certainly pretend to be an
asshole sometime times, because I can. I think we all
have that in us, But in my heart, I'm not
an asshole, and I don't want to treat people that
I've had, you know, any type of you know, interpersonal
(21:09):
relationship with like I'm a fucking asshole. And so that's
why I gave him an option. And he, for the record,
in case somebody's asking, never wrote back. Yeah, and that's
his choice.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
But think it also would be just he's honoring your request.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
Could be right.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
I didn't take it as a negative thing.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
No, but it's either way. He didn't respond. And so
I think to your point is how do we handle
things ourselves with these issues, because I'm I'm going to
guess a lot of people that are listening are a
part of some of these injustices that are coming down
from the justices, and it affects us all very differently.
It affects either us personally or people we love, people
(21:53):
we know. And I really thought it was important when
you were especially talking about, you know, the the nodes
of the moon, that these are things to think about,
you know, it's like deepen your soul. Who are you?
I made a joke last week about like, can this
start early? You know that with that piece of it,
(22:16):
because it did for me, It started early.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Yeah, And all politics is local, right, that's the saying.
And it's personal.
Speaker 1 (22:28):
It is personal. I cannot separate it, right.
Speaker 2 (22:32):
Yeah. So we're going to take a break and we'll
be right back and welcome back.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
To the Alien Elf. Okay, so the second part is
still personal, not to the level of what I just shared,
but thinking about again what you were talking about last
week about the moon has me going off like crazy
with this. And I was thinking about again landing as
an alien. It's like, why y'all fighting so much against
(23:07):
each other because you're one and the other is And
why are you trashing this planet? Right? Like, why are
you making all these decisions to trash this planet? And
you know, landing on it, I'd be like, oh, I'm
going someplace else. I'm going to Uranus because again I'm
a funny alien that shorts and likes pie. So but
(23:32):
but it's seriously, guys, think about if you were a
stranger and you entered this planet and be like, what
have you guys done? It's hotter in hell for starters,
You're running out of water, right like all these things,
and you know, and I think about these things that
I've obviously this is the plane is something I thought
about for a long time, and I hope everybody else
has as well and tries to take some action on it.
(23:53):
But you know, we've talked about the fact that we're
talking about this almost a year now that Susanna and
I have this house that we're renovating, and we made
the decision to put solar on the home and to
do these things because we don't we listen, we don't
have kids. A lot of people do things because they
have kids, like own this for my kids and my grandkids.
I don't need that as an inspiration to do the
(24:14):
right thing. I don't, you know, there's humans here and
so I need to do what I can to like help,
you know, help the next generation of humans. And we're
also going to have a few cisterns that collects really
it's it is rain water, but it's more for here.
It's when the snow melts, so snow melt that we
(24:34):
use for a garden that will grow food nice, you know,
all trying to be kind to the planet.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
The connectivity of it all. Yeah, right, well it's so
interesting because I think, you know, not to make it
all about astrology, but.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Make everything about astrology, you go.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
But this is how I make sense of it, right,
is that Pluto, you know, went forward from Capricorn into
the sign of Aquarius, which is when we had all
the AI breakout stack, right, because Aquarius is innovation and
tech and all that. And then it retro Pluto retrograde
back into Capricorn just for a couple of degrees and
(25:18):
it will be there until November and then it'll start
coming forward again. But where it really what Pluto does
is it goes through and like digs deep into the
essence of things and then brings up all the sludge
and the darkness and says, and what are you going
to do? How are you going to transform? How are
(25:39):
you going to address this? And when you go back
into Capricorn, which represents structure and tradition and government and
the patriarchy. Right, this is how things were always done,
and it gives us a choice. What are you going
to choose? Right? What are you going to activate? How
(26:00):
are you going to take care of things? Right, Capricorn?
How do I take care of things? Write this Earth sign?
And it's like, so it's on this threshold because it
doesn't it's an outer planets, it doesn't move very far right,
but it's on these final degrees that are so packed
that says, how will you? How do you want to be? Like?
(26:23):
And you're like, I want to be with solar panels.
I want to be with you know, like conscious. I
want to fill my place with art, you know, whatever it.
Speaker 1 (26:30):
Is I wanted. I want to reuse water.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
Right right, Like so I want to grow food.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
I want to be that we'll give to our neighbors.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
The connectivity of I think.
Speaker 1 (26:42):
I think I'm a socialist, I really do. I might
be a little bit, might just be.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
A conserve conservationists.
Speaker 1 (26:49):
Maybe that cares about you know, other folk.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
Yeah, but I think, but you're choosing the connect the
connectivity and as I'm my listening, like the connectivity of
how we live with the earth, right, and that really
is you know, preparing for that activation again of the Aquarius.
That's that's a pluter moving into the aquarius energy. This
(27:15):
is how can I leverage the technology we have to
take care of community? Like that's such an aquarium thing
to do, right, So I just just it's just showing up.
And so you want to ask, you know, to our listeners,
how is how is this shift of energy this this
roto rooter of the cosmos into the coast.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
I love that the rooter of the cosmos right, Like
it's literally going deep into you know, the dirt, like literally,
and how are you cleaning up your life?
Speaker 2 (27:45):
How are you cleaning up your life?
Speaker 3 (27:46):
Right?
Speaker 1 (27:47):
I love that question. And I'm going to tell you
it's like, you know, the other day, the other day
of me, like two days ago, I was swimming and
I was so deep in thought and all of this
that you present me, you present all of us. But
I'm actually going to take as you present me personally
because I'm still Leo. And all my communism, I mean
(28:08):
all my socialism that was boy was a misspeak. It
was as that was really weird. It was an ism.
I just got the first part wrong that I was.
I was doing the backstroke and I was so deep
into thought I smashed my head into the side of
the pool because I didn't wasn't paying attention where I
was in the pool. I was so deep in thought.
(28:29):
And then it was so funny because I hit it
and I'm like, well, I deserve that. And then I
went back into my thought and all of these things
right about who do I want to be? What do
I want to do? And it's not just like I
want to be this and it's in my head. It's
like it goes from that decision to action, right, which
is why I responded to my friend Tony the way
(28:50):
I did was this decision to action because if I
don't do that, I'm not being true to myself. And
if I have to come back to this planet again
once I jump, I share the sh don't want it
to be an inferno. Yeah, and right, And it's because
I think.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
About that, Yeah, you know, of course the case I
got to come back activity, Yeah, it is. Yeah, And
I think the other one thing I would think about
it that's kind of rolling in my head is you know,
when you presented this, Okay, you're alien elf which is
landed here, but what about for the humans like if
(29:26):
oftentimes when we're met with an opponent even you know,
if you've ever played on a sports team, I know
I'm sports illiterate, and I have no right to.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
Where you're going. It's going to be amazing. Keep going,
I say something.
Speaker 2 (29:40):
But teammates can fight or they can be in competition
and you know, with each other for who's the starting
player or whatever. And I've never really played on team sports, right,
but no sh but that can happen until the opponent
shows up and then the team boom. They're cohesive, right right,
the operator is one. And so like, if humanity did
(30:04):
get visited openly documented, why you know, out in the
light of day like movie like right, movie like like
just movie like you know, doesn't have the great lighting
of in day to day life. I'm just saying, but
would we be able to band together and care about
(30:26):
each other? Like? That's what I think of when I
think of if there was an outside perspective, could we
actually say, hey, we've got to get our act together.
We've got it, you know, we've got to make sure
that we're okay in this whatever's going down, whether it's
a takeover, an invasion, negotiation. You know, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
Don't you think we would? I mean, I would think
that the Russia war on Ukraine would come to an
immediate end and the one commonality or were people and
we're now we were facing a short, lesbian alien that
likes high and don't you think I mean, think about
(31:10):
like the last time I can remember that there was
any cohesiveness. And I do not agree that it was
actually COVID. I think we were still divided on that.
But nine to eleven in this country, nine eleven when
because we lived in California, lived in San Francisco, and
I remember driving under bridges with American flags that were
draping down, and it's like everybody felt the same. We
(31:32):
were attacked and we all kind of we all joined arms.
I mean, we still were kind of nasty as some people,
but in terms of Americans, we probably the last time
I think that we were together that was a long
time ago.
Speaker 2 (31:46):
It was a long time ago, and you know, maybe
we can think about bringing forth that unity by activating
it personally, if not collectively, just that one on one,
Hey I can do this for you, Hey, I can
reach out to you. So anyhow, That's what I was
(32:07):
thinking about as you were talking.
Speaker 1 (32:09):
But until I'm just and this is bad elf, bad
alien el today right now, if there were some sort
of I don't know, invasion of whatever it might be,
because I don't feel good about the oppressors right now,
I would absolutely get well, I don't give my life
(32:31):
for you any day of the week, but I would.
I would certainly want to give it to those that
I felt kin to in this whole cast system right now.
I'm just being really honest about it. I'm not sure
that I would give it to you. Guys know what
(32:51):
I'm going to say, so I'm not going to say it.
I don't think i'd give it to the opposing force
to say that. I'll think I'll throw my life in
front of them to save them, because I'm saving something
that is oppressive. I'm saving, you know, those that are intolerant,
and I don't think that my life is worth giving
that up for. That's how I feel today now. If
(33:14):
an alien did come down, and I don't know, maybe
I'd changed my mind, but that's how I feel about
it today, and that's part of what I've swam on. Yeah,
that kind of landed the same place. Yeah, okay, Yeah,
just FYI And again remember right the South noting relationships everything,
how my relation to other things and relation is. It
(33:37):
can be how you vote, it can be what you
choose to activate, how you engage with others, Like all
of those are choices of relationships.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
So that's what's bad. Now. So you're really you're doing
the soul work.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
I'm really I am try and working on it. I
really am. I still have like some of that fiery
anger that still likes it's smoldering actually.
Speaker 2 (33:59):
And that's part of the aries, right, They're an opposition,
so you're going to you're going to draft off of that.
It clears the path. That's part of what a does.
Speaker 1 (34:09):
But I felt super true to myself when I told
Tony what I did, and I don't regret it. Yeah,
you feel I feel so good. I feel it feels
so true because sometimes bullies need to know what it
feels like.
Speaker 2 (34:27):
But you and you are not rude in that.
Speaker 3 (34:29):
No.
Speaker 1 (34:29):
I wasn't oh no, no no, but I mean in
terms of you know, it's just the concept of I
wasn't a bully at all. I was just being like, no,
you just you can't have everything, Yeah, you can't have
this even though it was something that you felt was
so magical, and it was and it is that clearing
bole is magical. Yeah, And I will say, and I
just want to say this out loud. One of our
(34:51):
listeners who I absolutely adore. Her name is Lindsay, and
Lindsay and I connected actually after my book came out.
So she and I have been communic hating for years now,
and one of these days, lendsay, I'm going to meet you.
But she sent me the sweetest text and she said
to me what I, in turn had said to my
(35:12):
friend Betina when they the firm of action, we have
the firma of action came down and she said to me,
She goes, I'm so sorry you feel so much hate
in the world because you are so dearly loved. And
so if you know somebody that struggling with this, use
(35:33):
those words, because I'm telling you, it made my heart
go from the size of a pee to the size
of a watermelon just with that text.
Speaker 2 (35:42):
So sweet.
Speaker 1 (35:43):
So I think the other thing is when as we're
dealing with this and deciding who we are, those things
can really make a difference. And I, in turn did
the same thing to my friend Betina. You know it's like,
I know you feel so much hate, but you are
so deeply loved and because that matters.
Speaker 2 (36:02):
And we have the power to do that, right, Yeah,
we do to choose to activate love and connection, right
and how you engage matters, Yeah, it really really does.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
So just so Lindsay knows this alien thinks she's awesome
and incredibly grateful.
Speaker 2 (36:19):
So thank you for the conversation today, maelf.
Speaker 1 (36:23):
Thanks you letting me be an alien for half an
Hour's really fun.
Speaker 2 (36:27):
Thanks for listening, everybody, And remember, our school is hard.
Speaker 1 (36:30):
It's just really really fucking hard, y'all. And it's definitely
really really really even harder without the without the other side.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
True dad, true dead. Bye everybody, Bye, y'all. Thank you
for joining us, everyone, and a special thanks to our
producer Joey Patt and our executive producer Maya Cole Howard,
who guides us well we guide you.
Speaker 1 (36:58):
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Speaker 2 (37:06):
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Speaker 1 (37:11):
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