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December 27, 2022 51 mins

Glasses Malone accompanied by Aja and Britt discuss the philosophy of being an older woman dating a younger man aka Cougar. They unpack if being a cougar sustainable in the short or long term, the expectations that may or may not come with it and ponder if there's a double standard when comes to cougars and sugar daddies. 

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Sinners Podcast with your host. Now funk that with your
low glasses. Malone, He's good. The simple made strawberry, the lime.

(00:24):
The blueberry tastes good, especially with tequila. Um, Tequila don't
really taste good. You know what. Actually some tequila like
it does tastes good. Like it does. It gives it
like a little like kick to the lemonade. Tequila tastes
good with juice. It does. Juice tastes good. That's tequila

(00:45):
tastes good. No, but the lemonade. Okay, So I don't
usually drink petrone because I had like my patrone days, right,
So I got some patrone this weekend, and so I
was like, okay, let me mix it with this lemonade.
And so I mix it with the I'm like, this
tastes good. It was. It was good. It has like
a different The patron does have a different They have

(01:06):
a different It has a different taste than like because
I had Don Julio like the other weekend. So like,
I'm weekend tequila tastes bad. Maybe to you. I've never
tasted tequilla chill tequila depending it does, but not all
chill tequila, not all. So y'all lined that tequila tastes

(01:28):
y'all saying liquor tastes good. We said tequila liquor. Some
liquor tastes good, but cards like rum tastes good. It
tastes rum tastes good. You want to try, you can't
even because you don't even know how anything tastes right now.
So I don't even know. I just think it's a
part of enough people to understand that it's a part

(01:48):
of this big lie where everybody just lie for some
reason and just be lying, like how wealthy black people
lie by how much money they make. It's just lies
that the black community seem to just tell some know
some liquor. Liquor does not taste good. Rum is sweet,
and it tastes good. It tastes sweeter than other liquors.
But favor it's good. You mean it's flavored with other

(02:11):
things that taste no matter, it's still liquor taste good
on the core. Liquor. Yeah, that's so desperate. Whatever, man,
Hey man, you don't want to drink it, it's fine.
We like it tastes good to us. You got some

(02:33):
in here, somewhere. Hey, I'm not I'm not driving. Why
is that what you got from that? Because you're saying
it's not how you got whatever? What are you talking
about it? I don't why you haven't really realized at
this point, I realized it, trust me. I told you, wait, wait,

(02:57):
what are you saying? The lesson in the d D
Y was because really, it's not to drink and drive,
Like is not to drink. Oh, it's not to drink
and dry. To be honest, I really just think that
it's just silly that y'all sit around and poison yourself
that fun like you poison yourself for a certain amount
of time right where it sits around. It throws off

(03:17):
your i Q with throws off your equilibrium. Somehow you're
trying to convince somebody that you're having fun. Fucking retarded.
It be fun sometimes? What else is spin around the circle?
That's not fun? Around the circle? Just start walking around.
That's not fun. That's like being drunk. No, it's not.
But I don't think to get drunk. I don't drink.

(03:39):
I can tell you why because I always look at
y'all and you walk like you dizzy. Be that that
girl I've it has happened when I was younger, but
as a grown woman. No, I don't drink what you
ain't grown enough to be grown to be. Listen, I
am grown grown, but you ain't. You ain't that far

(04:01):
enough to where you should be talking about when I
was a young woman. Oh, yes, yes I am. I
can hope. We got one. We got another one coming.
We're gonna share this one, y'all. Just a hype. We're
a good height, y'all. Just know, because it's just one day.
I want you to just be so honest. And what
I'm trying to do with y'all, like the whole point

(04:22):
of no ceilings, outside of exploring these caves of conversation
with the community, is also to get y'all to actually
be real for one day in your life. Oh my gosh,
A lighter thank you. But if you really think about it,
that's what drinking all is. When somebody poisoning theirselfs poisoning

(04:44):
their bloodstream, thinning it out right to be lightheaded, and
the observe of all the sugar. So it's it's a
combination of being dehydrated in dizzy. I don't know about dizzy,
but I definitely dehydrated. I know why I'd be like
some water. So it's like you're saying when you're saying
you want to drink, it's like I'm trying to poison myself.
And I still have yet to figure out quite a

(05:06):
real reason. Because people be like drink to happen. I
mean you can drink with I mean there's wine, sip wine,
and they don't have to be like not everybody drinks
like turn up. Why can't you just relax? Some people
just keep some time? You can't? How the fund can't
you relax? What do you mean do you relax all

(05:26):
the time when I want to? If I tell my
body to really it's my body. You mean to tell
me you need help to tell you it's just no,
it's just it helps. It's just you like poisoning yourself.
I like the feeling when I drink a glass of wine,
the way it makes me feel. You can't make yourself
feel like that, naturally I might be able to. But

(05:46):
the wine is good. It tastes good too. Hmm. It's okay, frogs,
it's okay. Sometimes we just carry your lives, Like why
do you date people younger than you? Um, what's that about?
Because I brought this conversation to you, like you you
dating somebody young? What does that really do for you

(06:08):
as a grown ass woman? Like you just grown grown
ass woman? I need a little last boy. No, no,
why a little very nice to say, because there's a
lot of younger men that are doing their ships. So
a lot of the men that's doing this ship a
lot of young younger men. Why are you coming out her? Like?

(06:29):
What are you talking about for me today? As you are?
You just said I'm praying you act like I'm aside, like, hey,
where the young is that? I don't want to nobody
if he ain't young, I'm not doing this. Said you
prefer younger men. No, I did not say that. I said,
I just pressed my hand up. When you said we're
gonna talk about cougars, I said, that's me. She didn't

(06:50):
say she prefers. That's her. Cougars prefer younger men. So
that thing, well, I know for her, she always gets
approached by younger guys. She's sure, okay, whatever, but that's
who she gets approached by. So that's who she ends up.
That's why I get approached by younger guys because I'm
short approach you. I don't know what do you mean?

(07:11):
Why what they approach because maybe they think that she's younger.
I don't just what are you making it about? Listen,
honestly don't know why they approached me. But whatever, it
is what it is. But um, do you prefer to
dating younger younger guys? I don't prefer it. I feel
like you like it though. I mean, it can be

(07:32):
funny if you get it. What do you get a
kick out of dating younger guys? How young? How young?
If somebody how many years? Okay? The youngest I've ever
dated that was younger than me was like nine years
younger than me. Really okay, I probably can't get right.

(07:56):
I was just thinking she it was only too. I
haven't dated that many younger guys, like I've had guys
on me that was. But as far as dating like
it is for sure for sure too. You mean like
in a relationship, you know, we're talking about just dating

(08:16):
and it was just just messing around or just talking
to him or something. Then they'd be on me, what's up? Grandma? Whoa?
They're really aggressive to us, Like, let me tell you, Okay,
the guy that I ended up with that. We actually
was in relationship and the first guy ever lived with
was younger than he was nine years younger than me.
And when I tell you this boy who he pressed me,

(08:36):
I was like, no, you're too young, like whatever. Whenever
he's like, what are you talking about? Like what the
funk I could do x y, I'm like no. I
I told him no so many times, so many times
he was cool and I like them Fine, yeah it
was hellicol And finally no he was he wasn't. My
son was like five years old when this happened. Stop

(09:00):
but that was pretty much how I went. But he
ended up. We ended up let him take me on
a date and it was bomb like, we had a
good time. What do y'all, God'll go to see just
a little? You date younger women. I date all women,
and I no not, I date all women. It's different.

(09:23):
I don't have a preference in women. I'm not. I'm
not prejudiced towards any woman. All women could be a woman,
older women. I don't have a preference. Okay, I don't
have a preference. I don't date. I don't like night
skinny girls and dark skinned girls. I don't like skinny
girls and thick girls. I like women owners. It's put

(09:44):
together the way they're supposed to be put together. Should
it works out for me, it's good. Okay, Yet it's
too strong, shout out. It's why I'm sorry. I had
a long day. So you know, it just comes out

(10:06):
no sailings, gl red, what's happening? Read what's happening. So
tell me about that day. I went to Tucky Cheese.
We just went to eat and we just had everything McDonald's.
And he went to the movies. No, he was not
not No, he was not cheap at all. He was

(10:29):
holding it hey something, he had this ship together, okay, right,
happy didn't play with the toy Listen. It was none
of that. So you're trying to make it like I'm
dealing with like little babies running around here. Not. No,
they're just a little bit younger time twenties and I wasn't.
I wasn't early thirties. I just I'm trying to figure

(10:55):
this out, like this whole pride thing. Like, so for guys,
I think God's day younger women be because they live
vicariously through the approval of younger women. So a man
that's forty five, I think he would get somebody that's
twenty because it makes him feel like he still got it.
What would be your reason? And to day somebody younger,
like I saw a lot of talking about. She was like,

(11:16):
oh the guy twenty one, And I'm like, live Live
is old enough to be somebody's grandmother. Cheer is not
old enough to be yes, like in this day and age,
yes she is. But I for me, honestly, it was
just funnna be real, honest, like I want to ride

(11:36):
a roller coaster, just like they want to go like
the like is to be like you want chill, Let's
watch TV baby with you. Yeah, Like I don't want
to go somewhere. Let's go somewhere, like go ride bike,
some some ship like something like let's do something. I
want to ride bike. She wouldn't get out, y'all. Y'all,

(11:56):
y'all want to sit up and baby my back, scratch
my back, scratch my back. No, But honestly, I would say,
it was just it's just um in the sex, man,
come on, come on, stop the sex. They'd be ready

(12:17):
to go going all right, yeah, ready to go right.
When I was a young it was now I would
have not been your old ass by yourself. What I
would have had, for sure, I would have for sure
I had some younger bitches too, that you add some
of your ladies because you for sure at that age
where it's like, no, I wasn't like I was still

(12:39):
what do you mean what you're trying to say? You
ain't quite like twenty? Um, I was quite like thirty. No, no, no,
I just don't work. That's that when you got a
bad like your thirty in the real twenties different, so
you know some bullshit. No, I ain't doing that. We're
not doing that. I'm just saying nine years. That's a
big difference. That's like when I tell y'all it took

(13:01):
so long. I remember he was like today, that bring
so many toys. How did you end up just saying, okay,
let's let's get you guys moving in together. They lived together,
they got a place together, his toys, toys. All that

(13:22):
man did was worked and made sure I was straight
and like and he worked out, And all you wanted
to do was just make sure I was good. I'm
not talking. I don't want to talk about that. It literally,
I'm not about that. No crime moment. Why I did

(13:45):
she turned no, because like, y'all, remember what's that song
when it it's like it was donell John's song was
like when you don't you really didn't want to be Yeah,
it's like we had everything like that age. You just
don't treat them bad. Oh how I feel so sad

(14:07):
now that I want to because but I just need
time to see it wasn't for the little movie you

(14:35):
like this type of ship? Oh my god, no, Bobby,
don't do it. No, no, no, no, So let me
ask you a question. Silly, So you like because you
did kind of reference yourself as a cougar and y'all
find that cool? Well, it was because it's it's like
jokes always makes fun of me about that. That's why

(14:56):
I said that. And I'm sure somewhere alone the line
you feel like, y'all still god, that's why you know? Honestly,
I don't now, yeah you still do. My dude is
seven years I just thought about that. That's a grown
ass man right there. Why Why would he why were we?

(15:20):
Why were he wet? What? Yeah? What youre trying to say?
Mature woman? Thank you, mature woman? What he already listening?
He already got kids. All that ship. We're good like
you don't mat I don't get when he had him
long as he don't want me to have any So
like what I'm saying is I'm saying is when you

(15:42):
don't listen, if you don't want to have kids, she
don't listen, Like if you are why I mean, he
already got dating a personating a person. What do you mean,
young guys, I'm not listen this this this this relationship
right here, that ship took that just was like, oh wow,
it was It was basically I met him, we talked

(16:05):
for a split second, and then like I just got
super busy and we just kind of like lost touch
and then we ran into each other again type ship.
But honestly, he's my best friend, Like I could tell
him anything, Like he's supportive, he's just a really good dude. Like,
so ship, why wouldn't I like? And it's hard when

(16:27):
you um a woman like myself trying to work all
the time and do certain things like if a man
don't understand your drive, it's really hard. So when you
meet someone, I don't care how old you are, Like
if you care yourself in a certain manner and you
treat me with respect, and we're we have that mutual
liken like, no he's not he's not that ye that

(16:51):
not like that, but you know what I mean by that,
like he I'm his queen, like we we rocked. I
don't care to say whatever you want, Like if you
guys my age or older, like as long as you

(17:13):
cool and we have some type of chemistry. I really
don't why you don't think you have chemistry with older guys.
You don't realize I'm not a I don't flirt I'm
the worst. I will sit there and won't know nick
if you do not say, hey, I'm trying to talk

(17:36):
to you girl, I will literally be there like oblivious.
Ask her, she will tell you. So I don't know
what it is. I guess the younger guys have been
more aggressive as far as like, hey you that is
I won't give a funk. I'm just said. But that's
my point is that's probably the change that needs to

(17:56):
be made in your life now. Shout out to the
Shout out to the young boy that you got right.
Not flirtatious, but nobody should over pursue you to get
your attention. It's not that good I'm saying, not like
you're not that good, but it's not that good. It's
like a relationship is a lot of work between two people.
And if you make somebody put the sound messed up

(18:17):
because you know, you know what I'm saying, because I'm
not putting down saying great is not a wonderful woman,
not just ridiculous, outstanding lady. But I'm saying the reason
you keep running to the shout out to this little
young dude. Got Now you stand up and doing stuff.

(18:39):
Then we're gonna get on this knee eventually. But I'm
sure you got to grow up a little bit more.
Else that's a little bit more, And I'm cool with
that because I'm enjoying this moment right now, Like I'm
not sure, Hey, how long? How long can somebody date
you without actually proposing? That's a good question, Like one
is too long? Thought about that when it's too long?

(19:02):
Would you be like this? Ni is still because I
think women are not honest, And what I like to
do on those seilings and what I hope to do
further is give women a safe space to be honest. Now,
I'm still gonna make fun of you personally, but it's
a safe space because it's I really do sympathize with
the calls. It's okay to laugh at some of our
don't see you guys like I don't know, like what

(19:26):
could you like could you be with them? My Let's
say it's a good relationship and you with a guy
for ten years, then this nick is still don't want
to marry me? Damn, I would question it, like how many?
How long in between do you think it's time? I
dont want to ask you because you in the middle
some ship, so I don't fun that nigh up like
that they're a low rider, So what's too far? Like

(19:49):
how long? I said, at least a couple of years too?
I told you guys, he got that hold up bron
like who you don't think of you for two years?
He don't think to yourself like there's lots of people
that in relationships from over two years and they're you know, good,
Like honestly, I would want it to come naturally and

(20:12):
want that or he I would want that to be
organically like something that he wants to do. I wouldn't
not how you wanted to go. I'm asking you with
your brain, my brain. I'm definitely not. I'm definitely not
this is my thing. I'm definitely not gonna shack it
with you feel like, no, five damn years and you not? Um, Yeah, yeah,
I think five years is too long because how long

(20:33):
is too long? Were not in your personal situation because
how long is too long? Yeah? Where you kind of
starting to question yourself where you think three years? I think, yeah,
he might not be shirt like what's going on? Yeah,
because you should know? Like I mean, I feel like,
but when you like, is that why somebody with date

(20:55):
younger man? Like why would why would allalla man? Right,
y'all have vagiants y'all y'all both day and younger men?
Why would you want a younger man? For real? Now,
I could get it if you want a younger man
because you want to just have sex. And you got
this little little young nigga horny he just always that

(21:16):
makes sense for you or play? But for real whitness
like you were just talking to right, You're like, oh,
when you get a young boy, y'all go on all
these days you go ride bikes and chucky cheese and
a real you and a for real relationship with your Yeah.
But but what I'm saying is right, So I get it.
When you get a younger guy for fun, right, but

(21:36):
you know, as you grow up, even right now, even
though it's certain things that you grow up and this
ship like cool now, these bikes ain't cool every other weekend.
It's real. Ship got to happen round here, championship got
to get cleaned up. So it's dope when you're playing.
What I'm saying, when ship get real? Like when does
it become serious? Like when? Like that's what I don't understand,

(21:58):
Like why would a cougar? What are you gonna do
with a young boy? For real? I mean it's like
I think you have to want to take care of
the time. Most cougars normally, like if they are dealing
with a younger guy, honestly is they're not tripping. They
trying to get married. They're already over. Yeah, so they're
not tripping. They want the good time. They want to
be able to just to like have like a younger

(22:20):
guy to look at and ship. You know what I mean,
You ain't gotta look at like no wrinkles and ship
like hey you know this young guy, come out, take
your shirt off and you know ship. I'm thinking about it.
Oh lord, stop, but you feel what I'm saying, like
you know, I'm glad. Wow, I'm glad you baby all ego,

(22:44):
they're older than eighteen, they're illegal. Definitely it should be
over what's worse? What's worse a man that's twenty five
year old dating a seventeen year old in California where
it's illegal, or a woman that's fifty year old dating
a man that's twenty one year old where it's legal.

(23:04):
What's worse? Damn fifty praise? They came. We would have
to just speak down on a woman. Did you just
say fifty, Anthony? But do you really feel bad? Leg
They don't matter how I feel about it, but said so,

(23:26):
white people approve of it because that's what legal is.
White people approve of it. In the mid and seven,
I said, if you're twenty, if you met a twenty
five year old man and his girlfriend was seventeen, what's
worse that ort three year old woman with a twenty
year old man and the fact that it's taking all

(23:48):
this it's got to be. I think it's that like
the guy in the Only I hate doing this because
everybody I date older. No I know girls, I know
we date older. But when you think about all the
ship like that we shouldn't have been, we should seventeen,

(24:13):
we shouldn't have been because it was like all you
want to do is fun, like you like them blows
niggers about the teen Well, I don't know. Now it's
different a lot of people having seven years seventeen, Like
I literally we had just lost my virginity. So I'm
not I'm I can't. Really I didn't. I didn't start

(24:34):
early kind of the cooler. Yeah, so you know she didn't.
I shouldn't be dating nobody that, you know, sexual experience
and older. Most of the time, you don't think the
lady that's forty three got more sexual experience. But I'm
just saying she may not have had, yeah, but three
years probably got it. I'm not something about probably whoa

(24:57):
you're talking about? Probably, Well, I say not. Every forty
something year old is, you know, experienced in text year
old experience. They could be more experienced than a forty
three year old. Listen, I know someone why I don't
know what you're looking over there, because let me let
me give him an example. Listen, I have I know

(25:21):
someone that met her Listen, met her husband at age seventeen. Okay,
I know her too, at age seventeen. They got married
like about like in the twenties, but they had their
first shot at nineteen. She was with that man all
the way up until her fucking forties. Yep. Okay, so
now she's starting to date now. So there's certain people
that don't have all that experience just because of that.

(25:42):
That's what I was thinking about. Why would you say
that about somebody seventeen? And what are you talking about?
I just literally said a seventeen year old girl, I know,
because you can make an excuse for the old lady.
I'm not making excuse. I'm just so so why you
didn't have the same compassion when I just said so
many five seventeen he may go have that much sexual

(26:03):
experience kids too. But the only thing is, I'm just
saying because she's she's under age. I'm just standing up
in California. What about the Nevada year older year older?
And Nevada sixteen more states in the United States of
America the legal age of consent every age. Every state
has their own age. It's more than thirty states with

(26:25):
the legal age of consent sixteen. Nevada is one, Washington
is another one. And they're both on the West coast. Damn,
I don't. I don't think anything's wrong with the cougar situation.
But I mean, if I had to pick the two
old with his young boy, I mean, you know what,

(26:48):
that's funny that cougar sugar daddy and cougar. Like a
sugar daddy's found on a cougar or some kind of
celebrated thing. Y'all just have needed the fuck. Ain't nobody
found No, nobody's sugar daddy? That is plentiful. Where is he?

(27:10):
I'm just playing stop sugar babies early had a lot
of my mind today. I'm sorry, or I'm okay with

(27:33):
double standards. I just would like people to accept that
there are two standards. No, I get it. So I
just like I said, if a man twenty five and
his girls have a team, they're pretty much close to
the same as far as um versus they are because
men mature much later. Like I think I had this
conversation with the Hume girl, and I was explaining to her,

(27:55):
women mature faster, but they peak sooner. Being mature for long,
girl to take longer, but to keep happening longer. Like
if you meet a woman at thirty eight, you know
the same ship at thirty eight that she know a fifty,
she'll be saying the same shift thirty eight to fifty.
I swear it out. She got the same game, you know,

(28:20):
like how you meet the old man. He'll start telling
you a nigga sits here, has some old man game
that only nigga sees. You know, a woman at sixty
know the same ship she knew at thirty eight, same ship. Girl,
you gotta get a nigger that paid them bill, same
same ship. They'll be saying the same ship. Men start
telling you all kind of like you got to look
a little different, sunny, let's start putting that ship. The

(28:41):
poems and ship and rhyming. You can't worry about the
ass until you get the cash they started. So I
think when the mature sooner, but I think they peak earlier.
I think me and mature later. But it's a it's
a gradual growth for a long time. For a long
time they growing in and uh maturity and wisdom. So

(29:04):
I think men, yeah, definitely later, take a long time too.
I really I've seen a man say that, I've seen
a brother out the mass. Nori Muhammed he said, you
don't really become a grown man to you with forty
and I just thought, like, man, that sounds crazy. Till
I turned four and I was like, oh, I see
it is completely different. Have you ever dated a woman

(29:26):
older than you once? How many years? Like a year?
That's nothing. She was older, but not like when you
were younger. Never older women. Nothing. Women used to fly
with me, but I just I'm not into that. Wasn't
feeling it now, Like I don't even really like younger women.
When I was about thirty four, I was sleeping with

(29:48):
the girl I was twenty one, and I mean how
you felt about the sex? I was there, but it
was like everything is I couldn't stand her. Yeah, I
remember he was talking. I couldn't literally stand her. And
it was the sex was awesome, You're thrown and ran
and ship that ship was cool, but everything else about
life talking to her was hard. So that's what I'm saying.
At my mature age or at your mature age, I

(30:09):
don't know how I couldn't talk to nobody eight years
younger than me. They just wouldn't have the maturity, That's
what I'm saying. Like he's just been through I think
it's because he's been through so much that it's not. Honestly,
I met women that was full out prostitutes for years
and they just don't have enough wisdom and maturity to
talk to me, Like it's just my mind is too
far along. And don't get me wrong, fucking it's cool,

(30:30):
but eventually, man, I mean, you have had the best piso.
Come on, man, how much how much better could pussy get?
How much better? How much better can? How much better? Can?
Might be some astronomical shit out there? And you just
don't have women suck my dick upside down to my
women on handstand sucking my dick like I didn't have

(30:51):
some crazy I've had white women. You know, white women
suck your dick like it is their pleasure, like it
is like the greatest thing that you've ever allowed to do. Really,
they suck your dick with another passion, like thank you
master for letting me suck your dick. It's like unbelievable.
So whatever, the best part of sex is, I pretty

(31:15):
much had it without going past the boundaries of ridiculousness.
I mean, but you might just be into somebody that's older. Yeah,
I'm not saying that I'm just saying, what could what
the funk would I be talking? So can we talk
about let's talk about some relationships that where there's older

(31:35):
people in relationships, because I have one where I'm like,
they've been together for a while and so there's something
that's definitely keeping them together. I don't know, maybe she
like pushing him on a swing? What but what you
mean pushing him on a swing? See? I think see
looks at it like they're just they're um, you know,
they're just immature. Like you're picking people that are just

(31:56):
like super because they're thirty and like fifty. Yeah, that's
like the maturity that it's the fifty ye old woman.
She's still way more mature to him. A thirty still
got so much longer. Togo in sixty niked forty and
sixty the discount at guineas forty and sixty hundred and

(32:23):
sixty six. Yeah, I can maybe thirty eight, thirty nine
and maybe fifty eight nine. I think that's that couple.
I think that the eight year old woman in the
thirty maybe like thirty six and maybe like fifty two.

(32:47):
Why the funk have my thirties where I wanted? Who
is fifty two. That's fine enough at my age that
I want right now that I would look at it
like she's fine enough for me to even consider. I
don't think I know nobody. No, I wouldn't Honey barely Gold.
She's fine for old lady, but she is an older lady.
I mean she's older, but she looks good. Yeah, but
it's like, that's not cool that older lady when you

(33:08):
hurt that. I wouldn't hit Holly Baby. I would not
hit Alli Bess overs Over. I missed that. I don't
want that age be Oh my god, age, I'm not
talking ship. I just don't want that. That David Justice
that ran through that thing eric By beat her up. Now,
I want that thing. She didn't meant that. If them see,

(33:29):
I'm gonna tell you another thing about glasses. I'm wanted
them type of niggas that learned. Like if other niggas
keep throwing your way, I know something wrong, Like how
Eric but erict go and be high fight he was,
but not a thing right, be cussing it everything ages. Yeah,

(33:55):
that's like Kim sucking you up. Wait a minute, why
is Kim abusing to be certain people? Now? Bobby Brown
sucking you up. Okay, Chris Brown, maybe shout out to
see be okay them. Nick's got angry at you. But
Kim Maxwell Maxwell is abusing you. You got to be
a bullshit bitch. Maxwell abusing you. She dated Maxwell. I'm

(34:18):
just like Maxwell. Every They got these somber songs and
was the base he you don't know how his first
son is outside of the earthly and it's just all
nicer ship and she's just doing it. He just gotta
be like he had like a problem. So she probably
caught him. And why why sex problems? You know, we

(34:42):
gotta sex problem. You don't want to That's what he said. Problem.
This was like the whole thing he went to counseling
or they were doing the thing that was I don't
know what was her. It's not her, it's her eventually.
Sometimes it is just them. Sometimes we agree. Sometimes it
could to be, but like is she don't get me wrong.

(35:06):
I see the women I will sleep with first on Hollyberry.
I will not see what Holly Berry at this age, Angela,
I would do it. No, no, no, you're a long
no play not Angela. Yeah, because she's fine, she's been
You've been fine for forty years. You're just different. That's
been been fine forty fifty years. She's been fine for

(35:26):
a long time, and being is talking. She is a
little buff, but that's because she's still in good shape.
She stays in shape. That's why she got that that
melon and glow like that hotboy. That that old lady hot.
And I wouldn't be with this lady, but I wouldn'tail
her down to the ground one time for the best,
for the measure, do you ass for sure? Yeah? The

(35:52):
best Mary J. Blige, No, because she would ride a
fun up song. Oh guys, Mary J. Blige is still fuckable,
man mages own. I'm not gonna say hot. She is
like she I wouldn't say hot, but she is a
beautiful she's beautiful older woman. She she's got beautiful over

(36:13):
time too. She was funked up looking at first, she
looked like somebody. Actually she actually find her now. She
ever was like young Mary Jake was like because she
had been was like real, like regular. She came out
that she was more like back then. She used to

(36:38):
look crazy, but Mary j now like Mary j is
actually one of the few women in the industry that
got finer and older yeah, young married, I want to
get young play No, Jada look crazy. They didn't cut
up on her face and ships Will. I'm glad we

(36:59):
don't marry her. That was the best thing happened to
her life because she was gonna throw it away and
she's trying to throw it away now. So see, she
wouldn't got to look Trey songs gay. I mean, you
know what, didn't really come out that he was gay August.
He didn't didn't come out because he was promoting. Why

(37:21):
would you promote you gay? Did did it? I don't know?
I think did it drop the actual like video because
he was premiering or promoting. Why the funk would you
say that? If you're not that's the type of young
niggas Jada, We'll be talking to me something like what
this probably like his brother somebody is like, I love you,
you helped me, like, you know, change my life. How
would you even say that? I know why that would

(37:44):
say that? It's you got Will Smith? How did you
date that nigga? See, that's the type of people I
think of when I think of a cougar lady like that.
Just don't make horrible decisions. That's a cooler Yeah, that
would be a cooler, but wouldn't talk. I wouldn't give

(38:08):
prime Jady. Yes, this j the hell no, no, this
Jady gets no work. M hm. So you know what
I'm saying that, Like, I was just thinking about that,
and I'm like, why would I even put that out there?
Like one like girl, you older her life, she just

(38:29):
had a hold stranger ship, she just dealt with. She
like funk all that. Like, let her have her fun?
What's wrong with her? Have a little fun right now?
Stop hating ergy fun? Yeah, let her have her fun.
Get trains and one year old is funny? Yes? Why
do you have to get a train? Talking about you?
Adding on having sex with a one year old is funny? Y'all?
You think that's fine for her? If that's what she said,

(38:50):
that she her live her life? Did she say twinter?
Did she really say twinnes? Young dude? It was she
did not? First off, y'all defended. Now y'all thinking like,
hold did this really say? You know? So I'm just
going off what you just said. Right now. All I'm

(39:11):
saying is I just think y'all just make crazy decisions.
I'm not gonna get into the double standards because I
think we have to sets of standards. I thought we've
always had double standards, and I'm okay with that. So
I expect y'all to approve of an older lady dating
some young boy and to disapprove of an older man
dating some young lady, even though it would make sense
the other way, because women mature faster, so they a

(39:34):
woman is probably mature as a man. Most men thirty eight,
not me, but most men versus preferred. How much older
were they? Seven to ten years? That's not bad. Did

(39:55):
somebody old? Um? No, yes, Beijan Nome that he can't
get right Beijing. I'm sorry, I didn't know she's talking. No,
the old freak, the old freak o ship. So I

(40:18):
think he was probably like twenty maybe like that's cold now,
you know what I'm saying. Gives And he was, he
was betful, he was he was an athlete, he played
in the NFL, So I didn't even know that he
was the age that he was. I was surprised, like, whoa,
he was like keeping up and more younger than the

(40:40):
guys that was my age. I was like, so you know,
you know, freak oh freak oh free in the NFL free.
He was he got a ring. He really he don't
play on, but he did get a rig out hall

(41:01):
of fame. The hall of fame got do just stupid
thinking did not say that. Man. Man, Now, I never
really dated older women. I've never really been in the
younger women. Like I do attract more younger women, but

(41:23):
that's because they don't really know me. They then they
meet me, then they really like me. But it'd be like,
you're not ready for what I would be on. So
like younger women attract because of what I do and
how I was living my life, So you would attract
younger women. But come on, man, you didn't think about me.
I be reading books and ship. Ya gonna do with that? Honestly,
if if me and my dude weren't friends before books

(41:46):
to the ladies and ship, I don't think. Maybe you're
reading books and ship about tooky and ship to hears
she like this thing is reading the book. But see,
that's why I like dating older guys because they always
always learned something like you know, I loved it. So
brit don't want to learn, Yes, you want to learn
how to swear? You play call of duty? No, I

(42:10):
don't play no video. Yeah, none of that Pizza Rose
the baby would if you wanted me to what you need?
You need something having fun. It's fun, but no, honestly
it's real because because marriage ain't fun and real relationships

(42:31):
ain't fun. Let's be honest. It's work. It's not fun.
It's not it's definitely work. It's word or so one
is worked. Fun. It's never fun. But I feel like
if you that you can have fun with that person,
like you have those times where I mean it's a miserable,
but fun and miserable are to Okay, it's not bad.

(42:52):
The thing about a really dope, real relationship is you
start valuing things that you never valued in your life
before small things somebody bringing you some food you should
women women struggle with gratitude, And I know I just
generalized ship, but it's true. Women like are insatiable and
my nigg always talk about that. So y'all struggle with
Gratitude's it's never the small things, only the small things

(43:15):
that you feel that everybody else know about, which means
just a big thing. So I think it comes to
a space when or you get into a real relationship,
you have to learn how to value the smaller things,
things that you never paid attention to. No, I agree
with that, like ship that comes from surety for us,
because as I'm getting older, I'm like, I love all

(43:36):
the little ship, like I love thoughtfulness, and just like
I just love it, but thoughtfulness and it's even more
simpler than we even make it. Maybe little ship like
little things I love now, like little things I love women.
I definitely realized women just don't give a fuck. We
do care. It's like that, it's not it's not you

(43:57):
don't care, Like what have what have you done for me? Lately?
It's probably the realist woman's song ever wrote. That's like
w I s M. What's in It for Me? Radio?
Janet Jackson, what have You Done for Me? That's the
number one woman song. That's really how women are. So

(44:19):
that's why it would be the enemy of gratitude. It's
always about what's now. It's not always about that. You know,
you have those moments, moments you have you know you
do start to appreciate those small things, you know, as
with maturity, because yeah, when you're younger, it's like you

(44:44):
don't see that. That's why I really think one of
the most immature things women promote to each other. It's
gonna sound crazy, it's traveling. What's wrong with traveling when
we want to go on trips? Immature things that women
promote to each other, when we go on trips with
each other, with our guys, with our husbands, traveling in general.
Why it's really just immature when you think about it,

(45:06):
really has no doesn't make any sense. What is wrong
with traveling? Wrong? Okay? What is immature? Why you about traveling?
One place? You never go as museums? I do know
you don't. Okay, alright, you don't want to travel to
the museum. Most people want to travel to places where

(45:26):
there's other people. Party. No, No, I like, I have children,
so I like family trips and yeah, like when I
go out of town. It's not about going somewhere like party.
I like being. Maybe when you say I don't need
to see nobody you ever travel, Barbie as you ever

(45:54):
been to the Yosemite Park. You've been to Yosemite Park.
Where's your semity park? You haven't been to Yosemiti Park?
You ever been to Yosemit Park. I've been to the
Grand Canyon. So that's that's my point. My point is

(46:14):
sent my son to Yosemity part So we're not going
for educational purposes. Were full of ship. Some people just
want to go somewhere and relax. I want to go see.
I want to go see. You want to go somewhere
from where you were, Like, go somewhere. Different women do
go to the fucking museum. We take our kids. You
take your kids to museum. If you don't go to

(46:35):
museums that full of ship, why do we all get
on the front of white people line to the museum?
I bet you fucking did. You didn't specified. I'm just
saying I like going to art galleries and stuff like that,
like with my with my man, you know, we go
look at like our stuff like that. I like stuff
like that. I don't know. I just go look at

(46:57):
the art and I say, oh, I like that, want
to buy that? That would look nice in my head?
I'm so mad as you really think that, I mean
only need to travel, don't have to travel travel place
as well? He said, so you could go party parties.
Why did you either go trying to relax a party

(47:18):
the same thing? You never go in nowhere that you
can't buy liquor. Part One, even though you buy liquor
during the week, and you do the same during the week.
You've never went. I don't do the same thing every week.
It's a vacation. So vacation, I bet you do the
same things you do when you're at home. No, because
like when I went to Philly, I went to go.

(47:39):
I didn't drink. You're lying. I didn't drink in Philly.
You didn't drink nothing, not in Philly, nothing at all,
not in Philly. But I drank when I was in
Atlantic City and when I was in Jersey, but not
in Philly. I didn't drink it Philly. I didn't like
to believe what we left now. It's not that. It's
not that, it's just sometimes when you tell the truth,
like you got to think, how long I've been doing

(48:00):
this ship that y'all finish? I went to Philly. You're
not some kind of it every time that you go
on vacation or you go somewhere that it's gonna be
too party you to relax or party, Yes, it is
to relax. You ain't nothing. You might go when you ain't.

(48:25):
Don't send me, you take your kids, because that's why
you're thinking. The kids need y'all too. That's why I said,
back to the point of immaturity. You know why you
take your kids places to learn because you know they're immature,
so you're trying to mature them. You don't do it
on your own because you're immature. You take them, like say,
if they're learning, like they're learning the lesson at school,
then you're gonna take them so they can learn more

(48:48):
about that too. But Land, we do that too. So
all I'm saying to you is, yes, you're not. You're
not going to no place to learn. Ship God damn,
I ain't even about to say nothing whatever you say.
To Hawaii, I went to the zoo. That does that count?
Got zoos all over the state that they don't have everything.

(49:10):
To the Pear Harbi Hawahiti, they don't got everything in
WHI tell me one they are different? Um damn them
birds birds. Remember I was young. Every time they don't
have flamingos on the wire. I've been to that zoo.
It was like it was like, you know what else

(49:32):
you going to to? What? You went to? The Pearl Harbors?
It been. I went to North Beach. Fact here the
Pearl Harbor. Listen, I don't know what years? So you
just what's going somewhere? Because to put on makeup and
put on my lips. But I don't remember that. But
I went everybody hate the truth or whatever. I've been

(49:58):
to the doll pineapple factory too. I want factory. You
know what's the gross street from the door? Pineapple factories?
No pineapples? You know why? Because I was looking to
learn some ship. I went to Pearl Harbor. I know
when it happened. You know what ship is? You know why?
You won't know? Ship? Right there? It's right there on
white Kiki's of the ship. You know why? You don't know?
Because it really didn't matter. It just was another opportunity

(50:20):
for you to go out and act like you're doing
some ship. I don't know why. I don't know why.
You you know why? Because I just need to retain
the information. Because I did, I was excited about it.
I didn't go because honestly, I just didn't. I was young.
I didn't go. Hold up, hold up bar? What war?

(50:44):
What's Pearl Harbor about? Where did it happen? Which war?
It was? Ward? Ward? Um? Damn, it was the one
over there. It was war word three. I don't I'm
sorry my mom. Alright, ship over today. Shout out to
everybody listen to No Sillies. I love y'all, I love y'all.

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