November 18, 2022 • 42 mins
Glasses Malone joined by Peter Bas and Norm Steele discuss the power and consequences of words. In light of the recent untimely albeit unnecessary death of Takeoff, the crew ponders if people need to be more aware of the words they speak in various scenarios. Tune in and chime in via the socials below.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Sillers Podcast with your host now funk that with your
low glasses Malone. He said, man, let's go, bro, I
ain't even playing with these niggas like that far right
to hurt somebody. And that's when all helped Broke lose. Right, Yeah, yeah, man,
(00:28):
you know, And that was after a sound like he
was insulting the way that guy looks right and I
was dressed well, I don't know because who was saying,
like dressing like you just came back and playing again
basketball or something like that. I don't know. I don't
I don't even know everything. I don't know the context,
you know, I mean, like and if I start thinking
about the context of how it happened, and it's just gossip.
(00:52):
But the one thing I did hear and see him
say from the video is, man, let's go, man, let's
get a party. If I had to hurt somebody, and
you know what, man, like you said, it's all about context.
They could have very much been joking around. Bro. No, No,
didn't he say right before that? Wasn't he talking about
the way somebody was dressed? Because I I didn't understand,
(01:14):
I don't even think that's as important as that one
specific line before I have to hurt somebody, you know, gee,
coming from the area place that we come from. Bro,
you really can't play with people, man. You can't make
idle threats, um, because I know I take threats very seriously,
because I've seen people make threats and carry those threats out.
(01:36):
So I can't afford to play which and challenges. And
I want to ask you, I know I consider that
a threat. Don't you consider that a threat? Oh? Very much,
so very much. So. You know, if if a guy
is in the especially if we are to town right
and they all the towns and they tell me, let's
say we are with some guys from wherever, from Houston,
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New York, off Nick pop whatever, and now hear that,
niggas say, Man, let's go for it to hurt one
of these niggas. I'm handling my business because I don't
know what you got on your mind at that point.
I don't know if you're just talking to just being
braggadocious and boisterous at that point. You know it, Mike,
going about your business. But I don't know if you're
gonna turn around dumping I know, it was something that
(02:21):
didn't need to be saying. If they was gonna leave,
they should have just left them one on about that.
And that's my point. Um. Somebody could hear this and
automatically think like I'm blaming Quavo right for what happened,
would take off and it's not. What I'm saying is
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the importance of the ship that come out of our mouth,
the energy we bring with the ship that come out
of our mouth, especially in those situations right now. You know,
mainstream media and some people in the culture will make key,
make you believe that hip hop is under attack from
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the fans. Not at all, not at all. And I
listened to that right because you heard one thousand stories
specifically about because that situation with them, you know, dice games,
basketball games, gambling, blah blah blah. But that little small
tig bit, right, that little small tig bit right there,
(03:27):
let's get a party. If I have to hurt somebody
paraphraser that anywhere in any ghetto is pretty much a
threat and at the minimum you might kick your ass.
It's not a much you are going to kick your ass.
Somebody's gonna make you stand on. Okay, you can hurt somebody.
We go, we go make go see, we need to see,
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we need It's as much a challenge as a threat,
especially when you're out of town. You're gonna go on
some of other turfs that I'm gonna come down here
and I'm gonna have to hurt somebody. Who are you
gonna hurt? You from? You're not from out here? And
I just was thinking because right, um take off funeral
recipes to take Off, And I feel really sick for
Quavo and all Set, you know what I mean. I
know they're going through whatever they're going through as they group,
(04:09):
but you know, Quavo and him was like brothers. No,
I mean, I know Takeoff was his nephew, but they
were like brothers. They were raised like brothers because they're
so close in age. And uh that's a little advertising. Um,
they were so close in age. But when people asked
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me about situations, I did the hip hop homicide thing
right Pitty Centers producer Vanli then Pete Frank. Shout out
to Pete Frank from up top, much respect to my
people's that's making their moves and going legit. And I
said certain things on the television show make sure you
check it out hip hop homicide, Uh fifty cent Pete
(04:54):
Frank Vanley, Then it's really dope. So on we TV cable.
But I said some things, and I realized people a
few people felt some kind of way because I said
what I said, and they asked me this, hey man, glasses,
how do you go around just saying what you want
to say? And I'm like, well, I don't really say
what I want to say. I say what needs to
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be said. I won't say anything extra prime example in
that particular situation with Quavo, I would never tell no niggas,
not even out of town. I wouldn't tell niggas from
a hundred and seventeen street from my actual gang. If
I'm having a conversation with Pluck and and and Boom,
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my homeboys, and we right there and we have a disagreement,
the last thing I would say is let me get
a body in fact to hurt somebody. I'm going to
do one or one or two. Man, I'm gonna get
about it, y'all tripping, Let me get up bout here,
I'm leaving, or I'm just going to hurt somebody. Yeah,
pretty much, there's no need to explain, and I don't
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know if this is hip hop. You know again, I
think we've had a conversation, and I told you how
I feel about flexing. How flex and brings this really
weird attention to us because we're always flexing on poor people,
so it brings us unnecessary energy. Well, also like that
that that stunning or flexing culture. Also there's this ridiculous
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sense of provado of where we want to demean each other,
Like we don't physically sometimes just want to get our
point across. The goal is to demean somebody else, you know,
to say something to make them feel like not physically
apply pressure and and go through that physical exchange, but
literally to defeat them in a way to make them
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feel like less than. So we'll say something like, man,
I hurt you niggas or beat your ass, Like why
would you say. It's like parents when you have kids,
you know, you tell your kids, I'm beat your ask
when I get home. That is the worst part of
the whooping, that three or four hours you wait for
your parents get home, waiting on that ass whooping is torture.
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So somebody telling you, man, I beat your ass or
maybe knock you out me and my younger brother Kate
Case that we argue about that all the time. I
always tell him, you do too much talking, feel me,
and way too much warning, Like if I'm gonna fight you,
I'm just gonna take off on you. I'm not gonna
say I'm gonna hurt you. I'm gonna knock you out
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if i'm If I'm saying that, I really don't want
to fight you. And from what I understand, Bro, they
had been playing basketball. Now this is just what I heard.
I'm like this all out of all stuff we heard,
so go ahead. So you don't know if they had
just been whooping back and forth with each other. That's
why I don't play with people. You know, some people
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like playing when you getting the heat of competition, people
get to getting comfortable and stuff. And said, everybody not playing, Bro,
Pete where you grew up in high school? Is that
something that's okay for somebody to say, I'm gonna leave
here if I have to hurt one of y'all. Yeah.
The difference, like the most radical difference that I learned
in a immediate time was going from like night bars
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where there's a lot of liquor flowing around in coast,
Orange County to Oakland because I moved obviously there in
a day. So from Friday night I'm at one jointing,
that Saturday night, I'm in Oakland. It's like someone steps
on your shoe. They give you, you give him a look.
If they don't acknowledge an apology. The brawl happens in
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nine seconds because people don't not want to get involved.
They want to get involved. It's like the old adage
the wish factor, where it's like Orange County guys were
huffing puff and wolf because they're trying to save save face,
like they want to look like they're tough, but they
really don't want to do it, so they'll try to
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like posture the other the other person into bluffing or
backing out because they really don't want to do it.
And I think that's what's happening more times than not,
No sellings jail. Usually my brother Peter Bias up in
the Spit is not Resident Expert podcast savant Big still
(09:27):
sub big bro Man, I'm good man. You know one
thing I wanted to say about this. You know we're
having this conversation contholes this man to eminate families. Man
it's like you said earlier, I know they're going through
it as a father, as a friend. You know, I
feel that, man. You know, death is never easy, but
when it comes in this manner, is just so unnecessary
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because you know, in Proverbs it says man of tone
speaks life and death. There is a lot of power
of things that you say, bro, And I'm one of
those people that really believe that, Like I don't call
me and I don't call me and bitches. If I
think you're I'm gonna treat you like one, I'm gonna
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start beating your ass. What I'm saying straight up, I don't.
I don't get into the whole you know, useless verbiage
of trying to defeat your mental, of trying to make
you feel like less. Stand I'm gonna show you. If
I'm gonna show you I'm superior, we're physically gonna get
into it so I can show you and and and
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validate whatever point I'm trying to make. But today's time,
because of social media, I think it's getting way worse
because people are used to saying what they want to
say and not be held accountable. And and I every
time I think about takeoff, passing away getting rest in peace,
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and I feel bad for his family, all the rap group,
the whole Atlanta, you know what I mean. They really
love him, boys, the whole Georgia, so everybody, actually, the
whole world loved them. It was tough, but I hear
that repeating in my head over and over again, and
this is that culture that's happening over and over again.
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I saw an interview or I saw pnb Rock on
live and him saying, did niggas knew better than to
rob him? See? It's one thing to put some of
this ship in rap lyrics and rapid now it becomes
a jam in a song. It's another thing to issue
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a challenge to poor people going through and looking at
you like maybe you could provide an opportunity and switching
their vision into you becoming the opportunity. Do you see
that that that that that time he was on live
that I'm talking about and he was just talking crazy again.
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The tongue speaks life and death. Man. When you speak
into the universe, man, you're pretty much asking forward to occur.
You're asking for it to happen. If I go outside
the day and not tell somebody, somebody bumps my shoulder.
We in the grocery store, and I tell him you
touched me again. Man, I'm gonna suck you up. If
I get beat down the store that day, then what
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nobody's fault but mine. Yeah, I don't understand what people
are warning each other for. Woman, go with Peter. I
feel like from what I've observed in the community, there's
there's two parallel yet perpendicular hierarchies of respect. And you
can either be a part of the one or part
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of the other. Everybody wants to be both, but more
often than not, you're gonna be one or the other.
And that's a financial hierarchy or it's just you as
a brute force man hierarchy. And and for a lot
of people who haven't moved up the financial hierarchy, it's Look,
this is my name. It's very important to me. You
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might drive better car to me, but I'll beat the
dog shit out of you here and now because that's
what I put my name on, that's what I respect.
My respect comes that way, doesn't come from my tax returns.
So you started issuing these challenges to that something that
you know, a lawyer takes his profession very seriously. Maybe
people in that type of environment takes something else very seriously.
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So you start to throw words around. Not now you're
demanding did I validate who I am right now? Yeah?
And whether we and whether we realize it or not,
this is the same pair of little As or Land
or Tupac. It's just two different scenarios, two different scenarios,
you know, because with rappers, they have a certain posture
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that they do and like you know how they went
off from Joe Button's that time. Of course, Joe Buttons
and academics not gonna fight, y'all, that's not what they do.
So I think people get comfortable running off of the
mouth a little bit too much. Man. They don't realize
sometimes and everybody will get with them, a bunch of
stas because when you got money, now you're a newport fighter.
Now you want to yap and you don't want to
fight because your hierarchy is defined by your finance and
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your profession. Is this Is this only a cultural problem?
P or is this everywhere throughout community? I would imagine
that that's men in general. I mean this, this doesn't
happen in the community. Walk into Whole Foods and be like,
maybe can move out my way if I've hurt somebody
and your way if I were yeah, yeah, if I'm
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at the grocery store and Newport Coast or down on
whatever south by the grocery store on keep a scan.
You know, it's an insular, highly wealthy environment. Physically, I
can do what the funk I want to if I
want to. I'm not gonna take that ship over the
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Liberty City, over the food for less on Wilmington's. I'm
not going over there and doing that ship. But you
don't think none of those white folks up in that particular.
I know for a fact because because I'm the guy
that loses his fucking patients in that environment. I'm that
guy because when people get mad at me down there.
The last time I saw a bar fight and where
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I come from for fish story reasons that I didn't tell.
I had this bizarre reputation that people thought I was
like somebody to really be reckoned with My friends, of
which there were four and the opposition was ten were
really wasted and I really wasn't drinking that night, so
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I didn't. I knew that they couldn't defend themselves, right,
So I'm like, let me just get my four buddies
out of here, because if this thing turns into situation
they can barely walk, they're gonna die, like they'll get
they'll be the first people stomped to death by surfers.
Let's get them the hell out of here. So I'm
just trying to get them out of there. Of course,
the whole ship, everybody in that whole parking lot got
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took shots to the face except me. Nobody would touch me.
It was unbelievable. I grabbed guys off of one of
my friends to throw them on the ground. Looked at him,
didn't get up, just stay there, look healthy, just looked
at me, didn't want to touch me. It was bizarre.
It was bizarre, but that when you got a lot
to lose, you don't want to lose it exactly. And again, man,
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I just think that we're in the error g that
where people are so full of hubrisk and braggadocies that
they really feel like they're above almost like they're above
anybody actually reacting to what they said. They're used to
pretty much saying what they want to and getting on
about their business with no type of repercussions. Um right,
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now in a time where again people are saying that
like rappers is under attack or rapping is a dangerous job,
versus understanding. These are the people that are the master
of words, and it really comes down to the words
that they are using. That That's something I keep thinking about.
Um still, can somebody call you a bit? In McDonald's
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the man called me a bit? G done that day? Like,
hey man, I was here first. You're like, oh man,
there's no problem. You know, I didn't know. Yeah, nigga,
you know, bitchy as nigga. No, bro, we were fighting
that day. We're nothing up. You need to see. Yeah
he was the bitch. Yeah we go have to knuckle up.
He who had to stand on calling me a bitch?
You have to really stand on that that day? How
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about you, Peters, that's something you just walk away from.
If they're lucid, I'm gonna make a learning you have
to deserve to call you one. I mean like if
if like you know, like guys the Growth Store want
money and I'm like, get the hell out of here.
I'm like, dude, you're crack and you don't know what
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And like Peter, you don't have to earn it. If
it like the let's say it's the manager. If the manager,
I'm gonna havenlet weight different because you called me a
bitch in your store. You see what I'm saying. If
he's gonna lose his job that day for stam, I'm
sure because the manager like you you you said, oh no,
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you get a burger back I asked for you know,
I asked no onions. I'm not having to make design
to make it again. If you want to take it
out of the professional environment, that's fine. I'm not gonna
try to act like this is now out of the
professional environment, but then try to backdoor it back in
like I'm not gonna like act a certain way. Dare
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you call me some names and then try to get
you fired for calling me some names? But if you
want to do that. Look, if you want to quit
your job here and now the parking lots right there,
that's fine. I'm not I'm not gonna call corporate. I
won't call corporate. But if you want to quit your
job right now when parking lots right there, you know,
And it depends in the circumstance. It depends on the circumstances.
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Like you said, the manager might even get knocked out.
That there depends on how you know, on how it was.
Is he mumbling under his breath? And did I hear him?
When I was leaving he added to you, Oh yeah,
you know what, man, Honestly, he might be trying to
he's trying to degrade you. He made this leap behind
that rexor that theay dog. What's what's what's some overreacting?
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Like what what? What's a Because now as a gang member, right,
people think that you know you you come from a
culture of overreacting. You have to know where you are
because to be honest with you, gee, and this is
just a law and me just being a more of
a thinker now to anything else, you have to recognize
the situation you're in because, honestly, if I'm an Albert
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Sins and the guy calls me a bitch, if I
knocked that man outg I'm going to jail because it
doesn't matter. You can't go around putting your hands on
people for words they say to you. That's the law
for me, and called me a bitch and I'm knocked
him out. He's sucking around and hit his head in
the corner and die. I'm going to jail for murder,
not behind the word. It's a little different now if
I'm outside and the dude bumps it to my car
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whatever like that bitch as niger. Watch up. Oh I'm
sliding that nigger. And that's the point, Like, that's the
subtle subty of the snitching conversations we keep having. If
you want to keep this in the law enforced environment,
keep it in a law enforced environment. What difference is
old on people? Let me tell you the difference now
that dude that calls you a First of all, I'll
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look at situations. If it's a little five ft nine
dude and hundred fifty pounds, so can wet and he
called me a picture of snigger. First thing, I'm thinking this,
This motherfucker got a hammer in his pocket. He got
a hammer on the I'm gonna have to whoop his
ass because I'm not gonna let him get off from
me with the hammer. Who's to say I'm called? You know,
who's to say if I try to be the bigger man.
I don't want to get smoked that day. I know
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that manager in that story, he's not coming with no
intentions like that. You don't He's not a threat beyond
his word. Understand what I mean, He's not a threat.
It's kind of like it's kind of like, you know what,
I'm not gonna get him to with this motherfucker is
to each other to day. But that dude outside, he
very much may have a pistol on this as it's
some motherfucker's just looking to give it to a motherfucker pete.
And and my right is someone just looking at this
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the motherfucker. And that's kind of where I was going
with it. If you're in a protected by law environment,
you have to understand what is going to happen in
that environment. And if you're not, understand what's gonna happen
in that environment. But don't try to bring the one
into the other. That's all I was gonna saying. Yeah,
you came both, man, you gotta leave the girl outside sometimes, Yeah,
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don't bring the law into It's okay if somebody call
you a bit as they at the Beverly Center. No,
I'm saying on the premise again, let's say you're in
a Beverly Center and you walking with jazz, you know,
your daughter, your wife, and a dude see you and
he like fucking nigger. He just see you at which place?
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Is it okay to just go to jail? That's to me,
that's the separation between being a street Mine is the
word game, and let's take that Outdea. You just say,
obiden by the laws of the street where you you
pretty much have a sense of justice, which placed for
a regular person like you still who's not necessarily into
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the lifestyle. It's like, you know what this is worth
going to jel over? You know what she when you
said my wife and daughter with me, my wife and
daughter and my presence and they're walking with me, I'm
probably gonna walk away from most situations because I'm not
gonna put them in no type of danger. Do you
understand what I mean? Because now it's just not me
I'm worried about if I'm about myself and somebody say
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that I could whoop this dude's ask and I could
deal with whatever come with it, right, But if Jasmine
and Maria there, how do I know his homies ain't
gonn run the store? And now my daughter and my
wife is getting backed up and I'm fighting two or
three dudes. You s what I mean? Friend of your
wife front of my wife. I'm gonna make sure I
get them to safety. Dog. And then if I run
across the dues again and deals with the deals. It depends. Now,
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if it's me and you're walking together and somebody says
something the pocket though it's going down. But if I'm
with my daughter man and my wife, I can't put
them in a situation. Bro, I'll have walked away from
six ways the nigger lovers. Nigger lovers. He would feel
to say what he wanted to, but the moment he
and croached like in croach, I'm talking about getting if
he came to my wife's face or something like that,
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Oh he he didn't he if any threatning matter? He getting.
You love this nigger. We're going on about our business,
but we're not even let me fight him. Dog. My
wife is not gonna let me fight him, because that's ignorant. Dog.
It's like sometimes you have to know when to walk
away as a man. I don't know. Man, I think
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I got it. I think I gotta give me what
he asked for. Well, you know what, if you would,
I'm gonna tell you, bro, if you wish, so, if
you wish your stepdaughter and with Brandy dog. You can think, oh,
way he's different. Back up, you gonna think way different.
She's not gonna want to back up, dough, Bro, She's
gonna be trying to pull you out of danger like
a boy to dance the dance six sheet. I'm gonna
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tell you something, Bro. The whole thing, the issue going on,
this has nothing to do with hip hop. This is
all about you Brisk and test usterone bro, and people
feeling themselves and thinking. But is it really if somebody
is trying to demean you, Like, if somebody's trying to
demean you, why is it required that you say okay? Um?
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So in the Christian faith they teach you to turn
the other chief, So I totally understand that. But what
if you're not operating from that table? At which place
does justice make sense? Is it fair to say if
I slap him on side his face, is that the
equal to him calling me a nigger? Again? Bro, you
have to assist the threat the manager to do. Working
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inside of football, you more than likeying gotten on hand
ruin him. The dude is out there talking reckless. More
than likely he's talking reckless for a reason because he
feels like he has the upper hand somehow. Let's say,
what are you saying? You only the words only matter
there if you feel there's an imminent danger after it. Yes,
because the things broke. My confidence is very high. I
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have like I'm not no big shot as motherfucker's So, dude,
some motherfucker calling me out my name don't define who
I am. But it depends on this in a situation
and circumstances. If I feel like, you know what this dude,
I'm gonna have to fuck him up because this motherfucker dangerous.
He may have a hammer on them. Some motherfucker's is
more dangerous with knives and they are all with guns.
It's some mother it's some bad motherfucker's with knives out there,
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So you have to eliminate that thrick. I'm not gonna
give me doing a chance to get off on me. Dude,
I'm not gonna give you a chance if I feel
like you have to so you are more so you
are more into the habit of people can say what
they want to to each other and nobody should react.
Oh no, I didn't say that at all. It depends
on the situation. Bro. It's not worth me putting my
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family in danger. That's for damn sure, it's just not
worth me c C. You know some people, man, um,
some folks have a certain let low, selfish thing about
themselves to where every little thing somebody say about them,
it's like, dude, like you just gotta beet The other day,
you gotta laugh at some of these motherfucker's dog. It
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depends on who it else. You know, they answered the
picnic dog. Some of these motherfucker's answered the pire. You
know you, especially when you just know you can what
motherfucker's asked. Just like a little six year old bad
ass kid, Like this little kid spited me one day
in the store, and I swear if Christopher would have
been a little I asked, Chris, whoop that little boy's ass?
But what was I gonna do? Slap the ship up
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the little kid even though he's on the line, And
I told his mama said you need to get him.
I said that, I said, that's not appropriate. You need
to get that little bad motherfucker. Mm hmmm. What about
you pete for me personally, Yeah, depends on the source
in the context. I get. That's just so often, you know,
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so it's a boat bunch because calling you big as
motherfucker's Peter. Every time I go out. Every time I
go out, I'll be very blunt any time. I'll be really, really,
really blunt at any time I'm around you guys with
what to buy girls, that's happening. If I'm not my
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friends and some some brothers see you, they treatment yep. Again.
If we come back home and we go somewhere because
I want to see somebody, call you one while I'm
right there. First of all, don't let me say something man.
Me being originally from the Midwest, I used to always
argue with my partners about this. We would be somewhere
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random and they may see a white dude with a
black girl. They would get mad. As some motherfucker. I
would be like, dude, as much white pussy as y'all getting.
What are y'all worried about that? With that white boy
doing from And I don't give him white girls numbers
if they want, And that's my big like, dude, as
long as it's not my girl and you messing with
my girl, and I don't give a damn. Yeah. That's
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a self us theme thing, because if you're worried about
what the next man heaven, that's an issue. That's that's
blame ge and I know me and Pete. When somebody
and me and Pete wins somewhere, somebody called Peter bitch
as nigga. I'm fine that ship, oh, but they're not
gonna do it if you're around. When I'm with my friends.
Most of my friends are huge guys. No one says
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a word when I the second I met somebody's birthday
and I come alone. As soon as I walked to
the bathroom, someone's sliding. They've seen me from forty minutes ago.
As soon as I leave, they catch me. They catch
me right outside the bathroom. I've had to happen four
or five times, you know. And they name a girl's
names and ship like that at me. I'm like, bro,
I don't even when was this, I even like last Thursday.
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They move on. I'm like, I don't even know your bitch,
and I'm like you, if you have to pull your
phone out and show me a picture your bitch, this
is highly let's is low priority. Shipped to me that
that's jealousy right there, man, that's in an envy and
jealousy and I would never know that may not be
envy and jealous. Pete might be fucking somebody. Bit I
didn't know who this guy wasn't who what's going on
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on the one time that's happened, these dudes came up
on me at, um, what's that? Who could place so
over off of Hollywood Boulevard? That's way up in the
little alleyway off of Hollywood Me neither, I hate him,
but then you know, and I forgot the girl's name
even in the story. But it's like, oh, first, it's
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lame the fight over pussy anyway, man, because we don't
own the fiction. We don't own like any pussy. Next,
you got dog, I don't care what else. Dog, that's
your ship on leash, dog a woman, Go do what
the fun you want to do. I'm not fighting nobody
open no pussy dog. Yeah, but that ain't always why
nigga fight. It's and it's not always why they're they're
not challenging me over the girl to challenge me over.
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I'm not gonna stand there and do this now. The thing,
illg I agree with that nothing to get to the subject. Now.
If it's just a toss up dog, toss up bro,
and it it's a random niggat like it's It's like,
if it's your girl and it's a random dude, you
can't be mad at to do because he don't know
who the funk you are. If I find out you
and Peter knocking my people down, it's gonna be issue.
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I'm gonna try to bring it to you all. Wait
a minute, did the person come inside my house or
he just seen it? It don't matter. And if he
came in my house and see me in clothes, I'm
I'm shooting, Oh yeah, for sure, dog, And that's a
sign of disrespect right there, because you were within your rights.
My thing is this, you shouldn't even be looking at
the homies woman. Well I'm not even talking about the
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hommies woman. I think it ain't even the only it
could be a perfect you. I think you have a
culture of men that tried to sleep with other people's girlfriends,
whether they know them or not, girlfriends wise whatever, you
know what I mean, for the sake of one up
in the niggad one up in somebody. So it's like,
that's why I don't believe in that ship of Oh, well,
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you know what, I ain't tripping, you know, she just's her.
She could do no, because it ain't about you. He
If it was like some genuine stuff, it'd be different.
But I know dudes who really just target people's girl.
They target, right. If you target somebody's girl, it's like
she let's say, I don't know you, right, but I
know that your lady is your lady, right. Yeah, the
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moment I know you, bro, I deserve anything to come
my way and stepping out of the the line trying to
step to your woman because I already saw she had
a guy. So let me ask you a question. Back
to the point I'm saying, I digress. If somebody calls
you a nigger in them all, do they desire to
be slapped in the face. It depends on It depends
on the premise. Now, if it's an aggressive ass mother,
if it's a ninety year old man, I'm gonna laugh
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apop and say, man, gets your old Craig's ass on,
I'm tripping him. But if it's the motherfucker that's one
of them young arias can't hit motherfucker's, I'm gonna try
to beat the dog shit out his ask everything he
even thought bad about black youth Field that day. Where
are you at with freedom? Of speech, Peter, freedom speechs me.
You shouldn't be legally prosecuted for something you say, or
it shouldn't be people should just get on and don't
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care about what you think. Freedom of speech is a
legal principle. Sure, that's what it is. There's and there's
there's a philosophical benefit to freedom of speech. But again,
like other than okay, so let's even take it out
of the physical threat environment. Right, So let's say I
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own a transmission store and I want to put up
a Confederate flag of my transmission store. Am I llegally
allowed to? Yes? Do I need to consider that it
might possibly be bad for business moving forward? I would
probably be smart to do that as also, so I
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might not get sued, I might get jumped. At minimum,
I'm gonna take a significant financial loss. So, whether it's
that ramification, whether it's can say whatever I want to say,
what are you gonna do? So? No, but I'll drag
you across this fucking parking lot. Well, what costs are
you willing to pay? That's fair, That's what That's also
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why I feel like the things that come out of
our mouths we don't think, and people for us wildest
people think that I talked. I'm always thinking about still
how many arguments we didn't got into bunch conference over
the years. Have I ever called you out your name?
In life? And we don't do that. We we fight
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like brothers fight. Though we talked ship, the don't about
it to be laughing about it the next day. Degree
have ever called you out your name? Have I ever said,
Pete Man, don't make me hurt you? Not that I
can recall. I would have left promptly. My my thing is,
I'm not gonna say it because what if you win? Yeah,
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I cannot be I've been in enough fights to understand.
You can't really whoop nobody. You can't size up and
what nobody? You actually have to physically go through a fight.
So it's the way you talk to other human beings,
you know what I'm saying, when you talk to them,
especially if it's somebody. You know, if it's somebody even
I beat up, I'm gonna talk to him like I
got some sense because I know I beat them up.
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They might shoot me this time. Yeah. But there's this
weird space that's happening in the landscape, and I'm blaming
social media where people feel like they can say whatever
they want. Like you could be in a bowling alley,
right and minus wherever bowling alley, whether you in Georgia, Texas, California,
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any bowling alley. I would never say to a bunch
of niggas, that's even my niggas, even my guys. I
would not say, let me get a body if I
can hurt somebody, well, gee, that's you know what it
comes down to. At the end of the day. It
comes down to respect. First of all me, you're get
in the argument. I would never call because you'll respect you.
You're my friend. I'm not gonna every disrespect you because
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they ain't never that serious. I don't want to value
our friend ship too much. And I respect you as
a man, just like you respect me as a man.
We can have argument and disagree, though we can agree,
disagree to disagree, agree to disagree. There's nothing wrong with that.
And even though I'm physically bigger than Peter, I'm not
gonna disrespect Peter as a man. I don't see. That's
what we fall short a man. That's why usually you
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see in certain incidents happen is because people don't have
respect at the end of the day and they think
they can just get away with saying whatever they want
to say. And I understand the repercussions. That's it's actions.
Whenever you say something to someone broke, you gotta be
willing to stand on it and perceive what whatever happened next. Yeah,
I think people don't play the long game, for one,
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which just goes back to you saying people don't think
before they talk. But there's there's certainly an absence of
the long game. And I think that there's multiple factors
with regard to um two people shooting off at the
mouth and not thinking that something's going to happen. I
think some of the social media, I think some of
us the legal landscape because the stakes for penalty to
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try to deter keep going up and up and up
and up and up and up and up. So the
half ass guy who might throw punches, he doesn't stakes
too high for him. So so so so now the
times that something is going to happen, they're not gonna
happen small because the only person who's gonna serve five
over knocking you out over calling him the name is
a serious fucking individual, you know what I mean. So
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you've now distilled only the most extreme of individuals into
the action individuals. Everybody else is a talk, shut up
and move on individual. There's no there's no spectrum, there's
no gradient in a post. Like in the nineteen fourties
or fifties, there was everyone's grandpa. Back in the day,
we used to just throw some punches. Yeah, because you
could throw some punches and nothing happened. The only thing
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happened was you lost the fight. That's the end of it.
Now you lose a fight, or when a fighting goes
serve three years, you want probation for five. Yeah, you see,
like you see if Peter, nobody thinks about the consequences.
I think one thing that happens when you get older
and you get to a point in life, as you
think about things before you do them. You have to.
You can't afford not to because one wrong decision, you
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can look up and your wife could be slumped over
in the car, dead with a bullet in her head.
Because it's some dumb ships. You see it exactly. That's
why I Hey, I had a couple of girls. Sometimes
like honking my horn at somebody else in traffic. Man,
it's another thing I sweetheart, I don't do roll rage. Dog,
I don't do roll rage, and I don't mean to
cut you off, Pete. I don't do roll rage at
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oh dog, I'm not bumping the horns. I'm not. If
you stuck at the light and it's time to go,
I'm not bumping the horns. I'll just drive around you.
It's to me, I tell people all the time. Sometimes
I think people get a little intimidated because I talk loud.
But I'm a street racer, so that's just part of
you know, show I'm a wrapper industry racer and the
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street that you showcase the stage, you're on the stage
popping it. But I don't talk like I'm really careful
what I say to people and how aggressively I pursue.
Like my thing is, I don't have an aggressive level
of life. Let me let me coun down for somebody.
Then we're going to a fight, then we're going to this.
I'm really zero all the way, Like I'm nothing to punches.
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You say something to me, oh, man, glass, bitch has
nigga blah blah blah, and why would you you know,
what's what's the what's the problem. Oh you know, if
if I still feel any sense of intimidation, it's right
to punches. And if I think your physical threat to
my life is right to shooting, it don't matter. And
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this is what I was saying, is still the consequences.
I'd rather deal with a motherfucking jury of twelve than
a grave. I'd rather be in prison for life than dead.
What I'm saying, I just can't live in a space
to where I allow somebody, you know. And again that's
how I look at what people say to me, you know,
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I mean, like, that's why I'm telling you what people
be at that life stuff. I don't drive around them
when I barely miss an accident, I just stopped and
just drive back and get going. Somebody doing some bullshit,
I don't look at the car. You now, you'd be
looking at somebody car. I don't look in the fucking car.
I just drive right past them. I'm looking to make
sure they're okay. Does your outcome conscious? That's the best
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thing to do, and that's what more unlikely while you're
still sitting beyd that's why you're sitting behind this microphone
to day broke live and well, because we can really
put ourselves Remember, we just talked about that the other day.
I'm a firm believer when you see these just random
things like a whole house for the people and got
shot up or something happens. Something happened, bro, Ain't nobody
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just stuff. They did something, Man, they did something, or
someone that's close to them did something. Nobody is just
walking up in the house. Bro. It may happen every
once in a while where you get a maniac walking
somewhere and just but they're not something deliberate. Dog, It's
not happening like that. Yeah, you've done something. You don't
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know where people are. You can't under thistimate nobody, bro, Black, white,
Mexican or whatever. I don't want this making nobody. I
look at everybody as uh, they could be that could
beat my potential murderer right there. So is there anything
somebody can say that you like, this is gonna get
your ass whooped? First, we already established if you call
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me a bitch that spending on you better be that
motherfucker man working in the meat section and fucking croker
or something, because if we do on the motherfucking thing,
I'm thinking you're trying to try me. Let's say they're
not trying to call it. Try you. They just think
your bits always scrapping. I'm people have to prove of me.
I'm a bit. You have to prove it. You have
to prove it. We fight, Peter, Is there anything you know?
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I'm motherfucking came. Yeah, it's like, Peter, is there anything
that's like or is this just nigga molments? Like he's that,
Oh I'm white called the big as motherfucker every weekend.
He don't get a fun It depends on what the
on it is. Because because if some guy wants to
do that and you want to try to mask it,
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like you're trying to take my girl, I do. I
usually do the same thing. I go walk over here.
Then there she is, get her number, your game so strong,
get her number and they don't remember and they never
can do it. But what does she get the motherfucker
the number? Peter, what do you do? Then? Then she
said that saved me two hundred dollars on the night
I can go home. It's a win win situation. Man.
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Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Sillers Podcast with your host now funk that with your
low glasses Malone. He said, man, let's go, bro, I
ain't even playing with these niggas like that far right
to hurt somebody. And that's when all helped Broke lose. Right, Yeah, yeah, man,
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you know, And that was after a sound like he
was insulting the way that guy looks right and I
was dressed well, I don't know because who was saying,
like dressing like you just came back and playing again
basketball or something like that. I don't know. I don't
I don't even know everything. I don't know the context,
you know, I mean, like and if I start thinking
about the context of how it happened, and it's just gossip.
(00:52):
But the one thing I did hear and see him
say from the video is, man, let's go, man, let's
get a party. If I had to hurt somebody, and
you know what, man, like you said, it's all about context.
They could have very much been joking around. Bro. No, No,
didn't he say right before that? Wasn't he talking about
the way somebody was dressed? Because I I didn't understand,
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I don't even think that's as important as that one
specific line before I have to hurt somebody, you know, gee,
coming from the area place that we come from. Bro,
you really can't play with people, man. You can't make
idle threats, um, because I know I take threats very seriously,
because I've seen people make threats and carry those threats out.
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So I can't afford to play which and challenges. And
I want to ask you, I know I consider that
a threat. Don't you consider that a threat? Oh? Very much,
so very much. So. You know, if if a guy
is in the especially if we are to town right
and they all the towns and they tell me, let's
say we are with some guys from wherever, from Houston,
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New York, off Nick pop whatever, and now hear that,
niggas say, Man, let's go for it to hurt one
of these niggas. I'm handling my business because I don't
know what you got on your mind at that point.
I don't know if you're just talking to just being
braggadocious and boisterous at that point. You know it, Mike,
going about your business. But I don't know if you're
gonna turn around dumping I know, it was something that
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didn't need to be saying. If they was gonna leave,
they should have just left them one on about that.
And that's my point. Um. Somebody could hear this and
automatically think like I'm blaming Quavo right for what happened,
would take off and it's not. What I'm saying is
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the importance of the ship that come out of our mouth,
the energy we bring with the ship that come out
of our mouth, especially in those situations right now. You know,
mainstream media and some people in the culture will make key,
make you believe that hip hop is under attack from
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the fans. Not at all, not at all. And I
listened to that right because you heard one thousand stories
specifically about because that situation with them, you know, dice games,
basketball games, gambling, blah blah blah. But that little small
tig bit, right, that little small tig bit right there,
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let's get a party. If I have to hurt somebody
paraphraser that anywhere in any ghetto is pretty much a
threat and at the minimum you might kick your ass.
It's not a much you are going to kick your ass.
Somebody's gonna make you stand on. Okay, you can hurt somebody.
We go, we go make go see, we need to see,
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we need It's as much a challenge as a threat,
especially when you're out of town. You're gonna go on
some of other turfs that I'm gonna come down here
and I'm gonna have to hurt somebody. Who are you
gonna hurt? You from? You're not from out here? And
I just was thinking because right, um take off funeral
recipes to take Off, And I feel really sick for
Quavo and all Set, you know what I mean. I
know they're going through whatever they're going through as they group,
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but you know, Quavo and him was like brothers. No,
I mean, I know Takeoff was his nephew, but they
were like brothers. They were raised like brothers because they're
so close in age. And uh that's a little advertising. Um,
they were so close in age. But when people asked
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me about situations, I did the hip hop homicide thing
right Pitty Centers producer Vanli then Pete Frank. Shout out
to Pete Frank from up top, much respect to my
people's that's making their moves and going legit. And I
said certain things on the television show make sure you
check it out hip hop homicide, Uh fifty cent Pete
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Frank Vanley, Then it's really dope. So on we TV cable.
But I said some things, and I realized people a
few people felt some kind of way because I said
what I said, and they asked me this, hey man, glasses,
how do you go around just saying what you want
to say? And I'm like, well, I don't really say
what I want to say. I say what needs to
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be said. I won't say anything extra prime example in
that particular situation with Quavo, I would never tell no niggas,
not even out of town. I wouldn't tell niggas from
a hundred and seventeen street from my actual gang. If
I'm having a conversation with Pluck and and and Boom,
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my homeboys, and we right there and we have a disagreement,
the last thing I would say is let me get
a body in fact to hurt somebody. I'm going to
do one or one or two. Man, I'm gonna get
about it, y'all tripping, Let me get up bout here,
I'm leaving, or I'm just going to hurt somebody. Yeah,
pretty much, there's no need to explain, and I don't
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know if this is hip hop. You know again, I
think we've had a conversation, and I told you how
I feel about flexing. How flex and brings this really
weird attention to us because we're always flexing on poor people,
so it brings us unnecessary energy. Well, also like that
that that stunning or flexing culture. Also there's this ridiculous
(06:22):
sense of provado of where we want to demean each other,
Like we don't physically sometimes just want to get our
point across. The goal is to demean somebody else, you know,
to say something to make them feel like not physically
apply pressure and and go through that physical exchange, but
literally to defeat them in a way to make them
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feel like less than. So we'll say something like, man,
I hurt you niggas or beat your ass, Like why
would you say. It's like parents when you have kids,
you know, you tell your kids, I'm beat your ask
when I get home. That is the worst part of
the whooping, that three or four hours you wait for
your parents get home, waiting on that ass whooping is torture.
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So somebody telling you, man, I beat your ass or
maybe knock you out me and my younger brother Kate
Case that we argue about that all the time. I
always tell him, you do too much talking, feel me,
and way too much warning, Like if I'm gonna fight you,
I'm just gonna take off on you. I'm not gonna
say I'm gonna hurt you. I'm gonna knock you out
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if i'm If I'm saying that, I really don't want
to fight you. And from what I understand, Bro, they
had been playing basketball. Now this is just what I heard.
I'm like this all out of all stuff we heard,
so go ahead. So you don't know if they had
just been whooping back and forth with each other. That's
why I don't play with people. You know, some people
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like playing when you getting the heat of competition, people
get to getting comfortable and stuff. And said, everybody not playing, Bro,
Pete where you grew up in high school? Is that
something that's okay for somebody to say, I'm gonna leave
here if I have to hurt one of y'all. Yeah.
The difference, like the most radical difference that I learned
in a immediate time was going from like night bars
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where there's a lot of liquor flowing around in coast,
Orange County to Oakland because I moved obviously there in
a day. So from Friday night I'm at one jointing,
that Saturday night, I'm in Oakland. It's like someone steps
on your shoe. They give you, you give him a look.
If they don't acknowledge an apology. The brawl happens in
(08:36):
nine seconds because people don't not want to get involved.
They want to get involved. It's like the old adage
the wish factor, where it's like Orange County guys were
huffing puff and wolf because they're trying to save save face,
like they want to look like they're tough, but they
really don't want to do it, so they'll try to
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like posture the other the other person into bluffing or
backing out because they really don't want to do it.
And I think that's what's happening more times than not,
No sellings jail. Usually my brother Peter Bias up in
the Spit is not Resident Expert podcast savant Big still
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sub big bro Man, I'm good man. You know one
thing I wanted to say about this. You know we're
having this conversation contholes this man to eminate families. Man
it's like you said earlier, I know they're going through
it as a father, as a friend. You know, I
feel that, man. You know, death is never easy, but
when it comes in this manner, is just so unnecessary
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because you know, in Proverbs it says man of tone
speaks life and death. There is a lot of power
of things that you say, bro, And I'm one of
those people that really believe that, Like I don't call
me and I don't call me and bitches. If I
think you're I'm gonna treat you like one, I'm gonna
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start beating your ass. What I'm saying straight up, I don't.
I don't get into the whole you know, useless verbiage
of trying to defeat your mental, of trying to make
you feel like less. Stand I'm gonna show you. If
I'm gonna show you I'm superior, we're physically gonna get
into it so I can show you and and and
(10:30):
validate whatever point I'm trying to make. But today's time,
because of social media, I think it's getting way worse
because people are used to saying what they want to
say and not be held accountable. And and I every
time I think about takeoff, passing away getting rest in peace,
(10:51):
and I feel bad for his family, all the rap group,
the whole Atlanta, you know what I mean. They really
love him, boys, the whole Georgia, so everybody, actually, the
whole world loved them. It was tough, but I hear
that repeating in my head over and over again, and
this is that culture that's happening over and over again.
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I saw an interview or I saw pnb Rock on
live and him saying, did niggas knew better than to
rob him? See? It's one thing to put some of
this ship in rap lyrics and rapid now it becomes
a jam in a song. It's another thing to issue
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a challenge to poor people going through and looking at
you like maybe you could provide an opportunity and switching
their vision into you becoming the opportunity. Do you see
that that that that that time he was on live
that I'm talking about and he was just talking crazy again.
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The tongue speaks life and death. Man. When you speak
into the universe, man, you're pretty much asking forward to occur.
You're asking for it to happen. If I go outside
the day and not tell somebody, somebody bumps my shoulder.
We in the grocery store, and I tell him you
touched me again. Man, I'm gonna suck you up. If
I get beat down the store that day, then what
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nobody's fault but mine. Yeah, I don't understand what people
are warning each other for. Woman, go with Peter. I
feel like from what I've observed in the community, there's
there's two parallel yet perpendicular hierarchies of respect. And you
can either be a part of the one or part
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of the other. Everybody wants to be both, but more
often than not, you're gonna be one or the other.
And that's a financial hierarchy or it's just you as
a brute force man hierarchy. And and for a lot
of people who haven't moved up the financial hierarchy, it's Look,
this is my name. It's very important to me. You
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might drive better car to me, but I'll beat the
dog shit out of you here and now because that's
what I put my name on, that's what I respect.
My respect comes that way, doesn't come from my tax returns.
So you started issuing these challenges to that something that
you know, a lawyer takes his profession very seriously. Maybe
people in that type of environment takes something else very seriously.
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So you start to throw words around. Not now you're
demanding did I validate who I am right now? Yeah?
And whether we and whether we realize it or not,
this is the same pair of little As or Land
or Tupac. It's just two different scenarios, two different scenarios,
you know, because with rappers, they have a certain posture
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that they do and like you know how they went
off from Joe Button's that time. Of course, Joe Buttons
and academics not gonna fight, y'all, that's not what they do.
So I think people get comfortable running off of the
mouth a little bit too much. Man. They don't realize
sometimes and everybody will get with them, a bunch of
stas because when you got money, now you're a newport fighter.
Now you want to yap and you don't want to
fight because your hierarchy is defined by your finance and
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your profession. Is this Is this only a cultural problem?
P or is this everywhere throughout community? I would imagine
that that's men in general. I mean this, this doesn't
happen in the community. Walk into Whole Foods and be like,
maybe can move out my way if I've hurt somebody
and your way if I were yeah, yeah, if I'm
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at the grocery store and Newport Coast or down on
whatever south by the grocery store on keep a scan.
You know, it's an insular, highly wealthy environment. Physically, I
can do what the funk I want to if I
want to. I'm not gonna take that ship over the
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Liberty City, over the food for less on Wilmington's. I'm
not going over there and doing that ship. But you
don't think none of those white folks up in that particular.
I know for a fact because because I'm the guy
that loses his fucking patients in that environment. I'm that
guy because when people get mad at me down there.
The last time I saw a bar fight and where
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I come from for fish story reasons that I didn't tell.
I had this bizarre reputation that people thought I was
like somebody to really be reckoned with My friends, of
which there were four and the opposition was ten were
really wasted and I really wasn't drinking that night, so
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I didn't. I knew that they couldn't defend themselves, right,
So I'm like, let me just get my four buddies
out of here, because if this thing turns into situation
they can barely walk, they're gonna die, like they'll get
they'll be the first people stomped to death by surfers.
Let's get them the hell out of here. So I'm
just trying to get them out of there. Of course,
the whole ship, everybody in that whole parking lot got
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took shots to the face except me. Nobody would touch me.
It was unbelievable. I grabbed guys off of one of
my friends to throw them on the ground. Looked at him,
didn't get up, just stay there, look healthy, just looked
at me, didn't want to touch me. It was bizarre.
It was bizarre, but that when you got a lot
to lose, you don't want to lose it exactly. And again, man,
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I just think that we're in the error g that
where people are so full of hubrisk and braggadocies that
they really feel like they're above almost like they're above
anybody actually reacting to what they said. They're used to
pretty much saying what they want to and getting on
about their business with no type of repercussions. Um right,
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now in a time where again people are saying that
like rappers is under attack or rapping is a dangerous job,
versus understanding. These are the people that are the master
of words, and it really comes down to the words
that they are using. That That's something I keep thinking about.
Um still, can somebody call you a bit? In McDonald's
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the man called me a bit? G done that day? Like,
hey man, I was here first. You're like, oh man,
there's no problem. You know, I didn't know. Yeah, nigga,
you know, bitchy as nigga. No, bro, we were fighting
that day. We're nothing up. You need to see. Yeah
he was the bitch. Yeah we go have to knuckle up.
He who had to stand on calling me a bitch?
You have to really stand on that that day? How
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about you, Peters, that's something you just walk away from.
If they're lucid, I'm gonna make a learning you have
to deserve to call you one. I mean like if
if like you know, like guys the Growth Store want
money and I'm like, get the hell out of here.
I'm like, dude, you're crack and you don't know what
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And like Peter, you don't have to earn it. If
it like the let's say it's the manager. If the manager,
I'm gonna havenlet weight different because you called me a
bitch in your store. You see what I'm saying. If
he's gonna lose his job that day for stam, I'm
sure because the manager like you you you said, oh no,
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you get a burger back I asked for you know,
I asked no onions. I'm not having to make design
to make it again. If you want to take it
out of the professional environment, that's fine. I'm not gonna
try to act like this is now out of the
professional environment, but then try to backdoor it back in
like I'm not gonna like act a certain way. Dare
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you call me some names and then try to get
you fired for calling me some names? But if you
want to do that. Look, if you want to quit
your job here and now the parking lots right there,
that's fine. I'm not I'm not gonna call corporate. I
won't call corporate. But if you want to quit your
job right now when parking lots right there, you know,
And it depends in the circumstance. It depends on the circumstances.
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Like you said, the manager might even get knocked out.
That there depends on how you know, on how it was.
Is he mumbling under his breath? And did I hear him?
When I was leaving he added to you, Oh yeah,
you know what, man, Honestly, he might be trying to
he's trying to degrade you. He made this leap behind
that rexor that theay dog. What's what's what's some overreacting?
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Like what what? What's a Because now as a gang member, right,
people think that you know you you come from a
culture of overreacting. You have to know where you are
because to be honest with you, gee, and this is
just a law and me just being a more of
a thinker now to anything else, you have to recognize
the situation you're in because, honestly, if I'm an Albert
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Sins and the guy calls me a bitch, if I
knocked that man outg I'm going to jail because it
doesn't matter. You can't go around putting your hands on
people for words they say to you. That's the law
for me, and called me a bitch and I'm knocked
him out. He's sucking around and hit his head in
the corner and die. I'm going to jail for murder,
not behind the word. It's a little different now if
I'm outside and the dude bumps it to my car
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whatever like that bitch as niger. Watch up. Oh I'm
sliding that nigger. And that's the point, Like, that's the
subtle subty of the snitching conversations we keep having. If
you want to keep this in the law enforced environment,
keep it in a law enforced environment. What difference is
old on people? Let me tell you the difference now
that dude that calls you a First of all, I'll
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look at situations. If it's a little five ft nine
dude and hundred fifty pounds, so can wet and he
called me a picture of snigger. First thing, I'm thinking this,
This motherfucker got a hammer in his pocket. He got
a hammer on the I'm gonna have to whoop his
ass because I'm not gonna let him get off from
me with the hammer. Who's to say I'm called? You know,
who's to say if I try to be the bigger man.
I don't want to get smoked that day. I know
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that manager in that story, he's not coming with no
intentions like that. You don't He's not a threat beyond
his word. Understand what I mean, He's not a threat.
It's kind of like it's kind of like, you know what,
I'm not gonna get him to with this motherfucker is
to each other to day. But that dude outside, he
very much may have a pistol on this as it's
some motherfucker's just looking to give it to a motherfucker pete.
And and my right is someone just looking at this
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the motherfucker. And that's kind of where I was going
with it. If you're in a protected by law environment,
you have to understand what is going to happen in
that environment. And if you're not, understand what's gonna happen
in that environment. But don't try to bring the one
into the other. That's all I was gonna saying. Yeah,
you came both, man, you gotta leave the girl outside sometimes, Yeah,
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don't bring the law into It's okay if somebody call
you a bit as they at the Beverly Center. No,
I'm saying on the premise again, let's say you're in
a Beverly Center and you walking with jazz, you know,
your daughter, your wife, and a dude see you and
he like fucking nigger. He just see you at which place?
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Is it okay to just go to jail? That's to me,
that's the separation between being a street Mine is the
word game, and let's take that Outdea. You just say,
obiden by the laws of the street where you you
pretty much have a sense of justice, which placed for
a regular person like you still who's not necessarily into
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the lifestyle. It's like, you know what this is worth
going to jel over? You know what she when you
said my wife and daughter with me, my wife and
daughter and my presence and they're walking with me, I'm
probably gonna walk away from most situations because I'm not
gonna put them in no type of danger. Do you
understand what I mean? Because now it's just not me
I'm worried about if I'm about myself and somebody say
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that I could whoop this dude's ask and I could
deal with whatever come with it, right, But if Jasmine
and Maria there, how do I know his homies ain't
gonn run the store? And now my daughter and my
wife is getting backed up and I'm fighting two or
three dudes. You s what I mean? Friend of your
wife front of my wife. I'm gonna make sure I
get them to safety. Dog. And then if I run
across the dues again and deals with the deals. It depends. Now,
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if it's me and you're walking together and somebody says
something the pocket though it's going down. But if I'm
with my daughter man and my wife, I can't put
them in a situation. Bro, I'll have walked away from
six ways the nigger lovers. Nigger lovers. He would feel
to say what he wanted to, but the moment he
and croached like in croach, I'm talking about getting if
he came to my wife's face or something like that,
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Oh he he didn't he if any threatning matter? He getting.
You love this nigger. We're going on about our business,
but we're not even let me fight him. Dog. My
wife is not gonna let me fight him, because that's ignorant. Dog.
It's like sometimes you have to know when to walk
away as a man. I don't know. Man, I think
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I got it. I think I gotta give me what
he asked for. Well, you know what, if you would,
I'm gonna tell you, bro, if you wish, so, if
you wish your stepdaughter and with Brandy dog. You can think, oh,
way he's different. Back up, you gonna think way different.
She's not gonna want to back up, dough, Bro, She's
gonna be trying to pull you out of danger like
a boy to dance the dance six sheet. I'm gonna
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tell you something, Bro. The whole thing, the issue going on,
this has nothing to do with hip hop. This is
all about you Brisk and test usterone bro, and people
feeling themselves and thinking. But is it really if somebody
is trying to demean you, Like, if somebody's trying to
demean you, why is it required that you say okay? Um?
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So in the Christian faith they teach you to turn
the other chief, So I totally understand that. But what
if you're not operating from that table? At which place
does justice make sense? Is it fair to say if
I slap him on side his face, is that the
equal to him calling me a nigger? Again? Bro, you
have to assist the threat the manager to do. Working
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inside of football, you more than likeying gotten on hand
ruin him. The dude is out there talking reckless. More
than likely he's talking reckless for a reason because he
feels like he has the upper hand somehow. Let's say,
what are you saying? You only the words only matter
there if you feel there's an imminent danger after it. Yes,
because the things broke. My confidence is very high. I
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have like I'm not no big shot as motherfucker's So, dude,
some motherfucker calling me out my name don't define who
I am. But it depends on this in a situation
and circumstances. If I feel like, you know what this dude,
I'm gonna have to fuck him up because this motherfucker dangerous.
He may have a hammer on them. Some motherfucker's is
more dangerous with knives and they are all with guns.
It's some mother it's some bad motherfucker's with knives out there,
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So you have to eliminate that thrick. I'm not gonna
give me doing a chance to get off on me. Dude,
I'm not gonna give you a chance if I feel
like you have to so you are more so you
are more into the habit of people can say what
they want to to each other and nobody should react.
Oh no, I didn't say that at all. It depends
on the situation. Bro. It's not worth me putting my
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family in danger. That's for damn sure, it's just not
worth me c C. You know some people, man, um,
some folks have a certain let low, selfish thing about
themselves to where every little thing somebody say about them,
it's like, dude, like you just gotta beet The other day,
you gotta laugh at some of these motherfucker's dog. It
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depends on who it else. You know, they answered the
picnic dog. Some of these motherfucker's answered the pire. You
know you, especially when you just know you can what
motherfucker's asked. Just like a little six year old bad
ass kid, Like this little kid spited me one day
in the store, and I swear if Christopher would have
been a little I asked, Chris, whoop that little boy's ass?
But what was I gonna do? Slap the ship up
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the little kid even though he's on the line, And
I told his mama said you need to get him.
I said that, I said, that's not appropriate. You need
to get that little bad motherfucker. Mm hmmm. What about
you pete for me personally, Yeah, depends on the source
in the context. I get. That's just so often, you know,
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so it's a boat bunch because calling you big as
motherfucker's Peter. Every time I go out. Every time I
go out, I'll be very blunt any time. I'll be really, really,
really blunt at any time I'm around you guys with
what to buy girls, that's happening. If I'm not my
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friends and some some brothers see you, they treatment yep. Again.
If we come back home and we go somewhere because
I want to see somebody, call you one while I'm
right there. First of all, don't let me say something man.
Me being originally from the Midwest, I used to always
argue with my partners about this. We would be somewhere
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random and they may see a white dude with a
black girl. They would get mad. As some motherfucker. I
would be like, dude, as much white pussy as y'all getting.
What are y'all worried about that? With that white boy
doing from And I don't give him white girls numbers
if they want, And that's my big like, dude, as
long as it's not my girl and you messing with
my girl, and I don't give a damn. Yeah. That's
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a self us theme thing, because if you're worried about
what the next man heaven, that's an issue. That's that's
blame ge and I know me and Pete. When somebody
and me and Pete wins somewhere, somebody called Peter bitch
as nigga. I'm fine that ship, oh, but they're not
gonna do it if you're around. When I'm with my friends.
Most of my friends are huge guys. No one says
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a word when I the second I met somebody's birthday
and I come alone. As soon as I walked to
the bathroom, someone's sliding. They've seen me from forty minutes ago.
As soon as I leave, they catch me. They catch
me right outside the bathroom. I've had to happen four
or five times, you know. And they name a girl's
names and ship like that at me. I'm like, bro,
I don't even when was this, I even like last Thursday.
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They move on. I'm like, I don't even know your bitch,
and I'm like you, if you have to pull your
phone out and show me a picture your bitch, this
is highly let's is low priority. Shipped to me that
that's jealousy right there, man, that's in an envy and
jealousy and I would never know that may not be
envy and jealous. Pete might be fucking somebody. Bit I
didn't know who this guy wasn't who what's going on
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on the one time that's happened, these dudes came up
on me at, um, what's that? Who could place so
over off of Hollywood Boulevard? That's way up in the
little alleyway off of Hollywood Me neither, I hate him,
but then you know, and I forgot the girl's name
even in the story. But it's like, oh, first, it's
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lame the fight over pussy anyway, man, because we don't
own the fiction. We don't own like any pussy. Next,
you got dog, I don't care what else. Dog, that's
your ship on leash, dog a woman, Go do what
the fun you want to do. I'm not fighting nobody
open no pussy dog. Yeah, but that ain't always why
nigga fight. It's and it's not always why they're they're
not challenging me over the girl to challenge me over.
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I'm not gonna stand there and do this now. The thing,
illg I agree with that nothing to get to the subject. Now.
If it's just a toss up dog, toss up bro,
and it it's a random niggat like it's It's like,
if it's your girl and it's a random dude, you
can't be mad at to do because he don't know
who the funk you are. If I find out you
and Peter knocking my people down, it's gonna be issue.
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I'm gonna try to bring it to you all. Wait
a minute, did the person come inside my house or
he just seen it? It don't matter. And if he
came in my house and see me in clothes, I'm
I'm shooting, Oh yeah, for sure, dog, And that's a
sign of disrespect right there, because you were within your rights.
My thing is this, you shouldn't even be looking at
the homies woman. Well I'm not even talking about the
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hommies woman. I think it ain't even the only it
could be a perfect you. I think you have a
culture of men that tried to sleep with other people's girlfriends,
whether they know them or not, girlfriends wise whatever, you
know what I mean, for the sake of one up
in the niggad one up in somebody. So it's like,
that's why I don't believe in that ship of Oh, well,
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you know what, I ain't tripping, you know, she just's her.
She could do no, because it ain't about you. He
If it was like some genuine stuff, it'd be different.
But I know dudes who really just target people's girl.
They target, right. If you target somebody's girl, it's like
she let's say, I don't know you, right, but I
know that your lady is your lady, right. Yeah, the
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moment I know you, bro, I deserve anything to come
my way and stepping out of the the line trying to
step to your woman because I already saw she had
a guy. So let me ask you a question. Back
to the point I'm saying, I digress. If somebody calls
you a nigger in them all, do they desire to
be slapped in the face. It depends on It depends
on the premise. Now, if it's an aggressive ass mother,
if it's a ninety year old man, I'm gonna laugh
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apop and say, man, gets your old Craig's ass on,
I'm tripping him. But if it's the motherfucker that's one
of them young arias can't hit motherfucker's, I'm gonna try
to beat the dog shit out his ask everything he
even thought bad about black youth Field that day. Where
are you at with freedom? Of speech, Peter, freedom speechs me.
You shouldn't be legally prosecuted for something you say, or
it shouldn't be people should just get on and don't
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care about what you think. Freedom of speech is a
legal principle. Sure, that's what it is. There's and there's
there's a philosophical benefit to freedom of speech. But again,
like other than okay, so let's even take it out
of the physical threat environment. Right, So let's say I
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own a transmission store and I want to put up
a Confederate flag of my transmission store. Am I llegally
allowed to? Yes? Do I need to consider that it
might possibly be bad for business moving forward? I would
probably be smart to do that as also, so I
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might not get sued, I might get jumped. At minimum,
I'm gonna take a significant financial loss. So, whether it's
that ramification, whether it's can say whatever I want to say,
what are you gonna do? So? No, but I'll drag
you across this fucking parking lot. Well, what costs are
you willing to pay? That's fair, That's what That's also
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why I feel like the things that come out of
our mouths we don't think, and people for us wildest
people think that I talked. I'm always thinking about still
how many arguments we didn't got into bunch conference over
the years. Have I ever called you out your name?
In life? And we don't do that. We we fight
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like brothers fight. Though we talked ship, the don't about
it to be laughing about it the next day. Degree
have ever called you out your name? Have I ever said,
Pete Man, don't make me hurt you? Not that I
can recall. I would have left promptly. My my thing is,
I'm not gonna say it because what if you win? Yeah,
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I cannot be I've been in enough fights to understand.
You can't really whoop nobody. You can't size up and
what nobody? You actually have to physically go through a fight.
So it's the way you talk to other human beings,
you know what I'm saying, when you talk to them,
especially if it's somebody. You know, if it's somebody even
I beat up, I'm gonna talk to him like I
got some sense because I know I beat them up.
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They might shoot me this time. Yeah. But there's this
weird space that's happening in the landscape, and I'm blaming
social media where people feel like they can say whatever
they want. Like you could be in a bowling alley,
right and minus wherever bowling alley, whether you in Georgia, Texas, California,
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any bowling alley. I would never say to a bunch
of niggas, that's even my niggas, even my guys. I
would not say, let me get a body if I
can hurt somebody, well, gee, that's you know what it
comes down to. At the end of the day. It
comes down to respect. First of all me, you're get
in the argument. I would never call because you'll respect you.
You're my friend. I'm not gonna every disrespect you because
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they ain't never that serious. I don't want to value
our friend ship too much. And I respect you as
a man, just like you respect me as a man.
We can have argument and disagree, though we can agree,
disagree to disagree, agree to disagree. There's nothing wrong with that.
And even though I'm physically bigger than Peter, I'm not
gonna disrespect Peter as a man. I don't see. That's
what we fall short a man. That's why usually you
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see in certain incidents happen is because people don't have
respect at the end of the day and they think
they can just get away with saying whatever they want
to say. And I understand the repercussions. That's it's actions.
Whenever you say something to someone broke, you gotta be
willing to stand on it and perceive what whatever happened next. Yeah,
I think people don't play the long game, for one,
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which just goes back to you saying people don't think
before they talk. But there's there's certainly an absence of
the long game. And I think that there's multiple factors
with regard to um two people shooting off at the
mouth and not thinking that something's going to happen. I
think some of the social media, I think some of
us the legal landscape because the stakes for penalty to
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try to deter keep going up and up and up
and up and up and up and up. So the
half ass guy who might throw punches, he doesn't stakes
too high for him. So so so so now the
times that something is going to happen, they're not gonna
happen small because the only person who's gonna serve five
over knocking you out over calling him the name is
a serious fucking individual, you know what I mean. So
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you've now distilled only the most extreme of individuals into
the action individuals. Everybody else is a talk, shut up
and move on individual. There's no there's no spectrum, there's
no gradient in a post. Like in the nineteen fourties
or fifties, there was everyone's grandpa. Back in the day,
we used to just throw some punches. Yeah, because you
could throw some punches and nothing happened. The only thing
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happened was you lost the fight. That's the end of it.
Now you lose a fight, or when a fighting goes
serve three years, you want probation for five. Yeah, you see,
like you see if Peter, nobody thinks about the consequences.
I think one thing that happens when you get older
and you get to a point in life, as you
think about things before you do them. You have to.
You can't afford not to because one wrong decision, you
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can look up and your wife could be slumped over
in the car, dead with a bullet in her head.
Because it's some dumb ships. You see it exactly. That's
why I Hey, I had a couple of girls. Sometimes
like honking my horn at somebody else in traffic. Man,
it's another thing I sweetheart, I don't do roll rage. Dog,
I don't do roll rage, and I don't mean to
cut you off, Pete. I don't do roll rage at
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oh dog, I'm not bumping the horns. I'm not. If
you stuck at the light and it's time to go,
I'm not bumping the horns. I'll just drive around you.
It's to me, I tell people all the time. Sometimes
I think people get a little intimidated because I talk loud.
But I'm a street racer, so that's just part of
you know, show I'm a wrapper industry racer and the
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street that you showcase the stage, you're on the stage
popping it. But I don't talk like I'm really careful
what I say to people and how aggressively I pursue.
Like my thing is, I don't have an aggressive level
of life. Let me let me coun down for somebody.
Then we're going to a fight, then we're going to this.
I'm really zero all the way, Like I'm nothing to punches.
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You say something to me, oh, man, glass, bitch has
nigga blah blah blah, and why would you you know,
what's what's the what's the problem. Oh you know, if
if I still feel any sense of intimidation, it's right
to punches. And if I think your physical threat to
my life is right to shooting, it don't matter. And
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this is what I was saying, is still the consequences.
I'd rather deal with a motherfucking jury of twelve than
a grave. I'd rather be in prison for life than dead.
What I'm saying, I just can't live in a space
to where I allow somebody, you know. And again that's
how I look at what people say to me, you know,
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I mean, like, that's why I'm telling you what people
be at that life stuff. I don't drive around them
when I barely miss an accident, I just stopped and
just drive back and get going. Somebody doing some bullshit,
I don't look at the car. You now, you'd be
looking at somebody car. I don't look in the fucking car.
I just drive right past them. I'm looking to make
sure they're okay. Does your outcome conscious? That's the best
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thing to do, and that's what more unlikely while you're
still sitting beyd that's why you're sitting behind this microphone
to day broke live and well, because we can really
put ourselves Remember, we just talked about that the other day.
I'm a firm believer when you see these just random
things like a whole house for the people and got
shot up or something happens. Something happened, bro, Ain't nobody
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just stuff. They did something, Man, they did something, or
someone that's close to them did something. Nobody is just
walking up in the house. Bro. It may happen every
once in a while where you get a maniac walking
somewhere and just but they're not something deliberate. Dog, It's
not happening like that. Yeah, you've done something. You don't
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know where people are. You can't under thistimate nobody, bro, Black, white,
Mexican or whatever. I don't want this making nobody. I
look at everybody as uh, they could be that could
beat my potential murderer right there. So is there anything
somebody can say that you like, this is gonna get
your ass whooped? First, we already established if you call
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me a bitch that spending on you better be that
motherfucker man working in the meat section and fucking croker
or something, because if we do on the motherfucking thing,
I'm thinking you're trying to try me. Let's say they're
not trying to call it. Try you. They just think
your bits always scrapping. I'm people have to prove of me.
I'm a bit. You have to prove it. You have
to prove it. We fight, Peter, Is there anything you know?
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I'm motherfucking came. Yeah, it's like, Peter, is there anything
that's like or is this just nigga molments? Like he's that,
Oh I'm white called the big as motherfucker every weekend.
He don't get a fun It depends on what the
on it is. Because because if some guy wants to
do that and you want to try to mask it,
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like you're trying to take my girl, I do. I
usually do the same thing. I go walk over here.
Then there she is, get her number, your game so strong,
get her number and they don't remember and they never
can do it. But what does she get the motherfucker
the number? Peter, what do you do? Then? Then she
said that saved me two hundred dollars on the night
I can go home. It's a win win situation. Man.
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It's a beautiful thing to be white and just get
to do just just the regular large go away on.
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