June 17, 2024 • 19 mins
Gizelle and Robyn take a quick break from their summer fun to answer some listener emails!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect
Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
What's up? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for
being here with us once again.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Yes, it is full blown summer time. Yes, summer summer,
summer time, foody show us and halt tops, cross tops
and all a phone dong.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Dong.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
But we don't need it to be hot outside for
a throng you were you were a thong regardless, Right,
I've gone like I've just had to go no panties,
no throng, no rot. Yeah, I've been no panties for
a while. Wow. Yes, I am getting my inner Ashley
Darby ol Yes you are, yes, Okay, you know how
you feel about it.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Well, I only go no panties when I work out,
like with my workout clothes.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
But other than that, yeah, I would like to wear panties.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Okay, Yeah, well me pantyless unless I have on like
a little dress and I don't want to be flashy beet.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Yeah. See I'm a sweater.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Yes, yeah, I couci sweat so in the summertime, especially
if I'm wearing like a dress, I have to wear
like shorts like boy like little thin shorts, boy shorts.
They're like comes from a company called Thigh Society. So
it's intention it's deliberately for thigh rub and couci sweat. Okay,
(01:36):
you know, so they're like sweat wicking boy shorts.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I love that. So speaking of I saw this little
TikTok and there's a company that sells on Amazon that
sells like skims, but it's like their version of skims.
And it was like, we'll send you a link in
your DM. I didn't ask for the link in my
DM or whatever. But like, if I'm Kim Kardashia, I
think I'm mad, Like they have totally like I mean
(02:02):
like saying they say it's the same material and everything.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Really, okay, am I mad? If I'm Kim k No,
that happens all the time. Oh it does, Yeah, okay.
I mean it's it's super hard to come out with
a clothing line or whatever and not have people knock
it off but off yeah, true and stuff like that.
It's hard to patent the material. Yeah yeah, okay, all right,
(02:27):
even if you think about like under Armour was really
the first ones to come out with that sweat wicking material. Remember,
like for all the it started with like football players
and athletes and stuff, and now it's just like everywhere
it's commonplace.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Yeah, yeah, for sure. I have a semi shady moment.
Actually it's well, it's kind of shady. So my neighbors
are doing some construction on their land, like outside landscaping construction.
They're doing some major things. There's big trucks and all
(02:59):
kinds of dirt and stuff. Because of there are trees
that separate us. I really can't see what's happening over there,
and I really need to know what is over there, nosy,
because I hear all the I want to know, So
I like, I go to all different kinds of windows
in my house to try to look to get a
better view. Still can't see.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
What's going on over there. Huh.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
So happened to run into my neighbor recently. She was
coming out of her driveway. I was coming in. I
caught her and I was like, Hey, how you doing it?
Oh my gosh, how's the summer been coming along?
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Yes, And I was like, you got a lot of
stuff going on back there, what's happening? And she was like,
oh yeah, I forgot her husband's n Lets say her
husbands name is Tim. Oh yeah, Tim is doing some project.
And I was like, well, what's happening girl?
Speaker 3 (03:47):
A project?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
She was like, I left him in charge of that.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
What?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
So I said, well, well, what's I asked about four times?
What what y'all doing back there? Y'all putting a pool in?
She was like, oh, no, no pool? When no pool?
I said, okay, what are you back there? I still
don't know. I did not get an answer. She said,
oh yeah, they're just I mean, I just left him
in charge. What what does that mean? That's shady? In
(04:14):
other words, she's out, mind business, mind your your business mine?
But like, why wouldn't you tell me? So you're forcing
me to have to like beg you, well, this is
what this is what I'm going to do. And I
hope they don't listen to this podcast. Okay, so sometimes
there has been a time or two that that people
have left packages for me at their house. I'm going
(04:37):
to act like that's happening, so that means I will
walk my little self off. But I have to wait
till they're I kind of finished, okay, and this is
a major project, so it might take like three months.
So they didn't brought trees in. I mean, it's they
got stuff going on over there, and I just need
to know what. It's a lot going on.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
So she's not like, oh, we're just spilding a backyard.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Gazebo or tell me that. Yes, yeah, I really didn't
get an answer, so that's weird. I'm gonna pretend like
they have one of my packages, and I hope they don't.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Listen to building like a Please don't like a greenhouse
to sell to grow weed or something.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
They're not they're not those kind of people. Okay, yeah,
they're artsy. Well they are a little artsy fartsy, but
I don't know anyway. I will let y'all know in
three months what's going on back there.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
But it's a little shady that she wants trying to
tell me.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Weird or shady.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
I think it's both. Yes, it's both. Both. Okay, all right,
so we Oh, by the way, y'all, this is a
mini episode.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Oh yeah, we listen. We're on vacation. Robin is and
me too. Yes, yes, I'm on a vacation in my mind.
Robin's really on bage. Okay.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Yes, so we're quite busy, but we didn't want to
leave you hangings. And this is a mini episode.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Yes, okay, So before we do the cause, can I
do my little.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Scenario?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I heard on the radio, yes, okay, all right, so
I heard I was listening listening to the d L
Hugly Show in the morning. Hey DL, Yes, and a
man called in and he needed advice or he needed
to know if he was being shady.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Okay, so was is that? Did they do that? They
you can call into DL Hugly show for shady and
they don't use the word.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Shady, no, no, but he kind of just needed people's
opinions on what he You know, this scenario got it.
I don't even think he needed advice because he what
he said was like pretty much definitive and what he did,
he just needed to know if he was wrong.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Okay, you got it.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
So kind of kind of similar. Okay. So he called in.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
He said he was dating, He was with his girlfriend
for five years and recently her child's father tragically and
suddenly passed away. Okay, so he said one day, she
called him and said, hey, I just came from the
tattoo the tattoo place, and I got my child's father's
name tattooed on my body. And so he broke up
(06:58):
with her. Okay, So the question was like should was
he wrong for breaking up with her? Like how should
he have handled that? And there were mixed the call
people calling in had mixed, mixed views.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Mixed ye, mixed feelings, mixed opinions.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Okay, So I would need to know where on the
body it is because if it was like right above
her the JJ, that's a problem.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
No, I don't think it was. I can't if it's
not remember that detail.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
I don't think it was anywhere like super intimate because
he didn't really say that part, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
If it was like underneath her toe, that's fine, have
that it right?
Speaker 3 (07:40):
What if it's like on her arm?
Speaker 2 (07:42):
No, I don't. I actually don't want to see any
woman's name on a dude's body that I'm looking at
right and it and it has I have seen names
and I've been like, what's that right, and the answer
was that's my mother And I was like, who passed away?
So I was like that's cool. Okay, Okay, I'm here
(08:03):
for that. But and I know wan situation. Yeah, with
the tattoo that you have had to live with, Yes, Yes,
which is actually traumatic yep for me. And I don't
have sex with him, so that's traumatic. I think. I
think I think he was okay to break up with her.
I think that's justifiable.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Really, I do, I think.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Okay, So, first of all, I think she clearly she
was very emotionally distraught that the child's father passed away. Yes,
because you know, I guess they have a child together,
they've known each other for a long time, they have
a you know, relationship or whatever. And I think a
lot of people when they're grieving, they might do something
very hasty. Yes, in that moment, yes, right, So I
(08:46):
think the boyfriend should have given her a little bit
more grace and understanding and saying, Okay, you're you're clearly
super emotional. You made a very hasty decision based on
the grieving and the emotion that you're going through. I
wouldn't been happy about it, but I don't know that
breaking up is someone that you've been with for five years.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Yeah, now that you say it like that, that's and
this guy's not a threat anymore. Like if he was
a threat, he's gone, right, So I wouldn't I wouldn't
have broken up.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
No, yeah he was.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
That was shady.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Yeah, I would have been like, you know, maybe he
broke up because it like it turned him off, Like okay,
I'm clearly going to go like tattoo somebody else's name
on your body, you know. But yeah, there's nothing for
him to worry about. But I think it's just you
need to understand, like he needs to understand. She was
in a super emotional state and made a very hasty decision. Yes,
And I mean I don't know if at some point
(09:38):
you cover it up or what you about it. But
I thought he was in the wrong.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I think he wanted to break up with her anyway.
I think that's this is an excuse.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Yeah maybe, yeah, he didn't like her or her child.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Ye, right, if the relationship was that strong, if you've
been together five years and you're in a good place,
it's a great relationship.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
You're breaking up over something like that?
Speaker 2 (09:57):
No, No, so he yeah, he just this was an excuse. Dude,
We're on to you, we see you.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
All right, But he called Inny I guess he was
a little.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
You know, he's in his fields. I think he's going
to I think the whole situation is going to blow over.
This is like a blow.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
They'll probably get back. They'll probably get back together.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Yeah, six months they'll be back together.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Uh huh yeah, probably not even they probably back together
now true?
Speaker 2 (10:19):
All right, So Sharon Sharon Kayak twenty twelve, we have
to ask people, where do y'all got to come up
with these names? Yeah? I know, Okay, why I can't
Sharon Sharon said, why I can't think of any questions. Nevertheless,
(10:40):
I love you Robin and Giselle GEB's continued success. Sharon Kayak, what,
oh my gosh, we love you too. Yes, we definitely
gotall too. Okay, this is probably better. This is probably
my question, not your question, because I'm closer to it
than you. How do y'all feel about one day being
the grandmother's Oh? Okay, So I actually recently had had
(11:02):
a conversation with my children about what I want to
be called. Okay, when I'm a grandmother, like twenty years
from now and twenty years I mean no time soon,
so okay, ten years man, So I said, I want
to be. I thought about you because you call your
mother's GG, right, So I think I'm going to be gg.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Yeah, yeah, I like GG and that's perfect for your
your g. I. Yes, I'm GG so and my mom
spells it G I G I g Oh.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
I like that. Yeah, yeah, so that's perfect. I'm gonna
be Yes, I'm gonna be gg. What are you gonna be?
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (11:37):
You know what I have?
Speaker 3 (11:38):
I have not thought that deep. Yeah mmm, I gotta
think on that.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
But I think I would love a grandchild. Yes, yes, yes,
I'll be like, drop the baby over, yes, and I'll
let you know when to pick them up right, yeah,
which would be like you know, it could be a day,
it could be an hour, it could be three weeks.
I'll let you know, but I want to keep the child.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
It will not be three weeks, I'm sure.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Okay, yeah, four days.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
I definitely got it. How crazy is that they were?
Speaker 1 (12:06):
They were talking about grandchildren now what I know, and
we all technically could be grandparents, but we're not.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
What Yes we could, but we're not, thank God.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Yes, but I miss I find myself looking at old
pictures of my kids when they were baby, videos, and
I miss that so much.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
I'm like, yeah, speaking of the shade, there might have
been people in my house. Okay, fine, producers and they
were like, i'll tell you who this is.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
Later he was like, so, when you're gonna get some
updated pictures of your kids? And I said, for you know,
around the house, because a lot most of the pictures
are like when they were babies. That's actually the pictures
I love, right, Yes, don't really want this new these
new found kids, these older kids. Right, the baby pictures
are everything. He was being shady.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
That's so funny, the worse. But you know it's so crazy, right,
you know, it's so crazy. I look at my phone.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
I have tons and tons of pictures and when they
were like kids, little and babies and toddlers and just
four or five six years old. And now they barely
want to smile.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
For a picture, I know, especially the boys. Yes, I
can get the girls to smile, but the girls are
always smiling. But like the boys, Yes, you got a
hard way to go.
Speaker 3 (13:22):
It's so hard.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Come on, now, we have to be more intentional with
the pictures because I don't want to be, you know,
looking at them when they're forty five and I'm like, oh,
I don't have any pictures.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
Of you when you were in your in your teens.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
It's funny. I forget sometimes that people know everything about
our lives. So I was out, I went to an
event and I saw a girl that I know recently
had a baby. I didn't know what she had, so
I was like, congratulations on the baby, and she said, yeah,
I gotta call you for you know, advice. She said, well,
as a matterfic, I don't think I'm gonna call you
because I had a boy.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
She was like, I'll just call Robin.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
That just like blew me for a second because I'm like,
of all, you don't know me, like that call and
you know, damn sure don't know Robin. But yeah, it's
just sometimes it's weird that people know all about us, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
Yeah, they don't just see you and just say hey,
like they're seeing you and there like knowing a little
They're they're like digging a little bit deeper.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Yes. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
I was walking through Macy's just yesterday and the sales
lady was like, it was me and Carter because I'm
trying to find him a suit to wear just graduation.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
And the lady's like, hi, Carter, and I'm like, first
of all, you not only got his name right, you
didn't call him Corey. Yeah, too much. Y'all know way
too much about us.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
I know.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
I was like, I was really impressive. She was an
older lady too. I was like, Okay, that was very impressive.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Okay, so good question for you, Ada, Ada k Roberts.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
Have we heard from her before. She's a patreoner.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
Yeah, hey, Patrion, Patrion. Okay, So Corey driving, right, question Mark,
how's that going? Are the twins going to the same university?
I'll answer first, no, they're not. The twins are splitting up.
I was sad at first, but now I'm like, I think.
Speaker 3 (15:12):
It's good, yeah, for both of them. Yeah, So I
think that's really good for both of them.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
I think that's interesting.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
It'll be interesting to see how they handle it. Yeah,
and how they you know, who knows one of them
might end up transferring. They might.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
And I told him that that is an option they
can They can do that. They're freshman year, that's it.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
Yeah, Yeah, yeah, Corey driving. Corey he has his permit,
so he does not have his license yet, but he is.
He gets a lot of hours in on the road
between want and I. He'll drive to school or from school,
or really to basketball practice. He drove through Baltimore City
to basketball practice. So he's getting his getting his experience in.
(15:50):
And it is a very like pinch me type of moment,
like dang, we're already here.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Yes, we're already here. But he's a good driver. I'm
impressed with him so far.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
So next school year he'll be able to drive himself, right.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Yeah, I think he can get his license in like
October or so.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
Oh okay, okay, Why do I think he got his
luck from it? Like a long time?
Speaker 1 (16:12):
I was, well, no, no, because you have to you
have to be six at least sixteen for six months.
So he turned sixteen in March. Yeah, so he guess
he can get it in September and.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
September yeah okay, and then he can drive maybe check
care of everybody, drive Carter.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
Yes, okay, and then fantastic.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
As much as I hate that my kids are getting older,
I'm so sick of driving them everywhere.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
Yeah, you're at the age where you're all I mean,
they're at the age where you're over it. Oh my god,
By the time my kids hit like thirteen, Like, yeah,
I was so over driving them places. I was like, oh,
hell no, I can't do this anymore. I'm not sex cat.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
Yes, it's NonStop, and it's it's between like workouts and
practice and games of course school the school drop off
and pick up and physical therapy, doctor appointments. Yes, yes,
the car line. I'm so sick of it. Like my
(17:12):
day gets so hectic when they get out of school
because we're just all over the place.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Yes, the car line is the worst thing that's ever
been invented. Yeah, okay, I think this is our last
question of the day because we got to get out
of here. Y'all now listen, because we're on vacation. We're
not even here, right, Okay, we live in life. It
must be hard to develop new real friendships without doubt,
which is yes.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
Yes, yeah, I trust no one.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Yeah, it's very hard to trust people for sure.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
Yeah, just it's it's for me. It's more like their intentions,
you know.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
And especially now that we're you know, we've been on
the show, it's like, Okay, are you trying to be
my friend because I'm on the show, yeah, or like
you're actually like a real genuine person and we're just
and you're just cool.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
But I don't think there are genuine people just kidding.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
No.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
I a very famous person told me a long time
ago that he trusts no one, and I was like,
that's weird and that's gotta suck, and like, why do
you want to live life like that? Like that you
just can't trust anybody. I feel the same way right now.
Speaker 3 (18:19):
You understand totally.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
I understand I don't nobody nobody, And you know, even
with new friendships, because we talked about like getting becoming
friends with people as an adult, like, yeah, we can
be friends, but they're still like, I'm not telling you
all my everything, right, Yeah, i'mnna give you like ten percent, right,
you got to work up to fifty.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Yeah, And I think it takes a while, Like when
you meet a new person, I think it takes a
while for both sides to gain that trust anyway. Yeah,
you know, it's like, yeah, you might that you might
meet that person and they might not be trustworthy at
that time. But if you happen to kind of stay
in each other's lives and your relationship grows and develops,
then the trust factor can strengthen. Yeah, oh yes, you
(19:00):
should immediately not trust anyone, definitely, and then let them
allow them to prove themselves somehow. You know that that
you feel you can trust them.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
Right, and we can have sex, we can do very
nasty things, and I don't need to trust you at all,
right the end, And you shouldn't be trusting me, and
I'm not trustworthy. I'm just here to tell you right right,
all right, we gotta go. We are out of here.
We want y'all have a wonderful If you're on vac
have a wonderful time, and don't never forget to live
your life reasonable or shady.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Oh yeah, we're boes.
Speaker 2 (19:32):
No, don't be safe, but yes, be safe, definitely be
safe here in these streets. These streets are wild.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
It's wrong with you by
Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect
Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
What's up? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for
being here with us once again.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Yes, it is full blown summer time. Yes, summer summer,
summer time, foody show us and halt tops, cross tops
and all a phone dong.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Dong.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
But we don't need it to be hot outside for
a throng you were you were a thong regardless, Right,
I've gone like I've just had to go no panties,
no throng, no rot. Yeah, I've been no panties for
a while. Wow. Yes, I am getting my inner Ashley
Darby ol Yes you are, yes, Okay, you know how
you feel about it.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Well, I only go no panties when I work out,
like with my workout clothes.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
But other than that, yeah, I would like to wear panties.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Okay, Yeah, well me pantyless unless I have on like
a little dress and I don't want to be flashy beet.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Yeah. See I'm a sweater.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Yes, yeah, I couci sweat so in the summertime, especially
if I'm wearing like a dress, I have to wear
like shorts like boy like little thin shorts, boy shorts.
They're like comes from a company called Thigh Society. So
it's intention it's deliberately for thigh rub and couci sweat. Okay,
(01:36):
you know, so they're like sweat wicking boy shorts.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I love that. So speaking of I saw this little
TikTok and there's a company that sells on Amazon that
sells like skims, but it's like their version of skims.
And it was like, we'll send you a link in
your DM. I didn't ask for the link in my
DM or whatever. But like, if I'm Kim Kardashia, I
think I'm mad, Like they have totally like I mean
(02:02):
like saying they say it's the same material and everything.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Really, okay, am I mad? If I'm Kim k No,
that happens all the time. Oh it does, Yeah, okay.
I mean it's it's super hard to come out with
a clothing line or whatever and not have people knock
it off but off yeah, true and stuff like that.
It's hard to patent the material. Yeah yeah, okay, all right,
(02:27):
even if you think about like under Armour was really
the first ones to come out with that sweat wicking material. Remember,
like for all the it started with like football players
and athletes and stuff, and now it's just like everywhere
it's commonplace.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Yeah, yeah, for sure. I have a semi shady moment.
Actually it's well, it's kind of shady. So my neighbors
are doing some construction on their land, like outside landscaping construction.
They're doing some major things. There's big trucks and all
(02:59):
kinds of dirt and stuff. Because of there are trees
that separate us. I really can't see what's happening over there,
and I really need to know what is over there, nosy,
because I hear all the I want to know, So
I like, I go to all different kinds of windows
in my house to try to look to get a
better view. Still can't see.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
What's going on over there. Huh.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
So happened to run into my neighbor recently. She was
coming out of her driveway. I was coming in. I
caught her and I was like, Hey, how you doing it?
Oh my gosh, how's the summer been coming along?
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Yes, And I was like, you got a lot of
stuff going on back there, what's happening? And she was like,
oh yeah, I forgot her husband's n Lets say her
husbands name is Tim. Oh yeah, Tim is doing some project.
And I was like, well, what's happening girl?
Speaker 3 (03:47):
A project?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
She was like, I left him in charge of that.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
What?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
So I said, well, well, what's I asked about four times?
What what y'all doing back there? Y'all putting a pool in?
She was like, oh, no, no pool? When no pool?
I said, okay, what are you back there? I still
don't know. I did not get an answer. She said,
oh yeah, they're just I mean, I just left him
in charge. What what does that mean? That's shady? In
(04:14):
other words, she's out, mind business, mind your your business mine?
But like, why wouldn't you tell me? So you're forcing
me to have to like beg you, well, this is
what this is what I'm going to do. And I
hope they don't listen to this podcast. Okay, so sometimes
there has been a time or two that that people
have left packages for me at their house. I'm going
(04:37):
to act like that's happening, so that means I will
walk my little self off. But I have to wait
till they're I kind of finished, okay, and this is
a major project, so it might take like three months.
So they didn't brought trees in. I mean, it's they
got stuff going on over there, and I just need
to know what. It's a lot going on.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
So she's not like, oh, we're just spilding a backyard.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Gazebo or tell me that. Yes, yeah, I really didn't
get an answer, so that's weird. I'm gonna pretend like
they have one of my packages, and I hope they don't.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Listen to building like a Please don't like a greenhouse
to sell to grow weed or something.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
They're not they're not those kind of people. Okay, yeah,
they're artsy. Well they are a little artsy fartsy, but
I don't know anyway. I will let y'all know in
three months what's going on back there.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
But it's a little shady that she wants trying to
tell me.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Weird or shady.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
I think it's both. Yes, it's both. Both. Okay, all right,
so we Oh, by the way, y'all, this is a
mini episode.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Oh yeah, we listen. We're on vacation. Robin is and
me too. Yes, yes, I'm on a vacation in my mind.
Robin's really on bage. Okay.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Yes, so we're quite busy, but we didn't want to
leave you hangings. And this is a mini episode.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Yes, okay, So before we do the cause, can I
do my little.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Scenario?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I heard on the radio, yes, okay, all right, so
I heard I was listening listening to the d L
Hugly Show in the morning. Hey DL, Yes, and a
man called in and he needed advice or he needed
to know if he was being shady.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Okay, so was is that? Did they do that? They
you can call into DL Hugly show for shady and
they don't use the word.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Shady, no, no, but he kind of just needed people's
opinions on what he You know, this scenario got it.
I don't even think he needed advice because he what
he said was like pretty much definitive and what he did,
he just needed to know if he was wrong.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Okay, you got it.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
So kind of kind of similar. Okay. So he called in.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
He said he was dating, He was with his girlfriend
for five years and recently her child's father tragically and
suddenly passed away. Okay, so he said one day, she
called him and said, hey, I just came from the
tattoo the tattoo place, and I got my child's father's
name tattooed on my body. And so he broke up
(06:58):
with her. Okay, So the question was like should was
he wrong for breaking up with her? Like how should
he have handled that? And there were mixed the call
people calling in had mixed, mixed views.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Mixed ye, mixed feelings, mixed opinions.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Okay, So I would need to know where on the
body it is because if it was like right above
her the JJ, that's a problem.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
No, I don't think it was. I can't if it's
not remember that detail.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
I don't think it was anywhere like super intimate because
he didn't really say that part, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
If it was like underneath her toe, that's fine, have
that it right?
Speaker 3 (07:40):
What if it's like on her arm?
Speaker 2 (07:42):
No, I don't. I actually don't want to see any
woman's name on a dude's body that I'm looking at
right and it and it has I have seen names
and I've been like, what's that right, and the answer
was that's my mother And I was like, who passed away?
So I was like that's cool. Okay, Okay, I'm here
(08:03):
for that. But and I know wan situation. Yeah, with
the tattoo that you have had to live with, Yes, Yes,
which is actually traumatic yep for me. And I don't
have sex with him, so that's traumatic. I think. I
think I think he was okay to break up with her.
I think that's justifiable.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Really, I do, I think.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Okay, So, first of all, I think she clearly she
was very emotionally distraught that the child's father passed away. Yes,
because you know, I guess they have a child together,
they've known each other for a long time, they have
a you know, relationship or whatever. And I think a
lot of people when they're grieving, they might do something
very hasty. Yes, in that moment, yes, right, So I
(08:46):
think the boyfriend should have given her a little bit
more grace and understanding and saying, Okay, you're you're clearly
super emotional. You made a very hasty decision based on
the grieving and the emotion that you're going through. I
wouldn't been happy about it, but I don't know that
breaking up is someone that you've been with for five years.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Yeah, now that you say it like that, that's and
this guy's not a threat anymore. Like if he was
a threat, he's gone, right, So I wouldn't I wouldn't
have broken up.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
No, yeah he was.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
That was shady.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Yeah, I would have been like, you know, maybe he
broke up because it like it turned him off, Like okay,
I'm clearly going to go like tattoo somebody else's name
on your body, you know. But yeah, there's nothing for
him to worry about. But I think it's just you
need to understand, like he needs to understand. She was
in a super emotional state and made a very hasty decision. Yes,
And I mean I don't know if at some point
(09:38):
you cover it up or what you about it. But
I thought he was in the wrong.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I think he wanted to break up with her anyway.
I think that's this is an excuse.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Yeah maybe, yeah, he didn't like her or her child.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Ye, right, if the relationship was that strong, if you've
been together five years and you're in a good place,
it's a great relationship.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
You're breaking up over something like that?
Speaker 2 (09:57):
No, No, so he yeah, he just this was an excuse. Dude,
We're on to you, we see you.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
All right, But he called Inny I guess he was
a little.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
You know, he's in his fields. I think he's going
to I think the whole situation is going to blow over.
This is like a blow.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
They'll probably get back. They'll probably get back together.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Yeah, six months they'll be back together.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Uh huh yeah, probably not even they probably back together
now true?
Speaker 2 (10:19):
All right, So Sharon Sharon Kayak twenty twelve, we have
to ask people, where do y'all got to come up
with these names? Yeah? I know, Okay, why I can't
Sharon Sharon said, why I can't think of any questions. Nevertheless,
(10:40):
I love you Robin and Giselle GEB's continued success. Sharon Kayak, what,
oh my gosh, we love you too. Yes, we definitely
gotall too. Okay, this is probably better. This is probably
my question, not your question, because I'm closer to it
than you. How do y'all feel about one day being
the grandmother's Oh? Okay, So I actually recently had had
(11:02):
a conversation with my children about what I want to
be called. Okay, when I'm a grandmother, like twenty years
from now and twenty years I mean no time soon,
so okay, ten years man, So I said, I want
to be. I thought about you because you call your
mother's GG, right, So I think I'm going to be gg.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Yeah, yeah, I like GG and that's perfect for your
your g. I. Yes, I'm GG so and my mom
spells it G I G I g Oh.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
I like that. Yeah, yeah, so that's perfect. I'm gonna
be Yes, I'm gonna be gg. What are you gonna be?
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (11:37):
You know what I have?
Speaker 3 (11:38):
I have not thought that deep. Yeah mmm, I gotta
think on that.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
But I think I would love a grandchild. Yes, yes, yes,
I'll be like, drop the baby over, yes, and I'll
let you know when to pick them up right, yeah,
which would be like you know, it could be a day,
it could be an hour, it could be three weeks.
I'll let you know, but I want to keep the child.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
It will not be three weeks, I'm sure.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Okay, yeah, four days.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
I definitely got it. How crazy is that they were?
Speaker 1 (12:06):
They were talking about grandchildren now what I know, and
we all technically could be grandparents, but we're not.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
What Yes we could, but we're not, thank God.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Yes, but I miss I find myself looking at old
pictures of my kids when they were baby, videos, and
I miss that so much.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
I'm like, yeah, speaking of the shade, there might have
been people in my house. Okay, fine, producers and they
were like, i'll tell you who this is.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
Later he was like, so, when you're gonna get some
updated pictures of your kids? And I said, for you know,
around the house, because a lot most of the pictures
are like when they were babies. That's actually the pictures
I love, right, Yes, don't really want this new these
new found kids, these older kids. Right, the baby pictures
are everything. He was being shady.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
That's so funny, the worse. But you know it's so crazy, right,
you know, it's so crazy. I look at my phone.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
I have tons and tons of pictures and when they
were like kids, little and babies and toddlers and just
four or five six years old. And now they barely
want to smile.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
For a picture, I know, especially the boys. Yes, I
can get the girls to smile, but the girls are
always smiling. But like the boys, Yes, you got a
hard way to go.
Speaker 3 (13:22):
It's so hard.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Come on, now, we have to be more intentional with
the pictures because I don't want to be, you know,
looking at them when they're forty five and I'm like, oh,
I don't have any pictures.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
Of you when you were in your in your teens.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
It's funny. I forget sometimes that people know everything about
our lives. So I was out, I went to an
event and I saw a girl that I know recently
had a baby. I didn't know what she had, so
I was like, congratulations on the baby, and she said, yeah,
I gotta call you for you know, advice. She said, well,
as a matterfic, I don't think I'm gonna call you
because I had a boy.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
She was like, I'll just call Robin.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
That just like blew me for a second because I'm like,
of all, you don't know me, like that call and
you know, damn sure don't know Robin. But yeah, it's
just sometimes it's weird that people know all about us, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
Yeah, they don't just see you and just say hey,
like they're seeing you and there like knowing a little
They're they're like digging a little bit deeper.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Yes. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
I was walking through Macy's just yesterday and the sales
lady was like, it was me and Carter because I'm
trying to find him a suit to wear just graduation.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
And the lady's like, hi, Carter, and I'm like, first
of all, you not only got his name right, you
didn't call him Corey. Yeah, too much. Y'all know way
too much about us.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
I know.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
I was like, I was really impressive. She was an
older lady too. I was like, Okay, that was very impressive.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Okay, so good question for you, Ada, Ada k Roberts.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
Have we heard from her before. She's a patreoner.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
Yeah, hey, Patrion, Patrion. Okay, So Corey driving, right, question Mark,
how's that going? Are the twins going to the same university?
I'll answer first, no, they're not. The twins are splitting up.
I was sad at first, but now I'm like, I think.
Speaker 3 (15:12):
It's good, yeah, for both of them. Yeah, So I
think that's really good for both of them.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
I think that's interesting.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
It'll be interesting to see how they handle it. Yeah,
and how they you know, who knows one of them
might end up transferring. They might.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
And I told him that that is an option they
can They can do that. They're freshman year, that's it.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
Yeah, Yeah, yeah, Corey driving. Corey he has his permit,
so he does not have his license yet, but he is.
He gets a lot of hours in on the road
between want and I. He'll drive to school or from school,
or really to basketball practice. He drove through Baltimore City
to basketball practice. So he's getting his getting his experience in.
(15:50):
And it is a very like pinch me type of moment,
like dang, we're already here.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Yes, we're already here. But he's a good driver. I'm
impressed with him so far.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
So next school year he'll be able to drive himself, right.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Yeah, I think he can get his license in like
October or so.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
Oh okay, okay, Why do I think he got his
luck from it? Like a long time?
Speaker 1 (16:12):
I was, well, no, no, because you have to you
have to be six at least sixteen for six months.
So he turned sixteen in March. Yeah, so he guess
he can get it in September and.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
September yeah okay, and then he can drive maybe check
care of everybody, drive Carter.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
Yes, okay, and then fantastic.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
As much as I hate that my kids are getting older,
I'm so sick of driving them everywhere.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
Yeah, you're at the age where you're all I mean,
they're at the age where you're over it. Oh my god,
By the time my kids hit like thirteen, Like, yeah,
I was so over driving them places. I was like, oh,
hell no, I can't do this anymore. I'm not sex cat.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
Yes, it's NonStop, and it's it's between like workouts and
practice and games of course school the school drop off
and pick up and physical therapy, doctor appointments. Yes, yes,
the car line. I'm so sick of it. Like my
(17:12):
day gets so hectic when they get out of school
because we're just all over the place.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Yes, the car line is the worst thing that's ever
been invented. Yeah, okay, I think this is our last
question of the day because we got to get out
of here. Y'all now listen, because we're on vacation. We're
not even here, right, Okay, we live in life. It
must be hard to develop new real friendships without doubt,
which is yes.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
Yes, yeah, I trust no one.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Yeah, it's very hard to trust people for sure.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
Yeah, just it's it's for me. It's more like their intentions,
you know.
Speaker 1 (17:47):
And especially now that we're you know, we've been on
the show, it's like, Okay, are you trying to be
my friend because I'm on the show, yeah, or like
you're actually like a real genuine person and we're just
and you're just cool.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
But I don't think there are genuine people just kidding.
Speaker 1 (18:02):
No.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
I a very famous person told me a long time
ago that he trusts no one, and I was like,
that's weird and that's gotta suck, and like, why do
you want to live life like that? Like that you
just can't trust anybody. I feel the same way right now.
Speaker 3 (18:19):
You understand totally.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
I understand I don't nobody nobody, And you know, even
with new friendships, because we talked about like getting becoming
friends with people as an adult, like, yeah, we can
be friends, but they're still like, I'm not telling you
all my everything, right, Yeah, i'mnna give you like ten percent, right,
you got to work up to fifty.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Yeah, And I think it takes a while, Like when
you meet a new person, I think it takes a
while for both sides to gain that trust anyway. Yeah,
you know, it's like, yeah, you might that you might
meet that person and they might not be trustworthy at
that time. But if you happen to kind of stay
in each other's lives and your relationship grows and develops,
then the trust factor can strengthen. Yeah, oh yes, you
(19:00):
should immediately not trust anyone, definitely, and then let them
allow them to prove themselves somehow. You know that that
you feel you can trust them.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
Right, and we can have sex, we can do very
nasty things, and I don't need to trust you at all,
right the end, And you shouldn't be trusting me, and
I'm not trustworthy. I'm just here to tell you right right,
all right, we gotta go. We are out of here.
We want y'all have a wonderful If you're on vac
have a wonderful time, and don't never forget to live
your life reasonable or shady.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Oh yeah, we're boes.
Speaker 2 (19:32):
No, don't be safe, but yes, be safe, definitely be
safe here in these streets. These streets are wild.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
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