August 28, 2024 • 35 mins
Let's do a wellness check-in: Have you been feeling angry, full of doubt, or uber-judgemental? Brenda Rose refers to this as "spinning out." She's noticed this pattern lately in her readings, and within herself. So, why are all the high-vibe people currently so stressed out?
Join us today as we discuss how you can shift the energy of any given moment to release the frustrations that are bubbling within. Remember, when we forget to pause before reacting, our emotions come out sideways, but you have the power to redirect them.
Does any of this resonate with you? Then tune in today for a tune-up... because Earth School is hard without a reminder of what Other Side love is all about.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production
of iHeartRadio. Hi, y'all, I'm Julie.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Hi there, I'm Brenda. Welcome to Insider's Guide to the
Other Side.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Now, y'all need to know that we are obsessed with
everything on the other side.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yes, we are, because once you learn to navigate the energetic,
or to some the invisible world, life is going to
be more fun and much more serene.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Uh heck, yes it can. Because, let's be honest, br in,
earth school is hard. In fact, you taught me.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
That let's crush Earth school together.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Well, hello, my witchy pooh, apparently I cannot count. How
are you?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I want everyone just to take a seat, because I'm
telling you my off is rubbed up. Today's a rare form.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Account for shit.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
How are you doing? What's happening?
Speaker 2 (01:05):
I am? I am in it. I am in it
my ouf like everybody else. This is what I'm noticing,
and I want to bounce it off you.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
I bounce they're doing.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
I know it's gonna say my birthday, Elf, I know
how you're doing it. I've had a great I have
had a fabulous week coming off your birthday celebrating you ya.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
I know I had. I said, I had crab. It
was fantastic, and I was like, baby, what do you
want to do for your birthday? And I'm like, well,
I bought us both a present because her birthday's five
days before mine, and I bought us front row tickets
to see Melissa Ethridge here in Santa Fe because that's
what old lesbian should do. And so I'm falling quiet
(01:49):
it is so I'm following the handbook and so I
got to see that and she said, well what do
I do? I said, I want to go to the
crack and crab and I want to get like I
want to be knee deep and elbow deep and butter
and uh and and the end. So that's what we did.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
It was fabulous, well played, nicely done. I have a
lot to learn from you, for sure. Okay, that's great.
So I, on the other hand, am in a different place.
So I've had the privilege of doing a couple of
(02:26):
readings now that I'm off the road, and it's been great.
And what I'm noticing. The trend I'm seeing is the
stress level of incredibly high vibe, aware, accountable, energetically attuned
people are under, are putting themselves under such a great
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deal of stress and tuning into the discourse and judging
themselves harshly and setting really high expectations and making stressful
situations worse by kind of their what they're focusing on,
and the self talk and the self critical voice, and
(03:13):
and you know, I'm assuming if I see this in
a trend, I'm assuming that it's representative of you know,
more than just the people that are coming to me. Like,
it's just happening in the world. So are you experiencing
that completely?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I mean, I'm I think that's coming from so many places, right,
I think it's coming from I think there's global stress.
They're like global touch, yeah, right, but it's like it's
there's earth stress on the earth. There's humans stressing each other,
there's wars, right, So that's the global kind of stress.
There's stress in our country. We have an election coming up.
(03:47):
There's always stress during that time and a lot of chaos.
I think that's happening. You know, through that, there's there's
local community stress, and you know, economic and economic.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
And into relationships and speaking harshly and reacting quickly and
or not engaging at all. Which creates space for people
to spin out. And again, when people don't have information
or communication that's clear, they make up their own information
(04:20):
and it's never helpful, right, It's always negative, it's always critical.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
So I'm sorry, I got to ask a question. Yeah,
when we were talking about just months ago, nobody, no
precise states exist in my in my orbits don't work.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Don't worry, don't worry.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
But you were talking about how we are moving into
Capricorn soon, and.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
We were talking about Pluto moving into Aquarius.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Okay, okay, what are we in now?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
We're still we are in Aquarius. That moved in in February,
I believe, and it works out in September. It goes
retrograde in September.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Okay, So is it awesome that being in the runway
of that? Does that cause anything? I'm only I'm asking
for a friend in that friend nic so, but does
that can that create I mean, I know there's events
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and whatever, but they can that create part of any
of this? I'm just seriously asking.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
I don't know, I don't I don't think that's going
to be affecting us right now. Because we are part
of part of the community awareness that you know, these
specific clients came forward with or the collective that is
Pluto and Aquarius for sure. Oh okay, and that you
know that we're sensitive to the collective like I want
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to be able to do more. I should be able
to do more. I'm less than because I'm not, I'm
not doing more, you know, sort of that kind of
that kind of mantra can can kick up during this time,
for sure. But what was interesting to me, and it
could be, you know, just the stress and the exhaustion
because these people are kind of burning it at both ends,
both you know, for personal as well as professional or
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public or community oriented, is that they're judging themselves harshly
and this is a kind of a new level of
self induced stress. And when I talk about being kind
to themselves, it's a yeah, but yeah, but it's still
not getting done. Yeah, but it should be this. You know,
I should be, I could be. I'm capable of I
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you know, I need to do more sort of mantra.
And what comes through in each of these these consultations
in different ways. But the thread is what I want
to talk about today, which is where the title comes from.
Right remembers you are loved the divine doesn't judge you
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as less than right. The divine is like you are
perfection in every moment, and that's feels so far away
from where we live. We wake up in the morning
and we feel behind. We wake up in the morning,
you know, it's like, oh God, what did I miss
from yesterday?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Or well, I think there's fight or flight to that
is actually happening. And I tell you what's interesting, So
you can imagine I run with a lot of like liberals, Democrats.
You know, I have other people obviously that have different
points of view in my life as well, but there's
a large consortium of them, especially living in Santa Fe,
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and there's a lot of talk about, or has been
a lot of talk leading up to now is people
are like, well, what European country should I move to
if Trump is reelected, which, by the way, the same
conversation is happening on the other side of the political spectrum.
It's like, if you know Kambala wins, what country am
I going to move to? And I've been asked this
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brand no less than four times lately, literally four times,
and he let me tell you my response. So it's
really interesting. I didn't think about this until now. In fact,
this was no pre talk. There's no preparation. My response
is the same, and it is brief and it is
to the point. And my response is I am not
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running away from this country because everybody I love is
here m And that is my response. Yeah, and they
all stop, draw, roll, rethink because I'm like, I don't
know what you're going to get. I don't know how
much richer you think your life is going to be
without a single soul that you love around you.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Now, I'm not saying people shouldn't move if they want
to move whatever. I'm just saying that my point of
view is so it comes up to that you are
loved and so it's weird, of course, because this is
what I love about us, is you come up with
a topic, we start talking like, oh shit, of course
this is what we should be talking about, like these
are the things that are happening in the world. Forgive
(08:52):
me for interrupting you on that, but it is.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
It's it's it's up for you, right, And how many
ways can we look at our life and say this
is perfect, this is perfect. It's not at all what
I expected, it's not at all what I planned for.
I am ill prepared for this situation, and it's perfect
and I'm going to be perfect in it. Somehow it's
going to work and it's there will be something that's
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meaningful or purposeful in it, and I may be aware
of it and I may never be aware of it,
and I can still be okay with it. Like this
is and it literally is a blind faith and what
is possible if we live as though it were true?
Because this is what's coming through in all these sessions.
It's like, wait a minute, didn't this turn out? Yes?
(09:39):
Didn't this turn out better than you planned? Yes? Didn't
you get a blessing or an opening or that looked
like this? Yes? Okay, So again, what was the problem?
You know, it all turns out okay and better than okay,
And holding the possibility like sometimes it's not about overefforting.
Sometimes it's about allowing. It literally is going with the
flow and creating space for the grace. And it sounds boring,
(10:03):
it sounds like you're acquiescing, but it's really the opposite.
It's how can you hold a bigger space well?
Speaker 1 (10:10):
And I think also for our literal people out in
the world. So I'm going to tap into that side
of me. Is I think sometimes when's i' let me
put it a better way, I think it's contrast. And
I think the contrast is on one side, things feel
so heavy to people even when something good happens, that
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heaviness tends to outweigh for them when they don't stop
and say, oh my god, this is great, you know,
because I think contra I think I contrast is like
always my word, because I think contrast is it's all
about our perspective, our framing, whatever whatever we want to
call it, our picture, our frame. And I think for
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people who things are working well for, there's these other things,
is that they're letting way really heavy. So when I
think about elections and wars, I'm gonna be really honest
with you, Bran. I got no power. I got one
vote and one person on one vote. I can be
really nice talking to people about it if they want
to talk about it. That's all the power I have.
(11:15):
I have no control over wars, none whatsoever, right, I
just I don't nobody, not one person here, not a
single maybe a collective, but not one single does and
so I can only participate to the level that I
can and whatever it may be, and I can't carry
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it any heavy year.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
And I'm going to take some control and call a break.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Fine, all right, okay, since you cut me off, I
didn't come on and we're back, So hit it.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Which So I read for one of women that I've
read from many times, a very successful professional, and she
comes in. She has a huge job, you know, a
lot of responsibility, lots of stress, lots of rewards, but
lots of stress. And she comes in stressed about her
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her tween daughter.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
That's reasonable.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
It happens all the time, right. So I've got this
organization of you know, multi hundred you know, blah blah
blah people and around the globe, and this is what
I'm stressed about. And I can't control and I can't fix,
and I can't control her experiences in the world. I
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can't control how she behaves in the world. And I'm
you know, obviously it is an error in my parenting.
And you know, all the things that are easy to
spin out about. But when you when you like, okay, well,
let's let's take a look at that, you know, and
how are you energetically supporting her? And it's with all
this doubt and all this stress that she has in
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her This the mom has in her head spinning out
comes out. Now it's not direct, but it comes out sideways, right,
So it's in a way that she's not like you
wore that to school today, is not like that, but
it's kind of like that right where she's yeah, it's
close enough where it it comes out sideways. And she
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started laughing so hard when I just like, all I
did was repeat back to her what she said to me,
and she's like, oh my god, but there's not that space.
There's not that taking a beat before she says it
because her world's so busy like we all are, and
just holding that sacred space to give her chance so
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she can see it without judgment and say, so you're
telling me you said this to her, And she just
stopped in her tracks and said, oh my god, I
did say that to her, And no wonder if she
flipped her ledge. You know, she just came on glue
and she was able to laugh about it, and she
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was able to have compassion for herself and understanding completely
why she intended it and said it, and also at
the same moment understanding how unacceptable that was. And now
her daughter should have rolled her eyes at her and
dismissed her. And the the lightness that was somehow available
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to her in our conversation that wasn't available to her
in her kitchen, you know, that previous morning or whenever
that happened. But it was just this spaciousness.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Yeah, we foretell when we want to foretell bad things happening.
Guess what happens.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
Yeah, that's what happens.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Right. And then especially when your kid is either getting
it from language or energy. That's the other thing parents, y'all.
I know I'm not one. I'm one of those child
as cat ladies that JD Vance doesn't like. But I'm
just going to say it loud. Is that like kids,
it's all energy. They know.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
It's like pets, it's all energy they know. Yeah, yeah,
and so, but she could see it and she could
feel it, but she did it with lightness. And what
was interesting to me is in the next session, So
the next reading I got to do, it was someone
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came in for strong focus on mediumship and the person
that she was concerned about, who the spirit who passed over.
She was like, Wow, she had kind of a traumatic
this and that, and I'm worried that she land in
a good place, and the spirit came through with, oh,
those are all such earthly things, and yeah, they would
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be so important if I were embodied on earth. But
when you watch your life review, you're watching it and
it's all passed. It's not up for you energetically. It
doesn't trigger you, it doesn't overwhelm you. It's just information
(16:23):
that happened. It's not something that you have to be
ashamed of. It's not something you have to judge. It's
just like check, check check. I understand how that's going
to fill my algorithm for my next life. This makes
perfect sense. Thank you so much for this opportunity, and
I'll be incorporating these lessons in this wisdom and preparing
for the next time. Like it's just it's so easy.
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And she just kept saying it's so easy, and I
never heard it talk about with such It's not detachment
because it did happen, but it's so much awareness and
compassion and grace. And it was such a comfort to
this client who is so concerned about her you know,
beloved friend. And so I share that that for people
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that also hold themselves to high standards, like what's going
to happen during my life review, like I'm going to
get screwed, you know, because I'm such a bad person
because I missed all these A plus goals. It's not
about that. It's really more about how you do what
you actually do than what you do. So I just
just knowing the grace that's going to hold you from
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the other side that is actually available now.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
It's available now, Like right, I think what's happening is
that they're coming to you, and there's a divine reason
why they are. It is for you to actually be
that openness for them to see this and to understand this.
Because again, I do believe that people are carrying around
heavier weights right than we have before, Like on our shoulders.
(17:58):
Our backpacks are full. Yeah, right, And so you're like saying, yeah,
that backpack, actually you can make it a little more empty.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
It can be a little more spacious, yes, give it.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
You right, It's like we'll make some more room minutes
so it's not so heavy. And you know, I had
it's really interesting. In the last I'm going to say
a week, I've had more people come to me with
these interesting stories of openness. So I've had people call
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that have said to me, did you call me? Because
I think I'm calling you back, and I'm like, no,
I didn't call you. Yes, actually I think wanted to
talk to me.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
You need to talk to me.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Yeah, And actually the conversations are usually yeah, they needed
to talk to me. I'm just gonna say it. It
is what it is. I had a friend of mine
who texted me about thirty minutes before we started recording.
I love when this happens. This is my favorite like
moments that happened. And she asked me. She goes, so
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is it possible for two people to be on the
same astroplane at once? Because I just talked to my
best friend and we shared the same story and they
called it a dream fan about this, you know dream
we both had last night down like to detail dialogue
the whole thing. I said, oh, darling, it is absolutely possible.
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And did you forget pop Tart's chapter of my book
It is all about the astro plane. And so she
texts back, she you know, it's been you know, five
years or six years since you read it. She goes,
I need to go back and I need to be reminded.
And she said, I need to be reminded of the magic.
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She goes, that's why I'm checking with you. I'm checking
with you. You just like is this possible? Is this true?
And it's like, yes, it is. And of course every
time I get that type of message, it's like congratulations, Yeah,
like that's amazing that you had that, and you had
it today, like you had you you felt so compelled
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by your experience to share with your friend who also
had the same one. So of course you met in
the astral flame and so again another opening, right, that's
another opening that this wonderful young woman was given to
kind of shift right.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
Right, to stay connected to the other side. Just know
that this life is bigger and more expansive than we
could ever imagine. And there's so much support there, right,
there's so much unconditional guidance and wisdom and healing and
insight and yeah, so help us navigate.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
I mean, I had it last night. I got a
call and it was all yeah, so I'm on the phone.
It's you know, early mid evening, I guess, and I
mean we like we went for like it was real work.
He's like, Okay, I need to talk about the woo
woo stuff. I'm like Okay, I wasn't expecting that, but okay,
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and he's like, you know, I have not meditated for
about four years. He goes, I used to do it
all the time. It was regular, and he used to
actually meditate with his cousin who has since jumped, and
so that could be part of the that that for him.
But he said, you know, he goes, I meditated today.
And he goes, and it was or last night, it
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had been the night before, and he goes, I had
been looking out at the stars. He goes. Then I
get into this meditation, and he goes, I see like
I see a black hole. He goes, Then I see
this little looks like a piece of paper has a
star on it, and I can could move it around, left, right, backwards,
all the stretch it whatever. It goes in all of
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a sudden, it like burst into I was surrounded by
all stars. He goes, I've never experienced that in my life.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
That's the best, right.
Speaker 1 (22:14):
So it's like an opening, Yeah, another another opening opening
to feel that that the world is so much bigger
than buildings and cars and the cracking crab, even though
that was a little religious for.
Speaker 3 (22:33):
Me, but but it's bigger it's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
It's beautiful.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
Should we take another quickie?
Speaker 2 (22:40):
We should all.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
Right, quickie, y'all.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
I'll be back, and we're back everybody. It was quick
for you, because it was for us.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
So one reason I wanted to bring this up my
office because I would I saw that that paw and
in my work schedule this week. But I also had
a personal experience where I was running around taking care
of things, you know, and it's whatever, It's not even
eight o'clock in the morning. I'm like, oh my god,
you have got to speak nicer to yourself. I think
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it was just this moment and I don't usually do this,
but I had a number of things. Again, possibly other
listeners have had this experience where you're not in control
of things that are actually happening in your own house,
where people are coming in to do different things and
different schedules and not communicating, and you know, things are
getting a little jacked and and I was like, oh
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my god, how am I going to get this done?
And oh my god, you know, and spinning out. I
was like, whoa, you have got to come down. You've
just got to take it down a notch. And I'm
laughing at myself while I'm noticing my ears by my shoulders,
and I was like, oh my god, I'm embodying what
I did all week long in these readings.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
You know, it's like it's a disease and you caught
it exactly.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
It's an energetic pattern disease. Yeah, and which they all are,
but so so. And the reason I bring this up
is because it is something that we can monitor, that
we notice that we set up signals to ourselves that says,
you know, for some people it's grinding their teeth, for
other people, it's how fast you speak or how fast
you're moving, or for other people is if you snap
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at other people. Whatever it is to notice like, oh
I'm repped, I'm caught in this wave and I need
to set my own vibration. I need to set my
own pace that I'm comfortable with faster, if I need to, slower,
if I need to, And on any given day it
can change. So finding that spaciousness within yourself and being
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able to match it and honor it and then pause
when you can't drop a new grounding court, set a
fresh rose up, whatever you need to do to align
and reconnect with your highest that brings your best to
the world. You can't rely on other people because they
don't know you know, and you have to manage it.
Speaker 1 (25:07):
And if you're a snappy ass turtle and you actually
do something, apologize because I actually did that last weekend.
I like snapptist Suzanne and it was it was and
I apologized to her and she goes, you know, it
just caught me off guard because you normally she's like,
you don't talk like that, you don't respond ever like that.
I said, I'm just sorry, like I am sorry, Like
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it was just a few events had happened that kind
of whatever threw me off and so so I mean,
I was going to add to your self awareness is
also it's worth an apology everybody.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
Yeah, to yourself or someone else.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
Right, exactly like you were apologizing to yourself. I apologize
to Suzanne exactly.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
I was mostly calling myself out like hey, hey, hey, yeah.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
So I had a very interesting variance, of course, and
it's the expansiveness and it really to me embodies what
we titled this episode. We have some gay boyfriends here
in town that we absolutely adore. They do not take
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the place of Reuben and Jimmy, and they know that,
and they were having a party for some friends of
theirs from San Francisco, because our guys moved here from
San Francisco about a year or so ago, year and
a half maybe, And so they had us little get
together and I was running in tad late to get there.
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We were having a thunderstorm. Susanna actually stayed home because
Rebel was all shaky. Yeah, it's real, especially when they
get older, like you just want to be with them,
you know. And she's not good with thunder And so
I went by myself there. I walked in, said hello
to a few people that I didn't know, and here
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walks this man and his name is a Neil and Anil.
His family moved to the Bay Area when he was
eight from India. His father had a really cool job.
He talked about how much he loved his mother. I mean,
he's like a dream. But when he come when he
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came up to me, he kind of went out to
shake my hand as like you know, you're a stranger,
and he pulled it back and he reached out and
hugged me and pulled me in. Now, let me tell
you something. Those who know me know that hugging is
my love language.
Speaker 2 (27:46):
That's real.
Speaker 1 (27:47):
It is very real. I've been upped this man. When
he hugged me, I felt like the chills go through
my body, and that really like when you get a massage,
you know, and it's like ah and you're just like
kind of melt. I melted in this man's arm. I did.
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I melted in his arms and like I full ondon
onet let go, and neither did he. It was like this.
I mean, if other people were watching, they may or
may not have been. I didn't take it. I didn't
actually have a questionnaire, didn't just survey, but it was
probably a nobody's been go card. But we stood and
hug for quite a while. I have no idea how
long it was, but it was a while. But it
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felt angelic. It felt like it felt like unconditional love.
It felt like something that you would see in a
movie but not feel yourself, but you know the other
person was feeling it. Yep, And I was like whoa
And I looked at him. I said, I'm not going
to ask who are you? What are you? And I'm like,
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you know, it was so genuine and he looked at me,
he goes, what do you mean? I said, I don't like,
I don't know how to respond to your presence. It's
so heavenly. And so we sat down. He throws pottery.
I've thrown a few myselfs. We had this really great conversation.
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We talked about crystals, you know, I gave all right
and well. And also because of he's of Indian descent,
we talked about the Himalayas. We talked about the Mayroom Mountains,
which are also called the Shark fin which he obviously
knew about. I gave him my may Room. Oh no,
like magic. And we've been texting all day, like I
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think I have a very healthy, angelic crush on this man.
And I couldn't stop talking about him. To Susanne. I'm like, honey,
you have to meet him. I'm like, he's exquisite. And
but what he has done for me in this time
of great earthly discord, dismay, frustration, fires, floods, wars, is
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that he reminded me of what spiritual love feels like.
Speaker 2 (30:15):
And yeah, and it's always available.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
And it's always available. And plus I ask if I
could steal him, and he said maybe his husband would
let me bar him. I said, I'll take it.
Speaker 4 (30:28):
Yeah, i'd clone you whatever, But even when I see
his name come up on my phone, I feel that
I'd like, it's right, it's amazing.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
So I just think it's it's so magical when you
have these things you want to talk about when I
literally experienced something and I don't think I ever would
have known to frame it the way that you did
and to bring it in the way that you did.
So thank you because I I mean, I'm a girl
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that thinks we should all hug more anyway, I really do,
Like I love the woman who had the gay kid
and she started free mom hugs. I'm like, why did
I do that? Damn it? I could have been hugging
every day all day smart anyway, It's just a really
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beautiful reminder and a really chaotic time for people that
you know, the other sides available to you, your guides,
other humans, your own self talk, and there's just.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
More, more, more love. It is so much kinder. There's
so much kindness in the world, and you can contribute,
like like the saying said, start in your own backyard.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
Can you hunt down this guy named Anil too if
you really want to, or just say, what would a
Neil do?
Speaker 2 (31:59):
How can they and kneel myself.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Oh nice, how can I and kneel heal myself?
Speaker 2 (32:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (32:08):
I like it because he was because I know, listen,
I'm obviously obsessed with this man. I know that like
he felt it because I texted him. I'm like, sweetheart,
I have no idea what you are, but I can
only tell you that your magical. And he goes, I
feel the exact same about you. So it was like this,
I love it, lovely clash of like heavenly experiences.
Speaker 2 (32:30):
So anyway, we got it, and I just really challenge
people to become it.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
Yes, becoming you know, be.
Speaker 2 (32:42):
The conduit, vibe it out to your the people you
cohabitate with, to the world, to the people you work with,
everybody like just but you can't fake it. You can't
give it away if you can't claim it for yourself.
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Correct.
Speaker 2 (33:00):
And that's the beautiful thing about it. It's not a catch, like,
it's not trying to catch you to trick you. It's
literally an invitation for self care.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
Yeah, when you do you prior you might have felt
that your guest tank was empty, and all of a sudden,
one thing, that tank is full, exactly, whether it is
realizing out loud what I said to my kid, you know,
or realizing the self talk like you talked about, or
finding this magical Indian man name and Neil.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
I like your's the best way.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
I mean, I could very well just go fly to
San Francisco monthly now for Joseph and Neil. I think
I'm going to figure it out somehow.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
But I have no doubt you will find this.
Speaker 1 (33:47):
No, no, I will.
Speaker 2 (33:49):
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Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production
of iHeartRadio. Hi, y'all, I'm Julie.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Hi there, I'm Brenda. Welcome to Insider's Guide to the
Other Side.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Now, y'all need to know that we are obsessed with
everything on the other side.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yes, we are, because once you learn to navigate the energetic,
or to some the invisible world, life is going to
be more fun and much more serene.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Uh heck, yes it can. Because, let's be honest, br in,
earth school is hard. In fact, you taught me.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
That let's crush Earth school together.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Well, hello, my witchy pooh, apparently I cannot count. How
are you?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I want everyone just to take a seat, because I'm
telling you my off is rubbed up. Today's a rare form.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Account for shit.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
How are you doing? What's happening?
Speaker 2 (01:05):
I am? I am in it. I am in it
my ouf like everybody else. This is what I'm noticing,
and I want to bounce it off you.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
I bounce they're doing.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
I know it's gonna say my birthday, Elf, I know
how you're doing it. I've had a great I have
had a fabulous week coming off your birthday celebrating you ya.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
I know I had. I said, I had crab. It
was fantastic, and I was like, baby, what do you
want to do for your birthday? And I'm like, well,
I bought us both a present because her birthday's five
days before mine, and I bought us front row tickets
to see Melissa Ethridge here in Santa Fe because that's
what old lesbian should do. And so I'm falling quiet
(01:49):
it is so I'm following the handbook and so I
got to see that and she said, well what do
I do? I said, I want to go to the
crack and crab and I want to get like I
want to be knee deep and elbow deep and butter
and uh and and the end. So that's what we did.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
It was fabulous, well played, nicely done. I have a
lot to learn from you, for sure. Okay, that's great.
So I, on the other hand, am in a different place.
So I've had the privilege of doing a couple of
(02:26):
readings now that I'm off the road, and it's been great.
And what I'm noticing. The trend I'm seeing is the
stress level of incredibly high vibe, aware, accountable, energetically attuned
people are under, are putting themselves under such a great
(02:51):
deal of stress and tuning into the discourse and judging
themselves harshly and setting really high expectations and making stressful
situations worse by kind of their what they're focusing on,
and the self talk and the self critical voice, and
(03:13):
and you know, I'm assuming if I see this in
a trend, I'm assuming that it's representative of you know,
more than just the people that are coming to me. Like,
it's just happening in the world. So are you experiencing
that completely?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I mean, I'm I think that's coming from so many places, right,
I think it's coming from I think there's global stress.
They're like global touch, yeah, right, but it's like it's
there's earth stress on the earth. There's humans stressing each other,
there's wars, right, So that's the global kind of stress.
There's stress in our country. We have an election coming up.
(03:47):
There's always stress during that time and a lot of chaos.
I think that's happening. You know, through that, there's there's
local community stress, and you know, economic and economic.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
And into relationships and speaking harshly and reacting quickly and
or not engaging at all. Which creates space for people
to spin out. And again, when people don't have information
or communication that's clear, they make up their own information
(04:20):
and it's never helpful, right, It's always negative, it's always critical.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
So I'm sorry, I got to ask a question. Yeah,
when we were talking about just months ago, nobody, no
precise states exist in my in my orbits don't work.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Don't worry, don't worry.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
But you were talking about how we are moving into
Capricorn soon, and.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
We were talking about Pluto moving into Aquarius.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Okay, okay, what are we in now?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
We're still we are in Aquarius. That moved in in February,
I believe, and it works out in September. It goes
retrograde in September.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Okay, So is it awesome that being in the runway
of that? Does that cause anything? I'm only I'm asking
for a friend in that friend nic so, but does
that can that create I mean, I know there's events
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and whatever, but they can that create part of any
of this? I'm just seriously asking.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
I don't know, I don't I don't think that's going
to be affecting us right now. Because we are part
of part of the community awareness that you know, these
specific clients came forward with or the collective that is
Pluto and Aquarius for sure. Oh okay, and that you
know that we're sensitive to the collective like I want
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to be able to do more. I should be able
to do more. I'm less than because I'm not, I'm
not doing more, you know, sort of that kind of
that kind of mantra can can kick up during this time,
for sure. But what was interesting to me, and it
could be, you know, just the stress and the exhaustion
because these people are kind of burning it at both ends,
both you know, for personal as well as professional or
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public or community oriented, is that they're judging themselves harshly
and this is a kind of a new level of
self induced stress. And when I talk about being kind
to themselves, it's a yeah, but yeah, but it's still
not getting done. Yeah, but it should be this. You know,
I should be, I could be. I'm capable of I
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you know, I need to do more sort of mantra.
And what comes through in each of these these consultations
in different ways. But the thread is what I want
to talk about today, which is where the title comes from.
Right remembers you are loved the divine doesn't judge you
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as less than right. The divine is like you are
perfection in every moment, and that's feels so far away
from where we live. We wake up in the morning
and we feel behind. We wake up in the morning,
you know, it's like, oh God, what did I miss
from yesterday?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Or well, I think there's fight or flight to that
is actually happening. And I tell you what's interesting, So
you can imagine I run with a lot of like liberals, Democrats.
You know, I have other people obviously that have different
points of view in my life as well, but there's
a large consortium of them, especially living in Santa Fe,
(07:24):
and there's a lot of talk about, or has been
a lot of talk leading up to now is people
are like, well, what European country should I move to
if Trump is reelected, which, by the way, the same
conversation is happening on the other side of the political spectrum.
It's like, if you know Kambala wins, what country am
I going to move to? And I've been asked this
(07:44):
brand no less than four times lately, literally four times,
and he let me tell you my response. So it's
really interesting. I didn't think about this until now. In fact,
this was no pre talk. There's no preparation. My response
is the same, and it is brief and it is
to the point. And my response is I am not
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running away from this country because everybody I love is
here m And that is my response. Yeah, and they
all stop, draw, roll, rethink because I'm like, I don't
know what you're going to get. I don't know how
much richer you think your life is going to be
without a single soul that you love around you.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Now, I'm not saying people shouldn't move if they want
to move whatever. I'm just saying that my point of
view is so it comes up to that you are
loved and so it's weird, of course, because this is
what I love about us, is you come up with
a topic, we start talking like, oh shit, of course
this is what we should be talking about, like these
are the things that are happening in the world. Forgive
(08:52):
me for interrupting you on that, but it is.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
It's it's it's up for you, right, And how many
ways can we look at our life and say this
is perfect, this is perfect. It's not at all what
I expected, it's not at all what I planned for.
I am ill prepared for this situation, and it's perfect
and I'm going to be perfect in it. Somehow it's
going to work and it's there will be something that's
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meaningful or purposeful in it, and I may be aware
of it and I may never be aware of it,
and I can still be okay with it. Like this
is and it literally is a blind faith and what
is possible if we live as though it were true?
Because this is what's coming through in all these sessions.
It's like, wait a minute, didn't this turn out? Yes?
(09:39):
Didn't this turn out better than you planned? Yes? Didn't
you get a blessing or an opening or that looked
like this? Yes? Okay, So again, what was the problem?
You know, it all turns out okay and better than okay,
And holding the possibility like sometimes it's not about overefforting.
Sometimes it's about allowing. It literally is going with the
flow and creating space for the grace. And it sounds boring,
(10:03):
it sounds like you're acquiescing, but it's really the opposite.
It's how can you hold a bigger space well?
Speaker 1 (10:10):
And I think also for our literal people out in
the world. So I'm going to tap into that side
of me. Is I think sometimes when's i' let me
put it a better way, I think it's contrast. And
I think the contrast is on one side, things feel
so heavy to people even when something good happens, that
(10:32):
heaviness tends to outweigh for them when they don't stop
and say, oh my god, this is great, you know,
because I think contra I think I contrast is like
always my word, because I think contrast is it's all
about our perspective, our framing, whatever whatever we want to
call it, our picture, our frame. And I think for
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people who things are working well for, there's these other things,
is that they're letting way really heavy. So when I
think about elections and wars, I'm gonna be really honest
with you, Bran. I got no power. I got one
vote and one person on one vote. I can be
really nice talking to people about it if they want
to talk about it. That's all the power I have.
(11:15):
I have no control over wars, none whatsoever, right, I
just I don't nobody, not one person here, not a
single maybe a collective, but not one single does and
so I can only participate to the level that I
can and whatever it may be, and I can't carry
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it any heavy year.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
And I'm going to take some control and call a break.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Fine, all right, okay, since you cut me off, I
didn't come on and we're back, So hit it.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Which So I read for one of women that I've
read from many times, a very successful professional, and she
comes in. She has a huge job, you know, a
lot of responsibility, lots of stress, lots of rewards, but
lots of stress. And she comes in stressed about her
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her tween daughter.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
That's reasonable.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
It happens all the time, right. So I've got this
organization of you know, multi hundred you know, blah blah
blah people and around the globe, and this is what
I'm stressed about. And I can't control and I can't fix,
and I can't control her experiences in the world. I
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can't control how she behaves in the world. And I'm
you know, obviously it is an error in my parenting.
And you know, all the things that are easy to
spin out about. But when you when you like, okay, well,
let's let's take a look at that, you know, and
how are you energetically supporting her? And it's with all
this doubt and all this stress that she has in
(13:09):
her This the mom has in her head spinning out
comes out. Now it's not direct, but it comes out sideways, right,
So it's in a way that she's not like you
wore that to school today, is not like that, but
it's kind of like that right where she's yeah, it's
close enough where it it comes out sideways. And she
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started laughing so hard when I just like, all I
did was repeat back to her what she said to me,
and she's like, oh my god, but there's not that space.
There's not that taking a beat before she says it
because her world's so busy like we all are, and
just holding that sacred space to give her chance so
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she can see it without judgment and say, so you're
telling me you said this to her, And she just
stopped in her tracks and said, oh my god, I
did say that to her, And no wonder if she
flipped her ledge. You know, she just came on glue
and she was able to laugh about it, and she
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was able to have compassion for herself and understanding completely
why she intended it and said it, and also at
the same moment understanding how unacceptable that was. And now
her daughter should have rolled her eyes at her and
dismissed her. And the the lightness that was somehow available
(14:34):
to her in our conversation that wasn't available to her
in her kitchen, you know, that previous morning or whenever
that happened. But it was just this spaciousness.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Yeah, we foretell when we want to foretell bad things happening.
Guess what happens.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
Yeah, that's what happens.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Right. And then especially when your kid is either getting
it from language or energy. That's the other thing parents, y'all.
I know I'm not one. I'm one of those child
as cat ladies that JD Vance doesn't like. But I'm
just going to say it loud. Is that like kids,
it's all energy. They know.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
It's like pets, it's all energy they know. Yeah, yeah,
and so, but she could see it and she could
feel it, but she did it with lightness. And what
was interesting to me is in the next session, So
the next reading I got to do, it was someone
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came in for strong focus on mediumship and the person
that she was concerned about, who the spirit who passed over.
She was like, Wow, she had kind of a traumatic
this and that, and I'm worried that she land in
a good place, and the spirit came through with, oh,
those are all such earthly things, and yeah, they would
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be so important if I were embodied on earth. But
when you watch your life review, you're watching it and
it's all passed. It's not up for you energetically. It
doesn't trigger you, it doesn't overwhelm you. It's just information
(16:23):
that happened. It's not something that you have to be
ashamed of. It's not something you have to judge. It's
just like check, check check. I understand how that's going
to fill my algorithm for my next life. This makes
perfect sense. Thank you so much for this opportunity, and
I'll be incorporating these lessons in this wisdom and preparing
for the next time. Like it's just it's so easy.
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And she just kept saying it's so easy, and I
never heard it talk about with such It's not detachment
because it did happen, but it's so much awareness and
compassion and grace. And it was such a comfort to
this client who is so concerned about her you know,
beloved friend. And so I share that that for people
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that also hold themselves to high standards, like what's going
to happen during my life review, like I'm going to
get screwed, you know, because I'm such a bad person
because I missed all these A plus goals. It's not
about that. It's really more about how you do what
you actually do than what you do. So I just
just knowing the grace that's going to hold you from
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the other side that is actually available now.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
It's available now, Like right, I think what's happening is
that they're coming to you, and there's a divine reason
why they are. It is for you to actually be
that openness for them to see this and to understand this.
Because again, I do believe that people are carrying around
heavier weights right than we have before, Like on our shoulders.
(17:58):
Our backpacks are full. Yeah, right, And so you're like saying, yeah,
that backpack, actually you can make it a little more empty.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
It can be a little more spacious, yes, give it.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
You right, It's like we'll make some more room minutes
so it's not so heavy. And you know, I had
it's really interesting. In the last I'm going to say
a week, I've had more people come to me with
these interesting stories of openness. So I've had people call
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that have said to me, did you call me? Because
I think I'm calling you back, and I'm like, no,
I didn't call you. Yes, actually I think wanted to
talk to me.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
You need to talk to me.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Yeah, And actually the conversations are usually yeah, they needed
to talk to me. I'm just gonna say it. It
is what it is. I had a friend of mine
who texted me about thirty minutes before we started recording.
I love when this happens. This is my favorite like
moments that happened. And she asked me. She goes, so
(19:13):
is it possible for two people to be on the
same astroplane at once? Because I just talked to my
best friend and we shared the same story and they
called it a dream fan about this, you know dream
we both had last night down like to detail dialogue
the whole thing. I said, oh, darling, it is absolutely possible.
(19:36):
And did you forget pop Tart's chapter of my book
It is all about the astro plane. And so she
texts back, she you know, it's been you know, five
years or six years since you read it. She goes,
I need to go back and I need to be reminded.
And she said, I need to be reminded of the magic.
(19:56):
She goes, that's why I'm checking with you. I'm checking
with you. You just like is this possible? Is this true?
And it's like, yes, it is. And of course every
time I get that type of message, it's like congratulations, Yeah,
like that's amazing that you had that, and you had
it today, like you had you you felt so compelled
(20:19):
by your experience to share with your friend who also
had the same one. So of course you met in
the astral flame and so again another opening, right, that's
another opening that this wonderful young woman was given to
kind of shift right.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
Right, to stay connected to the other side. Just know
that this life is bigger and more expansive than we
could ever imagine. And there's so much support there, right,
there's so much unconditional guidance and wisdom and healing and
insight and yeah, so help us navigate.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
I mean, I had it last night. I got a
call and it was all yeah, so I'm on the phone.
It's you know, early mid evening, I guess, and I
mean we like we went for like it was real work.
He's like, Okay, I need to talk about the woo
woo stuff. I'm like Okay, I wasn't expecting that, but okay,
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and he's like, you know, I have not meditated for
about four years. He goes, I used to do it
all the time. It was regular, and he used to
actually meditate with his cousin who has since jumped, and
so that could be part of the that that for him.
But he said, you know, he goes, I meditated today.
And he goes, and it was or last night, it
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had been the night before, and he goes, I had
been looking out at the stars. He goes. Then I
get into this meditation, and he goes, I see like
I see a black hole. He goes, Then I see
this little looks like a piece of paper has a
star on it, and I can could move it around, left, right, backwards,
all the stretch it whatever. It goes in all of
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a sudden, it like burst into I was surrounded by
all stars. He goes, I've never experienced that in my life.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
That's the best, right.
Speaker 1 (22:14):
So it's like an opening, Yeah, another another opening opening
to feel that that the world is so much bigger
than buildings and cars and the cracking crab, even though
that was a little religious for.
Speaker 3 (22:33):
Me, but but it's bigger it's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
It's beautiful.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
Should we take another quickie?
Speaker 2 (22:40):
We should all.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
Right, quickie, y'all.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
I'll be back, and we're back everybody. It was quick
for you, because it was for us.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
So one reason I wanted to bring this up my
office because I would I saw that that paw and
in my work schedule this week. But I also had
a personal experience where I was running around taking care
of things, you know, and it's whatever, It's not even
eight o'clock in the morning. I'm like, oh my god,
you have got to speak nicer to yourself. I think
(23:19):
it was just this moment and I don't usually do this,
but I had a number of things. Again, possibly other
listeners have had this experience where you're not in control
of things that are actually happening in your own house,
where people are coming in to do different things and
different schedules and not communicating, and you know, things are
getting a little jacked and and I was like, oh
(23:40):
my god, how am I going to get this done?
And oh my god, you know, and spinning out. I
was like, whoa, you have got to come down. You've
just got to take it down a notch. And I'm
laughing at myself while I'm noticing my ears by my shoulders,
and I was like, oh my god, I'm embodying what
I did all week long in these readings.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
You know, it's like it's a disease and you caught
it exactly.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
It's an energetic pattern disease. Yeah, and which they all are,
but so so. And the reason I bring this up
is because it is something that we can monitor, that
we notice that we set up signals to ourselves that says,
you know, for some people it's grinding their teeth, for
other people, it's how fast you speak or how fast
you're moving, or for other people is if you snap
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at other people. Whatever it is to notice like, oh
I'm repped, I'm caught in this wave and I need
to set my own vibration. I need to set my
own pace that I'm comfortable with faster, if I need to, slower,
if I need to, And on any given day it
can change. So finding that spaciousness within yourself and being
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able to match it and honor it and then pause
when you can't drop a new grounding court, set a
fresh rose up, whatever you need to do to align
and reconnect with your highest that brings your best to
the world. You can't rely on other people because they
don't know you know, and you have to manage it.
Speaker 1 (25:07):
And if you're a snappy ass turtle and you actually
do something, apologize because I actually did that last weekend.
I like snapptist Suzanne and it was it was and
I apologized to her and she goes, you know, it
just caught me off guard because you normally she's like,
you don't talk like that, you don't respond ever like that.
I said, I'm just sorry, like I am sorry, Like
(25:29):
it was just a few events had happened that kind
of whatever threw me off and so so I mean,
I was going to add to your self awareness is
also it's worth an apology everybody.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
Yeah, to yourself or someone else.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
Right, exactly like you were apologizing to yourself. I apologize
to Suzanne exactly.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
I was mostly calling myself out like hey, hey, hey, yeah.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
So I had a very interesting variance, of course, and
it's the expansiveness and it really to me embodies what
we titled this episode. We have some gay boyfriends here
in town that we absolutely adore. They do not take
(26:21):
the place of Reuben and Jimmy, and they know that,
and they were having a party for some friends of
theirs from San Francisco, because our guys moved here from
San Francisco about a year or so ago, year and
a half maybe, And so they had us little get
together and I was running in tad late to get there.
(26:45):
We were having a thunderstorm. Susanna actually stayed home because
Rebel was all shaky. Yeah, it's real, especially when they
get older, like you just want to be with them,
you know. And she's not good with thunder And so
I went by myself there. I walked in, said hello
to a few people that I didn't know, and here
(27:08):
walks this man and his name is a Neil and Anil.
His family moved to the Bay Area when he was
eight from India. His father had a really cool job.
He talked about how much he loved his mother. I mean,
he's like a dream. But when he come when he
(27:30):
came up to me, he kind of went out to
shake my hand as like you know, you're a stranger,
and he pulled it back and he reached out and
hugged me and pulled me in. Now, let me tell
you something. Those who know me know that hugging is
my love language.
Speaker 2 (27:46):
That's real.
Speaker 1 (27:47):
It is very real. I've been upped this man. When
he hugged me, I felt like the chills go through
my body, and that really like when you get a massage,
you know, and it's like ah and you're just like
kind of melt. I melted in this man's arm. I did.
(28:09):
I melted in his arms and like I full ondon
onet let go, and neither did he. It was like this.
I mean, if other people were watching, they may or
may not have been. I didn't take it. I didn't
actually have a questionnaire, didn't just survey, but it was
probably a nobody's been go card. But we stood and
hug for quite a while. I have no idea how
long it was, but it was a while. But it
(28:31):
felt angelic. It felt like it felt like unconditional love.
It felt like something that you would see in a
movie but not feel yourself, but you know the other
person was feeling it. Yep, And I was like whoa
And I looked at him. I said, I'm not going
to ask who are you? What are you? And I'm like,
(28:56):
you know, it was so genuine and he looked at me,
he goes, what do you mean? I said, I don't like,
I don't know how to respond to your presence. It's
so heavenly. And so we sat down. He throws pottery.
I've thrown a few myselfs. We had this really great conversation.
(29:18):
We talked about crystals, you know, I gave all right
and well. And also because of he's of Indian descent,
we talked about the Himalayas. We talked about the Mayroom Mountains,
which are also called the Shark fin which he obviously
knew about. I gave him my may Room. Oh no,
like magic. And we've been texting all day, like I
(29:41):
think I have a very healthy, angelic crush on this man.
And I couldn't stop talking about him. To Susanne. I'm like, honey,
you have to meet him. I'm like, he's exquisite. And
but what he has done for me in this time
of great earthly discord, dismay, frustration, fires, floods, wars, is
(30:06):
that he reminded me of what spiritual love feels like.
Speaker 2 (30:15):
And yeah, and it's always available.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
And it's always available. And plus I ask if I
could steal him, and he said maybe his husband would
let me bar him. I said, I'll take it.
Speaker 4 (30:28):
Yeah, i'd clone you whatever, But even when I see
his name come up on my phone, I feel that
I'd like, it's right, it's amazing.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
So I just think it's it's so magical when you
have these things you want to talk about when I
literally experienced something and I don't think I ever would
have known to frame it the way that you did
and to bring it in the way that you did.
So thank you because I I mean, I'm a girl
(31:02):
that thinks we should all hug more anyway, I really do,
Like I love the woman who had the gay kid
and she started free mom hugs. I'm like, why did
I do that? Damn it? I could have been hugging
every day all day smart anyway, It's just a really
(31:22):
beautiful reminder and a really chaotic time for people that
you know, the other sides available to you, your guides,
other humans, your own self talk, and there's just.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
More, more, more love. It is so much kinder. There's
so much kindness in the world, and you can contribute,
like like the saying said, start in your own backyard.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
Can you hunt down this guy named Anil too if
you really want to, or just say, what would a
Neil do?
Speaker 2 (31:59):
How can they and kneel myself.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
Oh nice, how can I and kneel heal myself?
Speaker 2 (32:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (32:08):
I like it because he was because I know, listen,
I'm obviously obsessed with this man. I know that like
he felt it because I texted him. I'm like, sweetheart,
I have no idea what you are, but I can
only tell you that your magical. And he goes, I
feel the exact same about you. So it was like this,
I love it, lovely clash of like heavenly experiences.
Speaker 2 (32:30):
So anyway, we got it, and I just really challenge
people to become it.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
Yes, becoming you know, be.
Speaker 2 (32:42):
The conduit, vibe it out to your the people you
cohabitate with, to the world, to the people you work with,
everybody like just but you can't fake it. You can't
give it away if you can't claim it for yourself.
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Correct.
Speaker 2 (33:00):
And that's the beautiful thing about it. It's not a catch, like,
it's not trying to catch you to trick you. It's
literally an invitation for self care.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
Yeah, when you do you prior you might have felt
that your guest tank was empty, and all of a sudden,
one thing, that tank is full, exactly, whether it is
realizing out loud what I said to my kid, you know,
or realizing the self talk like you talked about, or
finding this magical Indian man name and Neil.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
I like your's the best way.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
I mean, I could very well just go fly to
San Francisco monthly now for Joseph and Neil. I think
I'm going to figure it out somehow.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
But I have no doubt you will find this.
Speaker 1 (33:47):
No, no, I will.
Speaker 2 (33:49):
So thanks for listening to everybody, and remember her school
is hard.
Speaker 1 (33:54):
And we really really mean this, y'all without the other Side,
so keep it in your life.
Speaker 2 (34:00):
Thank you, Thanks everybody, Thank you for joining us. Everyone,
and a special thanks to our producer Joey Patt and
our executive producer Maya Cole Howard, who guides us while
we guide.
Speaker 1 (34:17):
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Speaker 2 (34:26):
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