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March 21, 2025 125 mins

Special guest Tracy returns to PWB to discuss the challenges posed by external pressures, the necessity of supportive relationships, and the balance between individuality and partnership. They unpack the role of peace, submission, and leadership in relationships, emphasizing emotional well-being and the power of healing. The discussion also touches on how sacrificing personal goals can lead to resentment, stressing the need for mutual support, trust, understanding, encourages prioritizing self-growth, recognizing when to walk away from toxic situations, and embracing personal purpose while maintaining healthy relationships. 

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:01):
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Speaker 1 (00:46):
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Speaker 3 (00:49):
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Bang Bang B. Let's get straight to it, no quote,
no intros. This can say you got some on in mind.
He pulled up on me.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
What's up? Trace what it is?

Speaker 3 (01:05):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:05):
First allan, tell you appreciate it. Bro, you can't on
the bitch and did number? They love you? Bro?

Speaker 3 (01:09):
I love them, they love you.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
See we got I got.

Speaker 3 (01:11):
I gotta do this more often, you know what I'm saying,
because I know how to get to him and it'll
be gave it like it's on a few of us
that know how to get to him. We're gonna call
these sessions pop in with Tracy Tea, leave to pop
in to pop in.

Speaker 1 (01:24):
Yeah, pop in, pop up, pop out, get it to you.
How you feeling, my brother? What's on your mess? Man?
I feel good? Man?

Speaker 3 (01:30):
You know, just growthing on the bag. You know what
I'm saying, going with the bag, and you know, different
decisions lead you to it.

Speaker 1 (01:36):
You know what I'm saying. You're taking off to night.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
I'm tomorrow. Yeah, we got tour tomorrow, man, We're starting
off in Detroit tomorrow. Well yeah, the seventh starting out
and we just start the tour. Trying to get myself
mentally physically ready for the tour. And you know what
I'm saying, everything that come with it. Who are coming
out there with you.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
I just got a lot of the homies man trailed
on the tour together.

Speaker 3 (01:57):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, And you might have
some of the homies open up or something, you know,
and you know, whatever city were in. I got home
as any different cities were in, so we might have
him pop in do something.

Speaker 1 (02:07):
They do something their business. Who put the route together
for your manager?

Speaker 3 (02:10):
Yeah? Management that dope. Y'all coming to Alamba too? Yeah, okay,
I don't really. Oh yeah, I forgot what you said. Okay,
and I say, y'all coming to oh you Finnah say
something else before that? But something you said before that first?
But hot going out of the now.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
He got here a little busy. He gonna hit some
of the states though.

Speaker 3 (02:31):
You know what I'm saying. You can again too, Yeah,
like April April something.

Speaker 1 (02:35):
Ship show coming back to April twen third.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
Yeah, you know, we sliding through.

Speaker 1 (02:39):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (02:39):
Were putting this out in the morning, right, you're gonna
get it and get it out. What's on your mind,
what's on your heart? You've been on you've been trending. Later,
I gotta get my paid bag. I ain't no to
today to you today just said it according to him, Yeah,
what's the play man? And the folks playing on my top?

Speaker 1 (02:56):
Like, don't what make you feel like that?

Speaker 2 (02:59):
You know?

Speaker 3 (03:00):
The Internet though, you know what I'm saying. I can't
even say these folk playing because they they do the Internet.
They don't know who you with. You know the Internet, man,
you know what I'm saying. Can't go back and forward
the Internet. But I just hate the part of it,
like when you you know, you know me, I play,
I just talk crazy. I play all day. You know
what I'm saying. But you know, if you know me,
you know me. You know what I'm saying. You know me,

(03:20):
and you know my real nigga. You know the Internet,
you know they don't know you. They're gonna be anybody
behind the keyboard doing anything, you know what I'm saying,
saying anything doing anything. Some folks do stuff just for
them people, you feel, So it's kind of be like,
it's kind of it's a crazy word. It's another world
that ain't from. So I ain't good at it, you
know what I'm saying. I'm just good at being me,
you know what I'm saying. So do you think like
the jokingly Tracy t who we all know, like just

(03:44):
say anything.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
People take that literal and feel like you on shit.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
That ain't how we rob you feel like that how
we do like you know, I've been Tracy a long time,
you know what I'm saying, that still be Tracy, however, feel.

Speaker 1 (03:58):
What you think to make the biggest misconception.

Speaker 3 (04:01):
Like where they got you up at cause they don't
know they take they don't know how like they'll take
something run with it that ain't even something the supposed
to run with. You know what I'm saying, Like you
take this and run with it, but that ain't that
you know what I'm saying. You really don't know what
you're running with. You feel you might be running with
something to try to flip the script and make you
feel me. Yeah, what's the issue, you know what I'm saying,

(04:24):
Like I say, I guess baby girl moved on or something,
and they trying to say like you're in your feelings
behind like I'm told up about it, like I'm saying.
I even had some of my folks called me like
you straight what man I swell man Nigga called me.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
By y'all, was you a little salt to them.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
Of course, a nigga gonna be like, I ain't man,
nigga like nigga fox ship like that, Like you know
what I'm saying. Yeah, nappy head, that nigga like you
like you know, that's just that's your human nature. You
feel me that just as a human we all like that,
you know what I'm saying. Just competitive niggas, Yeah, we
all like that. Evel me.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
So what I'm just saying, like do you talk?

Speaker 3 (05:04):
You talk though he now, like you know you talk?

Speaker 1 (05:08):
So your what kind of space y.

Speaker 3 (05:11):
Ship? What kind of space where you got your space?
I got my space? You know what I'm saying. But
y'all still co parent, you know right, it's like, yeah,
it's a must, you know what I'm saying for my folks,
my kids. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (05:23):
Yeah, it's a must for my kids. Like I can't
even stop that.

Speaker 3 (05:26):
But I think it might be a confusion or nigga
might feel some kind of way about that on another end,
you feel me, so what you mean, like, you know,
if a nigga with the kids, a nigga might be
like you know what I'm saying, nigg might be mad
you feel.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
I don't know, but I just know it ain't proper communication.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
You feel me like you know what I'm saying. I
don't know what's going on for real, what I'm saying,
I don't know folks being folk here or folk rock.

Speaker 1 (05:53):
I don't really know. And I got so much going
on with me, like shig I can't say nig he
might you feel me?

Speaker 3 (06:00):
Really?

Speaker 1 (06:01):
My kids?

Speaker 3 (06:01):
You feel?

Speaker 1 (06:02):
And I'm at an age like, ain't no young nigga,
no more?

Speaker 3 (06:04):
Just let not giving about responsibilities this shit. You know
what I'm saying, I really give my responsibility? Which of
my kids? You feel me? So it's like when they
come with that when you really want to your kids
on your terms or when you want to and you're
not getting a proper response or proper whatever it can
to be, Like, I don't know where it comes from.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
You know what I'm saying, But let me ask you something.

Speaker 3 (06:25):
Do you feel as if though, like before before it
pop out, Like, do you feel like y'all had a
chance like to fix whatever y'all were going through before
what popped out before she like popped out with another
Nigga song. Do you feel like, damn, I thought we
probably could have. We was going through some you know niggas.
Most of the time niggas feel like we just going

(06:46):
through something. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (06:48):
You just don't ever know what what it could be.
You know what I'm saying. You would hope for the best,
wish for the best with any situation.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying. You don't really never
know what it could be or what it's gonna be.
But you would probably want to raise your kids with
a family. You know what I'm saying. People probably won't that,
you know what I'm saying. But it's like certain things
you just like can't come back from. You know what
I'm saying, Certain things can't come back from. Like even
in the beginning with things were going on. It's just like,

(07:16):
you know, I probably my pride was in a way.
I probably feel in some kind of way, But we
ain't never had no conversation as adults to like, you
know what I'm saying, and me having pride to different
having pride. We just like I'm standing on this, you
stand on that, then you know what I'm saying that
and shit, separate what part? What? What? What part? Do
you take account?

Speaker 1 (07:34):
For like like you hold yourself accountable for like on
the whole ship.

Speaker 3 (07:39):
I hold myself accountable far as like you know a nigga,
nigga might have up, you know what I'm saying. Nigga
might have up and drifted off the stuff of like
trying to fight. But like as a fight go on,
it's certain like when you in the middle of a fight,
you you really ain't got time to think. So I
probably could have thought more and thought out a relaxed

(08:00):
more instead of jumping the gun. You know what I'm saying.
But when you in the space, in a certain space,
it ain't just about jumping the gun. It's just about
doing what's best for you at the moment. I ain't
gonna say what's best for you, but what's best for
your family at the moment. You know what I'm saying,
which is getting yourself together, because you can't have shit
together if you got yourself together. You know what I'm saying.
So when you try to get yourself together and you separate,

(08:23):
that shit ain't together. You feel me, So you get
a chance to drift out and do other things, and
other people get changed, driped out and do other thing.
When you probably could have been like it takes two though,
do you think that's ego? Ego? Pride? But it takes
two though, you know what I'm saying. One person can't
be fighting something. Another person ain't fighting something like you
say me for me for more trying like you gonna

(08:46):
go all the way, you know what I'm saying, and
for fight for like you know what I'm saying, what
you think the biggest the biggest reason people split up
the day is the embarrassment pride, ego. What you think
it is if you embarrass the probably embarrassing. Yeah, that's embarrassing, disrespect,

(09:07):
Like you know what I'm saying. Internet, there's a lot
of folks live for the internet these day, for real,
you know what I'm saying. So hell yeah, for sure,
like folk living for whatuckers saying come in on your
page and they live for that justification. Yeah, I agree
with that. They're gonna they gonna say this if I
do this.

Speaker 1 (09:28):
So what you ever? Would you ever like chance that again?

Speaker 3 (09:30):
Like go out there on your face and try to
be like in a just like a full blown relationship again,
Well I try to be in a full blown relationship again,
just period, just period.

Speaker 1 (09:41):
You know how a nigga jump out there so fun
and be like you know what, man, I.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
Tried and I ain't doing that no more. It just
takes some time with that ship. You did this ship
it like whoa, let me hold up and get like.
You know what I'm saying. You gotta be your ship together. Man.
You can't be trying to do this and do that
and your ship ain't together like that, just that just
for anybody. You know what I'm saying. You're trying to
do something your ship, it's gonna be chaos. Are you
still mentally like focus on what you're supposed to be

(10:08):
doing for you instead of what you're supposed to be
doing for y'all? Yeah? Nah for real. You know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (10:16):
I ain't ask you where you're mentally at right now?

Speaker 3 (10:18):
The bad? Yeah, yeah, the bad. You know what I'm saying,
Get the money, man, Situate your situation, get your cheese situation, situation. Yeah,
in fact, that what you gotta do. But shi, who's
gonna do it for you? You? Like? Yeah with an accident, Yeah,
with the pistol to my head or something like your
weddy you crash up?

Speaker 1 (10:39):
Man?

Speaker 3 (10:40):
What they don't know me like he was ready to
crash out what you said. I just say, just be
you know, I just might be talking, you know what
I'm saying. I just might be saying some shitting in there,
cut fixed it up in there, like I'm just like, ah,
like tripping you feel me? Motherfucker might come in just
for me to say something back you feel me and
didn't take that lying around with it like you know

(11:01):
what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, it's crazy man, you know,
you know coming for I done came for. I think
I have done a good job trying to beat the
person that chill out, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah,
the person be trying to be the person chilling trying
to I came along ways, and it's a lot of
growth from where I was. I was in. I was

(11:22):
in a place where I ain't getting no funck by
none of it, you know what I'm saying. A female,
the kid came along way, man, so for me to
try to be like they they kind of take a
lot from a nigga, Like damn, I tried this and
this how they go in the end, Like you know
what I'm saying, They just ask you that like when
you step out, when you step out of your norm

(11:44):
and try some ship and it and that don't paying out.
How you thought you changing up would make that paying out? Yeah,
Like do that kind of put like a sour tasting
in the air. Yeah, cause niggas stopped the whole lifestyle
and stop everything doing just get to make for another program.
You know what I'm saying, But what I learned, don't
let go your program. Man, your program is necessary because

(12:06):
what you're doing and your program that what got you
where you at. So the moment you whatever you're doing,
any other program involve your program. Yeah, don't let your
program go. Man, that whatever you're doing, that what you built.
You feel me that what you're building and if that
program don't work, you left that alone. Now your program
don't feel both programs are feeling. They gotta start your
program over again. You know what I'm saying. I feel
no hustler, you don't know what to do. You'll be lost,

(12:28):
you feel me. A lot of nigga be lost out
here after ship like that. A lot of nigga don't
know what to do, a lot of niggas do go crazy.
A lot of niggas forget it all, lose it all,
you know what I'm.

Speaker 1 (12:35):
Saying, and then be blaming that person for the rest
of their life.

Speaker 3 (12:38):
Yeah she did.

Speaker 1 (12:38):
Oh you the reason, nah, nigga, you leiggo your program nigga. Yeah, yeah,
so you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
That why I say in the in a relationship, you
gotta even if something's going on, you gotta get your
hair your program together in order to keep that program together.
I agree totally. You feel what I'm saying. I think
them public relationships is just like they be doing from

(13:04):
the start. They be doing from the start. Yeah, not
not not because of the people, but just because of
the criticism and and expectations. And yeah, you know what
I'm saying, and people like motherfuckers them there watching you
ready to tell you, and watching her ready tell on her.

Speaker 1 (13:20):
You know what I'm saying, everybody and everybody business man,
you could be out with your cousin or something.

Speaker 3 (13:25):
Man, them folks, get the man, let me tell you something, man,
And that damn right. They were like one of the
strong a nigga go out with these peoples, right, somebody say, oh,
anybody can say listen the end of that crazy anybody
can say anything you know what I'm saying, anybody can
reach you that ship. You shouldn't have been as anybody
shouldn't have be a access to anybody. So somebody, whoever, whatever,

(13:49):
is seting anybody a message, Yeah, be like oh this
and that, that, this that, or tracing him kissing in
the club. And first of all, you know I'm a player, man,
motherfucker kissing it man, you know what I'm saying. Then
you might go to the strip club anything a bitch
might ben over he put some lipstick on your shirt
the same night or another motherfucker here.

Speaker 1 (14:09):
You saying, he and the club kensing you come to
the house. Ain't did none of that ship? You guilty?
You guilty? Fun You fit the destription, you fit the description.
You ain't going now now, how you gonna.

Speaker 3 (14:23):
Argue that impossible? So so so that's the same thing
of you have to alter your situation because if you're
in a relationship, they say you got a compromise. So
you can't be in the strip club really with bitches
bending down, putting no damn lipstick on your ship? Why
you can't I'm saying you're supposed to be able to,

(14:45):
but you can't because you that fixed makes you fit
the description. That's just what the lawyer. You gotta fight,
then we gotta take this ship to try that where
you got to try. Yeah, you know what I'm saying,
you innocent to prove it guilty, but you got all
the evidence.

Speaker 1 (15:00):
On you, but no your past record what convicts you. Mhm,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (15:08):
You already been caught up for some ship for real
before then his lipstick going up, But you gilt you.

Speaker 1 (15:14):
It's godlines right.

Speaker 3 (15:20):
I feel you ain't gonna say you're right because that
situation I would, right, Well, I get it, but I'm
been in this situation as well. I could be dead
ad right, but I'm wrong because of all my past.
So I just let her think I'm wrong, like yeah, damn,
now be convicted of it because.

Speaker 1 (15:37):
It ain't all in this ship. Yeah yeah, that shit
fucked up.

Speaker 3 (15:43):
But it's true, bro, It's like, all right, what the
consequences is to ain't Yeah true, yeah, but ain't did
with the consequence.

Speaker 1 (15:53):
Because it ain't nothing I can do to convince you
that I.

Speaker 3 (15:55):
Didn't ever did death. Damn, you get where the Troy
come in there? If you don't trust motherfucker the fact
that where the try come in there. You gotta be
ald a truck in a relationship. You don't trust me
while we're rocking, but we break the trust like me,
and we break the trust immediately, we break the tray
down immediately.

Speaker 1 (16:15):
So how that ship supposed to go? Then? How you
supposed to stick with a person if you break the
trust immediately? As men?

Speaker 3 (16:20):
How you what? What do a woman stick with you at?
If the trusts broken, it's always gonna be you did it? Yep,
So how you came wrong with that? You know what
you do is then then you have to got there
and go to the rest of your life trying to
prove something that you're not trying to prove something that
you can never prove. I mean yeah, Like that's the torture.
Who want to live a life like that? That's torture.

(16:41):
That's torture. You ain't gonna get up out of it.
You ain't gonna be You're gonna be dying soon, like
because you're going hard, Like you're stressed out, you're not happy,
You're not happy. But that's why they say certain people
don't supposed to be in a relationship. Yeah, yeah, because
you have to damn be able to counsel your situation

(17:02):
for this situation, and niggas ain't in that position to
do that right now, right.

Speaker 1 (17:10):
Like, you really have to be able to be somewhat
a dunt you gotta be.

Speaker 3 (17:18):
You gotta be a dunk flowing no water man quacking, quacking, flowing,
no fucking water. Wait for somebody to throw bread out
to you something.

Speaker 1 (17:33):
The truth.

Speaker 3 (17:38):
Crockers. Yeah, the moment you look, you call your little
dunk head, write it up well for real though, bro, Like,
at the end of the day, that's why they say
it's compromising.

Speaker 1 (17:52):
This is just my perspective. I don't know, I could
be wrong, but it is.

Speaker 3 (17:55):
Though in a relationship, you got a compromise though, because
both y'all pulled the compromise, you know what I'm saying,
in a relationship, so like we're doing this together. Look,
I'm gonna stay down for this, You're gonna stay down
for that. We're gonna we're gonna rock out like this.
But some ship you know you ain't gonna bey to compromise.
So why even line yourself up with that? Cause that
make your line that niggas you know you ain't gonna
be able to do certain ship. Yeah, like niggas you

(18:16):
know what, they'll still sign up for it. Why, I know,
good fucking with.

Speaker 1 (18:24):
It?

Speaker 3 (18:25):
Yeah yeah. And now that's when she justified when she
say your fuck nigga to somebody else because you is
really at the end of the day, because you in
your herd, you couldn't do this like me, I know,
bro a nigga trying to lie to myself.

Speaker 1 (18:43):
Yeah yeah, look at that beer.

Speaker 3 (18:46):
Yeah, I'm ready. Ready, you ain't. You know you ain't,
Like we know we ain't, but we wanna be. So
how that works, Tracey helped me. When you know you
ain't ready and you want to be, Yeah, that just
come with like I feel like they just come with
communicating with the person you with. Yeah, Like if you're

(19:06):
communicating y'all, like if they rocking with you and y'all
communicating on them on a certain level, it's.

Speaker 1 (19:11):
Either gonna be ready or not. If one person reading
one person not.

Speaker 3 (19:13):
If you really want to fuck with this person, you're
kind of help them be ready or growing them to
be ready or get the fuck on. But I think
what fuck it up is the communication party is like
like and I heard a couple of women say this
on the podcast, like has some women in her too,
like doing doing this ship with that, Like yeah, we
gotta but there was some rush shit hit me today.

Speaker 1 (19:33):
We could have set up a whole panella. You know
what I'm saying. We could have said a whole pena
if you had time but tomorrow or something.

Speaker 3 (19:38):
But you gotta deal. But let me let me say this,
like will we come in, Yeah, we come in with
a good face on, yeah, and no real ship.

Speaker 1 (19:46):
And then when a.

Speaker 3 (19:47):
Nigga get nerved to build up or see who he
really is, like get ready to tell the truth. Now
the woman's always already in on who you was. Yeah,
and then it's like you're switching up. Yeah, but it's
like I when I could be yeah, and now my
truth doesn't shift.

Speaker 1 (20:03):
Now you mad at me, and you got a right
to be. What do you think that may saying?

Speaker 3 (20:07):
Though? Because I fell in love with who the fuck
you was and now who this person? And now you're stuck.
I'm growing every day though, baby.

Speaker 1 (20:17):
Crazy and say grow together, grow apart.

Speaker 3 (20:20):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Damn man, this shit crazy.
It's like you gotta really be at peace and he'll
all the way from all your trump to be in
a relationship with another person, bro, because you're gonna be
thinking about what the last person did, and you're gonna
be trying to bring that situation into what you got
going on, thinking about this person like this or motherfucker,

(20:40):
don't want to be You'll be traumatized, even even from
what you've seen other people go through. Yeah, not even
just your situation. Now. For sure, you can sit there
with a person, see how another person act and going
to the and just be like, damn, I know they
could do this. I know this is possible. So it's
you want that he's gonna be looking for them flags
that the last person gave you know what I'm saying

(21:01):
stead of jed light. So you really have to be healed.
You have to be here. That's why I ask, do
you feel like like me personally? If I, like God
for bid, get out of relationship, I would never get
in another relationship relationship for a while, right, Well, yeah,
I wouldn't do that shit no more.

Speaker 1 (21:19):
Yeah, it's like a nigga getting out of Jim saying
I want to.

Speaker 3 (21:22):
Go back damn nah for real. The truth, it's like,
because you're in a cage, you can't. God damn, you can't.
Just once I do did my bid, I ain't gonna
change in my life. Yeah, but not to say goddamn
because it's hard work, bro, it is, but you just

(21:44):
learned from it, so it won't be hard work with
the next situation. It gonna be this, It's gonna be
that ship ain't. Yeah, because at the end of the day,
you trying to you trying to in relationship, bro, you're
trying to be one with a person. So it's like,
and I don't want to sound like no bullshit, like
I'm just all total against relationship and I'm just saying like,
if you ain't fully ready to be I'm not a

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compromising person, you know what I'm saying, Like, I just
I'm won ship my way.

Speaker 1 (22:09):
I'm just being one life. I don't want it. So
you can't be like that. When you're trying to be
with what the.

Speaker 3 (22:15):
Net person too, you think about how they feeling, what
they'll think about what you're doing, and if you you
might befull blast on what you want to do, you
might not do it because of how they might feel
about fact. So yeah, comor and that can hinder you
from being the person that you is and attracting the
things you're attracked because you under this program, in study
your own program, your program. You're attracting what you want
because you living to your living your truth facts. You

(22:37):
know what I'm saying exactly who you are?

Speaker 1 (22:38):
You living your truth. And when you're not living your truth,
the stuff you attract stop coming to you because you
ain't the person that you.

Speaker 3 (22:45):
You know what I'm saying. Correct, that's correctly correct. Yeah,
that happened like that, That really happened like that. That's
what be going on. That's why women like just say
fancy when the mother fuckers get out of a relationship
with me and and women and they go to doing
different even though they don't go be with nobody else,
they just go to everything, go to go because now

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they're on their program. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Things ain't nothing stopping, Like I don't have to think
for another person. You get what I'm saying. I ain't
gotta goddamn let me go in person, let me gone
in the house, let me gone, let me gon't let
me don't let me. Yeah, you ain't gotta do it.
You continue to do what you wanna do and you
know we buy chance. Niggas like our money come by chance,

(23:26):
our opportunity to come by chance. Like say, you in
the house, you gonna miss your chang.

Speaker 1 (23:30):
You gonna miss your chance. But you you ain't you
free you you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (23:35):
Ain't missing your chair? You bumping into your chance? Yes,
you bumping into your chance. That's correct, not for sure, Yo, Hey,
what you're gonna sit in there? The nigga come to
you sitting in the house. Let you already got your
program running.

Speaker 1 (23:45):
You ain't even really asking your phone like that cause
you don't want the wrong tech to come through. So
your phone like you missed your chance. Your phone ain't
really ring your half or.

Speaker 3 (23:52):
They ain't ever answer. Our nigga had told me that
the other day, nigga. Like, man, the nigga laid up
all day. Man coming outside, they see some out. Man,
we've been getting money sat nine o'clock. Man, the man
missing all the money, missing a chant? You missing a
chant because you know made this his chance. Yeah, Like
it's like whatever you prioritizeing, bro, that's why you gotta
already be all the way together.

Speaker 1 (24:13):
Like I understand why niggas handle their business. You know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (24:17):
Do all the ship get successful and then feel like,
now I want to get me a family because now
I ain't got that out in the way. But it's
hard to still chase your dream, chase your paper and
try to god damn settle down at the same time.

Speaker 1 (24:30):
You can't be settled grinding.

Speaker 3 (24:32):
Oh no you can't. Yeah, it's impossible to be settled
and grounding at the same time. Ship came hit the
waves on the ankle, man, How the fuck you're gonna
move into the sea on the alop You ass sitting there?

Speaker 1 (24:45):
Yeah? You sat man, You sitting there. Ship supposed to
move around.

Speaker 3 (24:50):
Man to float hit the waves and ship and they
just sitting there there.

Speaker 1 (24:55):
You want to move, You got that, You got an ankle.
You can't go.

Speaker 3 (24:57):
Nowhere in jail man. Yeah, lockdown, man, real. But if
people together, they all, like you other, live their truth.
But that's hard. Ain't no motherfucker do that. You think.
I think that's possible for somebody to let somebody live
their truth and they be together and just.

Speaker 1 (25:15):
You just it depends if you came in on some
truth ship. See, people be scared.

Speaker 3 (25:20):
People everybody come in with a mask on, trying to
be the person that they think that person won't. I
can't say that though. I can't say that, God break
it down. I can't say that cause you give who
you is. But it's as you go they want more.
Now as you go, you slowly pulling your masks on
for them. That wouldn nigga go to doing you slowly rolling.

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That shakes down for sure. So you come in like
they lose like and they but no, they might see that.
They might be like, oh cause female a tryer. They'll
be like, oh yeah, oh I like him, right, I
like him. I can change some ship. So they might
get to trying to change some ship, you know what
I'm saying. And you get to trying to compromise for

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they changes. And that's where problems come coming in there
because when you come in, they're like, oh you happy
in the beginning. You're doing you, You're kicking, and you
playing how you playing in the beginning. It's not like
some nigga try to put on the front. I ain't
good at putt on the front. Yeah, i'mnna get it
to you with what this is I am. If I
fuck with you, I fuck with you and this me
this Tracy. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (26:25):
But when you get to trying to you know what
I'm saying, the water get to.

Speaker 3 (26:29):
Coming into jail, and you know what I'm saying, Hey man,
you gotta try to you hear me? Yeah, yeah, you're right.
See what it is is once you start knowing their expectations,
you try to follow it exactly. They start trying to
put their boundaries. They start trying to set the boundary.
They gonna let you be you for a minute. They
feel like they can tweak you there. You feel let

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me just take this right quick. You and you go
for it.

Speaker 1 (26:53):
Yeah, because you alway in the blendo, you go to
gest it. Yeah, you go to trying that jail, Yep,
you get fine tuned me.

Speaker 3 (27:01):
You know what I'm saying, trying to tune me up.
You know what I'm saying, You trying to tune me off.
So now you're trying to tune me. And now I'm
trying to go for it, cause we've been rocking up
and I love you and I'm fucking with you like
that now like yeah, I'm trying I'm trying to do that.
Now I'm starting to think who I am is wrong
because it's wrong in your eyes. That's what happened.

Speaker 1 (27:22):
Now I'm starting to think, like, damn, am I tripping?
Is it me? When you just fine being you?

Speaker 3 (27:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (27:29):
Fine being you? Hooy gotta break that holo hold on
right now?

Speaker 3 (27:32):
One okay, Look like you said, like, because I care
about you, right right, because I care about the way
you feel your feelings. You're starting to show me that
the person that I am is starting to hurt your feelings. Right,
So now I'm gonna let you tune me a little
bit right right right. But then when I start getting tuned,
that's gonna take somebody of me, and you're gonna start
seeing me be snappy and and stanton office. And because

(27:54):
I ain't even yourself no more, yeah, lost me trying
to find me inside of you through your eyes. Tell
you that's crazy, But that happens, though, That happens, not
not yet for men, women too. Yeah, Like a woman
could be super happy just how she is taking shots.

(28:15):
Yeah and out, my friend, I don't like you taking
new shots. I don't like you out like that. Niggas
ain't even really gotta say it. They gonna start doing
they're gonna stop doing it. Because they gonna think that's
what you don't like you see what I'm saying, Like
now I gotta be a wife or I gotta be
a girlfriend instead of just being you. He's gonna fuck
with it like you. That's why people be mad and
then like I did.

Speaker 1 (28:36):
All this for you.

Speaker 3 (28:38):
Nah, do what you want to do so I can
know exactly what you want to do. Yeah, exactly I
want you. I want you to live your truth. If
I funk what you I do. If I don't excuse me,
excuse me, excuse me that my ship scu me. Nah,
that's cold the way gona. I think most niggas, most niggas.
We ain't gonna speak for most niggas. Something. Niggas meet

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a woman and feel like I can love you the
just the way you are. Women meet niggas and feel
like I can love him if he just do this,
if he eventually do this like they for potentially potentially
who you're gonna be a nigga, be like, I can
love you like this for the rest of the rest.

Speaker 1 (29:18):
Of my life. You know what I'm saying something.

Speaker 3 (29:23):
That's some cases that go the other way too, Like
they go the other way too. What you mean nigga
be like, I ain't gonna say just how you are.
But a lot of these woudn't be stuck in their way.
They is who they is and that's who they gonna be,
you know what I'm saying. Because they kind of they
growing mature a little faster than us, you know what
I'm saying, So they might be like on some shit
like nah, this is me, this is they be. You know,

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nigga't gonna like her? I like some female do be
like that. I like her just how she is, and
she's gonna be like that you like.

Speaker 1 (29:53):
I might be.

Speaker 3 (29:54):
You know what I'm saying, Like if like most of
the time you meet a woman, bro, if you choose
her to be your woman, if she changed some things,
it's some things that you see that she can change,
but you ain't tripping it like I ain't trying to
change you. I'm just saying, me might be like I
know that that's her.

Speaker 1 (30:12):
They come.

Speaker 3 (30:12):
They didn't break us who you are become. They deal
breaking by show like well, why you gotta be out
or why you gotta this? Or why you gotta why
you gotta But I've been this.

Speaker 1 (30:22):
But see sometime if you've been that.

Speaker 3 (30:25):
You've been that, but then when you're growing too, sometimes
growth allow you not to be that too, you know
what I'm saying, But on my own, not not. I
can't grow on your time. I gotta growth on my time.
That's true. But some nigga might be forcing ton they
grow trying to grow, you know what I'm saying, Stunt
your growth, trying to be go ahead instead of litting
that ship do it by itself. You know what I'm saying.

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Of course you want to push for that. Of course
you want to push to grow and be in a
healthy situation, But what's what's actually growing though, Like like
like recognizing record value in the valuables, but.

Speaker 1 (30:58):
What's value to some people ain't the other people?

Speaker 3 (31:01):
Because you can feel like like like like just like
like my home homegirl was telling me the other day
about her dude. She's like, all you want to do
is all you want to do is just say you
want to just say play video games? When is he
gonna grow up? That could be his therapy. That don't
mean he's a child because he like playing video games.
He just that could be his therapy. Nigga, be outside

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somewhere you rather nigga sit out right here and play
the video game or want nigg be outside and well
doing whatever else.

Speaker 1 (31:30):
But but I asked, But if I asked you, like,
so is he lacking? Do he not pay your bills?

Speaker 3 (31:34):
Do he's not?

Speaker 1 (31:35):
No, he handled the business.

Speaker 3 (31:36):
But I just hate when I come in the house
when he is that he playing a video game, like
god damn.

Speaker 1 (31:41):
But you know what, thing, it's always never not some correct.
It's fun.

Speaker 3 (31:48):
You could do this, do that, to do this, get
with it's some miss. You do that, get with, it's
some miss. It ain't never not nothing, man, it's ship
a cycle that shit for ever go on. So you're
gonna even say, hey, man, that's you and keep it
moving or let the cycle, you know what I'm saying.
Let the niggas do them. And y'all do you love

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that person for that person? Or I think comparison is
to death of relationships, Like when people feel like.

Speaker 1 (32:17):
Well they did this, yeah they doing this here girl
here girl got now man, bro girl got damn. Then
he put a ring on her.

Speaker 3 (32:27):
Ship like that. Yeah you ain't got bro girl. You
ain't got that nigga, ain't me, Yeah you ain't her
exactly That's why I think it sucked up and everybody's
scared to live in their own truthful relationship. People got
this idea of what a relationship is supposed to be,
and everybody trying to live by one model, and it.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
Don't fit certain people.

Speaker 3 (32:45):
You know what I'm saying, People are embarrassed to live
inside a relationship. Some bitch don't even give a fuck
about a nigga having bitches, But I got to because deep, bitch,
you give a fuck about niggas having bitch you know
what I'm saying, Like really really don't even give a fuck,
And I gotta give a fuck because the society say
that can't look at y'all look at me like this.
I can't let y'all see this and me being played

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on like this like some niggas don't give a fuck
highest bitch dress or how late she stay out, But
I gotta give a fuck a bututting them be seeing
out dressed like like my nigga, Like damn, bro, you
damn really you don't when he brought to your TV, like, yeah,
that is a wrong game.

Speaker 1 (33:23):
That's amazing.

Speaker 3 (33:24):
Never gave a fun But that's a major part of
it though, who around you, and like who the voice
the voices that you're hearing that's around you, why you're
in any situation, You know what I'm saying, They got
a lot to do with it. Like, yeah, some people
you listen to on a hell or because it's hard
to sit there and answer your own thoughts all the time.
Like you know what I'm saying, You wanna talk to
people and whoever you take advice from, whoever feed youever

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around you, You're gonna, I mean, you're gonna start hearing
what they're saying kind of eventually.

Speaker 1 (33:52):
You're trying to trying to live up to it.

Speaker 3 (33:55):
Cound of too. Yeah, like y'all have any conversations, you're
gonna take their advice and kind of run with a littit,
Like they could be telling you some fucked up ship,
or they can be a fucked up person theyself not
even got their own shit together, you feel what I'm saying,
Like like you might listen to your partner knowing a
nigga tell you some bullshit, you know what I'm saying,
and then go, God, damn bust a movie, Like damn,

(34:15):
I did that ship?

Speaker 1 (34:16):
Listen to this food?

Speaker 3 (34:17):
You know what I'm saying knowing you wouldn't even do that,
but that just when you're talking to somebody who around you, Yeah,
whoever around you gotta got that. That's why you gotta
have some good folks around you that can feed you
the right ship. We don't know everything, you know what
I'm saying, Well, you just don't know everything. Man. The
ship you might say you might run with it, or
it just might it might trigger he thought or something.
You know what I'm saying, Like, Yeah, you're right react

(34:38):
right down instinct, just off the strength of who you're
talking to or with you, like what somebody feed or
you gotta have good, good people around you, man, who
know something. Man, what's the what's the idea of a
valuable woman? Like what you think the idea valuable woman?
Idea valuable woman? All right?

Speaker 1 (34:59):
Won't you answer you question? I'm a bill off for.

Speaker 3 (35:02):
I think the idea of value with a woman is
a woman that pour into you and bring you unconditional piece,
unconditional piece because piece is the root of it. Because
you can't do else without the peace on your Fuck
what you got, how you look? Whatever? If you don't
make me feel fool, it ain't nothing. Yeah, peace. You

(35:22):
don't hold no value because I could do everything myself
for myself, whatever I need to do, you hold no
value if you don't give me something that I can't
get nowhere else. The only thing I can't get this piece. Yeah,
you can't buy it, like ease me when I lay
down my head or something. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (35:39):
Whatever it might be, it could be anything, mean words,
bro ite, motivation. It could be because we got feeling
men and men. But we know what I'm saying. We
be strong.

Speaker 3 (35:47):
We got that got to chill around us, all kinds
of ship. But at the end of the day, niggas
still need that that peace. You know what I'm saying,
And you gotta if you gotta bring me that comfort
like because you got you can't do that without peace.

Speaker 1 (35:59):
You can't think straight without peace.

Speaker 3 (36:00):
You can't sleep, eat none of that ship without If
you ain't peace for you, you moving on on. She
gotter brain that ship all over the place. You're not
in a good state of mind without me. Niggas gotta
know what he contained. The bitch too, like she ain't
gonna bring piece. Yeah, you gotta know, like straight beating
this up because it's always It always goes back to us,
like everything we gotta how we learn though, what you mean,

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like how we learned that the Tainer ship. You gotta
be ready?

Speaker 1 (36:26):
How you so you say, get on the water, look
for that bread, shake the fellas, get on the water.
You're ready to quack. Nig gotta be ready. Quack You
ready to be a duk? You ready to get on

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that water? Quam?

Speaker 3 (36:50):
Not?

Speaker 1 (36:50):
But I ain't gonna ski. Know that just says certain
relations some nigga like you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (36:55):
You can't. But you know what nigga be Like when
nigga be in the bet relationship life and wife and
all that ship, Like let me ask my wife, Uh,
let me see what my wife said.

Speaker 1 (37:07):
Yeap, my wife. The only way you run the show?
What that's the.

Speaker 3 (37:15):
Only way why you gotta be ready.

Speaker 1 (37:18):
You gotta be ready, bro, You got that's that's ready?

Speaker 3 (37:21):
So is that not giving a fuck?

Speaker 1 (37:22):
That ain't not giving the fun.

Speaker 3 (37:24):
That's like like nigga be saying they want a submissive
woman in order to have a smiss moon.

Speaker 1 (37:28):
You gotta be a submissive nigga here, Yeah, and niggas
ain't ready to do that at this point in their life.

Speaker 3 (37:36):
I can't say niggas ain't. It might be women ain't
because women be ready to God damn settle.

Speaker 1 (37:42):
But you got it. It's just your fit would fit you.
I'm saying. If a niggas gonna be a nigga, let
him be him.

Speaker 3 (37:51):
You know what I'm saying. You catch your match man. No,
But like you just sat there and said you're right.
But like you just sat there and said, it is
most niggas that relation ship last. And the niggas who
be happy is the nigga who just really don't even talk.
Their wife got them motherfuckers out in the in the
in restaurants there they just right.

Speaker 1 (38:11):
Look at dumb, you know what I'm saying. But one
of them one up.

Speaker 3 (38:15):
We be like, why you gotta talk with people like that?
You know what I'm saying them nigga let them do
whatever like.

Speaker 1 (38:21):
She ain't doing it to be Oh ship mayby do
what you do. I gotta live with them. You don't,
I gotta go home. I gotta go.

Speaker 3 (38:29):
You don't turn on their kids everything with your mama
said you said, I ain't disagreeing.

Speaker 1 (38:36):
It ain't right. Niggas. You gotta let it don't be
they'll be right all the time for sure.

Speaker 3 (38:43):
For sure.

Speaker 1 (38:44):
How they how they gonna make.

Speaker 3 (38:45):
A nigga feeling inside when you knowing like damn, and
then when you get to trying to see that ship
is crazy. You gotta be ready, gotta be ready like
that's that's the ultimate healing. You gotta be healed like
most dudes. Then I see that and in successful relationship

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they non confrontational. Yeah, see we we ready to change.
Don't give a fuck. You should not get that what
I'm saying that when you say, when I say, don't
give a fuck, you just can't give a fuck no more.

Speaker 1 (39:19):
You can't, you can't. You can't have that horse.

Speaker 3 (39:23):
See, I ain't no quack, ain't no quacking that nigga.
Then god, hey man, my word is law. My word
is law. But see female love that though some females
like that. Though some female don't. Some females think they
the niggas. Some female want to be. You know what
I'm saying, the one who bring you no no, you

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know what I'm saying, Like you're right about what you're saying.
But what I'm saying, it's just like certain ship, you
ain't gonna quack about she know that, Like you ain't
finish quack allway yet.

Speaker 1 (39:52):
But what I'm saying, like petty ship that we will
still try to Like are you talking to me like that? Whatever?

Speaker 3 (39:58):
Like niggas, you can't everything, he told me, like, yeah,
you just gotta you gotta let a lot of ship
go until it gets to a boundary like hold on there,
like but most of that ship, that petty ship.

Speaker 1 (40:11):
She bitching about the gas and while you putting no gas.

Speaker 3 (40:13):
In your car, why you you're right baby, Yeah, you're
right baby, right baby, you gotta say you right baby
more than a million times. Man, who want to live
like that? You slowly down if you living. But that
really brings you peace because when the nigga out around them,
nigga be happy.

Speaker 1 (40:35):
I'm just saying, be cool, like.

Speaker 3 (40:38):
Bro, yes baby, nigga, answer the phone. Bro, we be
playing golf. Nigga, Yes baby, yes, hang on the phone,
turned back to a hold other nigga. Yeah yeah, just
like hangover man, the nigga with them, nigga. Man, you
finally flipped the script on you don't yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
flip the script on you're not cutting holes. Yeah, you're right,
fuck you, nigga. Probably we won't to say that so much.

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It's impossible though, Like I feel like me personally, I
just feel like me being in a relationship at the time.

Speaker 1 (41:11):
You're gonna have to how you do it? Just don't
have to quack. But you ain't quacking? Black who you quacking?

Speaker 3 (41:19):
He ain't now.

Speaker 1 (41:22):
Quacking a quack out? Yeah, it don't work because I
already I already ain't been a quack for so long.
She ain't going for the quack, you know, it's out.

Speaker 3 (41:32):
Yeah. So it's like we've been kids, like sixteen years
old when I stuff suck, so she has seen it,
like everything quacking is a for net.

Speaker 1 (41:40):
Yeah. So let me ask you something. At what point
do the female quack?

Speaker 3 (41:46):
Never ya to you? Quick? Fuck that you gotta be
slowing on that waters. That's why I just asked you,
would you try that again? What I so you said
I was quacking? No, But I know you knowing by
you knowing that you have to quack what you try

(42:08):
to be in a relationship again, you see you it
wouldn't work because you didn't quit.

Speaker 1 (42:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (42:14):
Yeah, So it's like, of course I want to be
a relationship with niggas that don't want to be out
here and Jay where they are all like, ain't ship
going on out here in these streets?

Speaker 1 (42:24):
I understand that.

Speaker 3 (42:25):
But what that's what we're trying to get to. That's
the point we're getting to. We see what we've been
trying to do all these years. Hey, man, that ship
left me at a dog place. Man, I ain't ready
to go back in the dog man.

Speaker 1 (42:39):
That's what I'm saying that this is a therapy, Saisi.

Speaker 3 (42:44):
This is a therapist for both of us. We're trying
to we're trying to all of us. We're trying to
figure this out. Oh ship, but we figured this out, Tracey, Yeah,
let's figure this shit out. Well, what I'm saying is, yeah,

(43:05):
what does it take to make it work?

Speaker 1 (43:07):
Who's gonna be in first?

Speaker 3 (43:09):
Like if we if we if if if we supposed,
if we want the women to follow us, that means
we got a quack first.

Speaker 1 (43:17):
I wouldn't necessariously quaeck for you just gotta make a
woman happy.

Speaker 3 (43:20):
I ain't that quacking.

Speaker 1 (43:21):
Ain't making a woman happy and comfortable and bringing comfort
to her.

Speaker 3 (43:25):
That ain't quacking. How it ain't because it's always that's
all you supposed to do anyway, that's your girl.

Speaker 1 (43:30):
If that's your girl, you gotta god damn make sure
she at him.

Speaker 3 (43:32):
You gotta keep it at these. I ain't gonna say
that's quacking. That's just making sure your folks right, you
know what I'm saying. How do you do that when
it's she gotta respect?

Speaker 1 (43:39):
When you're doing that, you feel me, it's always something
you just say, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (43:41):
It's definitely always something. So how you're gonna make her
happen when she never can't be happy with? There's always
something else.

Speaker 1 (43:46):
Man, if she if she ain't gonna be happy, you
gotta leve huck, You gotta leave her on.

Speaker 3 (43:50):
She you know what, she's gonna be happy though.

Speaker 1 (43:51):
When we just said that, trace thinks when she always right?

Speaker 3 (44:01):
Who that deep.

Speaker 1 (44:06):
Ducks go in the water.

Speaker 3 (44:11):
They float on top of the water, right, Yeah, they
don't go swimming, They don't die in deep dude, they
just float on top. Right. You gotta think, man, Back
in the day, the old school niggas, like the old
school niggas with the niggas, they weren't quacking, and the
relationship was last forever they was. They could win all
the extra ship when they evolved. They got them niggas
bringing their check. Huh, nigga getting out the way, do whatever.

(44:37):
But get what though, Give me a pack of cigarettes
in a four downs some straight Get what though? What
that female were doing though, held in the business. Okay
then because he was quacking. And I ain't gonna say
that because you were quacking. It's just different now, it's
totally different. These females ain't had the female war back then.
Check a female, no one give a fucking go to
the ni nigga and get that check and get that

(44:58):
check and keep moving around getting checks. You feel. So
I wasn't. I wouldn't had no problem bank that baby, Yeah,
boom that the bank rode. Look, they make sure that
ship good. A good woman, you know what I'm saying.
But a lot of female sucked up out here. So
I can't compare the in and now. For sure, try
and change time chain big time people change the whole.

(45:20):
It wasn't no social media. But what I'm trying to
tell you is is like niggas done found out they
worth now, So that's and women know what they're worth too,
So that's the that's the friction. Back in the days
a man would let the woman even though I'm the
head of the household. She the head of the house.

Speaker 1 (45:39):
So like you never heard her, heard heard, you ain't
never said.

Speaker 3 (45:43):
I'm finna go to my dad house when they mom
and dad stay together, I'm finna go to my granddad.
Open to go to my grandma house? No offer to
go with my grandma house. Offer to go to my
mama house. That's who house it is. Oh yeah, the
bills and who they are together, it's like house. Yeah,
and your.

Speaker 1 (46:00):
Granddaddy right there being there the whole time he was paying.

Speaker 3 (46:02):
You got with you had grandma house, that's who running shit,
and granddaddy in that motherfucker quiety here grandma until it's
time to say something in the yard when I say something,
law yeah, but I ain't.

Speaker 1 (46:14):
Gotten any say because she handling everything. But that ain't
that wrong with that? When it's like that, though, if you.

Speaker 3 (46:20):
Just chilling and letting them hellish and they see it's
the woman though, if you got the good woman, that
just it's that's cool. But nigga gott to grow to
grow to know that too. You just don't jump out
knowing shit like that. You gotta go through shit and
understand she because what you go through kind of make
you who you is. Yeah, that with like if you
go through something and fuck up, it kind of shape
you to be a better person. So niggas gotta go

(46:43):
through what they go through to understand the value that
the woman brains. But nobody ain't willing to go through
none of the day because it's embarrassment factor, Like, nobody
don't be able to be embarrassed. Nobody want to be
played where you played on my top, you're playing on
my face out of shit. Nobody don't want to go
through that. Yeah, nobody don't want to sing, but that
will separate that ship can make you stronger though, that
she can make situations stronger, or that she can make

(47:04):
situations other way. It's all on what y'all want to
do with that. Because if you don't learn from it, now,
that's hold let me let me, let me, let me
hold break it down. If you don't learn from what
you're doing far as wrong to a woman or whatever
the fuck that's even in life, that's anything. If you
ain't learning from your listeners or learning from these situations

(47:24):
and you keep making them saying it's gonna be a
problem facts.

Speaker 1 (47:28):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (47:28):
But if you can't, if you.

Speaker 1 (47:29):
Learn, then correct your write your wrongs.

Speaker 3 (47:32):
You know what I'm saying. That's that that kind of
make you stronger. That's what it should be about. Oh
you ain't like that, I'm gonna write my wrongs and
you know what I'm saying, become a better person for
a relationship. I think the cold were cracking in. Don't
get in it trying to figure it out. You gotta
already it's already got to be figured out. It already

(47:53):
gotta be figured out to the point we gotta be
figured out.

Speaker 1 (47:56):
You gotta be figured out that on willingness at her
say what ever, brun, just be non to it. That's
hard to do, but that's what you really have.

Speaker 3 (48:07):
A happy life.

Speaker 1 (48:08):
May be talking about happy white happy life. That's a
happy life for a man.

Speaker 3 (48:12):
I ain't.

Speaker 1 (48:13):
Hell no, I ain't gonna be happy, but your wife
will be happy, right, be less stressful?

Speaker 3 (48:18):
That's kind of crazy. So she gonna be happy and
you ain't, but you're gonna be less stressful. You're gonna
be less stressed because she happy, But you ain't gonna
be happy allg and neither of them.

Speaker 1 (48:30):
But you ain't gonna be happy in inside, nor you
quacking and she just just to make her happy.

Speaker 3 (48:35):
But you're making another person happen, but you're not. I'm
gonna tell you why you're gonna be happ how that work.
I'm gonna tell you why. I letna tell you why
its gonna be happy. Because when you're quacking, you're gonna
keep down confusing, so you don't have enough room to
go be happy somewhere else.

Speaker 1 (48:52):
That was a strong whoa what? Bro? Listen?

Speaker 3 (48:57):
So you gotta go get happiness from somewhere else this period.
Just like you want to have a happy home, why
you gotta go somewhere to be getting happy?

Speaker 1 (49:03):
I agree with that.

Speaker 3 (49:04):
I agree.

Speaker 1 (49:04):
I want to come home and be.

Speaker 3 (49:05):
Happy as fun.

Speaker 1 (49:06):
I mean the house. What the motherfucker?

Speaker 3 (49:08):
I don't have you ever seen niggas that they come
outside them nigga be like kids. Them need to be
happy as a motherfucker. Yeah, like bro see it every day,
like on the golf course and ship man, them dudes
be happy. Yeah, when it's time to go there, like
all right, bro, be about to cry? What bigga gotta

(49:29):
go home and not be happy? They come with this
ship to the house ship that you gotta damn why
you think that is?

Speaker 1 (49:41):
Though, why y'all think that is?

Speaker 3 (49:46):
Yeah, we need some.

Speaker 1 (49:47):
Input, but while stay home if you're not happy at home.

Speaker 3 (49:54):
But it's gonna be the same thing with every woman though,
Like it ain't just your woman or just my woman.
It's the same thing because women just some women just
find ship. Yeah for nothing, you got to you gotta
argue that. You gotta argue this nothing. You gotta argue
about nothing for real, You really gotta defend nothing. Yes,

(50:15):
that's that's the crazy part. Motherfucker see that she on TV.
That'll remind them something that you could possibly be doing. Yeah,
could possibly be doing And that's an argument.

Speaker 1 (50:27):
Or did damn?

Speaker 3 (50:30):
Now you gotta argue this ship. But that's the picture
you painted. I can see him doing that, Like what
you mean you see me doing that? I ain't.

Speaker 1 (50:39):
Like I can see you doing that? Like were watching
the movie? Yeah, like that's so the movie she mad
at you? Yeah, oh the fuck on, man.

Speaker 3 (50:51):
They ain't answer the phone in the movie because he
would a bitch, mom with your phone, raise your answer
with this bitch yep?

Speaker 1 (50:59):
Are you with that? Bitch? Man?

Speaker 3 (51:01):
What you're talking about. Man, that's the whole problem that
you got to be sad to go mad to go
back home beause she gonna be a that motherfucker.

Speaker 1 (51:08):
I think the emotions of a man is what.

Speaker 3 (51:14):
Put him in a position, because you gotta think about
the niggas that's really at peace them nigga don't give
a fuck what she's saying.

Speaker 1 (51:21):
I ain't defending or denying nothing.

Speaker 3 (51:24):
That's peace. That's peace like when you're trying.

Speaker 1 (51:26):
To do not like you could be dead ass right
and she be dead ass wrong. Man.

Speaker 3 (51:32):
See the worst ship you can do when a nigga
as a nigga. And I'm gonna tell you all, nigga,
this ship it proved something to a woman at one
time just because you're right, all right, look, bitch said,
and then when you're wrong, you really can't prove.

Speaker 1 (51:44):
So you're right nothing that I am right, Damn. Man,
I can show you this ship. I ain't even I
ain't even do all that. Man. Look I told you little.

Speaker 3 (51:57):
Show you the cover time that you can't show, so
I ain't used to showing nothing. Double that's the right ship.
I ain't gonna do that, But.

Speaker 1 (52:06):
Now I expect you to do this every time, when
you showing me your phone last time, when you.

Speaker 3 (52:10):
Show me this game, Yeah, I gotta. I gotta prove
myself every time. I gotta make you look like a
food every time. They gonna say, yeah, you just ain't got.

Speaker 1 (52:19):
No valid evident this time. So they're trying to work
your way out of it, right, got them like, yes
you did that?

Speaker 3 (52:33):
Damn no man, Yeah, man, I think you just like
it's like it's just like the biggest game they give
you when you get arrested, the right your man. Anything
you say will be against can and will be used
to gets you. So the best thing for you to

(52:54):
do it they think what you think?

Speaker 1 (52:55):
Man, I love you.

Speaker 3 (52:56):
I ain't on that. I ain't on that. When soon
you go to hold on, let me call bro? What
were They don't make it no better by you. That
won't make it no better because they ain't. They gonna
hate the balls around you. Oh, they gonna hate your partners. Oh,
they gonna hate them. Oh, I ain't no love for them.
I ain't no love for them. You're gonna lie for you?

Speaker 1 (53:18):
Yeah, I ain't no love for the Pottners. No, I
can't say that.

Speaker 3 (53:23):
They might cut they might cut you.

Speaker 1 (53:25):
Watch it. They watch your potner, how he be, how
he be? Oh he with another girl? Oh so that
what y'all be doing? Well, that ain't even how a
nigga really play. But I say that nigga ever move
around like that?

Speaker 3 (53:37):
You can't say that though, because that flip side of it,
like all your friend holes and I know where.

Speaker 1 (53:43):
They make you. Like, so bitch, stopped that.

Speaker 2 (53:46):
Now.

Speaker 1 (53:47):
I don't give damn what you doing, Like, I know
she playing some niggas doesn't need her that I know
this year. Yeah, like, so stop that. So when y'all
lot that put you out on it and that's just
your friend.

Speaker 3 (53:58):
Because I don't feel like you're like her. Yeah, motherfucker
have to look at that ship. You gotta be able
to put that ship like. I can't judge you off
because I trust you, baby.

Speaker 1 (54:07):
I don't feel like you like her. How you gonna
feel like I'm like this nigga.

Speaker 3 (54:11):
That ships so fucked up? Now, man, that's shit crazy,
that shit strict. But if you got somebody that motivating it, really, like, hey,
breaking you that stress like it's some females out there
like that, man, like they gonna they're gonna they're gonna
pull Poe into a nigga. You feel me.

Speaker 1 (54:28):
They it's a female like that that really pour into
a niggas. But but but the thing about it is,
but now you can't tame them because they taint it
forever a problem. Yeah, you can't tame them, or you
can't get a bit that's already tainted.

Speaker 3 (54:44):
Because you're gonna deal with all her troumble. You're gonna trigger.
You can put on the same clone niggas, but smell
like a fuck.

Speaker 1 (54:57):
They are no boy shit for real, Like I remember
he's wearing them sane, damn play like damn man.

Speaker 3 (55:06):
I ain't did nothing to you, baby, Why I gotta
go through this?

Speaker 1 (55:11):
I ain't do this.

Speaker 3 (55:12):
So you gotta heal. You gotta help heal the woman
or the way that come with a woman, Oliver. But
do you think a woman will be here astually come
from shit like that? She can't kept from a pat trouble?

Speaker 1 (55:21):
How?

Speaker 3 (55:21):
How?

Speaker 1 (55:21):
How how do a woman see the white we need
these people? Why a woman? I mean how a woman.

Speaker 3 (55:28):
And they go for niggas.

Speaker 1 (55:29):
Two though, you can't just jump right in some shit.

Speaker 3 (55:32):
You gotta work on yourself first, Bro, you gotta figure
yourself out because at the end of the day, if
some ship go wrong, bro, that means something is wrong
on your inn and that person in or some wrong
on somebody. But we gotta figure it out before we
jump back into some more ship. For sure.

Speaker 1 (55:47):
You gotta get familiar with yourself.

Speaker 3 (55:48):
Like some some some some some exclusive ship, you know
what I'm saying, Like trying to be some exclusive ship.
Do We gotta understand what we don't like what we do,
like you know what I'm saying, When we're going for
the boundaries all of shit, we gotta know that ship
befo or we.

Speaker 1 (56:00):
Try to do something else. Yeah, like a nigga, come,
try to just write to another person you need it.

Speaker 3 (56:05):
That shit don't work like that ship don't work that
ship don't work like that. You just might be like
I would ask somebody there, right, why do rebounds feel
so good? What you mean rebound?

Speaker 1 (56:21):
Cheat rebound?

Speaker 3 (56:22):
Like? Yeah, like for a Nigga's like you're looking for
something that you like, were missing in a person. Oh
so avoid is trying to be filed. So motherfucker can
not even be feeling the motherfucker they just trying to feel.
A boy, I ain't gonna say that though you ain't
gonna say that that wout asking a rebound, Like, but

(56:49):
that chicken be doing everything that she could be. Yeah,
she could be doing everything that person wasn't doing. You
know what I'm saying, you're really feeling that person, but
like you feel what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (56:59):
But what's what's the definition of rebounds? I don't know? Yeah,
because I talk about have said because it feels good, No,
you can take another shot.

Speaker 3 (57:10):
That's wrong basketball here? Yeah that was strong and then
that motherfucker might be the game winner.

Speaker 1 (57:15):
That might be the game.

Speaker 3 (57:18):
They said that.

Speaker 1 (57:19):
I say, damn, I ain't never think of that one.

Speaker 3 (57:24):
Who was involved? What's thee abound relationship? Damn?

Speaker 2 (57:34):
That?

Speaker 1 (57:34):
What is it?

Speaker 3 (57:36):
Oh? They saying like the other way, like of somebody
that like if she gona deal with you? Yeah nah,
but she ain't here, not he ain't here or the
person ain't here?

Speaker 1 (57:49):
Relationship?

Speaker 3 (57:51):
Really woman involved with someone as a rebound?

Speaker 1 (57:56):
You involved? What means she's relationship before.

Speaker 3 (58:05):
Before?

Speaker 1 (58:08):
So that's the Yeah, that's what you said. Yeah who
said that?

Speaker 3 (58:13):
Who said that? See? Oh see, yeah, I don't really
know about real life what we told her, like that
that ship generated refers to as a woman. See that's

(58:35):
what I'm saying, Like they saying it like the person
that's getting out of relationship and trying to the woman
getting out of relationship trying to just yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (58:47):
So basically, so I don't know. But at the end
of the day, I feel like if you if you
immediately you can't immediately jump into some ship, like how
can you just did yeah and find your person? You
can because everything you might see, everything in the motherfucker
that you was already missing, that you need, that you

(59:07):
need it, and then you gotta think, Bro, everything cool
when you even hurt the motherfucker. You know what I'm saying,
I ain't never hurt you this ship, it be cool
for the.

Speaker 3 (59:20):
Everything good before you heard the motherfucker.

Speaker 1 (59:22):
Yeah, that's vice versas like niggas be hurt and they
don't even know how to spress that. Bitch, I've been
hurt by you and don't even we should have never.

Speaker 3 (59:29):
Been the same no more, it would never be the same.

Speaker 1 (59:31):
Like I ain't gonna never respect you the same.

Speaker 3 (59:32):
I really don't give a fuck by getting caught bitch,
fuck you basically, but the fuck which I love you,
but I don't know how to explain. Fuck you, you
know what I'm saying, Like niggas don't even know how
to like women express their hurt more than men.

Speaker 1 (59:45):
But you know I meant more.

Speaker 3 (59:48):
You get what I'm saying, Like just say, Benson, I
could be hurt, She could be hurt, but she gonna
boohoo about it, and I'm just gonna withdraw.

Speaker 1 (59:58):
But that don't mean you hurt more. And I am
right right, right right, You get what I'm saying, Like
we equally hurt. You just dramatic about it. Yeah, I'm
just action. You know what it's dragon, Yeah, you know
what I'm saying. It's just it's just a difference. It's
but it's still both getting drawn because now I gotta
go through all this ship.

Speaker 3 (01:00:17):
Now you bickering. Now it's it's still the same ship.
It's just more vocal, if that makes sense what I'm saying.
So once a motherfucker is hurting relationship either or it'll
never be saying no more if it ain't talk that
properly or that.

Speaker 1 (01:00:31):
What I'm saying. They can make you stronger if you
have it right well.

Speaker 3 (01:00:35):
If you held it right way through therapy and talking
and addressing it. But but but, like I said, when
you're a hustler or your go getter or your dream chaser,
you ain't got time to carve out because that should
take time month to hurt, that should take ship months, years, weeks.

Speaker 1 (01:00:54):
That should take time to actually get an understanding and
to help a person here. And it's like, who's finna
be doing.

Speaker 3 (01:01:00):
Right, nigga trying? Nigga, get to it, man, get to it, man,
sinkle sell. You know how many niggas don't miss their
chance trying to fix the motherfucker. And then while you're
trying to fix this person, when they do here, they
heal or know you know what, I can't deal with
you no more. I've healed. You know.

Speaker 1 (01:01:22):
You don't heal. The motherfucker just missed your shot. Yeah, now.

Speaker 3 (01:01:28):
Now you someone mad, that's strong. That ship happens a lot. Yeah,
I don't seen niggas got now. I don't seen women.

Speaker 1 (01:01:35):
I don't heard.

Speaker 3 (01:01:39):
The man benches said to their friends, to everybody life
soon and soon as I get my tax or whatever,
I'm done with this.

Speaker 1 (01:01:49):
Nigga. Let me get in position. Let me get in
a position. That's when you see what you.

Speaker 3 (01:01:55):
Really got man, when the motherfucker got some get something
that they never had when they was with you. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying, That ship the lottery. You
don't see the real hert. Yeah, don't see the real health.

Speaker 1 (01:02:06):
Why nigga shut the fuck up?

Speaker 3 (01:02:08):
Yep? Now yeah, ship or just being positioned like even
I ain't gonna just pos Men and women matter.

Speaker 1 (01:02:19):
When you got the upper hair, you feel like you
can move a certain way.

Speaker 3 (01:02:23):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:02:24):
Yeah that with respect come in like a lot of
a lot of that ship fall up under day. I agree.

Speaker 3 (01:02:29):
Yeah, Like, oh, I mean, I'm cool, I'm straight, So
you're gonna I'm gonna do I'm gonna be like this
like ship. If you come in, Hey, man, you come
in the situation and you allow you power it up.
Nigga're gonna be powered up.

Speaker 1 (01:02:41):
Off the dribble. But a lot of niggas you don't
even know it. Come on, break that one down a
little bit more.

Speaker 3 (01:02:52):
I know what you're saying.

Speaker 1 (01:02:53):
But like, like bitch can really hate you but love you.

Speaker 3 (01:02:58):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:02:58):
Where they come in and what what a female get
out of really hating the nigga they love.

Speaker 3 (01:03:03):
Because they don't know how to balance those feelings. They
don't know how to balance that hurt, like you could
be done.

Speaker 1 (01:03:07):
Hurt a bit so bad. She can't leave you because
she love you, but you don't destroy the inside and
she hate to see you coming. Yeah, and vice versa. Yeah,
and you study your dunk ass son is still trying
to fix this bitch, but she can't be fixed.

Speaker 3 (01:03:24):
Yeah, because you don't it once you destroyed this.

Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
Yeah, but that boy calls ain't one nod up about
and talking about she gon gone, bro, She just ain't
in position mentally, physically, financially, spiritually, whatever to display it. Yeah. Yeah,

(01:03:47):
so this bitch, this bitch slowly healed it in your presence,
and then you see that that bitch be so cold
in the end, like.

Speaker 3 (01:03:56):
Damn, yeah, take everything at the end of the marriage,
just like damn, that really took my ship because it
was a plot.

Speaker 1 (01:04:03):
Niggas gonna be cold immediately like this fuck you. Yeah,
they strategized and masterminding the whole play.

Speaker 3 (01:04:11):
You funk around, get sick bitch whooping you with belts
and ship to beat your get your ass to shut
the fuck up.

Speaker 1 (01:04:21):
You sit with ship on you out for two three
days and oh wait to do it, can't wait to
do it? Tell you and you will think in the
beginning though, you will think that was the one. Yep,
you'll know it's the one. But she could have been
the one. But you did did what you did, and
you destroyed. You gotta recognize when you're understroke.

Speaker 3 (01:04:42):
So let me tell you when you graceful, when you yeah,
you gotta u gracious, when you know you don't destroy
them up, you gon keep her yourself. You're gonna go
and buy gracious, she got to you got a bad
graceful You gotta be a man about it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:52):
And they gonna they gonna feel like you are all
type of funck niggas I took you back. Hey baby,
this is for us.

Speaker 3 (01:04:57):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, because I don't want
to get in the spot where you get some strength
and now I'm all way in.

Speaker 1 (01:05:02):
I gotta shoot you in your motherfucker face.

Speaker 3 (01:05:04):
I'll tell you.

Speaker 1 (01:05:05):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:05:05):
So you know what, let's just let's just know it
and void this queen while we're both still able to
you know what I'm saying, Like motherfucker whole grud for
fifty years? Why they still be together? Oh no, no,
gotta be with the person. You still gonna have the
grug cause you better. You see that mother, you sound
about this brand you in that place you was when
you was with them.

Speaker 1 (01:05:25):
Bro, you ain't never seen the old couple that don't speak,
sit in separate breads.

Speaker 3 (01:05:28):
Now. Yeah, we've been together for sixty years. Grandma don't
fuck with granddad to do. So why you think they
still be? They're too old? This ship you together.

Speaker 1 (01:05:40):
I gotta get you back, had it make gotta get
you back, Henry Jane.

Speaker 3 (01:05:44):
So let me say something. When they get back, how
you spota do they get back? Like hmm, they gonna
get you back, like how they sposa get you back,
Like how they go.

Speaker 1 (01:05:54):
At the end. You like at the end. Bro, You
gotta think most men get sick first, or most men
get like go to nan you in the Yeah, for sure,
you know what I'm saying, Like, like that's just how
this ship go. Most most wives have to take your hoods.

Speaker 3 (01:06:09):
Why that quacking all his life and he got them
stretched out all in life, feeling out his happiness until
this motherfucker and you and you ain't happy because you
giving out your happiness.

Speaker 1 (01:06:20):
Them and they happy, and you sitting there, yep, right,
sitting up fucked up.

Speaker 3 (01:06:26):
That's bad. See now you right, trace, you're right, because
niggas be trying to It's just like a glass break
right now. We find every piece on the floor and
take it back together, glu it and it looked at
still gonna be leaking up.

Speaker 1 (01:06:41):
For sure, it's gonna leak to the simple that's crazy.
So that's what I'm saying. You don't be can't repair that.

Speaker 3 (01:06:47):
You just gotta go until you read it, bro, until
you ready to be one hundred percent with a person
Like I'm strategically not gonna hurt you strategically.

Speaker 1 (01:06:58):
But niggas ain't strategic doing nothing. We are instant. That's now.

Speaker 3 (01:07:03):
That's now, that's the niggas we are now. But when
you ready, like yeah, when you ready to know like
it's my when you're ready to quackt Once you don't
walk in your yep, once you don't walk in your purpose,
now your relationship has become your purpose. Like it's impossible
for a nigga who not in his purpose or done

(01:07:23):
done fulfill his destiny to make a relationship his purpose
because you gotta pull into that. And the more you
pouring into that, how you gonna pour into your purpose?
It's impossible. You gotta be able to pour to both
of them, or how's that gonna work? They go what
they won't, gonna take a lot from what you won't
for y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:07:41):
Only way, only way, only way you can do that
if the woman feel like your purpose is more important
than the relationship also and they pushing for you, Yep,
that's the only way that works. But how do who
the woman that is? Savannah Savannah Jane for that Lebron White,

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she knew you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (01:08:03):
The times she probably second fight.

Speaker 1 (01:08:05):
The nigga been in the gym. The nigga's the best nigga.
Nick probably in the gym every day all day.

Speaker 3 (01:08:10):
So it's like support and the motivation. Yes, bro, you
heling You helding them for hell of this. This ship
is more important in a relationship. This ship you're doing
in this gym is way more important than how I
feel in.

Speaker 1 (01:08:22):
Time and ship.

Speaker 3 (01:08:25):
Yeah, so let me ask you something. Nigga in the
studio all night, like you know what I'm saying, Pushing
for your purpose, motherfucker want you to be with them.
You think that's that's the same kind of ship, right,
exact same. So it's like I seem a Pontner do it? Well,
tell you the master purpose?

Speaker 1 (01:08:46):
Yeah, he shows you kids everything coming, we do it
Christmas at the studio, brang up and get their gifts
at the studio. We got treating it. Motherfucker like this
is purpose.

Speaker 3 (01:08:57):
Yeah, and that's why he where he at, That's why
he ship went that nigga, this with the studios everything. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying. This way it said, like,
but niggas are cut it short, like you know what,
I'm gonna take two months off.

Speaker 1 (01:09:11):
I gotta I gotta fix what I just fucked up
a nigga.

Speaker 3 (01:09:15):
You know what I mean time how much I'm in
a relationship nigga, probably sacrifice being in that studio. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:09:22):
You know, I'm shit a nigga like this, She come
with sacrifice. If you want to be the best brother
that she.

Speaker 3 (01:09:25):
Come with sacrifice. Bro. So let me ask you something sacrificing.
It's bad when you sacrificing relationship. I mean, uh, ship
that you shooting for for relationships?

Speaker 1 (01:09:39):
Yeah, because you're gonna blame that person in the end
when it don't work out.

Speaker 3 (01:09:42):
That's bad. Yeah, that's bad.

Speaker 1 (01:09:44):
So you should sacrifice ship for a relationship.

Speaker 3 (01:09:47):
Nah, you can't.

Speaker 1 (01:09:48):
You got a sacrifice relationship for the ship.

Speaker 3 (01:09:50):
You try to relationship, friendship, family, got sacrifice everything for
your purpose, bron like that. It's your purpose, it's your journey,
it's yours, it's yours. So that purpose, that person probably
really don't fit your purpose if they don't understand that. Yeah,
like you remember, you remember the lady tried to do
that ship right on Hustle and Flow. You remember big Wow,

(01:10:13):
hustling flow. Okay, she's sitting at home mad and the
nigga gonna come home and eat.

Speaker 1 (01:10:17):
It's more than DJ making bakness.

Speaker 3 (01:10:19):
You remember that shy Yeah yeah yeah it was a.

Speaker 1 (01:10:21):
Hard Yeah fuck. They pulled up with some cake. I
brought some cakes exactly.

Speaker 3 (01:10:26):
Yeah, bitically because J'm Finn be here regardless of how
you feel at home.

Speaker 1 (01:10:30):
Yeah, that's how it goes.

Speaker 3 (01:10:31):
Next, me comforting in my purpose.

Speaker 1 (01:10:33):
Yeah, that ship, that ship flip over. The nigga pushed
me up.

Speaker 3 (01:10:36):
Uh, I ain't be comforting.

Speaker 1 (01:10:37):
My purse pushed me up.

Speaker 3 (01:10:38):
Don't hold me down and don't hold me up, hold
me down. But I think, and I always say this,
I think what we fuck up at with that purpose ship?
And now that is when we're starting to negotiate. No,
none negotiables. M R nigga. You know down where you
weren't supposed to cut this ship shorter. None ain't gonna

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go do this because of this. No, from the beginning,
you ain't see about your purpose. Yeah, because once you once.

Speaker 1 (01:11:06):
You start tweaking it, then you I know it's room
for it to be tweaked. Yep.

Speaker 3 (01:11:11):
They gonna go.

Speaker 1 (01:11:12):
They're gonna go to the father's with it with a
tweaking yep. And you did combobulated.

Speaker 3 (01:11:20):
But you ain't got nobody to blame but yourself. You
can't blame the person because they fostal want your time.

Speaker 1 (01:11:25):
They supposed to want to be they supposed because they
some women do put relationship before everything. You know what
I'm saying. A man can't do They do that.

Speaker 3 (01:11:32):
Now, women do do that.

Speaker 1 (01:11:34):
Women do do that. They expect you to do that too.
You can't do That's why it's man and woman. It's
different people.

Speaker 3 (01:11:40):
You can't because sweetheart, if I negotiate with my purpose.
It's gonna ruin both of us.

Speaker 1 (01:11:49):
Yep. If I don't get my purpose.

Speaker 3 (01:11:53):
What I'm doing, My purpose is for us, and then
they don't never understand that part. What I'm doing this
for us, This is gonna benefit us in it. I'm
trying to make sure they're straight. So wikibi straight.

Speaker 1 (01:12:03):
Now I've seen bit laid a nigga all month and
then Collins. Sorry, nigga, he ain't got the rent money, bitch.
Where I'm gonna get it from? Yeah, what you want it? Then?
What you want exactly what you wanted. Now now you're
mad at me.

Speaker 3 (01:12:19):
Now I'm a ball man, nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:12:21):
Now on the on the thirty. First, you need to
go make some help. They feel like that. How easy
it is, go out there and get the rent money.
It's gonna go bank. What you want me to do?
This is a process of getting money.

Speaker 3 (01:12:33):
Yeah, and you got it. And it's consistency. You gotta
be assisted with this ship. For the minute you ain't
out there, somebody else is facts and they building their clients.

Speaker 1 (01:12:43):
The building your ship up. They building the ship up. Yep,
they catching that CHND caause you missing your Yeah, you
missing your you laid up dam I'm gonna come outside.
They see the clock man and folks, but not that's him.

Speaker 3 (01:12:54):
Now, man, your folk them that came through already twice,
they ain't coming through no more out of that.

Speaker 1 (01:12:59):
Get what now them folks on them folktee. I'll just
say none.

Speaker 3 (01:13:02):
Them folks got them folk number and they meant them somewhere.
Don't even pull up down. They might see trace. Yeah,
I sty lose. They study put away from you because
you water it the relationship. You ain't watering your purpose
no more facts now your purpose dried out and you
study watering it.

Speaker 1 (01:13:20):
So in the end, like, how many niggas ain't that
respect that you think they look at?

Speaker 3 (01:13:24):
Don't know?

Speaker 1 (01:13:24):
They don't they like this was supposed to happenosed.

Speaker 2 (01:13:27):
To be doing.

Speaker 1 (01:13:27):
Oh no. But one thing about it though, when a
woman actually realized that you put her before your purpose,
she don't respect you.

Speaker 3 (01:13:33):
Hmm.

Speaker 1 (01:13:34):
And that might be what they want with the back
of it, Like man supposed to be doing that.

Speaker 3 (01:13:38):
Nigga, they don't respect you. Nigga supposed to be hard
on the bitch anyway, the funiga me, so you got
to stay hard on for off the jump. Hey man,
I'm hard I'm gonna be this way to the end.

Speaker 1 (01:13:51):
Am I tripping? Ladies? You don't so if he put
you for his purpose. If a dude puts you for
his purpose, what you think? Shah huh you might what?

Speaker 3 (01:14:09):
Mm hmmm, damn?

Speaker 1 (01:14:11):
What do you think?

Speaker 3 (01:14:11):
What?

Speaker 1 (01:14:14):
I feel like? It's weird to me. I feel like.

Speaker 3 (01:14:23):
Reships.

Speaker 1 (01:14:26):
You say it's supposed to come before your relationship your
kids like relation?

Speaker 3 (01:14:33):
Yeah, I agree with you, but that is family because
if I don't change my purpose, my family's gonna suffer.
Now that's true. Are you You're gonna suffer? You gonna
suffer because you can't even do that with your family.
So you really mentally fucked up when you really know

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this what you're supposed to be doing to make sure
your family straight.

Speaker 1 (01:15:03):
Damn that I really I rather that risk than it
lose out on my purpose for the bitch.

Speaker 3 (01:15:11):
That's different. If she could help me be together, she
gonna put Yeah, yeah, you're right, but I seen what
have y'all. I ain't gonna say, but put that woman first.
Ain't never the right that ship?

Speaker 1 (01:15:29):
Ain't you a purpose first?

Speaker 3 (01:15:32):
You got to bro because and that ain't that that
that should be to me? It's just my perspective that
should be respected, because at the end of the day,
I don't feel like a woman can respect you. If
you do everything she asked you to do, she's not
gonna respect it. She might, that's what she WoT like
you said, at the end of the day, she be
in back of her head. Some would. I would have

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never did no ship like that. I would.

Speaker 1 (01:16:01):
How am I disrespecting you?

Speaker 3 (01:16:06):
Yeah, but we're talking about.

Speaker 1 (01:16:09):
D day. I'm somebody bit your D day man. Once
you once you let the motherfucker feel like.

Speaker 3 (01:16:18):
Oh, you don't need to be with her. She needed
from the first day.

Speaker 1 (01:16:29):
You need to get up to go because you know
it's gonna be woo woo.

Speaker 3 (01:16:32):
So she could do that. That's gas.

Speaker 1 (01:16:34):
No, that's correct, that's correct. That's correct.

Speaker 3 (01:16:36):
But that's you pushing me towards my purpose. So when
it come first, Yeah, you come first? That that I
think that's not in neegotiable. Yeah, I think that's not inegotiate.
If you with me, you know what you're doing, bro.

Speaker 1 (01:16:49):
Yeah, you're supposed to check you to show if you
want to be. But I've seen women that feel as
if though you should with them before everything yeah, for sure,
for sure, And how you gonna quacking?

Speaker 3 (01:17:11):
I wouldn't even want your purpose, but your purpose but see,
I wouldn't even I wouldn't even want that though.

Speaker 1 (01:17:18):
Don't put me if I don't want the neglect what
you got going on? Oh no, for sure, you know
what I'm saying. Hell of that business.

Speaker 3 (01:17:23):
I'm a hell of my business. Hell of that BENNI,
Hell of that Bennie because because when it go down,
I'm gonna have to hell it for you. But that's
the difference, though, that's the difference that women like I
feel like, that's the difference if you can like eat
both ways. Now, if my purpose is all right, baby,

(01:17:46):
I want to I want I want to lawn service.
Can you tell me you ain't gotta cut grond no more?
This is what I got for us, and my purpose
is changed. You know what I'm saying, sweat cutting up up,
But grab you.

Speaker 1 (01:18:01):
Got to play. You got to play that different?

Speaker 3 (01:18:04):
But how many how many had a play. But that's
what I'm saying, So let's flip it on the other side.
A nigga could have to play. And like, if I
tell you all man, you ain't gotta keep working at Joe,
I don't like you working nobody else start your business
and you just be like, no, I want to just
keep working. Then okay, that's what you want to do.

Speaker 1 (01:18:25):
But I'm telling you, I'm giving you a solution with my,
with my my, I'm giving you an option with my,
with my with what I'm saying, like you would, yeah,
I'm giving you an alternative, like, hey, baby, you know,
I don't really feel like you should get out. I
feel like you're a boss. You need to woo woo woopah,
let's go.

Speaker 3 (01:18:44):
So that's different, all right, So okay, so what if
you go up under that and it ain't it don't
work out like that? What you mean? What if I
try it and then it don't work I try that
and it don't work out, and you and yo, the
shit you built of crumble because you left that and
tried this, and then when you become at a level

(01:19:08):
that you weren't that because you are to under the plan.

Speaker 1 (01:19:13):
Then what he's like a woman yeah saying how she
supposed to feel after like it don't work out and
now you at a low place.

Speaker 3 (01:19:19):
But what I'm saying, like, ain't nothing guaranteed. Ain't that guaranteed,
ain't nothing guaranteed, but what you think they wan't gonna
do then. But the thing about it is if I
if I tell you to stop doing something that means immediately,
ain't on sach thing working immediately is gonna better than
what you're doing. Regardless immediately, it is gonna be better
than what you're doing. Like if I tell you to stop,
I ain't gonna tell you stop doing some shit that's
lucrative to try some shit. Yeah you know what I'm saying.

(01:19:42):
But if you got a job depending you fifteen thousand
dollars a month or whatever, or twenty thousand dollars a month,
and I tell you, okay, I'm finna put you in
a business that I know doing a fifteen month.

Speaker 1 (01:19:53):
How that didn't work out because you can easily go
back and do that little shit yet?

Speaker 3 (01:19:57):
Well for sure, for sure, Now if you enough, if
you already got them, if I tell you, but I
don't want you to God damn, I don't want you
to run your hustle on and come be my secretary
and then my ship. Now that's system you just that
what fo Yeah, I can't tell you to stop making
real money to come follow my dream. Hell now, for

(01:20:17):
sure that's real.

Speaker 1 (01:20:20):
That's the same way though, right, it goes both way.
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:20:24):
It's like, why you got to stick to your programs
unless they got at it, unless they got a brother.
But if they got a better program, build the programs.
Don't let that program go hold up breaking down ship
whatever you got going on. Keep what you got going
on and still be able to like you should be
able to micro man and ship. All right, Okay, if

(01:20:47):
you got this built, keep that built, and keep building
until you have a lot of ship built.

Speaker 1 (01:20:52):
All right, a podcasting right now? My wife hit he
just got some money, and she say, all right, baby,
I just built this fucking company. It's already making this.
We'll unfinished sign of it to you fuck up podcast. Yeah,
because it's already what it is. I ain't finna keep
doing use it's already built. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Yeah,
this already built what you're doing. So that's that's that's guaranteed.

(01:21:15):
Now I'm not finna come work for you, bitch, and
you could find me that's to get up on your wing.

Speaker 3 (01:21:24):
Do that?

Speaker 1 (01:21:25):
Give me properly? Shore We finished lock.

Speaker 3 (01:21:27):
In that's what I'm saying. For sure.

Speaker 1 (01:21:31):
You know what I'm saying. Lock in come God damn
you me? Yeah, and you you can't go for it.
That just be crazy. That just be crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:21:43):
That's why I say. That's why I say, if you
got a program, keep that program. Don't lose that program.
If you don't trust that program, you can trust that
program too. Wait you if you got your ship running
certain way, keep that program running. Yeah, and it will
try this out too. But what if they fall and
she won't brought the program to you, she won't take

(01:22:04):
that program from you. Nae right, I'm not gonna work
for you in. Yeah, you can't just cut me off.
That's what I'm saying. So, so that's what I'm saying,
Like if I, if I, if I told you to
quit your female, they won't to have an open hand.
They can't wait to bring you like that, so they
can have an open hand. Ain't no upper hand, and
we are locked in. I'm gonna make sure this ship.

(01:22:25):
I'm gonna get the best lawyer.

Speaker 1 (01:22:27):
That's how it supposed to be, though that I'm saying,
that's of course, that's how it's gonna be.

Speaker 3 (01:22:29):
That's how want to make it. Well, I'm just telling
you how some female want to be. They want the
upper hand, that's they want to run the show. That
the same ship. But if female, I ain't even any entertaining.

Speaker 1 (01:22:41):
Baby, they keep doing that. Yeah, I'm gonna keep doing
I'm doing. But if I know this is a solid one,
like damn, baby, you donna build some ship for us?

Speaker 3 (01:22:47):
Yeah, oh, let's do it. Yeah. But the same way
if if I if I'm in a relationship with a
woman and I decide to do something, I'm gonna automatically.

Speaker 1 (01:22:55):
I'm not finna. I'm gonna put it in your name.
It is yours. Do whatever you want to be yours.
You can keep your job all along. You want to
see how long this work, But it's yours. I want.
I want. I want to see you elevate.

Speaker 3 (01:23:06):
You've said so, you're telling me they'll put that in
your name. They ain't building if it is my bitch,
you said my name off the rip. You talking about
just what it is, ain't no nothing else.

Speaker 1 (01:23:20):
It's our Yeah, I'm the man. You want the pants,
get a lot of on holding the chick. You tell me.

Speaker 3 (01:23:27):
Your give me here, it's our hour. I'm telling you
we get we were together. It's ours, so this hour
together because it dedicated. Once I see a bitteen dean.

Speaker 1 (01:23:39):
Ours all right, well up and the dow out of
y'all do I wanted the voice, Man, we ain't gonna
pre number them to.

Speaker 3 (01:23:45):
Sue you, because get with though, cause when you got
your ship going on, it's ours, do you think it?

Speaker 1 (01:23:51):
You think that ain't them they they they part? That's
damn ship.

Speaker 3 (01:23:55):
Too instantly if the rip I don't know, man, I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:24:02):
I say that energy these days. That's why I say.

Speaker 3 (01:24:04):
It's just like it's kind of hard to really just
be in a relationship because it's like like you said,
motherfucker want to put you on that string and yo, yo.

Speaker 1 (01:24:12):
You it's like, man, it's attitude, get through the roof.

Speaker 3 (01:24:17):
Who go for that? Though?

Speaker 1 (01:24:18):
What? What why.

Speaker 3 (01:24:21):
Niggas go for that?

Speaker 1 (01:24:22):
They need to go for that.

Speaker 3 (01:24:23):
Ye ain't got no choice. Niggas said her for that
because they have to know what I'm saying. Ain't never
been dang, they don't even know a way like.

Speaker 1 (01:24:30):
Bro, I could. I'm just like I always tell the motherfucker, bro,
ain't that guaranteed?

Speaker 3 (01:24:35):
But I don't ain't. I'm always bet on me, Broah.
No matter what it is, I can. I cannot have
nothing today, but I don't feel like tomorrow mam has nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:24:42):
That's just how I am. Always been like that, Like
I never worried about money, never stressed about it because
I'm not to get money.

Speaker 3 (01:24:49):
What it is.

Speaker 1 (01:24:50):
I know, go back and do some bullshit if I
need to, like whatever, by enemy necessary.

Speaker 3 (01:24:56):
I ain't going out bad right like they're gonna see
me on you like, look at this through for that
nigga before I go out bad. Yeah, I go out man,
I'm gonna go out bad. Yeah you get you know
what I'm saying because I know how to do everything.
That's all I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:25:08):
So I would never be the nigga.

Speaker 3 (01:25:10):
What's that baby? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:25:12):
When we eat? Yeah, when we that's saying they're going
out bad. You gotta wait on them to.

Speaker 3 (01:25:27):
I'm fast.

Speaker 1 (01:25:29):
You got a fast with the bitch, you got that star.

Speaker 3 (01:25:37):
That rock bottom boy, y'all as on the ground that
this damn dope did you got niggas that to do that?
Like you said, stop their campaign to get some payback,
to get paid back, I donna stop your campaign. It
bech already know in my heart. You remember what you
got you? I got you your how many times you

(01:25:57):
don't apologize?

Speaker 1 (01:25:58):
I remember what you did? And this is get the
stripped out of No. Yeah, let's be the super Bowl.
You want you different? You know what I'm saying. You
get the strength? No, man, well you're different. Damn.

Speaker 3 (01:26:18):
May don't get the strip like wi you where they
come from. They already had the strength, they just had
to get the leverage. Oh difference.

Speaker 1 (01:26:31):
Damn is that true?

Speaker 3 (01:26:34):
Females, ladies?

Speaker 1 (01:26:37):
Do you get the levers? That's the strip?

Speaker 3 (01:26:41):
Mm hmm. One thing about it, man, me, I just
feel like if I'm with a person, I'm never gonna
hear it. I want to see at your best and
see if you choose me. You know what I'm saying.
I can separ bitch. I want to see you at
your best. See if you choose me. You know what
I'm saying. That's just what it is called that low

(01:27:02):
shit cool? Yeah, whatever, we would be sucked up together
when you got it, you got options, you got choices.
Will your shoes me exactly?

Speaker 1 (01:27:11):
Is it the same?

Speaker 3 (01:27:12):
Is the energy the same?

Speaker 1 (01:27:13):
And you can kind of see it when the bitch
started to stack up, you can kind of see how
attitude you can just kind of see like any type
of north riding, any type of notoriety that the bitch
ain't got she start again. You can kind of see
a shift, you know what I'm saying, Like just things
they say, like I ain't the bitch to go for that,
but you want the bit to go for that. Yeah,

(01:27:33):
you know what I'm saying. Okay, it's gonna part this right.
Excuse me, Yeah, excuse me. You know what I'm saying.
Put a boot on that. Yeah, don't get damn damn
about it.

Speaker 3 (01:27:46):
Yeah many where you keep going queen, but you look Yeah,
because nigga get caught up, bro, because our main thing
is meant well men who providers and protectors and all that.
Ship Our main thing is to me. I feel like
I flexed through my bitch instead of like I don't

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have to do that. When you see when you see
flexing and you know that's his bitch. So she turned,
so you know he turns. He don't want to be turned.

Speaker 1 (01:28:17):
He turned, But what about.

Speaker 3 (01:28:23):
When the turn when they get turned and getting noticed
for being turned and go to forget right, you know
what I'm saying. So ship that way You're supposed to
put your issue when you're asking. It's supposed to always
be supposed to keep pushing your issue anyway. That way,
you never stop pushing your issue.

Speaker 1 (01:28:38):
Now, but your issues has never stopped. What I'm saying
is like you got some niggas that, like I said,
say that flex through their bitch. Bitch.

Speaker 3 (01:28:49):
The worst part of the best part about it is
when you your stamp is a fish. You know what
I'm saying, Like only your funk. I can go get
little Nini God damn period home right then in the
day she stand beside me. She's a brand new you
know what I'm saying. That just that's the power some
niggas got that did brand new Like okay.

Speaker 1 (01:29:12):
Cool that you that this too cool? Yeah, well go ahead,
but let me show you how fast I can do
this again. Look at this. Yeah you remember her? She
wasn't just ship.

Speaker 3 (01:29:21):
We had to put that bit in the paint shop. Yeah,
with saying buff into your ear different now, yeah pull
up different. She different, her whole and she different. All
the niggas could be a hundred niggas. Don't fuck well,
you ain't fucked that. Yeah, you ain't fuck that new
verse you ain't never.

Speaker 1 (01:29:38):
Seen her.

Speaker 3 (01:29:40):
Her name.

Speaker 1 (01:29:41):
We don't change her name and everything. She ain't even
the same.

Speaker 3 (01:29:43):
Bad yeah, so so so when they have right, when
they have you think old because we don't win a
couple of ways. You don't win a couple of waves.

Speaker 1 (01:29:55):
No, I'm just I'm just speaking on the power of
the right leverage.

Speaker 3 (01:30:00):
Yet the power the right nigga, like the right nigga.
Don't get caught up in to me like anything I'm
saying is not fact. This is on my perspective. To me,
the right man, a man that knows who is in
a woman, not just a man. I ain't just I'm
just speaking from a person, a person that knows who
they are. They never intimidated about another motherfucker. No matter

(01:30:21):
who you go get who you be with, because whoever
be with me is gonna be special to me into
the world because I'm gonna make sure that they are special, right,
because I'm a special nigga, and everybody should feel this
way about themself. When you go to.

Speaker 1 (01:30:36):
Feeling like like we started out earlier, like how they
were trying to like you said, they trying.

Speaker 3 (01:30:40):
To kick it, like you feel away, but you always
been the hell of a nigga still the same, So
why something gonna change that because it was somebody else
doing or you know what I'm saying, shade nobody. But okay,
you deserve that because you've always been that bitch, you
know what I'm saying. Whatever it is, like, I don't
expect for you to be slouched out, but don't spare

(01:31:00):
for me to be slopped out.

Speaker 1 (01:31:01):
You know you chose.

Speaker 3 (01:31:03):
You chose you like I chose.

Speaker 1 (01:31:06):
You just want with no bullshies. So you got that
w was a nigga looking at mirror, know who you were.

Speaker 3 (01:31:10):
Though.

Speaker 1 (01:31:10):
Long as you know who you is, that's that's nothing.
But some niggas forget who they is. Yeah, when you
get up on the program, Ye, so how you find
who you is? Get she got this? You got step
out this ship? Is you that you that anyway that
gonna be? We get ship get blurred?

Speaker 3 (01:31:26):
Yeah yeah, but nigga, that ship come right, man, you
better wipe. You better got damn.

Speaker 1 (01:31:34):
Together to be able to see.

Speaker 3 (01:31:35):
I ain't been on a bike and fever a long,
but I bet you I still rocked them on. Yeah,
you train your man and want you your mind trained.
The god damn hell of that business issues, no time,
no real damn yeah that they're really though. But it's like, man,
you just gotta god damn as you as you going,
you gotta water. Got you can't forget the water yourself. Man,

(01:31:58):
you can't got damn pull into somebody and you dry
h You know what I'm saying that just like not
forgetting your program. You know what I'm said, I gotta
I always say that you gotta look at yourself like
a bank account. Bro. You just keep making with draws,
not the pie. You're gonna be negative, ain't gonna be
negative red And they don't let you go that far.

Speaker 1 (01:32:18):
Folks start sitting them dollar warnings after.

Speaker 3 (01:32:20):
They got matter of fact, they just they just they
just cut you goddamn line off with the bank. You
ain't even yeah yeah, oh yeah yeah flag. You can't
even go to Yeah, you can't go to the nick bank. No,
you got a man.

Speaker 1 (01:32:33):
If a motherfucker ain't pointing to you, they taking away, Bro,
you ain't going with that Nick way.

Speaker 3 (01:32:39):
Get pulled into, cause both folks be there just to
take away. They get they can get out of you
just to go on on with get use your strip
to build themselves a.

Speaker 1 (01:32:50):
Lot of people feel like everybody's a stepping stone.

Speaker 3 (01:32:52):
That's why.

Speaker 1 (01:32:53):
That's why you can't It's the only time it affects
you is when it's personal.

Speaker 3 (01:32:58):
Like if I'm in being there with somebody whatever he
using me, I'm using you this business, that's how they
to go. Yeah, yeah, but but from the relationship, I'm
coming from a genuine place of caring and this is
what I'm doing this because.

Speaker 1 (01:33:13):
This ain't genuinely day. It's like.

Speaker 3 (01:33:16):
I ain't gonna say with everybody but a lot of
this ship man, this ship transaction man, fact that ship
transaction about what you can do for me with a
lot of folks to day. But I don't see it
really ain't nothing wrong with that. How do you adapt
to that? Though?

Speaker 1 (01:33:31):
Don't you get you got no, you.

Speaker 3 (01:33:33):
Got to you gotta do something like you gotta use
each other for shure, you gotta adapt to like if
I got damn them, transaction got to equal up. Yeah,
Like okay, when in my turn, you gotta produce too,
gotta produce on their level on every level. Everybody got
a produce me personally, that's just pointed to each other
being being being a man. Me personally I don't feel

(01:33:56):
like I need nothing from a woman, but piece the push.

Speaker 1 (01:34:02):
The push come with peace everything, and that's all the
nigga need is just reassurance.

Speaker 3 (01:34:06):
Man. That shit make nigga feel so good when you
got push behind you, when your folks pushing for you
and believe.

Speaker 1 (01:34:12):
Yeah, and believe more than you do. Like man, you
like like see. It's a different when the motherfucker trying
to change you and a motherfucker trying to show you
who you are.

Speaker 3 (01:34:20):
Yeah, that's totally different. Like you're trying to change things
about me, is different than you explain to me, Like,
nah bro, this is who you are. Yeah, you don't
even see it. I see it.

Speaker 1 (01:34:30):
Yeah, that's totally different.

Speaker 3 (01:34:32):
And the nigga don't see that differently for show because
you're breaking it down to me ship and I can't
even see nah bro, I see you as a king. Yeah,
and that ship you're doing that ain't no king shit. Yeah,
that ship that gonna HP. But that's where you kill though,
that's when you care. Some motherfucker look at it and
like oh you did this, fuck you yeah, and go
the other way. That's why I say it make you

(01:34:53):
stronger as a person. What you go through with the
person make you stronger together if you learn it from
them lessons where you up, it makes you stronger because
you learned from them and them mistates or whatever we
made again. You know what I'm saying, you know what
to doing with not to do or if you're building,
you got to keep building. If you don't, you separate,
And you know what I'm saying, you do that she
was somebody else. But it's like, is it like it's

(01:35:15):
like starting over because you got to learn the whole another.
You got to do the whole ship over it. But
you know, motherfuckers broke broke through ship. I think niggas
gotta stop choosing what they liking you.

Speaker 1 (01:35:26):
At work, stop choosing what they liking.

Speaker 3 (01:35:29):
You like your ideal with like what you like like
like you can have in your head what you like,
like how it's supposed to look, how she's supposed to smell,
how she's supposed to be shaped and all that and
be overlooking the motherfucker who got a fool joy ready
to pull in your end. Yeah, and she can be
right down in your faith way. The nigga am selling

(01:35:50):
for list because this the.

Speaker 1 (01:35:53):
Look nigo looking for the look like this ship. Look
then what I did the look I need?

Speaker 3 (01:35:57):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:35:59):
But the ship draining you?

Speaker 3 (01:36:00):
Yeah yeah, dry it out? Ain't no more water, cactus,
Yeah yeah, try it's hard. Doesn't got a liquid water
come through that bitch. That's the end of that. Man.
What's the what's the what's the cold?

Speaker 1 (01:36:19):
Bro? What did we crack the day? What did we
crack the day? Just like you know what I'm saying,
selling it or that quite you want? You want?

Speaker 3 (01:36:31):
You want to be a dunk or you don't. But
it really like I'm gonna take this. It really not
being adult, it's just being.

Speaker 1 (01:36:38):
I said.

Speaker 3 (01:36:42):
That. I threw that out there, all right. Cool for
us it would be a dunk, yeah, because it can't
say for us to be adult though still purpose.

Speaker 1 (01:36:52):
Still purpose chasing. I won't say it's adunt. I just
look at it like you still purpose chasing. That's what
I saying.

Speaker 3 (01:36:58):
I feel like you have to fulfill your destiny and
your purpose before you can actually be in a relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:37:02):
That's just me personally. I agree with that.

Speaker 3 (01:37:04):
I agree with that unless that pross you want to
be a dog and say, funk what you're doing and
quack on with their system.

Speaker 1 (01:37:10):
Yes, you know what I'm saying. That's how am I tripping?

Speaker 2 (01:37:13):
Now?

Speaker 1 (01:37:13):
That's that's that's it. I know you ain't tripping. DoD
we crack the code? Do we crack it?

Speaker 3 (01:37:20):
Shall Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:37:25):
Y'all acting like y'all don't want say that what the
truth is? Y'all don't want to give a big tell
of the truth like we may we two men say
him talking now, we need honestly in relationship. But do
you have to compromise them? Okay? So how can you

(01:37:46):
compromise your purpose? How? What's the bombers? Okay?

Speaker 3 (01:37:56):
Who? How can you agree? How can you come to
agreeance about what's for you? How do you negotiate that?

Speaker 1 (01:38:02):
Please help me? For example? Artist? But it don't work
like that. No, baby, come up here. Yeah, it don't work.
You never know what coked you do. But she don't
want to do that. I don't want to send this
to you out there, smell. We don't want to do that.

(01:38:23):
So you have to negotiate your purpose. Yeah, and that's impossible,
Thank you, person.

Speaker 3 (01:38:35):
He's a purpose.

Speaker 1 (01:38:38):
They understand that pose. That's what I'm you just said
exactly what I said. I said that person has to
be pushing forwards, pushing towards your purpose with you in
order for you to not quit, in order for you.
But if a person have their own idea of what
the relationship should be, then you have the work.

Speaker 3 (01:39:00):
You have to comprom mind what I'm saying, before you
get in in the relationship with a person that have
the own idea of what a relationship should be. Basically,
you know what I'm saying, talk about you, Yeah, you,
Before you can compromise in a relationship, you have to
find your purpose, go ahead and fulfill yourself first.

Speaker 1 (01:39:22):
Now, if you if you got a woman that understands
on with this nigga fuck that were chasing his purpose,
that's different. That's totally different because she with the program.
She ready to sit in the studio, sitting the cause you,
ready to do whatever, drive the texts with you.

Speaker 3 (01:39:35):
She ready to beat that. It's about you, It's about
because what you're doing, it's gonna help us. So you
gotta push that. They gotta push that. But if you
got a woman that that's that's Martin day. Woman that
feels as though, damn, we don't go on nowhere. All
you want to do is sit in this studio all
you want all that, ain't you? You can't be with
that type of person right now?

Speaker 1 (01:39:56):
For sure? Now, for sure you can't. You not being
a niggas somewhat blaming a woman.

Speaker 3 (01:40:04):
Because they ain't work out and because he feels like
she gave up on his dream. Right No, bro, you
was negotiating your your dream. Yep, you didn't put enough
of effort in for the work.

Speaker 1 (01:40:16):
And she don't even see that.

Speaker 3 (01:40:17):
She just feel like nig you rapping all you were rapping.
You've been rapping all the time, and you've been you've
been playing sports all the time.

Speaker 1 (01:40:25):
But baby, I wouldn't. I wasn't focused enough because I
was trying to negotiate.

Speaker 3 (01:40:30):
Yeah, I wasn't getting it one hundred percent. I wasn't
getting it a hundred percent. It's niggas that's giving this ship.

Speaker 1 (01:40:35):
Oh you. It's a competition game.

Speaker 3 (01:40:37):
Everybody in any type of successful realm, it's a competition.
It's somebody want the number one spot.

Speaker 1 (01:40:42):
So you can't be number one.

Speaker 3 (01:40:43):
Shlacking, Nope, you can't. What I don't give for what
it is I don't give for to be setting Nicce
s Cream being and Jerry Open Yeah, they open. You
remember Chris used to be the on thing twenty four
and then Donald went twenty five. I'm everybody Burger Kings,
get over the varsity, get off this.

Speaker 1 (01:41:01):
We gotta get in. You know what I'm saying. Because
they see Crystal debt series about their money. Ye who.

Speaker 3 (01:41:13):
Hell no, So I ain't no compromise. How you can't
come abide your person? So you got to add your purpose.
You gotta push with me or get put push yourself
out of the way park it excuse me.

Speaker 1 (01:41:25):
That's the only way, bro, And that ain't. That ain't.
But I don't think that selfish. It ain't see me
think that selfish.

Speaker 3 (01:41:31):
But to see they might not understand, they might not
understand you doing this just so you can poke back into.

Speaker 1 (01:41:38):
Dealing or your whatever the fuck it is. If whatever you're.

Speaker 4 (01:41:41):
Doing it should be for a purpose, and your purpose
is for your person, and then the can't the can's
the flip side of that is so fucked up because
just because a nigga couldn't find a woman.

Speaker 1 (01:41:53):
You shooting the gym with him.

Speaker 3 (01:41:54):
Yeah, once he gets once he find his purpose, then
you got to be on the left with me for
me to do that with your high maturity. Now we
gotta have a business relationship, bitch, let's make let's do it.
Let's let's let's go and buses together because I can't
got them because you don't even seem like the bitch
that a nigga need to compromise for now, because you
wouldn't even you wouldn't even.

Speaker 1 (01:42:15):
Change my purpose with me.

Speaker 3 (01:42:17):
You wouldn't my purpose with me, So you wouldn't.

Speaker 1 (01:42:19):
Because it's a nigga out there that you didn't fuck
with that was chasing his purpose. Right, Yeah, you're fucking right.

Speaker 3 (01:42:27):
Because most women that are in relationship, long last relationship
and all that ship, they believe in the nigga wholeheartly
till he went yeah, you say, they believe that in
all the way till he went till he went yeah,
most of the time. Right, Okay, Okay, d day, a.

Speaker 1 (01:42:42):
Nigga gonna go get something for the look for the look.

Speaker 3 (01:42:47):
You know what I'm saying, get what it is.

Speaker 1 (01:42:49):
It's just like a car. We're gonna get this bitch
because she looked good.

Speaker 3 (01:42:52):
But really, bitch, already did I already served my did
my life, So I just need to ship accompany me
in this life.

Speaker 1 (01:43:00):
Yeah, so everything that comes to me in his life
come with this ship.

Speaker 3 (01:43:03):
Yea, you're gonna look, you're gonna drive off. Well, bitch,
I really don't give no fuck about you, right, you
know what I'm saying. It's gonna be a pre nump involved.

Speaker 1 (01:43:08):
It gonna be big. I ain't even getting mad. Yeah
we can say I fuck so how that ship pold
to go? Though?

Speaker 3 (01:43:15):
Like that's when you just gotta know though, who with you?

Speaker 1 (01:43:18):
Who ain't. It's hard to know that though, But it's
impossible to believe that's somebody with you when you are
already who there. So it's like when you unless you
get somebody equal yoke, right, it's damn the impossible for
you to grow together with somebody like grow together, Yeah,
like we grow together so that you know when you
see my stress and see like we.

Speaker 3 (01:43:37):
Growing, or if I meet you right here, like I
meet you, I'm jay Z and you Beyonce. Yeah, we
know that shit geeshould to be.

Speaker 1 (01:43:47):
So what about the potential go back to Let's go
back to that what potential for what a person?

Speaker 3 (01:43:54):
What you mean like like saying we both fucked up?
Why might not be for the up?

Speaker 1 (01:44:00):
It wasn't there.

Speaker 3 (01:44:00):
But you see potential, who what the woman ain't seeing?
No potention, no broken.

Speaker 1 (01:44:07):
A woman that's everything that broke there. Well, I don't
know that's for a woman that my in in in
certain instance potential to to be a dick. Yeah, you
know what I'm saying, I ain't finna the position.

Speaker 3 (01:44:21):
No, no, no, I'm saying do female. Most of the
time I'm saying I'm speaking for, I ain't speaking for.
I ain't gonna say you it's not true for you.

Speaker 1 (01:44:31):
But I'm saying, like the majority, how many of these
successful women have you seen save a nigga? They the
stay single, Tom Jhonner, Cruise Bingo, they will stay single
with their money. Just find some nigga that can suck on.

Speaker 3 (01:44:50):
But see, I ain't gonna say that consault. They might
want to, they might want a nigga they can control
because they got their leverage, but but they ain't saving this.
Let me so when I go back the potential, like okay,
boom there you think you think because they got the
leverage at that point you think they are they'll fuck

(01:45:14):
with the potential and then and then still and still
respect the respect them on a level because they had
the leverage. I ain't seen have you. I've seen women
fuck with niggas and dragon by You ain't finna come
up because I bring you up, Then you're gonna know
your word going on. I'm gonna keep you where you're

(01:45:37):
supposed to be. I'm gonna keep you where you need me.
I turn you up, then you ain't gonna need me, yeop.
I'm gonna keep you where you need me. But a nigga,
a nigga would used to go get a whatever and
turn them up, get.

Speaker 1 (01:45:51):
Everything done, got you right, and then the bitch got
damn different.

Speaker 3 (01:45:55):
Yep, And now she's going on.

Speaker 1 (01:45:56):
Niggas ain't doing that. Niggas some nigga doing, But niggas
ain't doing that. Ship really, if you've been burnt from anyway,
it is, Yeah, nigga, you know what happened to me before? Man,
I don't bottle beach body and everything. You know.

Speaker 3 (01:46:11):
Ain't never see your body, Damn, nigga ain't never see
the body pure never seen nobody boy Nah, But I
don't just I don't know, man, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:46:29):
We could be it could it couldn't get back. Anything
I'm saying is not facts this is my perspective. We listen,
We don't judge. We just give our perspective. Yeah, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:46:40):
So I could be passionately wrong, but with eye witness
in my time, like forty six years on this earth,
most of the time when a woman has put a
nigga position saved him. He damned. There'll be the latest.

Speaker 1 (01:46:59):
If a woman put you in a position you ain't
gonna be r Your voice ain't gonna be deep. Yeah damn,
So you're gonna start quacking.

Speaker 3 (01:47:09):
Your voice ain't deep at all. By you better turn
that ship down a little bit. Nigga, I made you, nigga,
don't forget.

Speaker 1 (01:47:16):
Don't forget nigga.

Speaker 3 (01:47:19):
But they're not known for that because a niggas gonna
do the same ship. It's a volume level to your voice.

Speaker 2 (01:47:26):
What yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:47:28):
Fuck you think you're talking to that?

Speaker 3 (01:47:31):
And you knowing when you leave, it's guaranteed you leave
with nothing, nothing, nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:47:40):
How it ain't even designed for you to go nowhere
with now it ain't.

Speaker 3 (01:47:44):
It ain't even designed for you not to be able
to go nowhere where you're gonna go, cause when you're
gonna go that, you ain't got nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:47:52):
You know why you with me where you're gonna go?
While you with me? You look in the park, but
you ain't got nothing. Yeah have you seen that vote? Yeah,
nigga did death? Well you right?

Speaker 3 (01:48:05):
You know what I'm saying, vices even with some nigga
keep a bitch in a position where she ain't got nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:48:12):
Because she leaves, like damn, I need this, nigga, I ain't.
I ain't living like this. I ain't living like this
no more.

Speaker 3 (01:48:16):
But they see they come with who you that while
you got to keep your program forever running. That's why
they press for them papers like most women be like
acting like a fair to this. You know, I pressed
for them papers. I'm getting something, you know what I'm saying,
Like that's the perfect like all the marriage. Yeah you
don't really want to marry me show, but that's that's

(01:48:38):
that's that's solidified, that's concrete case. Now you gotta deal
with these people. Nigga, keep the bit forever, cause man,
I ain't trying.

Speaker 1 (01:48:45):
To man, but you know what, a female will go
through it. I can't wait. Yeah, immediately females, you give
me some ever, then a female that ain't got hold on.

Speaker 3 (01:48:55):
It's it's it. It depends on the female that it is.
I'm saying, female got her own and you're kind of like, no,
it might be the nigga push though, Like it just
depends on female. You funk with too, man, I just sain't.
I don't know, man, I.

Speaker 1 (01:49:13):
Just wait, we're talking about go both.

Speaker 3 (01:49:16):
Wait. I wouldn't even feel right Leonard, woman like take
care of me for sure. Hell you give me something now. Yeah,
but I can't just let you like what we eating
and h No, it just ain't gonna be right because
they ain't gonna have no respect for you. They might
fuck what you like you said, they might fuck with it.
Really be like many here they're gonna be saying that

(01:49:36):
they're not gonna they're not gonna respect you. She's getting
the blues from everybody, everybody her friends or mama there.
Oh she all that taking care of that nigga? You
know they the main haters of that.

Speaker 1 (01:49:44):
Sure, Okay, where your son? Where your husband? Where you
get that from? About that nigga car? You know what
I'm saying, Where do you get that car? Damn?

Speaker 3 (01:49:58):
That's the truth. Why nigga always have his program running
no matter what he bitch, smut makes your baby.

Speaker 1 (01:50:08):
I bought your car.

Speaker 3 (01:50:09):
That's a trick.

Speaker 1 (01:50:11):
Ain't no treat it's yours.

Speaker 3 (01:50:13):
That's they ain't seen no titling. No that that motherfucker vault.
That what I'm saying that the trick give made that.

Speaker 1 (01:50:18):
Yeah, that's the trick. Lead lead them, key, Are you
gonna go out where they come to get you or something? Oh?
They found they finally come to get you. Like, damn
what I can't drive, I can't drive the wheel.

Speaker 3 (01:50:34):
Damn mine down for to go to the studio. Okay,
you lead the key here, I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:50:47):
Gonna go to the studio. Dial you. Okay, this ain't
for us, this your know that diamn.

Speaker 3 (01:50:55):
But no, man shouldn't be in no relationship if you
unless unless you get into some young ship, like if
you're young like adun't. Man shouldn't into a relationship trying
to figure it out. Hell now now if you you
can't help it. Now you meet somebody both of y'all
fuck up as kids or young adults or whatever, and
y'all trying to somebody respect your situation. You know what

(01:51:15):
I'm saying, Like, you ain't gonna be happy. You're trying
to you're trying to focus on that and they gonna
require a lot of ship. Yes, And how's you go
go back to what we're saying, how's you gonna get
them there? When you're trying to get this, You're gonna
miss out on this. You're gonna miss out on this.

Speaker 1 (01:51:32):
That I think that. I think that's what we're just
unlocked for some niggas who listen to this.

Speaker 3 (01:51:36):
Man.

Speaker 1 (01:51:36):
Yeah, in relationships and trying to balance a relationship and
a and a purpose don't impossible.

Speaker 3 (01:51:43):
Don't get into it. If you ain't got your ship together, man,
Well if that I can't say. If you ain't got
your ship together unless you got somebody can help it.
Somebody can help you get your make sure we put
that in there. Unless you got that person that, like
I said, see you in the future, believe instead of
see you half how they say half she.

Speaker 1 (01:52:01):
See you full? Half full?

Speaker 3 (01:52:03):
Yeah, Yeah, you know what I'm saying, not half seen
you full, like I can see you. Maybe it just
you just ain't cast it yet, but it's there, hands
on it.

Speaker 1 (01:52:11):
Yeah, but it's there.

Speaker 3 (01:52:12):
You that and motherfucker got to pour that into you
every day. If they ain't they David downson, Niggaive, Nancy,
it ain't gonna work. Well, no, it ain't. It ain't.
You gotta push forward, man, push the issue. Man. Some
niggas get lucky enough to get by, but you get
what and you knowing, like, just think about this, bro,

(01:52:34):
and we all have been through this.

Speaker 1 (01:52:36):
We know we've had success, had money, get money, but
we know that won't even f our potential. Nigga've been
doing this ship on a thirty balls. If I did
one hundred percent mass, if I actually sat down and

(01:52:58):
and and and research niggas for our interview one. If
I put one hundred percent in everything I did, you
know what I'm saying, wholeheartedly, fully focused on everything I did,
I would get one hundred percent return, right for sure.
So if you're putting in fifty percent or forty percent
and you still getting a nice return, just imagine what
you get?

Speaker 3 (01:53:19):
Yeah what you Why? What? So they go back to
you ain't putting it one hundred percent because of what distractions?
It's distractions the things you care about. It don't even
to the things you care about. It could be family
members not being a say no people please, all this shit, distractions,
pleasure chasing, the wrong shit. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,

(01:53:41):
you gotta lock in and but relationships, I think are
the number one distraction because you're trying to care for
You're trying to Yeah, care about how they feel about
anything you're doing. Yeah, but people care about you.

Speaker 1 (01:53:52):
You will put them their feelings in front of your
feelings to make sure they happen.

Speaker 3 (01:53:56):
But we have to realize that people feelings are unlimited,
especially women. Yeah, it's always a different feeling, unlimited. You
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:54:03):
You can never make a person totally happen, bro, especially
if you ain't complete.

Speaker 3 (01:54:08):
They have to be happy already, or be or find
their own happiness to be totally happy. Because you're gonna
always find something because I can. I can look at
my wife today and find something that I can. I can,
I can want her to do. I can think of
something every day like I need her to do. Like
that's just anybody. You can think of something every day
that you need from a person. We can. So until
you internally happen, you'll never be happy with another motherfucker.

(01:54:32):
You know what I'm saying, Because you blaming your unhappiness
on them. Man, I won't even have, I.

Speaker 1 (01:54:37):
Would be happy this bit, Yeah, sitting there a happy Yeah.
But because it's you, it's within you.

Speaker 3 (01:54:45):
Yep, he said that way.

Speaker 1 (01:54:47):
It started. It started with you. It start you looking
at got their mirror, living your truth.

Speaker 3 (01:54:54):
If a living your truth.

Speaker 1 (01:54:57):
Living a lie. When you're looking in the mirror, you're like, man,
you gonna be sad.

Speaker 3 (01:55:04):
In the inside. Ain't no way you can betray that shit.
You gonna be sad, You're gonna be fucked up. You
gonna be writing in the inside, man, and it's gonna
show you ain't gonna be able to produce on them
levels for air person, and you're gonna blame other people. Yeah,
when it was all yeah, if I want to a nigga,
won't you pay attention to yourself? Lock in you know
what I'm saying, and make yourself happy. You spread the happiness.
You can't spread happiness sad. Can't I feel no real energy?

(01:55:28):
Can't I feel no real happy energy? When you fucked
up in the head, you're gonna break fucked up energy.
When you fucked up in the head, you feel me
like ship you trying to how the fuck you're gonna
do that. I'm trying to make you happy, but I'm sad.
How is I gonna make you happy? But I'm saying
like not, I ain't just saying by making you happy,
by purchasing things orthing.

Speaker 1 (01:55:47):
About like the energy? Howill you that?

Speaker 3 (01:55:49):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:55:49):
How'mun I'm gonna feel you. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:55:52):
I'm a poet to you, and I ain't even got
nothing poe. I'm empty, I ain't got nothing to pole
how to fucking poe you? And that's what can you
expect me?

Speaker 1 (01:56:00):
The poem? You knowing?

Speaker 3 (01:56:02):
You like ship, I need to be pulling like some
folks look at the fuck up too when they just
expect so much and forget that another person needs it too.
You know what I'm saying you, Yeah, we're mean we
need shit too, though you know what I'm saying, we
need shit too.

Speaker 1 (01:56:17):
It ain't all about you, Just what about what the
fuck I need you?

Speaker 3 (01:56:21):
If a nick can't understand that you're gonna keep like
you're gonna be, you're gonna be fucked up like it
just don't make it, don't. It's just don't pan out
right when you know what I'm saying, Like, but some
people gott to hold theirself accountable.

Speaker 1 (01:56:31):
To know that.

Speaker 3 (01:56:32):
You know what I'm saying, You gotta know that my
nigga need this. I gotta do this for this nigga,
I gotta break peace. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:56:39):
You nigga, get caught up in so much of what
the woman need to, what everybody will needs. You forget,
you gonna spread yourself thin. Now you just add on.

Speaker 3 (01:56:46):
I think when you hurt them, let them go, or
when you get hurt, let them go, vice versa. Because
it's just straight. It's beef y'all like walk with each other.
It's get back, you getting back up, getting back, you
get back and get backs. Yeah, specially uh when you
knowing like a person, it's unforgivable. And I'm unforgiving too.

(01:57:06):
I'm one of them niggas Like it kind of hard
me for forgive. Like, yeah, you know what I'm saying.
It's like, nigga, be like I forget. And now you
look at the person.

Speaker 1 (01:57:15):
You time you look at the person, you gonna think her,
what the fun they do? Did?

Speaker 3 (01:57:20):
How you tried?

Speaker 1 (01:57:21):
Yeah, you tried me everything. Yeah you breathe wrong.

Speaker 3 (01:57:26):
Breathing because she.

Speaker 1 (01:57:29):
All that more al of the story. What so you
say what you gotta say to the internet before when
your last But I said.

Speaker 3 (01:57:37):
Funk the internet because whatever you say, you could say
the strongest ship or the weakest ship. They might not
even understand it fact that you're gonna say what they
want to say, because it's.

Speaker 1 (01:57:49):
Not a real place.

Speaker 3 (01:57:50):
I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you what it is,
how the fun they've been through nothing had access to
say something. A nigga who been through everything and bridge
all them gaps. I think that ship should be to
reach me. Man, this is missage to everybody out there
who let the internet, because I don't. I done been

(01:58:10):
on the Internet saying wrong ship before in my life too,
and I regret it. But the best response on the
internet is none. That's the best way to clears it up.

Speaker 1 (01:58:19):
Is not clear? Yeah, because that should away because it's
just a phase.

Speaker 3 (01:58:22):
That ship. Don't disappear. It goes where you don't respond
to go go away. But the more you keep your head.
Now they like, man, this.

Speaker 1 (01:58:30):
Ship and were dropping them off for tomorrow chasing no
edits no, just put them over out.

Speaker 3 (01:58:35):
You're like this sh you no edit what the said?
I said?

Speaker 1 (01:58:39):
What like I was just saying a thing or two.

Speaker 3 (01:58:43):
I was like, I came here hot, ain't saying now over,
ain't see it now, You're just a conversation we just had. Man,
I think we just unlocked a couple of things for ourselves.
I'm glad they had no more for alcohol that what
it was, I would have been standing, I wouldn't been true. Nah,
that was good. It was a good conversation. Man. We're gonna,

(01:59:06):
we're gonna, we're gonna run this ship back and they
get some beef. Man, A lot of people are gonna
be mad at us about this truth. That our truth,
the truth. But it's our truth. You know what I'm saying, Hey, man,
what our truth? But this is the truth, truth, the truth,
but it's our truth. We gotta say that ship. If

(01:59:28):
you with me, be with me. Man, If you with me,
be with me.

Speaker 1 (01:59:32):
And that's that. I'm not just speaking on relationship.

Speaker 3 (01:59:34):
I'm saying, like friends, no matter leverage or whatever, if
you with me, you with me, Well, it's so funed up.
It ain't like that motherfucker's with you for motives, purposes
or what they could get for you, or what you
can they can what they could get for you. The
poem of there facts.

Speaker 1 (01:59:49):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:59:50):
Everybody ain't in just to be with you. It's like
what if you with me, it's transition or what you
can get from me or what I get for you. Fact.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:59:58):
It ain't like that with everybody but the way of
the world, man, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (02:00:02):
And then it ain't like that with everybody. But Nigga's
so weary of everybody that you will put everybody in
that boat. Yes, because of what you've been through traumatized.
How do we I know y'all ready in this ship,
but how do we deal with a purple whose person
who traumatized? Like some of that hit Like you say,

(02:00:22):
you got a heel before you go to the day,
pray for you gotta pray you gotta pray for you
can't got damn you can't go out with them, Gotta
pray for. I think.

Speaker 1 (02:00:44):
Let's heal together, y'all. Yeah, that's what it is. We're
gonna have a healing session. Hey, I said on TV.
Women just screaming. They go to a little Parker they
just scream at the top of they lunged together like
that ship. Like women.

Speaker 3 (02:00:57):
It was so shial on YouTube.

Speaker 1 (02:00:58):
Women did they like it a Parker just like they
just screaming, like letting it out and ship. You know
what I'm saying. That ain't gonna be out looked though
might work though they be getting it out.

Speaker 3 (02:01:08):
Y'all got y'all got y'all gotta see this.

Speaker 1 (02:01:09):
It's just funny and keep on keeping on. Man.

Speaker 3 (02:01:12):
Whoever whatever was came in said make your main thing
your main thing. Your cord said, man, you gotta make
your main thing your main thing. So whatever your main
thing is, that mean your purpose, whatever your purpose is,
continue to chase that.

Speaker 1 (02:01:24):
Man. Whoever with you're gonna support your purpose, and whoever
you with you should support their purpose also. You know
what I'm saying. It's just how I feel about it, man,
because you can't be totally happy or complete if you're incomplete,
for sure, you can't.

Speaker 3 (02:01:37):
Bro you can't.

Speaker 1 (02:01:38):
We all know we are. We we come outside with
these masks on, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (02:01:43):
We feel good when we look good, but when we
take the masks out, we get in the house, we
really look at ourselves and see like, damn, I'm incomplete. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying. And that's that's sometimes a
hard pill to swallow for a lot of people. So basically,
fine will complete you. Yeah, you gotta work, say they
complete yourself.

Speaker 1 (02:02:02):
But and the right shit gonna come to you, bro, whoever,
the right people to wright friends, the right spouse to
right surrounding everything like see what what what what? Where?

Speaker 3 (02:02:12):
They come with living your truth. Our biggest fuck up
is we're trying to just to keep people.

Speaker 1 (02:02:16):
You know what I'm saying, niggas. Niggas afraid to lose
people that don't supposed to be there. Yeah, like you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (02:02:23):
We mad at motherfucker like you mad because the motherfucker
you fell out with the motherfucker Like we pray, please
remove everybody around me. Then you get mad with us
a motherfucker you thought you love No nigga, just pray
for this nigga. Damn you want to be for God? Yeah,
tell you he did that for you.

Speaker 1 (02:02:39):
I did that for you, nigga. I see I answer
your prayer. But now you mad or you upset with
this person, you hold the resentment. But nigga, that's a blessing.

Speaker 3 (02:02:47):
You that mad mad when they're trying to dance with
your destiny. Can't be mad when they're trying to dance
with your destiny. Buddy, just got it, man, Let go
and let god. That's it real ship, dance with your destiny. Man.

Speaker 1 (02:03:05):
Yeah, Dad, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (02:03:06):
You gotta move around.

Speaker 1 (02:03:07):
Yeah, you gotta move and groove, man, real, yeah do
it man, shout out of my brother Tracy T.

Speaker 3 (02:03:14):
Man.

Speaker 1 (02:03:14):
We got this again. Man. We get in there, and
we get in there, we get in that cup.

Speaker 3 (02:03:19):
I'll be having ship to say for real, like you
know what I'm saying, and saying it on Live. Ain't
like I gotta say it like you know what I'm saying,
Like like indeed, you know what I mean. Yeah, you
gotta say it, nigga Live. It looks like you're a
certain way. You look like you're tripping to look like really,
we just kicking it like this and motherfucks just see
so close to your face and try to they don't
know what they are going. They take it's like so

(02:03:42):
quick like because a lot of ship we said could
be misconstrued. But we get a chance to be like no, correct,
I'm saying this ship go both ways, Like you say
something like it only go for a man, but everything
that we said in this conversation for his purpose, for
us not being on your ship and expecting no motherfucks
say anything that go both ways for women too, Yeah,

(02:04:02):
like don't sweetheart, don't.

Speaker 1 (02:04:05):
Unalign yourself to try to align with some of it.

Speaker 3 (02:04:07):
Don't align yeah for sure.

Speaker 1 (02:04:10):
Right, yeah, so it's it.

Speaker 3 (02:04:11):
We're just speaking for our perspective and talking to each
other as men. But this shit go for everybody. Everybody
can take key to this. If it don't apply, let
it fly man, sit, if you can feel it, get
it program your program, man, simple man. Another FA episode
of Perspective with Big Bank. Follow on Instagram at Big

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