Laughing Through Life with Kleon The Comedian

Big Bank sits with special guest Kleon The Comedian and dive into his journey into stand-up, the importance of honesty in relationships, and the dynamics of modern dating. They talk side relationships, partner expectations, and lessons learned from personal experiences, all with humor and candid reflections. Also, they touch on accountability, trust, healing after betrayal, and the entrepreneurial spirit. 

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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(01:06):
the king? How you feeling? How you feeling man, blessed man?
First time man, I'm happy to have you.

Speaker 4 (01:11):
Happy to be here, Manna, I've been sitting your clips
there everybody.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
Man, if you have been a fan.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
For years, right versus?

Speaker 3 (01:20):
I want to ask you first off, where your mental
at right now? How you feeling?

Speaker 1 (01:24):
I feeling good man? You know, trying to get out
to the few sessions?

Speaker 3 (01:28):
Yeah, it's coming Trump here?

Speaker 1 (01:30):
Trump?

Speaker 3 (01:31):
Here? Got the cap?

Speaker 1 (01:33):
You talking about Trump? But you know, David, y'all love Trump?
Love Trump?

Speaker 3 (01:36):
You love Trump? What's your son? Oh you're Gemini too? Man?
Here we go already.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
Yeah junior nineteen, I made twenty six.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Oh yeah that I be crazy as I ain't know
that ship. That's crazy. I should have know. Oh damn
all right? She Personal life, early life, Where you come from,
how you coming? Where you going?

Speaker 4 (01:56):
I was born and raised in Baltimore City, Man, I
can tell you that the Liner Project, thirteenth floor.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
Man, Okay, it was rough.

Speaker 1 (02:03):
Niggas get thrown off the builders and ship and typical
hood nigga life in the streets, early single mom singam
woman there, Okay, my father was getting high.

Speaker 4 (02:11):
They end up cleaning the stuff up, opening up a
babble shot. He's successful. Now, okay, all the west bottomare
at that.

Speaker 3 (02:17):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (02:17):
I got into comedy for for real to save to
save my life, to be honest with.

Speaker 3 (02:23):
You, did you? Uh so? So? Was your family? Was
people in your family fund? Or you? Was just you
the only one that had that? Or what? Yo?

Speaker 4 (02:32):
I wasn't the best reader right, so I couldn't read
you good in high school. So I wanted to be actor.
But I know to be an actor you got to
go to college and have to read scripts. At times,
I seen comedians getting into getting into movies off or
doing stand up.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
I said, I'm gonna take a short cut.

Speaker 4 (02:47):
You stand up, build a fan base, and then try
gett into movies that way, get down to set me
in movies out to build my own platform, shoot my
own movies, and sell my ship to him. So that's
really how I got into stand up for real because
I wanted to be active first.

Speaker 3 (03:00):
So do you do you do you when you do
your stand up? Is it real life or you just
do jokes? Or what you do?

Speaker 1 (03:05):
My standup in real life. Okay, it's reality. Yeah you
know what I mean, Like I can I can have
a day and I go on stage and I just
make that day comedy.

Speaker 3 (03:13):
Yeah you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (03:14):
Stand up like a business. For me, I'm just a
nigga who happened to be funny.

Speaker 3 (03:17):
Exactly so, so so how you prepare for a set? Though,
I don't just go up there helling your business.

Speaker 1 (03:24):
I think life is a set.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
Yeah you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (03:26):
Like, should I go through? You just stand up? Really
is commedian complaining? So you're going through, you complain? Just
make it funny and I really be meaning what I say.
So depending on how my mental he is my life.

Speaker 4 (03:36):
If I'm having a part of women, that's my comedy
about what's financial problems? It was about that, it was travel,
whatever it's about, that's what my comedy is gonna be
be come you ever got boot never got?

Speaker 3 (03:47):
That's good? It'll come though, ain't coming, you know what
I'm saying. It will? It depends on where you go.
You go to the wrong spot. You know.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
I never get bored because I'm seasoned, so I know
what to do and what not to do and well
to do.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
Yeah, well yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, crowd boom me.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
I ain't going on.

Speaker 3 (04:04):
Yeah yeah yeah.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
I've been doing to twenty years, so I know I
know when to pick my battle. Oh okay, you can
tell you can get promoted that money back? Oh you
can sit listen. You know my fan base is all women. Yeah,
my jokes is ninety about women.

Speaker 4 (04:19):
And one day I'm in Tampa, Florida promoted book pay
Me Good Money to You. But I go into the
show first is thirty percent white and twenty percent gay men.
So I'm like, I ain't no where I get I said,
I can't tell them these kind jokes in front of
all these gays.

Speaker 1 (04:39):
I talked about fucking women.

Speaker 4 (04:41):
I get promoter's money back. Real there was no way
I could sit there. First of all, I don't got
no white jokes, dance MA, ain't got no gay jokes.
So it was like, yo, I have no content for
these people. But the good thing about nobody knew me,
so they were just they was okay with that, So
anybody was hire at.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
To me, it was fine, who who's your role?

Speaker 3 (05:00):
Who the goat? A comedy? The camera hut came, came, Wow,
will make him go? Came out.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
I look at it from a business standpoint. Okay, so
cav you know he came from the hood. Of course
he blew up, but he liked me.

Speaker 4 (05:18):
He put the he put the bag on himself, so
instead of he booked the ringers out of their own
pocket and whad you put the money that he made
versus going to like a live national promoter and they
give you give you a bag to perform. Crazy sound
like the business part of it. So cave the goat
because he he made the most.

Speaker 1 (05:40):
Money and the black community out of the bed community, Okay,
being funny, he got the bag.

Speaker 3 (05:47):
Who the funniest, It's Scarzy.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
I think that's the funniest.

Speaker 4 (05:53):
I think he's funny because he just he's just naturally.
He just natural and he ain't ryan about getting no bigger.
So he's still gonna talk his ship. But Dave Chappelle's
is more so to the riskies, you know what I mean,
because he gonna talk to you about current situation. You
don't give a fuck on nobody.

Speaker 3 (06:08):
What's some ship that you cared like from from from
from as a young name in Baltimore tea with you
today on stage like.

Speaker 1 (06:14):
Will never back to hand in Fiji.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (06:18):
I'm at one time one of my one one of
my plugs, had want me some money but to do
a show.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
Hit the show. I made the money, and I said,
you know what, I'm just giving his money back and
do my own thing. And told me I don't do
that because you never where're gonna need him again.

Speaker 4 (06:35):
That's one day that stuck with me about to hand
the fugue, and little knows, two months late, I end
up needing Nigga again.

Speaker 1 (06:40):
But I didn't.

Speaker 4 (06:41):
It was a sign like don't cross people, because I was.
I was totally very blessed because I damn she was
to give him money back. In my mind, I'm not
thinking I'm crossing him. I'm I'm getting back what she
gave me. But he'd been rich for a long time,
so he's successful. I'm just starting to learn how to
make money. So that took for Baltimore. I always play
for other people.

Speaker 3 (07:00):
Be right, what's some ship that you can you can
laugh here over and over again? You know how you
can see some ship it's just so funny, no matter
when you see it again, It's it's just gonna always
be funny. Movie wise or just this movie Wise life
or whatever, some ship you heard whatever ship.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
Uh, you have a makeup on my door from a
bitch trying head.

Speaker 4 (07:19):
Huh, you have a makeup on my door. It's face
trying to listen to see who I had in my house.

Speaker 3 (07:30):
Oh, she was laying on the door.

Speaker 4 (07:31):
She put her face like bro, no bullshit, hot face.
Her lip was all on the side of the door,
trying to hear who in my house.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
I could. I could.

Speaker 4 (07:43):
That's a crazy I could laugh that the whole time
because I wasn't even there. I was someone else, that
big guy. She should have got a pocket out and
by a mistake and she heard the whole conversation be
cheating with with somebody else. That's the That's the funniest
thing ever.

Speaker 3 (07:56):
Man.

Speaker 1 (07:56):
That that that that this is really crazy.

Speaker 3 (08:00):
What moment when you knew like, yeah, I'm a comedian,
Like what what's solidified it to you? You know what
I'm saying. I know, we go out there and try ship,
But like when that moment you was like, yeah, I
got the folks when.

Speaker 4 (08:11):
I when I wanted my first competition, I was nineteen,
No jokes, no, nothing that went on stage. Everybody was
vexed and the one the bets can't say.

Speaker 1 (08:22):
You got the voice. People likable your confidence. It'll never
stop what.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
You're planing b with ship dry trucks. Okay, what's some
shit that you like? How? How like in relationship? While
like being a comedian, Like the bitches can't take you serious?
Then you're a gemini. You're flipping back and forth like
how that shit worked for you?

Speaker 1 (08:47):
You know what's crazy?

Speaker 4 (08:49):
They take me very serious because I don't play with
him first and the beginning of the conversation like I'm
a we're good communicators.

Speaker 3 (08:57):
Yeah, for sure.

Speaker 1 (08:58):
They're more scared that I know about women. Then it
can't take me.

Speaker 4 (09:02):
You might got somebody I can't take you seriously? Funny
all right, well I just did a video last night.
Oh but you can't take jumping off and you got serious?

Speaker 3 (09:10):
Yeah, you nigga be jokingly serious.

Speaker 4 (09:14):
You can't take me paying out your deals serious? Then
they changed that mind, Oh you could do all that. See,
people women don't know a lot how much money really
in comedy until they really get around.

Speaker 1 (09:22):
They feel like, oh damn it.

Speaker 3 (09:25):
When you ain't on stage or what you enjoyed doing though, besides,
you know what I'm saying when you ain't on stage, Man,
I like.

Speaker 1 (09:33):
Sitting around drinking wine, people watching. I like studying. I'm
a wine con and social. I like I go to
any responds this chill out.

Speaker 4 (09:44):
People talk to random people, getting knowledgeable and mixing about people.

Speaker 3 (09:48):
I think that's a gift for gem and though the
same way. Yeah, it's just like Nigga. It's like we
can meet the motherfucker one time. It's like I been
knew you, I've been you. Yeah, it's because we can
read energy. Well, like that's something that's that's a gift
and a curse.

Speaker 1 (10:02):
It is a gift because like they to, it took
me five seconds to get to know you. Why I
gotta take you six months you get to know me?
That's the curse that you slow down like you already
know you. If I'm not talking to you talking, you're
telling me everything about you. I already know you. Why
God take you six months to know me? I'm ready? Noah,

(10:22):
for sure, that's a geminianus though, Bro.

Speaker 3 (10:24):
No for sure. It's like you read the room and
then I'm gonna tell you why Why It's a curse
because you try to fight against when you don't want
to see certain shit in certain people. You know what
I'm saying, because your heart, like you might love the motherfucker,
you don't want to see certain shit that you can
automatic see. I think we were born with the real intuition,
you know what I'm saying, Like I condemn this. See
like I'll be trying to rebuke that ship sometimes, but

(10:47):
you can't unsee it.

Speaker 1 (10:49):
We waved on our face. We could look at you like, man,
I know you, you know you, I know you the
fucked up cause you see it. You can see it
on my face like damn, I fuck that. We can't high.

Speaker 4 (11:00):
We can't hide our emotions back. We might share it
verbally or express it in their fucking face, like if
you know you fucked up?

Speaker 3 (11:08):
She lying? So you don't do no right, you just go.
You just hit the stage like that where it is
you ain't never tried. I can't spell no. You could
do a wash no until I like like prepare like preparation,
like like just saying you riding around, right, you're runing around.

(11:30):
Can you remember some ship that hit the stage with
you know how we you know how a nigga or
he's just straight improv.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
I talk about my life. So it's like how I
live is what I talk about.

Speaker 3 (11:41):
Okay, if that makes sense.

Speaker 1 (11:42):
This is already my life already written.

Speaker 3 (11:44):
Yeah you know what I mean, Like.

Speaker 1 (11:45):
It's it's written, like my jokes is like broal, like
I just make the situations funny.

Speaker 3 (11:49):
You just see it in the front of way I
say it way yeah, and you know it's.

Speaker 4 (11:52):
Crazy when I'm gonna stay up, like damn, why y'all
found that shit funny? I'm really I give you an example,
Like I was on Frontier one time and I was
trying to talk to this girl a front tier and
if they told me she don't talk the guys who
fly front tier, and I'm like, yo, you're on front
tier next to me.

Speaker 1 (12:08):
So when I put that shit on stage like fucking video,
they told me I don't fuck the guys at fly
front tier. Like, bit, you're in three eight? Fuck what
you talking about?

Speaker 3 (12:22):
What's the difference?

Speaker 1 (12:23):
What's the difference? Like when you're going to the same
place you niggas fly front.

Speaker 4 (12:27):
Tier, Oh, you trying to hogs trying to on the
plane like bitch, we eat we on the same level,
on the same we bought the same.

Speaker 1 (12:35):
Season it's twelve hours you're talking about you don't fucking
niggas a fly front tier. That's crazy, right, So like
like that's exam Like how my ships be written for me?

Speaker 3 (12:46):
This bitch is crazy?

Speaker 4 (12:47):
Like you're gonna tell me you don't talk niggas at
fly front tier and you on front tier.

Speaker 3 (12:52):
What's your proudest moment as a comedian?

Speaker 4 (12:56):
I proudly comedian when I made twenty thousand people in
the Union listen, like just like quiet, you hear pin
drive everybody thinking comedy is how how big you you
make somebody laugh?

Speaker 3 (13:09):
The gift is to coming attention?

Speaker 4 (13:11):
Command attention? How can you make people listen to it?
How can you control twenty thousand people?

Speaker 3 (13:17):
And one more? Quiet?

Speaker 4 (13:20):
I mean it was it was Nigga's the side of
the stage, look on How the fuck is he doing this?
So that's my proudest mom.

Speaker 3 (13:28):
Do you do you got a message in your ship? Though?
You know what I'm saying, Like an overall message?

Speaker 4 (13:33):
Yeah, alright, My overall message in my comedy is for
women to understand men. It reallyates to my comedy, Like
at the end of the day, I try to teach
women like I'm on your side. It just sounds like
I'm against.

Speaker 3 (13:44):
You because I'm holding accounts, I'm holding your.

Speaker 4 (13:47):
Count and I'm telling you like a man gonna be
a man. I don't give for how you look. So
the jokes might hurt, but at the end day you're
gonna learn the message. What draws you to that topic,
to to that talk about women? Yeah, I got a
lot of few other in my family man, and a
lot of them just don't get it. I wasn't called

(14:10):
him dumb, but they gonna see this ship, but I
ain't gonna say I'm with it. No, they don't get
it down down down down't get it man like. And
I tell him I got like a man gonna be
a man regardless. Like I was talking to a young
lady earlier. She said, a husband cheated on him right
when when he got rich, I said, what the fuck
you expect him? When he was broken here on apout

(14:30):
to be faithful, he was gonna be homeless. Yeah, now
you got the money and you got unlimited access with
you know what I mean, you should be You should
get mad at the women for trying to get on.

Speaker 3 (14:45):
So what what what? What's one of your personal personal
experiences that you put on stage like one of your
personal personal like you when you got off stage, like, man,
I can't even believe I just talked about that.

Speaker 1 (14:54):
When when when I brake my baby mother twice.

Speaker 3 (14:58):
And you talked about I talked about brown.

Speaker 1 (15:00):
Like this ship? Actually funny?

Speaker 3 (15:01):
How you making funey though?

Speaker 4 (15:03):
Because I burnt the first time, you cut me off,
but the pussy was good, so I went back. No,
when I got burned twice, I'm sorry I did burn her.
Try when I got burned twice.

Speaker 1 (15:13):
Oh, and then because it was good, I went back
and she burnt me again.

Speaker 3 (15:18):
But oh, nothing your baby mommy, you're saying, oh and
you burned up too.

Speaker 1 (15:23):
Yeah, it's like, damn, I really said this ship.

Speaker 3 (15:26):
So you ain't tell the bitch she was burning the
first bitch, you ain't tell him.

Speaker 4 (15:29):
I was young, I ain't. I was crazy and enough
to say this ship. Da You know, niggas don't be
saying some shit like that.

Speaker 3 (15:34):
Why I say that?

Speaker 1 (15:35):
But the joke was funny, Like, damn the fuck. I
can't say that shit no more because I ain't get
no pussy that night. They thought I was still dirty bitch.

Speaker 3 (15:43):
I was seventeen. What's your bitch, like your number one
relationship advice for.

Speaker 1 (15:51):
A woman that a man being man?

Speaker 3 (15:54):
What's your number one relationship with vice for a man?

Speaker 4 (15:57):
Be honest, up front, Yeah, communicate, don't don't lie, man,
you know, don't don't That's all nigga, It's easy to
tell the truth.

Speaker 3 (16:07):
Have you ever told lives? Though? I usually be?

Speaker 4 (16:10):
I used to be extremely like a very good one
to you and crazy to think about me being a
good live back in the day, I got the most women.

Speaker 3 (16:16):
How you shifted though? What made you shift?

Speaker 4 (16:19):
I got tired of hurting feelings that calmer motherfucker boy
I got like God, damn, I know I heard a
lot of bishop, But when when you're gonna start hurting me?
But that shit they say, what goes around comes around, man,
I got tired of that shit.

Speaker 3 (16:34):
Truth hurt too, though, though true hurt at.

Speaker 1 (16:35):
Least I ain't hurting.

Speaker 4 (16:36):
Aint hurt nobody feeling I ever hurt you in the beginning,
it hurts you in the long run because a nigga
lied to a woman for years. You know, women the fragile,
they gonna believe whatever you say, you make it sound good.
H Once you get them, you got them then you
tired of line you be like your energy start changing
towards the female. They start feeling how you changing. Yeah,
I got tired of holding a live I'm really a

(16:58):
fucked up nigga.

Speaker 1 (16:59):
Baby, it's starting to come out.

Speaker 3 (17:02):
And she just started to seep out, to seep out.

Speaker 1 (17:04):
That's when women start getting crazy, you know what I mean?
My baby on sent me to jail.

Speaker 4 (17:09):
That's when the fuck I really stopped lying because you
don't wanna go to jail for the mestic violence and
you ain't.

Speaker 3 (17:13):
U the shit damn or what she did, she talked,
She told her lie to the police.

Speaker 1 (17:17):
I hitting I ain't even hitting high as my bill was.
I wish I would have.

Speaker 3 (17:23):
What makes you think? What you think? The biggest disconnect
is in relationship.

Speaker 1 (17:28):
Relationships, communication and honesty. And you know, I really said
ago like manage to just be honest.

Speaker 4 (17:40):
But honestly, we women don't want to hear honestly all
the time because every man being honest to you yourself
is still gonna drive if every man, well be honest
to a lady standing turn the zero.

Speaker 1 (17:52):
Very man.

Speaker 4 (17:52):
Tell you like if a woman talks ten minutes and
all ten minutes, I just wanna fuck you. Women gonna
think like, damn, that's all y'all want from me, But
they're being honest. At the end of the day of man,
you just want to fuck you. Oh guy say stop
wearing makeup. Ten guys say stop stop makers, stop you
fat getting the gym. Your self esteem is going to zero.

Speaker 1 (18:13):
Yeah, you're not gonna be to handle, man. That's why
we lie. How I look, baby, you look nice in
your head. You don't like that ship, but if you
say you don't like it, she turned off.

Speaker 3 (18:25):
So so basically, you gotta somewhat tell some kind of lies.
We just don't tell the big lies. Lies just can't
tell the big lives.

Speaker 1 (18:31):
Can't tell the big.

Speaker 3 (18:32):
Lines like what like you ain't got no more bitches
and all that. You can't you can't say.

Speaker 1 (18:37):
That like if a woman asks you, like, what do
you want from me? The niggas gonna live it to break.
I do want get to know you.

Speaker 3 (18:44):
Thing. What the you up? What do you.

Speaker 4 (18:49):
That's the first that I tell a female stop putting
a man in position to lie to you. Yeah, well,
you asking man, what do you want from me? Niggas
gonna fucking lie. He ain't gonna tell you the truth.
They ain't gonna tell you. I want to take in
the bath room right now, ben.

Speaker 3 (19:03):
You man, I always see the women that it's like
when I first meet you, it's a physical attraction. I
mean you looking at you, looking at like I fuck
you not. I want to know your intellect. That's I
don't even what your name is.

Speaker 1 (19:19):
For a whole year. I ain't know her name. She
was she was baby for a year straight. Take my
part to ask her what her name because I don't
want her to know. I don't know her name.

Speaker 3 (19:32):
Still didn't remember it.

Speaker 1 (19:33):
Still don't remember.

Speaker 3 (19:35):
Hey, so you say communication in line, But what's proper communication?

Speaker 4 (19:44):
I don't think it's on proper communication when it comes
to a woman had a man perspective, because it's always
whatever they say they think is right. So we could
tell you theyby stop talking back, be honest. I want
to sleep in lingerie. Why you say it like that,
I'm being that's proper communication. But to make makes sense
a woman, it's only probably to a female if she

(20:07):
put the order in place. What you mean like, if
it's proper if she say that's proper, I don't care
how how stern you said.

Speaker 1 (20:15):
If you don't agree with it, it's incorrect.

Speaker 3 (20:17):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (20:20):
It's only right if they said you can say something
to her female is one way she's gonna take no
words and flip it into her own scenario.

Speaker 3 (20:26):
That make it right. So basically, if you it's like, so,
let me ask you this. Have you ever had a
situation where you know you was being totally honest but
she heard something else?

Speaker 1 (20:37):
You're fucking right.

Speaker 4 (20:38):
You only hear one thing you can If I pay
the bills around here, I fuck you good, I make
you laugh. I cheat it one time, but I set
the kids to college. When you're quiet, know what she's
gonna say.

Speaker 3 (20:51):
So, why you cheat? You ain't everything I said I
did right, But you ain't say why you cheated? Though,
Still that ain't the point.

Speaker 1 (21:00):
The fuck is more important.

Speaker 3 (21:01):
You heard I say that you wrong? Wi I cheat?

Speaker 2 (21:05):
Man?

Speaker 4 (21:06):
I said, I pay the bills, and then you're gonna
say that set the kids in college? But I shed
the one time. All she heard was what she done
was white cheat, the bills, paid the kids in college.

Speaker 3 (21:18):
Give you what would be the uncle on white nigga cheat?

Speaker 4 (21:21):
I don't I don't think niggas cheat. I think you
niggas you asked me. I think every man should step
up and have a little fun here and there the
stress reliever.

Speaker 1 (21:30):
You have a cheat, went home huged your girl.

Speaker 4 (21:31):
Good hummm, you have a cheat and went home and
hugged your girl tight to hugged the goodness?

Speaker 1 (21:38):
It helps, right, that helps the home man.

Speaker 3 (21:41):
Damn bro, I don't say that, Bro, you right, but
dont say that. So you think a side bitch makes
your relationship.

Speaker 1 (21:49):
Healthy, side bitch, keep the relationship healthy because.

Speaker 3 (21:51):
It kind of makes you feel guilt and you want
to go do something for the for for her life.

Speaker 4 (21:56):
You know what, Let me talk to your side bitch
about your main bitch with limited access. Got the good
side bitch. She's gonna tell you how to what to
do because she's a woman. Now, you can't say certain
things to your woman that you can say to your
sidebitch because your woman, she keeps databasing her mind for years.
If you, if you be honest, your girl might say, well,
why you can't talk to me that way? It's because

(22:16):
you're collecting data. Hey, you collecting data. Every might be
years from now I might say something trigger for twenty twenty.

Speaker 3 (22:23):
I remember that.

Speaker 4 (22:24):
Like, see, that's why I don't tell you everything. You
got you a data in your fucking a hard drive,
hard drive man, terrific.

Speaker 1 (22:35):
What the sidebach?

Speaker 4 (22:36):
You can be honest with you as a man the side,
but you can release your stress and not you all
about fucking you might just gonna get a drink and
to say this thing here getting on my nerve sidebatch
from God, you do the relationship because you ain't leaving
your main chick for your side beach regardless. That's really
You're already all my family be honest with you.

Speaker 3 (22:54):
So what about when you if your main bitch leave you,
what you gonna do? You're gonna try to get it back.
I'm saying she's gone, but she's missing what you do?
Then she dead like you can't find the bitch.

Speaker 1 (23:09):
Like forever, Like she's just like she gone, like very
oh yeah, I just shocked her up.

Speaker 3 (23:16):
But do you still do you? What you do? You do?

Speaker 1 (23:19):
You don't like the side bitch not becoming the main
bitch that ship did.

Speaker 3 (23:22):
Well, Look.

Speaker 4 (23:24):
I can't look at you the same what because you
the man cheating on this girl. Man, you're a cheat
on me. That mean at the end that you're.

Speaker 1 (23:33):
Still a woman and you know what she's going through,
so you don't you really don't have no loyal to
the newbody.

Speaker 3 (23:39):
Oh so you said so so bitch will take a
take another bitch through some ship she don't want to
go through before.

Speaker 4 (23:45):
Yeah, and she was something I never understand a loyal
side bitch? What you mean that they don't fun with
the nigga like she's loyal to I married nigga. I
ain't doing nothing like you treat me good, but you aside, bitch,
I don't care. I ain't going awnd I don't cheat
on him. You ain't ever youn't never hear no ship

(24:06):
like that.

Speaker 3 (24:08):
I don't believe that though this can said, But I
don't really believe that.

Speaker 1 (24:11):
Do you believe women?

Speaker 3 (24:13):
Not? Really?

Speaker 1 (24:14):
That's why I don't believe nothing.

Speaker 3 (24:15):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (24:16):
So I don't believe nothing.

Speaker 3 (24:17):
I don't believe you believe women.

Speaker 1 (24:19):
I don't believe they all like Yeah, they.

Speaker 3 (24:22):
Because they lits so good and they can crown or die.
I've seen the Bit Man the Mother Need to Be movies.

Speaker 1 (24:27):
They act as man boy.

Speaker 3 (24:28):
That ship is like God.

Speaker 1 (24:31):
Let me ask you a question. Have you ever seen
a cat.

Speaker 3 (24:33):
Bro, My grandma said that a million times. But they
got a lot of kitten.

Speaker 1 (24:36):
They got a lot of kittens. Yeah, I never.

Speaker 3 (24:39):
But you said doguy right up street and stuck on
each other in the middle of the street, middle of
this motherfuckerlet them cat sneak is a mother. Oh nah,
you man, My grandma fucked me up with that, bro.
You can't man.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
Never, girl told me sh I've been selling it for
a whole years. This is pussy tight. Get into the
pussy least in the mouth.

Speaker 3 (25:00):
Been selling it, not selling it selling.

Speaker 4 (25:05):
They don't even know how sew pussy downadays. What you
mean asking you how much a pussy worth it?

Speaker 3 (25:10):
Best?

Speaker 1 (25:10):
She says, she don't know.

Speaker 3 (25:13):
Give me something, Just throw me something.

Speaker 1 (25:16):
I want five thousands. Ain't nobody paying five thousand when
no pussy down there? You trip it puts it only
costs five thousands.

Speaker 3 (25:24):
Damn.

Speaker 4 (25:25):
He's thinking about women trying to sell. I respect the
women that have a price on her sex versus a
woman that don't, that don't have a price on my sex.

Speaker 3 (25:33):
I think I think most women feel like they sell
in a relationship. They don't not just sell it just
transaction to pussy. They trying to sell. They trying to
sell a fantasy. What do you mean, Like, like, I'm
trying to show you my worth? So maybe we can
lock in and I can get some not just one time,

(25:55):
I can continuously get some.

Speaker 1 (25:58):
Would you think of woman worth? Oh?

Speaker 3 (26:01):
Ship? It depends on the woman. It depends on what
you bring to a nigga.

Speaker 4 (26:06):
So they got this thing going around going around right
now on social media, women saying a man should ask
a female what they what they bring it to a table?

Speaker 1 (26:12):
How you feel about that?

Speaker 3 (26:14):
I seen that, but I don't. But I seen that.
I seen it. Was a dude said it too over here, nigga, Yeah,
I've seen that. Ship He's like man niggas like basically
like that's some sass and ship. But I don't. I
went asking what she bringing to the table, But I
do want to know, like what do a man get
in a relationship?

Speaker 1 (26:31):
So you asked about this?

Speaker 3 (26:32):
Is this is more for I wouldn't ask, But what
I'm saying, I wonder it. I wouldn't, but I wonder it.

Speaker 1 (26:39):
Hold are you for six?

Speaker 3 (26:41):
I'll be for the saving this year?

Speaker 4 (26:43):
So he can't more like in the old school, now,
guys that are boring, like eighty five. You gotta ask
these bitches.

Speaker 3 (26:49):
Now answer what you go answer?

Speaker 1 (26:51):
But hey, what you bring to the table. I'm gonna
tell you why everybody looking the same.

Speaker 3 (26:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (26:58):
A lot of women out they look at saying, so
a man, they want to listen to you. I want
to know, Like really, it's not I don't need your help,
but I want to know what you have to Like
you said what you have to off, butake what you
bringing to the table. It's like not not bill Wise,
you help me mentally?

Speaker 1 (27:14):
Yeah, exactly, Like I need to know so I can
move a course.

Speaker 3 (27:17):
What's your experts? What's your expertise?

Speaker 2 (27:19):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (27:20):
Yeah, because I'm a plan. You know, we entrepreneurs, we
need to know what we're dealing with. I don't got
time trying to figure you the funk out.

Speaker 3 (27:25):
It's your asset or a liability.

Speaker 4 (27:27):
That's all our nigga want know. He's me, tell me,
tell me straight up clean, I ain't bring it. She's
the table, all right, bet, I'm put one in front
of you. This is how I needs you build it.

Speaker 3 (27:36):
Huh.

Speaker 4 (27:37):
I put one in front of you, this is how
I need you to build it. Yeah, you don't got
a table. I'm gonna put a table in front of you. Now,
come on, let's eat.

Speaker 3 (27:43):
Okay, yeah yeah, I mean if you.

Speaker 1 (27:45):
Don't have a table. If you do have a table,
tell me what your accountant. You're a lloyer. I'm not
gonna know how to use you.

Speaker 3 (27:50):
So what's your thoughts on like situationships.

Speaker 1 (27:55):
Like just having sex with no title?

Speaker 3 (27:57):
Like, yeah, no title, that's cool.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
I don't. I don't, I don't.

Speaker 4 (28:04):
I think relationship is just you know, if you focus
somebody or not. It ain't titles for the women. H
you say you married, the female married, the nigga ain't married.
That's just my wife.

Speaker 3 (28:15):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (28:18):
That's that situation ship in a man's mind.

Speaker 3 (28:21):
Damn. So that fucked me up right now. Nigga the
woman married, But nigga, that is my wife. That is
my wife. Man, that's cold, that's cold.

Speaker 4 (28:32):
But what we meaning from the her, that's just my wife. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying. That's my partner. That's my dog.
She ain't going away and got nigga, I hurt you
over her.

Speaker 1 (28:39):
That's my wife. She married to me. That's my wife.

Speaker 3 (28:42):
Though. So if you had a woman you and you
was fucking off on you. You'll be upset if you
cut her fucking.

Speaker 1 (28:49):
Off, not at this age nowadays.

Speaker 3 (28:51):
No, you keep her.

Speaker 1 (28:53):
I'll keep if my love her. I ain't gonna kill him.

Speaker 3 (28:56):
What I'm saying, you're gonna get rid of so you
can you can.

Speaker 1 (28:59):
Shoot on me. I'm not gonna hurt her.

Speaker 4 (29:02):
I'm just ask her why because I'm a player, Like,
what the fuck that he did to trick you out
your drawers that I ain't doing.

Speaker 3 (29:08):
It ain't a trick he tricked her.

Speaker 1 (29:11):
Ain't no trick, No, not money wise.

Speaker 3 (29:14):
It ain't no trick. He didn't tell her nothing. She
wanted that man.

Speaker 1 (29:17):
Nigga played with him.

Speaker 3 (29:18):
Man, she just put him paying down. She want to
fuck bro.

Speaker 1 (29:21):
Yeah, he tricked, he said some good ship.

Speaker 3 (29:23):
Oh yeah, you're saying, you said, how did he persuade you?

Speaker 1 (29:25):
Not trickway sway you trick?

Speaker 3 (29:27):
You know?

Speaker 1 (29:28):
Yeah, that nigga playing nigga better than me. I got
to meet this, he saying, I ain't mad. I got
that na good because I'm doing all the good ship
and he got you. I mean, he good.

Speaker 3 (29:41):
You think that's ego when a nigga feel like God damn,
he's just the type of nigga that he's hold on.

Speaker 4 (29:46):
Fuck if you if you're a successful man, if you're
a successful man, it's definitely ego because a nigga in
the streets, he gonna say, hey, man, I fuck cleon
bit he ain't never gonna say her name.

Speaker 3 (29:56):
Oh yeah, she don't.

Speaker 1 (29:57):
She don't don't matter.

Speaker 3 (29:58):
I'm saying. I'm saying, but do you think that's man?
It looks like I cocked with your bitch, you know
what I'm saying. Like, but do you think it's a
like on the other side, Like, do you think your
ego makes you feel like a nigga can't fuck your bitch?
You know how nigga feel like.

Speaker 4 (30:10):
But no, no, I think a nigga fucked my bitch. Yeah,
because I'll be sucking up. If you're a man, you
know anybody bitch.

Speaker 3 (30:18):
Can give fuck. Yeah, I believe you can get fuck.

Speaker 4 (30:21):
It's a nigga out here slicking and you look better
than your money, any kind of broken to you.

Speaker 1 (30:26):
Whatever. If a nigga spending more time with your lady
at work, you know you can fuck your bitch. That
shit ain't huh. Yeah, nigga, bitch, is.

Speaker 3 (30:35):
That the fun you think. So you think all is
a go right situation? All of them ago.

Speaker 1 (30:40):
Depending on the circumstances. They ain't gonna like that one.

Speaker 3 (30:44):
What you mean, depending on circumstances.

Speaker 4 (30:46):
Circumstances, I give you exam right, if it worked. Your
lady work in the day and she with her work boyfriend.
This nigga just running around all day long. But at
home you ain't paying her no attention. She's gonna carey,
said nigga the work boyfriend. So she gonna go because
you ain't giving no attention. This nigga making a habit,
making a laugh before you know it. Happy, I woul drink.

Speaker 1 (31:08):
Oh, I made a mistake, but you ain't make mistakes.
Sucking on dick.

Speaker 3 (31:14):
Like you said, it was a planing. It were playing.

Speaker 1 (31:16):
It was playing.

Speaker 4 (31:17):
Yeah, see we love it females mentally, Why should girl
leave you on a mental state?

Speaker 3 (31:23):
So how can you build a woman? You know she cheated.

Speaker 4 (31:28):
I'm a little different. Yeah, I pack my girl to cheating.
I'll tell you if you cheat this, don't suck on
that nigga only hit you from the back.

Speaker 3 (31:36):
Huh.

Speaker 1 (31:38):
If you cheat, don't suck dick, only that that nigga
hits you from the back.

Speaker 3 (31:43):
So if you find out she sucked dick and laid
up and did all that, nigga, if you do all that, like,
all right, but now you violated. But she ain't gonna
tell you. You don't think so, no man, whatever, listen
whatever you like. I ain't to my chill bitch, nobody bitch.
I'm just saying whatever. A woman gonna do what she do.
I ain't no women on sex.

Speaker 1 (32:04):
Once you having sex, women both bro, they cold? What
tell you if you're beating her up? But other than that,
we're gonna tell you.

Speaker 3 (32:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (32:15):
Nah, Nah, you don't think feole more honest than men.
I think we're way more honest than we just said.

Speaker 3 (32:24):
All of them lived. You lie.

Speaker 1 (32:27):
But if she fuck with you, you keep on ask,
She's gonna tell you the truth.

Speaker 3 (32:30):
Nah, because she knows. If you keep asking, that means
you asking for a reason. Now, if you like you
don't give a fuck, they're gonna tell you you keep asking,
but it's some consequence behind it. Keep asking.

Speaker 1 (32:46):
Do you think all women cheat?

Speaker 3 (32:48):
Nah? I ain't gonna say that. I think all women
that deal with niggas like us will cheat.

Speaker 1 (32:53):
Let me ask you this question.

Speaker 4 (32:55):
Do you feel like for for a female to test
I love in the marriage on the relationship, just should
go sleep with somebody else?

Speaker 3 (33:03):
Cool? I don't she can.

Speaker 1 (33:05):
No, I'm saying how much you love you? So I
got the scenario. Like I tell you females it if
you want to see how deep you love your man,
go fuck another nigga. By the way you react after
sex depends on how much you love the person that
you're fucking with.

Speaker 3 (33:19):
That's a cold Now.

Speaker 1 (33:20):
If you fuck somebody and you feel dirty and you
feel like this shit, he just.

Speaker 4 (33:28):
Took advantage of you. You're really in love with that man.
You fuck the nigga and you just laid back and
eat a bag of chips. You don't fuck with them
like that cause you just you laying that way from
around to you.

Speaker 3 (33:40):
With the difference between men and women, to me, women
can actually make up in their mind like something didn't happen.

Speaker 1 (33:48):
A nigga, like it didn't count.

Speaker 3 (33:49):
Yeah, it didn't count. Like I mean, if a motherfucker
ain't got no baby by a nigga, or he want
no pupp relationship, it's been a fuck a hunt of niggas.
The mothers don't count. It's either my baby daddy or
everybody knew I will.

Speaker 1 (34:04):
Oh huh, a whole whole complete bank head.

Speaker 3 (34:11):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying. It's like that ship don't
count and they'll walk past a nigga like that. Never
a nigga. I don't know him, never seen him, head high.
I don't know him. If he he's gonna have to
tell you because I don't know neither one of y'all already.

Speaker 1 (34:27):
He ain't gonna say ship. You know the whole time,
you're you're a dad fool bro. The whole club that
had your bitch.

Speaker 3 (34:35):
Everybody don't nobody unless he wanted your partners, Like boy,
you got your one right up. But you know what
I'm saying, you don't know nothing. These niggas gonna keep
it peat because they still be like, ain't even about
the whole I don't want some more.

Speaker 1 (34:54):
I ain't really make her mad.

Speaker 3 (34:55):
Fuck him.

Speaker 1 (34:56):
I'm telling you, man and women, good women will have
you had a birthday dinner. You think it's a girlfriend dinner,
it's the nigga dinner.

Speaker 3 (35:07):
Huh.

Speaker 1 (35:09):
The nigga to faed you just as good as a mother.
But the nigga playing like I'm gonnaeed you on your nigga,
y'all comparing nigga to the dinner.

Speaker 3 (35:22):
Who your new nigga is?

Speaker 4 (35:24):
Man ashit crazy? Man a side nigga before. I was
a side nigga before you.

Speaker 3 (35:31):
And that's how that's how you find out how treachery
they is once you be a side.

Speaker 1 (35:35):
I was a side nigga. A relationship like that was
my main girl. The nigga has some much paper. He
made me to side nigga.

Speaker 4 (35:41):
Huh, well, this was my main girl. Man, I was
fucking with. I went broke, but I wasn't leaving him.
But the nigga has some more paper. He made me
the side nigga I had.

Speaker 3 (35:58):
I had to man, listen, I had the chill, that
sleep pimping though. I that sleek, that's that's that's that
second hand. You know what she told me?

Speaker 4 (36:05):
She said, clean, I'm not leaving you, but you can't
afford nothing right now. So what is you bitching about?

Speaker 1 (36:11):
I said, she's silent. I said, God damn, she's silent.
She's up that she taught me.

Speaker 3 (36:17):
She's silent.

Speaker 1 (36:18):
She said, I'm not leaving you, i'mna fucking here and
the but you living living with me. Bill was getting paid,
ain't it. Damn you right, my fucking right, I'm going
to shut up and stacked.

Speaker 3 (36:33):
My cheese back. Whatever with that.

Speaker 1 (36:36):
We're cool, we're cool, We're cool. We're still cool.

Speaker 4 (36:38):
But you know, I got back on my feet and
rolled the funk out pure. I'm still she's still my
dog today. But it's like, damn, this nigga turned me.

Speaker 1 (36:47):
To a sign that cold he never heard that was
playing older nigga too. He was real smooth y'all.

Speaker 4 (36:55):
The nigga came to one of my comedy shows. I
heard a real leaven jack on and that was get
sat in the back, was laughing his ass off.

Speaker 1 (37:03):
How you doing, shook my hand everything. I ain't catch
you on til years later.

Speaker 4 (37:07):
But you didn't speak on that the situation say oh no, no, no,
I said now, but but I ain't catch on two
years later.

Speaker 1 (37:14):
It just I learned from the nigga. Fuck her. This
nigga taught me something.

Speaker 3 (37:21):
Nigga, that's cold. It's cold right there. It's cold cold.
That's a good one though. What damn man, Damn you
niggas say that nigga had so much pay with the bitch,
but gues what. She is a solid one though it's silent.
She ain't leave me though, you know, I mean, you
know I got sucked up? But did did the nigga

(37:43):
want her? No, she loved me, I'm saying, But did
the nigga want her like he was married? He was
a married nigga.

Speaker 1 (37:49):
Okay, he couldn't have it.

Speaker 3 (37:51):
Yeah she was that. She was love of me.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
But ship he was holding sh down and he helped
us out. Yeah, hey, they helped us out. It be
like that some time.

Speaker 3 (38:08):
Man.

Speaker 4 (38:08):
Sometimes I tell nigga yo, if you if you financially
fucked up and your girl love you, bro, let us
step out do her thing. If you're still fucking on
you cooking for you, make you left taking dicks and
you can still stay at the house, what fuck are
you mad about? You can't pay no bills?

Speaker 3 (38:27):
Damn. That ain't a little bit of help. So why
don't you jay got damn disconnect with the bitch and
then handling yo business?

Speaker 1 (38:33):
You do you just you disconnect. It's hard to just
connecting your love with the motherfucker. You ain't got nowhere
to go. You're going to sleep in the car. You
got shot the fuck up and.

Speaker 3 (38:45):
Deal with it. Damn.

Speaker 1 (38:47):
That's back in the day though.

Speaker 3 (38:48):
Yeah, don't know what I'm saying. I'm just pray to God, man,
thank God. I ain't never been in that position the God. Damn.
Wo what else? But she won one.

Speaker 1 (38:56):
She ain't.

Speaker 3 (38:57):
She ain't. She ain't dragging.

Speaker 1 (38:58):
She ain't dragging now. She kept peeing sid she kept
it cool. She she loved me.

Speaker 3 (39:03):
She ain't. She ain't.

Speaker 1 (39:04):
She wasn't disrespectful with this ship now like, oh yeah,
I'm about to go. She ain't do all that.

Speaker 3 (39:11):
Let you know, something else going on.

Speaker 1 (39:13):
I'm slick. I caught on like you know you you
know you h you go getting new bags around the house,
you know, a little tight. What's going on? I'm starting
to figure shit out. Bring extra food in the house,
you alright, Captitol girls a little special, you know, money
tight around here.

Speaker 3 (39:33):
She put a little Capital grills these days a week.

Speaker 1 (39:40):
They tell me, I'm the kind of guy. Tell me
what's up? I'm a team player?

Speaker 3 (39:44):
Yeah, me too, I tell me what was up?

Speaker 1 (39:47):
I'm a team player. Yeah, this is what we're doing,
all right?

Speaker 4 (39:50):
Ship back, let me tell you how to work your
nigga then, So, but did you adjust to that though?

Speaker 1 (39:54):
Motherfucker right, got my car paid off?

Speaker 3 (39:56):
You know what I'm saying, Like, did you adjust to
your feelings? Like, yeah, I gotta removed something back from
the bitch. I love her, but I can't.

Speaker 4 (40:03):
That's all that shit turned to a play Like now
I'm just oh, that's what he did, all right, put
you in this position, help me get some money. I
ain't mad at fuck. You can have that bitch, I
replace her. I just get up my feet. You know
a lot of niggas really be mad, like now you
fucking my bitch?

Speaker 1 (40:23):
Man, I don't know you had that mother.

Speaker 3 (40:27):
What's the perfect first date for you? Like you meet
a bitch and like, Noah, I fuck with her?

Speaker 1 (40:33):
Perfect I called conversation.

Speaker 3 (40:36):
Huh. Sitting in the car just talking, Yeah, for.

Speaker 1 (40:39):
Hours, chopping it up. She don't give a fuck. Were
you at God?

Speaker 4 (40:45):
Just in summertime? I'm she sitting on the hood of
the car. I'm standing in front of squeezing my ass
a little bit in between the leg. It's regular ship,
old school, shit fucking restaurant. Everybody feed me, talking to.

Speaker 3 (40:58):
You, talking to you, but you feel me, hey, you
know everybody speak that accountability ship? What accountability mean to
you like, what did it mean? Like the meaning of
it to you? I count.

Speaker 1 (41:14):
Take it on and the mitual wrongs.

Speaker 3 (41:17):
Yeah I did.

Speaker 1 (41:18):
I fucked up.

Speaker 3 (41:19):
I did it. I think that's rare.

Speaker 1 (41:22):
That's rare. That's very rare. Definitely somebody saying they fucked.

Speaker 4 (41:26):
Up, because when you take accountability, it's no need to
have a conversation taking account of didility your conversation gonna
be quite a minute two minutes long or when you don't.
Now in the conversations I have trying to figure ot
why you ain't to take accountability facts if I admit
to it. Yeah, they I fucked up? Yeah I cheap
damn high ship. All right, what's next? You stand on

(41:49):
your leaving I'm mistake, that's because something to eat.

Speaker 3 (41:54):
But okay, when you do that, okay, cool, I'm glad
you said that. When you do that, what's the next like,
what's the next? Play affter that? Okay? Cool? She says
she stay? Do you go through the wringer with her
behind that? No?

Speaker 1 (42:07):
No, I want you say she stay?

Speaker 4 (42:09):
Then you start laying love you say you staying, But
we ain't fussing about this ship laid on down the line.

Speaker 1 (42:15):
Yeah you I don't you ain't You're not ready beat
me down about it. I don't want to keep your
hand it. You got two times to bring it up
because you're a female, you and your feelings, that's your
second time. Now I want to hear this shit.

Speaker 3 (42:25):
So she keep bringing up what you do? I leave, yeah,
until you.

Speaker 1 (42:29):
Get your mind right. Once you get your mind right,
I come back.

Speaker 4 (42:33):
If not, then you and your feelings are stay over
there because I took accountability of it, which is a
hard step for a man to take accountability. I'm showing
you I'm being vulnerable, and you still want to throw
it in my face like.

Speaker 3 (42:45):
The ship go. I fucked up?

Speaker 1 (42:46):
Yeah, I fucked up. She's gonna ask you why did
you fuck up?

Speaker 3 (42:50):
But what about when one be like you can't tell
me when to hell? Like I need to turn the heel.

Speaker 1 (42:55):
As you retarded? Hurry up?

Speaker 3 (43:00):
How long?

Speaker 1 (43:01):
How long do I be honest? How long do it
take for you to hear?

Speaker 3 (43:06):
So? Do you think a woman say they okay with
something just to keep you around and then still have resentment?

Speaker 1 (43:14):
They ain't never gonna let they got database, They never
gonna let it go. As a man, I understand I
fucked up. You never gonna let it go.

Speaker 3 (43:21):
So how you trust them after that?

Speaker 1 (43:24):
That's a good question.

Speaker 3 (43:26):
I think.

Speaker 1 (43:27):
I guess you're just intuition. I guess. I mean we
come from I know you ain't gonna kill me. I
trust you what I'm gonna do.

Speaker 4 (43:41):
I ain't gonna fuss about it. I mean, of course
the sex are gonna change, but she ain't gonna really
feel comfortable.

Speaker 3 (43:51):
Damn. So how do you trust them after that? Though?
Like when you broke somebody to trust for you, how
do you trust them? That's not even in relationship, your period.

Speaker 1 (44:02):
If somebody, if I broke somebody heart, how do I
trust them?

Speaker 3 (44:04):
Yeah? Like if you broke somebody trust not even their heart,
Like to save Incent, you did something to me me
and you were pottling us and you know I took
that fucked up, but we still poling. How do you
still trust me after I don't trust.

Speaker 4 (44:15):
I just keep my distance. Yeah, I play, I play
your position. I see how you buy your language moving Damn,
I take care.

Speaker 1 (44:21):
I know I fucked it up with you. I got
I gotta fall back.

Speaker 4 (44:26):
Because I don't because as a man, I don't want
nobody to keep on second guessing me.

Speaker 1 (44:30):
I'm gonna give you that, but you can't give me
no course. I'm a longer this this money. But bro,
you know what happened last time.

Speaker 3 (44:36):
No, I ain't.

Speaker 1 (44:37):
I ain't doing all that.

Speaker 4 (44:38):
I'd rather just fall back and not losing friendship. As
a man, Yo, I fucked up.

Speaker 3 (44:44):
So so, But in a relationship, a nigga try to
do something different because it's dick and puts involved.

Speaker 1 (44:49):
Can put the involve, but.

Speaker 3 (44:52):
It should be the same though, right Like basically, when
a nigga do some ship that you knowing you don't
score the person, I feel like you're supposed to let that.

Speaker 4 (45:00):
Bury theirselfs trying to rebuild trust. Huh, niggas bury theirselfs
trying to rebuild trust bury buried.

Speaker 1 (45:06):
Yeah, another little.

Speaker 4 (45:07):
Country, nigga bary theyself trying trying to rebuild trust. Once
you've hurt that that woman, you lost control. Now you're
trying to get out the whole, but you're putting yourself
in a deeper hole because now you you're being less
of a man trying to provide.

Speaker 1 (45:26):
Nah man, you lost her trust.

Speaker 3 (45:28):
It's old.

Speaker 1 (45:29):
She's still gonna be with you because you got her mentally.
Now once you get over you. Mentally, women heal in
front of you. Why they fuck with you?

Speaker 3 (45:37):
Did you know that?

Speaker 1 (45:39):
Were you fucking female?

Speaker 3 (45:40):
Luck?

Speaker 1 (45:41):
They will heal why they fucking you? Why they fucking you?

Speaker 4 (45:45):
In your big They is healing to get over you,
building strength to get the fuck out of there, you think,
cause you're getting pussy everything good?

Speaker 1 (45:53):
Damn know, she's healing niggas.

Speaker 3 (45:57):
How you balance your confidence? Like to even be stent
on stage? And you know what I'm saying, Like some
days I know you be in and out and but
you still have to do your job. How you balance
that ship?

Speaker 1 (46:07):
It's just natural, all right, It's just natural.

Speaker 3 (46:11):
The lights come on the time, it's time.

Speaker 4 (46:13):
Yeah, bro, I'll be in the audience. I'll be moving cheers.
You might see me in three different modes. I'm scanning tickets,
I'm parking cars. I'm independent. Yeah, I'm moving ships.

Speaker 1 (46:23):
You make your stage? Yeah, man, I put this other
shirt on. I'm the comedian right now. You sit right here?

Speaker 3 (46:30):
Man?

Speaker 1 (46:30):
How many tickets you got?

Speaker 3 (46:33):
Like?

Speaker 1 (46:33):
How do you do that?

Speaker 3 (46:34):
Man?

Speaker 1 (46:34):
Listen? Man, this is my job. This is my business.

Speaker 3 (46:38):
Yeah I do Yeah.

Speaker 4 (46:39):
I rented this hall like everybody here on my payroads
if they slacking. I'm all about conducting good business. Yeah,
so I'm moving. He'll tell you do stuff at his
club like Baltimore. I'm moving cheers. I'm telling security you
got to typen up on that I'm doing. Mike checks
the DJ late.

Speaker 1 (46:57):
Yeah, why are you late? People walking in.

Speaker 4 (47:00):
I'm not sitting in the green room waiting because people
spending good money to see me. So I want the
springs to be dope. Yeah, I try fifty yeth ticket.
So when you come in, I want everything to be smooth.
So that's the confidence I got, like I'm not gonna fail.

Speaker 3 (47:17):
What about entitlement, like like people back home, family members
and you know, old friends, how you feel about people
feel like they're entitled to what you go what you
go out there and get.

Speaker 1 (47:28):
You know, I ain't ever go through that, y'all. I
ain't ever go through that, even though you avoid it.
I was always stinchy not to ask me shit because
I'm I'm too arrogant. I'll tell you, damn you still
fucked up the fuck you're doing wrong? So the ain't
know not to ask because I'm gonna say some ignorant

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shit like yo, you can't ask me for nothing, because
I'm gonna tell you you can download door dash nigg facts.

Speaker 3 (47:56):
There's ways to do this shit.

Speaker 1 (47:57):
Man, I need to hold a hundred dollars.

Speaker 4 (47:58):
They go to door dash act get some money, don't.
You should never ask another man to borrow no money?
And today's time where you can get slow money better
than no money.

Speaker 3 (48:09):
Hope meal been non.

Speaker 1 (48:13):
Should no should no man be fucked up? Should no
woman be broke?

Speaker 4 (48:16):
Should no man be fucked up financially because you got
a bunch of ass to make money? Should no females
be broke because they gotta pussy?

Speaker 3 (48:23):
What do they? Puss? It broken?

Speaker 1 (48:25):
Everybody to learn how to sell a broke puss sell it?

Speaker 3 (48:30):
Hey, what you think the difference difference is? Like with
traditional and Martin women, what's the what's the biggest difference?

Speaker 1 (48:39):
And then that Martin women like back in the day
or Martin women just laid back in classy?

Speaker 3 (48:46):
Traditional is black back in the day? Like traditional is
the traditional woman? Martin? Like that's the question, Like, what's
the difference between a traditional woman and a Martin day woman?

Speaker 1 (48:56):
Traditional is back in the day? Went right?

Speaker 4 (48:59):
Yeah, they knew how to hold the household down and
deal with a man that shed they knew how to
hold the household down. I know my man fucking up.
I know he gonna be a man. I'm gonna take
your household and I'm still gonna feed him first and
have everything going on a modern day woman. Fucking I'm

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gonna leave him cheating that deal breaking.

Speaker 1 (49:24):
Maya they leaving, they're not even they're not even fighting,
they're not even fighting for you.

Speaker 3 (49:32):
But on some g ship the tradition, the traditional woman
has turned martin these days. Though, you got grandmothers and
shit on on uh. I seen o, man, you got
grandmothers and ship kicking the Marten day ship.

Speaker 1 (49:46):
I asked one more one time, I said, do you
know a man addicted in sex?

Speaker 3 (49:50):
She was like yeah.

Speaker 4 (49:52):
I said, so, if a guy was addicted to drugs,
would you fuck with him and help him get off
the addiction? She said, yeah, he did the drugs. I
stick by, I helped him get off. I said, we
tell you here, addicted to sex. Would you stay there
and help him? You said fucking no, But an addiction
is an addiction.

Speaker 3 (50:11):
They feel like you should have be They got damn
figure that one out because of sex?

Speaker 1 (50:16):
Man, Yeah, what about the drugs.

Speaker 3 (50:20):
That's a substance, big of sex and substance. I got
this ship. I do call else a word with a word.
So I'm gonna call out a word and you just
give me a word with it. Come on, you ready, identity?

Speaker 1 (50:41):
Say that ship again. You're gonna answer the word with
the word.

Speaker 3 (50:44):
You're gonna answer word with the word. You said I
then their word and you say I say identity, you say.

Speaker 1 (50:49):
Crisis or whatever after my mind christis crisis, ambition, leon, failure, struggle, success.

Speaker 3 (51:04):
Happiness, comedy, realness, family, love, anxiety, doable, confidence, easy, empathy.

Speaker 1 (51:23):
That's low level accountability, success, tradition, that's a hard one. Continuing, envy, failure.

Speaker 3 (51:44):
Love, loyalty, trust, loyalty, communication, open friendship with you, power,
abusive politics, open education, easy.

Speaker 1 (52:14):
Culture, traditional religion, traditional travel, fine music, happiness, technology, learnable environment, growth, health, healthy, fitness, journey, dreams, accomplishing, accomplishable, perspective,

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big bank.

Speaker 3 (52:52):
Let's get it. Which one to really stuck out to you? Though?
At all the words you can think like damn, trust,
love for sure? Why trust?

Speaker 1 (53:03):
Because trust a big thing? Man like com you know,
coming from a dark place, you gotta trust somebody to
guid you in the right direction. If somebody don't got
you in the right direction, they could leave you done
the wrong road. You can end up fucked up because
you trust them to following.

Speaker 3 (53:18):
M h.

Speaker 1 (53:20):
If I'm blind, got my hand on your shoulder, I
trust you to take me to the to the right spot.

Speaker 4 (53:24):
But you could leave me to a whole nother dessine
mm hm. And I'm out here, so I really believe it.
Trust is a hard thing. That's why I feel like
female will be so hurt when they trust a man
and they feel cross.

Speaker 3 (53:37):
I can go for that. What what what would make
you trust a person? What will make you distrust a person?

Speaker 1 (53:43):
I trust anybody when you don't lie to me, Like
I trust everybody until you give me reasons not to
trustre That's.

Speaker 3 (53:49):
The Geminis ship, because I don't know a lie, a
lie to kill it, a lit kill it, Like why
the fuck you lied to me? What about a motherfucker
that don't lie to you, but you see that they
are liar.

Speaker 1 (53:59):
I would just put them in position to not lie
to me exactly I know you are are. It's not
lied to me. Yeah, I'm not gonna push you.

Speaker 3 (54:09):
On the world, but you're right. You're right. I ain't
even gonna let you be.

Speaker 1 (54:12):
I'm not even gonna you fuck me over.

Speaker 3 (54:13):
Yeah I can't.

Speaker 4 (54:15):
I expressed it too much. Yeah, but sometime when you
trust somebody too much, they can trick you.

Speaker 1 (54:20):
M like, damn, you know what. I'm not even mad
at you because I was way smarter than that. But
I trust you and you fuck me r with. So
now you on the side you just paid to get
out of my life.

Speaker 3 (54:33):
No facts, where you see yourself in the next five
year married bro?

Speaker 1 (54:39):
Real right, go to the hufro the ground up.

Speaker 3 (54:43):
What's your idea? Woman, though.

Speaker 4 (54:46):
Understandable that I'm a man and I may make mistakes
in our relationship. If you can agree to that and
accept that when you're gonna have a good husband, maybe
I'm gonna make mistakes.

Speaker 1 (54:58):
I might slip up and fuck up. I said I might.
I said, I said I might.

Speaker 4 (55:08):
You know what I mean, I'm a man, I might
slip up. I travel, I might slip on and fuck up.
But just had understanding that another think when of the
next taught me, she said, clean, I know you're gonna
sleep with other women, just don't embarrass me. So you're
a man, you just don't embarrass me. Put home first,
said dance play.

Speaker 1 (55:28):
You taught me something.

Speaker 4 (55:30):
We don't care about your cheating, bro. They don't want
to be embarrassed when you're a burst a female that
hurt way more than she when a woman got something
old another woman in the room, she hate that. Fuck
you fucking why do this bitch? You got something over
top of me?

Speaker 3 (55:46):
They hate that ship now with a passion, with a passion.

Speaker 1 (55:49):
So that's why I see myself fire.

Speaker 3 (55:51):
I see you with a Netflix Netflix special.

Speaker 1 (55:55):
You think that I can see it? So that's not
not fire?

Speaker 3 (55:59):
No, no, So I see it come up. Heah, yeah,
I see that Netflix specially, Bro. I would like to
get that chet now it's coming. What would you shoot
it at your hometown or the Atlanta or shoot in Chicago? Okay? Yeah?
What city do you get the most? Loving?

Speaker 1 (56:16):
Philly?

Speaker 3 (56:17):
Okay yeah, yeah, yeah, feeling So why Chicago?

Speaker 4 (56:23):
Because Chicago they got this beautiful comedy club man. That's
just a lot of ADDI Murphy shout a specially, so
you know that's one of my favorite comics. I like
to I would like to shoot on the same stage
he shot on.

Speaker 3 (56:37):
What what advice would you get somebody who trying to
you know what I'm saying, Get into the coming round
right now.

Speaker 4 (56:44):
Get on stage. Don't give up, fuck you're following, Take
the nose, take the booze, just go for it. I mean,
it's a hard time to start comedy right now, there's
no it's not that many open mics.

Speaker 1 (56:57):
But just get on stage.

Speaker 4 (56:58):
If you want to be a truth coming like my
man Kelly Cat say, you want to be a real comic,
get your ass on stage. Nigga, ain't easy. You gotta
do this shit for years. I been doing stand up
Coming in twenty years. I ain't become successful to the
last five.

Speaker 3 (57:13):
So what's the difference between like the internet, the online.

Speaker 4 (57:16):
Like the online comment and the stand up coming is
you can cut pause at it all the funny parts.

Speaker 1 (57:23):
On stage. It's just real time, real time and black
people got short to the span.

Speaker 4 (57:30):
So if you ain't so, if you not like quick
or catch you or witty or just likable, oh that
boo yes, especially in Atlanta, they will get you the
fuck up out of there, boy quick.

Speaker 1 (57:43):
I ain't get this niggle out the stage, man, niggas
some trash and break your confidence down. This motherfucker.

Speaker 3 (57:50):
So who who would you like? Up and coming niggas?
Be like, nah, that nigga not funny?

Speaker 1 (57:57):
Uh what's the kid named? I don't mean kid? Uh
the guy I called you about the one oh one?

Speaker 3 (58:07):
Man?

Speaker 1 (58:07):
Wan funny?

Speaker 4 (58:08):
Is it because one authentic? You know what I'm saying.
I ain't seen nobody authentic like that in a long time.

Speaker 3 (58:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (58:14):
He just just naturally funny. He just he just got it.

Speaker 3 (58:17):
Yeah. I had one on him.

Speaker 1 (58:18):
Yeah yeah, yeahah yeah I.

Speaker 3 (58:19):
Was that day.

Speaker 1 (58:20):
But yeah, he doesn't. He just naturally funny man.

Speaker 3 (58:24):
All right, before we get out of here, Oh what
you read books? Okay? Uh, before we get out of here,
I want to know what you want your legacy to
be when you're gone.

Speaker 1 (58:43):
That I never gave up, that I never gave up.

Speaker 4 (58:47):
I want I want the history like Yo, no matter
how hard it got, if you've been black ball, you
go always found a way.

Speaker 1 (58:58):
To get some money. He never gave up. From the
Lemonade to Sun Out Show, just never took no for no.

Speaker 3 (59:07):
That never took never take no for that's a real ship.

Speaker 4 (59:11):
And you said no, Somebody's gonna say yeah, but you
said no. Excuse me, but I'm gonna get it, Yeah, somewhere.

Speaker 3 (59:16):
Do you think they have to be already in you?
Or you can put that in you.

Speaker 1 (59:19):
I gotta be already. It could be at you know,
you could be trained to be a savage, but this
is better with you if it's just born in you.

Speaker 3 (59:28):
Do you think it was it was born in you
because you ain't have a choice, or you was always
like that.

Speaker 4 (59:33):
All my family entrepreneurs. I was just born around you
know what I'm saying. Like, and my goal is what
I'm gonna do quick and punch a clock. That's my motivation.
No invest nobody punching the clock. But what I'm gonna do, like,
it's just I'm just a dog, like I gotta get it.
I got kids, I got family, I got women. I
take your auntsybody.

Speaker 1 (59:54):
I gotta get it. I feed them first.

Speaker 4 (59:56):
I'm the man in my family. Like my uncle's raised me.
My faults they raised me. Need to it's your turn now,
Like I don't have a choice, I got a choice.

Speaker 1 (01:00:05):
A week old.

Speaker 4 (01:00:06):
Nephews, is y'all turn to take care of the family.
We don't raise all up to be men? Now is
y'all turn? And if you fail, you're gonna struggle because
they got out back, you know what I'm saying. But
I got cousins that just they just stopped. They just
got married. They don't take grocery to their own mime house.
They don't shovel snow, they don't call and check on them.

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I was ready to be a soldier, so that's.

Speaker 3 (01:00:29):
Just what I am. So you live in the city.

Speaker 1 (01:00:32):
I live in the city year now.

Speaker 3 (01:00:34):
Yeah, I mean, okay, for sure, we gotta tap in.
I appreciate you putting yes yes. Tell them forward to
tap in with you.

Speaker 4 (01:00:41):
A checkout man, Cleonocomedian dot com on all platforms. You
know I ain't hard to find. And when you find me,
you're gonna let me well for sure.

Speaker 3 (01:00:49):
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