June 22, 2023 • 13 mins
Vanessa and Justin have been together for a little over ten months after meeting through friends, but because Vanessa is a nurse and has a long commute, she really only sees him on the weekends. They both do live together, but Vanessa usually stays at a friend’s house to cut down her work commute. She tells us Justin used to leave her notes for her to see at work, but she has recently noticed that Justin has been less romantic. She also mentions that when they last went out to dinner that the waiter brought her a glass of rose when she has told Justin that she prefers beer over wine and Justin looked like something had gone wrong. Vanessa is starting to think Justin is hiding something and messed up at dinner.
We call Justin pretending to work for his credit card and try to send him flowers for a first responder in his life and when we ask him who he wants to send the flowers to, Justin asks if we can send them to someone named Heather. Find out what‘s really going on in today’s all NEW War of the Roses!
We call Justin pretending to work for his credit card and try to send him flowers for a first responder in his life and when we ask him who he wants to send the flowers to, Justin asks if we can send them to someone named Heather. Find out what‘s really going on in today’s all NEW War of the Roses!
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(00:02):
Rose is all red, Violet's allblue. When we call your man,
he'd better choose you. Let's giveyou this, Vanessa, good morning.
Hi. First of all, nohelp me, no, my goodness.
Now I'm gonna say thank you becauseI know, um, you're at work
right now, correct I am,yes, okay, but my ship manager
(00:25):
like knows, they know that I'mI'm doing this, so taking me some
time so they your your boss knowsyou're doing War of the Roses, yes,
okay, And so if yeah,mind me asking, um, what
do we do for a living?I think that's a big part of this.
Vanessa. Um, I'm a I'ma nurse, okay, and thank
you for be your nurse. Weappreciate you. So let's get into this.
(00:46):
You and Justin have been together forhow long? Almost ten months now,
okay? And was their according processbefore that is like ten months official,
but like you know, two monthsof talking, so it's closer to
a year or is it basically tenmonths? Uh, we're getting close to
about a year. And we sortof knew each other through like friends,
(01:07):
so you know, you know whenyou know people in the periphery, So
we've probably known each other a littlelonger. But yeah, okay, and
so, um, everything kind ofseem right. Obviously, schedules make it
difficult, I would imagine in yourfield. Uh, that is one of
the challenges for it. So Iwork at Hopkins but live it in Chevy
(01:30):
Chase. Oh it's a long community. Yeah, and you know, with
with the work hours, like Ioften crash at a friend's house. So
Justin and I don't see each otherevery single day. Um okay, So
yeah, so that's why you mentionedit's basically long distance. But we don't
(01:52):
live together though, right, Well, we lived together, but we got
I'm often seeing at a friend's house. Sure it makes sense. Yeah,
that's a long, long drive.Okay, so we work odd hours.
Um. The one thing that's acouple of things there obviously the dinner.
We'll get that in a second.But he used to send like huge notes
(02:15):
and messages when you were working,like that type of thing. He used
to like he'd do all these reallysweet things, you know when we first
started dating. Like I don't mean, he'd like leaves me a little notes
in my like lunch or in mycar, and sometimes like open my glove
box, and you know, therewould be like like a little present from
(02:36):
like just really sweet little thing.Was like, yeah, no, let
me know that he was thinking ofme and she's wonderful. And you know
that sort of tapers off after awhile, right, and I think it
does with everybody, really, everybody'srelationship. But um, he's did a
couple of weird things lately, andone that was like so glaring I couldn't
(02:58):
ignore it. Yeah, that's thedinner, right, So I want to
get into that. So we goto restaurant, we sit down at table,
we don't get service right away.Then what happens. Okay, this
is weird. I don't know ifthis doesn't happened to anyone else, But
the waiter comes out with like appetizersand drinks already and we haven't actually ordered
(03:21):
them, but like, oh shebrings me a rose and not against rose
drinkers, I drink beer. Yeahokay, I mean almost as if like
he's been there so many times withsomebody else they assume that this is the
regular. Yeah okay, yeah,And it wasn't even you know, like
(03:44):
sometimes they do that at our startjust to be nice. But there was
a look on Justin's face that lookedso guilty yeah, and shocked that it
made me question why we were gettingdrink. So let let me let me
do this. I'm gonna call himname. I'm gonna try to call him
(04:04):
not from a flower shop. Icall from X and try and get to
take the flowers in that way,okay, or the roses on your morning
show. But Nesta, let merecap this quick. You and Justin been
together about ten months. You area nurse at Hopkins. We live in
Chevy Chase. You and Justin bothlived together. Obviously, your hours make
dating difficult. I mean in thecommute alone, and there's some days where
(04:26):
we end up staying at a friend'shouse. Um, the kind of the
biggest flag is he used to dothe cute stuff like messages and that kind
of thing, which I do thinkthis, you know, Devil's advocate,
that kind of phase in general.But when you guys went to get dinner
a couple of weeks ago, noservice right away. But when he did
get service, the waiter came out. It instantly had appetizers and drinks for
(04:50):
you guys, including a rose foryou even though you are a beer girl,
right, yeah, which was weird, right, So it almost seemed
as if like, um, hehas a regular you've been there before,
right, got you? Okay?And so and by the way, you're
super your shift supervisor. The factthat they're letting you call right now is
amazing. But we were talking aboutthis during the song. Explain to me
(05:13):
what happened last Friday with you textinghim? So in the text, you
know about asking hibout a movie.Yeah, and he didn't read it until
like one in the morning, okay, which is weird. Yeah, so
what time did you send it?I probably send it at like, I
(05:35):
don't know, like eleven thirty orsomething. That's odd, okay, I
mean unless maybe he woke up togo to the bathroom or something. But
yeah, that that seems. Thatseems Did he respond or he waited till
the next day to respond it?You know when you get the dots.
Yeah, it looked like he wasgoing to respond and then nothing and then
(05:58):
say then say he like loped ontoanother text that he was gonna send me
just saying hi. So let medo this. I'm gonna call him from
Amax rewards. I'm gonna I knownurse nurses um appreciation has past. He
probably doesn't know that. So I'mgonna bring it up again to see that
way, it's like really leaning towardsyou and we'll see what's going on.
(06:19):
Okay, okay, one second?Is that to me? If you answer
the text, you just go inthe bathroom. I feel like it's an
easy response. Yeah, here's thehere's the movie, YadA, YadA.
I'm just holding him crazy. I'mcrazy, but hopefully it's misunderstanding. Hello,
(06:47):
Hi, call him for justin.Please justin. My name is Nate
with Amex Rewards. How are youwell? How are you doing well?
I think you give a quick sayingfor me. He's that a quick question
about your account? Okay, nothingbad? Before we go further though,
I didn't need to verify a fewthings. Can you confirm your dog's favorite
(07:09):
color? My dog's favorite color?Yeah, this is one of the security
questions you answered. Um, ifI'm being completely honest, A lot of
times folks has put their own favoritecolor. So if you have a dog,
is need their favorite color? Okay? Um black black? Got that?
And then dog's first concert dogs?Um, okay, green day.
(07:35):
Oh so your dog's basket case?If you will? Yes, yes,
look yeah, look at that.Okay, here we go so, um,
real quick, nothing's bad at theaccount. We are doing a really
cool promotion for some of our favoriterewards members. So first of all,
your service with the card has beenexceptional or satisfactory. Yeah, yeah,
(07:56):
it has very cool. So weobviously being for us here. It's First
Responders Appreciation week and month and year. To be honest, the whole every
single day this year is first ResponderAppreciation and so we're doing honor of that
is trying to reach out to folksthat we think, um would want to
send flowers on their own behalf toa first responder. And you popped up
(08:18):
here is something my profile who mightbe down for that? Is that something
that can interest you in completely freejust to send flowers to a first responder
to say thank you? Okay?Yeah, I mean you said I'm not
gonna it's completely free. You saidI'm not gonna get charged, like because
I don't want to you know,points on this or anything. Oh yeah,
you don't want to use points tosend flowers to somebody? No,
(08:39):
no, I mean it. Yousaid it was free, right, yeah,
that's free. Um, is thissomething you can be down? Okay?
Perfect? Yeah, so you havea first responder in your life,
like a uh you paramedic, nurse, doctor or something like that. Yeah,
yeah, okay, all right,so the it's a dozen red roses
(09:01):
we tamput the local flowershop. Veryexciting. I have a card here as
well. That's about four hundred characters, but the size of a tweet.
The first thing I need, though, is the first name that person you
want to send the flowers to.Okay, um, send them to Heather
Heather okay, yeah yeah, andHeather t you have a drop down box
(09:26):
your wife, girlfriend's, sister,fiance, mother, other, Um,
just do I have to click anyof those just for is this for our
records? In four? So thatbecause they are romantic. It's just so
the flowershop knows, um yeah,in case they can't get that. Yeah
yeah, that's fine. Um yeahI just put down other other okay,
(09:48):
and then getting the card to Heatheragain about fourner characters the size of a
Tweetum, you can put down towhatever you want to. So I have
pretty good handwriting. Okay, Um, all right, say, uh,
I hope your spaghetti tastes. Halfhad to dumb that. What did you
say? I say? This isokay, I hope this spaghetti taste is
(10:15):
half as good as who the heckis Heather? Who is Heather? Justin?
Oh my gosh, you are solucky. I am at work.
You are so stupid? Yeah,I can't. Yes, Um, Justin?
My name's in turn John Rose ishere as well? That your girlfriend
(10:35):
Vanessa. We're doing more of theRoses for the show. Um. Who,
So a couple of questions I haveviet mind me go into this Sanessa.
Who is Heather? Yes? Alsois Heather a nurse as well?
Is she also? Look? Man, yeah, I had to dump that
(10:58):
part. We're imposed a rebus,though. I want to know what the
card was. Why am this radiodot com? Um? We can get
that up in this second. Soyeah, why obviously, Justin, you've
been with this person more than once? Yeah, yeah, that's a good
question, man, good question.Is that why they brought us Rose the
(11:20):
other day dinner? I don't knowwhy they brought us day I told you
I thought the thing, but youare so no. Okay, then Justin,
then answer who Heather is? It'svery simple. I don't have to
answer anything, right, Okay?And so why would why Heather's dishes?
(11:41):
That sounds like, so what dishesthat we tasted. Dude, I'm certainly
not going to answer to you.All right, man, We're gonna talk
about this later. But I like, we are not going to talk about
this later. You are going tobe backed and out of the house by
the time I get home from myship, right right. That's great,
Jess. And let me just say, but brow to Brow, if I
(12:03):
was you, I geta house,yeah, leaves, I would nope at
listen. Yes, thank you verymuch for your advice. Okay, thank
you very much for me. Yes, Amen says or of the Roses is
criticked and possibly edited to broadcast.Let's permission granted from all participates. One
more Roses. Go to hyms radiodot com if you want to see the
(12:24):
remix. For more the Roses,it's up right now. Why ms radio
dot com. We love your thoughts. Nine nine creative texts in Silver Spring
Ashley, good morning. You heardmore of the Rose? Is what you
want to say? She is somuch better without him? Yes on one
hundred and ten percent, Ashley,thank you for listening. I have a
(12:46):
great day, Thank you too.And everything in the world of celebs,
music, TV and more, Rosehas the entertainment apart coming next, What
you got for us? People arekind of mad at Secret Invasion for their
opening credits. I'll tell you why. Next journs Johnny Mark Shuck. If
I miss it on the show,I download the podcast Your Morning Show
Rose is all red, Violet's allblue. When we call your man,
he'd better choose you. Let's giveyou this, Vanessa, good morning.
Hi. First of all, nohelp me, no, my goodness.
Now I'm gonna say thank you becauseI know, um, you're at work
right now, correct I am,yes, okay, but my ship manager
(00:25):
like knows, they know that I'mI'm doing this, so taking me some
time so they your your boss knowsyou're doing War of the Roses, yes,
okay, And so if yeah,mind me asking, um, what
do we do for a living?I think that's a big part of this.
Vanessa. Um, I'm a I'ma nurse, okay, and thank
you for be your nurse. Weappreciate you. So let's get into this.
(00:46):
You and Justin have been together forhow long? Almost ten months now,
okay? And was their according processbefore that is like ten months official,
but like you know, two monthsof talking, so it's closer to
a year or is it basically tenmonths? Uh, we're getting close to
about a year. And we sortof knew each other through like friends,
(01:07):
so you know, you know whenyou know people in the periphery, So
we've probably known each other a littlelonger. But yeah, okay, and
so, um, everything kind ofseem right. Obviously, schedules make it
difficult, I would imagine in yourfield. Uh, that is one of
the challenges for it. So Iwork at Hopkins but live it in Chevy
(01:30):
Chase. Oh it's a long community. Yeah, and you know, with
with the work hours, like Ioften crash at a friend's house. So
Justin and I don't see each otherevery single day. Um okay, So
yeah, so that's why you mentionedit's basically long distance. But we don't
(01:52):
live together though, right, Well, we lived together, but we got
I'm often seeing at a friend's house. Sure it makes sense. Yeah,
that's a long, long drive.Okay, so we work odd hours.
Um. The one thing that's acouple of things there obviously the dinner.
We'll get that in a second.But he used to send like huge notes
(02:15):
and messages when you were working,like that type of thing. He used
to like he'd do all these reallysweet things, you know when we first
started dating. Like I don't mean, he'd like leaves me a little notes
in my like lunch or in mycar, and sometimes like open my glove
box, and you know, therewould be like like a little present from
(02:36):
like just really sweet little thing.Was like, yeah, no, let
me know that he was thinking ofme and she's wonderful. And you know
that sort of tapers off after awhile, right, and I think it
does with everybody, really, everybody'srelationship. But um, he's did a
couple of weird things lately, andone that was like so glaring I couldn't
(02:58):
ignore it. Yeah, that's thedinner, right, So I want to
get into that. So we goto restaurant, we sit down at table,
we don't get service right away.Then what happens. Okay, this
is weird. I don't know ifthis doesn't happened to anyone else, But
the waiter comes out with like appetizersand drinks already and we haven't actually ordered
(03:21):
them, but like, oh shebrings me a rose and not against rose
drinkers, I drink beer. Yeahokay, I mean almost as if like
he's been there so many times withsomebody else they assume that this is the
regular. Yeah okay, yeah,And it wasn't even you know, like
(03:44):
sometimes they do that at our startjust to be nice. But there was
a look on Justin's face that lookedso guilty yeah, and shocked that it
made me question why we were gettingdrink. So let let me let me
do this. I'm gonna call himname. I'm gonna try to call him
(04:04):
not from a flower shop. Icall from X and try and get to
take the flowers in that way,okay, or the roses on your morning
show. But Nesta, let merecap this quick. You and Justin been
together about ten months. You area nurse at Hopkins. We live in
Chevy Chase. You and Justin bothlived together. Obviously, your hours make
dating difficult. I mean in thecommute alone, and there's some days where
(04:26):
we end up staying at a friend'shouse. Um, the kind of the
biggest flag is he used to dothe cute stuff like messages and that kind
of thing, which I do thinkthis, you know, Devil's advocate,
that kind of phase in general.But when you guys went to get dinner
a couple of weeks ago, noservice right away. But when he did
get service, the waiter came out. It instantly had appetizers and drinks for
(04:50):
you guys, including a rose foryou even though you are a beer girl,
right, yeah, which was weird, right, So it almost seemed
as if like, um, hehas a regular you've been there before,
right, got you? Okay?And so and by the way, you're
super your shift supervisor. The factthat they're letting you call right now is
amazing. But we were talking aboutthis during the song. Explain to me
(05:13):
what happened last Friday with you textinghim? So in the text, you
know about asking hibout a movie.Yeah, and he didn't read it until
like one in the morning, okay, which is weird. Yeah, so
what time did you send it?I probably send it at like, I
(05:35):
don't know, like eleven thirty orsomething. That's odd, okay, I
mean unless maybe he woke up togo to the bathroom or something. But
yeah, that that seems. Thatseems Did he respond or he waited till
the next day to respond it?You know when you get the dots.
Yeah, it looked like he wasgoing to respond and then nothing and then
(05:58):
say then say he like loped ontoanother text that he was gonna send me
just saying hi. So let medo this. I'm gonna call him from
Amax rewards. I'm gonna I knownurse nurses um appreciation has past. He
probably doesn't know that. So I'mgonna bring it up again to see that
way, it's like really leaning towardsyou and we'll see what's going on.
(06:19):
Okay, okay, one second?Is that to me? If you answer
the text, you just go inthe bathroom. I feel like it's an
easy response. Yeah, here's thehere's the movie, YadA, YadA.
I'm just holding him crazy. I'mcrazy, but hopefully it's misunderstanding. Hello,
(06:47):
Hi, call him for justin.Please justin. My name is Nate
with Amex Rewards. How are youwell? How are you doing well?
I think you give a quick sayingfor me. He's that a quick question
about your account? Okay, nothingbad? Before we go further though,
I didn't need to verify a fewthings. Can you confirm your dog's favorite
(07:09):
color? My dog's favorite color?Yeah, this is one of the security
questions you answered. Um, ifI'm being completely honest, A lot of
times folks has put their own favoritecolor. So if you have a dog,
is need their favorite color? Okay? Um black black? Got that?
And then dog's first concert dogs?Um, okay, green day.
(07:35):
Oh so your dog's basket case?If you will? Yes, yes,
look yeah, look at that.Okay, here we go so, um,
real quick, nothing's bad at theaccount. We are doing a really
cool promotion for some of our favoriterewards members. So first of all,
your service with the card has beenexceptional or satisfactory. Yeah, yeah,
(07:56):
it has very cool. So weobviously being for us here. It's First
Responders Appreciation week and month and year. To be honest, the whole every
single day this year is first ResponderAppreciation and so we're doing honor of that
is trying to reach out to folksthat we think, um would want to
send flowers on their own behalf toa first responder. And you popped up
(08:18):
here is something my profile who mightbe down for that? Is that something
that can interest you in completely freejust to send flowers to a first responder
to say thank you? Okay?Yeah, I mean you said I'm not
gonna it's completely free. You saidI'm not gonna get charged, like because
I don't want to you know,points on this or anything. Oh yeah,
you don't want to use points tosend flowers to somebody? No,
(08:39):
no, I mean it. Yousaid it was free, right, yeah,
that's free. Um, is thissomething you can be down? Okay?
Perfect? Yeah, so you havea first responder in your life,
like a uh you paramedic, nurse, doctor or something like that. Yeah,
yeah, okay, all right,so the it's a dozen red roses
(09:01):
we tamput the local flowershop. Veryexciting. I have a card here as
well. That's about four hundred characters, but the size of a tweet.
The first thing I need, though, is the first name that person you
want to send the flowers to.Okay, um, send them to Heather
Heather okay, yeah yeah, andHeather t you have a drop down box
(09:26):
your wife, girlfriend's, sister,fiance, mother, other, Um,
just do I have to click anyof those just for is this for our
records? In four? So thatbecause they are romantic. It's just so
the flowershop knows, um yeah,in case they can't get that. Yeah
yeah, that's fine. Um yeahI just put down other other okay,
(09:48):
and then getting the card to Heatheragain about fourner characters the size of a
Tweetum, you can put down towhatever you want to. So I have
pretty good handwriting. Okay, Um, all right, say, uh,
I hope your spaghetti tastes. Halfhad to dumb that. What did you
say? I say? This isokay, I hope this spaghetti taste is
(10:15):
half as good as who the heckis Heather? Who is Heather? Justin?
Oh my gosh, you are solucky. I am at work.
You are so stupid? Yeah,I can't. Yes, Um, Justin?
My name's in turn John Rose ishere as well? That your girlfriend
(10:35):
Vanessa. We're doing more of theRoses for the show. Um. Who,
So a couple of questions I haveviet mind me go into this Sanessa.
Who is Heather? Yes? Alsois Heather a nurse as well?
Is she also? Look? Man, yeah, I had to dump that
(10:58):
part. We're imposed a rebus,though. I want to know what the
card was. Why am this radiodot com? Um? We can get
that up in this second. Soyeah, why obviously, Justin, you've
been with this person more than once? Yeah, yeah, that's a good
question, man, good question.Is that why they brought us Rose the
(11:20):
other day dinner? I don't knowwhy they brought us day I told you
I thought the thing, but youare so no. Okay, then Justin,
then answer who Heather is? It'svery simple. I don't have to
answer anything, right, Okay?And so why would why Heather's dishes?
(11:41):
That sounds like, so what dishesthat we tasted. Dude, I'm certainly
not going to answer to you.All right, man, We're gonna talk
about this later. But I like, we are not going to talk about
this later. You are going tobe backed and out of the house by
the time I get home from myship, right right. That's great,
Jess. And let me just say, but brow to Brow, if I
(12:03):
was you, I geta house,yeah, leaves, I would nope at
listen. Yes, thank you verymuch for your advice. Okay, thank
you very much for me. Yes, Amen says or of the Roses is
criticked and possibly edited to broadcast.Let's permission granted from all participates. One
more Roses. Go to hyms radiodot com if you want to see the
(12:24):
remix. For more the Roses,it's up right now. Why ms radio
dot com. We love your thoughts. Nine nine creative texts in Silver Spring
Ashley, good morning. You heardmore of the Rose? Is what you
want to say? She is somuch better without him? Yes on one
hundred and ten percent, Ashley,thank you for listening. I have a
(12:46):
great day, Thank you too.And everything in the world of celebs,
music, TV and more, Rosehas the entertainment apart coming next, What
you got for us? People arekind of mad at Secret Invasion for their
opening credits. I'll tell you why. Next journs Johnny Mark Shuck. If
I miss it on the show,I download the podcast Your Morning Show
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