November 24, 2022 • 55 mins
Glasses Malone joined by Aja and Britt just having good convo for this turkey day release. They're unpacking why black woman are constantly being used in all facets of society. Join the discussion in the socials below.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Sellers podcast with your host. Now funk that with your
low blasses Malone. Puff people, what are you walking? I mean,
I'm not saying he's like the toughest dude on earth,
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but he's still a man and he with the hell
like So Puff is tough. I had never said he
was puffed. I didn't say Puff was tough. I said
Puff works out. That's what I said. She said Puff
is tough. What I mean? I think you know he'd
been checking foods. Who Look, he didn't got it. Okay,
(00:44):
Look he just got into it on Halloween with old
from you took that serious he was. He wasn't here
to slap the makeup off that nigga face. He was
because it's an actor. It's an actor and the nick
it's pub like this, that's New York man. They just
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talked rude. Anyway. He didn't say nothing, no talking about
he wasn't he empowering one of them where they act
like real ship. Oh my god, no, nothing, No, I
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think that go to the man shot too. I'm going
to tell you that. Shout out to my boy Bisi Hanni.
So look we have came into such a weird place
in hip hop where you guys are saying puffs. I
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did not say puff. Whatever Rare said Puff, you know,
apparently he is. Apparently Puff is tough. Why you ain't
nobody messing? Not even simple want to listen. I think Puffy,
no one's gonna step to him. Who's gonna step to him?
(02:07):
Nigg has been stepped between my whole life like Shook
step twin Pox. Everybody talked Picked, that's what that was.
I don't see that, Like we didn't know that Park
was talking about all this crazy you Puff didn't say nothing. Okay,
but he's not really a rapper either, Like I mean,
I know he didn't was an artist or whatnot. But
he wouldn't you know, what was he gonna say to Supo?
(02:32):
You see what he said to Drake? You see what
he did to Jacole? Didn't he answer his face? Though?
Then they had an alteration time. They don't want to,
you know, disrespect like the elders like he older Puffed.
I thought that nigga a bit and said he would
do something to that actor. Man he did. He really
(02:59):
did break character at all. I don't think Rapp is
at a weird place. Think about it, right, you got
all of hip hop right, like niggas is talking about
the baby. The baby is the realist, letting nigg out
of all the rappers the baby. I think so he
shot he killed the nigga a Walmart. Yeah, man, you boy,
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young boy did not. That's not going to put young
young boy'll be talking country and crazy. That's all talk
I'm talking about. The baby is the real deal because
he shot somebody in Walmart. He killed the name Walmart.
Shot the nigga told the police, come get this nigg
in his yard. This nigga leaning in my yard. He
beat up about three niggas him and his boys. That
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nigga is a modern day motherfucker. Now he really don't
give ant And then all the modern hip hop hayt
the baby. The baby. I'm like, so y'all hate it.
I think what it is in modern hip hop you
have to seem tough, but not like a nigga was
arguing about Drake On. Now the baby was cool, I
think like a lot. Just all that ship that happened
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with his baby mama. I mean, his baby mama was like, no,
it wasn't. That was just the fact that he was
like a player. He was just doing too much. He
was sitting over here talking about okay, you could get
out the same my girl, this and that whatever. I
get it. That's fine. You know what I'm saying. You
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already we heard the song. We know. But all this
is you're doing, this is your the mother of your child.
Now this is a public He was just doing too much.
He was just trying to claim because and he's saying
I'm a player for real, But that's not what he said.
That's not what he said. I want to have respected that.
When then him he wasn't cleaning her. He's saying, this
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ain't my bro, I don't under That's not how it starts,
not how when it started from this are from now?
What was? It helped me? Please? It wasn't. It was
something like I don't know. They was on live and
once they started arguing, then he came and was just like,
(05:12):
you know, that wasn't my girl. That wasn't like yeah.
She tried to throw him out there like she was
acting like he was doing her bad, and he was like, man,
you're not. We're not like that, and she got an
attitude because we're not like that Okay, Look, regardless of
however it happened, and whatever happened, I still feel like
whatever whatever transpired with that kind of yeah with his
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you know why because I'm telling you it's the same
bitch nigga ever ship. Y'all literally are fucked up socide
this at a fucked up place. It was a nigga
argue with me on Twitter, and I wouldn't argue with him.
He was arguing with me. He was like, you need
to tell me you think Drake got all that money
he won't get something done to a nigga. I'm like,
so he got money and he's a gangster. Now, I
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don't agree with that. I do not see Drake as
nowhere near as against it. He literally just has a
song right now where he's singing to a dude like
his homie, saying like, uh I would kill for Nick
or whatever. I don't know his lyrics, but literally I
was listening to that up here, like what the fun
is going on? So there's no way I would believe
that he was. I think Drake really got on explaining
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y'all sentiments, black women's sentiments. He became like y'all Mary
J Block, no, no, like he really became. And then
I was like dad with the white woman that ship,
I was like that kind of that was just like
he used all the game. Now he wouldn't even to
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the man telling you all this ship for everybody, not
even from he like I an't even from United States.
I'm not even that nigger got a knife the dadder
in his face because in England ain't no gun. They
they stabbed each other all the time. That's why you
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got that knife right there, stablished it out of each other.
They gangster on another level. That's why I won't never
say nothing about twenty one and them gangster them they
could be stabbing each other. You're a different nigga. If
you're stabbing, Shooting the nigga is easy, Like it's only
tough the first two times. Stabbing the nigga, that's tough.
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That's personal and ship everything. You know. I'm generation the
old nigga stabbing in your eyes. It shouldn't be looking
in your eyes while that's a nigge the see, that's
what I was thinking. That's why I didn't want that
guy to get close to me, because I was thinking
he can stab me. But that's what I'll be worried
about whack whack, be fu get your ass. Stabbed one
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for sure, stabbing nigg He looked like his that haircut.
He ain't no joke, no sailings classes malon, what's handing?
What's going on? What's handing? Kind of bird don't fly,
brick kind of bird, don't fly jail bird. Oh my god,
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bread fresh out? Hey, I'm fresh out man. I don't
never first out of jail California dreaming. Oh my god,
how was that when you start? We ain't for to
keep talking about this, but how was the first step
side of jail? I ain't never going back. You step
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up like your chests out like I was cold as
fucking I was like my girl too. I'm sure. I'm
for sure you were throwing the women were women cold?
For sure? They rubbed their arms. What are you warming up?
Because for sure our body are warming orange up all
on your body because they don't feel that colde at
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the bottom. It's right, you know what I'm saying, Like,
that's nothing like watching the woman go through something because
it don't matter if it's hot the cold outside's gonna
rub her arms. Yeah, I was doing that's comfort. Hurry up.
It took that uber longest time to come to man
as the longest wait in my mind. I just wanted
to get away. Ober. Just think before Uber, I started
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to walk down the street because I didn't even want
to be right there. Yeah, like they might come back
and get me, give me my I d back going
there for ship. Wait right, Wait, so you left your
ID they take it from you? They took it. Oh
so you didn't get she was gonna slit your wrist
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with it. No, they know this. The straps on my
legs to take your ship because they know nigga's like,
you're gonna hang there still out. Yeah, she was gonna
get gangster British gangster. Nick. I just don't let people
fuck with me. But so back to the point I
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was saying, I digress right, like black women being used consistently,
and I noticed that's becoming like the game plan all
the time everybody uses black women. I'll be seeing niggas
who I know for sure don't with black women, be like, yeah,
you know, we gotta stand up for our black women.
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Like how do y'all even buy that? Who do y'all
really think is for black women? Like as two sisters
like like everybody uses y'all this marketing, right, y'all just
become marketing targets, right. Uh. The Democrats use y'all like
that white lady said she had hot sauce in their bag.
Like I didn't even say. Nobody ever taught the black men,
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but they taught the black women. I just wanted to
know how y'all feel about that, like Drake pretty much y'all.
Kanye and Drake, y'all built both of them up. Makes
that both of y'all lass in the back at the end. Damn,
Kanye told you all to hold It wasn't really like
like that's what I was going to say, Like I
really think that for sure. I was. I was, you know,
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I'm like he's saying to me like he just understood, Yeah,
like he understood as a rapper like who I would think.
But later he started hear me it. I mean just
just just even as a rapper, like somebody like Drake
who pretty much dated like black women. And now you
wouldn't catch him dead with his sister over the day
like old tennis player. It is, though I've seen him,
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I haven't seen him with no Nick used to be
he said, what's your name? You'll be talking about Drake,
right yeah? Um, I no, no, Serena, but he haven't
known Serena. Husband called Serena's roupy me because I remember
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because used to be at her tennis match. I remember
that he called. Yeah he did, he'd be real messy.
I just said he was bored. See y'all and this
is your problem, y'all thought Drake spoke for y'all. I
don't think we talked. No spoke for us. Well, she's
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a fan, because he didn't. He didn't speak to you.
He spoke for you. He pretty much all his sentiments y'all.
Y'all feel like those were y'all sentiments. Even if you
listen to that new song where he'd be like, I'm
losing friends finding piece. That's some that's some woman. It
was when we were kidding called bitches and hose and ship.
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He slid in there and started singing to us and ship.
We was getting called every other thing in the around
the way, in around the corner. So he slid in
with that like this is what y'all need. And that's
y'all problem, because y'all could be so manipulation, but the
build us up, and that's the problem. You don't deserve
to be built. That's why we queens around here. You
gotta better recognize. So let me tell you why that
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came across crazy. So I'm gonna break down. You stop
putting yourself on pedestals. You cannot stand up there. You
don't have the balance. That's the problem. You should start
down here with the rest of us. Because when you
put yourself on a pedestal, that's why you get a
nigga like Drake, because you, right, Drake slid in like
that nigga. Right, So when you and your you and
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your nigga be going through something, right, that one nigga
who'll be sliding in. That nigga is never a good
think about Adam and even fit Adam and Eve. Adam
and Eve like God. Adam and Eve is like God,
like his bit right his old lady. So he tell
him like they don't funk with the food on this tree.
This is not cool. And then that side nigga come
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in and be like, man, that nigga just really hay
want you to taste them. If you was with me,
I'll let you, man, and then we bring every time
and then suck because then right after it's like you
look at him like, damn, you are the devil because
it's the smooth devil. Bro No, not like that, but
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he really is a savage. And it's funny because the
niggas who you think like that called you bitches. Them
niggas is all married like snoop, This nigg had been
married for like fifty years, right, nigga Like Drake ain't
gonna do nothing with no sister. He ain't getting none
of y'all. We was talking about. Dad said wow, this
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is I mean, once he had the baby, and I'm
like okay, wow, like wow, Sargana was just like okay,
I'm I'm good on Drake. I really was just like
not because it was just like I just was really
like what no, you did because you would have thought
it was like dang, really think about it. Think about
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it though. She wasn't she like a porn start to yeah,
like a horn a white hole. I'm like, wow, that's so.
I'm now I'm not saying nothing bad about Drake. See
the thing is when y'all look at the rough edges
of black men and the men that come from your communities,
they just be rough on the outside because they've been
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through something with treacherous women. Y'all know how some girls get.
So that'll make me and it's like scrappy, y'all. He
was crying talking about what he had went through and
everything look scrappy from up scrap. He was talking to
his mom, mamadeed talking about how he grew up in
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the um, in the crack. His mama was a pimp,
and he was saying, so I had to deal with um,
watching people do dope, people coming in and out of
the house, Like I can't even sleep in another room.
I sleep with my mom because somebody else in there,
like you know. And it was really like damn, you know,
because like he said, he said, I can't go to
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band because shell hard. I can't go to you because
you hard. But you but when you've been raising ship
like that, you be hard, and then it sucks because
niggas be like why are you so? Like I didn't
been through a lot. But so he was really just
breaking down like I never like he was breaking down
what he has to deal with from his childhood and
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his experience, and he was really he was emotional about it,
you know. Yeah, but but but yeah, that's my point.
So y'all be mad because somebody says the word bitch
or they feel like they talk crazy. Right, So you
look at that and you'd be like, oh, they mistreat
us and were queens, and how dare you eat not
knowing Kings really mistreat queens historically, like they have concubines
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and all kind of ships. Don't Nobody sunk with the queens.
Kings don't fuck with queens. So being a queen is
really a waste of time because don't nobody respect the queen,
not even the king. Remember the king always has side
os every one of them, stories about them, crack ass kings. Everyone,
they had concubines, they would sleep with slave, They were
choosing everybody over you, Right, So you mistake that roughness
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right of of of that black rapper and then a
guy like Drizzy slides in, Drake slides in, and you
like he's seeing all the right things, girl, Because that's
what I said, that's what we need. That, that's what
we need. Sound it really good because when you're so
used to be whether it's right or wrong, Like if
you're so used to hearing this all the time, what
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about maybe the fact that you were being possibly a
bit he came in. I mean, if he was you was,
why would you be mad at the rappers saying but
I mean even if he say that time, we still
gonna be where there wasn't a lot of that going on,
and never caught a woman a bitch. I love that
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he had this time. Everybody, all the ladies love Yeah.
But my point is I'm saying, so he came at
a time, right, just like in your real relationship where
you feel like it's tough, and he sled up in
there with that bullshit and he ruined your life. Now
he won't even look at you now. He really gonna
make you don't even like yourself. He talked, and what's crazy?
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Is he talking bad right now on a new album
that the honey tell me? He talking crazy to the host?
Oh no, he really don't care. That's why I saw
text her like, hey, what's up? What's up with your boy?
She said, how he bored? He ain't bored the real him. See,
the reality is all of us is like that. The
niggas who acted like they're not like that, that's not real.
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If you came from our background, even Drake, right, Drake
and came from our background. But Drake Drake is to me,
this is how I look at Drake right shout out
of Drinkey. Drake is a nigga who got the pretty
girls at school the whole time. You know what I mean,
the girls with the nice hair. Yeah, the pretty girl
that you know when he was in high school to
be the thin girl with the nice hair. She was
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a pretty cute girl. He ain't none of the sisters,
the one that was stick that everybody wanted. So when
he started rhyming, he started just running through them. Johnny
Blaze is the all the girls that is popular in
high school, that stick that was kind of probably fast whatever.
He just started running through them, and he realized he
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wasn't cut out for it, but he understood that he
had that appeal to them because he was speaking their language.
He studied them so bad and wanted y'all so bad
for me that he studied y'all and it was so
easy to manipulate y'all and mock y'all. He did, and
it got him into this business billions of dollars billions
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because y'all are so predictable. It sounds funked up. And
I don't mean it in a negative way, but everything
you'll do become so trendy, y'all following each other, you'll
do the exact same thing all the time. If one
start wearing our lashes, all start wearing out lashes. If
one start making baby here, all start making baby here.
So he could literally say one rap. Probably he could
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literally say one rap and and fit y'all and y'all
fight your whole life to be different. It's like y'all
all want to be like, oh I'm different. It's like
you all do the same exact thing. I mean, he
just came through with that like thing you are not
ever wanted to. Yeah, it was going the best I've
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ever had knowing that's a lie. That was And it
was dope though with like because when he was in
a relationship with couples, everything like it wasn't just women
like we were singing it, but it was like it
was very like sentiment. There's no niggas that love Drake.
There's lots of no no nigga love Drake. Hey, they
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was on Drake at that time when he had came
out like y'all, y you're a man, where I said,
y'all black men was never on that. Only niggas who
were squares Drake. It's a lot of squares because point,
that's what I'm saying, because they the same dude. These
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dudes in real life, y'all wouldn't even give no play
too in real life is a corn ball. I think
if Asia meant real life, zero zero play, and she
would have talked to that nigga two days, she would
have gave some play. Though that's not the point she
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would give anybody playing theory. That's not in theory. I
would not give anybody. So what's the corn is? Maybe
you ever dated um corny ship, a nigger who make
bad white jokes, because that's Drake, a white guy, oh,
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a corny nigga. Okay, not a white white guy. White
people can't be corny because they white people. White people
cannot be corny because the white white people are corny.
They on colde. I yes, I dated he was the
corny ist, and you just loved him to death. No
you didn't. I didn't. I don't know what you're talking about.
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We but I date Actually I dated him for a while,
but I really was like doing all kinds of ship.
You did not it drove me crazy. I don't believe
most of these sisters with David person like Drake Nigga.
Drake was wrapping his first album with a glove on
us to be on stage with a glove one glove
like this is my point, Like, I'm not This is
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not an anti trade conversation. This is a really worried
about black women conversations and their ability to be not
everybody is going to talk to somebody like Drake, like
you know what, most people not Serena like yeah, I
mean because it would be hard for Drake to put
you on your place. You probably think you could be
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Drake up. I don't know. Drake got like could you
know he comes through like he something? If you was
dating Drake and y'all got some argument, you think this
NI gonna turn around and be like get you or
something like that or something crazy the way this album
is going. Yeah, I think that he probably would. I
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was about to say you like, fuck you glasses think
square up? What on up? No? That ain't his down,
damn Okay, See, I don't know. I I'm just saying
I'm thinking. I just think that y'all flying situations where
y'all play the victim all the time. And then like
your favorite entertainers are always people that make y'all the victim,
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Like Mary J. Blige, she always is the victim. I
was just bumping her on the way over here. Didn't
been through a lot exactly. And it's never at fault.
You don't have one song typ about how she's a
raggedy woman. Wow, why would she? Why would she have
a song saying she's a raggedy woman? So you can't
go and not be raggedy. Eventually, some eventually some of
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the blame to you be something else but not raggedy,
broky doctors, singers, singers, dancers, everything. I just knew about it. Eventually,
it ain't her fault, like you don't have no accountability.
She might you don't know what she says behind because
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why she don't sing the songs? But I did that
nigga bad, I cheated only I wasn't. I didn't cook.
Why you don't never have women that I should? Well you,
I would you want me do a song? My point is,
are you raggedy? No? But do you want me to
do a song? Is there a celebrity woman that's raggedy
that y'all know the celebrity woman that's ragged women. We're
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just not gonna say nothing negative about women, don't you
do to it? But I could think of a raggedy
um man. I bet you could. And he has a penis.
I bet you can. Sure you can think of that nigga.
I'm actually think of somebody raggedy would have vagina that
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you could feel honest, you'd like, you know what that
motherfucker is raggedy? Like, why is it? Mary J Blige
could sing a thousand songs about niggas doing something wrong
and she ain't got one song about her doing her
doing some ship. Then I could say, yeah, she was raggedy.
But I'm just going if I'm going off for just
some songs and I don't know as a victim, maybe
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she's going to victim on her life. How you know?
Come on now, you don't know that, Come on now,
you don't know that it's Mary Jacky J blu Let's
keep it to being. Mary J. Blige looked way better
now that she ever did. I said, Mary, Mary did
not look like super shop. When I was young, Mary
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was like super rough, Like I thought, you fight Mary J.
Blige when I was younger now, Mary J. Blige, Like
she didn't. She actually is getting cute, like she aging
like wine, her ship getting better and better. So you
mean to tell me, ain't no nigga sticking around? Maybe
she don't want it? I mean relationships? How long she
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was married for a while, like two days? Now she
was married for three days. That was not three days.
It wasn't that much time she was with that man
for a minute. Come on now, Mary J. Blige, I'm
just asking you a question. When do you ever start
to analyze maybe the pedestal you're asking for is not
one worthy of you? Like what if I told you
that no woman is worthy of a pedestal? Do you
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think that I'm sure, no pedestal? Wow? Really yeah, no
human being is worthy of a pedestal. But sure you
because you're black woman, you put us up there. You
don't have to be because you understand what the pedestal
really looked like, and like figuratively speaking, like it's up there,
it's very little you know, error, there's very little you know,
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ship for mistakes, like it's really close so soon as
I mean, no one, Yeah, nobody's perfect, and why would
you want to be on the pedestal, things that belong
on the pedestal, things that don't come down highly. Why
should a motherfucker think highly of you because I would
love for you to. Why not? Why? Why do you
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want those expectations? Do you want to walk around and say,
I want you to think I'm raggy? You know what?
You know, it's a huge spectrum, it's a huge, great area.
But why you gotta be in the great area, just
like why can't you just say, okay, I think highly
of you? Why why he just doesn't want? Why not
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do I think highly of any woman highly? Okay? Well
he said any thing about highly? Yes, I don't know
if I think highly. I mean I think kyllie of
no man neither like I think highly of niggas and
Pacific like dre like if dre engineering, and I'll be like, man,
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nigga cold. But then he might like to slap a
bit or something. I can't he tripping me. So I
look at every human being as even the greatest ones.
Fore me, I'll be like, well, you did do this bullshit,
so you ain't that special. But that sometimes so what's
the point of wanting that? Like that's my point? So
somebody I think it's better to be. I mean, I
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never went into a relationship with expectations, at least I
didn't think I had, because it's like I don't know.
I just do if I'm doing something for you or
where I'm doing this because I want to, not because
I'm expecting it and I don't know. I guess, like
you said, not having expectations like doesn't um you're not
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let down, you know. So I didn't know. Maybe it
was because of that, but it was just like ship
like I'm not expecting you to do this, but then
then you get oh, you're a hard woman, like you
want to do everything or you do this. Those two don't.
That's not what they quite mean. I'm just saying him
think that, not that the expectations. No, it's like I'm saying,
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like I don't expect Okay, you know how we talk
about like the trash or things like that. Yeah, when
I'm in it, nobody's gonna call you a hard woman
because you take the trash out. No, but they do
be like you. I can't. I'm use that as an example,
but say like getting your car repaired or not coming
to them for certain things or just really. I guess
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they feel like you don't need them. But it's just
I'm not expecting anything from sure, and that's great, But
I don't think they would say your hard because you
do that first, right, they would have no problem with then,
you know, like, okay, look, if you need this, tell
me next time. And I got you a real man.
But I've been with men that really was like, that's
not that. That's not because they wasn't real man. They
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just wasn't your real man. Okay, somebody real man. They
changed somebody for you, just not yours. He is he
he's just so nice to men. You just you are.
I'm not putting. I'm just telling you women, like all
women ain't bad, they just might be bad to you.
Always tell my partners that like some women is bad
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to everybody except that nigger. It's that always that one
man that he not she not bad too, but she
might be bad and dispectful to all the rest of them.
You're just not that guy. That's what I'm saying. It's
not I don't put men or women on a pedestal.
I just think that human beings in general. Thinking highly
of people is pretty much a horrible idea. Like, if
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you think you know levelheaded of people, you're being a
much better space. Right, So I spend my time putting
people in obtainable situations. It's like, okay, what kind of
obtainable real obtainable realities? And then if they exceed and
it's like oh wow, you're at that she falls short,
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I'm like, oh, dare go give it? Expectations are really
a different kind of burden. So, like, if you want
somebody to think highly of you, like, what what about
you is highly to think of? I understand want you
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to think, No, I'm not you mean in a relationship? Yes,
I don't mean it like that. What I mean is,
you know, what do you think you as a human being?
Let me you want to get another answer, okay, let
me get something better for it. Um, when you're in
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a relationship, right, what do you think you do exceptionally well? Oh, okay,
that's a good question, cousin, I do exceptionally well, yes,
that's far is in a relationship would you be like, man,
you know what? They can't do this like me? And
most of the time when women think it would be
something pretty much for sure that I think that there's
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always no first off I don't never not saying I'm
just saying so, but you're asking me something like I don't.
I don't go into nothing like that because there's always
somebody that can do those things or maybe even better.
I think for me, I just I'm a selfless person.
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So for me, like I'm just, I just cater like
I'm just it's hard to explain, like I'm just I
just always I always put my due like I don't
want to say highly because you but I just always
think of him and the things that will make him
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happy or like um, like the things that I can
improve on. And only reason why I'm saying this and
this is not I don't know bullshit. This is real
ship because I had a problem with conforming and being
in the relationship for a very long time. You could
ask her like I just I just this is this
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is a new me. Hey, we're being real, right, So
this is real me. So for now for me now,
I'm actually but I'm going all in like I'm it's
all You're getting all of me like I'm shit. It's
it's hard. It's hard. It is because I've always had
always not selfish. It's not selfish. I always did you're
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not understanding what I'm saying. Like I'm always I've always
done ship. I'nna be real. Yeah, you're right, it is selfish.
You're right on it. I always said, I know you
know how you think about it later when somebody say
some ship like I was, I didn't give a fuck,
like literally, if you didn't, if you did not, if
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you couldn't get with whatever I was going through at
that point in time, I was not caring like it
was just by like I just was. Literally I zoned
out and I just put my career and my son
first and above anything, so your feelings did not matter.
I did not. Okay, well, if I couldn't, if you, hey,
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I can't. I don't even have explain it. That is
just ran through and ruin. No, I didn't ruin anyone
with that mentality. You don't think you ruined men. I've
probably heard of broke a couple hearts, but I'm not.
I'm not happy about it. I'm not happy about it.
I can't get right. That's why I can get ready
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because I'm getting ready. No, not you, that's why they
can't get ready. Excuse me? No, yeah, right, you know
what's funny some of the most important people. My dad
told me a crazy story. My dad explained to me
the reason he was so tough with women. He felt
like he needed to be a player. I thought my
dad was like the super like like just a player.
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Like I thought that nigger he got his feelings hurt
when he was twenty one years old and didn't let
it go for forty years. And that is really real.
That happens to a lot of men. Like it's not
just men, it's women, because that's what happened to me,
Like he said, somebody came in my whole life, and
then I was just like, you know what, I don't
even hear no more. I'm about to do me. And
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it wasn't about dudes. It wasn't about just dating. It
was just like that dudes in your life and ruin
their life. No, I didn't know. Now she really wouldn't
let him in her I wouldn't let them in my life.
Did you get him some pussy? Then you let him
in your life? But you know what the hell I
need that? And that's the thing too, Like it's a
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lack of accountability, Like you don't get it, and that's
the point, Like how do I say this without sounding up.
It's just selfish what I'm saying, Like, I know you
take that pain and then you're like, well, I'm gonna
use this pain and now I'm gonna deal with everybody
this way. No, it wasn't. I didn't say it. She
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didn't deal with it. I just didn't you with it.
I just literally she was giving something some pussy. She
thought she might have liked them, but she always went
back to that nigger who did that ship to her. No,
I didn't. Whenever something happened, he went back in your
head like okay, I liked them, and I can agree
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to that. Like, no, it was it was hard. Like
you guys understand that ship was fucking hard. Like you
don't think that nobody else been through that. I never
said that. I'm talking about myself. I never speak about
anyone else's ship my own. But that's my point. We
all go through ship. Okay. I get that, and and
I had to learn, like, okay, that's it's not okay.
You need to be, like you said, held yourself accountable
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and just say you know what you want different. So
because I want different, I am different. So I give
myself wholeheartedly now to my do like I talked to
him about a lot of shipping before. I want to
tell no, a dude, barely nothing. You wouldn't getting too
much out of me about nothing. I'd be like, I
just really will just be like, what's wrong with you? Know?
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Nothing about my feelings was hurt? I can I'm sorry.
Man was savage? I remember? But it's not. You know,
you don't want to live like that. Everybody wants someone
that they want to grow with or whatever, like you don't.
Why do you really want somebody to grow? I want
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to compare in I want to. I want to. It
gets lonely when you get the kids are gonna leave.
Feel me, it's cold outside right now when I want
to go home and cut the us to be able
to talk to somebody and be able to share those
mon friends. And you think about my grandparents and how
they just they have their things. That ship was dope, like,
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I don't want to. I want to be like these bodies.
So like my grandmother right now, she's not being. No,
we ain't doing that. I ain't doing that. I'm probably
gonna play being because that's fun. But two, don't nobody
want to go what what I don't know, you don't
nobody want to be that's my thing. Like, but I mean,
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if you got to do what, she ain't gonna be
single at eighty two. Yeah, but I don't think that
no one else would do that. But I do, you
know what I mean, Like there's always someone out there
trying to take your spot. I don't know if they're
trying to take your but no, there's something you know
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what you know, you've been talking a lot of ship
like yeah, like you're trying to do it like nicely
and kind of like like like iron is. I swear
to god, I don't know what you're really talking about.
I really don't talk ship. I'll be there. I'm not
talking like everything I'm saying is the truth because I
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know Brick. I know. I never had to sit back
and tell me her life. I could tell Britt was
a selfish, litle asshole when I met, not to me
because we wasn't dating guys and I don't even really interact.
And you don't think that glasses would notice that, like
she'd been through something like that's why she acts like that.
So I'm not talking. I've never said a negative about
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Bread never in life. Never said nothing negative about bread
pretty much no woman like I will inform people of
the dishes the facts feel me about this person, but
I will tell you where I went wrong. I won't
never say, like, if I dated somebody, I won't be like,
oh it was them, I'd be like, this is where
I was at in my mind. I don't even talk
about that person. So what seems like I'm talking ship
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is more or less just showing you a mirror that
I was like, wait a minute, you don't see this
right here. You definitely have to lick yourself in. Man,
he said, don't nobody wants your spot? Nobody wants your spot.
I don't listen. Don't nobody so like? So right? You
think ladies want to actually be with me? Man, I
don't believe that. Yeah, it's ladies that want me. Do
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I think I really believe that? Man, that ship a
fleeing feeling. I'm not saying, cut your motherfucking ship on
it off. Man, you can't thank them much. It ain't
you think it's a dude broad that won't your spot.
I don't nobody want to be up in that motherfucker
cooking and cleaning for nobody if they would they be
in a relationship. No, nobody won't your spot. See the
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reality is they don't they want your spot. People think
they want your spot, don't. Nobody wanted to deal with
the ship the nigger deal with a nobody deal with
a relationship. Come on, man, that ship is fucked up.
It is not. It's not you know what, You're gonna
find a lot of ship. It's but it's cool, it's nice.
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It's better. You're not lying. It was rough. It's who
want to be cooking for somebody every day? If you
thought it, if another lady looking at you, nigga, you
think she could be cooking for some other nigga, She
ain't want to cook for your nigga. People who cook cook,
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So if somebody nine almost wind cook for you and
she'd be cooking for somebody already, she let her go,
then she don't want She ain't cooking for this nigga
and unhappy, and she wants your nigga and cooked folk too.
That ain't hot work. You usually only start cooking for
the nigga you fucking with, or the nigga you think
you like. You're not cooking for all these niggas. You're
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not suing the cooking the phone, you'll give your pussy
what for? You give? Read your recipe? Now how it
sounds I'm saying. It sounds like I'm talking like that's
a woman will give you some pussy for They will
cook for you. Brother. That's the truth. Because it's crazy
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because every week, right after we get off the podcast,
like I'll be talking to like the honker or something,
and I'd be like, Okay, yeah, so you can't you
can't fuck him, or you can't do this or like
you know what I'm saying, like no, like why are
you I'll just be like why why are you wasting
your time? Like for what? So I'd be like, damn,
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you have gave more pussy everybody you might have gave
pussy too. You wouldn't even kiss you, understand how Like
think about so it sound sound saying ship, but this
is think about how fucked up we as? Then that
too much? But that had happened everybody guys pussy to you,
kiss you a damn loud no, no, no, I said
it didn't happen too much. You know, I know I'm
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just saying. I'm saying, for sure, if everybody you knocked
down your kiss. No, some people you wouldn't even kiss you.
I ain't kissing her really. Yeah, I don't think I've
ever outright saying like I it kiss and then gave
him something. But man, I guess they do that. Nine
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out of ten women I've slept with, I would never kiss.
Why would I kiss them? That might she might confuse
and really think I like her. That's why you kiss somebody,
you probably like them. Okay, that makes sense. Kissing is
like intimate, like you really gotta funk with somebody to kiss,
because I was I don't want to kiss everybody. But yeah,
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so it's sound fucked up, but that's just the reality
of it. So again, sometimes you'll be thinking I'm talking.
I'm never talking like. I never say something to put
women or human beings. Damn. I just try to make
sure you understand where you're at now. At times, if
you put yourself on the pedestal and I talk, it
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can make you actually come down the pig. But it's
not that this because you was never up there in
the first place that Nigga was lying to you. Drake
was lying to you. You actually is a bit right now.
I'm not saying you're a bit like, Oh, your whole life,
you you'll be doing some bullshit. That's bit ship, so
use a bit so drake. Putting you up there lining
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to you is not making it better. He's not coming
through to help you. See, he's actually just saying what
you want to hear like sounds like that, and that's
never a good nigga. Historically, that's never a good nigga.
It's always usually the worst nigga you'll ever come across
in your fucking life. That nigga that'd be waiting, he
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looking even like I can't wait for that nigga to
make that mistake shot like he your friend and y'all
keep that nigga around, you can't cap that he'd be
trying to judge your whole relationship from the side, waiting
for his opportunity to slide in. First off, this is
how I look at it. If that nigga can't make
it work for you off a show king, that nigga
that's in it, he with you every day and can't
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make it work because women a lot to you, because
they will make you feel like, oh, this nigga just
on some bushes like nah, you know, on some bushing
you not being honest somewhere, you're not obeying the law,
the law, whatever that person think is wonderful. You're not doing.
They're just not seeing no never because it ain't it ainybody,
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because you can't. You really shouldn't see that. I with
no think in the first place. I mean agree, you know, like,
should always make a nigga thank you're looking up at him,
even when you're looking down. Should always make you think.
Should always make a nigga think you're looking up at
him even when you're looking down at him. See that's
where y'all just fall short. Y'all don't get that one
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simple thing to make a man's ego spectacular, regardless even
if you control it. Women are smarter than me, hands damn.
But y'all spend so much goddamn time trying to prove
it or trying to talk to everybody like they stupid.
That that's the dumbest shit you do. It never works,
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you know what I'm saying. Y'all always talk to much
like they stupid everybody. Yes you do, yes you do,
Yes you do. I bet you every nigger that you
And I'm not a mean person, but sometimes the ship
that comes out of my mouth because you're smarter. Because
you're smarter than us, that's why. But the part of
me is a very smart person also understands they can
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read the room. And that's where y'all fall short. That
y'all the worst at reading the room. Y'all walk in
and just be like, now, you're actually horrible at it.
I'm pretty good at it now, which means you actually
have got closer than how far you was in the
first place. He said, you're still not there yet. I'm
probably not there yet, but I'm getting away. Because women
will never be great at reading the room. It's not
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your nature. Like you kind of didn't got consumed believing
you were the room. No, that's not. Yes, every every
time something happened, because the first thing you said is
why did you do this to me? If a nigga cheap,
why did you do this to me? That's the problem.
He didn't do this to you. He did that to her.
Everything about it because about you, because you are the room.
I don't just say it's nothing, it's him. But my
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question is, like, that's a problem. Example, what's wrong with you?
What would be wrong with puss? Nothing is wrong with him.
You knew why he did it, So why do y'all
ask the crazy ass god god like questions? Y'all's questions
that God would ask a nigga like at the pearly gates?
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Why did you do that? Why are you asking me
that God? You know I did that? Women ask questions
because that God will ask you the day you die
to decide if you're gonna get in heaven, like he
already know the answer to the question asking you to
see if like you just gonna like you ask questions
too bad? No, you don't. You don't really why you
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think that nigga cheated? I mean, just give me idea.
Let's say, any nigga because he was horny wanted to.
Some people just do it because they want to do it.
So then why would you ask nigga why did he
do it? You just want to know? No, you don't
you know already that's some godship. Oh I just want
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to know. Know you already know, bro? You know you
know I don't know, So why I asked why did that?
The first day? Question? Why did you do this? I mean,
I gott to revisit this now that you know? So
what if she says, why did you do this to us.
They didn't do nothing to you or us. He did.
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She might be asking why you us because she's like,
I'm done. These are all rhetorical questions to create more
controversy and problems. No question is ever right. No, the
question is that it's not no question, it's right. I'm
saying you tend to ask questions that you know gonna
create more problems. I guess more talking. I guess. I
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want to know. Just tell me what I want to know.
You know the answer already. M What do you think
why would the niggas sleep with somebody else? Already? Right?
I mean it's other situations where it could be something else.
But for example, maybe they're not getting any at home.
That's not that's not why you cheat. But it's not
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why you cheat because you're not having sex at home. Okay,
good's not um and nigga and and see it is
it's gonna beniggas who listen to podcast. But you know
it's not. It's not nigging. It's not why you cheat
nigga because they that's not. Well, it's an outstanding I'm
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being honest, because it's outstanding. You feel so special about
yourself when someone to give you some pussy, you really
think you are special, You'll be like, damn, she giveting
me some pussy, I must be special. It ain't. See
the way you be yourself from cheating is you realize
that she ain't special giving you no pussy like you're
not special. It's just your turn. Once you understand that
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about women, man, I swear to God, you will have
less problems in life. But if you really think you
special because she gave you some pussy like ninety nine
point nine percent of men do for me, You're gonna
have problems for the rest of your life. I'm not
special because this girl want to give me some pussy.
She gave everybody some pussy. What about the last twelve niggas?
All right special getting lighter and lighter every day. What
if it's been thirty niggas, I'm especialist. Thirty niggas that's
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not special at all. Feel me like, how special are you?
I mean you just a step up from a prostitute
at that point prot to just pa that's who dude,
because you'll be thinking you special because she gave you
some pussy. Ship and charge you or you special? Whatever
you think you think you special when it's like you're
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not special. Bro, Damn you know when you special? You
when a woman want to cook for you? See the
white we treat pussy. We need to treat a woman
cooking for you. That's what I tell niggas all the time.
She cooked for you. No, she don't really funk with
you like that where she'll not a funk with a
man for real. But okay, so what does that mean
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If a guy does it, he's trying to get some
pussy trying if the guy doesn't cook, if you think
want to cook for his old lady, I don't know.
Some people I don't know. I'm asking the question. I'm saying,
that's the point when a woman to the merchandise, right in,
the merchandise is never the pussy they didn't already get
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that merchant. That merchandise use gift that keep on giving.
But trust me, most women, No, it's sound funked up,
but it's real. Most women thirty to forty, they have
slept with more men than they've cooked for a lot
more men. Yeah, I can't see that you're gonna be
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at the count on a couple of hands as how
many niggas you cooked for that nick special. You don't
sit over the store if they've been in relationships. Oh
well no, because they weren't. If they were all the niggas.
I don't know think about that. I mean niggas you
cooked for, because I was just thinking about the how
many niggas you actually cook for in your life. You
ain't cooked for that many niggers. It's gonna get real thin. Well, hold, nigga,
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I'm not gonna be cooking for you. Niggas. Cook niggas,
all the niggas come through. I'm a cook fan, was
cooking cod. But that's because very few cooking. But you
like me saying like, come through, make you a meal.
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You really gotta like a nigga. You really got we
already done cooks already have my chicken out, nigga. You
might have came through and got a plate. But I'm
saying he's saying, like you, I'm cooking for you. Come over.
I'm gonna come cook. Yeah, yeah, yeah, because yeah, I'm
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gonna cook. At least at least four times we got cooked.
So but that's just because I like to cook. Yeah,
but I'm not saying you cooked in the nigga come
to get a plate, which that ain't that's what I'm saying.
She got kids exactly, but that's she's saying she hasn't.
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That don't really count to a flat. He cook for
your kids and then you get some of that nigga
food that's actually not cool. That's the wrong. You already
eat the kids snacks and ship God damn brom. But
I'm just saying, women traditionally have slept with more men
than they've cooked for from our communities. That's why the
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rappers talk the way they talk. It's not there. It's
not because they just want to be demeaning to sisters.
It's not. It's because their experience. It's too traumatized people
trying to make some kind of thing work. That really
is tough because for me, they've both been through some ship.
So you got women trying to use niggas for everything
they got, and that be nigga's first experience. Some girl
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that's choosing another nigga or trying to get something from you.
That's why Rapp come with the word bitch early on.
It ain't because women are these outstanding citizens and nigga's
just like y'all. Sound like them. People who will be
talking about gangs rapping, like, oh, you know, gangs wrapped ruined.
The world's like, not the ship that they're rapping about,
that's really happened in the rappers men say bitch right
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because they've been through experience with bitches. It ain't like
they been with amazing women and they just used the
turn bitch like it was just the most amazing woman,
like yeah, bitch, yeah, bitch. Good looking out for tuning
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Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Sellers podcast with your host. Now funk that with your
low blasses Malone. Puff people, what are you walking? I mean,
I'm not saying he's like the toughest dude on earth,
(00:22):
but he's still a man and he with the hell
like So Puff is tough. I had never said he
was puffed. I didn't say Puff was tough. I said
Puff works out. That's what I said. She said Puff
is tough. What I mean? I think you know he'd
been checking foods. Who Look, he didn't got it. Okay,
(00:44):
Look he just got into it on Halloween with old
from you took that serious he was. He wasn't here
to slap the makeup off that nigga face. He was
because it's an actor. It's an actor and the nick
it's pub like this, that's New York man. They just
(01:04):
talked rude. Anyway. He didn't say nothing, no talking about
he wasn't he empowering one of them where they act
like real ship. Oh my god, no, nothing, No, I
(01:26):
think that go to the man shot too. I'm going
to tell you that. Shout out to my boy Bisi Hanni.
So look we have came into such a weird place
in hip hop where you guys are saying puffs. I
(01:47):
did not say puff. Whatever Rare said Puff, you know,
apparently he is. Apparently Puff is tough. Why you ain't
nobody messing? Not even simple want to listen. I think Puffy,
no one's gonna step to him. Who's gonna step to him?
(02:07):
Nigg has been stepped between my whole life like Shook
step twin Pox. Everybody talked Picked, that's what that was.
I don't see that, Like we didn't know that Park
was talking about all this crazy you Puff didn't say nothing. Okay,
but he's not really a rapper either, Like I mean,
I know he didn't was an artist or whatnot. But
he wouldn't you know, what was he gonna say to Supo?
(02:32):
You see what he said to Drake? You see what
he did to Jacole? Didn't he answer his face? Though?
Then they had an alteration time. They don't want to,
you know, disrespect like the elders like he older Puffed.
I thought that nigga a bit and said he would
do something to that actor. Man he did. He really
(02:59):
did break character at all. I don't think Rapp is
at a weird place. Think about it, right, you got
all of hip hop right, like niggas is talking about
the baby. The baby is the realist, letting nigg out
of all the rappers the baby. I think so he
shot he killed the nigga a Walmart. Yeah, man, you boy,
(03:26):
young boy did not. That's not going to put young
young boy'll be talking country and crazy. That's all talk
I'm talking about. The baby is the real deal because
he shot somebody in Walmart. He killed the name Walmart.
Shot the nigga told the police, come get this nigg
in his yard. This nigga leaning in my yard. He
beat up about three niggas him and his boys. That
(03:47):
nigga is a modern day motherfucker. Now he really don't
give ant And then all the modern hip hop hayt
the baby. The baby. I'm like, so y'all hate it.
I think what it is in modern hip hop you
have to seem tough, but not like a nigga was
arguing about Drake On. Now the baby was cool, I
think like a lot. Just all that ship that happened
(04:07):
with his baby mama. I mean, his baby mama was like, no,
it wasn't. That was just the fact that he was
like a player. He was just doing too much. He
was sitting over here talking about okay, you could get
out the same my girl, this and that whatever. I
get it. That's fine. You know what I'm saying. You
(04:27):
already we heard the song. We know. But all this
is you're doing, this is your the mother of your child.
Now this is a public He was just doing too much.
He was just trying to claim because and he's saying
I'm a player for real, But that's not what he said.
That's not what he said. I want to have respected that.
When then him he wasn't cleaning her. He's saying, this
(04:50):
ain't my bro, I don't under That's not how it starts,
not how when it started from this are from now?
What was? It helped me? Please? It wasn't. It was
something like I don't know. They was on live and
once they started arguing, then he came and was just like,
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you know, that wasn't my girl. That wasn't like yeah.
She tried to throw him out there like she was
acting like he was doing her bad, and he was like, man,
you're not. We're not like that, and she got an
attitude because we're not like that Okay, Look, regardless of
however it happened, and whatever happened, I still feel like
whatever whatever transpired with that kind of yeah with his
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you know why because I'm telling you it's the same
bitch nigga ever ship. Y'all literally are fucked up socide
this at a fucked up place. It was a nigga
argue with me on Twitter, and I wouldn't argue with him.
He was arguing with me. He was like, you need
to tell me you think Drake got all that money
he won't get something done to a nigga. I'm like,
so he got money and he's a gangster. Now, I
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don't agree with that. I do not see Drake as
nowhere near as against it. He literally just has a
song right now where he's singing to a dude like
his homie, saying like, uh I would kill for Nick
or whatever. I don't know his lyrics, but literally I
was listening to that up here, like what the fun
is going on? So there's no way I would believe
that he was. I think Drake really got on explaining
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y'all sentiments, black women's sentiments. He became like y'all Mary
J Block, no, no, like he really became. And then
I was like dad with the white woman that ship,
I was like that kind of that was just like
he used all the game. Now he wouldn't even to
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the man telling you all this ship for everybody, not
even from he like I an't even from United States.
I'm not even that nigger got a knife the dadder
in his face because in England ain't no gun. They
they stabbed each other all the time. That's why you
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got that knife right there, stablished it out of each other.
They gangster on another level. That's why I won't never
say nothing about twenty one and them gangster them they
could be stabbing each other. You're a different nigga. If
you're stabbing, Shooting the nigga is easy, Like it's only
tough the first two times. Stabbing the nigga, that's tough.
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That's personal and ship everything. You know. I'm generation the
old nigga stabbing in your eyes. It shouldn't be looking
in your eyes while that's a nigge the see, that's
what I was thinking. That's why I didn't want that
guy to get close to me, because I was thinking
he can stab me. But that's what I'll be worried
about whack whack, be fu get your ass. Stabbed one
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for sure, stabbing nigg He looked like his that haircut.
He ain't no joke, no sailings classes malon, what's handing?
What's going on? What's handing? Kind of bird don't fly,
brick kind of bird, don't fly jail bird. Oh my god,
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bread fresh out? Hey, I'm fresh out man. I don't
never first out of jail California dreaming. Oh my god,
how was that when you start? We ain't for to
keep talking about this, but how was the first step
side of jail? I ain't never going back. You step
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up like your chests out like I was cold as
fucking I was like my girl too. I'm sure. I'm
for sure you were throwing the women were women cold?
For sure? They rubbed their arms. What are you warming up?
Because for sure our body are warming orange up all
on your body because they don't feel that colde at
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the bottom. It's right, you know what I'm saying, Like,
that's nothing like watching the woman go through something because
it don't matter if it's hot the cold outside's gonna
rub her arms. Yeah, I was doing that's comfort. Hurry up.
It took that uber longest time to come to man
as the longest wait in my mind. I just wanted
to get away. Ober. Just think before Uber, I started
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to walk down the street because I didn't even want
to be right there. Yeah, like they might come back
and get me, give me my I d back going
there for ship. Wait right, Wait, so you left your
ID they take it from you? They took it. Oh
so you didn't get she was gonna slit your wrist
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with it. No, they know this. The straps on my
legs to take your ship because they know nigga's like,
you're gonna hang there still out. Yeah, she was gonna
get gangster British gangster. Nick. I just don't let people
fuck with me. But so back to the point I
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was saying, I digress right, like black women being used consistently,
and I noticed that's becoming like the game plan all
the time everybody uses black women. I'll be seeing niggas
who I know for sure don't with black women, be like, yeah,
you know, we gotta stand up for our black women.
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Like how do y'all even buy that? Who do y'all
really think is for black women? Like as two sisters
like like everybody uses y'all this marketing, right, y'all just
become marketing targets, right. Uh. The Democrats use y'all like
that white lady said she had hot sauce in their bag.
Like I didn't even say. Nobody ever taught the black men,
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but they taught the black women. I just wanted to
know how y'all feel about that, like Drake pretty much y'all.
Kanye and Drake, y'all built both of them up. Makes
that both of y'all lass in the back at the end. Damn,
Kanye told you all to hold It wasn't really like
like that's what I was going to say, Like I
really think that for sure. I was. I was, you know,
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I'm like he's saying to me like he just understood, Yeah,
like he understood as a rapper like who I would think.
But later he started hear me it. I mean just
just just even as a rapper, like somebody like Drake
who pretty much dated like black women. And now you
wouldn't catch him dead with his sister over the day
like old tennis player. It is, though I've seen him,
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I haven't seen him with no Nick used to be
he said, what's your name? You'll be talking about Drake,
right yeah? Um, I no, no, Serena, but he haven't
known Serena. Husband called Serena's roupy me because I remember
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because used to be at her tennis match. I remember
that he called. Yeah he did, he'd be real messy.
I just said he was bored. See y'all and this
is your problem, y'all thought Drake spoke for y'all. I
don't think we talked. No spoke for us. Well, she's
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a fan, because he didn't. He didn't speak to you.
He spoke for you. He pretty much all his sentiments y'all.
Y'all feel like those were y'all sentiments. Even if you
listen to that new song where he'd be like, I'm
losing friends finding piece. That's some that's some woman. It
was when we were kidding called bitches and hose and ship.
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He slid in there and started singing to us and ship.
We was getting called every other thing in the around
the way, in around the corner. So he slid in
with that like this is what y'all need. And that's
y'all problem, because y'all could be so manipulation, but the
build us up, and that's the problem. You don't deserve
to be built. That's why we queens around here. You
gotta better recognize. So let me tell you why that
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came across crazy. So I'm gonna break down. You stop
putting yourself on pedestals. You cannot stand up there. You
don't have the balance. That's the problem. You should start
down here with the rest of us. Because when you
put yourself on a pedestal, that's why you get a
nigga like Drake, because you, right, Drake slid in like
that nigga. Right, So when you and your you and
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your nigga be going through something, right, that one nigga
who'll be sliding in. That nigga is never a good
think about Adam and even fit Adam and Eve. Adam
and Eve like God. Adam and Eve is like God,
like his bit right his old lady. So he tell
him like they don't funk with the food on this tree.
This is not cool. And then that side nigga come
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in and be like, man, that nigga just really hay
want you to taste them. If you was with me,
I'll let you, man, and then we bring every time
and then suck because then right after it's like you
look at him like, damn, you are the devil because
it's the smooth devil. Bro No, not like that, but
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he really is a savage. And it's funny because the
niggas who you think like that called you bitches. Them
niggas is all married like snoop, This nigg had been
married for like fifty years, right, nigga Like Drake ain't
gonna do nothing with no sister. He ain't getting none
of y'all. We was talking about. Dad said wow, this
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is I mean, once he had the baby, and I'm
like okay, wow, like wow, Sargana was just like okay,
I'm I'm good on Drake. I really was just like
not because it was just like I just was really
like what no, you did because you would have thought
it was like dang, really think about it. Think about
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it though. She wasn't she like a porn start to yeah,
like a horn a white hole. I'm like, wow, that's so.
I'm now I'm not saying nothing bad about Drake. See
the thing is when y'all look at the rough edges
of black men and the men that come from your communities,
they just be rough on the outside because they've been
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through something with treacherous women. Y'all know how some girls get.
So that'll make me and it's like scrappy, y'all. He
was crying talking about what he had went through and
everything look scrappy from up scrap. He was talking to
his mom, mamadeed talking about how he grew up in
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the um, in the crack. His mama was a pimp,
and he was saying, so I had to deal with um,
watching people do dope, people coming in and out of
the house, Like I can't even sleep in another room.
I sleep with my mom because somebody else in there,
like you know. And it was really like damn, you know,
because like he said, he said, I can't go to
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band because shell hard. I can't go to you because
you hard. But you but when you've been raising ship
like that, you be hard, and then it sucks because
niggas be like why are you so? Like I didn't
been through a lot. But so he was really just
breaking down like I never like he was breaking down
what he has to deal with from his childhood and
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his experience, and he was really he was emotional about it,
you know. Yeah, but but but yeah, that's my point.
So y'all be mad because somebody says the word bitch
or they feel like they talk crazy. Right, So you
look at that and you'd be like, oh, they mistreat
us and were queens, and how dare you eat not
knowing Kings really mistreat queens historically, like they have concubines
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and all kind of ships. Don't Nobody sunk with the queens.
Kings don't fuck with queens. So being a queen is
really a waste of time because don't nobody respect the queen,
not even the king. Remember the king always has side
os every one of them, stories about them, crack ass kings. Everyone,
they had concubines, they would sleep with slave, They were
choosing everybody over you, Right, So you mistake that roughness
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right of of of that black rapper and then a
guy like Drizzy slides in, Drake slides in, and you
like he's seeing all the right things, girl, Because that's
what I said, that's what we need. That, that's what
we need. Sound it really good because when you're so
used to be whether it's right or wrong, Like if
you're so used to hearing this all the time, what
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about maybe the fact that you were being possibly a
bit he came in. I mean, if he was you was,
why would you be mad at the rappers saying but
I mean even if he say that time, we still
gonna be where there wasn't a lot of that going on,
and never caught a woman a bitch. I love that
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he had this time. Everybody, all the ladies love Yeah.
But my point is I'm saying, so he came at
a time, right, just like in your real relationship where
you feel like it's tough, and he sled up in
there with that bullshit and he ruined your life. Now
he won't even look at you now. He really gonna
make you don't even like yourself. He talked, and what's crazy?
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Is he talking bad right now on a new album
that the honey tell me? He talking crazy to the host?
Oh no, he really don't care. That's why I saw
text her like, hey, what's up? What's up with your boy?
She said, how he bored? He ain't bored the real him. See,
the reality is all of us is like that. The
niggas who acted like they're not like that, that's not real.
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If you came from our background, even Drake, right, Drake
and came from our background. But Drake Drake is to me,
this is how I look at Drake right shout out
of Drinkey. Drake is a nigga who got the pretty
girls at school the whole time. You know what I mean,
the girls with the nice hair. Yeah, the pretty girl
that you know when he was in high school to
be the thin girl with the nice hair. She was
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a pretty cute girl. He ain't none of the sisters,
the one that was stick that everybody wanted. So when
he started rhyming, he started just running through them. Johnny
Blaze is the all the girls that is popular in
high school, that stick that was kind of probably fast whatever.
He just started running through them, and he realized he
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wasn't cut out for it, but he understood that he
had that appeal to them because he was speaking their language.
He studied them so bad and wanted y'all so bad
for me that he studied y'all and it was so
easy to manipulate y'all and mock y'all. He did, and
it got him into this business billions of dollars billions
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because y'all are so predictable. It sounds funked up. And
I don't mean it in a negative way, but everything
you'll do become so trendy, y'all following each other, you'll
do the exact same thing all the time. If one
start wearing our lashes, all start wearing out lashes. If
one start making baby here, all start making baby here.
So he could literally say one rap. Probably he could
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literally say one rap and and fit y'all and y'all
fight your whole life to be different. It's like y'all
all want to be like, oh I'm different. It's like
you all do the same exact thing. I mean, he
just came through with that like thing you are not
ever wanted to. Yeah, it was going the best I've
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ever had knowing that's a lie. That was And it
was dope though with like because when he was in
a relationship with couples, everything like it wasn't just women
like we were singing it, but it was like it
was very like sentiment. There's no niggas that love Drake.
There's lots of no no nigga love Drake. Hey, they
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was on Drake at that time when he had came
out like y'all, y you're a man, where I said,
y'all black men was never on that. Only niggas who
were squares Drake. It's a lot of squares because point,
that's what I'm saying, because they the same dude. These
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dudes in real life, y'all wouldn't even give no play
too in real life is a corn ball. I think
if Asia meant real life, zero zero play, and she
would have talked to that nigga two days, she would
have gave some play. Though that's not the point she
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would give anybody playing theory. That's not in theory. I
would not give anybody. So what's the corn is? Maybe
you ever dated um corny ship, a nigger who make
bad white jokes, because that's Drake, a white guy, oh,
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a corny nigga. Okay, not a white white guy. White
people can't be corny because they white people. White people
cannot be corny because the white white people are corny.
They on colde. I yes, I dated he was the
corny ist, and you just loved him to death. No
you didn't. I didn't. I don't know what you're talking about.
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We but I date Actually I dated him for a while,
but I really was like doing all kinds of ship.
You did not it drove me crazy. I don't believe
most of these sisters with David person like Drake Nigga.
Drake was wrapping his first album with a glove on
us to be on stage with a glove one glove
like this is my point, Like, I'm not This is
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not an anti trade conversation. This is a really worried
about black women conversations and their ability to be not
everybody is going to talk to somebody like Drake, like
you know what, most people not Serena like yeah, I
mean because it would be hard for Drake to put
you on your place. You probably think you could be
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Drake up. I don't know. Drake got like could you
know he comes through like he something? If you was
dating Drake and y'all got some argument, you think this
NI gonna turn around and be like get you or
something like that or something crazy the way this album
is going. Yeah, I think that he probably would. I
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was about to say you like, fuck you glasses think
square up? What on up? No? That ain't his down,
damn Okay, See, I don't know. I I'm just saying
I'm thinking. I just think that y'all flying situations where
y'all play the victim all the time. And then like
your favorite entertainers are always people that make y'all the victim,
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Like Mary J. Blige, she always is the victim. I
was just bumping her on the way over here. Didn't
been through a lot exactly. And it's never at fault.
You don't have one song typ about how she's a
raggedy woman. Wow, why would she? Why would she have
a song saying she's a raggedy woman? So you can't
go and not be raggedy. Eventually, some eventually some of
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the blame to you be something else but not raggedy,
broky doctors, singers, singers, dancers, everything. I just knew about it. Eventually,
it ain't her fault, like you don't have no accountability.
She might you don't know what she says behind because
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why she don't sing the songs? But I did that
nigga bad, I cheated only I wasn't. I didn't cook.
Why you don't never have women that I should? Well you,
I would you want me do a song? My point is,
are you raggedy? No? But do you want me to
do a song? Is there a celebrity woman that's raggedy
that y'all know the celebrity woman that's ragged women. We're
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just not gonna say nothing negative about women, don't you
do to it? But I could think of a raggedy
um man. I bet you could. And he has a penis.
I bet you can. Sure you can think of that nigga.
I'm actually think of somebody raggedy would have vagina that
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you could feel honest, you'd like, you know what that
motherfucker is raggedy? Like, why is it? Mary J Blige
could sing a thousand songs about niggas doing something wrong
and she ain't got one song about her doing her
doing some ship. Then I could say, yeah, she was raggedy.
But I'm just going if I'm going off for just
some songs and I don't know as a victim, maybe
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she's going to victim on her life. How you know?
Come on now, you don't know that, Come on now,
you don't know that it's Mary Jacky J blu Let's
keep it to being. Mary J. Blige looked way better
now that she ever did. I said, Mary, Mary did
not look like super shop. When I was young, Mary
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was like super rough, Like I thought, you fight Mary J.
Blige when I was younger now, Mary J. Blige, Like
she didn't. She actually is getting cute, like she aging
like wine, her ship getting better and better. So you
mean to tell me, ain't no nigga sticking around? Maybe
she don't want it? I mean relationships? How long she
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was married for a while, like two days? Now she
was married for three days. That was not three days.
It wasn't that much time she was with that man
for a minute. Come on now, Mary J. Blige, I'm
just asking you a question. When do you ever start
to analyze maybe the pedestal you're asking for is not
one worthy of you? Like what if I told you
that no woman is worthy of a pedestal? Do you
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think that I'm sure, no pedestal? Wow? Really yeah, no
human being is worthy of a pedestal. But sure you
because you're black woman, you put us up there. You
don't have to be because you understand what the pedestal
really looked like, and like figuratively speaking, like it's up there,
it's very little you know, error, there's very little you know,
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ship for mistakes, like it's really close so soon as
I mean, no one, Yeah, nobody's perfect, and why would
you want to be on the pedestal, things that belong
on the pedestal, things that don't come down highly. Why
should a motherfucker think highly of you because I would
love for you to. Why not? Why? Why do you
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want those expectations? Do you want to walk around and say,
I want you to think I'm raggy? You know what?
You know, it's a huge spectrum, it's a huge, great area.
But why you gotta be in the great area, just
like why can't you just say, okay, I think highly
of you? Why why he just doesn't want? Why not
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do I think highly of any woman highly? Okay? Well
he said any thing about highly? Yes, I don't know
if I think highly. I mean I think kyllie of
no man neither like I think highly of niggas and
Pacific like dre like if dre engineering, and I'll be like, man,
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nigga cold. But then he might like to slap a
bit or something. I can't he tripping me. So I
look at every human being as even the greatest ones.
Fore me, I'll be like, well, you did do this bullshit,
so you ain't that special. But that sometimes so what's
the point of wanting that? Like that's my point? So
somebody I think it's better to be. I mean, I
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never went into a relationship with expectations, at least I
didn't think I had, because it's like I don't know.
I just do if I'm doing something for you or
where I'm doing this because I want to, not because
I'm expecting it and I don't know. I guess, like
you said, not having expectations like doesn't um you're not
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let down, you know. So I didn't know. Maybe it
was because of that, but it was just like ship
like I'm not expecting you to do this, but then
then you get oh, you're a hard woman, like you
want to do everything or you do this. Those two don't.
That's not what they quite mean. I'm just saying him
think that, not that the expectations. No, it's like I'm saying,
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like I don't expect Okay, you know how we talk
about like the trash or things like that. Yeah, when
I'm in it, nobody's gonna call you a hard woman
because you take the trash out. No, but they do
be like you. I can't. I'm use that as an example,
but say like getting your car repaired or not coming
to them for certain things or just really. I guess
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they feel like you don't need them. But it's just
I'm not expecting anything from sure, and that's great, But
I don't think they would say your hard because you
do that first, right, they would have no problem with then,
you know, like, okay, look, if you need this, tell
me next time. And I got you a real man.
But I've been with men that really was like, that's
not that. That's not because they wasn't real man. They
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just wasn't your real man. Okay, somebody real man. They
changed somebody for you, just not yours. He is he
he's just so nice to men. You just you are.
I'm not putting. I'm just telling you women, like all
women ain't bad, they just might be bad to you.
Always tell my partners that like some women is bad
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to everybody except that nigger. It's that always that one
man that he not she not bad too, but she
might be bad and dispectful to all the rest of them.
You're just not that guy. That's what I'm saying. It's
not I don't put men or women on a pedestal.
I just think that human beings in general. Thinking highly
of people is pretty much a horrible idea. Like, if
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you think you know levelheaded of people, you're being a
much better space. Right, So I spend my time putting
people in obtainable situations. It's like, okay, what kind of
obtainable real obtainable realities? And then if they exceed and
it's like oh wow, you're at that she falls short,
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I'm like, oh, dare go give it? Expectations are really
a different kind of burden. So, like, if you want
somebody to think highly of you, like, what what about
you is highly to think of? I understand want you
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to think, No, I'm not you mean in a relationship? Yes,
I don't mean it like that. What I mean is,
you know, what do you think you as a human being?
Let me you want to get another answer, okay, let
me get something better for it. Um, when you're in
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a relationship, right, what do you think you do exceptionally well? Oh, okay,
that's a good question, cousin, I do exceptionally well, yes,
that's far is in a relationship would you be like, man,
you know what? They can't do this like me? And
most of the time when women think it would be
something pretty much for sure that I think that there's
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always no first off I don't never not saying I'm
just saying so, but you're asking me something like I don't.
I don't go into nothing like that because there's always
somebody that can do those things or maybe even better.
I think for me, I just I'm a selfless person.
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So for me, like I'm just, I just cater like
I'm just it's hard to explain, like I'm just I
just always I always put my due like I don't
want to say highly because you but I just always
think of him and the things that will make him
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happy or like um, like the things that I can
improve on. And only reason why I'm saying this and
this is not I don't know bullshit. This is real
ship because I had a problem with conforming and being
in the relationship for a very long time. You could
ask her like I just I just this is this
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is a new me. Hey, we're being real, right, So
this is real me. So for now for me now,
I'm actually but I'm going all in like I'm it's
all You're getting all of me like I'm shit. It's
it's hard. It's hard. It is because I've always had
always not selfish. It's not selfish. I always did you're
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not understanding what I'm saying. Like I'm always I've always
done ship. I'nna be real. Yeah, you're right, it is selfish.
You're right on it. I always said, I know you
know how you think about it later when somebody say
some ship like I was, I didn't give a fuck,
like literally, if you didn't, if you did not, if
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you couldn't get with whatever I was going through at
that point in time, I was not caring like it
was just by like I just was. Literally I zoned
out and I just put my career and my son
first and above anything, so your feelings did not matter.
I did not. Okay, well, if I couldn't, if you, hey,
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I can't. I don't even have explain it. That is
just ran through and ruin. No, I didn't ruin anyone
with that mentality. You don't think you ruined men. I've
probably heard of broke a couple hearts, but I'm not.
I'm not happy about it. I'm not happy about it.
I can't get right. That's why I can get ready
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because I'm getting ready. No, not you, that's why they
can't get ready. Excuse me? No, yeah, right, you know
what's funny some of the most important people. My dad
told me a crazy story. My dad explained to me
the reason he was so tough with women. He felt
like he needed to be a player. I thought my
dad was like the super like like just a player.
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Like I thought that nigger he got his feelings hurt
when he was twenty one years old and didn't let
it go for forty years. And that is really real.
That happens to a lot of men. Like it's not
just men, it's women, because that's what happened to me,
Like he said, somebody came in my whole life, and
then I was just like, you know what, I don't
even hear no more. I'm about to do me. And
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it wasn't about dudes. It wasn't about just dating. It
was just like that dudes in your life and ruin
their life. No, I didn't know. Now she really wouldn't
let him in her I wouldn't let them in my life.
Did you get him some pussy? Then you let him
in your life? But you know what the hell I
need that? And that's the thing too, Like it's a
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lack of accountability, Like you don't get it, and that's
the point, Like how do I say this without sounding up.
It's just selfish what I'm saying, Like, I know you
take that pain and then you're like, well, I'm gonna
use this pain and now I'm gonna deal with everybody
this way. No, it wasn't. I didn't say it. She
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didn't deal with it. I just didn't you with it.
I just literally she was giving something some pussy. She
thought she might have liked them, but she always went
back to that nigger who did that ship to her. No,
I didn't. Whenever something happened, he went back in your
head like okay, I liked them, and I can agree
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to that. Like, no, it was it was hard. Like
you guys understand that ship was fucking hard. Like you
don't think that nobody else been through that. I never
said that. I'm talking about myself. I never speak about
anyone else's ship my own. But that's my point. We
all go through ship. Okay. I get that, and and
I had to learn, like, okay, that's it's not okay.
You need to be, like you said, held yourself accountable
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and just say you know what you want different. So
because I want different, I am different. So I give
myself wholeheartedly now to my do like I talked to
him about a lot of shipping before. I want to
tell no, a dude, barely nothing. You wouldn't getting too
much out of me about nothing. I'd be like, I
just really will just be like, what's wrong with you? Know?
(37:11):
Nothing about my feelings was hurt? I can I'm sorry.
Man was savage? I remember? But it's not. You know,
you don't want to live like that. Everybody wants someone
that they want to grow with or whatever, like you don't.
Why do you really want somebody to grow? I want
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to compare in I want to. I want to. It
gets lonely when you get the kids are gonna leave.
Feel me, it's cold outside right now when I want
to go home and cut the us to be able
to talk to somebody and be able to share those
mon friends. And you think about my grandparents and how
they just they have their things. That ship was dope, like,
(37:52):
I don't want to. I want to be like these bodies.
So like my grandmother right now, she's not being. No,
we ain't doing that. I ain't doing that. I'm probably
gonna play being because that's fun. But two, don't nobody
want to go what what I don't know, you don't
nobody want to be that's my thing. Like, but I mean,
(38:16):
if you got to do what, she ain't gonna be
single at eighty two. Yeah, but I don't think that
no one else would do that. But I do, you
know what I mean, Like there's always someone out there
trying to take your spot. I don't know if they're
trying to take your but no, there's something you know
(38:38):
what you know, you've been talking a lot of ship
like yeah, like you're trying to do it like nicely
and kind of like like like iron is. I swear
to god, I don't know what you're really talking about.
I really don't talk ship. I'll be there. I'm not
talking like everything I'm saying is the truth because I
(38:59):
know Brick. I know. I never had to sit back
and tell me her life. I could tell Britt was
a selfish, litle asshole when I met, not to me
because we wasn't dating guys and I don't even really interact.
And you don't think that glasses would notice that, like
she'd been through something like that's why she acts like that.
So I'm not talking. I've never said a negative about
(39:20):
Bread never in life. Never said nothing negative about bread
pretty much no woman like I will inform people of
the dishes the facts feel me about this person, but
I will tell you where I went wrong. I won't
never say, like, if I dated somebody, I won't be like,
oh it was them, I'd be like, this is where
I was at in my mind. I don't even talk
about that person. So what seems like I'm talking ship
(39:43):
is more or less just showing you a mirror that
I was like, wait a minute, you don't see this
right here. You definitely have to lick yourself in. Man,
he said, don't nobody wants your spot? Nobody wants your spot.
I don't listen. Don't nobody so like? So right? You
think ladies want to actually be with me? Man, I
don't believe that. Yeah, it's ladies that want me. Do
(40:08):
I think I really believe that? Man, that ship a
fleeing feeling. I'm not saying, cut your motherfucking ship on
it off. Man, you can't thank them much. It ain't
you think it's a dude broad that won't your spot.
I don't nobody want to be up in that motherfucker
cooking and cleaning for nobody if they would they be
in a relationship. No, nobody won't your spot. See the
(40:28):
reality is they don't they want your spot. People think
they want your spot, don't. Nobody wanted to deal with
the ship the nigger deal with a nobody deal with
a relationship. Come on, man, that ship is fucked up.
It is not. It's not you know what, You're gonna
find a lot of ship. It's but it's cool, it's nice.
(40:52):
It's better. You're not lying. It was rough. It's who
want to be cooking for somebody every day? If you
thought it, if another lady looking at you, nigga, you
think she could be cooking for some other nigga, She
ain't want to cook for your nigga. People who cook cook,
(41:15):
So if somebody nine almost wind cook for you and
she'd be cooking for somebody already, she let her go,
then she don't want She ain't cooking for this nigga
and unhappy, and she wants your nigga and cooked folk too.
That ain't hot work. You usually only start cooking for
the nigga you fucking with, or the nigga you think
you like. You're not cooking for all these niggas. You're
(41:37):
not suing the cooking the phone, you'll give your pussy
what for? You give? Read your recipe? Now how it
sounds I'm saying. It sounds like I'm talking like that's
a woman will give you some pussy for They will
cook for you. Brother. That's the truth. Because it's crazy
(42:00):
because every week, right after we get off the podcast,
like I'll be talking to like the honker or something,
and I'd be like, Okay, yeah, so you can't you
can't fuck him, or you can't do this or like
you know what I'm saying, like no, like why are
you I'll just be like why why are you wasting
your time? Like for what? So I'd be like, damn,
(42:22):
you have gave more pussy everybody you might have gave
pussy too. You wouldn't even kiss you, understand how Like
think about so it sound sound saying ship, but this
is think about how fucked up we as? Then that
too much? But that had happened everybody guys pussy to you,
kiss you a damn loud no, no, no, I said
it didn't happen too much. You know, I know I'm
(42:45):
just saying. I'm saying, for sure, if everybody you knocked
down your kiss. No, some people you wouldn't even kiss you.
I ain't kissing her really. Yeah, I don't think I've
ever outright saying like I it kiss and then gave
him something. But man, I guess they do that. Nine
(43:06):
out of ten women I've slept with, I would never kiss.
Why would I kiss them? That might she might confuse
and really think I like her. That's why you kiss somebody,
you probably like them. Okay, that makes sense. Kissing is
like intimate, like you really gotta funk with somebody to kiss,
because I was I don't want to kiss everybody. But yeah,
(43:34):
so it's sound fucked up, but that's just the reality
of it. So again, sometimes you'll be thinking I'm talking.
I'm never talking like. I never say something to put
women or human beings. Damn. I just try to make
sure you understand where you're at now. At times, if
you put yourself on the pedestal and I talk, it
(43:55):
can make you actually come down the pig. But it's
not that this because you was never up there in
the first place that Nigga was lying to you. Drake
was lying to you. You actually is a bit right now.
I'm not saying you're a bit like, Oh, your whole life,
you you'll be doing some bullshit. That's bit ship, so
use a bit so drake. Putting you up there lining
(44:16):
to you is not making it better. He's not coming
through to help you. See, he's actually just saying what
you want to hear like sounds like that, and that's
never a good nigga. Historically, that's never a good nigga.
It's always usually the worst nigga you'll ever come across
in your fucking life. That nigga that'd be waiting, he
(44:39):
looking even like I can't wait for that nigga to
make that mistake shot like he your friend and y'all
keep that nigga around, you can't cap that he'd be
trying to judge your whole relationship from the side, waiting
for his opportunity to slide in. First off, this is
how I look at it. If that nigga can't make
it work for you off a show king, that nigga
that's in it, he with you every day and can't
(45:01):
make it work because women a lot to you, because
they will make you feel like, oh, this nigga just
on some bushes like nah, you know, on some bushing
you not being honest somewhere, you're not obeying the law,
the law, whatever that person think is wonderful. You're not doing.
They're just not seeing no never because it ain't it ainybody,
(45:24):
because you can't. You really shouldn't see that. I with
no think in the first place. I mean agree, you know, like,
should always make a nigga thank you're looking up at him,
even when you're looking down. Should always make you think.
Should always make a nigga think you're looking up at
him even when you're looking down at him. See that's
where y'all just fall short. Y'all don't get that one
(45:44):
simple thing to make a man's ego spectacular, regardless even
if you control it. Women are smarter than me, hands damn.
But y'all spend so much goddamn time trying to prove
it or trying to talk to everybody like they stupid.
That that's the dumbest shit you do. It never works,
(46:05):
you know what I'm saying. Y'all always talk to much
like they stupid everybody. Yes you do, yes you do,
Yes you do. I bet you every nigger that you
And I'm not a mean person, but sometimes the ship
that comes out of my mouth because you're smarter. Because
you're smarter than us, that's why. But the part of
me is a very smart person also understands they can
(46:27):
read the room. And that's where y'all fall short. That
y'all the worst at reading the room. Y'all walk in
and just be like, now, you're actually horrible at it.
I'm pretty good at it now, which means you actually
have got closer than how far you was in the
first place. He said, you're still not there yet. I'm
probably not there yet, but I'm getting away. Because women
will never be great at reading the room. It's not
(46:49):
your nature. Like you kind of didn't got consumed believing
you were the room. No, that's not. Yes, every every
time something happened, because the first thing you said is
why did you do this to me? If a nigga cheap,
why did you do this to me? That's the problem.
He didn't do this to you. He did that to her.
Everything about it because about you, because you are the room.
I don't just say it's nothing, it's him. But my
(47:16):
question is, like, that's a problem. Example, what's wrong with you?
What would be wrong with puss? Nothing is wrong with him.
You knew why he did it, So why do y'all
ask the crazy ass god god like questions? Y'all's questions
that God would ask a nigga like at the pearly gates?
(47:38):
Why did you do that? Why are you asking me
that God? You know I did that? Women ask questions
because that God will ask you the day you die
to decide if you're gonna get in heaven, like he
already know the answer to the question asking you to
see if like you just gonna like you ask questions
too bad? No, you don't. You don't really why you
(47:58):
think that nigga cheated? I mean, just give me idea.
Let's say, any nigga because he was horny wanted to.
Some people just do it because they want to do it.
So then why would you ask nigga why did he
do it? You just want to know? No, you don't
you know already that's some godship. Oh I just want
(48:19):
to know. Know you already know, bro? You know you
know I don't know, So why I asked why did that?
The first day? Question? Why did you do this? I mean,
I gott to revisit this now that you know? So
what if she says, why did you do this to us.
They didn't do nothing to you or us. He did.
(48:40):
She might be asking why you us because she's like,
I'm done. These are all rhetorical questions to create more
controversy and problems. No question is ever right. No, the
question is that it's not no question, it's right. I'm
saying you tend to ask questions that you know gonna
create more problems. I guess more talking. I guess. I
(49:02):
want to know. Just tell me what I want to know.
You know the answer already. M What do you think
why would the niggas sleep with somebody else? Already? Right?
I mean it's other situations where it could be something else.
But for example, maybe they're not getting any at home.
That's not that's not why you cheat. But it's not
(49:26):
why you cheat because you're not having sex at home. Okay,
good's not um and nigga and and see it is
it's gonna beniggas who listen to podcast. But you know
it's not. It's not nigging. It's not why you cheat
nigga because they that's not. Well, it's an outstanding I'm
(49:46):
being honest, because it's outstanding. You feel so special about
yourself when someone to give you some pussy, you really
think you are special, You'll be like, damn, she giveting
me some pussy, I must be special. It ain't. See
the way you be yourself from cheating is you realize
that she ain't special giving you no pussy like you're
not special. It's just your turn. Once you understand that
(50:08):
about women, man, I swear to God, you will have
less problems in life. But if you really think you
special because she gave you some pussy like ninety nine
point nine percent of men do for me, You're gonna
have problems for the rest of your life. I'm not
special because this girl want to give me some pussy.
She gave everybody some pussy. What about the last twelve niggas?
All right special getting lighter and lighter every day. What
if it's been thirty niggas, I'm especialist. Thirty niggas that's
(50:33):
not special at all. Feel me like, how special are you?
I mean you just a step up from a prostitute
at that point prot to just pa that's who dude,
because you'll be thinking you special because she gave you
some pussy. Ship and charge you or you special? Whatever
you think you think you special when it's like you're
(50:54):
not special. Bro, Damn you know when you special? You
when a woman want to cook for you? See the
white we treat pussy. We need to treat a woman
cooking for you. That's what I tell niggas all the time.
She cooked for you. No, she don't really funk with
you like that where she'll not a funk with a
man for real. But okay, so what does that mean
(51:16):
If a guy does it, he's trying to get some
pussy trying if the guy doesn't cook, if you think
want to cook for his old lady, I don't know.
Some people I don't know. I'm asking the question. I'm saying,
that's the point when a woman to the merchandise, right in,
the merchandise is never the pussy they didn't already get
(51:38):
that merchant. That merchandise use gift that keep on giving.
But trust me, most women, No, it's sound funked up,
but it's real. Most women thirty to forty, they have
slept with more men than they've cooked for a lot
more men. Yeah, I can't see that you're gonna be
(51:58):
at the count on a couple of hands as how
many niggas you cooked for that nick special. You don't
sit over the store if they've been in relationships. Oh
well no, because they weren't. If they were all the niggas.
I don't know think about that. I mean niggas you
cooked for, because I was just thinking about the how
many niggas you actually cook for in your life. You
ain't cooked for that many niggers. It's gonna get real thin. Well, hold, nigga,
(52:22):
I'm not gonna be cooking for you. Niggas. Cook niggas,
all the niggas come through. I'm a cook fan, was
cooking cod. But that's because very few cooking. But you
like me saying like, come through, make you a meal.
(52:45):
You really gotta like a nigga. You really got we
already done cooks already have my chicken out, nigga. You
might have came through and got a plate. But I'm
saying he's saying, like you, I'm cooking for you. Come over.
I'm gonna come cook. Yeah, yeah, yeah, because yeah, I'm
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gonna cook. At least at least four times we got cooked.
So but that's just because I like to cook. Yeah,
but I'm not saying you cooked in the nigga come
to get a plate, which that ain't that's what I'm saying.
She got kids exactly, but that's she's saying she hasn't.
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That don't really count to a flat. He cook for
your kids and then you get some of that nigga
food that's actually not cool. That's the wrong. You already
eat the kids snacks and ship God damn brom. But
I'm just saying, women traditionally have slept with more men
than they've cooked for from our communities. That's why the
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rappers talk the way they talk. It's not there. It's
not because they just want to be demeaning to sisters.
It's not. It's because their experience. It's too traumatized people
trying to make some kind of thing work. That really
is tough because for me, they've both been through some ship.
So you got women trying to use niggas for everything
they got, and that be nigga's first experience. Some girl
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that's choosing another nigga or trying to get something from you.
That's why Rapp come with the word bitch early on.
It ain't because women are these outstanding citizens and nigga's
just like y'all. Sound like them. People who will be
talking about gangs rapping, like, oh, you know, gangs wrapped ruined.
The world's like, not the ship that they're rapping about,
that's really happened in the rappers men say bitch right
(54:32):
because they've been through experience with bitches. It ain't like
they been with amazing women and they just used the
turn bitch like it was just the most amazing woman,
like yeah, bitch, yeah, bitch. Good looking out for tuning
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