November 16, 2022 • 32 mins
Do you have the gift of premonition? Specifically, signs and symbols that appear before death or an accident occurs? One of our listeners does, and she longs to understand this gift better.
Yes, this ability is a gift, not a curse, and there are ways to release yourself from the burdensome feeling it carries.
The Spirit World often speaks through shadows and imagery. You can better understand the transitional messages you receive by speaking to your guides, crafting rituals, meditation, prayer, and journaling your dreams of prophecy. The gift of foreshadowing lives in the corners of the room, the crevices of your heart, and in the peripheral of your mind's eye. Whether you see the signs or not, symbolic connections with Spirit are here to comfort, support, and inform...
...reminding us all of the magical and vast landscape between Earth School and The Other Side.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production
of My Heart Radio. Hi, y'all, I'm Julie. Hi there,
I'm Brenda. Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side. Now,
y'all need to know that we are obsessed with everything
on the other side. Yes we are, because once you
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learn to navigate the energetic, or to some the invisible world,
life is going to be more fun and much more serene. Heck,
yes it can, because let's be honest, Brian, earth school
is hard. In fact, you taught me that let's crush
Earth School together. Well, hello, my witchy, oh pooh, oh,
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my goodness. Do we have an episode I can't say
for you from you. Yes, we do, Yes, we do.
How are you mail? Um? You know what I'm doing great?
I'm doing great, Thank you. I am so excited to
talk about this. Uh it's going to be called the
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episode Lions and Tigers and Kiddies. I am so excited about.
We have so many interesting listeners, right, I know. I
love you guys like they are dialed in. They they're
on it. It's amazing. I feel enlightened like every day
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and this is another one of those. And I'm actually
really excited. So hey, can we just jump in? I
just go ahead, and I know I'm not going to
talk about any of the typical horseship Like this is
like really good stuff. I am super excited about it. Um,
are you ready? Okay? So this is a an email
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from a listener. I don't know it's the same different
Uh it is the same day we take an email letter.
Whatever the fuck? Um do we Anyway? I guess we
won't say her name because she didn't ask us to,
but she's my hero. Okay, So here is what was written.
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I have searched and searched for an answer to this.
While sitting by a fire in nature, I felt called
to message you for interests. I think just her perspective
is what she'd mean to say. Forever, I have had
a strong connection to death like awesome, me too, um,
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And when I hear that, I always think, Scorpio, We're hilarious.
I've already I've had a strong connection to death and
those spirits around us after their transition. However, in my
very late teens early twenties, I began to see shadows,
both human and animal ones. The difference is I feel
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like the human ones keep watch around me. They know
I'm there. I know they are there. Uh. The animal
ones are very different, though. Whenever I see an animal shadow,
sometimes I know transitions and then she says a side note.
Two of my four girls have inherited this gift. For
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lack of another word, um, she goes. The bigger the animal,
the closer the relationship. For instance, I've had a wild
boar jump over the hood of my car while driving
at dark, almost causing me to wreck, and the next
day my daughter's boyfriend passed from a car accident. Yikes, right,
Once the shadow of a cat ran out. Okay, by
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the way, it's amazing, that's what I call it. Lines
and tigers and Katy's um. Once the shadow of a
cat ran out into the road and underneath my car.
My husband's close friend passed within a week. This past week,
I saw a cat run in front of me and
around the building in the back of our yard during daylight.
She added, it almost tripped me yesterday at close friend passed.
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I really need to understand what this is, and understand
from someone who is knowledgeable, not just someone who passes
off to be Okay. I love her because she's actually
talking about you. Um, there are many more. There are
many more instances of shadows, dream, premonitions, and actual activity
at my home of twenty two years. Welcome to Brenda's world.
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And I am not afraid of this, right, I'm not
afraid of this, but made insight to explain to my
two children thirty one and twenty two, who this is
happening to as well. Thank you and not mistay. Okay,
I love this. Let's just dive fantastic stuff. Yeah. Well again,
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what's so impressive is that she's able to correlate those
things and connect them, right, Because so many of us
we live in a really busy world and so we're
just like, okay, we're just moving through so fast. And
when she's able to see the science and connect them
to the messages that they seem to it's impressive, right,
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It's impressively. We've taught, for I guess the three years
we've done this show about being present, about paying attention,
and about meditating, being quiet and getting right. I mean like,
she gets like a plus plus and I'm a tough
grader if you all recall my USC stories. Um, and
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so that's the first thing I want to say, just
out of the gate and then you know, to to
be curious and wanted to take care of her kids.
Come on, right, I mean right, yeah, I just want
to track her down and hugger. Yeah, completely in love.
So so that's all really good. And um that she
gets the difference between the animal spirits and the human spirits,
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that they operate differently with her, which is so cool, right,
It is so cool that she's completely aware of Hey,
I see my peeps, they see me. We're good. We're good.
Doesn't sound like she has a lot of an engagement
with them, or maybe that's just not what she was
telling the story about. But anyhow, so that that was
really cool too. So yeah, she does discernment. Okay, well
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she just sat, that's all I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, Okay,
let's take a quickie break because I want to jump
in to this because because and I do not want
to be interrupted. That's exactly right. I don't want to
be interrupted by you. So we're going to take a
break and then we're to come right back, so Brenda
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doesn't interrupt me talking about now all the animals. We'll
be right back. Okay, We're back from my break, which
is weird. I think I've said that twice the whole time,
have done. But in the break we had a little debate.
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We had interesting conversations we did. That really wasn't debate,
It was an interesting conversation. But in the break I
wanted to look up the meaning of because two of
her stories had to do with cats, one with a
wild boar, which is very interesting. And so when I
looked up like cats, spirit animal, all the stuff started
to come up about totems and things like that. And
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that's not what this is. This is or actually being born, um, yeah,
being born with like a cat in your totem, um,
And that's what it is. Yeah, it's a different because
in this what's so great is her messages are uniquely
scent for each premonition in a very specific way that's
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related to her. Right. So that's very different than having
a cat totem right, right. And so totems are like
major themes, maybe pointing to some gifts, maybe pointing to
some characteristics of you or things that you would want
to cultivate in your life. But this is, this is
specific messages that are very different and usually appear it
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seems to appear in shadows or in shadow form, So
it's it's part of a messaging system that she has
with her guides or you know, just you know, calling
it to herself in this in this very specific way. Well,
it kind of reminds me to like, because cats are mysterious.
I love cats just so independent. I mean, they just
like they will flip you the middle nail, just tell
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you go on your way. I love cats, um, but
they are mysterious creatures, right, So they are mysterious. And
it reminds me though when I had and I remember
I called you about this because I say this all
the time. I remember when I called you about it.
It's when I went into the dragon realm and you
had actually said to me. You said, now, imagine if
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the message that you got was delivered by a little kitten,
you wouldn't have paid attention. You needed a dragon to
communicate this to you. So it was powerful and meaningful.
Maybe for her, the cat is something that is maybe
familiar or comfortable because apparently the connections that are happening
with this are I mean, they're devastating effects in her life,
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like whether they're directly to her husband or daughter, whomever
it may be. But again, she did talk about, you know,
talk about a major theme. Are not necessarily totem. But
she has that connection or understanding with death. And it
could be that she was an undertaker in another life.
It could be that she was a death duela in
another life. We can't do that. Remember, I couldn't want
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to tell you Homer was my dad and another life
my dog Homer, and you said, no, no, that is
not how it works. How it works. But again I
do think, you know, sometimes you know, maybe she is
a scorpio scorpio rising. We don't know, but like this,
like there's a there's a comfort for her in death,
and so it makes sense to me that she has
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these messaging from beyond, right, they come to her related
to death. So that's what That's how I think of it. Um.
And I just looked up wild boar because I had
my phone and my computer learning at the same time.
So highly effective. Um, So what's interesting about wild boars?
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This this is an interesting tie for her, by the way,
and I'm anxious to hear what you say about this,
But they talk about wild boar. The meaning of wild boar,
found in Native American culture, is a symbol of good mothering,
usually as a sign that it's about protection, love and protection.
So just interesting because her concern and why she was
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reaching out was because she wants to mother her adult
children that are dealing with this too. So just f
y I little connection there for her. It's sweet, It's
very sweet. And you know we're talking to her her
children about this. I would think that talking to them
about this is a gift. This isn't a curse, and
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this is to help you prepare or shore up in
a way you know, like you don't necessarily it's not
specific enough to know that like who is going to
be affected, but you can work with the energy because
we don't know who's sending these messengers, um, but you
can call on you to say, who's ever sending these messengers?
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Whatever spirit this is that is guiding me. I want
to under build a relationship with this spirit just by
calling it in and doing some quiet time reflection, meditation
in that vein and let that build so that you
can feel like you're handling these messages appropriately if you're
supposed to do something with it, or is it just
as a warning to you like treasure life And it
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sounds like this is someone who would live with that
kind of awareness and appreciation in the moment. Right if
you if you come in connected strongly to death, chances
are you know that is what makes life so precious.
And I think what I think, You're absolutely right. And
and again the reason for her reaching out were her kids. Right,
So she feels like she can handle it. And and
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not comfortable. I don't know who's comfortable knowing that kind
of stuff, but comfortable enough right that it doesn't throw
her off in her life. But you know, listen, this
what she's experiencing might be a different flavor like ice
cream in comminitions or pie ef. Everybody can tell them
little I'm off keto right now. Um, so everyone needs
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a break. Um, but it's just a different flavor. Right.
Premonitions have been happening since the dawn of humankind, right,
We've these these gifts have manifested themselves in different ways. Um.
And you know, people like Suzanne frankly, she has little
premonitions all the time. She doesn't have all the fucking
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freaking time. I don't know why I decided to say
freaking not fun, but they because because they give us
the next to our show because of me. It's sad
for elf explicit elf it should be um So, but
she has premonitions all the time. I have met loads
of people that have premonitions, and I mean loads, and
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they have real legit stories two but I will say
they all arrange right like Suzanne's can be things like
right before she steps, she'll see herself falling, so she'll stop.
Like that type of premonition. Absolutely absolutely, I've had a
couple myself, um but not like her starch just very
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but she's very clairvoyant. It's really word she is, and
so so people who have that. So this is just
a different flavor of it. And it absolutely is a gift.
And I think that that you look at these things
and listen, I've had the thing where you know, I
was it was so strange, and I would not talk
about it in my book because I I just didn't
want to sound like a koop. Not that I didn't
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sound like it too already, but like there's a there's
like a leveling up of cookie where what's unbelievable, but
like I could find like I knew when people were
sick like cancer and things like that, and um, I
hugged a friend and I was like oh, you're sick,
and she looked at me big eyes. I said, it
feels like cancer because I just found out two hours
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ago that she was diagnosed with breast cancer. It feels
very burden like, um, but it's not. Actually it is,
actually not. I was able to go in because I
was so comfortable at the time and actually talked to her.
But I knew who it was. This is a different story.
I'm just kind of giving an example, um, and be
that person she could talk to and not be freaked
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out about. It's like, because I already knew, and so
you can become a much better like healer then, right, um,
just with words and comfort and all those things. So
when she knows in advance, she can exercise that because
she might not know who it is, but she's expecting
something and be ready to catch those that are getting
ready to fall go ahead. And I would I would
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be thinking, like for me personally, if I if I
got messages like that, which I don't, but I would
think what I would find helpful is to develop some
kind of ritual whatever her spiritual tradition is. She didn't
speak to that, but I would. You know, there are
press for the dead in every culture, every tradition, So
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maybe or create one yourself that says, I'm casting this
for those who are close to my heart in a
way to facilitate that crossing over and to facilitate healing
for those left here. That's beautiful, and so I would
you know, either create a prayer, a song, a poem
something that, and you know, maybe have a couple of
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pieces of rose quarts, you know, which are emotionally soothing,
maybe lipidolite, maybe some selenite for a high vibe sort
of thing, like I would consider those those Dravy. It
would be nice too, very calming. Yeah, I just like
totally channeled Dravte just then because my voice is like
d because it's nice, um, and some like these are
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things I would again that that would be my version.
But you know too, and you know, maybe she'll create
a song or I don't. I don't know, um, but
that can be a part of what you're offering as
you dial in that says, this is a sense of time,
someone close to me or in my orbit is going
to be transitioning. And songs matter. We've had them throughout time.
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And you're gonna laugh and I'm not meant this to
be funny, but it's going to come off that is funny. Okay,
to just encourage people like, but it's going to sound ridiculous. Um,
everybody knows that Siki is an anxious dog and we
just moved and getting her into routines and to be
comfortable takes some effort because again, she has tons of
anxiety in the world. So when I take her out
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to go walk, I will sing a song so she'll
go potty. And the thing that rhymeszsuki is pep and
so and I'm telling you it works. She starts wagging
her tail when I sing to her and then she'll
go But songs, it's a very soothing thing and it matters.
And I know, like I said, it is a ridiculous example,
but I'm just supporting what you're saying about songs so
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people don't think it's silly, because it's not silly. It
is another thing that has been practiced in Sadona. Vankind
is like when we discovered we had a voice, we
use it, yes, and songs, you know what, We understand
them and process them intellectually. They hit the emotional field. Right.
Music HiT's the emotional field, which is where the healing
is so essential, these threshold positions. And again, UM, I
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just think you know, she obviously has dialed in, has
lots of gifts, and so in this way, you know
she she'll have many many gifts that she've been inside
said she'll bring to this. Her intuitive guidance will be everything.
Why don't take a quick break, because I want to
tell so much stories about other people that I've met
with premonitions and things that they saw and how they
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dealt with it, because they think that if this is
something that somebody who's listening is bound to have experienced this, Oh,
there's no doubt, there's that we should go a little
further out in our scope. Absolutely, we'll be right back
and welcome back. Thanks. Oh not me. I always be
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caught up and just like look at you. You say
welcome back, and I'm like, thank you, thank you, thanks
for coming back, thank you for welcome me back. So, um,
talk a little bit about prophecy and how to cultivate
it and hold it, because it's it's a big deal.
It is a really big deal. It's like it's like
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you're this is stupid, but it's like you get to
see movie before it's released. It's like you know before
everybody else knows, but right and like not nearly the
same gravity. So you were with me a lot of
this um when I released, you know, when my book
was published, and I met a lot of interesting people,
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a whole lot of interesting people. One and one was
really surprising. And it was a woman who was a
journalist for one of the major trade sites in Hollywood.
And she's a reporter so what she does, and uh,
I was over at their offices and uh, because they
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were talking to me about my book and just all
sorts of things, stuff and things, you know, lines and
tigers and kittens. And she goes, hey, can I talk
to you. I'm like sure. It takes me into this
office and she goes, I have ten years I think
it was about ten years of asleep les dream journals
that are all prophecies that came true. And they were
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things like earthquakes, yeah, flooding, like biblical stuff, I mean
like biblical level type of events that were happening. And
she said, you know, at first, I felt really bad
that I knew and other people didn't know. I felt like,
should I warn people? Should I do all of these things?
And shoes, and I realized I didn't have the right information,
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and I would just look I'd look like the chicken
little who was screaming the guy's falling if I can't
give them proper information. And she said, so, I am
just compiling this because I got comfortable and knowing that
I might know something other people don't. She goes, but
what I know, The things I know are things that
can't be stopped, right, And I guarantee you people saw
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what was happening to Fort Myers, Florida before it happened.
You know, they had to have Yeah, I mean from
it spiritual standpoint of remonition, and and you know, even
when they knew the storm was coming, people don't take action.
So what are you gonna do about that? Right? I mean?
And then there's that, But then this is what you
were talked about, Like sometimes it feels like a burden
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and for you know, our listener who's so dialed in.
But still, you know, and it's not our job to
interview with the course of things. You know, our culture
tends to look at death as like such a tragedy.
There are many cultures, well maybe not lots and lots,
but there are still other cultures that look at death
as part of life, you know that they're fine. I
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can't wait to be dead, Seriously, it would be so
much fun, you know, Like there's so I have such
a long list of I have a bucket list for
when I'm dead. People talk about them when they're alive.
I have a death bucket list. That is the best.
I love that. So many things to do. But here's
also I want to bring us back. And I know
I do this all the time, but I'm gonna talk
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about a movie. And I think it's when you're familiar
with Okay, it's Andy Bullock in Premonition and what happens.
Who's in Sandy Sandra Bullocks? Oh, I don't know. I
only cared about Sandy um. And the thing is once
you know things. In fact, there's a lot of movies
that have been like this. For shows, when people know
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what's going to happen, they try to change it. They cannot.
Things like The Time Traveler's Wife, the movie that there's
also the series, but there's the movie. The Time Traveler's
Wife kept trying to go in and save his mother.
He couldn't, right. And so the other thing is if
you think you can do something, you have a very
inflated sense of what your actual abilities are or what
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or what your purposes. So just the fact that our
listener who wrote in on this, who I am seriously
obsessed with, is um She doesn't seem to sound like
she wants to change it. She just wants to understand it,
and and that's different, and how to talk to her
children about it, and again I making sure that they
understand this is a gift, This is a messaging system
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that is part of your lineage. So I'm assuming that
this has probably gone on in other places in her
family as well. So while we don't know her specific guides,
I would also be talking to her people who have
passed on, who that she knows of had this gift
or imagined probably that they had this gift. Talked to
them specifically about co creating this ritual that I suggested
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in the last segment, or you work with the energy
of it, because it can feel like a burden, but
it also remember the sweet feeling of surrender of life
is perfect, even with all of its tragedies. It's all perfect.
It's unfolding perfectly. We don't have to do anything. We
don't have to intercede or control, Like there's there's greater
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order here than we can even imagine, and death is
simply part of it. It's not an exception or a mistake.
It is the only guarantee. And I think that order
is a really important word that I want to just
remind everybody of just a quick story that I wrote about,
which was about Jacob take takes the wheel right back
when you know I I was on the four or
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five just reminded her of very quickly. And I hear
as clearly as you can hear me right now about
you know, don't take your hands off the wheel, had
two hands in the wheel, don't pick up your phone,
don't pick up your phone, instructions and and keep them
and and then there was the two quis, like they said,
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there's gonna be an accident, and within a minute the
two cars in front of me collide, right And if
I wasn't prepared, I would have been part of this
whole collision thing, and I could have been greatly injured
or dead. And again I'm not afraid of death. At
the time, I possibly was, but now I'm like, take
me away. I want to go to neptune. Um. Cancel Claire.
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Canceled Claire. That's right, canceled, Claire. I was just kidding
as a joke. Um. They don't know what I'm being funny.
Um and sometimes others don't either. But anyway, so um um.
But to my my point though, that I think is
really important. It's really the phone call that I made
after work that day when I called monus sister Pam,
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and I said, you're not gonna believe what happened today,
And she goes, well, do you want to hear the
other half of your story? And she tells me that
when I had called her that morning, she heard the
phone ringing, she went to go reach for it. Her
body wouldn't move, like it was paralyzed. Right. Here's the
important part, guys, is that the order what was happening
behind the scenes, right, So all the people I called
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before I got that message, because nobody picked up the
damn phone. The coordination, the order to make sure that
people wouldn't pick up the phone, either they would ignore it,
they wouldn't see it, or for people like Pam literally
paralyzed held her back right, all to keep little only
on the planet. Right, that's order and that's coordination. So
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there is absolute reason this is happening. It's it is,
it's divine order, and it is divine order, and you
can't fix that and you can't mess it up right,
So that's that's and that's why, like when you're creating,
when you're manifesting, it's in accordance with the highest good, right,
it's accordance with divine order, basically, is what you're saying.
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So I think it is a really important part of
this and also this power of dreams, Like I love
this the way you opened this segment with that crazy
decade long dream journal of prophecy. Like in that dream
state where we drop our consciousness and we have access
to so much more beyond logic and rational thinking. We
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have access to so much If you can in the
middle of the night, before you wake up, before you're
fully conscious, before you turn on the lights, you know,
in very dim light, just try and make a few
notes or pay have your phone and put you know,
type a few things into notes, or send yourself an
email or whatever, you know, wherever you make your notes
or d M yourself. That's not a thing, not different story,
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but it's so in this way like just to capture
just a couple of images, because it'll be hard in
that moment to capture everything, but just a couple of
images that are feelings that you had glances because it
happened so fast, just like Suzanne can see herself before
she falls. If you can keep your focus soft throughout
the day, or you know, like it doesn't have to
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be all day, but just throughout the day, just a
few minutes in between meetings and between calls, in between
you know, cooking and you know, having dinner, just pause
from it and soften your visual focus so that you
can perceive those flashes that happen in your mind's eye
in the corner of the room, in the memory of
your heart, like those little whispers. You can be seeing
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your animal shadows as well, and and developing this symbolic
language with the other side, with the connection that informs
and guides to support you in Earth School. And I think,
oh my god, you said that's so beautifully, thank you,
And I think that's that this is what this this
beautiful message from our our listeners all about it is.
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And I also want to tell her directly that I
haven't experienced the exact same thing about premonitions and of
those jumping you know, close to me. But I have
almost writed my car about a dozen times of seeing
things fly out in front of me that we're not
in physical form and that is scary. And if that
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happens to you anybody else, Um, I don't know what
advice to tell you other than be very alert that
you're not gonna like yourself in danger or somebody behind
you in danger. Because it's a car thing, and it
has happened to me multiple times, and I've even had it,
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not just driving, but I've been walking down a sidewalk
and thought I was going to run into a pole
because I saw a pole and it looked like it
was real. It wasn't there. Interesting. Yeah, So I'm just
saying that we can see things, and that's a version,
that's a version of like a message, Oh, I gotta
be watching out like I have to be watching out right.
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And so the car thing, though, can be kind of scary,
and so I just want to say, I'm I'm with you.
I've been there. Um. And she seems to handle it
really well, but is it is kind of a scary
thing because you think something is there, right, Yeah, And
just the fact that she's able to connect these so much,
and remember she can all you can also ask, and
I think we can say her first name because it's
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first names are just first names, right, It's Trudy's first name.
So to the other thing you could just do is ask, um,
I see the message of the cat, show me tell
me more. So that you're not talking directly to the cat,
because you understand that's a message of transition, but you're
actually asking whoever sent the cat, show me more? Tell
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me more? What more would you like me to do
with this? Or is it appropriate for me to do something?
Or why are you showing me this? Like does she
come from witches? Because cats are associated with the witches?
That's cool. We need to do some research on her
family tree. Do you have astrology written in the back
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of a family picture he was born? And yeah, so, Trudy,
you are a hero among all of us. And thank
you for sharing um and mothering those babies of yours,
because no matter how old your kids are, there're still
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your babies. And I love that out of all of it,
because you know how I feel about a good mom.
I mean, I love that so deeply. And and you
also know you can't do anything about it, right like,
this is the natural order, so just don't forget that,
don't resist it, embrace don't resist it exactly. And then,
of course, as always, do your meditation practices, develop whatever meditation,
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whatever way you have to drop in to connect in
with the other side, and enjoy your flavor cream of
this that you have because it's yours, and embrace it.
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Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production
of My Heart Radio. Hi, y'all, I'm Julie. Hi there,
I'm Brenda. Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side. Now,
y'all need to know that we are obsessed with everything
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learn to navigate the energetic, or to some the invisible world,
life is going to be more fun and much more serene. Heck,
yes it can, because let's be honest, Brian, earth school
is hard. In fact, you taught me that let's crush
Earth School together. Well, hello, my witchy, oh pooh, oh,
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my goodness. Do we have an episode I can't say
for you from you. Yes, we do, Yes, we do.
How are you mail? Um? You know what I'm doing great?
I'm doing great, Thank you. I am so excited to
talk about this. Uh it's going to be called the
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episode Lions and Tigers and Kiddies. I am so excited about.
We have so many interesting listeners, right, I know. I
love you guys like they are dialed in. They they're
on it. It's amazing. I feel enlightened like every day
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and this is another one of those. And I'm actually
really excited. So hey, can we just jump in? I
just go ahead, and I know I'm not going to
talk about any of the typical horseship Like this is
like really good stuff. I am super excited about it. Um,
are you ready? Okay? So this is a an email
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from a listener. I don't know it's the same different
Uh it is the same day we take an email letter.
Whatever the fuck? Um do we Anyway? I guess we
won't say her name because she didn't ask us to,
but she's my hero. Okay, So here is what was written.
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I have searched and searched for an answer to this.
While sitting by a fire in nature, I felt called
to message you for interests. I think just her perspective
is what she'd mean to say. Forever, I have had
a strong connection to death like awesome, me too, um,
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And when I hear that, I always think, Scorpio, We're hilarious.
I've already I've had a strong connection to death and
those spirits around us after their transition. However, in my
very late teens early twenties, I began to see shadows,
both human and animal ones. The difference is I feel
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like the human ones keep watch around me. They know
I'm there. I know they are there. Uh. The animal
ones are very different, though. Whenever I see an animal shadow,
sometimes I know transitions and then she says a side note.
Two of my four girls have inherited this gift. For
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lack of another word, um, she goes. The bigger the animal,
the closer the relationship. For instance, I've had a wild
boar jump over the hood of my car while driving
at dark, almost causing me to wreck, and the next
day my daughter's boyfriend passed from a car accident. Yikes, right,
Once the shadow of a cat ran out. Okay, by
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the way, it's amazing, that's what I call it. Lines
and tigers and Katy's um. Once the shadow of a
cat ran out into the road and underneath my car.
My husband's close friend passed within a week. This past week,
I saw a cat run in front of me and
around the building in the back of our yard during daylight.
She added, it almost tripped me yesterday at close friend passed.
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I really need to understand what this is, and understand
from someone who is knowledgeable, not just someone who passes
off to be Okay. I love her because she's actually
talking about you. Um, there are many more. There are
many more instances of shadows, dream, premonitions, and actual activity
at my home of twenty two years. Welcome to Brenda's world.
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And I am not afraid of this, right, I'm not
afraid of this, but made insight to explain to my
two children thirty one and twenty two, who this is
happening to as well. Thank you and not mistay. Okay,
I love this. Let's just dive fantastic stuff. Yeah. Well again,
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what's so impressive is that she's able to correlate those
things and connect them, right, Because so many of us
we live in a really busy world and so we're
just like, okay, we're just moving through so fast. And
when she's able to see the science and connect them
to the messages that they seem to it's impressive, right,
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It's impressively. We've taught, for I guess the three years
we've done this show about being present, about paying attention,
and about meditating, being quiet and getting right. I mean like,
she gets like a plus plus and I'm a tough
grader if you all recall my USC stories. Um, and
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so that's the first thing I want to say, just
out of the gate and then you know, to to
be curious and wanted to take care of her kids.
Come on, right, I mean right, yeah, I just want
to track her down and hugger. Yeah, completely in love.
So so that's all really good. And um that she
gets the difference between the animal spirits and the human spirits,
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that they operate differently with her, which is so cool, right,
It is so cool that she's completely aware of Hey,
I see my peeps, they see me. We're good. We're good.
Doesn't sound like she has a lot of an engagement
with them, or maybe that's just not what she was
telling the story about. But anyhow, so that that was
really cool too. So yeah, she does discernment. Okay, well
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she just sat, that's all I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, Okay,
let's take a quickie break because I want to jump
in to this because because and I do not want
to be interrupted. That's exactly right. I don't want to
be interrupted by you. So we're going to take a
break and then we're to come right back, so Brenda
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doesn't interrupt me talking about now all the animals. We'll
be right back. Okay, We're back from my break, which
is weird. I think I've said that twice the whole time,
have done. But in the break we had a little debate.
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We had interesting conversations we did. That really wasn't debate,
It was an interesting conversation. But in the break I
wanted to look up the meaning of because two of
her stories had to do with cats, one with a
wild boar, which is very interesting. And so when I
looked up like cats, spirit animal, all the stuff started
to come up about totems and things like that. And
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that's not what this is. This is or actually being born, um, yeah,
being born with like a cat in your totem, um,
And that's what it is. Yeah, it's a different because
in this what's so great is her messages are uniquely
scent for each premonition in a very specific way that's
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related to her. Right. So that's very different than having
a cat totem right, right. And so totems are like
major themes, maybe pointing to some gifts, maybe pointing to
some characteristics of you or things that you would want
to cultivate in your life. But this is, this is
specific messages that are very different and usually appear it
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seems to appear in shadows or in shadow form, So
it's it's part of a messaging system that she has
with her guides or you know, just you know, calling
it to herself in this in this very specific way. Well,
it kind of reminds me to like, because cats are mysterious.
I love cats just so independent. I mean, they just
like they will flip you the middle nail, just tell
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you go on your way. I love cats, um, but
they are mysterious creatures, right, So they are mysterious. And
it reminds me though when I had and I remember
I called you about this because I say this all
the time. I remember when I called you about it.
It's when I went into the dragon realm and you
had actually said to me. You said, now, imagine if
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the message that you got was delivered by a little kitten,
you wouldn't have paid attention. You needed a dragon to
communicate this to you. So it was powerful and meaningful.
Maybe for her, the cat is something that is maybe
familiar or comfortable because apparently the connections that are happening
with this are I mean, they're devastating effects in her life,
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like whether they're directly to her husband or daughter, whomever
it may be. But again, she did talk about, you know,
talk about a major theme. Are not necessarily totem. But
she has that connection or understanding with death. And it
could be that she was an undertaker in another life.
It could be that she was a death duela in
another life. We can't do that. Remember, I couldn't want
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to tell you Homer was my dad and another life
my dog Homer, and you said, no, no, that is
not how it works. How it works. But again I
do think, you know, sometimes you know, maybe she is
a scorpio scorpio rising. We don't know, but like this,
like there's a there's a comfort for her in death,
and so it makes sense to me that she has
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these messaging from beyond, right, they come to her related
to death. So that's what That's how I think of it. Um.
And I just looked up wild boar because I had
my phone and my computer learning at the same time.
So highly effective. Um, So what's interesting about wild boars?
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This this is an interesting tie for her, by the way,
and I'm anxious to hear what you say about this,
But they talk about wild boar. The meaning of wild boar,
found in Native American culture, is a symbol of good mothering,
usually as a sign that it's about protection, love and protection.
So just interesting because her concern and why she was
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reaching out was because she wants to mother her adult
children that are dealing with this too. So just f
y I little connection there for her. It's sweet, It's
very sweet. And you know we're talking to her her
children about this. I would think that talking to them
about this is a gift. This isn't a curse, and
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this is to help you prepare or shore up in
a way you know, like you don't necessarily it's not
specific enough to know that like who is going to
be affected, but you can work with the energy because
we don't know who's sending these messengers, um, but you
can call on you to say, who's ever sending these messengers?
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Whatever spirit this is that is guiding me. I want
to under build a relationship with this spirit just by
calling it in and doing some quiet time reflection, meditation
in that vein and let that build so that you
can feel like you're handling these messages appropriately if you're
supposed to do something with it, or is it just
as a warning to you like treasure life And it
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sounds like this is someone who would live with that
kind of awareness and appreciation in the moment. Right if
you if you come in connected strongly to death, chances
are you know that is what makes life so precious.
And I think what I think, You're absolutely right. And
and again the reason for her reaching out were her kids. Right,
So she feels like she can handle it. And and
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not comfortable. I don't know who's comfortable knowing that kind
of stuff, but comfortable enough right that it doesn't throw
her off in her life. But you know, listen, this
what she's experiencing might be a different flavor like ice
cream in comminitions or pie ef. Everybody can tell them
little I'm off keto right now. Um, so everyone needs
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a break. Um, but it's just a different flavor. Right.
Premonitions have been happening since the dawn of humankind, right,
We've these these gifts have manifested themselves in different ways. Um.
And you know, people like Suzanne frankly, she has little
premonitions all the time. She doesn't have all the fucking
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freaking time. I don't know why I decided to say
freaking not fun, but they because because they give us
the next to our show because of me. It's sad
for elf explicit elf it should be um So, but
she has premonitions all the time. I have met loads
of people that have premonitions, and I mean loads, and
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they have real legit stories two but I will say
they all arrange right like Suzanne's can be things like
right before she steps, she'll see herself falling, so she'll stop.
Like that type of premonition. Absolutely absolutely, I've had a
couple myself, um but not like her starch just very
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but she's very clairvoyant. It's really word she is, and
so so people who have that. So this is just
a different flavor of it. And it absolutely is a gift.
And I think that that you look at these things
and listen, I've had the thing where you know, I
was it was so strange, and I would not talk
about it in my book because I I just didn't
want to sound like a koop. Not that I didn't
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sound like it too already, but like there's a there's
like a leveling up of cookie where what's unbelievable, but
like I could find like I knew when people were
sick like cancer and things like that, and um, I
hugged a friend and I was like oh, you're sick,
and she looked at me big eyes. I said, it
feels like cancer because I just found out two hours
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ago that she was diagnosed with breast cancer. It feels
very burden like, um, but it's not. Actually it is,
actually not. I was able to go in because I
was so comfortable at the time and actually talked to her.
But I knew who it was. This is a different story.
I'm just kind of giving an example, um, and be
that person she could talk to and not be freaked
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out about. It's like, because I already knew, and so
you can become a much better like healer then, right, um,
just with words and comfort and all those things. So
when she knows in advance, she can exercise that because
she might not know who it is, but she's expecting
something and be ready to catch those that are getting
ready to fall go ahead. And I would I would
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be thinking, like for me personally, if I if I
got messages like that, which I don't, but I would
think what I would find helpful is to develop some
kind of ritual whatever her spiritual tradition is. She didn't
speak to that, but I would. You know, there are
press for the dead in every culture, every tradition, So
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maybe or create one yourself that says, I'm casting this
for those who are close to my heart in a
way to facilitate that crossing over and to facilitate healing
for those left here. That's beautiful, and so I would
you know, either create a prayer, a song, a poem
something that, and you know, maybe have a couple of
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pieces of rose quarts, you know, which are emotionally soothing,
maybe lipidolite, maybe some selenite for a high vibe sort
of thing, like I would consider those those Dravy. It
would be nice too, very calming. Yeah, I just like
totally channeled Dravte just then because my voice is like
d because it's nice, um, and some like these are
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things I would again that that would be my version.
But you know too, and you know, maybe she'll create
a song or I don't. I don't know, um, but
that can be a part of what you're offering as
you dial in that says, this is a sense of time,
someone close to me or in my orbit is going
to be transitioning. And songs matter. We've had them throughout time.
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And you're gonna laugh and I'm not meant this to
be funny, but it's going to come off that is funny. Okay,
to just encourage people like, but it's going to sound ridiculous. Um,
everybody knows that Siki is an anxious dog and we
just moved and getting her into routines and to be
comfortable takes some effort because again, she has tons of
anxiety in the world. So when I take her out
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to go walk, I will sing a song so she'll
go potty. And the thing that rhymeszsuki is pep and
so and I'm telling you it works. She starts wagging
her tail when I sing to her and then she'll
go But songs, it's a very soothing thing and it matters.
And I know, like I said, it is a ridiculous example,
but I'm just supporting what you're saying about songs so
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people don't think it's silly, because it's not silly. It
is another thing that has been practiced in Sadona. Vankind
is like when we discovered we had a voice, we
use it, yes, and songs, you know what, We understand
them and process them intellectually. They hit the emotional field. Right.
Music HiT's the emotional field, which is where the healing
is so essential, these threshold positions. And again, UM, I
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just think you know, she obviously has dialed in, has
lots of gifts, and so in this way, you know
she she'll have many many gifts that she've been inside
said she'll bring to this. Her intuitive guidance will be everything.
Why don't take a quick break, because I want to
tell so much stories about other people that I've met
with premonitions and things that they saw and how they
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dealt with it, because they think that if this is
something that somebody who's listening is bound to have experienced this, Oh,
there's no doubt, there's that we should go a little
further out in our scope. Absolutely, we'll be right back
and welcome back. Thanks. Oh not me. I always be
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caught up and just like look at you. You say
welcome back, and I'm like, thank you, thank you, thanks
for coming back, thank you for welcome me back. So, um,
talk a little bit about prophecy and how to cultivate
it and hold it, because it's it's a big deal.
It is a really big deal. It's like it's like
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you're this is stupid, but it's like you get to
see movie before it's released. It's like you know before
everybody else knows, but right and like not nearly the
same gravity. So you were with me a lot of
this um when I released, you know, when my book
was published, and I met a lot of interesting people,
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a whole lot of interesting people. One and one was
really surprising. And it was a woman who was a
journalist for one of the major trade sites in Hollywood.
And she's a reporter so what she does, and uh,
I was over at their offices and uh, because they
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were talking to me about my book and just all
sorts of things, stuff and things, you know, lines and
tigers and kittens. And she goes, hey, can I talk
to you. I'm like sure. It takes me into this
office and she goes, I have ten years I think
it was about ten years of asleep les dream journals
that are all prophecies that came true. And they were
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things like earthquakes, yeah, flooding, like biblical stuff, I mean
like biblical level type of events that were happening. And
she said, you know, at first, I felt really bad
that I knew and other people didn't know. I felt like,
should I warn people? Should I do all of these things?
And shoes, and I realized I didn't have the right information,
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and I would just look I'd look like the chicken
little who was screaming the guy's falling if I can't
give them proper information. And she said, so, I am
just compiling this because I got comfortable and knowing that
I might know something other people don't. She goes, but
what I know, The things I know are things that
can't be stopped, right, And I guarantee you people saw
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what was happening to Fort Myers, Florida before it happened.
You know, they had to have Yeah, I mean from
it spiritual standpoint of remonition, and and you know, even
when they knew the storm was coming, people don't take action.
So what are you gonna do about that? Right? I mean?
And then there's that, But then this is what you
were talked about, Like sometimes it feels like a burden
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and for you know, our listener who's so dialed in.
But still, you know, and it's not our job to
interview with the course of things. You know, our culture
tends to look at death as like such a tragedy.
There are many cultures, well maybe not lots and lots,
but there are still other cultures that look at death
as part of life, you know that they're fine. I
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can't wait to be dead, Seriously, it would be so
much fun, you know, Like there's so I have such
a long list of I have a bucket list for
when I'm dead. People talk about them when they're alive.
I have a death bucket list. That is the best.
I love that. So many things to do. But here's
also I want to bring us back. And I know
I do this all the time, but I'm gonna talk
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about a movie. And I think it's when you're familiar
with Okay, it's Andy Bullock in Premonition and what happens.
Who's in Sandy Sandra Bullocks? Oh, I don't know. I
only cared about Sandy um. And the thing is once
you know things. In fact, there's a lot of movies
that have been like this. For shows, when people know
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what's going to happen, they try to change it. They cannot.
Things like The Time Traveler's Wife, the movie that there's
also the series, but there's the movie. The Time Traveler's
Wife kept trying to go in and save his mother.
He couldn't, right. And so the other thing is if
you think you can do something, you have a very
inflated sense of what your actual abilities are or what
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or what your purposes. So just the fact that our
listener who wrote in on this, who I am seriously
obsessed with, is um She doesn't seem to sound like
she wants to change it. She just wants to understand it,
and and that's different, and how to talk to her
children about it, and again I making sure that they
understand this is a gift, This is a messaging system
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that is part of your lineage. So I'm assuming that
this has probably gone on in other places in her
family as well. So while we don't know her specific guides,
I would also be talking to her people who have
passed on, who that she knows of had this gift
or imagined probably that they had this gift. Talked to
them specifically about co creating this ritual that I suggested
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in the last segment, or you work with the energy
of it, because it can feel like a burden, but
it also remember the sweet feeling of surrender of life
is perfect, even with all of its tragedies. It's all perfect.
It's unfolding perfectly. We don't have to do anything. We
don't have to intercede or control, Like there's there's greater
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order here than we can even imagine, and death is
simply part of it. It's not an exception or a mistake.
It is the only guarantee. And I think that order
is a really important word that I want to just
remind everybody of just a quick story that I wrote about,
which was about Jacob take takes the wheel right back
when you know I I was on the four or
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five just reminded her of very quickly. And I hear
as clearly as you can hear me right now about
you know, don't take your hands off the wheel, had
two hands in the wheel, don't pick up your phone,
don't pick up your phone, instructions and and keep them
and and then there was the two quis, like they said,
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there's gonna be an accident, and within a minute the
two cars in front of me collide, right And if
I wasn't prepared, I would have been part of this
whole collision thing, and I could have been greatly injured
or dead. And again I'm not afraid of death. At
the time, I possibly was, but now I'm like, take
me away. I want to go to neptune. Um. Cancel Claire.
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Canceled Claire. That's right, canceled, Claire. I was just kidding
as a joke. Um. They don't know what I'm being funny.
Um and sometimes others don't either. But anyway, so um um.
But to my my point though, that I think is
really important. It's really the phone call that I made
after work that day when I called monus sister Pam,
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and I said, you're not gonna believe what happened today,
And she goes, well, do you want to hear the
other half of your story? And she tells me that
when I had called her that morning, she heard the
phone ringing, she went to go reach for it. Her
body wouldn't move, like it was paralyzed. Right. Here's the
important part, guys, is that the order what was happening
behind the scenes, right, So all the people I called
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before I got that message, because nobody picked up the
damn phone. The coordination, the order to make sure that
people wouldn't pick up the phone, either they would ignore it,
they wouldn't see it, or for people like Pam literally
paralyzed held her back right, all to keep little only
on the planet. Right, that's order and that's coordination. So
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there is absolute reason this is happening. It's it is,
it's divine order, and it is divine order, and you
can't fix that and you can't mess it up right,
So that's that's and that's why, like when you're creating,
when you're manifesting, it's in accordance with the highest good, right,
it's accordance with divine order, basically, is what you're saying.
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So I think it is a really important part of
this and also this power of dreams, Like I love
this the way you opened this segment with that crazy
decade long dream journal of prophecy. Like in that dream
state where we drop our consciousness and we have access
to so much more beyond logic and rational thinking. We
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have access to so much If you can in the
middle of the night, before you wake up, before you're
fully conscious, before you turn on the lights, you know,
in very dim light, just try and make a few
notes or pay have your phone and put you know,
type a few things into notes, or send yourself an
email or whatever, you know, wherever you make your notes
or d M yourself. That's not a thing, not different story,
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but it's so in this way like just to capture
just a couple of images, because it'll be hard in
that moment to capture everything, but just a couple of
images that are feelings that you had glances because it
happened so fast, just like Suzanne can see herself before
she falls. If you can keep your focus soft throughout
the day, or you know, like it doesn't have to
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be all day, but just throughout the day, just a
few minutes in between meetings and between calls, in between
you know, cooking and you know, having dinner, just pause
from it and soften your visual focus so that you
can perceive those flashes that happen in your mind's eye
in the corner of the room, in the memory of
your heart, like those little whispers. You can be seeing
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your animal shadows as well, and and developing this symbolic
language with the other side, with the connection that informs
and guides to support you in Earth School. And I think,
oh my god, you said that's so beautifully, thank you,
And I think that's that this is what this this
beautiful message from our our listeners all about it is.
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And I also want to tell her directly that I
haven't experienced the exact same thing about premonitions and of
those jumping you know, close to me. But I have
almost writed my car about a dozen times of seeing
things fly out in front of me that we're not
in physical form and that is scary. And if that
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happens to you anybody else, Um, I don't know what
advice to tell you other than be very alert that
you're not gonna like yourself in danger or somebody behind
you in danger. Because it's a car thing, and it
has happened to me multiple times, and I've even had it,
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not just driving, but I've been walking down a sidewalk
and thought I was going to run into a pole
because I saw a pole and it looked like it
was real. It wasn't there. Interesting. Yeah, So I'm just
saying that we can see things, and that's a version,
that's a version of like a message, Oh, I gotta
be watching out like I have to be watching out right.
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And so the car thing, though, can be kind of scary,
and so I just want to say, I'm I'm with you.
I've been there. Um. And she seems to handle it
really well, but is it is kind of a scary
thing because you think something is there, right, Yeah, And
just the fact that she's able to connect these so much,
and remember she can all you can also ask, and
I think we can say her first name because it's
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first names are just first names, right, It's Trudy's first name.
So to the other thing you could just do is ask, um,
I see the message of the cat, show me tell
me more. So that you're not talking directly to the cat,
because you understand that's a message of transition, but you're
actually asking whoever sent the cat, show me more? Tell
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me more? What more would you like me to do
with this? Or is it appropriate for me to do something?
Or why are you showing me this? Like does she
come from witches? Because cats are associated with the witches?
That's cool. We need to do some research on her
family tree. Do you have astrology written in the back
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of a family picture he was born? And yeah, so, Trudy,
you are a hero among all of us. And thank
you for sharing um and mothering those babies of yours,
because no matter how old your kids are, there're still
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your babies. And I love that out of all of it,
because you know how I feel about a good mom.
I mean, I love that so deeply. And and you
also know you can't do anything about it, right like,
this is the natural order, so just don't forget that,
don't resist it, embrace don't resist it exactly. And then,
of course, as always, do your meditation practices, develop whatever meditation,
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whatever way you have to drop in to connect in
with the other side, and enjoy your flavor cream of
this that you have because it's yours, and embrace it.
So thanks for listening, everybody, and remember our school is
hard without the other side. Thanks y'all, Hi, everybody, Thank
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you for joining us. Everyone, and a special thanks to
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